should there be more tipping or less tipping

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eh people should probably pay their taxes

iatee, Thursday, 31 January 2013 23:50 (eleven years ago) link

what if we were like: "you can get paid the full value of your work but we will fire you and have an ipad robot do your job instead" OR "you can get paid shit and be grateful you have a job in 8% unemployment, serf," which do you think ppl would take?

Mordy, Thursday, 31 January 2013 23:50 (eleven years ago) link

http://i.imgur.com/ghKbViy.jpg

❏❐❑❒ (gr8080), Thursday, 31 January 2013 23:50 (eleven years ago) link

well it depends if they are a robot

iatee, Thursday, 31 January 2013 23:50 (eleven years ago) link

The assumption that increasing to a living wage somehow stops tips dead has not rly been borne out in the first world, folks

b'hurt's tauntin' (darraghmac), Thursday, 31 January 2013 23:52 (eleven years ago) link

I have an idea, we can write a law to make tipping progressive like taxes, when you go to a restaurant your tax bracket will be encoded into your credit card and your tip will be based on your tax rate

乒乓, Thursday, 31 January 2013 23:52 (eleven years ago) link

people who generally need tips probably shouldn't pay taxes on it.

Philip Nunez, Thursday, 31 January 2013 23:52 (eleven years ago) link

I figure a waiter at per se will probably start clearing 6 figures then, even the busboys, but somebody who works at Golden Dragon's Empire Buffet will probably fail to clear $10k =(

乒乓, Thursday, 31 January 2013 23:52 (eleven years ago) link

if minimum wage became mandatory restaurants would just charge more for food like they do everywhere else in the world iirc

#guy #guy fieri #poop #hallway (zachlyon), Thursday, 31 January 2013 23:53 (eleven years ago) link

To pay the wages of their staff? Jesus, the very fukn thought huh

b'hurt's tauntin' (darraghmac), Thursday, 31 January 2013 23:54 (eleven years ago) link

Do you tip carpet cleaners?

that Django got me Nuages (Sufjan Grafton), Thursday, 31 January 2013 23:55 (eleven years ago) link

minimum wage is mandatory in CA I think. Still tipping going on. I think the only real way tipping can go away is if enough people agree to tip a constant amount regardless of service, and it became enough of a social expectation that it would be equivalent to a mandatory service charge.

Philip Nunez, Thursday, 31 January 2013 23:57 (eleven years ago) link

Having worked as a server in a high end restaurant for the last couple of years, I feel obliged to contribute to this topic. Servers definitely make out better under a tipping system than they would if you replaced tips with some kind of skill commensurate hourly wage. However, the truth is, if you actually replaced the tipping system with a skill commensurate hourly wage, almost nobody would bother to be a server. Cause for that kind of money, you could just do something easy and relatively stress free like retail or back of the house or like "tip jar" kind of jobs. I've worked all of these kinds of jobs, and being a server is definitely the hardest, but it's also the only one in which you can make pretty good money, thanks to the tipping system. And this is even allowing for the free-rider problem of bad tippers.

Peacock, Friday, 1 February 2013 00:10 (eleven years ago) link

Thanks peacock.

Can you maybe postulate why eg uk restaurants manage to find servers?

b'hurt's tauntin' (darraghmac), Friday, 1 February 2013 00:13 (eleven years ago) link

there aren't actually any restaurants in the UK, just bars and waitroses and tescos

乒乓, Friday, 1 February 2013 00:15 (eleven years ago) link

off licenses iirc

mookieproof, Friday, 1 February 2013 00:16 (eleven years ago) link

The assumption that increasing to a living wage somehow stops tips dead has not rly been borne out in the first world, folks

^ ^ ^

lol America

sp to darraghmac

Something is obviously very different outside the United States and I don't know exactly what it is. So no I can't postulate, but I know there must be an explanation.

I do know that I don't know any servers that would do this job for less than $20/hr, and I can't imagine the tipping system being replaced with that kind of wage in America.

Peacock, Friday, 1 February 2013 00:20 (eleven years ago) link

however people define 'living wage' it's prob not California's 7.50 / h so really any other min wage in America

iatee, Friday, 1 February 2013 00:20 (eleven years ago) link

I know lots of people who would do any non-sex industry job for 20/h

iatee, Friday, 1 February 2013 00:21 (eleven years ago) link

Fair enough i dunno how that works out relative to ave income or w/e over there, but ppl queue for those jobs here atm on an hourly income (less tips!) that, at a guess, doesnt clear half the avg industrial wage

b'hurt's tauntin' (darraghmac), Friday, 1 February 2013 00:24 (eleven years ago) link

and any sex industry job for free amirite???

Mordy, Friday, 1 February 2013 00:24 (eleven years ago) link

everyone should tip me for my great posts on ILX about tipping

:C (crüt), Friday, 1 February 2013 00:25 (eleven years ago) link

I give 10% of my earnings to god etc

set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 1 February 2013 00:26 (eleven years ago) link

a lot of places pool tips (and I'm assuming that increases the likelihood the full amount will be reported) but I'm a big fan of pay by CC/tip in cash just in case.

Philip Nunez, Friday, 1 February 2013 00:28 (eleven years ago) link

also something to consider is that if you didn't have a tipping system, it could become easier for the waitstaff; instead of only assigning one waiter per table, you could have like a free-floating system where any table can flag down any waiter for service, you could have waitstaff whose only job it was is to bring food to a table and to clear tables, etc.

乒乓, Friday, 1 February 2013 00:29 (eleven years ago) link

iow the role of the busboy could be greatly expanded

乒乓, Friday, 1 February 2013 00:29 (eleven years ago) link

*just revealed to ILX that I've never waited a table in my life*

乒乓, Friday, 1 February 2013 00:30 (eleven years ago) link

but i only want to be served by brad with the cute eyes

#guy #guy fieri #poop #hallway (zachlyon), Friday, 1 February 2013 00:30 (eleven years ago) link

Wait

If i want something in a restaurant in the US icve to wait for a partic server?

Are you serious

b'hurt's tauntin' (darraghmac), Friday, 1 February 2013 00:31 (eleven years ago) link

sorta just drawing on my experience in having eaten at restaurants where there was no tipping. the food came out just as quickly! and it was great food! and I was able to order extra drinks and appetizers with little hassle! and I didn't leave a tip! I didn't leave a tip!

乒乓, Friday, 1 February 2013 00:32 (eleven years ago) link

it creeps me out that five guys has a tip jar but in-n-out doesn't. I'm not sure who is right.

Philip Nunez, Friday, 1 February 2013 00:34 (eleven years ago) link

I've never worked in a place that pooled tips, but it seems pretty ideal as long as you trust your co-workers. I can only imagine it would reduce a lot of the anxiety that comes with the job.

Peacock, Friday, 1 February 2013 00:35 (eleven years ago) link

I do know that I don't know any servers that would do this job for less than $20/hr, and I can't imagine the tipping system being replaced with that kind of wage in America.

You're at a high-end restaurant. Your standards and requirements are higher - I doubt the average waiter is clearing more than $12 an hour at, say, a North Carolina Applebee's or Chili's.

I don't know how it would shake out if we went to a salary system. It would hurt the good waiters at 'nice' places the most - a flyover state place that's now $50 for 2 people on average probably isn't going to raise prices enough to pay waiters $20/hour. Applebee's/et al. probably couldn't find waitstaff at or near minimum wage who could run the restaurant effectively and couldn't raise prices because who the fuck is going to Applebee's when they're now $50/couple?

Kiarostami bag (milo z), Friday, 1 February 2013 00:36 (eleven years ago) link

fuck applebees. they can go to chez panisse (18% mandatory service charge -- suck it!)

Philip Nunez, Friday, 1 February 2013 00:38 (eleven years ago) link

also something to consider is that if you didn't have a tipping system, it could become easier for the waitstaff; instead of only assigning one waiter per table, you could have like a free-floating system where any table can flag down any waiter for service, you could have waitstaff whose only job it was is to bring food to a table and to clear tables, etc.

TGI Friday's was experimenting with this in 2001-2 when I knew people who worked there. Each section would have one waiter who took orders, then two sub-waiters who did the more menial things.
The workers there hated it because experienced waiters then made less money because they were paying out the two chumps who assisted. Customers didn't like it because they didn't have one person to bitch at about things.

Kiarostami bag (milo z), Friday, 1 February 2013 00:39 (eleven years ago) link

If i want something in a restaurant in the US icve to wait for a partic server?

Are you serious

― b'hurt's tauntin' (darraghmac), Thursday, January 31, 2013 7:31 PM (6 minutes ago) Bookmark

not only that but the server actually pretends to care about your life and your personal well-being, before trying to upsell you on the 2-for-1 watermelon daiquiri margaritas and wouldn't you also like to try the deep fried cajun breadfood?

乒乓, Friday, 1 February 2013 00:39 (eleven years ago) link

well customers never like anything xp

乒乓, Friday, 1 February 2013 00:40 (eleven years ago) link

I dont know that you'd see an argument for any existing industry to move to a tipping system so that costs could be lowered to an artificial level.

Why argue for the retention of such a system where it exists?

b'hurt's tauntin' (darraghmac), Friday, 1 February 2013 00:41 (eleven years ago) link

when they get rid of tipping there will be no extra value associated with being an 'experienced waiter,' that will be a fact of life that everybody will have to accept for the good of society, people will move on

乒乓, Friday, 1 February 2013 00:41 (eleven years ago) link

if you get takeout and the restaurant has a person taking all calls and preparing all takeouts, do you tip? less interested in the 'should there be tipping?' debate b/c that won't change. am more interested in knowing what exactly I am supposed to tip for since every place includes a tip line in the receipt you sign if paying with card.

that Django got me Nuages (Sufjan Grafton), Friday, 1 February 2013 00:42 (eleven years ago) link

TGI fridays tried out a pretty clumsy sounding system tbph

b'hurt's tauntin' (darraghmac), Friday, 1 February 2013 00:42 (eleven years ago) link

I would tip the cashier at taco bell if there was a 'tip: ______' line on the receipt

that Django got me Nuages (Sufjan Grafton), Friday, 1 February 2013 00:43 (eleven years ago) link

I tip the person i take the food from if i collect a takeout, yeah

b'hurt's tauntin' (darraghmac), Friday, 1 February 2013 00:43 (eleven years ago) link

if you get takeout and the restaurant has a person taking all calls and preparing all takeouts, do you tip? less interested in the 'should there be tipping?' debate b/c that won't change. am more interested in knowing what exactly I am supposed to tip for since every place includes a tip line in the receipt you sign if paying with card.

― that Django got me Nuages (Sufjan Grafton), Thursday, January 31, 2013 7:42 PM (1 minute ago) Bookmark

basically any time any body does you a service ever you should tip 40%

乒乓, Friday, 1 February 2013 00:43 (eleven years ago) link

tip your library circulation desk worker!

乒乓, Friday, 1 February 2013 00:44 (eleven years ago) link

Tip your traffic cop 20%

b'hurt's tauntin' (darraghmac), Friday, 1 February 2013 00:46 (eleven years ago) link

should I tip my dental hygienist?

that Django got me Nuages (Sufjan Grafton), Friday, 1 February 2013 00:46 (eleven years ago) link

man this thread moves so fast.

But I imagine even at a flyover Applesbees where you're looking at $50 checks and 10% tips as standard. In a four to six table section, they're probably still clearing better than $15/hr. With cost of living taken into account, that's probably pretty good. It's probably better money than working at the flyover Walmart.

Peacock, Friday, 1 February 2013 00:48 (eleven years ago) link

perhaps i misunderstood the meaning of "bitcoins" on mefi it's "favorites" and is basically nothing more than warm fuzzies, sorry for the confusion. still nothing like getting positive feedback! it's not entirely unlike tipping

messiahwannabe, Sunday, 3 February 2013 06:01 (eleven years ago) link

Bitcoins are an "actual" "currency"

Women, Fire, and Dangerous Zings (silby), Sunday, 3 February 2013 06:32 (eleven years ago) link

You can use em to buy drugs on the internet

Women, Fire, and Dangerous Zings (silby), Sunday, 3 February 2013 06:32 (eleven years ago) link

i would be the BEST POSTER EVER if it would allow me to buy drugs on the internet.

messiahwannabe, Sunday, 3 February 2013 06:40 (eleven years ago) link

"in asia, tipping doesn't happen. and, in most places, service kinda sucks pretty bad."
I haven't eaten in enough of asia or america to say conclusively, but I suspect that controlled for most factors, you're going to get better service in asia, and america really can't hold a claim over providing better welfare for its workers at least over asian countries with nationalized public health services. I'd agree that mefi is generally a better environment than reddit, but reddit also has "tipping", as does yahoo answers and they are generally pretty awful. I'd suspect mefi might even have been worsened by the introduction of this fake tipping if there was a pre and post-tipping era.

On the other hand, I do feel people on social networks ought to receive a cut of whatever ad money facebook et. al are making off them, but that's more of a "reparations" thing than "incentiviziivizing"

Philip Nunez, Sunday, 3 February 2013 08:12 (eleven years ago) link

Gonna start a thread for the mods to tell us what % of posts we're getting fp'd for, reverse tipping score

b'hurt's tauntin' (darraghmac), Sunday, 3 February 2013 11:14 (eleven years ago) link

Automatic thread bump. This poll is closing tomorrow.

System, Monday, 4 February 2013 00:01 (eleven years ago) link

Automatic thread bump. This poll's results are now in.

System, Tuesday, 5 February 2013 00:01 (eleven years ago) link

no ilx consensus for blah blah shockah

Aimless, Tuesday, 5 February 2013 00:02 (eleven years ago) link

six months pass...

Experiments:

That’s one reason we pay attention when a restaurant tries another way, as Sushi Yasuda in Manhattan started to do two months ago. Raising most of its prices, it appended this note to credit card slips: “Following the custom in Japan, Sushi Yasuda’s service staff are fully compensated by their salary. Therefore gratuities are not accepted.”

Sushi Yasuda joins other restaurants that have done away with tips, replacing them with either a surcharge (Atera and Chef’s Table at Brooklyn Fare in New York; Next and Alinea in Chicago; Coi and Chez Panisse in the San Francisco Bay Area) or prices that include the cost of service (Per Se in New York and the French Laundry in Yountville, Calif.).

The chef Tom Colicchio is considering service-included pricing at one of his New York restaurants, paying servers “an hourly rate that would be consistent with what they make now,” he said. “I think it makes perfect sense. I’m not sure my staff is going to think it makes perfect sense.”

These restaurants are numerous enough and important enough to suggest that a tip-reform movement is under way. On the other hand, they are few enough and exceptional enough to suggest that the movement may remain very small, and move very slowly.

first I think it's time I kick a little verse! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 4 September 2013 14:43 (ten years ago) link

one year passes...
one year passes...

http://www.foxnews.com/leisure/2015/11/10/joes-crab-shack-becomes-first-restaurant-chain-to-implement-no-tipping-policy/

I know you'll be shocked that the Fox News comments are universally godawful

Kiarostami bag (milo z), Wednesday, 11 November 2015 05:24 (eight years ago) link

four years pass...

https://www.grubstreet.com/2020/07/tip-50-percent.html

Tip at least 50 percent. Tip 75 percent. Tip 100 percent. What’s stopping you? Do you need to save that money for the vacation to Saint-Tropez you’re planning on taking once this is all over? If you can afford to go to a restaurant right now and have a leisurely meal — because you don’t need to save as much money as you can? — then, yeah, you can afford it.

j., Friday, 3 July 2020 04:28 (three years ago) link

Tip 200 percent. Tip 300 percent! Give the delivery guy your car and the deed to your house. If you can order food, you are the CEO of a Fortune 500 country, save those stories about how you ordered out because your back hurt too much to cook because you're taking care of your disabled spouse and your kids, clearly there's a jar full of stacks atop your fridge!

I hear that sometimes Satan wants to defund police (Neanderthal), Friday, 3 July 2020 04:31 (three years ago) link

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daughter. Now it happened that he had to go and speak to the
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j., Friday, 3 July 2020 04:37 (three years ago) link

Haha Neanderthal

Feel a million filaments (Sund4r), Friday, 3 July 2020 05:22 (three years ago) link

Tipping is usually 15% in Quebec, which apparently makes us cheapskates. Vermonters and Upstate New Yorkers who work in the service industry reportedly cringe when they see 'Je me souviens' licence plates.

pomenitul, Friday, 3 July 2020 14:24 (three years ago) link

If it's any consolation, I lived in Buffalo for three years and waitresses resented Ontarians just as much.

Feel a million filaments (Sund4r), Friday, 3 July 2020 14:49 (three years ago) link

Socialist neighbours are such a drag.

pomenitul, Friday, 3 July 2020 14:52 (three years ago) link

also servers in canada still make less than provincial minimum wage, which is why you still tip

Btw, this is false in seven provinces and only true for liquor servers in Ontario and BC (who are just under minimum wage $12.20 vs $14/$13.95 vs $14.60). I don't even really know why we tip as much as we do.

https://www.payworks.ca/payroll-legislation/MinimumWage.asp

Feel a million filaments (Sund4r), Friday, 3 July 2020 15:56 (three years ago) link

I don’t know what tipping means

Keir’d flex (wins), Friday, 3 July 2020 16:00 (three years ago) link

Something to do with sleeping cows iirc

Feel a million filaments (Sund4r), Friday, 3 July 2020 16:05 (three years ago) link

seven months pass...

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