Rolling 2015 Thread on Race

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one of my thoughts when i first read about this was that dolezal's supposed "confusion" about her racial identity kind of hijacked the genuine grief and confusion that those of "mixed race" have to deal with. maybe she comes by a little of that honestly, but not much of it IMO.

he quipped with heat (amateurist), Wednesday, 17 June 2015 12:56 (eight years ago) link

I'm sure this whole public ridicule and shaming is intensely painful.

Mordy, Wednesday, 17 June 2015 13:02 (eight years ago) link

eh to hear her brother tell it, she made a decision to start deceiving people as a 30-something woman and asked other people to keep the ruse up:
http://dailycaller.com/2015/06/16/rachel-dolezals-brother-shes-white-and-pretending-to-be-black-video/

she sought out public life on false pretenses. even if you do feel sympathy people who get shamed on the internet for some stupid moment that became a meme, that is not what this is, at all.

some dude, Wednesday, 17 June 2015 13:08 (eight years ago) link

i don't think grief is the right word you're looking for there amatuerist

, Wednesday, 17 June 2015 13:09 (eight years ago) link

i don't think anybody forced her to go on the today show

, Wednesday, 17 June 2015 13:10 (eight years ago) link

huh? you don't think people of mixed racial parentage often get grief in american society? (or maybe you were thinking of the other use of the word "grief"?) i know some folks who would beg to differ.

he quipped with heat (amateurist), Wednesday, 17 June 2015 13:17 (eight years ago) link

ah, "grief" as in "static/hassle"

that makes more sense

I Am Curious (Dolezal) (DJP), Wednesday, 17 June 2015 13:19 (eight years ago) link

I was just imagining sobbing multiracial people and getting concerned

I Am Curious (Dolezal) (DJP), Wednesday, 17 June 2015 13:20 (eight years ago) link

It's hard being multi-racial and beautiful, true

How Butch, I mean (Jimmy The Mod Awaits The Return Of His Beloved), Wednesday, 17 June 2015 14:08 (eight years ago) link

how big do you think her book deal is gonna be? gonna be a bidding war, i'll bet.

scott seward, Wednesday, 17 June 2015 15:37 (eight years ago) link

huh? you don't think people of mixed racial parentage often get grief in american society? (or maybe you were thinking of the other use of the word "grief"?) i know some folks who would beg to differ.

― he quipped with heat (amateurist), Wednesday, June 17, 2015 9:17 AM Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

tbqh i think a lot of people don't, or at least don't get more than ppl who are not white but also not seen as multi-racial in some sense. and the idea that being multi-racial has its own set of difficult issues is i think sometimes overstated.

which is different from the whole range of issues surrounding shades of skin tone in a specifically black/white context.

got bent (mild cheezed off vibes) (s.clover), Wednesday, 17 June 2015 16:11 (eight years ago) link

she sought out public life on false pretenses

agree that this seems like the real heart of the problem w Dolezal. If she was just some weird woman who decided to go to extremes to become part of this particular ethnic group I doubt it would be such a big deal.

Οὖτις, Wednesday, 17 June 2015 16:14 (eight years ago) link

she was a public figure. on the local level anyway.

scott seward, Wednesday, 17 June 2015 16:17 (eight years ago) link

I think that's part of the point...? Like, if she was a random woman who kept showing up at the local African Dance class with blond Crystal Gale braids and a daishiki, she'd just be seen as eccentric; it's the going whole-hog and leading the NAACP while also being on the police oversight board and being a professor of Africana while having this entire backstory that seems to be made up of weird half-truths and the veracity of the racial attacks she said were directed towards her... It's the 1-2 combo of "super black" overcorrection with the apparent lying that makes her fascinating/hilarious.

I Am Curious (Dolezal) (DJP), Wednesday, 17 June 2015 16:22 (eight years ago) link

yup

Οὖτις, Wednesday, 17 June 2015 16:24 (eight years ago) link

"Like, if she was a random woman who kept showing up at the local African Dance class with blond Crystal Gale braids and a daishiki, she'd just be seen as eccentric"

OMG! We Went To A Party!

scott seward, Wednesday, 17 June 2015 16:25 (eight years ago) link

Trust me, I'm not being a homophobe when I laugh like hell at politicians such as Larry Craig.

Speaking of Idaho.

pplains, Wednesday, 17 June 2015 16:26 (eight years ago) link

+ the suing howard for discriminating against white ppl part

, Wednesday, 17 June 2015 16:32 (eight years ago) link

I think Melissa Harris-Perry actually said that suit was about gender discrimination, not racial discrimination? I heard that somewhere, don't remember where (and don't care enough to actually read the lawsuit documents)

I Am Curious (Dolezal) (DJP), Wednesday, 17 June 2015 16:33 (eight years ago) link

one of her claims was this:

The court opinion also noted that Dolezal claimed that the university’s decision to remove some of her artworks from a February 2001 student exhibition was “motivated by a discriminatory purpose to favor African-American students over” her.

, Wednesday, 17 June 2015 16:45 (eight years ago) link

i think it was the whole kit and kaboodle... she alleged discriminating on the basis of race, sex, and the fact that she was pregnant/a single mom.

he quipped with heat (amateurist), Wednesday, 17 June 2015 16:47 (eight years ago) link

xpost

he quipped with heat (amateurist), Wednesday, 17 June 2015 16:47 (eight years ago) link

xpost, yes i think she alleged a number of discriminatory acts, on the basis of race but also other stuff

the "kitchen sink" approach to discrimination litigation

he quipped with heat (amateurist), Wednesday, 17 June 2015 16:48 (eight years ago) link

well this proves that whatever else she is, she is definitively American

I Am Curious (Dolezal) (DJP), Wednesday, 17 June 2015 16:49 (eight years ago) link

kit, kaboodles, and kitchen sinks and everything.

The burrito of ennui (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 17 June 2015 16:51 (eight years ago) link

yeah the interesting/hilarious thing is she's sort of by her very being relying on some notion of non-arbitrariness in the idea of "race" but then she does things that completely essentialize the idea, and she's living out these two incompatible notions that "i can choose my race" and "race is fundamental to this society" at once.

got bent (mild cheezed off vibes) (s.clover), Wednesday, 17 June 2015 16:55 (eight years ago) link

throw in the whole nine yards and you've got yourself a lawsuit

xpost

he quipped with heat (amateurist), Wednesday, 17 June 2015 16:55 (eight years ago) link

xpost, yes i think she alleged a number of discriminatory acts, on the basis of race but also other stuff

the "kitchen sink" approach to discrimination litigation

― he quipped with heat (amateurist), Wednesday, June 17, 2015 12:48 PM (13 minutes ago) Bookmark

tbf this is how litigation works, you throw every conceivable and non-frivolous claim you have and see what sticks

, Wednesday, 17 June 2015 17:02 (eight years ago) link

kit, kaboodles, and kitchen sinks and everything.
― The burrito of ennui (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 17 June 2015 17:51 Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

she brought lots of 'k's

There was Bjork from Iceland and Alanis Morissette from Canada (onimo), Wednesday, 17 June 2015 17:30 (eight years ago) link

one of her claims was this:

The court opinion also noted that Dolezal claimed that the university’s decision to remove some of her artworks from a February 2001 student exhibition was “motivated by a discriminatory purpose to favor African-American students over” her.

― 龜, Wednesday, June 17, 2015 12:45 PM (2 hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Playing a really long game of "If you can't beat them, join them".

Evan, Wednesday, 17 June 2015 18:53 (eight years ago) link

i mean duh, tell us something we don't know

example (crüt), Wednesday, 17 June 2015 20:06 (eight years ago) link

off. i figured there was something like that in her background. i know of some families like that. in one case they adopted several "troubled" teens but would be very quick to boot them out if they made one transgression (including mixing with the opposite sex in evenings).

he quipped with heat (amateurist), Wednesday, 17 June 2015 20:08 (eight years ago) link

i mean, oof.

he quipped with heat (amateurist), Wednesday, 17 June 2015 20:08 (eight years ago) link

Pity, I liked 'Off'.

The Manner of Crawly (Tom D.), Wednesday, 17 June 2015 20:11 (eight years ago) link

there's something really depressing about putative generosity that can be exhausted so easily.

he quipped with heat (amateurist), Wednesday, 17 June 2015 20:24 (eight years ago) link

it's that time when we are called upon to have that talk with each other that we never have. apparently.

"Or, at the very least, perhaps we can use Ms. Dolezal’s story, puzzling as it is, as an opportunity to have a candid, lively, long-delayed, public conversation about the knotty meanings of race and racial identity, and how it has confounded our nation’s best aspirations. Perhaps we may yet move beyond the imprisoning boxes we have made."

http://www.nytimes.com/2015/06/17/opinion/rachel-dolezals-unintended-gift-to-america.html?action=click&pgtype=Homepage&module=opinion-c-col-left-region®ion=opinion-c-col-left-region&WT.nav=opinion-c-col-left-region&_r=0

which is just gonna make me think about Onion headlines forever:

http://www.theonion.com/blogpost/america-needs-to-have-a-superficial-conversation-a-11408

http://www.theonion.com/article/open-dialogue-two-americans-having-about-race-pret-33316

scott seward, Wednesday, 17 June 2015 20:43 (eight years ago) link

she gave us all a gift!

scott seward, Wednesday, 17 June 2015 20:43 (eight years ago) link

b/c god knows americans never talk about race

wizzz! (amateurist), Wednesday, 17 June 2015 20:49 (eight years ago) link

:)

wizzz! (amateurist), Wednesday, 17 June 2015 20:49 (eight years ago) link

iirc one segment talks about race while another talks about how much it hates talking about race.

tsrobodo, Wednesday, 17 June 2015 21:05 (eight years ago) link

^

, Wednesday, 17 June 2015 22:30 (eight years ago) link

Serial yoga-teacher dating even has become a thing. Venice-based TV writer-producer Steven Pearl admits he started dating yoga teachers about two years ago. "The proliferation of yoga classes in L.A. means more teachers, and many are actresses, dancers — all working their minds and, of course, their bodies. Their look is very appealing: fitted clothes, fresh faces, utterly unpretentious, no makeup. They're more wholesome and approachable. Suddenly, my guy friends are all talking about dating yoga teachers. And most of the best studios are in neighborhoods with tons of entertainment people: West Hollywood, Venice, Brentwood."

goole, Friday, 19 June 2015 15:58 (eight years ago) link

Who epitomizes beta better than a yoga teacher?

Upright Mammal (mh), Friday, 19 June 2015 15:58 (eight years ago) link

i'm sure i already don't but what shows does steven pearl put out, i want to never see them

goole, Friday, 19 June 2015 15:58 (eight years ago) link

tbh I lost it at "old Chinese quantum physics"

Upright Mammal (mh), Friday, 19 June 2015 15:59 (eight years ago) link

worth quoting in full

Relationship expert Dr. Jeremy Nicholson sees the phenomenon in a more basic, evolutionary way: "Men are always interested in attractive, pleasant, feminine women for mates. What shifts are the groups of women allowed and encouraged to be attractive, pleasant and feminine. At certain points in the Hollywood culture, the women who embodied those characteristics to men were primarily Asian. In the current culture, yoga instructors now are a source of healthy, attractive, feminine women."

Alpha men teaming up with yoga teachers chimes with Eastern philosophy, offers Dr. Pat Allen, an L.A. relationship expert: "In old Chinese quantum physics, men had yang bodies: They build, they create. Women receive. Alpha men have a very tough time committing to alpha women. They'll have an alpha mistress but not an alpha wife. Alpha men do better with beta women: sensitive, empathetic and kind. Who epitomizes beta better than a yoga teacher?”

drash, Friday, 19 June 2015 16:06 (eight years ago) link

i'm gonna post this picture of Dr. Jeremy Nicholson i don't care how huge it is

http://attractiondoctor.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/DrNicholson2.jpg

example (crüt), Friday, 19 June 2015 16:08 (eight years ago) link


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