quiddities and agonies of the ruling class - a rolling new york times thread

They get their education wholesale, from an indifferent bureaucracy; it’s not handed to them in individually wrapped packages by smiling clerks.

ohhhhhhh brother plz

the other reason why ivy kids can't talk to normal people is because most of them are borderline aspies who were like that well before they ever went to college!

i think this has a kernel of truth, in some disciplines more than others. but i also think it has something to do with age. most people get a lot better about it as they get older and just wind up becoming more comfortable with talking to more people in life. it's just kind of a life skill combining "be friendly and courteous" with "pay attention to what's going on around you."

also, i am definitely dropping out of grad school if i ever get to a point where i am dividing the world into "ivy leaguers" and "normal people."

“So are you saying that we’re all just, like, really excellent sheep?”

is this where niles crane excitedly flusters and announces that we may just have experienced a breakthrough, a necessary epiphany?

the other reason why ivy kids can't talk to normal people is because most of them are borderline aspies who were like that well before they ever went to college!

hellllo, gabbneb!!!

If they make it illegal to serve egg-white drinks, that would be Hurricane Katrina for us

i feel cheated that the author abandons his faux noir paperback tone somewhere in the third paragraph

Haha. Okay I made it to the end, and I have to say this part seems valid? I mean hell I just had some pretty shit-poor Hollandaise sauce a couple of weeks ago (I should have known better but I was jonesing for Benedict) and no one warned me that it contained raw eggs, and in that case it probably should have come in 22-pt type.

Bartenders are also asking why the city was concerned about bars and not restaurants, where raw-egg staples include hollandaise sauce, mayonnaise, Caesar salad and ice cream. “They use raw eggs in béarnaise sauce and steak tartare,” Ms. Saunders said. “Is it that they think chefs are O.K., but bartenders don’t know what they’re doing?”

Baaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrfffffffffff

(at the comparison, not at drinks made w/ egg whites, which are a-ok with me.)

Eggs aren't raw in a hollandaise, just not cooked very much.

tbf i think most people will realize that steak tartare contains raw egg given that it is served with a big honking raw egg right in the middle of it

that makes me wonder how long it will be before we see an article about ppl willfully depriving themselves of one of their senses

http://www.nytimes.com/2010/02/09/nyregion/09bigcity.html

http://www.nytimes.com/2010/02/07/fashion/07campus.html?em

this isn't specifically about the ruling class but...

As for a man’s cheating, “that’s a thing that girls let slide, because you have to,” said Emily Kennard, a junior at North Carolina. “If you don’t let it slide, you don’t have a boyfriend.”

Since that is not her style, Ms. Deray said, she has still not had a long-term relationship in college. As a fashion merchandising major, she said, she can only hope the odds improve when she graduates and moves to New York.

Good luck with that!

Sidenote: since when is 55% some kind of overwhelming majority that makes it impossible to ever date someone? It's barely above even, for pete's sake.

I'm glad that Emily Kennard has her priorities in order.

So let's see... per the NYT, lesbians are non-existent and all women go to college for the MRS. Got it.

As for a man’s cheating, “that’s a thing that girls let slide, because you have to,” said Emily Kennard, a junior at North Carolina. “If you don’t let it slide, you don’t have a boyfriend.”

haven't read the article, but this stands out for me cuz: recent conversations with a younger friend of mine (who's now crashing at my house due to ~lady troubles~) would anecdotally suggest that casual infidelity is, like, a thing. at least in some social circles? he doesn't condone it (nor is it why he's on my couch), but he's like "yeah, loads of my friends have drunkenly cheated on their SOs but, aside from a few blowouts, most of them are still together"

i'm no prude, and if ppl are into polyamory or w/e that's cool, but i'm genuinely sorta surprised at this? btw the cheating was 50/50, w/r/t the gender of the cheater.

Gay ppl do not exist outside of stories exclusively about gay ppl, get with the program.

xp

interviewing college kids about relationships always makes for a+++++++++ hilarious articles

lol @ a "fashion merchandising major" complaining abt not meeting a lot of guys @ college

he doesn't condone it (nor is it why he's on my couch), but he's like "yeah, loads of my friends have drunkenly cheated on their SOs but, aside from a few blowouts, most of them are still together"

this is roughly true of my social circle i think? at least the idea that one-off cheating isnt enuff to break-up a relationship

I like how not one girl they photographed matches their lead - "they slip on tight-fitting tops, hair sculpted, makeup just so."

http://graphics8.nytimes.com/packages/images/photo/2010/02/07/CAMPUS0207/33149833.JPG

"allll mine"

Jayne Dallas, a senior studying advertising who was seated across the table, grumbled that the population of male undergraduates was even smaller when you looked at it as a dating pool. “Out of that 40 percent, there are maybe 20 percent that we would consider, and out of those 20, 10 have girlfriends, so all the girls are fighting over that other 10 percent,” she said.

Perhaps the girls should lower their standards or try dating someone who's not a student?

http://graphics8.nytimes.com/packages/images/photo/2010/02/07/CAMPUS0207/33091918.JPG

why can't these girls find dates????

it's esp awkward cuz at least one of these known (and repeat offender) cheats routinely gets a little too frisky w/me at parties, but her boyfriend just kinda keeps his distance, looking glum. siren.gif

(btw frisky here just means like obv drunk and flirty, no funny business)

If any of these girls is considering spending more time with Mr. Expos Cap & Kerchief here, they deserve everything they get.

http://graphics8.nytimes.com/images/2010/02/07/fashion/07campusspan-1/07campusspan-1-articleLarge.jpg

college dudes only dating chicks w/ real majors

xp - It's nice that Vice Magazine finally made it to North Carolina.

He's asking them if they've ever seen this hilarious thing called Dos and Don'ts.

would anecdotally suggest that casual infidelity is, like, a thing. at least in some social circles?

I don't think this is "a thing" as in a trend that might, say, make it's way to the fashion and style section of the NYT so much as just how some people act sometimes.

Gay ppl do not exist outside of stories exclusively about gay ppl, get with the program.

We'd better take this discussion to the gay thread.

i meant more like a thing that's OK and common practice with some ppl

dunno where else to put this so here's as good a place as any ... gail collins sons david brooks in a Congressional gridlock beef (see first three paragraphs)

gail collins playfully tosses cashews at david brooks as rome burns

hater

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lol didnt mean to post that twice

BUT IM GLAD IT DID

Femivores

AAUUUUUUUUGGGHHHHh

E's response was "Who are they trying to kid? they are just trying to strap politics to being a pre-60s housewife"

how quaint

Seriously

Conventional feminist wisdom held that two incomes were necessary to provide a family’s basic needs

Never mind inflation, stagnating wages and rising house prices

It's all just a matter of philosophy, you see

She has a couple of friends (or friends of friends) who have decided to keep a couple of chickens - so she interviews a female farmer - deliberately equates the two - is this 600 words yet?

As I rustled up a quick dinner of whole-wheat quesadillas and frozen organic peas, I found my thoughts drifting back to our conversation, to the questions she raised about the nature of success, satisfaction, sustenance (continues)

where are the "stay-at-home dads" to make this slightly more convincing

"femivore"? what the hell

a person who eats women duh

read it as fernivore at first, though that might be taking Nutrition Nazism a bit far

http://www.firebaugh.com/FDA/Courses/CS.120/Week.13/Lect25.www/FernGully1.JPG