There's a guy outside my window who's been threatening to jump all night!

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yes, but the question is, did it make you feel uneasy when reading it prior to the jump? and if so, to the same level?

charltonlido (gareth), Saturday, 6 December 2003 19:15 (twenty years ago) link

mark, surely on an intellectual level we know it is possible he will jump, but at the same time, a large number of these cases end with the man being brought down, not having jumped. couple this with the low height of the building and it is easier to believe it is something he is slighty less than 100% about doing, especially when you consider how long he was up there.

charltonlido (gareth), Saturday, 6 December 2003 19:17 (twenty years ago) link

mark p:

clearer = more clear than before. Please read and comprehend the post prior to attacking me for it.

webcrack (music=crack), Saturday, 6 December 2003 19:19 (twenty years ago) link

as an aside, i had a friend who killed himself in equally tragi-comic circumstances, which i have never really uncovered properly, and so still lend the event with an air of unreality. but for some reason he was fiddling with a crossbow and the neigbours thought he had a hostage and the police were called, surrounding the building. i dont know how, but somehow he panicked and ended up shooting himself through the head.

i have no idea how any of this came to pass, ie, what was he doing with a crossbow in the first place? and from then on in, well...

charltonlido (gareth), Saturday, 6 December 2003 19:20 (twenty years ago) link

I'm wondering what the cops tried to say or do to prevent this. That must be a very difficult situation for them.

A Nairn (moretap), Saturday, 6 December 2003 19:20 (twenty years ago) link

"yes, but the question is, did it make you feel uneasy when reading it prior to the jump? and if so, to the same level? "

I did look at little yesterday, and seeing the initial pictures and the title did make me feel uneasy, but then reading a few of the lighthearted comments took me away from the reality of it. Then farther down when it was said he actually did jump the reality suddenly came back.

A Nairn (moretap), Saturday, 6 December 2003 19:24 (twenty years ago) link

Also, I was referring to the 'inherent rationality' of the viewer, which would prevent the viewer from being able to completely empathize with the mindset of the man threatening to jump--not suggesting that he wouldn't jump because he was 'inherently rational'. If it wasn't clear, sorry--I figure that I don't need to spell out my intent every time I use language on this board.

webcrack (music=crack), Saturday, 6 December 2003 19:24 (twenty years ago) link

Think if his family members or friends stumble across this thread.

A Nairn (moretap), Saturday, 6 December 2003 19:30 (twenty years ago) link

or HIM.

nate detritus (natedetritus), Saturday, 6 December 2003 20:34 (twenty years ago) link

During the time it was going on I was actually frustrated trying to think of a foolproof way to net him or something (thus the spiderman comment). Isn't there some kind of net gun or something? Or something that would necessarily knock him backwards? Now, were he to get hurt thereby he'd probly sue, not to mention the stealth required.

Anyway I say this not to exonerate myself, I feel loathsome, complicit and like I need a shower. This was way foreseeable. Delete the thread or at least the photos mod.

Hunter (Hunter), Saturday, 6 December 2003 20:37 (twenty years ago) link

WTF, why didn't they just grab him with that truck? Or inflate some more substantial jumper-catcher padding things underneath him? I mean, if they had time to pull the truck up, they had time to do that...

Dan I., Saturday, 6 December 2003 23:00 (twenty years ago) link

that's unfortunate that he's dead now. i can't say that i didn't see it coming. for some reason, everyone else is saying that they had no idea that something bad would happen to him. lucky for you all then, i guess. i think it was extremely obvious from the first post that this guy had some mental problems to begin with, so how people can claim that they never thought anything bad would come of this situation is beyond me. maybe you're all just perfectly optimistic. anyways, bad situation and it ended badly but not as badly as it could have. i stand by everything i've said in this thread. they are my words, after all.

Dean Gulberry (deangulberry), Sunday, 7 December 2003 00:12 (twenty years ago) link

that's unfortunate that he's dead now.

Er, hasn't Jaxon said that apparently he's NOT dead? Or is there a separate news report?

Ned Raggett (Ned), Sunday, 7 December 2003 00:16 (twenty years ago) link

i dont think it is the fact that there are people saying 'i didnt think he would do it' at the time, more the lack of people saying 'he is going to do it, and you shouldnt laugh' at the time, only after. thats what gives that impression

of all of ilx, only g--ff posted something to this effect before the jump. where were the other people who agreed with him then, and why, when reading through this thread, does it show that people are only agreeing with g--ff, after the event occurred?

charltonlido (gareth), Sunday, 7 December 2003 00:17 (twenty years ago) link

my apologies, ned, you're right. reorganizing CDs + headcold = incoherency. thanks for picking up on it. anyhow, my statement probably only shows exactly how much impact this really has on a bulletin board, that the difference between his life and death is a few misread and mistyped keystrokes.

either way, i stand by my earlier sarcasm upthread pre-jump. your pictures ARE worth more now. hurrah hurrah money money.

Dean Gulberry (deangulberry), Sunday, 7 December 2003 00:26 (twenty years ago) link

i checked around (surprise, surprise, there was no news coverage of this) and he only broke a leg and bumped his head. he also was homeless and came from down the street at the mental health facility.

i've changed the names of the files on the images for those of you with queasy stomachs who i might have offended. if you're still curious, you can view source on this page and do a little sluething.

JaXoN (JasonD), Sunday, 7 December 2003 02:45 (twenty years ago) link

oh, and those barely 6inch "absorbent" matresses are still lying on the sidewalk? wtf

JaXoN (JasonD), Sunday, 7 December 2003 02:49 (twenty years ago) link

gareth i suggest that a lot of people missed their opportunity to speak up about this thread while he was still on the roof, simply because they didnt read the thread in time. i was certainly disturbed by this thread from the outset and wanted to say something only to find out further along that he had already jumped and it was too late for that.

minna (minna), Sunday, 7 December 2003 03:21 (twenty years ago) link

http://www.touched.com/seasonnine/908-Jump!.jpg

Dada, Sunday, 7 December 2003 05:01 (twenty years ago) link

What have we learnt? Suicide isn't funny. Now we can remove our hands from the depths of our trousers and cease our frantic ministrations and get on with the business of trying to guess what that scamp Dada will come up with next!

Michael Stuchbery (Mikey Bidness), Sunday, 7 December 2003 05:07 (twenty years ago) link

and will he summon the Daddy Mack or the Mack Daddy first? OH THE SUSPENSE

Kingfish Beestick (Kingfish), Sunday, 7 December 2003 05:38 (twenty years ago) link

Firstly, I would suggest someone considers deleting this thread, because it is possible it could become a meme like the log of the IRCers who laughed at the guy who bragged he took an OD and later died. Does the board really want to be known for that sort of shit?

Secondly, tho I may not have spoken out, I thought this was totally unfunny and I'm a bit disapointed really.

Trayce (trayce), Sunday, 7 December 2003 05:57 (twenty years ago) link

a. anything can be funny. funny is not a moral value, but a physical one.

b. it's been a high stress winter for me and a few of my close friends. the idea of pitching oneself off a building is not so unfamiliar.

c. i've had to do a lot of reading lately on ethical issues in media. the photography of newsworthy tragedies is a continually contested area. it has been described as conflicting duties or loyalties; the photographer's job to cover events as they unfold in real time (serving the public's 'right' to know) vs the 'right' of individuals to control the exposure of their lives, especially at death. photogs have the luxury of erring on the side of overexposure; decisions on what to actually run can be made later. amateur photo/videogs complicate things somewhat, though it's hard to determine the moral difference between recording personal curiosity and satisfying public curiosity.

'shoot first decide later' means an abdication of responsibility, as in a famous photo of a fire-escape collapse in boston in the 70s. two young black women, one only around 5, captured in mid air, metal all around them; the building fire itself is not visible. one immediately died from the fall. the globe's editors ran the photo front page, above the fold, many other papers nationwide picked it up as well. community outcry was enormous; meanwhile the photog won a pulitzer but was never comfortable with the use of the photo. the paper justified it by saying it called attention to the poor upkeep of safety exits on rental properties.

similarly, in the 90s a man held up traffic on an LA freeway in an apparent protest against hmo's. he was being filmed live by helicopter. he set fire to his pickup and (iirc) shot his dog with a shotgun. he was unstable and behaving erratically, at one point seemingly planning to set himself on fire, and later to jump off the overpass to another freeway below. as he picked up his shotgun a second time, the on-air anchor repeatedly admonished the chopper crew to keep the zoom out at a 'safe' distance (i don't know what word to use instead of safe; 'respectable'?) which was only momentarily complied with. the man crouched, put the barrel in his mouth, and shot himself. later rebroadcasts did not include this, but the tape entered posterity, if only to be viewed by college media ethics courses, supposedly learning the lesson this thread itself teaches, whatever that is.

g--ff (gcannon), Sunday, 7 December 2003 09:13 (twenty years ago) link

also, 9/11 coverage

and the photo of marc vivien foe that ran on the front page of most of the national newspapers with his dead eyes looking straight into camera

charltonlido (gareth), Sunday, 7 December 2003 09:46 (twenty years ago) link

His dead PHOTOSHOPPED eyes, Gareth. Don't forget that.

Markelby (Mark C), Sunday, 7 December 2003 10:17 (twenty years ago) link

:( i had a feeling my silliness would be vindicated with reality. i feel really shitty now

donut bitch (donut), Sunday, 7 December 2003 10:21 (twenty years ago) link

G--ff or anyone else, did you see "City of God"?
It has a really amazing part in it with photography and gang violence in Bazil.

A Nairn (moretap), Sunday, 7 December 2003 11:51 (twenty years ago) link

First off, I would like to apologize for making a tasteless joke about this.

Secondly, all of the sanctimonious assholes who popped up after the fact to tell the people should:

A) realize that different people deal with uncomfortable and/or dangerous situations in different ways;

B) fuck off.

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Sunday, 7 December 2003 21:16 (twenty years ago) link

Using less harsh terms, I kinda agree with Dan. Usually, events like this usually end up being not tragic, so any fun pointed at the guy earlier in the thread was obviously done in the spirit and hope that the police would be able to just calmly get this guy off the roof and let the anti-climax arrive. Unfortunately, it didn't turn out that way.

But anyone who puts themselves on a pedestal and makes me feel guilty for my jokes, and just assume those jokes can now be recontextualized to point fun at the guy AFTER the jump can certainly fuck off.

donut bitch (donut), Sunday, 7 December 2003 22:02 (twenty years ago) link

this doesn't change the fact that I feel bad about what happened. I still feel uncomfortable seeing the juxtaposition of the silliness pre-jump and what's happened since. But I did not make jokes AFTER the jump, so i'm not going to lose sleep over my actions.. perhaps for the guy in question, but not my reputation.

donut bitch (donut), Sunday, 7 December 2003 22:04 (twenty years ago) link

dan & db i hope you don't think i was pedestalizing.

g--ff (gcannon), Sunday, 7 December 2003 22:10 (twenty years ago) link

Course not, g--ff, you actually described in detail an interesting media phenomenon and then some.

donut bitch (donut), Sunday, 7 December 2003 22:12 (twenty years ago) link

(and you also trumped Dan on his funny/tragedy/subjectiveness point, kinda.)

donut bitch (donut), Sunday, 7 December 2003 22:13 (twenty years ago) link

wtf!

mark p - I agree with you.

Kim (Kim), Sunday, 7 December 2003 23:28 (twenty years ago) link

I'm not trying to be righteous at all. Cope how y'all cope, doesn't bother me really, I know in the right (wrong?) circumstances I'd probably joke about death too (9/11 a great example - we were far enough away from it to make loads of shitty tasteless jokes).

I just worry this thread might (MIGHT) make ILX as a whole look callous and horrible were it to be seen out of context and end up on like, memepool or somewhere. Just my own gut feeling.

Fuck whatever, you lot, I'm too sleep depped and shitty to deal with being called a sanctimonious prick, I wont darken this thread anymore.

Trayce (trayce), Sunday, 7 December 2003 23:38 (twenty years ago) link

what city is this?

Aaron A., Sunday, 7 December 2003 23:43 (twenty years ago) link

love memepool as I do, that'd be a pretty fragile glass house.

bnw (bnw), Sunday, 7 December 2003 23:47 (twenty years ago) link

I'm not very good at off-fucking

nate detritus (natedetritus), Monday, 8 December 2003 00:18 (twenty years ago) link

what city is this?

San Francisco

JaXoN (JasonD), Monday, 8 December 2003 00:32 (twenty years ago) link

This is one of the most interesting threads that has ever been on ILX. It was odd to come into it after it had all happened, seeing red X's instead of photos that you were all laughing over, and wondering what had happened.

Someone jumped/fell/or was pushed from a building across the road from us last week. When we came back from Wiltshire, our road was all blocked off. HSA's mum parked while he ran off to see what was up. He came back visibly shaken, saying there was a dead body in the middle of the road, and the neighbours said that someone had committed suicide. The next day, the police came round knocking on doors and asking on the street if anyone had seen anything, thinking that it might not have been suicide.

There's still a giant police sign outside our house asking for information saying "UNEXPLAINED DEATH" or something like that.

But, regardless, this has been an interesting thread, both in the reactions of people before the jump, and the reactions of others afterwards.

THAT Kate (kate), Monday, 8 December 2003 09:53 (twenty years ago) link

Yeah, and really, how many people were sanctimonious afterwards? My own post was maybe a heavy-handed attempt to make those who had been flippant/humorous earlier feel better once we'd learned the guy had jumped, that there's nothing monstrous about using humour in a traumatic event. And then, others who came late... how could they be blamed for feeling a little nauseated by the apparent indifference and levity (note word "apparent") shown by earlier posters?

I agree with Kate above -- this is interesting, from an "internet community" perspective (apologies for how sociological/silly that sounds), but it also seems important to acknowledge the personal tragedy aspect, too. I feel really fucking sorry for this dude. and no-one should feel bad unless they had malice in their hearts -- something only the individual posters can know.

I don't know if I'm making sense. Help.

David A. (Davant), Monday, 8 December 2003 10:13 (twenty years ago) link

as he picked up his shotgun a second time, the on-air anchor repeatedly admonished the chopper crew to keep the zoom out at a 'safe' distance (i don't know what word to use instead of safe; 'respectable'?)

I remember vividly when this happened and there were differences between how network/local channel chose to cover it depending on how close their helicopter crews were. Most stations either zoomed out or cut to an in-studio shot once the guy pointed the gun at himself. A couple stations did nothing, and yet another (Telemundo) actually zoomed in.

Elvis Telecom (Chris Barrus), Monday, 8 December 2003 10:43 (twenty years ago) link

The reaction to this thread needs a new thread. This thread is important, and I'm not sure why. I'd start the thread myself, but I'm not sure what to say. Except that it IS important.

Johnney B (Johnney B), Monday, 8 December 2003 12:41 (twenty years ago) link

I'm with Kate here - I've only just read this thread and it *is* one of the most thought-provoking things I've ever seen on this board. It's kind of creepy to think that whoever this bloke is, and everyone connected with him, could have no idea whatsoever that his suicide attempt was documented on the Net in real time. A line of some sort has been crossed here with regard to the way the Internet and Real Life intersect - far more than the 9/11 threads or the first few days of the Iraq war.

Without being sanctimonious or wanting to condemn anyone, I do wonder if anyone WILL put their hands up and admit to being entertained by the first few posts and the strange voyeurism involved.

Matt DC (Matt DC), Monday, 8 December 2003 15:41 (twenty years ago) link

all the people who posted at the time presumably?

charltonlido (gareth), Monday, 8 December 2003 15:43 (twenty years ago) link

What's weirdest of all about reading this thread now is that all the real photos have been removed, and the only thing left are the joke photos. It's bizarre to read it without the photos.

THAT Kate (kate), Monday, 8 December 2003 15:44 (twenty years ago) link

this IS the most thought provoking "x" ive sene on the net.
thepolice (and how they did not handle this very well)& jaXOns point-of-view-flux kept me reading the thread


kephm, Monday, 8 December 2003 15:50 (twenty years ago) link

(when i asked JaXon if he would watch if the man jumped, it was not for a laugh, i wanted to get more into his head)
i have to say, i do not think my perspective was one that many other posters (early on) shared

kephm, Monday, 8 December 2003 15:53 (twenty years ago) link

I wouldn't have joked as I did had I not personally fallen similar distances myself on more than one occasion.

it was rather silly that he was threatening to jump from 2 stories high. this is where most of the humor started from. it's as if someone said, "i'm going to kill myself by slicing my wrists with this here piece of brocoli"

OTM

nickalicious (nickalicious), Monday, 8 December 2003 16:04 (twenty years ago) link

Equally - with regard to the condemnation upthread - why DOES anyone on this thread with the exception of JaXon have to care about whether someone they have never met lives or dies? Especially as they are only given a window into this even through someone else they have (probably) never met and whose only connection with this person is being at a certain place at a certain time? What makes this man any different to the thousands of other people dying around the world on any given day of all sorts of things? Because we can see him?

Nick - that's not OTM. I am sure it is perfectly possible to kill oneself by falling two storeys onto your head.

Matt DC (Matt DC), Monday, 8 December 2003 16:07 (twenty years ago) link


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