tipping

wait the server pays who in the what to where now? to backroom staff and the like? that's nonsense. they should get a cut of tips made, not a set amount based on nominal assumed tips.

*sigh*rish

well tbh i did think they got a cut of the tips originally, i take back my sigh

but even if it does work like that, and the service is so bad you don't tip (and remember we're kinda digressing here to the stage where you'd have to remember that most people on the thread would tip well usually) then in effect the server has lost the backroom staff that money, so..............

also maria i think you should still tip $2 for the first beer and $1 for each beer afterwards and if the booze is that cheap you should get buybacks every couple beers!

For the love of God, not this again.

You can't base anything on actual tips made - how can you verify that it's true? Oftentimes waiters aren't entirely sure what they made - 'keep the change,' your tips/bank get mixed with whatever cash you've got on you anyway, etc..

In some restaurants, tipping out is voluntary (bar aside) and basically just gets you good service from the busboys. But that's less common (IME) than the chain restaurant model of using a percentage of gross sales at the end of the night to pay part of the staff.

End of the night at your average restaurant, whether it's Applebees or a nice steakhouse runs something like:
Claim 10% of your cash sales as tips, all of your credit card tips (traceable)
Pay ~3.5% of your total sales to the hostess/busboy (they get paid on their checks from this), pay a percentage of your liquor sales to the service bartender
Turn in however much cash your total sales were plus tip out, minus credit card tips.
What you have left over is how much you made for the evening.

but even if it does work like that, and the service is so bad you don't tip (and remember we're kinda digressing here to the stage where you'd have to remember that most people on the thread would tip well usually) then in effect the server has lost the backroom staff that money, so..............

in ireland, with restaurant prices the way they are, that's not ungenerous i think.

^^^ if anyone doubts this, I once paid 55 US dollars for two burgers, two fries, 1 can of coke and a half-pint of lager in Ireland

Even if you get a buyback that ends up saving you a buck or two (cost of the beer minus the extra tip you've given), it's an intrinsically risky game. I'd rather tip $1 a drink and know what I'm getting than tip $2 a drink and cross my fingers that this will work out to a free drink sometime down the road. (The idea behind the buyback also seems to assume you're at a bar where there's only one bartender, and that bartender remembers who you are every time you order a drink.)

Note: I have not read any of this thread after Max's original post about buybacks, since it infuriated me.

milo four years of a business degree would obviously not qualify me as a waiter in the states- that just sounds like an insane fucking system.

irish food costs- insane. but getting better since everybody got fucked.

I have friends who go in expecting buybacks or hook-ups, but I always see that as a bonus. I drink as I would anywhere else and if I wind up getting free drinks I make up for it on the tip and we all come out ahead.

since i moved in the summer it's been nice becoming a regular at like, three local eating/drinking establishments. now i enjoy the benefits of heavy-handed whiskey pours, free bbq, free beer while i wait for my burger, and free deserts and appetizers. this is all because i am a good tipper imo.

I am in a country where tipping for drinks pretty much doesn't exist (in circumstances of extreme goodwill you can offer to buy the guy a drink, but I have basically never done this, offered like twice, turned down each time) and get the benefits of extremely heavy-handed shot pouring and "oh hey we'll throw that in" from being a non-tipping regular also, btw

don't really want to say "oh, tips are bad" or whatever, but don't worry that these things would stop existing if you didn't have to tip

Now I have read the rest of the thread, and I am glad to see that other people do $1 a drink and don't bother with buybacks.

I guess I'm not a regular anywhere, though. Even though I have favorite bars and restaurants, I like to mix it up. Chicago's a big city.

Yeah, I think being treated like that is less about tipping and way more about just being nice to the staff as a regular.

barstaff in ireland are very well paid for the service industry- higher than waiters, FWIW- i've never heard of anyone ever tipping a barman here.

i have never been paid more than minimum wage working in a bar in ireland fwiw

nor have any of my friends

i think if states made it so waitstaff got paid minimum wage it might kinda suck for them because people would routinely not tip and they would make a lot less

yeah i think this is one of the major reasons it doesn't change, servers as well as owners make more the way it is. all the waitresses i'm been friends with have always made 2-3 times the minimum wage per hour, so as a person who's used to living on or close to the minimum wage, my concern about tipping is wholly out of concern for my own image rather than their potential starvation.

outside of all the monetary whatevers, i think tipping is one of those cool archaic customs thats a really enjoyable historic throwback. it would suck to go to a no tipping system imo.

yeah, tipping is nice. i don't tip $2 on every drink every time, or even on a single drink whne i go out, but if the bartender is attentive & friendly then they deserve a few bucks imo. FWIW i have a lot of friends who are bartenders, and my sister is a bartender, so I am hyper-conscious of tipping well. cuz a bartender's job kinda sucks, in as much as they have to hang out with a bunch of drunk assholes all the time.

i have never been paid more than minimum wage working in a bar in ireland fwiw

― plaxico (I know, right?), Wednesday, 20 January 2010 23:23 (10 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

nor have any of my friends

― plaxico (I know, right?), Wednesday, 20 January 2010 23:23 (10 minutes ago) Bookmark

:O anyone i know that did barstaff would have earned 50% more than i did in tesco's/kitchen staff. not taking into account late nights etc. the tight galway hoors, huh?

and limerick

one of my mates tried working behind a bar in limerick, just over the north side of the river- lasted a week. working 6 years behind the biggest IRA bar in the west didn't even give him an inkling. they had to replace the metal grilles on the windows (let alone the glass) twice in that time.

im tryna figure out where u mean

lying if i said i remember the name of the street/pub, but it was literally the first right after you get over the river heading for galway- down that way a few minutes.

you're going in the galway direction?

arah wherever, thanks. sure isn't it better than walking it? d'you mind if i smoke?

uh yeah just over the bridge that takes you on the galway road.

the only place i can think of is really not rough at all unless you mean up near thomond

nope, not up that far at all iirc (i may not tbh, never spent much time in limerick city itself)

Even if you get a buyback that ends up saving you a buck or two (cost of the beer minus the extra tip you've given), it's an intrinsically risky game. I'd rather tip $1 a drink and know what I'm getting than tip $2 a drink and cross my fingers that this will work out to a free drink sometime down the road. (The idea behind the buyback also seems to assume you're at a bar where there's only one bartender, and that bartender remembers who you are every time you order a drink.)

Note: I have not read any of this thread after Max's original post about buybacks, since it infuriated me.

― Hoisin Murphy (jaymc), Wednesday, January 20, 2010 6:12 PM (58 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

j i never meant to infuriate you! its just an extra dollar!

i didnt say $2 a drink!!

i think people are misinterpreting my post

$2 on the first drink, $1 thereafter

so--an extra dollar over the course of the evening

i just want to pop in and say that i now make it regular practice to tip extra big on the first drink, for good luck

― you have to forgive me (surm), Wednesday, January 20, 2010 2:19 PM (50 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

$2 on the first beer always!

― max, Wednesday, January 20, 2010 3:10 PM (4 hours ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

also maria i think you should still tip $2 for the first beer and $1 for each beer afterwards and if the booze is that cheap you should get buybacks every couple beers!

i interpreted it correctly but i like to pay the same every time, i like consistency

anyway the opening $2 was unrelated to the buyback thing anyway--i just do it out of habit--i was encouraging maria to do it and saying that she should be getting buybacks at $2.50 a beer so who cares about the extra dollar

i was drinking in a pretty seedy bar in mass. when i was over there, and my dad was trying to explain buybacks and stuff, but tbh i was so gobsmacked at the size of the shots i was getting that getting a free one at some stage would just have seemed ridculous.

anyway buybacks are one of those fun topics that generates as much anger as tipping does

i tip white servers less btw

I'M KIDDING I'M KIDDING

Buyback is just a free drink right? I don't think I've ever gotten one (aside from when a friend is working the bar, in which case they get BIG TIPS).

Max, I was half-kidding! I wasn't really infuriated. But I have been known to become impatient in the past when folks like Laurel or chicago kevin have advocated for the buyback, which was usually explained to me as $2 per drink.

they aren't real

I need to find new bars.

buyback seemed like a very logical system to create goodwill where there was no actual monetary difference, if you like that sort of thing. i suppose it keeps the average drinker in the bar longer?

yeah thats never been my experience. $2 on the first drink, $1 thereafter (IN MY EXPERIENCE) gets you a beer every 4 drinks or so at 75% of bars. but id tip that way anyway!

i think it is kind of a NYC thing. i only got buybacks in LA at a couple bars.

A buyback is a way of convincing an alcoholic he's actually saving money by drinking.

― Bay-L.A. Bar Talk (Hurting 2), Tuesday, November 24, 2009 12:18 PM (1 month ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink