"virginity" poll moved to ILTMI?

I'm not really protesting. I'm just curious to know why this thread was moved. I decided to start it after seeing the "How many sexual parners..." and the "Have you paid for sex?" threads in ILE, and thought it was an interesting related question... is there anything more personal offensive or offensive about it? Thanks.

i didn't move it, but i concur with whoever moved it as being more ILTMI appropriate. it's got nothing really to do with offensiveness that i can see.

speaking for myself only i'm finding this latest trend of polls revolting on a personal level but that's neither here nor there from a modding POV

OK, I agree, but then why are the other two threads I mention appropriate for ILE?

i didn't move it either, but i support the move. iltmi was created for topics such as these. i'd be happy to move the others as well if consistency is what you crave.

I don't care, I was just wondering if there was something more inappropriate about this one? Well I do care, I was genuinely interested in the POLL results and I don't think many people are gonna vote now, but no big deal really...

it's like training a dog. once they realize their food dish has been moved to another place, they will adapt. but i believe that board was created by user request so that polls/threads of this nature could have a home where tmi could be discussed willy nilly, so why not move them to an appropriate board?

and furthermore, as abbott mentioned last night, some people don't want this sort of thread on their site new answers at work, so if they choose to leave iltmi off their site new answers, it helps to put this kind of thread there.

OK, makes sense to me too. I was unaware of the existence of ILTMI until today, that's why I decided to post it on ILE.

we all know ilx is 80% virgins, no poll necessary

avuenjo is a saucy one!

they seem to have confused us with something awful

I don't really think every sex-related thread should be automatically moved to ILTMI, otherwise it would be flooded by them. ILE had a lot of sex threads in the past, and I haven't seen that many complaints about them, I'm sure most folks are perfectly fine with them. I can't imagine a relatively innocent thread like "How many sex partners you've had?" really offending anyone on ILE, as far as I know no there's no TMI content in that thread. I think only threads that might be considered too icky or controversial should be moved to ILTMI, otherwise keep it as it is.

then what should ILTMI be used for then?

whilst your opinion is always fascinating tuomas, mods will continue using their discretion to make decisions on a case-by-case basis

xpost

For threads with Too Much Information, obviously. For example, "Have you tasted yourself?" = a subject that could be considered icky by many folks, so you should post that to ILTMI (as Abbott did). "How many sex partners have yo had?" = not really an icky question, no reason why it shouldn't be on ILE if that's where it was posted.

(x-post)

whilst your opinion is always fascinating tuomas, mods will continue using their discretion to make decisions on a case-by-case basis

Sure, but do the mods think all sex-related threads should be moved to ILTMI? Because I don't really see much TMI content in the virginity and sex partners threads.

http://www.phuckpolitics.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/01/i_want_you_to_shut_the_fuck_up.jpg

I think moving it to the TMI board would give people more license to discuss some of these questions more frankly. I guess the issue is if people perceive the TMI board as having some sort of stigma, which I don't.

ILTMI has VD - don't post there

Sarahel, I think those polls were started on ILE because the poll starters wanted to get a comprehensive number of votes. A lot more people read ILE than ILTMI.

yeah, that makes sense ... I use "site new answers" I didn't think of it that way.

uh the "how many ppl have you had sex w poll" got 155 votes

Yes, and it was on ILE. It wasn't moved to ILTMI until after the results had come in.

\(o_O)/

I Love Everything = EVERYTHING, not just what's in the bible.

It does seem really weird that the new crop of moderators seems to think that "I love everything" = "I love everything EXCEPT topics of a sexual nature".

some people don't want this sort of thread on their site new answers at work

best argument, and it's still not very good. i reckon that

# LORD OF THE RINGS poll (film version) [Started by "he said...all things passantino the night" (omar little) in July 2009, last updated 2 minutes ago by the shitbirdification of america's youth (cankles)] 107 new answers POLL closes: August 07 (in 1 week)
# "My client can kick a ball into a skip from quite far away" - English football off-season and transfer speculation thread 2009 [Started by Tits Bramble (Matt DC) in June 2009, last updated 3 minutes ago by Bobkate Goldtwat (darraghmac)] 265 new answers
# stuff white people like [Started by Tracer Hand in February 2008, last updated 9 minutes ago by the shitbirdification of america's youth (cankles)] 20 new answers
# What else could go wrong for David Cameron in the next 6 months? [Started by Dead Cat Bounce (Ed) in October 2008, last updated 16 minutes ago by joe] 3 new answers
# LOL this f***ing EXCELSIOR for christs sake [Started by HIS VAGINA IS MAKING HIM CRAVE SALAD. (HI DERE) in June 2009, last updated 18 minutes ago by General Pubic (Noodle Vague)] 31 new answers
# quiddities and agonies of the ruling class - a rolling new york times thread [Started by Tracer Hand in May 2009, last updated 21 minutes ago by James Mitchell] 176 new answers

is not gonna look too impressive to anyone's boss.

Yeah, repeated HIS VAGINA IS MAKING HIM CRAVE SALAD. (HI DERE) all over new answers doesn't bode well for anyone's work viewing experience.

hey guys some people just don't like seeing you weirdos talk about your sex lives

those threads make me uncomfortable because i am repressed, and there is a board on which they are explicitly on topic.

pretty much the only board which people ignore and use ILE instead is ILF, and that's just because the film crew are sociopaths. Nothing wrong with ILTMI.

actually there is little cricket discussion on ILC but that is because ILC has actually become better than cricket o_O

After reading that statement, I'm going to ban you permanently from The Cape.

...in some ways

when it comes to pwning australians, cricket does a far better job than I or any ILC mod possibly could

That does it. You're banned for life. You're finished, Englander.

It does seem really weird that the new crop of moderators seems to think that "I love everything" = "I love everything EXCEPT topics of a sexual nature".

― Masonic Boom, Friday, July 24, 2009 12:51 PM (25 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

this might have more to do with your recent creation of a board for topics of a sexual nature rather than the new crop of moderators.

hey guys some people just don't like seeing you weirdos talk about your sex lives

If there are threads called "At what age did you lose your virginity?" or "How many sex partners have you had?", you should probably know sort of discussion they contain, so don't click on them. The argument that these threads make people uncomfortable is pretty weird, because no one's forcing anyone to read them. Personally, I don't much care for sports, but I still don't think all sports thread should be banished to a special "I Love Sports" board. I think it's good that ILE has a wide variety of different thread topics at any time.

ILX is on tenterhooks...how long before KBP bans the other 4 people who post to his board? And then prances about, king of the castle style, posting about Adelaide's great sporting teams?

The team I support in Aussie Rules is based in Melbourne, so you are WAY OFF.

People should probably be able to put their icky threads where they like, for the most part, but it's not exactly surprising that we get a run on "lol sex" polls and somebody decides to put them in the special cupboard that was built for them.

this might have more to do with your recent creation of a board for topics of a sexual nature rather than the new crop of moderators.

The board is not called "I Love Sex" but "I Love TMI". It was supposed to be a board for the sort of discussion that many people consider too icky/graphic/personal, not a board for all sex-related threads, no matter how innocent/nonpersonal/nongraphic they are.

Just to make it clear, I have nothing against the mods, and so far there's only been a handful of thread relocations. I'm merely hoping this doesn't become a new policy that covers all sex-related threads.

Well, remember to bump that Phil Hughes thread I started with an appropriate RIP jpg. Because I can't do that for you now.

xp, i think a lot of people consider sex-related threads too icky/graphic/personal. do you see?

You know what Australia needs to do? Take Phil Hughes out, put David Warner in the TEST side. That'll get your kids back to your Test cricket, even more than Roy and buckets of KFC ever could. (xpost)

Well, at the moment there's a thread called "Jeremiah Birthday Sex" in ILM, should that be moved to ILTMI too because it has the word "sex"?

I would assume that people who find all sex threads icky/graphic/personal are wise enough not to read them.

(x-post)

i don't care.

I'm loving this interlocked discussion. I think Australia should put more graphic sex in their Test team as well, would really get the young folks watching, screw yer David Warner or yer Cameron "I used to bowl" White

Really don't want to see Ponting's pasty hobbit-arse heaving up and down in the middle of Edgbaston kthx

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Tuomas says it's okay to let this one fall off of the Site New Answers page.

since sunday:

# At what age did you lose your virginity? [Started by touch my bum / this is life (daavid) in July 2009, last updated 55 minutes ago by Bobkate Goldtwat (darraghmac)] 33 new answers POLL closes: July 30 (in 5 days)
# how many people have you had sex with? [Started by Zeno in July 2009, last updated 13 hours ago by actually a decent question y'all fucked up with ironic bullshit answer (sarahel)] 153 new answers POLL results
# have you ever paid for sex? [Started by Zeno in July 2009, last updated Yesterday by la belle dame sans serif (c sharp major)] 30 new answers POLL closes: July 30 (in 5 days)
# TMI Poll I: Have you ever tasted yourself? [Started by "lol" as frivolity (Stevie D) in July 2009, last updated Yesterday by Beanbag the Gardener (WmC)] 41 new answers POLL closes: July 28 (in 3 days)
# what do you tend to prefer masturbating over? [Started by titchy (titchyschneiderMk2) in July 2009, last updated 5 days ago by titchy (titchyschneiderMk2)] POLL closes: July 30 (in 5 days)

can you comprehend that a lot of us might find this to be a bit much?

Too much what?

ok nevermind

I think the main issue here is the fact the the thread starter didn't ask for the thread to be moved. I think there's mitigating circumstances in the fact that the poll was moved after the results came in, so it wasn't as if the audience was limited during the voting period.

In general, we avoid moving threads unless the creator asks for them to be moved. There are times when mods will use their discretion to move a thread to a board where it makes more "sense"; this isn't a frequent occurrence and shouldn't be expected every time a thread pops up in an unexpected location, but it may happen from time to time. The timing around this, right after a series of contentious poster/moderator interactions over threads of a similar nature, is what is causing consternation here. We don't intend to nanny every thread onto an appropriate sub-board.

I'm not going to lock the thread since people are still talking but from a mod standpoint I think we're set with this issue.

too much information

Yeah, but there's been probably something like 400 different threads on ILE new answers since Sunday, so the 4 threads (the "tasted yourself" thread was never on ILE) are maybe 1% of all threads.

(x-post to Destroyer)

the idea that the 'thread starter' needs to ask for them to be moved is a bit moot in this situation, imo. it's more an issue of someone not realizing it should have gone on a different board and kind mods stepping in to show them the way.

I want you ...show me the way

tbqh i find the "we just want the most people to vote so we can get a better sample" position a bit disingenuous since, y'know, the results of an anonymous internet poll are useful for exactly nothing.

the 4 threads listed are all the sex related polls, i think there were more non poll ones as well (including the "hookers" one i locked)

I think there's mitigating circumstances in the fact that the poll was moved after the results came in, so it wasn't as if the audience was limited during the voting period.

― Lisa Simpson = a fictional bitch (HI DERE), Friday, July 24, 2009 7:52 PM (14 seconds ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

Er, no, actually the thread was moved almost immediately after I started it, poll ends in 4 days.

But I don't really care that much, it is still getting quite a few replies in ILTMI and that's what I wanted, and I also think Abbot's point makes sense.

Okay I'm stupid then, I thought it had ended! Idiot Dan.

I remember after the 2004 and 2008 American presidential elections every other thread on ILE was about the election. I'm sure that was kinda irritating to many non-American posters, but does that mean they should've been moved to a "I Love Elections" board?

(x-post to Jjjusten)

bush is a sexual term

yes

tuomas, it's not a tomato tomahhhto thing, here. that's like saying the bbc shouldn't talk about american elections because the anchors also don't talk about tasting their own semen on air.

I mean, sometimes ILE simply goes throught phrases were people post similarly-themed threads inspired by previous threads. Usually these sort of waves wane off after a few days, so I don't think they require any special modding, unless they turn into trolling.

(xxx-post)

I mean, sometimes this one poster simply goes throught phrases were he post similarly-themed posts inspired by his previous posts. Usually these sort of waves wane off never, so I think he requires special modding, as he is trolling.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

uh tuomas xpost to me why? i think you are assuming ive been moving these threads - i havent.

john that hookers thread was hilarious

tuomas in willfully oblivious shocker

john lee hooker--awesome dude

we were on track for a whole day of prostitution-themed parody threads

uh tuomas xpost to me why? i think you are assuming ive been moving these threads - i havent.

I was just responding to your comment upthread that there were other sex-related threads on ILE new answers besides the polls, I didn't think you moved the threads or anything.

i am merely an impartial source of information, like the internet

Okay, sorry.

Mods would probably be more likely to move threads about American politics to an I Love Elections/I Love Politics board if one existed. Since one doesn't exist, there isn't any point to the hypothetical question.

I don't know why this is generating so much conversation considering the poster who created the thread and the moderator who moved it have both posted stating that they see eye to eye on what happened.

i know why

when the zing crew weren't allowed decide for everybody else which zings were too zingy, then it's consistent that the TMI crew aren't allowed to decide for everybody else what TMI is too TMI-y.

― Bobkate Goldtwat (darraghmac), Friday, July 24, 2009 2:54 PM (1 hour ago)

great post

those threads make me uncomfortable because i am repressed, and there is a board on which they are explicitly on topic.

pretty much the only board which people ignore and use ILE instead is ILF, and that's just because the film crew are sociopaths. Nothing wrong with ILTMI.

― caek, Friday, July 24, 2009 1:09 PM (Yesterday)

this is so tru, <3 u film challopers tho

I don't really see much TMI content in the virginity and sex partners threads.

― Tuomas, Friday, July 24, 2009 4:03 AM (1 week ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

Yeah, you're probably the last dude we'd use as the scale here.

worst fucking board. make it hidden invite-only already u embarrassing loosers

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Be happy you didn't get temp-banned.

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Hope you're happy that that was your last ILTMI post.

make it hidden invite-only already

looks like it wasnt his last tmi post

Keep it up and you'll lose IMP! access as well.

Why? No one's forcing anyone to read the threads, and since they're on board called "I Love TMI", their content should come as no shock to anyone.

(x-post to Dr. Phil)

Tumoas, he's being a dick for absolutely no reason. He is trolling for responses. Stop encouraging him.

Ok. Thanks for banning him from ILTMI.

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