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Depends on the relationship, depends on the people in the relationship, depends on the reason for lack of sex, depends on the communication and boundaries of the people within the relationship. I can see situations where it could be used as a form of abusive control, I can see plenty of situations where it's not even close.
Also, while 7 years is a very long time, a single year? If you were physically unable to have sex with your wife for one year you'd be fine with her having sex with other people? I mean, that mostly sounds like you'd be fine with having an open relationship in general, which is cool, but a lot of people aren't really up for open relationships.
that's all an xp to frogs
darragh - I figured you didn't mean it the other way but it definitely could have read like that!
― emil.y, Wednesday, 7 June 2023 14:29 (ten months ago) link
ok yeah I suppose it all depends a lot on the exact situation. idk if I'm a guy who's fine with an open relationship as much as I'm the guy who just says he'd be totally cool with it :)
― frogbs, Wednesday, 7 June 2023 15:32 (ten months ago) link
If you were physically unable to have sex with your wife for one year you'd be fine with her having sex with other people? I mean, that mostly sounds like you'd be fine with having an open relationship in genera
uh, a year is a long time to go without, assuming you are cohabiting ... though, it definitely feels like in this thread there is a broad variety of what constitutes "a long time" ... so I think we are back to the "it depends on the people" metric
― sarahell, Wednesday, 7 June 2023 15:55 (ten months ago) link
Sex drought, isn't it nice, ih wait no never mind
― a black white asian pine ghost who is fake (Telephone thing), Tuesday, September 21, 2010 5:39 PM (twelve years ago) bookmarkflaglink
lol - sex dwarf was the song it called to my mind
― sarahel, Tuesday, September 21, 2010