hey surm do you like my Mariah Carey ringtone I made?
https://www.mediafire.com/?7hmlm2sfo9xp6j9
― "Jiggle It" - 2 in a Zoo (Stevie D(eux)), Wednesday, March 26, 2014 10:16 PM
― images of war violence and historical smoking (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 27 March 2014 14:09 (ten years ago) link
btw Stevie there is a Friday bear happy hour near U Street in DC
http://dcbearcrue.com/DC-Bear-Crue/Bear-Happy-Hour/Bear-Happy-Hour.html
― images of war violence and historical smoking (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 27 March 2014 14:19 (ten years ago) link
Gaaaaay threaaaaad forevvvver.
http://www.film.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/14.jpg
― Eric H., Thursday, 27 March 2014 14:22 (ten years ago) link
Where is that from?!
― Inside Lewellyn Sinclair (cryptosicko), Thursday, 27 March 2014 16:30 (ten years ago) link
hi gays!
― Bryan Fairy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 27 March 2014 21:21 (ten years ago) link
hi!
and yeaah stevie i want that ringtone bad
― surm, Thursday, 27 March 2014 21:22 (ten years ago) link
so I got my first cold in 14 years from a sick trick.
sarge, his boyfriend, and I hung out last Thursday. I don't think Beyonce came up.
― Bryan Fairy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 27 March 2014 21:23 (ten years ago) link
my boyfriend met my parents this week, for the first time. my parents are super cool though, it was a good time.
his family is more fractured than mine, both as it surrounds him and his sexuality and in general. he thought it was extremely weird that we were going to hang out with my aunt and uncle, who i eat dinner with every time i'm home. the concept of hanging out with his uncle or cousins was very foreign to him.
also we blew each other in key west, which prob qualifies as the gayest thing i've ever done in my life
― le goon (J0rdan S.), Thursday, 27 March 2014 21:25 (ten years ago) link
oh hey, right on cue
xp
did you like it? I ask because...I'm not sure I did the first time.
― Bryan Fairy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 27 March 2014 21:26 (ten years ago) link
surm just drop it into yr iTunes and then connect yr iPhone and sync and u r good 2 goo-oo-oo oo-oo-oo OO-OO-OO OO-OO-OO OOOOOOOOOOOO
― "Jiggle It" - 2 in a Zoo (Stevie D(eux)), Thursday, 27 March 2014 21:43 (ten years ago) link
Hi gays. Broke a three-month stretch of "away from boyfriend + no sex" last week. There was bluetoothing. I'm in Mexico City now
― continually topping myself (flamboyant goon tie included), Thursday, 27 March 2014 21:44 (ten years ago) link
hi everyone. i'm moving in with my bf in three days. i haven't started packing yet.
― lex pretend, Thursday, 27 March 2014 21:45 (ten years ago) link
damn, nice
― le goon (J0rdan S.), Thursday, 27 March 2014 21:46 (ten years ago) link
yay, and what? start packing, no?
― continually topping myself (flamboyant goon tie included), Thursday, 27 March 2014 21:46 (ten years ago) link
all these things are fallout from that NYT Mag cover story on bisexuality, right?
― images of war violence and historical smoking (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 27 March 2014 21:48 (ten years ago) link
lol I can't read that til April, my "10 free views" expired
― continually topping myself (flamboyant goon tie included), Thursday, 27 March 2014 21:49 (ten years ago) link
and nothing! i haven't started packing because i procrastinate.
― lex pretend, Thursday, 27 March 2014 21:49 (ten years ago) link
also it's time for NYC gays to go to baseball w/ me again.
No colds in 14 years -- are you a vampire, Sot -- oh...
― images of war violence and historical smoking (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 27 March 2014 21:51 (ten years ago) link
I got'em down to one a year. This one comes as a result of contact with either a niece or the Venezuelan exile I met last Saturday.
goon, did you have sex with the bluetooth?
lex!
― Bryan Fairy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 27 March 2014 21:53 (ten years ago) link
brb, I'm going to go see a Fritz Lang film with Kurt Weill songs and Sylvia Sidney -- how's THAT for gay?
― images of war violence and historical smoking (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 27 March 2014 21:56 (ten years ago) link
I've never actually had proper phone sex, no. I mentioned I think that I had aborted Facebook chat sex a couple weeks ago? That was weird.
― continually topping myself (flamboyant goon tie included), Thursday, 27 March 2014 22:36 (ten years ago) link
I am I think dating someone who is 55 and I'm moving in a week and I'm not moving in with him but my new apt happens to be 2 blocks from his so there's that.
― "Jiggle It" - 2 in a Zoo (Stevie D(eux)), Thursday, 27 March 2014 22:44 (ten years ago) link
damn i'm def trying to date a dude in their 20s when i'm 55
― le goon (J0rdan S.), Thursday, 27 March 2014 22:48 (ten years ago) link
I have a pension plan in place for that purpose
― continually topping myself (flamboyant goon tie included), Thursday, 27 March 2014 22:48 (ten years ago) link
That or I plan on running for office on a platform to repurpose the military as such
― continually topping myself (flamboyant goon tie included), Thursday, 27 March 2014 22:49 (ten years ago) link
I'm guessing you only collect major interest on your investment if you sock it away while you're young.
― Eric H., Thursday, 27 March 2014 22:50 (ten years ago) link
my financial advisor was very persuasive
― continually topping myself (flamboyant goon tie included), Thursday, 27 March 2014 23:03 (ten years ago) link
He's a fashion dude who like used to be a design director for a huge brand and also helped Yohji Yamamoto open his first boutique in NY (oh and also walked for him in Paris in '89) and he is super energetic and has impeccable taste and gets rly excited when I play him Björk remixes.
― "Jiggle It" - 2 in a Zoo (Stevie D(eux)), Thursday, 27 March 2014 23:04 (ten years ago) link
It is kind of like living in a weird intergenerational Instagram photo
y'all have seen this guy, right? he is 100% the hottest
― continually topping myself (flamboyant goon tie included), Thursday, 27 March 2014 23:08 (ten years ago) link
how many björk remixes are there, really?
― clouds, Thursday, 27 March 2014 23:36 (ten years ago) link
yea i'm still doing this thing with my fashion dude who is 22 and it's fun, we talk about models and designers and listen to songs too
― surm, Friday, 28 March 2014 00:16 (ten years ago) link
hey great thread title btw
― surm, Friday, 28 March 2014 01:05 (ten years ago) link
it's been years since i did any sort of telecom sex but i used to enjoy it quite a lot, both phone and chat
― patron sailor, Friday, 28 March 2014 01:54 (ten years ago) link
who wants to cyber *undoes top shirt button*
yea i've definitely been known to dabble
― surm, Friday, 28 March 2014 01:57 (ten years ago) link
and my designer's out of town so i'm a little concerned about a relapse
― surm, Friday, 28 March 2014 01:58 (ten years ago) link
― clouds, Thursday, March 27, 2014 6:36 PM (2 hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
like a shit ton
this is him + me btw
http://cdn.stereogum.com/files/2014/03/DSC_1701.jpg
― "Jiggle It" - 2 in a Zoo (Stevie D(eux)), Friday, 28 March 2014 02:21 (ten years ago) link
He looks happy to see you, is cold, or both.
― Bryan Fairy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 28 March 2014 02:22 (ten years ago) link
<3
― surm, Friday, 28 March 2014 02:25 (ten years ago) link
good luck
― images of war violence and historical smoking (Dr Morbius), Friday, 28 March 2014 02:36 (ten years ago) link
i hope eventually i will stop feeling the urge to date altogether
― clouds, Friday, 28 March 2014 02:44 (ten years ago) link
it does clear your schedule
― images of war violence and historical smoking (Dr Morbius), Friday, 28 March 2014 03:28 (ten years ago) link
steve's beau represents my life's #beardambition
― patron sailor, Friday, 28 March 2014 13:39 (ten years ago) link
Patronna Beard Ambition Tour
― "Jiggle It" - 2 in a Zoo (Stevie D(eux)), Friday, 28 March 2014 13:53 (ten years ago) link
i would do marie antionette drags with a bleached platinum beard, sure ok why not
― patron sailor, Friday, 28 March 2014 14:27 (ten years ago) link
thanks to the people who had nice things to say in the other thread before we switched over. gonna go and catch up here now
― markers, Friday, 28 March 2014 15:42 (ten years ago) link
if you have no idea why i'm suddenly here go back a season
anyway, enough about me back to y'all
― markers, Friday, 28 March 2014 15:43 (ten years ago) link
#12 is the majority population in bars
― son of a lewd monk (Dr Morbius), Monday, 16 June 2014 19:05 (nine years ago) link
I know sadly too many who fit #6.
― Cronk's Not Cronk (Eric H.), Monday, 16 June 2014 19:19 (nine years ago) link
#13 -- Gays who can't take criticism.
― guess that bundt gettin eaten (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 16 June 2014 19:44 (nine years ago) link
they forgot: "creative" homos who are so busy they never have time to hang, but insist you come to their dj night/gallery show/drag queen revue/etc etc
― clouds, Monday, 16 June 2014 20:44 (nine years ago) link
i.e. the entire under-30 gay population of chicago
― clouds, Monday, 16 June 2014 20:47 (nine years ago) link
I seriously dunno what kinda of homo I am. Prob the technology kind simply by virtue of how it feels like I never leave my house anymore, though I'd like to think that'd be different if I actually, you know, went out and socialized with people.
― Funk autocorrect (cryptosicko), Monday, 16 June 2014 20:52 (nine years ago) link
I'm #14: ice queens.
― Cronk's Not Cronk (Eric H.), Monday, 16 June 2014 21:03 (nine years ago) link
(Oh, and Corey, I had to postpone my Chicago trip to later this summer. Just didn't want you thinking I spaced you out.)
not with me you're no queen
― guess that bundt gettin eaten (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 16 June 2014 21:04 (nine years ago) link
I am on the cusp of booking a SoCal trip I really can't afford for the first half of July. (Rev, I will still be here for part of yr time in NY.) Where y'all going?
― son of a lewd monk (Dr Morbius), Monday, 16 June 2014 21:06 (nine years ago) link
uuuuuuuuuuuuugh a homophobe on twitter blasted my pics to his 31k followers but fuck em I look ***flawless
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 17 June 2014 01:44 (nine years ago) link
Noooooo that is awful
― flamboyant goon tie included, Tuesday, 17 June 2014 05:56 (nine years ago) link
Chicken + waffles seems like a poignantly gender-fluid follow-up meal
― flamboyant goon tie included, Tuesday, 17 June 2014 05:57 (nine years ago) link
that sucks rev. did you report the ringleaders? cuz that's straight up abusive right there. do you want them to be called out some more or do you want it to die down...
― lex pretend, Tuesday, 17 June 2014 06:38 (nine years ago) link
I reported everyone who tweeted at me or tweeted my pic and blocked everyone who faved or RTed.
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 17 June 2014 08:53 (nine years ago) link
Rev that is shady as fuck, I am way sorry that that happened :(
That OUT article basically seems to list the same type of person over and over
― aaliyah papi (Stevie D(eux)), Tuesday, 17 June 2014 20:28 (nine years ago) link
Right. A gay person.
― Cronk's Not Cronk (Eric H.), Tuesday, 17 June 2014 20:34 (nine years ago) link
Jenni Olson picks a LGBTQ film canon of 25 (I did not know about The Watermelon Woman til recently).
http://www.fandor.com/keyframe/the-essential-lgbtq
― son of a lewd monk (Dr Morbius), Friday, 20 June 2014 15:21 (nine years ago) link
That sounds all kinds of messed up.
― Cronk's Not Cronk (Eric H.), Friday, 20 June 2014 15:40 (nine years ago) link
I know I prolly shouldn't bump this thread for a few reasons:(1) I've made an ass of myself on ilx in very real and concrete ways(2) I've tried to bump the gay threads before saying I would stick around and I totally failed at that(3) I've been a dick to people on ilx and on the gay threads beforeAnd(4) I've made an ass of myself with people from ilx irl before BUTHere I am anyway because? What's the worst that could happen andI miss it. So. Who's still alive? Did anyone keep this tradition going? I'll search new answers now too.
― surm, Saturday, 26 January 2019 03:55 (five years ago) link
Hi surm. I like your chutzpah. I have done all the things you listed. Ultimately though why not keep on stumbling on.I’m increasingly gay with each passing year. Last year my beard turned 1/3 gray in 6 months. 2018 was a rough one, 2019 is already better.I miss hordes of p town types all in a giant room singing along to whatever they sing along to now BUT i’m still enjoying a pit stop in a tiny town. Tonight the stars are just so clear it looks somehow extra-dimensional.
― macropuente (map), Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:04 (five years ago) link
:-) thank you for your kindness and i'm glad you posted. did i know you five years ago? was it the same username and i've forgotten? all the mistakes i've made.... i regret them deeply, but stumble i will. i'm glad to hear 2019 is already better for you than the shit show that was 2018. i am finally beginning to feel that way too. i can totally relate to the beard.
are you on a road trip?
― surm, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:10 (five years ago) link
Hi surm
I like that you bumped this thread because it reminded me of the happier days
― flamboyant goon tie included, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:12 (five years ago) link
omg hiiiiiii!!! i'm glad you like it. how are you?
― surm, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:18 (five years ago) link
I don't know!
― flamboyant goon tie included, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:28 (five years ago) link
I did an orchestral arrangement for Christine & The Queens today for her appearance on the French Grammies, that was fun. The song is "La Marcheuse" and it's a really beautiful song
― flamboyant goon tie included, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:29 (five years ago) link
My bf wants to cheat on me, which is interesting! I am getting a cold sore rn so I think I'm going to give him my blessing, the cheater's blessing, go enjoy strange dick while I ointment my lip
― flamboyant goon tie included, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:31 (five years ago) link
ha! ok your day sounds truly wonderful, i hope you feel proud AF. and i guess you and your bf have never done the open thing?
― surm, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:33 (five years ago) link
It's kind of imposed upon me. He fucks around and I'm having to learn to deal with it. It's odd! We have such a great sex life but his wandering eye is a constant. Considering how previous relationships I've had have been devastated by cheating and/or lying-about-cheating I'm trying to grow up and live with it
― flamboyant goon tie included, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:35 (five years ago) link
My week has been strange. Somebody who owed me an apology, but from whom I never in my wildest dreams expected an apology, called me and apologized a couple of days ago and I started crying a lot and that was a good thing
― flamboyant goon tie included, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:36 (five years ago) link
i miss y'all
― clouds, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:38 (five years ago) link
xp that's a beautiful thing. that happened to me once and it changed my life, i'm still in touch with that friend and her apology forever changed our lives.
i would say.... you're definitely not a child bc you prefer monogamy. easy to forget that in this day and age when everybody's open. i think it's important for both people to feel like they're not giving up too much.
― surm, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:41 (five years ago) link
clouds!!!!
Hi clouds!
I would prefer monogamy, but I love this man wholeheartedly and if he wants to fuck other men then I want to meet that need, rather than have him sit around wanting to fuck other men and resent me for imposing boundaries on him
― flamboyant goon tie included, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:51 (five years ago) link
totally hear that. we've been open for years--in fact my boo just got home from a date--so i feel you 100%.
― surm, Saturday, 26 January 2019 05:59 (five years ago) link
clouds how's life?
― surm, Saturday, 26 January 2019 06:01 (five years ago) link
surm, I missed you making an ass of yourself on ilx in very real and concrete ways, sadly! lovely to see you! and clouds!
― Acting Crazy (Instrumental) (jed_), Saturday, 26 January 2019 12:00 (five years ago) link
good morning!
― Your sweetie-pie-coo-coo I love ya (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 26 January 2019 12:30 (five years ago) link
surm, I wish I ran into u in ft greene more often
― a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 26 January 2019 13:34 (five years ago) link
Jed, that's so nice to hear for some odd reason! Alfred! Morbz! Morbz it would be lovely to grab a drink in the neighborhood soon. I hope everyone's off to a relaxing weekend.
― surm, Saturday, 26 January 2019 14:40 (five years ago) link
surm, I hung out with Morbs and j0rdan last Saturday. Wish you'd been there.
― Your sweetie-pie-coo-coo I love ya (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 26 January 2019 14:42 (five years ago) link
Hola Surm!
― plax (ico), Saturday, 26 January 2019 14:44 (five years ago) link
PLAX I WAS WAITING FOR YOUThank you for being hereXp Alfred that sounds excellent. Jordan has always been a true gentleman. I remember the time I ran into him at a club in NYC, I just wanted to put him in my pocket like a lucky penny.
― surm, Saturday, 26 January 2019 14:51 (five years ago) link
https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/id/thumb/6/63/L28835.jpg/220px-L28835.jpg
― plax (ico), Saturday, 26 January 2019 15:38 (five years ago) link
<3 <3 <3 plax what will you do today?
― surm, Saturday, 26 January 2019 15:48 (five years ago) link
now that we've all met for virtual brunch, surm, can you start a winter '19 gay thread?
― Your sweetie-pie-coo-coo I love ya (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 26 January 2019 15:52 (five years ago) link
omg im stuck in a library writing an incredibly boring essay about the use of research evidence in public policy.
― plax (ico), Saturday, 26 January 2019 16:01 (five years ago) link
its raining.
I'm also in the library and it's raining.
― Your sweetie-pie-coo-coo I love ya (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 26 January 2019 16:05 (five years ago) link
I'm Also in the Library and It's Raining: WINTER 2018/2019 GAY THREAD
― Your sweetie-pie-coo-coo I love ya (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 26 January 2019 16:06 (five years ago) link