ok, chiming in on DJP's twitter comments so more to try to get this rolling
― ⌘-B (mh), Friday, 17 October 2014 21:42 (nine years ago) link
Yessssss
― 💪😈⚠️ (DJP), Friday, 17 October 2014 22:05 (nine years ago) link
ok one more good one before the weekend. tgif everybody
https://twitter.com/jamieroling/status/523059377331523584
― goole, Friday, 17 October 2014 23:06 (nine years ago) link
you know if we started by throwing everyone with an anime avatar on Twitter in jail that might be a good start
― u2 removal machine (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Saturday, 18 October 2014 00:18 (nine years ago) link
i've got a manga one, could i get off with a suspended sentence or is it too late
― ( X '____' )/ (zappi), Saturday, 18 October 2014 00:23 (nine years ago) link
we'll send you to a diversionary program
― u2 removal machine (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Saturday, 18 October 2014 00:25 (nine years ago) link
where is the czar to make this happen
― sleeve, Saturday, 18 October 2014 00:28 (nine years ago) link
Thomas Friedman says that China could get it done.
― I can't make my waterface turn into a *fart* (Sufjan Grafton), Saturday, 18 October 2014 00:30 (nine years ago) link
https://pbs.twimg.com/media/B0AVVK4CQAAoq0C.png
― mookieproof, Saturday, 18 October 2014 00:39 (nine years ago) link
https://38.media.tumblr.com/c69f447f5355ec163de25eec5941efe9/tumblr_ndkqtb2Yer1qzpkjoo1_500.jpg
― linda cardellini (zachlyon), Saturday, 18 October 2014 01:45 (nine years ago) link
lol
― I can't make my waterface turn into a *fart* (Sufjan Grafton), Saturday, 18 October 2014 02:01 (nine years ago) link
i made a joke @ sam about him being bullied into apologizing and it got RT'd by like 30 GG people ... i dont think they got it
― deej loaf (D-40), Saturday, 18 October 2014 04:45 (nine years ago) link
Max had a thing on Twitter about how these dudes don't seem to get written irony
― Clay, Saturday, 18 October 2014 05:57 (nine years ago) link
about half of them seem to have no clue how to read context or tone into stuff, whether it's because they're too young or sheltered to have the background or because of some other reason, and the other half seems to be deeply disingenuous
― max, Saturday, 18 October 2014 11:51 (nine years ago) link
i mean i knew this was insane but i didnt know HOW insane. i keep waiting for an adult to step in
prob there is a better term for it nowadays and i apologize for using it particularly in this context but there is a freaky element of mass hysteria about the way these folks are operating that is genuinely terrifying to see in action
― Roberto Spiralli, Saturday, 18 October 2014 12:27 (nine years ago) link
one day these ppl are going to come to their senses and piggy's corpse will be lying there and they won't have any idea how it got to that point
― Roberto Spiralli, Saturday, 18 October 2014 12:30 (nine years ago) link
I guess I'm more used to the stupid persecution complex and irrational anger of the culture so it's not super shocking
Someone tweeted me once that my whole family should get cancer because I gave the HD remake of Jet Grind Radio (a game w anime roller bladers) a 7.5 out of 10
― u2 removal machine (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Saturday, 18 October 2014 13:48 (nine years ago) link
xp yeah, the ginning up of existential threat from... basically nothing? is one of the most unsettling things about this.
― Andrew Farrell, Saturday, 18 October 2014 13:49 (nine years ago) link
Jet Grind/Set Radio the original is a 10, though.
― Andrew Farrell, Saturday, 18 October 2014 13:50 (nine years ago) link
the HD remake was Hitler's fav video game iirc
― i'd rather be arrested by you folks than by anybody i know (art), Saturday, 18 October 2014 13:51 (nine years ago) link
Getting rid of review scores and having text only reviews would help a lot
― u2 removal machine (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Saturday, 18 October 2014 14:11 (nine years ago) link
― Andrew Farrell, Saturday, October 18, 2014 8:50 AM (20 minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
Yeah I guess my whole family does deserve cancer good point.
― u2 removal machine (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Saturday, 18 October 2014 14:12 (nine years ago) link
That's Andrew actually great thank you Andrew that's in a weird way just what I need right now.
― u2 removal machine (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Saturday, 18 October 2014 14:14 (nine years ago) link
because of some other reason
yeeeeeah
― ⌘-B (mh), Saturday, 18 October 2014 15:25 (nine years ago) link
the stupid persecution complex and irrational anger of the culture
otm! I was cleaning out some stuff from my parents' house yesterday and I was surprised by the anger and alienation of the dumb shit I'd scrawled among the doodles of my high school era rough notes. I mean I'm bitter now of course but I'd really forgotten the intensity, and it did remind me of the younger/less manipulative end of #GG
so y'know I just roll my eyes at these guys going "women can't appreciate games properly because none of them were this angry and dorky as teenagers, therefore they aren't allowed into the clubhouse or to imply they don't always get everything they want just for being women"
signed, the most angry, dorky and dateless teenager, who wasn't even allowed to play D&D and Warhammer with the male angry dorks because 1. girl 2. ugly girl 3. if even talked to, instantly given a gatekeeping quiz and deemed a FAKE for not memorising the right pointless arcane facts, or if test passed then "uh that stuff's dumb and who'd want to know any of that stuff anyway" (OK, stage 3 might be how all geeks treat each other)
― club mate martyr (a passing spacecadet), Saturday, 18 October 2014 15:38 (nine years ago) link
Every women I've known in games has talked and ppl asking if they "really" played games etc, quizzes like you mention
― u2 removal machine (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Saturday, 18 October 2014 15:45 (nine years ago) link
I think for every man thinking women can't really be gamers, there's another congratulating himself because he knows women can be gamers, too.
― ⌘-B (mh), Saturday, 18 October 2014 15:50 (nine years ago) link
Hell, they've adopted "Mom" as their shield/adult, I think
― Stephen King's Threaderstarter (kingfish), Saturday, 18 October 2014 17:09 (nine years ago) link
http://img1.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20091019190254/futuramabeta/es/images/f/fc/Mam%C3%A1.jpg
― tsrobodo, Saturday, 18 October 2014 17:41 (nine years ago) link
http://www.wearyourbeer.com/images/Pink_Floyd_Mother_White_Shirt.jpg
― EZ Snappin, Saturday, 18 October 2014 18:06 (nine years ago) link
Sorry matt, that was a stupid thing to say.
― Andrew Farrell, Saturday, 18 October 2014 18:27 (nine years ago) link
(for me to say)
― club mate martyr (a passing spacecadet), Saturday, October 18, 2014 10:38 AM (3 hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
teenage dorks were the worst at stuff like this, like bc they feel unable to ascertain the social cues that have helped their peers 'get ahead' socially they create this very strict hierarchical alternate structure, it's like the competition of the real world but more narrow and punishingly competitive
― deej loaf (D-40), Saturday, 18 October 2014 19:29 (nine years ago) link
very often the social cue they fail to ascertain is "be physically attractive."
― you walk on the street, grab the rock (President Keyes), Saturday, 18 October 2014 21:05 (nine years ago) link
teenagers in general are aggrieved and judgemental its totally typical and understandable and just kinda part of life, the thing w nerd culture is it becomes some sort of talisman that they carry with themselves way longer than is healthy, its a central animating myth along with that theyre smarter than everyone and deserve actually to be at the top of the totem pole because of it, so at a time when they shld be growing up theyre cocooning themselves in this scene that encourages them to feed their resentment when they shd be developing a more magnanimous view on life
― lag∞n, Saturday, 18 October 2014 21:33 (nine years ago) link
tho tbqh im not sure the % of aggrieved manbabies is really any higher than society at large, and the gamer gate people are prob mostly still young
― lag∞n, Saturday, 18 October 2014 21:34 (nine years ago) link
Yeah, I mean, I passed through this stuff on my way to the well-rounded and healthy (!?!??!) state that I currently occupy. I get a LITTLE bit iffy about hating too consistently on "nerds" as the problem here, because being hated on is what drives a lot of people to armor themselves with these nerd tropes! I knew a lot of dudes, in my teenage anime/gamer/etc. days, that were considerably more intense and angry than I was. Some of them stayed that way, and we grew apart as I got a little further along and just basically mellowed out a little. I wonder if any of 'em are now GamerGaters; it wouldn't surprise me.
But some of them turned out just fine! The intensity got worked out somehow and they are now happy enthusiastic nerds of the kinds you want to meet. The degree of nerd-dom doesn't really track directly onto the degree of hateful intensity. Some of the nerdiest are some of the nicest. But there are these tropes and tendencies and myths within nerd subcultures that could, yeah, become self-sustaining in a certain sort of person, to where you're still using at 30 the tools for sorting out insecurity that are really meant to be kind of temporary tools of firming yourself up at 13. I guess this is a longwinded way of throwing around the "manchild" straw-man(child).
― Doctor Casino, Saturday, 18 October 2014 22:08 (nine years ago) link
Like, we shouldn't lose sight of the fact that nice nerds are some of the nicest people you'll ever meet - empathetic eccentric enthusiasts. ILX has more than a few great ones. There are legitimate paths out of being a little ball of rage and internet cockiness, besides becoming one of the Cool Kids or w/e.
― Doctor Casino, Saturday, 18 October 2014 22:10 (nine years ago) link
feel like a lot of the nerd bashing ive seen is just messing w them for adopting that aggrieved mythology, which is ironic in a way no one committed to that ideology is capable of understanding, which is the joke anyway
― lag∞n, Saturday, 18 October 2014 22:21 (nine years ago) link
everyday i thank god there was no internet around when i was in my teens/twenties
― Steve 'n' Seagulls and Flock of Van Dammes (forksclovetofu), Saturday, 18 October 2014 22:21 (nine years ago) link
i said dorks not nerds *clears throat*
― deej loaf (D-40), Saturday, 18 October 2014 22:36 (nine years ago) link
― you walk on the street, grab the rock (President Keyes), Saturday, October 18, 2014 4:05 PM (1 hour ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink
ehh i mean sure but also learn personal hygiene
you know who wrote a great essay long these lines is ellen willis, i think this piece is pretty otm: http://nymag.com/thecut/2014/04/memoirs-of-a-non-prom-queen.html
― deej loaf (D-40), Saturday, 18 October 2014 22:37 (nine years ago) link
but to be fair, this experience in h.s. she describes was also mine: The students’ social life was fragmented along ethnic and class lines; there was no universally recognized, schoolwide social hierarchy.
― deej loaf (D-40), Saturday, 18 October 2014 22:39 (nine years ago) link
The most popular kids were not necessarily the best looking or the best dressed or the most snobbish or the least studious. In retrospect, it seems to me that they were popular for much more honorable reasons. They were attuned to other people, aware of subtle social nuances. They projected an inviting sexual warmth. Far from being slavish followers of fashion, they were self-confident enough to set fashions. They suggested, initiated, led. Above all—this was their main appeal for me—they knew how to have a good time.
feel like my jr high had popular kids but by hs it was just a bunch of diff cliques
― lag∞n, Saturday, 18 October 2014 22:43 (nine years ago) link
and wow there was some shameless nerding
― lag∞n, Saturday, 18 October 2014 22:44 (nine years ago) link
I like this NYer bit, especially when it points out that games are artifice:
http://www.newyorker.com/tech/elements/gamergate-scandal-erupts-video-game-community
― Stephen King's Threaderstarter (kingfish), Saturday, 18 October 2014 22:48 (nine years ago) link
How much of the 70s-80s jock v. nerd mindset persists culturally because the main cohort of pop-culture producers were formed during that time and consumed pop-culture formed during that time, so it sticks as a primal template, even tho culture changed and blew the fuck up once the Internet permeated everything?
I mean, I'm reminded of Patton Oswalt's thing from from a coupla years ago bemoaning the change to outside (sub)cultural transmission avenues; genre entertainment used to be something you had to hunt for, like having an older brother hook you up with Watchmen or Replacements albums or Joy Division or Public Enemy.
This is badly articulated, but does anybody get what I mean? 21 Jump Street explicitly commented on this change
― Stephen King's Threaderstarter (kingfish), Saturday, 18 October 2014 22:55 (nine years ago) link
yeah idk i was in hs pre internet as mass culture and things already did not resemble the popular jocks and suffering nerds archetype
― lag∞n, Saturday, 18 October 2014 23:04 (nine years ago) link