Boston -- Classic or Dirty Water?

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Boston is a great city, I lived their up until August 2001. Moved out because it did get way too expensive. The cities great, the people are great, and the RED SOX are great.

Chris, Thursday, 9 May 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

I'm very likely coming back for Terrastock in October...

Woo-hoo!

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 9 May 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

I'm going to have to save up for this Terrastock. $70 is hard to come by these days.

Chris, Thursday, 9 May 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

i take back everything i once said on this thread: visiting = classic, living here for five fucking years = dud absolute

geeta, Friday, 10 May 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

Oh, don't say shit like that - I'm thinking of moving there in 2-20 years! Dang, yo.

Daver, Saturday, 11 May 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

to bj -- I've completely changed my mind about living in Boston -- it's more wonderful than I can imagine and so I'm never leaving. In fact I'll be moving right next door to you. Ta Ta!

Sue Shapiro, Monday, 20 May 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

one month passes...
I love this city, so having read through all these emails, I have to respond. I could talk about how much I love it all day, and this email will probably take about that long to read.

Note too that I don't need to trash other cities to defend here. The great things about Boston speak for themselves. If you want to hate Boston, it's easy to do, but it's also easy to do that anywhere. I know grass-is-always-greener type of people. But if you want to love Boston, it's really easy too. It's a great walking city with a lot of fun things to do.

People talk about the lack of integration, but I don't know how many of you have walked through the South End, where you'll see people from every continent in the world and other diverse backgrounds all on the same streets. And people say hello to you when you're walking down the street there. JP is really integrated too. Or check out Cambridge or Maverick Square in East Boston. Since the 1990 census, every area that had predominantly one racial group lost people from that group and gained people from other groups. We also have the university with the most nations represented (BU) of any university in the nation.

Things close at 2 and it's definitely annoying, but you can go to the North End, Chinatown, or certain bars after and hang around for most of the night. Boston's great in the day too. You're never more than two blocks from a great park of some waterfront, and there are some of the most beautiful skyline views in the world here. Check out the view from the East Boston waterfront, or the view when you're landing at the airport or the view from the Mass Ave Bridge. Walk along the harbor walk throughout the north end and South Boston.

As to friendly people, try really smiling and saying hi to people as you walk in the morning. Sure, many will look away or not say hi. I've tried the same experiment in a bunch of cities and that's true everywhere, but some people will say hi. And people are much more likely to say hi if you're just a bit further from downtown or the touristy areas- once you get into neighborhoods.

We definitely have great culture at a manageable size. We spend the most on culture per capita of any major city in the US. Our Symphony Hall is one of the three best, acoustically, in the world. Our Museum of Fine Arts has the second largest art collection in the Western Hemisphere. Then we also have several university art museums, the Museum of Bad Art, the world's largest outdoor modern art exhibition center (in the western part of the state), and a great sculpture park in Lincoln, MA.

Our local music scene is great. Listen to 101.7, WFNX radio, or the college stations and check out the bars around Central Square.

And it's a city of today. Where else can you find two of the nations top universities (three of the top 25) within four stops on a public transportation line? Where else do you have 5 of the top 10 hospitals in the nation? The largest music store in the world? The largest university library collection (the third largest library collection in general)? The most books per square mile in the nation (Harvard Square)? People who don't need to spend an hour getting ready to leave the house every morning? The city ranked healthiest in the nation by men's health? And the most liveable by some Swiss Magazine.

Then Massachusetts is ranked the second best place in the nation to raise a child for a combination of safety, education and other reasons. This is one of the best job markets in the nation, and has the most college-educated population of any state.

Boston brought you the telephone, the Internet, anasthesia, the nation's first subway, the nation's first post office, the nation's first police department, the nation's first YMCA, the birthplace of two churches, the bulk of 19th century literature.

Then let's talk about people. Harvard educated 7 of the nation's presidents. 4 presidents called MA home. Martin Luther King Jr. and Malcolm X both called Boston home at one time or another. We were the birthplace of the abolitionist movement and a center of the women's rights movement. We are undoubtedly the nation's greatest sports town, but if you don't like sports, it's not hard to find ways to avoid them altogether.

We had the most breweries per capita in the nation at the turn of the 20th century. Today, we have much of the best beer again. Sam Adams is great and a tour of the brewery, including 4 samples of beer and a free souvenir glass is only $1.

We have two of the nation's top 10 beaches, aesthetically, within this state. 3 of the top four liberal arts colleges (including the best women's one). The best roller coaster in the world, according to Park World Magazine (at 6 flags New England). We have one of the lowest murder rates in the nation in this state, and we have been held up as a national example of crime prevention.

We've also been seen as a national example for tobacco prevention, public health, and foster care and adoption services.

This is a city filled with life and on the cusp of more great things. The completion of the Big Dig will bring beautiful parks. We're updating our waterfront, our airport, and our sports parks. There's construction all over the city. Sure the construction doesn't look that great, but it's a sign of a city that's very alive.

We have always been a leading architectural city in this nation, and our building codes work very hard to ensure we keep things to scale. That's why our tallest skyscraper is only 60 stories. We have architecture from 4 centuries here, from famous names including I.M. Pei and Le Corbusier (Harvard's campus is the only place in the nation with architecture from him). We have intricate sculptures on the storefronts in downtown crossing and the building fronts in the financial district. Our skyscrapers show a lot of variation. Trinity Church is considered one of the top 10 architectural structures in the nation.

our ice cream is great; try Herrel's in Harvard Square, especially for their frappes.

If you know where to look, we have every ethnic food imaginable. And we continue to keep the independent stores alive. Some unfortunately are being lost to chains, but we still have many. Check out places like Arlington Center and other small town centers for these. The strip mall is not as ubiquitous here as elsewhere, and we have nice town centers.

Then the history is awesome.

Also, we're actually not as expensive a place for housing as many had thought. Recent census info showed that.

So I have way too good a memory for this stuff. I love my city, and if you have a pre-determined opinion, it's easy to remember the stuff that confirms it.

I think the windy streets bring more life to the city. It's awesome that cows were urban planners, though the signs could be better.

There are plenty of nice people around here. Don't complain about their city so much, and you'll find more of them.

jp

JP, Friday, 28 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

Jesus Christ. All I wanted to know was where to find a white hooker.

Pissbreath, Saturday, 29 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

Le Corbusier (Harvard's campus is the only place in the nation with architecture from him)

By the way, Harvard's campus, or at least the Sert Gallery and the VES department, isn't in Bosting, asshole.

Pissbreath, Saturday, 29 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

Ladies and gentlemen, the thread that keeps on shredding!

Brian MacDonald, Saturday, 29 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

You almost had me convinced until you listed 101.7 as a positive about the city. That station has been shit for the past five years.

Dan Perry, Saturday, 29 June 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

one month passes...
BEAUTIFUL this time of year (Summer), late Spring and early Fall. SUCKS the rest of the time (i.e. most of the year)........and I was born and raised here. Now I'm just trying to convince my significant other to move back to the west coast where I lived for 4 winter-less years.

Paul, Saturday, 10 August 2002 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

two months pass...
I came here looking for the lyrics to "dirty water" RI 0wnz

h4h4h4, Friday, 8 November 2002 01:54 (twenty-one years ago) link

two weeks pass...
All of you who claim to hate Boston or who are bashing it on here, are not true Bostonians. I, like BJ, stumbled across the page and refused to leave it until I found some normalcy, some person who was a Bostonian, not a bunch of whiners who talked smack about to me the greatest city I have ever known. He gave the noramlcy along with only a few others. While you all have this page to say this stuff on, Bostonians go on, living it up and loving every moment of it. I never hear this there, because you are the bitter minority on the topic and I was shcoked to see this page online was so full of people badmouthing Boston. I grew up just outside of Boston and have lived there my whole life. I have spent months though living in other cities all over the nation. Everyone I know from home and everyone I meet from there and especially those form other states, like Boston as much and usually more than theirs. New York has its downfalls although I love it too. I would never love it more than Boston. I recognize things about NYC that I dislike, but I still enjoy it there and would not make nasty genralizations about it, because I enjoy it so. Ironic you all say Bostonians are so rude, you outta read your own mean messages. I love Boston, and know it a lot better than many of you seem to, like JP wrote, 'it is easy to harp on a place'. But I know Boston is a place that if you really knew it, you probably wouldn't want to harp on, and yet I wonder if you people would ever take the time. Maybe you are knew to the area and feel lost. I would never, ever talk bad about it. I do not know who any of you are, but you people are uninterested in the city you live in and you miss the entire true spirit of what this historically old city is all about. It will leave you behind with an attitude like that. Bostonians generally are funny, fun-loving, true sports fan, outgoing people with sharp minds, down-to-earth attitudes, and welcoming personalities! It has some of the best schools in the nation, it has famous restraunts, it had many "firsts", it has plenty of fun things to do, it has so much to offer families, relatives can drive to each other an all live in different parts of the state, and it is not hard to do, and lastly, the people from Boston stand out....they are funny, they have accents often, they are smart, they know their history, they are culturally and racilly diverse, they are liberal, they speak their mind, and they are proud, not cocky (overall) and they should be. They should be because they are Bostonians. They would tell you about your bad attitudes in a heartbeat, and I am glad, that is the way to handle such negativity. I love it in Boston and you people 'can all move' like BJ says, if you want to trash it so hard. I read his e-mail and grinned. He said he doesn't know who any of you are, and neihter do I, but I know I am glad that people who want to talk like that about Boston are NOT REAL BOSTONIANS, AND UNLIKELY TO LIVE THERE IF THEY GET THE CHANCE TO MOVE...PLEASE DO IF YOU CAN...YOU'LL BE HAPPY ABOUT IT AND SO WILL WE. BJ said you could all just move to NY and become Yankkes fans for life....I couldn't agree more and hopefully you will, and for those who are rude in NY (not all are) you can join their ranks or be your happy selves, and then let Boston not have to hear that trash talk again or deal with your bad attitudes, why ever you claim to have them. Oh yeah and talk about snobby...again read your own messages about "how NY is the best...." and all your generalizations...it isn't really. Everywhere has its good and bad. And overall Boston has its great.

Cass, Sunday, 24 November 2002 02:05 (twenty-one years ago) link

"real Bostonians" clearly = dud

M Matos (M Matos), Sunday, 24 November 2002 02:08 (twenty-one years ago) link

Oh and as JP wrote...we have the best medical centers in the world, leading medical research, and we are improving Boston to beeven greater, every day. I have been around the world, and nothing ever compares, to coming home to Boston. And it probably never will.

Cass, Sunday, 24 November 2002 02:10 (twenty-one years ago) link

Matt--

What do you mean? I like CA lots, but what is 'dud' to you? Just curious, nothing more though.

Cass, Sunday, 24 November 2002 02:12 (twenty-one years ago) link

I mean M Matos...not Matt...

Cass, Sunday, 24 November 2002 02:14 (twenty-one years ago) link

I was kidding. I do a lot of joking about my dislike of Boston on the boards based on one weekend there (and the weekend was great but I could not see myself living there) and it was meant to be in-jokey in that manner. Hope that clears it up

M Matos (M Matos), Sunday, 24 November 2002 02:23 (twenty-one years ago) link

M Matos.....

:) :) Cool...by the way...I may have mixed you up with someone and you may not livein CA. If so, my bad...Thanks and Happy Holidays. :) :)

Cass, Sunday, 24 November 2002 02:27 (twenty-one years ago) link

nope, I live in NYC

M Matos (M Matos), Sunday, 24 November 2002 02:33 (twenty-one years ago) link

I was born in Boston but spent my first four years in Lynn. Does that count? "The armpit of Massachusetts" was great to me. It's still beautiful when I go back. Give me the ocean. Give me people living on top of each other. I was in this little multi-ethnic working class neighborhood, this cul de sac where all the kids played and taught me to talk. I thought my name was Peedah until I moved to Madison, Wisconsin.

Pete Scholtes, Sunday, 24 November 2002 03:37 (twenty-one years ago) link

All of you who claim to hate Boston or who are bashing it on here, are not true Bostonians.

Dude, most of us aren't from Boston, what the hell?

Ally (mlescaut), Sunday, 24 November 2002 04:12 (twenty-one years ago) link

comparing Boston to NYC is grossly inapt. comparing boston to philadelphia or baltimore (to name just two) is more appropriate. and boston clearly loses to both philly and baltimore.

Tad (llamasfur), Sunday, 24 November 2002 06:48 (twenty-one years ago) link

Um...Ally...

You may not be..but many of these other folks say they now live there...so that was to them.....get it? Not to you....and if you aren't from there you know even less about the place...yes driving can suck, but that is not a reason for me to hate a city, maybe it is for you....but read through these and many people aren't from Boston but NOW LIVE THERE...I, like BJ and others was saying they could all move back to where their from instead of being Boston residents (aka 'Bostonians') because they aren't that anyway, and hate it so much. I see you are not from there....that was not who the Bostonian thing was directed to...you live there you are considered one...excpet for them....and other than traffic why do you like Philly better? I am just curious?

Cass, Sunday, 24 November 2002 14:32 (twenty-one years ago) link

Pedah!!

Me too! Lynn...I love it!! Awesome message!

Cass, Sunday, 24 November 2002 15:04 (twenty-one years ago) link

i really, really don't like boston. on the other hand i can well imagine that it's better than loads of other US (or even worldwide) cities; i just can't imagine why people would choose to live here rather than new york or london or...

toby (tsg20), Sunday, 24 November 2002 18:31 (twenty-one years ago) link

I, like BJ and others was saying they could all move back to where their from instead of being Boston residents

Smooches to you, too. Taking sides: "If you don't like it, go back where you came from!" vs "If you don't like it, what would you like to see different?"

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Sunday, 24 November 2002 18:40 (twenty-one years ago) link

i guess probably most of my problems with boston stem from it being tiny (also the absurd 2am curfew). as i say, i'm sure it's great as small US cities go, it's just that for me small US cities = gigantic dud.

toby (tsg20), Sunday, 24 November 2002 19:05 (twenty-one years ago) link

Why was the "Real Bostonian" spending untold hours of his Saturday night defending Boston's nightlife on ILE?

Puritan, get thee to Rhode Island!

Mat Bo (Mat Bo), Sunday, 24 November 2002 19:54 (twenty-one years ago) link

Tim H was explaining to me not long ago that all of the buildings in the centre of Boston are made of wood. Neither of us had been there, so it may not have been the most informed and accurate discussion of the subject ever.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Sunday, 24 November 2002 21:29 (twenty-one years ago) link

I still stand by my "hey, my one weekend in Boston and Cambridge was fun" statement. I think, like most cities, if you already know really good people there, that makes a crucial difference. Good people in Boston are really good people, from my experience.. maybe because of the stretching of good character that's required to deal with the, ahem, others.. or not.

Dan, whatever happened to smug Joker fisty guy?

donut bitch (donut), Sunday, 24 November 2002 21:42 (twenty-one years ago) link

To Dan...if you want to see improvements that is different than people bashing it and acting like it is not worth their time because it sucks...and Mat Bo, I spent about 20 minutes on here the other night to defend my city that I miss so much, because I am away at school and saw this page...then I went out and had a blast, so thanks for your input...by the way, I like Rhode Island but I am not a Puritan....

Cass, Monday, 25 November 2002 03:37 (twenty-one years ago) link

other than traffic why do you like Philly better?

Less Bostonians.

Ally (mlescaut), Monday, 25 November 2002 03:42 (twenty-one years ago) link

as always, Ally hit it on the head.

that, and both Philly and Baltimore have better food than Boston. and that includes better seafood. yes, Bostonians, you read that right. so much for Boston Harbor!

Tad (llamasfur), Monday, 25 November 2002 03:45 (twenty-one years ago) link

anyway, Boston is the ultimate "little town w/ a big town attitude." so of course Bostonians are going to get knocked about a bit when they step to people from, say, NYC or Chicago or London. anyone who thinks that Boston is in the same league as NYC, Chicago, or London is out of their minds. It's especially ludicrous because so many Bostonians (IRL, not necessarily on ILX) have the absurd notion that Boston = center of the universe. Why, because of Harvard? Boston Harbor? The Red Sox? Puleaze.

Philly also has a "little town" attitude, though Philadelphians are more justified in that it's the fifth-largest city in the country. And they aren't as full of themselves and their town as Bostonians are.

Tad (llamasfur), Monday, 25 November 2002 03:53 (twenty-one years ago) link

If your reason for thinking Boston is the center of the universe is the Red Sox then I weep for you.

Tad basically explained it anyway, to take things down to the serious level for a sec, because it's so true. I think it's a freaking Massachusetts curse, thinking yourself very bloody important. This is why all the people on this thread who are not from Boston but live there and think a lot of it sucks and should be changed think it sucks and should be changed. It seems kind of telling that the majority of the people who just luuuuuuurve Boston are born there and everyone else wants to blow it up?

Whatever, the Red Sox suck ass, that's what it is.

Ally (mlescaut), Monday, 25 November 2002 04:01 (twenty-one years ago) link

Great Cthulhu this thread has gone on...

Anyway, just to dog-pile on Boston some more I have to mention the word that a Maine-born friend of mine uses in reference to Bostonians:

Massholes

Chris Barrus (xibalba), Monday, 25 November 2002 04:19 (twenty-one years ago) link

I don't think there's much of a correlation between the quality of seafood and the quality of Boston Harbor, what with that body of water being so foul and off-limits for so long. Massachusetts Bay, maybe. I was born and bred in the area and I've seen the harbor like five times. It's still mostly blocked by buildings anyway unless for god sakes you really need to see it.

The glorification of "baked scrod" has to be the biggest Boston scam ever. But really, why would Philly have such good seafood? Is it the fish? The preparation? Tad?

Cass I'm really glad you had fun even though you weren't in Boston.

Mat Bo (Mat Bo), Monday, 25 November 2002 05:32 (twenty-one years ago) link

I LOVE Boston and surrounding city area for precisely the reasons cited by Geeta in her praise post above.

I like the Bookstores records shops etc and found Boston much cheaper than NY for things when I was there next weekend. I found the people both friendlier and nicer (cab drivers and waiters). Maybe this is cause I was in Williamsburg NY the previous 2 days - and that place seems to breed horribleness.

Size? It takes only 25 min to get anywhere you need to go if you live sort of in the city. Compared to living in like Zone 2 or 3 or 4 of London for the same price? For all the time I spend commuting I don't have any time to enjoy the things London is supposed to be so great for - not to mention the fact that London does shut down at 1am as well.

Maybe when I hit my 30's I found find Boston's "young" population a bit annoying, but I certainly wanted ot move back there when I was there last weekend.

marianna, Monday, 25 November 2002 10:36 (twenty-one years ago) link

not to mention the fact that London does shut down at 1am as well.

what?? the point is that boston *completely* shuts down at 2am - whereas if i want to be out dancing in london til dawn i can do it any night of the week in any of dozens of places! and doubtless the same will be true of drinking come next summer, too.

toby (tsg20), Monday, 25 November 2002 14:25 (twenty-one years ago) link

Maybe this is cause I was in Williamsburg NY the previous 2 days - and that place seems to breed horribleness.

Well, yes, if you're going to come to NY I'd suggest most anywhere BUT WBurg, especially now a days with all the trustafarians living there.

And yes, London does stay open all night, there's absolutely no difficulty in finding a place to go if you really need to - I defy any Bostonian to tell me an after hours bar there. They've only got ONE strip club you know.

Ally (mlescaut), Monday, 25 November 2002 14:30 (twenty-one years ago) link

I enjoyed my trip to Boston very much but I kind of fell in love a bit with NYC so that overshadowed the Boston element.

Best thing about Boston = excellent guides / hosts (thanks Marianna!), good record shops, hanging out with the Perrys.

I was pleased to find that it is not the centre of Boston which is made of wood. The brain box in which I keep my thoughts about Boston is wooden though.

Tim (Tim), Monday, 25 November 2002 14:48 (twenty-one years ago) link

One more comment about the Red Sox........No need to bring them into this conversation. All this talk about Philly and Baltimore, christ two of the worst teams in all of baseball, and oh yeah those beloved Yankees and Mets really tore it up this year.

Chris V. (Chris V), Monday, 25 November 2002 14:52 (twenty-one years ago) link

Go to chinatown after hours and you can find quite a few after hours bars. From the looks of this it seems that all Bostonians are getting labeled as massholes? Im not saying that Boston is the greatest city (thats reserved for Worcester ;) but it ain't that bad.

Chris V. (Chris V), Monday, 25 November 2002 14:55 (twenty-one years ago) link

Erg. I was referring to the lack of subway after 1 am - not to mention the pubs shutting at 11. In both cities there ARE places you can go to well past 2 am to do your dirty deeds. NY is the city that never sleeps but London and Boston and pretty much every other US city I've been to, definately nods off around 1am.

marianna, Monday, 25 November 2002 16:06 (twenty-one years ago) link

Dan, whatever happened to smug Joker fisty guy?

I think he opened for The Clientele! (not really, alas)

Favorite part of the Clientele show was when the lead singer said, "Please turn up the reverb on my mic, there's a real singer in the house," in reference to me (???). I immediately shouted, "MORE FALSETTO!!!" He chuckled and said, "Yes, more out-of-tune, rubbish falsetto... Where's that reverb?" He was GREBT, though.

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Monday, 25 November 2002 16:11 (twenty-one years ago) link

I'm pretty sure the "real singer" was a reference to you Dan Perry!
Viva Mary Chung's!

marianna, Monday, 25 November 2002 16:13 (twenty-one years ago) link

Not one message referencing "More Than A Feeling?"

OK, than I'll do it.

mike a (mike a), Monday, 25 November 2002 20:03 (twenty-one years ago) link

"Hitch a Ride"

Chris V. (Chris V), Monday, 25 November 2002 20:05 (twenty-one years ago) link

recently saw someone claim that he once 'drove out to boston'

i am not from new england but i can see 'in', 'up', 'down', possibly even 'over'. but how does one drive 'out' to a hub, unless one is parked on the floor of boston harbor?

(the writer is based in new york, so i guess this could just be a bit of bizarre nyc chauvinism)

mookieproof, Monday, 2 January 2023 21:09 (one year ago) link

Never heard that before.

A Kestrel for a Neve (James Redd and the Blecchs), Monday, 2 January 2023 21:12 (one year ago) link

But yeah, sounds like someone in California driving out to the desert or something.

A Kestrel for a Neve (James Redd and the Blecchs), Monday, 2 January 2023 21:13 (one year ago) link

if you see nyc as the center of the world then everywhere else including boston is outward, makes sense from that angle

ciderpress, Monday, 2 January 2023 21:18 (one year ago) link

A NYer who summered in the Berkshires and once drove the Mass Pike.

Unfairport Convention (PBKR), Monday, 2 January 2023 22:55 (one year ago) link

six months pass...

FAP anyone?

Allen (etaeoe), Thursday, 13 July 2023 14:55 (nine months ago) link

two months pass...

House / Disco dance party happening outside Boston city hall again right now 🪩

Michael F Gill, Friday, 22 September 2023 21:18 (seven months ago) link


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