has your aptitude at matters of the heart (to put it queasily) improved since your teens?

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my ears are not symmetrically aligned

― amateur!!!st (amateurist), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:25 (nineteen years ago) link

haha

yeah, you must be unworthy of human contact, then.

― Gold Teeth II (kenan), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:27 (nineteen years ago) link

you seem like a pretty lovable guy ???

you do seem like a nice guy ams. am i wrong?

― gaz (gaz), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:28 (nineteen years ago) link

i shift in my seat a lot

― amateur!!!st (amateurist), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:29 (nineteen years ago) link

are you easily excited?

― gaz (gaz), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:30 (nineteen years ago) link

he's very nice, and even pretty confident about himself. he'll be fine. i'm not at all worried about him.

― Gold Teeth II (kenan), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:30 (nineteen years ago) link

i am a total shrinking violet when it comes to the opposite sex though

― amateur!!!st (amateurist), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:32 (nineteen years ago) link

does he look like an ogre?

― gaz (gaz), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:32 (nineteen years ago) link

xpost so am I! sometimes that works. *especially* with nerdy girls.

I would post a picture of him, but I have been specifically forbodden from doing so.

― Gold Teeth II (kenan), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:33 (nineteen years ago) link

i kinda find that attractive too. unless i get the idea its an act.

― gaz (gaz), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:35 (nineteen years ago) link

i am sort of chubby and nondescript

― amateur!!!st (amateurist), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:37 (nineteen years ago) link

like me!

― gaz (gaz), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:37 (nineteen years ago) link

she is petite and pretty

― amateur!!!st (amateurist), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:38 (nineteen years ago) link

does she know it?

― gaz (gaz), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:39 (nineteen years ago) link

ogres are ugly and buff.

― Gold Teeth II (kenan), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:39 (nineteen years ago) link

i haven't tried 'do you know you're pretty?' since the 2nd grade

― amateur!!!st (amateurist), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:40 (nineteen years ago) link

and that was in a snoopy card

― amateur!!!st (amateurist), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:40 (nineteen years ago) link

ha! you know what i mean. does she have tickets on herself?

― gaz (gaz), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:41 (nineteen years ago) link

even so, it's hard for a woman to misinterpret "you're pretty." It always means you think they're pretty.

― Gold Teeth II (kenan), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:41 (nineteen years ago) link

as long as you don't begin any sentence with, "Baby, that ass..."

― Gold Teeth II (kenan), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:42 (nineteen years ago) link

she doesn't seem like the sort of person who imagines themselves irresistable, no

she could be dating someone for all i know

there was something about the way she stuck with our conversation though that made me think otherwise

i dunno

i want to make it with her while she tells me about her dissertation idea

― amateur!!!st (amateurist), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:43 (nineteen years ago) link

*hic*

― amateur!!!st (amateurist), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:43 (nineteen years ago) link

i want to make it with her while she tells me about her dissertation idea

!!!!

― gaz (gaz), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:44 (nineteen years ago) link

ugh.

― Gold Teeth II (kenan), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:44 (nineteen years ago) link

well maybe after

― amateur!!!st (amateurist), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:44 (nineteen years ago) link

How do you know this gal?

― jaymc (jaymc), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:44 (nineteen years ago) link

jaymc i hope you don't mind if i don't say

― amateur!!!st (amateurist), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:45 (nineteen years ago) link

AND WHAT IS HER DISSERTATION ON???

― gaz (gaz), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:46 (nineteen years ago) link

Can we rename this the Chicago 4AM Commiseration Thread (Plus Gaz for Laffs)?

― jaymc (jaymc), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:46 (nineteen years ago) link

actually she is sterling clover

― amateur!!!st (amateurist), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:46 (nineteen years ago) link

jaymc i hope you don't mind if i don't say

No, that's cool.

― jaymc (jaymc), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:46 (nineteen years ago) link

her dissertation topic is very interesting

please do not prod me for details

― amateur!!!st (amateurist), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:46 (nineteen years ago) link

if you do it'll be like the end of thief with james caan

― amateur!!!st (amateurist), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:48 (nineteen years ago) link

complete with the tangerine dream soundtrack

― amateur!!!st (amateurist), Sunday, 3 October 2004 07:49 (nineteen years ago) link

this thread took a wrong turn at "dissertation"

― amateur!!!st (amateurist), Sunday, 3 October 2004 08:01 (nineteen years ago) link

No, you just reminded me that I still need to see Thief.

― jaymc (jaymc), Sunday, 3 October 2004 08:02 (nineteen years ago) link

I AM DRINKING OLD STYLE AND LISTENING TO THE AVALANCHES, NO LADIES NEARBY THO

― jaymc (jaymc), Sunday, 3 October 2004 08:05 (nineteen years ago) link

the dissertation wrong turn was excellent.

― gaz (gaz), Sunday, 3 October 2004 08:12 (nineteen years ago) link

in answer to the thread question: no. well, maybe a bit, sporadically. generally no.

― m. (mitchlnw), Sunday, 3 October 2004 10:06 (nineteen years ago) link

Am - just be a bit more forward than you are really comfortable with, each time. Now is the time.

(I am tons better than when I was a teen, which only means I am now acting something like a sixteen-year-old, as opposed to at eighteen, when I acted nine)

― Gravel Puzzleworth (Gregory Henry), Sunday, 3 October 2004 11:08 (nineteen years ago) link

if you do it'll be like the end of thief with james caan

you're going to kill everybody?

― Gold Teeth II (kenan), Sunday, 3 October 2004 16:15 (nineteen years ago) link

I am much better at this than I used to be. Alas, these talents go to waste as I am very much spoken for.

― Tous Les Garcons S'Appellent Little Lord Travolta (nordicskilla), Sunday, 3 October 2004 16:44 (nineteen years ago) link

Okay, I just read the thread.

Good luck, amateurist!

― Tous Les Garcons S'Appellent Little Lord Travolta (nordicskilla), Sunday, 3 October 2004 16:45 (nineteen years ago) link

sorry i was drunk last night

― amateur!!!st (amateurist), Sunday, 3 October 2004 16:59 (nineteen years ago) link

do not apologize.

― Tous Les Garcons S'Appellent Little Lord Travolta (nordicskilla), Sunday, 3 October 2004 17:08 (nineteen years ago) link

Yeah, good luck. Lord knows it ain't easy.

When I got divorced at 29, I was amazed and chagrined at how quickly I reverted to feeling like an insecure 15-year-old around women. That only lasted a few months though -- and was partly related to the divorce itself, which isn't an experience that does wonders for self-confidence.

The second marriage is going much, much better.

― gypsy mothra (gypsy mothra), Sunday, 3 October 2004 17:12 (nineteen years ago) link

i still don't have a clue.

― Towelette Pettatucci (Homosexual II), Sunday, 3 October 2004 18:57 (nineteen years ago) link

i am still a teenager. but it hasn't improved really since i was about seventeen.. that was the beginning of the plateau.

― Ian c=====8 (orion), Sunday, 3 October 2004 19:15 (nineteen years ago) link

I'm another member of the "still clueless" brigade.

― caitlin (caitlin), Sunday, 3 October 2004 19:25 (nineteen years ago) link

uh oh i think her friend likes me (but i asked about her hair!)

― amateur!!!st (amateurist), Sunday, 3 October 2004 22:34 (nineteen years ago) link

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nope. i've always been completely shitful at matters of the heart. it's not something i expect to improve at to be perfectly honest.

― gem (trisk), Monday, 25 October 2004 02:38 (nineteen years ago) link

:-)

― amateur!!st, Tuesday, 2 November 2004 23:44 (nineteen years ago) link

sarah have you listened more to t hat soul cd???

now that i have a cd burner i can copy you guys some more stuff. like, lots, if you so desire. i have like 200 soul cds.

― amateur!!st, Tuesday, 2 November 2004 23:57 (nineteen years ago) link

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