Going To Law School

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Oh, but I think you should both totally go to law school. Why not?

carl agatha, Thursday, 8 December 2022 22:56 (one year ago) link

I have decided against for now, will consider again in a few months. A friend of a friend heard I was considering it and messaged me, saying: Look, do what you have to, but I was in your same position a year and half ago and was told to really just push hard at what I was already doing, switched up some language in my resume and CV, and now I have a good fulltime job that allows me to read and write, too.

I am going to see how that works.

Goose Bigelow, Fowl Gigolo (the table is the table), Thursday, 8 December 2022 23:13 (one year ago) link

I appreciate all of the lawyerly advice, tho. I should mention my dad is a smalltown lawyer who has been working for nearly fifty years and doesn’t show any signs of stopping because he loves his job.

Goose Bigelow, Fowl Gigolo (the table is the table), Thursday, 8 December 2022 23:15 (one year ago) link

carl! agatha!!!!!

G. D’Arcy Cheesewright (silby), Thursday, 8 December 2022 23:19 (one year ago) link

table is your dad going to say good-naturedly grumpy things like "well you could've done that 20 years ago but better late than never here's a new pair of suspenders"

G. D’Arcy Cheesewright (silby), Thursday, 8 December 2022 23:35 (one year ago) link

Good luck, table! Hi, silby!

carl agatha, Thursday, 8 December 2022 23:50 (one year ago) link

I can’t imagine a more anxiety inducing profession but ymmv

calstars, Thursday, 8 December 2022 23:55 (one year ago) link

I stayed as union-adjacent as I could for awhile, hoping I could get back into it, working as a steward for my union and doing pro bono worker rights stuff and got too close to how that particular sausage is made. I’m not anti-union, but I’m real glad I didn’t end up in labor law after all.


Me too! Our marriage would have been real awkward when I pivoted to anti-union.

Jeff, Friday, 9 December 2022 00:00 (one year ago) link

thanks carl, and silby, my dad has always said “you’d be a great lawyer but i never wanted to pressure you to do anything,” which frankly, thanks dad. obviously he wishes i made more money, but he also understands the unique position i’ve been in— graduated college in 07, got downsized from my first job after the crash, went to get my MFA, could only find weird gigs for years, etc.

Goose Bigelow, Fowl Gigolo (the table is the table), Friday, 9 December 2022 00:34 (one year ago) link

I can’t imagine a more anxiety inducing profession but ymmv

Dentistry

immodesty blaise (jimbeaux), Friday, 9 December 2022 00:39 (one year ago) link

Anyway, my general advice is the same, which is only go to law school if you want to practice law. I’d refine it a little to say only go to law school if you can do it without incurring any debt or if you’re willing to work a less than ideal job for a decade or so while you pay off debts/get your career sorted out.

― carl agatha, Thursday, December 8, 2022 2:47 PM (two hours ago)

yeah, I am basically thinking in terms of whether/how much debt it would lead to and what lifestyle changes I'd have to make in order to carry that debt burden. Currently I have no kids, no spouse, no debt .... but am a renter, so, I might just not do law school and buy a house instead. My Great Great Uncle was a lawyer who never went to law school, but there were ways to, I guess work and test out of the academic requirements? He ended up a judge so, I'm assuming he was a pretty good lawyer?

sarahell, Friday, 9 December 2022 01:33 (one year ago) link

my dad has always said “you’d be a great lawyer but i never wanted to pressure you to do anything,” which frankly, thanks dad. obviously he wishes i made more money,

my mom says the same thing to me, tbh, she will also say, "Sarah, three words, estates and trusts."

sarahell, Friday, 9 December 2022 01:36 (one year ago) link

I forget which season of Better Call Saul it was where he went into elder law but ... when I watched that, I could hear my mom saying "estates and trusts" and also my grandmother periodically updating her will to change which relative she is going to leave her best china to based on recent behavior

sarahell, Friday, 9 December 2022 01:39 (one year ago) link

Yeah, I would explore what actually practicing law looks like. I mean, there is huge variety, but I would focus less on "law school" and more on "what my life would be like if I were a lawyer." It's been a great profession for me, but it's not for everyone. Again, I would talk to as many practitioners as you can.

As far as specifically being a tax lawyer goes, I think the biggest difference is that your role is much more as planner and advocate than preparing returns and working in compliance. As someone said upthread, if you are at a big firm you will spend your time working on huge transactions to minimize the economic hit of taxes, or possibly defending very large taxpayers against the IRS (or FTB, NY DOR, etc.). I spend most of my time helping individuals and families plan for wealth transfer. However, I know plenty of practitioners at small shops or solo firms who do quite well for themselves. The guy who does my taxes is a CPA and attorney whose practice is divided between return preparation and representation of clients before the IRS. He has a small staff and an excellent reputation; I don't think he's hurting for work.

immodesty blaise (jimbeaux), Friday, 9 December 2022 01:42 (one year ago) link

]my mom says the same thing to me, tbh, she will also say, "Sarah, three words, estates and trusts."

+1

California probate work is quite abundant and profitable.

immodesty blaise (jimbeaux), Friday, 9 December 2022 01:42 (one year ago) link

Prop 19 that recently passed is probably a gold rush for the profession

sarahell, Friday, 9 December 2022 02:14 (one year ago) link

It's a gigantic pain in the ass, is what it is.

immodesty blaise (jimbeaux), Friday, 9 December 2022 02:22 (one year ago) link

seven months pass...

Welp, paid my fee and I’m taking the LSAT in October

butt dumb tight my boners got boners (the table is the table), Tuesday, 11 July 2023 22:41 (nine months ago) link

Good luck, table.

il lavoro mi rovina la giornata (PBKR), Tuesday, 11 July 2023 22:53 (nine months ago) link

yay!!! meanwhile, me and my coworker recently discussed both of us going to law school and being "study partners" ... i don't think this will happen tbh ... i will probably be posting to this thread about considering going to law school until ilx dies or I die haha

sarahell, Wednesday, 12 July 2023 07:46 (nine months ago) link


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