One Direction - is this a legit new threat wrt to a new boy band invasion? y/n

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Fuck this thread and all who slashed in it.

they all are afflicted with a sickness of existence (Scik Mouthy), Thursday, 7 March 2013 19:11 (eleven years ago) link

Why would you even want to have this thread w/o slash?

radric: the guccining (The Reverend), Thursday, 7 March 2013 20:15 (eleven years ago) link

good point.

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C: (crüt), Thursday, 7 March 2013 20:26 (eleven years ago) link

awwowoowoh sweet harry of mine

the little prince of inane false binary hype (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 7 March 2013 20:27 (eleven years ago) link

I'm calling it now that Slash will perform at an awards show with 1D within the next 365.

radric: the guccining (The Reverend), Thursday, 7 March 2013 20:29 (eleven years ago) link

four months pass...

Can we have some guidelines on when bomb threats are bad and when they're an "absolutely valid response"?

Deafening silence (DL), Thursday, 1 August 2013 09:21 (ten years ago) link

The double standards in that piece, especially paragraph four, are nauseating. Imagine applying the "naturally hyperbolic" "absolutely valid" response to any other kind of online abuse.

Deafening silence (DL), Thursday, 1 August 2013 09:36 (ten years ago) link

uh it was GQ magazine who started the abuse. the reactions are pure self-defence

lex pretend, Thursday, 1 August 2013 09:42 (ten years ago) link

gtfo. The abuse started when the cover appeared online with the Get Lucky reference, before the feature was even available to read. And please tell me any other circumstances where you'd consider a bomb threat - however daft and obviously not to be taken seriously - would be a valid response to a magazine article.

Deafening silence (DL), Thursday, 1 August 2013 09:44 (ten years ago) link

natural hyperbole? i've certainly ranted about how things should be bombed or otherwise destroyed before.

lex pretend, Thursday, 1 August 2013 09:48 (ten years ago) link

And if you tweeted one of those rants directly to somebody then what? Why should yours be treated differently to one coming from a troll?

Deafening silence (DL), Thursday, 1 August 2013 09:54 (ten years ago) link

eh, when the abuse started 1D fans were already circulating the image of the bit where harry styles is badgered about the number of people he's slept with - it wasn't the cover on its own that was the problem.

whateverface (c sharp major), Thursday, 1 August 2013 10:01 (ten years ago) link

i.e. someone'd been in a situation where they could photograph that part of the printed interview, and it spread. (you can see this actually from Aja Romano's stuff on the daily dot: she wrote a previous piece that was more about the fan desire to defend harry styles from being made uncomfortable about his sexuality)

whateverface (c sharp major), Thursday, 1 August 2013 10:03 (ten years ago) link

if the GQ writer tweeted his descriptions of 1D fans directly to them, i dare say he'd be seen as a particularly creepy and misogynistic troll

lex pretend, Thursday, 1 August 2013 10:03 (ten years ago) link

xp to self
bcz among teenage girls who love harry styles there is a tendency to kind of... associate him with themselves? the early reactions are v much of the type 'you called my bff a slut, someone hold my earrings'

whateverface (c sharp major), Thursday, 1 August 2013 10:05 (ten years ago) link

xp OK, that info wasn't in the original news report I read. That does make the reaction more explicable, though not defensible imo.

My concern is that we can discuss the difference in power between teenage girls threatening adult men and teenage boys threatening adult women, and therefore find one more dangerous and repellent than the other, but the recent debate about the culture of extreme abuse has been about stigmatising and deterring abuse among the people who do it. If people are seen to defend one kind while being outraged by the other then it sends terrible mixed messages. Your angry teenage male tweeter isn't going to go, OK, fair enough, men do have power in society and rape is infinitely more common than castration, so it's not the same. He's going to think that threats can be excused. It's a really bad precedent.

Deafening silence (DL), Thursday, 1 August 2013 10:10 (ten years ago) link

yeah i mean, surely the root of most of this problem is that people think abusive language doesn't actually mean anything cos y'know it's just the internet. like whatever the hell people think of gq, prob read it last at a barber about a decade ago, i assume it's casually sexist given its brief.

Shamrock Shoe (LocalGarda), Thursday, 1 August 2013 10:14 (ten years ago) link

He's going to think that threats can be excused

he already thinks this!

lex pretend, Thursday, 1 August 2013 10:16 (ten years ago) link

i mean i get why GQ is allowed to act so super surprised by this because it has historically been ok to describe teenage girls as a pulsating mass that produces sobs and screams and vaginal discharge -- so okay that it is usually let slide, and even teenage fangirls themselves let it slide. So the idea that that's what the 1D fans are reacting to, that they're defending themselves against this description, is very surprising, because teenage girls who love a boyband don't tend to defend themselves for liking it, they tend to 1. defend the boyband 2. deflect the conversation somewhere else 3. ignore you.

What it seems these twitter users are responding to is the GQ interviewer trying to interpellate Harry Styles in their blokey laddish world by getting him to talk about how he gets laid a lot, which 1D fans are repelled by and I think not on a 'harry styles cannot have sex look at him he is a cherubic angel' level because no-one would ever believe that, 'going to get so much pussy', etc; it's instead that this no doubt 30-something man is trying to co-opt Styles, reduce him to his sexuality (an experience that a teenage girl is p damn familiar with) but also take him away into the value system of laddishness when he belongs in the value system of the 1D fan.

whateverface (c sharp major), Thursday, 1 August 2013 10:21 (ten years ago) link

It's not the piece I would have written but why do you think Harry Styles "belongs in the value system of the 1D fan"? The history of fandom is full of fans realising that actually their idols are complicated autonomous individuals who have their own value systems. Styles does behave in certain laddish ways and if you agree to be interviewed by a men's magazine then that's going to come up. Of course the fans are angry because it doesn't suit their version but theirs is not the only version. That said, I've read a lot about fan cultures and attitudes to teenage girl fans over the years and the article's POV feels archaic to me so I'm not surprised they're angry, I just won't defend the more extreme manifestations of that anger.

Deafening silence (DL), Thursday, 1 August 2013 10:29 (ten years ago) link

slightly because when you take someone into the value system of laddishness (whey lad, getting laid) from the imaginative world of the 1D fan (idk, presumably a world in which Styles is having a lot of sex but it's all very sincere and he's probably not having as much sex as people think because it's very tiring touring) you have to go through the value system of the actual world in which, for a teenage girl, having a lot of sex = people think of you as a slut. And because the characterisation of Styles belongs to teenage girls, the values of the world that are applied to teenage girls apply to him, and so talking about him having a lot of sex = implying that he is a slut. (rather than, e.g. a stud)

tl;dr and that is why some of those tweets involve teenage girls calling GQ 'sluts'.

whateverface (c sharp major), Thursday, 1 August 2013 10:30 (ten years ago) link

Of course the fans are angry because it doesn't suit their version but theirs is not the only version

but they... want it to be...

whateverface (c sharp major), Thursday, 1 August 2013 10:31 (ten years ago) link

like, they are 14 year olds?

whateverface (c sharp major), Thursday, 1 August 2013 10:33 (ten years ago) link

ALTHOUGH ACTUALLY one thing that's super interesting is that in a way teenage girls are culturally more powerful than they have ever been, because with the fracturing of various monocultures and 20-odd-years' creation of several separate cultural/commercial spaces that are very very specific to the teen and tween markets, there are places in which the teen consumer and the teen culture-consumer are now dominant.

whateverface (c sharp major), Thursday, 1 August 2013 10:35 (ten years ago) link

Which is to say places in which the moral universe of the teenage fan girl can now be treated as the normative moral universe.

whateverface (c sharp major), Thursday, 1 August 2013 10:38 (ten years ago) link

1D are an interesting case-in-point because they are a boyband who are not required to pretend that they are not having sex.

whateverface (c sharp major), Thursday, 1 August 2013 10:39 (ten years ago) link

NSYNC were required to say that they were not having sex: I have a very vague memory of an interview in which Justin Timberlake was pressured about whether or not he and Britney Spears were sleeping together.

whateverface (c sharp major), Thursday, 1 August 2013 10:41 (ten years ago) link

this is partly to do with cultural pressures, the Southern American purity culture from which Timberlake and Spears and many of their fans came, Britney Spears' cultural position, etc etc etc -- but crucially a lot of those 1D fans having shitfits on twitter about GQ are also American and from cultural groups with varying ideas about sex-before-marriage and sex-during-high-school and what is appropriate to show (as distinct from what is actually happening).

whateverface (c sharp major), Thursday, 1 August 2013 10:44 (ten years ago) link

So the teenage girl fan - who knows it's not appropriate to be seen to be having sex - has lived in a world in which your boyband members were "not having sex" but you are constantly being told by external media that they are obviously having sex, maybe they're taking girls back after shows, lads will be lads and will take advantage of all the adulation they get because that's normal.

whateverface (c sharp major), Thursday, 1 August 2013 10:49 (ten years ago) link

the guys themselves are part of the whole lad culture thing, even if it's mostly concealed.

Shamrock Shoe (LocalGarda), Thursday, 1 August 2013 10:53 (ten years ago) link

xp This is all interesting and true. Teenage morality can be a terrifying, unyielding thing. But irl Styles is a grown-up and GQ presented him accordingly.

Deafening silence (DL), Thursday, 1 August 2013 10:55 (ten years ago) link

xp-to-self (sorry, this is getting well convoluted)

i.e. the cultural values of the "real world" are bigger than you, and dominate everyone, and the boyband you love belongs to that "real world"'s cultural values and is only pretending to purity to get your money.

by contrast, in the microuniverse of a teen/tween market, the morals deemed acceptable by Disney and your parents and your peers' self-presentation are all one.

whateverface (c sharp major), Thursday, 1 August 2013 10:58 (ten years ago) link

i don't disagree with anything you're saying but i do think there are so many 1d fans it seems a bit difficult to say they're all behaving as one mass for the same reasons, no more than it would be criticised if you attributed negative behaviour to them in a blanket way.

Shamrock Shoe (LocalGarda), Thursday, 1 August 2013 11:00 (ten years ago) link

The way we've tended to think of boybands' "not having sex" is that it's to convince teenage girl fans that they could be in with a chance-- or at least that no other girl is further ahead in this heart than you potentially could be.

But there's also an extent to which their "not having sex" is the same "not having sex" that teenage girl fans are expected to uphold. It is a state of being that's true and false in the same ways, and the penalties associated with visibly breaking it are similar -- and people from "the real world" will attack you about it in the same ways.

xp yeah this really cannot hold for all of them!

whateverface (c sharp major), Thursday, 1 August 2013 11:10 (ten years ago) link

I mean, the reason I started thinking about this was that I was surprised that they were so offended by the "harry styles as total LAD" characterisation, because that was, you know, obviously what GQ would do to make him palatable to their audience.

whateverface (c sharp major), Thursday, 1 August 2013 11:11 (ten years ago) link

I'm interested on what set them off here. Lex assumes it's the same thing that bothers him (condescension towards the fans) but the tweets I've seen suggest, as c sharp major does, that it's more about the handling of Harry Styles' promiscuity. Those are two distinct grievances and GQ is culpable in the first case but merely doing its job in the second.

Deafening silence (DL), Thursday, 1 August 2013 11:13 (ten years ago) link

xp-to-self
And because I think at the same kind of age I was very impressed by lad mag culture, there was a coolness associated with it -- i guess because i was v embedded in the UK of the 90s? I think I would have been pleased that this object of my affection was getting a male-world stamp of approval.

So it is AMAZING to me that these girls are so vehemently against GQ making Harry Styles palatable to lad culture.

whateverface (c sharp major), Thursday, 1 August 2013 11:16 (ten years ago) link

like, they are basically less impressed by patriarchy than i was at their age, this is astounding

whateverface (c sharp major), Thursday, 1 August 2013 11:17 (ten years ago) link

I still don't think it's possible to be fully clear as to what the annoyance is about. Like, this is fanaticism (I don't mean that in a loaded or negative way.) It's like people raging about religion or something, everyone has their own interpretation.

Shamrock Shoe (LocalGarda), Thursday, 1 August 2013 11:19 (ten years ago) link

and it's super self-feeding, i think a lot of people are just doing it because other people are doing it.

whateverface (c sharp major), Thursday, 1 August 2013 11:22 (ten years ago) link

there's a group of 1D bloggers who are in their 20s and refer to the process of being into 1D and writing on tumblr about it and sharing images and ideas as the 'Contagion'

whateverface (c sharp major), Thursday, 1 August 2013 11:24 (ten years ago) link

also, lest we forget, other 1D fan twitter users' greatest hits:
1. being convinced that harry and louis are in a secret relationship and that louis' girlfriend is a paid beard
2. being absolute nightmares to anyone remotely connected to anyone in the band
3. so much racism toward zayn, so much racism, in a way the lulzy ironic racism is more offensive than the straightforward, oh my days

whateverface (c sharp major), Thursday, 1 August 2013 11:27 (ten years ago) link

I'm interested on what set them off here. Lex assumes it's the same thing that bothers him (condescension towards the fans) but the tweets I've seen suggest, as c sharp major does, that it's more about the handling of Harry Styles' promiscuity. Those are two distinct grievances and GQ is culpable in the first case but merely doing its job in the second.

I honestly do not think that many teenage girl fans know that they could defend themselves, tbh, that's kind of where i'm coming from.

whateverface (c sharp major), Thursday, 1 August 2013 11:28 (ten years ago) link

and it's super self-feeding, i think a lot of people are just doing it because other people are doing it.

otm. it is really like this. twitter obv is a medium that lends itself to this. i kinda use twitter for work pretty much all of my day and i often gaze into the lake of souls of a given trending topic. it does have that feeling of a lot of people who are sort of joining in but not fully aware of what's going on. the multiplication of the words/tweets is kind of scary in a sense of how much person power (in the sense of manpower) it constitutes.

Shamrock Shoe (LocalGarda), Thursday, 1 August 2013 11:29 (ten years ago) link

i should really do some work rather than continue to think about The Teenage Girls And Their Complicated Selfhood but

But irl Styles is a grown-up and GQ presented him accordingly.

gq didn't present him "as a grown up", or indeed as irl Styles-- they wanted to interview him as the kind of young man who impresses other young men with bragging about his sex life, and he resisted that (as is kind of his job)

also, if you think "Can you give me a rough, ballpark figure [of the number of people you've slept with]" is a question that a grown-up asks of another grown-up, then... you really need to think about your concept of adulthood.

whateverface (c sharp major), Thursday, 1 August 2013 11:46 (ten years ago) link

for ref, here's the images that were floating about at the beginning of the whole kerfuffle:
https://twitter.com/oh1dstalker/status/362234283580076032/photo/1/large
https://twitter.com/alexandergold/status/362232475239469056/photo/1/large

whateverface (c sharp major), Thursday, 1 August 2013 11:47 (ten years ago) link

** he resisted that (as is kind of his job) and then his resistance could v easily be read as "him being pressured about the number of people he's slept with" and etc etc etc etc etc etc etc

whateverface (c sharp major), Thursday, 1 August 2013 11:49 (ten years ago) link

I"m astounded by this conversation because Harry Styles is an ugly little man.

first I think it's time I kick a little verse! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 1 August 2013 12:05 (ten years ago) link


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