People Who Live In Suburbs: Classy, Icky, or Dudes?

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Well, nearly.

kkvgz, Monday, 14 June 2010 19:13 (thirteen years ago) link

the nevada one is is just ;_;

goole, Monday, 14 June 2010 19:14 (thirteen years ago) link

these are awesome

stfü (crüt), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 00:22 (thirteen years ago) link

so if cars ran on solar power, you'd have no problem with suburbs y/n?

hope this helps (Granny Dainger), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 01:01 (thirteen years ago) link

oil's not the only thing that gets overconsumed in sprawl + not having to pay for gas would promote sprawl. everything else held constant, yeah, it'd be fantastic if cars ran on solar power.

iatee, Tuesday, 15 June 2010 02:17 (thirteen years ago) link

lots and lots of people don't want to live crowded amongst lots and lots of other people. you're either going to have sprawl or a shitload of people in your lovely city who hate their city lives. but i guess they should just sacrifice their selfish desires for the good of society. bleep blop end report.

hope this helps (Granny Dainger), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 03:21 (thirteen years ago) link

nah man you're totally right, nobody should ever "sacrifice their selfish desires for the good of society"...can't imagine the misery...

iatee, Tuesday, 15 June 2010 04:48 (thirteen years ago) link

Read or scanned most of this, I wanted to throw in a couple of thoughts.

Houston is as spread out and suburb based as a city can geographically be. I'm okay with growing up in the suburbs and living as an adult in the inner city. Our inner city might qualify as suburban in some north east or older Midwestern cities.

Lawns here are over-watered and over-fertilized, but done organically and correctly are an important defenses against urban heat-sink and run-off pollution.

The outer areas are having increasing traditionally inner city issues as reverse suburban flight patterns cycle.

We use more electricity as indicated in an above graph, partially because of selfishness, but mostly because of climate and low reliance on gas for heat.

Public transportation is not a universal choice, mostly used by the incredibly spread out poor and the urban middle class or suburban middle class park-and-riders.

Efforts towards sustainable living or efficient use of resources are slow to be adapted and met with resistance, but light rail, and lawn clipping recycling are ultimately dictated by the powers that be, not man on the street opinion.

We pay some of the highest water and electric rates in the country despite being the center of the energy manipulation industry and flooding from rain. But the living is easy.

Zachary Taylor, Tuesday, 15 June 2010 06:17 (thirteen years ago) link

lots and lots of people don't want to live crowded amongst lots and lots of other people. you're either going to have sprawl or a shitload of people in your lovely city who hate their city lives. but i guess they should just sacrifice their selfish desires for the good of society. bleep blop end report.

― hope this helps (Granny Dainger),

this is actually a point I want to touch on tangentially, earlier.

Wondering if a fair proportion of people who've moved to suburbia, what they actually wanted was to move to a small town or the countryside. The thing with sprawl, in this regard, is that in a way..moving away from the city is kind of bringing the city with them?

cherry blossom, Tuesday, 15 June 2010 09:16 (thirteen years ago) link

not sharing walls with neighbors has been reason #1 why my parents have moved, tbh.

an indie-rock microgenre (dyao), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 09:16 (thirteen years ago) link

even now they complain about our neighbors across the street who get rowdy when the phillies win. thinking maybe they would like to move to a cabin in the woods.

an indie-rock microgenre (dyao), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 09:17 (thirteen years ago) link

I had an interesting conversation about this stuff a while ago with my dad and his fiancee, who are kind of fascinated by the fact that their children have all chosen to live in the city and have little interest in living in suburbia. In their generation, the city, with its crowded housing and lower-class ethnic and immigrant populations, was a place to escape from, and owning a house in the suburbs was a sign of "making it" (or at least to a greater extent than it is now). Whereas for us, the city is an exciting urban adventure compared to the stultifying homogeneity of where we grew up.

Of course, the gentrification of many city neighborhoods has also made an urban lifestyle safer and more attractive for many would-be suburbanites. I'd also note that with our generation starting families later and later, even those people who like the suburbs for the schools might still live in the city for 10-15 years after college, rather than moving to suburbia right away.

jaymc, Tuesday, 15 June 2010 13:21 (thirteen years ago) link

Efforts towards sustainable living or efficient use of resources are slow to be adapted and met with resistance, but light rail, and lawn clipping recycling are ultimately dictated by the powers that be, not man on the street opinion.

Light rail depends on people willing to tax themselves to pay for it and this same man on the street votes (either indirectly but often directly) for or against this. Its eventual success and expansion depends on his willingness to use it. 'The powers that be' can make the process easier or harder, but at the end of the day the man on the street generally gets what he wants.

iatee, Tuesday, 15 June 2010 14:42 (thirteen years ago) link

nah man you're totally right, nobody should ever "sacrifice their selfish desires for the good of society"...can't imagine the misery...

So you ARE a robot. What are you sacrificing?

hope this helps (Granny Dainger), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 14:55 (thirteen years ago) link

Personally I'm sacrificing my abiding desire to stab people who piss me off on public transit. It's sad, but I have molded myself into the socially acceptable form of a "person who wants to live in society". I know, the misery is incalculable, I feel I have lost a part of myself but what can you do?

the soul of the avocado escapes as soon as you open it (Laurel), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 15:18 (thirteen years ago) link

It's funny to me how people who like to get on a high horse about sacrificing for the good of society have no qualms about taking a cold, dispassionate view of the people who constitute a society. Throughout history, I think you'll find that this sort of coerced social engineering winds up doing more harm than good. I don't know if it's always been the case, but anti-suburban people seem to have a punitive bent to them. "Make them pay for their externalities! They need to sacrifice! They've been living free and easy far too long!". I can see where that emotion comes from, but it turns a blind eye to the fact that there was no conscious plot that surburbanites signed on to. Although you can point to political reasons, those are rooted in a primeval human desire to not hear your annoying neighbors celebrate a Phillies win.

hope this helps (Granny Dainger), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 16:36 (thirteen years ago) link

there was no conscious plot that surburbanites signed on to.

yes there was

goole, Tuesday, 15 June 2010 16:37 (thirteen years ago) link

Except that suburbs are unsustainable, Granny. The whole American exceptionalist position throughout the second half of the 20th Century and beginning of the 21st (see Las Vegas, for example) has been based on assumptions which are highly suspect over the long run.

If the US had a dictator we'd call him coach (Michael White), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 16:40 (thirteen years ago) link

those are rooted in a primeval human desire to not hear your annoying neighbors celebrate a Phillies win.

I cannot believe this is "primeval" or inherent to humanity. A lot of people throughout history have lived in far closer-knit communities with scads less privacy than we moderns (particularly Americans?) consider normal. I've directly addressed the whole "impinged on by others" thing a few different times itt, so please stop glossing over it like it's natural to feel that no other human beings should be detectable from within the boundaries of your residence/property.

the soul of the avocado escapes as soon as you open it (Laurel), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 16:42 (thirteen years ago) link

yeah tbh my parents kinda have an "us vs them" immigrant mentality, they're not exactly anchor points of the community

an indie-rock microgenre (dyao), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 16:43 (thirteen years ago) link

Also my patience with that kind of thing is short b/c I just ushered my parents around NYC for two days and like I know it's loud here but racist remarks about kids/people in public places are simply unacceptable. No, it's not fair that you have to listen to their noise but otoh you're the one who went out in public and you don't have the right to decide how everyone else should act, so get the hell over it and find your happy place.

the soul of the avocado escapes as soon as you open it (Laurel), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 16:44 (thirteen years ago) link

yes there was

really? i don't remember signing anything. pretty sure my parents and my grandparents didn't either

Except that suburbs are unsustainable, Granny

not saying they aren't, so not sure how this refutes anything I have actually said.

I thought tacking the Phillies thing onto a primeval desire would give it away as being tongue in cheek

hope this helps (Granny Dainger), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 16:45 (thirteen years ago) link

http://www.jstor.org/pss/273848?cookieSet=1

goole, Tuesday, 15 June 2010 16:47 (thirteen years ago) link

not on an academic connection dawg

an indie-rock microgenre (dyao), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 16:47 (thirteen years ago) link

neither am i! first page is enough

goole, Tuesday, 15 June 2010 16:47 (thirteen years ago) link

My post above might sound ironic coming from me b/c I can get incredibly angry at people who take up more than their aural/physical/psychic space in public but mostly with people who seem like they're daring you to take offense. When kids are happy and loud and not hurting anyone, you can cover your ears or move or w/e because science proves that no one can tolerate the screeching of 13-yr-old girls except other 13-y-o girls, but don't you DARE link it to their skin color.

the soul of the avocado escapes as soon as you open it (Laurel), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 16:48 (thirteen years ago) link

i don't remember signing anything. pretty sure my parents and my grandparents didn't either

Surely, you're being disingenuous. The bonds needed to put in services such as roads or sewers or schools, the changing of lot sizes, the house sale contracts w/precluded the buyer from re-selling to minorities, etc... The growth of suburbia from the 20's (minus the hiatus of the Great Depression and WWII) onward may not have been super coherent nationally, but it was certainly a socio-economic movement.

If the US had a dictator we'd call him coach (Michael White), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 16:59 (thirteen years ago) link

You're being way more disingenuous there. No one thought "oh hey let's structure these towns so they're totally unsustainable and inefficient and use up natural resources at an alarming rate, but it's okay since I don't want to live by noisy immigrant 13 yr old girls".

hope this helps (Granny Dainger), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 17:07 (thirteen years ago) link

Maybe the first part wasn't that specific, but the second part totes was.

the soul of the avocado escapes as soon as you open it (Laurel), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 17:08 (thirteen years ago) link

sounds accurate enough to me

goole, Tuesday, 15 June 2010 17:08 (thirteen years ago) link

by "no one thought" you meant "nobody said outloud" - right...

iatee, Tuesday, 15 June 2010 17:09 (thirteen years ago) link

So my family which contained noisy 13 yr old immigrant girls, wanted to move away from noisy 13 yr old immigrant girls??

hope this helps (Granny Dainger), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 17:09 (thirteen years ago) link

"oh hey let's structure these towns so they're totally unsustainable and inefficient

As I said above, the assumptions that were consciously or unconsciously made about energy and water and land resources were based on assumptions that have since proved to be erroneous or callous wrt the environment.

If the US had a dictator we'd call him coach (Michael White), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 17:10 (thirteen years ago) link

can't imagine anyone who would have a better reason

xp

iatee, Tuesday, 15 June 2010 17:10 (thirteen years ago) link

you keep wanting to reduce system-wide incentives to individual motivation, for some reason. nobody is a bad person for wanting a decent place to live.

goole, Tuesday, 15 June 2010 17:11 (thirteen years ago) link

Oh but hey, looks like you guys have found your scapegoat for all that's wrong with America, congrats.

xp Michael, again you're arguing against something I've never said, so don't know what to say to you.

hope this helps (Granny Dainger), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 17:11 (thirteen years ago) link

Hey, once moving to the burbs became cast in faux-finish stone as "achieving the American dream," of course people bought the whole thing without considering how it came to be. The point is how the first part happened.

the soul of the avocado escapes as soon as you open it (Laurel), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 17:12 (thirteen years ago) link

Minorities may have been tolerated in small numbers if they fit the middle class norm that prevailed.

Surely you can't argue that the great African-American migration from the South in the first half of the 20th Century had no impact on the subsequent rise of the suburb in America?

If the US had a dictator we'd call him coach (Michael White), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 17:13 (thirteen years ago) link

This thread is amazing. You could have threads about abortion or race or religion and people would get less butthurt!

contraceptive lipstick (askance johnson), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 17:14 (thirteen years ago) link

"since proved"

Key word there, "since". I think GD is just arguing that not every single suburban citizen ever in the history of the world went in to it looking to rape the environment and destroy our planet.

he's always been a bit of an anti-climb Max (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 17:14 (thirteen years ago) link

no shit?

goole, Tuesday, 15 June 2010 17:15 (thirteen years ago) link

I don't know what you want me to say, Michael. The suburbs weren't built on racism and most people there are racist? Will that work?

hope this helps (Granny Dainger), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 17:16 (thirteen years ago) link

suburbs WERE built, i meant

hope this helps (Granny Dainger), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 17:16 (thirteen years ago) link

jvc: And no one has said that they did, and in fact many posts have said that everyone knows that they DIDN'T, but there's a willful lack of comprehension happening around here. Maybe it's something in the water.

the soul of the avocado escapes as soon as you open it (Laurel), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 17:17 (thirteen years ago) link

Well consider how many twists and turns this thread has taken, kind of easy to understand how wires are getting crossed here.

he's always been a bit of an anti-climb Max (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 17:19 (thirteen years ago) link

I don't hate suburbs 'cause of their origins but I am very leery of the American tendency to see them as the default or natural 'American way' to live just as I am leery of 5% of the global population feeling entitled to use 25% of the Earth's resources.

GD, sorry if I'm coming across as a dick here but as a very white kid who lived amongst other white people who were often racist in various shitty suburbs or bits of sprawl (and also very nice suburbs filled with too much blithe self-regard), it's a touchy subject to me.

If the US had a dictator we'd call him coach (Michael White), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 17:21 (thirteen years ago) link

This may come as a shock but apparently there's a whole lot of racism in cities, too.

hope this helps (Granny Dainger), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 17:22 (thirteen years ago) link

Yes, but a hell of a lot less than there was 90 years ago.

If the US had a dictator we'd call him coach (Michael White), Tuesday, 15 June 2010 17:24 (thirteen years ago) link


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