Yup, OTM. One of the defining moments of my life was when I was around age 25 or 26, and my grandmother's husband had a talk with me, in which he said "I'm concerned that, like a lot of people of your generation, you might still be fantasizing that you're going to just happen onto the perfect career that suits your passion" or somethign along those lines. Gentle but firm, sort of snapped me out of my aimlessness.
― THIS IS NOT A BENGHAZI T-SHIRT (Hurting 2), Wednesday, 29 May 2013 23:02 (ten years ago) link
Yeh, I could have used that kind of perspective for a long time. I had to figure it out for myself. Starting in around 11th grade teachers, advisors, and other well-meaning grown-ups urged me to pursue my "passion," but I've never had a passion, but rather broad curiosity and adaptability to usually be interested in whatever I had to work on.
I was good at writing, so teachers and professors encouraged me to be a writer, but as satisfying as writing can be, I didn't feel driven or "passionate" to make it my life. I wish I had seen earlier that I didn't have to feel passionate about writing in order to do it as a job or part of a job. So I searched for a "passion" and despaired for lack of one.
It would have been really good for me to follow one of the many options I tested and rejected (counseling, vet medicine, photography/photo lab, floral design) because I didn't feel "passion" for them, even though I was pretty happy at the jobs.
― Je55e, Wednesday, 29 May 2013 23:42 (ten years ago) link
let's not overlook the fact that it's easier to make this statement as long as money is a factor and that most famous artistic people come from rich families who can support them financially and within their industry until they succeed, hence the quiddynobody tells jaden smith not to do what he loves
― i didn't even give much of a fuck that you were mod (forksclovetofu), Thursday, 30 May 2013 00:13 (ten years ago) link
in order to do what you love it's important to know what you do and also what you love
― steening in your HOOSless carriage (BIG HOOS aka the steendriver), Thursday, 30 May 2013 03:42 (ten years ago) link
Look at ROI.
― Jeff, Thursday, 30 May 2013 11:27 (ten years ago) link
look at ROL
― lag∞n, Thursday, 30 May 2013 12:20 (ten years ago) link
LOL at ROFL
― steening in your HOOSless carriage (BIG HOOS aka the steendriver), Thursday, 30 May 2013 14:38 (ten years ago) link
http://www.nytimes.com/2013/06/04/us/americas-cup-sailing-race-faces-challenges-in-san-francisco.html
― i didn't even give much of a fuck that you were mod (forksclovetofu), Tuesday, 4 June 2013 16:24 (ten years ago) link
worst enormous tech company ceo 2013
― Operation Gypsy Dildo (silby), Wednesday, 5 June 2013 00:50 (ten years ago) link
this might be the wrong thread but this has to go somewherehttp://www.nytimes.com/2013/06/26/booming/no-nachos-for-you-general-zod-were-on-weight-watchers.html
― i didn't even give much of a fuck that you were mod (forksclovetofu), Thursday, 27 June 2013 14:36 (ten years ago) link
where's the piece abt those bros going on a catered motorcycle trip
― lag∞n, Sunday, 30 June 2013 16:54 (ten years ago) link
I kind of like that article actually.
― Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Sunday, 30 June 2013 17:44 (ten years ago) link
The WW one, not the catered road trip one.
― Tottenham Heelspur (in orbit), Sunday, 30 June 2013 17:45 (ten years ago) link
yeah WW article is good
― set the controls for the heart of the sun (VegemiteGrrl), Sunday, 30 June 2013 17:49 (ten years ago) link
http://www.nypost.com/p/news/local/manhattan/feelingbidder_bNie678FebHbCaXhiDKnaN
― kenjataimu (cozen), Sunday, 30 June 2013 21:09 (ten years ago) link
excellent find
― i don't even have an internet (Hurting 2), Monday, 1 July 2013 00:53 (ten years ago) link
http://www.nypost.com/rw/nypost/2013/06/30/news/web_photos/30.2n007.ArtSuit1--300x300.jpg
― we're up all night to get (s1ocki), Tuesday, 2 July 2013 20:56 (ten years ago) link
someone in the gawker comments posted a pdf of some PR fluff about the wife's art
I was left wishing they'd been soaked for $100k
― mh, Tuesday, 2 July 2013 21:00 (ten years ago) link
google her art it's v bad
― i don't even have an internet (Hurting 2), Tuesday, 2 July 2013 21:14 (ten years ago) link
A highly relevant article
― Moodles, Friday, 6 September 2013 19:26 (ten years ago) link
ugh, rong thread...
dunno if this fits exactly but i couldn't find the MN thread. this is pretty absurd:
http://www.nytimes.com/2013/10/06/fashion/the-dating-scene-hip-with-a-bit-of-minnesota-nice.html?pagewanted=all&_r=0
― global tetrahedron, Sunday, 6 October 2013 20:53 (ten years ago) link
Minnesota/Minnesotans C or D
it's in site new answers!
― beautifully, unapologetically plastic (mh), Sunday, 6 October 2013 21:00 (ten years ago) link
thank god
― global tetrahedron, Sunday, 6 October 2013 21:15 (ten years ago) link
this isn't quiddities but i need to complain about this ridiculous mistake in the story about tim burke of deadspin http://www.nytimes.com/2013/10/22/sports/deadspins-tim-burke-waits-to-turn-offbeat-moments-into-gifs.html
the story starts off with this scene
At 2:44 p.m. on a recent Sunday, Tim Burke took a moment from monitoring numerous N.F.L. games for the sports Web site Deadspin to post something that had nothing to do with football: a smidgen of a clip from an English rugby match he also happened to be following.
He stitched together still-frame images captured from the broadcast into a short, continuous loop that showed a player built like a cement mixer strong-arming an opponent to the ground by the unfortunate man’s throat.
it then links to the post of the gif -- supposedly written on a sunday while tim burke watches the NFL -- which says the following in its very first sentence!
You're likely doing your patriotic duty and watching college football today
college football of course is played on saturday, and the post was written on 10/12 -- also a saturday!
this took me less than 20 seconds to "fact check" and i wasn't even really trying
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 22 October 2013 13:57 (ten years ago) link
any time this thread is bumped i end up staring @ the womans khakis in the orig post for like 20 mins
― johnny crunch, Tuesday, 22 October 2013 14:13 (ten years ago) link
http://www.nytimes.com/2013/11/08/giving/her-name-is-famous-but-shes-not-about-nothing.html?pagewanted=all&_r=1&
I do genuinely think her charity sounds good, but just lol @ the Times -- "This wealthy celebrity's wife is DIFFERENT. She runs a CHARITY."
― #fomo that's the motto (Hurting 2), Friday, 8 November 2013 03:09 (ten years ago) link
p much the complete definition of a quid and an ag
http://www.newyorker.com/reporting/2013/11/18/131118fa_fact_levy
― puff puff post (uh oh I'm having a fantasy), Monday, 11 November 2013 18:36 (ten years ago) link
ya miscarriages are TOTALLY rich people problems!!!
― socki (s1ocki), Monday, 11 November 2013 19:03 (ten years ago) link
fp
― i too went to college (silby), Tuesday, 12 November 2013 05:48 (ten years ago) link
what the fuck
― beach boys fan (ko komo) (schlump), Tuesday, 12 November 2013 05:49 (ten years ago) link
http://www.nytimes.com/2013/11/17/magazine/switzerlands-proposal-to-pay-people-for-being-alive.html?_r=0&pagewanted=all
― c21m50nh3x460n, Tuesday, 12 November 2013 17:41 (ten years ago) link
smh universal guaranteed income is about as un ruling class as you can get
― lag∞n, Tuesday, 12 November 2013 17:43 (ten years ago) link
haha, universal welfare? maybe for RICH people
― socki (s1ocki), Tuesday, 12 November 2013 17:47 (ten years ago) link
oh i thought this was the main nytimes thread
― c21m50nh3x460n, Tuesday, 12 November 2013 17:52 (ten years ago) link
haha
― lag∞n, Tuesday, 12 November 2013 17:53 (ten years ago) link
meow
― c21m50nh3x460n, Tuesday, 12 November 2013 17:54 (ten years ago) link
basic income is a v interesting idea tho, be curious to read something on what economists thinkvthe inflationary etc impact would be of everyone getting a same sized check every month
― lag∞n, Tuesday, 12 November 2013 17:55 (ten years ago) link
'pay people to be alive' a v. ruling class (and reactionary american) way of phrasing it tho
― j., Tuesday, 12 November 2013 18:01 (ten years ago) link
http://www.nytimes.com/2013/11/14/fashion/chef-run-service-teaches-nannies-recipes-that-skip-the-microwave.html?_r=1&
Like other 5-year-olds, Erela Yashiv likes pizza and cupcakes and detests food that contains “green specks” of vegetables.But her mother, Stephanie Johnson, 46, who lives in TriBeCa and runs a cosmetics-case and travel-accessories line, wanted her daughter to adopt a more refined and global palate, whether it’s a gluten-free kale salad or falafel made from organic chickpeas.As working parents, she and her husband, Dan Yashiv, 42, a music producer, do not have time to prepare such fare. And their nanny, from Wisconsin, does not always know the difference between quinoa and couscous.
But her mother, Stephanie Johnson, 46, who lives in TriBeCa and runs a cosmetics-case and travel-accessories line, wanted her daughter to adopt a more refined and global palate, whether it’s a gluten-free kale salad or falafel made from organic chickpeas.
As working parents, she and her husband, Dan Yashiv, 42, a music producer, do not have time to prepare such fare. And their nanny, from Wisconsin, does not always know the difference between quinoa and couscous.
― Ian from Etobicoke (Phil D.), Thursday, 14 November 2013 16:52 (ten years ago) link
she sometimes does
― socki (s1ocki), Thursday, 14 November 2013 16:54 (ten years ago) link
stupid fucking nanny
― ᶓ͠סּᴥ͠סּᶔ ᶓͼ᷆ₓͼ᷇ᶔ (gr8080), Thursday, 14 November 2013 16:57 (ten years ago) link
How long does it take to make a kale salad? Even if you have to pick all the bits of gluten out by hand?
― famous for hits! (seandalai), Thursday, 14 November 2013 17:00 (ten years ago) link
Wisconsin, whaddaya gonna do? (xp)
― nickn, Thursday, 14 November 2013 17:01 (ten years ago) link
all the things labeled gluten free these days, its good to know these eggs abide by my diet
― lag∞n, Thursday, 14 November 2013 17:06 (ten years ago) link
blind nanny, real sad, can't see the pictures on the box at the store that show all the sighted nannies what couscous and quinoa look like
― j., Friday, 15 November 2013 00:36 (ten years ago) link
That article is hilarious.
― One bad call from barely losing to (Alex in SF), Friday, 15 November 2013 01:26 (ten years ago) link
were they actually saying 'marc&mark' out loud or do you suppose marc&mark paid the times extra to get their trade name in there
― j., Friday, 15 November 2013 01:29 (ten years ago) link
lol
“We were too basic with her food in the beginning, so we want marc&mark to help us explore more sophisticated food that has some diversity and flavor,” she said. “I don’t want her growing up not liking curry because she never had it.”
'we fucked up so bad, thank god this service is available to help us reverse our monstrous parenting decisions'
― j., Friday, 15 November 2013 01:31 (ten years ago) link
Holy shit, grocery store chain from Texas does well in Idaho, too!
http://www.nytimes.com/2013/12/17/business/whole-foods-finds-success-in-smaller-cities.html?hp&_r=0
And it hasn't even opened up in Brooklyn yet!!!!!
― Josh in Chicago, Monday, 16 December 2013 23:12 (ten years ago) link