The new rolling ILX parenting thread, since the other one was getting unwieldy

All these babies with their gorgeous eyes!!! My heart is just thrilled to pieces for the Dimension 5ive clan :)

Oh gosh! So so pretty! Molly (and the rest). :-)

My husband is off to another doctor. Ophelia has yet another urinary infection. Third time in as many months. :-( We're going to ask for a referral (for a urologist) and hopefully have an ultrasound to see if there's nothing really serious. For now we assume it's the *extra skin* that connects the small labia (?) which causes the infection. Also, we're just tired of having to give the poor thing antibiotics. Even though it's a light one, AB are *evil*. :-) She had fever (about 39 degrees) in the middle of the night. Poor thing.

Bah. It's more serious than the other doctor thought. We have to do an "echo" and check what's exactly wrong. also we have to give her a bath every time she urinated.

wow. poor O. i hope to new dr fixes her properly.

molly is gorgeous, btw. congratulations!

Congrats on Molly!

Tallulah looks lovely in the pic.

Sorry about O. Nath. Hopefully they can figure it out. UTIs aren't too uncommon in babies are they? I'm sure she hates it though.

Well, the echo didn't show anything (which I read on the baby site doesn't mean much). Bt at least it's not a kidney stone or something. We'll see how this works out. If the UTI comes back, we'll need to do a more serious test (catheter urgh!). I am so not looking forward to this. :-( Poor thing.

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Best picture ever!
"If I wanted milk I'd ask for it, OK? Now where's my damn bourbon?"

Nath: love and support from here, it's a big hassle I know but I'm sure she'll be fine.

Dimension, she's beautiful! Congrats! And great choice of names, btw.

Here's another crybaby picture for that sicko, Rock Hardy.

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Beeps's mood did improve later...

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awww. it must have been those duck feet shoes i made her wear.

Everybody can go back to their normal cheerful baby programming -- I just wanted to make sure that Schwantz's twins weren't animatronic or something. They remind me of that Youtube "happy baby" video.

Aw Beeps so lovely all dressed up!

And Molly is GORgeous, so excited to see her!

Upon her request, I photoshopped my mom-in-law out of this picture:
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And Owen has found his tongue:
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We are leaving in about 15 hours; Paris first and then Addis. Pixx to follow. Keep it real, parenting threaders.

Good luck!!! :-)

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That ws yesterday. Today she's sick again. I'm getting a bit (hah! a bit?!?) worried here. We stopped with antibiotics last night! I mean, WTF! :-(

nath, is it still the urinary infection? beeps has had a cold/sinusitis for 7 weeks now. she finished her second round of antibiotics last week and she really doesnt seem that much better. so frustrating.

Oh my god, I just came to post that the doctor said a UTI was impossible and that, maybe, it was a cold. Maybe that's what she had all along? Poor thing. She went a big hysterical on us for a few minutes, so I went out with her and bought a Pooh Potty (hah! Pooh! Potty!) Check it out http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1199/695930708_be3d387dc3.jpghere. She loves it. I suddenly realized that she's 18 months (almost... Well, 17 almost) and that means we can officially start potty training! In the past they would start much earlier. In Japan they also start earlier. But here they advise you to wait till at least 18 months. But y'know, fuck it. Potty training has been one of the main things I was afraid of (when I thght of having kids). I think it's TIME. Now. Eep. :-)

So how's Beeps doing?

Argh! FUUUUUUUUUUCK! Sorry about posting another pic. :-(

beeps keeps going up and down - almost coming out of it then going back to coughing and snotty. pp and I have spent the last few weeks taking turns sleeping on the futon in the nursery because shes guaranteed to have a coughing fit she cant shake herself out of at least once a night and one of us needs to be close by to sit her upright before she really wakes up and gets upset. she's been in a great mood through all of this. if I'd been sick with something for that long I'd be pretty upset most of the time. babies are so tough.

i hope they've diagnosed O correctly this time and she starts feeling better soon.

Oh I shouldn't complain, really. O wakes up early, is a bit teary and/or screamy but all ni all she's such a good girl. I just hate seeing her this way. When she's healthy (or on antibiotics) she runs and shouts and laughs. I want to see her happy.

Hope Beeps recovers soon as well. :-)

Potty training? Jeez, Ava's 28 months and we still haven't crossed that particular bridge. I think most of her local contemporaries are in the midst of it or have it down. Every time we consider it, there's another excuse to put it off. July is the month, though.

I have potty trained two kids and the one thing I can say is don't push it and don't let it turn into a power struggle. Julia was very ready at age 2 and she trained really fast; Alex I didn't even really start until he was 3 1/2 and he still took a year to get it.

Three and a half? That would be nearly impossible unless we decided to keep Ophelia at home (instead of going to kindergarten). Yes, if a child *enrolls* (?) in kindergarten s/he has to be potty trained and *dry* (as we say here). Also, the crèche also starts potty training from around 18/24 months anyway. I'm not really *that* nervous about it and I am going to take it very slowly. But as she's prone to urinary infections and because the second one's on the way, I think I'll start now. If she's not ready, then we can wait. But when I came in with the box, she wanted to have a look inside and then proceeded to sit and play with the potty. I like to delude myself into thinking she's ready. ;-)

Apparently she has a viral troath infection. Which is sort of "yay." At least it isn't a UTI. :-)

Alex went to preschool at age 4; no kindergarten until age 5 here. I think it probably *helps* kids to train earlier if they are in day care or some kind of school program, so it sounds like you're good there. It sounds like Ophelia is showing interest, and that's the first sign that she's ready!

I hope she recovers from her viral infection soon... that would not be fun.

Alex went through a period when he was 3 where he just refused to poop. Which is, of course, impossible. He was still in diapers at the time. That was a trick to solve...

Ah yes, the refusal to poop (or pee). It's a common problem: kids don't wanna lose play time. :-)

i remember reading an article in social studies back in high school titled "POOS, PARENTS and POWER"

I read the other day that the average kid is 'ready' to be potty trained at two and a half, so the closer to that age you start them, the less time it will take to crack. But in reality they are probably all different.

Question for parents of older babies/kids: what age did they start having 'finger food' as opposed to just mush? Alice (nearly 7 months) has had bits of toast and rice cake and she LOVES it, but she does often cough and choke a bit afterwards which freaks us out and makes us think that she's not ready after all.

Oh yeah and I hope both Ophelia and Beeps feel better soon!

We tried some little puffs, and they didn't seem ready (coughed, etc.). I think we'll wait until their top two teeth come in before trying that again. On the other hand, my wife has been putting her cheffing skills to use making them all sorts of yummy mushy stuff to eat. They get squash, blueberry-mango sauce in their cereal and yogurt, sweet potatoes, avocados, etc. We even gave them some mashed chicken and plums, which they seem to like.

This photo was taken in Oct '05, so Ava was eating toast just shy of 8 months. But Tallulah (8 months yesterday; two teeth coming in) doesn't seem ready yet - she's still working her way through the frozen mush mountain in our freezer (bags of cubes of chicken, pumpkin, sweet potato, broccoli, etc).

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"POOS, PARENTS and POWER"

lol - and yes, losing play time was a huge part of it, I think!

I'm trying to remember when my kids started on "finger foods..." honestly, like the potty training, I think they are all different. It took Alex a lot longer than it took Julia; J. wanted to eat whatever we were eating by the time she was probably 10 months old. (She did not always get her way). Alex, on the other hand, I was worried would want to live on breast milk, Cheerios, and the occasional yogurt forever...

Archel, I have a GREBT recipe book (for children aged 4 months till a couple of years old). If you like, I can scan a few recps and email them? It's in English, so quite understandable. ;-)

Today I made tuna pasta bake from it. She took out the peas. hah. Tomorrow I'm making meatloaf with tomato sauce from the same book. I'll probably throw in some mashed potatos. It's extremely easy to make larger portions so the adults can join in. hah!

http://www.borstvoeding.com/voedselintroductie/vast_voedsel/rapley_guidelines.html

I just sent a friend this link, it's an interesting perspective on starting solids. I started spooning goo into my kid's face around 7 or 8 months, and when he got finger foods down around 9 months, there was no looking back. He's only now liking mushy food again now that he can use a spoon. But I know some kids like the mushy stuff for a long time, Sara is OTM above.

This is a Dutch site! Borstvoeding means breastfeeding in Dutch.

Ophelia has been using a fork for quite a few weeks now. She is mastering it slowly, but over half of the time we still have to feed her.

What I don't get it is the five veggies/fruits per day. I'm not sure we achieve that but I'm not *that* worried about it. Today I made a veggie sauce (tomato/pepper/onion/carrot) and meatloaf. She loved it and so did mummy and daddy. It was adapted from that *kiddie recipe* book. She doesn't eat that much carbs: no cookies at all, a few slices of bread and that's it? Rice and potatos? Very little to none.

the face betrays the sentiment:

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breathtaking shot, Sunny.

Ava and Tallulah are finally in the same room; for the last few weeks T has been in her little rocker-cot on the landing, now she's too big for it and she's in Ava's old cot in the room we're still calling Ava's room.

We've got one of those zippable cat-net things over the cot to discourage Ava's midnight mountaineering. Last night was bliss - T slept all night and so did Ava. They've both been down without a peep (well, Ava was talking to her toys for a bit an hour ago) for four hours so I'll now creep upstairs, bash the stair gate into the nappy bin and ruin it.

thanks, alex!

michael, i wonder when the giggly bedtime girl talk will start. does anyone here have girls and boys? we seem to all be one sex baby families.

THe giggly bedtime girl talk starts around the time your daughter can *vocalize* I think. I can't remember when it started for Ophelia. A couple of months back? Around that time. It's become more complex in the sense that you can tell she's sort of talking to herself (or to her teddy bears).

I'm not counting any chickens yet but we've three relatively incident-free nights and a much less whiny Ava than normal. If baby sis wakes her up, we soothe T and encourage A to go back to her own bed; for the last few weeks, we've been defying midwife advice and opening Ava's bedroom gate when we come to bed, and locking the stair gate (with bathroom and office doors shut), so if she does wake up in the night she can just run into our room and climb in with us rather than the old 2am wailing-at-the-gate routine - this meant none of us actually got enough sleep (T, too, was probably waking up earlier than normal with the landing being flooded with daylight around 5am) what with Ava sticking her feet in my face and insisting that we look for her "blankie" under the covers at 4am.

In the new regime, Lulu is sleeping better (in her crazy tent-like structure) and Ava is much happier to go back to the room with her beloved sister in (even though she doesn't try to play with her) than she was when it was just her room. I haven't heard "Mummy Daddy bed?" in two days...

And here's the girls watching Sesame Street (Guess That Shape and Color) in perfect harmony:

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Aw, Michael. How could anyone resist those eyes?

I have ordered a bed rail 'cause these days co-sleeping seems to be the only way we all get some rest. Howie's eczema is still bad (we are still waiting for hospital referral) and he still seems to be hungry in the night (regularly feeds 3/4 times), I am too much of a softie to do anything other than go with it, so co-sleeping seems the sensible option for now.

I got lucky with this shot of the Boy.
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Although 9 year olds can certainly be very difficult at times, it's just great to see them revert to little kid mode on a bouncy castle. We had it in our garden for Mae's bithday and so they got a good hour of bouncing before it was invaded by her friends for her birthday party.

Meg, how many months is Howie now? I think around the age of six months they really don't need night feedings. I know it's easier said than done,but try *postponing* feedings (for example distracting Howie or something).

I fear O's UTI might come back: she seems to hurt when peeing. :-( It's difficult to tell really, but at times she cries for no reason whatsoever and then we check her diaper... which is wet. Not a good sign. :-(

Fellow Ned, your son's hair meets with my seal of approval.

does anyone here have girls and boys? we seem to all be one sex baby families.

aldo and onimo have boys and girls. Scottish people be better at varying their babies!