sometimes people just like giving.
― Surmounter, Friday, 10 October 2008 07:35 (fifteen years ago) link
i'm actually not a huge fan of getting. i mean it's fine. the right person is great. but whatever. i know WEIRD.
― Surmounter, Friday, 10 October 2008 07:39 (fifteen years ago) link
it is better to give than to receive. or so i've heard...
― "I'ma lose my religion and go secular on you, boy" (Ioannis), Friday, 10 October 2008 10:09 (fifteen years ago) link
what do Christians know?
― Alfred, Lord Sotosyn, Friday, 10 October 2008 13:45 (fifteen years ago) link
Sometimes there's an equal exchange of pleasurings. Sometime's there's not, and the imbalance isn't necessarily in favor of one particular gender. You just have to navigate things and figure out what makes sex work in the context of whatever kind of relationship is in play at the moment. There's no universal should or shouldn't here. For a dude as sexually experienced as you, Tuomas, I'm surprised that you don't realize this.
― NJ Sucks (libcrypt), Friday, 10 October 2008 14:47 (fifteen years ago) link
I used to date a chick who got pissed off if she didn't have five orgasms during one sexual escapade (to my one). That really wasn't so fair and balanced, now was it? It worked out fine in our relationship until one day I decided to skip 3 or 4 and she dumped me like a couple days later. Moral of the story? Always take one of those counting clicker things to bed.
― NJ Sucks (libcrypt), Friday, 10 October 2008 14:51 (fifteen years ago) link
What?! That's absurd in so many ways.
― Zangelbert Bingledack (ENBB), Friday, 10 October 2008 14:53 (fifteen years ago) link
Wouldn't it bother you if it was always one-sided?
no, not if ur on the receiving side my dude
― cankles, Friday, 10 October 2008 15:01 (fifteen years ago) link
I'm a bit glib about it, but that's basically the truth. She wanted someone more focused on her sexual needs, which is fine. I just wasn't that dude. In all fairness to me, though, she was really incredibly sexually demanding, and I think a lot of guys wouldn't have been able to keep up.
― NJ Sucks (libcrypt), Friday, 10 October 2008 15:03 (fifteen years ago) link
Anyone who needs to have five orgasms during each sexual encounter is probably a little off.
― Zangelbert Bingledack (ENBB), Friday, 10 October 2008 15:04 (fifteen years ago) link
Anyone who goes to math grad school is also probably a little off, not entirely coincidentally.
― NJ Sucks (libcrypt), Friday, 10 October 2008 15:11 (fifteen years ago) link
not necessarily but if not then at least make the tea after ffs
― deejerk reactions (darraghmac), Monday, 24 August 2015 23:35 (eight years ago) link
orig q oddly myopic imo. sometimes you feel like a nut, sometimes you don't
― tremendous crime wave and killing wave (Joan Crawford Loves Chachi), Tuesday, 25 August 2015 00:21 (eight years ago) link
Myopic to assume reciprocal oral is focused on a nut imo
― let no-one live rent free in your butt (sic), Tuesday, 25 August 2015 01:53 (eight years ago) link
yr right of course i just liked my joek :(
― tremendous crime wave and killing wave (Joan Crawford Loves Chachi), Tuesday, 25 August 2015 02:08 (eight years ago) link
― NJ Sucks (libcrypt), Friday, October 10, 2008 10:51 AM (6 years ago)
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― usic ally (k3vin k.), Tuesday, 25 August 2015 02:16 (eight years ago) link
i think that dude is married fwiw
― sarahell, Tuesday, 25 August 2015 03:38 (eight years ago) link
had one ex who very much reciprocated in terms of one for one but the amount of time I was expected to stay down there was insane some nights.
― Hammer Smashed Bagels, Tuesday, 25 August 2015 03:42 (eight years ago) link