tbf frats smell bad
― mattresslessness, Monday, 18 August 2014 17:14 (nine years ago) link
my tiny liberal arts college didnt allow frats at all and guess what
― Everyone is awful except you. Wait, no, you are also awful. (jjjusten), Monday, 18 August 2014 17:14 (nine years ago) link
almost as bad as a rotten...................................................................................................................................................................... red herring xp
― mattresslessness, Monday, 18 August 2014 17:15 (nine years ago) link
same here, JJJ. no frats allowed. but what i found out about campus rape blew my mind.
― LIKE If you are against racism (omar little), Monday, 18 August 2014 17:18 (nine years ago) link
in fact with a little googling, it appears that my former institution had the highest number of sex offenses reported in the state based on the most recent Clery Act statistics available with 3.41 reports per 1000 students. for comparison the U of MN had .25 per 1000, and has a ton of frats.
― Everyone is awful except you. Wait, no, you are also awful. (jjjusten), Monday, 18 August 2014 17:27 (nine years ago) link
man i want an emoji for "nodding my head emphatically in a 'right on DJP' kind of way" because dude has been on point forever in threads like these
― Bus Sex Teen Busted After Queef Beef (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Monday, 18 August 2014 17:28 (nine years ago) link
before people go all in with the "well maybe that institution encourages reporting more than others" sure fine, but considering this whole discussion got spawned by statistics based on self-identification of sexual assualt we're pretty deep in the woods here already fact-wise
― Everyone is awful except you. Wait, no, you are also awful. (jjjusten), Monday, 18 August 2014 17:39 (nine years ago) link
this was good:http://www.theatlantic.com/features/archive/2014/02/the-dark-power-of-fraternities/357580/
― Mordy, Monday, 18 August 2014 17:54 (nine years ago) link
Sorry to belabor this point, but the statistics are NOT based on "self-identification of sexual assault" -- they're based on the descriptions of certain behavior by guys who mostly do NOT see what they do as sexual assault. Besides that, I really don't think frats are the point either, so we have no argument about that. The problem is, however, a "culture" that seems to especially thrive in groups.
― 'arry Goldman (Hurting 2), Monday, 18 August 2014 18:04 (nine years ago) link
so you think it's likely that there are more people dumb enough to not recognize what sexual assualt is than there are people smart enough to conceal their own misconduct? i dont buy it for a second
― Everyone is awful except you. Wait, no, you are also awful. (jjjusten), Monday, 18 August 2014 18:08 (nine years ago) link
which makes the biggest issue wrt this article the very legit potential that the 6% it arrives at is woefully flawed and way under the real number
― Everyone is awful except you. Wait, no, you are also awful. (jjjusten), Monday, 18 August 2014 18:10 (nine years ago) link
ban groups
― Star Gentle Uterus (DJP), Monday, 18 August 2014 18:12 (nine years ago) link
i was gonna say
― Nhex, Monday, 18 August 2014 18:13 (nine years ago) link
like, if the general takeaway from the article is "wow that number is lower than expected and really focused on a very specific kind of perpetrator" that is more damage than good to society as a whole, and campus safety in general
― Everyone is awful except you. Wait, no, you are also awful. (jjjusten), Monday, 18 August 2014 18:13 (nine years ago) link
No, I think the takeaway is "this is a common scenario and set of attitudes that often leads to rapes, so educate men about that scenario and those attitudes before they fall into them"
― 'arry Goldman (Hurting 2), Monday, 18 August 2014 18:18 (nine years ago) link
the other takeaway is that there's a common set of attitudes and a scenario that these people do not feel to be sexual assault
― mh, Monday, 18 August 2014 19:19 (nine years ago) link
That wasn't really in response to jjj's point, but to an extent, yes -- this people are too dumb to know what they're doing is sexual assault, and they are associated with social frameworks that are sophisticated at sweeping such things under the rug, making them think it's ok.
so, little of column A, a lot of column B
― mh, Monday, 18 August 2014 19:28 (nine years ago) link
http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2014/09/false_rape_accusations_why_must_be_pretend_they_never_happen.html
― Mordy, Friday, 19 September 2014 18:01 (nine years ago) link
wake me in 400 posts' time
― imago, Friday, 19 September 2014 18:07 (nine years ago) link
lock thread
― Spirit of Match Game '76 (silby), Friday, 19 September 2014 18:09 (nine years ago) link
ftr way more real rapes end in acquittal than false charges make trial. both are terrible but come the fuck on
― imago, Friday, 19 September 2014 18:10 (nine years ago) link
Add one to the creepy ex-Soviet libertarian list.
― Wristy Hurlington (ShariVari), Friday, 19 September 2014 18:15 (nine years ago) link
In the headline it claims that "they are real and they are a real problem". In the sub-head it admits "they are rare". So, I guess the bold position taken here is that false rape accusations are a real rare problem.
― Aimless, Saturday, 20 September 2014 00:48 (nine years ago) link
why must be pretend they never happen
― intelligent, expressive males within the greater metropolitan (Bananaman Begins), Saturday, 20 September 2014 02:17 (nine years ago) link
The quantum physics of men's rights
― ILX preorders SPYRO for Playstation (Sufjan Grafton), Saturday, 20 September 2014 02:50 (nine years ago) link
What is the point of that article even
― yarn (jjjusten), Saturday, 20 September 2014 03:24 (nine years ago) link
Brb writing a super amazing article going to call it "sometimes people accused of crimes are not actually guilty of the crimes they are accused of but you know, not super often" it's going to be a real potboiler.
― yarn (jjjusten), Saturday, 20 September 2014 03:26 (nine years ago) link
it's actually a very good article. it's a sensitive topic, but it's hard to argue against making the issue more evidence-based. assuming she's a reputable academic who's done an actual literature review, at the very least it's good to be familiar with the data
― k3vin k., Saturday, 20 September 2014 03:52 (nine years ago) link
She's actually a researcher for the nutso Cato Institute and contributing editor for the even more nutso far-right libertarian Reason magazine who has spent years taking isolated cases of unproven or false allegations and spinning them into a war-on-men narrative so take the statistics with bucketloads of salt.
― Wristy Hurlington (ShariVari), Saturday, 20 September 2014 04:47 (nine years ago) link
Hang on, don't you think we should give this anti-feminist concern troll a fair hearing
― 1staethyr, Saturday, 20 September 2014 05:05 (nine years ago) link
nobut maybe idk we might not laud feminist trolls quite so militantly the whole time n'est pas
― fedora, wherever it may find her (darraghmac), Saturday, 20 September 2014 10:45 (nine years ago) link
oh yeah man all the militant lauding, that's got to stop
― Branwell with anNe (wins), Saturday, 20 September 2014 11:08 (nine years ago) link
agreed
― fedora, wherever it may find her (darraghmac), Saturday, 20 September 2014 11:10 (nine years ago) link
^ straw mens rights activist
― intelligent, expressive males within the greater metropolitan (Bananaman Begins), Saturday, 20 September 2014 12:22 (nine years ago) link
http://www.harkavagrant.com/?id=341
― Branwell with anNe (wins), Saturday, 20 September 2014 12:24 (nine years ago) link
that is wonderful
― Nhex, Saturday, 20 September 2014 17:05 (nine years ago) link
<3 a vagrant
― Treeship, Saturday, 20 September 2014 17:06 (nine years ago) link
she is wonderful
― A college wearing a sweater that says “John Belushi” (stevie), Saturday, 20 September 2014 17:47 (nine years ago) link
More than a quarter-century ago, feminist legal theorist Catharine MacKinnon wrote that “feminism is built on believing women’s accounts of sexual use and abuse by men”; today, Jessica Valenti urges us to “believe victims en masse,” because only then will we recognize the true prevalence of sexual assault. But a de facto presumption of guilt in alleged sexual offenses is as dangerous as a presumption of guilt in any crime, and for the same reasons: It upends the foundations on which our system of justice rests and creates a risk of ruining innocent lives.
So (your, my, police officers') taking women's accounts of rape seriously and finding them worth investigating and prosecuting the accused = presumption of guilt.
Taking accusations seriously undermines the foundations of the justice system.
― Je55e, Saturday, 20 September 2014 18:50 (nine years ago) link
The panel where one is on the ceiling and the other is slithering under the bed is almost unbearably good.
― Orson Wellies (in orbit), Saturday, 20 September 2014 18:57 (nine years ago) link
AvatarStarDustTyping • 8 hours agoSince they decided to be sexist over their magazine selection, not one of my mates shops there. I'm guessing we aren't alone. Plus all the females they sacrificed us for left tesco for aldi and lidle.Tesco could have filled their shelves with football, gaming and car mags but they just chose to boot out male mags and by extension males.They are getting what they deserve.
Since they decided to be sexist over their magazine selection, not one of my mates shops there. I'm guessing we aren't alone. Plus all the females they sacrificed us for left tesco for aldi and lidle.Tesco could have filled their shelves with football, gaming and car mags but they just chose to boot out male mags and by extension males.They are getting what they deserve.
― A college wearing a sweater that says “John Belushi” (stevie), Monday, 22 September 2014 22:15 (nine years ago) link
XD
idk shd we even give easy targets the time of day tho
― UK Sexwolf (imago), Monday, 22 September 2014 22:16 (nine years ago) link
the hard targets are so difficult to find though
― Merdeyeux, Tuesday, 23 September 2014 01:26 (nine years ago) link
that was from the comments below a telegraph piece on the tesco collapse btw
― A college wearing a sweater that says “John Belushi” (stevie), Tuesday, 23 September 2014 09:13 (nine years ago) link
Tbf that's as good an example of the serious issues raised by the men's rights movement as most of what's been posted itt
― you'll never guac amole (wins), Tuesday, 23 September 2014 09:44 (nine years ago) link
ftr way more real rapes end in acquittal than false charges make trial. ― imago, Friday, 19 September 2014 18:10 (4 days ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
― imago, Friday, 19 September 2014 18:10 (4 days ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
How do they count such things? Specifically the former?
― Mark G, Tuesday, 23 September 2014 11:28 (nine years ago) link
I mean you can make a purely mathematical argument for that. There must be at least an order of magnitude (probably more than one, but the argument works with one) more true rape accusations than false or fabricated ones. Even if 100% of rape accusations went to trial (they don't), 100% of false rape accusations ended in acquittal for the suspect, and just 10% of rapists were acquitted (it's more than that), you'd have as many freed rapists as falsely accused ones.
― Spirit of Match Game '76 (silby), Tuesday, 23 September 2014 16:26 (nine years ago) link
what does imago's point mean for the blackstone ratio?
― Mordy, Tuesday, 23 September 2014 16:30 (nine years ago) link
http://www.cnn.com/2014/09/23/showbiz/celebrity-news-gossip/emma-watson-speech-nude-photos-threat/index.html?hpt=hp_c2
― LIKE If you are against racism (omar little), Tuesday, 23 September 2014 20:26 (nine years ago) link
wrong thread i think
― Mordy, Tuesday, 23 September 2014 20:28 (nine years ago) link