http://d262ilb51hltx0.cloudfront.net/max/897/1*-xYcdg-uXIQlyXBemICiEQ.png
― sitting on a claud all day gotta make your butt numb (forksclovetofu), Tuesday, 6 May 2014 18:06 (ten years ago) link
meh, try here: https://d262ilb51hltx0.cloudfront.net/max/897/1*-xYcdg-uXIQlyXBemICiEQ.png
https://medium.com/@reifman/5ebf4e53294c
disgusting
― goole, Tuesday, 13 May 2014 21:21 (ten years ago) link
men... men... what are we, anymore? what the fuck? get so mad at shit like this
― goole, Tuesday, 13 May 2014 21:33 (ten years ago) link
saw someone i knew state intentions to pick up and move from (neglected blogspot/wordpress/whatever blog) to medium 'for longer pieces', it seems like part of the pull is the idea that people might pay attention to your writing.
the world of blogs out there away from the high-profile frequent-post buzzy-newscycle many-commenters model that apes web 2.0 journalism pioneered by i dunno sullivan and yglesias or whoever - it is a desolate wasteland compared to what it was like say 10 years ago. it seems like most writing is not being read, or being read and responded to in a kind of pings-in-the-void fecklessness that is probably not very stimulating for the writers.
throw in feely uplifty 'mattering' dimension to it, and welp.
― j., Tuesday, 13 May 2014 21:41 (ten years ago) link
damn goole that shit is a 14 minute read can a brother get a pullquote or what
― j., Tuesday, 13 May 2014 21:42 (ten years ago) link
what the fucking fuck
here's the deal: not all people want to be your friend or communicate with you after a relationship ends. if they don't want to, you respect their wishes.
I've been the persistent person when it came to talking to an ex before and I was completely in the fucking wrong. This dude, wtf.
― a strange man (mh), Tuesday, 13 May 2014 21:45 (ten years ago) link
a guy got dumped, and it's a problem for him
xp
― goole, Tuesday, 13 May 2014 21:47 (ten years ago) link
dude dated someone for four months and has been dwelling on it for two years
― a strange man (mh), Tuesday, 13 May 2014 21:47 (ten years ago) link
Breakups are often hard for me, but hardest when there is cutoff. For me, Emma’s flip from care and openness to withdrawal and, ultimately, hostile rejection mirrored my mom’s behavior and re-opened deep wounds from my past.
Following her withdrawal, I cried nearly every day and struggled with sleep for months. People often see me as a successful technologist, an ex-Microsoft millionaire, but I can attest to the capacity for trauma to upend your emotional stability and make life a living hell.
Often, the partner doing the cutoff may also have experienced trauma. Cutting off may be a way to avoid pain — or it may be a way to exercise power to feel in control. Anderson says that for serial abandoners, “Creating devastation is their way of demonstrating power.”
Cutoff culture is violent in its own ways. The person cutting ties gets what they want, but the person getting cut off is left in a situation where what they need or want doesn’t matter.
― goole, Tuesday, 13 May 2014 21:48 (ten years ago) link
and he's painting her as an emotionally-stunted person on medium, because she doesn't want to hang out with some dude she dumped and "resolve emotions"
― a strange man (mh), Tuesday, 13 May 2014 21:50 (ten years ago) link
serial abandoners YOU MEAN HUMAN BEINS
― j., Tuesday, 13 May 2014 21:53 (ten years ago) link
man this thing is long as shit
― goole, Tuesday, 13 May 2014 21:54 (ten years ago) link
my amateur psychological analysis tells me this guy has a codependency issue
― a strange man (mh), Tuesday, 13 May 2014 21:57 (ten years ago) link
CUTOFF CULTURE!
why do you guys read this crap
― Οὖτις, Tuesday, 13 May 2014 22:00 (ten years ago) link
some cutoff culture for yahttp://cdnl.complex.com/mp/620/400/90/0/bb/1/ffffff/d56d0ee52fb0f5ce73af9c216bbfd8cf/images_/assets/CHANNEL_IMAGES/STYLE/2012/09/dappy-like-pappy-50-style-tips-you-can-learn-from-your-dad/dadjorts_318743.jpg
― Οὖτις, Tuesday, 13 May 2014 22:01 (ten years ago) link
medium, that's where successful technologists livejournal!
― resulting post (rogermexico.), Tuesday, 13 May 2014 22:18 (ten years ago) link
so the eighth circle then
― mattresslessness, Tuesday, 13 May 2014 22:46 (ten years ago) link
i am very proud of this thread title
― caek, Wednesday, 14 May 2014 02:26 (ten years ago) link
http://i.imgur.com/0PGvHas.png
Is this a piece of original art by Jeff Riefman???
― 龜, Wednesday, 14 May 2014 02:38 (ten years ago) link
she doesn't want to hang out with some dude
― markers, Wednesday, 14 May 2014 02:53 (ten years ago) link
lol at cutoff culture lol at the trend of adding culture to the end of another word and declaring it a thing
― lag∞n, Saturday, 17 May 2014 19:33 (ten years ago) link
this relationship isn't over until i say it is
― the only loving boy in UKIP (Noodle Vague), Saturday, 17 May 2014 19:37 (ten years ago) link
http://youtu.be/dCPWlF_ZjU8
― puff puff post (uh oh I'm having a fantasy), Saturday, 17 May 2014 19:39 (ten years ago) link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PCPQZ1Le6dg
― the only loving boy in UKIP (Noodle Vague), Saturday, 17 May 2014 19:43 (ten years ago) link
it seems like it's becoming more of a legit thing and less stupid
― markers, Thursday, 28 August 2014 19:38 (nine years ago) link
don't really appreciate how it gives the livejournals of any random who happens to get an account an excess of gravitas
― heck (silby), Thursday, 28 August 2014 19:48 (nine years ago) link
like you could paste timecube into that template and give it some parallax-scrolling stock photographs of educated stupid one-day nonbelievers and it'd look reasonable
i have never looked at this website before. https://medium.com/@byroncrawford/blue-ivys-hair-is-perfect-good-hair-is-just-more-perfect-43145b2984dd wtf is this
― Merdeyeux, Thursday, 28 August 2014 19:56 (nine years ago) link
silby tom the more of a legit thing medium gets the worse it gets
― resulting post (rogermexico.), Thursday, 28 August 2014 20:01 (nine years ago) link
damn autocorrect silby OTM
― heck (silby), Thursday, August 28, 2014 3:48 PM (16 minutes ago) Bookmark
This was a claim too bold not to be tested
https://medium.com/@fldlxnc/time-cube-4ce-c5347e6b0068
― 龜, Thursday, 28 August 2014 20:05 (nine years ago) link
if you deleted those linebreaks we'd be on to something
― heck (silby), Thursday, 28 August 2014 20:10 (nine years ago) link
needs parallax, that is the key UX feels maker
― j., Thursday, 28 August 2014 20:13 (nine years ago) link
h8 parallax such pointless garbage
― lag∞n, Thursday, 28 August 2014 20:14 (nine years ago) link
What's parallel scrolling
― 龜, Thursday, 28 August 2014 20:16 (nine years ago) link
lmao at the recent extremely long medium article about underlining ad typography
― caek, Thursday, 28 August 2014 20:17 (nine years ago) link
and typography
https://medium.com/designing-medium/crafting-link-underlines-on-medium-7c03a9274f9
― heck (silby), Thursday, August 28, 2014 4:10 PM (6 minutes ago) Bookmark
I thought about doing this but 1) This would go against the spirit of Timecube and 2) You must be fucking joking if you think I'm gonna delete every line break in that thing
― 龜, Thursday, 28 August 2014 20:17 (nine years ago) link
have you heard of…regular expressions?
― heck (silby), Thursday, 28 August 2014 20:18 (nine years ago) link
seriously this bullshit that web developers are crafters, journeymen, guildmembers or whatever engaged in blue collar stuff is on notice with me
― caek, Thursday, 28 August 2014 20:18 (nine years ago) link
e.g. jesus fucking christ at this garbage http://mimno.infosci.cornell.edu/b/articles/carpentry/
― caek, Thursday, 28 August 2014 20:19 (nine years ago) link
https://d262ilb51hltx0.cloudfront.net/max/1066/1*WhKrWKfZJ0yFI2YnQufd2Q.jpeg
lol
makers
― lag∞n, Thursday, 28 August 2014 20:21 (nine years ago) link
patagonia gilets
― caek, Thursday, 28 August 2014 20:23 (nine years ago) link
Wait is parallalx scrolling that shit Pitchfork puts into their articles so that you click away from an article about Tame Impala less quickly
― 龜, Thursday, 28 August 2014 20:30 (nine years ago) link
twitter fave @fart had this insightful post that has gained some acclaim: https://medium.com/@fart/why-i-am-the-most-important-devops-thought-leader-46a191ac0f42
― mh, Thursday, 28 August 2014 20:30 (nine years ago) link
― caek, Thursday, August 28, 2014 3:18 PM (11 minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
we just dress the part *rubs grease on pants, ketchup drips down chin on to shirt*
― mh, Thursday, 28 August 2014 20:31 (nine years ago) link
http://www.jonhendren.com
― lag∞n, Thursday, 28 August 2014 20:35 (nine years ago) link