recent study on people who were accepted to harvard/stanford/etc but chose state school instead found no diff in lifetime earnings and so forth, so you can send yr kid to a fancy private school so theyll get into a fancy college but w/e
― lag∞n, Tuesday, 14 February 2012 21:15 (twelve years ago) link
eh I think it depends on a case by case basis, there are definitely career-paths where going to a top college is either a huge leg up or the only way in the door. otoh if you're gonna be a dentist or something, really doesn't matter.
― iatee, Tuesday, 14 February 2012 21:17 (twelve years ago) link
thats cool great empirical study man
― lag∞n, Tuesday, 14 February 2012 21:18 (twelve years ago) link
I call it the dentist study
― iatee, Tuesday, 14 February 2012 21:18 (twelve years ago) link
― lag∞n, Tuesday, February 14, 2012 4:15 PM (1 minute ago) Bookmark
think about all the noogies you'll get when you show up at pine valley w/o an ivy league degree, the nerve
― http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s1tAYmMjLdY (dayo), Tuesday, 14 February 2012 21:18 (twelve years ago) link
i went to school once
― max, Tuesday, 14 February 2012 21:19 (twelve years ago) link
it was ok
max brb'd me on gchat and now I find him here
― iatee, Tuesday, 14 February 2012 21:19 (twelve years ago) link
how embarrassing
― iatee, Tuesday, 14 February 2012 21:20 (twelve years ago) link
entitlement issues imho
― lag∞n, Tuesday, 14 February 2012 21:20 (twelve years ago) link
i had to go buy an orange
― max, Tuesday, 14 February 2012 21:20 (twelve years ago) link
you can choose between sushi, a macrobiotic lunch, or an orange (which you have to buy)
― http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s1tAYmMjLdY (dayo), Tuesday, 14 February 2012 21:21 (twelve years ago) link
i like the school my kids go to. its small. doesn't cost 30k a year. people are friendly. thought it might be too crunchy for me, but its not. its well thought of around the country by educators. its a model of sorts. they teach kids how to be decent people. its not montessori. its not waldorf.
― scott seward, Tuesday, 14 February 2012 21:22 (twelve years ago) link
max put all that time and money into school and here he is buying a single orange like a schnook
― lag∞n, Tuesday, 14 February 2012 21:22 (twelve years ago) link
we had magnet schools that had some vocational classes and AP classes and "alternative" schools for kids who bombed out of the mainstream or were out of the traditional environment for other reasons
― valleys of your mind (mh), Tuesday, 14 February 2012 21:24 (twelve years ago) link
are Country Day schools rich-kid schools elsewhere in the country?
― Kiarostami bag (milo z), Tuesday, 14 February 2012 21:25 (twelve years ago) link
i went to a private school in an old mansion where u didnt have to do anything
― lag∞n, Tuesday, 14 February 2012 21:25 (twelve years ago) link
On an interesting note, I found a facebook group through a friend for parents of a Montessori-style school that is actually part of the local public school system and it seems like it's just full of parents who have way too many opinions about the teachers and administration. Like the overbearing members of a PTA gone haywire
― valleys of your mind (mh), Tuesday, 14 February 2012 21:26 (twelve years ago) link
mission statement for my kid's school:
The Greenfield Center School integrates a challenging curriculum with ethical decision-making to develop the skills and convictions for creating just communities.
The Center School promotes personal growth in an atmosphere of warmth and mutual respect. The school’s practices are built around an integration of social and academic learning. Children and adults form a vision of equitable and compassionate communities through active participation in their classroom, school, and the world beyond.
The Center School fosters a developmental approach to education, recognizing that children need a balance of physical, social, emotional, and intellectual learning. The school’s philosophy supports classroom communities in which individuals feel known and included. The curriculum is designed to engage participants in meaningful intellectual, academic, and creative endeavors.
Through critical engagement with their work and their world, students and teachers become informed, ethical problem solvers. The Center School's graduates are well prepared to excel in any academic setting. In addition, the school’s goal is that students emerge with the skills and inclinations to be reflective, empathetic, hopeful, and courageous citizens in the world.
― scott seward, Tuesday, 14 February 2012 21:27 (twelve years ago) link
i know, i know, hippies, but it's nice.
only goes up to the 8th grade though.
Honestly this is all relevant to my interests with a kid on the way and a wife who teaches in public schools. I have no idea what the fuck people do - it seems like unless you live in Park Slope, Brooklyn Heights, Carroll Gardens, the *good* public school options in Brooklyn are very limited, and even those, again, are often overbooked. So I guess there's Queens? I mean I don't need to send my daughter to the best elementary school in the city or anything, but I would like it to be an environment that feels safe with competent teachers and I would like her to not be the only white and/or jewish kid.
But it seems like the city is hellbent on closing publics and opening charters right now.
― happiness is the new productivity (Hurting 2), Tuesday, 14 February 2012 21:27 (twelve years ago) link
there are lots of good reasons to move to queens
― iatee, Tuesday, 14 February 2012 21:28 (twelve years ago) link
feel like hippies r good w/children
― lag∞n, Tuesday, 14 February 2012 21:28 (twelve years ago) link
I know it's tragic, having to move like .2 miles
I am seriously considering it!
― happiness is the new productivity (Hurting 2), Tuesday, 14 February 2012 21:30 (twelve years ago) link
and they aren't even really hippies. or new age-y either. its just when people are positive and talk about fairness i instinctively put up my misanthropic hippie shield. i'm trying to be nicer though.
― scott seward, Tuesday, 14 February 2012 21:31 (twelve years ago) link
they sound more like commies than hippies
― iatee, Tuesday, 14 February 2012 21:32 (twelve years ago) link
its a fine line
― lag∞n, Tuesday, 14 February 2012 21:33 (twelve years ago) link
People are weird about who they trust their kids with these days.
Remember when it was just like, "Well, you're school age, let's go to the school and register you" in like August or whatever and you went to the school nearest your house (or second nearest, if the districts were drawn oddly) and you were assigned a teacher and ate the crappy cafeteria food and kicked overused balls around on the playground over recess?
― valleys of your mind (mh), Tuesday, 14 February 2012 21:35 (twelve years ago) link
There's one in a rich part of Detroit suburbs (Grosse Pointe??) that was my high school's tennis nemesis, iirc.
― one little aioli (Laurel), Tuesday, 14 February 2012 21:37 (twelve years ago) link
"tennis nemesis" is a wonderful turn of phrase
― http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s1tAYmMjLdY (dayo), Tuesday, 14 February 2012 21:37 (twelve years ago) link
reminds me of the store in LA called 'the merchant of tennis'
If kids grow up knowing it is important to treat others well, are willing to work and know how to solve problems, then they've been "raised right".
― Cosy Moments (Aimless), Tuesday, 14 February 2012 21:38 (twelve years ago) link
'right' into the hands of stalin
― iatee, Tuesday, 14 February 2012 21:40 (twelve years ago) link
exeter and philips academy & c. def give you a leg up in applying to elite schools, I mean who wouldn't turn down an exeter kid, can you even imagine
lol
― (_()_) (Lamp), Tuesday, 14 February 2012 23:56 (twelve years ago) link
lol I need to proofread :\
― http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s1tAYmMjLdY (dayo), Tuesday, 14 February 2012 23:58 (twelve years ago) link
http://www.brooklynpaper.com/stories/35/7/all_brooklynbabycinnos_2012_02_17_bk.html
― iatee, Wednesday, 15 February 2012 17:25 (twelve years ago) link
http://i.imgur.com/VRKKs.jpg
not nyt but give em a few days I guess
― iatee, Wednesday, 15 February 2012 17:29 (twelve years ago) link
lol some stylebeat reporter is getting an earful for missing the scoop I'm guessing
― happiness is the new productivity (Hurting 2), Wednesday, 15 February 2012 17:38 (twelve years ago) link
hey thats the coffee shop that i live next door to
― max, Wednesday, 15 February 2012 18:01 (twelve years ago) link
you should order one
― iatee, Wednesday, 15 February 2012 18:02 (twelve years ago) link
good opportunity for original reporting
― lag∞n, Wednesday, 15 February 2012 18:03 (twelve years ago) link
As an aside, I am beginning to wonder if there is some "Ye Olde Rustic Style Distressed Ceiling Company" somewhere in brooklyn catering to all of these shops to give them that same romantic rehabbed look.
― happiness is the new productivity (Hurting 2), Wednesday, 15 February 2012 18:03 (twelve years ago) link
dudes is this really new in NYC? london's been all about "babycinos" for like 5 years already. $2 is ridiculous though, here they're 50p. (not that i let my kids get them, they eat broth made from rusty nails and carrot leaves. and LIKE IT.)
― TracerHandVEVO (Tracer Hand), Wednesday, 15 February 2012 18:07 (twelve years ago) link
NYC is incredibly behind on coffee stuff in general.
― ENERGY FOOD (en i see kay), Wednesday, 15 February 2012 18:09 (twelve years ago) link
xp At least you know they're getting plenty of iron.
― one little aioli (Laurel), Wednesday, 15 February 2012 18:10 (twelve years ago) link
Contrary to popular belief, the revival of craft manufacturing isn’t just a fad for Brooklyn hipsters. (Woehrle resists the term. His beard is too short, he says.)
http://www.nytimes.com/2012/02/19/magazine/adam-davidson-craft-business.html
― I DIED, Thursday, 16 February 2012 02:27 (twelve years ago) link
http://i.imgur.com/Jk1I5.jpg
― ⚓ (gr8080), Thursday, 16 February 2012 05:01 (twelve years ago) link
I've had their jerky. It had szechuan peppercorns in it! good stuff.
― dan selzer, Thursday, 16 February 2012 05:12 (twelve years ago) link