Any reason why ILM is so quiet these days?

I've killed loads of threads with really boring posts. Sorry.

ILX prevents me from looking too much at the cesspool that is much of the rest of the internet these days so it's still invaluable as far as I'm concerned.

Our pizzagates are much better

i like how fairly chill ILX is, the drama is certainly a lot less these days, our biggest -gates in the past involved some really batshit things and nowadays it rarely rises beyond the level of sean spicer dlp9001 vs dippin dots spotify.

I really like ilx and even ilxors for the most part

I like how the last two posts were from nomar and ogmor.

I would love to post more but I spend all my precious little free time just trying stay current on any given thread. An example is our monthly Trump threads: you step away for two or three days and there's a like 1500 new messages. You guys post and link to a lot of great shit (I basically get my news from ILX and recs from ILB and ILM), so I read most of what is posted/linked, leaving no time for posting. Not that I have anything interesting to say, mind.

Oh! I Always Get Those Two Mixed Up! [Started by New Mark H (New MarkH) in January 2007, last updated yesterday by Wimmels on I Love Everything] 5 new answers (xp)

I have never confused myself with nomar, you guys are thick imo

No, I've never mixed you two up either, but dow and dowd is another matter.

The problem w clusterfucks is that if you're in any way an emotionally healthy person they are deeply unpleasant to be in the eye of which trains you not to start or participate in them again which winnows the field

― Mordy, Monday, 6 February 2017 22:18 (one hour ago) Permalink

This is spot on. I'd easily post twice as much if I didn't have to worry about getting on the wrong side of a grumpy regular.

I come here for both the music and the music writing. I don't care if it's detailed critical insight or just a pleasant "I like this album, check it out," they both have value to me, and even the pleasantry posts can incite good conversation. The hostility just kills it before it even begins, though.

(Should also stress that 95% of users are delightful and great to interact with, and that I still love this community. It just has a small toxic element that I think some of the long timers here don't even notice anymore)

I'd easily post twice as much if I didn't have to worry about getting on the wrong side of a grumpy regular.

And this goes tenfold for women.

i don't notice it. you guys are pussycats for the most part. or pussy hats. one or the other. but that's fine. we've got big and bold in the white house now. chill is good.

x-post

quite the unfortunate crosspost too

ime opinions like this mean that you want to quit ilx but have fomo. just quit if you want to.

― na (NA), Monday, February 6, 2017 2:34 PM (one hour ago

partly that, partly also tfw someone revives an old thread and i am reminded of how obnoxious i was in my youth

Clusterfucks and antagonism are the worst

"quite the unfortunate crosspost too"

haha, i didn't mean it to be!

"Clusterfucks and antagonism are the worst"

every long thread gets called a clstrfk now and that's not what i meant when i was talking about really long posts from the old days. they were just crazy long conversations and x-posts galore and kinda nuts but fun and not always antagonistic.

I know one when I see one -- I have been here for a decade! (???!!!) I'm not talking about verbose old posts.

all said, I can't (don't want to) imagine some decisive end to ILM. The truth is I'll probably be here till it's just six of us just going "boy, the Replacements sure were good though, weren't they?"

well, there were more debate champions in the old days.

― scott seward

yeah i don't miss those days. god knows i spent enough time flaming people on usenet and it wasn't a good use of my time. people who want to be debate champions can go on twitter.

I'm still haunted by a post I very nearly made years ago because I completely misunderstood a thread. There's an alternate world RAG still being mocked for it.

I wish some of the posters who see an incredible number of films would decribe, praise and sell the best things they're seeing a bit more.

I hope Monster Mash comes back someday after he recovers from whatever he was going through.

i liked it back then. i wouldn't have the energy for it now. and it was new to me back then. i started going online for the first time in 1999. and i never ever talked to people about that stuff in real life prior to ilx.

x-post

now i just come here to get away from Facebook. or ILE anyway. not ILM so much. facebook such a curse to me. and yet i can't stay away from it completely. i try i really try.

I quit Facebook a few years ago and never missed it. A lot of people at the time said "you'll be back!" but I have honestly never even been tempted. This isn't to brag, because I'm still on Twitter, Instagram, and, well, here. I just found that Facebook, more than the others, seemed to necessitate me refreshing refreshing refreshing and getting into long, spiraling-out-of-control debates about minutiae, and it was just made for way too much indoor staring-at-a-screen time

I'm pretty sure most people here don't want to talk to me and I often receive no responses or my post ends up being the one that kills all conversational momentum. lol and yet I'm still here.

loving your work

"we never did work out which one was his name"

As a relatively new person here (joined in 2013? 2014? around then), even I have noticed it die down a bit compared to that first year or so. I was introduced by another ILMer - she knew I'd love this place as a massive music nerd. And she was right.

Soooo invite your friends you know who would love this kind of over the top pedantic subjective discourse about the thing we love most: vibrating sound waves.

We just need to recruit one influential millennial and soon their whole network will be coming over. Let's get our core brand proposition straight before we start though.

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You do realize you killed that thread, right?

i spent a lot of time on ilm in my 20s, when i wasn't particularly invested in my day job but *was* very invested in participating in smart conversations about music and pop culture. ilx was a great distraction from work because it seemed to always be active; you could refresh every minute or two and find a new updated thread. it was also thrilling as a young wannabe critic to have a place to shoot the shit and try out theories without feeling like i wasn't qualified to join in. i quickly fell in love with the whole culture of ilx and the various personalities who inhabited it. (not that i got along with everyone, but i never felt unwelcome -- except maybe on the noise board in its early days.)

anyway, i've spent less time on ilm in the past few years for a couple reasons. the first is that i've become more interested and engaged in my day job and less interested in the specific rewards that i was getting out of ilm. while i still listen to a lot of new music, i feel like i've been gradually drifting away from "the conversation" that surrounds it; being in the thick of current music-critical discourse simply isn't as important to me as it once was. the other difference, as some people have noted, is social media. if i'm looking for a quick distraction during the day, twitter is more reliably effective at feeding me interesting/amusing content and giving me the occasional hit of attention, without requiring much sustained engagement.

btw, since it came up earlier, i've never much cared for the rolling ilm threads, because i've never felt invested in genres per se, and they seem like they're intended for people who are. i guess they can be useful as sources of recommendations, but i've sometimes felt stifled and overwhelmed by the context: "this is where people who are more devoted to this genre than you are have already been talking about it with each other for months."

But it also makes me wonder why I bother reviving old threads about some Krautrock band or some new thing I just discovered just to get one or two responses before the thread dies again (and yes, xp, in my experience, this does happen). Don't know what I'm expecting, necessarily--maybe nothing?--but yeah, I dunno.

the secret is that those threads will never die, my friend

you just have to wait for everything to come back around, one, two, five, ten years

billstevejim totally rules

btw, since it came up earlier, i've never much cared for the rolling ilm threads, because i've never felt invested in genres per se, and they seem like they're intended for people who are. i guess they can be useful as sources of recommendations, but i've sometimes felt stifled and overwhelmed by the context: "this is where people who are more devoted to this genre than you are have already been talking about it with each other for months."

This is it, I think.

But how is that different from threads about an artist or about an album? You could just as easily describe them as "this is where people who are more devoted to this artist/album than you are have already been talking about it with each other for months."

I don't get the rolling threads hate at all. Seems like a good place to find music and share music. And more convenient than dealing with 100 separate threads about a single album with just 3 posts in each. It's not like if you decide to post in them then you can no longer take part in the other kind of threads.

1. people don't like feeling like dilettantes
2. expertise was, at least until recently, over-rated
3. comfy little establishments full of regulars are not always the most inviting places

Just because: rolling genre threads from last year last updated this year with total number of posts in each:

R&B - 433
House & techno - 402
Outernational - 397
NotIndiePop/Shambhala - 220
Eno/Pop-Punk - 197
Pop - 93
Soca/Chutney/Jab - 86
Grime - 55
Eastern Pop - 37
Noise - 33

There was also a rolling rap and a rolling dancehall/reggae thread.

And a rolling afropop thread: Rolling Afrobeats / Afropop 2016

The 2016 rap thread: rolling industry plant thread 2016
The 2016 dancehall & reggae thread: rolling dancehall & reggae 2016

aye but not accessible from the 'last 1-4 weeks' links so didn't include

cue bitter people obsessed with the elusive "gatekeepers" of good hip music or whatever.

― lute bro (brimstead), Thursday, 4 February 2016 10:57 Bookmark

lol Industry Planet appears to be the post count winner by huge distance fwiw

Nice to see Outernational among the busier ones - broader scope for inclusion I guess

true ilm heads know we been had rolling threads since the early 00s but back then they were only about jay z and nas

fucking hillis