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i thought this was a done deal already. they've got this new thing called "fellowship adventure group" or something. check that acronym!

s1ocki (slutsky), Wednesday, 30 March 2005 16:40 (nineteen years ago) link

Uhh, you're mostly right.

Mr. Harvey Weinstein (mr harvey weinstein), Wednesday, 30 March 2005 16:41 (nineteen years ago) link

they've got this new thing called "fellowship adventure group" or something.

Sounds like they're still annoyed with themselves at missing the LOTR gravy train. ;-)

Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 30 March 2005 16:43 (nineteen years ago) link

i know! they couldn't have missed the connotations there!

s1ocki (slutsky), Wednesday, 30 March 2005 16:44 (nineteen years ago) link

It was done for F9/11.

Mr. Harvey Weinstein (mr harvey weinstein), Wednesday, 30 March 2005 16:46 (nineteen years ago) link

The Weinsteins will retain control of the Dimension label, which has produced a raft of films aimed at teenagers and children, including the Scream franchise = the really really really big money

scott seward (scott seward), Wednesday, 30 March 2005 16:46 (nineteen years ago) link

bob has always been the big moneymaker with dimension.

scott seward (scott seward), Wednesday, 30 March 2005 16:47 (nineteen years ago) link

yeah, dimension is what kept miramax afloat all those years

s1ocki (slutsky), Wednesday, 30 March 2005 16:47 (nineteen years ago) link

all those lasse hallstrom movies aren't going to pay for themselves!

s1ocki (slutsky), Wednesday, 30 March 2005 16:49 (nineteen years ago) link

I DID IT

Dude, are you a 15 year old asian chick? (jingleberries), Wednesday, 30 March 2005 16:55 (nineteen years ago) link

Yeah, he was on ILX. Weird.

bro dudely (deangulberry), Wednesday, 30 March 2005 16:56 (nineteen years ago) link

I find his state law breaking celebration methods questionable.

Dude, are you a 15 year old asian chick? (jingleberries), Wednesday, 30 March 2005 16:58 (nineteen years ago) link

five years pass...

The Weinstein Company and Miramax -- the studio the Weinstein brothers founded and then sold -- announced a gigantic partnership deal on Thursday (via The Hollywood Reporter), agreeing to create sequels of the smash hit films that the Weinsteins produced for the studio before starting their new production company.

A number of big films are set to see second installments added to their canon: 'Shakespeare In Love,' 'Bad Santa,' 'Swingers,' 'Rounders,' 'Bridget Jones's Diary,' are some of the most famous names to be in line for the part two treatment.

buzza, Monday, 20 December 2010 18:43 (thirteen years ago) link

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0317198/

zvookster, Monday, 20 December 2010 18:45 (thirteen years ago) link

Shakespeare in Love 2? Oh yay

Square-Panted Sponge Robert (VegemiteGrrrl), Monday, 20 December 2010 19:09 (thirteen years ago) link

Will Hard with a Vengeance

THX THO... (Nicole), Monday, 20 December 2010 19:16 (thirteen years ago) link

Iambic Boogaloo

THX THO... (Nicole), Monday, 20 December 2010 19:16 (thirteen years ago) link

there's already a second bridget jones movie

Ward Fowler, Monday, 20 December 2010 19:17 (thirteen years ago) link

Shakespeare in Love 2: Havana Nights

THX THO... (Nicole), Monday, 20 December 2010 19:21 (thirteen years ago) link

this time it's versonal

zvookster, Monday, 20 December 2010 19:27 (thirteen years ago) link

Crying Game 2?

Matt Armstrong, Monday, 20 December 2010 19:32 (thirteen years ago) link

there's already a second bridget jones movie

Please don't remind me.

State Attorney Foxhart Cubycheck (Billy Dods), Monday, 20 December 2010 19:36 (thirteen years ago) link

Reindeer Games 2: Blood Sleigh

Matt Armstrong, Monday, 20 December 2010 20:49 (thirteen years ago) link

Rounders: Legacy

da croupier, Monday, 20 December 2010 20:54 (thirteen years ago) link

Chocolat 2: The Squeakque

a nan, a bal, an anal ― (abanana), Monday, 20 December 2010 21:55 (thirteen years ago) link

Good Will Hunting 2: Open Season

Square-Panted Sponge Robert (VegemiteGrrrl), Monday, 20 December 2010 22:15 (thirteen years ago) link

would watch a bad santa sequel

cereal bad boy (haitch), Monday, 20 December 2010 23:35 (thirteen years ago) link

Bad Santa 2: The Baddening

Square-Panted Sponge Robert (VegemiteGrrrl), Monday, 20 December 2010 23:36 (thirteen years ago) link

still lolling at "Iambic Boogaloo"

Square-Panted Sponge Robert (VegemiteGrrrl), Monday, 20 December 2010 23:37 (thirteen years ago) link

What's next? Henry 5?!

I Am Kurious Assange (polyphonic), Monday, 20 December 2010 23:37 (thirteen years ago) link

Rounders 2: What Goes A Rounders Comes Back A Rounders Again

zvookster, Monday, 20 December 2010 23:38 (thirteen years ago) link

Seriously, Dude, Where's My Bard?

zvookster, Monday, 20 December 2010 23:39 (thirteen years ago) link

Shakespeare In Love 2: Rotten In Denmark

Square-Panted Sponge Robert (VegemiteGrrrl), Tuesday, 21 December 2010 00:06 (thirteen years ago) link

three years pass...

Just finished Peter Biskind's Down and Dirty Pictures: Miramax, Sundance, and the Rise of Independent Film. (Awful title.) Was actually published only a couple of months before the event that started this thread--he gives no indication that that's around the corner. Anyway, as someone who's mostly ignorant about the business end of things, I now know more about these people than I ever wanted to know, and I'm amazed a single movie ever gets made.

clemenza, Monday, 7 July 2014 22:57 (nine years ago) link

three years pass...

This is...something.

https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2017/10/05/us/statement-from-harvey-weinstein.html

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 5 October 2017 18:49 (six years ago) link

I want to buy the movie rights

— rose mcgowan (@rosemcgowan) October 4, 2017

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 5 October 2017 18:56 (six years ago) link

that statement really keeps you guessing huh

ATTACK MY RUSTY TOOLBOX (bizarro gazzara), Thursday, 5 October 2017 18:57 (six years ago) link

how the fuck can his lawyer let him make that statement.

He's always been an asshole of the highest order.

Randall Jarrell (dandydonweiner), Thursday, 5 October 2017 19:53 (six years ago) link

the odds of decades worth of actors, actresses, directors, fellow producers, or any number of people not knowing about this stuff seems to me next to nil.

Josh in Chicago, Thursday, 5 October 2017 19:57 (six years ago) link

Lisa Bloom, one of Weinstein’s attorneys who specializes in sexual harassment cases, adds that she has been advising him on “gender and power dynamics” for the past year, calling him “an old dinosaur learning new ways.” She adds that she’s “explained to him that due to the power difference between a major studio head like him and most others in the industry, whatever his motives, some of his words and behaviors can be perceived as inappropriate, even intimidating.”

http://catholicap.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/skd229428sdc.jpg

nomar, Thursday, 5 October 2017 19:59 (six years ago) link

so this guy's got presumably top dollar lawyers and crisis management teams working for him and... that's his statement?

"not used to this new day and age when leveraging your power to coerce young women eager to get a foot in the door into sleeping with you isn't cool. i'm workin' on it. also fuck the NRA and Trump, right guys?!"

circa1916, Thursday, 5 October 2017 20:00 (six years ago) link

oh i forgot about the Jay-Z quote from 4:44

circa1916, Thursday, 5 October 2017 20:00 (six years ago) link

HEY GUYS LETS SHOW HOW CULTURALLY AWARE I AM

Randall Jarrell (dandydonweiner), Thursday, 5 October 2017 20:01 (six years ago) link

Weinstein told NYT he "sincerely apologize[s]" for his behavior, is going on leave.
His lawyer tells Hollywood Reporter he is suing us.

— Nick Confessore (@nickconfessore) October 5, 2017

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Thursday, 5 October 2017 20:02 (six years ago) link

wow what a total POS

that "apology" reads like a horrendous parody

-_- (jim in vancouver), Thursday, 5 October 2017 20:34 (six years ago) link

Harvey the Hutt

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 5 October 2017 20:42 (six years ago) link

surprised it wasn't written in crayon a la tarantino scripts

Οὖτις, Thursday, 5 October 2017 20:51 (six years ago) link

Speaking of, can't wait for the Tarantino statement. Oh wait I can.

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 5 October 2017 21:10 (six years ago) link

Maybe he can direct the movie.

Josh in Chicago, Thursday, 5 October 2017 21:13 (six years ago) link

I posted on this thread 12 years ago jesus christ

officer sonny bonds, lytton pd (mayor jingleberries), Thursday, 5 October 2017 21:34 (six years ago) link

lol the I DID IT thread has to do with Harvey's penchant for smoking cigars indoors in CA and not giving a fuck

officer sonny bonds, lytton pd (mayor jingleberries), Thursday, 5 October 2017 21:35 (six years ago) link

BREAKING: Weinstein's lawyer gave Manhattan DA 0K after he declined to file sex assault charges against Weinstein https://t.co/LIKNFRWAUv

— David Sirota (@davidsirota) October 5, 2017

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 5 October 2017 22:41 (six years ago) link

bad week for Cyrus Vance, jesus christ

officer sonny bonds, lytton pd (mayor jingleberries), Thursday, 5 October 2017 22:42 (six years ago) link

also apparently being a DA in NYC is lucrative as fuck!

officer sonny bonds, lytton pd (mayor jingleberries), Thursday, 5 October 2017 22:42 (six years ago) link

People are just tripping over themselves to give him money because they like him so much!

jmm, Thursday, 5 October 2017 23:07 (six years ago) link

Well, yeah. Straight shooter, that Vance.

Josh in Chicago, Thursday, 5 October 2017 23:19 (six years ago) link

btw I thought I posted on this thread like 12 years ago noting what an asshole AND misogynist Harvey was and is, but I couldn't find it via search. Because back then I knew someone at Miramar who complained about this exact shit.

Randall Jarrell (dandydonweiner), Friday, 6 October 2017 02:00 (six years ago) link

*Miramax

Randall Jarrell (dandydonweiner), Friday, 6 October 2017 02:01 (six years ago) link

Goddamn this story is insane. Yeah I'm with Josh, there's no way a huge chunk of the film industry didn't know about this. For decades! So gross

flappy bird, Friday, 6 October 2017 02:06 (six years ago) link

so many open secrets just like every other ____________ industrial complex.

Randall Jarrell (dandydonweiner), Friday, 6 October 2017 02:14 (six years ago) link

Why don't these guys feel shame that these women have no actual interest in them, and/or are actively turned off by them? Do they just not conceive of the women's thoughts at all? Or is that part of the turn on?

Virginia Plain, Friday, 6 October 2017 02:29 (six years ago) link

Both

flappy bird, Friday, 6 October 2017 02:39 (six years ago) link

Probably. I mean it's such a bizarre fetish, dude looks fucking disgusting & he just wants massages & women to see his whole... situation. Getting off on power and humiliation.

flappy bird, Friday, 6 October 2017 02:41 (six years ago) link

If I thought a dude was disgusted by me, I would feel so embarrassed to try and coerce that dude to sleep with me.

Even more so if the only things in my favor were power/ money/ ability to further their career.

I think you would just have to get to the point where you don't view the other people as actual humans having any sort of agency. They are just your playthings?

Also thinking of DJT lying in bed naked under a sheet because he's ashamed of his body trying to get some woman to come into his hotel bedroom.

Virginia Plain, Friday, 6 October 2017 03:06 (six years ago) link

It takes all kinds

flappy bird, Friday, 6 October 2017 04:58 (six years ago) link

there's a definite possibility he thinks women are attracted to him

qualx, Friday, 6 October 2017 06:28 (six years ago) link

Good follow-up by Rebecca Traister at The Cut: https://www.thecut.com/2017/10/why-the-weinstein-sexual-harassment-allegations-came-out-now.html

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Friday, 6 October 2017 12:39 (six years ago) link

Have fun with that, dude.

https://t.co/n0Ty3RiR04

Ned Raggett, Friday, 6 October 2017 13:18 (six years ago) link

That's an anonymously sourced Daily Mail story though.

jmm, Friday, 6 October 2017 13:26 (six years ago) link

Best kind! (I mean, thing is: at this point, sure seems like the thing he'd eventually claim.)

Ned Raggett, Friday, 6 October 2017 13:28 (six years ago) link

Jeffrey Wells may be the most loathsome blogger in Hollywood, but some of the comments are 'enlightening':

http://hollywood-elsewhere.com/2017/10/pay-play-massages-payoffs-messy-behavior/

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 6 October 2017 15:31 (six years ago) link

Someone please check the lead content in whatever Cilizza drinks at lunch.

They weren't major donors to the GOP like Weinstein is to Dems https://t.co/dIjVRzLRAq

— Chris Cillizza (@CillizzaCNN) October 6, 2017

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Friday, 6 October 2017 16:36 (six years ago) link

lmao constantly pointing out that Weinstein was a major donor to the Dems doesn't seem like a well-thought out line of attack

frogbs, Friday, 6 October 2017 16:39 (six years ago) link

it's no different and also not as bad as that picture of Bill & Hillary with Trump & Melania. and yeah Cilliza = moron

flappy bird, Friday, 6 October 2017 16:55 (six years ago) link

http://gothamist.com/2017/10/06/harvey_weinstein_accuses_ny_times_o.php?_ga=2.148250871.19607542.1506960782-484564342.1476232601

what a piece of shit

Judd's memory of their encounter was also false, Weinstein insisted, before saying, "I know Ashley Judd is going through a tough time right now, I read her book [her memoir ‘All That Is Bitter and Sweet’], in which she talks about being the victim of sexual abuse and depression as a child. Her life story was brutal, and I have to respect her. In a year from now, I am going to reach out to her."

nomar, Friday, 6 October 2017 17:10 (six years ago) link

"in a year from now"

completely perplexed by his statements & comments yesterday in the wake of the NYT piece. like someone said upthread, doesn't this guy have the best crisis management & team of lawyers available??? hasn't he learned that when this shit happens, you make a milquetoast statement & then GO AWAY for a while? it's just bizarre, you see this same thing happen to so many other huge figures that have been exposed & fallen so quickly.

flappy bird, Friday, 6 October 2017 17:19 (six years ago) link

doesn't this guy have the best crisis management & team of lawyers available???

including Obama WH Communications Director Anita Dunn

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Friday, 6 October 2017 17:22 (six years ago) link

easier to sell drones vs sex in America

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Friday, 6 October 2017 17:22 (six years ago) link

xp I guess he's just ignoring any advice he gets? kind of like Trump, you can get to a certain level where you are too powerful for anyone to protect you from your own worst instincts?

soref, Friday, 6 October 2017 17:24 (six years ago) link

yeah otm it definitely reminded me of Trump. also Ailes, O'Reilly, Cosby obviously...

flappy bird, Friday, 6 October 2017 17:27 (six years ago) link

a certain pain-feelin' president

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 6 October 2017 17:35 (six years ago) link

ha, this pic belongs in that thread of "faces of people who have to apologize for something in front of their wives"

http://static1.1.sqspcdn.com/static/f/303385/2685363/1287687757153/bill-clinton-404_683090c.jpg

flappy bird, Friday, 6 October 2017 17:37 (six years ago) link

Seattle's child-rapist ex-mayor's response to the surfacing of accusations earlier this year was to publish a doctor's note confirming that there were no moles on his genitals. Powerful people just want to keep talking.

.oO (silby), Friday, 6 October 2017 17:47 (six years ago) link

Powerful *old* people. Seems like a trend with so many of these cases. Shit, remember the Sandusky/Costas interview?

flappy bird, Friday, 6 October 2017 18:22 (six years ago) link

People with wealth and power who ruthlessly screw whoever they want throughout their entire lives have traditionally made deathbed conversions, so as to clear their path into heaven before they die. Confession is part of the deal. So is building a chapel or paying for masses in perpetuity, although making movies about the NRA probably counts, too.

A is for (Aimless), Friday, 6 October 2017 18:51 (six years ago) link

A story so old that the very first tale in Boccaccio's Decameron is a hilarious take on this phenomenon.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (Bananaman Begins), Saturday, 7 October 2017 11:00 (six years ago) link

yeah it's an age old tale. exploitation and the entertainment industry. there is the talent and there are the gatekeepers, leeching off both artists and the public. makes you tempted to say, fuck it, just go DIY, just go local. but these abusive power structures exist pretty much everywhere, whether you are CEO of movies or a local promoter who controls access.

this story in particular certainly explains how most movies are largely morality-free power fantasies and have been for decades. it's all cynical, there is no hope for humanity, just self-referential consumerism. Superman just stands there with a dumb look on his face while a room full of people explodes. when is the last time you left a movie feeling something, anything, that perhaps pointed to a universal truth or insight? look who is making them, amoral privileged power mongers.

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Saturday, 7 October 2017 15:19 (six years ago) link

when is the last time you left a movie feeling something, anything, that perhaps pointed to a universal truth or insight?

Last night.

Frederik B, Saturday, 7 October 2017 15:20 (six years ago) link

thanks for sharing, that sounds like a great movie

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Saturday, 7 October 2017 15:25 (six years ago) link

yeah that happens

/when is the last time you left a movie feeling something, anything, that perhaps pointed to a universal truth or insight?/

Last night.


Me too

flappy bird, Saturday, 7 October 2017 16:00 (six years ago) link

weren't you just lolling about an publically elected official twice accused of sexual harassment and using his position to silence his abusers?

see, people are fine with it to a degree, even if it is sick, because the tribal thing is so strong, the consumer aspect of branding to one side or the other. to centrist liberals Bill Clinton's transgressions are a laughing matter, and if you are a leftist and bring it up, you are called a sexist or a Russian plant. "oh no! he has to apologize to his wife!" dismisses the voices of the abused. belittling the shit he did normalizes that behavior.

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Saturday, 7 October 2017 16:24 (six years ago) link

silence his victims

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Saturday, 7 October 2017 16:24 (six years ago) link

like if there is going to be a moral ground, it needs to apply to everyone, not just "the good guys" or "the bad guys".

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Saturday, 7 October 2017 16:26 (six years ago) link

Yeah hollywood's been a cesspit for, what, a century? But it's produced great films anyway. Its hit rate may be worse now than at certain points last century but here's the thing, films are being made outside of that particular system. It's kinda on you if you only watch flying punchman movies. Whether good films still exist is kinda a side issue to the topic at hand tho

good art is orange; great art is teal (wins), Saturday, 7 October 2017 16:33 (six years ago) link

Sorry on train, missed xposts. I'm against bill Clinton

good art is orange; great art is teal (wins), Saturday, 7 October 2017 16:42 (six years ago) link

Dying

passé aggresif (darraghmac), Saturday, 7 October 2017 16:42 (six years ago) link

lol sorry

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Saturday, 7 October 2017 16:43 (six years ago) link

man Weinstein made "Velvet Goldmine" and "Princess Mononoke". those are two solid films.

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Saturday, 7 October 2017 16:44 (six years ago) link

"Holy Smoke" is really good.

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Saturday, 7 October 2017 16:44 (six years ago) link

yeah there are sickos in any profession it would be better for people to stand up against this. this is the big tragedy here, that many people knew about this and tolerated it because it was good for their careers. it is a selfish act. the internet is good here because now it is easier to get your story out, and seeing all these people come out after something like this drops, it shows that you are not alone. this must be encouraging, and is relatively a new hing, compared to the isolation of pre-internet social media.

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Saturday, 7 October 2017 16:49 (six years ago) link

Let me get this straight, you said Weinstein “made” Princess Mononoke.

Ned Raggett, Saturday, 7 October 2017 16:55 (six years ago) link

How the hell hasn’t adbru gotten the 51 yet, I wonder to myself daily

El Tomboto, Saturday, 7 October 2017 17:04 (six years ago) link

ha, I'd never heard this story

Miyazaki met with Harvey Weinstein, Miramax's chairman; Weinstein demanded that edits should be made to Princess Mononoke.[38] In response, Toshio Suzuki sent Weinstein a katana with a message stating "No cuts."[38]

jmm, Saturday, 7 October 2017 17:07 (six years ago) link

Miyazaki commented on the incident: "Actually, my producer did that. Although I did go to New York to meet this man, this Harvey Weinstein, and I was bombarded with this aggressive attack, all these demands for cuts. I defeated him."[14] Weinstein has always insisted that such editing was done in the interest of creating the most financially viable film. "I'm not cutting for fun", Harvey Weinstein said in an interview. "I'm cutting for the shit to work. All my life I served one master: the film. I love movies."[9][15]

Harvey Weinstein telling Hayao Miyazaki how to make movies, give me a break.

jmm, Saturday, 7 October 2017 17:13 (six years ago) link

ha, I'd never heard this story

_Miyazaki met with Harvey Weinstein, Miramax's chairman; Weinstein demanded that edits should be made to Princess Mononoke.[38] In response, Toshio Suzuki sent Weinstein a katana with a message stating "No cuts."[38]_


That is fucking awesome

flappy bird, Saturday, 7 October 2017 18:56 (six years ago) link

Kind of a mixed message, though. Why would you send someone a sword if you DON'T want them to cut things.

JRN, Saturday, 7 October 2017 19:10 (six years ago) link

Fired yesterday. Apparently NYT had expose on him in 2004 but killed it under pressure:

I traveled to Rome and tracked down the man who held the plum position of running Miramax Italy. According to multiple accounts, he had no film experience and his real job was to take care of Weinstein’s women needs, among other things.

As head of Miramax Italy in 2003 and 2004, Fabrizio Lombardo was paid $400,000 for less than a year of employment. He was on the payroll of Miramax and thus the Walt Disney Company, which had bought the indie studio in 1993.

I had people on the record telling me Lombardo knew nothing about film, and others citing evenings he organized with Russian escorts.

flappy bird, Monday, 9 October 2017 17:52 (six years ago) link

After intense pressure from Weinstein, which included having Matt Damon and Russell Crowe call me directly to vouch for Lombardo and unknown discussions well above my head at the Times, the story was gutted.

Those must have been some surreal calls, jesus.

change display name (Jordan), Monday, 9 October 2017 18:00 (six years ago) link

Who signed off on this headline? pic.twitter.com/213KJQMPzA

— Dan Scary (@djperry1973) October 9, 2017

Marcus Hiles Remains Steadfast About Planting Trees.jpg (DJP), Monday, 9 October 2017 18:10 (six years ago) link

Jesus, Ronan Farrow's piece in the New Yorker is nauseating. https://www.newyorker.com/news/news-desk/from-aggressive-overtures-to-sexual-assault-harvey-weinsteins-accusers-tell-their-stories

Asia Argento, an Italian film actress and director, told me that she did not speak out until now––Weinstein, she told me, forcibly performed oral sex on her—because she feared that Weinstein would “crush” her. “I know he has crushed a lot of people before,” Argento said. “That’s why this story—in my case, it’s twenty years old, some of them are older—has never come out.”

. . .

Three women––among them Argento and a former aspiring actress named Lucia Evans—told me that Weinstein raped them, allegations that include Weinstein forcibly performing or receiving oral sex and forcing vaginal sex. Four women said that they experienced unwanted touching that could be classified as an assault. In an audio recording captured during a New York Police Department sting operation in 2015 and made public here for the first time, Weinstein admits to groping a Filipina-Italian model named Ambra Battilana Gutierrez, describing it as behavior he is “used to.” Four of the women I interviewed cited encounters in which Weinstein exposed himself or masturbated in front of them.

. . .

Other employees described what was, in essence, a culture of complicity at Weinstein’s places of business, with numerous people throughout the companies fully aware of his behavior but either abetting it or looking the other way. Some employees said that they were enlisted in subterfuge to make the victims feel safe. A female executive with the company described how Weinstein assistants and others served as a “honeypot”—they would initially join a meeting, but then Weinstein would dismiss them, leaving him alone with the woman.

. . .

Multiple sources said that Weinstein frequently bragged about planting items in media outlets about those who spoke against him; these sources feared that they might be similarly targeted. Several pointed to Gutierrez’s case, in 2015: after she went to the police, negative items discussing her sexual history and impugning her credibility began rapidly appearing in New York gossip pages. (In the taped conversation with Gutierrez, Weinstein asks her to join him for “five minutes,” and warns, “Don’t ruin your friendship with me for five minutes.”)

And it goes on and on.

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 15:17 (six years ago) link

I know, I know, the Weakly Standard, but I liked this piece.

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 15:24 (six years ago) link

wonder if there's any chance of criminal charges against Weinstein

jmm, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 15:25 (six years ago) link

no

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 15:26 (six years ago) link

2. Audio: Harvey Weinstein admits to assaulting model Ambra Gutierrez. Keep in mind NYC DA Cy Vance had this audio. https://t.co/8W4s5CrLy7 pic.twitter.com/Ft4P70g6Mm

— Yashar Ali 🐘 (@yashar) October 10, 2017

Good lord

Le Bateau Ivre, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 15:40 (six years ago) link

Weinstein had a reputation for insisting on edits when he acquired foreign films, but obv his recently revealed crimes are in a more distressing category.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 15:46 (six years ago) link

yikes

it's all just horrific. i choose not to read any comments on these articles, there are so many trashy people in this town who are more than willing to sling mud at those coming forward.

nomar, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 16:00 (six years ago) link

That's the same DA involved in the Ivanka/Don Jr. fraud case -- and who took donations from Trump's lawyer. https://t.co/1sf2NVGd5V https://t.co/Oh20lqTyRo

— Rachel Glickhouse (@Riogringa) October 10, 2017

Le Bateau Ivre, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 16:09 (six years ago) link

(Cy Vance, that is)

Le Bateau Ivre, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 16:09 (six years ago) link

Two sources close to the police investigation said that they had no reason to doubt Gutierrez’s account of the incident. One of them, a police source, said that the department had collected more than enough evidence to prosecute Weinstein. But the other source said that Gutierrez’s statements about her past complicated the case for the office of the Manhattan District Attorney, Cyrus Vance, Jr. After two weeks of investigation, the District Attorney’s office decided not to file charges. The D.A.’s office declined to comment on this story but pointed me to their statement at the time: “This case was taken seriously from the outset, with a thorough investigation conducted by our Sex Crimes Unit. After analyzing the available evidence, including multiple interviews with both parties, a criminal charge is not supported.”

“We had the evidence,” the police source involved in the operation told me. “It’s a case that made me angrier than I thought possible, and I have been on the force a long time.”

So it's pure victim blaming. Just the fact that she claimed to have been sexually assaulted before was enough to invalidate recorded evidence.

jmm, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 16:13 (six years ago) link

It sucks that this stuff is coming out so late after the NY primaries, Vance clearly should and could have been primaried.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 16:21 (six years ago) link

isn't Ronan Farrow ...? Impressed how the writer's personal life did not get inserted into the story at all!

sarahell, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 16:24 (six years ago) link

I guess Ronan Farrow was investigating this independently of the NYT reporters? I wonder how many simultaneous investigations were going on.

jmm, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 16:27 (six years ago) link

Ben Affleck clears his throat:

pic.twitter.com/f5AgemRXds

— Ben Affleck (@BenAffleck) October 10, 2017

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 16:28 (six years ago) link

Looking forward to "THE BOURNE APOLOGY" in which Jason fights off attempts to expose a pimp

— Anthony Bourdain (@Bourdain) October 10, 2017

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 16:30 (six years ago) link

damn

nomar, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 16:33 (six years ago) link

This in response to Ben also very good/cold:

how's your brother doing https://t.co/KRIjzRtC53

— pilot (@pilotbacon) October 10, 2017

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 16:36 (six years ago) link

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/DLvlgmeVoAA20FB.jpg:small

uh

mookieproof, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 16:42 (six years ago) link

Meantime, is this the angriest I've ever seen or heard this man, about anything?

“I will go anywhere I can learn more about myself.” Try prison you fucker. https://t.co/Wy6fQyTqAw

— david sylvian (@davidsylvian58) October 10, 2017

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 16:43 (six years ago) link

"fucker" maybe not the best choice of insults there

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 16:45 (six years ago) link

I had to check Schrader's FB page to see if this was real *and it was*

buddy. pic.twitter.com/I29HkMT7UN

— Ken Greller (@kengreller) October 10, 2017

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 16:51 (six years ago) link

Good thread

Yet last year Nate Parker, who was acquitted of a rape charge almost 2 decades ago by a jury had to be gotten out of the paint immediately?

— Neo Liberal (@RickyRawls) October 10, 2017

flappy bird, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 16:51 (six years ago) link

someone dig up that Shcrader/Nastassja Kinski excerpt

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 17:04 (six years ago) link

nice time to come up with a stunningly tin-eared take, P.S.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 17:07 (six years ago) link

And the hits just keep on coming: https://www.nytimes.com/2017/10/10/us/gwyneth-paltrow-angelina-jolie-harvey-weinstein.html

What was the last remotely useful thing Schrader did?

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 17:08 (six years ago) link

his new movie is good

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 17:12 (six years ago) link

When Gwyneth Paltrow was 22 years old, she got a role that would take her from actress to star: The film producer Harvey Weinstein hired her for the lead in the Jane Austen adaptation “Emma.” Before shooting began, he summoned her to his suite at the Peninsula Beverly Hills hotel for a work meeting that began uneventfully.

It ended with Mr. Weinstein placing his hands on her and suggesting they head to the bedroom for massages, she said.

“I was a kid, I was signed up, I was petrified,” she said in an interview, publicly disclosing that she was sexually harassed by the man who ignited her career and later helped her win an Academy Award.

She refused his advances, she said, and confided in Brad Pitt, her boyfriend at the time. Mr. Pitt confronted Mr. Weinstein, and soon after, the producer threatened her not to tell anyone else about his come-on. “I thought he was going to fire me,” she said.

Rosanna Arquette, a star of “Pulp Fiction,” has a similar account of Mr. Weinstein’s behavior, as does Judith Godrèche, a leading French actress. So does Angelina Jolie, who said that during the release of “Playing by Heart” in the late 1990s, he made unwanted advances on her in a hotel room, which she rejected.

“I had a bad experience with Harvey Weinstein in my youth, and as a result, chose never to work with him again and warn others when they did,” Ms. Jolie said in an email. “This behavior towards women in any field, any country is unacceptable.”

A New York Times investigation last week chronicled a hidden history of sexual harassment allegations against Mr. Weinstein and settlements he paid, often involving former employees, over three decades up to 2015. By Sunday evening, his entertainment company fired him.

On Tuesday, The New Yorker published a report that included multiple allegations of sexual assault, including forced oral and vaginal sex. The article also included accounts of sexual harassment going back to the 1990s, with women describing how intimidating Mr. Weinstein was.

Several days ago, additional actresses began sharing with The Times on-the-record stories of casting-couch abuses. Their accounts hint at the sweep of Mr. Weinstein’s alleged harassment, targeting women on the way to stardom, those who had barely acted and others in between. Fantasies that the public eagerly watched onscreen, the women recounted, sometimes masked the dark experiences of those performing in them.

The encounters they recalled followed a similar narrative: First, they said, Mr. Weinstein lured them to a private place to discuss films, scripts or even Oscar campaigns. Then, the women contend, he variously tried to initiate massages, touched them inappropriately, took off his clothes or offered them explicit work-for-sex deals.

In a statement on Tuesday, his spokeswoman, Sallie Hofmeister, said: “Any allegations of non-consensual sex are unequivocally denied by Mr. Weinstein. Mr. Weinstein has further confirmed that there were never any acts of retaliation against any women for refusing his advances. He will not be available for further comments, as he is taking the time to focus on his family, on getting counseling and rebuilding his life.”

Even in an industry in which sexual harassment has long persisted, Mr. Weinstein stands out, according to the actresses and current and former employees of the film companies he ran, Miramax and the Weinstein Company. He had an elaborate system reliant on the cooperation of others: Assistants often booked the meetings, arranged the hotel rooms and sometimes even delivered the talent, then disappeared, the actresses and employees recounted. They described how some of Mr. Weinstein’s executives and assistants then found them agents and jobs or hushed actresses who were upset.

His alleged behavior became something of a Hollywood open secret: When the comedian Seth MacFarlane announced Oscar nominees in 2013, he joked, “Congratulations, you five ladies no longer have to pretend to be attracted to Harvey Weinstein.” The audience laughed. According to a 2015 memo by a former Weinstein Company executive that The Times previously disclosed, the misconduct continued.

More established actresses were fearful of speaking out because they had work; less established ones were scared because they did not. “This is Harvey Weinstein,” Katherine Kendall, who appeared in the film “Swingers” and television roles, remembers telling herself after an encounter in which she said Mr. Weinstein undressed and chased her around a living room. Telling others meant “I’ll never work again and no one is going to care or believe me,” she reasoned at the time, she said in a recent interview.

Ms. Paltrow, 45, is now an entrepreneur, no longer dependent on securing her next acting role. But she emphasized how much more vulnerable she felt at 22, when Mr. Weinstein had just signed her up for a star-making part. On a trip to Los Angeles, she received a schedule from her agents for the hotel meeting with Mr. Weinstein.

There was no reason to suspect anything untoward, because “it’s on the fax, it’s from C.A.A.,” she said, referring to Creative Artists Agency, which represented her.

When Mr. Weinstein tried to massage her and invited her into the bedroom, she immediately left, she said, and remembers feeling stunned as she drove away. “I thought you were my Uncle Harvey,” she recalled thinking, explaining that she had seen him as a mentor.

After she told Mr. Pitt about the episode, he approached Mr. Weinstein at a theater premiere and told him never to touch Ms. Paltrow again. Mr. Pitt confirmed the account to The Times through a representative.

Soon after, Mr. Weinstein called Ms. Paltrow and berated her for discussing the episode, she recalled. (She said she also told a few friends, family members and her agent.) “He screamed at me for a long time,” she said, once again fearing she could lose the role in “Emma.” “It was brutal.” But she stood her ground, she said, and insisted that he put the relationship back on professional footing.

Even as Ms. Paltrow became known as the “first lady of Miramax” and won an Oscar for “Shakespeare in Love” in 1999, very few people knew about Mr. Weinstein’s advances. “I was expected to keep the secret,” she said.

Like several of the other women interviewed for this article, she felt she had to suppress the experience. She praised Mr. Weinstein publicly, posed for pictures with him and played the glowing star to his powerful producer. Yet their work relationship grew rockier over the years, she said, and she distanced herself. “He was alternately generous and supportive and championing, and punitive and bullying,” she said.

Now, with the process of tallying the size and scope of Mr. Weinstein’s abuse allegations underway, Ms. Paltrow and others said they wanted to support women who had already come forward and help those in similar situations feel less alone.

“We’re at a point in time when women need to send a clear message that this is over,” Ms. Paltrow said. “This way of treating women ends now.”

nomar, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 17:14 (six years ago) link

fortunately Weinstein didn't give that film the Wong or Bertolucci treatment

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 17:14 (six years ago) link

okay I read Simon H's linked article up there and the last lines don't disappoint

The 2016 election demolished Clinton world once and for all, to be replaced by the cult of Obama, an austere sect designated by their tailored hair shirts with Nehru collars. “That is not who we are as Americans,” they chant, as Harvey Weinstein’s ashes are scattered in the wind.

El Tomboto, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 17:38 (six years ago) link

what's wrong with tailored hair shirts with Nehru collars

flappy bird, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 17:40 (six years ago) link

xxxp wtf is wrong with Tablet Magazine?! Weirdest fucking media outlet, I really don't get it at all.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 17:42 (six years ago) link

What wit – I don't even know if those last two sentences are praise.

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 17:43 (six years ago) link

Excuses excuses

Manhattan DA’s office on Weinstein: "If we could have prosecuted Harvey Weinstein for the conduct that occurred in 2015, we would have." pic.twitter.com/Y5HslZORN4

— Dan Linden (@DanLinden) October 10, 2017

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 18:32 (six years ago) link

Why can we not have this man beaten publicly?

It took 5 days for Hillary Clinton to say something on Weinsteinhttps://t.co/D8Gq6l5DOZ

— Chris Cillizza (@CillizzaCNN) October 10, 2017

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 18:50 (six years ago) link

stopped clock finally hit upon a valid point

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 18:56 (six years ago) link

LOL no he didn't, but as long as it's dragging a Clinton for something they aren't responsible I expect you to be on board.

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 18:58 (six years ago) link

DR MORBIUS AND OTHER DUMMIES: Why can't Clinton just shut up and go away?

ALSO DR MORBIUS AND OTHER DUMMIES: Why isn't Clinton saying anything about Weinstein?

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 18:59 (six years ago) link

I'm surprised that flies and shit are in proximity.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 19:12 (six years ago) link

related

Weinstein wasn’t always so pro-Obama. In 2008, he was a staunch Hillary Clinton backer during the acrimonious Democratic primary. During that cycle, the Democratic National Committee docked Michigan and Florida delegates for trying to jump the queue in scheduling primaries—a move that hurt Clinton’s chances against Obama. CNN reported that Weinstein threatened then-Speaker Nancy Pelosi, saying he would not give to congressional Democrats unless Pelosi backed a plan to hold revotes in those two states. Weinstein confirmed his pressure in a statement to Nikki Finke, but Pelosi did not budge and Obama won the primary. Notably, Pelosi does not appear on the list of candidates to whom Weinstein has given, though he did give to the DCCC after the clash.

https://www.theatlantic.com/politics/archive/2017/10/weinstein-democratic-bankroller/542202/

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 19:17 (six years ago) link

Hillary Clinton should also be fired from the Weinstein Company imo.

the scarest move i ever seen is scary move 4 (Old Lunch), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 19:21 (six years ago) link

And probably impeached.

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 19:24 (six years ago) link

Well public statements about tolerating abhorrent behavior towards women put her in an awkward position

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 19:25 (six years ago) link

XPS If only for the cuts she demanded be made to Shaolin Soccer.

to fly across the city and find Aerosmith's car (C. Grisso/McCain), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 19:27 (six years ago) link

Erica Garner noted today (with some horror) that Weinstein's was the endorsement the Clinton camp rolled out shortly after she endorsed Bernie.

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 19:29 (six years ago) link

Wow @ all of this

The Harsh Tutelage of Michael McDonald (Raymond Cummings), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 19:32 (six years ago) link

That's kind of funny in light of Weinstein's emails specifically about the Garner endorsement and how they had to take some attention away from it -- like, having Weinstein himself endorse Clinton is not how I would think of going about trying to achieve that goal.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 19:32 (six years ago) link

Why? Was it up to Hilary Clinton to break the Harvey Weinstein story? No, it very obviously was not, any more than it was up to McGowan or Paltrow or Jolie or any of these other women.

What is it that Clinton has not done in regards to this specific situation that you think she should have done or should now do? I'm going to assume that the money Weinstein donated and raised for her two failed Presidential campaigns is spent. It's gone. There's no giving it back. Should she give something back to someone out of her personal wealth now? If so, why? And who?

Should she not have ever taken money from him in the first place? That's about the only reasonable argument to be made here, but unless you, or Morbius, or Chris Cilizza know something that nobody else does, you can't definitively say "Clinton knew about Weinstein and took his money anyway."

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 19:32 (six years ago) link

Several xps to man alive

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 19:32 (six years ago) link

No dude, I'm saying she is obviously in an awkward position to make public statements about what kind of treatment of women should be tolerated because of her own husband.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 19:34 (six years ago) link

Oh, yeah, I forgot she's responsible for him and Weinstein both.

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 19:35 (six years ago) link

As for what should have been done, idk, it certainly wasn't any one man or woman's special responsibility, but that's exactly the problem, the culture of tolerating whatever from "powerful people" because they are powerful; and it's not like those people tolerating him were minimum wage workers dependent on him so they could feed their kids; some of them were themselves powerful and sought not to rock the boat with him out of pure self-interest.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 19:36 (six years ago) link

Oh, yeah, I forgot she's responsible for him and Weinstein both.

― Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Tuesday, October 10, 2017 2:35 PM (fifty-two seconds ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Totally missing the point. I'm not saying it's her "fault" I'm just saying it sounds a little thin coming from her to say what kind of behavior should be tolerated when she clearly tolerates it.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 19:37 (six years ago) link

also from the Atlantic

Malia Obama, Obama’s eldest daughter, interned for Weinstein this year.

BHO didn't read Gawker?

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 19:38 (six years ago) link

Tolerating a philandering husband who at worst took advantage of an eager intern is a lot different from tolerating a serial abuser and rapist. It's apples and snow tires.

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 19:41 (six years ago) link

Bill Clinton has also been accused of rape.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 19:43 (six years ago) link

"at worst" ... I think you mighta wanna read up

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 19:43 (six years ago) link

But since Clinton also tolerated Weinstein, not sure what your "apples and snow tires" point is

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 19:43 (six years ago) link

Even the Lewinsky stuff, however, I think if you can imagine the same scenario but just with any gross old man boss instead of the democratic savior of the 90s and it would seem a little worse than you are characterizing it.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 19:45 (six years ago) link

PROVABLY at worst. Yes, I lived through the Paula Jones era, boys.

But since Clinton also tolerated Weinstein, not sure what your "apples and snow tires" point is

Again, this would be the "What did she know and when did she know it?" question, wouldn't it? Want to share, since obviously you know?

I'm glad the Usual Suspects have managed to identify the primary villain, Hilary Clinton, though.

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 19:47 (six years ago) link

is there a rule that every thread on this board must turn into a protracted argument about Hillary Clinton or something

Marcus Hiles Remains Steadfast About Planting Trees.jpg (DJP), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 19:47 (six years ago) link

^^^^^

by the light of the burning Citroën, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 19:48 (six years ago) link

Like, if you find yourself nodding along with Chris Cilizza, take a step back and reassess where you went wrong.

xp Don't make me pull an "I happen to have Marshall McLuhan right here" in re Lewinsky. She's been pretty upfront about her role and neither you nor I are in a position to gainsay her.

Anyway, Morbs still stans for both Allen and Polanski as artists so.

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 19:50 (six years ago) link

i'm sorry, I can't get over the fact that David Sylvian chimed in on this on Twitter with the word 'fucker'. What a weird world this is.

akm, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 19:53 (six years ago) link

Wagner wrote some pretty fair music.

I've said repeatedly that Allen hasn't made a good film in 20 years, so piss off.

xp

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 19:53 (six years ago) link

wait till NRO cites David Sylvian – then it's a weird world

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 19:54 (six years ago) link

wow, i've never seen a tweet sweat before https://t.co/3PmQG6FkUS

— Kelly Weill (@KELLYWEILL) October 10, 2017

mookieproof, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 19:57 (six years ago) link

PROVABLY at worst.

Virtually none of what's being discussed here is "provable" in a legal context so that's a bullshit framing

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 20:01 (six years ago) link

always believe the woman (unless she's talking about Bill Clinton)

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 20:03 (six years ago) link

wonder if there's any chance of criminal charges against Weinstein

imo this is definitely going to happen i wouldn't be shocked if he fled the country

Mordy, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 20:07 (six years ago) link

xp that's fair enough, so I'll also just say that it was hard *at the time* to separate the signal from the noise re: Bill Clinton accusers given the poisonous atmosphere of political hit pieces against him -- drug trafficking, assassinations, and all that garbage. Bill Clinton probably did harass Jones and Willey. Broaddrick appears to have gone bonkers, so who knows with her.

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 20:09 (six years ago) link

🐦[wow, i’ve never seen a tweet sweat before https://t.co/3PmQG6FkUS🕸
— Kelly Weill (@KELLYWEILL) October 10, 2017🕸]🐦


bahahahhaba
Def check out second tweet where he says we’re living in a reverse Handmaid’s Tale world

flappy bird, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 20:10 (six years ago) link

Donna Karan checkin' in

"You look at everything all over the world today and how women are dressing and what they are asking by just presenting themselves the way they do. What are they asking for? Trouble."

"I don't think it's only Harvey Weinstein. I don't think we're only looking at him. I think we're looking at a world much deeper than that. Yes, I think he's being looked at right now as a symbol, not necessarily as him. I know his wife, I think they're wonderful people, Harvey has done some amazing things...."

http://gothamist.com/2017/10/10/donna_karan_harvey_weinste.php

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 20:11 (six years ago) link

/wonder if there's any chance of criminal charges against Weinstein/

imo this is definitely going to happen i wouldn't be shocked if he fled the country


No way he flees the country, dude does not have a French passport like Polanski.

re: if he’ll get charged with anything... at this point I say no but story could change tmrw

flappy bird, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 20:12 (six years ago) link

yeah Karan stepped in that big time. Expect boycotts of her shit.

akm, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 20:15 (six years ago) link

grotesque producer accused of raping beloved starlets & seems like tons of testimonies now. he can't buy his way out of this.

Mordy, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 20:16 (six years ago) link

grotesque producer accused of raping beloved starlets & seems like tons of testimonies now. he can't buy his way out of this.


if Cosby can make it out...

flappy bird, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 20:18 (six years ago) link

he's already been sacked, I'd be surprised if there are any more formal steps taken. either way, he's just one of scores.

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 20:19 (six years ago) link

Yeah HW is definitely not the exception to the rule wrt Hollywood producers im guessing

flappy bird, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 20:21 (six years ago) link

What's Bryan Singer got on his docket lately?

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 20:21 (six years ago) link

we're getting to the point (or getting to yet another point) where people who put the blinders on when they get to a certain age or position are having to wake the fuck up and realize they're complicit in things

the entire "oh but X did Y in 1990!" argument is bullshit because yeah, people should have been better about things thing, and being complicit then or deeming something socially tolerable nearly thirty years ago doesn't mean rolling on with that in 2017 is still going to fly

the short version is that people have assuming such casting couch arrangements, even when it's rape and not tacit quid pro quo, are just the cost of doing business. and, frankly, no.

mh, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 20:22 (six years ago) link

tbrr the idea that hollywood includes all this shit as a matter of course and it's lurid tabloid material has propped up Weinstein more than hurt him, if you go by the anecdotes about his people dropping leads to the press

mh, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 20:22 (six years ago) link

Anyway, Morbs still stans for both Allen and Polanski as artists so.

― Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Tuesday, October 10, 2017 2:50 PM (thirty-seven minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

I'm on the record eviscerating Woody Allen fwiw

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 20:29 (six years ago) link

If various celebrities and politicians want to claim they knew nothing about the sexual assault allegations, I guess that's fine, there's a lot coming out about that now that maybe wasn't fully vocalized in the past. But anyone that was pals with Weinstein or happily took his money at least knew that he was a horrible person. I knew this and I know next to nothing about the movie biz.

Moodles, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 20:30 (six years ago) link

From Terry Crews's Twitter -- he didn't thread these, but start here and scroll up:

This whole thing with Harvey Weinstein is giving me PTSD. Why? Because this kind of thing happened to ME. (1/Cont.)

— terrycrews (@terrycrews) October 10, 2017

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 20:30 (six years ago) link

kinda hard to work in that sphere while avoiding horrible people entirely. If you worked in nightclubs up through the '50s, you worked for gangsters, period.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 20:32 (six years ago) link

I have to imagine if you grab at Terry Crews like that, you are secretly hoping to be flattened.

Moodles, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 20:41 (six years ago) link

or expressing just how much power you perceive yourself to possess

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 20:42 (six years ago) link

^^^

Marcus Hiles Remains Steadfast About Planting Trees.jpg (DJP), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 20:42 (six years ago) link

tom cruise should have known better than to do that to terry crews. did he think he could get away with that because their names are pronounced the same?

akm, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 20:47 (six years ago) link

I mean, that at least helps put the lie to the entire "if it was me I'd punch the guy or fight back" bullshit

the default human reaction for sexual harassment from someone you've met isn't some "oh shit, better fight back" reaction, especially if it's among a group of your peers and people with power

mh, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 20:58 (six years ago) link

JFC no, it's not
anyone who thinks that is living in a magical imaginary world

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 21:28 (six years ago) link

it's almost like the common denominator is power, which is primarily held in money

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 21:29 (six years ago) link

and men

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 21:31 (six years ago) link

yes

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 21:38 (six years ago) link

Rose McGowan is absolutely fierce on Twitter today. She's called out Affleck as a liar, claiming he absolutely knew about Weinstein, and she's started a petition calling for the entire TWC board to be dissolved.

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 23:15 (six years ago) link

she's fantastic

nomar, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 23:19 (six years ago) link

Tarantino still hasn't said a word, has he.

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 23:23 (six years ago) link

I am sure he has said many, many words but none publicly

mh, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 23:26 (six years ago) link

he was talking about how he shivered when he heard the news and wanted to find out more about it

What a great job Andy Muschetti has done in IT. It made me shiver. What other interesting things does Argentina have?

— Quentin Tarantino (@qtarantino) October 9, 2017

sorry i misread that

nomar, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 23:26 (six years ago) link

Amazing.

Weinstein's wife is splitting

http://people.com/movies/harvey-weinstein-wife-georgina-chapman-separating/

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 23:27 (six years ago) link

Fired Weinsteins because they were irresponsible, and Harvey was an incorrigible bully. Had no idea he was capable of these horrible actions

— Michael Eisner (@Michael_Eisner) October 10, 2017

I needed a laugh, thank you https://t.co/qXDWYXZmkU

— rose mcgowan (@rosemcgowan) October 10, 2017

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 23:30 (six years ago) link

Its interesting to read that Brad Pitt got up in Weinsteins face after he harrassed Gwynneth P, and said "touch her again and there'll be trouble" and it seems that worked. Why didnt more men do this?

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 23:35 (six years ago) link

found this on rose mcgowan's twitter (thank you, i don't follow actors because they blab too much but i like her)

http://www.vulture.com/2017/10/damon-affleck-father-of-daughters-excuse-harvey-weinstein.html?utm_campaign=vulture&utm_source=tw&utm_medium=s1

zing!

Having a daughter shouldn’t be a requirement for internalizing the problems of working within a sexist industry. Your wives gave birth to a baby girl, not a moral compass.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 23:36 (six years ago) link

xp - trayce many of them need to have a daughter first

sadlol

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 23:37 (six years ago) link

LL - god. Sad but true :(

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 23:37 (six years ago) link

hate to say it but Pitt was probably one of the few actors who could have done it and a lot of these women were alone in their fight and didn't feel like they had the backup, probably. Jolie decided to not work with him ever again, and looking at IMDb it appears as though Pitt himself worked on only three projects associated w/Weinstein and only on one where he was more than a cameo (Inglorious Basterds, which was likely a film where he wouldn't have had to deal w/Weinstein, since Tarantino has final cut.)

nomar, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 23:39 (six years ago) link

Its interesting to read that Brad Pitt got up in Weinsteins face after he harrassed Gwynneth P, and said "touch her again and there'll be trouble" and it seems that worked. Why didnt more men do this?

Most of them, if they even knew, didn't have Pitt's juice. And frankly he could have done more. xp

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 23:39 (six years ago) link

I feel like another issue with Hollywood is that SO MANY people in it are motherfuckers who treat people like shit - in a sexual way or otherwise. People don't go out and denounce it because everyone is doing it.

officer sonny bonds, lytton pd (mayor jingleberries), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 23:42 (six years ago) link

well we don't know what he tried to do or didn't do...we also don't know what Paltrow told him at the time, she may have said look let's just drop it, he won't mess with me again.

i have a friend who was recently the victim of unwanted sexual advances from an acquaintance/neighbor of ours (she considered it to have stopped short of anything criminal) and when i told her i was ready to cross the street and have a conversation about it, she asked me not to. we all simply cut him out of our lives and told everyone we knew to steer clear.

nomar, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 23:46 (six years ago) link

You're right, and it's folly to say "x/ally/whoever could have done more" on an individual level but it is galling, if not exactly surprising, that it took this long for the dam to break. As the piece I linked put it, this would not even have happened if HW still had the pull and power he used to.

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Tuesday, 10 October 2017 23:49 (six years ago) link

Why Farrow went to the New Yorker

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/nbc-harvey-weinstein-investigation_us_59dd2739e4b04fc4e1e96d08?7d5

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 23:50 (six years ago) link

'concerns related to the story’s sourcing' lol

mookieproof, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 23:56 (six years ago) link

jingleberries is also right, weinstein is probably one of the worst offenders but the industry is full of a lot of creeps and cheaters and abusers. this isn't specific to hollywood but it's so unregulated, there are so many people at high levels who can use their influence to get what they want to so many low level people who pretend to have influence to get what they want, or worse yet and more accurately both will TAKE what they want.

nomar, Tuesday, 10 October 2017 23:56 (six years ago) link

and nobody stops them and everyone is taking notes for how theyre going to fuck everyone over when its their turn in charge

officer sonny bonds, lytton pd (mayor jingleberries), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 00:08 (six years ago) link

The use of NDAs in all of this is scary. They seem like way too powerful a means for a rich abuser to keep individual victims from knowing about each other and building a critical mass of accusations.

jmm, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 00:23 (six years ago) link

How enforceable are NDAs when they cover criminal activity, though?

nickn, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 00:26 (six years ago) link

I'm still flabbergasted that Trump can be recorded admitting to sexual assault, a dozen women can come forward to accuse him of it, and yet nothing happens - in fact worse than nothing happens, and the majority of white women actually vote for him. I guess Weinstein should run for president.

Zelda Zonk, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 00:26 (six years ago) link

nomar otm, Terence Howard is on a top rated TV show every week , Casey Affleck has an Oscar, etc.

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 00:33 (six years ago) link

"Hi, Roman? Gotta place to crash?"

Harvey Weinstein Flying to Europe Tonight for Sex Addiction Rehab https://t.co/uxgQPYxTpT

— Yashar Ali 🐘 (@yashar) October 10, 2017

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 00:46 (six years ago) link

Good luck changing any of this on a systemic level as long as extreme wealth exists. Until then it's Whack-an-Asshole.

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 00:52 (six years ago) link

Lol @ whack-an-asshole

Otm tho. Shit is systemic in the industry, since its founding.

Οὖτις, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 01:49 (six years ago) link

It's definitely something that happens in every industry but entertainment has a special combination of huge amounts of money and vulnerable physically attractive young people who are desperate and don't have bargaining power.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 01:52 (six years ago) link

it's tragic how a nothing human like this guy can cut such a swath through a whole generation of talented actors who are left traumatized. i mean clearly some were run completely from the industry or left as a result, and some are still wrecked by it.

nomar, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 01:55 (six years ago) link

a special combination of huge amounts of money and vulnerable physically attractive young people who are desperate and don't have bargaining power

this is every industry. this particular manifestation is particularly horrible and upsetting but at the end of the day it's just another form of exploitation.

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 02:04 (six years ago) link

Undeniable, but I don’t think that post was incorrect.

circa1916, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 02:08 (six years ago) link

Heather Graham has a story:

In the early 2000s Harvey Weinstein called me into his office. There was a pile of scripts sitting on his desk. “I want to put you in one of my movies,” he said and offered to let me choose which one I liked best. Later in the conversation, he mentioned that he had an agreement with his wife. He could sleep with whomever he wanted when he was out of town. I walked out of the meeting feeling uneasy. There was no explicit mention that to star in one of those films I had to sleep with him, but the subtext was there.

A few weeks later, I was asked to do a follow-up meeting at his hotel. I called one of my actress friends to explain my discomfort with the situation, and she offered to come with me. En route, she called me to say she couldn’t make it. Not wanting to be at the hotel alone with him, I made up an excuse — I had an early morning and would have to postpone. Harvey told me that my actress friend was already at his hotel and that both of them would be very disappointed if I didn’t show. I knew he was lying, so I politely and apologetically reiterated that I could no longer come by.

That was the end of that encounter — I was never hired for one of his films, and I didn’t speak up about my experience. It wasn’t until Ashley Judd heroically shared her story a few days ago that I felt ashamed. If I had spoken up a decade ago, would I have saved countless women from the same experience I had or worse?

The question — and this is not an excuse — is what defines sexual harassment in the workplace? He didn’t explicitly offer a trade — sex for work — even though I knew that was what he was implying. And I hadn’t gone to his hotel. I know this is an inner dialogue many women have — it’s part of what’s holding so many of us back from sharing our stories. We don’t want to be attacked for reading into something that may or may not have been there. We don’t want to be looked at as weak for not being able to handle ourselves in a business run by men. We don’t want to lose work by being defined as a Difficult Woman. We don’t want to be the first or only voice in the room.

My hope is that this moment starts a dialogue on redefining sexual harassment in the workplace and empowers women to speak out when they feel uncomfortable in a situation. I hope that dialogue covers the gray areas where we ask ourselves, “Did what I think happen just happen?” and that we are no longer shamed into feeling that we should grow a thicker skin, or that our story “isn’t good enough to count.” I’m glad the victims are being heard, that powerful voices in the industry are speaking up to say this kind of behavior isn’t acceptable anymore, and that a predator is finally facing the consequences — it means the world is starting to change for the better.

While I still do feel guilty for not speaking up all those years ago, I’m glad for this moment of reckoning. To the countless other women who have experienced the gray areas: I believe you.

nomar, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 02:08 (six years ago) link

Undeniable, but I don’t think that post was incorrect.

Not at all.

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 02:17 (six years ago) link

It happened in a firm in my niche, female friends of mine worked there (and gladly left ASAP). I don't know whether it was well known outside that firm or not but people within certainly knew and looked the other way (not referring to my female friends who didn't have much power).

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 02:25 (six years ago) link

Judy Garland was molested by MGM executives in the '30s, I think.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 02:44 (six years ago) link

this entire podcast is basically about hollywood being built on exploiting women (and its fucking excellent)

http://www.youmustrememberthispodcast.com/

officer sonny bonds, lytton pd (mayor jingleberries), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 02:51 (six years ago) link

Yeah i was referring specifically to hollywood, which is actually historically worse than a lot of other industries in this respect imo.

Xp

Οὖτις, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 02:53 (six years ago) link

I would guess the modelling industry is similar, but it's that combination of a field that many more want to get into than can, and the fact that they are young and attractive that makes it so prevalent.

nickn, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 03:02 (six years ago) link

Joining the ranks of celebrities chiming in on the Harvey Weinstein scandal, Lindsay Lohan took to her Instagram account to give her two cents — not to speak out against the Hollywood executive, but to defend him.

She made an Instagram story saying, “I feel very bad for Harvey Weinstein right now. I don’t think it’s right what’s going on.” She added, “He’s never harmed me or did anything to me – we’ve done several movies together. I think everyone needs to stop – I think it’s wrong. So stand up.”

She also addressed Georgina Chapman, who recently announced that she is leaving Weinstein, saying that Chapman needed to “take a stand and be there for her husband.” The message was deleted soon after it was posted.

nomar, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 04:15 (six years ago) link

Applause for Heather Graham there - good to publicly broaden the scope of what this can look like, and the detail of HW lying about her friend being there is especially good/gross to add to the 'nothing SPECIFICALLY stated' assault / masturbation / rape accounts, that already painted a picture of his full awareness vs "the times" he grew up in.

shackling the masses with plastic-wrapped snack picks (sic), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 04:49 (six years ago) link

also:

No way he flees the country, dude does not have a French passport like Polanski.

wonder if Fabrizio Lombardo has booked this rehab for him

shackling the masses with plastic-wrapped snack picks (sic), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 04:50 (six years ago) link

look, if you're gonna do PR-mandated sex rehab, you gotta do it in europe. it's just not the same in the states. everyone should do it at least once before they die, there's nothing else like it.

qualx, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 05:00 (six years ago) link

personally, i took a gap year before NYU just to do PR-mandated sex rehab in amsterdam

qualx, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 05:01 (six years ago) link

See, I was too poor for that. I had to have American PR-Mandated Sex Rehab.

to fly across the city and find Aerosmith's car (C. Grisso/McCain), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 05:53 (six years ago) link

I guess Weinstein should run for president.

Perfect way for the Democrats to beat Trump.

Tom's Tits Experiment (Tom D.), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 09:46 (six years ago) link

My dad continues to be the coolest 72-year-old Army vet I know. After I posted something on FB about this today, he posted this reply:

When I was in the Army at Ft. Leonard Wood there was a rash of sexual abuse involving female trainees and drill sergeants (DIs). All officers were told to get on top of this problem and provide their NCOs with clear cut guidance on things that were both socially taboo and against Army regulations. I got all of my DIs together for a quick briefing. I kept it simple. I asked them if they would say "good morning PVT. Joe Snuffy, what pretty blue eyes you have." They all laughed and said, "of course not, sir." To which I replied, "good, don't say it to PVT Mary Jones either." Then I went on to explain how easy it is to over reach your position of authority and I wouldn't tolerate it. Although I was the officer in charge, I had been an NCO for 12 years of my career and heard and saw plenty. They didn't know my background.

I suspect that if he ever saw someone either in the military or in his civilian career under his authority who was doing something as rancid as Weinstein, he might have skipped the talk and just beat the ever-loving shit out of them.

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 16:45 (six years ago) link

I know sex addiction is a real thing, but it's remarkable how many harassers/assaulters suddenly realize they have it only when they are publicly accused of harassment and assault.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 16:48 (six years ago) link

lol @ Pvt. Joe Snuffy

Οὖτις, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 16:50 (six years ago) link

Hey, don't disrespect our vets.

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 16:57 (six years ago) link

Ben Affleck Is Accused of Groping Actress Hilarie Burton

flappy bird, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 17:17 (six years ago) link

And on it goes.

I just received this statement from @Caradelevingne detailing her experience with Harvey Weinstein. Thank you, Cara. pic.twitter.com/SA1D05lYH4

— Yashar Ali 🐘 (@yashar) October 11, 2017

a man often referred to in the news media as the Duke of Saxony (tipsy mothra), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 17:31 (six years ago) link

Grosser and grosser

The Harsh Tutelage of Michael McDonald (Raymond Cummings), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 17:39 (six years ago) link

i want people to go harder after Page Six, check this hit piece from 2015. Four people used to try to take down the legitimate claim by Ambra Battilana Gutierrez.

https://pagesix.com/2015/03/31/model-who-accused-weinstein-of-molestation-attends-show-with-tickets-he-gave-her/?_ga=2.106979778.134139512.1507701913-1469455140.1432402142

nomar, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 17:41 (six years ago) link

that Delevingne statement is so creepy

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 17:44 (six years ago) link

yeah the assistant saying "you're car won't be here for a while you should go to his room". love to aid and abet sexual assault and harassment for a living.

-_- (jim in vancouver), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 17:46 (six years ago) link

but also like he obviously is so premeditated and carefully planned with his gross schemes. has the staff working on it.

-_- (jim in vancouver), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 17:47 (six years ago) link

Any idea which film and director she's referring to in that story?

jmm, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 17:50 (six years ago) link

It occurs to me that Weinstein didn't even have the normal idiot excuse of being a complete drunk

which is not at all an excuse, it just makes you look like a well-rounded trainwreck of a douche

mh, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 17:50 (six years ago) link

i believe she's talking about Tulip Fever directed by Justin Chadwick. Filmed in 2014, released in 2017.

nomar, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 17:51 (six years ago) link

and yeah, nomar otm, every fucking jackass gossip columnist who ran rape apologia pieces should get aired out

mh, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 17:52 (six years ago) link

Hope this keeps going like dominoes and we can have a Rolling thread for these people every year.

Robert Adam Gilmour, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 17:53 (six years ago) link

I hope it stops! The harassment, I mean, not the public stories explaining this shit

mh, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 17:54 (six years ago) link

Really kinda hope this avalanche gets Corey Feldman to come out and name the former A-listers he's been insinuating about for years now.

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 17:54 (six years ago) link

go look at the twitter for two of them, Danika Fears and Mara Siegler, they're retweeting Rose McGowan and stories about how horrible Harvey Weinstein is. And they put there names on that shit I linked.

nomar, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 17:55 (six years ago) link

honestly idk what to do with any of this information. like, I already knew Hollywood was a cesspool of sexist abuse (as it has been for nearly a century), and playing "whack-an-asshole" w/each one that comes up is I guess helpful in some small way but I'm a little cynical about any systemic change resulting from it.

Οὖτις, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 17:56 (six years ago) link

the people who are always loudly claiming that industries should be meritocracies are unsurprisingly doing some victim blaming

mh, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 17:58 (six years ago) link

maybe if these kinds of revelations destroy enough careers predators will think twice before they harass someone - both bc they'll see the potential consequences and bc their victims will be more emboldened to speak out.

Mordy, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 17:59 (six years ago) link

“kindly remove your tweet about my client “ #rapeculture

— CEDRIC BIXLER ZAVALA (@cedricbixler_) October 11, 2017

He had alluded to the rape charges against Danny Masterson

how's life, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 18:00 (six years ago) link

i'm not sure where the cynicism would come from, Mordy otm. i'm not sure it's helpful in a small way, i think seeing how Harvey Weinstein of all people is now a complete pariah in Hollywood will make a lot of people rethink their behavior or it will prevent it in the future.

nomar, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 18:02 (six years ago) link

lol wait how did Cedric wind up in the Weinstein thread

flappy bird, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 18:07 (six years ago) link

Wonder how long it would take to have an effect on Japanese Idol culture.

Robert Adam Gilmour, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 18:16 (six years ago) link

I mean, it's kinda the rolling hollywood sexual abuse thread of the moment. I hadn't heard about these allegations against Masterson before.

xp

how's life, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 18:16 (six years ago) link

That Page Six story is nuts.

Her Instagram account is filled with lingerie shots from various modeling gigs, along with preachy aphorisms like “Be real and honest always” and “There is no good sex without love.”

jmm, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 18:22 (six years ago) link

they used to throw "troublemakers" in sanitariums to silence them. now with the internet, not even a powerful exec can stop a story once it's gotten out. we've come a long way since the days of Francis Farmer. im a little more on the optimistic side. let's get all these stories out, shed light on this shit.

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 18:23 (six years ago) link

Rape accuser had had sex before, source claims (xp)

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 18:24 (six years ago) link

maybe if these kinds of revelations destroy enough careers predators will think twice before they harass someone - both bc they'll see the potential consequences and bc their victims will be more emboldened to speak out.

I would like for men not to rape because they know they should not rape, but I suppose I would settle for men not raping because they are afraid to rape.

.oO (silby), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 18:30 (six years ago) link

yes i would also like an enlightened state of messianic redemption when people never treat each other cruelly bc all humanity follows even basic rudimentary moral codes but until that point some pragmatic deterrents are also good

Mordy, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 18:34 (six years ago) link

Imagine

flappy bird, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 18:36 (six years ago) link

silby and mordy otm

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 18:38 (six years ago) link

cedric's feed today has been quite something

imago, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 18:41 (six years ago) link

I would like a more equal society where the massive power imbalances that breed craven exploitation are no longer even legal but y'know that's me

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 18:42 (six years ago) link

There was a grisly Mair interview earlier, with a Brit producer who has worked with HW on multiple movies. He turned up at a private work related screening of In The Cut she was at and instructed the projectionist to FF to the "part where Meg Ryan gets her tits out" and then proceeded to jerk off in the seat behind her is the gist of her story. When I say private, she was the only person present apart from the projectionist.

calzino, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 18:44 (six years ago) link

http://www.scarymommy.com/sexual-harassment-how-not-be-accused/

While navigating professional relationships can often require that dreaded thing known as “any amount of work at all,” there is hope. You see, by following this one simple rule, you, too, can interact with women as people.

It’s as clear-cut as this: Treat all women like you would treat Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson...
...

Oh shoot! She’s pretty! In the face, even. What to do?! I mean, you know it’d be inappropriate to treat the coffee meeting as a date since her clearly stated intentions were professional. But on the other hand, she’s blonde, and so was your last girlfriend! This is so confusing! What a minefield you are in.

But navigating this sticky situation can be made easy by employing The Rock Test. Close your eyes, take a deep breath, and when you open them, pretend Karen looks like this: (picture of The Rock)

Wow! Karen looks pretty tough and strong and sweaty! She looks like a person who is working very hard to achieve her goals, having left behind a situation that clearly wasn’t working, headed for bigger and better things. Maybe ask her about that? But definitely don’t hit on her. It looks like she could kill you with the chair you’re sitting on.

Conic section rebellion 44 (in orbit), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 18:45 (six years ago) link

thing is, the terry crews stuff obviates that

imago, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 18:49 (six years ago) link

@imago - what is Cedric's connection to all this? his wife?

flappy bird, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 18:51 (six years ago) link

I don't think all harassers are as bold or view themselves as powerful as one that'd harass Terry Crews

mh, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 18:51 (six years ago) link

cedric appears to have recently escaped a certain religious institution/cult

imago, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 18:52 (six years ago) link

wtf

flappy bird, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 18:52 (six years ago) link

Producer interviewed by Mair and just now on C4 is Alison Owen, who is Lily Allen’s mum. She said that she never had a firsthand account of HW’s antics, and even though she found him gross at that private screening, nothing he did in her presence was call-the-police actionable, and all the stories people shared were FOFish and basically hearsay.

kim jong deal (suzy), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 18:57 (six years ago) link

Whoa I just looked at Cedric's twitter - glad that he's still with his wife, but distressed nonetheless that they're being harassed by Scientologists. Hope he's right about dominoes continuing to fall. LOL'd at this:

Here we have LRH trying to audit the compulsion to rape out of a fucking tomato. Poor tomato must have raped in a past life. Not its fault pic.twitter.com/K2G03sA0Mb

— CEDRIC BIXLER ZAVALA (@cedricbixler_) October 11, 2017

flappy bird, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 19:00 (six years ago) link

also important:

the lead in this beloved series is a Scientologist who turns a blind eye to the abuses of her own church. She is “of David”. Miscavige. pic.twitter.com/A5aexhyIsD

— CEDRIC BIXLER ZAVALA (@cedricbixler_) October 11, 2017

flappy bird, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 19:00 (six years ago) link

all the stories people shared were FOFish and basically hearsay.

FOFish as in 'fact or fake'?

soref, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 19:05 (six years ago) link

Fertile. Of Fred.

how's life, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 19:06 (six years ago) link

Friends of friends.

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 19:07 (six years ago) link

fuck yah cedric

kurt schwitterz, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 19:14 (six years ago) link

Can't wait for when Scientology eventually, finally goes down

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 19:19 (six years ago) link

A profile in courage

pic.twitter.com/z8cyxrd693

— Seth MacFarlane (@SethMacFarlane) October 11, 2017

As someone just said in response, "you opened the oscar's that year by forcing a famous gay men's chorus to sing "i saw your boobs""

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 19:24 (six years ago) link

I hate SM so much, way to use this to give yourself a pat on the back you useless unfunny fuck

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 19:26 (six years ago) link

"Congratulations, you five ladies no longer have to pretend to be attracted to Harvey Weinstein."

Yeah, definitely a hard swing and not any kind of trivialization of the issue.

jmm, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 19:33 (six years ago) link

Everybody's just rushing to their time machines to condemn Harvey Weinstein

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 19:33 (six years ago) link

Except highbrow critics, who have been there since Kiarostami's Through the Olive Trees got buried.

Anne of the Thousand Gays (Eric H.), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 19:37 (six years ago) link

Lmao yeah right some “hard swing”

a hard swing = what rose mcgowan has been doing for years. it’s not a fucking joke. If you want to attack someone or bring them to justice just fucking say it.

flappy bird, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 20:18 (six years ago) link

"Congratulations, you five ladies no longer have to pretend to be attracted to Harvey Weinstein."

we can probably assume harvey weinstein found this joke titillating

difficult listening hour, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 20:41 (six years ago) link

Would be incredible if someone made an accusation at an awards ceremony.

Robert Adam Gilmour, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 20:42 (six years ago) link

that's the weakest swing at Weinstein imaginable. out of context it also twists it around to where the women are putting themselves out there, rather than having someone force himself upon them.

nomar, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 20:46 (six years ago) link

Otm. also, yea it would be incredible & extremely unlikely anyone would make an accusation at the Oscars. I’m saying if he actually wanted to attack HW bc he “loathed” him so much, he could’ve made a statement. like, before the story broke

flappy bird, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 20:48 (six years ago) link

How is that unlikely? Half of all moviewood is infected with this shit. This is bound to come up, despite yr Murican 'Oscars are a show don't ruin it w/ politics or sexual misdemeanor'. It will come up, if only by the 'comic' presenting it. And however bad those comics are, it should come up. It needs to be mentioned. There is no alternative.

Le Bateau Ivre, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 20:57 (six years ago) link

Comic=comedian, soz

Le Bateau Ivre, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 20:58 (six years ago) link

Lol im definitely not in the “keep politics out of the Oscars” camp, I’m just saying it’s highly unlikely, & certainly was in 2013

flappy bird, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 20:58 (six years ago) link

I agree this has opened the floodgates & there will be much “atoning” in a few months at the globes, Oscars, etc

flappy bird, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 20:59 (six years ago) link

I don't think he was obligated to make a direct accusation at the Oscars, particularly if Barth wasn't willing. But I don't think his joke did anything to help either.

jmm, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 21:02 (six years ago) link

"Police Respond To 911 Call From Harvey Weinstein's Daughter, Who Reportedly Said Her Father Was Suicidal"

http://laist.com/2017/10/11/weinstein_police_911.php

nickn, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 22:03 (six years ago) link

;_;

Tom's Tits Experiment (Tom D.), Wednesday, 11 October 2017 22:07 (six years ago) link

That's rough. Calling your daughter "Remy" is equally rough though tbh.

Le Bateau Ivre, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 22:18 (six years ago) link

why?

flappy bird, Wednesday, 11 October 2017 22:23 (six years ago) link

Rose M. bringing receipts re: Bob Weinstein and LiLo

Anonymously sent to me. They all knew. It starts here. pic.twitter.com/24s1LRTDxk

— rose mcgowan (@rosemcgowan) October 11, 2017

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Thursday, 12 October 2017 01:03 (six years ago) link

Bob was doing it too? Or abetting Harvey? Confused

flappy bird, Thursday, 12 October 2017 01:08 (six years ago) link

seems like he may have been abetting

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Thursday, 12 October 2017 01:11 (six years ago) link

🤢

flappy bird, Thursday, 12 October 2017 01:13 (six years ago) link

The context of that email was LiLo's agent contacting her to meet w/Bob in a hotel room regarding a cameo in one of the Scream movies. The response:

Bob Weinstein is a POS. They allllll knew. pic.twitter.com/zWJZf52ywq

— rose mcgowan (@rosemcgowan) October 11, 2017



Then she tweeted this:

Please go easy on Lindsay Lohan. Being a child actor turned sex symbol twists the brain in ways you can’t comprehend.

— rose mcgowan (@rosemcgowan) October 11, 2017

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Thursday, 12 October 2017 01:15 (six years ago) link

i am so moved by the women coming forward to tell their stories

he is not just a creep he is a powerful, physically intimidating and volatile creep who is using ALL of his available faculties against women

Asia Argento’s story got to me, bc it shows the complexities of abuse and that this kind of abuse in the workplace is not only “one & done”, never again for women. You still have a life, you may still work with or for these creeps. And for those creeps the debasement & humiliation is how they *initiate* relationships. It starts with sexual abuse & harassment and CONTINUES with increased power & overtures and acting as though nothing has happened til these women are just numb and emotionally worn down like stones on the beach because it takes so much energy to be on high alert.

It is oft repeated & bears repeating always that I and millions of women have heard and/or experienced stories like this our whole life.

But to hear a story like Asia’s, or any woman’s and to to judge them as anything *other* than brave is a) mystifying & b) upsetting

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 12 October 2017 01:36 (six years ago) link

just the stories about how they had to literally escape the room, it's horrifying. he's a fucking monster.

nomar, Thursday, 12 October 2017 01:38 (six years ago) link

if he decides to eat a bullet I'll feel for his kids but otherwise won't shed a single tear

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Thursday, 12 October 2017 01:44 (six years ago) link

co-sign. he's nothing but a symbol for systemic rot but no mourning involved

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Thursday, 12 October 2017 01:48 (six years ago) link

No way he'll eat a bullet, though, at most he'll move to Europe and live lavishly for a long time.

nickn, Thursday, 12 October 2017 01:49 (six years ago) link

yup

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Thursday, 12 October 2017 01:49 (six years ago) link

he's too much of a pussy to do it

flappy bird, Thursday, 12 October 2017 01:50 (six years ago) link

not a great place we're going here

qualx, Thursday, 12 October 2017 01:51 (six years ago) link

enh

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Thursday, 12 October 2017 01:52 (six years ago) link

I don't know that I'd even feel for his kids. Hard to imagine a person like this as any kind of decent father.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Thursday, 12 October 2017 01:56 (six years ago) link

je ne regrette pas rien

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Thursday, 12 October 2017 01:56 (six years ago) link

i don't care about harvey weinstein's mental wellbeing but "too much of a pussy to commit suicide" is... not a thing that needs to be said in any context

qualx, Thursday, 12 October 2017 01:57 (six years ago) link

all I can say is that if men ever feel kind of weird or skeevy about their own behavior around women, tell them to *ask a woman*

there were so many weird attitudes that I heard, from my peers and older men, that were just an ongoing generational misogyny

and honestly I feel like hollywood, which should not be like this (and it doesn’t excuse any behavior at all), is exactly that system.

mh, Thursday, 12 October 2017 01:59 (six years ago) link

Yeah can we please stop with the suicide BS.

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Thursday, 12 October 2017 02:05 (six years ago) link

The Argento story has been fucking me up.

to fly across the city and find Aerosmith's car (C. Grisso/McCain), Thursday, 12 October 2017 02:30 (six years ago) link

Well guess who decided to say some things.

"I didn’t stand in Georgina’s way when we discussed a separation, I encouraged her to do what was in her heart" https://t.co/ZKLyQRNNis

— Page Six (@PageSix) October 12, 2017

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 12 October 2017 03:24 (six years ago) link

You think you're gonna take her away
with your assault charges and your Rogaine

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 12 October 2017 03:25 (six years ago) link

Is his crisis comms strike squad not telling him to stop talking

.oO (silby), Thursday, 12 October 2017 03:27 (six years ago) link

Emily Smith is garbage

nomar, Thursday, 12 October 2017 03:27 (six years ago) link

lol he literally went to page six

qualx, Thursday, 12 October 2017 03:54 (six years ago) link

There's something so disturbing about him affecting this faux-enlightened "if you love somebody set them free" attitude when he literally forcibly detained women.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Thursday, 12 October 2017 04:01 (six years ago) link

it'd be helpful if everyone ignored the swine's damage control attempts

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 12 October 2017 04:04 (six years ago) link

It is oft repeated & bears repeating always that I and millions of women have heard and/or experienced stories like this our whole life.
yup, thank you for saying it VG

i'd also like to promote the idea of using the word predator in lieu of creep
creep is mushy, shapeless -- no one wants to be one but it's difficult (impossible) to properly define (unless you define it as "someone who violates consent in objectifying or interacting with people" which is the way I define it)
predator is more accurate, stings harder, sticks longer, and might change the way we think about the way we interact with each other
that's my hope at least

a creep is just a delusional predator
so let's just call them predators

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 12 October 2017 04:12 (six years ago) link

predator it is then

:)

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 12 October 2017 04:23 (six years ago) link

fuck bret stephens forever

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Thursday, 12 October 2017 04:24 (six years ago) link

NYT really getting the most out of their hate read columnists these days

flappy bird, Thursday, 12 October 2017 04:31 (six years ago) link

ok i'll stick to a few particularly stupid sentences from that column

Perhaps it should come as no surprise that an industry built around pretended characters and scenarios could have pretended for so long that nothing was amiss. Perhaps it should be no surprise, either, that its concept of ethics is every bit as ersatz and inconstant as most everything else in Tinseltown.

same thing happened at Fox News, Penn State, BBC, & the Catholic Church.

The outrage over Mr. Weinstein also has a whiff of opportunism. In recent years, notes New York magazine’s Rebecca Traister, Weinstein has “lost power in the movie industry” and is no longer “the indie mogul who could make or break an actor’s Oscar chances.” Lame horses get shot.

??... the paper you write for "shot" Weinstein. he wouldn't have been fired if not for that story and Hollywood wouldn't have abandoned him.

The important truth is that he was just another libidinous cad in a libertine culture that long ago dispensed with most notions of personal restraint and gentlemanly behavior. “I came of age in the ’60s and ’70s, when all the rules about behavior and workplaces were different,” Weinstein wrote in his mea culpa to The Times last week. “That was the culture then.”

That line was roundly mocked, but it contains its truth.

no it doesn't idiot

Hyenas cannot help their own nature. But the work of a morally sentient society is to prevent them from taking over the savannah.

holy shit lmao

flappy bird, Thursday, 12 October 2017 04:38 (six years ago) link

they might as well have given Weinstein a guest crack at the op-ed page

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Thursday, 12 October 2017 04:41 (six years ago) link

Weinstein accuser Rose McGowan's Twitter account suspended

fuck you twitter! there is a fucking asshole i see that tweets hate daily, try pulling his fucking account you fucks !

(•̪●) (carne asada), Thursday, 12 October 2017 13:07 (six years ago) link

i thought the bar was somewhere above threatening nuclear war with North Korea

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Thursday, 12 October 2017 13:13 (six years ago) link

Seriously, that was my first reaction. McGowan gets temp banned for taking a stand against serial abusers, but serial abuser in chief gets a pass? Fuck twitter.

Josh in Chicago, Thursday, 12 October 2017 13:22 (six years ago) link

Wow, are you fucking kidding me? Yeah, Twitter needs to be obliterated.

the scarest move i ever seen is scary move 4 (Old Lunch), Thursday, 12 October 2017 13:24 (six years ago) link

Twitter needs to be obliterated nationalized.

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Thursday, 12 October 2017 13:27 (six years ago) link

The AV Club OTM here:

“It’s not clear which specific one of the actress’ tweets was targeted and reported to Twitter, and was apparently so offensive that the company decided it’d be a good idea to silence a woman at the heart of an entire scandal based around women being hushed-up and ignored.”

Position Position, Thursday, 12 October 2017 13:28 (six years ago) link

My guess (because I think this is how it works) is that enough people aggressively flagged her that the twitter robot acted. But that is bullshit, anyway. Twitter is a bunch of craven, capricious asshole hypocrites, like the rest.

Josh in Chicago, Thursday, 12 October 2017 13:28 (six years ago) link

Goddamn. It happened after she said fuck you to ben Affleck it seems (link

Le Bateau Ivre, Thursday, 12 October 2017 13:29 (six years ago) link

JiC, that's my guess as well. Which is vile.

Le Bateau Ivre, Thursday, 12 October 2017 13:29 (six years ago) link

If Huff Post's reporting is correct, this is a very serious matter for NBC— and for all NBC journalists. https://t.co/pwc6XSnzKO pic.twitter.com/wZMQo9PptM

— Jay Rosen (@jayrosen_nyu) October 12, 2017

Le Bateau Ivre, Thursday, 12 October 2017 14:00 (six years ago) link

Lol did he just figure out this was very serious

Also since Twitter is clearly absolute garbage why is literally everyone still using it constantly

El Tomboto, Thursday, 12 October 2017 14:14 (six years ago) link

twitter is the worst. you won't find me on there! the world must live without my tweeting.

i really hope harvey goes to jail.

scott seward, Thursday, 12 October 2017 14:28 (six years ago) link

twitter has its uses but it's hopelessly managed

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Thursday, 12 October 2017 14:29 (six years ago) link

though not looking forward to horrible courtroom coverage. with harvey in a wheelchair and a neck brace. gotta have the wheelchair and the neck brace.

scott seward, Thursday, 12 October 2017 14:30 (six years ago) link

From that HuffPo piece:

“Saturday Night Live” executive producer Lorne Michaels was criticized for not including any Weinstein jokes

I get the NBC entanglement but this is just silly. SNL now compelled to make specific jokes?

dinnerboat, Thursday, 12 October 2017 14:30 (six years ago) link

The fuck? If anything it would be in poor taste to include "Weinstein jokes." "Weinstein jokes" are part of the problem.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Thursday, 12 October 2017 14:34 (six years ago) link

Also, this broke last Thursday. Two days isn't a lot of lead time to come up with funny women-being- raped/abused sketches.

President Keyes, Thursday, 12 October 2017 14:36 (six years ago) link

The angle was dumb but LM's "it's a New York thing" was a predictably horrible response

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Thursday, 12 October 2017 14:40 (six years ago) link

Wtf @ twitter banning McGowan. they really do have shit management. It has to be that flag bot, otherwise I don’t get it - rationale for keeping her on is same as keeping Trump on: more clicks/attention

flappy bird, Thursday, 12 October 2017 15:27 (six years ago) link

If it was a flag bot (was she getting more flags than Trump? idk), they ought to have been able to unsuspend her by now.

jmm, Thursday, 12 October 2017 15:32 (six years ago) link

aside but I've been seeing a lot of people lately posting about being temp-banned from facebook for violating "community standards" for stuff like calling out racism or posting a racist flyer that they received (in order to call it out). We're basically watching AI try to learn what is offensive, and in some cases that AI is people like Mark Zuckerberg.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Thursday, 12 October 2017 15:34 (six years ago) link

Probably was a lawsuit threat.

Eazy, Thursday, 12 October 2017 15:35 (six years ago) link

It could have even been her much-quoted tweet about her film being distributed "by my rapist." Especially with Weinstein's legal team.

Eazy, Thursday, 12 October 2017 15:36 (six years ago) link

Yeah that seems possible.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Thursday, 12 October 2017 15:40 (six years ago) link

I'm seeing that she tweeted out some phone numbers and then deleted them?

President Keyes, Thursday, 12 October 2017 15:46 (six years ago) link

Kate Beckinsale stepped forward today, said Weinstein was a bit inappropriate w/her when she was 17, then years later actually asked her if he'd done anything w/her at that time, bc he basically forgot whether or not he'd tried to assault her i guess?

nomar, Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:27 (six years ago) link

damn
not surprising at all though

i'm sure most of the people who do this forget that/whether they did it or not. denial etc.
from a personal perspective, i'm pretty sure there aren't a bunch of men out there remembering me, but i sure remember them.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:30 (six years ago) link

the classic Max Ophuls film Letter from an Unknown Woman is relevant on this point

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:32 (six years ago) link

this is maybe going to sound incredibly dumb, i'm not trying to be #notallmen or #reversepence, but these days i just don't like to hang out with a group of dudes for a night out, or a party that's all men, etc...the energy weirds me out a lot of the time. most of my friends these days all are couples and we hang out as such, but i have other male friends who will just socialize with THA BOYS and i find when i join them that the conversations just go places i'm not comfortable with a lot of the time, or the vibe is just weird, the balance is all off, etc. i don't like the "men's club" feeling. i don't know.

nomar, Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:39 (six years ago) link

agree

mookieproof, Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:42 (six years ago) link

Yeah, I totally feel you. I am generally averse to 'dude hangs', particularly 'white dude hangs'. Speaking as a white dude, no demographic is more likely to creep me out than other white dudes.

the scarest move i ever seen is scary move 4 (Old Lunch), Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:43 (six years ago) link

same

brimstead, Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:44 (six years ago) link

I think the only time I'm in that situation is at band rehearsal but we aren't all white and we aren't all male so it's only intermittently when there's just a subset of us there. idk it doesn't bother me, there's no assholes in the band lol

Οὖτις, Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:47 (six years ago) link

Just don't hang out with assholes imo.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:48 (six years ago) link

the classic Max Ophuls film Letter from an Unknown Woman is relevant on this point

Did you see the cuts Harvey demanded?

Anne of the Thousand Gays (Eric H.), Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:48 (six years ago) link

"That's locker room."

Josh in Chicago, Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:48 (six years ago) link

men who feel the need to exclude women aren't usually up to anything worthwhile ime

where does the conversation go that makes you uncomfortable? i'll admit to being curious.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:48 (six years ago) link

I mean, IDK I haven't had that experience so much. I don't hang out with anyone that much these days, but I get together with a group of guys to play music and it's mostly just talk about music, being a dad, work sucks, and maybe football in which case I tune out.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:49 (six years ago) link

Seems like a thread derail anyway.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:49 (six years ago) link

men who feel the need to exclude women aren't usually up to anything worthwhile ime

yeah I think this is the real issue

Οὖτις, Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:50 (six years ago) link

I really hate the idea of stag weekends

good art is orange; great art is teal (wins), Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:51 (six years ago) link

in the future they will figure out a way to lower testosterone in unborn male fetuses. or something like that. i'm an optimist! #scifireader

scott seward, Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:51 (six years ago) link

the company i work for has a large salesforce of mostly men . they come into the office from all over the country for training and meetings and want to go out in the City while they are here . I only went once and never again , the worst part was that most of them are married but when they come here it's like they are on some fucking weied free for all, it's horrible .

(•̪●) (carne asada), Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:52 (six years ago) link

that's disgusting ^^^

it's not the testosterone -- it's the culture
we can change it if we try. y'all have kids. time to destroy the fratriarchy :)

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:54 (six years ago) link

I have a great core of friends, no assholes, but one of them keeps gravitating toward these sort of fratty activities. For example, he had his 40th birthday in Vegas, and my wife and were all, who actually does this? (So we decided not to go, since Vegas sucks - sorry, Vegas). The other week he made this half suggestion that we go back, but he added "and this time it should be just the guys!" And another friend of mine basically looked at him funny and said, "why? I like having my wife around." Which is to say I think some guys, even not assholes, sometimes get it in their head that they should do guy things in the most cliched guy way possible, and when a group of dudes, even good dudes, get that in their head, things can escalate into assholetry.

Or, like a different friend around the backyard fire pit the other night, actually take out his acoustic guitar and start strumming (and singing!) rudimentary classic rock songs. Don't do that either!

Josh in Chicago, Thursday, 12 October 2017 16:54 (six years ago) link

^^Harvey would have been a lot better off if he'd just done that tho.

to fly across the city and find Aerosmith's car (C. Grisso/McCain), Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:00 (six years ago) link

Yeah that's my attitude to stag parties, just complete befuddlement. "A pre-wedding party, but no women allowed!" Lol what, no, that sounds fucking terrible and dumb. Where are we going, your treehouse?

good art is orange; great art is teal (wins), Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:00 (six years ago) link

The only all-male context I have in my life right now revolves around the alumni group for my all-male college chorus and even there enough of the guys are married to women that it's rare to have a meetup that is actually all male. (We do have an alumni chorus gig every two years, alternating between West Coast US and Japan, where the rehearsals are all-male but we are also in the middle of an activity so there's no real opportunity for things to go super gross.)

I will say that as a straight guy in this context, there is apparently some intragroup harassment that completely bypasses me; one issue that we've had in getting younger alums involved is apparently a core group of guys in their 60s-70s who make a habit of trying to prey on anyone under 30 who shows up. I knew nothing about this until one of my friends told me some stories about rescue missions he and his partner have gone on to keep things above board.

xp: lol, my wife had her 40th in Vegas, as did one of the guys I mentioned who was cockblocking old predators on the last alumni chorus trip.

Marcus Hiles Remains Steadfast About Planting Trees.jpg (DJP), Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:00 (six years ago) link

"we can change it if we try. y'all have kids. time to destroy the fratriarchy"

my kids were lucky enough to go to a really kind/loving/progressive school during their formative years and it totally helped form them in a really positive way. they are very quick to cry foul if they see/hear anything unfair/sexist/racist. not everyone gets that opportunity. i wish i'd had that!

scott seward, Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:01 (six years ago) link

a core group of guys in their 60s-70s who make a habit of trying to prey on anyone under 30 who shows up.

as someone who used to attend an LGBT church (overwhelmingly white men), this is not an unfamiliar phenomenon to me

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:03 (six years ago) link

I wholly reject the notion that ending toxic masculinity requires men not hanging out in groups together, that seems silly. I've had great groups of male friends where no such toxicity existed. But I'm all for ending what-happens-in-vegas style weekends and frat culture and the like. And there is definitely something to the idea that "good" guys will feel pressured to act in a certain guy way when in these situations. I was at an all-guy work dinner recently that got very close to crossing some lines, but thankfully a senior mgmt guy read the situation and was like "Ok, it's time to go."

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:04 (six years ago) link

so happy i don't know what a "stag party" is and have to guess

and yeah i have/have had a lot of friends who are extremely "the boys" mentality. i.e. daydrinking & playing Xbox & doing blow. shit is dark. it's so stupid

flappy bird, Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:05 (six years ago) link

La Lechera -- i guess it's that the conversations turn towards talking about women a lot or relationships in a way that feels a bit retrograde, there's always going to be a bit of that type of flirting w/servers that makes me feel like i'm with a bunch of embarrassing uncles, and it feels kind of gloomy for some reason in a very existential dude way. i can't really explain that latter part, it's more an overall feeling i have. that's probably not a great answer.

it differs from other friends where the couples will hang out and it's just fun and easy and no one has any hangups about the lack of dude nights in that particular circle. though there are times when i'll go hang out with one of those dudes. we just don't get all together as a group to visit the secret world of men, away from the women!

we have a son, and his two oldest friends are girls. and i think that's been more helpful than any advice i could give him. i think he's weirded out by dude energy too, maybe. it's good to err on the side of caution!

nomar, Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:06 (six years ago) link

as someone who used to attend an LGBT church (overwhelmingly white men), this is not an unfamiliar phenomenon to me

As someone who used to host trivia in the only gay bar in town that attracted a 55+ clientele, me neither. The difference here, though, is that these men were not in positions of power, comparatively speaking. Not excusing, just observing.

Anne of the Thousand Gays (Eric H.), Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:06 (six years ago) link

Stag party = bachelor party. If they don't have those where you are, hopefully you can guess from "pre-wedding party for men" xp

good art is orange; great art is teal (wins), Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:07 (six years ago) link

xxxxp yeah man alive otm, ya gotta call em as ya see em. Shit is pretty widespread though. I didn't go to college, but a lot of the friends I was referring to above went to art school. "the boys" / frat mentality extends way beyond actual frats.

flappy bird, Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:07 (six years ago) link

I wholly reject the notion that ending toxic masculinity requires men not hanging out in groups together, that seems silly. I've had great groups of male friends where no such toxicity existed. But I'm all for ending what-happens-in-vegas style weekends and frat culture and the like. And there is definitely something to the idea that "good" guys will feel pressured to act in a certain guy way when in these situations. I was at an all-guy work dinner recently that got very close to crossing some lines, but thankfully a senior mgmt guy read the situation and was like "Ok, it's time to go."

― IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Thursday, October 12, 2017 6:04 PM (two minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

for the record i'm not suggesting that but then again if men really never hung out in groups that were exclusively men...hmm

nomar, Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:08 (six years ago) link

I feel you, man alive, inasmuch as I have male friends (that I've known 15-20 years and who can comfortably hang out with like my mom) I can chill with as a group of just guys, so I don't condemn the practice in and of itself as much as I personally generally avoid it because the majority of my creepiest hangs have been dude-exclusive.

the scarest move i ever seen is scary move 4 (Old Lunch), Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:09 (six years ago) link

The difference here, though, is that these men were not in positions of power, comparatively speaking. Not excusing, just observing.

A detail I'm leaving out is that the people I'm talking about are all on the board of our alumni organization.

Marcus Hiles Remains Steadfast About Planting Trees.jpg (DJP), Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:09 (six years ago) link

There’s also work-related male hangouts before or after meetings where the women who don’t go/aren’t invited are not given career breaks or don’t get bondy face time with superiors.

kim jong deal (suzy), Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:09 (six years ago) link

This should probably be a separate thread, huh.

the scarest move i ever seen is scary move 4 (Old Lunch), Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:10 (six years ago) link

There's no "power" per se as far as other alumni are concerned but we do make decisions that affect the current students' abilities to tour, etc.

Marcus Hiles Remains Steadfast About Planting Trees.jpg (DJP), Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:10 (six years ago) link

yeah, where can we move this discussion?

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:10 (six years ago) link

some kind of NO GIRLS clubhouse

Οὖτις, Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:12 (six years ago) link

Rolling Tree House Thread 2017

flappy bird, Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:12 (six years ago) link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W7uzgOdO0lw

Οὖτις, Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:14 (six years ago) link

?!?!

"the boys" / frat mentality extends way beyond actual frats.
otm
i foolishly thought if i stayed away from broey fratty people, i could escape it. wrong!

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:15 (six years ago) link

yea i agree w/ man alive. probably a better thread for all this btw but whatever

i was extremely averse to all-male situations after going to a boys' catholic high school which was frequently toxic, homophobic, misogynist, crude, awful. after that experience, when i went to college i sought out friendships mostly with women, and i now work in a profession that is 80% women.

but eventually i've found great value in cultivating close, intimate friendships with other men and that sometimes that intimacy can be facilitated by male-only environments. they don't have to be toxic.

in the past decade, i've been part of a few all-male things, all of which have been super healthy, positive, and rewarding, and have never gone into that kind of toxic gross shit mentioned itt: 1) a men's group to talk about healthy sexuality in the context of being a man; 2) a regular "dad's night out" for special needs dads (mostly autism parents) organized by a local autism/special needs non-profit; 3) a regular friday night group w/ some of my childhood male friends, mostly we talk about music, politics, food, art, film, sex too but ime some men are able to talk about sex without being fratty creeps.

though i have talked to male friends and family members that work in male-dominated professions and tbh it sounds fucking horrible

marcos, Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:15 (six years ago) link

Rolling No Girls Allowed Treehouse Thread (All Gender Identities Welcome)

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:16 (six years ago) link

that's exactly what bob pollard said
"no girls in the treehouse"

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:17 (six years ago) link

I could've sworn there was already some "masculinity" thread

Οὖτις, Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:19 (six years ago) link

i would like to add, perhaps relevant to this thread, that my bad-vibes groups are men who work in the entertainment industry. not all of them are these bad dudes, most are not, but the conversations which wind up occurring are often...not the greatest.

nomar, Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:19 (six years ago) link

there's a few xp

plus like...... most of ilx sadly

marcos, Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:19 (six years ago) link

lol, my wife had her 40th in Vegas

Ha! Well, women do their own shit in groups, but defending this from afar, I doubt large groups of women get together and turn into assholes the way men often do. Or at least certainly not the same way.

Josh in Chicago, Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:20 (six years ago) link

I doubt large groups of women get together and turn into assholes

lol sometimes I think there is nothing more terrifying than a gang of 10yo girls, the level of real emotional cruelty can just be insane

we're wandering rather far afield here...

Οὖτις, Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:23 (six years ago) link

(ftr my wife made me go to Vegas with her for her 30th birthday - it was just us though. also I hated almost every second of it apart from the Star Trek experience thing)

Οὖτις, Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:24 (six years ago) link

Don't get me started on kids.

BTW, per "locker room," back when the Access Hollywood tapes came out, the same friend who was anti-"dudes only!" in Vegas didn't defend Trump but did observe that the shit he was saying wasn't that different from the shit any one of us (guys) might say in private. My first thought was, not me! But my second thought was that I at least understood what he was talking about. One man's ironic quip ...

Josh in Chicago, Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:25 (six years ago) link

The last time I was in Vegas, for a wedding (bride was from Vegas), was actually fine, but after that my wife and I basically breathed a sigh that we would never have to go to Vegas again.

Josh in Chicago, Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:26 (six years ago) link

Bourdain is ready to kill someone i think, he has been going hard after Weinstein and wants to also nail those who helped him along the way. Meanwhile there are a lot of people on his twitter feed going after him for not speaking up sooner (or speaking up about things like CNN hiring Lewandowski, or because he had Nugent on his show.) I mean i guess?? considering his gf was raped by Harvey Weinstein i'd personally be willing to let all that slide or not even think about it!

nomar, Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:48 (six years ago) link

wait waht who is Bourdain's gf now? (I know he separated from his wife awhile ago)

Οὖτις, Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:55 (six years ago) link

I work in teh cyberz, I'm fucked if I can't get along with a room full of white dudes around my age.

El Tomboto, Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:56 (six years ago) link

Asia Argento xp

flappy bird, Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:57 (six years ago) link

enjoyed reading a bunch of ilm posters say how uncomfortable they were in overly-male spaces

ogmor, Thursday, 12 October 2017 18:19 (six years ago) link

lol

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Thursday, 12 October 2017 18:21 (six years ago) link

LOOOOOOOL
me too

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 12 October 2017 18:25 (six years ago) link

I didn't know Anthony Bourdain is married to Asia Argento! That explains a lot.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 12 October 2017 18:26 (six years ago) link

sorry gf

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 12 October 2017 18:27 (six years ago) link

xposts Yes, I recognize the irony of that discussion, but ILX is as butch as it gets for me. And I wish lots more non-dudes posted here.

the scarest move i ever seen is scary move 4 (Old Lunch), Thursday, 12 October 2017 18:32 (six years ago) link

Bourdain is ready to kill someone i think, he has been going hard after Weinstein and wants to also nail those who helped him along the way. Meanwhile there are a lot of people on his twitter feed going after him for not speaking up sooner (or speaking up about things like CNN hiring Lewandowski, or because he had Nugent on his show.) I mean i guess?? considering his gf was raped by Harvey Weinstein i'd personally be willing to let all that slide or not even think about it!

― nomar, Thursday, 12 October 2017 17:48 (forty-three minutes ago) Permalink

Well yeah, and I also think you have to defer to the victim on whether to speak out or not, no?

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Thursday, 12 October 2017 18:33 (six years ago) link

Like if it happened to someone I know, I don't think they would want me coming forward without their approval?

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Thursday, 12 October 2017 18:33 (six years ago) link

if she is his gf, i'd imagine he has her approval? i agree it's kind of embarrassing but a few short years ago people were still using the term save-a-__ when men stood up against piggish behavior so every bit of progress helps.

i am not a dude fyi for anyone unclear

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 12 October 2017 18:36 (six years ago) link

i've long cherished the black and white blankness of ilx as a place i can exist without having to announce that but i felt it was worth noting under these circumstances

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 12 October 2017 18:37 (six years ago) link

No I mean in re the people criticizing him for not speaking out sooner. I assume if his wife said "please speak out about this" sooner he would have?

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Thursday, 12 October 2017 18:37 (six years ago) link

oh ok
i don't follow the criticism of the criticism -- that's too much for me to follow. i only have energy to fight the real enemy and that is not "the timing of anthony bourdain".

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 12 October 2017 18:39 (six years ago) link

Yes, your presence as a non-dude ILXor is def noted and valued, LL.

the scarest move i ever seen is scary move 4 (Old Lunch), Thursday, 12 October 2017 18:40 (six years ago) link

And I wish lots more non-dudes posted here.

They did. Oddly enough, a number of them got a lot of shit and felt like they needed to leave.

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 12 October 2017 18:41 (six years ago) link

100% agree, i think i mentioned how jessica chastain on twitter said she had known about Weinstein for years and warned other women in the industry to steer clear. someone (of course they did, bc it's twitter) went after her for not coming forward and she said it was up to them to step forward or give permission to talk about it.

nomar, Thursday, 12 October 2017 18:41 (six years ago) link

A spokesperson from Twitter confirms that it put limits on McGowan's account because she tweeted a phone number:

We have been in touch with Ms. McGowan's team. We want to explain that her account was temporarily locked because one of her Tweets included a private phone number, which violates of our Terms of Service. The Tweet was removed and her account has been unlocked. We will be clearer about these policies and decisions in the future.

President Keyes, Thursday, 12 October 2017 18:43 (six years ago) link

save-a-__

wait, what is this LL?

flappy bird, Thursday, 12 October 2017 18:46 (six years ago) link

jessica chastain otm

__ = ho iirc? sometimes replaced with another word but i thought that was the original usage.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 12 October 2017 18:48 (six years ago) link

check out E-40 discography

President Keyes, Thursday, 12 October 2017 18:48 (six years ago) link

smh that the ilx goons haven't done enough to put everyone on game to forty water by now

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_7vQSPBtwyc

They did. Oddly enough, a number of them got a lot of shit and felt like they needed to leave.

yah looking back on the noize dude era of the board is something i look back on and regret being apart of regularly

kurt schwitterz, Thursday, 12 October 2017 18:51 (six years ago) link

Meantime, Ms. McGowan to Twitter

when will nuclear war violate your terms of service? https://t.co/72FiiyoZ59

— rose mcgowan (@rosemcgowan) October 12, 2017

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 12 October 2017 18:52 (six years ago) link

thought is was captain save-a-luna

(•̪●) (carne asada), Thursday, 12 October 2017 18:52 (six years ago) link

i think it's great that behind the scenes in Hollywood you had all these women banding together to help each other out and steer each other clear of a predator, though obviously not as great as the scenario where a predator was never allowed to roam free and enlist all kinds of help to cover up his crimes.

I've said it before, and I'll say it again: people should never forget the names of those in the media who helped smear Weinstein's accusers. god knows how many of these women chose not to step forward because of the attacks in the press.

nomar, Thursday, 12 October 2017 18:53 (six years ago) link

smh that the ilx goons

ilx goons are an echo chamber

Οὖτις, Thursday, 12 October 2017 18:57 (six years ago) link

re: the Kate Beckinsale story, this is the full one:

I was called to meet Harvey Weinstein at the Savoy Hotel when I was 17. I assumed it would be in a conference room which was very common.When I arrived ,reception told me to go to his room . He opened the door in his bathrobe . I was incredibly naive and young and it did not cross my mind that this older ,unattractive man would expect me to have any sexual interest in him .After declining alcohol and announcing that I had school in the morning I left ,uneasy but unscathed.A few years later he asked me if he had tried anything with me in that first meeting .I realized he couldn't remember if he had assaulted me or not .I had what I thought were boundaries - I said no to him professionally many times over the years-some of which ended up with him screaming at me calling me a cunt and making threats, some of which made him laughingly tell people oh "Kate lives to say no to me ." It speaks to the status quo in this business that I was aware that standing up for myself and saying no to things,while it did allow me to feel uncompromised in myself,undoubtedly harmed my career and was never something I felt supported by anyone other than my family.I would like to applaud the women who have come forward , and to pledge that we can from this create a new paradigm where producers,managers,executives and assistants and everyone who has in the past shrugged and said " well, that's just Harvey /Mr X/insert name here " will realize that we in numbers can affect real change.For every moment like this there have been thousands where a vulnerable person has confided outrageous unprofessional behavior and found they have no recourse, due to an atmosphere of fear that it seems almost everyone has been living in .I had a male friend who, based on my experience,warned a young actress who said she was going to dinner with Harvey to be careful. He received a phone call the next day saying he would never work in another Miramax film ;the girl was already sleeping with Harvey and had told him that my friend had warned her off.Let's stop allowing our young women to be sexual cannon fodder,and let's remember that Harvey is an emblem of a system that is sick,and that we have work to do.

nomar, Thursday, 12 October 2017 19:25 (six years ago) link

she never did work on a Harvey Weinstein production afaict, with the sole exception of The Aviator (like Brad Pitt w/Tarantino, maybe bc she wouldn't have to deal with him, or inversely maybe because he couldn't tell Scorsese not to hire here?)

nomar, Thursday, 12 October 2017 19:27 (six years ago) link

I had a male friend who, based on my experience,warned a young actress who said she was going to dinner with Harvey to be careful. He received a phone call the next day saying he would never work in another Miramax film ;the girl was already sleeping with Harvey and had told him that my friend had warned her off.

JFC, "hey I know I fucked up but those were different times, it was totally normal for people to blacklist anyone who interfered with their habitual rape back then"

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Thursday, 12 October 2017 19:45 (six years ago) link

like the complete bullshit of his "apology" just becomes more and more disturbing with every detail I read. "Aw shucks I guess I'll talk to a therapist and donate some money for gun control."

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Thursday, 12 October 2017 19:46 (six years ago) link

his half-assed video apology today (to a camera crew):

Harvey Weinstein, in his first public response since multiple women accused him of sexual misconduct, said “we all make mistakes."

“Guys, I’m not doing OK, but I’m trying,” Weinstein told reporters on Wednesday as he entered an SUV parked outside his daughter’s Los Angeles home.

“I got to get help,” the former film executive said.

“A second chance, I hope,” Weinstein, 65, added.

nomar, Thursday, 12 October 2017 19:48 (six years ago) link

...what

.@PageSixEmily says Weinstein told her he'll be back in a year w/new financial backing & winning Oscars againhttps://t.co/0H4eMlW3Qr

— Jake Tapper (@jaketapper) October 12, 2017

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 12 October 2017 19:57 (six years ago) link

He’s not sorry - he’s just sorry he got caught.

kim jong deal (suzy), Thursday, 12 October 2017 19:58 (six years ago) link

Otm.

Le Bateau Ivre, Thursday, 12 October 2017 19:59 (six years ago) link

Emily Smith, ever so slightly trying to dodge her complicity there

nomar, Thursday, 12 October 2017 20:00 (six years ago) link

my feeling is that it’s not enough to cut at W himself.
it’s good, and the outpouring is incredible...but i want to see someone cut at the support network. name those other names of the ppl who operate solely on the knowledge that they will never be named... get those floodlights into EVERY dark unknowable corner, not just where the ogre lives

it’ll never happen but it should. don’t just chop down the tree. dig up the roots, burn the ground & salt the earth

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 12 October 2017 20:08 (six years ago) link

Honestly getting sick of people deflecting to Trump in the responses to this. Trump didn't invent sexual assault, and yeah I get the point that it says something that a man like that can become president, but there are a lot of other predators out there.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Thursday, 12 October 2017 20:10 (six years ago) link

VG otmfm. SO MANY MOTHERFUCKERS not only had firsthand knowledge of the shit as it happened, but actively and knowingly facilitated (and ultimately encouraged) it.

Montgomery Burns' Jazz (Tarfumes The Escape Goat), Thursday, 12 October 2017 20:28 (six years ago) link

i'm still in a righteous fury about all of those NY Post hacks who put their names on those hit pieces. name and shame them all, never forget!!

nomar, Thursday, 12 October 2017 20:30 (six years ago) link

this story pisses me off so much. fuck the career hacks. fuck NBC. fuck Batman, what a piece of shit enabler. fuck Twitter too obv but i always felt that way. it was weird as heck when one year every news channel suddenly decided, oh yeah, this is news now, let's ask what HobbitFan420 thinks of the Syrian invasion.

Rose McGowan is my new hero. she deserves to be Batman more than that lying piece of shit.

this whole thing sucks but it's also good to be able to have this stuff out in the open, now it is public knowledge, these scumbags can't hide anymore. predatory misogyny has gone on for a loooong time, shielded by so many systems and power structures, all over the world. we are seeing the cracks in that facade. burn it to the ground.

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Thursday, 12 October 2017 21:52 (six years ago) link

Affleck has always been bro culture boiled down into single man form.

to fly across the city and find Aerosmith's car (C. Grisso/McCain), Thursday, 12 October 2017 21:55 (six years ago) link

it's part of why he was perfect as Old Asshole Batman

Nhex, Thursday, 12 October 2017 22:01 (six years ago) link

not defending him on this issue, but he did attack Bill maher and that other guy for being anti-Muslim on Maher's show

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 12 October 2017 22:04 (six years ago) link

figured that was a foregone conclusion

akm, Thursday, 12 October 2017 23:31 (six years ago) link

i mean, she basically already said that when she said "my ex sold my movie to my rapist"

akm, Thursday, 12 October 2017 23:31 (six years ago) link

pic.twitter.com/xMdoA8fvDx

— Ryan Gosling (@RyanGosling) October 12, 2017

you could at least do us the courtesy of saying our names https://t.co/IJEBkdopHV

— rose mcgowan (@rosemcgowan) October 12, 2017

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 12 October 2017 23:54 (six years ago) link

Yeah I find a lot of these public "solidarity" statements to read more like preemptive self-exculpations.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Friday, 13 October 2017 00:13 (six years ago) link

bla bla bla #notallmen and so on basically.

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Friday, 13 October 2017 00:16 (six years ago) link

The more I'm reading of all this the angrier I'm getting. None of these men said jack shit and they all knew.

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Friday, 13 October 2017 00:17 (six years ago) link

Eh, Affleck has also done (terrible) comedy Arab terrorist accents on late night shows. And I am convinced a blind item I read about a Hollywood leading man beat his wife was about him and Jennifer Garner. but even if that’s not true, he’s gross.

horseshoe, Friday, 13 October 2017 00:27 (six years ago) link

It just rings really weird also to make a public statement to the effect of "Im sorry that I didn't know. "

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Friday, 13 October 2017 00:30 (six years ago) link

pic.twitter.com/cgyYTZtpaN

— Tippi Hedren (@Tippi_Hedren) October 11, 2017

nomar, Friday, 13 October 2017 01:23 (six years ago) link

I'm confused, is she anonymously quoting another actress who wrote that to her?

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Friday, 13 October 2017 01:44 (six years ago) link

This fool would say this.

Oliver Stone refuses to condemn Harvey Weinstein saying "It's not easy what he's going through." https://t.co/eLs4nPPnPU pic.twitter.com/SwmDPqpCqM

— Yashar Ali 🐘 (@yashar) October 13, 2017

Ned Raggett, Friday, 13 October 2017 01:45 (six years ago) link

Jesus.

Tarantino still hasn't commented, huh?

jmm, Friday, 13 October 2017 01:52 (six years ago) link

Utterly shocked by the revelations about Harvey. He is a good friend, but if he is guilty, there are issues that are inevitable.

— Quentin Tarantino (@qtarantino) October 11, 2017

nomar, Friday, 13 October 2017 01:56 (six years ago) link

The guilt of men on the face of the earth must be determined by Justice and ultimately by the possible existence of God.

— Quentin Tarantino (@qtarantino) October 11, 2017

nomar, Friday, 13 October 2017 01:56 (six years ago) link

We need to stand up and support victims of abuse such as the brave and inspiring women who have spoken out.

— Quentin Tarantino (@qtarantino) October 12, 2017

nomar, Friday, 13 October 2017 01:56 (six years ago) link

why are these dillweeds all so bad at lying

qualx, Friday, 13 October 2017 02:02 (six years ago) link

I don't think that's a real account.

jmm, Friday, 13 October 2017 02:02 (six years ago) link

ok so one person is good at lying

qualx, Friday, 13 October 2017 02:04 (six years ago) link

oh nm

nomar, Friday, 13 October 2017 02:04 (six years ago) link

Can't wait for QT to turn this into a thinly-disguised revenge Western.

to fly across the city and find Aerosmith's car (C. Grisso/McCain), Friday, 13 October 2017 02:05 (six years ago) link

Filmmaker Robert Rodriguez has spoken out about Harvey Weinstein’s sexual harassment allegations.

Rodriguez has a long history with Weinstein’s company Miramax and was previously in a relationship with Rose McGowan, who said she was assaulted by Weinstein in 1997.

“I find the behavior of Harvey Weinstein truly disgusting, both what he did and how he covered his tracks, and it makes me wonder how many others can’t come forward and tell their full story because of legal and personal intimidation,” Rodriguez said in a statement obtained by Variety. “His repulsive behavior was an abuse of power. Thankfully, he’s now discovering what true power is.”

Rodriguez worked with the Weinstein’s and Miramax on a number of his films, including “The Spy Kids” series, “Roadracers,” “Four Rooms,” “From Dusk Til Dawn,” and “Sin City.”

nomar, Friday, 13 October 2017 02:09 (six years ago) link

"And yet I stood by and did nothing and continued to make mad bank via a man who did this to women including one I dated"

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Friday, 13 October 2017 02:10 (six years ago) link

Somebody tweeted at Kevin Smith the other day...his response:

He financed the first 14 years of my career - and now I know while I was profiting, others were in terrible pain. It makes me feel ashamed. https://t.co/T0hInW7EqJ

— KevinSmith (@ThatKevinSmith) October 9, 2017

to fly across the city and find Aerosmith's car (C. Grisso/McCain), Friday, 13 October 2017 02:12 (six years ago) link

Actress Tara Subkoff has opened up about her experience with Harvey Weinstein, alleging the producer sexually harassed her in the 1990s when she was up for a part in one of his movies.

“That night I was offered the role, and I went out to a premiere after party that Harvey Weinstein was also at,” she told Variety. “He motioned for me to come over to him, and then grabbed me to sit me on his lap. I was so surprised and shocked I couldn’t stop laughing because it was so awkward. But then I could feel that he had an erection. I got quiet, but got off his lap quickly. He then asked me to come outside with him and other things I don’t want to share, but it was implied that if I did not comply with doing what he asked me to do that I would not get the role that I had already been informally offered. I laughed in his face as I was in shock and so uncomfortable. I left the party right after that.”

Subkoff made her film debut in 1994’s thriller “When the Bough Breaks,” and appeared in the 1997 Jack Nicholson comedy “As Good as It Gets,” the 1997 “All Over Me,” and the 1998 Whit Stillman film “The Last Days of Disco.” Subkoff said after denying Weinstein’s advances that night, she was stripped of the informally offered part and blacklisted from acting in Hollywood.

“My reputation was ruined by false gossip, and I was called ‘too difficult to work with,'” she said. “It became impossible for me to get work as an actress after this, so I then had to start a new career path and started Imitation of Christ, a fashion and art label.

In 2015, Subkoff stepped back into entertainment and made her directorial debut with the feature film “#Horror.”

“The Weinstein company executives snuck into a cast and crew screening of my film and told me they loved it,” she recalled. “Then they took it to Harvey, who then refused to watch it but then bad-mouthed it to everyone all over Cannes.”

Still, the movie was picked up for distribution by IFC Midnight. “[IFC was] so supportive of me and the movie, even though Harvey tried to ruin any potential success it could have had,” she said. “It is challenging enough to get work in Hollywood as a female, let alone being a female filmmaker producer/director. And when people attempt to ruin your reputation on top of that, it makes it next to impossible.”

Subkoff said she hopes the growing list of women coming forward with their stories will set a precedent for how women are treated in all places of work. “I have a 17 month old daughter, and I hope she never has a story like this to share.”

Though she has never shared her story before, Subkoff said she opened up about her experience to demonstrate how “powerful men abusing their power can affect not only a few careers, but all of ours,” adding, “I had it affect and ruin my career as an actress. And then almost twenty years later it almost affected my first feature film I wrote directed and produced getting distribution. That refusing to comply with one powerful man’s sexual advances could not only ruin my first career as an actress, but almost twenty years later also had the power to affect my first and only feature film to get distribution is so important to show how the abuse of power by the patriarchy is affecting all female artists everywhere.”

nomar, Friday, 13 October 2017 02:16 (six years ago) link

if there are people out there who had the guts to say "I've heard all the stories about this guy and you know what I don't want his money" we've probably never heard their names. That doesn't necessarily mean Kevin Smith knew but come on some of these motherfuckers definitely did.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Friday, 13 October 2017 02:16 (six years ago) link

Tarantino & Rodriguez obviously did. Probably Gosling. people like Kevin Smith, I'm not sure... I mean when something is such a widespread open secret, how much purchase do you really have if you only know vague rumors & you're three or four steps removed from the people involved?

flappy bird, Friday, 13 October 2017 02:26 (six years ago) link

considering how many projects Weinstein worked on, you can see a pattern w/a lot of his accusers where they never worked with him again. i have no doubt it was an open secret, but i also think a lot of these guys--when they're saying "i didn't know"--are really saying "i didn't believe the accusers or the rumors i heard." or possibly, "i didn't care until i couldn't afford not to care anymore."

nomar, Friday, 13 October 2017 02:29 (six years ago) link

That last story is horrifying particularly due to the fact he effectively stalked Subkoff years after she rebuffed him, to go out of his way to damage her reputation! I mean that goes beyond being butthurt and into the realm of fucked up controlling psychopath.

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Friday, 13 October 2017 02:58 (six years ago) link

Well, his Mallrats star knew.

#HarveyWeinstein #ClaireForlani #MyStory pic.twitter.com/gEVDkbP5ec

— Claire Forlani (@ClaireAForlani) October 12, 2017

Eazy, Friday, 13 October 2017 03:44 (six years ago) link

http://money.cnn.com/2017/10/12/media/amazon-studios-roy-price-harvey-weinstein/index.html

Head of Amazon Studios put on leave for telling Philip K Dick's daughter (producer of Man in the HIgh Castle) "you'd love my dick" and yelling "Anal sex!" in her ear.

akm, Friday, 13 October 2017 03:45 (six years ago) link

<3 claire forlani

all this truth is so hard to take on board but so important to be heard, seen

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 13 October 2017 03:59 (six years ago) link

I suspect we're going to hear so many more stories coming out over the next several days, weeks, months, etc. He used his position to be a predator stalking an entire generation of young actresses. And even from my limited scope here, you'd hear stories. When Rose McGowan would drop hints over the past couple years, it didn't take much guessing to know who it was. Everyone knew, but the people who could do something felt powerless or they turned a blind eye or they assisted.

And i think unfortunately producers like him, having to work with people like him, it's considered to be some perverse rite of passage, like "oh there are a lot of assholes in Hollywood ha ha!". the ones i'd always hear about was Scott Rudin, and from the old-school Jon Peters. But those stories were always out there, no coverups. They were just legendarily abusive to their underlings, but you'd never hear about actual crimes.

What's different here was the deep rot that had to set in everywhere for so many people to ignore it, or not investigate further. So I have to give massive respect for life to Rose McGowan, I'm complete in my admiration for her. And also for those others behind the scenes who--though they might have felt like they couldn't go to the authorities or the press with proof--nonetheless warned people away from him. And respect to those who had to deal with the PTSD from having him attack them. and i mean i'll never judge anyone for not coming forward, i do not doubt for a second that a lot of people found themselves in a position where they knew their careers could be ruined by this guy, and they felt stuck. it's horrific.

nomar, Friday, 13 October 2017 05:40 (six years ago) link

xps I like Clerks and Dogma well enough, but Smith strikes me as probably an enabler. Unless someone's got a strong case that his best pal Jason Mewes was unlikely to have been a constant harasser.

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Friday, 13 October 2017 10:26 (six years ago) link

Hollywood is steeped in disease to varying "open secret" degrees. The whole "casting couch" thing is practically a punchline, which is pretty sick; talk about an open secret. HW seems to be several steps beyond the norm, whatever that may be, but the fact that literally everyone knows what the proverbial casting couch is shows how deep and far back this stuff goes, no doubt in and at every level of every industry but especially where this boys club mentality appears to be encouraged and dismissed (see: Fox News, the President, everywhere, etc.).

Josh in Chicago, Friday, 13 October 2017 11:40 (six years ago) link

From Quentin Tarantino: pic.twitter.com/jv0VQNrI91

— Amber Tamblyn (@ambertamblyn) October 13, 2017

Ned Raggett, Friday, 13 October 2017 13:33 (six years ago) link

God, seeing these names I haven't seen in forever (Tara Subkoff! Claire Forlani!) and realizing the probable reasons why I haven't seen their names in forever is just the most awful shit. It's not enough that he physically violated these women, he also had to actively snuff out their careers.

the scarest move i ever seen is scary move 4 (Old Lunch), Friday, 13 October 2017 13:43 (six years ago) link

fuck Batman, what a piece of shit enabler

I ran through about 5 names in my mind before I realized you were talking about Affleck

President Keyes, Friday, 13 October 2017 13:59 (six years ago) link

Claire Forlani was in a pretty recent Lifetime movie about a sadistic (exercise) trainer/life coach who preyed on exercise-obsessed Forlani until her spirit was broken. Not bad for a Lifetime movie. Not great.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Friday, 13 October 2017 14:03 (six years ago) link

xp: ditto.

how's life, Friday, 13 October 2017 14:07 (six years ago) link

I've been very skeptical about all these Hollywood people claiming ignorance about Weinstein. I think it's possible they weren't aware of the rape and sexual assault details, but they surely knew that he wasn't a good person, it was common knowledge. I even think this extends to Hillary Clinton and other politicians that took money from him and treated him like a friend. It's dumb that there's been this whole side conversation about Clinton, she doesn't deserve to be dragged through the mud, nor should this conversation even be about her. But I can't help but feel ambivalent about her and other democrats taking his money. Again, it's completely possible they had no idea about the rape allegations, but they must have known they were dealing with a bad character.

My impressions about Weinstein come primarily from reading Down and Dirty Pictures by Peter Biskind about 10 years ago. I don't remember much about that book. The main thing I do remember about it is that it clearly paints Weinstein as a monster, a horrible person who you should avoid working with at all costs. I don't think the book touches on anything to do with sex, but it is very clear that he is no good.

Interestingly, Biskind was interviewed by Slate regarding these new allegations:

http://www.slate.com/articles/news_and_politics/interrogation/2017/10/peter_biskind_on_the_harvey_weinstein_abuse_allegations.html

He comes off as weirdly defensive about the whole thing because he didn't include any details of sexual abuse. He's very vague about whether he knew anything or not. I guess I can understand that he wants to cover his own ass, but I don't see how anyone could read his book and end up with anything but a highly negative view about Weinstein.

Moodles, Friday, 13 October 2017 14:23 (six years ago) link

I take it there's been no comment from Trump.

Mark G, Friday, 13 October 2017 14:24 (six years ago) link

He said he knows Weinstein and he's not surprised.

President Keyes, Friday, 13 October 2017 14:25 (six years ago) link

lol @ tarantino "The guilt of men on the face of the earth must be determined by Justice and ultimately by the possible existence of God."

marcos, Friday, 13 October 2017 14:28 (six years ago) link

*farts*

marcos, Friday, 13 October 2017 14:28 (six years ago) link

that was fake tho right?

President Keyes, Friday, 13 October 2017 14:28 (six years ago) link

ok nm i guess it is a fake account lol

marcos, Friday, 13 October 2017 14:29 (six years ago) link

sorry

marcos, Friday, 13 October 2017 14:29 (six years ago) link

Is it a joke account or some person trying to pretend they are him?

Robert Adam Gilmour, Friday, 13 October 2017 14:38 (six years ago) link

https://www.thedailybeast.com/prosecutor-threw-away-slam-dunk-cases-against-weinstein-and-trump-kids?source=facebook&via=mobile

(author is a law professor, specialist in prosecutorial misconduct, and former manhattan prosecutor, so he knows what he is talking about)

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Friday, 13 October 2017 14:49 (six years ago) link

Yeah I think the only real comment from him so far is that one I linked. (That said, it's a lame comment.)

Ned Raggett, Friday, 13 October 2017 14:50 (six years ago) link

.@KellyannePolls: "Any woman who remained silent as the next generation suffered... they have no right [to say] they speak for women." pic.twitter.com/68txoCg03b

— Fox News (@FoxNews) October 13, 2017

Vile.

Le Bateau Ivre, Friday, 13 October 2017 14:55 (six years ago) link

I really like this piece: https://jezebel.com/dont-make-a-scene-1819360859

If the phrase serves to quickly end a woman’s expression of emotion, then it also serves to define that behavior as performatively unnatural. Almost any allegation can be thus dismissed as yet another crazy, irrational woman making yet another unnecessary scene. Rose McGowan, one of the few of Weinstein’s victims to speak publicly about her abuse, was called “batshit insane,” and her habit of speaking openly about the casual sexism in Hollywood, treated as a questionable spectacle from an unwell woman. McGowan did not act like a victim should. She was angry and messy rather than polite and meek about her allegations. We prefer victims to be “brave,” to articulate their abuse without the messy feelings of anger or regret inflecting the narrative. Anger is for the men who have been accused who, even after mounting evidence of their abusive behavior, still only have to say “these charges are not true,” to provide evidence of their rationality. A victim’s anger is a messy spectacle—a big scene—but the anger of the accused is an objective response to so-called false allegations. McGowan made a scene even as other victims, through threats and media manipulation, were rendered silent, prevented from making a scene.

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Friday, 13 October 2017 14:56 (six years ago) link

on a side note, Tippi Hedren has a cool signature

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tippi_Hedren#/media/File:Tippi_Hedren_signature.jpg

jmm, Friday, 13 October 2017 15:06 (six years ago) link

i believe that phrase comes from the french "faire la comedie" which sometimes means "make a scene" but still often literally means "pretend; make something up"

xpost: omg!!

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Friday, 13 October 2017 15:09 (six years ago) link

Dug up this Oliver Stone profile this morning. Shows how "out in the open" all of this was in that era.

@briankoppelman Reminded of Stephen Schiff's '94 @NewYorker profile of Oliver Stone: https://t.co/j7IVSTqZxh pic.twitter.com/k1EaGwcLLq

— Eric Ziegenhagen (@ericzieg) October 13, 2017

Eazy, Friday, 13 October 2017 15:18 (six years ago) link

patricia arquette appears to be going in on oliver stone right now

mookieproof, Friday, 13 October 2017 15:33 (six years ago) link

Didn't Stone grope Salma Hayek in public a few years ago?

Robert Adam Gilmour, Friday, 13 October 2017 15:54 (six years ago) link

Colin Firth saying "I knew and I'm ashamed I didn't do anything" is at least honest. So far the split seems to be, roughly, something like this:

Woman who has encountered Weinstein makes a statement: "everyone knew about this".
Man who has encountered Weinstein makes a statement: "I didn't know about this".

The latter looking more and more dubious as this continues.

Position Position, Friday, 13 October 2017 15:57 (six years ago) link

Yeah, I would be much more sympathetic to someone who just said -- "Yeah, I knew. We all knew. I didn't come forward because I was afraid to rock the boat and I wasn't sure it would do any good, and I was afraid to get sued for defamation and ruin my career."

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Friday, 13 October 2017 15:59 (six years ago) link

Other than Hitchcock are there many deceased people who people started telling stories about? Obviously they have families and people interested in protecting their legacies but I'd imagine it's easier for older actors or their families to accuse people who are gone?

Robert Adam Gilmour, Friday, 13 October 2017 16:05 (six years ago) link

H'wood is a very gossipy town and stuff tends to circulate while people are alive, going back as far to the days of Fatty Arbuckle and Charlie Chaplin. I'm sure people in H'Wood knew about Htich and Hedren, the crew on the Birds knew it for ex.

Οὖτις, Friday, 13 October 2017 16:14 (six years ago) link

While Chaplin seemed to serially seduce his often younger leading ladies (as Gary Cooper did later), he was the Most Famous Man in the World for a long stretch, so while there was certainly a power dynamic at work I haven't read about any assaults per se.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 13 October 2017 16:21 (six years ago) link

Ronald Reagan of course

President Keyes, Friday, 13 October 2017 16:27 (six years ago) link

Regarding who knew and when, a lot of the men who didn't know didn't know because those who knew deemed it unsafe to tell them.

Frederik B, Friday, 13 October 2017 16:38 (six years ago) link

re: Oliver Stone... he also was lecherous and aggressive with the director of CITIZENFOUR, who scooped Stone's Snowden movie by a couple years. Tried to convince her to delay releasing her film so his could come out first... prick

flappy bird, Friday, 13 October 2017 17:21 (six years ago) link

ugh, never knew about any of that

"The" Blink-182 (wins), Friday, 13 October 2017 17:27 (six years ago) link

https://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2016/08/oliver-stone-snowden-biopic

Speaking of the Snowden documentary, Stone clashed heavily with its director, Laura Poitras. She recalled that when they met for the first time in 2014, Stone asked her to delay the release of her film, because his "would be the real movie."

“To have another filmmaker ask me to delay the release of my film was—well, it was somewhat insulting," she said.

At another point, during dinner, he also “reached over and had his hands around my neck,” she remembered, “sort of in a joking way.”

“I think he was a little bit drunk,” she said. “But it was not a particularly pleasant evening.”

flappy bird, Friday, 13 October 2017 17:31 (six years ago) link

I've been very skeptical about all these Hollywood people claiming ignorance about Weinstein. I think it's possible they weren't aware of the rape and sexual assault details, but they surely knew that he wasn't a good person, it was common knowledge. I even think this extends to Hillary Clinton and other politicians that took money from him and treated him like a friend. It's dumb that there's been this whole side conversation about Clinton, she doesn't deserve to be dragged through the mud, nor should this conversation even be about her. But I can't help but feel ambivalent about her and other democrats taking his money. Again, it's completely possible they had no idea about the rape allegations, but they must have known they were dealing with a bad character.

How am I, an average consumer of movies with an ordinary life and job, supposed to feel when I read self-indulgent shit like, "gee, I didn't know?" Shows you how out of touch some of these celebrities are. I mean, I've worked in offices where there is a serial harasser or general creep, and EVERYONE KNOWS. And it's difficult enough to get these guys in trouble when you're in a much lower income bracket. Why are they tweeting at us peons? No, we don't understand. I guess they're just trying to save face, but fuck them. Hope this fucks up ALL of their careers.

Fake Sam's Club (I M Losted), Friday, 13 October 2017 17:40 (six years ago) link

there's layers though

I mean not to be captain obvious, I'm more just thinking this through out loud myself but...

there's the sad enraging truth that Hollywood is, and has always historically been, by and large a very self-involved, self-protecting "commmunity" -- or "town of strangers who happen work together", depending on how high the stakes are

and even workplaces in general can be that way too.

if someone has a reputation like Weinstein's not only sexually but the whole magilla of being intimidating and prone to violent outbursts and also holding a lot of power, all of that is likely received in terms of how it affects one's self and one's career. especially in Hollywood. if you are part of the circle that "knows", it may just mean that you conduct yourself in a way that means you don't have to deal with him or you limit your dealings, give him a wide berth so to speak. for dudes this may mean you still shake hands and go out to dinner because you know that *you're* not in danger. that's reductive but still, I think it happens more than we're willing to admit.

And you've seen from the stories the woman have told, being one who 'knows' and shares that knowledge with others can have consequences. the fear that word gets back to Weinstein that the warning came from you is enough to make a lot of people stay mum no matter what, because they don't want to risk their jobs/careers/whatever.

It's like the common stories you hear in workplaces: longtime employees might know amongst themselves who to stay away from at parties or who gets handsy when left alone but no-one's necessarily making a point of telling the new employees. Depending on the environment and the offender in question, it may just be pure luck that the new employee happens to befriend someone is willing to share that knowledge with you. if you don't socialize or you're not thought of as being the offender's 'type', you may be left to learn on your own.

there's so much coded langugage and behaviour around these types of people and so much weird shared understanding of how socially or professionally those people are dealt with that a hundred people could KNOW and still never actually help anyone, especially if that person generally conducts themselves in an intimidating manner; or alternatively if the offender is the 'great guy' who is great to everyone, same thing applies.

again, this is all stuff we all know, but I think it's important for the 'why don't they just' angle to be seen in light of what really goes on

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 13 October 2017 18:30 (six years ago) link

I was reminded this week of Jared Harris's anecdote from his AV Club interview a few years back about working with Oliver Stone.

Natural Born Killers (1994)—“London Boy”

JH: That was wild. I went in to audition for a different part, and clearly, before I got in, the casting director had told Oliver Stone my name, and who I was, and that I was Richard Harris’ son. Oliver was clearly pissed off that he was seeing an English actor to audition for an American role, because I get in there, and Oliver calls me Richard the entire time, and when we start to do the scene, the casting director doesn’t even wait for me to get halfway through my lines before he gives me the cue for the next line. He’s just basically rushing me out of there. I can see that he’s cowering a bit, and that he’s being chewed out, so I’m assuming that’s what happened. It was a fucking disaster. I get out of there thinking that was a fucking waste of time. “What the fuck? He didn’t even get my fucking name right!”

So I’m going home, and a phone call comes through to my agent, and they want me to come back and read for a different part that is an English part. So I go back in there a couple of days later— this time he’s got my name right—and I’m halfway through that, and Oliver Stone cuts me off and went, “Yeah, yeah, you’re a natural. You’ve got this part. It’s yours. Do you want to… do you have a girlfriend?” I say, “Yeah.” “Is she an actress?” Now, she was just thinking about getting into the business, so I immediately go “Yeah, of course she is.” She has that one line at the end of the scene. So he goes, “Bring her along and she can say that line.” I go “Great.” So I go home, and I’m all proud and everything. I’m like “I got you a part in an Oliver Stone movie,” right? So I’m a hero for a couple of days.

We get to the set, and the girl is absolutely gorgeous, and they dress her up in this long wig with this tank top where the pits are out and these tiny hot pants and these long boots, and she looks basically like a tart on any boulevard late at night on a Friday, you know, hustling. Which is kind of strange. But Oliver’s tongue falls out of his mouth like the cartoon wolf as soon as he sees her, and he comes up to her, he goes, “Oh my God, oh my God, you are so beautiful.” He goes “You are so beautiful. Don’t you know that all the men here are in love with you?” I’m looking at him, and it’s kind of embarrassing. I’m standing next to her while he’s doing this, and I say, “Are you speaking for yourself there, Oliver?” And he looks at me like I’m an ant. “What the fuck is this peon doing talking to me? Why is he opening his mouth?” He kind of withers me with his stare, and he turns back to her, and he goes “So, tell me, have you got a boyfriend?” And she takes a little bit too long to answer. There’s this long pause, and she sort of sticks up her hand, points her thumb, and jerks it in my direction.

And he goes “Him?” And she goes “Yeah.” “With him? This guy?” She goes “Yeah.” He goes “Jared?” She goes “Yes.” He says “But… with… where did you meet… I mean, Jared?” And I look at Oliver Stone, and I went “Yes. You knew that. You asked me to bring her.” I said, “On your way, Stone. Turn around and on your way.” And he gets a bit shocked, and he turns around and starts to walk away, but then he remembers that he’s the director. He stops, and he looks back at me, and he goes, “That was a typically English thing to say.” And I look at him, and I go, “I’m sorry, what would the American thing have been? You can have her if I can have a bigger part?” From that point on, he fucked with us all day long. He was furious. That was my Oliver Stone experience.

Chris L, Friday, 13 October 2017 18:50 (six years ago) link

oh man that last exchange is priceless

I have no memory of Jared Harris in that movie

Οὖτις, Friday, 13 October 2017 19:10 (six years ago) link

Oliver was clearly pissed off that he was seeing an English actor to audition for an American role,

. . . in the movie where Robert Downey, Jr. plays an Australian.

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Friday, 13 October 2017 19:13 (six years ago) link

Nothing like watching a dude who creeped on my 18yo friend talking about the HW saga as the ‘counter’ to feminists on Newsnight.

kim jong deal (suzy), Friday, 13 October 2017 21:46 (six years ago) link

jared harris is the fuckin man!

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Friday, 13 October 2017 21:57 (six years ago) link

Other than Hitchcock are there many deceased people who people started telling stories about? Obviously they have families and people interested in protecting their legacies but I'd imagine it's easier for older actors or their families to accuse people who are gone?

― Robert Adam Gilmour, Friday, October 13, 2017 4:05 PM (five hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

this kind of reminds me of the 'everyone is a pedo' revelations in the UK

officer sonny bonds, lytton pd (mayor jingleberries), Friday, 13 October 2017 22:03 (six years ago) link

Emma Thompson - one of the more radical prime-time interviews I've ever seen.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XV_W6kPqR9U&feature=youtu.be

Eazy, Friday, 13 October 2017 22:25 (six years ago) link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XV_W6kPqR9U

Eazy, Friday, 13 October 2017 22:25 (six years ago) link

yes - it is pretty fuckin definitive that interview

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Saturday, 14 October 2017 00:10 (six years ago) link

Wow Emma Thompson is great

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Saturday, 14 October 2017 01:31 (six years ago) link

This is odd. I’m not sure what makes this the op-ed to write at this particular juncture.

http://www.vulture.com/2017/10/mayim-bialik-reflects-on-hollywood-feminism-after-weinstein.html


“As a ‘nontraditional’-looking woman, I came back to an industry that had me auditioning for the ‘frumpy friend’ or the ‘zaftig secretary,’ though I eventually landed a role that has earned me four Emmy nominations,” Bialik writes in a New York Times Opinion piece about her decision to return to acting after pursuing a doctorate degree in neuroscience. “And yet I have also experienced the upside of not being a ‘perfect ten.’ As a proud feminist with little desire to diet, get plastic surgery or hire a personal trainer, I have almost no personal experience with men asking me to meetings in their hotel rooms. Those of us in Hollywood who don’t represent an impossible standard of beauty have the ‘luxury’ of being overlooked and, in many cases, ignored by men in power unless we can make them money.”

El Tomboto, Saturday, 14 October 2017 14:40 (six years ago) link

on the other side of it, Melissa Sagemiller has come forward with a vv straightforward account of his modus operandi:

Over two dozen women have come forward with accounts of Harvey Weinstein’s sexual misconduct, yielding a clearer sense of the abuse allegedly inflicted by the once-powerful movie producer.

Actress Melissa Sagemiller has now told HuffPost that she experienced Weinstein’s behavior firsthand in the summer of 2000, when she filmed “Get Over It.”

It was Sagemiller’s second movie, a contemporary teen comedy based on “A Midsummer Night’s Dream,” following the thriller “Soul Survivors.” The production, in her own words, was “star-studded.” Her colleagues included Kirsten Dunst, Ben Foster, Sisqó, Zoe Saldana, Mila Kunis, Shane West, Colin Hanks, Martin Short, Ed Begley Jr., Swoosie Kurtz and Carmen Electra.

Miramax, the studio that Weinstein managed at the time, distributed the film, which meant Weinstein floated around the set throughout the two-month shoot. Sagemiller said that Weinstein, who was then married to his onetime assistant, made three separate advances toward her, all uninvited. The first incident allegedly occurred during a lunch meeting arranged by Weinstein’s assistant. At a later date, Sagemiller said he attempted to coax her into his hotel room, supposedly to “discuss the script.” She also described an episode after the movie wrapped, in which Weinstein ordered airport personnel to deliver her to his private plane, despite her protests and separately scheduled flight.

At the time, Sagemiller wasn’t completely silent about the ordeal, though she was encouraged not to formally speak out. (She suspects Weinstein left Dunst and Kunis alone because they were underage at the time.)

“I was definitely talking about it when we would go out with the cast because I was trying to warn the other girls, and I was trying to be tough about it and make a joke about it,” she said. “I will definitely say that the whole atmosphere with my agents there at the time, and with everyone in the business, including his producing partner, who was a woman, was like, ‘Don’t cause any trouble. Don’t say anything. You’re not going to be that girl because it will definitely hurt your career. This is Harvey. Harvey’s Harvey. Just don’t pay attention to him, ignore it, just move on.’ I was never told, ‘Are you OK? Do you want to say anything? Do you want to report this?’ Nothing like that. It was just, ‘That’s Harvey.’”

Weinstein’s licentious activity has been extensively covered over the past week. After The New York Times and The New Yorker published separate investigations into the years-long allegations lodged against the mogul, actresses like Cara Delevingne and Kate Beckinsale have told their own stories via social media.

Below is Sagemiller’s account of Weinstein’s behavior as it progressed throughout filming. She spoke to us by phone on Thursday; we have edited and condensed her quotes slightly to ensure clarity.

“I just think it’s so widespread,” the actress said. “It’s crazy. And it’s not just Harvey. It’s so many people in the industry. You start talking, and then another actress will go, ‘Oh yeah, I had that happen to me.’ I think this is a very important, interesting time.”

1. The lunch

At the time, I was 24. We were shooting in Toronto, and I think right after shooting started, I was called by one of his assistants — a woman, as always — saying, “Harvey wants to have lunch with you” [...] which I was actually even sort of excited about. I thought, “Oh, wow, the head of Miramax wants to take me to lunch ― great!” It was my second big film that I was doing. No one really warned me that much. They might have said, “Oh, he’s a little frisky,” but no one warned me the extent of what I was about to encounter.

So I go to lunch. I will say I was prepped in that I’d heard he likes his leading ladies — that’s sort of the extent. It obviously gives you a little something, like, “OK, I know what I’m walking into.”

The lunch was fine, although he was pretty inappropriate in terms of just being very flirty and asking me what I like to do and what kind of guys I like to date. It did become personal. Then he took me to a bookstore and proceeded to ask me, did I like literature? I was an English major at the University of Virginia. “Great, I’m going to buy you every Fitzgerald book in the bookstore, and I’m going to sign it to you, especially ‘The Last Tycoon’ because I am the last tycoon, and I’m actually about to produce the film, and it’s all about me, and you’re an English major — you’re so smart.”

I’m a city girl — I know how to handle myself. I’m tough. I was like, “OK, Harvey.” I gave him a lot of shit. I was always quick with a response, and I was quick to deflect because I figured out really quickly what kind of guy I thought he was.

2. The hotel room

The next incident that happened was further into the production. I was called by another assistant of his asking me to go to his hotel room. It’s like the Ashley Judd situation. He wanted to discuss the script. I was like, “I really don’t feel comfortable with this. Can we meet on the set tomorrow? In my trailer? Whatever. I just don’t really understand why I have to go to his room.” I was told, “It’s not going to be a long meeting.”

This is the horror of it all: You have another woman orchestrating this, knowing full well what is going to happen.

So then the assistant said, “The script has all these changes that he needs to discuss with you. It’s very important.” I remember talking to my boyfriend at the time on the phone, being like, “I can’t believe I have to do this. I don’t want to do this. I don’t have a good feeling about this, and I know what’s going to happen.” I was trying to be tough about it.

Anyway, I went to his room. Immediately he had drinks. The script was on the kitchen counter. He was in his robe. He’s like, “Would you give me a massage?” The whole thing. I said, “Harvey, I’m here to discuss the script. I’m not going to give you a massage or any of that.” And the banter went back and forth. He’s like, “I love you. You’re so fiery, you’re so smart. No one can give you shit, Sagemiller.” I’m like, “Exactly right.” But he just wouldn’t stop. I said, “I’m going to have to leave — we were supposed to discuss the script.” I just remember him saying, “Ah, I have to take a shower; I just went to the gym.” I don’t even know. It was so gross.

He said, “Well, you’re not going to leave until you kiss me.” I remember that’s when it turned from “Oh, ha ha, I can handle this guy” to “Well, OK, he’s blocking the door, sort of” — he’d walked over and put his hand on the door. It was just one of those things where I was like, “Really?” He just wouldn’t stop. It was relentless. And then he said, “Well, Renée did it and Charlize did it and this other actress did it. Don’t you want your career to be more than just this little teen film?” I said, “No, I’m not interested, thank you very much.” He said, “Well, you can’t leave until you kiss me.” He literally would not let me leave. I said fine and kissed him on the lips. He sort of held my head and made me kiss him, and then he’s like, “OK, you can go now. That’s all I wanted. Just do what I say and you can get your way.”

He finally opened the door so I could leave. I remember sitting in that elevator. He was so disgusting. He was taking Accutane at the time, and his skin was peeling all over this face. His lips were peeling. He was like Jabba the Hutt. He was like a lizard that was molting. It was so disgusting. […] I know that women have had much worse.

3. The airplane

Cut to the wrap party. He’d already gotten some other girl that he had given this small number of lines to and was apparently sleeping with, according to the rumor mill on the movie. So he started to leave me alone and not pursue me as much, until the wrap party comes around.

I had to come over and say, “Thank you for the movie.” He said, “Well, you’re coming back on my plane.” I said, “Harvey, I’m totally cool. I’ve got my own flight. Thank you so much for the offer, but I’m good. I’m good.” He’s like, “No, no, no, you’re taking my plane. It’s fine, I’ll arrange it. It’s all arranged. It’s arranged already.”

So then I ran out the door of the party and called my agent at the time. I said, “Do not take me off the flight I’m on. No matter who calls, do not cancel this flight that I have. It’s my separate flight from Toronto.”

The party ended and I went back to the hotel. I woke up and left the hotel an hour earlier than I was supposed to. My flight was at, like, 10 a.m., and I left the hotel at 7:30 a.m. That way, I wouldn’t see his assistant, I wouldn’t see Harvey, I wouldn’t see anyone.

I checked my bag, I went through security — this is pre-9/11, mind you — and I’m waiting to board at the gate of the flight when, all of a sudden, over the loudspeaker, I hear, “Melissa Sagemiller, please report to the security desk immediately. Melissa Sagemiller, please pick up the white phone at the security desk immediately.”

So I’m like, “Wait, what? Did someone have a heart attack?” You’re just thinking about all of these horrible scenarios. I run to the security desk down the hall, and it’s his assistant again. “Melissa? We’ve gotten your bags off the plane. The car is out front. Get in the car.” It was just so incredible. I started laughing. I said, “What are you talking about? You got my bags?” She’s like, “Yes, Harvey’s insistent. Please get in the car. Just please get in the car.”

They’d kidnapped my bags at this point, so I was just like, “Fine, you win, motherfucker.” So I left the airport, went out to the top level where the car was, got in the car. They raced me to the private-plane runway where there were other actors on the plane. Sisqó was on it, and Shane West was on it. Thank God. If I had walked in there and it was just him, I don’t know. I would have had to run away because that’s horrendous. I think I even asked at the time, “Are there other people on this plane? I’m not going alone.” [The assistant] said, “There are other actors on this plane.”

So I get on the plane, I walk up and I go, “Harvey, you motherfucker.” He’s just sitting there. He pats his hand on the seat next to him, and he’s like, “See, Melissa, you can’t say no to me. I always get what I want.” He wanted me on this plane, and he wanted me somewhere where I couldn’t go anywhere. And he just wanted to eff with me. He just wanted to fuck with my head. [...]

It was a short flight, from Toronto to New York. Shane and I were talking; we were friendly, and I stuck by him. I’m sure I had told him Harvey’s stories. [...]

I don’t think I’ve interacted with [Harvey] that much because none of the other movies I did were Miramax. […] And then I crossed over and did mostly television, so I didn’t have to see him. [...]

If my manager called me tomorrow and said, “Actually, I remember there was this movie you were up for, and now that I’m thinking back on it, maybe [rebuffing Weinstein is] why you didn’t get it,” I wouldn’t be surprised at all.

nomar, Saturday, 14 October 2017 14:45 (six years ago) link

mayim bialik thing is utterly bizarre and wrong. wtf.

assawoman bay (harbl), Saturday, 14 October 2017 14:51 (six years ago) link

Can y'all post shorter excerpts, please?

the Rain Man of nationalism. (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 14 October 2017 15:02 (six years ago) link

melissa sagemiller is an excellent storyteller! worth the read.

so many relatable moments in there. the condescension of unrelenting flattery*, the blocking of the door, the call on the white phone. jfc all the work this woman had to do to get away from this dude and he kept pursuing.

*this is not "hey cool skirt" or "dig your hair!" it's "you're so smart, you're so beautiful, etc etc etc" to the degree that it couldn't possibly be genuine, until it feels like paint-by-numbers flattery, which gets scary because it means they think they are buttering you up but they're getting nowhere and you need to develop a safe escape plan :(

now i am going to google her to see who she is, i have no idea.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Saturday, 14 October 2017 15:16 (six years ago) link

Yeah nomar, there’s these things called links, man

El Tomboto, Saturday, 14 October 2017 15:16 (six years ago) link

i remembered her from the film Soul Survivors, which was a not-good film. but i do remember that she and Eliza Dushku were better than the film deserved.

the pattern is so obvious here, i suspect there are so many more and like Melissa Sagemiller, they're trying to get their stories out and getting them down right. so much anger and relief at releasing it in these pieces.

nomar, Saturday, 14 October 2017 15:20 (six years ago) link

yeah i kinda thought the whole thing was worth reading i guess idk...

nomar, Saturday, 14 October 2017 15:25 (six years ago) link

Oh I read the whole thing I just wanted to pile on

Anyway the company’s doomed

http://www.vulture.com/2017/10/the-weinstein-company-may-be-sold-or-shut-down-entirely.html

El Tomboto, Saturday, 14 October 2017 15:27 (six years ago) link

the part about getting to the airport and then getting the call over the intercom that was like straight out of a horror movie holy crap

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Saturday, 14 October 2017 15:27 (six years ago) link

what strikes me again is how many people were involved in setting this up, even in the face of protests and discomfort and people literally trying to escape on airplanes!

nomar, Saturday, 14 October 2017 15:29 (six years ago) link

Hell, he’s almost as bad as Bryan Singer.

rb (soda), Saturday, 14 October 2017 15:43 (six years ago) link

My heart started racing at certain points of sagemiller's story

harbinger of failure (Jon not Jon), Saturday, 14 October 2017 15:48 (six years ago) link

it was an excellent soberly-written (minimal hyperbole/jokes) detailed explanation. i enjoyed reading it and identified with a lot of the details.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Saturday, 14 October 2017 15:51 (six years ago) link

I definitely recognize the way organizational culture plays into it. You arrive in your first internship or whatever and you see the people around you behaving in a certain way regarding a boss and it seems off but it's not your place to raise it. Eventually you either play the game and get absorbed into the culture or you leave. Not that I've ever worked somewhere on Weinstein level of bad but I can see how the dynamic plays out with a bad boss.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Saturday, 14 October 2017 15:55 (six years ago) link

Is the Singer stuff confirmed? I remember that big lawsuit against him being dismissed when he had proof that the accuser's story didn't line up with a timeline or something, but I saw on Wikipedia there were some other accusations that sounded a bit iffy

Nhex, Saturday, 14 October 2017 16:02 (six years ago) link

gives me the Louis B Mayer chills

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 14 October 2017 16:02 (six years ago) link

Someone mentioned upthread or elsewhere that if there was ever a time for Corey Feldman to name names, it’s now ... same with the Singer stuff
I would hope that seeing all these women share their stories & letting themselves be named might give victims of other abuses some hope idk

There’s so many known secrets that have caused so many people so much pain

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 14 October 2017 16:10 (six years ago) link

Just do what I say and you can get your way.

jmm, Saturday, 14 October 2017 16:12 (six years ago) link

That’s the most interesting thing about this for me as a social science dabbler. I’ve been thinking about how this is fortunately absolutely not part of the corporate culture where I work, never has been, but I’ve certainly heard of other government offices, research shops, and we all know about military units where this kind of shit festers.

At least in most of the public sector, inspectors general and employee ombudsman offices are mandated - so this kind of casting couch shit doesn’t last long, if it’s reported. I realize that’s a big if.

El Tomboto, Saturday, 14 October 2017 16:18 (six years ago) link

That was an xp to man alive

El Tomboto, Saturday, 14 October 2017 16:19 (six years ago) link

now i am going to google her to see who she is, i have no idea.

In a movie with Mika Kunis and Kirsten Dunst when she resisted...

Eazy, Saturday, 14 October 2017 16:58 (six years ago) link

aye but use other sources plz

angelo irishagreementi (ledge), Saturday, 14 October 2017 17:24 (six years ago) link

In a movie with Mika Kunis and Kirsten Dunst when she resisted...

iirc she mentioned they were underage in the thing posted above?

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Saturday, 14 October 2017 17:33 (six years ago) link

The guy has principles after all.

Tom's Tits Experiment (Tom D.), Saturday, 14 October 2017 17:34 (six years ago) link

I mean ... what confirmation do you need re: Singer? Same as Weinstein, he’s a powerful. Nothing ever ends up on an official record, there’s just a mounting body of anecdotes that eventually snowball into an irrefutable awareness of behaviors r. And I *know* people who, first hand, report on Singer. Like Weinstein or Cosby or Ailes, nobody saw anything too damning, nothing that can’t be waved away away by a superpowered legal team, and there are always implied to be credibility problems with the people stepping forward.

rb (soda), Saturday, 14 October 2017 17:34 (six years ago) link

there are always implied to be credibility problems with the people stepping forward.

"Today, in a stunning coincidence, fifty women who do not know one another came forward with shockingly similar stories about the predatory sexual behavior of a powerful man. In a statement issued by the man's lawyer, the women were all said to be lying, for reasons that will become apparent once they've had time to study the situation in greater detail."

A is for (Aimless), Saturday, 14 October 2017 17:52 (six years ago) link

remy otm

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 14 October 2017 18:01 (six years ago) link

The sense I'm getting around town is that people are feeling empowered to come forward about other people now. One example is a friend of a friend whose wife worked at UTA as an assistant and was sexually harassed by the agent she worked for. She went to HR with evidence (lewd and disgusting texts, and so on.) the head of HR there told her, "we're not here for your pity party."

This revelation was in response to the head of UTA releasing a statement talking BS about how shocked and appalled he was etc...

nomar, Saturday, 14 October 2017 18:16 (six years ago) link

popbitch does also

http://popbitch.com/2017/10/inches-for-inches/

piscesx, Saturday, 14 October 2017 18:23 (six years ago) link

“No you’re here to create an illusion that the company is a responsible workplace.”

kim jong deal (suzy), Saturday, 14 October 2017 18:24 (six years ago) link

great op ed from the NYT about how women who get assaulted are asking for it. thanks for furthering discourse https://t.co/HhOkMiBICN

— Ghouls N. Binoculars (@surfbordt) October 14, 2017

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Saturday, 14 October 2017 18:37 (six years ago) link

Sorry, missed that it was already discussed.

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Saturday, 14 October 2017 18:37 (six years ago) link

Emma Thompson - one of the more radical prime-time interviews I've ever seen.

Radical would not have been "we need more women in power," it would be "power differentials this great must be destroyed."

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Saturday, 14 October 2017 18:38 (six years ago) link

a bit fucked up that sagemiller mentioned charlize and zellweger by name, a million times more fucked up that huffpo didn't blank them out

even if harvey was lying, none of the names of women who did or didn't sleep with him should be made public without their permission

qualx, Saturday, 14 October 2017 20:19 (six years ago) link

i went to the reddit thread on r/movies on this after the NYT story initially came out to see their reactions bc i hate myself, and it immediately turned into a witch hunt over which ones were "harvey's girls"

a lot of people are just as hungry to hate the women he successfully manipulated as they are him

qualx, Saturday, 14 October 2017 20:21 (six years ago) link

Oh good a strong leftist man is here to tell us what the barriers to entry are for radical

El Tomboto, Saturday, 14 October 2017 20:26 (six years ago) link

are you serious

qualx, Saturday, 14 October 2017 20:28 (six years ago) link

that huffpo article also includes a fun "representatives for theron and zellweger have not responded to us" disclaimer as if they're both under trial too

qualx, Saturday, 14 October 2017 20:29 (six years ago) link

^^ This is where Clooney’s comments seemed on the mark: that he had heard stories, but they were mostly shared to knock the talent of the actors (“slept her way up”), not to damn Harvey. Certainly heard that about some of the 90s stars in the past.

In a movie with Mika Kunis and Kirsten Dunst when she resisted...

iirc she mentioned they were underage in the thing posted above?

He may not have hit on him then, but the one he did hit on and was rejected by is now the name we’ve never heard of.

Eazy, Saturday, 14 October 2017 20:29 (six years ago) link

specifically said it was on huffpo to redact the names but if you think names of women accused of sleeping with harvey are good to publish without their consent idk what to tell you, this is pretty basic shit xp

qualx, Saturday, 14 October 2017 20:30 (six years ago) link

ok lol tombot if you were referring to that twitter post and not me i'm sorry i got livid for a second, if you were referring to me fuck off

qualx, Saturday, 14 October 2017 20:32 (six years ago) link

oh now i see the simon post, forgot you hated each other, ignore me

qualx, Saturday, 14 October 2017 20:34 (six years ago) link

enh "more female studio heads" isn't a *wrong* solution just an insufficient one. I don't hate anyone, just the discourse more generally

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Saturday, 14 October 2017 21:27 (six years ago) link

The solution is forced castration obv

the Rain Man of nationalism. (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 14 October 2017 21:40 (six years ago) link

I don’t hate anyone here either tbf, I’m just a dick.

El Tomboto, Saturday, 14 October 2017 22:00 (six years ago) link

same, <3 you all, saving my hate for capitalist hetero-patriarchy

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Saturday, 14 October 2017 22:03 (six years ago) link

i hate all of you

qualx, Saturday, 14 October 2017 22:52 (six years ago) link

i hate myself

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 14 October 2017 23:11 (six years ago) link

I hate the world, and any god that exists

El Tomboto, Saturday, 14 October 2017 23:23 (six years ago) link

Good talk

El Tomboto, Saturday, 14 October 2017 23:23 (six years ago) link

Sarah Polley OTM now and always:

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/10/14/opinion/sunday/harvey-weinstein-sarah-polley.html

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 14 October 2017 23:28 (six years ago) link

I hate myself for thinking of "Withnail and I", wiki you take over...

Early in the film, Withnail reads from an article headlined "Boy Lands Plum Role For Top Italian Director" and then goes on to imply that the director is sexually abusing the boy. This is a reference to the sexual harassment that Robinson alleges he suffered at the hands of Italian director Franco Zeffirelli when, as a young man, he won the role of Benvolio in Romeo and Juliet.[6]

Tom's Tits Experiment (Tom D.), Saturday, 14 October 2017 23:32 (six years ago) link

fuck, i didnt know abt that :/

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 14 October 2017 23:39 (six years ago) link

Withnail: [looking at a newspaper] Look at this little bastard. Boy lands plumb role for top Italian director. Of course he does. Probably on a tenner a day and I know what for: Two pound ten a tit and a fiver for his arse.

Tom's Tits Experiment (Tom D.), Saturday, 14 October 2017 23:42 (six years ago) link

Sarah Polley OTM now and always
otm

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Saturday, 14 October 2017 23:45 (six years ago) link

xpost seen Withnail a million times & never knew the story behind it

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 14 October 2017 23:46 (six years ago) link

Fuck.

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Saturday, 14 October 2017 23:59 (six years ago) link

Funny, I thought that was well known -- I've read at least one interview years back with Robinson where he casually mentions that.

Ned Raggett, Sunday, 15 October 2017 00:36 (six years ago) link

Oh yeah, I thought everyone knew about that, I'm not sure I buy the theory that Monty is based on Zeffirelli though.

Tom's Tits Experiment (Tom D.), Sunday, 15 October 2017 00:40 (six years ago) link

mila kunis popped up in some of the stories - though not as a participant, weinstein using her name a few times in his traps. dude was obsessed with her?

Nhex, Sunday, 15 October 2017 03:04 (six years ago) link

Love her xp

flappy bird, Sunday, 15 October 2017 03:10 (six years ago) link

Bjork on her FB page an hour ago...

i am inspired by the women everywhere who are speaking up online to tell about my experience with a danish director . because i come from a country that is one of the worlds place closest to equality between the sexes and at the time i came from position of strength in the music world with hard earned independence , it was extremely clear to me when i walked into the actresses profession that my humiliation and role as a lesser sexually harassed being was the norm and set in stone with the director and a staff of dozens who enabled it and encouraged it . i became aware of that it is a universal thing that a director can touch and harass his actresses at will and the institution of film allows it . when i turned the director down repeatedly he sulked and punished me and created for his team an impressive net of illusion where i was framed as the difficult one . because of my strength , my great team and because i had nothing to loose having no ambitions in the acting world , i walked away from it and recovered in a years time . i am worried though that other actresses working with the same man did not . the director was fully aware of this game and i am sure of that the film he made after was based on his experiences with me . because i was the first one that stood up to him and didn't let him get away with it

and in my opinion he had a more fair and meaningful relationship with his actresses after my confrontation so there is hope

let's hope this statement supports the actresses and actors all over

let's stop this

there is a wave of change in the world

kindness

björk

MaresNest, Sunday, 15 October 2017 14:14 (six years ago) link

Lars von Trier?

Moodles, Sunday, 15 October 2017 14:15 (six years ago) link

Indeed

MaresNest, Sunday, 15 October 2017 14:17 (six years ago) link

good for Bjork, though it's a little odd to not name names there when everyone knows who she's talking about.

evol j, Sunday, 15 October 2017 14:17 (six years ago) link

It was clear she had a horrible experience with him as soon as that film came out, but sexual harassment wasn't really called out at the time.

Moodles, Sunday, 15 October 2017 14:27 (six years ago) link

Indeed, sadly it's not surprising. Good for her for stepping up to the plate.

Le Bateau Ivre, Sunday, 15 October 2017 14:37 (six years ago) link

so he was kicked out of the Academy with the accompanying statement “We do so not simply to separate ourselves from someone who does not merit the respect of his colleagues but also to send a message that the era of willful ignorance and shameful complicity in sexually predatory behavior and workplace harassment in our industry is over.”

yet Cosby and Polanski are still members. only one other person has been kicked out of the academy, and for the dumbest fucking reason. what could possibly be worse than decades of harassment, intimidation, and rape?

if you guessed "piracy" then you share the Academy's moral code

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Sunday, 15 October 2017 15:04 (six years ago) link

They kicked gore verbinski out?

"The" Blink-182 (wins), Sunday, 15 October 2017 15:06 (six years ago) link

It was clear she had a horrible experience with him as soon as that film came out, but sexual harassment wasn't really called out at the time.

This is my recollection as well. I mean, she pretty much immediately stopped acting entirely.

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Sunday, 15 October 2017 15:26 (six years ago) link

AMPAS cutting Weinstein loose will end sexual harassment/assault in the industry in much the same way that Obama's election ended racism.

the scarest move i ever seen is scary move 4 (Old Lunch), Sunday, 15 October 2017 15:30 (six years ago) link

Polley makes a very good point in her op-ed wrt criticism towards women who knew about this didn't speak up earlier. In a country where Trump was elected and Cosby sailed through legal proceedings unscathed, why would they expect anyone to care about what they'd experienced? The burden of proof and the likely career-destroying fallout was all on their shoulders.

the scarest move i ever seen is scary move 4 (Old Lunch), Sunday, 15 October 2017 16:03 (six years ago) link

Sad!

It is a situation that is highly sensitive and most would probably want to keep far away from any talk of sexual misconduct. This does not include Woody Allen, who shared his thoughts on Harvey Weinstein with BBC News:

“The whole Harvey Weinstein thing is very sad for everybody involved,” he added. “Tragic for the poor women that were involved, sad for Harvey that [his] life is so messed up.

“There’s no winners in that, it’s just very, very sad and tragic for those poor women that had to go through that.”

Allen said he hoped the revelations, which emerged after an investigation by the New York Times, would lead to “some amelioration”, but said: “You also don’t want it to lead to a witch hunt atmosphere, a Salem atmosphere, where every guy in an office who winks at a woman is suddenly having to call a lawyer to defend himself. That’s not right either.

“But sure, you hope that something like this could be transformed into a benefit for people rather than just a sad or tragic situation.”

Le Bateau Ivre, Sunday, 15 October 2017 16:03 (six years ago) link

He should shut up

.oO (silby), Sunday, 15 October 2017 16:24 (six years ago) link

sad, tragic, tragic, sad

jmm, Sunday, 15 October 2017 16:33 (six years ago) link

sad for Harvey that his life is so messed up.

boo-fuckin-hoo

Tom's Tits Experiment (Tom D.), Sunday, 15 October 2017 16:59 (six years ago) link

I like that bracketed “his,” implying Woody Allen’s assessment of the situation is “sad for Harvey that life is so messed up.”

flappy bird, Sunday, 15 October 2017 17:10 (six years ago) link

But despite working with Weinstein on a number of films - including the Oscar-winning Mighty Aphrodite - Allen said he had never heard any of allegations of rape and sexual assault.

"No one ever came to me or told me horror stories with any real seriousness," Allen told the BBC. "And they wouldn't, because you are not interested in it. You are interested in making your movie.

"But you do hear a million fanciful rumours all the time. And some turn out to be true and some - many - are just stories about this actress, or that actor."

So... he heard stories about Weinstein, but wasn't interested and didn't take them seriously? Is that what he's saying?

jmm, Sunday, 15 October 2017 17:15 (six years ago) link

such surprising behavior from woody allen, who still isn't dead somehow

qualx, Sunday, 15 October 2017 17:20 (six years ago) link

“As the husband of a daughter...” https://t.co/Wnka8UxnJc

— Katie Rich (@katiemaryrich) October 15, 2017

sublime

j., Sunday, 15 October 2017 17:35 (six years ago) link

BOOM

Le Bateau Ivre, Sunday, 15 October 2017 17:37 (six years ago) link

I wouldn’t mind if HW, Polanski, Allen, Affleck and Stone all got the Gary Glitter treatment and had all their “contributions” replaced by some young assholes from Akron

El Tomboto, Sunday, 15 October 2017 18:50 (six years ago) link

It's ridiculous that entire months of Top Of The Pops repeats get skipped in the UK because of one presenter. There are hundreds of ppl who miss out on royalties, and had no connection to the crimes, the perpetrator, or the organisation that paid him. Far more working actors and writers would miss out on residuals that might pay for groceries if you drop any film that Weinstein bought after the fact and marketed, or Affleck played a bit part in, down a memory hole.

shackling the masses with plastic-wrapped snack picks (sic), Sunday, 15 October 2017 19:48 (six years ago) link

That’s a really good point. Anger has remarkable blinding effects.

El Tomboto, Sunday, 15 October 2017 19:58 (six years ago) link

also I don't know if the Black Keys are actually assholes, but chances are

El Tomboto, Sunday, 15 October 2017 20:13 (six years ago) link

Re: TOTP, feels to me like skipping those episodes is willfully ignoring the issue, when we should really be facing up to our complicity in it as a nation.

mfktz (Camaraderie at Arms Length), Sunday, 15 October 2017 20:20 (six years ago) link

also I don't know if the Black Keys are actually assholes, but chances are

― El Tomboto, Sunday, October 15, 2017 4:13 PM (twenty minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

i've heard some bad stories about the guitarist from friends in Nashville. just a general asshole, doesn't take care of his kid, etc.

flappy bird, Sunday, 15 October 2017 20:34 (six years ago) link

we should really be facing up to our complicity in it as a nation.

I'll add it to the list, but it's going to have to wait its turn and seeing how many crimes are nation is complicit in, the chances are I won't live long enough. I'm still working my way through the list of millions of SE Asians we slaughtered.

A is for (Aimless), Sunday, 15 October 2017 20:37 (six years ago) link

xxp given that several of saville's victims have spoken about how awful it was to see him on tv all the time, i think cutting him out is the right move. totp is not the right forum for a serious look at an abuser

ogmor, Sunday, 15 October 2017 21:15 (six years ago) link

what about the royalties for performers & other ppl involved?

flappy bird, Sunday, 15 October 2017 21:16 (six years ago) link

I should say I'm American & only know broad outlines of Savile's career & crimes, and I certainly understand networks here refusing to air Cosby Show reruns.

flappy bird, Sunday, 15 October 2017 21:18 (six years ago) link

they're less important

ogmor, Sunday, 15 October 2017 21:18 (six years ago) link

of all the reasons to stop airing reruns and therefore cause performers to lose royalities I think "the host was a pedophile" is a much better one than "the ratings aren't great." Actually I'd imagine the latter might go hand in hand with the former.

nomar, Sunday, 15 October 2017 21:23 (six years ago) link

Think he was enabled not just by institutions, but also by the public's indulgence of celebrities, the same thing is going on now, famous people are given extra leeway for their behaviour because they are good at one specific thing, bad people will take advantage of this culture to do bad things. We really need to address this underlying problem and the BBC strategy is instead to aggressively ignore it.

mfktz (Camaraderie at Arms Length), Sunday, 15 October 2017 22:03 (six years ago) link

the public's indulgence of celebrities

this is also why this particular asshole and his enablers are currently all over the teevee being denounced and openly reviled. Hundreds of thousands of other victims of the same kind of assholism in other industries are still trying to figure out how to be heard.

El Tomboto, Sunday, 15 October 2017 22:30 (six years ago) link

the BBC strategy is instead to aggressively ignore it.

What? You mean by not showing old TOTP episodes? The BBC did a major review of sexual harrassment and bullying in the workplace after Saville. You can read about it here:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/mediacentre/latestnews/2013/respect-at-work-review.html

Last year there was an hour and a half doc on BBC One about Savile and his victims, and domestic abuse more broadly in Britain:
https://www.standard.co.uk/stayingin/tvfilm/abused-bbc1-documentary-tells-the-untold-story-of-survivors-of-sexual-abuse-from-jimmy-savile-and-a3223071.html

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Sunday, 15 October 2017 22:41 (six years ago) link

And, you know, any media organization that fires both Clarkson and Russell Brand has something going for it

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Sunday, 15 October 2017 22:43 (six years ago) link

And gave Stewart Lee four series

Gary Synaesthesia (darraghmac), Sunday, 15 October 2017 23:11 (six years ago) link

But they never gave Alan Partridge a second one :(

Number None, Sunday, 15 October 2017 23:47 (six years ago) link

*police bust famous celeb for being two kids in a trenchcoat*

ME: it’s important this does not become a witch hunt

MY BELLY: absolutely

— KRANG 👻 NELSON (@KrangTNelson) October 15, 2017

qualx, Monday, 16 October 2017 01:04 (six years ago) link

What was the James Corben joke?

Mark G, Monday, 16 October 2017 08:30 (six years ago) link

What was the James Corden joke?

typo

Mark G, Monday, 16 October 2017 08:34 (six years ago) link

there were several, sub-Leno style jokes in a row, ostensibly at Weinstein's expense but toothless enough to feel like normalisation

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Monday, 16 October 2017 08:55 (six years ago) link

given that several of saville's victims have spoken about how awful it was to see him on tv all the time, i think cutting him out is the right move.

absolutely, cutting him out would be the right move. they don't do that.

shackling the masses with plastic-wrapped snack picks (sic), Monday, 16 October 2017 09:23 (six years ago) link

"toothless enough to feel like normalisation" otm

Chuck_Tatum, Monday, 16 October 2017 11:14 (six years ago) link

And in 2015, Jordan Sargent wrote in his Gawker article "Tell Us What You Know About Harvey Weinstein's 'Open Secret'"[7] that "rumors of the powerful producer leveraging his industry power for sexual satisfaction—consensual or otherwise—have tended to remain unaired, confined to hushed conversation and seedier gossip-blog comment threads."[4]

johnny crunch, Monday, 16 October 2017 12:06 (six years ago) link

not sure this was posted

Tone-deaf to put it mildly pic.twitter.com/6CsG3Uit1Y

— Vadim Rizov (@vrizov) October 13, 2017

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Monday, 16 October 2017 16:10 (six years ago) link

That Gawker story - combined with this DeRo profile about his R. Kelly pursuit underlines how necessary it is to have someone speaking on the record, either through the media or through the law. Changed everything with Cosby. Didn't, somehow, change things with Terry Richardson, though maybe he can be KO-ed now.

Eazy, Monday, 16 October 2017 16:17 (six years ago) link

My greatest concern throughout this ordeal has been that the projected gross for Paddington 2 might be adversely affected, so I thank the Weinstein Company for taking the time to put my mind at ease.

the scarest move i ever seen is scary move 4 (Old Lunch), Monday, 16 October 2017 16:20 (six years ago) link

“As the husband of a daughter...” https://t.co/Wnka8UxnJc

— Katie Rich (@katiemaryrich) October 15, 2017

sublime

nah, kinda bullshit

(mandatory disclaimer: WA is a creep and i've always said so)

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Monday, 16 October 2017 16:30 (six years ago) link

I flagged T-Richardson at work a couple of years ago - he'd donated some photos for an auction we were doing. I mentioned that he might not be a good choice for a charity that deals with survivors of assault. In the end they took his name off the press release but still exhibited the photos.

Chuck_Tatum, Monday, 16 October 2017 16:32 (six years ago) link

I am still waiting for Trump to tweet about Weinstein that "there are good people on both sides".

A is for (Aimless), Monday, 16 October 2017 18:07 (six years ago) link

I did see Trumps reaction.

Basically, that he's known Weinstein for years, and the stories that have come out have been no surprise.

As plain as that, I don't think I've added or lost the weight of he said

Mark G, Monday, 16 October 2017 19:02 (six years ago) link

I'm sure they met at Clinton fundraisers back in the day

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Monday, 16 October 2017 19:05 (six years ago) link

this is reaaaaallllly fucked up

http://nypost.com/2017/10/16/weinstein-co-gets-lifeline-from-real-estate-billionaire/

Weinstein Co. said it has won an “immediate cash infusion” from Colony, which is headed by billionaire Thomas J. Barrack Jr.

Weinstein Co. and Colony said they have also entered talks for “a potential sale of all or a significant portion of the company’s assets,” to the firm run by Barrack, a real-estate tycoon who is one of President Trump’s closest outside advisors in the business world.

. . . i mean . . . we're entering hail, caesar! territory

https://www.cnbc.com/2017/10/11/trumps-billionaire-friend-tom-barrack-says-hes-better-than-this.html

reggie (qualmsley), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 00:55 (six years ago) link

barrack bought miramax when it burst into flames too.. this isn't new for him.

officer sonny bonds, lytton pd (mayor jingleberries), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 00:57 (six years ago) link

oh boy qualmsley is here now this thread will be nothing but stories about Russia from here on out

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 01:30 (six years ago) link

Going back to the subject of punishing innocent bystanders who worked on films/tv shows etc. for a sec...Here in Texas we've been having a long drawn-out battle to keep our Film Commission funded and open. Surprise Surprise that GOP lawmakers are seizing on the Weinstein scandal to try to shut the agency down and deny many many Texans in the industry a source of income and the state itself revenue and tax dollars.

https://scontent-atl3-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t1.0-9/22492011_10214902824431986_2552834980319831246_n.jpg?oh=873025aa40b8e9cdfbe9fbfe2ca60e2b&oe=5A6D4C2C

to fly across the city and find Aerosmith's car (C. Grisso/McCain), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 01:38 (six years ago) link

Also want to point out that Shaheen's final quote is massive rmde given his party's other bugaboo.

to fly across the city and find Aerosmith's car (C. Grisso/McCain), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 01:40 (six years ago) link

https://www.avclub.com/lauren-holly-says-harvey-weinstein-showered-in-front-of-1819601394

She says it was so odd that she began to question herself, wondering if she was “just a prude,” but that changed when he got out of the shower and allegedly approached her while still naked. Holly says she wanted to run at that point, but he just told her she looked stressed and suggested that she give him a massage.

well ok then

nomar, Tuesday, 17 October 2017 03:54 (six years ago) link

every one of these stories gives me the fear, deep in my stomach

imagine being her & reading sorvino’s story for the first time after thinking all those years it was just you

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 04:30 (six years ago) link

It is almost laughable, that he used the same fucking technique, over and over and over and over. What the fuck is wrong with him.

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 04:35 (six years ago) link

it’s not for them. it’s for him. it’s whatever pattern he’s established ~for himself~ that makes him feel powerful & in control enough to rob them of theirs

pedophiles, serial rapists, serial abusers, serial killers...there’s a whole section of all of these offenders that settle into an established pattern, especially if they are using their own home/office/place of business as their base of operation

if they dont have to travel to find their victims they dont have to be creative

it’s gross but it’s true

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 04:48 (six years ago) link

Never framed it that way in my mind, ugh.

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 05:04 (six years ago) link

and that hotel in Cannes, Du Cap, seemed like it was a second home. I wonder if it ever "worked" for him there and he was always trying to recapture it? or if there was just some platonic ideal in his mind of how it would go down? and each attempt with each aspiring actress was like trying to beat a level on some videogame

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 06:51 (six years ago) link

I'm sure it always "worked" in his mind

Number None, Tuesday, 17 October 2017 12:49 (six years ago) link

there’s a whole section of all of these offenders that settle into an established pattern

Yeah the sameness of the Weinstein accounts reminded me of the same thing in the Bill Cosby accounts -- in each case, there was such a clear m.o., repeated over and over for years.

And a...response.

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 13:28 (six years ago) link

Ugh. Not really worth parsing that, but the obvious thing to say is that he is conflating sexual attraction with sexual objectification. It is possible to be attracted to someone without turning them into an object.

not if you're medusa

ATTACK MY RUSTY TOOLBOX (bizarro gazzara), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 13:34 (six years ago) link

Or King Midas. But apart from them.

oh boy qualmsley is here now this thread will be nothing but stories about Russia from here on out

― AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 02:30 (twelve hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

lmao at you accusing someone of being one-note

ultros ultros-ghali, Tuesday, 17 October 2017 13:51 (six years ago) link

the objectification thing is largely a consequence of the legal dehumanization of women over the centuries. it was less than a hundred years ago they got the right to vote. before that they were legally treated as property. its dehumanization deeply rooted in world society.

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 13:54 (six years ago) link

For sure. And has to be resisted on all fronts. To write a defense of it as the natural order of things is ... well ok it's National Review.

reading that made me feel sick

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 13:59 (six years ago) link

the link, not the above post

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 13:59 (six years ago) link

Dennis Praeger is among the grossest people ever to have bylines in publications whose names aren't direct references to nazi propaganda.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 14:55 (six years ago) link

THAT guy is still around? they really work til they drop dead, don't they

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 15:20 (six years ago) link

you cannot kill what does not live

midas / medusa cage match (bizarro gazzara), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 15:23 (six years ago) link

Dennis Praeger's reflections on his third marriage:

Many people advised me against marrying again. After all, they argued, I had no plans to have more children. And we live in a society that hardly demands marriage, let alone the remarriage of middle aged individuals. More than a few men additionally argued that I would come to value my “freedom.”

To be honest, I understood these arguments, but I believe that marriage is the greatest of all social institutions; I happen to agree with God who said in Genesis, “It is not good for man to be alone.”

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 15:27 (six years ago) link

Through all that I have experienced, I believe I can fairly say that I have learned a great deal about men, women, and marriage. It is one reason I began the “Male-Female Hour” – to help others in relating to the other sex and in their marriages.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 15:28 (six years ago) link

"Drunk driving is what men do, it's totally normal. And further, by repeatedly getting wasted and crashing my car, I can say that I have learned a lot about driving, and I'd like to share that knowledge with others."

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 15:29 (six years ago) link

'i've always said you can't be a good bomb disposal expert until you've been atomised by an improvised explosive device, and now, on my new radio show, i enjoy helping other clouds of thin red mist settle into the next phase of their lives'

midas / medusa cage match (bizarro gazzara), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 15:42 (six years ago) link

Come on, you can't realistically expect marriage to be different than any other pursuit that you give up on without having made any real effort.

You don't know how bad I hate terrible grammer. (Old Lunch), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 15:55 (six years ago) link

yesterday i started to read that Rosenberg response and it felt very very "tough guy" in a way that was off-putting.

nomar, Tuesday, 17 October 2017 16:08 (six years ago) link

Funny thing was I was randomly thinking of Beautiful Girls the other day maybe in response to all this. Then I read this garbage tone poem and think "Not once do I see any mention of you actively trying to DO anything in the rest of your life to right the balance."

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 17 October 2017 16:14 (six years ago) link

Never mind that what he's doing is saying the exact same thing he is criticizing the Hollywood men who have spoken before him has said ("I didn't realize it went as far as rape"), only while angrily waving his finger at them and telling them that they suck.

Marcus Hiles Remains Steadfast About Planting Trees.jpg (DJP), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 16:22 (six years ago) link

Christ, what an asshole

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 16:27 (six years ago) link

as per usual DJP makes the pertinent point

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 16:27 (six years ago) link

"EVERY BODY KNEW

except i didn't really know"

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 16:28 (six years ago) link

Agreed. Although I still think his explanation about why no one did anything is probably correct -- what action can you take? You can quietly warn actresses you know (although, as pointed out above, men had their own careers ruined for doing so when discovered), you can decline to work with him. You can't go to the police without someone to press charges. You can't write publicly about it without risking defamation lawsuits (and potentially disrespecting the wishes of victims).

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 16:32 (six years ago) link

yes but i'm also not sure the point of the piece except a) i'm not a bad guy, and b) please god why won't someone hire me to write a movie

nomar, Tuesday, 17 October 2017 16:34 (six years ago) link

what action can you take? You can quietly warn actresses you know (although, as pointed out above, men had their own careers ruined for doing so when discovered), you can decline to work with him.

exactly, and declining to work being the "right move" means only the morally depraved end up working for him, expanding his circle of power. stay and you may be exploited but you may also be saving someone else who would have to take your place. the less sycophants around scumbags, the better?

imo ultimately it seems to be a personal choice to make and i can't fault anyone who was victimized for continuing to work in these realms. escape if you must or stay and fight if you want to, changing things from the inside.

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 16:45 (six years ago) link

it is encouraging to see more and more people coming out in different fields (in videogames there is a big shakeup at Naughty Dog though i dont know the details) people at large are making it clear that predatory behavior is unacceptable.

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 16:47 (six years ago) link

ugh garbage tone-poem is right -xposts

it makes it that much shittier that 3/4 of that screenwriter guy’s post is devoted to underlining how great things were for him & “everyone”

i’m sure it is coming from the right place but it’s so tin-eared. it’s like the he thinks he needs to show how great he had it for us to appreciate how awful Weinstein is ... and that is super, duuuuper not what is needed

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 17:40 (six years ago) link

I don't understand anyone writing defenses or explanations, especially when they're involved in the film industry, even at the most tangential level. Just shut up. Same goes for all actors making poofball nothing statements.

flappy bird, Tuesday, 17 October 2017 17:44 (six years ago) link

otm

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 17:45 (six years ago) link

a dude shouldn't be the one stepping up to explain why nobody said anything, and i'm not sure why the hell Rosenberg thought a hard-boiled novella was what was called for. well i mean i *know* why, he's a bro working in Hollywood. not a hero, not brave.

i was talking to my wife about all this last night, she said her thought was this story is causing this outpouring bc it's just women collectively being sick and tired and furious about everything over the past year-plus, especially related to Trump and his administration, and this disgusting piece of shit using his position to assault these iconic, famous women is sort of the tipping point.

she related a story to me about a guy who worked for her company taking her out to lunch years ago, and she felt uncomfortable about it because his vibe was all wrong, but her co-workers were like, oh don't worry, he just wants to get to know you, he takes everyone out to lunch. at lunch he vented that his marriage wasn't great, his wife didn't understand him, and he really liked her and was interested. after lunch she went right to her boss and said, i never want to work with him again and never want to see him again. and she was lucky, her boss understood and made that happen.

nomar, Tuesday, 17 October 2017 17:54 (six years ago) link

"And do you know how I am sure this is true?
Because I was there."

I can't help hearing this poem in the cadence of "Losing My Edge".

jmm, Tuesday, 17 October 2017 18:00 (six years ago) link

The more people who say "everyone knew", the better. We need to be reminded over and over again how normalized that kind of behavior is.

I don't dig the vibe--conditional apologies are shit.

Randall Jarrell (dandydonweiner), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 18:07 (six years ago) link

Harvey Weinstein, who was fired from Weinstein Co. on Oct. 8, has now "resigned" from the company's board, according to a source. More TKTK.

— Brian Stelter (@brianstelter) October 17, 2017

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 17 October 2017 18:21 (six years ago) link

xpost -- Smith sticks to that commitment for the rest of his days, well, good on him. Now what more can he do?

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 17 October 2017 18:22 (six years ago) link

Molly Ringwald:

https://www.newyorker.com/culture/cultural-comment/all-the-other-harveys

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 17 October 2017 18:22 (six years ago) link

that's concise and infuriating

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 18:28 (six years ago) link

and totally relatable. esp the part about dissociating :(

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 18:31 (six years ago) link

In my twenties, I was blindsided during an audition, when I was asked by the director, in a somewhat rhetorical manner, to let the lead actor put a dog collar around my neck. This was not even remotely in the pages I had studied; I could not even fathom how it made sense in the story. The actor was a friend of mine, and I looked in his eyes with panic. He looked back at me with an “I’m really sorry” expression on his face as his hands reached out toward my neck. I don’t even know if the collar ever made it on me, because that’s the closest I’ve had to an out-of-body experience. I’d like to think that I just walked out, but, more than likely, there’s an old VHS tape, disintegrating in a drawer somewhere, of me trying to remember lines with a dog collar around my neck in front of a young man I once had a crush on. I sobbed in the parking lot, and when I got home and called my agent to tell him what happened, he laughed and said, “Well, I guess that’s one for the memoirs. . . .” I fired him and moved to Paris not long after.

Jesus christ

Le Bateau Ivre, Tuesday, 17 October 2017 18:37 (six years ago) link

Put this on every fkn billboard in the country

I never talked about these things publicly because, as a woman, it has always felt like I may as well have been talking about the weather. Stories like these have never been taken seriously. Women are shamed, told they are uptight, nasty, bitter, can’t take a joke, are too sensitive. And the men? Well, if they’re lucky, they might get elected President.

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 18:47 (six years ago) link

the head of a major studio—and, incidentally, someone who claims himself to be horrified by the Harvey allegations—was quoted as saying, “I wouldn’t know [Molly Ringwald] if she sat on my face.”

this was jeffrey katzenberg

mookieproof, Tuesday, 17 October 2017 18:50 (six years ago) link

yep

nomar, Tuesday, 17 October 2017 18:53 (six years ago) link

jeez what a prick

http://movieline.com/1995/09/01/sixteen-candles-in-the-wind/

piscesx, Tuesday, 17 October 2017 18:54 (six years ago) link

My lack of surprise.

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 17 October 2017 18:54 (six years ago) link

damn

The Harsh Tutelage of Michael McDonald (Raymond Cummings), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 18:57 (six years ago) link

My gut reaction here is along the lines of "NOBODY MESSES WITH MOLLY R" tbh

The Harsh Tutelage of Michael McDonald (Raymond Cummings), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 18:57 (six years ago) link

It's great how she sued the collective Weinstein ass and got paid, then never had to deal with them again.

piscesx, Tuesday, 17 October 2017 19:02 (six years ago) link

she also seems on point on his lack of artistic taste... even worse than Tarantino.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 19:04 (six years ago) link

https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/game-thrones-star-lena-headey-recalls-harvey-weinstein-174429568.html

Lena Headey w/a very unpleasant story too

nomar, Tuesday, 17 October 2017 19:14 (six years ago) link

the shot at Terry Gilliam seems illuminating, i was checking the wiki for The Brothers Grimm and while she obviously still remembers the abusive behavior, it's interesting to see how Matt Damon saw it

"I'm used to riding roughshod over studio executives," Gilliam explained, "but the Weinsteins rode roughshod over me."[4] Gilliam got so upset, filming was shut down for nearly two weeks. Matt Damon reflected on the situation: "I've never been in a situation like that. Terry was spitting rage at the system, at the Weinsteins. You can't try and impose big compromises on a visionary director like him. If you try to force him to do what you want creatively, he'll go nuclear."[4]

vv understanding of the pressures visionary men come under

nomar, Tuesday, 17 October 2017 19:17 (six years ago) link

Bob could also get a deserved due, it seems.

http://variety.com/2017/tv/news/bob-weinstein-sexual-harassment-1202592165/

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 17 October 2017 19:22 (six years ago) link

I love this:

How about Robert Downey Jr., opposite whom she did The Pick-up Artist? "Drinking didn't seem to be his drug of choice at the time," she observes, wryly. "That was kind of obvious, not so much in his behavior as in the long times he spent in the trailer and the people that were sort of hanging around the set. When one person's doing drugs and the other person isn't, they can't--well, let's say. I wasn't somebody he could associate with. I talked with him after the movie and he seems like a different person from the guy I was doing that movie with. I really wasn't crazy about Chaplin, though. I mean, for such a fascinating life as Charlie Chaplin's, it's the dullest movie."

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 19:24 (six years ago) link

During the dinner, (Bob) Weinstein asked Segel highly intimate questions and made romantic overtures to her, according to Segel. He wanted to know her age because he told her he didn’t want to date anyone younger than his daughter.

Because that would be creepy.

nickn, Tuesday, 17 October 2017 19:32 (six years ago) link

He wanted to know her age because he told her he didn’t want to date anyone younger than his daughter.

hero

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 19:35 (six years ago) link

sadly not surprised about Gilliam being a jerk re: Lena Headey. love his earlier movies but pretty sure he's had a bad set reputation for some time

Nhex, Tuesday, 17 October 2017 19:59 (six years ago) link

Ringwald::
When I was fourteen, a married film director stuck his tongue in my mouth on set.

Paul Mazursky?

Eazy, Tuesday, 17 October 2017 20:00 (six years ago) link

I thought of that film too, but I suspect she was 13 when that was shot, looking at the dates involved.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 20:02 (six years ago) link

ugh ugh ugh

The Harsh Tutelage of Michael McDonald (Raymond Cummings), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 20:09 (six years ago) link

That dog collar story is very affecting, something about the way she described it really made me feel the horror of it

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 20:13 (six years ago) link

there were only a couple of films where it could have occurred, one of them being a TV film. xp

a friend of a friend on FB discussed being in a film back in 2000 where the hard partying director sent for her, then tried to pressure her into taking her clothes off, implying her part could be cut down (or completely cut) if she didn't. ultimately she didn't, she managed to escape, and he didn't cut the part.

nomar, Tuesday, 17 October 2017 20:14 (six years ago) link

Just confirmed with Amazon that Roy Price has resigned. HT to @brianstelter for getting it first. Or at least I think he got it first.

— Nick Wingfield (@nickwingfield) October 17, 2017

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 17 October 2017 20:40 (six years ago) link

That dog collar story is very affecting, something about the way she described it really made me feel the horror of it

note that in the Movieline interview, closer to the time, she says the director had her male friend / co-star remove his belt, fasten it around her neck, and lead her with it as a leash

shackling the masses with plastic-wrapped snack picks (sic), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 21:05 (six years ago) link

the movieline interview creeps me out, written as it is in such a patronizing and objectifying manner. This is not something that I think is specific to that piece either, because whenever I read interviews or profiles of women written by these male journalists the tone is unfortunately commonly just like that.

nomar, Tuesday, 17 October 2017 21:12 (six years ago) link

I couldn't make it through the first page.

Le Bateau Ivre, Tuesday, 17 October 2017 21:27 (six years ago) link

the last line about "if Molly Ringwald keeps her head on straight she'll be just fine" or however it was put was infuriating.

nomar, Tuesday, 17 October 2017 21:33 (six years ago) link

The Ringwald quotes suggest her intelligence and vivacity; it's the transitions that condescend to her. That headline too!

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 21:34 (six years ago) link

Reading that Ringwald interview I experienced this strange sort of consciousness rift, something I've been experiencing in other places too lately, where I recognized a certain way of talking about women as totally familiar from when I was growing up and at the same time felt like I had suddenly woke up to how repugnant it was.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 21:57 (six years ago) link

I recognize now that a lot of the attitudes and behavior and mannerisms described in these types of interviews are also quite commonly a direct reflection of how the male interviewer is behaving, rather than an accurate picture of who the interviewee is. They read as legitimate defense mechanisms.

nomar, Tuesday, 17 October 2017 22:04 (six years ago) link

I recognized a certain way of talking about women as totally familiar from when I was growing up and at the same time felt like I had suddenly woke up to how repugnant it was.

otm. The style has only recently started to disappear too.

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 22:07 (six years ago) link

It's not exactly like suddenly poking your head out of a pool of sewage, it's more like getting a few miles above the sewage, forgetting it, and then suddenly looking down and being like "oh wait, I grew up in that sewage."

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 22:09 (six years ago) link

The style has only recently started to disappear too

The style is still extremely prevalent, though less ubiquitous.

shackling the masses with plastic-wrapped snack picks (sic), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 22:33 (six years ago) link

In this very forum we still have that Lohan "hot ready and legal!" headline as a freaking thread title, so.

(evry time that thread would pop to the top I'd feel a bit ill)

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 22:35 (six years ago) link

it was a headline on the cover of Rolling Stone; i'm p sure the thread title was mocking it (but i agree that seeing it pop up on New Answers is kind of gross regardless)

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 23:10 (six years ago) link

Oh yeah I was aware it was a RS cover but yeah.

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Tuesday, 17 October 2017 23:11 (six years ago) link

And also just the fact that it was a Rolling Stone cover.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Wednesday, 18 October 2017 00:34 (six years ago) link

Your years and my years were very different. https://t.co/8u0BdLaHYQ

— rose mcgowan (@rosemcgowan) October 18, 2017

nomar, Wednesday, 18 October 2017 16:08 (six years ago) link

good thread too

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Wednesday, 18 October 2017 17:21 (six years ago) link

good point on that thread that Rosenberg's piece seems to be more about wistfully reliving his glory days in Hollywood hanging out w/Weinstein more than it seems to be about honest self-examination.

nomar, Wednesday, 18 October 2017 17:27 (six years ago) link

“and, it should be noted: there were many who actually succumbed to his bulky charms. Willingly. “

This negates every word in his “prose”.

— Jocelyn Stanton (@jocelynmstanton) October 18, 2017

I momentarily cringed when I read that line but initially chose to overlook it, and that's like a microcosm of the way we as men often overlook such things. Looking at it in isolation though it's really awful -- "By the way, even though he raped women, some women also slept with him willingly," What the fuck is that supposed to mean? Let alone "succumbed" and "bulky charms." Disgusting.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Wednesday, 18 October 2017 17:30 (six years ago) link

Just briefly going back to the LiLo RS thing, imagine all the back patting in their offices when they genderflipped the same headline some years later...

http://i.huffpost.com/gen/691571/thumbs/o-JUSTIN-BIEBER-LINDAY-LOHAN-HOT-READY-LEGAL-570.jpg?6

to fly across the city and find Aerosmith's car (C. Grisso/McCain), Wednesday, 18 October 2017 17:38 (six years ago) link

Ha! Just noticed that Bieber cover has a headline that inspired another long-running ILX thread.

to fly across the city and find Aerosmith's car (C. Grisso/McCain), Wednesday, 18 October 2017 17:39 (six years ago) link

Global Warming: Mysteries of Batman.

Josh in Chicago, Wednesday, 18 October 2017 17:41 (six years ago) link

Global Warming: Hot, Ready, and Legal

jmm, Wednesday, 18 October 2017 17:44 (six years ago) link

Two different ILX thread titles on one cover, sort of

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Wednesday, 18 October 2017 17:45 (six years ago) link

i know it doesn't mean anything just felt like it was my civic duty to post that picture....

scott seward, Wednesday, 18 October 2017 18:22 (six years ago) link

good ol' ?oh=2896f78c2b25a85a6d5a9357c1be40fd&oe=5A78 and OJ Simpson

shackling the masses with plastic-wrapped snack picks (sic), Wednesday, 18 October 2017 18:31 (six years ago) link

?Oh= to his pals

Mark G, Wednesday, 18 October 2017 18:52 (six years ago) link

did that picture not show up? it's a dumb picture anyway. though scorsese-movie-extra harvey isn't a sight you see much.

scott seward, Wednesday, 18 October 2017 19:16 (six years ago) link

I see it. now I can't unsee it.

Οὖτις, Wednesday, 18 October 2017 19:17 (six years ago) link

young harvey clearly taking fashion and grooming tips from ron jeremy

midas / medusa cage match (bizarro gazzara), Wednesday, 18 October 2017 19:19 (six years ago) link

he looks like mark ruffalo a bit

johnny crunch, Wednesday, 18 October 2017 19:26 (six years ago) link

jesus don't give ruffalo an epic rise and fall of harvey movie idea. although..........

scott seward, Wednesday, 18 October 2017 19:32 (six years ago) link

he'd have to go the full lamotta.

scott seward, Wednesday, 18 October 2017 19:32 (six years ago) link

looks like Al Lettieri in The Getaway

nomar, Wednesday, 18 October 2017 20:02 (six years ago) link

Jeff Garlin is the obvious pick for a Harvey Weinstein biopic.

shackling the masses with plastic-wrapped snack picks (sic), Wednesday, 18 October 2017 21:19 (six years ago) link

Whoever the fake-Harvey was on Entourage did it well.

Eazy, Wednesday, 18 October 2017 21:32 (six years ago) link

In Quebec today, a major radio/TV personality (Eric Salvail) was put on leave following a major report on his workplace sexual harassment. The Weinstein affair reportedly motivated the main accuser to go public.
https://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/national/quebec-media-star-eric-salvail-on-leave-following-allegations-of-sexual-harassment/article36641603/

12 hours later, one of the most powerful men in Quebec culture - Gilbert Rozon, founder of the Just For Laughs comedy festival - has stepped down as similar allegations begin to surface:
http://www.lapresse.ca/arts/201710/18/01-5140481-allegations-dinconduite-sexuelle-gilbert-rozon-demissionne-de-ses-fonctions.php

sean gramophone, Thursday, 19 October 2017 01:17 (six years ago) link

I liked that Bloodworth-Thomason piece a lot, but I still don't understand the free pass that is given to Bill Clinton. Does she just not believe the allegations against him from multiple women?

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Thursday, 19 October 2017 01:43 (six years ago) link

However, I will be the first to admit that clearly delineated moral choices can still be painfully complex where friendship is involved. One of the best friends I will ever have and a man I love dearly, former President Bill Clinton, has certainly taxed my feminist conscience, but always without diminishing my affection. I even helped write his apology to the nation for his own sexual misconduct, was sitting next to him when he delivered it, and believe to this day it was based on something that was none of our business. And yes, some may call it hypocritical, but I confess to having had no problem warning at least three top-level Democratic operatives against allowing Harvey Weinstein to host political fundraisers. A warning that evidently (and to the glee of Fox News) fell on deaf ears.

yeah this is unfortunately right-wing fodder for left-wing hypocrisy.

nomar, Thursday, 19 October 2017 01:45 (six years ago) link

painfully phony

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 19 October 2017 01:51 (six years ago) link

otoh, quebec is outlawing the use of scarves and sunglasses ('while receiving public services') in an attempt to stamp out creeping sharia

mookieproof, Thursday, 19 October 2017 02:04 (six years ago) link

what Morbs said

Randall Jarrell (dandydonweiner), Thursday, 19 October 2017 02:32 (six years ago) link

had to wonder if this had always been the case, but the first piece of trivia" that appears when I just watched "Caddyshack" on Amazon was:

"Cindy Morgan did not want to appear topless in the movie. While Harold Ramis was amenable to changing the scene, producer Jon Peters asked to talk to her while Ramis had her on the phone. When the call ended, Peters informed Ramis that Morgan would do the topless scene--because he told her she would never work again in Hollywood if she didn't."

quick search later and

http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/lanow/2011/08/jon-peters-sexual-harassment.html

Western® with Bacon Flavor, Thursday, 19 October 2017 04:00 (six years ago) link

Then another major Quebec media personality today:

[DERNIÈRE HEURE] L'animateur vedette @GillesParent visé par des allégations d'inconduites sexuelles #JDQ https://t.co/g9RCAbpUly pic.twitter.com/MY2m2nWSgt

— Le Journal de Québec (@JdeQuebec) October 19, 2017

I mention all this because it occurs to me that one of the possible outcomes of the (snowballing) Ghomeshi/Cosby/Weinstein parade is not a major upset of systemic misogyny and sexual harassment or assault, but just a slaying of some of the (hundreds of) big whales.

sean gramophone, Thursday, 19 October 2017 18:20 (six years ago) link

yep, there is quite a lot of light being shed, it seems.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 19 October 2017 18:29 (six years ago) link

Can't help but hope that slaying a bunch of the whales and upsetting systemic misogyny are interrelated

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Thursday, 19 October 2017 18:50 (six years ago) link

now Ann Coulter of all people is going after the gossip columnists who wrote the hit pieces on Ambra Gutierrez. it must be the "Democratic donor" angle w/Weinstein that got her going.

nomar, Thursday, 19 October 2017 19:20 (six years ago) link

Tarantino speaks

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/10/19/movies/tarantino-weinstein.html

“I knew enough to do more than I did,” he said, citing several episodes involving prominent actresses. “There was more to it than just the normal rumors, the normal gossip. It wasn’t secondhand. I knew he did a couple of these things.”

“I wish I had taken responsibility for what I heard,” he added. “If I had done the work I should have done then, I would have had to not work with him.”

Uh.

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 19 October 2017 21:31 (six years ago) link

well, that seems like one of the more honest apologies at least, although it's hard to understand why he didn't do anything even with his own girlfriend getting harassed.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Thursday, 19 October 2017 21:35 (six years ago) link

The anecdotes coming from men are really just stark illustrations of the ludicrous amount of power this shitbag wielded in his corner of the world.

El Tomboto, Thursday, 19 October 2017 21:42 (six years ago) link

also indicative of those men's tolerance of assholes with power

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 19 October 2017 22:26 (six years ago) link

I'm not defending him, but QT's career would've been over (or at the very least radically different/diminished) if he tried to buck his major benefactor. Weinstein's industry power was basically hush money for people like QT.

Οὖτις, Thursday, 19 October 2017 22:35 (six years ago) link

and yeah obviously people like QT ultimately weighed getting to make their movies the way they wanted to as being worth more than their coworkers/employees/significant others' safety

Οὖτις, Thursday, 19 October 2017 22:37 (six years ago) link

otm

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 19 October 2017 22:38 (six years ago) link

frankly I think Tarantino comes off about as well as he possibly could in that piece, given his own admitted culpability

Οὖτις, Thursday, 19 October 2017 22:41 (six years ago) link

I dunno. Weinstein was no doubt instrumental in turning Tarantino into a star director, but he became a star pretty early on. Basically, after Pulp Fiction he could have got anyone to produce his films, he was probably just more comfortable continuing with Weinstein. There weren't too many people who could have challenged Weinstein without paying much of a price, but I'd say Tarantino was one of them.

Zelda Zonk, Thursday, 19 October 2017 22:49 (six years ago) link

there is so much dodgy shit in Tarantino's films that other studios/producers would have balked at

Οὖτις, Thursday, 19 October 2017 22:51 (six years ago) link

not to mention ridiculous money-losing schemes like 70mm roadshows and grindhouse double feature tours

Οὖτις, Thursday, 19 October 2017 22:52 (six years ago) link

Is it an honest apology though? He really only heard about Weinstein's bad behavior secondhand? They collaborated for over two decades.

reggae mike love (polyphonic), Thursday, 19 October 2017 22:53 (six years ago) link

what would firsthand be? witnessing it? participating in it?

Οὖτις, Thursday, 19 October 2017 22:54 (six years ago) link

He says "It wasn’t secondhand".

jmm, Thursday, 19 October 2017 22:54 (six years ago) link

Hateful 8 made 100 million over production budget, 70mm screenings sold well and got the film twice the publicity it would have otherwise

Printing the programmes for each territory probably cut into things, but that's on the local distributors/exhibitors, not Weinstein Co

xpost

shackling the masses with plastic-wrapped snack picks (sic), Thursday, 19 October 2017 22:57 (six years ago) link

Past Tarantino interviews and books have suggested he found Harvey's publicly-known behaviour personally disturbing, but that nobody fought harder to get them, which indicates how hard he'd fight to sell them.

(This could back up Shakey's perception of Grindhouse as a boondoggle, being a Bob joint)

shackling the masses with plastic-wrapped snack picks (sic), Thursday, 19 October 2017 23:01 (six years ago) link

there is so much dodgy shit in Tarantino's films that other studios/producers would have balked at


So the fuck what, though? So the fuck what.

El Tomboto, Thursday, 19 October 2017 23:07 (six years ago) link

not to mention ridiculous money-losing schemes like 70mm roadshows and grindhouse double feature tours


Our culture can live without it, I think

El Tomboto, Thursday, 19 October 2017 23:09 (six years ago) link

no argument there

Οὖτις, Thursday, 19 October 2017 23:18 (six years ago) link

w/out Weinstein we might've been spared Q's career

o brave new world

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 19 October 2017 23:30 (six years ago) link

Maybe I'm just old/jaded/grumpy but I've come to think art is overvalued when it's weighed against this level of victimization. I don't even like Tarantino, but even if it was someone I liked I'd trade their whole body of work to end systemic rape and molestation.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Friday, 20 October 2017 00:59 (six years ago) link

That sounds kind of duh now that I read it back.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Friday, 20 October 2017 01:00 (six years ago) link

Someone's films? Sure. Think the entire system's morally corrupt anyway, predatory men becoming (consciously or unconciously (though the latter's a bit generous, we're not talking paedophilia)) directors/producers due to access to beautiful young (and ever younger, since they control so much casting) women, etc.

albvivertine, Friday, 20 October 2017 01:10 (six years ago) link

in many cases we ARE talking about paedophilia

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Friday, 20 October 2017 01:11 (six years ago) link

I dunno. Weinstein was no doubt instrumental in turning Tarantino into a star director, but he became a star pretty early on. Basically, after Pulp Fiction he could have got anyone to produce his films, he was probably just more comfortable continuing with Weinstein. There weren't too many people who could have challenged Weinstein without paying much of a price, but I'd say Tarantino was one of them.

― Zelda Zonk, Thursday, October 19, 2017 6:49 PM (two hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

he could've easily become a flash in the pan after Pulp Fiction. i can totally see him being the Michael Cimino of the 90s in another universe. i mean i think he could've done Jackie Brown with another studio, but probably not Kill Bill. not excusing it of course but the Weinsteins could and did destroy lives and careers over this shit. QT along with many others stayed silent to avoid that personal destruction, moreso than any allegiance to Harvey & Bob.

flappy bird, Friday, 20 October 2017 01:12 (six years ago) link

the USA is built on slavery and genocide

behind every great fortune/nation/industry lies a crime

or as Jerry Lewis said of '50s Vegas, "THOSE GUYS knew how to run this town."

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 20 October 2017 01:14 (six years ago) link

To be honest Tarantino also stayed at Miramax because the entire industry is rife with misogynistic, controlling assholes and at least Harvey was in his corner. There are worse out there and I guess QT was comfortable living with the kind of harassment he alluded to as “chasing the secretary around the desk,” as opposed to options he considered worse (either professionally or ethically).

rb (soda), Friday, 20 October 2017 01:17 (six years ago) link

It’s telling how few A-list male directors/producers have spoken openly and in an enlightened way about this, I think. Lots of skeletons being buried deep in lots of closets, shirts thrown over the top, and the Academy’s general kicking-out saving a lot of top-shelf talent from having to make hypocritical comments that might draw the bead on their own NDAs.

rb (soda), Friday, 20 October 2017 01:22 (six years ago) link

The most telling thing to me in Tarantino's comments was the reference to the "boss chasing the secretary around the desk," which he then immediately acknowledged was not OK as a trope. It speaks to how engrained all of this is in the culture, it's been the stuff of jokes and gags and knowing invocations of the "casting couch" for decades. That doesn't excuse anybody, but there is a whole sense of a bunch of people suddenly going, "Oh, wait ... this thing we're all used to is actually terrible."

similar to Woody Allen's "the guy winking in the office," but he's almost 30 years older

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 20 October 2017 01:43 (six years ago) link

Tipsy OTM, that's what I was getting at upthread as well.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Friday, 20 October 2017 01:44 (six years ago) link

Lupita Nyongo’s story...infuriating...hallelujah for these women tho seriously

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/10/19/opinion/lupita-nyongo-harvey-weinstein.html

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 20 October 2017 04:47 (six years ago) link

if there was a tarantino type who did stand up to him, would we know who he is now?

as i recall, kate beckinsale said one of her male friends, an actor, did stand up to him, and was essentially blackballed

i 1000% agree men need to stand up more just across the board, and recognize their complicity when they dont. i also think there's something inherent in the system that makes it so both men and women are discouraged from doing so. It breaks your heart to read an almost *guilty* feeling in Lupita Nyongo's essay, like she's lamenting she didn't do more about it.

but yeah I mean the system is set up so that powerful people can do what they want, capitalism is a ponzi scheme for effectively channeling sociopaths in the hopes theyre at least economically productive while being sociopathic monsters right

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 20 October 2017 05:55 (six years ago) link

all roads lead to the end of the world

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 20 October 2017 05:56 (six years ago) link

I was thinking about what made this takedown of a powerful predator successful, and I think one thing is having a number of women's stories all go public at the same time. That's makes it undeniable. It's sort of unfortunate because you won't always have that, but there's probably a lesson there in going after habitual predators.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Friday, 20 October 2017 12:12 (six years ago) link

To be honest Tarantino also stayed at Miramax because the entire industry is rife with misogynistic, controlling assholes and at least Harvey was in his corner.

See also: Don Simpson.

Eazy, Friday, 20 October 2017 12:20 (six years ago) link

I thought I liked Miramax more than I do. Aside from a few pretty Oscar-bait films (The English Patient, The Wings of the Dove, Malèna), I could easily live without the catalogue.

prelude to abjection (Sanpaku), Friday, 20 October 2017 13:03 (six years ago) link

the system is set up so that powerful people can do what they want, capitalism is a ponzi scheme for effectively channeling sociopaths in the hopes theyre at least economically productive while being sociopathic monsters right

ding ding ding

a serious and fascinating fartist (Simon H.), Friday, 20 October 2017 13:07 (six years ago) link

"Oh, wait ... this thing we're all used to is actually terrible."

women have been saying this is terrible and no one has taken them seriously until now
if this is the dawn of a new age in which people believe women, i'll feel like it's a net win for society

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Friday, 20 October 2017 13:44 (six years ago) link

Even for me as someone with relatively feminist parents I feel a consciousness shift happening in myself.

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Friday, 20 October 2017 14:01 (six years ago) link

hot

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Friday, 20 October 2017 15:18 (six years ago) link

women have been saying this is terrible and no one has taken them seriously until now
if this is the dawn of a new age in which people believe women, i'll feel like it's a net win for society

Yes. Let's hope. And by "a bunch of people" I mostly meant a bunch of men, although I think women have been acculturated in a lot of the same ways, to accept that "that's just the way things are." So the awakening there is maybe less "Oh, this is terrible" than "Oh, we can do something about this?"

yeah -- i recommend men watch out for their usage of "we"
it's frequently unclear who "we" are

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Friday, 20 October 2017 16:09 (six years ago) link

"what do you mean we, white man?"

El Tomboto, Friday, 20 October 2017 16:14 (six years ago) link

NY Post's Page Six:

Weinstein is currently in Arizona for sex addiction treatment; a source tells the Post, "In one group therapy session, Harvey arrived 15 minutes late. Then, when it was his turn to speak, he launched into a speech about how this is all a conspiracy against him... Harvey fell asleep in his chair [during others' personal stories]. He was only woken up by the ringing of his smuggled mobile phone [which is banned at the facility] ... Harvey jolted awake, jumped up, immediately took the call and then ran out of the room."

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 20 October 2017 16:29 (six years ago) link

1) "sex addiction" um yeah no, you're a fucking predator
2) what the fuck is wrong with people spying on therapy groups, fuck this fucking world

brimstead, Friday, 20 October 2017 16:40 (six years ago) link

oh it was probably one of the attendees. fuck people.

brimstead, Friday, 20 October 2017 16:40 (six years ago) link

i guess i probably would've blabbed

brimstead, Friday, 20 October 2017 16:40 (six years ago) link

he does seem pretty special even within the field of multi-millionaire egotist sexual abusers

ogmor, Friday, 20 October 2017 16:49 (six years ago) link

I'm currently in treatment for my addiction to lighting matches. You're welcome, people whose houses I torched. You're welcome.

is like 'sex addiction' like "addiction to popsicles"

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 20 October 2017 17:04 (six years ago) link

yea wtf i would've blabbed too if dude ruined my group therapy session

flappy bird, Friday, 20 October 2017 17:15 (six years ago) link

group therapy with a Famous Person would be the worst ever

Randall Jarrell (dandydonweiner), Friday, 20 October 2017 17:17 (six years ago) link

ppl i know who've sought help for "compulsive sexual behavior" engaged in it (afaik) with consensual partners.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 20 October 2017 17:22 (six years ago) link

maybe that part with a Famous Person would not be the worst ever

Randall Jarrell (dandydonweiner), Friday, 20 October 2017 17:27 (six years ago) link

sex addiction is a real thing but I don't think it has any necessary correlation with predation

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Friday, 20 October 2017 17:28 (six years ago) link

Help, I'm addicted to avoiding ownership of my behavior by seeking treatment which fails to address my sociopathic tendencies.

Sociopathy is untreatable.

Mordy, Friday, 20 October 2017 17:54 (six years ago) link

ugh wtf Italy

change display name (Jordan), Friday, 20 October 2017 18:03 (six years ago) link

jesus

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 20 October 2017 18:09 (six years ago) link

I am shocked - SHOCKED - that the country that repeatedly elected Berlusconi and convicted "Foxy Knoxy" is deeply mysognistic

Οὖτις, Friday, 20 October 2017 20:17 (six years ago) link

surely we can still express some dismay/empathy for the person tho

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 20 October 2017 20:20 (six years ago) link

absolutely, my comment was more of a "Italy pvmic" thing

Οὖτις, Friday, 20 October 2017 20:23 (six years ago) link

wait, Italy posts here?

Marcus Hiles Remains Steadfast About Planting Trees.jpg (DJP), Friday, 20 October 2017 20:24 (six years ago) link

with the tip o' the Boot

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 20 October 2017 20:26 (six years ago) link

LA Times reporting that 38 women have come forward about director James Toback, yet another in the endless line of gross predators

http://www.latimes.com/entertainment/la-et-mn-james-toback-sexual-harassment-allegations-20171018-story.html

The final story in this piece is so gross & haunting

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Sunday, 22 October 2017 22:54 (six years ago) link

Writer, The Pick-up Artist (1987). Director, Seduced and Abandoned (2013) and The Private Life of a Modern Woman (2017)

prelude to abjection (Sanpaku), Sunday, 22 October 2017 23:50 (six years ago) link

Study finds 75 percent of workplace harassment victims experienced retaliation when they spoke up https://t.co/tm86j45Ngz

— Vox (@voxdotcom) October 21, 2017

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 22 October 2017 23:53 (six years ago) link

What is wrong with these men. Kneeling in front of women and dry humping them like a dog? I mean that sounds fucking pathological.

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Sunday, 22 October 2017 23:58 (six years ago) link

whatever pathetically insufficient social mechanisms exist for regulating that sort of pathology just don't seem to function when the power imbalance is that great, so these guys just get to keep kidding themselves that it's all ok

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Monday, 23 October 2017 00:07 (six years ago) link

Good piece

Why the Harvey Weinstein allegations could change our culture https://t.co/KWCoXfTTCT

— Rolling Stone (@RollingStone) October 22, 2017

flappy bird, Monday, 23 October 2017 00:23 (six years ago) link

Over/under on the first Btl comment referencing matt taibbi?

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (Bananaman Begins), Monday, 23 October 2017 00:33 (six years ago) link

the dude who produced the "Open Secret" documentary is either right-wing or is taking what allies he can get, with his constant retweeting of Mike Cernovich regarding the film. i suspect he'd find plenty of sympathizers on the left so i suspect it's more the former.

nomar, Monday, 23 October 2017 17:05 (six years ago) link

This is fun: the 47 METERS DOWN director has Things To Say about Bob Weinstein, shooting in water tanks, etc. https://t.co/PNrpyzOnVQ pic.twitter.com/njsa8cdumh

— Vadim Rizov (@vrizov) October 23, 2017

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Monday, 23 October 2017 21:43 (six years ago) link

This is just horrible.

Updating again: Since this story published on Sunday, 193 additional women have contacted me to talk about Toback. https://t.co/beVGHWpdmc

— Glenn Whipp (@GlennWhipp) October 23, 2017

Ned Raggett, Monday, 23 October 2017 23:26 (six years ago) link

the toback thing isn't even news. I guess the extremely gross explicit details are, but this has been on salon, gawker, everything for years. good to hear people are finally caring.

akm, Monday, 23 October 2017 23:58 (six years ago) link

there was a Spy magazine article about it w/ interviews w/ a bunch of women back in like 1989 or something

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Monday, 23 October 2017 23:59 (six years ago) link

yes, 1989.

shackling the masses with plastic-wrapped snack picks (sic), Tuesday, 24 October 2017 00:15 (six years ago) link

wow congratulations you all knew first - the line starts over there for prizes

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 24 October 2017 01:28 (six years ago) link

you guys are such dicks sometimes

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 24 October 2017 01:29 (six years ago) link

well i don’t think it’s a “prize” thing as much as it is “why the fuck has everyone waited so long to believe women” thing

maura, Tuesday, 24 October 2017 02:08 (six years ago) link

true

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 24 October 2017 02:13 (six years ago) link

it's gotta be Taibbi's turn soon right

Simon H., Tuesday, 24 October 2017 02:16 (six years ago) link

Man I actually didn’t know that about Toback but his movies are so fucking gross I feel like I should have. Ughhhhhh I need 5000 drinks.

horseshoe, Tuesday, 24 October 2017 02:16 (six years ago) link

yeah toback is more like cosby where it wasn't even an open secret, it was just... out in the open. i learned he was a sex creep before i knew any of his actual film credits (bugsy included). he doesn't even seem like a remotely powerful person in hollywood but he's acted like he's immortal for decades. when's the last time anyone's given a fuck about james toback's film career? would anyone have wondered where he went if he disappeared 15 years ago? he wasn't being protected by hollywood, he was allowed to be like this for decades for the same reason every unimportant man is allowed to be a sex creep without repercussion

qualx, Tuesday, 24 October 2017 02:33 (six years ago) link

He doesnt even sound like that big of a bigshot hollywood deal, certainly not a breaker if a maker (like weinstein was able to shut people up). I'm not victim blaming here but I dont get how he fooled so many women into fucking gross shit like HUMPING THEIR LEG TIL HE ORGASMED. Ugh ugh fucking die.

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Tuesday, 24 October 2017 02:48 (six years ago) link

Tragically wearing a fedora in the photo attached to the article

officer sonny bonds, lytton pd (mayor jingleberries), Tuesday, 24 October 2017 03:11 (six years ago) link

https://twitter.com/search?q=terry%20richardson&src=typd

Eazy, Wednesday, 25 October 2017 17:14 (six years ago) link

Er, meant that to be this.

Terry Richardson and woody Allen
What a great picture!!!!! Wait , where is Weinstein ?#terryrichardson #WoodyAllen pic.twitter.com/SshGmsYdOM

— Sovantha (@Sonith9) October 24, 2017

Eazy, Wednesday, 25 October 2017 17:15 (six years ago) link

where is cuttyhorse

shackling the masses with plastic-wrapped snack picks (sic), Wednesday, 25 October 2017 17:38 (six years ago) link

that is an *exceptionally* terrible statement

nomar, Wednesday, 25 October 2017 17:42 (six years ago) link

icymi, neolib literary asshole takes a fall

https://www.theatlantic.com/entertainment/archive/2017/10/the-harvey-effect-reaches-leon-wieseltier/543897/

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 25 October 2017 17:54 (six years ago) link

Yeah, I love all the centrist dem pundits on twitter calling this "slander" when they were pushing that Jeff Stein Vox piece on "misogyny on the left" about a fucking podcast. this is otm:

Weren’t you just trying to call out misogyny on the left? It’s almost as if you don’t really care about female safety just scoring pts 🤔 https://t.co/y7L1UTAusM

— Neo Liberal (@RickyRawls) October 25, 2017

flappy bird, Wednesday, 25 October 2017 17:57 (six years ago) link

Innocent of all sorts of things he innocently did.

Mark G, Wednesday, 25 October 2017 17:58 (six years ago) link

None of the women who came forward were ever in a position where I could make or break their careers. Sexual Harassment requires that I have such power.

I don't think this is part of the definition of "sexual harassment". This isn't a "bigotry" vs "racism" issue.

Marcus Hiles Remains Steadfast About Planting Trees.jpg (DJP), Wednesday, 25 October 2017 17:59 (six years ago) link

https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/anna-faris-reveals-director-sexually-155003460.html

she's talking about Ivan Reitman here, i'm almost 100% certain

nomar, Wednesday, 25 October 2017 18:01 (six years ago) link

Also, as these allegations mount and we tally them, it feels like we are starting to be more interested in keeping a tally on a scorecard than we are in helping the people victimized in these situations. I don't know what to do about that feeling.

Marcus Hiles Remains Steadfast About Planting Trees.jpg (DJP), Wednesday, 25 October 2017 18:01 (six years ago) link

Wait till it's the music industry's turn... watch out!

Terry Micawber (Tom D.), Wednesday, 25 October 2017 18:13 (six years ago) link

xxp whoa. when this story broke 3 weeks ago, I thought about how many producers (strictly producers - not people like J.J. Abrams) have name recognition. Harvey was #1 with a bullet, and the only other two I could think of were Ivan Reitman and Bob Iger.

flappy bird, Wednesday, 25 October 2017 18:16 (six years ago) link

have you heard of this guy Steve Mnuchin

Οὖτις, Wednesday, 25 October 2017 18:18 (six years ago) link

he's kind of a big deal

Οὖτις, Wednesday, 25 October 2017 18:19 (six years ago) link

Good call but he definitely did not have name recognition as producer before Trump admin.

flappy bird, Wednesday, 25 October 2017 18:23 (six years ago) link

Dune Entertainment seems to have strictly been on the financing side, rather than the director/cast supervising side.

prelude to abjection (Sanpaku), Wednesday, 25 October 2017 21:43 (six years ago) link

It adds to the scorecard as DJP noted, but:

http://money.cnn.com/2017/10/25/media/mark-halperin-sexual-harassment-allegations/index.html

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 26 October 2017 03:54 (six years ago) link

And this is worth noting

This has been another open secret in the media....kudos to @oliverdarcy for nailing down what others couldn't. https://t.co/lsC0n2kAXz

— Yashar Ali 🐘 (@yashar) October 26, 2017

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 26 October 2017 03:58 (six years ago) link

Let's hear the joke pic.twitter.com/bAvyKeQnES

— Ashley Feinberg (@ashleyfeinberg) October 26, 2017

j., Thursday, 26 October 2017 04:53 (six years ago) link

Add Artforum’s publisher and Leon Wieseltier to the list.

Eazy, Thursday, 26 October 2017 06:09 (six years ago) link

go Corey go

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 26 October 2017 14:06 (six years ago) link

Poppy Bush's joke (and this was straight from my acquaintance whom he 'encountered') was this:

"Guess my favorite magician?

It's David Cop-A-Feel!"

to fly across the city and find Aerosmith's car (C. Grisso/McCain), Thursday, 26 October 2017 14:58 (six years ago) link

i'd have gone with 'guess my favourite metal lawman? it's robo-cop-a-feel!' myself

proton, neutron, electron and crouton (bizarro gazzara), Thursday, 26 October 2017 15:09 (six years ago) link

favorite character from Mr Rogers Neighborhood? Mr McFeely

harbinger of failure (Jon not Jon), Thursday, 26 October 2017 15:23 (six years ago) link

funny how it never seems to happen with men

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Thursday, 26 October 2017 16:44 (six years ago) link

maybe it's time to just have a... sigh... rolling sexual assault scandal thread

Nhex, Thursday, 26 October 2017 19:39 (six years ago) link

A spokesman for Bush, who is 93, said then: “President Bush would never – under any circumstance – intentionally cause anyone distress, so any distress you may be feeling is on you, I'm afraid."

Winky Carrothers (Old Lunch), Thursday, 26 October 2017 19:49 (six years ago) link

I doubt dragging GHW Bush into this will help the cause of reducing workplace sexual harassment.

Sanpaku, Thursday, 26 October 2017 20:02 (six years ago) link

are we dragging him into it? or is he slithering into it?

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 26 October 2017 20:04 (six years ago) link

doddering into it

Οὖτις, Thursday, 26 October 2017 20:04 (six years ago) link

tbh wouldn't be surprised if it's dementia related

nomar, Thursday, 26 October 2017 20:07 (six years ago) link

Possibly, but is the fact that he's at least twice done his "cop-a-feel" joke followed by a grab raise the possibility that it's not?

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 26 October 2017 20:10 (six years ago) link

It doesn't seem the persons who's ass was intentionally or inadvertently grabbed by GHW Bush at a public event was in a position where their job was threatened, if they spoke out.

At some point, putting this into the same category as film producers who demand erotic massages or leg-humping directors, belittles the experience of those who face workplace harassment.

Sanpaku, Thursday, 26 October 2017 20:13 (six years ago) link

Possibly, but is the fact that he's at least twice done his "cop-a-feel" joke followed by a grab raise the possibility that it's not?

People with dementia do the same things over and over again, it's a characteristic feature

badg, Thursday, 26 October 2017 20:38 (six years ago) link

as do many people without it. but it's unlikely we're going to provided with clinical evidence...

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 26 October 2017 20:42 (six years ago) link

I am having a lot of difficulty getting past "David Cop-A-Feel"

Marcus Hiles Remains Steadfast About Planting Trees.jpg (DJP), Thursday, 26 October 2017 20:48 (six years ago) link

It doesn't seem the persons who's ass was intentionally or inadvertently grabbed by GHW Bush at a public event was in a position where their job was threatened, if they spoke out.

It seems like all the stories (including my acquaintance's*) were at photo ops at things he was a guest at, so yeah.

*She's admitted the odd look on her face in the photo they took (which she's had up on FB since it was taken and also features other cast members of her show along with Mr. & Mrs. Bush) was because she was thinking "Did George Bush just goose me?"

to fly across the city and find Aerosmith's car (C. Grisso/McCain), Thursday, 26 October 2017 21:15 (six years ago) link

'david cop-a-feel' sounds like the most stereotypical joke an old rich ruling class creep would make in front of his CIA friends in the seventies while they're all smoking cigars in a golf club lounge

he's probably been doing it for decades

qualx, Thursday, 26 October 2017 23:57 (six years ago) link

or y'know, Skull & Bones

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 27 October 2017 00:28 (six years ago) link

I doubt dragging GHW Bush into this will help the cause of reducing workplace sexual harassment.

― Sanpaku, Thursday, October 26, 2017 4:02 PM (four hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

are we dragging him into it? or is he slithering into it?

― ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, October 26, 2017 4:04 PM (four hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

doddering into it

― Οὖτις, Thursday, October 26, 2017

rolled into it

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 27 October 2017 00:33 (six years ago) link

groping his way through

El Tomboto, Friday, 27 October 2017 00:39 (six years ago) link

it seems like calling out this behavior as shitty is key to reducing harassment, no?

lol dragging him into it. nobody made him act like a shithead. fuck this

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Friday, 27 October 2017 00:41 (six years ago) link

his wife was standing right there and joked about it. fuck these people

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Friday, 27 October 2017 00:45 (six years ago) link

by the time we're finished they're gonna wonder if david cop-a-feel was bush's running mate

qualx, Friday, 27 October 2017 00:46 (six years ago) link

CBS Diversity Showcase Director Rick Najera Exits Amid Harassment Allegations (EXCLUSIVE) https://t.co/nbVh9NnwME via @variety

— Ted Johnson (@tedstew) October 26, 2017

Today alone, 5 people reached out w/ sexual harassment allegations against 5 different media figures. This isn’t slowing. It’s snowballing.

— Dylan Byers (@DylanByers) October 27, 2017

Ned Raggett, Friday, 27 October 2017 01:42 (six years ago) link

Good. I want these men to all be afraid, afraid for their jobs, their reputations. I want them to fucking quake in their shoes with fear and humiliation the way theyve been meting out to women for centuries.

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Friday, 27 October 2017 02:03 (six years ago) link

Bush probably has done it for centuries...

to fly across the city and find Aerosmith's car (C. Grisso/McCain), Friday, 27 October 2017 02:37 (six years ago) link

jfc

Sen. Claire McCaskill, D-Mo., recalled that when she was a young state legislator in her twenties, she asked the speaker of the Missouri House of Representatives for advice on getting her first bill out of committee.

"He looked at me and he paused and he said, 'Well, did you bring your knee pads?'" McCaskill said.

Οὖτις, Friday, 27 October 2017 19:12 (six years ago) link

well that sucks

Marcus Hiles Remains Steadfast About Planting Trees.jpg (DJP), Friday, 27 October 2017 20:04 (six years ago) link

also completely predictable

Οὖτις, Friday, 27 October 2017 20:09 (six years ago) link

always be doxxing I say

officer sonny bonds, lytton pd (mayor jingleberries), Friday, 27 October 2017 20:13 (six years ago) link

i was surprised it was taking so long to leak

Mordy, Friday, 27 October 2017 20:29 (six years ago) link

burn book always ends up in the wrong hands

ein Sexmonster (Jimmy The Mod Awaits The Return Of His Beloved), Friday, 27 October 2017 21:25 (six years ago) link

pro woman burn book prob should not end up in cernovich's hands yes that is correct

officer sonny bonds, lytton pd (mayor jingleberries), Friday, 27 October 2017 21:36 (six years ago) link

Quinn Cummings:

http://www.esquire.com/news-politics/politics/a13097605/quinn-cummings-child-actress/

The ending is particularly good.

But the whispers don’t stop with these obvious, public examples. The same women who spoke among themselves about Harvey, about Terry, also speak about well-known actors who are not quite the loving family men their publicists would have you believe. Instead of a bathrobe, it’s a private meeting. Instead of a clumsy grope, it’s a “helpful” lingering brush of your breast. Instead of a disgusting proposition, it’s a greasy little implication that a few minutes together could lead to something better down the road.

This is no longer black and white. It’s gray. And people don’t like gray, especially when it comes to sexual assault, which they really don’t want to be thinking about at all. They like their sexual assault clear, recognizable, and not committed by men who are America’s marital hall pass. Should these stories come out, the public’s response to the victims might not be nearly as supportive. But the fact remains, you can like someone very much and they can still be capable of terrible things. Unless Hollywood reconciles itself to the fact that not all sex criminals look like ogres, the question we should ask ourselves is what solidarity hashtag we’ll be using a year from now when nothing has changed.

Ned Raggett, Saturday, 28 October 2017 00:13 (six years ago) link

Ronan Farrow's new story has run.

https://www.newyorker.com/news/news-desk/weighing-the-costs-of-speaking-out-about-harvey-weinstein

Ned Raggett, Saturday, 28 October 2017 02:35 (six years ago) link

Annabella Sciorra's story is a really horrific one

nomar, Saturday, 28 October 2017 02:44 (six years ago) link

Please read my statement below. pic.twitter.com/8ld8k8DC6O

— Mark Halperin (@MarkHalperin) October 27, 2017

j., Saturday, 28 October 2017 05:25 (six years ago) link

Nah

.oO (silby), Saturday, 28 October 2017 05:31 (six years ago) link

Just cried reading the latest Farrow piece - Annabella Sciorra's story is heartbreaking. Rosie Perez though is a national treasure.

Also it can't be said enough but fuck Tarantino. He knew this happened to Mira Sorvino and Daryl Hannah, on separate occasions ten years apart. Yet he didn't think Weinstein had a serious problem.

Roz, Saturday, 28 October 2017 12:52 (six years ago) link

yeah god their stories are just... haunting is too mild of a word but ugh. that line where she decides to speak “oh you want RAPE?” ... fucking devastating

a friend posted this on FB and it dovetails into this area well i think. it’s not THE problem but it’s def a contributing factor

http://verysmartbrothas.com/men-just-dont-trust-women-and-this-is-a-problem/

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 28 October 2017 17:14 (six years ago) link

annabella sciorra's story brought more realness than i could handle. esp when she talked about the way she thought and felt about it afterward. my god.

men don't trust women is otm though, i doubt i need to read that article

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Saturday, 28 October 2017 22:01 (six years ago) link

Definitely don't need to read the comments unfortunately (and predictably.)

nomar, Saturday, 28 October 2017 22:02 (six years ago) link

no way, i never read comments

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Saturday, 28 October 2017 22:18 (six years ago) link

Why would you ever read the comments on anything unless you're a hardcore masochist

flappy bird, Saturday, 28 October 2017 22:26 (six years ago) link

In this case I gladly avoided the comments, but I often find comments better than the main piece on a lot of sites.

Robert Adam Gilmour, Sunday, 29 October 2017 01:29 (six years ago) link

Taibbi now?

akm, Monday, 30 October 2017 01:31 (six years ago) link

That’s been the last few days, yes. And now there’s this:

https://www.buzzfeed.com/adambvary/anthony-rapp-kevin-spacey-made-sexual-advance-when-i-was-14?utm_term=.grMV96ry99#.buvANzm7NN

Ned Raggett, Monday, 30 October 2017 01:55 (six years ago) link

“now”

ToddBonzalez (BradNelson), Monday, 30 October 2017 02:07 (six years ago) link

Well the story makes clear Rapp’s been talking in various ways with others about this for years. This is the first full on-the-record story without name redaction.

Ned Raggett, Monday, 30 October 2017 02:09 (six years ago) link

ahh

ToddBonzalez (BradNelson), Monday, 30 October 2017 02:19 (six years ago) link

Spacey 1) Apologizes 2) Blames it on drunkenness 3) warns there will be more stories and 4) Comes out.

There's a lot happening here. https://t.co/qOJTw3ziPS

— Jessica🎃BOOseman (@JessicaHuseman) October 30, 2017

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Monday, 30 October 2017 04:23 (six years ago) link

well, there’s living as a private person who has sexual relations, and then there’s whatever Spacey’s been doing for the last 30 years which is...not that

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Monday, 30 October 2017 04:26 (six years ago) link

What an awful response, holy shit

Simon H., Monday, 30 October 2017 04:28 (six years ago) link

What a transparent, horrible way to try and force a different conversation

Simon H., Monday, 30 October 2017 04:29 (six years ago) link

"i don't remember it because it was 30 years ago but i'm cool just blaming it on being drunk"

qualx, Monday, 30 October 2017 04:36 (six years ago) link

Put more succinctly than I did

Celebrity Frames Horrible Allegations As Start Of Personal Growth Arc

— Pixelated Borat (@pixelatedboat) October 30, 2017

Simon H., Monday, 30 October 2017 04:41 (six years ago) link

this makes me SO angry jesus

monotony, Monday, 30 October 2017 04:54 (six years ago) link

throwing the queer community under the bus to defend yourself against allegations you sexually assaulted a minor. absolutely despicable

monotony, Monday, 30 October 2017 04:57 (six years ago) link

For real. It's not like gay men have had to defend themselves against accusations of pederasty for all of time...oh wait, yes they have. Thanks, Kevin!

Ⓓⓡ. (Johnny Fever), Monday, 30 October 2017 05:08 (six years ago) link

This is beyond awful.

Le Bateau Ivre, Monday, 30 October 2017 09:06 (six years ago) link

It's evil.

Le Bateau Ivre, Monday, 30 October 2017 09:06 (six years ago) link

(Kevin Spacey beats a man to death with an accordion)

“I’m sure you’ve heard the rumors. They’re true. I am indeed an accordion player.”

— Jason Steele (@FilmCow) October 30, 2017

Le Bateau Ivre, Monday, 30 October 2017 09:07 (six years ago) link

grim lol.

Ludo, Monday, 30 October 2017 09:27 (six years ago) link

Halperin got the full kibosh.

NBC News has terminated Mark Halperin’s contract, following HBO, Showtime and Penguin in severing ties with him.

— Michael Calderone (@mlcalderone) October 30, 2017

Ned Raggett, Monday, 30 October 2017 13:18 (six years ago) link

Spacey at this point indistinguishable from Frank Underwood

akm, Monday, 30 October 2017 14:11 (six years ago) link

how does Corey Feldman square his current crusade with his past friendship w and support of a certain very very famous accused child molester

Οὖτις, Monday, 30 October 2017 18:04 (six years ago) link

(I say this as someone who is generally sympathetic to Feldman, but it is weird)

Οὖτις, Monday, 30 October 2017 18:04 (six years ago) link

selective outrage is one possibility

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Monday, 30 October 2017 18:07 (six years ago) link

I see no connection at all

Breaking: HOUSE OF CARDS, which stars Kevin Spacey, ending with its 6th season, say @mikeylikestv https://t.co/kRM9SAOhmo

— Borys Kit (@Borys_Kit) October 30, 2017

Ned Raggett, Monday, 30 October 2017 19:13 (six years ago) link

how does Corey Feldman square his current crusade with his past friendship w and support of a certain very very famous accused child molester

According to this Matt Lauer interview...

FELDMAN: “I told the police. In fact if anyone wants to go back to 1993, when I was interviewed by the Santa Barbara Police Department. I sat there and gave them the names. They are on record. They have all of this information, but they were scanning Michael Jackson. All they cared about was trying about to find something on Michael Jackson.”
LAUER: “Who you said, by the way, did not abuse you.”
FELDMAN: “Who Michael was innocent. And that was what the interview was about with the pollice in 1993. I told them, he is not that guy. And they said, maybe you don’t understand your friend. And I said, no, I know the difference between pedophiles and somebody that is not a pedophile because I have been molested. Here’s the names, go investigate.

Eazy, Monday, 30 October 2017 20:00 (six years ago) link

I figured he was on record there

Marcus Hiles Remains Steadfast About Planting Trees.jpg (DJP), Monday, 30 October 2017 20:14 (six years ago) link

yeah my feeling is that there’s no way Feldman would proclaim the innocence of a child molester if he was being abused himself or knew MJ was abusing others. it just wouldn’t happen.

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Monday, 30 October 2017 20:47 (six years ago) link

I can totally imagine Feldman not knowing about MJ abuse though, or just not wanting to believe it.

Οὖτις, Monday, 30 October 2017 20:49 (six years ago) link

Surely House of Cards ending has more to do with the Trump presidency making it redundant.

dinnerboat, Monday, 30 October 2017 20:50 (six years ago) link

did anyone watch more than 1.5 season of it? I watched two and I watch nearly anything

mh, Monday, 30 October 2017 20:50 (six years ago) link

I can totally imagine Feldman not knowing about MJ abuse though, or just not wanting to believe it.

― Οὖτις, Monday, October 30, 2017 3:49 PM (three minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

yup

gbx, Monday, 30 October 2017 20:52 (six years ago) link

Spacey Singer Spacey Singer Spacey Singer Ancier Geffen good afternoon. How are you today? pic.twitter.com/bh49XvN0ea

— rose mcgowan (@rosemcgowan) October 30, 2017

Eazy, Monday, 30 October 2017 20:53 (six years ago) link

I can totally imagine Feldman not knowing about MJ abuse though, or just not wanting to believe it.

― Οὖτις, Monday, October 30, 2017 3:49 PM (three minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

yup

― gbx, Monday, October 30, 2017 4:52 PM Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

In which case... it's not really a mystery how he could reconcile his crusade with his friendship with MJ.

Marcus Hiles Remains Steadfast About Planting Trees.jpg (DJP), Monday, 30 October 2017 21:03 (six years ago) link

I didn't say it was a huge mystery, I just raised it as an interesting point. Humanity's capacity for compartmentalization is always interesting.

Οὖτις, Monday, 30 October 2017 21:06 (six years ago) link

if MJ were really the molester he was portrayed to be I would have expected loads more information to have started flowing after his death, and it never did.

akm, Monday, 30 October 2017 21:22 (six years ago) link

fair point

I can't recall any MJ tell-alls coming out either, which is interesting.

Οὖτις, Monday, 30 October 2017 21:25 (six years ago) link

maybe he was about as interesting as he appeared to be, which was: seemed like a weirdo, was probably just a secret drunk and pill head, liked to ride a little train with a monkey.

akm, Monday, 30 October 2017 21:27 (six years ago) link

Yeah I mean it is pretty difficult to keep people from spilling your shit once you're dead.

Marcus Hiles Remains Steadfast About Planting Trees.jpg (DJP), Monday, 30 October 2017 21:28 (six years ago) link

and ... who does that not describe, really? (xpost)

akm, Monday, 30 October 2017 21:28 (six years ago) link

heh

Οὖτις, Monday, 30 October 2017 21:31 (six years ago) link

south park and kendrick have exonerated mj, good enough for me (kind of)

imago, Monday, 30 October 2017 21:31 (six years ago) link

i read something ages ago that he spent so long fucking with the press & not giving a fuck about how he was perveivec that when the first accusations arose he had no good will left with the press to even begin to tell anyone on the outside anything resembling the truth - no one wpuld believe him anyway. his world was so closed off and he burned all his bridges that the accusations were able to take him down without a lot of questioning

anyway, way off topic now - better for the MJ thread than here

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Monday, 30 October 2017 21:32 (six years ago) link

*perceived

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Monday, 30 October 2017 21:32 (six years ago) link

MJ seems very much like Tom Cruise: a full-on rich and powerful weirdo, but probably not a criminal. I mean, I wouldn't want my kids hanging out with Cruise, either.

Josh in Chicago, Monday, 30 October 2017 21:32 (six years ago) link

when tom cruise shares his bed with kids that aren't his and keeps open bottles of liquor and porno mags in the en suite bathroom i'll worry about his behaviour around children

-_- (jim in vancouver), Monday, 30 October 2017 21:34 (six years ago) link

perveivec

I propose we submit this to urbandictionary

Marcus Hiles Remains Steadfast About Planting Trees.jpg (DJP), Monday, 30 October 2017 21:34 (six years ago) link

lol

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Monday, 30 October 2017 21:38 (six years ago) link

Is Rose McGowan pointing a finger at David Geffen? Gonna have to take his name off of a fuck ton of buildings if thats true

officer sonny bonds, lytton pd (mayor jingleberries), Monday, 30 October 2017 21:42 (six years ago) link

yeah his name has been thrown around for a long time along with Spacey & Singer

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Monday, 30 October 2017 21:50 (six years ago) link

Ancier? xpost

StanM, Monday, 30 October 2017 21:59 (six years ago) link

this site goes into a lot of detail re: the Michael Jackson allegations: https://www.mjfacts.com/michael-jacksons-dangerous-liaisons/

soref, Monday, 30 October 2017 22:02 (six years ago) link

I know that when I'm looking for facts about MJ, I go to mjfacts.com. As I understand it*, it would be illegal for them to publish anything else.

* Voiceover: He didn't understand it.

Andrew Farrell, Monday, 30 October 2017 22:18 (six years ago) link

the person behind that site definitely has an agenda (they're upfront that they believe MJ had a sexual interest in boys, and the aim of the site is to provide evidence to that end), but it collects a lot of information in one place and generally seems pretty well researched imo

soref, Monday, 30 October 2017 22:32 (six years ago) link

I'm guessing Garth Ancier?

xpost

EZ Snappin, Monday, 30 October 2017 22:35 (six years ago) link

the person behind that site definitely has an agenda (they're upfront that they believe MJ had a sexual interest in boys, and the aim of the site is to provide evidence to that end),

Well, everybody needs a hobby...

Terry Micawber (Tom D.), Monday, 30 October 2017 22:37 (six years ago) link

at least Culkin got a major payout from the Jackson estate after his death, could have been hush money

Universal LULU Nation (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Monday, 30 October 2017 23:05 (six years ago) link

https://apnews.com/cb57500462dd4286be1817ed81773e82?utm_campaign=SocialFlow&utm_source=Twitter&utm_medium=AP

: (

An arrest warrant has been obtained for actress Rose McGowan for felony possession of a controlled substance.

The felony charge stems from a police investigation of personal belongings left behind on a United flight arriving at Washington Dulles International Airport on Jan. 20. Police say the items tested positive for narcotics. The Metropolitan Washington Airports Authority Police Department obtained the warrant on Feb. 1

j., Tuesday, 31 October 2017 03:20 (six years ago) link

https://www.usatoday.com/story/opinion/nation-now/2017/10/31/rapp-told-me-kevin-spacey-90-s-heres-what-happened-and-what-didnt-bruce-steele-column/814863001/

The Advocate talk about why they didn't name names in 2001, when Anthony Rapp told his story to them.

Thomas Gabriel Fischer does not endorse (aldo), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 09:47 (six years ago) link

at least Culkin got a major payout from the Jackson estate after his death, could have been hush money

― Universal LULU Nation (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Monday, October 30, 2017 6:05 PM (yesterday) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

or he could have been in the will? idk

mh, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 14:16 (six years ago) link

I do understand why so many people are certain that Michael Jackson molested children but it's kind of wearying to sit through, particularly when people like R. Kelly blatantly skated by for so long.

Marcus Hiles Remains Steadfast About Planting Trees.jpg (DJP), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 14:33 (six years ago) link

that motherfucker is still skating, even with all the press coverage

mh, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 14:38 (six years ago) link

I am not and have never been a fan of r kelly. He should be in jail.

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 14:39 (six years ago) link

Alec Baldwin eats his own presumably delicious foot.

http://www.latimes.com/entertainment/la-et-mn-alec-baldwin-james-toback-20171029-story.html

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 17:29 (six years ago) link

“Seduced and Abandoned,” the 2013 HBO documentary that followed the pair roaming the 2012 Cannes Film Festival pitching a sexually explicit update of “Last Tango in Paris,”

finally the story as it was meant to be told

drejelire, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 17:31 (six years ago) link

god what a shitty set of answers. fuck alec baldwin.

sean gramophone, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 17:35 (six years ago) link

lol yeah I watching AB's Criterion Closet video and he talked at length about working with his "close friend Jimmy Toback" on that movie and he picked out some movie to give to Toback

flappy bird, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 17:44 (six years ago) link

the ultimate but-what-about-Trump usage

xp

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 17:44 (six years ago) link

wow, house of cards production halted. wonder if they'll just kill him off and reshoot for the last season.

akm, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 18:43 (six years ago) link

xp there's some truth to it though, stupidly said as it was. but it's like, the one good thing to come out of this Trump shit that these assholes are getting outed

Nhex, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 18:44 (six years ago) link

House of Cards set is literally two blocks away from me rn. Can you imagine working on that set, dude just got 100s of people their jobs

flappy bird, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 18:50 (six years ago) link

maybe the crew will actually kill Spacey and then film that for the show. would be a good ending.

akm, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 18:54 (six years ago) link

hell yeah, I'd show up and gawk on set. although fwiw Spacey is not in town for this (now cancelled) shoot

flappy bird, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 18:57 (six years ago) link

just recast his part like Becky from Roseanne

reggae mike love (polyphonic), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 18:58 (six years ago) link

they're already talking spinoff, which is probably the best route for job-saving (and preserving as much of the existing audience as possible)

Simon H., Tuesday, 31 October 2017 19:01 (six years ago) link

are there people still watching it, is what I am trying to figure out

mh, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 19:04 (six years ago) link

sadly yes

Simon H., Tuesday, 31 October 2017 19:04 (six years ago) link

i wonder if the likes of American Beauty, LA Confidential etc will become like Birth Of A Nation, never broadcast, nor issued on any upcoming formats, never shown at fests or anniversary screenings, ultimately spoken of in hushed tones and rotting away unloved on a studio shelf.

piscesx, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 19:07 (six years ago) link

Spacey's pretty scummy but, uh, then let's do away with every single old MGM film maybe

the [redacted] is getting to be a bit [redacted]

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 19:14 (six years ago) link

American Beauty should rot away on the merits

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 19:15 (six years ago) link

yeah I don't think it's going to be that extreme

Simon H., Tuesday, 31 October 2017 19:17 (six years ago) link

Jimmy Jimmy Jimmy ugh

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 19:20 (six years ago) link

American Beauty sucks

flappy bird, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 19:20 (six years ago) link

Yup

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 19:21 (six years ago) link

is it me or does the way Baldwin insists on referring to Toback as "Jimmy" in that article seems like a passive aggressive asshole thing or what?

Universal LULU Nation (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 19:22 (six years ago) link

also crucially about a middle-aged man trying to foist himself on a teenager

xp

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 19:23 (six years ago) link

mm yeah.. also his arc in LA Confidential shows a man slowly finding redemption by attempting to free young men from the clutches of sleazy movie producers.

piscesx, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 19:27 (six years ago) link

is it me or does the way Baldwin insists on referring to Toback as "Jimmy" in that article seems like a passive aggressive asshole thing or what?

― Universal LULU Nation (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Tuesday, October 31, 2017 3:22 PM (four minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

idk, I think he's just on a "Jimmy" basis with Toback based on that CC closet video I mentioned

flappy bird, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 19:27 (six years ago) link

it undermines whatever concern he expresses

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 19:43 (six years ago) link

there are some subtle and not-so-subtle reasons why Baldwin was picked for a recurring Trump parody

sometimes there's a misogyny that's not faked

mh, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 19:47 (six years ago) link

has anyone ever been under the illusion that Alec Baldwin is a good person

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 19:48 (six years ago) link

no

the Hannah Montana of the Korean War (DJP), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 19:51 (six years ago) link

i used to be under the illusion that he was a good actor. actually he probably *was*, back in the Miami Blues/Red October days. before he turned into a comedy hack.

drejelire, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 19:52 (six years ago) link

he usually plays some variation of Alec Baldwin

mh, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 19:54 (six years ago) link

i used to be under the illusion that he was a good actor. actually he probably *was*, back in the Miami Blues/Red October days. before he turned into a comedy hack.

his one scene in GGR too of course, but yes otm

Simon H., Tuesday, 31 October 2017 19:55 (six years ago) link

i wonder if the likes of American Beauty, LA Confidential etc will become like Birth Of A Nation, never broadcast, nor issued on any upcoming formats, never shown at fests or anniversary screenings, ultimately spoken of in hushed tones and rotting away unloved on a studio shelf.

― piscesx,

Do you mean last year's crap Birth of a Nation or Griffith? Even in my university's worse than mediocre film program the Griffith film gets shown in class.

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 19:55 (six years ago) link

Baldwin was a good leading man up til mid-'90s, then other than a couple of decent supporting roles he's been pretty intolerable. the leading man who was unexpectedly good at comedy turned into a guy who thought he was a comic actor and it didn't work.

drejelire, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 19:58 (six years ago) link

He and Wahlberg are the saving grace of The Departed...

I saw Baldwin emcee a screening of a George C Scott film he selected a few months ago, and he was genial and amusing. Didn't make me think he was a good guy. (It was The Savage Is Loose, a desert-island incest drama.)

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 19:59 (six years ago) link

Birth of a Nation's place in film history is secure

xp

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 20:00 (six years ago) link

Yeah, I can buy the BFI's recently remastered/restored etc etc blu ray of Birth of a Nation for six pounds in my local rec shop.

Ward Fowler, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 20:00 (six years ago) link

yeah he's good in The Departed!

drejelire, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 20:02 (six years ago) link

I thought he was good in Still Alice and Blue Jasmine.

reggae mike love (polyphonic), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 20:02 (six years ago) link

he's probably as underrated as a serious actor as spacey is overrated

but anyway we've uh strayed somewhat off topic

Simon H., Tuesday, 31 October 2017 20:04 (six years ago) link

there are some subtle and not-so-subtle reasons why Baldwin was picked for a recurring Trump parody

sometimes there's a misogyny that's not faked

― mh, Tuesday, October 31, 2017 2:47 PM (nineteen minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

this part of the interview makes me think imitating Trump is infecting his speech patterns, this is sooo Trump:

Jimmy is one of the smartest, he’s one of the cleverest. He went to Harvard, super-intellect. Jimmy is one of the greatest conversationalists in the world. My wife and I went over to Cannes with him, and we had the time of our life with him and Michael Mailer. We had a great time. We made a film. We were very happy with the film we made. We sold it to HBO when it was done.

Universal LULU Nation (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 20:07 (six years ago) link

I think Baldwin always spoke that way.

the Hannah Montana of the Korean War (DJP), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 20:08 (six years ago) link

someone once made a comment about self-important middle-aged men with grandiose ways of speech and permanent whiskey bloat-face that's stuck with me

mh, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 20:08 (six years ago) link

the thing that shits me off is that this “I didn’t personally know he was doing this” is some kind of wall to accepting that it IS a thing that is happening in the world

your good business buddy, your intelligent longtime friend can still be a fucking piece of shit to women. and honestly, the fact that youndoesnt have tits is like 70% of why this is a mystery to you Alec

there is an opportunity for empathy. the double doors swung wide to receive some kind of humility, humanity, good will to the women in your industry and instead you fuckin sidestep backpedal MOONWALK away on the back of a long standing friendship that has NOTHING to do with JIMMYS behaviour

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 20:24 (six years ago) link

His whole GGR monologue is like Trump fan fiction. I bet Trump himself knows it by heart.

dinnerboat, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 20:29 (six years ago) link

Good post, VG.

mick signals, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 20:29 (six years ago) link

...empathy. the double doors swung wide to receive some kind of humility, humanity, good will to the women in your industry...

nothing AB has ever said or done that I'm aware of would suggest that anyone should have expected any better

Simon H., Tuesday, 31 October 2017 20:30 (six years ago) link

Baldwin spent an entire interview saying how he's worked with this guy, has enjoyed this guy's company, has seen the guy be sketchy in a way that didn't cross Baldwin's own boundaries for acceptable behavior, and also this guy ("Jimmy") is pretty broken about about this

there's nothing in there at all about the actual actions or the victims or even whether anything bad happened other than accusations, which are the real bad thing here

mh, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 20:30 (six years ago) link

does Alec Baldwin think sexual assault is bad? not sure, might have to call him back

mh, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 20:31 (six years ago) link

Griffith yeah I forgot there was a remake.

piscesx, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 20:31 (six years ago) link

xpost EXACTLY

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 20:32 (six years ago) link

Didn't someone on here have a story about Piven bringing her into his room?

Robert Adam Gilmour, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 20:42 (six years ago) link

hard to believe that piven's a creep

cosmic brain dildo (Sparkle Motion), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 20:47 (six years ago) link

Andy Dick

flappy bird, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 20:52 (six years ago) link

hard to believe that piven's a creep

I honestly don't know how to read this

we don't know any of these ppl, gen speaking

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 21:07 (six years ago) link

he radiates douchebaggery

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 21:09 (six years ago) link

ok, i prob haven't seen him in anything in 15 years

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 21:11 (six years ago) link

still, that could've been... acting?

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 21:11 (six years ago) link

true

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 21:16 (six years ago) link

huh? dane kinda looks less douchey in a fedora

dynamicinterface, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 21:25 (six years ago) link

i am unfamiliar with the gentlemen in fedoras there but if that is 'less douchey' then i mean

imago, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 21:27 (six years ago) link

Jeremy is also wearing a hat

drejelire, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 21:28 (six years ago) link

fedora on the right = kid rock

flappy bird, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 21:29 (six years ago) link

Didn't someone on here have a story about Piven bringing her into his room?

― Robert Adam Gilmour, Tuesday, October 31, 2017 4:42 PM (forty-five minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

It was an ilxor relating their friend's encounter on the Christina Ricci appreciation thread.

how's life, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 21:30 (six years ago) link

Here's the list of the 93 women who were sexually assaulted by #HarveyWeinstein.14 rapes as of today. We the victims have compiled this list pic.twitter.com/d2ohrgYy9e

— Asia Argento (@AsiaArgento) October 30, 2017

j., Tuesday, 31 October 2017 21:31 (six years ago) link

Might as well link xp:

The Christina Ricci appreciation thread

how's life, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 21:31 (six years ago) link

yeah, wasn't going to link that because the tone in the thread and the other anecdotes are really out of place in a sexual violence context

mh, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 21:39 (six years ago) link

Does an Anne Perry reader condone murder?

IF the film itself doesn't espouse horrible views, it will still be watched. *The Pianist* will still be watched for decades, despite Polanski's acts in his personal life.

*American Beauty* is a flawed film, but in its era, it remains a standout for the mainstream. I haven't seen the nature of Spacey's transgressions. If it turns out he was a rapist, then *American Beauty* will be presented as a decent film that depicted the confusing and purposeless lives in its time, in which one of the ensemble cast was a violent sex addict. If he just patted asses and said sexist things, even that caveat won't be mentioned. He'll be a typical "entitled male" of his (and probably, that future) time.

Sanpaku, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:04 (six years ago) link

it's a shitty film

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:07 (six years ago) link

Compared to?

Its an Oscar-bait talky film, with no likeable, but the direction is superb. Compared to the 500 or so theatrical releases that year, it would have merited placing in the top 20 or so.

We live in an era of Transformers IV, in which most mainstream films are made for pre-teens and the Chinese market. I'll take Oscar-bait any day.

Sanpaku, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:11 (six years ago) link

^no likeable characters

Sanpaku, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:11 (six years ago) link

bleeccch american beauty is so bad

most films are so bad

brimstead, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:12 (six years ago) link

most Oscar-bait films are not well-remembered, in terms of cinema history (see the many Annual Oscar polls for reference/evidence)

it's poorly written, poorly acted, poorly directed, poorly conceived, everything about it is bad. I think on the original "American Beauty" thread I called it a "crime against humanity". The smug self-satisfaction of the actors, writer, director and art director(s) oozes off the screen with every cliched image, thin caricature, and telegraphed plot twist.

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:16 (six years ago) link

Better films released in 1999:

Election (by far the closest analogue to American Beauty, and superior in every way)
Office Space
Ghost Dog
The Straight Story
Dick
Three Kings
The Talented Mr. Ripley
Galaxy Quest

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:20 (six years ago) link

(American films, I guess I should specify)

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:20 (six years ago) link

xxp otm, even when i was susceptible to the most shamelessly schmaltzy Oscar bait (Crash) I hated American Beauty. specifically the ridiculous soaring score. but the whole conceit of the thing is so pretentious and silly, although i love that the movie was inspired by a PLASTIC BAG floating in the wind. I do like one line a lot, though: Spacey's boss comes over, asks if he has a minute. "For you? I have five."

flappy bird, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:22 (six years ago) link

Also "American _____" is the most overused and annoying title template.

jmm, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:24 (six years ago) link

Not too hard to come up with 20 better films from 1999. It was a pretty good year.

reggae mike love (polyphonic), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:24 (six years ago) link

It's the third best movie from 1999 that starts with "American" ("Movie," "Pie")

reggae mike love (polyphonic), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:25 (six years ago) link

Election (by far the closest analogue to American Beauty, and superior in every way)

Oh hell yeah, this is a great comparison, and yeah Election is one of my favorite movies, can't wait for the Criterion reissue next month.

flappy bird, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:25 (six years ago) link

I haven't revisited Magnolia in a while, have a feeling it could go either way now for me- although most people hate it for the frog scene and the spontaneous singing, which i love love love...

flappy bird, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:26 (six years ago) link

it's poorly written, poorly acted, poorly directed, poorly conceived, everything about it is bad. I think on the original "American Beauty" thread I called it a "crime against humanity". The smug self-satisfaction of the actors, writer, director and art director(s) oozes off the screen with every cliched image, thin caricature, and telegraphed plot twist.

― Οὖτις, Tuesday, October 31, 2017 5:16 PM (nine minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Yes. I only saw it once but loathed pretty much every minute of it.

The Harsh Tutelage of Michael McDonald (Raymond Cummings), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:27 (six years ago) link

I left off some respectable/well-liked things I don't particularly dig (like Magnolia, the South Park movie, American Pie, All About My Mother, Fight Club) but I wouldn't begrudge anyone liking those, they are not as objectively terrible as American Beauty.

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:29 (six years ago) link

I'd agree to Election and The Straight Story from your list. Personally, my canon would include Being John Malkovich, Herod's Law, All About My Mother, Kikujiro, Gloomy Sunday, The Hurricane, and yes, Fight Club.

Sanpaku, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:29 (six years ago) link

The Iron Giant obviously the best film released in 1999

Number None, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:30 (six years ago) link

and I almost forgot - AB has the classic gay-panic-murderer plot device! one of the most loathsome tropes in American cinema.

oh shit dunno how I missed BJM, that movie is great would absolutely include it in a year's best of (decade's best of too, probably)

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:30 (six years ago) link

A hell in which I'm condemned to watch Oscar bait like The Danish Girl instead of Transformers would be beyond the scope of human language to describe.

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:31 (six years ago) link

guys, surely there is another thread better served for this kind of discussion

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:32 (six years ago) link

Honestly, how common is the gay panic murder device? I don't get out to see many films, but I do watch politics, and discomfit with homosexual longing oozes from their pores.

Sanpaku, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:32 (six years ago) link

oh god alfred that scene when Redmayne's characters turns into a scarf at the end, blowing in the wind

flappy bird, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:33 (six years ago) link

guys, surely there is another thread better served for this kind of discussion

Rather.

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:36 (six years ago) link

yep, apologies

Number None, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:37 (six years ago) link

Honestly, how common is the gay panic murder device? I don't get out to see many films, but I do watch politics, and discomfit with homosexual longing oozes from their pores.

are you serious

Cruising, Hard, Silent Partner, (plus cross-dresser/gender confusion sub-group: Silence of the Lambs, Sleepaway Camp, Dressed to Kill)

this is off the top of my head, there are so many of these

but yes let's take this to another thread

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:37 (six years ago) link

surely there is another thread

This thread went off those rails long before the discussion of Oscar-bait films of 1999, which is at least tangentally related to Miramax.

If we can have a shooting spree rolling thread, surely we can have a thread on public figures who have been disclosed as sexual predators.

Sanpaku, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:38 (six years ago) link

i wonder if the likes of American Beauty, LA Confidential etc will become like Birth Of A Nation, never broadcast, nor issued on any upcoming formats, never shown at fests or anniversary screenings, ultimately spoken of in hushed tones and rotting away unloved on a studio shelf.

Well, tying in some other relevant names, James Toback's most well-known film (I'd guess, looking at his director credits) is his documentary on Mike Tyson - a convicted rapist who's been completely rehabilitated by the entertainment/sports world.

Unless this stuff is signaling a sea change in public attitudes that stick around (doubtful), sexual assault is the most forgivable crime.

louise ck (milo z), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:40 (six years ago) link

'99 is probably my favorite movie year from my own lifetime. I liked American Beauty the first time I saw it and then wondered upon seeing it a second time if I'd suffered some kind of two-hour episode the first time I saw it. Still shocked that Alan Ball was subsequently responsible for something as good as Six Feet Under.

Winky Carrothers (Old Lunch), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:41 (six years ago) link

We have this thread: 1999 in film

jmm, Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:42 (six years ago) link

i wd assume that spacey's career is basically over now, right? regardless of the status of his past films, it's hard to imagine him getting cast in anything any time soon

(The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:43 (six years ago) link

Mike Tyson - a convicted rapist

At least he did time unlike the rest of these guys

reggae mike love (polyphonic), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 22:45 (six years ago) link

this thread can be about predators absolutely but right now it’s devolved into overlooked movies from the 90’s and I want it to stop

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 31 October 2017 23:13 (six years ago) link

BREAKING: Six women, including @oliviamunn & @nathenstridge, have accused Brett Ratner of sexual harassment or misconduct. Our story: https://t.co/qwjjQAIuFk

— Amy Kaufman (@AmyKinLA) November 1, 2017

groovypanda, Wednesday, 1 November 2017 13:48 (six years ago) link

Christ not the little big man as well..

piscesx, Wednesday, 1 November 2017 15:46 (six years ago) link

can revelations about mcg and/or zack snyder be far behind

proton, neutron, electron and crouton (bizarro gazzara), Wednesday, 1 November 2017 15:54 (six years ago) link

wd assume that spacey's career is basically over now, right? regardless of the status of his past films, it's hard to imagine him getting cast in anything any time soon

The hastiness of House Of Cards' cancellation suggests coworkers know there's more to come out. At the moment there's one story about him, as a youngish closeted former teen theatre kid, making a move on a teen theatre kid that he'd picked as being gay, and stopping when consent wasn't given. There have been loads of past murmurs about modern Spacey being a creep in London theatre, but a less horrendous "apology" to Rapp could have resolved this situation career-wise, if it's all there is.

shackling the masses with plastic-wrapped snack picks (sic), Wednesday, 1 November 2017 16:37 (six years ago) link

there's this now, though:

https://www.avclub.com/two-more-actors-accuse-kevin-spacey-of-sexual-assault-a-1820037557

drejelire, Wednesday, 1 November 2017 16:38 (six years ago) link

Spacey obliterated any chance at career rehabilitation with his statement throwing the LGBT community under the bus. There will be no Mel Gibson-esque reconsideration in 10 years.

flappy bird, Wednesday, 1 November 2017 17:07 (six years ago) link

Spacey has three major films in the can right now: he's starring in two of them, and the other one is a pretty big deal, Billionaire Boys Club. I wonder what's going to happen there, they can't exactly CGI him out.

drejelire, Wednesday, 1 November 2017 17:11 (six years ago) link

yeah i just saw the trailer for the J Paul Getty one

might go straight to video/stream

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 1 November 2017 17:12 (six years ago) link

the Brett Ratner thing is the least surprising thing on the planet. him going on a radio show and bragging about a sexual relationship with someone, a relationship that never happened, is probably a good indicator of a terrible human being and a red flag of someone capable of exactly what the stories tell.

drejelire, Wednesday, 1 November 2017 17:17 (six years ago) link

yeah Ratner is not surprising and iirc there were stories before. I remember Howard Stern going over a clip of Ratner being interviewed by Jimmy Kimmel and him telling a story about hanging with Michael Jackson and throwing water balloons at homeless people from a limo at five in the morning. Howard was horrified- glad the clip is still up:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ufp006AHlgs

flappy bird, Wednesday, 1 November 2017 17:21 (six years ago) link

trying to think which hollywood man I'd be surprised to learn such things about. Clooney has a pretty squeaky image I guess. Spielberg. That's probably it.

akm, Wednesday, 1 November 2017 17:26 (six years ago) link

i'd probably be surprised by Scorsese if only because for all his various wives over the years and earlier drug problems, he just seems like someone whose life is devoted to film. and everything i hear about him suggests he's an extremely decent guy. but you never know what happened in the '70s, and i remember a story or two from that Biskind book that weren't exactly in line w/what i just noted about him.

drejelire, Wednesday, 1 November 2017 17:30 (six years ago) link

Always interesting the hear where Stern draws the line.

Josh in Chicago, Wednesday, 1 November 2017 17:30 (six years ago) link

I wouldn't be shocked it Clooney were a shithead. Spielberg, yeah. Tom Hanks, yeah.

Josh in Chicago, Wednesday, 1 November 2017 17:31 (six years ago) link

No one would surprise me, really. When you start thinking people are too innocent-seeming or above behavior, you start drawing lines.

mh, Wednesday, 1 November 2017 17:34 (six years ago) link

Clooney's pranking antics are well-known enough that I wouldn't put it past him to not have the best judgment of when to not cross the line

Western® with Bacon Flavor, Wednesday, 1 November 2017 17:35 (six years ago) link

Nic Cage, be disappointing if he was up to anything as mundane tbh

Gary Synaesthesia (darraghmac), Wednesday, 1 November 2017 17:36 (six years ago) link

that's true, cf the responses to the Ratner accusations in the piece from his former assistants...

drejelire, Wednesday, 1 November 2017 17:36 (six years ago) link

Drew Carey
Garry Marshall
Denzel Washington
Will Smith
Daniel Dae Kim
John Cho
Aziz Ansari
Chris Pratt
Mike Schur
Wil Arnett
Clive Owen

the Hannah Montana of the Korean War (DJP), Wednesday, 1 November 2017 17:36 (six years ago) link

you can safely assume the more power and wealth someone accumulates, the more likely it is they've felt entitled to doing awful things

Simon H., Wednesday, 1 November 2017 17:36 (six years ago) link

Multiple xps: I'm currently reading that recent biography of George Lucas, and whenever Marcia was off editing a film for Marty, Lucas made it absolutely clear he did not trust Scorsese not to try to make a move on her.

BTW, Dustin Hoffman: http://www.hollywoodreporter.com/features/dustin-hoffman-sexually-harassed-me-i-was-17-guest-column-1053466

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Wednesday, 1 November 2017 17:37 (six years ago) link

like none of the 10 DJP just listed would be at all shocking to me idk xp

Simon H., Wednesday, 1 November 2017 17:38 (six years ago) link

Flight of the concords guys

Gary Synaesthesia (darraghmac), Wednesday, 1 November 2017 17:39 (six years ago) link

Mike Schur would be shocking primarily from a friend-of-friends perspective

the Hannah Montana of the Korean War (DJP), Wednesday, 1 November 2017 17:39 (six years ago) link

It would not surprise me to learn that any given man who had ever done anything for attention had committed sexual assault.

.oO (silby), Wednesday, 1 November 2017 17:42 (six years ago) link

surely our ruffalo would never

mookieproof, Wednesday, 1 November 2017 17:42 (six years ago) link

this is turning into a tabloid "who's up next" and it's gross

mh, Wednesday, 1 November 2017 17:44 (six years ago) link

Also, as these allegations mount and we tally them, it feels like we are starting to be more interested in keeping a tally on a scorecard than we are in helping the people victimized in these situations. I don't know what to do about that feeling.

― Marcus Hiles Remains Steadfast About Planting Trees.jpg (DJP), Wednesday, October 25, 2017 2:01 PM Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

the Hannah Montana of the Korean War (DJP), Wednesday, 1 November 2017 17:46 (six years ago) link

Tom Cruise is an obvious one. Travolta too. Although they're probably being shielded by Scientology for now.

Clooney is gay, right? That's the only gossip I've heard about him, that all his girlfriends were beards.

flappy bird, Wednesday, 1 November 2017 17:47 (six years ago) link

let's ask his wife

Οὖτις, Wednesday, 1 November 2017 17:50 (six years ago) link

well obviously she'd lie

j., Wednesday, 1 November 2017 17:51 (six years ago) link

so that's how it works

President Keyes, Wednesday, 1 November 2017 17:54 (six years ago) link

let's ask his wife

― Οὖτις, Wednesday, November 1, 2017 1:50 PM (twelve minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

& wives/ex-wives of Cruise, Travolta...

anyway sorry getting off topic again

flappy bird, Wednesday, 1 November 2017 18:04 (six years ago) link

take it to the toxic masculinity thread

Universal LULU Nation (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Wednesday, 1 November 2017 18:09 (six years ago) link

pretty sure clooney is not gay although his wife is gorgeous as fuck

akm, Wednesday, 1 November 2017 18:45 (six years ago) link

also being gay doesn't disqualify you as spacey has proven

akm, Wednesday, 1 November 2017 18:46 (six years ago) link

the creepy accusations against Cruise (coming from, for instance, my TV fantasy girlfriend Nazanin Boniadi) have been so public for so long with zero ramifications I wonder if anything will ever come of them. granted I guess they aren't assault, they're just creepy.

akm, Wednesday, 1 November 2017 18:47 (six years ago) link

now's the time if it's ever going to happen. But Cruise, Travolta, + many others are protected by Scientology in addition to their endless NDAs, lawyers, cash reserves, etc.

flappy bird, Wednesday, 1 November 2017 18:50 (six years ago) link

that piece re Dustin Hoffman is utterly, believably sad

these 'artists' who allegedly strive for the transcendent and go as low as they can around 'littler' people...

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 1 November 2017 19:13 (six years ago) link

morbs otm

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Wednesday, 1 November 2017 19:40 (six years ago) link

and thinking about being 17 too ... it hurts my heart for her to have to reconcile his behaviour with this setting where she was so excited to just be a part of it

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Wednesday, 1 November 2017 19:42 (six years ago) link

the common thread among all these stories is the sense of celebrity arrogance and the sense that everyone around them is theirs for the taking. sometimes it's a very casual, offhand behavior, and sometimes it's very calculated and predator-like, and sometimes it's this desperate and pathetic use of status to get what they want. sometimes it's two of the three, sometimes all three.

drejelire, Wednesday, 1 November 2017 19:49 (six years ago) link

Every secondhand story I've heard about a male celebrity is a variant on the continuum of "that guy is a dog" or "that guy is a groper" or "don't be in a room alone with that guy" - whether they're d-list British celebs or proper famous ones.

...Except for one of the guys mentioned upthread by DJP, who is likewise an acquaintance of an acquaintance and a super low-key nice person.

Chuck_Tatum, Wednesday, 1 November 2017 20:23 (six years ago) link

Has this been posted?

“I am sorry for all the times I stabbed men, just a little, in my previous workplace. After years of counseling, I stopped stabbing men.”

— Kate Harding (@KateHarding) October 28, 2017

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Wednesday, 1 November 2017 21:34 (six years ago) link

I default believe all people coming forward as victims and the burden of proof in public accusation, unlike the law, is credibility and on the accused to prove innocence, not the court system to prove guilt of accused. But that doesn’t mean unclear things won’t surface, and that we as observers won’t have to tentatively be somewhat neutral

mh, Thursday, 2 November 2017 01:31 (six years ago) link

otoh you have Ratner

mh, Thursday, 2 November 2017 13:59 (six years ago) link

Hoo boy.

http://www.vulture.com/2017/11/kevin-spacey-alleged-sexual-relationship.html

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 2 November 2017 17:31 (six years ago) link

CW: Danny Masterson is accused of 4 counts of violent rape, involving Scientology cover ups. He's hired Cosby and Ratner's attorneys.

Exclusive: Despite ‘Overwhelming’ Evidence Against Actor Danny Masterson, including 4 victims, Rape Case Has Stalled https://t.co/sMBMPfiXKK

— Yashar Ali 🐘 (@yashar) November 2, 2017

kurt schwitterz, Thursday, 2 November 2017 17:45 (six years ago) link

He's hired Cosby and Ratner's attorneys.

for when you need help appearing even more obviously guilty

Simon H., Thursday, 2 November 2017 17:47 (six years ago) link

(click tweet to see thread with more info)

kurt schwitterz, Thursday, 2 November 2017 17:50 (six years ago) link

some of the details in those stories are sickening

drejelire, Thursday, 2 November 2017 17:52 (six years ago) link

That Spacey story is so foul it makes me want to go home and burn any copies I have of any movie he's in.

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Thursday, 2 November 2017 18:27 (six years ago) link

I have some thoughts on the Spacey story, and the source. Aaaaand they will stay in my head.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 2 November 2017 18:32 (six years ago) link

I really hate the way my brain processes traumatic events because after reading that guy's story, I sat staring at my screen thinking, "Jesus, what a terrible story. I'm glad he seems to have come out the other side okay-" and then all of a sudden every other thought was crowded out by "Keyser Sose touches kids / Doo-dah, doo-dah" to the tune of "Camptown Races".

the Hannah Montana of the Korean War (DJP), Thursday, 2 November 2017 18:34 (six years ago) link

that most recent accuser of spacey's sounds like one incredibly fucked up person. I'm not victim blaming but my god.

akm, Thursday, 2 November 2017 18:35 (six years ago) link

?
i thought he sounded credible

it takes a lot of work to come out of the other side ok
sometimes people who experience these things at a very young age don't ever realize that they were preyed upon, that it wasn't their fault. at least he has. it's a bitter pill to realize you were preyed upon when you thought you were making a decision.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 2 November 2017 18:47 (six years ago) link

seems more like a fucked up period than a fucked up person?

xpost

chinavision!, Thursday, 2 November 2017 18:49 (six years ago) link

"Keyser Sose touches kids / Doo-dah, doo-dah" to the tune of "Camptown Races".


the guiltiest of lols

What's the range of an Iranian frogman dipshit? (bizarro gazzara), Thursday, 2 November 2017 18:55 (six years ago) link

I LOLed too, guilt schmilt.

Terry Micawber (Tom D.), Thursday, 2 November 2017 19:24 (six years ago) link

that most recent accuser of spacey's sounds like one incredibly fucked up person. I'm not victim blaming but my god.

― akm, Thursday, November 2, 2017 2:35 PM (one hour ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

i have no idea what you are talking about. this account? http://www.vulture.com/2017/11/kevin-spacey-alleged-sexual-relationship.html

marcos, Thursday, 2 November 2017 19:46 (six years ago) link

that experience so closely matched my own, it was painful to read

marcos, Thursday, 2 November 2017 19:47 (six years ago) link

i was stunned by how articulately he was able to speak about it, how conflicted he felt at a later age even when he became certain of how fucked up it was

marcos, Thursday, 2 November 2017 19:48 (six years ago) link

i mean this is ... ugh i don't even know. intense

What he left me with, more than what he took from me, was a sense that I deserved this. And that’s the knot I’m still untangling. Every time I’ve ever told the story, I am compelled to tell people how seductive I was towards these men. I’m compelled to tell people how much I wanted these things because some very deep part of me feels like it’s lying if I don’t say that. If I don’t describe how consensual it was. Some part of me takes a lot of work to understand that I can have been the victim of someone and not be a victim. So that’s all fucked up in my head.

marcos, Thursday, 2 November 2017 19:48 (six years ago) link

and this. i remember doing the same thing when i started to process what had happened to me.

When did your thinking around what had happened start to change?
When do I start to think of him as a sexual predator?

Yeah. I assume you would call him that now.
I would call him that to his face. I would call him a pedophile and a sexual predator. When I turned 25, I looked at every 14-year-old boy I could see, to try to understand what those men had seen, because I still on some level thought I had been a tiny adult. That whole year I was 25, I tried to just see the ones who were like six-foot-two, and 200 pounds — they all looked like children. They all looked like somebody who was 10 years old four years ago. Nobody looks fuckable. Nobody … I couldn’t conjure it up. I couldn’t conjure up the desire. It was nauseating to think of having sex with them, and that was, I think, certainly when I understood, on a very deep level, these men were fucked up. Up until then, I just thought about him as somebody who had really done me wrong and tried to rape me, but not as somebody who had functioned as a predator. And then, if you’re interested in sexual predation, you start to read about it, and you realize all these patterns and techniques, and it all kind of falls within a set of practices.

marcos, Thursday, 2 November 2017 19:51 (six years ago) link

yeah - i don't quite see what the criticism of his story is? what do you see that maligns the accuser? if anything, he's terribly honest about his own motivations as a teenager

Nhex, Thursday, 2 November 2017 19:57 (six years ago) link

i felt the same way
teenagers think they have it all figured out and really they don't
it can take many years to come to terms with being victimized/preyed upon

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 2 November 2017 19:58 (six years ago) link

that most recent accuser of spacey's sounds like one incredibly fucked up person. I'm not victim blaming but my god.

― akm, Thursday, November 2, 2017 2:35 PM (one hour ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

hmm interesting wonder what could have possible made him "fucked up"

brimstead, Thursday, 2 November 2017 19:59 (six years ago) link

I have some thoughts on the Spacey story, and the source. Aaaaand they will stay in my head.

― ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, November 2, 2017 2:32 PM (one hour ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

I really hate the way my brain processes traumatic events because after reading that guy's story, I sat staring at my screen thinking, "Jesus, what a terrible story. I'm glad he seems to have come out the other side okay-" and then all of a sudden every other thought was crowded out by "Keyser Sose touches kids / Doo-dah, doo-dah" to the tune of "Camptown Races".

― the Hannah Montana of the Korean War (DJP), Thursday, November 2, 2017 2:34 PM (one hour ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

that most recent accuser of spacey's sounds like one incredibly fucked up person. I'm not victim blaming but my god.

<3 you DJP but really you should've done what morbz did here

marcos, Thursday, 2 November 2017 20:17 (six years ago) link

woops meant to leave out akms post in there but whatever

marcos, Thursday, 2 November 2017 20:18 (six years ago) link

god theres some dumb shit itt today smh

kurt schwitterz, Thursday, 2 November 2017 20:40 (six years ago) link

http://www.dailywire.com/news/22912/former-grad-student-accuses-neil-de-grasse-tyson-emily-zanotti

― j., Wednesday, November 1, 2017 8:13 PM (yesterday) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

yep.

𝔠𝔞𝔢𝔨 (caek), Thursday, 2 November 2017 21:01 (six years ago) link

is that a "yep" like a John Gruber "yep"

.oO (silby), Thursday, 2 November 2017 21:01 (six years ago) link

that anonymous spacey account tore my heart to shreds

harbinger of failure (Jon not Jon), Thursday, 2 November 2017 21:19 (six years ago) link

agree

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 2 November 2017 21:49 (six years ago) link

yeah I wasn't trying to tarnish him, just that those situations with the cousin and the parents fucked him up.

akm, Thursday, 2 November 2017 22:05 (six years ago) link

well duh

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 2 November 2017 22:07 (six years ago) link

I think it's safe to assume Spacey's career is over now.

akm, Thursday, 2 November 2017 22:09 (six years ago) link

Hell of a strong read

https://www.theroot.com/kevin-spacey-and-the-damage-done-1820052424

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 2 November 2017 22:15 (six years ago) link

like it's completely not cool to casually say "hey wow that trauma really fucked you up!"
i feel like this needs to be said (i didn't before someone said it but...)

it's bad enough that it has to happen and ruins a young person's relationship to their body; to be seen as a "fucked up person" is the fear of everyone who has lived with the reverberations of sexual assault

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 2 November 2017 22:28 (six years ago) link

this too

https://www.thewrap.com/corey-feldman-names-one-abusers-dr-oz-show/

StanM, Thursday, 2 November 2017 22:51 (six years ago) link

Fuck Dr Oz though.

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Thursday, 2 November 2017 23:01 (six years ago) link

A new name

https://www.politico.com/story/2017/11/02/david-corn-mother-jones-workplace-behavior-probe-244482🕸


he was in that nyc burn book list

flappy bird, Thursday, 2 November 2017 23:12 (six years ago) link

spacey being accused by people who work for house of cards now.

akm, Thursday, 2 November 2017 23:14 (six years ago) link

'I am an exuberant person and'

j., Thursday, 2 November 2017 23:38 (six years ago) link

speaking of guilty Spacey lols

House of Cards S06E01 (2018) pic.twitter.com/4Zrhamtuim

— Xmas Early Adopter (@k_morrissey) October 31, 2017

Simon H., Thursday, 2 November 2017 23:39 (six years ago) link

lol

j., Thursday, 2 November 2017 23:40 (six years ago) link

Between Spacey and Masterson, this isn't a good time to be Netflix...

to fly across the city and find Aerosmith's car (C. Grisso/McCain), Thursday, 2 November 2017 23:44 (six years ago) link

they have a multi billion dollar production budget, they'll live.

Simon H., Thursday, 2 November 2017 23:46 (six years ago) link

that most recent accuser of spacey's sounds like one incredibly fucked up person. I'm not victim blaming but my god.

― akm, Thursday, November 2, 2017 6:35 PM (five hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Man, this comment is fucked up. "Not victim blaming BUT..."

Yeah ok fucked up internet person, "Fucked up person" (...) backstories don't make their stories about abuse less believable, nor less true. You are victim blaming 1.01. Don't say you aren't. You should apologize for this shit imho.

Le Bateau Ivre, Thursday, 2 November 2017 23:46 (six years ago) link

Os tand by it, so we can ban you. Seriously.

Le Bateau Ivre, Thursday, 2 November 2017 23:47 (six years ago) link

*Or stand

Le Bateau Ivre, Thursday, 2 November 2017 23:48 (six years ago) link

feel super-vindicated at basically hating Kevin Spacey for a good 20 years now and never watching more than 10 mins of his bad-accent guignol version of the untouchable house of cards

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Friday, 3 November 2017 00:16 (six years ago) link

Glengary Glen Ross was p good :/

Le Bateau Ivre, Friday, 3 November 2017 00:17 (six years ago) link

yeah okay it worked there maybe *grits teeth*

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Friday, 3 November 2017 00:18 (six years ago) link

I have some thoughts on the Spacey story, and the source. Aaaaand they will stay in my head.

― ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, November 2, 2017 2:32 PM (five hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

what's their proximity to the thoughts you expressed after the milo pedophilia news cycle

qualx, Friday, 3 November 2017 00:46 (six years ago) link

i wasn't reading the anonymous spacey accuser as "fucked up" in any way, he seemed clear-headed and eloquent. i was reading that thinking 'i'd read this guy's memoirs' and not because of the connection with spacey

qualx, Friday, 3 November 2017 00:48 (six years ago) link

I felt that way too qualx

marcos, Friday, 3 November 2017 01:31 (six years ago) link

his parents behaviour or lack vis a vis the pedophile cousin is definitely o_O-ville

but re Spacey:
the accuser’s story raises interesting questions about sexual agency- he sees his own desires through a very different lens as an adult now vs how he saw it then as a teen. a teen “in their right mind” initiating sex or agreeing to it doesn’t necessarily mean it’s a healthy undertaking for either party.
it can be, of course, and sometimes is.
but there’s a lot of murk!! young teen boys + much older men is a reality of sexual awakening for a lot of ppl but that whole area can be such choppy waters for everyone involved.

but ultimately so brave of him to share such a deeply personal, challenging, and heartwrenching story.

also: knowing that there’s a lot more stories about Spacey yet to see the light of day, it definitely shades his pathology. i mean, he admits he noticed the kid at 12 ffs.

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 3 November 2017 02:07 (six years ago) link

https://www.artforum.com/news/id=71957

We, the undersigned contributing editors of Artforum, stand with the magazine’s current and former staff in condemning the publishers’ handling of the allegation of Knight Landesman’s sexual misconduct—as reflected in their original statement, from October 24, denigrating the actions of the woman who first brought this situation to light, as “an attempt to exploit a relationship that she herself worked hard to create and maintain.” Both the alleged behavior and the response to it are deplorable. We are united in our belief that everyone should be able to live and work free from all forms of unwanted contact, intimidation, or coercion for any reason, whether rooted in gender, sex, race, ethnicity, nationality, age, weight, ability, or class. Indeed, our engagement with the magazine has been predicated on a shared investment in this fundamental principle, as emblematized by Michelle Kuo’s recent principled resignation as editor. We express our deep respect for her decision as well as our full support for David Velasco, who is taking her place in this contentious and uncertain time. In the weeks and months to come, we expect the magazine’s publishers both to assume responsibility and to take all action necessary, in coordination with the staff, to ensure a transparent, equitable professional environment free of harassment and discrimination. Given the magazine’s history and longstanding commitments, Artforum’s communities of writers and readers deserve no less.

j., Friday, 3 November 2017 02:17 (six years ago) link

“young teen boys + much older men is a reality of sexual awakening for a lot of ppl”

I know there’s a different cultural framing but how is this actually different from a 30 year old man and a 13 year old girl

mh, Friday, 3 November 2017 02:53 (six years ago) link

no difference at all, for some reason it's acceptable for certain older gay men to peddle the narrative that fucking teenagers is good for them and if they happen to end up traumatized years later it's on them, or something

most recently peddled by the guy slate won't stop publishing in his already-aged-super-well "How Calling Kevin Spacey a Pedophile Hurts the Gay Community", where he once again uses a mixture of NAMBLA rhetoric and the same arguments you see 4channers using when they defend their love of kiddie hentai ('the age of consent is different in different countries so statutory rape doesn't exist!' 'but there's definitely a hard distinction between pedophilia and ephebehebephila, a word used by literally no one except us')

qualx, Friday, 3 November 2017 03:07 (six years ago) link

Not that I'm trying to justify those kind of arguments or anything, but ephebophilia is a real thing, and presumably way more common than "proper" pedophilia... Hence all those "barely legal" porn flicks etc.

Tuomas, Friday, 3 November 2017 09:54 (six years ago) link

VegGrrl otm

I know you're among the squad that hate me, qualx, but there's no need to go that low

a word used by literally no one except us

but then again, you're the proudly ignorant type

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 3 November 2017 12:11 (six years ago) link

I'm glad you've coined a term for yr love of the Three Stooges tho

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 3 November 2017 12:12 (six years ago) link

qualx otm

marcos, Friday, 3 November 2017 13:24 (six years ago) link

just because some teens might "turn out okay" after sexual relationships with adults doesn't mean that it's permissible in any way for adults to fuck teenagers

marcos, Friday, 3 November 2017 13:25 (six years ago) link

The Artforum allegations are very present on my Facebook timeline. It was an uncomfortable reminder that this problem is everywhere and not some Hollywood (or some other community where I’m not a member) issue. I was encouraged by a few updates from women in my professional community (academic science) that we made progress on these issues in the past decade or two after confronting similar problems, but I feel like that’s probably bullshit and a shoe will inevitably drop.

Allen (etaeoe), Friday, 3 November 2017 13:45 (six years ago) link

I was encouraged by a few updates from women in my professional community (academic science) that we made progress on these issues in the past decade or two after confronting similar problems, but I feel like that’s probably bullshit and a shoe will inevitably drop

http://beta.latimes.com/local/lanow/la-me-ln-uc-berkeley-astronomer-sexual-harassment-20151013-story.html
https://cen.acs.org/articles/95/i37/Confronting-sexual-harassment-chemistry.html
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/worldviews/wp/2017/10/31/after-metoo-a-facebook-list-names-south-asian-academics-some-say-its-a-step-too-far/

Elvis Telecom, Friday, 3 November 2017 14:30 (six years ago) link

uncomfortable reminder that this problem is everywhere and not some Hollywood issue

yep yep yep

Chuck_Tatum, Friday, 3 November 2017 15:12 (six years ago) link

anywhere there's a considerable power differential really

Simon H., Friday, 3 November 2017 15:16 (six years ago) link

aka everywhere

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Friday, 3 November 2017 15:19 (six years ago) link

so is the imminent awards-friendly film Call Me by Your Name, about a romance/affair between two males aged 24 and 17, going to be shouted down as a rape movie?

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 3 November 2017 15:41 (six years ago) link

no

What's the range of an Iranian frogman dipshit? (bizarro gazzara), Friday, 3 November 2017 15:42 (six years ago) link

but adult:teenager

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 3 November 2017 15:42 (six years ago) link

17 is not 14

What's the range of an Iranian frogman dipshit? (bizarro gazzara), Friday, 3 November 2017 15:45 (six years ago) link

I agree

ok bye guys

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 3 November 2017 15:46 (six years ago) link

lol

(having never heard of the film) it is possible to both

1) think that adults shouldn't try to fuck teenagers
2) appreciate a piece of art that addresses complexities of adult-teenager sexual relationships

marcos, Friday, 3 November 2017 15:47 (six years ago) link

and honestly my advice to a 24 year old interested in a 17 year old, no matter how sophisticated or mature that 17 year old seems to be - wait a fuckin year or two!!! it's not that hard

marcos, Friday, 3 November 2017 15:48 (six years ago) link

*beat*

Gary Synaesthesia (darraghmac), Friday, 3 November 2017 15:48 (six years ago) link

Not that I'm trying to justify those kind of arguments or anything, but ephebophilia is a real thing, and presumably way more common than "proper" pedophilia... Hence all those "barely legal" porn flicks etc.

― Tuomas, Friday, November 3, 2017 5:54 AM (five hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

you can make words for anything, who cares? the only people who actually use the word are the people who frequently find themselves defending predatorial behavior

qualx, Friday, 3 November 2017 15:51 (six years ago) link

I'm still frustrated and angry about a couple men my sister was involved with when she was 19 and they were around 30. There are exceptions to the rule, but generally something is highly suspect in that dynamic and having that suspicion realized is painful

I still am o_O every time I think of my friend's sister, who lives in a small town and started dating a dude who was probably 30 when she was 15 (!) and is now married to him.

mh, Friday, 3 November 2017 15:55 (six years ago) link

xp ok, the only people who care to hammer the distinction in real life and not just in academic papers about the catholic church

qualx, Friday, 3 November 2017 15:58 (six years ago) link

It's not absurd to say that finding post-pubertal humans attractive is a different thing to wanting to fuck young children. Calling the former by the name of the latter is unhelpful precisely because it makes it harder to discuss what wrong can be done by a 26-year-old having sex with a consenting 14-year-old.

shackling the masses with plastic-wrapped snack picks (sic), Friday, 3 November 2017 16:05 (six years ago) link

yeah I don't follow how calling a adult who rapes a 14 year old a pedophile makes anything additionally difficult for anyone but ok

qualx, Friday, 3 November 2017 16:10 (six years ago) link

"consenting 14 year old"

qualx, Friday, 3 November 2017 16:11 (six years ago) link

hooooo boy there must be some libertarians in the house

Simon H., Friday, 3 November 2017 16:12 (six years ago) link

The long account by the second teen Spacey accuser makes it clear he thought he was consenting at the time. It also elucidates how his supposed consent did not actually mean he was mature enough to be having sex, and that Spacey (& al) damaged him by that relationship.

shackling the masses with plastic-wrapped snack picks (sic), Friday, 3 November 2017 17:16 (six years ago) link

That dude was 24?!

The Suite Life of Jack and Wendy (wins), Friday, 3 November 2017 17:40 (six years ago) link

I meant the dude from call me by your name. He looks a lot older (and the kid younger than 17) to me

The Suite Life of Jack and Wendy (wins), Friday, 3 November 2017 18:03 (six years ago) link

Armie Hammer is 30, Chalamet 21.

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 3 November 2017 18:05 (six years ago) link

the characters are 24 and 17

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 3 November 2017 18:07 (six years ago) link

Wow (at the latter, not surprised at all by the former) xp

The Suite Life of Jack and Wendy (wins), Friday, 3 November 2017 18:08 (six years ago) link

Chalamet plays a teen again in the new Gerwig film.

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 3 November 2017 18:12 (six years ago) link

Benny Hill was one of the least surprising but I don't know what happened.

Robert Adam Gilmour, Friday, 3 November 2017 18:15 (six years ago) link

Alec Baldwin: 'I've bullied women.'

flappy bird, Friday, 3 November 2017 18:24 (six years ago) link

many xposts but sic otm

shit is getting heated itt and i get it, age gap wrt sex is a hugely contentious & subjective issue.

i really do think it’s a valid topic for conversation and I want it to be talked about but only IF we listen to each other & appreciate that not everyone a) shares your view or b) shares the unique experiences that inform yr opinion

but i also get that it’s also v painful & personal and very black & white for some ppl and maybe an open discussion itt specifically isn’t the right space for this kind of conversation

& we maybe move on?

idk

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 3 November 2017 18:28 (six years ago) link

I just need to get the fuck out of ilx for good

qualx, Friday, 3 November 2017 18:40 (six years ago) link

Hey qualx, I'm with you on this. It is a narcissism of small differences thing.

how's life, Friday, 3 November 2017 18:49 (six years ago) link

debates over the age at which it's morally ok to fuck adolescents isn't a small difference situation imo

at times I'm reminded that this place isn't for me, I've spent the better part of the day with my skin crawling, I'm done

qualx, Friday, 3 November 2017 18:58 (six years ago) link

i think u misunderstood me. i meant from the perspective of those defending the distiction.

how's life, Friday, 3 November 2017 19:03 (six years ago) link

17 isn't adolescent though. Still, in all probability, problematic for anyone much over 21. Anyway, this isn't about age, it's about power and control, although obviously people in their 20s dating anyone under 17 is creepy at best

imago, Friday, 3 November 2017 19:08 (six years ago) link

"17 isn't adolescent though" isn't it? I think everything through 19 is 'adolescent'.

to clarify my statement above that caused some dust up: my take on that was that the man was clearly a damaged kid at 14 who certainly perceived himself to be consenting at that age, and then in retrospect realized that consent at that age is rather dicey. I didn't mean to disparage him which is why I said "i'm not victim blaming". the 'but' was probably the wrong word to use. in my defense I'd just woken up, it was like 5:30 am and I hadn't had any coffee and wasn't really phrasing things in a very artful manner. My thoughts on it are better conveyed by VegemiteWoman

akm, Friday, 3 November 2017 19:24 (six years ago) link

i guess in trying not to negate the Spacey accuser’s experience i’ve opened up a can of worms that i’m not able or informed enough to moderate or even navigate

i’m not coming down on either side of this issue because of personal reasons that i’m not willing to share

i naively thought that entertaining the ~idea~ could be done at a distance idk academically i guess but i really did not think through where this thought exercise would go & i am sorry for that

i am not sorry for wanting to talk about it though

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 3 November 2017 19:36 (six years ago) link

idk if i can deal with this convo anymore either tbh
came back to say that maybe instead of "fucked up" we can say "vulnerable" with an optional "to predators"?

i appreciate the thoughtful discussion, am glad VG is here asking tough questions
17 is adolescent, don't kid yourself

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Friday, 3 November 2017 20:21 (six years ago) link

MORE: NYPD says it is building a rape case against Harvey Weinstein, gathering evidence to seek an arrest warrant. https://t.co/h2Bvw0R0wE

— AP Eastern U.S. (@APEastRegion) November 3, 2017

Ned Raggett, Friday, 3 November 2017 20:24 (six years ago) link

TNR publisher Hamilton Fish resigns amid harassment allegations https://t.co/GKeLuOl1Fp

— Jessica Schulberg (@jessicaschulb) November 3, 2017

Ned Raggett, Friday, 3 November 2017 21:09 (six years ago) link

WME's Adam Venit on leave amid sexual harassment allegations involving actor Terry Crews (EXCLUSIVE) https://t.co/IMKtI3ZECC pic.twitter.com/w4xhUYy7Cr

— Variety (@Variety) November 3, 2017

mookieproof, Friday, 3 November 2017 21:19 (six years ago) link

whoa

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 3 November 2017 22:40 (six years ago) link

17 is adolescent, don't kid yourself

otm, although we should probably allow better discretion in cases of relationships where one is 17 and the other is, say, 19, because statutory rape in most jurisdictions carries implications that could be considered a little harsh for somebody who has just become an adult, and where neither party has much influence on the outcome, certainly not compared to the "real" adults who are likely to engage with the case i.e. parents

El Tomboto, Friday, 3 November 2017 23:03 (six years ago) link

all that of nuance is of course rather jejune on a thread about fucked up shit where the abusers have held order of magnitude more power and influence than the victims, even fucking Toback

El Tomboto, Friday, 3 November 2017 23:05 (six years ago) link

the impossibility of discussing this properly is depressing

ogmor, Saturday, 4 November 2017 00:33 (six years ago) link

so sorry you can't have a reasoned debate over the ethics of pederasty because it triggers an emotional response in people who don't appreciate being told that statutory rape is supposed to be good for them! so so so sorry

here's black and white: if you're in your 20s+ and you have have sex with a 14 year old on the off chance that it won't impart to them a lifetime of psychological trauma, you're a pedophile and a rapist.

on the off chance that that child grew up and had nothing but positive memories of the experience, you're still a pedophile and a rapist

until you can invent a time machine that'll send you 50 years in the future so you can have an adult conversation with the child you had sex with and they tell you "i'm glad it happened and do not consider myself taken advantage of or raped", you're a pedophile and a rapist

just like how in the off chance that you violently rape an adult who happens to have a violent rape fetish you knew nothing about, and they couldn't be happier about it, you're still a rapist

full stop

that's it

don't give a shit about your shades of grey, don't know why this is difficult, fuck off

qualx, Saturday, 4 November 2017 02:26 (six years ago) link

but congrats to morbs for popping in to reference a movie no one was talking about so the conversation deflects to debating a much smaller age gap, gj

qualx, Saturday, 4 November 2017 02:28 (six years ago) link

You are having an argument with literally no-one - maybe get some sleep, man.

Andrew Farrell, Saturday, 4 November 2017 03:03 (six years ago) link

having an argument on a topic i didn't bring up, that has come up here before specifically by posters who have contributed to this exact conversation, that has been written on and defended in popular publications, and i'm sick of shutting up over it, and i'm definitely sick of hearing that emotional responses to rape are stifling some great debate club antics that are supposed to be happening

qualx, Saturday, 4 November 2017 03:14 (six years ago) link

TNR publisher Hamilton Fish resigns amid harassment allegations https://t.co/GKeLuOl1Fp

— Jessica Schulberg (@jessicaschulb) November 3, 2017

no! he was the pillar of the grant administration!

bob lefse (rushomancy), Saturday, 4 November 2017 03:20 (six years ago) link

if you were a gay kid who had a positive sexual experience w/ an older man and you consider it a good thing that happened, i'm genuinely not trying to take that away from you

but it doesn't negate anything i put in that post

qualx, Saturday, 4 November 2017 03:22 (six years ago) link

anyway i'm done, i'm out, that's all

qualx, Saturday, 4 November 2017 03:22 (six years ago) link

Otm.

Mark G, Saturday, 4 November 2017 10:55 (six years ago) link

Forty seconds of hell not-quite-unleashed.

Uma Thurman's response when asked about the flood of sexual misconduct allegations....wow. pic.twitter.com/Sw5Br1GwFg

— Yashar Ali 🐘 (@yashar) November 4, 2017

Ned Raggett, Saturday, 4 November 2017 16:55 (six years ago) link

whoa.

maura, Saturday, 4 November 2017 17:11 (six years ago) link

<3

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 4 November 2017 17:13 (six years ago) link

^^^

harbinger of failure (Jon not Jon), Saturday, 4 November 2017 17:26 (six years ago) link

she hasn't been in a movie since Burnt (2015) - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Uma_Thurman#Filmography , which was released by...

StanM, Saturday, 4 November 2017 19:07 (six years ago) link

and next year she's doing another Von Trier movie?

StanM, Saturday, 4 November 2017 19:11 (six years ago) link

I suspect (but can't prove) von Trier has been better behaved since he sobered up

Simon H., Saturday, 4 November 2017 21:04 (six years ago) link

Asia Argento flees Italy after public condemns her for speaking out about Harvey Weinstein

― Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Friday, 20 October 2017 18:02 (two weeks ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

ugh wtf Italy

― change display name (Jordan), Friday, 20 October 2017 18:03 (two weeks ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

jesus

― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 20 October 2017 18:09 (two weeks ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

This seems to be an Italian thing. Was having a conversation about Weinstein with an Italian (female) colleague of mine and she wasn't exactly sympathetic towards his accusers.

Terry Micawber (Tom D.), Saturday, 4 November 2017 21:32 (six years ago) link

I suspect (but can't prove) von Trier has been better behaved since he sobered up

― Simon H., 4. november 2017 22:04 (thirty-nine minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

I suspect it happened before this. Charlotte Gainsbourg came to his defense, and she's been working with him since 2009. And I don't think you could do Antichrist and have the leading actress interested in working with you again unless you were quite professional.

On the other hand, his marriage recently fell apart because he got caught having an affair with a writer who then wrote about it. And his longterm producer/business partner Peter Aalbæk Nielsen is being forced off the credits of his new film because his answer to allegations of sexual harassment was 'yeah, I probably did that, but I've forgot about it, so it's her problem'.

When the Zentropa story is retold in a couple of years the story is going to be MUCH different than it has been.

Frederik B, Saturday, 4 November 2017 21:49 (six years ago) link

that Uma Thurman video 0_0 wow

Nhex, Sunday, 5 November 2017 17:43 (six years ago) link

saying so little, yet saying so, so much

never have i been a blue calm sea (collardio gelatinous), Sunday, 5 November 2017 17:56 (six years ago) link

Harry Dreyfuss story is chilling. The blatantcy, smug confidence, all of it.

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Sunday, 5 November 2017 20:39 (six years ago) link

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/DN1a9QKWsAAd74f.jpg

drejelire, Sunday, 5 November 2017 21:07 (six years ago) link

on the heels of blaming Rose McGowan for not coming forward sooner

drejelire, Sunday, 5 November 2017 21:07 (six years ago) link

ooof

The Harsh Tutelage of Michael McDonald (Raymond Cummings), Sunday, 5 November 2017 21:50 (six years ago) link

Have any of these guys ever heard of the phrase "No comment"?????????

flappy bird, Monday, 6 November 2017 01:49 (six years ago) link

Is this your first encounter with Alec Baldwin? This is not even the first time this year that he's closed his personal twitter and immediately used his charity's account to attack someone for social justice politics and their career choices

shackling the masses with plastic-wrapped snack picks (sic), Monday, 6 November 2017 07:55 (six years ago) link

But that looks like a new low.

Robert Adam Gilmour, Monday, 6 November 2017 12:49 (six years ago) link

Baldwin's "I've bullied women" comment makes me think he's done far worse and is trying to control the narrative before it comes out.

Daniel_Rf, Monday, 6 November 2017 13:33 (six years ago) link

he's an incredible jerk, but that kinda speculation is the kinda pitchfork-and-torches stuff i find disquieting

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Monday, 6 November 2017 13:37 (six years ago) link

I mean, Bourdain does eat worms on his show...

Eazy, Monday, 6 November 2017 14:31 (six years ago) link

I mean, this is "screaming at his daughter over the phone" Alec Baldwin

mh, Monday, 6 November 2017 15:04 (six years ago) link

alec "screaming at his daughter over the phone" baldwin

j., Monday, 6 November 2017 15:18 (six years ago) link

was that in response to something they said to him?

akm, Monday, 6 November 2017 21:09 (six years ago) link

it was a custody thing: Baldwin took out his anger at the mother on the daughter, when the mother had the daughter call Baldwin to say that she wasn't going to make a handover

shackling the masses with plastic-wrapped snack picks (sic), Monday, 6 November 2017 23:29 (six years ago) link

I know about the yelling at the daughter thing; I meant was the bourdain/argento post in response to something direct that they said?

I fucking hate twitter

akm, Monday, 6 November 2017 23:51 (six years ago) link

wow @ that New Yorker article

StanM, Tuesday, 7 November 2017 00:25 (six years ago) link

Criminal prosecutions aside, surely to god there's an avalanche of lawsuits coming that will leave Weinstein bankrupt for life.

re: the new yorker article, god knows what other shit he pulled that we don't know about, if this came out...

Nhex, Tuesday, 7 November 2017 02:03 (six years ago) link

Ronan Farrow deserves a vaca right about now.

I'm always amazed at how much work must go into those New Yorker articles. Makes me feel like an invertebrate.

never have i been a blue calm sea (collardio gelatinous), Tuesday, 7 November 2017 05:06 (six years ago) link

an avalanche of lawsuits coming that will leave Weinstein bankrupt for life.

It's a nice thought, but I'll believe that when I see it. The accusations can all be true and yet have insufficient evidence to succeed in extracting damages in court. It's more likely he'll die rich, but largely shunned by everyone he knew in the movie industry.

A is for (Aimless), Tuesday, 7 November 2017 05:16 (six years ago) link

wow this NYT statement to @brianstelter. Goes hard at David Boies for helping suppress Weinstein accusers while also representing the paper pic.twitter.com/2rXqtUTMxm

— Matt Mittenthal (@mattmittenthal) November 7, 2017

Number None, Tuesday, 7 November 2017 17:46 (six years ago) link

Boies is definitely the one taking the hit in that new story. Also just surreal having a spy on the books to talk to everyone to extract information.

Eazy, Tuesday, 7 November 2017 18:01 (six years ago) link

horrifying
esp wrt sexual assault

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Tuesday, 7 November 2017 18:11 (six years ago) link

oh god, I just got a promotional email from the local newspaper

Don't Miss Alec Baldwin Live

sorry, think I will

mh, Tuesday, 7 November 2017 18:17 (six years ago) link

he's gonna be promoting his new book at a local prestige movie theater, sold out a while ago

Nhex, Tuesday, 7 November 2017 21:51 (six years ago) link

feel bad for his co-author, timing sucks

flappy bird, Wednesday, 8 November 2017 00:17 (six years ago) link

if you lie down with dogs, you get up with fleas.

A is for (Aimless), Wednesday, 8 November 2017 01:20 (six years ago) link

A-B-C. A-Avoid, B- Baldwin, C-Co-authoring.

Bernard Crunderdunder (Old Lunch), Wednesday, 8 November 2017 01:51 (six years ago) link

maybe his co-author can come forward and explain how Baldwin never even read the book when he runs for president in 2024

mh, Wednesday, 8 November 2017 14:42 (six years ago) link

Rae Dawn Chong = another woman with a promising acting career & I wondered what happened with that. Now I know. https://t.co/359BXHRVUU pic.twitter.com/zEi8wJTRmn

— Mo Ryan (@moryan) November 8, 2017

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 8 November 2017 17:29 (six years ago) link

I didn't think I could think any less of Seagal.

Robert Adam Gilmour, Wednesday, 8 November 2017 17:48 (six years ago) link

lol Baldwin has always been such a useful idiot

Randall Jarrell (dandydonweiner), Wednesday, 8 November 2017 18:09 (six years ago) link

hooooly shit @ Sheen allegation, didn't see that coming

Οὖτις, Wednesday, 8 November 2017 18:21 (six years ago) link

you didn't see a Charlie Sheen allegation coming

imago, Wednesday, 8 November 2017 18:23 (six years ago) link

Charlie Sheen is a piece of shit but people have always found him charming bc he's so self effacing and lol "winning" and so on. his post-scandal success is a pretty good example of ppl tolerating shitty behavior from shitty men and even celebrating it.

omar little, Wednesday, 8 November 2017 18:25 (six years ago) link

it's not that I ever thought Charlie Sheen is a good person, it's more that I forgot he was even in a movie w Haim and that the two had crossed paths during the time in question

Οὖτις, Wednesday, 8 November 2017 18:27 (six years ago) link

xp I think all that 2011 tiger blood winning shit went away when he came out and said he had HIV in the fall of 2015. Bree Olson went on Howard Stern the same morning as Sheen was interviewed by Matt Later on the Today Show, iirc they were on at the exact same time.

flappy bird, Wednesday, 8 November 2017 18:28 (six years ago) link

Sheen's early 2011 run was definitely a watershed moment / turning point for media & pop culture in the USA... such a strange year

flappy bird, Wednesday, 8 November 2017 18:29 (six years ago) link

I know I've read basically that exact Sheen allegation before somewhere.

Bernard Crunderdunder (Old Lunch), Wednesday, 8 November 2017 18:30 (six years ago) link

the closest thing our culture has ever come to a "run forrest!" moment.

omar little, Wednesday, 8 November 2017 18:31 (six years ago) link

Yeah, ever since Feldman began talking publicly about child molestation in Hollywood, I've heard the Sheen rumors.

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Wednesday, 8 November 2017 18:42 (six years ago) link

Sheen's early 2011 run was definitely a watershed moment / turning point for media & pop culture in the USA... such a strange year

― flappy bird, Wednesday, November 8, 2017 10:29 AM (fourteen minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

i guess???????? i can't for the life of me remember why ppl were paying attention to him

brimstead, Wednesday, 8 November 2017 18:45 (six years ago) link

did he tweet a bunch of stuff

brimstead, Wednesday, 8 November 2017 18:45 (six years ago) link

Yeah, ever since Feldman began talking publicly about child molestation in Hollywood, I've heard the Sheen rumors.

Yep.

Simon H., Wednesday, 8 November 2017 18:46 (six years ago) link

The guy who makes the allegation in the Radar link above though has also been the subject of those rumors as well. Would be nice if Corey F. would just open up about everything.

how's life, Wednesday, 8 November 2017 18:50 (six years ago) link

Sheen's early 2011 run was definitely a watershed moment / turning point for media & pop culture in the USA... such a strange year

― flappy bird, Wednesday, November 8, 2017 10:29 AM (fourteen minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

i guess???????? i can't for the life of me remember why ppl were paying attention to him

― brimstead, Wednesday, November 8, 2017 1:45 PM (two minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

the way the whole Two & a Half Men thing went down, his insane media blitz, the tweeting, getting together with one of the most famous porn stars at the time, that weird tour he did... it was unlike any other celebrity "breakdown" before. was of a piece with the Arab Spring imo, which happened just a month or two earlier, had a lot to do with traditional gatekeepers of information being undermined by social media

flappy bird, Wednesday, 8 November 2017 18:50 (six years ago) link

ah ok i wasn't aware it was a "breakdown", i thought he was just being a "bad boy" or something

brimstead, Wednesday, 8 November 2017 18:59 (six years ago) link

nah he was completely gakked out on coke and steroids and giving all these insane interviews everywhere and posting videos on twitter and shit

flappy bird, Wednesday, 8 November 2017 19:00 (six years ago) link

i sort of get what you mean in the sense that i was like "wait why does everyone care about this, what is going on, did US magazine buy the internet"

brimstead, Wednesday, 8 November 2017 19:01 (six years ago) link

xp

ah ok got it

brimstead, Wednesday, 8 November 2017 19:02 (six years ago) link

Ancient bore Gay Talese tries to interject himself into the discussion, is annoying and stupid https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/morning-mix/wp/2017/11/08/author-gay-talese-feels-sorry-for-kevin-spacey-says-his-accusers-should-suck-it-up/

akm, Wednesday, 8 November 2017 19:06 (six years ago) link

you didn't see a Charlie Sheen allegation coming

― imago, Wednesday, November 8, 2017 12:23 PM (forty-six minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

this was actually a funny post gj

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 8 November 2017 19:13 (six years ago) link

Gay Talese, living by the code of conduct he learned in 1950.

A is for (Aimless), Wednesday, 8 November 2017 19:15 (six years ago) link

I feel like this could go in, um, any which direction. https://t.co/N0l6bpBxxE

— Justin Kirkland (@justinkirkland4) November 8, 2017

Eazy, Wednesday, 8 November 2017 19:53 (six years ago) link

I didn't think I could think any less of Seagal.

Didn't he movie to Russia specifically because he felt (a la Gary Glitter) that the West was too uptight about sexual predators?

Josh in Chicago, Wednesday, 8 November 2017 20:10 (six years ago) link

there is absolutely no way the keith urban thing is a good idea, holy shit

Simon H., Wednesday, 8 November 2017 20:12 (six years ago) link

Will the Keith Urban song be better or worse than the Brad Paisley/LL song?

Has Nicole Kidman said anything about Weinstein yet?

Josh in Chicago, Wednesday, 8 November 2017 20:13 (six years ago) link

_I didn't think I could think any less of Seagal._


Didn't he movie to Russia specifically because he felt (a la Gary Glitter) that the West was too uptight about sexual predators?


wasn’t he in danger of being charged with sex trafficking at some point too?

with your tight body and horrific androgynous monster face (bizarro gazzara), Wednesday, 8 November 2017 20:16 (six years ago) link

I like my country songs like I like my Law and Order episodes: ripped from the headlines

President Keyes, Wednesday, 8 November 2017 20:20 (six years ago) link

"The Angry Urbanian"

Eazy, Wednesday, 8 November 2017 20:24 (six years ago) link

Country music world not known for boldly challenging conservative conventions. Hollywood is more likely to be his main target, not sexual predators.

A is for (Aimless), Wednesday, 8 November 2017 20:24 (six years ago) link

Isn't he married to Nicole Kidman? I guess the best we can hope for is rage.

Simon H., Wednesday, 8 November 2017 20:25 (six years ago) link

Imagine what the reaction would have been a year ago if Rose McGowan had said, "I'm surrounded by secret ex-Mossad agents who are taping our conversations and trying to destroy me" pic.twitter.com/v4KjakNY8a

— Jon Schwarz (@schwarz) November 8, 2017

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 8 November 2017 20:29 (six years ago) link

I've got to say that the warrant for Rose McGowan's appearance for leaving a bag behind that had drugs in it is... extremely suspect

mh, Wednesday, 8 November 2017 20:32 (six years ago) link

uh has this been covered? did not look before the fold but appears to be recent news

https://www.theguardian.com/film/2017/nov/08/ex-israeli-pm-introduced-weinstein-to-agents-who-suppressed-abuse-allegations

sleeve, Thursday, 9 November 2017 01:41 (six years ago) link

I really liked Lindy West's op-ed today: https://nyti.ms/2j8W5nT

never have i been a blue calm sea (collardio gelatinous), Thursday, 9 November 2017 04:56 (six years ago) link

i guess???????? i can't for the life of me remember why ppl were paying attention to him

He was the poor man's Robert Downey Jr. comeback story - seemingly wasted his career on drugs, made a big comeback starring on the most popular TV sitcom of the '00s, then proceeded to meltdown again.

louise ck (milo z), Thursday, 9 November 2017 06:16 (six years ago) link

Also he seemed to be genuinely deranged, so mean lols.

Andrew Farrell, Thursday, 9 November 2017 08:30 (six years ago) link

The lyrics of Keith Urban's new song "Female," which he wrote because of Harvey Weinstein, are really something elsehttps://t.co/7BwItDE5ot pic.twitter.com/nvWQBCjkk2

— Max Tani (@maxwelltani) November 8, 2017

Simon H., Thursday, 9 November 2017 13:58 (six years ago) link

lol!

calzino, Thursday, 9 November 2017 14:01 (six years ago) link

that keith urban songwriting process in full:

https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0332/6549/products/3632-nastywoman.jpg?v=1498150940

drinkmaster sealcup at yr service (bizarro gazzara), Thursday, 9 November 2017 14:03 (six years ago) link

Lyrics perfect for yarling. I don't know if he yarls, but he looks like he does.

Robert Adam Gilmour, Thursday, 9 November 2017 14:11 (six years ago) link

Here’s the outro:

Mhm

Female

Le Bateau Ivre, Thursday, 9 November 2017 14:42 (six years ago) link

Keith Urban demonstrating how the creative process can be aided by fishing discarded notebooks out of junior high trashbins.

Bernard Crunderdunder (Old Lunch), Thursday, 9 November 2017 14:53 (six years ago) link

there seemed to be a brief window after sheen meltdown #2 or 3 where it seemed like he was going to have a 'comeback' and then he admitted to having HIV and I believe perhaphs knowingly sleeping with women and not telling them, and then that was over. I can't really remember the last time he came up though. where is he now?

akm, Thursday, 9 November 2017 15:39 (six years ago) link

Rerererehab

Gary Synaesthesia (darraghmac), Thursday, 9 November 2017 15:51 (six years ago) link

Keith Urban - "Female"

the Hannah Montana of the Korean War (DJP), Thursday, 9 November 2017 15:57 (six years ago) link

"These are all the types of female that exist, and Keith was very thorough."

Chuck_Tatum, Thursday, 9 November 2017 15:59 (six years ago) link

there seemed to be a brief window after sheen meltdown #2 or 3 where it seemed like he was going to have a 'comeback' and then he admitted to having HIV and I believe perhaphs knowingly sleeping with women and not telling them, and then that was over. I can't really remember the last time he came up though. where is he now?

He did 100 episodes of a sitcom that Sam Simon wrote on, and played the president in Machete Kills

shackling the masses with plastic-wrapped snack picks (sic), Thursday, 9 November 2017 17:28 (six years ago) link

O_O

omar little, Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:00 (six years ago) link

“These allegations are completely false and are a desperate political attack by the National Democrat Party and the Washington Post on this campaign,” Moore, now 70, said.

Of course, lol.

Don't know if the Louie one 'deserves' to be on this thread yet, though it's HR's choice to leave allegations against CK completely out of it, even though it's prob the reason?

Le Bateau Ivre, Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:08 (six years ago) link

If the published allegations end up lining up with the rumors it'll definitely be thread-worthy.

Simon H., Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:09 (six years ago) link

Well yeah

Le Bateau Ivre, Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:12 (six years ago) link

I've seen the movie and tbh he was dreaming or simply a moron if he thought he was going to get away with making *that* without his (apparent) skeletons getting dug up

Simon H., Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:14 (six years ago) link

"We’re at the bleeding edge of 'That’s not OK to do now,' but those people are still around," C.K. said about dealing with the controversial topics dealt with in the film. "That’s a very interesting line to be on.”

hmm yes

mookieproof, Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:16 (six years ago) link

ahh the complicated struggles of the modern intellectual artist man trying to come to grips with his own demons, isn't it fascinating, fellow gents?

omar little, Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:16 (six years ago) link

Thread has definitely been keeping a seat warm for LCK iirc

harbinger of failure (Jon not Jon), Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:17 (six years ago) link

*films self in black and white, regards 18(ish?) yr old woman w/desire, struggles w/self furiously*

omar little, Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:17 (six years ago) link

This might not be a fair comment, I've never seen Louie, but I was hanging out with a bunch of dudes once, kinda performatively woke dudes, and we were listening to some Louis CK standup & it was funny but I was like "these rape jokes are kinda off no?" and they reassured me "no it's ok he did an episode about that"

& in my head that's basically what Louie is

The Suite Life of Jack and Wendy (wins), Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:21 (six years ago) link

*struggles w/self furiously* good euphemism

Mordy, Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:21 (six years ago) link

"no it's ok he did an episode about that"

this is killing me

the Hannah Montana of the Korean War (DJP), Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:24 (six years ago) link

he sucks i don't like him

brimstead, Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:24 (six years ago) link

I loved Louie, and I have a lot of affection for a lot of his standup and other work, but a lot of the core of stuff he acts in boils down to: have your onscreen avatar express the wrong position on an issue, get taken to task for it by other (usually female) characters in an amusing way, with CK-as-writer demonstrating enough of a command of each side of the issue that we tend to think of CK *himself* as virtuous by extension, having successfully dumbed himself down/denigrated himself onscreen. I think creating that kind of viewer-text relationship has helped to keep these questions at bay for a long time.

Simon H., Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:26 (six years ago) link

bums me out that vernon chatman is so closely involved with that grotesque project. maybe he's just been an asshole all along? but such an impressive asshole ;_;

imago, Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:28 (six years ago) link

"no it's ok he did an episode about that"

this episode is fucking terrible btw

Οὖτις, Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:29 (six years ago) link

a guy who was heavily involved w/South Park might be an asshole?

omar little, Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:29 (six years ago) link

I've never gotten into his show or stand-up but I will not let this tarnish my memory of Pootie Tang

mh, Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:31 (six years ago) link

His relationship to women has always been the worst part of his work, both in his standup and his show. I think I posted this after seeing him a couple of years ago:

in his stand-up there's a lot of stuff that's really self-loathing with regard to heterosexual relationships and put into general women/men terms, i often find myself thinking "nah i think this is just very specific to your issues, dude."

― festival culture (Jordan), Tuesday, 2 December 2014 21:31 (two years ago) Permalink

and i appreciate comedy and art that's vulnerable and specific, but it's precisely because it comes off as not self-aware that it bothers me.

― festival culture (Jordan), Tuesday, 2 December 2014 21:32 (two years ago) Permalink

xp

change display name (Jordan), Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:31 (six years ago) link

Simon H. otm and that episode indeed sucks.

Le Bateau Ivre, Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:33 (six years ago) link

a guy who was heavily involved w/South Park might be an asshole?

― omar little, Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:29 (three minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

south park + wonder showzen + xra = obv an asshole but also some sort of comedy wizard. this is a different and lower kind of assholism

imago, Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:34 (six years ago) link

I disagree that his work isn't self-aware - if anything it's *so* self-aware that it acted as a kind of shield from this sort of criticism. Again this is all over the new film.

Simon H., Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:35 (six years ago) link

in his stand-up there's a lot of stuff that's really self-loathing with regard to heterosexual relationships and put into general women/men terms, i often find myself thinking "nah i think this is just very specific to your issues, dude."

I have had this exact same reaction

Οὖτις, Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:37 (six years ago) link

we'll see what happens w/ this MoMA showing

https://www.moma.org/calendar/events/3692?locale=en

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:37 (six years ago) link

Haven't seen the film of course but I think it's been a blind spot in the past (which sticks out because he's so self-aware when he talks about anything else).

xp

change display name (Jordan), Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:38 (six years ago) link

not talking about assault, but if you're going to kick every asshole out of showbiz... especially COMEDIANS...

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:38 (six years ago) link

I've never seen "Louie" either, but that "Everything's amazing" bit he did was dreadful.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:39 (six years ago) link

I mean, I couldn't make it as a standup, which indicates how high the assholism bar is.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:40 (six years ago) link

the stuff about his kids is some of the best comedy I've ever heard, and the stuff about women just as depressingly stupid as pretty much every other A-list male comic

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:42 (six years ago) link

I pretty much lost any desire to listen to Louis CK once the rumors came out, just like Cosby

crüt, Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:46 (six years ago) link

proposed policy: ban "adult" cartoons

Universal LULU Nation (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:49 (six years ago) link

Yeah I doubt I'll ever get round to the show now - what might have seemed "brave", a guy putting his worst self on display, will now just play as him locking the door & getting his junk out

xp

The Suite Life of Jack and Wendy (wins), Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:50 (six years ago) link

eh I never though he was "brave", really

there is some good stuff in the show (the Lynch-Marshall arc/episodes are awesome, as are the ones w Parker Posey and Chloe Sevigny) but it is v hit and miss, and sort of smugly self-satisfied.

Οὖτις, Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:51 (six years ago) link

proposed policy: ban "adult" cartoons

RIP King of the Hill ;_;

the Hannah Montana of the Korean War (DJP), Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:52 (six years ago) link

Need my comedians to actually self-loathe, not as part of their loveable schtick tbh

Gary Synaesthesia (darraghmac), Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:53 (six years ago) link

I did want to check out the eps with David Lynch in. Sadly I'm weighing up the odds of having two big reasons not to in future

The Suite Life of Jack and Wendy (wins), Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:53 (six years ago) link

Also he performed swearing, he was no good at swearing naturally. Cardinal.

Gary Synaesthesia (darraghmac), Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:54 (six years ago) link

two reasons?

change display name (Jordan), Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:55 (six years ago) link

Need my comedians to actually self-loathe, not as part of their loveable schtick tbh

Oh, the self-loathing is definitely real.

Simon H., Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:55 (six years ago) link

anyway this has probably been enough analysis of CK's project for the sexual harassment thread

Simon H., Thursday, 9 November 2017 18:59 (six years ago) link

Would compare CK to Philip Roth: master of craft, restless artist, willing to focus on his weaknesses and worst aspects, kinda fucked up and self-aware of fucking up, and best rest with no knowledge of the author's own behavior.

Mhm Female (Eazy), Thursday, 9 November 2017 19:01 (six years ago) link

I was talking with a friend of mine about 3 weeks ago about when Louis C.K. would get dragged & how truly bizarre his new movie looked. I think I said this upthread, but him making a movie like that is totally of a piece with Woody Allen commenting "I just hope it doesn't become a witch hunt," Kevin Spacey "I choose to live now as a gay man," Jerry Sandusky's insane phone interview with Bob Costas, Bill Cosby doing Fat Albert heyyy heyyy heyyy! walking out of the courtroom... it's like they get off on testing the limits, pushing the boundaries to their breaking point to see how far they can get away with just blatantly stating what they do w/o consequences. I'm amazed it took this long for a Louis takedown to happen- that Gawker story a few years ago was pretty damning. I told my friend as much, and he said Louis wouldn't get taken down because "too many people like him" - which I thought was ridiculous, frankly I'm surprised by the fandom itt. I saw him on NYE '12-'13 and it was boring. Never watched the show. SNL '15 monologue was stupid. I imagine the "damaging NYT piece" will have a lot more stuff than jerking off in front of women against their will.

flappy bird, Thursday, 9 November 2017 19:02 (six years ago) link

xp to Jordan I'm talking about the little voice that wonders about lynch, or any male artist you're attached to, but particularly in this case one whom you (I) constantly have to defend from charges of misogyny as it is

It's both insane how rife this is and depressingly unsurprising

The Suite Life of Jack and Wendy (wins), Thursday, 9 November 2017 19:03 (six years ago) link

is Cosby's trial still going on I don't remember

Οὖτις, Thursday, 9 November 2017 19:04 (six years ago) link

David Lynch would not surprise me sadly

xp he did the Fat Albert thing when he got off iirc

flappy bird, Thursday, 9 November 2017 19:05 (six years ago) link

phrasing

while my dirk gently weeps (symsymsym), Thursday, 9 November 2017 19:09 (six years ago) link

😳

flappy bird, Thursday, 9 November 2017 19:11 (six years ago) link

...he did the Fat Albert thing when he got off...

Posts taken out of context...

nickn, Thursday, 9 November 2017 19:12 (six years ago) link

lads

imago, Thursday, 9 November 2017 19:13 (six years ago) link

Louis CK has done lots of stuff that I've found very funny and entertaining, but none of it would cause me to doubt the possibility that he may be a colossal asshole.

Moodles, Thursday, 9 November 2017 19:24 (six years ago) link

I'm not comfortable with the elision of "sexual abuser" in favor of "asshole"

crüt, Thursday, 9 November 2017 19:29 (six years ago) link

fair enough

Moodles, Thursday, 9 November 2017 19:38 (six years ago) link

Every sexual abuser is an asshole, not every asshole is a sexual abuser.

Josh in Chicago, Thursday, 9 November 2017 19:39 (six years ago) link

Agree

The Suite Life of Jack and Wendy (wins), Thursday, 9 November 2017 19:39 (six years ago) link

Crut otm

harbinger of failure (Jon not Jon), Thursday, 9 November 2017 19:40 (six years ago) link

Exclusive: 5 women tell NYT that Louis C.K. crossed a line into sexual misconduct https://t.co/GYl09W0uW2

— The New York Times (@nytimes) November 9, 2017

mookieproof, Thursday, 9 November 2017 19:48 (six years ago) link

welp

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 9 November 2017 19:51 (six years ago) link

there it goes

flappy bird, Thursday, 9 November 2017 19:52 (six years ago) link

What an asshole.

Josh in Chicago, Thursday, 9 November 2017 19:53 (six years ago) link

“I think the line gets crossed when you take all your clothes off and start masturbating,” Ms. Wolov said.

Mhm Female (Eazy), Thursday, 9 November 2017 19:54 (six years ago) link

jesus

Simon H., Thursday, 9 November 2017 19:54 (six years ago) link

i wasn't trying to "demote" him to asshole, in case that wasn't clear

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 9 November 2017 19:58 (six years ago) link

what's with all the masturbators

j., Thursday, 9 November 2017 19:58 (six years ago) link

Obviously the victims are foremost in my mind, but having seen the movie, I can't help but feel bad for Charlie Day, the one tasked with mimicking masturbation repeatedly in the movie

Simon H., Thursday, 9 November 2017 19:58 (six years ago) link

Power, no interest whatsoever in pleasing or turning on the other person xp

flappy bird, Thursday, 9 November 2017 19:58 (six years ago) link

so I guess the female comedy duo from the Gawker piece wasn't Garfunkel and Oates after all

President Keyes, Thursday, 9 November 2017 19:59 (six years ago) link

I feel like what's going to happen is CK apologizes profusely and claims he has some sort of diagnosed impulse control issue

Simon H., Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:00 (six years ago) link

Yet in an interview with The Times in September at the Toronto film festival, where “I Love You, Daddy,” was shown, Louis C.K. dismissed stories of his alleged sexual misconduct as “rumors,” and said the notion that the masturbation scenes referred to them never occurred to him. “It’s funny, I didn’t think of that, ” he said.

See this is exactly what I'm talking about. He gets off on it.

flappy bird, Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:00 (six years ago) link

xp Simon- so, p much exactly what Weinstein & Spacey did?

flappy bird, Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:00 (six years ago) link

yeah, that's been the common reaction, but I'm cautiously optimistic that people just aren't buying it anymore

i wasn't trying to "demote" him to asshole, in case that wasn't clear

nor was I, these are some pretty fucked up stories. good to see that it's getting a swift reaction.

Moodles, Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:02 (six years ago) link

Were they ever buying it? Shit has changed so much in the last month.

flappy bird, Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:03 (six years ago) link

the whole "sex rehab" thing for this stuff is a punchline, nobody is defending Weinstein or Spacey or any of the other dozens of predatory men, Louis is finished

flappy bird, Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:04 (six years ago) link

I think those kinds of excuses carried more weight previous to the Weinstein episode

Moodles, Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:04 (six years ago) link

well, Gay Talese defended Spacey, but i take yr point

xp

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:05 (six years ago) link

For someone as allegedly candid as he is, Louis' ongoing unwillingness to discuss (much less admit or apologize for) any of this is especially galling.

what IS 'sex rehab' -- you watch other men take their clothes off and note your disgust?

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:06 (six years ago) link

this one hits hard for me tbh; Louis had done such a good job of thriving outside the corporate system and has so consistently produced funny or at least consistently interesting work. So much of his persona (including the regular, clearly personally written emails to his list) is about connecting with you as a genuine person; it's just depressing that this is the payoff.
i just watched the most recent season of one mississippi which is very much about Louis in a pretty unveiled way; kinda prepared me for this to be on the way. really sucks that this immensely shitty behavior on his part torpedoed several womens' careers and looks set to destroy him too.

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:09 (six years ago) link

what IS 'sex rehab' -- you watch other men take their clothes off and note your disgust?


I mean... it's therapy

Kinda afraid to ask what you think alcohol and drug rehab entail tbh

The Suite Life of Jack and Wendy (wins), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:10 (six years ago) link

I feel like what's going to happen is CK apologizes profusely and claims he has some sort of diagnosed impulse control issue

Probably. Thinking of that weird anecdote in his old Marc Maron interview where he talks about spending all his money on a trumpet and then, well, jerking off on it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y5I-tUoBoSo

change display name (Jordan), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:10 (six years ago) link

he probably DOES have some diagnosed impulse control issue but it's not like that absolves him of repeated really shitty behavior

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:12 (six years ago) link

NEW: Hotelier André Balazs sexually assaulted actress Amanda Anka. She and her husband Jason Bateman have gone on-record with NYT about the incident. https://t.co/5U7hSmInHg

— Yashar Ali 🐘 (@yashar) November 9, 2017

mookieproof, Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:14 (six years ago) link

Oh totally

xp

change display name (Jordan), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:16 (six years ago) link

His relationship to women has always been the worst part of his work

yes, and because i happen to be a woman, i can't just look past it. he is a selfish man who thinks shitty thoughts about people like me. just like woody allen, who i have also never liked. who apparently he wants to pay homage to in his ghastly-sounding got-the-plug-pulled-on-it new movie

philip roth too
i have no love for this type of man artist

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:19 (six years ago) link

has philip roth been accused of anything?

Mordy, Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:20 (six years ago) link

no he was mentioned as an example of man artists who have questionable ideas about women, upthread somewhere

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:21 (six years ago) link

i wonder if NYC MoMA will consider holding the screening of LCK's film I posted above as scheduled, and having a discussion of these issues afterward.

not a chance in hell i think

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:21 (six years ago) link

yeah, i would say his contenders screening will be pulled before the weekend if not sooner

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:22 (six years ago) link

not to turn this thread into a referendum on philip roth but i think that description maybe does his work a disservice

Mordy, Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:23 (six years ago) link

Since Charlie Chaplin married/impregnated 3 women before they were 18, can we impute "questionable ideas about women" to him? i'm not trying to be provocative, i want to know where the reasonable grounds are.

fwiw I think valuable art still can be made by deeply flawed/lousy people.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:24 (six years ago) link

of course it can but arguing that point the same hour the story breaks misses the point entirely

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:26 (six years ago) link

yuck. im fine w ignoring Louis. don't care how good of an artist you are or how much you are fighting the man or whatever. im not gonna support that kind of behavior. his "art" was seemingly about vulnerability and honest self-examination yet this entire situation is the opposite of that. he's just coming across as a massive hack.

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:27 (six years ago) link

funny how the NYT broke just as we were discussing Louis, weird

Οὖτις, Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:27 (six years ago) link

I do feel bad for Charlie Day :(

Feel worse for the women Louis messed with, obviously

Οὖτις, Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:28 (six years ago) link

funny how the NYT broke just as we were discussing Louis, weird

― Οὖτις, Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:27 (one minute ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

we were discussing him cos his premiere got pulled cos it was about to break

imago, Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:29 (six years ago) link

Since Charlie Chaplin married/impregnated 3 women before they were 18, can we impute "questionable ideas about women" to him?

absolutely imo

Οὖτις, Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:29 (six years ago) link

fwiw I'm not saying men in the present day shouldn't pay the price for this shit in the 'marketplace' and otherwise

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:31 (six years ago) link

forget i mentioned philip roth
i wouldn't have thought of him at all if he hadn't been mentioned above

(aside: i left a paper grocery bag with a handful of philip roth books near an elevator once -- i wrote FREE on the bag -- and then saw on facebook that i guy i work with found them and posted "i found a bag of philip roth books by the elevator but i'm afraid to touch them" and i loled because he didn't know who had left them there)

anyway i am surprised by how clueless louis ck is and how his stupid woody allen homage movie even got made at all. it sounds awful.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:32 (six years ago) link

He made it with his own money, so.

change display name (Jordan), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:33 (six years ago) link

this one hits hard for me tbh; Louis had done such a good job of thriving outside the corporate system and has so consistently produced funny or at least consistently interesting work. So much of his persona (including the regular, clearly personally written emails to his list) is about connecting with you as a genuine person; it's just depressing that this is the payoff.
feeling the same here, been the feeling the ramp up on the internet to this and sad

Nhex, Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:35 (six years ago) link

but not to mention, isn't Woody Allen coming out with some ridiculous movie about a teen seducing her mother's boyfriend? i mean....

Nhex, Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:35 (six years ago) link

xp

A lot of you might remember that about two years ago, I created a series called Horace and Pete (still available at louisck.net). I paid for that show myself. When I did it, I told myself that I was parting with the money forever. It wasn’t an investment. It was a 4.5 million dollar grant to the "Make whatever the fuck I want" Foundation.
By that approach, I was able to make and roll out the show exactly the way I saw it, the way I wanted the audience (you) to see it, without any concern for commerce or profit.
In the end, the show made all the money back and more (with zero advertising) through website sales, and through licensing it to HULU, I was able to actually make a sizable profit for me and the actors and some of the crew, who own a piece of the show. That was a pretty good result.
So this year, I decided, I got the money back, I can throw it away again. This time to the "Make a Black and White Movie about a Shitty Father foundation.”
All that to say, that I want to really thank all of you who bought Horace and Pete because you gave me the freedom to make this movie.

welp

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:36 (six years ago) link

Does Chaplin's art involve underage women? Not to have that whole art vs artist discussion, and everyone is going to draw their own lines, but personally it's a big factor for me (for ex. I can listen to Miles Davis and not think about his violence toward women, but would understand if others couldn't...it's a lot harder to do that with comedians who talk about their own lives).

change display name (Jordan), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:37 (six years ago) link

woody still has a series on Amazon (that no one has watched). at what point is the industry going to stop giving him a break?

akm, Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:38 (six years ago) link

He made it with his own money, so.
geez he was that committed to this terrible idea?! of all the imaginative premises he could pursue, that's the movie he made with his own money? laaaaaaaaaame

also you are otm about music vs confessional personal standup comedy

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:41 (six years ago) link

Woody still makes money so, never

xp

Οὖτις, Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:41 (six years ago) link

Does Chaplin's art involve underage women?

iirc he included at least one of these underage women in his films? Morbz correct me if I'm wrong here, I forget

Οὖτις, Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:42 (six years ago) link

yeah the separate the art from the artist thing is particularly difficult in CK's case

i don't watch old ass silent movies anyway fuck charlie chaplin

Universal LULU Nation (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:43 (six years ago) link

*overdone facial expressions*
*walk weirdly fast*
*tinkly piano music*

Universal LULU Nation (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:44 (six years ago) link

In most of Chaplin's films the heroine is simply The Girl (as was common in silent films), and obviously the lack of explicit sexuality in that era made the "underage" factor less obviously relevant. Paulette Goddard (wife #3) plays a girlish "gamin" in Modern Times, and she seems to be his romantic partner by the fadeout, but The Tramp didn't really seem to have an age (CC played him from 25 to 47 if my math is right). Also Goddard was in her mid 20s, so she was just playing younger.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:44 (six years ago) link

yeah well upp miss, fuck yr cable-TV standup heroes

at what point is the industry going to stop giving him a break?

when he's convicted of something?

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:46 (six years ago) link

I love several Roth novels but haven't wanted to reread him.

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:46 (six years ago) link

in one night ums has destroyed adult animation and buster keaton

imago, Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:46 (six years ago) link

not to turn this thread into a referendum on philip roth but i think that description maybe does his work a disservice

iirc claire bloom called roth a misogynist after their breakup; i never heard of any specific incidents

not that his work is without merit, but the sheer relentlessness of writing sexually fucked-up protagonists -- several of whom are named 'philip roth' -- for half a century makes him pretty suspect to me

mookieproof, Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:47 (six years ago) link

were chaplin's marriages controversial at the time? worth remembering he was born in the 1880s, p much a different universe in every way to our own. i mean child labor wasn't even banned till the late 30s.

(The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:47 (six years ago) link

"when he's convicted of something?"

weinstein, spacey, cosby, et all haven't been convicted of anything.

akm, Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:48 (six years ago) link

xp mores were different back then. eugenics was hip

Nhex, Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:49 (six years ago) link

were chaplin's marriages controversial at the time?

there were some scandalous legal proceedings, so yes

Adam otm that everyone should read Hollywood Babylon imo

Οὖτις, Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:50 (six years ago) link

did we ever talk about this?

https://www.theguardian.com/film/2016/oct/31/tippi-hedren-alfred-hitchcock-sexually-assaulted-me

(The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:50 (six years ago) link

weinstein, spacey, cosby, et all haven't been convicted of anything.

their crimes also don't bear much resemblance to what Allen's been accused of imo

Οὖτις, Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:50 (six years ago) link

also gimme a break ums Modern Times alone is an incredible film! wtf

Οὖτις, Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:51 (six years ago) link

Louis C.K.’s publicist, Lewis Kay

I..

Andrew Farrell, Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:52 (six years ago) link

I think UMS was just joking.

Robert Adam Gilmour, Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:53 (six years ago) link

Chaplin wife #1, Mildred Harris, was an actress in other films, not his. Wife #2, Lita Grey, did 3 of his films, before and after their affair/marriage. He married Oona O'Neill (not an actress) as soon as she turned 18.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:53 (six years ago) link

The 16-year-old Harris met actor Charlie Chaplin in mid-1918, dated, and came to believe she was pregnant by him, but the pregnancy was found to be a false alarm. They married privately on October 23, 1918, in Los Angeles. She subsequently did become pregnant.[3] The couple quarreled about her contract with Louis B. Mayer and her career. Chaplin felt she was not his intellectual equal. Their child Norman Spencer died in July 1919, at only three days of age,[4][5] and the couple separated in the autumn of 1919.

Grey married four times. By her own account, she first met Charlie Chaplin at the age of eight at a Hollywood café and first worked with him at the age of twelve in the part of the “flirting angel” in The Kid.[3] She appeared briefly as a maid in The Idle Class. Her one-year contract was not renewed. At the age of fifteen she met Chaplin again when she heard he was testing brunettes for his The Gold Rush.[4] They had an affair and she suspected she had become pregnant by the then-thirty-five-year-old Chaplin. As he could have been imprisoned for having sexual relations with a minor, they married that November in secret in Empalme, Sonora, Mexico to avoid a scandal. They had two sons, Charles Chaplin Jr. (1925–1968) and Sydney Chaplin (1926–2009).

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:54 (six years ago) link

I was a huge fan of Louis -saw two live shows, watched & enjoyed both tv shows, cried during the Maron two-parter, the whole nine.

But when Jen Kirkman “outed” him, I started to back away. I had never heard any of the rumors before then.

since then, I havent watched or heard him talk hardly at all. i just flipped the switch to NOPE.

Sometimes I can separate art from behavior, but this is all of a piece for him & he’s clearly made a career out of what is apparently deeply troubling sexual dysfunction

I’m not surprised, I’m not shook.. this one, I’m 100% ready for.

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:56 (six years ago) link

^ yup

crüt, Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:57 (six years ago) link

All the white guys going "oh man, not Louis CK" now have some idea of how bougie black America felt when the Bill Cosby shit began to hit the fan.

the Hannah Montana of the Korean War (DJP), Thursday, 9 November 2017 20:59 (six years ago) link

VG OTM

FTR i am just winding you up about cartoons and silent movies...

i have enjoyed CK as a comedian, didn't really take to the show though...but now i can't see engaging w/anything he's done

his last special had a real dark suicidal vibe to it IMO i don't even want to speculate what weird realms of delusion/self-destructiveness/hubris drove him to do this film that was clearly going to destroy him, but you know what? sounds like he destroyed people too just like all these men

Universal LULU Nation (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Thursday, 9 November 2017 21:02 (six years ago) link

Awful thread, but the next step in the national conversation.

when's the first time a man jerked off in front of you without your consent?

I'll go first: when I was 12, a man on the L train jerked off in front of me and my friends

— eve peyser (@evepeyser) November 9, 2017

Mhm Female (Eazy), Thursday, 9 November 2017 21:04 (six years ago) link

I’m not surprised, I’m not shook.. this one, I’m 100% ready for.

― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, November 9, 2017 3:56 PM (three minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Pretty much this. I loved his show on FX, my partner and I eagerly awaited every standup special...and after reading the Jen Kirkman stuff, it was, ok, no, he's just a fucking low-life creep.

Montgomery Burns' Jazz (Tarfumes The Escape Goat), Thursday, 9 November 2017 21:04 (six years ago) link

I'm fairly sure (based on a lot of things) he has legit issues but he also clearly didn't feel the need to actually deal with them or be accountable in any way

Simon H., Thursday, 9 November 2017 21:05 (six years ago) link

Tangentially, I'm hearing rumours that Campaign magazine has been gathering information on certain powerful people involved with UK advertising, past and present, which unsurprisingly has been a breeding ground for misogyny and bad behaviour, much like Mad Men portrayed in the US.

MaresNest, Thursday, 9 November 2017 21:06 (six years ago) link

he also clearly didn't feel the need to actually deal with them or be accountable in any way

he probably considers his work "dealing" with it

Οὖτις, Thursday, 9 November 2017 21:07 (six years ago) link

DJP, I don't doubt it... and, though i get your point as being race related, it should be noted that this bougie white guy stand up fan of a certain age felt the same way hearing about Cosby!

UMS, Louis' last special actually ended with him explicitly saying that suicide was never justifiable as things tend to eventually get better iirc

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 9 November 2017 21:07 (six years ago) link

^^^ yes that's probably correct xp

Simon H., Thursday, 9 November 2017 21:08 (six years ago) link

Tangentially, I'm hearing rumours that Campaign magazine has been gathering information on certain powerful people involved with UK advertising, past and present, which unsurprisingly has been a breeding ground for misogyny and bad behaviour, much like Mad Men portrayed in the US.

― MaresNest, Thursday, 9 November 2017 21:06 (four minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

oh heaven forfend Charles Satchel has been doing even worse stuff than the stuff we know about

imago, Thursday, 9 November 2017 21:12 (six years ago) link

were chaplin's marriages controversial at the time?

Eugene O'Neill found the third one fairly controversial.

Terry Micawber (Tom D.), Thursday, 9 November 2017 21:21 (six years ago) link

^fourth one

totally loved Cosby as a kid and teen -- the LPs more than the TV stuff -- but i bailed on the blockbuster sitcom fairly early cuz it froze its style in place pretty quickly, and i quit watching sitcoms in general (w/ few exceptions) around '84. Then I heard the 'he's a jerk' stories from comedy people, and then...

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 9 November 2017 21:22 (six years ago) link

Sorry, miscounted my Charlie Chaplin child brides.

Terry Micawber (Tom D.), Thursday, 9 November 2017 21:24 (six years ago) link

Paulette Goddard was the fully adult one you skipped

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 9 November 2017 21:26 (six years ago) link

Ugh, Laura Silverman recounting her experience with Louis CK on that twitter thread linked above:

After that, it’s was Louis C.K., on a cross country trip before he was famous. About 20 times. Not criminal. But compulsive, rude & gross.

— Laura Silverman (@LauraJSilverman) November 9, 2017

Nhex, Thursday, 9 November 2017 21:37 (six years ago) link

it never occurred to me that sarah silverman had a sister and that that sister was laura silverman. weird.

akm, Thursday, 9 November 2017 21:40 (six years ago) link

they play twin brothers on Bob's Burgers!

Nhex, Thursday, 9 November 2017 21:41 (six years ago) link

All the white guys going "oh man, not Louis CK" now have some idea of how bougie black America felt when the Bill Cosby shit began to hit the fan.

to expand on DJP's thought here a bit, I think this stings more than any of the other figures to get named so far (at least for me) because I recognize a lot of myself in CK's material - the self-hatred, depression, hopelessness, the mocking of male fragility and entitlement, etc. It's easy to be feel distanced from a super-powerful, ultra-rich mogul like Weinstein who's not really any kind of creative figure anyone would be attached to for any conceivable reason. I can't speak to what people associated with w/r/t Cosby but the combination of strong personal association w/ the work + repellent private behavior is quite a thing.

Simon H., Thursday, 9 November 2017 21:43 (six years ago) link

they play siblings on the Sarah Silverman Show

xp

Οὖτις, Thursday, 9 November 2017 21:44 (six years ago) link

It is just so much safer not to ever admire anyone ever

piezoelectric landlord (Ye Mad Puffin), Thursday, 9 November 2017 21:44 (six years ago) link

his "art" was seemingly about vulnerability and honest self-examination

Like they say about sincerity, once you can fake that...

Andrew Farrell, Thursday, 9 November 2017 22:08 (six years ago) link

i alluded to it a bit upthread but geez am i ever over the self-loathing introspection complex lives of men as depicted on TV and in film and in lit and comedy, and the women who rotate around them like patient planets who eventually vanish to be replaced by other planets. i mean god bless these gentlemen and their inner darkness really, but who needs that shit? it's over represented and i don't find it moving or interesting anymore. that's just me though.

omar little, Thursday, 9 November 2017 22:23 (six years ago) link

there's only so much straight-man angst i can take, too, but a heavy cut in my intake of pop culture in the last 20 years has helped.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 9 November 2017 22:24 (six years ago) link

It is just so much safer not to ever admire anyone ever

― piezoelectric landlord (Ye Mad Puffin), Thursday, November 9, 2017 9:44 PM (forty-one minutes ago)

sad but true

(The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Thursday, 9 November 2017 22:27 (six years ago) link

famous strangers? don't.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 9 November 2017 22:28 (six years ago) link

omar don't forget alternative comic books! a metric shit ton of self loathing introspection complex lives of men up in there

harbinger of failure (Jon not Jon), Thursday, 9 November 2017 22:28 (six years ago) link

i can't feel emotional about these dudes and their sad bastard lives. i loved Mad Men for example but i was never really that moved by Don Draper crying with his 17th mistress.

conversely i think when i watched GLOW recently on Netflix, i was blindsided by how moving the show was (in addition to how enjoyable it was.) probably in the context of more recent events, and the friendships depicted, and the pretty nasty low level misogyny (that felt real for not being OTT.)

omar little, Thursday, 9 November 2017 22:29 (six years ago) link

alt comics! of course.

omar little, Thursday, 9 November 2017 22:30 (six years ago) link

geez am i ever over the self-loathing introspection complex lives of men as depicted on TV and in film and in lit and comedy, and the women who rotate around them like patient planets who eventually vanish to be replaced by other planets. i mean god bless these gentlemen and their inner darkness really, but who needs that shit? it's over represented and i don't find it moving or interesting anymore. that's just me though.
not just you
i (and many other women) have been expressing this thought only to be told that we are overreacting or not appreciating fine art in the right way

i remember clearly being grossed out and disappointed by Steve Martin's Shopgirl and most of my friends were like geez stfu already it's not that bad iirc

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 9 November 2017 23:05 (six years ago) link

again -- Steve Martin has not been accused of anything -- I am only using that as an example of expressing "wow that's gross" and being disregarded

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 9 November 2017 23:06 (six years ago) link

just gonna plug "The Deuce" here which is in no way about that and is def prestige TV and v much about the struggles of women in a deeply misogynistic environment

xp

Οὖτις, Thursday, 9 November 2017 23:06 (six years ago) link

Shocked at how many of y’all identify with his shitty “wahh im such a mess” comedy

flappy bird, Thursday, 9 November 2017 23:39 (six years ago) link

i (and many other women) have been expressing this thought only to be told that we are overreacting or not appreciating fine art in the right way

i remember clearly being grossed out and disappointed by Steve Martin's Shopgirl and most of my friends were like geez stfu already it's not that bad iirc

― weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, November 9, 2017 3:05 PM (thirty-five minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

i've been increasingly sensitive to films that depict any kind of bad boy behavior as a badge of honor, or as something entertaining or illuminating. i mean occasionally it can be great art that undercuts the behavior but all too often it just weirdly reinforces it in culture as some kind of rite of passage for men. it encourages men to recognize themselves in it, and accept it as a way that men are. i guess that's a long winded way of saying i don't think a lot of this art really grapples with it in a way that's fair to women.

omar little, Thursday, 9 November 2017 23:46 (six years ago) link

omar otm

flappy bird, Thursday, 9 November 2017 23:47 (six years ago) link

yeah some of us are real suckers for low comedy idk what to tell you

are we really doing this

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 9 November 2017 23:48 (six years ago) link

omar don't forget alternative comic books! a metric shit ton of self loathing introspection complex lives of men up in there

Happily* it is no longer the '90s and alternative comics are now swollen with self loathing introspective complex lives of women

*nb I love Joe & Chet! but there's way more out there now that seems descended from Julie, and it's better.

shackling the masses with plastic-wrapped snack picks (sic), Thursday, 9 November 2017 23:50 (six years ago) link

laura silverman also played laura on DR. KATZ, which had louis as a guest

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=bAURFNdxXvI

maura, Friday, 10 November 2017 02:27 (six years ago) link

i alluded to it a bit upthread but geez am i ever over the self-loathing introspection complex lives of men as depicted on TV and in film and in lit and comedy, and the women who rotate around them like patient planets who eventually vanish to be replaced by other planets. i mean god bless these gentlemen and their inner darkness really, but who needs that shit? it's over represented and i don't find it moving or interesting anymore. that's just me though.

― omar little, Thursday, November 9, 2017 5:23 PM (four hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

the sad legacy of pathetic woody allen.

Van Horn Street, Friday, 10 November 2017 02:50 (six years ago) link

Lol he didnt invent it

Οὖτις, Friday, 10 November 2017 02:57 (six years ago) link

I don't think he did, but now more than ever I believe that he will be partly remembered for that at one point in culture history.

Van Horn Street, Friday, 10 November 2017 03:00 (six years ago) link

definitely not, really put a shine on the aesthetic and made the neurotic self-deprecator charming

it's really hard to do, because self-deprecation only appeals to a subset of the populace, and even then only if done with restraint

mh, Friday, 10 November 2017 03:01 (six years ago) link

i alluded to it a bit upthread but geez am i ever over the self-loathing introspection complex lives of men as depicted on TV and in film and in lit and comedy, and the women who rotate around them like patient planets who eventually vanish to be replaced by other planets. i mean god bless these gentlemen and their inner darkness really, but who needs that shit? it's over represented and i don't find it moving or interesting anymore. that's just me though.

― omar little, Thursday, November 9, 2017

you dislike Tolstoy?

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 10 November 2017 03:11 (six years ago) link

lol

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 10 November 2017 03:34 (six years ago) link

but what about the early funny ones, VHS?

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 10 November 2017 04:48 (six years ago) link

ilxor soundbites on Morning Edition

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 10 November 2017 13:15 (six years ago) link

i (and many other women) have been expressing this thought only to be told that we are overreacting or not appreciating fine art in the right way

i remember clearly being grossed out and disappointed by Steve Martin's Shopgirl and most of my friends were like geez stfu already it's not that bad iirc

― weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, November 9, 2017 11:05 PM (yesterday) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

otm!! Like almost all of literature ever. Oh it's about the human condition? Yes as seen by a man, in relation to other men.

Conic section rebellion 44 (in orbit), Friday, 10 November 2017 14:20 (six years ago) link

Just read the wiki about "Shopgirl",

I mean, all of it...... uh..

But this:

While on tour, the band's lead singer introduces Jeremy to the world of self-improvement and how to better relate to the opposite sex.

.. uh, what?

Mark G, Friday, 10 November 2017 14:50 (six years ago) link

take this pill

President Keyes, Friday, 10 November 2017 14:56 (six years ago) link

It is just so much safer not to ever admire anyone ever

― piezoelectric landlord (Ye Mad Puffin), Thursday, November 9, 2017 9:44 PM (forty-one minutes ago)

sad but true

― (The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Thursday, 9 November 2017 22:27 (yesterday) Permalink

if only it were possible to admire a woman

conrad, Friday, 10 November 2017 15:00 (six years ago) link

florence nightingale

j., Friday, 10 November 2017 15:05 (six years ago) link

andy zaltzman to thread

drinkmaster sealcup at yr service (bizarro gazzara), Friday, 10 November 2017 15:06 (six years ago) link

wait what

imago, Friday, 10 November 2017 15:07 (six years ago) link

this is literally the last thread on ilx you should be posting '[male comedian] to thread' to in the service of a quip

imago, Friday, 10 November 2017 15:10 (six years ago) link

I think that's a reference to the Florence Nightingale Hottie from History running joke on the Bugle. Not a thread to drop names in randomly imo

President Keyes, Friday, 10 November 2017 15:11 (six years ago) link

My heroes lately are all women.

omar little, Friday, 10 November 2017 15:14 (six years ago) link

Mariah Carey?

StanM, Friday, 10 November 2017 16:41 (six years ago) link

https://www.facebook.com/EllenPage/posts/10155212835577449

mookieproof, Friday, 10 November 2017 17:49 (six years ago) link

^^^ this is a great read

the Hannah Montana of the Korean War (DJP), Friday, 10 November 2017 17:55 (six years ago) link

wow

The Suite Life of Jack and Wendy (wins), Friday, 10 November 2017 17:57 (six years ago) link

she is fantastic

omar little, Friday, 10 November 2017 17:58 (six years ago) link

homegirl represent!!!!

Simon H., Friday, 10 November 2017 18:40 (six years ago) link

yeah, that’s powerful stuff

drinkmaster sealcup at yr service (bizarro gazzara), Friday, 10 November 2017 18:46 (six years ago) link

I Love You, Daddy release cancelled by distributor: https://pitchfork.com/news/louis-cks-i-love-you-daddy-film-release-canceled/?mbid=homepage-more-latest-and-video

flappy bird, Friday, 10 November 2017 19:17 (six years ago) link

Sounded like an awful idea

Mark G, Friday, 10 November 2017 19:25 (six years ago) link

Pennies keep a'dropping

http://deadline.com/2017/11/anthony-edwards-sexual-molestation-gary-goddard-1202205839/

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Friday, 10 November 2017 19:41 (six years ago) link

Jann Wenner now too

Οὖτις, Friday, 10 November 2017 19:43 (six years ago) link

Ellen Page has me choked up at my desk. just pure admiration.

Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Friday, 10 November 2017 19:48 (six years ago) link

upsetting Misty Upham news I hadn't read before in that EP post. (If you saw the film of August: Osage County, she was the Native actor.)

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 10 November 2017 19:49 (six years ago) link

damn

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Friday, 10 November 2017 20:43 (six years ago) link

Ellen Page post is straight fire.

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Friday, 10 November 2017 21:38 (six years ago) link

although to leave Bill Clinton out of her rage seems odd

Randall Jarrell (dandydonweiner), Friday, 10 November 2017 21:44 (six years ago) link

Exhausting but thorough, when the day’s news needs a timeline like this: https://www.yahoo.com/news/latest-bbc-pulling-mystery-thriller-featuring-westwick-145613448.html

Mhm Female (Eazy), Friday, 10 November 2017 21:51 (six years ago) link

although to leave Bill Clinton out of her rage seems odd

― Randall Jarrell (dandydonweiner), Friday, November 10, 2017

YES WHAT ABOUT THE CLINTONS

Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Friday, 10 November 2017 21:55 (six years ago) link

i am very much hoping that the jeffrey tambor story is a false flag

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Friday, 10 November 2017 22:01 (six years ago) link

When I saw the Anthony Edwards url I cringed (don't know who Gary whatever is) but thankfully not the case.

nickn, Friday, 10 November 2017 22:16 (six years ago) link

Gary whoever was also accused in that Bryan Singer lawsuit (then dropped) a few years back.

Mhm Female (Eazy), Friday, 10 November 2017 22:21 (six years ago) link

It is pretty bad (massive understatement here) when you steel yourself to read one of those stories and come out the other side going "phew, he's the one who was abused"

the Hannah Montana of the Korean War (DJP), Friday, 10 November 2017 22:29 (six years ago) link

didn't realize the upcoming Queen/Mercury biopic was directed by Singer

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 10 November 2017 22:30 (six years ago) link

(or that it was in postproduction)

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 10 November 2017 22:32 (six years ago) link

the misty upham story in that ellen page post is so disturbing to my soul, even in the context of all these other disturbing stories

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 10 November 2017 22:36 (six years ago) link

It is pretty bad (massive understatement here) when you steel yourself to read one of those stories and come out the other side going "phew, he's the one who was abused"

― the Hannah Montana of the Korean War (DJP)

Yeah, I had to think about my phrasing for a few seconds ("thank god Anthony was abused").

nickn, Friday, 10 November 2017 23:00 (six years ago) link

finally read the latest ronan farrow new yorker thing and holy shit

mookieproof, Saturday, 11 November 2017 01:23 (six years ago) link

trying to think which hollywood man I'd be surprised to learn such things about. Clooney has a pretty squeaky image I guess. Spielberg. That's probably it.

uh, George Takei

frogbs, Saturday, 11 November 2017 03:43 (six years ago) link

^ just saw that. Bad Sulu.

Ⓓⓡ. (Johnny Fever), Saturday, 11 November 2017 04:12 (six years ago) link

for real? if so, that's wild because he basically admitted as much when he was sitting in on Howard Stern back in early October, the very first show after the Weinstein story happened. Howard jokingly asked if George had ever been inappropriate with men or forceful, and there was a long pause, and he just said "um...." they were laughing, Howard asked him to describe what he meant, George said something like "well, you know, sometimes people who may be young, or uncomfortable or scared, they may need some... coercing or, encouragement, uh...." another long pause. then Howard goes "do we need to call the police?"

flappy bird, Saturday, 11 November 2017 05:22 (six years ago) link

How long til they cancel the Oscars? I mean surely..

piscesx, Saturday, 11 November 2017 11:40 (six years ago) link

A friend on the Takei accusation: "He is describing half the pick ups and going home from bars in gay history."

I don't know that I agree, but there are more dubious factors in this one than in most of the incidents heretofore described.

(witchfinder general descends on Dr Morbius' lab)

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 11 November 2017 15:16 (six years ago) link

What dubious factors?

jmm, Saturday, 11 November 2017 15:22 (six years ago) link

I've said enough.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 11 November 2017 15:31 (six years ago) link

I'm appreciating the posts from Our Gays here a lot because I've been wondering what is the place of sexual "deviancy" after our current moment. I know of abusers in my profession who've characterized their behavior as deviancy: swinging, partner swapping, three+somes, etc. Participants have responded that the abuser coerced them into these activities: the consent was very gray, both because of significant power differentials and because of deviancy.

I wonder about the practicality of engaging in "deviant" behavior while having the kind of enthusiastic consent that's idealized as responses to coercion.

I tend to think of people on the Left as friends of deviancy in some very vague sense, and in our moment people on the Left are also friends of a pretty firm morality: enthusiastic consent is a marker of a principle of "don't harm others". But I'm thinking about how the avoidance of harm can be assured in the midst of "deviancy", and if it can't be assured, what place is there for "deviancy" in a Leftist culture?

droit au butt (Euler), Saturday, 11 November 2017 15:59 (six years ago) link

some lefties are most definitely the New Puritans.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 11 November 2017 16:40 (six years ago) link

consent is a marker of a principle of "don't harm others". But I'm thinking about how the avoidance of harm can be assured in the midst of "deviancy"

Where there is the risk of harm, then the consenter, if they are above the age of consent, is consenting to that risk. Where there is mutuality, responsibility is not confined to either partner.

A is for (Aimless), Saturday, 11 November 2017 18:43 (six years ago) link

We need to talk about @SwetShopBoys.
About them being held up as examples of progressive South Asian men.
They benefit from the uplift of a whole diasporic community.
Riz & Himanshu are you sure all of your behaviour in the past has been acceptable?

— Kindness (@Kindness) November 10, 2017

sean gramophone, Saturday, 11 November 2017 18:47 (six years ago) link

There's probably a range of gay social spaces, and maybe times have changed. When I went with gay friends to discos in the early 90s, I'd be groped on the dance floor. I identify as asexual leaning straight, but I didn't find it threatening, perhaps... flattering? I figured, their space, their rules. I wouldn't be surprised if much more went on without consent at leather bars, and much less and wine bars.

Sanpaku, Saturday, 11 November 2017 21:44 (six years ago) link

there’s the argument that being in some spaces is ad hoc consent for touching others, but the unspoken part of it is where it’s a grey area and some of my friends who frequent those spaces still find it predatory and unwelcome. especially when the more aggressive people are known predators

mh, Saturday, 11 November 2017 23:19 (six years ago) link

Obv, if we all lived in large enough communities of more or less shared interests, I'm sure there would be a range of spaces with differing norms available. Some places where it was accepted that one could be pushed against a wall, some where notes would be discretely passed by waiters. I don't doubt that in some places like NY and SF, a range of spaces approximating that may exist. Perhaps the invasions of personal space we may be consenting to would be posted at entrances.

It's all rather complicated. Its lead some like myself to simply not bother with the mess that is sexuality, its evidently lead others to assume consent based on past norms they were exposed to.

Personally, I think we be lenient towards sexual advances in social spaces where its close to the norm. Sexual harassment in discos can be avoided by dancing at home. We should pay closest attention to sexual advances/harassment in the workplace, especially when committed by those with power. For actors and many others, the workplace extends to restaurants, and sexual advances shouldn't be tolerated there. On the other hand, when someone consents to visiting Harvey Weinstein or his ilk in a bedroom or hotel suite, alone, I can easily see fair minded jury members concluding that this constitutes consent to advances, but not consent to acts. Private spaces aren't work spaces, and its a distinction worth preserving.

Sanpaku, Sunday, 12 November 2017 00:29 (six years ago) link

Sexual harassment in discos can be avoided by dancing at home.

Er Sanpaku love you man but wtf is this

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Sunday, 12 November 2017 00:56 (six years ago) link

What I'm saying is that in some spaces, most patrons have their own norms that are related to but don't coincide exactly with mainstream ones. I'm not sure if there's any place where consent to clothing-invasive touching is implied, but there are plenty of places where less-invasive touching is accepted.

When I visited that gay disco in the early 90s (it warms my heart to discover that Rich's of Houston is still around, 25-odd years later), as an outsider in every way but looking like a twink, I recognized that I consented to the norms of that community at that time. I'm not going to go after my then acquaintance, then the campus ACLU rep and probably now an ACLU lawyer, for grabbing my junk then. We were both adults. There were no employment issues involved. It might have harmed others who don't share my nonchalance, but that was perhaps a normal sexual advance in that time and place.

Now, a disco that caters to frat boys and sorority girls, if the sorority girls want to sue, by all means. I'd love to see some of those dens of nonconsensual advances (by which I mean the frats) go down.

I'm not going to get all Camille Paglia here: I'm not that far down that rat hole. I just think that a social norm, in which no previously unconsented touching is acceptable, in any context, isn't one in accord with human nature. Some people go to discos to be touched, if not sexually, than by the press of the crowd. It's why I went.

Now, how we negotiate the lines of what is and isn't acceptable in each context is another matter. I think we can all agree that work relationships shouldn't involve unwanted sexual advances. I think we can all agree that minors aren't equipped to consent. Weinstein should rot. Spacey's ephebophilia should be condemned. But I'm not bothered with the Takei story, and I'd like to think it has nothing to do with sharing political views.

Sanpaku, Sunday, 12 November 2017 01:30 (six years ago) link

the dude he groped seems bothered by it

flappy bird, Sunday, 12 November 2017 03:04 (six years ago) link

specifically, the guy claiming "he passed out and awoke to find Takei trying to strip him and groping his genitals"

Andrew Farrell, Sunday, 12 November 2017 09:33 (six years ago) link

Good for Gadot for forcing WB's hand re: Ratner.

Josh in Chicago, Sunday, 12 November 2017 15:51 (six years ago) link

The original report in English: http://politiken.dk/kultur/art6202316/Former-Zentropa-employees-expose-system-of-degradation-and-sexual-harassment

Amazingly, the dude isn't fired yet, and is even propped up by the main Danish film magazine, who has mostly spent the last month blaming women. We need something good to happen...

Frederik B, Sunday, 12 November 2017 20:13 (six years ago) link

ahh Lars von Trier already made a (pretty good) movie about this right...

Ludo, Sunday, 12 November 2017 20:39 (six years ago) link

Xp Brunton implies he might’ve been roofied, too - and I don’t care what social norms are in any group, this guy thought he was having a drink with a friend and instead was sexually assaulted.

just1n3, Sunday, 12 November 2017 22:34 (six years ago) link

dunno if it was posted somewhere else on ilx

https://www.thecut.com/2017/11/rebecca-traister-on-the-post-weinstein-reckoning.html

Randall Jarrell (dandydonweiner), Monday, 13 November 2017 16:22 (six years ago) link

Woods, Oliver Stone...definitely some low-hanging fruit out there.

... (Eazy), Monday, 13 November 2017 17:35 (six years ago) link

That Traister piece is great.

horseshoe, Monday, 13 November 2017 19:12 (six years ago) link

“In early September, before the existence of the warrant for McGowan was public, Weinstein held a meeting with his private investigators that was focussed on the efforts to arrest McGowan...”

https://www.newyorker.com/news/news-desk/rose-mcgowan-speaks-out-about-her-arrest-on-drug-charges

... (Eazy), Wednesday, 15 November 2017 14:50 (six years ago) link

this shit is terrifying & all those people should go to jail

ogmor, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 15:27 (six years ago) link

the only way anything is going to fundamentally change is if we burn everything down and start over. there's still way too much rot and privilege embedded in all the interlocking systems.

maura, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 15:36 (six years ago) link

^^^

Simon H., Wednesday, 15 November 2017 15:38 (six years ago) link

Weinstein handing out book deals to gossip assassins in exchange for them taking down accusers will hopefully be part of Ronan Farrow's work in the coming months.

omar little, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 15:38 (six years ago) link

Lawyers gotta be frothing to bleed Weinstein dry by now. I dunno how it all works but I assume there’s some coordinating that has to go on with the DAs that have jurisdiction over who gets to start carving what first.

El Tomboto, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 15:55 (six years ago) link

Also are the unions gonna take any of this on the chin for not protecting their members? It’s more than setting the daily rates, folks.

El Tomboto, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 15:57 (six years ago) link

maura otm

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Wednesday, 15 November 2017 15:57 (six years ago) link

damn this is the same shit Francis Farmer had to deal with 75 years ago

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Wednesday, 15 November 2017 15:57 (six years ago) link

There seems to be enough room for reasonable doubt, seeing as she did not have the wallet in her possession when the coke was found there. But still, how horrible.

kim jong deal (suzy), Wednesday, 15 November 2017 15:59 (six years ago) link

and she still hasn't had her revenge

xpost

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 15 November 2017 16:00 (six years ago) link

So angry rn

...

harbinger of failure (Jon not Jon), Wednesday, 15 November 2017 16:15 (six years ago) link

ninety-nine times out of a hundred the "mossad agents have been tailing me and likely framed me for drug possession" is a bad defense, but...

mh, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 16:17 (six years ago) link

ok are we seriously all gonna multi-otm "burn everything down and start over"

maybe I should start a thread about how society is irretrievably corrupted and broken and humans are rotten oh wait I think we already have one for e.m. cioran quotes

El Tomboto, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 16:38 (six years ago) link

let me be the first to apologize for being a disgusting incrementalist

El Tomboto, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 16:39 (six years ago) link

burn it all down otm, imo

there are two kinds of people: those who have faith in the system & its ability to self correct, and those who see it as fundamentally fucked up

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 15 November 2017 16:41 (six years ago) link

a lot of people i know who have the most faith in the system see it in the most clear-minded way; those are the more right wing types who appreciate the advantages it has given them

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 15 November 2017 16:42 (six years ago) link

I don't agree with that either because I am both of those people

I ensure all my new employees are familiar with the word "sisyphean"

El Tomboto, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 16:42 (six years ago) link

yeah idk burning everything down only works if you include everyone in your new world

if you're too selective, you don't get Sisyphus deciding not to roll the boulder, you get... Atlas shrugging

mh, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 16:45 (six years ago) link

I mean yes, the system is fundamentally fucked up, because it is made of human beings

but also, deliberate incremental change is less likely to result in wholesale destruction and mass murder and plundering and so forth

or what mh said

El Tomboto, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 16:58 (six years ago) link

burn it all down is the goal, though

mh, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 17:02 (six years ago) link

The biggest problem with burning it all down is that the people with access to the resources that will allow you to start over usually use those resources to the see the fire coming and either abscond with as much of them as they can, making the "start over" part even harder than it already is, or insert themselves into the process of starting over so they can make sure the new system still benefits them.

I think there is a lot of romantic appeal to hitting the reset button but navigating the practicality of actually doing it is fraught with peril; I won't say that makes it not worth doing but it should be taken into consideration in your planning.

the Hannah Montana of the Korean War (DJP), Wednesday, 15 November 2017 17:07 (six years ago) link

What does "burn it all down" mean in concrete terms? Boycotting Hollywood movies?

jmm, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 17:09 (six years ago) link

arson, imo

mh, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 17:10 (six years ago) link

Concrete beams don't burn

fake pato is kind of racist, dude (darraghmac), Wednesday, 15 November 2017 17:11 (six years ago) link

being shitty to women is the foundation of modern civilization
i hope we can burn it down but i would like to suggest controlled burns until we can get a better idea of how to proceed when the burning is complete

rebecca traister's most recent article is a series of truth bombs we can start with

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Wednesday, 15 November 2017 17:11 (six years ago) link

humanity is wretched and violent and always will be imo

marcos, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 17:11 (six years ago) link

the world is mean and man uncouth!

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Wednesday, 15 November 2017 17:12 (six years ago) link

are we going to get into the "it's possible to set goals that are persistent because you never completely reach them" discussion again? because I think they're useful

no more misogyny
no more harassment
no more

mh, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 17:14 (six years ago) link

the only problem is when you set goals that you never get started on because oh what's the use

El Tomboto, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 17:16 (six years ago) link

LL you mean this one right

https://www.thecut.com/2017/11/rebecca-traister-on-the-post-weinstein-reckoning.html

El Tomboto, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 17:17 (six years ago) link

yes

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Wednesday, 15 November 2017 17:22 (six years ago) link

la lechera otm

imo it’s a shitty look to pile-on the “burn it all down” sentiment

if there is anywhere that “burn it all down” should be otm’d repeatedly it’s here in this thread!

if that’s cliched or impractical blah blah humans are the problem etc etc oh well go roll your eyes somewhere where i can’t see you

i get the chinstroking etc & i’m not saying dont do that but don’t just kneekjerk dismiss it like that, it makes you look like dicks

this isn’t a fuckin board meeting of town supervisors ffs

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Wednesday, 15 November 2017 17:22 (six years ago) link

the traister article is extremely good until the last paragraph when it feels like she felt the need to let her foot off the necks of her enemies, or something. Sorry for the violent image but it feels apropos. The "optimism" of a few election results is hella 'neoliberal' in the current vogue sense of the term

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 15 November 2017 17:23 (six years ago) link

The most practical, 'lite' version of burning it down wrt the entertainment industry is probably to avoid personally helping to subsidize people/companies who create or prop up regressive shit. You vote with your dollars. They're called 'dollar votes'.

Home of the Ill-Considered Gravy Spigot (Old Lunch), Wednesday, 15 November 2017 17:23 (six years ago) link

The biggest problem with burning it all down is that the people with access to the resources that will allow you to start over usually use those resources to the see the fire coming and either abscond with as much of them as they can, making the "start over" part even harder than it already is, or insert themselves into the process of starting over so they can make sure the new system still benefits them.

I think there is a lot of romantic appeal to hitting the reset button but navigating the practicality of actually doing it is fraught with peril; I won't say that makes it not worth doing but it should be taken into consideration in your planning.

― the Hannah Montana of the Korean War (DJP), Wednesday, November 15, 2017 11:07 AM (fifteen minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

i have no practical suggestions re: burning it all down, but i think its still important to recognize that we cant really just patch things up & have faith in the system once again (not arguing w/ you here djp just making a broader point)

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 15 November 2017 17:24 (six years ago) link

The most practical, 'lite' version of burning it down wrt the entertainment industry is probably to avoid personally helping to subsidize people/companies who create or prop up regressive shit. You vote with your dollars. They're called 'dollar votes'.

― Home of the Ill-Considered Gravy Spigot (Old Lunch), Wednesday, November 15, 2017 11:23 AM (thirty-three seconds ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

ahh yes the old 'consume our way to good behavior' theory

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 15 November 2017 17:24 (six years ago) link

VG OTM IMO

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 15 November 2017 17:26 (six years ago) link

xpost Far from perfect, not all-encompassing, better than nothing.

Home of the Ill-Considered Gravy Spigot (Old Lunch), Wednesday, 15 November 2017 17:27 (six years ago) link

free range fair trade organic entertainment that looks down upon exploited lower class entertainment thats just chasing a few bucks

respectability politics of pop songs

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 15 November 2017 17:29 (six years ago) link

Allegedly an up-and-comer on the conservative side:

Wes Goodman - former top staffer for Jim Jordan and Heritage - resigns from Ohio state house over "inappropriate behavior" https://t.co/SjBgBN4Lmt

— Betsy Woodruff (@woodruffbets) November 15, 2017

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 17:31 (six years ago) link

VG <3


this isn’t a fuckin board meeting of town supervisors ffs
i loled

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Wednesday, 15 November 2017 17:33 (six years ago) link

<3

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Wednesday, 15 November 2017 17:35 (six years ago) link

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/Csu1xFjXYAEcZIM.jpg

Josh in Chicago, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 17:39 (six years ago) link

apparently, she's performing that at her long-delayed NJ/BK shows?

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Wednesday, 15 November 2017 17:40 (six years ago) link

a wise man once said "the world is a vampire"...

flappy bird, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 17:40 (six years ago) link

being shitty to women is the foundation of modern civilization
i hope we can burn it down but i would like to suggest controlled burns until we can get a better idea of how to proceed when the burning is complete

LL otm.

feel like calling out shit is a good strategy. if people in the future know there is no way they can get away w stuff the way they could for thousands of years, they will think twice about doing so.

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Wednesday, 15 November 2017 17:41 (six years ago) link

adam can i just say you've been str8 fire itt

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Wednesday, 15 November 2017 17:57 (six years ago) link

What does "burn it all down" mean in concrete terms? Boycotting Hollywood movies?

for me the important thing is to help bring about a society where these massive power and income differentials just don't happen in any industry

Simon H., Wednesday, 15 November 2017 18:14 (six years ago) link

a wise man once said "the world is a vampire"...

Billy Corgan is the opposite of wise

Οὖτις, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 18:18 (six years ago) link

here we go: https://www.vox.com/policy-and-politics/2017/11/15/16634776/clinton-lewinsky-resigned

― morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), 15. november 2017 18:31 (forty-eight minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

This is good. Clinton would in the best of all worlds have been Gary Hart'ed in 92, though.

Frederik B, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 18:24 (six years ago) link

it's possible we would have had Gore in 2000 in that scenario, which looks v attractive in retrospect. but these kind of hypotheticals aren't really helpful imo.

Οὖτις, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 18:27 (six years ago) link

Wasn't Gore also accused of assault tho?

President Keyes, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 18:47 (six years ago) link

One of the reasons the judge gave for dropping the charges was "Celebrity issues."

President Keyes, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 19:01 (six years ago) link

vegemite girl and la lechera otm

i was being hyperbolic of course but at the same time if you can’t see mel gibson’s holiday tentpole or xxxtentacion’s upper echelon festival bookings as capitulating to the “well gotta follow the money, i guess!” moral-compass abdication that led to the other situations described above happening in the first place idk what to say

maura, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 19:06 (six years ago) link

like there’s incremental change and then there’s immediate public relations cleanup followed by the same old bullshit, and i’m worried that the future will bring more of the latter.

maura, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 19:06 (six years ago) link

Yeah the Gibson thing is infuriating, also the double standard when it comes to rappers & sexual assault, why are Kodak Black and xxxtentacion still getting coverage

flappy bird, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 19:08 (six years ago) link

probably inadvertently appropriate casting that he's playing Mark Wahlberg's dad in that film tbh.

omar little, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 19:10 (six years ago) link

xposts:

The hypotheticals aren't about what would have happened in 2000 with Al Gore, but what signal it would have sent regarding treatment of women. Also, I just like that the article is honest and well researched, whereas for instance the atlantic piece disingenuously hid the timeline so that it wasn't clear who defended Clinton from what. Which was then used to blame women for defending Clinton for the Broaddrick allegation, which became public later.

It's just really powerful the way everything is distilled down to what is absolutely not in dispute, and then saying that's already enough for a resignation.

Frederik B, Wednesday, 15 November 2017 19:10 (six years ago) link

burn it all down imo

gbx, Thursday, 16 November 2017 02:00 (six years ago) link

'burn it all down' is a sentiment, not a plan. but I'm ok with burning it all down, as long as there are still books to read in the new paradise found.

A is for (Aimless), Thursday, 16 November 2017 02:10 (six years ago) link

If we're burning it all down, can we use Weinstein as kindling?

Home of the Ill-Considered Gravy Spigot (Old Lunch), Thursday, 16 November 2017 04:55 (six years ago) link

Why doesn’t the electorate in New York or California have any say in this? Has anybody thought about that? Protect your fucking citizens and workers.

El Tomboto, Thursday, 16 November 2017 05:01 (six years ago) link

Systems to be burnt down in no particular order, for not preventing or stopping this cancer

1. Executive branch
2. Religion
3. Capitalism
4. The Press
5. unions
6. Courts
7. Legislative branch
8. Multinational hotel / hospitality rings
9. Studio cartels
10. Drug cartels
11. Capitalism again
12. Private healthcare
13. Every possible level and form of govt below the federal
14. Extradition treaty networks
15 etc

It’s OK your eyebrows might grow back one day

El Tomboto, Thursday, 16 November 2017 05:08 (six years ago) link

I’ll punch myself to sleep now.

El Tomboto, Thursday, 16 November 2017 05:09 (six years ago) link

There go our heroes

Breaking: @LeeannTweeden, the morning anchor of KABC radio, says Senator Al Franken kissed and groped her without her consent. https://t.co/yNoQhZVNFJ

— Yashar Ali 🐘 (@yashar) November 16, 2017

... (Eazy), Thursday, 16 November 2017 16:22 (six years ago) link

"I certainly don’t remember the rehearsal for the skit in the same way"

Randall Jarrell (dandydonweiner), Thursday, 16 November 2017 18:41 (six years ago) link

Depressing. Its a damning photo, and while there's no visible contact, I think I'd like to hear context from someone else in the room.

I hate to mention it, but Tweeden is a conservative commentator, and Tweeden conferred with Roger Stone of all people before the story came out:

Roger Stone says Senator Al Franken's time in the barrel is about to come #sexscandal

— Stone Cold Truth (@StoneColdTruth) November 16, 2017

Sanpaku, Thursday, 16 November 2017 19:00 (six years ago) link

Ugh, did not know about the Stone connection.

Ties in with this story from last week about Breitbart's Coming Exploitation of the Believe Women Movement.

... (Eazy), Thursday, 16 November 2017 19:05 (six years ago) link

yeah... I want to be extremely careful about being That Guy but I am hopeful we'll hear more from other sources on this one

Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Thursday, 16 November 2017 19:12 (six years ago) link

If Franken could put up a better "defense"...would he?

Randall Jarrell (dandydonweiner), Thursday, 16 November 2017 19:18 (six years ago) link

well he is a democrat

j., Thursday, 16 November 2017 19:20 (six years ago) link

even if it's a right wing smear job he's fucked

flappy bird, Thursday, 16 November 2017 19:20 (six years ago) link

yea Tweeden was one of the hosts of Red Eye for a while wasn't she? I hate to go there as well but there's a chance this has been in someone's pocket for a while

frogbs, Thursday, 16 November 2017 19:21 (six years ago) link

If it happened in 2006, imagine the impact if the pic would have surfaced in Franken's election campaign. Those 314 votes (and Senate majority...) seems even tighter.

Randall Jarrell (dandydonweiner), Thursday, 16 November 2017 19:24 (six years ago) link

would like to see an oppo research nuclear war break out in the Congress

President Keyes, Thursday, 16 November 2017 19:24 (six years ago) link

^^ That's the thing. No need to mute Stone as much as having everyone go for broke.

I mean, Stone is the one who lined up the Bill Clinton women at the last Presidential debate.

... (Eazy), Thursday, 16 November 2017 19:37 (six years ago) link

an oppo research nuclear war break out in the Congress

I doubt it would confine itself to just ridding us of the 'bad' people, after which the good would triumph and peace would reign. Seems to me the result would be a humpty-dumpty situation, where Congress would altogether cease to function as an institution. For all time.

A is for (Aimless), Thursday, 16 November 2017 19:39 (six years ago) link

Franken's statement is really as good as I think it could be, under the circumstances, calling for an ethics investigation on himself (and preempting others).

If the Believe Women movement is to be cynically exploited by the Roger Stones of the world, we can expect ambitious politicians will start adopting policies like Mike Pence's, to have a minder with them at all private meetings, with the insinuation that some women and men will make shit up.

Imagine having "politician chaperone" on your resume.

Sanpaku, Thursday, 16 November 2017 19:45 (six years ago) link

If the Believe Women movement is to be cynically exploited by the Roger Stones of the world,

this was an inevitable and smart move. calling for an ethics investigation is pretty absurd considering there's a picture

flappy bird, Thursday, 16 November 2017 19:47 (six years ago) link

look who's jumping on the "burn it all down" train

Honestly the Senate should just expel itself and start over.

— Nate Silver (@NateSilver538) November 16, 2017

flappy bird, Thursday, 16 November 2017 19:51 (six years ago) link

Well there were probably witnesses. Unfortunately, the other people on that tour were Mark Wills (country singer, NRA Life Member), Darryl Worley (country singer, performed at Trump's inaugural), Keni Thomas (country singer and vet, featured on Christian Broadcasting Network), and members of the Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders.

Sanpaku, Thursday, 16 November 2017 19:52 (six years ago) link

imo the left is uniquely susceptible to the use of harassment/abuse charges as a political cudgel since their constituents (both political and in media/hollywood) actually care about the charges whereas the right can rely to some extent on embedded structural patriarchy (esp in religious circles), and just general distrust of liberal institutions to get a pass (tho obv the right hasn't been totally spared from recent revelations). not to say this should have any bearing on whether predators should be called out - just something to keep in mind that the left's decency on this issue can/will be used against them.

Mordy, Thursday, 16 November 2017 19:53 (six years ago) link

Roger Stone's an idiot for tweeting that out

frogbs, Thursday, 16 November 2017 20:00 (six years ago) link

As I said upthread, his brother was also on this tour. The most memorable thing about the story I was told was the two crates of oysters from Le Baron Rouge that O (who lives in Paris) sorted for a formal dinner.

kim jong deal (suzy), Thursday, 16 November 2017 20:14 (six years ago) link

just something to keep in mind that the left's decency on this issue can/will be used against them

Something like that, anyway.

Randall Jarrell (dandydonweiner), Thursday, 16 November 2017 20:48 (six years ago) link

Look he better have done it the way she said or I'll have gotten totally outraged for nothing

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Thursday, 16 November 2017 21:04 (six years ago) link

Meanwhile...

Old Vic says 20 men made allegations against Kevin Spacey https://t.co/FGF4nXoCdN pic.twitter.com/vN1syHQAuP

— The Age (@theage) November 16, 2017

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 16 November 2017 23:57 (six years ago) link

next year Americans will find institutional murder by the USG just as offensive as molesters, I can feel it

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 17 November 2017 02:53 (six years ago) link

this thread is a growing monument to the left's moral superiority

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Friday, 17 November 2017 04:08 (six years ago) link

take it to the rolling politics thread

i am all for talking abt the shitty predatory behaviour of politicians but all other shit that goes along with that is just sneering windbaggery that has no place here

thank u

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 17 November 2017 04:12 (six years ago) link

ok but that Al Franken photo is gross af

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Friday, 17 November 2017 04:13 (six years ago) link

did someone say otherwise?

frogbs, Friday, 17 November 2017 04:16 (six years ago) link

i don't know, do you think so? i am stating my opinion for the record. i feel strongly about this. if i was there on the helicopter i would have told him to cut that shit out, that is not cool. we are going to joke about non consensual sexual acts 2 years after Abu Grahib. ffs

Well there were probably witnesses. Unfortunately, the other people on that tour were Mark Wills (country singer, NRA Life Member), Darryl Worley (country singer, performed at Trump's inaugural), Keni Thomas (country singer and vet, featured on Christian Broadcasting Network), and members of the Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders.

― Sanpaku, Thursday, November 16, 2017 2:52 PM (nine hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

wtf is this? this the "she was dressed sexily"/"he was smoking weed/a thug" of the left? these redneck hick country singers and cheerladers are from the dilapidated small towns that produce volunteers for our armed forces. these yokels are on this mission for their country just like the great Hollywood liberal and he is the one being a huge jerk.

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Friday, 17 November 2017 04:59 (six years ago) link

what are you trying to say? i think it goes without saying everyone in this thread finds the photo repulsive

flappy bird, Friday, 17 November 2017 05:41 (six years ago) link

yeah is this just like a weird emphatic "I agree with everyone" tantrum or

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 17 November 2017 07:07 (six years ago) link

I don't know that Adam's being unclear - Sanpaku is saying that the other people on this tour are Republican 'types' / people whose careers depend on love from Republicans, so are not likely to come forward with any potential mitigating context. And Adam's calling them out on this.

Andrew Farrell, Friday, 17 November 2017 08:14 (six years ago) link

Lol funny that when you go on tour to entertain the occupation army in Iraq, most of your colleagues will be right wingers.

I dunno, maybe this fact should have induced some self-reflection in Franken at the time.

But doctor, I am Camille Paglia (Bananaman Begins), Friday, 17 November 2017 08:45 (six years ago) link

tl/dr: sexual harassment not his most serious crime here

But doctor, I am Camille Paglia (Bananaman Begins), Friday, 17 November 2017 08:46 (six years ago) link

That is a stunningly bad take.

Andrew Farrell, Friday, 17 November 2017 10:25 (six years ago) link

yeah you can't apply tl:dr to a 2 sentence post jfc

treeship: a year in the life (wins), Friday, 17 November 2017 10:38 (six years ago) link

i ate a sandwich

tl;dr: i ate

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Friday, 17 November 2017 17:38 (six years ago) link

tl;dr: i8

President Keyes, Friday, 17 November 2017 18:14 (six years ago) link

Readers [url=https://greilmarcus.net/ask-greil-2/]ask Greil Marcus about Bill Clinton[/i]:

With Bill Clinton, I think there is, suddenly, a rush to judgment, right now, to let no stone go unturned. I think it ought to be remembered that the accusations against him by the women Donald Trump was able to sign up, if not pay off, to counter the scandal over his taped bragging that he could and as a matter of course did get away with anything, and I think more important to him than countering any scandal, to humiliate Hillary Clinton before the second presidential debate last year, either to throw her off or, I believe, just for the pleasure of humiliating her, have to be seen (I realize that this is an absurdly convoluted sentence, but I think it scans, so please bear with me) in the context of, it not part of, the enormous scandal-machine, the accurately described vast right-wing conspiracy, to destroy Bill Clinton. Remember the Clinton hit lists, the body-counts, which claimed more than twenty murders on the part of the Clintons during Bill Clinton’s years as governor of Arkansas and after? Remember that much of what has been said by Clinton’s accusers—and Monica Lewinsky was not an accuser—fits perfectly with the narrative that had been constructed before they came, or were brought forward, and that the word narrative, in political use if not standard definition, means constructed, which is to say false, story? Some people find the sexual harassment and worse described by Kathleen Wiley credible. Do her claims that the Clintons had not only her husband but her pet killed buttress the credibility of her sexual accusations or, you know, make you laugh?

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 17 November 2017 19:51 (six years ago) link

oops

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 17 November 2017 19:52 (six years ago) link

what an asshole

President Keyes, Friday, 17 November 2017 19:56 (six years ago) link

i81b4u

Universal LULU Nation (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Friday, 17 November 2017 20:00 (six years ago) link

^ my favorite mid '70s Bowie song

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 17 November 2017 20:06 (six years ago) link

Another. Also, the first big name from Vice.

http://variety.com/2017/digital/news/vice-jason-mojica-suspended-sexual-harassment-1202617460/

Ned Raggett, Friday, 17 November 2017 20:22 (six years ago) link

Jeffrey Tambor: I am "volatile," but not a predator

http://www.vulture.com/2017/11/jeffrey-tambor-admits-flaws-following-harassment-claims.html

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 17 November 2017 20:50 (six years ago) link

Mad Men producer supports writer's account of Matt Weiner harassment

http://www.vulture.com/2017/11/marti-noxon-calls-matthew-weiner-an-emotional-terrorist.html

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 17 November 2017 20:56 (six years ago) link

Legitimately curious, did anyone accused have a "good" apology?

Evan, Friday, 17 November 2017 21:45 (six years ago) link

Taibbi's was better than the ones listed, i thought

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 17 November 2017 21:52 (six years ago) link

good apology probably starts at self-castration

imago, Friday, 17 November 2017 21:52 (six years ago) link

i missed the Richard Dreyfuss thing (his son's account re Spacey groping him makes this ... ohnevermind)

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 17 November 2017 21:53 (six years ago) link

The whole apology thing is weird. Are people expecting apologies to make everything right? An apology won't undo anything. Pretty much the most you can expect is a person to admit they did something wrong and promise not to do it again.

silverfish, Friday, 17 November 2017 21:55 (six years ago) link

I hope, sometime in the future when sexual harassment no longer exists, we have a similar conversation about non-sexual workplace harassment and office toxicity in general. Those problems also cause scars. In Weiner's case, there seems to be a (dumb, pointless) argument about whether he's a sexual harasser or "just" an asshole manager. But asshole managers ruin lives too.

Chuck_Tatum, Friday, 17 November 2017 22:03 (six years ago) link

i would imagine there's a bit more motivation to push back against general asshole behavior in the office in the wake of all this.

omar little, Friday, 17 November 2017 22:06 (six years ago) link

Not enough.

Randall Jarrell (dandydonweiner), Friday, 17 November 2017 22:17 (six years ago) link

i like greil a lot but his last few responses about clinton have been extremely frustrating

(The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Friday, 17 November 2017 23:23 (six years ago) link

Noxon pretty credible in that backup statement re: Weiner.

Dunham getting loads of shit for supporting a writer on Girls over an accusor. The pile-ons are starting to wear on me. Maybe Dunham is in the wrong; on the other hand, it sounds like the dude has an awful lot of supporters on that show. Could people maybe take a breath before setting everyone on fire?

akm, Saturday, 18 November 2017 16:47 (six years ago) link

Dunham has been trash tho

Men's Scarehouse - "You're gonna like the way you're shook." (m bison), Saturday, 18 November 2017 19:18 (six years ago) link

Yeah, and the fact that she doesn't believe the word of a black woman is the least surprising thing ever.

Frederik B, Saturday, 18 November 2017 20:48 (six years ago) link

I mean, know your own blind spots. If you have proof that makes you believe the woman is lying, say what they are. Dunham's statement was crap.

Frederik B, Saturday, 18 November 2017 20:49 (six years ago) link

she could have reached out to him privately; she could have said nothing at all. she could learn to read a fucking room

Simon H., Saturday, 18 November 2017 21:11 (six years ago) link

Yes calling women trash is obvs the way forward on a sexual assault thread

Chuck_Tatum, Saturday, 18 November 2017 22:16 (six years ago) link

Lena Dunham is an exception because ... wait I had it written down here somewhere ...

Andrew Farrell, Saturday, 18 November 2017 22:51 (six years ago) link

Dunham has admitted to abuse against her sister

Men's Scarehouse - "You're gonna like the way you're shook." (m bison), Sunday, 19 November 2017 00:08 (six years ago) link

What this series of accusations needed, really needed, above all else, is Morrissey's opinion on the matter.

Van Horn Street, Sunday, 19 November 2017 00:34 (six years ago) link

We need to get back to just burning it all down.

A is for (Aimless), Sunday, 19 November 2017 00:48 (six years ago) link

none of us know what happened. maybe dunham and konner know more- they said as much. the correct move in this situation is to say nothing. simon otm, dunham is just mind-bogglingly tin-eared, even if this is "mis-reported," wow, holy fucking shit, why would you ever jump the gun and make a statement like that when the optics are so bad, especially in this cultural climate. has she ever uttered the words "no comment"? again, they could be wrong, the guy could be guilty, but what's the rush in making a statement? it doesn't help his reputation or clear his name. it makes them and the guy they're supporting look really, really bad.

flappy bird, Sunday, 19 November 2017 00:51 (six years ago) link

voice of her generation iirc

j., Sunday, 19 November 2017 01:19 (six years ago) link

right, i mean she was a punchline from the very beginning, before Girls aired its first episode. she's certainly the most gaffe-prone voice of her generation

flappy bird, Sunday, 19 November 2017 01:22 (six years ago) link

This is a really hard read:

https://www.theverge.com/2017/11/19/16675704/morgan-marquis-boire-hacker-sexual-assault

Ned Raggett, Sunday, 19 November 2017 17:35 (six years ago) link

I know that guy.

El Tomboto, Sunday, 19 November 2017 17:56 (six years ago) link

Gross.

El Tomboto, Sunday, 19 November 2017 18:04 (six years ago) link

Marquis-Boire was a prolific speaker at security and human rights conferences, including the Aspen Ideas Festival in 2016. He sometimes used his considerable public platform to talk about the larger social problem of violence against women, and even stated that it motivated his recent work at Citizen Lab researching “stalkerware” or “spouseware” — spyware deployed against abused partners by their abusers. (In April 2017, he told Motherboard that he thought spouseware should receive more attention because it was common and widespread, and "the victims are everyday people.") Many of his best friends were women. He made casual, light-hearted jokes about misandry on Twitter.

In short, Marquis-Boire was supposed to be one of the good guys.

jesus what a fucking creep

Yeah. ugh.

El Tomboto, Sunday, 19 November 2017 18:29 (six years ago) link

I feel a little stupid for feeling surprised, considering I learned about this last year: http://adamshostack.com/ and every time I bring the broader issues up with female colleagues they’re like, “yeah, duh? I’ve had the good sense to avoid the creeps.”

I feel like I should have better creep radar.

El Tomboto, Sunday, 19 November 2017 18:36 (six years ago) link

flappy bird, Sunday, 19 November 2017 18:46 (six years ago) link

wow that adam shostack thing is pretty horrible.

akm, Sunday, 19 November 2017 19:33 (six years ago) link

And in both his case and Morgan’s you have guys who are doing their dissonant, LCK-ish thing of being public about how women deserve better and should feel less threatened in the boys’ club spaces they inhabit.

El Tomboto, Sunday, 19 November 2017 19:52 (six years ago) link

Yeah, the people I know who know Morgan Marquise-Boire are some of the most feminist women I know :(

Andrew Farrell, Sunday, 19 November 2017 20:29 (six years ago) link

I feel a little stupid for feeling surprised, considering I learned about this last year: http://adamshostack.com/ and every time I bring the broader issues up with female colleagues they’re like, “yeah, duh? I’ve had the good sense to avoid the creeps.”

I feel like I should have better creep radar.

― El Tomboto, Sunday, November 19, 2017 10:36 AM (one hour ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

tbh i think this is just why some creepy men are both able to get away with it and get people to lower their guard in the first place: they don't give off any creep signals, either because they're extremely good at being emotional con artists or they've convinced or fooled themselves into thinking they're not creepy men. i'll tell you, i recently discovered that a friend of mine views women in ways that certainly do not jibe with his male feminist persona, which is the one he deploys in public life and w/his close female friends.

omar little, Sunday, 19 November 2017 20:40 (six years ago) link

i agree that some women are better at creep detection it's not a matter of "duh" -- you learn to sniff them out by exposure. no "duh" about going through shit in order to be able to smell shit

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Sunday, 19 November 2017 21:18 (six years ago) link

I just meant in relation to me and my ignorance. I don’t want to describe my colleagues as lucky, that feels wrong.

El Tomboto, Sunday, 19 November 2017 21:34 (six years ago) link

I feel like, especially in the IT space, I have known men like that Morgan guy. Men who are effusive and charming and feminist-friendly but actually massive assholes behind the scenes. The fact he was in the Auckland goth scene made me sad lol.

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Sunday, 19 November 2017 22:49 (six years ago) link

man these stories are depressing

Nhex, Monday, 20 November 2017 04:33 (six years ago) link

Glenn Thrush suspended amid sexual harassment complaints https://t.co/cjwdkUZ3pF

— Justin Miller (@justinjm1) November 20, 2017

𝔠𝔞𝔢𝔨 (caek), Monday, 20 November 2017 15:53 (six years ago) link

rolling fedora 2011

mookieproof, Monday, 20 November 2017 16:18 (six years ago) link

ticks a lot of boxes that picture, it's true

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Monday, 20 November 2017 16:41 (six years ago) link

I had to zoom in because I knew I recognized that lanyard design from somewhere

Footnote: Lanyards for the
press passes still have “What’s
your SPIN?” imprinted on them.
That initially seemed a pejorative
knock on journalists. But it’s actually
a reminder to staffers to use
their Senate PIN numbers, which
are being swapped in for Social
Security numbers to reduce the
risk of identity theft.

El Tomboto, Monday, 20 November 2017 17:13 (six years ago) link

Oh fuck, not Charlie Rose now.

... (Eazy), Monday, 20 November 2017 21:53 (six years ago) link

The young women who were hired by the show were sometimes known as “Charlie’s Angels,” two former employees said. Rose frequently gave unsolicited shoulder rubs to several of them, behavior referred to among employees as “the crusty paw,” a former employee said.

the Hannah Montana of the Korean War (DJP), Monday, 20 November 2017 21:55 (six years ago) link

I don't quite know how to formulate the thoughts swirling through my head around all of this. It's equal parts "failure of society", "these disgusting abusers have no self-respect", "how often have I been complicit in the normalization of this type of behavior", "this doesn't have to be a natural consequence of fame and power", and "fuck all of these people to the degree commensurate to their offenses"

the Hannah Montana of the Korean War (DJP), Monday, 20 November 2017 22:00 (six years ago) link

There is parody character of Charlie Rose in the Royal Tenenbaums (2001), and I’ve always assumed this scene was the sly explanation for why Gwyneth Paltrow only every appeared on his IRL show once (1996) pic.twitter.com/1jbfOXZv5M

— Glynnis MacNicol (@GlynnMacN) November 20, 2017

mookieproof, Monday, 20 November 2017 22:29 (six years ago) link

With Charlie Rose, this finally has made me physically ill. I've been watching the guy, off and on, for 25 years.

Sanpaku, Monday, 20 November 2017 22:34 (six years ago) link

I hereby consent to the forced extinction of males

ur-oik (rip van wanko), Monday, 20 November 2017 22:43 (six years ago) link

That article is well done; his producer basically confirms that he did it all.

Burn it down; salt the earth btw

horseshoe, Monday, 20 November 2017 23:15 (six years ago) link

Chilling. Note the women in it who left journalism. & also, again, consider power that Rose (& regular guests, incl Halperin, including Thrush) had to shape narrative of HRC. The news here isn't just individual; it's structural:https://t.co/ylmAq4ZEgx

— Rebecca Traister (@rtraister) November 20, 2017

Ned Raggett, Monday, 20 November 2017 23:23 (six years ago) link

In that Vox story this boiled my blood:
In the morning, Thrush sent me an apologetic email. I didn’t save it, but I recall it as similar to the one he would later send to Padró Ocasio’s friend in June. He said he was sorry, but he didn’t say for what, exactly.

A few hours later, I saw him in deep conversation with a number of men I worked with. My gut told me something was up. I worried he was covering his tracks by spreading a rosy version of the night.

I am reminded yet again of a "friend" of mine who came to my house some year back to tell me a woman had gone to the cops about him raping her. He told me he was freaed out, denied he had, told me shit like "you know I'd never do this right". This was a guy I was NOT close friends with and rarely saw, and I got the impression he'd done the rounds of multiple friends with this sob story. In the end apparently the woman in question dropped any charges but the fact she'd gone that far left me feeling he had done something really wrong. I havent been able to bring myself to talk to him properly since. I dont know what I'd say now if I did.

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Monday, 20 November 2017 23:25 (six years ago) link

can't say I'm at all surprised about Charlie Rose

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u6QKub4Fazk

Οὖτις, Monday, 20 November 2017 23:33 (six years ago) link

Sadly, my inbox is already flooded with women who have had similar, disturbing encounters with Charlie Rose. My email is a✧✧.britt✧✧✧@washp✧✧✧.c✧✧ Please reach out if you have any information to share. Our reporting continues. @irin https://t.co/i8fgF8wabB

— Amy Brittain (@AmyJBrittain) November 20, 2017

Ned Raggett, Monday, 20 November 2017 23:40 (six years ago) link

tbh the most interesting thing to me about all of these stories coming out is not really that they happened at all. I have a pretty low opinion of men in power in general, I guess. But what is interesting is that a new weapon is being wielded against them - whereas before the only recourse for victims was really the courts, which were hardly a sympathetic venue historically, now there's this other outlet in the court of public opinion thanks to social media and other shifts and it's having an outsize effect that no one really predicted.

Οὖτις, Monday, 20 November 2017 23:49 (six years ago) link

I guess the next question is, for everyone else whose harasser or assaulter isn't a celebrity or media figure, where do they tell their story?

Chuck_Tatum, Monday, 20 November 2017 23:52 (six years ago) link

yeah that is a good question

Οὖτις, Monday, 20 November 2017 23:54 (six years ago) link

facebook it's where all stories must be told it's the law

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Tuesday, 21 November 2017 00:00 (six years ago) link

nothing i can articulate yet but thinking a lot about "open secrets"... what they are, how they form, the communities of silence that form around them...

Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Tuesday, 21 November 2017 00:03 (six years ago) link

The refrain of Rose’s victims leaving journalism is gutwrenching... and the fiefdom he created, having ultimate hiring & firing power completely enabled all of his predatory behaviour. It’s like working at a small owner-run business with a creepy boss, you’re trapped into either going along or jumping ship

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 21 November 2017 00:08 (six years ago) link

and Chuck raises a question i have been thinking about a lot, how to empower the employees of *any* kind of business to speak out in a collective voice against predatory acts in the workplace

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 21 November 2017 00:11 (six years ago) link

can't say I'm at all surprised about Charlie Rose

📹


this was my reaction, I was definitely surprised when I saw the story but thinking about it for a minute it makes sense

flappy bird, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 01:05 (six years ago) link

DJP your post is a good summation of what I’m grappling with but my version has a lot more falcon-cannot-hear-the-falconer shit going on and also I can’t tell which one I am.

El Tomboto, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 01:17 (six years ago) link

I guess the next question is, for everyone else whose harasser or assaulter isn't a celebrity or media figure, where do they tell their story?


Traister’s piece from a few days ago has a depressing note about this - the tips she has to turn away because the scumbag isn’t famous enough.

El Tomboto, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 01:18 (six years ago) link

I guess the next question is, for everyone else whose harasser or assaulter isn't a celebrity or media figure, where do they tell their story?

― Chuck_Tatum, Monday, November 20, 2017 5:52 PM (one hour ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

yeah that is a good question

― Οὖτις, Monday, November 20, 2017 5:54 PM (one hour ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

facebook it's where all stories must be told it's the law

― illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Monday, November 20, 2017 6:00 PM (one hour ago) Bookmark

this is exactly what i have been thinking -- how long before outing people on facebook is something people do
so many men must be shitting their pants right now wondering if that girl/those girls from high school/college/way back when is/are going to say something

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Tuesday, 21 November 2017 01:43 (six years ago) link

outing predators on facebook has been happening for the last year and a half ime

flappy bird, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 01:52 (six years ago) link

i've seen ppl come forward about stuff that has happened recently/semi-recently
i'm talking about outing events that have heretofore been considered ancient history -- things that happened 20+ years ago
the men in question are likely to be parents of young or school-aged children

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Tuesday, 21 November 2017 01:57 (six years ago) link

Does that have the same job-losing/prestige-destroying effect?

I'm not on the facebooks

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 01:59 (six years ago) link

it could be personally devastating/deeply humiliating -- would you like to me to try and find out? (kidding, one of them is dead and neither of them have ever been on fb as long as i have been there -- i checked over and over)

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Tuesday, 21 November 2017 02:01 (six years ago) link

there was a prominent member of our local theatre community who was accused by a student of being abusive, which was corroborated by an ex-lover who had been silent on FB for a while. resulted in massive furor across Central Florida but in the end, nothing really happened.

similar thing happened with another person, same result. it definitely gets people's attention, but harder to actually hit someone where they hurt when they're lower level

fuck you, your hat is horrible (Neanderthal), Tuesday, 21 November 2017 02:02 (six years ago) link

though, it did get people talking about it in both cases

fuck you, your hat is horrible (Neanderthal), Tuesday, 21 November 2017 02:02 (six years ago) link

Rose looks completely done: suspended by CBS and his show pulled by PBS

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Tuesday, 21 November 2017 02:06 (six years ago) link

Irin Carmon on PBS News earlier saying that the story isn't done yet either.

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Tuesday, 21 November 2017 02:07 (six years ago) link

Business Insider has a completely separate piece up with stories from people not in the WaPo story:

http://www.businessinsider.com/charlie-rose-accused-of-improper-behavior-by-former-interns-2017-11

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 02:37 (six years ago) link

I don't Facebook either and it seems wildly ill-advised to transfer the copyright in your accusatory statement to an advertising company

(this is my attitude to doing almost anything on facebook tbh but surely it puts you at a legal disadvantage here)

shackling the masses with plastic-wrapped snack picks (sic), Tuesday, 21 November 2017 02:50 (six years ago) link

Well that's assuming any legal action is even possible, much less preferable

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 02:57 (six years ago) link

damn, charlie ;_;

johnny crunch, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 04:02 (six years ago) link

im gonna miss his pbs show so much if it goes away, was just saying how recently hes been booking really broadly great/intersting guests

johnny crunch, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 04:04 (six years ago) link

In terms of being taken seriously, too - to surrender legal ownership of your claim, at point of publication, to an entity that will attempt to monetise it on their own behalf. and that will (AIUI) actively associate you with your alleged attacker in the future, eradicating any control you may have exercised on your interaction since the incident.

shackling the masses with plastic-wrapped snack picks (sic), Tuesday, 21 November 2017 04:07 (six years ago) link

xpost

shackling the masses with plastic-wrapped snack picks (sic), Tuesday, 21 November 2017 04:07 (six years ago) link

sic you're right
idk if a lot of people would have the foresight to think about all that but they should

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Tuesday, 21 November 2017 04:20 (six years ago) link

A Law Unto Himself: Barrister Charles Waterstreet Lied About Masturbation Video Played To Jobseeker

Five seasons of an award-winning prestige TV show have been made "inspired by" this dude, and how charming his drugging and drinking and harassment and fucking are, even though they distract from his practice

shackling the masses with plastic-wrapped snack picks (sic), Tuesday, 21 November 2017 06:35 (six years ago) link

nothing i can articulate yet but thinking a lot about "open secrets"... what they are, how they form, the communities of silence that form around them...

― Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Tuesday, November 21, 2017 1:03 AM (seven hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

yes. over the last few years harassment & assault has been revealed in my professional community by men wielding considerable professional power. People closely involved learn to live with the horrors because "otherwise" their professional life is good. the victims' damage is seen as a "sad" cost of keeping life good. I imagine this is how non-abolitionists who were still "against slavery" felt in the early 1800s.

droit au butt (Euler), Tuesday, 21 November 2017 08:00 (six years ago) link

Farrow's latest:

https://www.newyorker.com/news/news-desk/harvey-weinsteins-secret-settlements

Weinstein also hid the payments underwriting some of these settlements. In one case, in the nineteen-nineties, Bob Weinstein, who co-founded the film studio Miramax with his brother, paid two hundred and fifty thousand pounds, roughly six hundred thousand dollars today, to be split between two female employees in England who accused Harvey Weinstein of sexual harassment and assault. The funds came from Bob Weinstein’s personal bank account—a move that helped conceal the payment from executives at Miramax and its parent company, Disney, as well as from Harvey Weinstein’s spouse.

In an interview, Bob Weinstein acknowledged the personal payout but said that his brother had misled him about the reasons behind it. “Regarding that payment, I only know what Harvey told me, and basically what he said was he was fooling around with two women and they were asking for money,” Bob Weinstein told me. “And he didn’t want his wife to find out, so he asked me if I could write a check, and so I did, but there was nothing to indicate any kind of sexual harassment.” A former senior Miramax executive said that it was implausible that Bob Weinstein did not know about the nature of the allegations, which were reported to the company.

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 13:05 (six years ago) link

This section may be the most relevant long term:

Reiter also raised doubts about the fairness of lifetime nondisclosure agreements. “A forever N.D.A. should not be legal,” he told me. “People should not be made to live with that. He’s created so many victims that have been burdened for so many years, and it’s just not right.”

These contractual constraints are perfectly legal. Allred, the victim’s-rights attorney, said that courts usually enforce them and view efforts to break them as “buyer’s remorse.” But in recent weeks lawmakers and legal experts have called for reforms to this system. Estreicher has proposed that the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission, the government body that oversees workplace discrimination, track sexual-misconduct-related settlements and investigate employers who use them repeatedly. In addition to Congresswoman Jackie Speier’s legislation regarding congressional employees, state lawmakers in New York and California are pushing legislation to curtail the use of nondisclosure agreements in sexual-abuse cases. “These secret settlements perpetuate the problem. They allow rich men to continue to be sexual predators,” Connie Leyva, the California state senator who has announced legislation in that state, told me. “I hope that we can get this done in California, and that it will spread like wildfire around the country.”

Allred raised concerns about the potential reforms, which she feared could limit victims’ options. She noted that “anyone who agrees to enter into a settlement has a choice” and accepts both the costs and the—sometimes considerable—benefits. Good attorneys, she argued, explain the full implications of such agreements. “And then the client makes an informed choice.”

Gutierrez, Perkins, and other women who signed agreements with Weinstein told me that they felt their consent was far from informed.

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 13:11 (six years ago) link

My magazine, Radar, featured #Charlie Rose in our cover story about “Toxic Bachelors” TEN years ago, and refused to run a retraction when David Boies threatened to sue us. Others on our list: Jeremy Piven, Jeffrey Epstein, Colin Farrell, Joe Francis and Kevin Spacey. pic.twitter.com/tdM0RZ6hWw

— Maer Roshan (@MaerRoshan) November 21, 2017

mizzell, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 14:26 (six years ago) link

Toxic Bachelors
(continued)
Radar on Charlie Rose in 2007—"while he's on good behavior in the office, he loosens up in the Long Island village where he has a vacation home." pic.twitter.com/XqBxIfJyjB

— Harry Siegel (@harrysiegel) November 21, 2017

mizzell, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 14:29 (six years ago) link

something needs to be done about cy vance

mookieproof, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 15:07 (six years ago) link

https://www.musicbusinessworldwide.com/swedish-music-industry-rocked-by-sexual-assault-scandal/

The Swedish petition is signed by 1,993 women who work as producers, artists, songwriters, DJs, artist managers, A&Rs, booking agents, publishers and more besides. Their ranks include globally renowned performers such as Robyn, First Aid Kit and Zara Larsson (all pictured).

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Tuesday, 21 November 2017 16:31 (six years ago) link

yeah well there's a reason i said that blowing it up and starting all over would be the only way to fix things

maura, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 17:07 (six years ago) link

also the men responding to that traister tweet with INSISTENCES that clinton was a bad candidate really need some time in a corner

maura, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 17:11 (six years ago) link

i still can't get over "the crusty paw". ewwwwwwww.

he was gross enough on t.v.

now thinking of him walking around nude in front of people who worked for him....ewwwwwwwwww.

scott seward, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 17:47 (six years ago) link

BREAK: CBS has fired Charlie Rose. Memo that just went out to CBS News staffers pic.twitter.com/Db9NpKDv2l

— John Koblin (@koblin) November 21, 2017

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 17:47 (six years ago) link

Walking around in nothing but a chalk-stripe Purple Label jacket...

... (Eazy), Tuesday, 21 November 2017 17:48 (six years ago) link

BREAK: PBS is ending its relationship with Charlie Rose: "In light of yesterday’s revelations, PBS has terminated its relationship with Charlie Rose and cancelled distribution of his programs."

— John Koblin (@koblin) November 21, 2017

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 18:52 (six years ago) link

"Two women told the Post they reported Rose’s inappropriate actions to Yvette Vega, a longtime producer on his show. Vega told the Post she “failed” to help those women.

“I should have stood up for them,” she said."

uh yeah you think? she should be fired too.

akm, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 19:07 (six years ago) link

this bit...

That fall, she traveled with Rose to Aspen for a conference. On Oct. 1, after the trip, Bravo wrote an email to Vega, alluding to earlier issues with Rose:

“On a personal note, I know working for Charlie requires one to embrace his uniqueness and develop a professional relationship that can account for it. It’s taken a couple straight forward conversations between the two of us, but I feel I’m in a better place than previously. And that’s not to say that I was previously in a really bad place! It all might sound cryptic, but you seem to play somewhat of a motherly role for staff members and I just wanted you to know that I’m okay : )”

Vega responded the same day:

“I have some concerns for you especially in what you are trying to tell me in this email. Please know the following about me, I have worked with Charlie for 16 years, so there is nothing that I haven’t heard or possibly experienced – and that anything you ever reveal to me would be kept in confidence from anyone and from the top down, so that you can feel comfortable in that confidence...”

Number None, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 19:09 (six years ago) link

I have never liked Charlie Rose and couldn't bear to watch more than five minutes of him, no matter who his guest was. I am certain this was not because I have a highly sensitive "creep detector", but more because he seemed like there was nothing to him but an insufferable pose of gravitas.

A is for (Aimless), Tuesday, 21 November 2017 19:25 (six years ago) link

I watched his PBS show religiously back in the day but oh well, peace out Crusty Paw.

omar little, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 19:28 (six years ago) link

aimless . . . otm

mookieproof, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 19:31 (six years ago) link

he was such an unbearable ass-kisser. drooling over the rich/powerful. it was hard to take. the big ego people definitely loved being on his show.

scott seward, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 19:37 (six years ago) link

and he looked like the worst kind of '70s game show host drunk too

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 21 November 2017 19:41 (six years ago) link

he had tons of big names and great artists on his show but was always so blatantly unprepared. he asked the most inane, softball, "I didn't do the homework" type questions. the David Foster Wallace interview is great, CR has obviously not read a word of any of his books and they start talking about movies.

CR: The English Patient.
DFW: ...you're seriously asking about The English Patient?

flappy bird, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 19:42 (six years ago) link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-SIp6xSP7ds

scott seward, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 19:43 (six years ago) link

creepypaws...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H4uT6ou_ZGw&t=784s

scott seward, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 19:59 (six years ago) link

sidebar: I hate this year for many reasons, but high on the list is having to even briefly think about naked Harvey Weinstein & naked Charlie Rose

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 21 November 2017 20:33 (six years ago) link

This is on the vague tip...and yet.

https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/news/john-lasseter-taking-leave-absence-pixar-missteps-1057113

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 20:33 (six years ago) link

Not sure where to put this, touches on a bunch of the big names with a main focus on Woody Allen, but all through the lens of recent events.

https://www.theparisreview.org/blog/2017/11/20/art-monstrous-men/#.WhSJRpJcrD0.facebook

to fly across the city and find Aerosmith's car (C. Grisso/McCain), Tuesday, 21 November 2017 20:53 (six years ago) link

those lasseter missteps might just be the Cars movies. they suck so bad!

scott seward, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 20:54 (six years ago) link

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/DPLxwdhVoAAnQEA.jpg

yikes

reggae mike love (polyphonic), Tuesday, 21 November 2017 20:56 (six years ago) link

go get 'em!

scott seward, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 21:04 (six years ago) link

I really tried with that Paris Review piece but my god the word count

Simon H., Tuesday, 21 November 2017 21:20 (six years ago) link

damn, lassetter. apparently he was hitting on rashida jones who was cowriting toy story 4 (which I had no idea she was doing), and she quit.

akm, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 21:41 (six years ago) link

his statement is such flowery bullshit

Simon H., Tuesday, 21 November 2017 21:43 (six years ago) link

Did everyone already say "he kept trying to show women his little Woody"?

akm, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 22:12 (six years ago) link

no. no one fucking said that.

Men's Scarehouse - "You're gonna like the way you're shook." (m bison), Tuesday, 21 November 2017 22:16 (six years ago) link

ok just making sure

akm, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 23:02 (six years ago) link

man, pretty fucking disappointed in Lasseter

Nhex, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 23:10 (six years ago) link

I really tried with that Paris Review piece but my god the word count


lol bitches be talking amirite

horseshoe, Tuesday, 21 November 2017 23:48 (six years ago) link

no.

but that's okay and here's why

A is for (Aimless), Tuesday, 21 November 2017 23:50 (six years ago) link

Separately, this is still looming. Ashley Feinberg's update:

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/vice-sex-harassment-shane-smith_us_5a1063b9e4b045cf4371cbe4

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 22 November 2017 00:14 (six years ago) link

xp eugh that Variety piece is so gross:

The company’s co-founder is known as a hugger.

check please!

A number of ex-employees described Lasseter as an overgrown boy, with a limited sense of boundaries.

Some told Variety that he would make inappropriate comments about women, or touch them on their legs or backs. Some described receiving hugs that went on a few seconds too long.

“There is a currency there — the currency is touch, and being touched by this person who is always in charge,” said another former Pixar employee. “It’s personal and intimate and probably not appropriate.”

Another former employee said that after Pixar grew out of its Point Richmond office and moved to Emeryville in 2000, Lasseter’s behavior became more brazen. She said he would walk up to women in the office and kiss them on the lips.

“I found it shocking,” she said. “That’s not a normal way of greeting a colleague.”

😳

flappy bird, Wednesday, 22 November 2017 00:25 (six years ago) link

from that paris review piece

Hemingway’s girlfriend, the writer Martha Gellhorn, didn’t think the artist needed to be a monster; she thought the monster needed to make himself into an artist. “A man must be a very great genius to make up for being such a loathsome human being.” (Well, I guess she would know.) She’s saying if you’re a really awful person, you are driven to greatness in order to compensate the world for all the awful shit you are going to do to it. In a way, this is a feminist revision of all of art history; a history she turns with a single acid, brilliant line into a morality tale of compensation.

Mordy, Wednesday, 22 November 2017 00:28 (six years ago) link

And a further Lasseter piece

https://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2017/11/disney-pixar-john-lasseter-leave-allegations

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 22 November 2017 00:58 (six years ago) link

"Hemingway’s girlfriend, the writer Martha Gellhorn" is maybe not the correct way to describe Martha Gellhorn.

Key line from the Lasseter Variety article:

She said she never reported these issues because the systems were not in place to address the problem.

Chuck_Tatum, Wednesday, 22 November 2017 01:33 (six years ago) link

after we delete men, can we delete everyone left in HR?

Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Wednesday, 22 November 2017 02:07 (six years ago) link

i dvr charlie rose & my local pbs station this morning aired antique roadshow instead in that slot & tbh im reasonably just as fine watching this

johnny crunch, Wednesday, 22 November 2017 02:48 (six years ago) link

there’s a lot of egregious we usage and overreliance on rhetorical questions in the beginning of that paris review piece. i want to finish it but man i hate polemics in the platform age

maura, Wednesday, 22 November 2017 03:32 (six years ago) link

he’s saying if you’re a really awful person, you are driven to greatness in order to compensate the world for all the awful shit you are going to do to it.

classic mid 20th century post-Freud twaddle, as if creation weren't often a matter of "I want to write, I can write, let me make stuff up."

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 22 November 2017 03:36 (six years ago) link

what?

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 22 November 2017 06:42 (six years ago) link

i think her point is just, if you're a shithead, try to channel shithead energies into making something good for other ppl

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 22 November 2017 06:43 (six years ago) link

shower the people you love with shit

fuck you, your hat is horrible (Neanderthal), Wednesday, 22 November 2017 07:20 (six years ago) link

I liked that article. I did think the writing at the beginning was a bit...extra, but it smoothed out as she made her point.

horseshoe, Wednesday, 22 November 2017 09:47 (six years ago) link

yeah agreed. i had a similar convo w/ someone recently, the notion of art itself & success w/in creative milieu involves levels of selfishness and it creates lots of strange moral dilemmas...its unsurprising that many "great artists" are selfish to an extreme degree

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 22 November 2017 10:07 (six years ago) link

shower the people you love with shit


🎵show them your colon is clee-eean🎵

It happens sometimes. People just explode. Natural causes. (bizarro gazzara), Wednesday, 22 November 2017 11:01 (six years ago) link

Yeah I liked that piece on the whole. Seems like everybody criticising it didn't read the whole thing, which is understandable, but - maybe read the whole thing

Eg "egregious we usage" at the beginning is there specifically so that she can call it out like two paragraphs later

(Not that this exactly counters criticisms of overcooked rhetoric tbf haha)

treeship: a year in the life (wins), Wednesday, 22 November 2017 13:08 (six years ago) link

As someone whose comic sensibilities were crucially shaped by Woody Allen, I've tried to make it clear that I find the Soon-Yi relationship creepy at best, as is his persistent fetishization of teens, but based on the evidence I find it curious to use WA as the #1 "monster" artist.

(assuming everyone is agnostic on the Dyan Farrow accusation, as I think the current established facts force us to be... those of us who remember the McMartin daycare scandal anyway)

also re "ugh the Manhattan character is dating a (17-yo) high schooler," I'd like to see the author's list of what makes the Call Me By Your name 24/17 affair not disgusting, or equally disgusting.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 22 November 2017 13:24 (six years ago) link

i’m trying to read the whole thing. there are a lot of other “whole thing”s out there that don’t barrage me with poorly edited writing for paragraphs on end.

maura, Wednesday, 22 November 2017 13:25 (six years ago) link

even in the post editing age!

maura, Wednesday, 22 November 2017 13:26 (six years ago) link

agree that piece is flat-out awful

Chuck_Tatum, Wednesday, 22 November 2017 13:39 (six years ago) link

xp ok it got better. still too many rhetorical questions though

and as someone who’s often pushed back at male supremacy defining a whole other art form - particularly when it comes to grossly “transgressive” (ie woman hating) masculinity being way overpraised from elite types - and been taken way less seriously as a critic for doing so, i’m like “...sigh”

maura, Wednesday, 22 November 2017 13:41 (six years ago) link

like you can probably draw a bright line from that one dude getting super defensive about MANHATTAN to “the avant-garde need not be moral” and similar self-defensive statements

maura, Wednesday, 22 November 2017 13:42 (six years ago) link

I think this is because WA uses his standpoint as his raw materials for writing these movies.

Which is not the same as Polanski or Weinstein..

Mark G, Wednesday, 22 November 2017 14:17 (six years ago) link

the heck with woody, this was the male role model for generations of men:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=16ZKTw9FA_o

scott seward, Wednesday, 22 November 2017 14:50 (six years ago) link

Nick Carter on blast now...

... (Eazy), Wednesday, 22 November 2017 15:31 (six years ago) link

Yep

https://pitchfork.com/news/backstreet-boys-nick-carter-accused-of-rape/

omar little, Wednesday, 22 November 2017 15:36 (six years ago) link

well, if a girl doesn't immediately bite your dick off and call the cops it's consensual right? sheesh these ladies

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Wednesday, 22 November 2017 15:42 (six years ago) link

these women clearly need someone to explain to them what "consensual" means, preferably the person they're accusing of raping them

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Wednesday, 22 November 2017 15:48 (six years ago) link

i didn't read that whole paris review thing and i'm not saying that it is like this but i never ever have to read any variation on: will i ever be able to watch sleeper again???????????? kinda thing ever. as long as i live.

i don't watch his movies anymore. i don't want to know about him. he's gross. he was a hero of mine when i was a kid too but who cares. there are lots of movies to watch. and for woody fans out there look at it this way: in a hundred years if there are still people nobody will care what he did and everyone will delight in his antics again.

scott seward, Wednesday, 22 November 2017 16:44 (six years ago) link

he's gross.
this is exactly what my mom taught me when she told me that woody allen is gross. i was probably in my early teens, interested in watching movies with romantic examples i didn't find repulsive, and she was like "not woody allen, he's gross" and i believed her and she was right!

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Wednesday, 22 November 2017 16:49 (six years ago) link

My partner always left the room when I had Louis CK on, like "ok, see you some other time when you're doing something that's not this"

Chuck_Tatum, Wednesday, 22 November 2017 17:02 (six years ago) link

Surprised Michael Fassbender hasn't came up in all this. For beating up his ex-girlfriend.

Robert Adam Gilmour, Wednesday, 22 November 2017 17:04 (six years ago) link

hemingway could kill with a phone call. true story!

"Pfeiffer spent the rest of her life in Key West, with frequent visits to California, until her death on October 1, 1951 at age 56. Her death was attributed to an acute state of shock related to her son Gregory's arrest and a subsequent phone call from Ernest. Gregory, who had experienced gender identity issues for most of his life, had been arrested as a male caught entering a woman's restroom in a movie theater. Years later, after he had become a medical doctor, Gregory interpreted his mother's autopsy report as indicating that Pauline had died due to a pheochromocytoma tumor on one of her adrenal glands. His theory was that the phone call from Ernest had caused the tumor to secrete excessive adrenalin, and then stop, the resultant change in blood pressure causing her to go into the acute shock that caused her death."

scott seward, Wednesday, 22 November 2017 17:14 (six years ago) link

agree that piece is flat-out awful

― Chuck_Tatum, Wednesday, November 22, 2017 7:39 AM (four hours ago) Bookmark Fla

Why??

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 22 November 2017 18:39 (six years ago) link

i didn't read that whole paris review thing and i'm not saying that it is like this but i never ever have to read any variation on: will i ever be able to watch sleeper again???????????? kinda thing ever. as long as i live.

i don't watch his movies anymore. i don't want to know about him. he's gross. he was a hero of mine when i was a kid too but who cares. there are lots of movies to watch. and for woody fans out there look at it this way: in a hundred years if there are still people nobody will care what he did and everyone will delight in his antics again.

― scott seward, Wednesday, November 22, 2017 10:44 AM (one hour ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

That’s not really the point of the Paris review piece, thankfully

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 22 November 2017 18:40 (six years ago) link

Nick Carter was abused by Lou Perlman right

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 22 November 2017 18:41 (six years ago) link

also it's weird that the paris review piece ran there when its editor has its own, uh, problems

maura, Wednesday, 22 November 2017 19:06 (six years ago) link

where is the paris review piece? did someone link to it upthread? i can't find it w/ google

flappy bird, Wednesday, 22 November 2017 19:10 (six years ago) link

Surprised Michael Fassbender hasn't came up in all this. For beating up his ex-girlfriend

Was just thinking about the sighs of relief Joss Wheadon had after the Weinstein story broke and people stopped discussing his 'feminism as a front for macking on actresses'.

to fly across the city and find Aerosmith's car (C. Grisso/McCain), Wednesday, 22 November 2017 19:19 (six years ago) link

oh it's a "can we separate the art from the artist?" piece, pass

flappy bird, Wednesday, 22 November 2017 19:21 (six years ago) link

that paris review thing is just kinda bloggy. like from the old days. i do love that she uses the word "pettifoggery" because that's how the newspaper writer in my fave show Zoo gets busted and loses her job. she is writing an anonymous anti-corporate blog and her editor at the paper - a paper owned by the corporation the writer is blogging about - knows its her because she's the only person who ever uses that word.

scott seward, Wednesday, 22 November 2017 19:23 (six years ago) link

I don't think Whedon is really going to benefit from the Warvey Heinstein explosion. Especially not Fassbender.

Robert Adam Gilmour, Wednesday, 22 November 2017 19:29 (six years ago) link

wait, i just noticed that PR thing IS a blog thing. so, you know, that would make sense.

scott seward, Wednesday, 22 November 2017 19:56 (six years ago) link

oh it's a "can we separate the art from the artist?" piece, pass

― flappy bird, Wednesday, November 22, 2017 1:21 PM (one hour ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

thats really not what its about, either

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 22 November 2017 20:48 (six years ago) link

although i guess its kind of glib about that point near the beginning

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 22 November 2017 20:49 (six years ago) link

its editor has its own, uh, problems

Have any allegations been published?

mick signals, Wednesday, 22 November 2017 20:51 (six years ago) link

not yet

maura, Wednesday, 22 November 2017 21:12 (six years ago) link

Inevitable

http://ew.com/tv/2017/11/22/law-order-svu-harvey-weinstein

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 22 November 2017 21:13 (six years ago) link

They'd want to have Sherlock Holmes casting it

fake pato is kind of racist, dude (darraghmac), Wednesday, 22 November 2017 21:18 (six years ago) link

Hollywood will eat itself

Mark G, Wednesday, 22 November 2017 21:20 (six years ago) link

A rep from NBC noted that SVU is fiction.

.oO (silby), Wednesday, 22 November 2017 21:20 (six years ago) link

yeah, fwiw the Dederer article isn’t really about the thing it starts out being about. What is irritatingly precious about the writer’s voice evaporates, too; I think she did it on purpose. I found all the stuff about masculine insistence on objective aesthetic criteria and the problem of the woman artist to ring true, depressingly, to my experience. She is more than fair to Woody Allen, and I kind of mean that as a criticism, honestly.

horseshoe, Thursday, 23 November 2017 01:02 (six years ago) link

But Woody Allen himself is not really the point either.

horseshoe, Thursday, 23 November 2017 01:03 (six years ago) link

what is the point in 12 words or less.

scott seward, Thursday, 23 November 2017 01:47 (six years ago) link

fewer

mookieproof, Thursday, 23 November 2017 01:48 (six years ago) link

fine, 10 words

Men's Scarehouse - "You're gonna like the way you're shook." (m bison), Thursday, 23 November 2017 01:57 (six years ago) link

When will a mod change the thread title? This has expanded far beyond Weinstein.

I think we're living through an social epoch of reckoning that deserves a name, but I hate #sexcrisis. #badmalebehavior would be better.

For myself (heterosexual male, chemically "castrated" for decades thanks to SSRI antidepressants), I'm both unsurprised by the behavior of some hetero males, and repelled/disgusted. Maybe everyone should experience what it's like to not feel sexual compulsions, simply to understand how hugely important they are in motivation, but also hugely damaging to individuals, as we attempt to integrate all of us as participants in society.

We're apes. We all inherited motivations geared towards getting more genes into the next generation. We need a legal framework that understands this, and both rejects employment discrimination and non-consensual sexual advances, while still recognizing the role sexual compulsions have played in getting humanity to its present, pretty comfortable, state.

It's not boys will be boys. It's we're all trapped here, and we need to figure out how to match social incentives/disincentives against our genes.

Sanpaku, Thursday, 23 November 2017 15:13 (six years ago) link

so you're saying put a wiener on the coinage?

j., Thursday, 23 November 2017 16:32 (six years ago) link

thread title should stay, its fitting with idiosyncratic ilx titles

flappy bird, Thursday, 23 November 2017 16:42 (six years ago) link

No hashtags

flappy bird, Thursday, 23 November 2017 16:42 (six years ago) link

I probably went too far there..probably the pre-Thanksgiving dissociatives. From my perspective as an "outsider" on all of this, I just think we need, as a society, to distinguish between sexual advances that are an abuse of power (many of those on this thread), and acts that aren't sexual advances at all. For example George HW Bush or Al Franken incidentally touching buttocks at photo ops. We need to get more uptight and angry about abuses of power, but not all of this qualifies.

Sanpaku, Thursday, 23 November 2017 16:44 (six years ago) link

oooh “incidentally”

ToddBonzalez (BradNelson), Thursday, 23 November 2017 16:45 (six years ago) link

I think for the latter it's still an abuse of power and men taking what they want and implicitly feel they deserve and are allowed to get away with. Whether or not it rises to the level of Weinstein and others is probably not the issue, falling as it does under the general category of "shit men in positions of power and authority think they can do with impunity."

omar little, Thursday, 23 November 2017 16:48 (six years ago) link

And not even just those men, but random nothing men. (Which some of these guys are anyway despite their stature.)

omar little, Thursday, 23 November 2017 16:49 (six years ago) link

Yea obviously there are levels here but I think this cultural wave is sweeping the same general pattern of power abuse and silencing, this thread is a good repository and also Weinstein story lit the fuse

flappy bird, Thursday, 23 November 2017 16:53 (six years ago) link

ts: shit men vs random nothing men

ogmor, Thursday, 23 November 2017 17:15 (six years ago) link

acts that aren't sexual advances at all. For example George HW Bush or Al Franken incidentally touching buttocks at photo ops

but it wasn't "incidentally touching" they full on grabbed the butts. grabbing a butt is a sexual advance. and they did so because they could get away w it.

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Thursday, 23 November 2017 18:34 (six years ago) link

like Al Franken didn't incidentally shove his tongue down that girl's throat because it was an accident or a lapse in etiquette. it is funny to say "It's not boys will be boys" and take a grand stand and then follow it up with "but these guys are cool and this was not sexual" those two sentiments almost seem entirely at odds w each other. if you want to apologize for that behavior then go ahead but don't pretend you are doing otherwise

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Thursday, 23 November 2017 18:37 (six years ago) link

ts: shit men vs random nothing men


I would pay to see this, actually

El Tomboto, Thursday, 23 November 2017 18:46 (six years ago) link

We need a legal framework

Strange to say, societies that recognize the legal concept of property seem to struggle the most with defining the proper channels and boundaries for sexuality.

A is for (Aimless), Thursday, 23 November 2017 19:08 (six years ago) link

For w/e reason I don’t believe the Franken tongue part on a personal level, although at the stage of the discourse what I think doesn’t matter

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 24 November 2017 00:24 (six years ago) link

Like, it’s just an underlying suspicion I have if I’m being honest w myself about my bullshit detector

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 24 November 2017 00:25 (six years ago) link

And not even just those men, but random nothing men. (Which some of these guys are anyway despite their stature.)

― omar little, Thursday, November 23, 2017 10:49 AM (seven hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

I’m sure large % of dudes itt have have done something like that Franken photo tbh & I don’t say that to lessen the importance of reflecting on it but bc I think there’s a danger in dissociating from “the bad guys” & not recognizing the true extent to which male entitlement is a part of society’s fabric

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 24 November 2017 00:27 (six years ago) link

Let's just step back for a sec and let you set out exactly what you are sure that a large % of dudes itt have done, shall we

fake pato is kind of racist, dude (darraghmac), Friday, 24 November 2017 00:30 (six years ago) link

Let’s not? We already deleted a thread like that. The point is skepticism of holier than thou attitude

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 24 November 2017 00:31 (six years ago) link

Otm. Speak for yourself D-40.

Le Bateau Ivre, Friday, 24 November 2017 00:32 (six years ago) link

the otm was for deems

Le Bateau Ivre, Friday, 24 November 2017 00:32 (six years ago) link

"I’m sure large % of dudes itt have have done something like that Franken photo tbh "

I mean...

Le Bateau Ivre, Friday, 24 November 2017 00:33 (six years ago) link

I think there’s a danger in dissociating from “the bad guys” & not recognizing the true extent to which male entitlement is a part of society’s fabric

you know one way to discourage it from being a part of society's fabric until society is radically rearranged? making clear that behavior like this, no matter how common it is, has (or should have) material consequences

Simon H., Friday, 24 November 2017 00:33 (six years ago) link

Anyway I bring up the fact that I’m suspicious of the Franken accuser only to say, in my mind, I’ve accepted that an overcorrection is preferable unless some incontrovertible evidence comes out; better to extend benefit of the doubt in the opposite direction & nurse personal suspicions of a false accusation than try and argue for a return to the old way of thinking about this stuff just bc I have an intuition

I’m assuming some ppl feel this way as well no?

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 24 November 2017 00:34 (six years ago) link

you know one way to discourage it from being a part of society's fabric until society is radically rearranged? making clear that behavior like this, no matter how common it is, has (or should have) material consequences

― Simon H., Thursday, November 23, 2017 6:33 PM (one minute ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

I agree w this point and was in no way arguing against it!!

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 24 November 2017 00:35 (six years ago) link

truth be told, i'm slightly suspicious due to her political persuasion. but yeah, in this climate, better to err on the side of the accuser

Nhex, Friday, 24 November 2017 00:37 (six years ago) link

Otm. Speak for yourself D-40.

― Le Bateau Ivre, Thursday, November 23, 2017 6:32 PM (two minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Lol sorry that all the Good Guys make me skeptical ... I was raised by a single feminist mom & have always thought of myself as “not one of those guys” but imo this is something every guy should be reflecting on more thoroughly incl myself bc it really was something ppl are not raised to think about to the extent that’s now being discussed imo

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 24 November 2017 00:39 (six years ago) link

Anyway I bring up the fact that I’m suspicious of the Franken accuser only to say, in my mind, I’ve accepted that an overcorrection is preferable unless some incontrovertible evidence comes out; better to extend benefit of the doubt in the opposite direction & nurse personal suspicions of a false accusation than try and argue for a return to the old way of thinking about this stuff just bc I have an intuition

I’m assuming some ppl feel this way as well no?

― Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, November 24, 2017 12:34 AM (five minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

But what is this even supposed to mean? "An overcorrection is preferable unless some incontrovertible evidence comes up"?!

You saw the photo. He was ("pretend")-groping a woman who was defenseless and sleeping. What overcorrection is preferable here when you had incontrovertible evidence staring you in the face?

Le Bateau Ivre, Friday, 24 November 2017 00:44 (six years ago) link

I was talking about the kiss part

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 24 November 2017 00:46 (six years ago) link

And the specific example was not the point!

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 24 November 2017 01:14 (six years ago) link

Lol sorry that all the Good Guys make me skeptical ... I was raised by a single feminist mom & have always thought of myself as “not one of those guys” but imo this is something every guy should be reflecting on more thoroughly incl myself bc it really was something ppl are not raised to think about to the extent that’s now being discussed imo

― Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, November 23, 2017 7:39 PM (one hour ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

yo once again speak for yourself!

flappy bird, Friday, 24 November 2017 01:45 (six years ago) link

Respecting another person's personal space is not something I've had to grapple with, no. And Simon OTM about punishing this behavior so that it is mitigated and hopefully one day extinguished.

flappy bird, Friday, 24 November 2017 01:46 (six years ago) link

what you are sure that a large % of dudes itt have done

hemiola iirc

mookieproof, Friday, 24 November 2017 02:01 (six years ago) link

Respecting another person's personal space is not something I've had to grapple with, no. And Simon OTM about punishing this behavior so that it is mitigated and hopefully one day extinguished.

― flappy bird, Thursday, November 23, 2017 7:46 PM (twenty-nine minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

It doesn’t have to be a personal space violation exactly, again not the point, but I’m glad to hear everyone on this board has lived their entire lives in misogyny free zones

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 24 November 2017 02:20 (six years ago) link

And I wasn’t arguing with Simon!

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 24 November 2017 02:21 (six years ago) link

what are you sure that was done in this thread by a large percentage of dudes?
a distinctly difficult thing to say but harder still to do!
we'll beat a tattoo, at twenty to two, a rat tat tat tat tat tat tat tat tattoo,
and the dragon will come when he hears the drum, at a minute or two to two today, at a minute or two to two.

El Tomboto, Friday, 24 November 2017 02:31 (six years ago) link

Also in case I’m not being explicit enough: I don’t believe you

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 24 November 2017 02:31 (six years ago) link

(Xp)

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 24 November 2017 02:31 (six years ago) link

It doesn’t have to be a personal space violation exactly, again not the point,

ok what is the point? that Weinstein and Franken are worlds apart? sure, their transgressions are definitely not the same. everything that Franken is accused of, it's not something I've had to grapple with, and I did not grow up in a trad leftwing household by any means. i don't know wtf kind of 'zone' you're talking about that involves unwanted physical moves or crude comments.

but I’m glad to hear everyone on this board has lived their entire lives in misogyny free zones

i've never groped an unconscious woman, no. are you talking about 'the locker room'? there's absolutely a difference between teenagers/college students talking about who they find attractive, perhaps in vulgar terms, and touching/kissing them w/o consent or saying sick shit to them. it's sort of common sense.

flappy bird, Friday, 24 November 2017 02:32 (six years ago) link

Also in case I’m not being explicit enough: I don’t believe you

― Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, November 23, 2017 9:31 PM (one minute ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/CPEYDiBUYAAhX3Z.jpg

flappy bird, Friday, 24 November 2017 02:34 (six years ago) link

Almost every guy I’ve spoken w about this from a wide range of backgrounds has told me what’s been happening has them reflecting on their own behavior with women, pretty much to a man. And I don’t think (but don’t know) any of them have done anything illegal or dangerous per se, but it’s all a spectrum of male behavior that is implicitly and explicitly reinforced from the time we’re in pre school to the current day. Even studying the subject itself, reading bell hooks, whatever? I don’t think that really has made any men truly grapple w the extent of this, and I really think if you overly proclaim your innocence I just don’t trust you

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 24 November 2017 02:36 (six years ago) link

- that wasn't my point
- i was talking about (something irrelevant)
- but really, it's universal
- exactly! that's what i said 420 posts ago
- no, you're missing my point again
- i'm a deep thinker, you just can't keep up

mookieproof, Friday, 24 November 2017 02:37 (six years ago) link

"Almost every guy I’ve spoken w about this from a wide range of backgrounds has told me what’s been happening has them reflecting on their own behavior with women, pretty much to a man."

http://nymag.com/daily/politics/20061107pollster.jpg

scott seward, Friday, 24 November 2017 02:38 (six years ago) link

All of your imaginary friends are much better people than us

Or

All of your imaginary friends are much worse people than us

Admittedly neither statement would be all that shocking coming from a pair of clownshoes that can type

fake pato is kind of racist, dude (darraghmac), Friday, 24 November 2017 02:39 (six years ago) link

"I don’t think that really has made any men truly grapple w the extent of this"

https://i2.wp.com/www.marriagerevolution.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/Mind-Reader.jpg

scott seward, Friday, 24 November 2017 02:41 (six years ago) link

hey man you're the one that came out swinging with generalizations and calling people liars. Good luck on your survey

flappy bird, Friday, 24 November 2017 02:41 (six years ago) link

And I’m also not defending !! The Franken photo and I’m sorry if it came across that way ? Seems to me he thought he was doing a visual gag & totally overstepped boundaries but I also don’t believe most men on ilx haven’t overstepped appropriate behavior even one time in their lives — not groping someone per se but making a shitty joke at work, or saying something shitty about someone’s appearance, or ... I don’t know man, again this is for people to deal w personally, I’m just saying

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 24 November 2017 02:43 (six years ago) link

"Almost every guy I’ve spoken w about this from a wide range of backgrounds has told me what’s been happening has them reflecting on their own behavior with women, pretty much to a man."

http://nymag.com/daily/politics/20061107pollster.jpg

― scott seward, Thursday, November 23, 2017 8:38 PM (four minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Are you guys really not talking w your friends about this? Or is this just pile on deej

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 24 November 2017 02:45 (six years ago) link

i do kind of feel like piling on you. and i apologize. it's christmas! i'll stop. and go eat more pie.

scott seward, Friday, 24 November 2017 02:47 (six years ago) link

guys ... maybe this is not the most productive use of this thread? and there are better ways to show how chill you are to women than snarking at each other itt

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 24 November 2017 03:02 (six years ago) link

^^^

ToddBonzalez (BradNelson), Friday, 24 November 2017 03:06 (six years ago) link

what is the optimum way to show how chill you are to women? asking for a friend.

Position Position, Friday, 24 November 2017 03:21 (six years ago) link

Get entombed in a glacier, maybe?

you had better come correct (Ye Mad Puffin), Friday, 24 November 2017 03:29 (six years ago) link

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 24 November 2017 03:33 (six years ago) link

https://youtu.be/7PgaW596DKc

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 24 November 2017 03:33 (six years ago) link

the worst Franken denier on my FB wall is a woman, i.e. she doesn't believe he did anything other than admit to what he did (some of you are friend with her).

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 24 November 2017 03:40 (six years ago) link

for the record, i am not historically a pile on deej kinda guy. i like him! but his posts were bugging me and honestly i don't think the moral thread conscience/thread ombudsman/i know what people are REALLY thinking/who among us is not without sin kinda thing is fruitful here. nobody here is saying they are a blameless angel. and when you presume to speak for others/tell others how they really feel about something its...uh...presumptuous. speak for yourself. or have a conversation with others. but really i just blame a long day and too much turkey on my two withering and brutal images of a pollster and a mentalist guy.

scott seward, Friday, 24 November 2017 03:57 (six years ago) link

I’m ok. W ending the convo here but i stand by this: I think there’s a danger in dissociating from “the bad guys” & not recognizing the true extent to which male entitlement is a part of society’s fabric

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 24 November 2017 04:04 (six years ago) link

I feel like all the MRAs and anti-SJWs and "what's the big fucking deal?" bros are just dying for any one of these stories to reveal that an accuser was not being truthful. They'll probably explode. I bet it drives them nuts that every story, no matter what the charge, pretty much invites the same level of maximum vitriol towards the accused as a result (usually in response to the "apology"). It's a great way to make a point to society about how none of it is acceptable- I'm just imagining how it's driving those groups insane given they're well beyond learning anything from all of this.

Evan, Friday, 24 November 2017 04:16 (six years ago) link

They'd* (don't mean to imply that I think it's expected)

Evan, Friday, 24 November 2017 04:17 (six years ago) link

the worst Franken denier on my FB wall is a woman, i.e. she doesn't believe he did anything other than admit to what he did (some of you are friend with her).

Wait you’ve lost me - she thinks he didn’t do the thing he admitted?

Andrew Farrell, Friday, 24 November 2017 07:44 (six years ago) link

*things

Andrew Farrell, Friday, 24 November 2017 07:53 (six years ago) link

He denied part of it

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 24 November 2017 07:55 (six years ago) link

Is that the part where he says he doesn’t remember but apologises any way? That seemed legit to me.

Andrew Farrell, Friday, 24 November 2017 08:04 (six years ago) link

I thought he said he didn’t remember the event the same way which isn’t the same as saying he didn’t remember it but idk

Also totally possible what she said was right of course, and I’d rather benefit of the doubt go to her than him even if I am personally skeptical 🤨

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 24 November 2017 08:12 (six years ago) link

do all the people who don't believe in the effectiveness of deterrents make an exception for this? the loud desire to ostracise offenders seems of a piece with people's testy reaction to any suggestion that this behaviour is part of a wider culture they're complicit in, reminds me of white outrage over accusations of racism

ogmor, Friday, 24 November 2017 08:13 (six years ago) link

i don't know anyone here is dissociating from franken? i'm not. the fact that his joke photo is on a continuum with stupid disrespectful shit I've probably said and done makes loudly calling it out even more liberating and consequential

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Friday, 24 November 2017 08:44 (six years ago) link

liberated from what?

ogmor, Friday, 24 November 2017 08:49 (six years ago) link

from the shitty disrespectful person i could act like in the past, the person that was on a continuum with the franken photo

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Friday, 24 November 2017 08:51 (six years ago) link

idk, i don't think denouncing a crime to no effect online takes me any further away from bad things i've done in the past. it feels more honest to admit the similarities rather than stress the difference. the fact that it feels good to morally condemn is a good reason to be wary of it, because it comes from wanting to assert that distance, to say I'm not one of them, protesting too much. the dissonance between how men think and talk about themselves and how they act has been one of the most interesting and serious issues highlighted in some of these cases. I don't think that's unusual really; people don't relate and identify with everything they do equally, they build narratives about themselves and so on, and this seems like a good opportunity to question them rather than reinforce them.

ogmor, Friday, 24 November 2017 09:23 (six years ago) link

fair enough. i've found all this incredibly useful in terms of analysing my own behaviour and my past behaviour. the rage and outright condemnation i feel and express towards the abuse coming to light is in part a condemnation of the part of me that would have once justified that abuse, or ignored it. it feelsgoodman because i'm recognising, naming and disavowing. not pretending the work is done, it's not an evasion exercise.

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Friday, 24 November 2017 09:57 (six years ago) link

xp to Deej: I checked and he kinds of splits the difference, the line is "While I don't remember the rehearsal for the skit as Leeann does, I understand why we need to listen to and believe women's experiences" which I guess you could see as an adaptable answer, pushing progressive principles while being open to the possibility that this is a hit.

Andrew Farrell, Friday, 24 November 2017 10:40 (six years ago) link

I don’t think that really has made any men truly grapple w the extent of this, and I really think if you overly proclaim your innocence I just don’t trust you

― Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, November 23, 2017 6:36 PM (yesterday) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

lol what is this

brimstead, Friday, 24 November 2017 15:54 (six years ago) link

sorry i guess the pile on is over. he does it to himself!!!

brimstead, Friday, 24 November 2017 15:54 (six years ago) link

it really was something ppl are not raised to think about to the extent that’s now being discussed imo

― Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, November 23, 2017 7:39 PM (one hour ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

just one more, amazing

brimstead, Friday, 24 November 2017 15:55 (six years ago) link

i dont see why that's so 'amazing' or deserving of ridicule.

idk, i don't think denouncing a crime to no effect online takes me any further away from bad things i've done in the past. it feels more honest to admit the similarities rather than stress the difference. the fact that it feels good to morally condemn is a good reason to be wary of it, because it comes from wanting to assert that distance, to say I'm not one of them, protesting too much. the dissonance between how men think and talk about themselves and how they act has been one of the most interesting and serious issues highlighted in some of these cases. I don't think that's unusual really; people don't relate and identify with everything they do equally, they build narratives about themselves and so on, and this seems like a good opportunity to question them rather than reinforce them.

― ogmor, Friday, 24 November 2017 09:23 (seven hours ago) Permalink


o.t.m.

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 24 November 2017 16:58 (six years ago) link

fair enough. i've found all this incredibly useful in terms of analysing my own behaviour and my past behaviour. the rage and outright condemnation i feel and express towards the abuse coming to light is in part a condemnation of the part of me that would have once justified that abuse, or ignored it. it feelsgoodman because i'm recognising, naming and disavowing. not pretending the work is done, it's not an evasion exercise.

― illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Friday, November 24, 2017 3:57 AM (seven hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

i identify w this to an extent too, i certainly dont want to say im against condemnation!

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 24 November 2017 16:59 (six years ago) link

"I don’t think that really has made any men truly grapple w the extent of this" was a reference to i.e. studying bell hooks, the point was the conversation, where it is now, is highlighting ways in which we have historically ignored this conversation, that wasn't an effort at even making some novel point but is almost banally true, & i think the notion has been mentioned in articles ppl have posted in passing

but keep reading me in bad faith for your own entertainment i guess

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 24 November 2017 17:05 (six years ago) link

the dissonance between how men think and talk about themselves and how they act has been one of the most interesting and serious issues highlighted in some of these cases
otm!

sometimes i think pile ons are caused by the dissonance between what a man thinks he is doing and saying and how others interpret those two things

(not always, but in this case that seems to be true -- i don't honestly think deej is doing much more than reflecting on his own complicity in the creation of a pervasive misogynist climate. i think this is good even if it comes out weird. if a man doesn't want to confront his complicity, openly or silently to himself, i think that man is not working hard enough to understand his own role in the patriarchy. this is just my feeling)

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Friday, 24 November 2017 17:22 (six years ago) link

don't see what in those deej posts was objectionable enough to get trampled underfoot in a #notallmen stampede tbh, LL otm

treeship: a year in the life (wins), Friday, 24 November 2017 17:26 (six years ago) link

creation of a pervasive misogynist climate
creation, maintenance, perpetuation of

not like it just popped up recently or anything

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Friday, 24 November 2017 17:26 (six years ago) link

I think what I said yesterday was generally along the lines of what deej said but I haven't kept up with the convo 100%.

omar little, Friday, 24 November 2017 18:12 (six years ago) link

Uma Thurman on Harvey Weinstein: 'You don't deserve a bullet'

flappy bird, Friday, 24 November 2017 18:17 (six years ago) link

Yes that was good

Also I like to think she’s been in character as The Bride ever since 2003

El Tomboto, Friday, 24 November 2017 18:22 (six years ago) link

Also liked Gwyneth's fist-bump emoji in the comments.

... (Eazy), Friday, 24 November 2017 18:24 (six years ago) link

The last couple of days I've been reimagining the Bill/Budd scene in Kill Bill 2 as being between QT and Weinstein. "That woman deserves her revenge...and we deserve to die."

WilliamC, Friday, 24 November 2017 18:50 (six years ago) link

I think deej is bringing up important stuff and honestly I think ppl are reacting really strange to it

Universal LULU Nation (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Friday, 24 November 2017 19:19 (six years ago) link

do all the people who don't believe in the effectiveness of deterrents make an exception for this? the loud desire to ostracise offenders seems of a piece with people's testy reaction to any suggestion that this behaviour is part of a wider culture they're complicit in, reminds me of white outrage over accusations of racism

― ogmor, Friday, November 24, 2017 3:13 AM (eleven hours ago)

https://www.newyorker.com/news/our-columnists/should-al-franken-resign-is-the-wrong-question

k3vin k., Friday, 24 November 2017 19:21 (six years ago) link

http://www.truth-out.org/opinion/item/42680-punishing-predators-will-not-save-us

― j., Friday, 24 November 2017 17:24

Thanks.

Robert Adam Gilmour, Friday, 24 November 2017 19:28 (six years ago) link

I think deej is bringing up important stuff and honestly I think ppl are reacting really strange to it

― Universal LULU Nation (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Friday, November 24, 2017 2:19 PM (two minutes ago)

his point that we are all complicit in the culture that turns a blind eye to this sort of conduct is valid. being deej, he had to make it in an accusatory/inflammatory way -- and preface it by bringing up his single feminist mom, implicitly letting himself off the hook a bit -- so of course people responded accordingly

k3vin k., Friday, 24 November 2017 19:36 (six years ago) link

Treating people who commit sexual violence as outliers, who can simply be ejected from our society, will not unravel the norms, policies and practices that make sexual violence inevitable in this society. Pretending we can effectively address the problem with a smattering of takedowns will actually reinforce those norms, policies and practices.

We aren't hunting for predators in an otherwise pristine forest. The forest itself is on fire. It always has been. And when the predator hunt ends, we'll still be standing in the flames.

I agree with all this! but implementing the really transformative solutions (instituting restorative justice measures, for instance) would require a *literal* revolution. (Which I'm 100% down for but let's be real about what we're talking about.)

Simon H., Friday, 24 November 2017 19:43 (six years ago) link

Do not at all want to validate deej's persecution complex nor indeed get the thread bogged down even further but that is a supremely bad faith reading of the feminist mom comment (which didn't preface anything, incidentally) - take your point otherwise xp

treeship: a year in the life (wins), Friday, 24 November 2017 19:46 (six years ago) link

chief keef *runs and hides*

Universal LULU Nation (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Friday, 24 November 2017 20:15 (six years ago) link

it may be a less-than-generous reading, but i don't think it's in bad faith. his point seemed to be that our complicity stems in part from not being raised to think about the issues correctly (btw, i had a feminist mom) and not reading enough bell hooks (who btw i have studied). in fairness to deej he did admit that he himself was implicated in this as well, but i don't exactly think it's a mystery why his posts rubbed some the wrong way.

happy to let this die btw sorry

k3vin k., Friday, 24 November 2017 20:36 (six years ago) link

Firing bosses and replacing them with women and maybe the occasional woke guy doesn’t involve civilian hangings or firebombing of courthouses so I still fail to see how a literal revolution is what has to happen.

El Tomboto, Friday, 24 November 2017 20:40 (six years ago) link

If you think the issue is simply a matter of who holds the better end of the wildly skewed power imbalances and not the wildly skewed power imbalances *themselves*, sure.

Simon H., Friday, 24 November 2017 20:44 (six years ago) link

(I don't think anyone would argue against the fact that more female studio heads or US senators whatever would result in a reduction in sexual harassment and assault in those sectors - which is good! - but nothing about how, for example, the courts handle such cases or individuals' lack of power in the workplace to deal with *any* type of abuse by superiors would change.)

Simon H., Friday, 24 November 2017 20:49 (six years ago) link

Firing bosses and replacing them with women and maybe the occasional woke guy doesn’t involve civilian hangings or firebombing of courthouses

The hitch in this thought is that who will do the firing of the bosses? Because if the answer is "their bosses", then you haven't had your coffee, yet.

A is for (Aimless), Friday, 24 November 2017 20:52 (six years ago) link

Scroll back up to where I asked when the unions are going to take this on the chin. All of the incorporated bodies that are supposed to protect their talent have to answer for this as well, and held accountable by their workers.

El Tomboto, Friday, 24 November 2017 20:55 (six years ago) link

chief keef *runs and hides*


https://media.giphy.com/media/3o6Mb2BaTIMLz6uZ56/giphy.gif

treeship: a year in the life (wins), Friday, 24 November 2017 20:56 (six years ago) link

Scroll back up to where I asked when the unions are going to take this on the chin. All of the incorporated bodies that are supposed to protect their talent have to answer for this as well, and held accountable by their workers.

Unions only represent about 10% of the US workforce

Simon H., Friday, 24 November 2017 20:59 (six years ago) link

Nor do they "fire bosses".

A is for (Aimless), Friday, 24 November 2017 21:12 (six years ago) link

well they OUGHTA

j., Friday, 24 November 2017 21:30 (six years ago) link

1, scroll up, Fisk

2, they definitely used to and still could in those industries that still have unions

El Tomboto, Friday, 24 November 2017 21:31 (six years ago) link

Uma Thurman’s “I’m Glad It’s Going Slowly - You Don’t Deserve A Bullet” is named Best New Music pic.twitter.com/1KqRBlZeHm

— PRIESTS🤹🏼‍♀️🤠🐛🐩 (@PRIESTS_TWEET) November 24, 2017

flappy bird, Friday, 24 November 2017 21:32 (six years ago) link

it may be a less-than-generous reading, but i don't think it's in bad faith. his point seemed to be that our complicity stems in part from not being raised to think about the issues correctly (btw, i had a feminist mom) and not reading enough bell hooks (who btw i have studied). in fairness to deej he did admit that he himself was implicated in this as well, but i don't exactly think it's a mystery why his posts rubbed some the wrong way.

happy to let this die btw sorry

― k3vin k., Friday, November 24, 2017 2:36 PM (two hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

i was making the opposite point you dumb idiot: that having a feminist mom & having read a lot of bell hooks explicitly *does not* let men off the hook

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 24 November 2017 23:00 (six years ago) link

why would i have a persecution complex when this kind of stuff gets intentionally misread every time i post abt a controversial topic?

agree i presented it in an inflammatory way, disagree that this means it was useless, although id rather these things not become referendums on myself sure

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 24 November 2017 23:02 (six years ago) link

anyway the masha gessen piece is good

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 24 November 2017 23:04 (six years ago) link

it's "interesting" that now a leftish former satirist and good-guy politician is in the frame that men need to rethink the volume of their chastisement

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Friday, 24 November 2017 23:27 (six years ago) link

Rephrase

El Tomboto, Saturday, 25 November 2017 00:01 (six years ago) link

just watch your fucking tone, that goes for me too obv

brimstead, Saturday, 25 November 2017 00:03 (six years ago) link

There are times where allegations are unfounded but this is not one of those times. And I’ve seen the proof. Just because your text messages were not published, doesn’t mean they don’t exist. Tread lightly. https://t.co/HL2uN02WcR

— om (@oliviamunn) November 25, 2017

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Saturday, 25 November 2017 00:30 (six years ago) link

it's "interesting" that now a leftish former satirist and good-guy politician is in the frame that men need to rethink the volume of their chastisement

its true that after years of enthusiastically decrying the moral corruption of others on ilx the welfare of this politician I've never heard of made me very hastily reverse my feelings on the matter

ogmor, Saturday, 25 November 2017 02:39 (six years ago) link

#notallilx0rs

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Saturday, 25 November 2017 09:40 (six years ago) link

stop shitting the thread up with your wounded snark you self-exculpatory weasel shite

ogmor, Saturday, 25 November 2017 14:31 (six years ago) link

ilx got good again

imago, Saturday, 25 November 2017 14:41 (six years ago) link

i was making the opposite point you dumb idiot

board description obvs

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Saturday, 25 November 2017 16:31 (six years ago) link

on my phone "ogmor" autocorrects to "pignut" or "ignore" fwiw

i can't remember what i was going to say

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Saturday, 25 November 2017 21:05 (six years ago) link

Daddy, what's a pignut?

The buttermilk of Beelzebub (Tom D.), Saturday, 25 November 2017 21:09 (six years ago) link

the rats are banding together

https://www.washingtonpost.com/investigations/a-woman-approached-the-post-with-dramatic--and-false--tale-about-roy-moore-sje-appears-to-be-part-of-undercover-sting-operation/2017/11/27/0c2e335a-cfb6-11e7-9d3a-bcbe2af58c3a_story.html?utm_term=.546ba6791be6

A woman who falsely claimed to The Washington Post that Roy Moore, the Republican U.S. Senate candidate in Alabama, impregnated her as a teenager appears to work with an organization that uses deceptive tactics to secretly record conversations in an effort to embarrass its targets.

In a series of interviews over two weeks, the woman shared a dramatic story about an alleged sexual relationship with Moore in 1992 that led to an abortion when she was 15. During the interviews, she repeatedly pressed Post reporters to give their opinions on the effects that her claims could have on Moore’s candidacy if she went public.

The Post did not publish an article based on her unsubstantiated account. When Post reporters confronted her with inconsistencies in her story and an Internet posting that raised doubts about her motivations, she insisted that she was not working with any organization that targets journalists.

But on Monday morning, Post reporters saw her walking into the New York offices of Project Veritas, an organization that targets the mainstream news media and left-leaning groups. The organization sets up undercover “stings” that involve using false cover stories and covert video recordings meant to expose what the group says is media bias.

James O’Keefe, the founder of Project Veritas who was convicted of a misdemeanor in 2010 for using a fake identity to enter a federal building during a previous sting, declined to answer questions about the woman outside the Project Veritas office, a storefront in Mamaroneck, N.Y., on Monday morning shortly after the woman walked inside.

maura, Monday, 27 November 2017 21:57 (six years ago) link

Evil

flappy bird, Monday, 27 November 2017 21:59 (six years ago) link

i'm glad that the post published her off the record comments though. i wonder how much she got paid

maura, Monday, 27 November 2017 22:01 (six years ago) link

probably not a lot since

Alice Crites, a Post researcher who was looking into Phillips’s background, found the document that strongly reinforced the reporters’ suspicions: a Web page for a fundraising campaign by someone with the same name. It was on the website GoFundMe.com under the name Jaime Phillips.

“I’m moving to New York!” the May 29 appeal said. “I’ve accepted a job to work in the conservative media movement to combat the lies and deceipt of the liberal MSM. I’ll be using my skills as a researcher and fact-checker to help our movement. I was laid off from my mortgage job a few months ago and came across the opportunity to change my career path.”

In a March posting on its Facebook page, Project Veritas said it was seeking 12 new “undercover reporters,” though the organization’s operatives use methods that are eschewed by mainstream journalists, such as misrepresenting themselves.

A posting for the “journalist” job on the Project Veritas website that month warned that the job “is not a role for the faint of heart.”

maura, Monday, 27 November 2017 22:04 (six years ago) link

fucking psychos

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Monday, 27 November 2017 22:09 (six years ago) link

So much for that career path.

Sanpaku, Monday, 27 November 2017 22:10 (six years ago) link

So since they're merely truth-seekers, I assume Project Veritas will make a statement praising the Post's thoroughness and integrity wrt this attempted setup.

A True White Kid that can Jump (Granny Dainger), Monday, 27 November 2017 22:31 (six years ago) link

well...

Way back in 2015, @Project_Veritas got a 0K. donation from @realDonaldTrump's charity, after pitching Trump on their work. pic.twitter.com/B88gRZEUus

— David Fahrenthold (@Fahrenthold) November 27, 2017

maura, Monday, 27 November 2017 22:33 (six years ago) link

Project Bullshit was taken i gather

i believe that (s)he is sincere (forksclovetofu), Monday, 27 November 2017 22:34 (six years ago) link

forks you should know by now that republicans and other rightish elementals love to cloak their insipid fascism in "freedom" and "truth" verbal drag

maura, Monday, 27 November 2017 22:35 (six years ago) link

"It's opposite day in America"

i believe that (s)he is sincere (forksclovetofu), Monday, 27 November 2017 22:41 (six years ago) link

I would like to know why Harvard hasn't sued O'Keefe yet.

the Hannah Montana of the Korean War (DJP), Monday, 27 November 2017 22:50 (six years ago) link

Or, if not them, Veritas Technologies.

the Hannah Montana of the Korean War (DJP), Monday, 27 November 2017 22:50 (six years ago) link

because peter thiel is on the other end of that lawsuit

https://www.villagevoice.com/2009/09/22/conservative-facebook-investor-funded-anti-acorn-videographer/

𝔠𝔞𝔢𝔨 (caek), Monday, 27 November 2017 23:00 (six years ago) link

the grand unifying theory of cockitude

maura, Monday, 27 November 2017 23:11 (six years ago) link

i had either never realized or forgotten about that detail but ... fuck!

maura, Monday, 27 November 2017 23:11 (six years ago) link

laid off from my mortgage job

j., Tuesday, 28 November 2017 02:30 (six years ago) link

lies and deceipt

ToddBonzalez (BradNelson), Tuesday, 28 November 2017 03:18 (six years ago) link

show me the deciepts

maura, Tuesday, 28 November 2017 03:19 (six years ago) link

Disease of conceipt

bumbling my way toward the light or wahtever (hardcore dilettante), Tuesday, 28 November 2017 23:12 (six years ago) link

Any underemployed journos want to go double-agent on these d-bags?

bumbling my way toward the light or wahtever (hardcore dilettante), Tuesday, 28 November 2017 23:13 (six years ago) link

NBC's Matt Lauer fired, inappropriate workplace behavior -- NBC chairman statement below. @cnn pic.twitter.com/U5l9vVegg4

— AnneClaire Stapleton (@AnneClaireCNN) November 29, 2017

Le Bateau Ivre, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 12:18 (six years ago) link

I saw the announcement live. Haven't there been "Matt Lauer's an asshole, he's gonna go" stories floating for at least a year?

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 12:25 (six years ago) link

Any underemployed journos want to go double-agent on these d-bags?

This is a great (and hilarious) idea in theory but it's tough for me to imagine it accomplishing much that the WaPo story didn't

Simon H., Wednesday, 29 November 2017 13:24 (six years ago) link

according to wiki, lauer's salary was 28 million a year! that's a lot of money.

scott seward, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 13:27 (six years ago) link

yeah, he's the Albert Pujols of morning-TV drones

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 15:35 (six years ago) link

Tom Cruise cackles over morning coffee, alone, in front of a foggy window in Martha's Vineyard

Dominique, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 15:47 (six years ago) link

Surprised Lauer lasted so long. Perpetual tabloid hag. Another few I wouldn’t be surprised by at all: Chris Matthews, Lawrence O’Donnell, Don Lemon

flappy bird, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 16:31 (six years ago) link

i remember everyone thought he was a creep about the Ann Curry thing, and she left under a weird inexplicable cloud bc of him.

omar little, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 16:37 (six years ago) link

it's funny that lauer was the fresh air after the toxic cloud of gumbel. now who is smelly? and real sports is kinda awesome!

scott seward, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 16:41 (six years ago) link

lauer thought she was an idiot and forced her out as a condition of extending his contract, allegedly.

akm, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:02 (six years ago) link

Wait, what toxic cloud of Gumbel?

the Hannah Montana of the Korean War (DJP), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:04 (six years ago) link

Chris Matthews

this dude def has the air of a misogynistic lech

Οὖτις, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:04 (six years ago) link

"Wait, what toxic cloud of Gumbel?"

what, you don't remember the infamous memo backlash?

scott seward, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:12 (six years ago) link

i just remember him taking his eyeglasses off and furrowing his brow exasperatedly

brimstead, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:13 (six years ago) link

Gumbel the only one of that crew who may have had a brain. Jeez, is there anything more ignominious than being a morning show host? Who remembers Jane Pauley and Joan Lunden?

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:17 (six years ago) link

all that money curdles t.v. people. remember america's sweetheart katy couric? doing life for double murder.

scott seward, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:21 (six years ago) link

t.v. newspeople pretty backstabby in general. plus, they have to smile too much. they lose it.

scott seward, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:22 (six years ago) link

they have wake up at like 2am

President Keyes, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:23 (six years ago) link

BREAKING: Garrison Keillor says he's been fired by Minnesota Public Radio over allegations of inappropriate behavior.

— The Associated Press (@AP) November 29, 2017

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:24 (six years ago) link

what the--!

omar little, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:25 (six years ago) link

ha – I said a couple weeks ago to a friend that Keillor looked like a dirty old man

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:25 (six years ago) link

what, you don't remember the infamous memo backlash?

I didn't, so I read up on it. Now I can't get the word "uppity" out of my head.

the Hannah Montana of the Korean War (DJP), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:25 (six years ago) link

garrison keillor still worked anywhere?

akm, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:26 (six years ago) link

it's just an embarrassment of shadenfreude!

scott seward, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:26 (six years ago) link

I thought he was retired? Guess he is now!

kim jong deal (suzy), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:29 (six years ago) link

Minnesota nice

mookieproof, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:30 (six years ago) link

Mmm yes

crüt, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:30 (six years ago) link

this is just keillor trying to stay relevant

akm, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:32 (six years ago) link

Harass'n Feillor

mick signals, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:38 (six years ago) link

And he wrote a piece supporting Franken yesterday!

https://t.co/YoVFoVXW3i

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:40 (six years ago) link

eh he always sucked anyway. Guess I'm too Cuban to get those jokes.

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:42 (six years ago) link

Garrison Keillor is proof no one called a "humorist" has ever said anything funny ever.

— Adam H. Johnson (@adamjohnsonNYC) November 29, 2017

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:44 (six years ago) link

A+ mick

moyesery loves kompany (darraghmac), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:46 (six years ago) link

Dude was insufferable. Never even remotely understood his appeal.

never have i been a blue calm sea (collardio gelatinous), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:46 (six years ago) link

another one like Rose & Halperin that surprised me at first but upon some consideration makes sense

flappy bird, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:52 (six years ago) link

this is uh one way to handle things

Keillor said he was fired over a story that "is more interesting and more complicated than the version MPR heard” https://t.co/KNCedHGAB6

— The New York Times (@nytimes) November 29, 2017

Simon H., Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:54 (six years ago) link

that picture 😳

flappy bird, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:56 (six years ago) link

boy if there's anyone who i don't want to tell the more interesting and complicated side of a story than garrison keillor...

omar little, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:56 (six years ago) link

he always gave me tall brian peppers vibes

omar little, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 17:57 (six years ago) link

pack your bags or bite down on the cyanide pill, lecherous celebrities

schadenfreude sure, but I have to say i get a mild sort of satisfaction thinking about all of the other handsy predatory dudes who thought their fame was protection enough, who are now seeing the writing on the wall & are forced to think “was I inappropriate?” or “are they going to come for me?” or “is my ride over?” etc etc

even just that they are now perhaps experiencing some panic & self doubt for the first time

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 18:00 (six years ago) link

i groaned in pain when i read the part in a news story about how he is working on a lake wobegon book AND a memoir of his childhood. they shoot horses, don't they?

scott seward, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 18:00 (six years ago) link

his whole life is a memoir to his childhood and then you read profiles about how he is a shut-in who never talks to anyone and man oh man i don't even know what to think about him. he's kind of a good sherwood anderson character, i guess. or a melville character. The Tiresome Guest.

scott seward, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 18:03 (six years ago) link

he always gave me tall brian peppers vibes

― omar little, Wednesday, November 29, 2017 12:57 PM (nine minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

yoooo

flappy bird, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 18:08 (six years ago) link

there is a heavy nostalgia thread with some of the folks mentioned on this thread. the desire to relive childhood memories. woody. cosby. louis. woebegon dude. they remind me of each other. in a jean shepherd kinda way. i can only hope that jean shepherd kept his hands to himself.

scott seward, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 18:11 (six years ago) link

Lasseter as well. reports of him described as "a 13-year old boy in a middle-aged man's body" eeeughkkskskge

flappy bird, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 18:13 (six years ago) link

who here has childhood memories of louis ck

Οὖτις, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 18:14 (six years ago) link

my parents wouldn't take me to see Pooty Tang when it came out

flappy bird, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 18:15 (six years ago) link

even just that they are now perhaps experiencing some panic & self doubt for the first time

― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Wednesday, November 29, 2017 1:00 PM (eight minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

this is the most delicious thing of all IMO. delicious and just.

harbinger of failure (Jon not Jon), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 18:15 (six years ago) link

take it easy, scott, next you'll be coming for Mr Rogers.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 18:17 (six years ago) link

In plain sight

"A world in which there is no sexual harassment at all is a world in which there will not be any flirtation" -- radio humorist Garrison Keillor at @PressClubDC April 7, 1994... at 31:05 in this video: https://t.co/9ChxtCdZqD pic.twitter.com/nTtJXar3nK

— Howard Mortman (@HowardMortman) November 29, 2017

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 18:18 (six years ago) link

hooo boy

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 18:25 (six years ago) link

"take it easy, scott, next you'll be coming for Mr Rogers."

i don't think its necessarily true of him! he created a world for children but i don't remember it being the world of his childhood. i don't really remember him talking about his childhood much at all. he was very much in the present. mindfulness and all that.

scott seward, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 18:26 (six years ago) link

but those other guys definitely wanted us to live in their childhoods.

scott seward, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 18:28 (six years ago) link

the serenity of Mr. Rogers & Bob Ross doesn't scan as creepy to me, more like a reaction to fighting in wars

flappy bird, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 18:28 (six years ago) link

Michael Jackson asked if we'd seen his

xp

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 18:31 (six years ago) link

I'm a bit of a Writer's Almanac stan tbh

... (Eazy), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 18:35 (six years ago) link

OK, I really don't understand this (first sentence in The Daily Beast on Matt Lauer):

In perhaps the most shocking media firing in years, NBC News Chairman Andy Lack on Wednesday fired the Today show’s Matt Lauer, the longtime star and mainstay of the news division’s most profitable franchise.

"the most shocking media firing in years"????? uh

flappy bird, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 18:54 (six years ago) link

Lazy "perhaps" tossed in there.

A is for (Aimless), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 19:01 (six years ago) link

it's shocking that they fired him that quickly after allegations were raised yesterday, at least to me. but there must be more historical issues at play here, the allegations said "longtime". also nymag or someone has been working on a story about him for months so something was about to come out and they probably wanted to get in front of it.

akm, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 19:04 (six years ago) link

it's not shocking at all, like i said Lauer seemed like he was gonna get the axe for inappropriate behavior and/or his whole weird vendetta against Ann Curry over 5 years ago. he's like, at the bottom of the list when it comes to shocking firings in the past couple months

xp that's true, but again, it seemed like a long time coming, and from what i've read, there's a ton of more information that they know about but has yet to come out

flappy bird, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 19:05 (six years ago) link

ehhh, it's shocking in that they've been willing to pay him obscene amounts of money and fire co-hosts he didn't like to keep him around

President Keyes, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 19:07 (six years ago) link

I didn't know anybody but me watched anything but five minutes of morning shows in 2017. I guess The Today Show still makes a tidy enough profit to have justified Lauer's obscene salary?

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 19:10 (six years ago) link

Part of the deal with 'hosts' is that once the viewing public gets comfortable with a host, they don't like to see any changes. Even new hairdos bother them. So, networks are willing to pay big bucks to keep them happy.

A is for (Aimless), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 19:16 (six years ago) link

George Stephanopoulos has to be looking over his shoulder right about now.

scott seward, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 19:20 (six years ago) link

ehhh, it's shocking in that they've been willing to pay him obscene amounts of money and fire co-hosts he didn't like to keep him around

― President Keyes, Wednesday, November 29, 2017 2:07 PM (twelve minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

i don't know, not in the post-Weinstein era. would've been shocking before certainly, but like i said i'm shocked he made it this long

also, jesus:

Garrison Keillor joked with DC journalists about sexual harassment, warned against making a world so perfect 'that you and I can't enjoy living in it' https://t.co/tX4WvEsrr7 via @dcexaminer

— Philip Wegmann (@PhilipWegmann) November 29, 2017

flappy bird, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 19:21 (six years ago) link

Fuck the world

brimstead, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 19:24 (six years ago) link

I guess I never noticed this before, but Keillor is future schrute.

http://filmpopper.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/dwight-k-schrute-3.jpg

here come the warm jorts (Ye Mad Puffin), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 19:29 (six years ago) link

i have good memories of keillor's woebegone stories. from i guess the mid-80s. they were touching and thoughtful and slow. my family would sit around and just listen. we lived surrounded by republicans and racism and bullshit and it felt like a kind of reflective oasis. i haven't thought about him in years and years though.

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 19:56 (six years ago) link

Keillor looks like Chewbacca's father from the Star Wars Holiday Special.

http://www.i-mockery.com/minimocks/starwars-holiday/8.gif

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 20:04 (six years ago) link

can't find the "this face" thread so
HEY THERE FUCK FACE, HEY THERE FUCK FACE

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 20:05 (six years ago) link

this facial expression

johnny crunch, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 20:29 (six years ago) link

that's different though, that's the "got caught cheating on my wife" face

flappy bird, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 20:31 (six years ago) link

Variety's Lauer story is live.

http://variety.com/2017/biz/news/matt-lauer-accused-sexual-harassment-multiple-women-1202625959/

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 20:38 (six years ago) link

"His office was in a secluded space, and he had a button under his desk that allowed him to lock his door from the inside without getting up."

mag gerwig! (Whiney G. Weingarten), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 20:44 (six years ago) link

wtf

johnny crunch, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 20:46 (six years ago) link

everything in that article was fucking gross

cosmic brain dildo (Sparkle Motion), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 20:47 (six years ago) link

i have good memories of keillor's woebegone stories. from i guess the mid-80s. they were touching and thoughtful and slow. my family would sit around and just listen. we lived surrounded by republicans and racism and bullshit and it felt like a kind of reflective oasis. i haven't thought about him in years and years though.

― illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Wednesday, November 29, 2017 1:56 PM (thirty-five minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

feel you on this

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 21:00 (six years ago) link

It is pretty bad when the least offensive thing you've done is played FMK with coworkers about other coworkers.

the Hannah Montana of the Korean War (DJP), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 21:03 (six years ago) link

yeah that's so quaint

j., Wednesday, 29 November 2017 21:05 (six years ago) link

What not to do!

Sad about @MLauer great guy, highly skilled & empathetic w guests & a real gentleman to my family & me. News is a flirty business & it seems like current epidemic of #SexHarassmentAllegations may be criminalizing courtship & conflating it w predation. What about #GarrisonKeillor?

— Geraldo Rivera (@GeraldoRivera) November 29, 2017

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 21:20 (six years ago) link

"News is a flirty business"

I've... no words

Le Bateau Ivre, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 21:21 (six years ago) link

Okay so Geraldo is in the queue for some primo allegations, is my takeaway from that.

the Hannah Montana of the Korean War (DJP), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 21:21 (six years ago) link

geraldo’s nervous flopsweat is palpable in that tweet

waiting for the shoe to drop i presume

hi i’m darren and i’m a bouncer from bendigo (bizarro gazzara), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 21:22 (six years ago) link

I'm a fool to do your flirty work

President Keyes, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 21:23 (six years ago) link

or dan otm iow xp

hi i’m darren and i’m a bouncer from bendigo (bizarro gazzara), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 21:23 (six years ago) link

I have never heard of anyone say "I got into the news game to meet girls"

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 21:23 (six years ago) link

lol rogue "of" there, you know what I mean

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 21:24 (six years ago) link

you get to wear a hat taht sez 'press' in it, totally takes the pressure off introducing yourself, it's a readymade excuse to chat whoever up!

j., Wednesday, 29 November 2017 21:25 (six years ago) link

Lol @ Dan's DN

'News is a flirty business' is an insane thing to say. What it's saying is: 'sexual harassment is part of the news business'. That may be closer to the truth. But then try and make it not so.

Le Bateau Ivre, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 21:26 (six years ago) link

I watched Network the day after the Charlie Rose story broke and it was pretty startling, as prescient as it is in many ways it also shows & celebrates that kind of "news is a flirty business" mindset. not to mention that movie is single-handedly responsible for Aaron Sorkin

flappy bird, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 21:29 (six years ago) link

The whole Matt Lauer Office Sex Button thing should be a really good jumping off point for figuring out how the bosses at NBC has indulged and protected him.

Frederik B, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 21:32 (six years ago) link

oh plz let geraldo disappear

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 21:33 (six years ago) link

The tweets that follow that are, how you say, 'interesting.'

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 21:37 (six years ago) link

the twist in al capones vault should have been that it turned into a real life cask of amontillado feat. Geraldo

omar little, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 21:38 (six years ago) link

the key thread of the Lauer Variety article is that he and his ilk are in-house philanderers so they can keep up their 'public face' bullshit.

ie I wonder if he had his remote door lock installed, or if it was inherited.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 21:41 (six years ago) link

It's funny how he got into the biz to meet girls when most women think journalists and journalism majors are, with good reason, among the least concerned with personal hygiene and basic standards of dress.

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 21:42 (six years ago) link

the only positive thing Geraldo ever did was not avoid a chair thrown by a neo nazi on his tv show.

omar little, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 21:44 (six years ago) link

lol Ned OTM

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 21:47 (six years ago) link

what the--!

― omar little, Wednesday, November 29, 2017

decades' worth of macalester alumna shaking their heads like damn son you didn't know?

Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 21:58 (six years ago) link

demanding someone suck your dick isn't flirting, Gerardo

akm, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 22:02 (six years ago) link

There's no way to know if that door lock button was installed for Hugh Downs in 1965

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 22:04 (six years ago) link

Breaking News: NBC received at least 2 more complaints about Matt Lauer, hours after his firing https://t.co/w1gdKZlJcb

— The New York Times (@nytimes) November 29, 2017

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 22:31 (six years ago) link

Apparently these door lock switches are a thing at NBC.

FYI, as strange as it sounds in print, several execs at NBC News have this auto door close switch under their office desks at 30 Rock. I always found it to be intimidating but not unusual.

— Betsy Fischer Martin (@BFischerMartin) November 29, 2017

Moodles, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 22:34 (six years ago) link

why... would you need to trap people in your office. or block people out, I guess?

Οὖτις, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 22:42 (six years ago) link

well, it's TV!

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 22:42 (six years ago) link

Wouldn't want to expend valuable energy standing up and walking to the door to lock it.

louise ck (milo z), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 22:45 (six years ago) link

It would be extremely intimidating if the door locked while both hands are still on the desk. I guess one would innocently assume they exist because rich people don't like walking across their giant offices to lock a door to have a private "business discussion".

Evan, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 22:46 (six years ago) link

how else would Ned Beatty be able to give that crazy speech in Network if not for automatic curtain sliders and door lockers

flappy bird, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 22:49 (six years ago) link

having a way to lock your door from your desk doesn't strike me as intrinsically creepy, but when you're known as a serial sexual harasser...yeah

k3vin k., Wednesday, 29 November 2017 22:53 (six years ago) link

can only assume these guys also have a trap-door button under their desk like mr burns

(The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 23:05 (six years ago) link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=onSbOXKDfaQ

(•̪●) (carne asada), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 23:10 (six years ago) link

Just a little flirting

(•̪●) (carne asada), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 23:12 (six years ago) link

having a way to lock your door from your desk doesn't strike me as intrinsically creepy

nah, it's really really fucking creepy.

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 23:33 (six years ago) link

if you want to lock your door behind you, you can just do that as you enter a room and close the door behind you. the reason you would need this button is for locking other people into the room with you. which is creepy. unless there is a good non-creepy reason to lock people into a room without their knowledge i am overlooking.

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 23:36 (six years ago) link

Don't want anyone walking in and stealing jokes.

... (Eazy), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 23:38 (six years ago) link

if you lock the door remotely from the desk couldn't the person trying to escape just unlock the door on the way out?

reggae mike love (polyphonic), Wednesday, 29 November 2017 23:48 (six years ago) link

of course higher level executives want to be able to close doors without having to get up. they might trip over their own shortcomings on the way from their desks

maura, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 23:52 (six years ago) link

Yeah it's creepy af

flappy bird, Wednesday, 29 November 2017 23:56 (six years ago) link

if you lock the door remotely from the desk couldn't the person trying to escape just unlock the door on the way out?

― reggae mike love (polyphonic)

There may be no unlocking mechanism on the the door itself, which ups the creepiness factor.

nickn, Thursday, 30 November 2017 00:12 (six years ago) link

if you want to lock your door behind you, you can just do that as you enter a room and close the door behind you. the reason you would need this button is for locking other people into the room with you. which is creepy. unless there is a good non-creepy reason to lock people into a room without their knowledge i am overlooking.

You want the locking button because you're a high-powered borderline sociopath executive who basically farms out every bit of real work in life to someone else, time is money and time spent taking ten steps to the door is money wasted.

louise ck (milo z), Thursday, 30 November 2017 00:20 (six years ago) link

these ads still pop up on youtube; they are feeling less acceptable by the day

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J6aIPUusP5A

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 30 November 2017 00:21 (six years ago) link

You want the locking button because you're a high-powered borderline sociopath executive who basically farms out every bit of real work in life to someone else, time is money and time spent taking ten steps to the door is money wasted.

― louise ck (milo z), Wednesday, November 29, 2017 6:20 PM (one minute ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

otm, its obv creepy but i dont think its about locking people in as much as locking ppl out without the person in the room noticing

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, 30 November 2017 00:23 (six years ago) link

xpost I dunno, as long as anyone who purchases a Devour frozen meal after watching those commercials is put on some sort of watchlist, they may serve an ultimately beneficent purpose.

Ripped Taylor (Old Lunch), Thursday, 30 November 2017 00:26 (six years ago) link

if you want to lock your door behind you, you can just do that as you enter a room and close the door behind you. the reason you would need this button is for locking other people into the room with you. which is creepy. unless there is a good non-creepy reason to lock people into a room without their knowledge i am overlooking.

― AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Wednesday, November 29, 2017 6:36 PM (one hour ago)

it sounds like the door locks from the inside, not the outside. anyway this is an irrelevant point really

k3vin k., Thursday, 30 November 2017 00:41 (six years ago) link

my dad loves Willie Geist and said he would be really bummed if he ended up getting outed as a predator. he was like "he's supposed to be just a great guy, a good family man, has kids, married his middle school sweetheart..." lol i was endeared by my dad's uncharacteristically sincere appreciation for morning tv show host Willie Geist

flappy bird, Thursday, 30 November 2017 00:47 (six years ago) link

I met Willie Geist at a journalism convention in 2013 and he came off like the puffy-faced sociopath in Breaking Bad but with a wicked wit (which he flexes on Morning Joe)

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 30 November 2017 01:08 (six years ago) link

which puffy faced sociopath, Dale Boettecker? the guy that ends up paralyzed?

flappy bird, Thursday, 30 November 2017 01:16 (six years ago) link

and yea he's hilarious

flappy bird, Thursday, 30 November 2017 01:17 (six years ago) link

A few words on my history with Garrison Keillor, Lake Wobegone and A PRAIRIE HOME COMPANION which may surprise you...

I grew up LOVING A PRAIRIE HOME COMPANION.

— Steven Thrasher (@thrasherxy) November 29, 2017

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Thursday, 30 November 2017 01:28 (six years ago) link

I don't wanna hear it.

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 30 November 2017 01:30 (six years ago) link

not to spoil thrasher's tweetstorm but he quickly learns the error of his ways

reggae mike love (polyphonic), Thursday, 30 November 2017 01:32 (six years ago) link

Keillor looks like a melted candle made of dough

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 30 November 2017 02:29 (six years ago) link

Okay, Lauer clearly needs to be arrested at this point.

This story has changed. The original version said only that Lauer "had sex with her." Now it says he "locked the door and sexually assaulted her" and that she "passed out and had to be taken to a nurse." https://t.co/jHJg03HglB

— Blake Hounshell (@blakehounshell) November 30, 2017

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 30 November 2017 02:51 (six years ago) link

welp egg on my face. adam otm!

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, 30 November 2017 02:52 (six years ago) link

Keillor looks like a radiation victim

flappy bird, Thursday, 30 November 2017 05:35 (six years ago) link

Most charitable theory is that the lock-button keeps people popping in and making the “hey, are you on the phone? Can we talk after?” gesture.

... (Eazy), Thursday, 30 November 2017 14:38 (six years ago) link

it's probably for when you fire someone and they leave your office and you immediately lock the door so they don't come back and kill you.

scott seward, Thursday, 30 November 2017 14:50 (six years ago) link

President Keyes, you made me legit lol with "I'm a fool to do your flirty work"

Just to do devil's advocacy: My wife's a journalist who works from home. I can actually imagine situations where a door lock that she could activate without getting up would be helpful. The scenario would be: she's been trying to get an interview with an elusive and/or nervous source with sensitive information. She's left the source voice mail saying "feel free to call me at your convenience." The source calls her out of the blue, ready to talk, and it's at an odd time, like just before dinner. So she's doing a critical interview, finally getting a shy source to speak. And... the children or I bound into the room to ask her whether we have guacamole or hey the toilet's stopped or hey do you know where my charger is.

That's a reasonable professional explanation why a person WHO IS ALONE would want to be able to lock the door without telling the other person on the phone, "wait a minute while I get up and go lock the door."

THAT SAID, Matt Fucking Lauer is not a reporter working on breaking stories with nervous sources. He's a person who says things that other people wrote. So, fail.

criminalizing courtship & conflating it w predation

Yeah uh, no. People are saying it's possible to do courtship in a way that doesn't even look like predation. And they're calling out predation as what it is: predation.

here come the warm jorts (Ye Mad Puffin), Thursday, 30 November 2017 15:23 (six years ago) link

this is so gross

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yruIL5lVGE4

Universal LULU Nation (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Thursday, 30 November 2017 15:28 (six years ago) link

Lauer has a button under the vanity to stop his toilets whenever he wants

crocus bulbotuber (Sufjan Grafton), Thursday, 30 November 2017 15:29 (six years ago) link

one of my students wrote about this frontline doc for her final paper, and in her response/recommendation section, she suggested that cameras in supervisor's offices are recording during all shifts since that is where many of the assaults occurred. from my perspective, there is no excuse for matt lauer being able to lock people into his office from a secret button on his desk.

https://www.pbs.org/wgbh/frontline/film/rape-on-the-night-shift/

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 30 November 2017 15:42 (six years ago) link

Is he locking them in or keeping people from barging in and witnessing?

Evan, Thursday, 30 November 2017 15:55 (six years ago) link

who cares?

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 30 November 2017 15:57 (six years ago) link

the latter, or so I choose to believe. I've never even seen an interior door lock that can't be unlocked by simply opening the knob* from the inside

* = DOORknob, you pervs

here come the warm jorts (Ye Mad Puffin), Thursday, 30 November 2017 15:58 (six years ago) link

xxp both, also la lechera otm

sleeve, Thursday, 30 November 2017 15:58 (six years ago) link

Well the former would make the whole thing WAY more frightening.

Evan, Thursday, 30 November 2017 15:59 (six years ago) link

it's the same either way imo

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 30 November 2017 16:00 (six years ago) link

..... why are people so confused about the way the fucking lock works

El Tomboto, Thursday, 30 November 2017 16:00 (six years ago) link

Being physically prevented from escaping is extra nightmare fuel, so I just wanted to clarify.

Evan, Thursday, 30 November 2017 16:02 (six years ago) link

Because "I need to not be disturbed" has legitimate business uses.

"I need someone who's in my office to not be able to get out" does not.

A business that allowed the first is explicable. A business that allowed the second is actively evil.

here come the warm jorts (Ye Mad Puffin), Thursday, 30 November 2017 16:02 (six years ago) link

ya a door locking someone IN, somehow, is prob false imprisonment & nbc could feasibly have some liability imo as it seemed they knew abt these contraptions

johnny crunch, Thursday, 30 November 2017 16:02 (six years ago) link

if he needs to not be disturbed he can walk right over and lock the door
why are people going out of their way to defend a door lock button?!

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 30 November 2017 16:05 (six years ago) link

I get what Evan is saying but now IM confused because an electric deadbolt would be a clear fire code violation I believe

El Tomboto, Thursday, 30 November 2017 16:06 (six years ago) link

Sorry, who is confused or defending door lock buttons here?

La Lechera you said: "there is no excuse for matt lauer being able to lock people into his office from a secret button on his desk."

So I thought "holy shit he's locking them IN?!" and asked the question.

Isn't that all we're clarifying here?

Evan, Thursday, 30 November 2017 16:07 (six years ago) link

Of course he's locking them in.

Andrew Farrell, Thursday, 30 November 2017 16:08 (six years ago) link

maybe you are not thinking about what it feels like to be locked in a room alone with a gross creep like matt lauer regardless of the mechanics of his stupid gross door lock
it's not like the lock is the only thing going on here -- regardless of how the lock works, YES he is locking them in while he claims to be locking other people out

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 30 November 2017 16:10 (six years ago) link

evan, you think the lock only works when there is one person in the room?

Frederik B, Thursday, 30 November 2017 16:11 (six years ago) link

sometimes it's better to google than ask

brimstead, Thursday, 30 November 2017 16:11 (six years ago) link

lock thread

Simon H., Thursday, 30 November 2017 16:11 (six years ago) link

NBC is definitely liable for SOMETHING if they let him turn his office into a panic room with a deadbolt that can only be unlocked from his desk.

El Tomboto, Thursday, 30 November 2017 16:11 (six years ago) link

maybe you are not thinking about what it feels like to be locked in a room alone with a gross creep like matt lauer regardless of the mechanics of his stupid gross door lock
it's not like the lock is the only thing going on here -- regardless of how the lock works, YES he is locking them in while he claims to be locking other people out

― weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, November 30, 2017 11:10 AM (two minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

If that's what you meant- got it! But aside from that if the other person in the room can't physically leave unless they reach under the desk and push the button again themselves then (again) holy shit it's worth pointing that out.

evan, you think the lock only works when there is one person in the room?

― Frederik B, Thursday, November 30, 2017 11:11 AM (one minute ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

no? ...what???

Evan, Thursday, 30 November 2017 16:17 (six years ago) link

p sure i read on twitter or elsewhere this was not unique to his office, @ least some other nbc offices have the same mechanism. i think it has to be how ye mad puffin sez, keeping ppl from entering not from exiting

johnny crunch, Thursday, 30 November 2017 16:20 (six years ago) link

lock thread

― Simon H., Thursday, November 30, 2017

Ned Ragged with a button at his desk.

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 30 November 2017 16:36 (six years ago) link

*Raggett

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 30 November 2017 16:36 (six years ago) link

Perhaps.

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 30 November 2017 16:41 (six years ago) link

the button-down mind of ned raggett

scott seward, Thursday, 30 November 2017 17:03 (six years ago) link

top button buttoned

El Tomboto, Thursday, 30 November 2017 17:07 (six years ago) link

i guess i've never even seen office doors that had locks, like usually if my bosses door is shut it means do not disturb or they are on a call or something but also we have a lot of glass walls, but yeah it seems weird to have locks on office doors IMO

Universal LULU Nation (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Thursday, 30 November 2017 18:16 (six years ago) link

i’d kill for an office with a lock, the quality of my sleep would improve markedly

hi i’m darren and i’m a bouncer from bendigo (bizarro gazzara), Thursday, 30 November 2017 18:20 (six years ago) link

Derogatis piece is weird. Does it contain any new info or r is it a blandly philosophical piece abt not separating art from artist? If he’s not doing investigative journalism on the ppl still pushing/enabling r kelly whats the pt

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, 30 November 2017 18:48 (six years ago) link

Not a bad idea to remind people about it in this new climate

Simon H., Thursday, 30 November 2017 18:49 (six years ago) link

This is that kind of annoying copycat journalism that takes the Weinstein headline subtext (Ronan farrow goes after the guy who enabled Woody Allen post abuse allegations!) and tries to bank off it without doing the legwork in a difft context, idk feels weirdly exploitative

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, 30 November 2017 18:49 (six years ago) link

Dero is definitely the one person alive who should be upbraided for not doing investigative journalism on R Kelly and ppl around him, good call

shackling the masses with plastic-wrapped snack picks (sic), Thursday, 30 November 2017 18:50 (six years ago) link

Sorry for not wanting to read the same article eight times

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, 30 November 2017 18:52 (six years ago) link

Fight the same series of wimps in the forect for an hour or two? I DON'T THINK SO. I think I'll BEAT THE GAME 3 times.

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 30 November 2017 18:53 (six years ago) link

'what's the point' of continuing to call out a celebrity who's gotten a free pass? it took years, even decades for some of these guys to go down, and it took a critical mass of attention on them, not new investigative journalism.

iatee, Thursday, 30 November 2017 18:55 (six years ago) link

it's a bit upthread, busy morning. Simmons story was simmering for a while

flappy bird, Thursday, 30 November 2017 19:03 (six years ago) link

'what's the point' of continuing to call out a celebrity who's gotten a free pass? it took years, even decades for some of these guys to go down, and it took a critical mass of attention on them, not new investigative journalism.

― iatee, Thursday, November 30, 2017 1:55 PM (ten minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Also, as DeRogatis points out, the shit with Kelly is ongoing:

One of the women in the “cult” has said that she is “happy where I am at.” None of the others have spoken publicly, but the parents continue to contact me regularly, asking why, given the current public conversation, Kelly’s history, and what they call his ongoing abuse, the media isn’t focussing more on him.

Montgomery Burns' Jazz (Tarfumes The Escape Goat), Thursday, 30 November 2017 19:08 (six years ago) link

the reason the media isn't focusing on him is because he went to trial and was found innocent. he is, in many people's minds, "old news". and his fans don't care.

Οὖτις, Thursday, 30 November 2017 19:09 (six years ago) link

just dropping by to say La Lechera otm re door locks
& who cares - and LL’s student is otm abt surveillance in supervisor offices. I still havent watched that Frontline doc, I keep meaning to!

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 30 November 2017 19:09 (six years ago) link

LL otm about how it is like being locked in regardless of how the door works. But still, we should definitely care if executives are physically locking people inside their office. That's all I was saying earlier.

Evan, Thursday, 30 November 2017 19:28 (six years ago) link

xpost Kelly hasn't gone to trial for all the cult-ish current activity that has been laid out about him this year.

... (Eazy), Thursday, 30 November 2017 19:29 (six years ago) link

true, all of which is gross and creepy and wrong but also not illegal and between (apparently) consenting adults. and it's of a kind with previous accusations - ie, stemming from general sexually predatory behavior - so I'm sure it just seems like "more of the same" to those that are eager to give him the benefit of the doubt a la Dave Chappelle.

Οὖτις, Thursday, 30 November 2017 19:33 (six years ago) link

the reason the media isn't focusing on him is because he went to trial and was found innocent. he is, in many people's minds, "old news". and his fans don't care.

― Οὖτις, Thursday, November 30, 2017 1:09 PM (thirty-two minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

literally no one cares, and everyone knows! People have resolved to make their peace w/ how they view his old work or they haven't but it's pretty much widely understood who R Kelly is! No one needs to know. there are other people in the music industry who could be pointed to, artists who are new and relevant today. why not point to that?

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, 30 November 2017 19:43 (six years ago) link

I'm not gonna begrudge DeRo his moral crusade

Οὖτις, Thursday, 30 November 2017 19:45 (six years ago) link

'what's the point' of continuing to call out a celebrity who's gotten a free pass? it took years, even decades for some of these guys to go down, and it took a critical mass of attention on them, not new investigative journalism.

― iatee, Thursday, November 30, 2017 12:55 PM (forty-eight minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

how has he gotten a 'free pass'? the music industry protects him, but they're the only ones--the 'harvey weinsteins' in this case, who derogatis is not chasing down. r kelly's crimes are common knowledge.

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, 30 November 2017 19:45 (six years ago) link

as an artist hes at a nadir of cultural relevance

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, 30 November 2017 19:46 (six years ago) link

i mean, whatever, i guess he did another good deed fixating on r kelly again so we can all share it & say 'good piece, otm'

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, 30 November 2017 19:47 (six years ago) link

as someone mentioned on another thread the industry support for xxxtacian and kodak black are pretty disturbing

Universal LULU Nation (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Thursday, 30 November 2017 19:54 (six years ago) link

xps

artists who are new and relevant today

I'm pretty sure that being sexually abused or predated upon is always relevant to the victims. The only added value of outing a respected public figure is that it pierces the bubble of respectability that has protected the perpetrator and put the victim at a greater relative disadvantage. The 'relevance' of the perpetrator within his field has no bearing at all, imo, except that it titillates the public's interest -- at the same level as supermarket tabloids touting "Jennifer Anniston's Secret Sorrow" or the breakup of Bennifer.

A is for (Aimless), Thursday, 30 November 2017 19:55 (six years ago) link

of course its relevant that someone is abusing someone. but we already know about it! he is not relevant; the only time he touches headlines today is when this comes up.

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, 30 November 2017 19:56 (six years ago) link

what matt is saying, is more the point

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, 30 November 2017 19:57 (six years ago) link

as an artist hes at a nadir of cultural relevance

so it's cool if he imprisons and intimidates and brainwashes a houseful of young women, good to know

thanks for never writing the same post twice btw, you're a better investigative journalist than Jim Derogatis

shackling the masses with plastic-wrapped snack picks (sic), Thursday, 30 November 2017 19:57 (six years ago) link

How is R. Kelly's industry support any different? His major label hasn't dropped him, right? What does relevance matter if he's still selling records and doing huge shows?

change display name (Jordan), Thursday, 30 November 2017 19:58 (six years ago) link

Even seventeen years of reporting hasn’t been enough to turn as bright a spotlight on Kelly as the one exposing many others, because no one, it seems, matters less in our society than young black women.

... (Eazy), Thursday, 30 November 2017 19:58 (six years ago) link

so it's cool if he imprisons and intimidates and brainwashes a houseful of young women, good to know

thanks for never writing the same post twice btw, you're a better investigative journalist than Jim Derogatis

― shackling the masses with plastic-wrapped snack picks (sic), Thursday, November 30, 2017 1:57 PM (three minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

yeah thats what i fucking said, great work

just another fucking ilx thread where ppl read me in the worst possible faith

go fuck yourselves

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, 30 November 2017 20:02 (six years ago) link

an idiom comes to mind

Simon H., Thursday, 30 November 2017 20:03 (six years ago) link

we gotta keep digging though, until every predator is outed

imago, Thursday, 30 November 2017 20:04 (six years ago) link

an idiom comes to mind

― Simon H., Thursday, November 30, 2017 3:03 PM (one minute ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wp43OdtAAkM

flappy bird, Thursday, 30 November 2017 20:06 (six years ago) link

no its fine, you guys are definitely the good guys because you've decided everything jim derogatis does is now about criticism

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, 30 November 2017 20:10 (six years ago) link

and in saying otherwise, im basically encouraging him to rape children. got it

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, 30 November 2017 20:10 (six years ago) link

**above criticism

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, 30 November 2017 20:11 (six years ago) link

yeah thats what i fucking said, great work - just another fucking ilx thread where ppl read me in the worst possible faith

you used the word relevance. we read the word. we suggested 'relevance' was a wrong-headed metric, and said why we thought so. expecting us to read something other than what you said is silly. correcting our impressions, defeating our objections, or clarifying your position would all be reasonable response. telling us to fuck ourselves is what you chose to do. I decline the invitation.

A is for (Aimless), Thursday, 30 November 2017 20:15 (six years ago) link

no its fine, you guys are definitely the good guys because you've decided everything jim derogatis does is now about criticism

lol weren't you just criticizing ppl for deliberately misreading you in bad faith? physician heal thyself etc

Οὖτις, Thursday, 30 November 2017 20:15 (six years ago) link

do I need to refer you to all the threads clowning DeRo on a regular basis for p much everything he does *except* his R. Kelly reportage

Οὖτις, Thursday, 30 November 2017 20:16 (six years ago) link

relevance was the word i intended & one hundred percent stand by its use *in context* and if you choose to willfully misread it...fuck yourself

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, 30 November 2017 20:16 (six years ago) link

do I need to refer you to all the threads clowning DeRo on a regular basis for p much everything he does *except* his R. Kelly reportage

― Οὖτις, Thursday, November 30, 2017 2:16 PM (twenty-eight seconds ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

*you've decided everything jim derogatis writes about r kelly is now above criticism

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, 30 November 2017 20:17 (six years ago) link

how much does he write about r kelly? I'm out of the loop

Evan, Thursday, 30 November 2017 20:18 (six years ago) link

This is a good piece from last month that touches on how he's gone about it, and how difficult a time he's had of finding media outlets that would publish his pieces:
http://www.chicagomag.com/Chicago-Magazine/November-2017/The-Lonely-Crusade-of-Jim-DeRogatis/

Montgomery Burns' Jazz (Tarfumes The Escape Goat), Thursday, 30 November 2017 20:21 (six years ago) link

*you've decided everything jim derogatis writes about r kelly is now above criticism

extrapolating from declining to criticize one piece to a blanket assumption that *all pieces* will not be met w criticism IS A LITERAL BAD FAITH ARGUMENT

you are so bad at this plz stop

Οὖτις, Thursday, 30 November 2017 20:24 (six years ago) link

Maybe I'm crazy but it seems to me the subtext of Ronan Farrow in particular covering Harvey Weinstein may have had something to do with Woody Allen's career revitalization coming at Weinstein's hands: http://articles.latimes.com/1994-06-17/entertainment/ca-5387_1_miramax-films

This article was sold to me via social media as the REAL reason R Kelly has been able to keep doing what he does, but Derogatis lacks the range to understand that in its totality, or the NYer oversold him. The reason would be executives--unnamed, uninvestigated. If there's no new story here, what's the purpose of the reporting? To capitalize.

If he wanted the story to be less dissatisfying to the end consumer he might consider covering an artist with more commercial RELEVANCE who is NOT already widely seen as a sexual predator. In fact, reporters are doing that every day! but in this story, hes beating a dead horse

im not saying that makes him a bad person or that hes the bad guy, just saying the article isnt really adding much to the convo

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, 30 November 2017 20:24 (six years ago) link

extrapolating from declining to criticize one piece to a blanket assumption that *all pieces* will not be met w criticism IS A LITERAL BAD FAITH ARGUMENT

you are so bad at this plz stop

― Οὖτις, Thursday, November 30, 2017 2:24 PM (nineteen seconds ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

im talking about this BAD piece in the context of his other, occasionally GOOD pieces, so no its not a bad faith argument idiot

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, 30 November 2017 20:25 (six years ago) link

he writes about him a lot, and he deserves praise for continuing to push on this subject. kelly's label deserves condemnation for not dropping him; his fans deserve condemnation for supporting him.

akm, Thursday, 30 November 2017 20:25 (six years ago) link

namecalling always helps put your arguments over. you learn lessons well.

Οὖτις, Thursday, 30 November 2017 20:27 (six years ago) link

xxp

Οὖτις, Thursday, 30 November 2017 20:27 (six years ago) link

namecalling always helps put your arguments over. you learn lessons well.

― Οὖτις, Thursday, November 30, 2017 2:27 PM (two minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

this kind of post is equally useful, glad we're using our time constructively

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, 30 November 2017 20:29 (six years ago) link

just glad to be here, the day when r kelly was called to account for the 30th time is one we'll all remember

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, 30 November 2017 20:34 (six years ago) link

sic that was like the most crappy uncharitable post ever, are you sure you're not me?

brimstead, Thursday, 30 November 2017 20:38 (six years ago) link

mom they’re fighting in the bad-touch thread again

hi i’m darren and i’m a bouncer from bendigo (bizarro gazzara), Thursday, 30 November 2017 20:40 (six years ago) link

DeRogatis is still in touch with many of the women’s families, that may have something to do with why he persists in targeting Kelly

sciatica, Thursday, 30 November 2017 20:46 (six years ago) link

Isn't the New Yorker the biggest forum he's ever had for his R.Kelly writing? He's been on the Kelly beat for so long that a swerve to covering some more relevant artist would seem out of character.

President Keyes, Thursday, 30 November 2017 20:59 (six years ago) link

i think his buzzfeed article was a much bigger platform

think of this then as a criticism of the nyer editor who sought & packaged this piece, it just struck me as 'get the r kelly guy on the horn that'll be good for a few clicks'

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, 30 November 2017 21:03 (six years ago) link

srsly wtf is wrong with you guys

LL makes discussion worthy observations but yall would rather argue about doorlocks or jump right into the 9,576th version of the same WHAT I SAID WAS argument with deej

the worst

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 30 November 2017 21:11 (six years ago) link

xp so, you choose to read the editor's actions in the worst possible light?

A is for (Aimless), Thursday, 30 November 2017 21:13 (six years ago) link

incredible use of the xp there

at any rate fair point i apologize for derailing though stand by my posts alrightbye

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, 30 November 2017 21:15 (six years ago) link

that's fair point @ VG

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, 30 November 2017 21:16 (six years ago) link

aaaaand.... scene

Οὖτις, Thursday, 30 November 2017 21:18 (six years ago) link

Quiet ladies, the men are shouting.

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Thursday, 30 November 2017 22:16 (six years ago) link

I still havent watched that Frontline doc, I keep meaning to!

Yes, please watch it! Everyone should watch it. There was another investigation about agricultural workers called Rape in the Fields. Anyone who eats produce or works in an office should watch and discuss.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 30 November 2017 22:17 (six years ago) link

Apparently Matt wants his money (unlikely result, it seems):

https://pagesix.com/2017/11/30/matt-lauers-lawyers-trying-to-get-him-30m-payout-after-firing/

But he also likes acting like a bad Netflix series villian now or something:

https://nyppagesix.files.wordpress.com/2017/11/matt_lauer-1.jpg?quality=90&strip=all&w=300

...seen for the first time since his sexual misconduct scandal broke leaving his $33 million Hamptons estate on Thursday to meet famed East End real estate and criminal lawyer Eddie Burke Jr. to whom he handed an envelope.

Ned Raggett, Friday, 1 December 2017 00:14 (six years ago) link

Man FP’ing all the deej and Shakey posts in this thread is like one of those clicker games where nothing really happens but you somehow feel better anyway because you worked at it

El Tomboto, Friday, 1 December 2017 00:27 (six years ago) link

<3

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 1 December 2017 00:33 (six years ago) link

Sheesh i tried to be civil :(

Οὖτις, Friday, 1 December 2017 00:35 (six years ago) link

🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 1 December 2017 00:47 (six years ago) link

surprisingly, I mainly agree with deej - derogatis is just trotting out his r kelly schtick in a different venue here (nb any music writer who turns down nyer money to do something he's already done is a total & complete idiot, though, chicago winter heating bills don't pay for themselves) - however "relevance" lol who gives a fuckin shit, be real w/that, that is an adolescent concern, decaptitated aren't really "relevant" in death metal any more either and I'm very glad all the metal pubs didn't waste any time thinking about that when it came time to report on their crimes

she carries a torch. two torches, actually (Joan Crawford Loves Chachi), Friday, 1 December 2017 00:53 (six years ago) link

i have been haunted by that story
i wish i hadn't read it
were they prosecuted?

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Friday, 1 December 2017 00:54 (six years ago) link

Fellow dudes, if you are in this thread, just remember every time you make it about yourself, you’re making it not about someone else, probably a woman, probably a minority, and your point is better served by listening. It is hard. It can be impossible at times, because we are taught that we should strive to be heard.

It should be fucking obvious that a dude trying to win an argument with another dude is inappropriate in this context. Having said that, I believe I have won all future arguments with fellow dudes, for sure. HA HA I am the wokest, I got first.

This is why we can’t ever listen.

El Tomboto, Friday, 1 December 2017 04:06 (six years ago) link

Boys are the worst

El Tomboto, Friday, 1 December 2017 04:06 (six years ago) link

idk. boys don't get to be like "boys are the worst" and then leave it there. that sounds like the friend who's always like "i have to flake again, I'm the worst!" It's a cop out. try to be better, don't expect anyone to notice or care that you're trying, just try your best to not live up to "boys are the worst"

for example, i would much prefer to be engaged in a productive interactive conversation over simply being listened to. i would rather be part of a/the conversation than the focus of it. it feels better to be shown that i am worthy of engagement, to be treated as an equal, than it does to simply be heard.

it's also illuminating how easily and naturally these derailed conversations develop -- being aware of that is a start.

keep trying!

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Friday, 1 December 2017 05:55 (six years ago) link

exactly

my thing right now is this

since you multitudes of dudes can count on one hand the number of women participating in this thread currently, it would be good if you were occasionally mindful of who’s doing all the talking and just, idk, ask a question or reframe the conversation.

we are weary of this subject and bummed out by it and leery of how close to home it all feels but we’re still here because it feels worthwhile to talk about it. well, ok me, i wont speak for anyone else.

just. respect the issue at the heart of this thread revive. remember why we came here and what we’re here to talk about.

that’s all.

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 1 December 2017 06:12 (six years ago) link

I don't know who this Geist person is but surely the puffy-faced sociopath from breaking bad is Jesse Plemons/Tod

Did I solve the thread

sonnet by a wite kid, "On Æolian Grief" (wins), Friday, 1 December 2017 07:12 (six years ago) link

(I mean that describes many of the characters from that show)

sonnet by a wite kid, "On Æolian Grief" (wins), Friday, 1 December 2017 07:12 (six years ago) link

ohh true he does look like him

flappy bird, Friday, 1 December 2017 08:46 (six years ago) link

since you multitudes of dudes can count on one hand the number of women participating in this thread currently, it would be good if you were occasionally mindful of who’s doing all the talking and just, idk, ask a question or reframe the conversation.

I don't really participate in this thread, but I read it, so I would like to know who the woman participating are. I know some of you, but some names I'm not sure. LL, VG, Trayce, In Orbit, Horseshoe, who else?

Jeff, Friday, 1 December 2017 11:53 (six years ago) link

*cough*

kim jong deal (suzy), Friday, 1 December 2017 11:57 (six years ago) link

It does feel like something new is happening, like for years there was talk of “oh Terry Richardson is horrible” but the fashion business’s MO seemed to be “never acknowledge it” - I am a little curious about whether there was pressure to not publish any answer to a question about him, or whether the fashion press is sufficiently a courtier industry that it was never asked.

Or maybe it was reported and didn’t matter - the other matter that struck me was Eddie Berganza, an editor in the DC Superman office, who had semi-blind items and a silent demotion for sexual assault five years ago, and was actually named last year and nothing happened, and now there’s a Buzzfeed article and DC are shocked, shocked and now he’s finally gone.

Which is to say that I understand the tendency to go “oh this will revert to the mean”, and it’s the hope that kills you etc etc but dudes saying that nothing will change should maybe be aware how that looks when things are already changing.

Andrew Farrell, Friday, 1 December 2017 13:17 (six years ago) link

Also as a result I can’t blame DeRogatis for thinking “okay the New Yorker is a pretty big deal, maybe one more fucking Kelly article will make a difference”, but I’m also not surprised if it’s one more fucking Kelly article.

Andrew Farrell, Friday, 1 December 2017 13:20 (six years ago) link

Especially if it's in the print issue, having the story in the New Yorker will reach a whole new audience.

And fair enough to say legally this is all consenting adults, but if one of the parents was a movie director or politician, etc...

... (Eazy), Friday, 1 December 2017 15:13 (six years ago) link

I assume this has become a general thread for related stories? Add Jays broadcaster Gregg Zaun to the list.

http://www.cbc.ca/sports/baseball/mlb/gregg-zaun-rogers-sportsnet-fired-1.4427565

clemenza, Friday, 1 December 2017 15:16 (six years ago) link

https://apnews.com/3895454a10004f258ed7e18f25c74a26?utm_campaign=SocialFlow&utm_source=Twitter&utm_medium=APCentralRegion

CHICAGO (AP) — Details of alleged sexual assaults by Hollywood mogul Harvey Weinstein, comedian Bill Cosby and other famous figures are now widely known in part because several accusers did something they promised in writing never to do: They talked publicly about their allegations.

When those women spoke out, they broke nondisclosure agreements — contractual pledges not to discuss what happened that are common features of financial settlements. In doing so, they helped start a national discussion about sexual misconduct and showed that the agreements do not necessarily offer the same ironclad protection that for decades has shielded the rich and powerful.

A look at how the agreements work and what can happen when accusers go public anyway:

j., Friday, 1 December 2017 17:09 (six years ago) link

Seeing more rumblings that the next big stories will be Broadway-focused, thus

I have a feeling the world of Broadway is going to be rocked to its foundations. We'd better wear our seatbelts for the next few days.

— Lea Salonga (@MsLeaSalonga) December 1, 2017

Ned Raggett, Friday, 1 December 2017 20:11 (six years ago) link

hmm

omar little, Friday, 1 December 2017 20:16 (six years ago) link

broadway is just a less lucrative and powerful version of Hollywood, so it makes sense that it would share many of the same dynamics

A is for (Aimless), Friday, 1 December 2017 20:19 (six years ago) link

if Lin Manuel Miranda gets ruined I'll consider that a bonus

Οὖτις, Friday, 1 December 2017 20:22 (six years ago) link

This appears to be the first story as such

http://www.playbill.com/article/sexual-harassment-allegations-shake-broadway-casting-company-telsey-co

Ned Raggett, Friday, 1 December 2017 20:24 (six years ago) link

supposedly "just the tip of the iceberg" acc to that thread

Simon H., Friday, 1 December 2017 20:26 (six years ago) link

Speculating or wishing people to be outed or caught without any inside information or special understanding = suuuuuuuuuuuper gross but ymmv

YouTube_-_funy_cats.flv (Jimmy The Mod Awaits The Return Of His Beloved), Friday, 1 December 2017 20:28 (six years ago) link

^^^^ how i feel about most of these conversations

ToddBonzalez (BradNelson), Friday, 1 December 2017 20:32 (six years ago) link

Separately, sounds like someone heard from a lawyer or two.

27 years ago I wrote a tawdry book depicting consensual events in 1973-45 years ago-I’ve deeply regretted its distasteful & disrespectful tone & have refrained from speaking about it-I’m embarrassed & profoundly sorry to those mentioned-I have & again apologize to anyone offended

— Geraldo Rivera (@GeraldoRivera) December 1, 2017

Although I recall the time @BetteMidler has alluded to much differently than she, that does not change the fact that she has a right to speak out & demand an apology from me, for in the very least, publically embarrassing her all those years ago. Bette, I apologize.

— Geraldo Rivera (@GeraldoRivera) December 1, 2017

Ned Raggett, Friday, 1 December 2017 20:32 (six years ago) link

"While I recall events much differently..." is the new hot phrase heading into 2018.

omar little, Friday, 1 December 2017 20:36 (six years ago) link

It's kinda trivial in the greater scheme of things, but I'm still waiting to see an apology that's just, "I fucked up, I'm sorry."

Simon H., Friday, 1 December 2017 20:38 (six years ago) link

supposedly "just the tip of the iceberg"

Hey now, careful with the anti-Semitism itt

here come the warm jorts (Ye Mad Puffin), Friday, 1 December 2017 20:44 (six years ago) link

if Lin Manuel Miranda gets ruined I'll consider that a bonus

― Οὖτις, Friday, December 1, 2017 12:22 PM (thirty minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

oh fuck off

.oO (silby), Friday, 1 December 2017 20:52 (six years ago) link

Speculating that this weekend might be NYCers' last chance to see a few different Bway musicals before they grind to a halt after Monday.

ヽ(´ー`)┌ (CompuPost), Friday, 1 December 2017 21:01 (six years ago) link

^ he knows whereof he speaks, folks.

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Friday, 1 December 2017 21:05 (six years ago) link

extremely curious what folks think of this piece by laura kipnis, who i have issues w/ (including some glaring ones in this piece cf the notion of women as the 'last' colonized people which is a bizarre variation on the old 'woman is the nword of the world' chestnut) but who seems to at the very least have thought pretty hard about this...idk i suspect part of her brand is being contrarian & suspect lots of guys will share this, but also conventional wisdom is bad so at any rate before i say any more, i'm curious what people think:
http://www.nybooks.com/articles/2017/12/21/kick-against-the-pricks/

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 1 December 2017 22:14 (six years ago) link

i havent even finished reading it but its bringing up some interesting observations for sure & yikes did it just go to a dark place

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 1 December 2017 22:30 (six years ago) link

good piece imo. The paragraph about Dinnerstein is a little o_0 but I don't generally go in for that level of Freudian discourse as applied to broad social patterns.

Οὖτις, Friday, 1 December 2017 22:43 (six years ago) link

She touches on something that has been bugging me about a lot of this story but I wasnt sure how to word it without sounding weird:

bout those chopped-down potentates and lords: many of them, one couldn’t help but notice, were not the most attractive specimens on the block: bulbous, jowly men; fat men who told women they needed to lose weight; ugly men drawn to industries organized around female appearance. Men with weird hair. Is it wrong of me to bring this up?

These guys have everything, but they are still gross and middle aged and fat so with power comes the ability to just take it anyway, take what they believe they are owed.

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Friday, 1 December 2017 23:14 (six years ago) link

i feel like theres some questionable glossing over going on in some of this but maybe some also worthwhile points? i know shes seen as fairly controversial (or arguably an apologist) but those are the least-interesting aspects of this imo

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Saturday, 2 December 2017 00:12 (six years ago) link

oh god bari weiss linked it i regret everything

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Saturday, 2 December 2017 00:13 (six years ago) link

I thought i'd read that film was done shooting.

anyway nice of EW to only refer to Freddie Mercury's "health struggles" on World AIDS Day.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 2 December 2017 02:44 (six years ago) link

So the "Broadway" revelation is about Ad-Rock's dad?

vampire soft rock: you're so vein (Ye Mad Puffin), Saturday, 2 December 2017 14:47 (six years ago) link

Nah, that went around again a couple of days ago -- all indications are it's something more.

Ned Raggett, Saturday, 2 December 2017 14:48 (six years ago) link

One of the Cats surely

President Keyes, Saturday, 2 December 2017 16:29 (six years ago) link

Israel Horovitz has only had one or two plays on B'way ever

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 2 December 2017 16:31 (six years ago) link

My guess is that it will be 3-5 names that few outside Bway would know, but everyone involved w/ Bway will know very well. And to the sadness of many ILXors, probably not LMM.

ヽ(´ー`)┌ (CompuPost), Saturday, 2 December 2017 16:53 (six years ago) link

I dont think LMM is even on Broadway anymore

President Keyes, Saturday, 2 December 2017 17:00 (six years ago) link

i liked that kipnis piece. i strive to be as electric in my writing as she is

maura, Saturday, 2 December 2017 22:30 (six years ago) link

re: Maura's link, that was the most open of open secrets; it was the first piece of gossip I heard passed around when he became artistic director of the BSO in 2004.

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Saturday, 2 December 2017 22:47 (six years ago) link

+ maura to list of women itt

i think that brings us to 6!

what did they change the name of Prairie Home Companion to?

i thought the kipnis piece was probably good but i didn't get most of her references :-/

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Sunday, 3 December 2017 00:52 (six years ago) link

"Town Hall" apparently

even for Shakey the LMM comment....yeesh

Universal LULU Nation (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Sunday, 3 December 2017 01:12 (six years ago) link

tough spot for him but that seems pretty, and i don't usually use this word, weaksauce

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Sunday, 3 December 2017 01:30 (six years ago) link

it would be extremely minnesotan not to talk about what happened, tho

j., Sunday, 3 December 2017 02:46 (six years ago) link

Yeah I remember the James Levine rumors from decades past

harbinger of failure (Jon not Jon), Sunday, 3 December 2017 03:20 (six years ago) link

On the death of an abuser of teenage boys which was an open secret in the Minneapolis suburb I’m from, a few men tried to say something about being his victims on our town page. The wrath of the Barbs and Cathys who were admins/self-appointed trauma police - “how dare you, HIS FAMILY might read this!” - was absolutely toxic, and they deleted the topic.

kim jong deal (suzy), Sunday, 3 December 2017 06:01 (six years ago) link

thile knows that he inherited Keillor's audience as well as his show and it would not be prudent to denounce K too harshly, for fear of alienating a good chunk of the people who underwrite his paycheck. it's not very admirable, but it's certainly understandable.

A is for (Aimless), Sunday, 3 December 2017 19:08 (six years ago) link

good lord that picture from the Post, Maura

https://thenypost.files.wordpress.com/2017/12/levine2.jpg?quality=90&strip=all&strip=all

Randall Jarrell (dandydonweiner), Sunday, 3 December 2017 22:06 (six years ago) link

there was a hilarious-to-look-at article that went around shortly after the announcement of Levine's tenure at the BSO detailing the salaries of all of the top orchestral conductors and it was literally a parade of handsome early-middle-aged men, plus Levine

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Sunday, 3 December 2017 22:49 (six years ago) link

Steve Wyard thought he knew what sexual harassment looked like: a put-out-or-lose-your-job overture. Now he's not so sure.
"Have we gotten to the point now where men can't say, 'That's a nice dress' or 'Did you do something with your hair?'" says the veteran sales associate for a Los Angeles company. "The potential problem is you can't even feel safe saying, 'Good morning' anymore."

🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

omar little, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 02:50 (six years ago) link

1) many men are fucking stupid
2) a meaningful minority of men are criminal assholes

lots of category 1 men are suddenly wondering if they are category 2 men because see description of category 1

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 03:01 (six years ago) link

http://www.esquire.com/entertainment/tv/a13978884/charlie-rose-sexual-harassment-accuser-story/

In 1997, I joined the production team of Charlie Rose’s popular interview show. I was the only black journalist on staff. At the time, there was little to no recognition of what it meant to be black and female in a workplace dominated by white men. Twenty years later, in this watershed moment of examination and reckoning as one powerful white man after another is disgraced following allegations of sexual misconduct ranging from harassment to assault, we’re still not talking about the ramifications for black women—or the broader connection to structural racism in America.

j., Tuesday, 5 December 2017 03:38 (six years ago) link

xpost See also: acknowledging other religions' holidays as a threat to Christianity, people eventually marrying horses because we allow gay marriages to happen, other overly-sensitive overreactions to (not entirely inaccurately) perceived attacks on a status quo that was working just fine for some people before a bunch of killjoys had to go and assert their personhood.

Ripped Taylor (Old Lunch), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 03:43 (six years ago) link

I dunno. Sure there's racism aplenty and more than enough to occupy us for uncounted decades ahead. But can you just let the groped women have their moment? kthxbye.

A is for (Aimless), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 03:43 (six years ago) link

If you don’t how to hug or compliment people without being creepy then I see an amazing market opportunity in the immediate future for people who can, and as sad as that may be, I’m OK with it

El Tomboto, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 03:44 (six years ago) link

Can definitely see my way to $300/hour consultant fees on how to show affection without being a slime - except A BAZILLION PERCENT OF CHILL DUDES ALREADY KNOW THIS and we made bad jokes about it for years whenever stories made the rounds, which is another aspect of feeling complicit, I think.

El Tomboto, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 03:51 (six years ago) link

xxp you are the living embodiment of the smug white-dude mentality that needs to be burned to the fucking ground

sleeve, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 03:51 (six years ago) link

sure, sleeve, I’m OK with that but which of us graybeards did you mean

El Tomboto, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 04:01 (six years ago) link

if it makes sleeve feel any better, he can pretend I am typing from the grave.

A is for (Aimless), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 04:13 (six years ago) link

To explain, I’m conflating the “am I allowed to hug?” piece that Omar little posted above, with this other fucked up piece that forks posted on the Elf Shelf thread (https://www.thecut.com/2017/08/cognition-builders-family-intervention-parenting-help-adhd.html)

This is all phenomenally stupid and sad to me. There are boundaries, morals, and/or basic manners we are supposed to teach each other and abide by. Several if not most of us will test those in our adolescence, but be corrected by peers, not consulting firms.

El Tomboto, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 05:04 (six years ago) link

we made bad jokes about it for years whenever stories made the rounds, which is another aspect of feeling complicit, I think.
what does this mean?
you made bad jokes about how you were a chill dude but those other guys were gross and you made self-aggrandizing jokes at their expense behind their backs?

'Did you do something with your hair?'"
one of the most chillingly off moments i have ever had with one of my friends' (ex) partners was when her ex-husband, who i was trying to give the benefit of the doubt (i had doubts) greeted me upon entering their apt by saying "did you do something with your hair?" and i had absolutely NOT done anything with my hair. first. i hadn't cut it in 8 months. I wore it up and off my face every day and every other time he had seen me. it was the same color. he hadn't known me long enough or well enough to have seen me with any other hair than this one. the cluelessness combined with the stock phrase nature of "did you do something with your hair?" made him seem like a total psychopath. at the time i didn't know how to react because what he had said was so superficially innocuous but to this day i remain extremely dubious of any man who says this to anyone.

There are boundaries, morals, and/or basic manners we are supposed to teach each other and abide by.
these are not universal and they do need to be taught by someone -- no one has this clear responsibility, i think i learned in school? i went to all-girls school grades 1-7 though.

Several if not most of us will test those in our adolescence, but be corrected by peers
imagine if you were the person they were tested on and the violation was never corrected by peers...

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 14:05 (six years ago) link

Masterson has finally been 86'd.

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/danny-masterson-netflix-ousted_us_5a2698a0e4b086e4e50461b1?k3f

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 14:20 (six years ago) link

that took way too much effort

Simon H., Tuesday, 5 December 2017 14:20 (six years ago) link

you made bad jokes about how you were a chill dude but those other guys were gross and you made self-aggrandizing jokes at their expense behind their backs?

yes, just talking shit instead of doing anything. abdication of the responsibilities alluded to about establishing and reinforcing norms when it comes to manners, privacy, and people’s bodies belonging to the people who live in them.

El Tomboto, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 14:23 (six years ago) link

imagine if you were the person they were tested on and the violation was never corrected by peers

yup

El Tomboto, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 14:23 (six years ago) link

i guess for me it's shocking to hear someone admit this but i see it as ultimately a positive development. i have a very small handful of experiences in which i remember any correction, but i do remember them, albeit not as viscerally as the experiences in which there was not.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 14:42 (six years ago) link

I dunno. Sure there's racism aplenty and more than enough to occupy us for uncounted decades ahead. But can you just let the groped women have their moment? kthxbye.

what the actual fuck

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 15:28 (six years ago) link

i have definitely been cowardly in my life about confronting men around me when they say something I find abominable.

harbinger of failure (Jon not Jon), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 15:29 (six years ago) link

the legacy of learned behaviors from grade school around being a short weak only child and avoiding getting my ass kicked i guess

harbinger of failure (Jon not Jon), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 15:30 (six years ago) link

i'm obviously still scared and I realize that's a problem

harbinger of failure (Jon not Jon), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 15:32 (six years ago) link

crossposting from the Dustin Hoffman thread

Hoffman accused Oliver of “putting me on display” and said he felt blindsided because neither Oliver nor Tribeca organizers had told him the moderator would raise the subject.

Several times, however, Oliver in fact sought to move on and talk about the film, but Hoffman returned to the subject of harassment, growing testy as he said Oliver was not keeping an “open mind” while unquestionably believing accusers.

“Do you believe this stuff you read?” Hoffman asked.

“Yes,” Oliver replied. “Because there’s no point in [an accuser] lying.”

“Well, there’s a point in her not bringing it up for 40 years,” Hoffman said.

“Oh Dustin,” Oliver said disapprovingly, putting his head in his hand.

http://deadline.com/2017/12/dustin-hoffman-spars-with-john-oliver-over-harassment-claims-i-find-it-very-upsetting-that-you-dont-see-the-humanity-1202220185/

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/business/wp/2017/12/04/john-oliver-grills-dustin-hoffman-over-sexual-harassment-allegation/?utm_term=.703289304f8f

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 15:37 (six years ago) link

whoa

frogbs, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 15:44 (six years ago) link

John Oliver should be fucking guillotined

sleepingbag, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 15:48 (six years ago) link

Hoffman shot back, “You weren’t there.” Oliver responded, “I’m glad,” drawing gasps from the well-heeled audience, many of whom had paid hefty ticket prices. Heightening the spectacle was the fact it was occurring in the Y’s wood-paneled Kaufmann Concert Hall, an august Upper East Side venue that had last seen an uproar like this when John Ashbery dared to read a poem in free verse.

President Keyes, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 15:49 (six years ago) link

lmao yes, I bet that's exactly how it played out at the venue that's hosting Judd Apatow next week

mag gerwig! (Whiney G. Weingarten), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 15:57 (six years ago) link

Reading the whole WaPo account made me irl cringe

El Tomboto, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:00 (six years ago) link

I saw Jerry Lewis in that room (a lotta mob guys in attendance)

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:01 (six years ago) link

JOHN OLIVER EVISCERATES UPPER EAST SIDE SOCIALITES CRAVING WRY HOFFMAN ANECDOTES OF PLAYING WILLY LOMAN ON BROADWAY IN 1984

mag gerwig! (Whiney G. Weingarten), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:02 (six years ago) link

“Have you seen Tootsie?” he asked Oliver at one point. When Oliver insisted that he had and that he enjoyed Hoffman’s performance in it, Hoffman told a detailed story about staying in makeup and costume as Dorothy, the film’s title character, after shooting had ended one night and experiencing misogyny first-hand. “How could I have made that movie if I didn’t have incredible respect for women?” he asked. “It’s shocking to me that you don’t see me more clearly.”

http://i0.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/original/000/022/138/reece.JPG

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:13 (six years ago) link

okay lol

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:15 (six years ago) link

xps just wanna say bout damn time on Danny Masterson, his shit's been reported on for years

Nhex, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:15 (six years ago) link

I Am Curious (Tootsie)!

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:15 (six years ago) link

also I chuckled reading about Oliver's "I'm glad"

Nhex, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:16 (six years ago) link

John Oliver should be fucking guillotined

― sleepingbag, Tuesday, December 5, 2017 10:48 AM (thirty-six minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Is this an overall statement, or just about the exchange in particular...?

Evan, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:27 (six years ago) link

John Oliver is basically exhibit A in the smug liberal social media bubble that got Trump elected, don't @ me

mag gerwig! (Whiney G. Weingarten), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:29 (six years ago) link

people love to say that shit but if the argument here is that criticizing Trump got him elected then idk where to start

frogbs, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:33 (six years ago) link

wonder if this story from yesterday kinda spurred on the firing:

One of actor Danny Masterson’s alleged sexual assault victims says a Netflix executive told her this weekend that higher-ups at the company don’t believe the four women who have accused Masterson of rape.

Netflix confirmed in a statement that Andy Yeatman, its director of global kids content, made those “careless” and “uninformed” comments, but noted that he was not initially aware that the woman he was speaking to had accused Masterson of rape.

Yeatman spoke with the woman, whom HuffPost is referring to as Victim B, on the sidelines of a kids’ soccer game in Los Angeles. Yeatman is the head coach of a soccer team for 8- and 9-year-old girls. Victim B’s husband is the head coach of the team that played against Yeatman’s on Sunday. Their respective daughters play on the teams that their fathers coach.

When Victim B approached Yeatman and asked him if he worked at Netflix, she says he answered in the affirmative.

Victim B said she asked Yeatman why Netflix was not taking action against Masterson in light of the district attorney’s investigation and the multiple accusations of rape. According to Victim B and another witness, Yeatman said Netflix takes sexual misconduct allegations seriously but that “we don’t believe them,” referring to Masterson’s four accusers.

Victim B told HuffPost she never expected Yeatman to say such a thing and was left stunned. She said she then told him, “I’m one of them,” indicating she was one of Masterson’s accusers.

The conversation ended quickly.

Victim B said Yeatman approached her at the game about an hour later, ostensibly to clear the air, and told her that he’d had no idea she was one of Masterson’s alleged victims.

Victim B told HuffPost that she began to cry and told Yeatman, “I hope no one ever says that to your daughter.”

Yeatman then told her that he can’t decide whether Netflix takes action against Masterson.

Victim B told Yeatman that she and the other women accusing Masterson of rape were telling the truth and that “Netflix is going to regret this, this is a mistake, they’re going to see.”

Victim B said, and the witness confirmed, that Yeatman said, in what they described as a condescending tone, “we’ll see.”

A Netflix spokesman denied that Yeatman said “we’ll see.”

But the company confirmed in a statement that Yeatman told Victim B that Netflix executives didn’t believe the four women accusing Masterson of rape.

“While he was coaching a youth soccer match today, Mr. Yeatman ― a Netflix kids’ programming executive ― was approached by a stranger who did not identify herself or explain her connection to Danny Masterson,” the statement read. “Mr. Yeatman’s comments were careless, uninformed and do not represent the views of the company. Further, he would have no insights into decision making on The Ranch. We are aware of the allegations against Danny Masterson and we are following the current investigation, and will respond if developments occur.”

omar little, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:36 (six years ago) link

John Oliver is basically exhibit A in the smug liberal social media bubble that got Trump elected, don't @ me

― mag gerwig! (Whiney G. Weingarten),

http://www.indiewire.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/tootsie.jpg

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:37 (six years ago) link

people love to say that shit but if the argument here is
https://us-east-1.tchyn.io/snopes-production/uploads/2016/02/drumpf.png
got him elected then idk where to start

― frogbs, Tuesday, December 5, 2017 11:33 AM (three minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

mag gerwig! (Whiney G. Weingarten), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:37 (six years ago) link

No, pissing off liberal straw(wo)men and ‘how dare a black man be president of me’ were in a dead heat of responsibility for this shitshow. Blaming individual liberals is a fool’s errand.

kim jong deal (suzy), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:38 (six years ago) link

I don't think that being the excuse people use to weaponize their racism/sexism absolves people of said racism/sexism or presupposes that said racism/sexism wouldn't have been expressed anyway.

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:39 (six years ago) link

yes it was "Drumpf" that inspired all those people to pull the lever for the man promising to do away with immigrants

frogbs, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:39 (six years ago) link

Polling suggests Oliver's glasses swung 10,000 votes in Michigan alone

President Keyes, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:39 (six years ago) link

imagine if Hillary had had Dorothy Michaels as a campaign manager!

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:40 (six years ago) link

Although it is very true that the majority of woke white guys I know are casting around desperately for scapegoats they can hold up so they don't have to cosign the argument "maybe a lot of white people in this country are racist/sexist to the point where it is worth it to harm themselves if they can take down their perceived enemies with them"

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:40 (six years ago) link

I disagree with frogbs, but derailing this thread is nagl, so let's get back on thread

mag gerwig! (Whiney G. Weingarten), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:41 (six years ago) link

I don't think there are any other threads to talk about Hillary on this board tho

President Keyes, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:42 (six years ago) link

"Sure there's a lot of racism/sexism in this country but maybe someone did something so snarky that the only reasonable response for some people was to close the borders and give all our money to the wealthy; have you considered that?"

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:42 (six years ago) link

believe it or not Whiney many people in America care about more than pop culture bullshit that makes them irrationally angry

frogbs, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:43 (six years ago) link

I'm not going to argue anymore about this on this thread, so meet me somewhere else or save your breath

mag gerwig! (Whiney G. Weingarten), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:43 (six years ago) link

if only Oliver did a long sit down in which he tried to humanize and *understand* the "build the wall" crowd like every other news outlet did

frogbs, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:47 (six years ago) link

DJP bringing major OTMness here

didgeridon't (Ye Mad Puffin), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:47 (six years ago) link

Hoffman pulled his regular old "BUT I WAS IN TOOTSIE!" card. I will defer to Teri Garr's brilliant AV Club interview regarding that. https://t.co/KyM9ZmqFKr pic.twitter.com/IsJbQSxCMX

— Tyler Coates (@tylercoates) December 5, 2017

mookieproof, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:51 (six years ago) link

at least in Tootsie the joke's on the Hoffman character. NO surprise that Hoffman's this self-absorbed in real life.

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 16:54 (six years ago) link

That Teri Garr interview is great

erry red flag (f. hazel), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 17:03 (six years ago) link

DJP otm, Whiney has the weirdest priorities

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 17:06 (six years ago) link

It's nice to fantasize about the thing that annoys you the most being proportionately responsible for everything wrong with the world. Sometimes when someone rudely cuts me off in traffic I want their entire family to disown them in that moment.

Evan, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 17:14 (six years ago) link

I disagree with frogbs, but derailing this thread is nagl, so let's get back on thread

― mag gerwig! (Whiney G. Weingarten), Tuesday, December 5, 2017 11:41 AM (thirty-five minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

I'm not going to argue anymore about this on this thread, so meet me somewhere else or save your breath

― mag gerwig! (Whiney G. Weingarten), Tuesday, December 5, 2017 11:43 AM (thirty-two minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

mag gerwig! (Whiney G. Weingarten), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 17:16 (six years ago) link

"last word!" - Whiney

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 17:30 (six years ago) link

the Democrats shitting on their constituents for 40 years = total nonfactor as always

BACK TO TOPIC

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 17:32 (six years ago) link

I'd say that counts as assault

Evan, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 17:35 (six years ago) link

I really didn't know anything about Dustin Hoffman other than he was a good actor; all of this is... "disappointing" isn't the right word but I don't have a better one. Like, he wasn't a role model I aspired to but he was an innocuous-seeming guy who gave a bunch of performances I've enjoyed and, while I have no reason to assume that generic people are generally good given the absence of any other information, I don't remember hearing or reading any stories about him being "difficult" which I translated internally to "this isn't someone who is going to go on record as being an ass about things".

The idea that walking around dressed as Tootsie gave him insight into what it was like to be a woman is the most ridiculous, shallow thing.

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 17:40 (six years ago) link

Hoffman was another case where the stuff was already out there: that old Meryl Streep interview where she describes him groping her as they met for the first time

President Keyes, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 17:44 (six years ago) link

Not disputing that the info was there, just saying that I didn't remember seeing it.

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 17:59 (six years ago) link

tbh Dustin Hoffman isn't an actor I think about all that much

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 18:00 (six years ago) link

he's great in a bunch of movies *and* the stories I've read about him (cf Kramer vs. Kramer) have generally painted a picture of an asshole. Not unusual.

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 18:11 (six years ago) link

I don't remember hearing or reading any stories about him being "difficult"

He's had the reputation for being EXTREMELY difficult for years! William Goldman's Adventures in the Screen Trade has a number of anecdotes about Hoffman that make him out to be a total jerk to work with, and Tootsie was apparently the nightmare shoot to end all nightmare shoots because of his bad behaviour on set.

Ward Fowler, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 18:58 (six years ago) link

had the same impression with Spacey - kinda disappointed but not that surprised

Nhex, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 19:00 (six years ago) link

what I like about the Oliver/Hoffman exchange is really just that it ~happened~. I am not certain how successful it was but people at Hoffman’s level of will never talk openly about this if they are prepped beforehand.

Again, I dunno that it achieved much especially in that setting but I like the attempt

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 19:13 (six years ago) link

the Spacey thing was weird to me, because I'd heard the rumors for so many years and there were so many of them that I figured they had to be true. like every "share your celebrity encounter" article/thread always seemed to have one predatory anecdote about Kevin Spacey

frogbs, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 19:18 (six years ago) link

xp yeah i love that Oliver did that, even if he bugs me, i dont give a fuck, what he did absolutely rules
i had no idea about Hoffman's reputation as difficult, his comments are pretty stupid & insane especially re: Tootsie

flappy bird, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 19:28 (six years ago) link

I dunno. Sure there's racism aplenty and more than enough to occupy us for uncounted decades ahead. But can you just let the groped women have their moment? kthxbye.

Wow, Aimless, the point flew so far over your head it veered into outer space

IOW that is a shitty oblivious asshole thing for you to say

just1n3, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 21:40 (six years ago) link

Tootsie is in part about Hoffman the actor's insufferability on set

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 21:41 (six years ago) link

yes, he inspired his own character

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 21:52 (six years ago) link

Tootsie is also a majorly bad film - fewer jokes than you remember, and too much shouting

Chuck_Tatum, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 21:53 (six years ago) link

I will take this scene forever.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BnHqiipcw6g

(But it's the only thing I've watched from it in years and years.)

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 21:54 (six years ago) link

from Dec '82 on, has never seemed like any kind of masterpiece to me. Good and shallow comedy.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 21:55 (six years ago) link

yeah it's fun but Morbz is correct

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 21:58 (six years ago) link

Anyway, fuck Hoffman, yay Oliver, etc.

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 21:59 (six years ago) link

Anyway, more on the National Enquirer/Us Weekly bro

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/national-enquirer-dylan-howard-sexual-misconduct-allegations_us_5a2704b5e4b06007f6b57303

Former employees of American Media Inc., which owns seven tabloids, told the AP that the company’s chief content officer, Dylan Howard, openly discussed his sex life, talked about female employees’ sex lives and forced women to watch or listen to pornographic material.

Howard left the company in 2012 after it launched an investigation into his behavior. He was later rehired with a promotion and worked out of the company’s New York office.

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 22:00 (six years ago) link

Tootsie is also a majorly bad film - fewer jokes than you remember, and too much shouting

― Chuck_Tatum, Tuesday, December 5, 2017 4:53 PM

this is the rongest thing I've ever read on ILE.

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 22:23 (six years ago) link

from Dec '82 on, has never seemed like any kind of masterpiece to me. Good and shallow comedy.

― ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius)

yes, a shallow masterpiece

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 22:24 (six years ago) link

Guess who’s Dustin Hoffman’s agent?

My assailant @WME ‘s Adam Venit.

If I wrote this in a movie you’d call it ridiculous.

ABUSERS PROTECT ABUSERS https://t.co/pBid0CInoe

— terrycrews (@terrycrews) December 5, 2017

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 22:29 (six years ago) link

(There is a tendency in this culture for people to far overpraise white men when they happen to make public their stumbling onto a non-troglodytic opinion—because white men are still, after all this bullshit, the "standard," and so I guess is the assumption of their bad opinions. The "John Oliver is a gold standard feminist" huzzah-ing in the wake of last nigh is ABSOLUTELY an incidence of that.)

maura, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 22:44 (six years ago) link

*night

maura, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 22:44 (six years ago) link

That is definitely the most frustrating part of all of this, going right back to what Hannibal Buress did. Oh, the men are speaking out so now you're all listening? OK then.

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 22:46 (six years ago) link

the opinion of 1 man > countless women howling into the void :(

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 22:49 (six years ago) link

yep

that one woman who talked to the netflix guy at the youth soccer game is the exception that proves the rule

maura, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 22:52 (six years ago) link

I assumed the entirety of praise was because he confronted someone accused in such a public setting

Evan, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 22:53 (six years ago) link

that stuff on The Graduate DVD came out years ago and no one said boo

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 23:07 (six years ago) link

here’s a useful thread on this subtopic for those confused about the eye rolling

lmao a few years ago john oliver didn’t know why it was fucked up that there were no women at the daily show stop praising men for doing the bare minimum male feminism is a sham thank you for playing https://t.co/Q5f2D7cddi https://t.co/eWaFiKqxSS

— Aminatou Sow (@aminatou) December 5, 2017

maura, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 23:15 (six years ago) link

huh was Samantha Bee out of town for that event or something

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 23:21 (six years ago) link

not that it matters but i think kristin schall performed at that show

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 23:25 (six years ago) link

tbh calling John Oliver a "gold standard" anything is really asking for it.

idk how many women worked on the Daily Show but I know it isn't zero. Whether or not there is/was adequate representation on-staff I don't really know.

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 23:28 (six years ago) link

Sounds like the '08 roast of Matt Lauer got pretty weird:

http://www.foxnews.com/entertainment/2017/12/05/media-elite-laughed-at-2008-roast-sending-matt-lauer-s-pervy-behavior.amp.html

reggae mike love (polyphonic), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 23:29 (six years ago) link

Daily show was created by lizz winstead wasn’t it

Xp

harbinger of failure (Jon not Jon), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 23:30 (six years ago) link

we're linking to Fox News now?

xp

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 23:31 (six years ago) link

Didn't know that was verboten

reggae mike love (polyphonic), Tuesday, 5 December 2017 23:33 (six years ago) link

The original Tony Ortega Voice piece they link to has a lot of it, but there's more details in this one. In sum: it's a roast but even for a roast it's a really fucking gross roast, the more so in obvious retrospect.

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 23:34 (six years ago) link

xxp all the quotes in the Fox News article are sourced from a Village Voice writeup of the roast in 2008. yes, despite the url its not fayyke nyews

flappy bird, Tuesday, 5 December 2017 23:45 (six years ago) link

I think Lizz Winstead (who yes, created the show) left partly because Craig Kilborn was such a fucking fratty douche.

akm, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 00:06 (six years ago) link

"She quit in 1998 shortly after Kilborn told Esquire magazine, “To be honest, Lizz does find me very attractive. If I wanted her to blow me, she would.”:

akm, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 00:07 (six years ago) link

that aminitow sow's twitter feed is exactly why I try to never go on twitter

akm, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 00:09 (six years ago) link

The NYT crew that broke the original Weinstein story has a massive new one up

https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2017/12/05/us/harvey-weinstein-complicity.html

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 00:33 (six years ago) link

Suffice to say Bob Weinstein, among many others, are about to be fully shredded.

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 00:34 (six years ago) link

2 months tomorrow since the first story ran

flappy bird, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 01:30 (six years ago) link

Kinda want to take back some shit I said about the NYT but don’t want to give K3v the satisfaction. Aaaaarrrrgh.

El Tomboto, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 01:48 (six years ago) link

Ugh the new NYT piece just puts me right back in the same place as those first stories. His actions are abject & terrifying... but the network he’s created to enable it is just as frightening.

And I dont mean frightening that it exists. I took that as a given. I mean frightening to think about drawb in by that network, being assaulted, and then smothered by that network. Being pursued. Being paid off. Being pushed into the dirty laundry cart & sent down the chute with such efficiency that you are only realizing on the way down that you are not just one. You are one of many. Hundreds. And there is a PROCEDURE for handling you and your damaged life.

Thinking about what that feels like makes me feel so afraid and angry and hurt.

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 05:08 (six years ago) link

fucking usc of course

the late great, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 07:11 (six years ago) link

person of the year!!!!1111

https://media.npr.org/assets/img/2017/12/06/poy-2017-cover_vert-f1543ad0e414ef2a31d9b0e95c3d100a62eeee91-s900-c85.jpg

in what way was Taylor a silence breaker? I thought she'd been dissing exes in her songs for years.

Ludo, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 13:31 (six years ago) link

I have uh mixed feelings about her being on there (vs dozens of others who had a lot more to lose).

Simon H., Wednesday, 6 December 2017 13:32 (six years ago) link

uh do you not remember the trial from earlier this year

http://www.rollingstone.com/music/news/jury-sides-with-taylor-swift-in-groping-trial-w497780

alternately you could you know. click the link

maura, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 13:32 (six years ago) link

sure other people had more to lose and one could say that focusing on celebrities and the rich and those in the culture industry, as much of the press has done, only results in a fraction of the problem being examined. but her trial shone a light on a toxic culture in radio, one that absolutely gets beamed out to listeners and helps put america in an ever more retrogressive place

maura, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 13:34 (six years ago) link

like the manboyism of radio is something that isn’t discussed much because it’s “what the market wants.” which should make it an even more crucial topic of inquiry

maura, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 13:35 (six years ago) link

I knew about the trial. It's just a little odd to see her sharing space with women who had to act out against people with markedly more power than they had. But yes, there are certainly worse topics to make a calculated appeal to a broader audience like this with.

Simon H., Wednesday, 6 December 2017 13:42 (six years ago) link

ah i missed the trial.

we had our 'own' Dutch case of radio manboyism this week (http://metro.co.uk/2017/12/05/dutch-radio-station-apologises-streaker-prank-leaves-singer-tears-7134264/)

Ludo, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 13:45 (six years ago) link

Yeah morning zoo crew culture is perpetually stuck on 1990, it's weird when I listen every now and then, same old schtick descended from Stern and a zillion small market losers killing time between Aerosmith and whatever

Universal LULU Nation (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 14:01 (six years ago) link

Lena Dunham coming across really well the new NYTimes piece, sounds like she actually was trying to point out this fucked up thing. extra fucked up that no one believed her.

bet the Clintons are counting their blessings that the TV documentary they were making w HW never got made.

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 14:11 (six years ago) link

They put Taylor Swift on the cover to sell magazines--very defendable choice of editing. Would rather have more gas on the fire even if it comes at the cost of more stargazing.

Lyudmila Pavlichenko (dandydonweiner), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 14:17 (six years ago) link

So, this is because Trumpo turned them down?

(leaving that typo in..)

Mark G, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 14:18 (six years ago) link

Trump didn't turn them down, he was just in the running.

Josh in Chicago, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 14:20 (six years ago) link

"I know...."

Mark G, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 14:20 (six years ago) link

Person of the Year Runner-up: Donald Trump
Person of the Year Runner-up: Xi Jinping
Person of the Year Runner-up: Robert Mueller
Person of the Year Runner-up: Kim Jong Un
Person of the Year Runner-up: Colin Kaepernick
Person of the Year Runner-up: Patty Jenkins

Josh in Chicago, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 14:21 (six years ago) link

what else do i have to say

j., Wednesday, 6 December 2017 14:27 (six years ago) link

Kim Jong Un would have been incredible

frogbs, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 14:34 (six years ago) link

The idea of Kim Jong Un in any form is incredible

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 14:39 (six years ago) link

wish they'd listed kap before trump just to twist the knife

maura, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 15:04 (six years ago) link

there was a period this year where it felt like kap was a lock

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 15:04 (six years ago) link

sorta reminds me of how 9/11 stole jim jeffords shine lol

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 15:05 (six years ago) link

on a much bigger scale obv

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 15:05 (six years ago) link

one more time: he needs to fucking go

Simon H., Wednesday, 6 December 2017 15:38 (six years ago) link

it's okay i'm sure his memory of that moment differs

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 15:44 (six years ago) link

WNYC's Leonard Lopate and Jonathan Schwarz suspended

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 17:06 (six years ago) link

As elected officials, we should be held to the highest standards—not the lowest. The allegations against Sen. Franken describe behavior that cannot be tolerated. While he’s entitled to an Ethics Committee hearing, I believe he should step aside to let someone else serve.

— Kirsten Gillibrand (@SenGillibrand) December 6, 2017

Al Franken should resign.

— Claire McCaskill (@clairecmc) December 6, 2017

sean gramophone, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 17:09 (six years ago) link

this senatorship is OVAH

mookieproof, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 17:12 (six years ago) link

they seem to be coming out en masse now, looks like a coordinated effort

Dems calling for a Senator to resign at the same time the RNC is actively trying to get a pedophile elected seems like a pretty good snapshot of where things are at right now

frogbs, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 17:16 (six years ago) link

Tom Perez has also told him to go.

Wag1 Shree Rajneesh (ShariVari), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 17:22 (six years ago) link

When you didn’t get the memo pic.twitter.com/uucAmzmwBN

— Charlie Spiering (@charliespiering) December 6, 2017

𝔠𝔞𝔢𝔨 (caek), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 17:24 (six years ago) link

It's a metaphor, obviously

Evan, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 17:27 (six years ago) link

the snowy owls of pure untainted politics

imago, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 17:28 (six years ago) link

Not what they seem to recall

remember the lmao (darraghmac), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 17:30 (six years ago) link

that was likely a scheduled tweet that someone forgot to turn off

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 17:30 (six years ago) link

What do the "Great Lakes" represent?

Evan, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 17:32 (six years ago) link

Kinda want to take back some shit I said about the NYT but don’t want to give K3v the satisfaction. Aaaaarrrrgh.

― El Tomboto, Tuesday, December 5, 2017 8:48 PM (yesterday)

;)

k3vin k., Wednesday, 6 December 2017 17:33 (six years ago) link

people are blaming NYPR chair Laura Walker for Lopate and Schwartz, but given how long they've been there, we don't know when the alleged offenses occurred.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 17:54 (six years ago) link

ugh at lopate, really unhappy to hear that

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 19:11 (six years ago) link

It’s gross af that Time put a sexual predator in the runners-up, while naming victims of sexual predation as person of the year

just1n3, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 19:13 (six years ago) link

the list isn't influenced by morality, did you notice there's also a despotic dictator in the runners up

flappy bird, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 19:16 (six years ago) link

So fucking what?? It’s stull fucking gross

just1n3, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 19:19 (six years ago) link

ok

President Keyes, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 19:24 (six years ago) link

It is gross, and it was even grosser when they actually named him person of the year in 2016. No publicity is bad publicity.

Ripped Taylor (Old Lunch), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 19:25 (six years ago) link

I can't believe this conversation happens every year when Time releases their Person of the Year. Hitler was Person of the Year in 1938. it's not a moral judgment, it's an objective call on who or what influenced the news & the culture & the world the most in that year. if the floodgates hadn't opened after Weinstein, it would've been Trump again, no one comes close.

flappy bird, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 19:25 (six years ago) link

Sorry the world sucks, don't blame Time

flappy bird, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 19:27 (six years ago) link

maybe they could name Hitler POTY every year, just as a reminder

crüt, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 19:29 (six years ago) link

Yeah, we understand the intent. The problem is that Trump and probably a good many of his fans just see a magazine cover naming him person of the year and thing 'awesome'.

Ripped Taylor (Old Lunch), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 19:35 (six years ago) link

thing think

Ripped Taylor (Old Lunch), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 19:35 (six years ago) link

Shaaaaaame on you, shameless person we're putting on the cover of our magazine! We hope you feel duly chastised!

Ripped Taylor (Old Lunch), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 19:36 (six years ago) link

yeah let's accommodate idiots more, good call

flappy bird, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 19:38 (six years ago) link

Yeah that's what I'm arguing, good reading comprehension.

Ripped Taylor (Old Lunch), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 19:44 (six years ago) link

Even having it read "person" of the year would go over their heads

Evan, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 19:47 (six years ago) link

changing a century old tradition to accommodate Trump and MAGA idiots really would stick it to them huh

flappy bird, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 19:49 (six years ago) link

I don't think "accommodate" means what you think it means and holding onto a tradition for the sake of tradition is foolish.

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 19:50 (six years ago) link

accommodate as in to adjust to the stupidity of people that misunderstand the concept. i agree that traditions shouldn't be continued simply because they're old, but i see no issue with Time's POTY protocol. it's a reflection of the world, good bad and everything in between.

flappy bird, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 19:55 (six years ago) link

yes maybe if the intent is easily misunderstood it reflects a poor journalistic practice

sciatica, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 19:55 (six years ago) link

that Yes was a xpost to DJP

sciatica, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 19:55 (six years ago) link

I don't think it loses anything by being renamed to "newsmaker of the year" or whatever

Simon H., Wednesday, 6 December 2017 19:57 (six years ago) link

^agreed on that. not the name I'm wedded to, I'm a fan of the concept.

flappy bird, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 19:58 (six years ago) link

that's better than "King of the News" which was going to be my suggestion

President Keyes, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 19:58 (six years ago) link

^Check Out This Person, Whoa!

sciatica, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 20:00 (six years ago) link

The tradition comes from a time when the subject in question could be reasonably expected to understand whether being named person of the year was a good thing or a bad thing. Like how we all knew it was a bad thing that one time we were collectively commemorated as the living human population of the planet earth.

Ripped Taylor (Old Lunch), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 20:02 (six years ago) link

i name all of us Successfully Anonymous People of the Year

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 20:12 (six years ago) link

XXL's Freshman Newsmaker Class

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 20:12 (six years ago) link

it's all a bit of a cheat anyway: "person of the year" doesn't mean "newsmaker of the year" either - it's a title chosen conferred for how well the person emblematizes major news event(s) while still being a saleable cover star. otherwise clearly Osama bin Laden (or Harvey Weinstein himself) would have been given the designation.

sean gramophone, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 20:17 (six years ago) link

Franken back on SNL w/in 2 years?

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 20:23 (six years ago) link

Lopate "baffled." No details on allegations.

http://money.cnn.com/2017/12/06/media/leonard-lopate-jonathan-schwartz-wnyc/index.html

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 20:33 (six years ago) link

Lopate?!

... (Eazy), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 20:36 (six years ago) link

I don't think it loses anything by being renamed to "newsmaker of the year" or whatever

― Simon H., Wednesday, December 6, 2017 2:57 PM (fifty-five minutes ago)

you guys will love MVP debates on ILH/ILB

k3vin k., Wednesday, 6 December 2017 21:05 (six years ago) link

BREAK: Lorin Stein, the editor of the Paris Review, has resigned amid an investigation into his conduct with women https://t.co/mUELfZ9ai5

— Sydney Ember (@melbournecoal) December 6, 2017

mookieproof, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 21:47 (six years ago) link

omg are the bad literary men going to start toppling??? can't wait.

horseshoe, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 21:51 (six years ago) link

Oof. They all fall down.

Le Bateau Ivre, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 21:52 (six years ago) link

The board’s decision to review Mr. Stein’s behavior came after he informed board members that his name had appeared on a list created after the Harvey Weinstein scandal to anonymously crowdsource allegations of harassment and misconduct by men in publishing and media.

can you imag this meeting?

horseshoe, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 21:53 (six years ago) link

franken will resign tomorrow, apparently

mookieproof, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 21:54 (six years ago) link

I wish he would cling for his political life and fite

Lyudmila Pavlichenko (dandydonweiner), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 22:05 (six years ago) link

why

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 22:51 (six years ago) link

This was quite good on these 'confusing' times.

http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2017/12/where_is_the_line_between_office_flirtation_and_sexual_harassment.html

xyzzzz__, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 22:57 (six years ago) link

I wish he would cling for his political life and fite

― Lyudmila Pavlichenko (dandydonweiner), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 22:05 (one hour ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

posts, and the preposterous posters who post them

imago, Wednesday, 6 December 2017 23:11 (six years ago) link

xp that article is a bit long-winded but not a bad story

Nhex, Thursday, 7 December 2017 00:15 (six years ago) link

I wish he would cling for his political life and fite

― Lyudmila Pavlichenko (dandydonweiner), Wednesday, 6 December 2017 22:05 (one hour ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

posts, and the preposterous posters who post them

― imago, Wednesday, December 6, 2017 11:11 PM (yesterday) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

OTFM. Many posters here crying wolf about Franken. A person who harassed a woman. And the "such a shame, gud sentor, wish e'd fight!" posts are legion. Merely because they liked him as a politician/never expected it from him/such a shame/good guy/boy didna mean no 'arm.

Yeah, this is part of the problem people.

Le Bateau Ivre, Thursday, 7 December 2017 00:24 (six years ago) link

yeehaw wahoo git r done am i rite fellers

sleepingbag, Thursday, 7 December 2017 00:34 (six years ago) link

The question isn't "Why are Democrats acquiescing?" It's "Let's pulverize the GOP over this in the next year."

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 7 December 2017 00:34 (six years ago) link

How are you not still banned? xp

Le Bateau Ivre, Thursday, 7 December 2017 00:34 (six years ago) link

posters have "forcibly tried" to ban me, it's true

sleepingbag, Thursday, 7 December 2017 00:35 (six years ago) link

xp Same thing. Dems can, and should, pulverize the GOP without Al fucking Franken. It's up for grabs. There's a GOP monkey in the white house. It's on a silver platter, for the taking. You don't need a harasser to accomplish this great feat. A better monkey should suffice.

Le Bateau Ivre, Thursday, 7 December 2017 00:37 (six years ago) link

I wish he would cling for his political life and fite

― Lyudmila Pavlichenko (dandydonweiner), Wednesday, December 6, 2017 5:05 PM (two hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

why

― Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, December 6, 2017 5:51 PM (one hour ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Sarcasm, sorry to disappoint.

Lyudmila Pavlichenko (dandydonweiner), Thursday, 7 December 2017 00:37 (six years ago) link

He needs to go, but others have said it better than me.

Lyudmila Pavlichenko (dandydonweiner), Thursday, 7 December 2017 00:38 (six years ago) link

This was quite good on these 'confusing' times.

http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2017/12/where_is_the_line_between_office_flirtation_and_sexual_harassment.html

― xyzzzz__, Wednesday, December 6, 2017 5:57 PM (yesterday) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

"Several women have written recently that they fear a coming backlash—that one false allegation against a famous man will bring this whole new reality crashing down, or that in the understandable urge to name names, women will be seen as the aggressors, out to tar every man’s reputation. I have those fears too, but I also fear the consequences of overcorrection, of the concept of harassment ballooning to include perfectly legitimate attempts at seduction—the initial touch, the scooting closer in the booth, the drunken sloppy first kiss, the occasional bad call or failed pass."

I worry about the combination of these things turning the whole movement into a tightrope walk. If just one major accusation comes out as verifiably false for some reason, or if too many accusations fall into that slippery slope overcorrection NBD category she mentions, it will give something that general management/HR/board members etc can point to when there is pressure to fire an accused member of their team. A lot of the accused are very important to their organizations in one way or another, but the current public pressure to cut ties is so great that it outweighs other options they have to deal with the situation that they might have preferred for the sake of their business. I feel like if just one major story was shown to be false all organizations would be able to say that it shows that going forward all the facts need to be internally investigated thoroughly before any rash decision is made. Then it just goes away and nothing happens. Companies are able to damage control by expressing concern and then letting it just fizzle out.

Evan, Thursday, 7 December 2017 16:30 (six years ago) link

If just one major accusation comes out as verifiably false for some reason

If? The cultural right already keeps bringing up Duke lacrosse and the Rolling Stone frat thing as magical trump cards that should necessarily cause any legit accusation to fizzle, because if some people got it sorta wrong once then it's all suspect.

didgeridon't (Ye Mad Puffin), Thursday, 7 December 2017 16:38 (six years ago) link

also too soon for hellscape projection imo

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 7 December 2017 16:39 (six years ago) link

xp Same thing. Dems can, and should, pulverize the GOP without Al fucking Franken. It's up for grabs. There's a GOP monkey in the white house. It's on a silver platter, for the taking. You don't need a harasser to accomplish this great feat. A better monkey should suffice.

I really wish you had used almost any other word aside from "monkey" here.

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Thursday, 7 December 2017 16:40 (six years ago) link

I guess I'm thinking more about the accusations against a major figure in this case. Because those are the ones that companies/brands are more incentivized to protect or deflect.

Evan, Thursday, 7 December 2017 16:42 (six years ago) link

also too soon for hellscape projection imo

― weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, December 7, 2017 11:39 AM (two minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

The article got me thinking about it

Evan, Thursday, 7 December 2017 16:43 (six years ago) link

My mom just called to wobble on about all this being Democrats’ fault. I have 10 days of this shit coming up, heeeeellllp meeeeeeeee

kim jong deal (suzy), Thursday, 7 December 2017 16:44 (six years ago) link

If? The cultural right already keeps bringing up Duke lacrosse and the Rolling Stone frat thing as magical trump cards that should necessarily cause any legit accusation to fizzle, because if some people got it sorta wrong once then it's all suspect.

I can see the Breitbart/Cernovich/O'Keefe crowd trying to fabricate something, it's kind of a win/win for them - either they take down a political enemy or they cast doubt on all such accusations

frogbs, Thursday, 7 December 2017 16:44 (six years ago) link

I predict within hours of Franken's (possible?) resignation the Moore campaign will run ads in Alabama to the effect of "we need people like Roy Moore in the senate to protect our women and children from confessed serial predators like Al Franken."

Josh in Chicago, Thursday, 7 December 2017 16:46 (six years ago) link

I can see the Breitbart/Cernovich/O'Keefe crowd trying to fabricate something

They're way ahead of you on that task, of course. Just because they just got caught doing it badly doesn't mean they're going to stop trying. They will doubtless eventually get another serviceable zing-factory case study, and then drag everything to its level of tawdriness, whatever that level may be.

didgeridon't (Ye Mad Puffin), Thursday, 7 December 2017 16:50 (six years ago) link

all organizations would be able to say that it shows that going forward all the facts need to be internally investigated thoroughly before any rash decision is made.

Well, they should be?

But so far all cases seem to have been clear cut or have overwhelming weight of numbers, or not have been disputed.

The stage where disputed accounts start to be countered, be that in courts (hard to see too many going this far, which is where the build-up of accusations comes from) or via media sympathetic to the side of those accused is where the slow and careful grind of cautious process might kick in.

It's hard to see things going back to how they were prior but it's also impossible to evaluate what might have actually changed until that's occurred I think.

remember the lmao (darraghmac), Thursday, 7 December 2017 16:57 (six years ago) link

http://www.nydailynews.com/entertainment/ex-dj-sends-1-sacagawea-coin-payment-taylor-swift-article-1.3681861

Mueller previously told the AP he intended the coin featuring a prominent Native American woman as a final jab at the singer in a case her side called a win for all women

how is this a "jab" exactly?

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 7 December 2017 17:16 (six years ago) link

Maybe he thought Taylor Swift was Elizabeth Warren?

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Thursday, 7 December 2017 17:17 (six years ago) link

you can't spend em anywhere!

.oO (silby), Thursday, 7 December 2017 17:18 (six years ago) link

The vending machine at work gives dollar coins as change and accepts them, so I use them a lot.

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Thursday, 7 December 2017 17:18 (six years ago) link

#changewecanbelievein

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 7 December 2017 17:19 (six years ago) link

all organizations would be able to say that it shows that going forward all the facts need to be internally investigated thoroughly before any rash decision is made.

Well, they should be?

― remember the lmao (darraghmac), Thursday, December 7, 2017 11:57 AM (four minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Of course it makes sense for them to verify, but I'm implying that they'd lean on this reasoning (even more) to delay action in the hopes it will fade away entirely. A citable example of a comparable false accusation would give them a window to now require more "hard" evidence than most accusers might be able to provide.

In the meantime the media would be flooded with jerks smugly saying "see this is why we say innocent until proven guilty told ya so" bringing the public consensus back the other direction, and the current pressure companies feel to take action swiftly would be a bit diminished at the very least.

Evan, Thursday, 7 December 2017 17:30 (six years ago) link

id think (perhaps too optimistically) that in this new environment such a delay in action made in hopes that such matters would "fade away" could make organizations more susceptible to lawsuits

marcos, Thursday, 7 December 2017 17:32 (six years ago) link

Yeah what Marcos said... the thing that will make companies take this more seriously is the fact that victims are feeling more emboldened to come forward opens these companies up to a much greater degree of liability

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Thursday, 7 December 2017 17:38 (six years ago) link

I can see the Breitbart/Cernovich/O'Keefe crowd trying to fabricate something

Not the same thing, but I doubt Cernovich's campaign against Sam Seder would have succeeded if not for the current climate

President Keyes, Thursday, 7 December 2017 17:40 (six years ago) link

i don't think it minimizes the gravity or truth of the moment to suggest that the ratfuckers are almost certainly actively engaged in COINTELPRO style bullshit of this variety already

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 7 December 2017 17:42 (six years ago) link

btw Sam Seder has been rehired by MSNBC

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 7 December 2017 17:50 (six years ago) link

I don't know why I thought Ford Jr was run out of Congress for sexual misconduct. Maybe I am remembering third-hand rumors funneled through my wife's friends from high school.

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Thursday, 7 December 2017 20:28 (six years ago) link

The hackiest of hacks – the one dude who couldn't win in a historic Democratic year because he thought it was 1996 and he could get away with opposing gay marriage and supporting intercession in the Terri Schiavo case.

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 7 December 2017 20:45 (six years ago) link

"Several women have written recently that they fear a coming backlash—that one false allegation against a famous man will bring this whole new reality crashing down, or that in the understandable urge to name names, women will be seen as the aggressors, out to tar every man’s reputation. I have those fears too, but I also fear the consequences of overcorrection, of the concept of harassment ballooning to include perfectly legitimate attempts at seduction—the initial touch, the scooting closer in the booth, the drunken sloppy first kiss, the occasional bad call or failed pass."

I worry about the combination of these things turning the whole movement into a tightrope walk. If just one major accusation comes out as verifiably false for some reason, or if too many accusations fall into that slippery slope overcorrection NBD category she mentions, it will give something that general management/HR/board members etc can point to when there is pressure to fire an accused member of their team. A lot of the accused are very important to their organizations in one way or another, but the current public pressure to cut ties is so great that it outweighs other options they have to deal with the situation that they might have preferred for the sake of their business. I feel like if just one major story was shown to be false all organizations would be able to say that it shows that going forward all the facts need to be internally investigated thoroughly before any rash decision is made. Then it just goes away and nothing happens. Companies are able to damage control by expressing concern and then letting it just fizzle out.

― Evan, Thursday, 7 December 2017 Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Its inevitable there will be a counter reaction/pushback of some sort.

This is a response to that piece:

https://newrepublic.com/article/146145/married-flirty-boss-what

Nhex said that the slate piece was "long-winded", which is very much true and is what The New Republic picks up on, effectively. It does labour on her own history. It does start with what's happening at The Paris Review which is quite a different case. The man at the centre of that has clearly abused his position with a variety of women whereas Allison's now husband didn't in the sense they married, had kids and he didn't go on to play around with others, nor abuse his position in anyway. In the Slate piece there are a couple of further anecdotes from friends depicting the overall atmosphere and multi-faceted interactions. Ultimately both writers found themselves in what could be seen as relationships that were inappropriate -- one with a happy outcome, one not. Both agree (in a roundabout way) that while places of work and study bring people together this isn't a site to exercise power over a person. The point in the end is to protect the powerless.

xyzzzz__, Thursday, 7 December 2017 21:10 (six years ago) link

It does start with what's happening at The Paris Review which is quite a different case. The man at the centre of that has clearly abused his position with a variety of women whereas Allison's now husband didn't in the sense they married, had kids and he didn't go on to play around with others, nor abuse his position in anyway.

wtf is this distinction??? being promiscuous, adulterous.... these are not crimes iirc????????

sleepingbag, Thursday, 7 December 2017 21:12 (six years ago) link

It isn’t just power that allows men accused of sexual abuse to keep their careers and their secrets. It is also our collective choice to see simple situations as complicated and obvious conclusions as a matter of “who can say”? The system worked for Harvey Weinstein for decades. It works for Woody Allen still.

Le Bateau Ivre, Thursday, 7 December 2017 21:14 (six years ago) link

wtf is this distinction??? being promiscuous, adulterous.... these are not crimes iirc????????

This needs more exclamation marks, son.

xyzzzz__, Thursday, 7 December 2017 21:16 (six years ago) link

possible reasons:

one (family) accuser, based on the testimony of a then-child (and two of whose siblings have expressed doubt of her account)

the inability of most of us to hire an investigative team to determine if ***** or *** is crazier

xp

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 7 December 2017 21:19 (six years ago) link

Yada yada yada have you read the piece?

Le Bateau Ivre, Thursday, 7 December 2017 21:34 (six years ago) link

Hrm, as YMP mentioned earlier they are extremely certainly engaged in this:

https://www.washingtonpost.com/investigations/womans-effort-to-infiltrate-the-washington-post-dates-back-months/2017/11/29/ce95e01a-d51e-11e7-b62d-d9345ced896d_story.html

Andrew Farrell, Thursday, 7 December 2017 21:37 (six years ago) link

i can't buy the "Mia is crazy, so the kid is lying" defense. also even if you can force yourself to ignore the child molestation allegations, Allen's a fucking creep ten times over.

Nhex, Thursday, 7 December 2017 21:42 (six years ago) link

Allen's a fucking creep ten times over.

I agree!

I never said "the kid is lying." This take from 2 years ago is fairly close to mine:

http://enchantedmitten.blogspot.com/2015/07/on-woody-allen-ignorance-and-degrees-of.html

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 7 December 2017 21:50 (six years ago) link

Another?

http://www.rollcall.com/news/politics/arizonas-trent-franks-expected-resign

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 7 December 2017 22:04 (six years ago) link

Many of the female senators who called on him to resign visibly emotional as they hugged him

— Eliza Collins (@elizacollins1) December 7, 2017

Lyudmila Pavlichenko (dandydonweiner), Thursday, 7 December 2017 22:25 (six years ago) link

I know John wouldn’t have punished me at work had I not been interested in his advances; if he had, that would have been harassment, and not OK.

*scribbles furiously*

I didn't think much of the Slate article, but the New Republic article is very good at articulating why - thanks, xyzzzz__

Andrew Farrell, Thursday, 7 December 2017 22:45 (six years ago) link

That grates

El Tomboto, Friday, 8 December 2017 00:34 (six years ago) link

Interesting how he doesn’t trot out his Thesaurus Rex defending a fellow funny old guy

El Tomboto, Friday, 8 December 2017 00:35 (six years ago) link

in short, the Republicans are awful so why should we even try to be decent human beings

Nhex, Friday, 8 December 2017 00:40 (six years ago) link

i get the sense that pierce is trying to say that he thinks many of the accusations against franken are fishy without actually saying it, what w/ bringing up the "political hijacking" of the paul wellstone funeral and praising franken for not confessing.

(The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Friday, 8 December 2017 00:47 (six years ago) link

in short, the Republicans are awful so why should we even try to be decent human beings

― Nhex, Thursday, December 7, 2017 7:40 PM Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

I'm literally struggling mightily with motivation now for this reason. not with people I already know and care about, but complete strangers, I almost feel shocked and amazed when I have an interaction with one that isn't a complete shitbag. which I mean...is a gross overexaggeration but this administration has me like screening everybody I interact with much harder.

fuck you, your hat is horrible (Neanderthal), Friday, 8 December 2017 00:56 (six years ago) link

And maybe all of us should have been all along. Women always had to. This is a rough time to be a guy. Piper demands payment.

El Tomboto, Friday, 8 December 2017 02:42 (six years ago) link

Yeah its really rich to have some guys clutching their pearls now and being worried/upset about their careers, integrity etc. Cmon! You think we dont know what thats like? Look at how many of the Weinstein women, people in this vert thread commented "geez I wondered what had ever happened to her career".

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Friday, 8 December 2017 02:45 (six years ago) link

relatively unrough to be a gay

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 8 December 2017 02:48 (six years ago) link

Spacey’s victims matter too. Although his pattern of behavior has been litigated in several fields over the last few decades, because of prejudices against gays.

El Tomboto, Friday, 8 December 2017 03:14 (six years ago) link

relatively unrough to be a gay

― ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius),

dunno what kind of guys you're seeing

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 8 December 2017 03:32 (six years ago) link

Harrumph

El Tomboto, Friday, 8 December 2017 04:09 (six years ago) link

So Singer looks done.

https://deadline.com/2017/12/bryan-singer-sued-sexual-assault-underage-boy-yacht-2003-1202222501/

Ned Raggett, Friday, 8 December 2017 04:15 (six years ago) link

Did Takei really blame his accusation on Russian internetbots?

Robert Adam Gilmour, Friday, 8 December 2017 13:40 (six years ago) link

was just going to post that. interesting. Is his attorney's statement about the Egan case true? "The attorney behind this lawsuit is the same lawyer who represented Michael Egan, the convicted felon who sued Bryan Singer in 2014. In the end, Egan was forced to dismiss that case once the facts came out and his story completely fell apart. Egan and his attorneys then found themselves as defendants in a malicious prosecution action brought by some of the individuals who Egan previously sued. In an apology to those individuals, Egan’s attorney acknowledged the claims that had been filed were ‘untrue and provably false.’ "

akm, Friday, 8 December 2017 13:40 (six years ago) link

Did Takei really blame his accusation on Russian internetbots?

Yes.

Simon H., Friday, 8 December 2017 13:43 (six years ago) link

takei accusation withered up and disappeared rather quickly

akm, Friday, 8 December 2017 13:59 (six years ago) link

nothing to fire him from?

President Keyes, Friday, 8 December 2017 14:01 (six years ago) link

having only one accuser seems to help

frogbs, Friday, 8 December 2017 14:13 (six years ago) link

I'm literally struggling mightily with motivation now for this reason. not with people I already know and care about, but complete strangers, I almost feel shocked and amazed when I have an interaction with one that isn't a complete shitbag. which I mean...is a gross overexaggeration but this administration has me like screening everybody I interact with much harder.

― fuck you, your hat is horrible (Neanderthal), Thursday, December 7, 2017 7:56 PM Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

And maybe all of us should have been all along. Women always had to. This is a rough time to be a guy. Piper demands payment.

― El Tomboto, Thursday, December 7, 2017 9:42 PM Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Welcome to being black in America! I hope you brought a dish; this picnic is potluck.

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Friday, 8 December 2017 19:09 (six years ago) link

i brought hot dish

Universal LULU Nation (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Friday, 8 December 2017 19:11 (six years ago) link

Why don't you put that down allllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll the way over here

wait actually, is it tater tot hot dish because that jive can go up front next to the ribs

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Friday, 8 December 2017 19:12 (six years ago) link

and i brought MN 'salad'*

*multicolored jello with bits of celery and tunafish in it; topping = cool whip

harbinger of failure (Jon not Jon), Friday, 8 December 2017 19:16 (six years ago) link

that goes there *points at trashcan*

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Friday, 8 December 2017 19:17 (six years ago) link

tater tot hot dish is the premier hot dish imo

Universal LULU Nation (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Friday, 8 December 2017 19:17 (six years ago) link

*goes over to trashcan*
*gets attacked by ravenous state fair hornets*

harbinger of failure (Jon not Jon), Friday, 8 December 2017 19:18 (six years ago) link

Lest we forget:

Explain hot dish

Ned Raggett, Friday, 8 December 2017 19:20 (six years ago) link

hot water cornbread in an aluminum pan over sterno or gtfo imo

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Friday, 8 December 2017 19:21 (six years ago) link

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/8/80/Hotdish.jpg

This tots topping is blowing my mind.

― A Memorable Fancy (Abbott), Thursday, February 25, 2010 1:05 PM (seven years ago)

tater tot hot dish is king of all foods

― Lee Dorrian Gray (J0hn D.), Thursday, February 25, 2010 1:09 PM (seven years ago)

Ned Raggett, Friday, 8 December 2017 19:22 (six years ago) link

This is probably enough of a digression in this thread:

http://www.cnn.com/2017/12/06/entertainment/melanie-martinez-timothy-heller-rape/index.html

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Friday, 8 December 2017 19:23 (six years ago) link

Also, what exactly did Franks resign for? Has there been his promised press statement yet?

Ned Raggett, Friday, 8 December 2017 19:24 (six years ago) link

sounds like a weird cover story, but maybe they understand in pro-life land

President Keyes, Friday, 8 December 2017 19:31 (six years ago) link

New Dustin Hoffman Accuser Claims Harassment and Physical Violation on Broadway

Didn't know that Hoffman was bald

flappy bird, Friday, 8 December 2017 20:09 (six years ago) link

probably a bald wig if he was doing Death of a Salesman

frogbs, Friday, 8 December 2017 20:16 (six years ago) link

Hm.

NEWS — TRENT FRANKS has resigned effective immediately, after he says his wife was admitted to the hospital in DC.

— Jake Sherman (@JakeSherman) December 8, 2017

Ned Raggett, Friday, 8 December 2017 20:32 (six years ago) link

@passantino
AP Exclusive: Former aide says GOP Rep. Trent Franks offered her $5 million to carry his child.

mookieproof, Friday, 8 December 2017 20:53 (six years ago) link

indecent proposal movie poster meme in 3, 2...

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Friday, 8 December 2017 20:55 (six years ago) link

Just saw a lefty clickebate thing about Hillary supporters trying to place false allegations against Bernie.

#EveryDayIs2016

Never Learn To Mike Love (C. Grisso/McCain), Friday, 8 December 2017 21:50 (six years ago) link

NEWS: @farenthold's harassment problem continued even AFTER Lauren Greene sued. @marianne_levine & @MaggieSeverns say he brought in his OWN investigators -- who, shockingly, cleared the office https://t.co/JctvUQtSWU

— Rachael Bade (@rachaelmbade) December 8, 2017

Ned Raggett, Friday, 8 December 2017 21:57 (six years ago) link

Lawyers for “Girls” writer Murray Miller — who has been accused of sexual assault by actress Aurora Perrineau — had initially claimed that Perrineau had demanded money from Miller. Now his lawyers are apologizing, saying that claim was incorrect — and that she’d never requested damages.

In a statement to Variety, Donald Walerstein and Matthew Walerstein wrote, “In a previous statement to the media, we stated that Ms. Perrineau sought substantial monetary damages from our client Murray Miller. Neither Ms. Perrineau nor her attorney have ever made a demand for money. Our previous above statement was incorrect and the result of a good-faith misunderstanding.”

Number None, Friday, 8 December 2017 22:22 (six years ago) link

This seems like a reasonable time to post this:

https://verysmartbrothas.theroot.com/yes-himtoo-how-would-you-react-if-a-man-you-know-and-1821028948

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Friday, 8 December 2017 22:27 (six years ago) link

Multiple women say appeals court judge Alex Kozinski asked them to watch porn or subjected them to sexually inappropriate comments https://t.co/v7VbysRsxG

— Washington Post (@washingtonpost) December 8, 2017

flappy bird, Friday, 8 December 2017 22:33 (six years ago) link

the result of a good-faith misunderstanding

says you

A is for (Aimless), Friday, 8 December 2017 22:37 (six years ago) link

While I wish there was some tenable standard in place, this sort of house cleaning is long overdue.

Josh in Chicago, Friday, 8 December 2017 23:22 (six years ago) link

twitter suggests that a lot of people knew about kozinski

mookieproof, Friday, 8 December 2017 23:58 (six years ago) link

what the fuck

"You don’t sleep if I say so. You don’t shit unless I say so. Do you understand?” https://t.co/b1WFPhbyBt

— Chris Hayes (@chrislhayes) December 8, 2017

flappy bird, Saturday, 9 December 2017 00:02 (six years ago) link

Gross

flappy bird, Saturday, 9 December 2017 00:02 (six years ago) link

A judicial investigation ultimately found that Kozinski did not intend to allow the public to see the material, and that instead the judge and his son were careless in protecting a private server from being accessible on the Internet.

what

j., Saturday, 9 December 2017 00:45 (six years ago) link

Welcome to being black in America! I hope you brought a dish; this picnic is potluck.

I would just like to say it is a privilege and an honor to get invited to the cookout and also ancestry.com said I'm 3% west african, here are some of my chili formulas

what's cooking? part 5: 2017-2027

El Tomboto, Saturday, 9 December 2017 01:13 (six years ago) link

https://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/post-partisan/wp/2017/12/08/the-one-best-idea-for-ending-sexual-harassment/?utm_term=.cfc9ce9fee00

Airlines: Sara Nelson | Television: Gretchen Carlson | Parenting: Joanna Goddard | Corporations: Debra Katz | Firefighting: Kishia Clemencia | Finance: Sallie Krawcheck | Domestic work: Ai-jen Poo | Congress: Jackie Speier | Clergy: Bethany Mandel | Military: Monica Medina | Hospitals: Jean Ross | Universities: Nancy Chi Cantalupo | Newsrooms: Jill Abramson | Jewish communities: Danya Ruttenberg | Churches: Boz Tchividjian | National security: Rosa Brooks

ideas solicited for each of the fields above

j., Saturday, 9 December 2017 01:14 (six years ago) link

xpost I could also revive my oven-baked muffin pan latke scheme (no deep fryer required) if people are into tots and hash browns they will definitely be into my muffin pan latkes

El Tomboto, Saturday, 9 December 2017 01:15 (six years ago) link

Hell of a URL

.oO (silby), Saturday, 9 December 2017 02:47 (six years ago) link

Really? I mean it’s not even a prime

http://m.wolframalpha.com/input/?i=1202216936

El Tomboto, Saturday, 9 December 2017 03:03 (six years ago) link

btw Tomboto, Spacey's problem is an underage one, not a gay one

in my exp, adult gay men are mostly accepting of groping each other as we're all rutting horndogs (until age kills it)

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 9 December 2017 03:28 (six years ago) link

Mario Batali:

https://ny.eater.com/2017/12/11/16759540/mario-batali-sexual-misconduct-allegations

... (Eazy), Monday, 11 December 2017 13:16 (six years ago) link

We built these restaurants so that our guests could have fun and indulge, but I took that too far in my own behavior.

is it like mandatory that all of these basically pro-forma statements have to include at least one clangingly wrong-headed sentence just to keep things lively

straightedge is just volcel for vegans (bizarro gazzara), Monday, 11 December 2017 13:21 (six years ago) link

That "I made this great contribution to the community/industry/culture, but I also did these bad things" formulation seems to show up in all these apologies

Simon H., Monday, 11 December 2017 13:27 (six years ago) link

It's more like "these misdeeds are an unfortunate side effect of my quest for awesomeness"

President Keyes, Monday, 11 December 2017 13:29 (six years ago) link

Yes, exactly.

Simon H., Monday, 11 December 2017 13:31 (six years ago) link

All these apology letters and related commentary make me think about this:

http://www.clickhole.com/blogpost/male-feminist-i-really-think-id-absolutely-crush-i-7018

mfktz (Camaraderie at Arms Length), Monday, 11 December 2017 13:50 (six years ago) link

^^ brutal and otm

♫ very clever with maracas.jpg ♫ (Le Bateau Ivre), Monday, 11 December 2017 13:54 (six years ago) link

omg

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Monday, 11 December 2017 13:57 (six years ago) link

Related:

https://gizmodo.com/silicon-valley-s-worst-apologies-of-2017-1821064631

Simon H., Monday, 11 December 2017 13:57 (six years ago) link

I'm reading "indulge" as "get wasted"

mick signals, Monday, 11 December 2017 14:57 (six years ago) link

We built these restaurants in the spirit of ancient Roman orgies. Unfortunately. They were a wee bit too realistic for some.

Moodles, Monday, 11 December 2017 15:28 (six years ago) link

Things got out of hand at our Wild West themed robot rape park but that's the price you pay for greatness

President Keyes, Monday, 11 December 2017 15:33 (six years ago) link

What is the tone in that clickhole article

remember the lmao (darraghmac), Monday, 11 December 2017 15:51 (six years ago) link

i believe it's 'profane marc loi'

straightedge is just volcel for vegans (bizarro gazzara), Monday, 11 December 2017 16:08 (six years ago) link

or perhaps 'matt mcgorry's internal monologue'

straightedge is just volcel for vegans (bizarro gazzara), Monday, 11 December 2017 16:08 (six years ago) link

xxp weary

ogmor, Monday, 11 December 2017 16:09 (six years ago) link

friend of mine had occasion to have to work w Batali in a professional capacity some years ago and while he did nothing of this nature in that instance I guess he was the biggest asshole about everything and kept not showing up for stuff and delayed things several days, def have off a terrible vibe I guess

Universal LULU Nation (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Monday, 11 December 2017 16:18 (six years ago) link

I mean celebrity chefs are up there with directors as a profession in which behaving just terribly seems to be part of the .... not gig, not draw, not expectation...but it really seems to come with the job

remember the lmao (darraghmac), Monday, 11 December 2017 16:19 (six years ago) link

Just please tell me hes not Australian

remember the lmao (darraghmac), Monday, 11 December 2017 16:21 (six years ago) link

I used to work for a chef who's now semi-famous and he used to have a rep as a complete nightmare, till he sobered up. I recall some chair-throwing on one of my first nights there. Kitchens in general are just cesspools of harassment and drug abuse, but I'm guessing that's common knowledge by now.

Simon H., Monday, 11 December 2017 16:23 (six years ago) link

professional chefs are, by and large, mostly nutjobs

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Monday, 11 December 2017 16:25 (six years ago) link

I mean celebrity chefs are up there with directors as a profession in which behaving just terribly seems to be part of the .... not gig, not draw, not expectation...but it really seems to come with the job

― remember the lmao (darraghmac), Monday, December 11, 2017 8:19 AM (one minute ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

i love all the bad tattoo man chefs with their arms folded glaring at the camera, angry because their new hot restaurant is opening and they have to cook food.

omar little, Monday, 11 December 2017 16:26 (six years ago) link

they'd have to be. I mean, it's just fuckin' fuel, food. xp

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Monday, 11 December 2017 16:27 (six years ago) link

How different they are to the humble contestants on Masterchef.

Mark G, Monday, 11 December 2017 16:27 (six years ago) link

Similar situation in Chicago last month:
https://chicago.eater.com/2017/10/23/16523668/publican-chef-cosmo-goss-fired-one-off-photo-employee-inappropriate-personal

It's so much part of kitchen/restaurant culture - the rock-n-roll bacchanalia "rock-star" thing - that I assume much more is on the way. In the way that Batali now casts a shadow on the temple/destination Eataly, at some point 'hot new restaurants' will take a hit as people get more aware of the culture that makes it happen.

... (Eazy), Monday, 11 December 2017 16:32 (six years ago) link

how long until a plate of pork belly brings Guy Fieri up on assault charges?

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 11 December 2017 16:34 (six years ago) link

Prob worth noting here (or maybe not but whatever) that Guy actually comes out looking sorta decent at heart in comparison to the more snooty Micheline starred chefs.

quick robin, to the hot take mobile! i've got a date with destiny and 600 words on Buzzfeed!

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Monday, 11 December 2017 16:44 (six years ago) link

inappropriate behavior, sexual harassment, drinking, drugs, etc are so embedded in the restaurant and bar business it's hard to even know where to start

Universal LULU Nation (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Monday, 11 December 2017 16:57 (six years ago) link

Guy Fieri is probably the best dude in the biz

frogbs, Monday, 11 December 2017 16:58 (six years ago) link

I have no idea about his personal life (nor do I care to) but what I have seen of his schtick is relentlessly positive: he appears to love every piece of food in existence, even if it's probably terrible. He loves every restaurant he visits. He's buds with every cook he meets.

So maybe that might carry over into not being a terrible asshole who wants to tear people down? I dunno. I don't want him to cook for me but he does seem to be bringing a different schtick from e.g. Oliver whose default setting is YOU FUCKING SUCK, YOU USELESS CUNT

didgeridon't (Ye Mad Puffin), Monday, 11 December 2017 17:36 (six years ago) link

Wait, is that who I mean? Probably not.

didgeridon't (Ye Mad Puffin), Monday, 11 December 2017 17:37 (six years ago) link

Gordon Ramsey. Jamie Oliver just likes to shame the poors

.oO (silby), Monday, 11 December 2017 17:40 (six years ago) link

j oliver got testy with a black woman who was a soul food genius when he took a "road trip" and visited her place, all because she wouldn't tell him her exact recipe as she was cooking it, and that put him in my bad books for life. like maybe if you are sticking your video camera in her face and visiting her personally you should show a little respect and listen to what she says you complete dickhead

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Monday, 11 December 2017 17:45 (six years ago) link

Thanks, silby, was in a hurry and got sloppy

didgeridon't (Ye Mad Puffin), Monday, 11 December 2017 19:02 (six years ago) link

I thought that assessment of Oliver was pretty accurate

badg, Monday, 11 December 2017 19:19 (six years ago) link

The New Yorker has severed ties with Ryan Lizza in response to behavior the magazine believes to be “improper sexual conduct." Full statement: pic.twitter.com/a1PAb5Vkao

— Michael Calderone (@mlcalderone) December 11, 2017

mookieproof, Monday, 11 December 2017 21:08 (six years ago) link

That's two for today. Who will be #3?

... (Eazy), Monday, 11 December 2017 21:14 (six years ago) link

is there gonna be an alec baldwin moment or did that technically happen already

global tetrahedron, Monday, 11 December 2017 21:31 (six years ago) link

oh, and bill murray. the chive will be so disappointed, maybe

global tetrahedron, Monday, 11 December 2017 21:32 (six years ago) link

fuck the chive

maura, Monday, 11 December 2017 21:42 (six years ago) link

just on principle

maura, Monday, 11 December 2017 21:42 (six years ago) link

Oof. NAGL whatever is going on.

Just got statement from Ryan Lizza, who calls his firing from the New Yorker "a terrible mistake" pic.twitter.com/Jf6bQ9Nu83

— Tom Kludt (@TomKludt) December 11, 2017

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Monday, 11 December 2017 21:54 (six years ago) link

There were Batali rumors a couple of years ago, weren’t there?

louise ck (milo z), Monday, 11 December 2017 22:21 (six years ago) link

murray has actually occurred to me. as a partyin 70s comedy dude. i hope nothing happened. fuck the chive obv

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Monday, 11 December 2017 22:28 (six years ago) link

something tells me y'all need to chill out, keep calm, and chive on

global tetrahedron, Monday, 11 December 2017 22:39 (six years ago) link

i wonder what happened with Lizza. seems ballsy of him to say it was a dating relationship if in fact it wasn't.

akm, Monday, 11 December 2017 22:51 (six years ago) link

the whole "Bill Murray showed up at a bar and gave everyone free drinks!" is really fuckin annoying

flappy bird, Monday, 11 December 2017 23:03 (six years ago) link

"bill murray showed up at a bar and slipped everyone a roofie!" is even worse

akm, Monday, 11 December 2017 23:07 (six years ago) link

if bill murray’s former wife’s divorce paperwork is anything to go by the guy is a physically and mentally abusive asshole

straightedge is just volcel for vegans (bizarro gazzara), Monday, 11 December 2017 23:11 (six years ago) link

i wonder what happened with Lizza. seems ballsy of him to say it was a dating relationship if in fact it wasn't.

― akm, Monday, December 11, 2017 5:51 PM (fifty-eight minutes ago)

sounds like it might be an intra-office relationship

k3vin k., Monday, 11 December 2017 23:51 (six years ago) link

that's what I was thinking. which, if so, is mega fucked up to basically publicly dump this news at a time where it's going to be immediately assumed that it's a sexual assault/rape accusation.

but....who knows.

fuck you, your hat is horrible (Neanderthal), Tuesday, 12 December 2017 00:32 (six years ago) link

Gordon Ramsey. Jamie Oliver just likes to shame the poors

fwiw the UK version of Kitchen Nightmares was delightful and heartwarming, as Ramsay gave advice both general and specific, was supportive, aimed to build a better-working version of the restaurant ppl had in their heads, and left the viewer knowing a little more about both food and management.

the US version is a horrible pile of shit which uses three shots of a bad restaurant run by an idiot, three scenes of Ramsay shouting abuse at them, rubbing his face and going "fuuuuck me", and 19 reaction shots of employees, all repeated over and over again in a tedious, uninformative formula. plus a shot of Ramsay taking off his shirt.

shackling the masses with plastic-wrapped snack picks (sic), Tuesday, 12 December 2017 01:22 (six years ago) link

rubbing his face and going "fuuuuck me",

lmao this is so hilarious and otm

flappy bird, Tuesday, 12 December 2017 01:31 (six years ago) link

yeah the og Kitchen Nightmares was one of my fav shows, hated the histrionic version they ported over to the US.

the ep about the salmon+strawberries guy always my fav

fuck you, your hat is horrible (Neanderthal), Tuesday, 12 December 2017 01:33 (six years ago) link

fox does it again

maura, Tuesday, 12 December 2017 02:41 (six years ago) link

salmon+strawberries guy vs pirate bar rescue

crocus bulbotuber (Sufjan Grafton), Tuesday, 12 December 2017 02:55 (six years ago) link

the plate-hoarder in the Tudor-style pub was my favorite of the OG Kitchen Nightmares

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 12 December 2017 03:21 (six years ago) link

anyway back onto topic, I guessed to myself last night that it was going to be Batali because of the smattering of stories that had already come out. It felt plausible. And that nice-guy cheery persona makes it hit home a lot harder.

Anyway, not that any of that tempered my revulsion at reading the stories about him this morning
the full-body from-behind hugs and the deep-inhaling (among other things)
on the regular
like that's part of your worklife for however long
jfc

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 12 December 2017 03:26 (six years ago) link

They say the most important thing for a person in the public eye is sincerity; once you can fake that, you're on your way to success.

A is for (Aimless), Tuesday, 12 December 2017 03:35 (six years ago) link

Thought this was a really good essay:

https://www.thecut.com/2017/12/rebecca-traister-this-moment-isnt-just-about-sex.html

“What makes women vulnerable is not their carnal violability, but rather the way that their worth has been understood as fundamentally erotic, ornamental; that they have not been taken seriously as equals; that they have been treated as some ancillary reward that comes with the kinds of power men are taught to reach for and are valued for achieving. How to make clear that the trauma of the smaller trespasses — the boob grabs and unwanted kisses or come-ons from bosses — is not necessarily even about the sexualized act in question; so many of us learned to maneuver around hands-y men without sustaining lasting emotional damage when we were 14. Rather, it’s about the cruel reminder that these are still the terms on which we are valued, by our colleagues, our bosses, sometimes our competitors, the men we tricked ourselves into thinking might see us as smart, formidable colleagues or rivals, not as the kinds of objects they can just grab and grope and degrade without consequence. It’s not that we’re horrified like some Victorian damsel; it’s that we’re horrified like a woman in 2017 who briefly believed she was equal to her male peers but has just been reminded that she is not, who has suddenly had her comparative powerlessness revealed to her.”

... (Eazy), Tuesday, 12 December 2017 04:53 (six years ago) link

Traister's writing has been solid throughout imo

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Tuesday, 12 December 2017 04:55 (six years ago) link

xpost that is v otm

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 12 December 2017 05:37 (six years ago) link

wonderfully put

k3vin k., Tuesday, 12 December 2017 17:31 (six years ago) link

these are still the terms on which we are valued, by our colleagues, our bosses, sometimes our competitors, the men we tricked ourselves into thinking might see us as smart, formidable colleagues or rivals, not as the kinds of objects they can just grab and grope and degrade without consequence.

I wanted to respond to this, because I read something related in this article, about grad students reporting rape by professors. One student in particular has recently accused a professor of raping her in the mid 80s. The professor remembers it as consensual sex. I don't want to adjudicate the facts, but to comment on her reflections concerning the episodes, which echo the quoted passage above:

“At first I thought he was interested in me because he thought I had an interesting mind,” she says. “But then to find out it was only sex — it really sapped me of my sense of myself as an intellectual. It took me a long time to gather myself together and feel like a competent scholar after that.”

I wonder if in these situation it could be both desire for her interesting mind and for her interesting sexuality. If what's happening is mere groping and degradation, then sure. But when these relations are cultivated, the impression these women get it that it startss as feeling valued for their minds, but then once the (male) prof puts the moves on, their intellectual value seems to dissolve. But the stories don't make clear to me why it goes from seeming like just the one thing, then just the other. I gather these profs have lots of people who would like their attention, some male, some female. All of these people have terrific minds, that's why they're in a position to ask for this prof's attention. What distinguishes one student from another? Intellectually, nothing: they're all good, none generally is that good, even the ones who eventually win (i.e. get a job) aren't that, the sort of good for which you'd be excoriated for missing. Even at the top, everyone is good but very few are great. So the prof swamped with courtiers chooses to give his attention a woman who is equal to the others with regard to her mind, but is sexually alluring as well. In the course of things they're still sharing intellectual talk, he is valuing her for her mind, but also for her sexuality. Why does the latter invalidate the former? If there's nothing to the attention besides sex then yes, but that's not clear from what's being said. At the end, the women can't say that they were valued just for their minds, but male courtiers didn't get that attention, because they were an undifferentiated group of good but not greats. The women by contrast, also good but not great, are differentiated.

droit au butt (Euler), Tuesday, 12 December 2017 18:56 (six years ago) link

xp you realize of course that the situation you're imagining would not square with many women's experiences of the intellectual interaction (time balance in conversations and w.r.t. turn-taking, credit for ideas, etc etc), which would make it hard to read sexual interactions in terms of the assumptions you're making.

but obviously you are making them for the sake of the speculation.

j., Tuesday, 12 December 2017 19:21 (six years ago) link

I am just imagining and doing so from my male point of view, agreed.

but re. the intellectual interactions, I was supposing that the quality of those among male prof & male student would also be imbalanced. whether they'd be imbalanced in different ways is hard to determine. one thing that's at play is the finality of the end of a sexual relationship, maybe; whereas a merely played out non-sexual relationship may lack burning bridges. when a sexual relationship ends then an intimacy ends and there are often emotional betrayals at play; but when a non-sexual relationship ends there may not be such intimacy. but I'm not sure about these assumptions.

droit au butt (Euler), Tuesday, 12 December 2017 19:57 (six years ago) link

if you insist on comparing, you could compare this situation to another abusive professor-student situation, like in the movie Whiplash

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Tuesday, 12 December 2017 19:59 (six years ago) link

I don't know the film but I was questioning that a prof choosing an admirer for her/his attention for in part sexual reasons was necessarily abusive.

droit au butt (Euler), Tuesday, 12 December 2017 20:11 (six years ago) link

you are trying to suggest they were offering a quid pro quo (rather than having it extracted)?

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Tuesday, 12 December 2017 20:12 (six years ago) link

the prof is showered with attention seekers, male and female. how to choose which one? they're all equal intellectually. so sexuality differentiates. if the prof puts the moves on and fails, then, s/he can turn her/his attention to another of the attention seekers. Is that a quid pro quo? Sorta! But the prof's attention, if s/he's a biggish deal, is at a premium, and so only a few can be chosen to spend time with. This relationship can be abused by the prof, but using sexual reasons to choose what'll be in part an intellectual relationship doesn't imply that the attention seeker was valued only for sexual reasons.

droit au butt (Euler), Tuesday, 12 December 2017 20:17 (six years ago) link

the prof is showered with attention seekers, male and female. how to choose which one? they're all equal intellectually. so sexuality differentiates. if the prof puts the moves on and fails, then, s/he can turn her/his attention to another of the attention seekers. Is that a quid pro quo? Sorta! But the prof's attention, if s/he's a biggish deal, is at a premium, and so only a few can be chosen to spend time with. This relationship can be abused by the prof, but using sexual reasons to choose what'll be in part an intellectual relationship doesn't imply that the attention seeker was valued only for sexual reasons.

― droit au butt (Euler), Tuesday, December 12, 2017 3:17 PM (eleven seconds ago)

you don't see how that is, frankly, abhorrent? as you mention, there are any number of students this professor could choose to mentor. through no fault of her own (other than being born attractive, i guess) the opportunities available to this person depend on her willingness to maintain a relationship with her mentor

k3vin k., Tuesday, 12 December 2017 20:26 (six years ago) link

sexual* relationship

k3vin k., Tuesday, 12 December 2017 20:27 (six years ago) link

just don't entertain romantic relationships in circumstances where there's a drastic power imbalance, this is not difficult

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Tuesday, 12 December 2017 20:28 (six years ago) link

^^^^^^^

.oO (silby), Tuesday, 12 December 2017 20:52 (six years ago) link

ding ding ding

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 12 December 2017 21:08 (six years ago) link

Which involves standing up to persistence in that situation, or actors with directors, etc.

... (Eazy), Tuesday, 12 December 2017 21:17 (six years ago) link

By which I mean, it's a substantial cultural shift for many women to say - your appearance, your attractiveness will not be validated or do you any good here.

... (Eazy), Tuesday, 12 December 2017 21:19 (six years ago) link

olberman always seems so fuckin phony I wonder about him in all this

dan patrick's whole scene is so ultra bro also wouldn't shock me

Universal LULU Nation (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Tuesday, 12 December 2017 22:44 (six years ago) link

i've had bad vibes about Bill Simmons ever since he thought it was a good idea to publish a particularly disgusting attractiveness ranking of female tennis players, part of me is surprised nothing's ever come up with him but then again i could see him being a guy whose negative contributions in all this "only" extend to his part in demeaning women in sports in columns.

omar little, Tuesday, 12 December 2017 22:58 (six years ago) link

I think it is not a good idea to start down the “you know who wouldn’t surprise me at all if they turned out to be a gross creep?” path

El Tomboto, Tuesday, 12 December 2017 23:02 (six years ago) link

simmons seemed to make a good-faith effort to get diverse voices on grantland/ringer and has maybe grown up some, but

http://www.bronxbanterblog.com/2010/12/17/the-book-of-basketball-and-staggering-casual-sexism

mookieproof, Tuesday, 12 December 2017 23:04 (six years ago) link

el tomboto otm

k3vin k., Tuesday, 12 December 2017 23:13 (six years ago) link

I think it is not a good idea to start down the “you know who wouldn’t surprise me at all if they turned out to be a gross creep?” path

― El Tomboto, Tuesday, December 12, 2017 11:02 PM (eleven minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Otm.

♫ very clever with maracas.jpg ♫ (Le Bateau Ivre), Tuesday, 12 December 2017 23:14 (six years ago) link

Salma Hayek on Harvey Weinstein, in @nytopinion:
"No to letting a naked friend of his give me a massage.
No to letting him give me oral sex.
No to my getting naked with another woman.
No, no, no ...
And with every refusal came Harvey’s Machiavellian rage." https://t.co/8KfW3y3Igz

— The New York Times (@nytimes) December 13, 2017

flappy bird, Wednesday, 13 December 2017 18:08 (six years ago) link

that Salma Hayek piece is rough:

The range of his persuasion tactics went from sweet-talking me to that one time when, in an attack of fury, he said the terrifying words, “I will kill you, don’t think I can’t.”

When he was finally convinced that I was not going to earn the movie the way he had expected, he told me he had offered my role and my script with my years of research to another actress.

In his eyes, I was not an artist. I wasn’t even a person. I was a thing: not a nobody, but a body.

Halfway through shooting, Harvey turned up on set and complained about Frida’s “unibrow.” He insisted that I eliminate the limp and berated my performance. Then he asked everyone in the room to step out except for me. He told me that the only thing I had going for me was my sex appeal and that there was none of that in this movie. So he told me he was going to shut down the film because no one would want to see me in that role.

It was soul crushing because, I confess, lost in the fog of a sort of Stockholm syndrome, I wanted him to see me as an artist: not only as a capable actress but also as somebody who could identify a compelling story and had the vision to tell it in an original way.

I was hoping he would acknowledge me as a producer, who on top of delivering his list of demands shepherded the script and obtained the permits to use the paintings. I had negotiated with the Mexican government, and with whomever I had to, to get locations that had never been given to anyone in the past — including Frida Kahlo’s houses and the murals of Kahlo’s husband, Diego Rivera, among others.

But all of this seemed to have no value. The only thing he noticed was that I was not sexy in the movie. He made me doubt if I was any good as an actress, but he never succeeded in making me think that the film was not worth making.

He offered me one option to continue. He would let me finish the film if I agreed to do a sex scene with another woman. And he demanded full-frontal nudity.

omar little, Wednesday, 13 December 2017 18:17 (six years ago) link

Salma <3

that story made me cry

Frida was such a heartfelt & beautiful movie, and the knowledge that she was dealing with that level of abuse from Weinstein, & fighting so hard to realize such a personal dream just breaks my fucking heart

(and that her friends helped her when she really needed it was v moving)

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Wednesday, 13 December 2017 19:12 (six years ago) link

i've had bad vibes about Bill Simmons ever since he thought it was a good idea to publish a particularly disgusting attractiveness ranking of female tennis players, part of me is surprised nothing's ever come up with him but then again i could see him being a guy whose negative contributions in all this "only" extend to his part in demeaning women in sports in columns.

Drew Magary wrote a pretty good column about this sort of thing (in the beginning, before all the football picks)
https://deadspin.com/the-reckoning-always-comes-1819874125

frogbs, Wednesday, 13 December 2017 19:38 (six years ago) link

The new Russell Simmons piece in the NYT is pretty horrible.

Also breaking:

http://variety.com/2017/tv/news/tavis-smiley-pbs-1202639424/

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 13 December 2017 23:36 (six years ago) link

that Salma Hayek story. sad.
and once again, another one of those "whatever happened to her career..." memories ruefully explained

Nhex, Wednesday, 13 December 2017 23:55 (six years ago) link

from a previous Iuzzini story
https://mic.com/articles/186721/four-more-women-accuse-celebrity-chef-johnny-iuzzini-of-sexual-harassment-and-abuse

In the spring of 2010, a female pastry chef and food stylist who’d briefly worked under Iuzzini at Jean-Georges the year prior reached out to Iuzzini over text message, she told Mic in a phone interview. She requested anonymity because she still works in the industry. The first season of the Top Chef spinoff show Top Chef: Just Desserts had just been announced, and since Iuzzini was a judge on the show, she wondered if the show had food styling work opportunities. She said that Iuzzini texted her back amenably, adding, “Why don’t we get together and talk about your career?” The woman said she repeatedly suggested a public meet-up over coffee during daytime hours, but Iuzzini countered that she come to his apartment for drinks at night. The woman received Iuzzini’s final text messages in the presence of a friend, who confirmed to Mic that he’d seen the texts and had been told about the full exchange at the time.

“I’m like, ‘Well, jeez — you’re living up to that bad boy reputation.’ I was trying to make light of it,” the woman said. “And then he very blatantly put it out there. He said, ‘This isn’t high school anymore, sweetie. I’m not helping you for free.’” When the woman questioned what Iuzzini meant by “for free,” she said he responded, “When you want to be a real woman, then give me a call.” She did not end up meeting with Iuzzini or working on Top Chef: Just Desserts


gross

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 14 December 2017 02:21 (six years ago) link

We’ve finally reached the stage where men just start outing themselves as creeps. https://t.co/CFCRZNIGWa

— Lydia Polgreen (@lpolgreen) December 14, 2017

j., Thursday, 14 December 2017 06:05 (six years ago) link

the cynic in me thinks it was less “i wonder when they will come for me” and more “no one talks about me anymore so i will talk about myself in a topical manner”

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 14 December 2017 06:34 (six years ago) link

he sure is getting out in front of that story and calling into question the memories and motives of those he wronged...

omar little, Thursday, 14 December 2017 06:58 (six years ago) link

eating big macs for a month and filming it is already pretty deep self-abasement so

j., Thursday, 14 December 2017 07:02 (six years ago) link

Oh god, please don’t let Spurlock make a film about all this.

Position Position, Thursday, 14 December 2017 11:29 (six years ago) link

I think it is not a good idea to start down the “you know who wouldn’t surprise me at all if they turned out to be a gross creep?” path

I've been trying to discourage too much invocation of "witch hunt" in this context, but yeah groundless speculation doesn't help.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 14 December 2017 13:03 (six years ago) link

spurlock has a movie coming out soon so i assume he wanted to get in front of the allegations lest they come up from the woman/women and tank his deal. his non apology here is pretty weak.

akm, Thursday, 14 December 2017 14:16 (six years ago) link

Yeah like his language in the piece --

The first incident she remembered as a rape and he's literally remembering them rolling around giggling in bed.

The second incident he almost portrays as him giving in to blackmail.

The cheating stuff, well I'm sure the cat's already out of the bag there.

It's trying to be The First Good Apology but it's terrible.

omar little, Thursday, 14 December 2017 14:35 (six years ago) link

The time is right for collective revenge fantasy screenplays for sexual misconduct to circulate. Mary Harron directing, of course.

Sanpaku, Thursday, 14 December 2017 14:39 (six years ago) link

spurlock: cookies denied

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 14 December 2017 14:49 (six years ago) link

that spurlock statement is... not good

dipso inferno (bizarro gazzara), Thursday, 14 December 2017 15:02 (six years ago) link

there will soon be a Groundhog's Day remake where the main character has to keep writing an abuse apology until he GETS IT RIGHT

President Keyes, Thursday, 14 December 2017 15:11 (six years ago) link

I think in most circumstances there's really no substitute for "I fucked up, I apologized in private and am now doing so publicly. I'm sorry. I'm gonna fuck off indefinitely."

Simon H., Thursday, 14 December 2017 15:19 (six years ago) link

oh no not the guy that ate a bunch of shitty food and filmed it, we really are losing our heroes

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Thursday, 14 December 2017 15:22 (six years ago) link

eh his permanent association with a movie i really like, the one direction documentary, means this bums me out. it's extremely cool to be an asshole about it though

flamenco drop (BradNelson), Thursday, 14 December 2017 15:24 (six years ago) link

Giving me flashbacks to the old Daily Show "Ted Hitler" bit - http://www.cc.com/video-clips/rk9abw/the-daily-show-with-jon-stewart-bloggers

JoeStork, Thursday, 14 December 2017 15:31 (six years ago) link

http://www.cnn.com/2017/12/13/politics/congress-women-democrats-dress-kaptur/index.html

sounding like a 71 year old

akm, Thursday, 14 December 2017 22:05 (six years ago) link

Wonder if that Hong Kong investigation will go any further than Weinstein and Logan.

Robert Adam Gilmour, Thursday, 14 December 2017 23:18 (six years ago) link

Dustin Hoffman.

The Harsh Tutelage of Michael McDonald (Raymond Cummings), Friday, 15 December 2017 02:29 (six years ago) link

http://variety.com/2017/biz/news/dustin-hoffman-2-1202641525/

flappy bird, Friday, 15 December 2017 02:31 (six years ago) link

picturing him smiling that insouciant smile and staring right into their faces while he's violating them is enough to make me throw my phone across the room

awful

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 15 December 2017 03:32 (six years ago) link

i definitely believe that Hoffman's a piece of shit rapist
that said, I'm not sure what to take from the third account in that story, or if it should have been reported - it's kind of hard to buy hypnosis?

Nhex, Friday, 15 December 2017 07:17 (six years ago) link

Well that does it. I'm never watching Ishtar again.

how's life, Friday, 15 December 2017 09:44 (six years ago) link

This article is great. Among other things, she articulates my inchoate worries about this moment we’re in, my resistance to the claims that we’re living through a revolution.

https://nplusonemag.com/issue-30/the-intellectual-situation/in-the-maze/

horseshoe, Friday, 15 December 2017 11:50 (six years ago) link

According to this profile, Lorin Stein was hired at FSG as an editorial assistant to Jonathan Galassi in 1998.
The same year, I was turned down for an assistant position at FSG (with a different editor) because I was "too old."
I'm a year younger than Stein. https://t.co/LCqaF1Gqk7

— Ruth Franklin (@ruth_franklin) December 15, 2017

mookieproof, Friday, 15 December 2017 15:07 (six years ago) link

Just seeing this after I awoke, I burst out crying. There it is, confirmation that Harvey Weinstein derailed my career, something I suspected but was unsure. Thank you Peter Jackson for being honest. I’m just heartsick https://t.co/ljK9NqICbm

— Mira Sorvino (@MiraSorvino) December 15, 2017

mookieproof, Friday, 15 December 2017 15:40 (six years ago) link

didn't expect Marcy Kaptur to go there; disappointing.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 15 December 2017 18:00 (six years ago) link

Hoffman story is goddamn horrific

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 15 December 2017 18:57 (six years ago) link

Telling the truth can be bad news.

how's life, Friday, 15 December 2017 19:07 (six years ago) link

This article is great. Among other things, she articulates my inchoate worries about this moment we’re in, my resistance to the claims that we’re living through a revolution.

https://nplusonemag.com/issue-30/the-intellectual-situation/in-the-maze/

― horseshoe, Friday, 15 December 2017 11:50 (seven hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

This was a different perspective thanks for posting

From my POV (caveat emptor what) the writer is reasonably dishonest in categorising the issues and her description of the concerns of the men she knows that she claims to be trying to synopsise fairly come across as an unsympathetic and partisan caricature. #notallstrawmen

remember the lmao (darraghmac), Friday, 15 December 2017 19:18 (six years ago) link

i came here to say thank you for posting that horseshoe
i read it slowly because it was kind of hard to digest all at once

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Friday, 15 December 2017 20:08 (six years ago) link

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/12/15/us/andrea-ramsey-harassment.html

A woman running to flip a Kansas congressional seat from red to blue next year is ending her campaign after allegations surfaced that she had sexually harassed, and then fired, a former subordinate.

Andrea Ramsey, 56, is a retired business executive who worked in the nonprofit sector before deciding to run for office as a Democrat in next year’s congressional midterm elections. She was one of a growing number of women inspired to seek office in the wake of President Trump’s election.

But this month, The Kansas City Star newspaper asked her about a 2005 lawsuit that accused her of sexually harassing a man at LabOne, where she was the executive vice president of human resources, and then firing him after he rejected her advances, a claim Ms. Ramsey denies. The suit was against the company, not Ms. Ramsey specifically, and it was settled in 2006.

“Twelve years ago, I eliminated an employee’s position,” Ms. Ramsey said in a letter posted to Facebook on Friday. “That man decided to bring a lawsuit against the company (not against me). He named me in the allegations, claiming I fired him because he refused to have sex with me. That is a lie.”

j., Friday, 15 December 2017 22:36 (six years ago) link

Well, I guess that settles that!

Lyudmila Pavlichenko (dandydonweiner), Friday, 15 December 2017 23:12 (six years ago) link

God God, SERIOUSLY? https://t.co/NDZFrLDXil

— Minnie Driver (@driverminnie) December 15, 2017

j., Friday, 15 December 2017 23:22 (six years ago) link

turned on the tv and LITTLE FOCKERS (w hoffman) was on usa. basic cable is going to keep the status quo alive

maura, Saturday, 16 December 2017 00:40 (six years ago) link

also minnie driver rules

maura, Saturday, 16 December 2017 00:42 (six years ago) link

matt damon really is an endless wellspring of bad takes huh

dipso inferno (bizarro gazzara), Saturday, 16 December 2017 00:47 (six years ago) link

And, to his mind, not all such crimes are equal. “I do believe that there’s a spectrum of behavior,” he begins. “And we’re going to have to figure — you know, there’s a difference between, you know, patting someone on the butt and rape or child molestation, right? Both of those behaviors need to be confronted and eradicated without question, but they shouldn’t be conflated, right?”

idk, does anyone actually disagree with this?

soref, Saturday, 16 December 2017 01:14 (six years ago) link

yea there's obviously a spectrum, a difference between al franken and john lasseter and louis c.k. and harvey weinstein and bill cosby, but matt damon's comments are just poorly worded and poorly timed. it's clumsy, like everything else he does

flappy bird, Saturday, 16 December 2017 01:20 (six years ago) link

Well Roy Moore got called a paedophile for coming on to ppl that weren't children, so

albvivertine, Saturday, 16 December 2017 01:28 (six years ago) link

(I've known many (far too many) women who were sexually abused pre-pubescence and that really pissed me off)

albvivertine, Saturday, 16 December 2017 01:30 (six years ago) link

not nec relevant, but Matt Damon broke MD's heart once i think.

btw in every movement, yes, there are some loonies who say all transgressions are equal. Call them Aristotelian Twitter. (obv a small minority etc)

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 16 December 2017 01:46 (six years ago) link

see my rolling "hate reads" entries for more like that. clanging bathos is practically a newsletter genre in itself

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Saturday, 16 December 2017 11:49 (six years ago) link

cinnamon rolls

Joan Digimon (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Saturday, 16 December 2017 12:41 (six years ago) link

amazing

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Saturday, 16 December 2017 13:38 (six years ago) link

...that's not a clickhole spoof?

Evan, Saturday, 16 December 2017 15:06 (six years ago) link

After being accused of “a shocking and egregious case of rape and sexual assault” by publicist Haleigh Breest today, Oscar winner Paul Haggis is fighting back in court against what he says were demands for $9 million payment to make “these outrageous and wholly baseless demands” go away.

http://deadline.com/2017/12/paul-haggis-denies-rape-allegation-lawsuit-1202228350/

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 16 December 2017 15:16 (six years ago) link

I went googling to see if any pics from that premiere would confirm/deny the “back brace” defense and found this instead

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2013/02/01/article-2271948-1749FD4E000005DC-179_634x445.jpg

El Tomboto, Saturday, 16 December 2017 15:33 (six years ago) link

another layer to the Damon thing is that, I believe he also said that 'if it's my friend I believe them' which I assume is his defense of Casey Affleck.

akm, Saturday, 16 December 2017 17:06 (six years ago) link

#believebros

President Keyes, Saturday, 16 December 2017 17:19 (six years ago) link

scary onlooking Michael Douglas there

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 16 December 2017 17:23 (six years ago) link

good lord yeah

dipso inferno (bizarro gazzara), Saturday, 16 December 2017 17:46 (six years ago) link

Who is the guy on the right?

Robert Adam Gilmour, Saturday, 16 December 2017 17:49 (six years ago) link

Haggis presumably

sonnet by a wite kid, "On Æolian Grief" (wins), Saturday, 16 December 2017 17:58 (six years ago) link

Yeah I was searching “Paul Haggis Side-Effects premiere” because of the article Morbius linked

El Tomboto, Saturday, 16 December 2017 18:06 (six years ago) link

https://electricliterature.com/the-book-that-made-me-a-feminist-was-written-by-an-abuser-4c6891f548cf

art/artist reflection on marion zimmer bradley

j., Saturday, 16 December 2017 20:22 (six years ago) link

Just seeing this after I awoke, I burst out crying. There it is, confirmation that Harvey Weinstein derailed my career, something I suspected but was unsure. Thank you Peter Jackson for being honest. I’m just heartsick https://t.co/ljK9NqICbm

— Mira Sorvino (@MiraSorvino) December 15, 2017

j., Saturday, 16 December 2017 20:37 (six years ago) link

I was interested in casting Mira Sorvino in BAD SANTA, but every time I mentioned her over the phone to the Weinsteins, I'd hear a CLICK. What type of person just hangs up on you like that?! I guess we all know what type of person now. I'm really sorry Mira. https://t.co/9U0PsL2yS5

— Terry Zwigoff (@realzwigoff) December 16, 2017

j., Sunday, 17 December 2017 06:09 (six years ago) link

someone tell j to stop killfiling me

mookieproof, Sunday, 17 December 2017 07:04 (six years ago) link

sorry man

i can't keep up

j., Sunday, 17 December 2017 07:30 (six years ago) link

just joshin (ie drunk) <3

mookieproof, Sunday, 17 December 2017 07:39 (six years ago) link

There was that Dustin Hoffman Playboy article making the rounds but I can't find it in the original source. http://dustinhoffman13.blogspot.cl/

Yerac, Sunday, 17 December 2017 15:43 (six years ago) link

Can a mod delete the disgusting quote and just leave the link

El Tomboto, Sunday, 17 December 2017 15:48 (six years ago) link

Whoops sorry, Tom.

Yerac, Sunday, 17 December 2017 15:48 (six years ago) link

Jesus.

fuck you, your hat is horrible (Neanderthal), Sunday, 17 December 2017 15:49 (six years ago) link

done

mod, Sunday, 17 December 2017 16:08 (six years ago) link

"you're not allowed to say anything"

can this line of 'reasoning' forever

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 17 December 2017 16:13 (six years ago) link

jesus, that virginity story in the Hoffman interview

Nhex, Sunday, 17 December 2017 17:31 (six years ago) link

"can this line of 'reasoning' forever"

I can never it

akm, Sunday, 17 December 2017 21:09 (six years ago) link

just checkin real quick if you are making fun of the grammar of that sentence bc "can" is a verb as in "to stop" or "to stfu"

Men's Scarehouse - "You're gonna like the way you're shook." (m bison), Sunday, 17 December 2017 21:12 (six years ago) link

yeah I know that but I prefer to make an old skook ILX callback when I can

akm, Sunday, 17 December 2017 21:14 (six years ago) link

OLD SKOOK

akm, Sunday, 17 December 2017 21:14 (six years ago) link

Star wars 9 villain

remember the lmao (darraghmac), Sunday, 17 December 2017 21:46 (six years ago) link

The Sports Illustrated article this week on Carolina Panther's owner Jerry Richardson is worth looking up. I think 'Mister' is going to lose a lot of money. Hard to believe.

earlnash, Monday, 18 December 2017 12:20 (six years ago) link

No surprise: Alex Kozinski steps down.

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 18 December 2017 14:45 (six years ago) link

BBC Documentary in the making about HW - http://deadline.com/2017/12/bbc-lines-up-feature-doc-on-harvey-weinstein-scandal-1202226850/

StanM, Monday, 18 December 2017 16:02 (six years ago) link

maybe i'm paranoid but it feels like there's going to be more to this story

http://www.espn.com/espn/story/_/id/21804776/john-skipper-resigns-espn-president

maura, Monday, 18 December 2017 17:16 (six years ago) link

maybe I'm cynical but it feels like there's going to be more of these stories

https://www.politico.com/story/2017/12/18/manchin-franken-senate-resign-300843

Lyudmila Pavlichenko (dandydonweiner), Monday, 18 December 2017 18:09 (six years ago) link

bluh

maura, Monday, 18 December 2017 18:33 (six years ago) link

Who would have thought? And how can we now fully appreciate "Lick It Up"?

Nachobi-wan (Ye Mad Puffin), Monday, 18 December 2017 19:05 (six years ago) link

the KISS stuff could just be endless

Joan Digimon (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Monday, 18 December 2017 19:12 (six years ago) link

We mustn't forget that when you're famous they let you do it.

A is for (Aimless), Monday, 18 December 2017 19:14 (six years ago) link

I don't think I've heard Simmons say anything that couldn't be called sexual harrassment

President Keyes, Monday, 18 December 2017 19:16 (six years ago) link

Everything about Gene, his very dna is harassment-based. Not so much incidents as, like, his entire life

blech

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Monday, 18 December 2017 19:18 (six years ago) link

lol

http://www.idolator.com/5140334/gene-simmons-will-not-let-me-rock-and-roll-all-night-or-party-every-day-with-him

"Oh, and the asshole who posted the story? He gets no free tix, no backstage passes, and therefore, he won’t have access to our parties and our girls."

maura, Monday, 18 December 2017 19:24 (six years ago) link

“our girls”

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Monday, 18 December 2017 19:32 (six years ago) link

"girls" as a feature of the package proves the point of posting

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Monday, 18 December 2017 19:54 (six years ago) link

that was directed at me btw

so yeah he might have some issues wrt women

maura, Monday, 18 December 2017 20:00 (six years ago) link

wait, maura is noah?

akm, Monday, 18 December 2017 20:08 (six years ago) link

maura, loved yr work on the ark with the animals and shit kiu

dipso inferno (bizarro gazzara), Monday, 18 December 2017 20:12 (six years ago) link

I don't mean
To seem like I care about material things
Like a backstage pass
I just want
Access
To your parties and to your girls
(WOO)

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Monday, 18 December 2017 20:16 (six years ago) link

On a more serious note, these accusations are rolling on sexual harassment/assault at the moment; I keep wondering if it will begin to pick up steam on homopobia and racial discrimination as well (not in the sense of moving on from sexism but more intersectionally).

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Monday, 18 December 2017 20:19 (six years ago) link

Anti-male Collective

Evan, Monday, 18 December 2017 20:23 (six years ago) link

the KISS stuff could just be endless

― Joan Digimon (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Monday, December 18, 2017

http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/5691/2499/1600/KISS_GAY_BAND.0.jpg

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 18 December 2017 20:26 (six years ago) link

Yikes! Who told Simmons he could take the make-up off?

Moodles, Monday, 18 December 2017 20:57 (six years ago) link

or the guy on the left!

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 18 December 2017 21:04 (six years ago) link

god, why is Matt Damon still talking?

Roz, Tuesday, 19 December 2017 02:59 (six years ago) link

haha, right?

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Tuesday, 19 December 2017 03:43 (six years ago) link

haven't you seen Team America? he's dumb

flappy bird, Tuesday, 19 December 2017 05:11 (six years ago) link

he should be jailed for the hair alone.

http://img.wennermedia.com/article-leads-horizontal/rs-164162-4507440641.jpg

scott seward, Tuesday, 19 December 2017 14:03 (six years ago) link

lmao

Men's Scarehouse - "You're gonna like the way you're shook." (m bison), Tuesday, 19 December 2017 15:26 (six years ago) link

?platform=hootsuite

shackling the masses with plastic-wrapped snack picks (sic), Tuesday, 19 December 2017 17:49 (six years ago) link

?hp&action=click&pgtype=Homepage&clickSource=story-heading&module=span-ab-top-region®ion=top-news&WT.nav=top-news&_r=0

shackling the masses with plastic-wrapped snack picks (sic), Tuesday, 19 December 2017 17:49 (six years ago) link

don't give me notes

j., Tuesday, 19 December 2017 17:52 (six years ago) link

why is that parameter on there? is that the company she is talking about? their CEO got in trouble earlier this year for telling a reporter to call 1-800-EAT-DICK on twitter.

akm, Tuesday, 19 December 2017 17:54 (six years ago) link

just came from the place i got the link from, meaningless

j., Tuesday, 19 December 2017 17:56 (six years ago) link

you don't understand, my dog's parameter is hootsuite

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Tuesday, 19 December 2017 18:08 (six years ago) link

hootsuite is a social media posting/monitoring client

maura, Tuesday, 19 December 2017 18:13 (six years ago) link

hootsuite for hoos tweets

j., Tuesday, 19 December 2017 18:15 (six years ago) link

that ask a manager piece refers to this:

https://herb.co/2017/11/24/marijuana-policy-project-sexual-harassment/

omar little, Tuesday, 19 December 2017 18:23 (six years ago) link

No mention here yet of TJ Miller, who was a bite-my-tongue when we said "let's not speculate about who seems like they might have harassment in their past."

... (Eazy), Tuesday, 19 December 2017 18:27 (six years ago) link

just read that story, insane & awful
https://www.thedailybeast.com/silicon-valley-star-tj-miller-accused-of-sexually-assaulting-and-punching-a-woman

flappy bird, Tuesday, 19 December 2017 18:29 (six years ago) link

they are vehemently disputing this, claiming the accuser seems to have a disturbing past with the couple

(•̪●) (carne asada), Tuesday, 19 December 2017 18:59 (six years ago) link

Right, that's in the story

flappy bird, Tuesday, 19 December 2017 19:00 (six years ago) link

No one has accused Miller of hitting on strippers.

shackling the masses with plastic-wrapped snack picks (sic), Tuesday, 19 December 2017 19:00 (six years ago) link

sorry didnt read the whole thing xp

(•̪●) (carne asada), Tuesday, 19 December 2017 19:01 (six years ago) link

sorry didnt read the whole thing xxp

(•̪●) (carne asada), Tuesday, 19 December 2017 19:01 (six years ago) link

ugh browser acting weird today

(•̪●) (carne asada), Tuesday, 19 December 2017 19:01 (six years ago) link

yea it's pretty rough. the fact that it's corroborated by four other women, the school court case, and miller himself talking about it to dozens of people in the comedy world, that's a lot of smoke, you know? but yeah, the statement... i mean wtf are you gonna do, this is multiple violent rape incidents, not like he can do the "i apologize if my past actions may have harmed or been misinterpreted by certain people..."

flappy bird, Tuesday, 19 December 2017 19:02 (six years ago) link

saw this woman's story about miller on twitter, pretty terrible as well

I've been encouraged to publicly share my story. So if you're ever talking about TJ Miller to me and I exclaim "Fuck that guy" this is why. pic.twitter.com/IgYyN6m2cZ

— Dalia (@darent85) December 19, 2017

Joan Digimon (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Wednesday, 20 December 2017 19:35 (six years ago) link

Am I the only one surprised that the lionization of Kobe Bryant continues in the current environment?

Lyudmila Pavlichenko (dandydonweiner), Wednesday, 20 December 2017 20:29 (six years ago) link

No, you're not.

FLCLeee (Leee), Wednesday, 20 December 2017 20:31 (six years ago) link

I wonder when someone on the internet is going to discover why Tupac was in prison

President Keyes, Wednesday, 20 December 2017 20:44 (six years ago) link

kobe changed his number so all is forgiven

Spottie, Wednesday, 20 December 2017 20:48 (six years ago) link

Ben effing Roethlisberger

Guayaquil (eephus!), Wednesday, 20 December 2017 20:54 (six years ago) link

Sean Penn, where art thou?

Lyudmila Pavlichenko (dandydonweiner), Wednesday, 20 December 2017 21:11 (six years ago) link

At the risk of being pelted with rocks and garbage, I'm wondering why the bartender didn't toss the drink after noticing Miller's suspicious behavior when Miller wasn't looking at it rather than wait for her to come back (and possibly drink it if he happened to be busy then). He could have given her another when she was at the bar looking for her drink.

nickn, Wednesday, 20 December 2017 21:48 (six years ago) link

maybe he was busy when it happened

reggae mike love (polyphonic), Wednesday, 20 December 2017 21:52 (six years ago) link

I had the same thought, but rationalized it as her possibility telling the story poorly/getting some detail wrong.

how's life, Wednesday, 20 December 2017 21:53 (six years ago) link

Also if he makes it and hands it to her in her presence, he can personally tell her what happened AND

Conic section rebellion 44 (in orbit), Wednesday, 20 December 2017 22:02 (six years ago) link

...sorry, malfunction. AND make sure the new drink goes straight into her hands and no one else has a chance to fuck w it.

Conic section rebellion 44 (in orbit), Wednesday, 20 December 2017 22:03 (six years ago) link

Anyway is it that important to pick holes in a twitter thread narrative if we aren't disputing the actions of the main character?

Conic section rebellion 44 (in orbit), Wednesday, 20 December 2017 22:04 (six years ago) link

Glenn Thrush, Suspended Times Reporter, to Resume Work but Won’t Cover White House

good job everyone

mookieproof, Wednesday, 20 December 2017 22:10 (six years ago) link

lol wtf

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Wednesday, 20 December 2017 22:17 (six years ago) link

Basketball is pretty damn weird about this shit, I mean, I'm amazed anyone lets Derrick Rose play

Nhex, Wednesday, 20 December 2017 22:23 (six years ago) link

Thrust got a demotion, essentially - do you think he should've been fired?

Nhex, Wednesday, 20 December 2017 22:24 (six years ago) link

The Times apparently does not think his behavior was offensive enough to get him fired. I refuse to speculate where the line of demarcation is on that.

Lyudmila Pavlichenko (dandydonweiner), Wednesday, 20 December 2017 22:26 (six years ago) link

xp re TJ Miller
I was thinking when she came back and said "Hey where's my drink?" the bartender could then explain the situation as he handed her a new drink. But how's life is probably right, a mis-remembering or mis-telling after so long.

nickn, Wednesday, 20 December 2017 22:36 (six years ago) link

xp got naked to be polite???

j., Thursday, 21 December 2017 05:36 (six years ago) link

As you start your group, how will you keep away actual predators looking to quash authentic allegations?

I'm going to have to be very careful of that.


it's obvious enough to hardly bear saying but never read the comments

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 21 December 2017 05:38 (six years ago) link

also, oy at this chuck close times interview.

But then Mr. Close said that he made his models audition for him first, Ms. Graves recalled. “I’m at this point a little tipsy and totally flattered — in the presence of one of my heroes,” she said. He wheeled over to the bathroom, she said, “and asked me to take my clothes off. Then he started telling me about sexual acts that he and a local waitress perform on each other.” He also asked Ms. Graves highly invasive questions about her intimate grooming and remarked on how lucky her boyfriend was.

“I thought, ‘I don’t want this man to be saying these things to me,’” she said. “It was just this profound disappointment.” When Ms. Graves made clear she was not going to cooperate, Mr. Close wheeled himself over to his easel and went back to work. “I let myself out,” she said.

Mr. Close said he did not remember this incident but that it sounded possible.


that shit in bold is the moment in every cop film where the bad guy is essentially saying, "yeah probably, so I'm an asshole, so what?"

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 21 December 2017 05:44 (six years ago) link

here's that link if you want to read the whole thing:
https://www.nytimes.com/2017/12/20/arts/design/chuck-close-sexual-harassment.html

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 21 December 2017 05:44 (six years ago) link

I’m at this point a little tipsy and totally flattered — in the presence of one of my heroes

hey women the reason that men become 'your heroes' is to have sex with you

sleepingbag, Thursday, 21 December 2017 05:48 (six years ago) link

fuck outta here with that bullshit

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 21 December 2017 05:49 (six years ago) link

honest questions 1 how the fuck is sleepingbag still here, 2 sleepingbag why the fuck are you here

Men's Scarehouse - "You're gonna like the way you're shook." (m bison), Thursday, 21 December 2017 05:56 (six years ago) link

*gets drunk and goes with man to his bedroom while expressing interest and attraction* (two minutes later) "goodness me... sexual intimations? i am blindsided by this highly unprofessional turn of events"

sleepingbag, Thursday, 21 December 2017 05:56 (six years ago) link

i have complete empathy for victims of crimes + abuse. i absolutely have scorn for the perpetrators of such crimes. what am i supposed to be seeing in that story you quoted forks? there's nothing there. "i don't want this man to be saying these things to me".... ok, sorry?

“Last time I looked, discomfort was not a major offense,” he added. “I never
reduced anyone to tears, no one ever ran out of the place. If I embarrassed anyone or
made them feel uncomfortable, I am truly sorry, I didn’t mean to. I acknowledge
having a dirty mouth, but we’re all adults.”

sleepingbag, Thursday, 21 December 2017 06:09 (six years ago) link

a female professional was approached by a powerful and rich person who worked in her field and asked her to come to his studio to be photographed. He didn't intimate at any point until she was there that he intended to use her as a nude model. Then he tells her "Your pussy looks delicious." If you don't see that as harassment, that's on you.

i have complete empathy for victims of crimes + abuse. i absolutely have scorn for the perpetrators of such crimes.

i didn't say a thing about you or your beliefs! you laid out this categoric statement:
hey women the reason that men become 'your heroes' is to have sex with you

and i said fuck outta here with that bullshit and i stand by that sentiment

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 21 December 2017 06:22 (six years ago) link

i mean, the guy photographs vaginas close up + it's kind of my point that all art and achievement is a subtext to create attraction and so it maybe shouldn't be that shocking when it arises. i might head into that situation with at least slightly different expectations if i were that woman. some people won't stand for crassness or honest expression of sexual desire from a man... fair enough, maybe it warrants an apology. i just don't think it's criminal or scandalous in the slightest.

sleepingbag, Thursday, 21 December 2017 06:45 (six years ago) link

Wow you're such a badass independent thinker, what an iconoclast, keep em heads ringin, m8

brimstead, Thursday, 21 December 2017 07:14 (six years ago) link

/I’m at this point a little tipsy and totally flattered — in the presence of one of my heroes/

hey women the reason that men become 'your heroes' is to have sex with you


if that were true then every such interaction would be a coercion, which would validate (and multiply) the complainants, rather than ratify your sneering lectures to silly girls about the ways of the world.

estela, Thursday, 21 December 2017 07:25 (six years ago) link

all art and achievement is a subtext to create attraction

i don't usually have a lot to say around here but I feel like I need to point out that this statement is broad, vague, and ridiculous.

Also monday morning quarterbacking what you would do in this situation is not the greatest. Like literally no one wants to hear it.

xposts

Scam jam, thank you ma’am (Sparkle Motion), Thursday, 21 December 2017 07:27 (six years ago) link

if that were true then every such interaction would be a coercion, which would validate (and multiply) the complainants, rather than ratify your sneering lectures to silly girls about the ways of the world.

well, that is exactly what is happening right now, no? take matt lauer: completely reciprocal consensual relationship with a woman who only in the current cultural moment comes to think of herself as a victim... this is somehow beyond being questioned?

btw 'silly girls' have agency. this woman left the room before anything happened. i understand that all people don't find this easy to do, particularly those who have been prior victimized. but is there not still a distinction between 'this person victimized/abused me' and 'this person said something that made me uncomfortable & that was the end of it'?

sleepingbag, Thursday, 21 December 2017 07:50 (six years ago) link

your comments here make it clear that you're looking at the problem from what i consider to be simply the wrong end of the telescope.

1) these women speaking out is a show of agency; are you somehow suggesting they've given up the right to publicly relate their experience?
2) this gains them nothing in the public sphere; what artist wants to have "was famously harassed by Chuck Close" appended to their obit?

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 21 December 2017 08:00 (six years ago) link

fwiw i believe that basically any male in the art, music, media, comedy, film, politic, sport, etc. 'prestige' fields could generate a headline under the current criteria for a sex abuse scandal... probably 90%. anything one has ever done in one's entire life that may have made a sexually-desired person uncomfortable or been interpreted as an inappropriate or any unreciprocated advance seems to be on the table. i dunno, maybe it's a great thing and will have a positive impact on male behavior going forward? i think it's unlikely that men will stop hitting on women or trying to move things along when they sense the possibility of sex. i guess that's one for the uncool conservative beliefs thread.

xp you have plenty of people on the 'right' end of the telescope as it were, certainly the vast majority of people here if not everyone. & i don't think any ill effect of any of this is the 'fault' of women sharing their experiences, whether or not i believe or agree with them. i think the media is creating somewhat of an opportunity for public vigilantism. again, maybe that has more benefit than drawback. i personally don't think so, but i accept i am for all purposes of conversation here on the 'wrong' side of this. i just can't see it any other way... i'm an intimidating looking guy who has been labelled things i am not on several occasions, so i know it's something that happens. i don't know how often. but i don't like the idea that it's beyond reason in the moment to see things from that perspective, innocent until proven guilty et al.

sleepingbag, Thursday, 21 December 2017 08:11 (six years ago) link

Well what's intimidating about you? Serious question. What have you been labeled? Also a serious question.

omar little, Thursday, 21 December 2017 08:23 (six years ago) link

i dunno.. i'm a large man with a beard, i've been told i look intimidating, i had a woman i had zero connection to say i 'looked like a rapist' whatever the fuck that meant... i never said i'd been accused of anything, i haven't. but i've seen some words get thrown around based on feelings or notions or who knows what.

sleepingbag, Thursday, 21 December 2017 08:31 (six years ago) link

I'm making an effort to not lead discussion on this topic ESPECIALLY ONLINE so i should probably stfu.

i do wanna say that your rhetoric here is ill-conceived, sb. (Insert name of celebrity asshole here) has been/is continuing to act in a fashion that is indisputably asshole-ish. When multiple women speak out against (celebrity asshole), why on earth would your first reaction be to defend the actions of (celebrity asshole), when (celebrity asshole) outright acknowledges that he is, in fact, being a celebrity asshole, especially when there are no obvious forthcoming repercussions for (celebrity asshole's) actions besides being branded a celebrity asshole?

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 21 December 2017 08:33 (six years ago) link

i think it's unlikely that men will stop hitting on women or trying to move things along when they sense the possibility of sex.

Am basically echoing the rebecca traister article from a couple of weeks back - sometimes, it's not the behaviour/act itself that is the affront or the crime, but the dismissal of a woman's right to be a) taken seriously as a professional/peer.

sure, men have a right to make a pass at a woman whenever they feel like it and women have a right to decline those advances, but it's disappointing how often this is what professional settings often boil down to. it's exhausting having to constantly avoid being alone with men, it's exhausting having our value as a person reduced, it's exhausting having to navigate the usual biases against women without also having to deal with unwanted sexual advances or inappropriate behaviour. Especially when women are already vastly underrepresented in pretty much all those fields you listed.

Roz, Thursday, 21 December 2017 08:35 (six years ago) link

meh, ignore that a) i meant to add something else to that sentence but lost my train of thought.

Roz, Thursday, 21 December 2017 08:37 (six years ago) link

Nah that's a good post imo

remember the lmao (darraghmac), Thursday, 21 December 2017 08:45 (six years ago) link

don't stfu xxp. i really think talking some of this stuff out is much more important than stubbornly or secretly holding on to feelings or prejudices, or outright condemning decent people on either side of whatever issue. i don't care if my rhetoric is 'ill conceived' because in the absence of some other better way to consider it i'll continue to maintain that being an asshole is not a crime. obviously that is motivated somewhat by self-interest.

tbh i am curious if any non-men here have any reservations about the current climate for accusations. i have seen women elsewhere make some points from that position (ex. megan mcardle https://www.bloomberg.com/view/articles/2017-12-18/the-current-sex-panic-harks-back-to-the-era-of-coddling-women) but i assume that here they would obv be ignored/dismissed for being too conservative or whatever.

xp i know this is crass but please believe that it's a real q bc it is: what exactly is the professional/peer relationship supposed to be btwn 'person taking photograph of a woman's vagina' and 'person getting their vagina photographed by an older man'? i know the article says there are unspoken rules for nude subjects of art but how + why are those expected to be adhered to? what makes a man want to photograph naked women to begin with?

sleepingbag, Thursday, 21 December 2017 08:46 (six years ago) link

artist/subject is a fairly well-defined professional relationship, regardless of what kind of artist that person is. many people tend to be fuzzy on what is appropriate within that relationship (like yourself, it seems), but that's why those unspoken codes of conduct exist.

it's important to note that the women speaking against chuck close are not models used to posing nude but artists in their own right. the second woman certainly didn't deserve the behaviour she describes being subjected to after she declined, as is her right, his request to go topless. this is exactly the kind of thing that contributes to many women feeling that they're being devalued and not taken seriously as a professional/peer.

She told Mr. Close she had to think about it and ultimately decided against it. “I came to the conclusion that I was not being photographed as an artist but as a woman,” she said. “I said, ‘I hope I can still come to your studio.’” But when she called a few weeks later to arrange that visit, Ms. Brown said, Mr. Close “acted like he did not know me.” ...

Ms. Brown said that having to tell Mr. Fuhrman about this turn of events only added to her level of disappointment. “It was humiliating to say to this person who’s a huge supporter of my work, ‘Actually, it was conditional on me taking my top off’ — telling one of my big patrons, ‘This person we both admire doesn’t actually admire me.’”

Roz, Thursday, 21 December 2017 09:05 (six years ago) link

that’s excellent, roz

there was this too, from huffpost, ‘Three days after their initial meeting, Fox emailed Close to arrange a time to meet. In response, Close invited her to come to his studio on Bond Street in Manhattan on Friday, Oct. 18, to pose for a shoot. In these emails, which Fox shared with HuffPost, neither Fox nor Close discussed the prospect of nudity during the shoot. Fox said she was familiar with Close’s oversize portraits, which are typically close-ups of human faces. She assumed he wanted her to pose for a similar project.’

estela, Thursday, 21 December 2017 09:21 (six years ago) link

sure, men have a right to make a pass at a woman whenever they feel like it and women have a right to decline those advances

I might be reading this wrong and/or missing some context,my apologies if so, but men don’t and shouldn’t have that right in a professional setting where they have the power (which will be most of them), because women’s right to decline will be compromised.

Andrew Farrell, Thursday, 21 December 2017 09:55 (six years ago) link

Oh absolutely agree with you there. I didn't phrase that right - I was responding more to the idea that you can't stop men from making passes at women and that they shouldn't be punished if that's all they did.

Roz, Thursday, 21 December 2017 10:29 (six years ago) link

I don't think any of the high-profile men that have been outed so far have been accused of "asked colleague for a date, was rebuffed, said 'ok' and went about their business as usual" tbf

a Rambo in curved air (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 21 December 2017 10:37 (six years ago) link

said "ok, it's just your career" mmm

Mark G, Thursday, 21 December 2017 11:18 (six years ago) link

poll re: members of parliament in UK

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/DPBBbAuX0AEC2J4?format=jpg

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Thursday, 21 December 2017 11:18 (six years ago) link

britain erects morelike

dipso inferno (bizarro gazzara), Thursday, 21 December 2017 11:28 (six years ago) link

Sexting is the one that throws me for a loop there. I guess they mean w/ someone who isn't your partner?

Daniel_Rf, Thursday, 21 December 2017 11:53 (six years ago) link

23% thinking that an extramarital affair should be career ending seems bizarrely high as well?

soref, Thursday, 21 December 2017 12:56 (six years ago) link

Why is sexting worse than any other consensual sexual activity?

treeship 2, Thursday, 21 December 2017 13:21 (six years ago) link

let's assume that less than 100% of the responds actually understood what "sexting" might mean

a Rambo in curved air (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 21 December 2017 13:23 (six years ago) link

Well, exactly.

Though the two recent(ish) cases were MPs who a) sent lewd text messages to a 17 year old and b) where an MP repeatedly propositioned a woman who had come in earlier for a job interview so I guess it is conflated with harassment.

Wag1 Shree Rajneesh (ShariVari), Thursday, 21 December 2017 13:27 (six years ago) link

Also, unlike some others, with sexting there is hard evidence so I think that raises the level.

Yerac, Thursday, 21 December 2017 14:02 (six years ago) link

xp - ^^ exactly

sexting is a sign of carelessness among people who should be more cautious (a. wiener por ejemplo)

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 21 December 2017 15:47 (six years ago) link

the same kind of argument might be applied to extramarital affairs, these things in some sense depends on what happens, who does it and how it impacts on their jobs

but there's also a confusion between sections of the public who are angry about abuse of power relationships and misogynist behaviour and sections of the public who just like policing other people's sexuality

a Rambo in curved air (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 21 December 2017 15:58 (six years ago) link

Petraeus & Mr Appalachian Trail (i forget his name) both walked away from their jobs (iirc?) for having what seemed like run-of-the-mill extramarital affairs
that seemed excessive to me tbh

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 21 December 2017 16:00 (six years ago) link

streep is the wrong target, those posters are stupid

akm, Thursday, 21 December 2017 16:02 (six years ago) link

https://www.theguardian.com/film/2017/dec/20/meryl-streep-she-knew-harvey-weinstein-posters-sabo-artist

oh

A rightwing guerrilla artist in Los Angeles has claimed responsibility for posters that depict Meryl Streep as an enabler of Harvey Weinstein, calling them revenge for the actor’s criticism of Donald Trump.

Sabo, a former US marine who considers leftism a “disorder”, told the Guardian on Wednesday he created the posters that show Streep with a red stripe across her face and the text “She knew”, a reference to accusations that she had knowledge of Weinstein’s alleged sexual abuse of women.

Sabo, 49, said he and two collaborators conceived the campaign as retaliation for Streep using her latest Oscar-tipped film, The Post, to bash Trump. “She’s swiping at us so we’re swiping back.”

j., Thursday, 21 December 2017 16:03 (six years ago) link

w/govt employees there is the potential for blackmail which complicates things

xpost

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Thursday, 21 December 2017 16:04 (six years ago) link

FWIW, Streep has worked on only one Weinstein production, August: Osage County (2013).

Sanpaku, Thursday, 21 December 2017 16:08 (six years ago) link

Xp as I said Tracer it's case by case but the blackmail argument used to be used to punish gay people for being gay so

a Rambo in curved air (Noodle Vague), Thursday, 21 December 2017 16:19 (six years ago) link

more of this creep

https://www.yahoo.com/news/fifth-woman-accuses-danny-masterson-142051271.html

omar little, Thursday, 21 December 2017 16:27 (six years ago) link

good point NV

(that initially autocorrected to "god's point")

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Thursday, 21 December 2017 16:37 (six years ago) link

Wow - when the Streep story came out yesterday, and was pushed by Drudge etc, I was wondering if it was a right-wing thing -- especially because there was a similar guerrilla campaign against Al Franken in L.A. a month earlier.

Guessing it will be another tactic from Roger Stone et al to take down their (sometimes deserving) targets.

... (Eazy), Thursday, 21 December 2017 16:44 (six years ago) link

Sabo is a loser. You can identify his art by the laziness and location.

Yerac, Thursday, 21 December 2017 16:46 (six years ago) link

these guys can't wait to take credit, i mean i'm not sure that's how it's supposed to work!

omar little, Thursday, 21 December 2017 16:46 (six years ago) link

poll re: members of parliament in UK

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/DPBBbAuX0AEC2J4?format=jpg

― illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Thursday, December 21, 2017 6:18 AM (six hours ago)

this is pretty interesting. given that the last question specifies "with an employee" or "with someone much younger", I take it that the rest of the questions concern private, consensual relationships among adults. maybe I'm missing some context, or do majorities of MPs think, for example, that having porn on their work computer or sexting are fireable offenses?

k3vin k., Thursday, 21 December 2017 17:57 (six years ago) link

at least this thread probably led to a righteous 51ing.

omar little, Thursday, 21 December 2017 18:20 (six years ago) link

how is having porn on your work computer not a fireable offence?!?

dipso inferno (bizarro gazzara), Thursday, 21 December 2017 18:25 (six years ago) link

plausible deniability.

Here comes the phantom menace (ledge), Thursday, 21 December 2017 18:45 (six years ago) link

this is the level of security in the mother of parliaments:

My staff log onto my computer on my desk with my login everyday. Including interns on exchange programmes. For the officer on @BBCNews just now to claim that the computer on Greens desk was accessed and therefore it was Green is utterly preposterous !!

— Nadine Dorries (@NadineDorries) December 2, 2017

Here comes the phantom menace (ledge), Thursday, 21 December 2017 18:48 (six years ago) link

great ratio

while my dirk gently weeps (symsymsym), Thursday, 21 December 2017 18:53 (six years ago) link

such a classic self-own, one of the greats

dipso inferno (bizarro gazzara), Thursday, 21 December 2017 18:56 (six years ago) link

All these men squealing about how they can’t even hit on a woman anymore reminds me of all the men who were like “it’s just locker room talk”.

just1n3, Thursday, 21 December 2017 19:00 (six years ago) link

yeah and it's like why tf are you in a locker room past 12th grade, if that

flappy bird, Thursday, 21 December 2017 19:05 (six years ago) link

When men reach a certain age, their families banish them to locker rooms to live out their last days there, naked. It's part of American culture.

Evan, Thursday, 21 December 2017 19:08 (six years ago) link

gah why does society keep making it harder and harder for me to be awful??!??

A True White Kid that can Jump (Granny Dainger), Thursday, 21 December 2017 19:08 (six years ago) link

The Hurt Locker Room

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 21 December 2017 19:08 (six years ago) link

Barbara Kruger needs to have a word with the bad Streep art dude.

kim jong deal (suzy), Thursday, 21 December 2017 19:24 (six years ago) link

the only time i met meryl streep, my general takeaway of her was as the sort of woman who would go full sophie's choice on that guy if he stepped to her in person

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 21 December 2017 19:27 (six years ago) link

also: no shade suzy but i think we mixed up our posts

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 21 December 2017 19:27 (six years ago) link

Baseball’s Rainmaker Forced Out After Alleged Misconduct

Bob Bowman, long considered one of the most influential executives in media and sports, was pushed out by Major League Baseball after allegations related to his workplace conduct.

https://www.wsj.com/articles/baseballs-rainmaker-forced-out-after-alleged-misconduct-1513882805

mookieproof, Thursday, 21 December 2017 19:35 (six years ago) link

did we all read Streep's response to Rose McGowan?

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 21 December 2017 19:37 (six years ago) link

of course she would see Rose as an adversary she thinks HW is God

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xTlydbdS0Hc

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Thursday, 21 December 2017 20:24 (six years ago) link

my guess is that's what set her off a bit, maybe not bc Streep knew anything but that she must have been aware HW was at the very least a total bully and she still went out of her way to praise him. though i doubt that she never heard a single thing about him being a creep to women, tbh. McGowan might also be striking back against and venting about what she perceives to be the elite of Hollywood trampling all over those below them. which is accurate.

omar little, Thursday, 21 December 2017 20:30 (six years ago) link

ok, stupid question.
is anything going to actually happen to HW given all these revelations ?
other than coming out of his supposed therapy/hiding in a few months.
i realise his career is now f*cked, but surely there is enough to throw some legal gubbins at him.
or, am i expecting too much too soon.

mark e, Thursday, 21 December 2017 21:38 (six years ago) link

He and the company are being sued by I don't know how any people at this point. I don't know what happened with him recently meeting with the NYPD.

Yerac, Thursday, 21 December 2017 21:43 (six years ago) link

i feel like she's being sardonic in that "god" youtube clip

Joan Digimon (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Thursday, 21 December 2017 22:22 (six years ago) link

Two weeks after their abrupt suspensions, longtime WNYC hosts Leonard Lopate and Jonathan Schwartz have been fired. In a statement, spokesperson Jennifer Houlihan Roussel wrote “New York Public Radio has terminated the employment of Leonard Lopate and Jonathan Schwartz following two separate investigations overseen by outside counsel. These investigations found that each individual had violated our standards for providing an inclusive, appropriate, and respectful work environment.”

mookieproof, Thursday, 21 December 2017 22:23 (six years ago) link

a few serious stone faces from women in that clip.

omar little, Thursday, 21 December 2017 22:24 (six years ago) link

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/12/21/us/ford-apology-sexual-harassment.html

j., Friday, 22 December 2017 08:54 (six years ago) link

more on the WNYC firings... the in-house piece has accounts that certainly indicate "bad judgment" at a minimum.

https://www.wnyc.org/story/new-york-public-radio-fires-hosts-lopate-schwartz/

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/12/21/business/wnyc-leonard-lopate-jonathan-schwartz-nypr.html

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 22 December 2017 14:25 (six years ago) link

(btw if you didn't read the WNYC commenters, one of the outraged listeners invokes not McCarthy or Stalin, but EMMETT TILL.)

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 22 December 2017 14:47 (six years ago) link

i feel like she's being sardonic in that "god" youtube clip

"it's satire" is the "locker room talk" for the left

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Friday, 22 December 2017 16:57 (six years ago) link

that's how it struck me, i could be entirely wrong i'm not getting into a bruneauhaha with you

Joan Digimon (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Friday, 22 December 2017 17:01 (six years ago) link

not saying that it wasnt. but joking about it is still making a safe space for enabling it

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Friday, 22 December 2017 17:11 (six years ago) link

Really hard to imagine guys in their 70s being unable to imagine they’ve done anything wrong, on literally any topic ever.

Scam jam, thank you ma’am (Sparkle Motion), Friday, 22 December 2017 18:13 (six years ago) link

that sarah jeong piece could have been good. but it was not. also there are way more than two guys in the field who have been called out. do your job.

El Tomboto, Friday, 22 December 2017 18:20 (six years ago) link

the verge's risk-averse approach to reporting on anything tech makes them no better than sports or political media in their grubby devotion to precious, precious access

El Tomboto, Friday, 22 December 2017 18:22 (six years ago) link

If I were the writer of that Newsweek piece I might be annoyed that somebody had slapped a jocular "horny nest" lede on top of my serious reporting.

mick signals, Friday, 22 December 2017 22:00 (six years ago) link

Accusations now being made against BRIGHT screenwriter and Carly Rae Jepsen enthusiast Max Landis.

I can’t imagine who is more scared in a post-Weinstein world than a famous director’s son.

— Allie Goertz (@AllieGoertz) November 7, 2017

Written by a psychopath who sexually abused and assaults women, right? Cool

— Anna Akana (@AnnaAkana) December 22, 2017

JRN, Friday, 22 December 2017 23:26 (six years ago) link

not saying that it wasnt. but joking about it is still making a safe space for enabling it

― AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Friday, December 22, 2017 11:11 AM (seven hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Your weird hardline approach to this just makes me o_O

A woman making a joke abt it is not the same as Seth McFarlane doing so, those “she knew” posters ppl were putting up are fucked up also

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Saturday, 23 December 2017 00:42 (six years ago) link

yeah there's no honest way to know about the issues and come to the conclusion "you know who needs to be shamed for this? MERYL STREEP!" unless you're already gunning for her for other reasons. Which the dude who did this, by his own admission, was.

Daniel_Rf, Saturday, 23 December 2017 09:48 (six years ago) link

max landis? a creep? oh my stars and garters

dipso inferno (bizarro gazzara), Saturday, 23 December 2017 10:49 (six years ago) link

And here’s the big Vice story:

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/12/23/business/media/vice-sexual-harassment.html

... (Eazy), Saturday, 23 December 2017 17:20 (six years ago) link

Are there any details of the max landis allegation besides that tweet?

Supposedly a lot of people know about that one.

Yerac, Saturday, 23 December 2017 17:44 (six years ago) link

It's impressive failsonning to actually be able to tarnish the good name of a guy who killed two children

sonnet by a wite kid, "On Æolian Grief" (wins), Saturday, 23 December 2017 17:52 (six years ago) link

and an adult tbf

dipso inferno (bizarro gazzara), Saturday, 23 December 2017 17:54 (six years ago) link

If I were the writer of that Newsweek piece I might be annoyed that somebody had slapped a jocular "horny nest" lede on top of my serious reporting.

If I were the writer of that Newsweek piece, I might be annoyed at this amazing typo:

A day after Newsweek first contacted Microsoft for comment this week, an unknown number of Microsoft employees in Seattle received an email from Human Resources officials warning them: “Microsoft has been informed by the King County prosecutor’s office that they have obtained records in connection with a criminal enforcement activity related to a brother engaged in prostitution.”

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Saturday, 23 December 2017 18:16 (six years ago) link

jeez i know you shouldn't judge a book by its cover but that Land1$ fella is Stephen King tackle.

piscesx, Saturday, 23 December 2017 18:23 (six years ago) link

Well yeah because any major #12 will tell you there are almost zero brothers working on the Redmond campus

El Tomboto, Saturday, 23 December 2017 18:24 (six years ago) link

ayo sal

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Saturday, 23 December 2017 18:43 (six years ago) link

This bit is an insane pivot

Two women told The Times about episodes involving Mike Germano, Vice’s chief digital officer who founded Carrot Creative, the digital ad agency that Vice acquired in 2013. Amanda Rue, a former strategist, said that at Carrot’s holiday party in 2012 Mr. Germano told her that he hadn’t wanted to hire her because he wanted to have sex with her.

...

“Carrot has been repeatedly recognized as one of the industry’s best places to work, and I do not believe that these allegations reflect the company’s culture — or the way we treat each other,” Mr. Germano said in a statement.

Chuck_Tatum, Sunday, 24 December 2017 00:18 (six years ago) link

"It's impressive failsonning to actually be able to tarnish the good name of a guy who killed two children"

that was john landis, not max landis

akm, Saturday, 30 December 2017 17:09 (six years ago) link

I know

Bitcoin Baja (wins), Saturday, 30 December 2017 17:17 (six years ago) link

oh i understand it now. I am too old to be hip to this millenial failsonning lingo you ilxors like to toss about

akm, Saturday, 30 December 2017 17:42 (six years ago) link

please keep the star wars talk in its own thread

j., Saturday, 30 December 2017 18:52 (six years ago) link

That Shiori Ito story is another reminder that some parts of the NYT deserve to exist

El Tomboto, Saturday, 30 December 2017 19:25 (six years ago) link

:)

k3vin k., Sunday, 31 December 2017 01:35 (six years ago) link

By DAPHNE MERKIN

umm

pee-wee and the power men (bizarro gazzara), Friday, 5 January 2018 16:37 (six years ago) link

Not sure if I mentioned this before but I wonder if any of the thousands of women Castro is supposed to have had sex with will say anything.

Robert Adam Gilmour, Friday, 5 January 2018 17:13 (six years ago) link

Ben Vereen apologizes to Hair actresses

http://variety.com/2018/legit/news/ben-vereen-accused-sexual-harassment-1202654320/

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 5 January 2018 20:39 (six years ago) link

haggis is the scientology escapee, no? i could see this being an opportunistic plot to take him down coordinated by scientology. or maybe he's just a shitty person, which is equally plausible.

akm, Friday, 5 January 2018 20:47 (six years ago) link

Yeah, I wouldn't want to make a call one way or another but I had the same initial reaction about Haggis. This is exactly how the CoS goes after those who've gotten out, and I can totally see them using the current flurry of allegations as a smokescreen.

Bobby Buttrock (Old Lunch), Friday, 5 January 2018 20:56 (six years ago) link

or on the other hand, like in the overwhelming majority of cases where multiple women accuse a man of sexual harassment/abuse, he might just be an abuser

khat person (jim in vancouver), Friday, 5 January 2018 20:57 (six years ago) link

true. also he is a shitty filmmaker.

akm, Friday, 5 January 2018 21:11 (six years ago) link

that merkin article is fucking stupid. is anyone actually equating flirting with the stuff we are talking about? what kind of fucking strawman argument is that?

akm, Friday, 5 January 2018 21:12 (six years ago) link

Yeah, loads of blokes are..

Mark G, Friday, 5 January 2018 21:40 (six years ago) link

daphne merkin sucked 20 years ago when she was writing about spanking in the new yorker too

fucking tina brown

maura, Friday, 5 January 2018 22:17 (six years ago) link

maura I have earnestly valued yr insights into long-running hacks in media

Simon H., Friday, 5 January 2018 22:33 (six years ago) link

otm

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 5 January 2018 22:33 (six years ago) link

thanks! it's important especially now that nobody has an institutional memory and the trump administration has seemingly flushed out every '90s hack. can't wait for elizabeth wurtzel's take on all thi—oh lol

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/posteverything/wp/2017/10/17/villains-like-harvey-weinstein-arent-new-villains-getting-caught-is/?utm_term=.877196a659d3

maura, Friday, 5 January 2018 23:04 (six years ago) link

haha

... (Eazy), Friday, 5 January 2018 23:15 (six years ago) link

Wurtzel! Slooooowly I turn....

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Friday, 5 January 2018 23:15 (six years ago) link

daphne merkin sucked 20 years ago when she was writing about spanking in the new yorker too

I know she's written other things, but that's the first thing I think of when I see her mentioned.

tokyo rosemary, Friday, 5 January 2018 23:53 (six years ago) link

> is anyone actually equating flirting with the stuff we are talking about

The GHWBush and AlFranken allegations skirt this territory. Personally, were I politically ambitious, I would keep my hands visible (and above shoulder level) in all photographs.

I'm all for someone with moral authority articulating red lines for where flirting edges into acts that make others uncomfortable. Alas, its a huge grey zone, and no one is drawing clear lines. Even in this thread there are people who find complements about hair styles creepy. Better to not risk it.

Sanpaku, Saturday, 6 January 2018 22:35 (six years ago) link

There's a glib assumption that everyone knows what's appropriate. Lots of us don't. We don't intentionally flirt, we shy away from touch because we don't know where the lines are drawn. Now that I know that complimenting someone on their hair can come off creepy, its yet another form of human interaction foreclosed. Those of you who think that everyone intuits the lines, and they don't need to be clearly designated, had a richer social upbringing than some of us.

Sanpaku, Saturday, 6 January 2018 22:44 (six years ago) link

There's a glib assumption that everyone knows what's appropriate. Lots of us don't. We don't intentionally flirt, we shy away from touch because we don't know where the lines are drawn. Now that I know that complimenting someone on their hair can come off creepy, its yet another form of human interaction foreclosed. Those of you who think that everyone intuits the lines, and they don't need to be clearly designated, had a richer social upbringing than some of us.

― Sanpaku, Saturday, January 6, 2018 10:44 PM (seventeen seconds ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

It's not even just a matter of everyone knowing or not what is appropriate, it's knowing what is appropriate for different/individual people. If one acknowledges that and takes his or her behaviour from there you're well on the good path.

I think people do intentionally flirt, well some of us do (and I know I at times do), but only when it's completely clear that it is ok between me and that other person. And complimenting someone shouldn't be conflated with flirting either imo. I complimented a cashier I meet regularly on her new hair colour recently, because a) it looks great and b) I knew she'd wholly appreciate a compliment on it. It wan't even flirting. It was giving a compliment to someone you know will appreciate it.

But I agree a lot of people don't intuit the lines, though. And one should know that giving a compliment can for the other person feel like flirting. In which case one should refrain from doing so. Think of what the other person would respect, and if you don't know, steer clear. Don't be an asshole. It's a shame a lot of people don't intuitively know what is right or wrong or - regardless of upbringing - don't have that radar.

♫ very clever with maracas.jpg ♫ (Le Bateau Ivre), Saturday, 6 January 2018 23:01 (six years ago) link

Aside from inprisonment/ostracisation of the real sexual predators, the one thing I hope results from this is some clarification of where those red lines are. I think that there would be a vast difference even among avowed feminists as to where those lines are, and of the editorals, I'm most interested in the those that attempt to draw them.

I think we can all agree to not touch without clear consent, and not make overtures if told no. More debatable, but I think most might agree to not comment on parts of appearance a person has little control over, at least with strangers. To include not mentioning weight unless someone is clearly fishing for complements on their diet. But haircut/haircolor? I think most can agree that those aren't creepy: its the leering person who says them that is.

But it would certainly be nice if someone would provide a guide as to where the consensus is, if there is one. A set of rules. For those of us that don't know, at present job safety means silence.

Sanpaku, Saturday, 6 January 2018 23:35 (six years ago) link

there is no ultimate set of "not being a creep cheat codes" that apply equally, which is sorta the point?? you're not listening to what LBI is saying: it's knowing what is appropriate for different/individual people. If one acknowledges that and takes his or her behaviour from there you're well on the good path. i.e. you have to actually pay attention to the person you're talking to, put yourself in their shoes, to understand where to draw the line and guess what - that line might shift tomorrow depending on a lot of other stuff and it's up to you to stay sensitive to those shifts too. nobody ever said scoring was easy eh?

if the price of people not getting harrassed or fucked with, at work or anywhere else, is that some dudes feel a little unsure about whether or not they should put the moves on someone, that's an utterly tiny price to pay

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Saturday, 6 January 2018 23:47 (six years ago) link

but if you want a hard and fast rule? don't try to date people you work with, period. if the time ever comes for that rule to be broken, you'll know. it'll be as plain as the nose on your face.

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Saturday, 6 January 2018 23:48 (six years ago) link

yea dating colleagues is suuuuuuch a bad idea imo and ime

flappy bird, Sunday, 7 January 2018 00:00 (six years ago) link

as far as complimenting strangers- a lot of that has to do with tone. you can say "Nice hair color" in many different ways...

flappy bird, Sunday, 7 January 2018 00:00 (six years ago) link

Not trying to put moves on anyone. Just want to avoid career disgrace. I will remain silent til someone writes an authoritative guide. If you think this is easy, you're not on the spectrum.

Sanpaku, Sunday, 7 January 2018 00:14 (six years ago) link

“what about the men” - men

maura, Sunday, 7 January 2018 00:17 (six years ago) link

Tracer, thanks for clarifying what I couldn't get across more eloquently or clear, as that's exactly what I meant. There isn't a "guide to consensus" or "cheat codes" (ew). Sanpaku, you'll not find a golden rule about what's ok and what isn't from this, as you say is your desire. That doesn't exist now and didn't exist before Weinstein, simply because this is about people, individuals, and the interaction between them, about knowing where the line is. If you find it hard to tell, rest assured it's a line not to cross. It feels kind of icky having to spell this out...

♫ very clever with maracas.jpg ♫ (Le Bateau Ivre), Sunday, 7 January 2018 00:19 (six years ago) link

don't try to date people you work with, period.

I never have; tried to only once, and did with an ex-co-worker just once.

But where does that leave showbiz? They marry each other all the time.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 7 January 2018 00:26 (six years ago) link

So, the death of compliments, flirtatious or not. If saying someone's haircut or color is great is potentially sexual harassment, then there's a clear lesson: don't complement.

This is easy for me. I was told my sexual instincts would result in my death from AIDs in my teen years. I was warned about so much as touching drunken girls who collapsed in my bed in college. I gave up on intimacy with other humans decades ago. I haven't flirted or dated in decades. I have nothing to fear, or to lose.

But there are others who are younger and need a framework for how to build contact with other human beings. If this current public attention to acceptable and unacceptable behavior results in a clearer framework, then good. If it just makes social connection more vexing, we'll learn about it from the tallies of solitary never marrieds, birthrates, and suicides.

Sanpaku, Sunday, 7 January 2018 00:40 (six years ago) link

The kids will figure it out. They don't need old people to tell them how. That's the most certain thing in any of this.

El Tomboto, Sunday, 7 January 2018 00:48 (six years ago) link

otm

flappy bird, Sunday, 7 January 2018 00:48 (six years ago) link

I think they already have...

flappy bird, Sunday, 7 January 2018 00:48 (six years ago) link

also - get this - every generation has spent its horniest years being completely confused about how to do this

El Tomboto, Sunday, 7 January 2018 00:49 (six years ago) link

and Sanpaku, I don't mean that to be dismissive of the points you raise. I'm trying to be reassuring.

I'd give you a pat on the back and maybe a hug for making it through what you've had to deal with, if that would be okay with you.

El Tomboto, Sunday, 7 January 2018 00:52 (six years ago) link

What one learns in coding is that if you can't define, explicitly, what you want from a system, you don't understand it at all.

The range between wholly uninterested complement, to flirtation, to borderline harassment is very broad, and after months of this, we still don't have a heuristic for how those who might like to complement, but would also like to avoid potential for future career termination, should behave.

Saying it depends on the individual and situation is saying you are also clueless. If we can't find a consensus on this, then the safest course will remain silence.

Sanpaku, Sunday, 7 January 2018 00:56 (six years ago) link

every generation has spent its horniest years being completely confused about how to do this

otmfm

A is for (Aimless), Sunday, 7 January 2018 01:03 (six years ago) link

That's my disappointment with the present moment. It's an opportunity to clearly demarcate red lines, but as there's been practically zero effort to this end, its been mostly establishing that some celebrities are indeed creeps, and that some people will use the moment to political ends.

Sanpaku, Sunday, 7 January 2018 01:04 (six years ago) link

sanpaku the only thing i can say is that if you really think your compliments are going to be misinterpreted as come-ons then i think you're right to hold off on compliments until you feel more sure of how you come across.

and you really gotta get away from this red line thing. everyone's different, and everyone's relationship to you is different. there is no template.

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Sunday, 7 January 2018 01:12 (six years ago) link

OK, I like a challenge. Here's how to do this

1. If you want to say a nice thing about somebody's looks, you do it with NO ULTERIOR MOTIVE whatsoever, and you only say it about things that person has agency over. You can mention that a haircut / dye job looks great. You can talk about fashion choices. You can even, if you couch it right, mention other cosmetic choices, like "hey, can I just say, your toenails look great with that color." But you do this in when you are complimenting without concern for your future bedmate options. Strictly. It is not to be done as an opener to hitting one anyone. Easy enough? Good.

2. If you want to hug someone or pat them on the back, ask them if that's okay. "Can I give you a hug?" "I think you deserve a pat on the back, is that ok?" Again, this is done with NO expectations of further contact or intimacy.

3. If you want to compliment somebody as an opening gambit on the way to furtive glances over coffee or wine or whatever, then the subject of the compliment had better be something more substantial than the shape of their buttocks or their inseam or what the fuck ever. "I thought the way you handled that situation the other day was amazing. Would you be interested in [innocuous activity in a public place] sometime together, just you and me?"

This is an incomplete guide to not being a creep. But does it seem helpful?

El Tomboto, Sunday, 7 January 2018 01:25 (six years ago) link

xp:
Do you understand, that if you generalize this instruction, it means that no person should flirt? Because among the range of individuals, some outlier will interpret complementing a haircut as harassment.

I complement others maybe once every few months, but not at my place of work. A week ago I complemented the woman who staffs the storage I rent on her new haircut. She smiled and seemed happy that someone noticed. I had no sexual interest in her, just wanted to brighten the day of a middle aged woman stuck behind a desk with no windows.

However, the assumption that the kids will figure this out, or that everyone will come to understand the norms, assumes that others share your intuitions, social background, and experience. Maybe adequate for the sloppy reasoning of legal work, but a nonstarter for clarity. If everyone can come to a conclusion that sexualization of coworkers is problematic, but no one can come to a set of guidelines to prevent it absolutely, while permitting friendly socialization, it just perpetuates the problem. Those who find the new social world confounding just turtle up, those who look for loopholes continue to do so.

Sanpaku, Sunday, 7 January 2018 01:33 (six years ago) link

El Tomboto: that's the sort of thing I think should be hashed over in the mass media, yes.

Sanpaku, Sunday, 7 January 2018 01:34 (six years ago) link

Do you understand, that if you generalize this instruction, it means that no person should flirt? Because among the range of individuals, some outlier will interpret complementing a haircut as harassment.

wait are you flirting or complimenting someone's haircut?

i feel like there is a really big, basic thing that is getting in the way of us understanding each other here and i wish i knew what it was!

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Sunday, 7 January 2018 01:47 (six years ago) link

there are no red lines. there is reading the room and being respectful of the person you’re communicating with by listening to them and talking to them and, yes, ditching your ulterior motives. if you’re on the spectrum you’ll have to work harder, which sucks and is unfair but also: that’s life.

(can we move this tangent to another thread because it’s sort of annoying to have this discussion marshaled by men. thank you)

maura, Sunday, 7 January 2018 02:30 (six years ago) link

Unfortunately, there is. My sister asserts Trump's behavior is normal workplace tomfoolery. "That's just the way people behaved," says a 55 year old CPA. Some get [creeped out](Weinsteins step down as Miramax CEOs) when personal acquaintances mention their new haircut. Still others like myself suggest we need clearer lines between acceptable complements and flirtation, and unacceptable sexual harassment. I expect the line will be much closer to La Lechera's than my sister's, but for all the attention in the media, there's precious little published writing devoted to delineating it.

Sanpaku, Sunday, 7 January 2018 02:30 (six years ago) link

i mean sure there’s THAT red line.

my request to move this discussion stands btw

maura, Sunday, 7 January 2018 02:34 (six years ago) link

maura otm

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Sunday, 7 January 2018 02:35 (six years ago) link

Afraid the train has been off the tracks in this thread for several months.

Sanpaku, Sunday, 7 January 2018 02:38 (six years ago) link

maura was pretty clear with her request. don’t make it worse by being salty

start another thread if you want. just don’t do what you keep trying do in ~this~ thread

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Sunday, 7 January 2018 02:52 (six years ago) link

I'm removing my bookmark, and am unlikely to return, but have you seen the title of this thread?

Sanpaku, Sunday, 7 January 2018 03:09 (six years ago) link

Just start a male flirting thread

albvivertine, Sunday, 7 January 2018 03:15 (six years ago) link

Maura otm x 1000.

♫ very clever with maracas.jpg ♫ (Le Bateau Ivre), Sunday, 7 January 2018 03:27 (six years ago) link

Oh my god

Ridley Scott: I haven’t ruled out Harvey Weinstein making a comeback

flappy bird, Sunday, 7 January 2018 03:31 (six years ago) link

 I had no sexual interest in her, just wanted to brighten the day of a middle aged woman stuck behind a desk with no windows.

Maybe she was having a perfectly good day without your fuckin' input.

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Sunday, 7 January 2018 04:02 (six years ago) link

Xps that link to la lachera’s post - the WHOLE POINT of her post was that she HAD NOT done anything to her hair, that it looked exactly the same as every other time she’d seen this guy, which is why it creeped her out - she wasn’t creeped out that a guy noticed she’d cut her hair, she was creeped out bc he clearly had ulterior motives in saying such a weird and pointless thing to her

just1n3, Sunday, 7 January 2018 04:41 (six years ago) link

(can we move this tangent to another thread because it’s sort of annoying to have this discussion marshaled by men. thank you)

Sure but I don’t think anybody is playing referee here, except you just now, and men are the ones who apparently need shit explained to them in boolean algebra so they don’t come off even worse than they already think they do.

Sanpaku is asking sincere questions and is confessing to ASD symptoms and comorbid side effects, but yeah, let’s tell him and his enablers where to stick it, we’re the problem.

El Tomboto, Sunday, 7 January 2018 05:16 (six years ago) link

I’d love to live in a world where we don’t need a lifehacker post with bullet points about how to say a nice thing to a person without coming across like an oleaginous blob of erect cocks that can talk but apparently that isn’t in the cards

El Tomboto, Sunday, 7 January 2018 05:21 (six years ago) link

This conversation is roughly on a par with people who complain that feminism means they can't hold a door open for a woman anymore

Chuck_Tatum, Sunday, 7 January 2018 05:56 (six years ago) link

I mean if you aren’t holding the door open for everyone you were raised wrong

The Bridge of Ban Louis J (silby), Sunday, 7 January 2018 06:04 (six years ago) link

hell yea

flappy bird, Sunday, 7 January 2018 06:31 (six years ago) link

i feel like there is a really big, basic thing that is getting in the way of us understanding each other here and i wish i knew what it was!

― illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Sunday, January 7, 2018 1:47 AM (seven hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

don't wish to prolong this conversation if ppl think it would be better had somewhere else, but I just wanted to say that I relate to a lot of the confusion that Sanpaku is expressing here, and (cf Tracer) to the feeling of a big basic gap in understanding between myself and other ppl when I read discussions of this stuff, something more fundamental in how you relate to other humans even aside from specific issues of flirting and complimenting etc - I wish I knew what the solution was! (if there is one)

soref, Sunday, 7 January 2018 09:36 (six years ago) link

Literally all anyone is suggesting is that this interesting and possibly useful discussion move to its own thread, Tom.

Andrew Farrell, Sunday, 7 January 2018 09:43 (six years ago) link

So how bout those Weinsteins eh

remember the lmao (darraghmac), Sunday, 7 January 2018 11:30 (six years ago) link

not a fan, honestly

pee-wee and the power men (bizarro gazzara), Sunday, 7 January 2018 11:32 (six years ago) link

for reference: Fired for being nice? a Sanpaku help thread

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Sunday, 7 January 2018 11:49 (six years ago) link

Well that's kinda dickish. Digression was interesting, and my male flirting/etc behaviour or whatever thread idea was a serious suggestion. Could actually be useful, even.

albvivertine, Sunday, 7 January 2018 12:28 (six years ago) link

that's not a flirting thread! but i suppose it could be used for that purpose? i have asked for a retitle tho so it's a little less dickish :)

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Sunday, 7 January 2018 12:39 (six years ago) link

I've retitled that thread per Tracers request in MRF and I hope Sanpaku sticks around to particpate in it or to continue to participate in this one.

I do want to say that I think it's lame that so many people suggested that Sanpaku leave the thread. His thoughts and questions were relevant to the discussion and well-intentioned. There are necessarily going to be people in the wake of huge events like these who want to seek clarification about the issues that have been raised. It doesn't benefit anybody to shut them down.

how's life, Sunday, 7 January 2018 13:35 (six years ago) link

I think it was a digression that needed its own thread

I think this is a good thread not to be too clueless in

I think that if that thread were to become a thread where similar shutdown requests were made and subsequently treated as disobeyed orders then ilx needs to have a chat about that maybe

remember the lmao (darraghmac), Sunday, 7 January 2018 13:53 (six years ago) link

I do want to say that I think it's lame that so many people suggested that Sanpaku leave the thread. His thoughts and questions were relevant to the discussion and well-intentioned. There are necessarily going to be people in the wake of huge events like these who want to seek clarification about the issues that have been raised. It doesn't benefit anybody to shut them down.

― how's life, Sunday, January 7, 2018

OTM. I'd also like to add that telling Sanpaku to 'git gud' (as the gamers say) is incredibly counterproductive, even harmful. For everyone.

pomenitul, Sunday, 7 January 2018 14:01 (six years ago) link

well, i did not expect to find my name pop up in here, or that not-exactly-relevant-to-workplace-harassment comment about the hair* -- which was weird for ways i obviously can't explain well enough because of the profound comprehension gap this thread is currently experiencing. a good place to start: don't actively flirt with your coworkers.

* Justine was partially right, but also 1) this did not happen at work 2) i did not intuit sexual menace from this comment 3) it struck me as memorable because of how scripted it felt, like it was from a reader's digest "list of things to say to women if you want to make a positive impression" 4) this is why the word "creepy" is grossly insufficient and way too vague for describing the range of dnw behaviors we are trying to help people avoid

good luck everyone.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Sunday, 7 January 2018 15:27 (six years ago) link

"This conversation is roughly on a par with people who complain that feminism means they can't hold a door open for a woman anymore

― Chuck_Tatum,"

haha, yes, I just popped in here and baffled by this shit. but you know, that NYT op-ed by Merkin kind of leaned in that direction. FFS.

akm, Sunday, 7 January 2018 15:34 (six years ago) link

seriously
it's disingenuous at best

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Sunday, 7 January 2018 15:37 (six years ago) link

i’m just speaking as me, not for anyone else

it’s hard enough to wrestle with the high profile rape, abuse & harassment that this thead was revived to ultimately discuss.

i don’t want to come here for that ~and~ to help some of you interrogate how to be around women or how to flirt or what is acceptable behaviour. it’s too much. and for me in the current time, even though they’re all part of the same thing, for now they kind of have to be separate discussions. i think the seriousness of the high profile stuff needs to be dealt with and weighed on its own here, and the out in the world flirting/interactions “how to be” wrestled with elsewhere.

you can talk about it. you’re not being silenced or gagged. i just would rather not have to have that conversation here along with it. because it’s too much.

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Sunday, 7 January 2018 15:40 (six years ago) link

It's like you can't even compliment a woman on her haircut by telling her you'd like to smell her hair anymore

mag gerwig! (Whiney G. Weingarten), Sunday, 7 January 2018 15:50 (six years ago) link

Sorry all I misinterpreted Maura’s post and clearly overreacted.

El Tomboto, Sunday, 7 January 2018 15:52 (six years ago) link

You gotta stick to that bedtime, buddy

The Bridge of Ban Louis J (silby), Sunday, 7 January 2018 16:13 (six years ago) link

Sure but I don’t think anybody is playing referee here, except you just now, and men are the ones who apparently need shit explained to them in boolean algebra so they don’t come off even worse than they already think they do.

Sanpaku is asking sincere questions and is confessing to ASD symptoms and comorbid side effects, but yeah, let’s tell him and his enablers where to stick it, we’re the problem.

yeah this was weird, condescending, kind of defensive overreaction. probably shouldn't accuse women of "playing referee" esp in this thread.

it's made pretty clear how to not be a jerk in public and professional settings. i don't get the outpouring of self-pity for the man who now has to question shit before he does it. like, we all make sacrifices, every day, to live in society. grow the fuck up.

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Sunday, 7 January 2018 16:15 (six years ago) link

thank you vg for articulating my discomfort.

maura, Sunday, 7 January 2018 16:17 (six years ago) link

np <3

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Sunday, 7 January 2018 16:18 (six years ago) link

also daphne merkin sucks

maura, Sunday, 7 January 2018 16:20 (six years ago) link

silby stop being my mom

El Tomboto, Sunday, 7 January 2018 18:32 (six years ago) link

Craig McLachlan unchecked: https://t.co/biEDXY4Mz1

Haribo Hancock (sic), Sunday, 7 January 2018 19:31 (six years ago) link

ugh

and his denials in that piece

yuuuuuk

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Sunday, 7 January 2018 19:57 (six years ago) link

tonight should be interesting. saw some more posters go up in LA with Seth Meyers and others on them captioned "WE ALL KNOW," assuming it's more conservative astro-turfing.

flappy bird, Sunday, 7 January 2018 22:21 (six years ago) link

sorry, "WE ALL KNEW*"

flappy bird, Sunday, 7 January 2018 22:22 (six years ago) link

and his denials in that piece


"I totally didn't do any of this, but if I had, these women would be pissweak for not understanding the vibrant sexual environment of a Rocky Horror production"

Haribo Hancock (sic), Sunday, 7 January 2018 22:52 (six years ago) link

Yeah I find myself utterly unsurprised that McLachlan is an asshole, thats a disgusting story and for him to just outright dismiss all the people telling it is gross.

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Sunday, 7 January 2018 23:08 (six years ago) link

like why would you ever go on record in such a vile condescending manner

unless you are a raging egomaniac which he clearly is

guh

i saw his first run in Rocky back in 92 when I was in high school. not sure what to do with that now.
at the time i enjoyed it. oh well.
bleh

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Sunday, 7 January 2018 23:22 (six years ago) link

Daphne Merkin does suck. I know her from her weird descriptions of the vagina.

Yerac, Monday, 8 January 2018 22:05 (six years ago) link

@dtortorici
It’s come to my attention that a legacy print magazine is planning to publish a piece “outing” the woman who started the Shitty Media Men list. All I can say is: don’t. The risk of doxxing is high. It’s not the right thing to do.

@Nicole_Cliffe
My unconfirmed intel on this is that it’s Harper’s but I would sure welcome a denial by Harper’s or, if it’s true, a decision to reconsider before the women of media never ever ever write for Harper’s again.

@Nicole_Cliffe
If it IS Katie Roiphe for @Harpers, which I have now heard from two different sources, the backlash is well and truly here and it will NOT be pretty.

mookieproof, Tuesday, 9 January 2018 20:08 (six years ago) link

oh lord

Simon H., Tuesday, 9 January 2018 20:13 (six years ago) link

now Stan Lee? christ

frogbs, Tuesday, 9 January 2018 20:13 (six years ago) link

France, a paradise for women...... (irony irony)

Ludo, Tuesday, 9 January 2018 20:23 (six years ago) link

Ugh, Katie Roiphe.

tokyo rosemary, Tuesday, 9 January 2018 20:35 (six years ago) link

WHAT DID I TELL YOU ABOUT ALL THE SLIMY LADIES OF THE '90S COMING BACK

maura, Tuesday, 9 January 2018 22:12 (six years ago) link

Can't wait for the return of the Shalit sisters.

tokyo rosemary, Tuesday, 9 January 2018 22:20 (six years ago) link

now Stan Lee? christ

not... not Stan Lee

of all people to be accused of exploiting workers

of... of using an avuncular cover persona to take rapacious advantage of underpaid employees

who would dare suggest that Stan Lee, of all people, would abuse a position of power and privilege

that he would repeatedly belittle financial dependents with mocking language that reinforced his dominance

how could he go against a lifetime of showing care, respect and honour to people whose destiny he influenced

Haribo Hancock (sic), Tuesday, 9 January 2018 22:21 (six years ago) link

oh, Stan Lee. fair enough then.

Haribo Hancock (sic), Tuesday, 9 January 2018 22:22 (six years ago) link

lol rosemary i had the exact same thought

maura, Tuesday, 9 January 2018 22:36 (six years ago) link

lol that was not a declaration of disbelief

frogbs, Tuesday, 9 January 2018 22:37 (six years ago) link

i'm not inclined to defend stan lee about much of anything but the only source for this one so far is the daily mail, a publication so shitty that wikipedia won't even let you use it as a source

(The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Tuesday, 9 January 2018 22:42 (six years ago) link

agree that it looks both vague and shifty

Haribo Hancock (sic), Tuesday, 9 January 2018 23:09 (six years ago) link

If you've ever looked after a 95-year-old person, they are not themselves a lot of the time. Any nursing company or home employee should understand that. And it has no relation to Lee shafting Jack Kirby (or countless others).

Chuck_Tatum, Tuesday, 9 January 2018 23:15 (six years ago) link

fuck Katie Roiphe for real

horseshoe, Tuesday, 9 January 2018 23:57 (six years ago) link

So we've got Daphne Merkin and Katie Roiphe on team "backlash." SHOCKER. We just need Caitlin Flanagan, Camille Paglia, and who am I missing here?

— Sarah Seltzer (@sarahmseltzer) January 9, 2018

horseshoe, Wednesday, 10 January 2018 00:01 (six years ago) link

Whatever you think of the list doxxing the creators would be a very, very reckless, even malicious thing to do.

treeship 2, Wednesday, 10 January 2018 00:03 (six years ago) link

would gawker have doxxed the creator? because it doesn't seem like all that different a thing from the issue that had righteous journalists resigning 30 months ago

(nb i do not support doxxing the creator)

mookieproof, Wednesday, 10 January 2018 00:12 (six years ago) link

im assuming that question is disingenuous but hell let's relitigate gawker again why don't we

khat person (jim in vancouver), Wednesday, 10 January 2018 00:15 (six years ago) link

I don’t think it was disingenuous. I also don’t think gawker would have doxxed them but not for principled reasons. In today’s climate they would have needed to position themselves as people who supported the list and they wouldn’t want to violate the privacy of their allies.

treeship 2, Wednesday, 10 January 2018 00:19 (six years ago) link

http://www.france24.com/en/20180109-france-star-catherine-deneuve-defends-mens-right-chat-women-metoo-weinstein

― Ludo, Tuesday, January 9, 2018 3:23 PM (three hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

So disgusted by this, and so very not surprised.

Van Horn Street, Wednesday, 10 January 2018 00:22 (six years ago) link

Gawker tended to punch up, if only slightly at times

Simon H., Wednesday, 10 January 2018 00:34 (six years ago) link

Gawker had a fucked-up idea of 'up' (and as we don't know who the originator is, they may well have been genuinely 'up') and it would have brought a ton of clicks - they would certainly have done it if it wouldn't lose them Jezebel.

Andrew Farrell, Wednesday, 10 January 2018 09:21 (six years ago) link

Also punching up isn't a real thing it's just your mates agreeing that it's OK when you do it

remember the lmao (darraghmac), Wednesday, 10 January 2018 10:08 (six years ago) link

your mates agreeing that it's OK when you do it isn't a real thing

conrad, Wednesday, 10 January 2018 10:39 (six years ago) link

xp then why isn't ridiculing a head of state as bad as ridiculing a homeless person who asks for money? whats the logic if its not relative power

ogmor, Wednesday, 10 January 2018 10:41 (six years ago) link

Beg a q much?

remember the lmao (darraghmac), Wednesday, 10 January 2018 10:47 (six years ago) link

remember the lmao would like to suggest that perhaps ridiculing a head of state is not good and perhaps ridiculing a homeless person is good

conrad, Wednesday, 10 January 2018 10:52 (six years ago) link

I considered throwing an if in there but thought that would be insulting

ogmor, Wednesday, 10 January 2018 10:54 (six years ago) link

XP he would not but keep trying and crying

remember the lmao (darraghmac), Wednesday, 10 January 2018 10:56 (six years ago) link

are you going to say what you think or should we just be ignoring all these interjections entirely

ogmor, Wednesday, 10 January 2018 10:59 (six years ago) link

new thread?

conrad, Wednesday, 10 January 2018 11:02 (six years ago) link

Recommend the latter XP

Non xp yes

remember the lmao (darraghmac), Wednesday, 10 January 2018 11:03 (six years ago) link

I'm interrupting my break for one tweet only, so take a screenshot: I created the shitty men in media list. You don't need to doxx me, just head to my Instagram account, it's easy to find out where I hang out if you want to say hi.

— Lexi Alexander ‎ (@Lexialex) January 10, 2018

mookieproof, Wednesday, 10 January 2018 23:01 (six years ago) link

yeah other people have been i am spartacusing this all day

maura, Thursday, 11 January 2018 00:05 (six years ago) link

WaPo reporter Joel Achenbach once wrote that Hillary Clinton "needs a radio-controlled shock collar so that aides can zap her when she starts to get screechy."

He was just suspended for 'inappropriate workplace conduct.'

Noticing a pattern yet...?https://t.co/cLtJu3upUZ

— Caroline O. (@RVAwonk) January 10, 2018

Monster fatberg (Phil D.), Thursday, 11 January 2018 00:09 (six years ago) link

Rep. Courtney Rogers, R-Goodlettsville, said women have a "responsibility" to maintain their own decorum.
"I've had female lobbyists walk into my office dressed in such a manner that I had to fight the urge to laugh," Rogers said, adding that's been the case for "some of our younger interns."

https://www.tennessean.com/story/news/politics/2018/01/10/lawmakers-joke-cite-provocative-clothing-during-legislative-sexual-harassment-training/1020048001/

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 11 January 2018 03:27 (six years ago) link

hey, question: the #metoo #timesup nthwave feminist movement has certainly outgrown fuckin' weinstein; can/could we start a new thread that isn't predicated on that guy to discuss this stuff moving forward?

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 11 January 2018 03:28 (six years ago) link

good idea!! go ahead if you feel the power move you

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 11 January 2018 03:33 (six years ago) link

by gosh i think i do

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 11 January 2018 03:42 (six years ago) link

Heard about James Rosen of Fox on the way home today.

https://www.npr.org/2018/01/10/577093288/top-fox-news-d-c-reporter-james-rosen-left-network-after-harassment-claims

nickn, Thursday, 11 January 2018 04:17 (six years ago) link

ok so is this thread now just the dumping ground for accused rapists

flappy bird, Thursday, 11 January 2018 05:55 (six years ago) link

not to split hairs but "fourth wave feminism" feels like a different topic than "rich and powerful men accused sexual assault discuss them here"

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Thursday, 11 January 2018 08:33 (six years ago) link

Bit of a headline fail TBH.

kim jong deal (suzy), Thursday, 11 January 2018 09:34 (six years ago) link

Great piece from the person who actually started the shitty media men list:

https://www.thecut.com/2018/01/moira-donegan-i-started-the-media-men-list.html

xyzzzz__, Thursday, 11 January 2018 11:36 (six years ago) link

This escalated when I learned Katie Roiphe would be publishing my name in a forthcoming piece in Harper’s magazine. In early December, Roiphe had emailed me to ask if I wanted to comment for a Harper’s story she was writing on the “feminist moment.”

Nice

Chuck_Tatum, Thursday, 11 January 2018 14:14 (six years ago) link

Probably last TV appearance:

http://deadline.com/2018/01/james-franco-seth-meyers-take-knocks-ally-sheedy-sexual-misconduct-1202240604/

... (Eazy), Thursday, 11 January 2018 14:40 (six years ago) link

https://www.facebook.com/OfficialElizaDushku/posts/1769957739689557

When I was 12 years old, while filming “True Lies”, I was sexually molested by Joel Kramer, one of Hollywood’s leading stunt coordinators.

... (Eazy), Saturday, 13 January 2018 18:37 (six years ago) link

ugh god that is gutwrenching
fuck

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 13 January 2018 18:59 (six years ago) link

the part where she talks about suffering an injury on set shortly thereafter...fucking hell

omar little, Saturday, 13 January 2018 19:00 (six years ago) link

yeah

and there’s no way he hasn’t done the same with other girls throughout his career. it’s so awful & sickening. and it’s true that he has worked consistently - he was stunt coordinator on Blade Runner 2049 ffs

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 13 January 2018 19:09 (six years ago) link

fYI the 'shitty media men' list is on youtube, though you have to listen to some choad walk you through it person by person and misprounce places like "the Baffler" as "the baffier". a couple of surprising and familiar names on there to anyone on ilx.

akm, Saturday, 13 January 2018 20:05 (six years ago) link

I heard about one of them

omar little, Saturday, 13 January 2018 20:09 (six years ago) link

yeah ugh i read that this morning
modelling is such a cesspool for that kind of behaviour, and male modelling even more so. it’s great that they are starting to speak out, especially against such heavy hitters like Weber & Testino

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 13 January 2018 20:38 (six years ago) link

Also, some good/provocative thoughts from Margaret Atwood:

https://www.theglobeandmail.com/opinion/am-i-a-bad-feminist/article37591823/

... (Eazy), Saturday, 13 January 2018 21:21 (six years ago) link

margaret atwood's thing is a fucking travesty and a direct insult to the survivors of a toxic culture in Canada's in writing programs

sean gramophone, Saturday, 13 January 2018 21:30 (six years ago) link

Is that the thing she’s describing, or her article just posted?

Andrew Farrell, Sunday, 14 January 2018 09:09 (six years ago) link

“I went on a date with Aziz Ansari. It turned into the worst night of my life” https://babe.net/2018/01/13/aziz-ansari-28355

flappy bird, Sunday, 14 January 2018 13:30 (six years ago) link

I thought the Atwood piece was fine, she’s not wrong about extremism and vigilante justice. I don’t know about the UBC situation but she didn’t attack the victim, she criticized the administration and many others’ “guilty until proven innocent” attitude.

flappy bird, Sunday, 14 January 2018 13:33 (six years ago) link

But Aziz Ansari isn’t an 18-year-old. He’s a 34-year-old actor and comedian of global renown

I guess that's why comics' stage persona is called AN ACT?

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 14 January 2018 15:23 (six years ago) link

aziz also fashions himself as a “relatable” expert on love and dating.

maura, Sunday, 14 January 2018 15:56 (six years ago) link

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/23453112

the elevation of comedians into experts on humanity has been pretty bad for society

maura, Sunday, 14 January 2018 15:57 (six years ago) link

golden globes really dropping the... uh... globes

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Sunday, 14 January 2018 16:40 (six years ago) link

maura otm. Reminds me of something Norm Macdonald said: “Calling comedians modern day philosophers must be really insulting to... modern day philosophers.”

flappy bird, Sunday, 14 January 2018 16:56 (six years ago) link

tbf lots of modern day philosophers are also sex criminals

The Bridge of Ban Louis J (silby), Sunday, 14 January 2018 17:00 (six years ago) link

Comedians are good at observations but not necessarily advice

Evan, Sunday, 14 January 2018 17:32 (six years ago) link

UBC did handle their inquiry poorly, but Atwood's article is misrepresenting the open letter she signed, which had zero sympathy for victims.

while my dirk gently weeps (symsymsym), Sunday, 14 January 2018 17:52 (six years ago) link

The following statement is from Signatory Margaret Atwood and was drafted with input and guidance from UBC Student Elaine Corden.
We’re sorry we hurt any survivor people out there by seeming lacking in empathy for your experiences. Our letter was not intended to wound you, but it seems to have done, and for that we apologize. We do not intend to discourage anyone from speaking up in future, and hope the University will put in place a workable support system. To survivors of abuse, we were, are, and will be your allies.

Sincerely,

Margaret Atwood

I really do not see an attack on the victim whatsoever.

Van Horn Street, Sunday, 14 January 2018 19:22 (six years ago) link

maybe people should just stop sign those 'open letter' things. They often feel itchy to me. Like, 5 people are really behind the idea epressed in the particular letter, the rest of the people are either famous 'backers', or people that want to be on this list with famous people themselves...

otoh Atwoods piece in The Globe & Mail seems perfectly reasonable/fine.

Ludo, Sunday, 14 January 2018 20:42 (six years ago) link

I read about Ansari's book, and my first thought was it should be titled, like all Jackson Browne albums, Fuck Me, I'm Sensitive.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 14 January 2018 20:48 (six years ago) link

that is a bullshit take on Jackson Browne Dr. M

she carries a torch. two torches, actually (Joan Crawford Loves Chachi), Sunday, 14 January 2018 20:53 (six years ago) link

is it tho

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Sunday, 14 January 2018 22:11 (six years ago) link

yes. all Jackson Browne albums should be titled Fuck Me, David Lindley is Amazing

Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Sunday, 14 January 2018 22:18 (six years ago) link

well the whole band tbh

she carries a torch. two torches, actually (Joan Crawford Loves Chachi), Monday, 15 January 2018 00:59 (six years ago) link

that was the apology for the open letter, VHS, not the letter itself.

while my dirk gently weeps (symsymsym), Monday, 15 January 2018 01:58 (six years ago) link

judge for yourself: http://www.ubcaccountable.com/open-letter/steven-galloway-ubc/

while my dirk gently weeps (symsymsym), Monday, 15 January 2018 01:59 (six years ago) link

This is a local Houston story, but I am curious if similar situations are coming to light w/Theatre Companies in other cities.

http://www.houstonchronicle.com/news/houston-texas/houston/article/Actors-describe-toxic-bullying-atmosphere-during-12492467.php

Never Learn To Mike Love (C. Grisso/McCain), Monday, 15 January 2018 02:14 (six years ago) link

Similar stories about other theaters have definitely happened, even before the Weinstein moment. Shockingly they seem to have in common a male founder/director around whom the entire company orbits.

The Bridge of Ban Louis J (silby), Monday, 15 January 2018 02:34 (six years ago) link

i withdraw the cheap Jackson Browne joke, tho Daryl Hannah might not.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Monday, 15 January 2018 03:09 (six years ago) link

Fact of the day(TM): Jackson Brown wrote “these days” when he was 16!

treeship 2, Monday, 15 January 2018 03:16 (six years ago) link

but anyway, the margaret atwood article is probably the best thing i've read about this cultural moment.

treeship 2, Monday, 15 January 2018 04:21 (six years ago) link

why?

while my dirk gently weeps (symsymsym), Monday, 15 January 2018 05:52 (six years ago) link

As for vigilante justice – condemnation without a trial – it begins as a response to a lack of justice – either the system is corrupt, as in prerevolutionary France, or there isn't one, as in the Wild West – so people take things into their own hands. But understandable and temporary vigilante justice can morph into a culturally solidified lynch-mob habit, in which the available mode of justice is thrown out the window, and extralegal power structures are put into place and maintained. The Cosa Nostra, for instance, began as a resistance to political tyranny.

The #MeToo moment is a symptom of a broken legal system. All too frequently, women and other sexual-abuse complainants couldn't get a fair hearing through institutions – including corporate structures – so they used a new tool: the internet. Stars fell from the skies. This has been very effective, and has been seen as a massive wake-up call. But what next? The legal system can be fixed, or our society could dispose of it. Institutions, corporations and workplaces can houseclean, or they can expect more stars to fall, and also a lot of asteroids.

If the legal system is bypassed because it is seen as ineffectual, what will take its place? Who will be the new power brokers? It won't be the Bad Feminists like me. We are acceptable neither to Right nor to Left. In times of extremes, extremists win. Their ideology becomes a religion, anyone who doesn't puppet their views is seen as an apostate, a heretic or a traitor, and moderates in the middle are annihilated. Fiction writers are particularly suspect because they write about human beings, and people are morally ambiguous. The aim of ideology is to eliminate ambiguity.

this part

treeship 2, Monday, 15 January 2018 06:05 (six years ago) link

especially paragraph 2. she recognizes why this is happening, and why it's good and necessary, but then says that what ultimately needs to happen are actual institutional and legal reforms. it can't just be about accusations and tarnished reputations -- 1.) the public will lose interest eventually and 2.) this doesn't establish the conditions for a better world. atwood also recognizes that the new institutions that are set up are going to need to recognize the rights of the accused to defend themselves, which is a taboo thing to want to focus on right now, but it's the essence of any just system.

treeship 2, Monday, 15 January 2018 06:12 (six years ago) link

otm

flappy bird, Monday, 15 January 2018 06:17 (six years ago) link

Well an important feature of criminal justice is that it must be designed to routinely fail to convict people for lack of evidence, even in a better world where calling the cops is not a miserable and traumatic waste of time for many or most survivors of sexual assault, somehow. I’m more than okay with outing, outrage, and censure continuing indefinitely.

The Bridge of Ban Louis J (silby), Monday, 15 January 2018 07:06 (six years ago) link

Which is to say, naming, censuring, and firing rapists without being subject to the criminal justice system is good and if it really is a trend it’s making the world more just

The Bridge of Ban Louis J (silby), Monday, 15 January 2018 07:08 (six years ago) link

I mean of course por que no los dos but yknow I’m just posting online at bedtime

The Bridge of Ban Louis J (silby), Monday, 15 January 2018 07:09 (six years ago) link

such a gross vacuum. where all the rapists (those on tv) lose their shows, law be damned.

what do you figure when the stakes are actually real? i assume they always are for a victim, especially when so many people who've gone on record to date have stressed how hard it is, how they want it to matter?

i guess more important, what do you do when you're tired of seeing people 'outed in outrage, censured and fired' and it doesn't sate you anymore? it's probably just about as boring as having the bedtime opinion that your cheap idea of justice isn't disgusting.

lion in winter, Monday, 15 January 2018 08:53 (six years ago) link

A middle-aged gay male friend writes on FB:

There is nothing in this account of a night with Aziz Ansari that almost any gay man in New York since the 1960s could not recount again and again.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Monday, 15 January 2018 14:45 (six years ago) link

yes the problem is the way masculinity is taught and learned, that’s pretty obvious

maura, Monday, 15 January 2018 15:17 (six years ago) link

just gonna leave this here

"Apparently there is a whole country full of young women who don’t know how to call a cab"

https://www.theatlantic.com/entertainment/archive/2018/01/the-humiliation-of-aziz-ansari/550541/

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Monday, 15 January 2018 17:54 (six years ago) link

There have been women I dated who were v communicative which has always been my preferred approach but I’ve also dated women who thought it was silly I asked to kiss them or w/e when I thought the signals were unclear, imo it’s not just men who’ve reinforced this idea that men are supposed to “just know” and I don’t say this at all to implicate women but it’s easy for me to imagine certain dudes claiming to “listen to women” while only listening to the ones who told them “I like when a guy just grabs me without asking”. ESP if guys who are dehumanizing women are the types to let one woman’s “truth about women” stand in for all

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Monday, 15 January 2018 18:24 (six years ago) link

That article morbs posted seems bad lol

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Monday, 15 January 2018 18:24 (six years ago) link

That Atlantic article is getting torched in a lot of places already.

Yerac, Monday, 15 January 2018 18:28 (six years ago) link

Worth mentioning that a short two months ago — not even, november 22 — that writer, Caitlin Flanagan published a piece titled “To Hell With the Witch-Hunt Debate
The post-Weinstein moment isn’t a war on sex. It’s a long-overdue revolution.”

Obviously there’s been a tipping point of some kind, with people who are in sympathy with the goals of this movement — including Margaret Atwood! — expressing reservations about how this is playing out. You could say that’s “bad lol” if you want I guess but I think it’s worth registering that these critics are not reactionary voices.

treeship 2, Monday, 15 January 2018 18:31 (six years ago) link

Fwiw I have no investment in Aziz Ansari and think his show is terrible and that he was most likely a disrespectful asshole to that woman. But I agree with Flanagan that it’s troubling that anonymous accusers can just torch someone’s reputation like that. It’s at least very different from anything we’ve seen before.

treeship 2, Monday, 15 January 2018 18:35 (six years ago) link

Atwood does articulate well the semantic dismissals of the witch-hunt analogy:

A digression: Witch talk. Another point against me is that I compared the UBC proceedings to the Salem witchcraft trials, in which a person was guilty because accused, since the rules of evidence were such that you could not be found innocent. My Good Feminist accusers take exception to this comparison. They think I was comparing them to the teenaged Salem witchfinders and calling them hysterical little girls. I was alluding instead to the structure in place at the trials themselves.

... (Eazy), Monday, 15 January 2018 18:36 (six years ago) link

“Starting to think things went too far when the woman from gone girl did that thing... let’s go back to how things were”

Kinda feel like the onus should be on treeship types to paint a way forward if they’re not happy w the current one! Rather than generically co-signing women standing athwart history and yelling stop. How should this conversation happen that it isn’t? Is “we’ve gone too far” a question worth discussing or should that question be reframed so that it focuses on justice & better treatment of other people? (I haven’t read the Atwood article yet but the Flanagan one is terrible)

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Monday, 15 January 2018 18:36 (six years ago) link

Treeship types!

treeship 2, Monday, 15 January 2018 18:36 (six years ago) link

Ugh, Caitlin Flanagan.

tokyo rosemary, Monday, 15 January 2018 18:37 (six years ago) link

apparently we're staying in the weinstein thread

Apparently there is a whole country full of young women who don’t know how to call a cab, and who have spent a lot of time picking out pretty outfits for dates they hoped would be nights to remember. They’re angry and temporarily powerful and last night they destroyed a man who didn’t deserve it.

set phasers to hyperbolic

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Monday, 15 January 2018 18:37 (six years ago) link

RIP to ansari, he is destroyed

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Monday, 15 January 2018 18:37 (six years ago) link

It definitely shouldn’t be me. Flanagan is a feminist writer who was heartily pro me-too but was skeptical of a thing that happened yesterday. That’s someone to listen to, disagree with, whatever, but not just dismiss.

treeship 2, Monday, 15 January 2018 18:38 (six years ago) link

xp deej

treeship 2, Monday, 15 January 2018 18:40 (six years ago) link

Fwiw I have no investment in Aziz Ansari and think his show is terrible and that he was most likely a disrespectful asshole to that woman. But I agree with Flanagan that it’s troubling that anonymous accusers can just torch someone’s reputation like that. It’s at least very different from anything we’ve seen before.

― treeship 2, Monday, January 15, 2018 12:35 PM (one minute ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

The thing to me is that the torching of his reputation will be softened by the many many ppl who think he might have gotten a raw deal. And let’s say he did, and this girl is a criminal mastermind: is the reason this story is resonating with people because they all know it to be exactly true, or because it’s been true so often and so personally to them that it speaks to something true ? It could be both of course, but if assault’s been covered up millions of times so when one is apparently uncovered it resonates with a lot of people, that says something needs to be discussed in the open, and people will have to have the conversation about the subject. In the context of assault you’re the one complaining about the smashed window in sal’s famous

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Monday, 15 January 2018 18:41 (six years ago) link

I think it's unfair that Aziz is in jail for life now

while my dirk gently weeps (symsymsym), Monday, 15 January 2018 18:43 (six years ago) link

this notion that the accused are "destroyed" is such bullshit. give it a year or two and you'll see how destroyed they are.

Simon H., Monday, 15 January 2018 18:43 (six years ago) link

Flanagan is a feminist writer

Nope.

tokyo rosemary, Monday, 15 January 2018 18:43 (six years ago) link

I don’t think ansari getting a raw deal implies that the accuser must be a criminal mastermind, or even that she is making anything up.

k3vin k., Monday, 15 January 2018 18:44 (six years ago) link

"Flanagan is a feminist writer"

uhhhhh

rob, Monday, 15 January 2018 18:44 (six years ago) link

I was mostly looking at her past few articles, which were pro-me too, pro- believing Bill Clinton’s accusers even though it’s politically inconvenient. don’t know that much about her work overall xp

treeship 2, Monday, 15 January 2018 18:46 (six years ago) link

Within minutes of returning, she was sitting on the kitchen counter and he was—apparently consensually—performing oral sex on her (here the older reader’s eyes widen, because this was hardly the first move in the “one night stands” of yesteryear), but then went on, per her account, to pressure her for sex in a variety of ways that were not honorable. Eventually, overcome by her emotions at the way the night was going, she told him, “You guys are all the fucking same” and left crying. I thought it was the most significant line in the story: this has happened to her many times before. What led her to believe that this time would be different?

The bolded part has nothing to do with the subsequent events except here to suggest the apparently consensual oral sex means the rest of the "story" is perhaps suspect.

omar little, Monday, 15 January 2018 18:46 (six years ago) link

Some of her essays underscore the emotional rewards and social value of a traditional housewife's role. Consequently, Joan Walsh of Salon has criticized her for misrepresenting her life choices, and then condemning other women for not choosing the more traditional lifestyle.

Ok never mind. I can’t speak to her motives. Atwood though.

treeship 2, Monday, 15 January 2018 18:47 (six years ago) link

I think there is a way to respectfully point out the downsides of these tactics without being a callous, dismissive asshole, and that flanagan essay is not it

k3vin k., Monday, 15 January 2018 18:49 (six years ago) link

It seems like the Atwood thing reads differently in the US versus Canada, though I'm not sure how to articulate it. An uncharitable CA reading of it is that it's defensive posturing from someone who, well before #MeToo, chose solidarity with the lit community over solidarity with victims of sexual harassment. It's also shitty timing with the scandal going on at Concordia right now. Whereas to Americans it's reading as a feminist icon claiming this has gone too far as of Jan 2018.

rob, Monday, 15 January 2018 18:50 (six years ago) link

OTM

while my dirk gently weeps (symsymsym), Monday, 15 January 2018 18:51 (six years ago) link

I don’t think ansari getting a raw deal implies that the accuser must be a criminal mastermind, or even that she is making anything up.

― k3vin k., Monday, January 15, 2018 12:44 PM (forty-three seconds ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Didn’t say it did. I was suggesting the most extreme and malicious possible scenario, wherein an innocent Aziz Ansari finds his career in tatters bc a women set out to destroy him: is the conversation now less relevant? The answer is “no” (this is why you should all love “gone girl”)

As far as we are concerned, ansari’s Guilt or Innocence is ultimately an abstract question; we can never know “for real” any more than the average person is apt to know what it’s like to be in outer space. What we do know is the situation she described, in reaching for a Malicious Lie, was rendered in extremely convincing, relatable prose for many, many people. So fixate the conversation on that, marinate on what that means. Undoubtedly, at some point, one or even more of these accusations will be false, because there are psychopaths out there, lol. But does that change the fundamental conversation?

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Monday, 15 January 2018 18:52 (six years ago) link

I have other gay, middle age friends saying they have been on multiple dates like this (Aziz Ansari) and while they felt horrible, they also let it happen and it wasn't assault or misconduct. Can we just agree that if you have to drug, wear down, trick, scare, coerce, or trap your date into engaging in intimate acts then you are the one being a shitty person and not the date who ended up in that position.

Yerac, Monday, 15 January 2018 18:54 (six years ago) link

Thing about sociopathy is it tends to be very practiced “normal” interaction, and this entire convo is about the problem with “normal,” not the problem with sociopaths

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Monday, 15 January 2018 18:56 (six years ago) link

/yerac otm

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Monday, 15 January 2018 18:57 (six years ago) link

/yerac otm

The Bridge of Ban Louis J (silby), Monday, 15 January 2018 19:00 (six years ago) link

lol caitlin flanagan is a lot of things but “feminist” is not one

maura, Monday, 15 January 2018 19:09 (six years ago) link

Didn’t say it did. I was suggesting the most extreme and malicious possible scenario, wherein an innocent Aziz Ansari finds his career in tatters bc a women set out to destroy him: is the conversation now less relevant? The answer is “no” (this is why you should all love “gone girl”)

As far as we are concerned, ansari’s Guilt or Innocence is ultimately an abstract question; we can never know “for real” any more than the average person is apt to know what it’s like to be in outer space. What we do know is the situation she described, in reaching for a Malicious Lie, was rendered in extremely convincing, relatable prose for many, many people. So fixate the conversation on that, marinate on what that means. Undoubtedly, at some point, one or even more of these accusations will be false, because there are psychopaths out there, lol. But does that change the fundamental conversation?

― Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Monday, January 15, 2018 1:52 PM (forty-three seconds ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

for the record, I am not disputing the allegations against ansari. I have no reason to doubt the account and ansari comes across as, at best, a pig.

to your point, though, it would seem to me that an absolutely necessary part of this new social contract-paradigm is that the accounts need to be true. it is not, imo, enough that the “convincing, relatable prose” brings comfort to other victims who identify with the story: it may further a conversation that absolutely needs to be had, but someone who is innocent can’t be a means to that end. it almost sounds as if you’re saying the truthfulness of the story is a secondary concern.

k3vin k., Monday, 15 January 2018 19:11 (six years ago) link

but i mean yeah the question should be about how we can make affirmative consent more “fun” than this art of the chase bullshit and also maybe how western masculinity is at its core an entirely fucked up concept

also the shift between flanagan quoting women’s magazines from the ‘50s and then sneering “and who’s the REAL racist here” to The Youth one of the most egregious leaps of logic not taken by david brooks or andrew sullivan of late

maura, Monday, 15 January 2018 19:12 (six years ago) link

like that sort of gotcha is the worst “refuge of the scoundrel” look and it’s embarrassing that anyone publishes her

maura, Monday, 15 January 2018 19:13 (six years ago) link

yeah I’m honestly shocked that flanagan piece was published

k3vin k., Monday, 15 January 2018 19:14 (six years ago) link

i mean i’m not because she has credibility with a certain type of editor who is more interested in status quo preservation than anything else, and unfortunately they still run the game in a lot of places

maura, Monday, 15 January 2018 19:18 (six years ago) link

I just read that Bitch piece about Flanagan. Wow. I hate her.

Yerac, Monday, 15 January 2018 19:20 (six years ago) link

Re:many things - the "exposing men who take advantage of their power to assault / abuse / rape" conversation and the "public shaming is out of control" conversation are both important (to different degrees perhaps) but it seems hugely unhelpful to try to have them at the same time.

mfktz (Camaraderie at Arms Length), Monday, 15 January 2018 19:21 (six years ago) link

to your point, though, it would seem to me that an absolutely necessary part of this new social contract-paradigm is that the accounts need to be true. it is not, imo, enough that the “convincing, relatable prose” brings comfort to other victims who identify with the story: it may further a conversation that absolutely needs to be had, but someone who is innocent can’t be a means to that end. it almost sounds as if you’re saying the truthfulness of the story is a secondary concern.

― k3vin k., Monday, January 15, 2018 1:11 PM (four minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

K3v: how will you ever, ever know? Under what circumstances will you be able to determine the absolute truthfulness of this? A video with clear audio of the exchange leaks? Is it your responsibility to determine it’s absolute truth before responding to the story ? If so, none of these stories will ever, ever have an impact on your life. What relevance does their absolute truth of their situation have on your or your life?

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Monday, 15 January 2018 19:21 (six years ago) link

I can't really grok the Aziz Ansari scenario.. the Babe article was written in such a grotesquely inflammatory way, and had so many missteps, that I felt on first reading that it must be parodic, and even wondered if it had been written deliberately so "over the top" as to undermine the movement

The entire paragraph listing his accomplishments? The "this behaviour might be OK for an 18-year old, but Aziz is a 34-year old"-- so, it's only assault because Aziz wasn't a young man? Terrible writing imo

flamboyant goon tie included, Monday, 15 January 2018 19:22 (six years ago) link

Overall tho I'm becoming worried about the way that the definitions of "what is consensual" and "what is assault" are broadening and broadening to include "run-of-the-mill weekday date behaviour"

Not because that behaviour isn't harmful

Or that it shouldn't be called out and stopped

But because the implication that this sort of behaviour is now criminal will only put men-who-engage-in-these-harmful-behaviours on the defensive, and be unapologetic and unwilling to hold themselves accountable

flamboyant goon tie included, Monday, 15 January 2018 19:25 (six years ago) link

This came up a lot during the Franken defense that even I had to change my mind on it. Don't let a man's feminist or ally credentials or policy-making give them a protective shield from thinking they can't do shitty things to women too.

Yerac, Monday, 15 January 2018 19:25 (six years ago) link

I guess I just don’t see the purpose of having such a stake in the Court or Public Opinion when you bring nothing to the case in terms of evidence or insight, and it’s that very court of public opinion that so concerns you, giving it power by endlessly debating if the court has gone too far & instead thinking through the case’s wider implications in your own conversations with friends and loved ones and ilxors, lol, seems like the healthiest option imo

The court of public opinion will be what it is, i guess, but ppl get canceled and rehabilitated every day & it seems like pushing a boulder uphill to try & fight that

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Monday, 15 January 2018 19:28 (six years ago) link

These were xps to k3v btw not a response to flamboyant goon tie who is making a difft point

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Monday, 15 January 2018 19:30 (six years ago) link

xp to FGTI

The 'Babe' piece is doing an incredible disservice to the person who feels abused imo. It's clutching at straws, most of the indictment is cased into "but wait, and then this happened... ok I hear you say that's not a big deal but under *these* circumstances... no wait please read on". Listing his filmography is nagl.

It's not just terrible writing, floating out there as if it too should be held accountable, it's also a *huge* disservice to victims of sexual abuse coming out imo. It's lowering the bar for people already thinking people are lowering the bar of what constitutes abuse and what doesn't. No winners here.

♫ very clever with maracas.jpg ♫ (Le Bateau Ivre), Monday, 15 January 2018 19:32 (six years ago) link

deej I really can't even parse that last post

k3vin k., Monday, 15 January 2018 19:34 (six years ago) link

i feel some of what fgti is saying
there is def a lot of noise in the babe article

i don’t disbelieve her account but there are lot of details in the piece that made me quietly question the intent & even thd audience of the finished writeup. it was almost written AT Ansari

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Monday, 15 January 2018 19:35 (six years ago) link

someone said it reminded them of the xojane piece that presaged the ghomeshi stuff and i think that’s somewhat accurate in tone and sloppy editing. obv we have to wait and see about its bearing out

maura, Monday, 15 January 2018 19:36 (six years ago) link

the Anzari piece is frustrating because yeah it's sensationalistic but also by going chronologically lots of readers check out halfway through and think that it's just a description of an awkward date; if you read all the way through though the woman tells him no, clearly, verbally, and he goes "ok we don't have to do anything" and then goes for it anyway:

Grace says she spent around five minutes in the bathroom, collecting herself in the mirror and splashing herself with water. Then she went back to Ansari. He asked her if she was okay. “I said I don’t want to feel forced because then I’ll hate you, and I’d rather not hate you,” she said.

She told babe that at first, she was happy with how he reacted. “He said, ‘Oh, of course, it’s only fun if we’re both having fun.’ The response was technically very sweet and acknowledging the fact that I was very uncomfortable. Verbally, in that moment, he acknowledged that I needed to take it slow. Then he said, ‘Let’s just chill over here on the couch.’”

This moment is particularly significant for Grace, because she thought that would be the end of the sexual encounter — her remark about not wanting to feel “forced” had added a verbal component to the cues she was trying to give him about her discomfort. When she sat down on the floor next to Ansari, who sat on the couch, she thought he might rub her back, or play with her hair — something to calm her down.

Ansari instructed her to turn around. “He sat back and pointed to his penis and motioned for me to go down on him. And I did. I think I just felt really pressured. It was literally the most unexpected thing I thought would happen at that moment because I told him I was uncomfortable.”

Like, sure, that doesn't make him Weinstein or even Louie CK. But "no means no" is pretty basic shit, guys.

xpost w/ maura

Daniel_Rf, Monday, 15 January 2018 19:37 (six years ago) link

The Babe article totally was sloppy editing. I had to re-read the part about the white and red wine a couple of times to figure out the point.

Yerac, Monday, 15 January 2018 19:41 (six years ago) link

omg yes

That was the part that made me think "was this article written by Russian hackers to undermine the #metoo movement"

flamboyant goon tie included, Monday, 15 January 2018 19:43 (six years ago) link

It seems like the Atwood thing reads differently in the US versus Canada, though I'm not sure how to articulate it. An uncharitable CA reading of it is that it's defensive posturing from someone who, well before #MeToo, chose solidarity with the lit community over solidarity with victims of sexual harassment. It's also shitty timing with the scandal going on at Concordia right now. Whereas to Americans it's reading as a feminist icon claiming this has gone too far as of Jan 2018.

― rob, Monday, January 15, 2018 1:50 PM (forty-five minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Wanting UBC to stick to a fair process is choosing lit community over the victims of sexual harassment? How? If anything a fair process is everything the victim deserves. It is everything that future victims will alway deserve.

Van Horn Street, Monday, 15 January 2018 19:44 (six years ago) link

and otm maura

I was thinking this morning about how weird it was that we'd gone in three years from "three women have stated that Jian violently beat them without their consent" to "one woman has stated that she felt pressured into oral sex by Aziz"

But yeah it's true, I have two Facebook friends who've told me that this is only the tip of the iceberg with Aziz-- I hope it isn't-- I hope this is the iceberg-- but it's possible yeah that this Babe article is to Aziz what the xojane article was to Jian

flamboyant goon tie included, Monday, 15 January 2018 19:46 (six years ago) link

deej I really can't even parse that last post

― k3vin k., Monday, January 15, 2018 1:34 PM (six minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

You are very concerned with joining in the Court of Public Opinion to determine the absolute truth of aziz Ansari’s creepiness, and think its absolute truth is something that can be determined. I have an existing gut instinct about his level of “guilt” of course too, as everyone here does; but I don’t have any special insight into the Absolute Truth, and I don’t think that any degree of tea leaf reading will ever bring us any closer to it. So: what is your concern here? Of course I don’t want innocent ppl to have their careers destroyed, the same way I feel sympathy for the owner of sal’s when his window was smashed. But it’s a distraction to say that’s what the convo on this thread is about

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Monday, 15 January 2018 19:48 (six years ago) link

<Insert meme> of "Find a man who will look at you like you are the reputation of a man he has never met."

Yerac, Monday, 15 January 2018 19:49 (six years ago) link

Our general notion of the truth of who he is as a person can of course change as the evidence changes but that’s not something that happens cuz kev argues about it on an ilx thread

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Monday, 15 January 2018 19:51 (six years ago) link

This episode really puts Ansari's 'dating and relationship are complicated' shtick into perspective, uh.

Van Horn Street, Monday, 15 January 2018 19:54 (six years ago) link

Also if this cultural moment leads into another parallel discussion about how male sexuality is bereft of empathy and respect even within the boundaries of consent then that's good too. Of course some knuckleheads will interpret that as witch hunt or everything is criminal but hey not everyone can be saved.

Van Horn Street, Monday, 15 January 2018 19:57 (six years ago) link

I'm a little pissed they didn't remove Bright from netflix. Partly because I hate that it keeps showing up on my main menu.

Yerac, Monday, 15 January 2018 19:58 (six years ago) link

i want to believe you meant to post that on this thread

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Monday, 15 January 2018 19:59 (six years ago) link

it would be really, really easy for me to believe that Ansari was not so secretly a dirtbag, but I was admittedly pretty unfazed by that story

Nhex, Monday, 15 January 2018 20:00 (six years ago) link

xpost I did. We've already forgotten how Max Landis is a pos because we'll have hundreds more to get through.

Yerac, Monday, 15 January 2018 20:02 (six years ago) link

babe is partially owned by news corp so who knows :(

maura, Monday, 15 January 2018 20:03 (six years ago) link

I am pretty sure I have never been aware of Babe before yesterday.

Yerac, Monday, 15 January 2018 20:06 (six years ago) link

Same!

♫ very clever with maracas.jpg ♫ (Le Bateau Ivre), Monday, 15 January 2018 20:07 (six years ago) link

Apparently they have 5 million monthly readers

treeship 2, Monday, 15 January 2018 20:07 (six years ago) link

Pretty sure I won't be aware of Babe tomorrow.

Van Horn Street, Monday, 15 January 2018 20:07 (six years ago) link

Oh, and the mention of having never seen Seinfeld!?!

Yerac, Monday, 15 January 2018 20:07 (six years ago) link

I thought she just hadn’t seen that one episode

treeship 2, Monday, 15 January 2018 20:08 (six years ago) link

Landis seems to have gone silent in the last month. No Twitter activity or statements about the allegations. I wonder if he thinks he can wait it out.

jmm, Monday, 15 January 2018 20:08 (six years ago) link

xpost Sloppy editing!

Yerac, Monday, 15 January 2018 20:09 (six years ago) link

Wanting UBC to stick to a fair process is choosing lit community over the victims of sexual harassment? How? If anything a fair process is everything the victim deserves. It is everything that future victims will alway deserve.

― Van Horn Street, Monday, January 15, 2018 2:44 PM (seven minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

I explicitly stated it was an "uncharitable" reading, but I just reread the original open letter and there is no concern expressed for the victims to have access to fair processes, only for Professor Galloway. Yes, her follow-up statement expresses concern for "survivor people," but it came after the fact and is also badly written.

Anyway, my point was more that there's a context around Atwood's G&M piece that Americans most likely don't know about, including that Atwood has been criticized widely and publicly for her stance on these issues and, particularly, the recent Concordia scandal--why exactly does Atwood want to be the go-to hot taker whenever a creative writing program is accused of harboring sexual abusers? Maybe everything in her column was righteous on an abstract level, but it's gross timing.

rob, Monday, 15 January 2018 20:12 (six years ago) link

It’s weird that there was a plotline on the most recent season of ansari’s aggressively mediocre show where his costar is brought down by accusations that he was a “creep” with women who worked for him. The Aziz charactef stands up to him. In ANOTHER episode, in season one, he stands up to a subway masturbator and is praised by women he knows for doing this. Almost more than any other male celebrity he’s trued to set himself up as pne of the woke ones. Could have been a way to get ahead of accusations, could have been a lack of self-awareness, could be nothing becausw this babe story is a newscorp plant (least likely), but in any case it’s odd.

treeship 2, Monday, 15 January 2018 20:12 (six years ago) link

what does a talking pig have to do with any of this

#TeamHailing (imago), Monday, 15 January 2018 20:13 (six years ago) link

Don't call her that, Peggy is a national treasure

flamboyant goon tie included, Monday, 15 January 2018 20:14 (six years ago) link

that babe site is one of those locations on the web where you need to be real careful about specifying the ‘.net’ part of the address huh

*clears desk in anticipation of visit from the it office*

grim-n-gritty hooty reboot (bizarro gazzara), Monday, 15 January 2018 20:14 (six years ago) link

it's been a while since I read it, but iirc this Rebecca Traister piece gets at some of what we're talking about with Ansari: https://www.thecut.com/2015/10/why-consensual-sex-can-still-be-bad.html

rob, Monday, 15 January 2018 20:17 (six years ago) link

babe is a spin-off of the tab, which is a fairly popular site with the youth (i have students who have worked for its offshoot on my campus). it’s filling the hercampus void

also i’m not surprised that a twentysomething hasn’t seen seinfeld. isn’t it only on hulu?

maura, Monday, 15 January 2018 20:19 (six years ago) link

my students however watch A LOT of FRIENDS

maura, Monday, 15 January 2018 20:20 (six years ago) link

It’s syndicated on a buncha channels

treeship 2, Monday, 15 January 2018 20:20 (six years ago) link

I explicitly stated it was an "uncharitable" reading, but I just reread the original open letter and there is no concern expressed for the victims to have access to fair processes, only for Professor Galloway. Yes, her follow-up statement expresses concern for "survivor people," but it came after the fact and is also badly written.

Anyway, my point was more that there's a context around Atwood's G&M piece that Americans most likely don't know about, including that Atwood has been criticized widely and publicly for her stance on these issues and, particularly, the recent Concordia scandal--why exactly does Atwood want to be the go-to hot taker whenever a creative writing program is accused of harboring sexual abusers? Maybe everything in her column was righteous on an abstract level, but it's gross timing.

― rob, Monday, January 15, 2018 3:12 PM (five minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

I agree the timing is quite off wrt to Concordia but then I can understand how an old writer don't understand how these things work now. Which is no excuse, once you enter that particular arena you have to do your homework.

Van Horn Street, Monday, 15 January 2018 20:22 (six years ago) link

It’s weird that there was a plotline on the most recent season of ansari’s aggressively mediocre show where his costar is brought down by accusations that he was a “creep” with women who worked for him. The Aziz charactef stands up to him. In ANOTHER episode, in season one, he stands up to a subway masturbator and is praised by women he knows for doing this. Almost more than any other male celebrity he’s trued to set himself up as pne of the woke ones. Could have been a way to get ahead of accusations, could have been a lack of self-awareness, could be nothing becausw this babe story is a newscorp plant (least likely), but in any case it’s odd.

― treeship 2, Monday, January 15, 2018 3:12 PM (ten minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Have you read his 'apology' ? Ansari is just painfully oblivious.

Van Horn Street, Monday, 15 January 2018 20:23 (six years ago) link

There are some interesting things to be gleaned from Conor Oberst interviews about just what a shit storm this stuff can be. He was accused of rape back in 2013 by someone in an XOJane column and it took years to "clear" his name, scare quotes because obviously no one is ever completely clear. (That is, it's the first thing I think of when I think of Conor Oberst). But he, I think, was considerate enough to think of the accusation and his own ordeal in context, especially when he was being celebrated by idiots in the MRA scene:

"It's such a tricky topic for me because I don't ever want to minimize how much that happens to women all the fucking time," he says. "They say one in four women will experience some kind of sexual assault in their life which is fucking insane and heartbreaking. So as painful and surreal and fucked up as my situation was, I don't ever want to use this as an example to justify anything."

It's telling - and illustrative of how rare false accusations actually are - that his response was ultimately to file a defamation suit (with any money directed to charities benefitting victims of violence against women). It's so infrequent afaict for those accused to actually fight back in court, which lends support to most of the accusers in these situations.

Josh in Chicago, Monday, 15 January 2018 20:26 (six years ago) link

Friends has amazing longevity. People in other countries always like to bring it up too.

Yerac, Monday, 15 January 2018 20:26 (six years ago) link

It’s syndicated on a buncha channels

Twenty somethings don’t watch channels

The Bridge of Ban Louis J (silby), Monday, 15 January 2018 20:27 (six years ago) link

xp to VHS
btw I agree that universities' handling of this stuff requires thorough analysis and is clearly designed to benefit the uni rather than the accused or accusers. I worked at a public university in the US when members of an athletic team were accused of sexual assault and the admin response was truly appalling.

rob, Monday, 15 January 2018 20:29 (six years ago) link

They did up until a few years ago. I’m a twentysomething. This isn’t an important tangent though.

treeship 2, Monday, 15 January 2018 20:30 (six years ago) link

Oberst’s accuser turned out to be making stuff up from what I remember.

akm, Monday, 15 January 2018 20:37 (six years ago) link

Yeah that one was proven to be completely fabricated. He wasn’t in the state at the time it was alleged to have happened and things like that. I think the accuser was also obsessed with him.

treeship 2, Monday, 15 January 2018 20:39 (six years ago) link

A rare scenario but it can happen.

treeship 2, Monday, 15 January 2018 20:39 (six years ago) link

the oberst thing was an anonymous accusation made in a comments section by someone who later admitted she had made it up

(The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Monday, 15 January 2018 20:39 (six years ago) link

It originated in the comments but it took off in the mainstream which is why he had to file the defamation suit

treeship 2, Monday, 15 January 2018 20:41 (six years ago) link

iirc some ppl were upset that he had taken legal action, since it could set a bad precedent/discourage ppl from coming forward, etc

(The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Monday, 15 January 2018 20:42 (six years ago) link

iirc correcly everyone almost everyone agreed immediately that something was off with that accusation. I still remember it for how off it felt, both the accusation and Oberst's response.

Frederik B, Monday, 15 January 2018 20:59 (six years ago) link

Oberst handled that very well and tbh based on some of his music he would not have been my first guess to do so lol

Simon H., Monday, 15 January 2018 21:08 (six years ago) link

didn't Isaac Brock have to deal with something like that too

frogbs, Monday, 15 January 2018 21:11 (six years ago) link

he discusses it here in this interview from '04, make of it what you will

https://www.avclub.com/modest-mouse-1798208359#

Simon H., Monday, 15 January 2018 21:17 (six years ago) link

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...'treeship types'?

flappy bird, Monday, 15 January 2018 21:52 (six years ago) link

Caitlin Flanagan is not a feminist for Christ’s sake

horseshoe, Monday, 15 January 2018 21:53 (six years ago) link

caitlin flanagan has been horrible since i first became aware of her probably around 15 years ago? iirc she got her job writing for the atlantic when she charmed someone at a dinner party. she is a world class asshole.

i agree with whoever said upthread that we all need to be part of the solution and communicate our desires/needs/wishes much more clearly and unambiguously.
this is why i wondered recently whether people are reassessing erica jong/fear of flying and the so-called "zipless fuck"

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Monday, 15 January 2018 21:57 (six years ago) link

Friends is on........ NETFLIX!

binge on relevant cord cutting youngsters

bhad and bhabie (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Monday, 15 January 2018 21:58 (six years ago) link

I see tokyo rosemary and others covered Caitlin Flanagan’s bullshit upthread. sorry, I just flipped out at “Caitlin Flanagan is a feminist” because words mean things. and I have hated her for years

Really can’t relate to the concerns that accusations of harassment have gone too far, and that is probably the most neutral thing I can say about that.

horseshoe, Monday, 15 January 2018 22:01 (six years ago) link

i agree with whoever said upthread that we all need to be part of the solution and communicate our desires/needs/wishes much more clearly and unambiguously.

― weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Monday, January 15, 2018 4:57 PM (two minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

a good part of the solution also resides in the responsibility to listen what the other person communicates also? taking a recent example, this is exactly what Ansari did not do.

Van Horn Street, Monday, 15 January 2018 22:02 (six years ago) link

I apologize for what I said about Flanagan. I didn't
know what I was talking about. Xps

treeship 2, Monday, 15 January 2018 22:09 (six years ago) link

Each person should make sure their partner is horny as F and asking for it, verbally and with their open, aware eyes, before things are stuck anywhere (to include fingers down the throat).

Yerac, Monday, 15 January 2018 22:09 (six years ago) link

a good part of the solution also resides in the responsibility to listen what the other person communicates also? taking a recent example, this is exactly what Ansari did not do.
of course

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Monday, 15 January 2018 22:21 (six years ago) link

feel like a lot of 80s and 90s teen movies seemed to reward the guy who just "went for it" which I think has warped a lot of men's brains in the long run

frogbs, Monday, 15 January 2018 22:31 (six years ago) link

80s movies are rife with sexual assault presented as victory

horseshoe, Monday, 15 January 2018 22:35 (six years ago) link

Ned RT'd a good twitter thread this morning on that exact subject

Simon H., Monday, 15 January 2018 22:41 (six years ago) link

we all said stuff about that weeks ago on this exact thread

El Tomboto, Monday, 15 January 2018 22:41 (six years ago) link

ya there's one scene in Revenge of the Nerds which is basically straight up rape but is played as a victory for the nerds and a hearty chuckle for the audience

I remember at 11 being like, "hmmm, that doesn't seem right....but if it's in a movie...if she's okay with it, I guess..."

frogbs, Monday, 15 January 2018 22:41 (six years ago) link

movies didn't do anyone any educational favors -- especially considering the lack of realistic and useful sex education elsewhere
idk where people look for examples today but i can't think of a single satisfying example i found when i was young and learning about this stuff for the first time

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Monday, 15 January 2018 22:46 (six years ago) link

nothing to fear, kids today just browse around youtube

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Monday, 15 January 2018 23:44 (six years ago) link

it's telling how these writers didn't wait for a provably false accusation before declaring that it's all gone too far. the backlash didn't even wait for, like, a famous man to suffer legal consequences for sexual assault

while my dirk gently weeps (symsymsym), Tuesday, 16 January 2018 03:32 (six years ago) link

i don't even want to unpack whatever that video is

Nhex, Tuesday, 16 January 2018 03:40 (six years ago) link

https://elladawson.com/2017/12/09/bad-sex-or-the-sex-we-dont-want-but-have-anyway/

This piece came out in response to Cat Person, but it gets to the heart of the Aziz Ansari situation better than any of the recent thinkpieces on either side of the argument imo.

Roz, Tuesday, 16 January 2018 12:16 (six years ago) link

Landis seems to have gone silent in the last month. No Twitter activity or statements about the allegations. I wonder if he thinks he can wait it out.

― jmm, Monday, January 15, 2018 3:08 PM (yesterday) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Did specific allegations ever come out? I was confused about this one.

Winter. Dickens. Yes. (Jon not Jon), Tuesday, 16 January 2018 12:56 (six years ago) link

xpost Thanks, Roz - hadn't seen that and really appreciate it.

I'm wondering if after this winter we'll start establishing very set, specific language and rituals to give green, yellow, and red lights with sex.

Bad sex is the result of a society that makes discussing pleasure, desire and consent impossible. In the US, we do not teach young people how to enjoy sex. We don’t teach them how to talk about sex before, during or after. We don’t teach people how to say no, and we don’t teach them how to say yes.

... (Eazy), Tuesday, 16 January 2018 13:06 (six years ago) link

Another take, re: Ansari:

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2018/jan/16/aziz-ansari-story-missed-opportunity

pomenitul, Tuesday, 16 January 2018 15:21 (six years ago) link

I'm paywalled, is that one ironic or sincere

Simon H., Tuesday, 16 January 2018 15:35 (six years ago) link

Enough is enough, I say, and mean. I read something by a French person that said “ONE DAY MORE,” and that is what I think men deserve. Let us return to business as usual now, before any more valuable masculine careers are damaged. There is nothing brave about any of this speaking out. It is just a mob. No one criticizes or threatens women who speak in public, certainly not myself, right now.

Mark G, Tuesday, 16 January 2018 16:09 (six years ago) link

so it's serious

Josh in Chicago, Tuesday, 16 January 2018 16:10 (six years ago) link

^^ Kind of B-level Borowitz/Keillor.

... (Eazy), Tuesday, 16 January 2018 16:43 (six years ago) link

aw it's better than that

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Tuesday, 16 January 2018 16:47 (six years ago) link

not really

President Keyes, Tuesday, 16 January 2018 16:48 (six years ago) link

Alexandra Petri is usually funnier than that but you're allowed to be less funny when you're angry

(full disclosure I competed against Alexandra Petri in Washington DC area quiz bowl competitions on several occasions circa 2004-2007)

The Bridge of Ban Louis J (silby), Tuesday, 16 January 2018 17:02 (six years ago) link

I really liked the Jill Filipovic piece in the Guardian that pomenitul posted

flamboyant goon tie included, Tuesday, 16 January 2018 17:15 (six years ago) link

I did think that Raven Symone's appearance on Master Of None episode about the sexual harasser seemed like an attempt to improve her image too.

Robert Adam Gilmour, Tuesday, 16 January 2018 17:36 (six years ago) link

You guys realize tv shows are not the singular product of their stars, right

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Tuesday, 16 January 2018 17:48 (six years ago) link

Like, these are collaborative things. I don’t really think there’s tons to be gleaned from picking apart how his show was put together

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Tuesday, 16 January 2018 17:49 (six years ago) link

they have some woke catering tho

President Keyes, Tuesday, 16 January 2018 18:00 (six years ago) link

Ned shared this on twitter & it’s quite a read.
I always knew it could be gross but it’s awful
to see it laid out so plainly :(

https://www.rollingstone.com/country/news/inside-country-radios-secret-history-of-sexual-harassment-w515439

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 16 January 2018 18:49 (six years ago) link

You guys realize tv shows are not the singular product of their stars, right

― Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, January 17, 2018 4:48 AM (one hour ago)

Like, these are collaborative things. I don’t really think there’s tons to be gleaned from picking apart how his show was put together

― Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Wednesday, January 17, 2018 4:49 AM (one hour ago)

who are you addressing

(and, though I similarly don't see that it's a fruitful line in this thread, since you brought it up: which show are you talking about that Aziz acts in and is not the co-creator, executive producer, co-showrunner, primary writer and sometimes director of?)

[there are 39 teleplay credits for Master Of None across 20 episodes; Aziz has 18, Yang has 15. He's directed 30% of the episodes.]

Haribo Hancock (sic), Tuesday, 16 January 2018 19:54 (six years ago) link

That NYT op-ed is such trash

change display name (Jordan), Tuesday, 16 January 2018 20:01 (six years ago) link

ya Master of None was just as much of an 'auteur' show as Louis C.K.'s thing

flappy bird, Tuesday, 16 January 2018 20:03 (six years ago) link

Good (as usual) piece by Julianne Escobedo Shepherd:
https://jezebel.com/babe-what-are-you-doing-1822114753?rev=1516127284762

change display name (Jordan), Tuesday, 16 January 2018 21:39 (six years ago) link

^^ That Shepherd piece is excellent:

Reporting on sexual violence and misconduct is an incredibly delicate undertaking that requires a working understanding about how best to do it. At its most basic level, this means that reporters must be careful not to re-traumatize subjects, which includes consideration of the ways that their reports will be received

...gets to the weird grodiness of the Babe article - exploiting trauma rather than reporting on it.

Chuck_Tatum, Tuesday, 16 January 2018 23:20 (six years ago) link

Yeah that definitely does agood job of expanding on misgivings abt the babe piece expressed upthread

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 16 January 2018 23:33 (six years ago) link

The Babe piece is so surreal. It's a piece of gossip that they expanded during conversation. I hate it so much because it's making men all over be total assholes and terrible in all the ways they supposedly are against. I am still super bothered by the completely immature wine critique.

Yerac, Wednesday, 17 January 2018 01:06 (six years ago) link

Shepherd piece is great, best point of access to this particular branch of the story imo

i believe that (s)he is sincere (forksclovetofu), Wednesday, 17 January 2018 01:45 (six years ago) link

hoo boy i made a real mistake scrolling down to the comments on that jezebel piece

flamenco drop (BradNelson), Wednesday, 17 January 2018 01:46 (six years ago) link

people are so cruel

flamenco drop (BradNelson), Wednesday, 17 January 2018 01:55 (six years ago) link

Here's the full email the https://t.co/YZ14Jca6FS reporter who wrote the Aziz Ansari story sent when asked to go on HLN with @TVAshleigh. It is really something.https://t.co/qTca5xA9m0 pic.twitter.com/usZBm0KnIr

— Max Tani (@maxwelltani) January 17, 2018

so far, not too shabby

mookieproof, Wednesday, 17 January 2018 21:31 (six years ago) link

Props to whichever editor wrote the headline for that, hard to get a concept like "Read the email the writer behind the Aziz Ansari sexual misconduct story wrote slamming an HLN anchor who criticized her" into just 20 words.

mick signals, Wednesday, 17 January 2018 21:37 (six years ago) link

tbh i have never heard of HLN until that tweet

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Wednesday, 17 January 2018 21:37 (six years ago) link

I swear, I can't believe people use "no holds barred" seriously. But she is 22 and not aware of the Hulk Hogan movie.

Yerac, Wednesday, 17 January 2018 21:43 (six years ago) link

maybe not *too* shabby but still: pretty shabby

i’m surprised she didn’t include “pantsuit” and “chunky heels” in her ad hominems, jfc

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Wednesday, 17 January 2018 22:02 (six years ago) link

There is a reason you have other people read important emails.

Yerac, Wednesday, 17 January 2018 22:16 (six years ago) link

there do not seem to be many winners in this ansari situation

appreciated that jawnita essay, have to let it sit with me some more

k3vin k., Wednesday, 17 January 2018 22:31 (six years ago) link

HLN is the channel next to CNN on cable, no? CNN Headline News?

erry red flag (f. hazel), Wednesday, 17 January 2018 22:45 (six years ago) link

"Ashleigh, someone who I am certain nobody under the age of 45 has heard of, I hope the 500 retweets on the single news write up made that burgundy lipstick, bad highlights, secondwave feminist has-been really relevant for a little while,"

Seriously?

treeship 2, Wednesday, 17 January 2018 22:58 (six years ago) link

A world where a putatively feminist journalist can’t see the problem in attacking another woman for her age and appearance is a world I no longer understand. And I am only 28.

treeship 2, Wednesday, 17 January 2018 23:01 (six years ago) link

there's a lot of light between 22 and 28

The Bridge of Ban Louis J (silby), Wednesday, 17 January 2018 23:03 (six years ago) link

there do not seem to be many winners in this ansari situation

Anyone who wanted to disperse any of the momentum gained since Weinstein broke.

remember the lmao (darraghmac), Wednesday, 17 January 2018 23:08 (six years ago) link

"I'm 22 and so far, not too shabby!"

(The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Wednesday, 17 January 2018 23:19 (six years ago) link

Ms. Way's email isn't very mature.

akm, Wednesday, 17 January 2018 23:20 (six years ago) link

I guess that's an understatement.

akm, Wednesday, 17 January 2018 23:21 (six years ago) link

I swear, I can't believe people use "no holds barred" seriously. But she is 22 and not aware of the Hulk Hogan movie.

― Yerac, Wednesday, January 17, 2018 1:43 PM (two hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

using it is one thing, but what is the meaning in this context.

Dat Login was the dname u doofus (Sufjan Grafton), Thursday, 18 January 2018 00:01 (six years ago) link

The entire email is embarrassing but all I could picture at the end was the Hulk Hogan movie so it lent a certain ending flourish to an already terrible email.

Yerac, Thursday, 18 January 2018 00:09 (six years ago) link

it's not that obscure a phrase? maybe you're just really into that movie.

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 18 January 2018 00:35 (six years ago) link

We need to talk about you associating a common phrase with a decades old movie

President Keyes, Thursday, 18 January 2018 00:40 (six years ago) link

what til Yerac finds out that Pastamania dates back to Renaissance Italy :/

bhad and bhabie (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Thursday, 18 January 2018 00:43 (six years ago) link

Ha! I think I have never heard anyone ever use that phrase non-ironically. She should've ended with Cowabunga!

Yerac, Thursday, 18 January 2018 00:55 (six years ago) link

Whoops that wasn't a word. I don't even know what I mean. I am so threadbare from reading about the gymnastics trial.

Yerac, Thursday, 18 January 2018 00:57 (six years ago) link

I think the email probably reflects the writer’s ideology just fine. She’s not young or naive she just thinks differently from people we’d usually think of as progressive. She probably sees, in Ashleigh Banfield, an image of privilege and thinks she’s “punching up” and that’s what you’re supposed to do.

treeship 2, Thursday, 18 January 2018 01:31 (six years ago) link

The email is again indicative of Babe maybe not being a mature or credible publication for breaking stories on sexual assault, or perhaps not thinking through their material as much as their sources might require

Chuck_Tatum, Thursday, 18 January 2018 01:35 (six years ago) link

Right. Banfield should have attacked the websote and the journalist in the first place, not “Grace” who is just someone who was mistreated (by Ansari) and then exploited (by Babe).

treeship 2, Thursday, 18 January 2018 01:39 (six years ago) link

gotta say the burgundy lipstick burn is extremely generationally cutting

maura, Thursday, 18 January 2018 02:27 (six years ago) link

"no holds barred" is a common phrase that no one associates with hulk hogan except for you

akm, Thursday, 18 January 2018 02:38 (six years ago) link

Burgundy Lipstick Burn (feat Jeremih)

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 18 January 2018 02:39 (six years ago) link

hopefully feminism can survive some dude posting the internal email squabbles among two women to Business Insider

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Thursday, 18 January 2018 02:47 (six years ago) link

Lol it’s true. That might be the sleaziest and most pointless reveal of this entire episode.

treeship 2, Thursday, 18 January 2018 04:00 (six years ago) link

But i think it was Banfield who first brought those out in the open.

treeship 2, Thursday, 18 January 2018 04:02 (six years ago) link

FWIW I had no idea what HLN was until I read the above tweet/email

IF (Terrorist) Yes, Explain (man alive), Thursday, 18 January 2018 04:35 (six years ago) link

ok ok guys you dont consume cable news media we get it

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 18 January 2018 04:41 (six years ago) link

i would if anyone suggested it were worthwhile in any way! it's not, is it?

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 18 January 2018 04:49 (six years ago) link

no

it’s just that naif “i dont even own a tv” shit that rubs me the wrong way

nevermind

forget i said anything

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 18 January 2018 05:08 (six years ago) link

gtfo you guys "i've never heard of HLN" it's not new

flappy bird, Thursday, 18 January 2018 05:31 (six years ago) link

i would if anyone suggested it were worthwhile in any way! it's not, is it?

you sound like comic book guy

flappy bird, Thursday, 18 January 2018 05:35 (six years ago) link

holy shit that letter is so stupid

flappy bird, Thursday, 18 January 2018 05:36 (six years ago) link

lol i knew of CNN Headline News but was unaware that they'd rebranded that channel as HLN . . . a decade ago. i suspect it will last a good while longer than babe dot net does

also the next time my cat does something bad i'm gonna call her a second-wave feminist

mookieproof, Thursday, 18 January 2018 05:52 (six years ago) link

hahahaha

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 18 January 2018 05:59 (six years ago) link

according to what we have learned from katie, fourth wave feminism = “you cant sit with us”

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 18 January 2018 06:01 (six years ago) link

more than using "no holds barred" it bothers me that she used it incorrectly - you have a "no holds barred fight" it's not just a synonym for absolutely.

HLN sounds like a home shopping network (and I'm pretty sure that's what I assume it was when scanning cable guide listings)

louise ck (milo z), Thursday, 18 January 2018 06:25 (six years ago) link

also the next time my cat does something bad i'm gonna call her a second-wave feministfelinist

― mookieproof, Thursday, January 18, 2018 12:52 AM (thirty-eight minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Evan, Thursday, 18 January 2018 06:33 (six years ago) link

Lol it’s true. That might be the sleaziest and most pointless reveal of this entire episode.

― treeship 2, Thursday, 18 January 2018 04:00 (three hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Not rly

remember the lmao (darraghmac), Thursday, 18 January 2018 07:55 (six years ago) link

"If you could let Ashleigh know I said this..."

Yerac, Thursday, 18 January 2018 12:30 (six years ago) link

All of the continued handling of this entire Aziz episode is super upsetting in comparison to what is going on with the gymnastics trial. I didn't know a young woman had committed suicide, another woman had told her parents as a child and was repeatedly denied that it had occurred and was forced to apologize to her assailant. Numerous people were told about him and nothing happened for years and years.

Yerac, Thursday, 18 January 2018 12:33 (six years ago) link

Nassar is now saying it's just soooo hard to listen to all of his victims' testimonies. OH REALLY, MOTHERFUCKER?!?!?

tokyo rosemary, Thursday, 18 January 2018 20:22 (six years ago) link

try BEING them, piece of shit

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 18 January 2018 20:32 (six years ago) link

he is a piece of shit
what's really disgusting to me are all the people who didn't believe these girls when they tried to tell
that pisses me off a lot

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 18 January 2018 21:13 (six years ago) link

otm

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 18 January 2018 21:20 (six years ago) link

“what about the men” is useful as a macro or micro defense, as this makes plain

maura, Thursday, 18 January 2018 22:09 (six years ago) link

"what about the men" comes from the same place as "well you know people are racist against whites too"

omar little, Thursday, 18 January 2018 22:11 (six years ago) link

meaning, as a generalized sentiment coming from a place of privilege whenever the most reprehensible aspects (or any aspects tbh) of the privilege are pushed back against even slightly.

omar little, Thursday, 18 January 2018 22:12 (six years ago) link

That's why I can't believe people have the nerve to heavily criticize the subject in the Babe article (nevermind the reporting problems) and why she didn't "just leave" all while they are reporting on the Nassar testimonies.

Yerac, Thursday, 18 January 2018 22:30 (six years ago) link

I am so glad The Root wrote that article "Men Understand Consent Like White America Understands Racism". I got into such a long discussion 2 nights ago with a young black dude who was glibbly victiming shaming that Babe article (it's slander!, like what, she was forced??? emoticon, Aziz just wanted to get some butt, he needs to work on his game) that he was blocked by friends on facebook. He just didn't get why and my friend kept making excuses for him saying he was liberal and a BLM activist. I was like, so? He literally kept making the same arguments that white people do to say they aren't racist and I just couldn't figure out a good way (me as a non-black woman) to point it out.

Yerac, Thursday, 18 January 2018 22:40 (six years ago) link

not treating women like shit seems to be a final frontier for some people from what i can tell

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 18 January 2018 23:01 (six years ago) link

it is regularly distressing how often men tend not to recognize women as human, yes.

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Thursday, 18 January 2018 23:02 (six years ago) link

yeah i think the most depressing lesson of the last decade for me has been about the logical leaps and rhetorical backbends even the most woke people will undertake in order to hold onto their privilege

maura, Thursday, 18 January 2018 23:27 (six years ago) link

I am so glad The Root wrote that article "Men Understand Consent Like White America Understands Racism". I got into such a long discussion 2 nights ago with a young black dude who was glibbly victiming shaming that Babe article (it's slander!, like what, she was forced??? emoticon, Aziz just wanted to get some butt, he needs to work on his game) that he was blocked by friends on facebook. He just didn't get why and my friend kept making excuses for him saying he was liberal and a BLM activist. I was like, so? He literally kept making the same arguments that white people do to say they aren't racist and I just couldn't figure out a good way (me as a non-black woman) to point it out.

maybe you could have shown him this post.

Bein' Sean Bean (LocalGarda), Thursday, 18 January 2018 23:43 (six years ago) link

I tried to give him different perspectives with other articles (one from VSB), on how it was his response (calling her trash) that was problematic and not the actual disagreement of what occurred in the article, and he kept pushing the line that he has a lot of sex and knows a lot of women and it's unfathomable that Grace didn't just leave. She blew him, she didn't fight etc. etc. I lightly tried to bring up race in regards to woc especially being under other pressures of not wanting to report to the police and not wanting to place even more scrutiny on black men etc. He did not take well to that at all. But then I dropped it because I just really knew better than to bring it up since I am not black. I did post that article earlier today directly to our friend (who was his old coach) so hopefully he will take offline time to try to talk to him. But gah, even our friend kept making excuses for him (it's his age, he's a good guy, the other guys who blocked him are just as bad they were just showing off for their gfs, he has a warrior's heart??? (must be a football thing).

Yerac, Friday, 19 January 2018 00:27 (six years ago) link

Hey I remember when I was 22, very obtuse and arrogant. Thank god no one gave me a platform back then, yeeeesh.

Van Horn Street, Friday, 19 January 2018 00:30 (six years ago) link

22 was when I think I first started posting on ILX.

Yerac, Friday, 19 January 2018 00:41 (six years ago) link

Warrior’s heart jfc
Fuck warriors
Throw them all in the garbage
The last thing the world needs at this point is men with warrior’s hearts

Winter. Dickens. Yes. (Jon not Jon), Friday, 19 January 2018 01:04 (six years ago) link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=47y5bo8wtqM

maura, Friday, 19 January 2018 05:57 (six years ago) link

wait no

https://youtu.be/4nurQy-oyZg

maura, Friday, 19 January 2018 05:58 (six years ago) link

god i love that song

Winter. Dickens. Yes. (Jon not Jon), Friday, 19 January 2018 16:45 (six years ago) link

175 years for Nassar

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 24 January 2018 18:02 (six years ago) link

how bout all those who enabled him or helped cover it up, surely they've all lost their jobs

frogbs, Wednesday, 24 January 2018 18:06 (six years ago) link

waiting on the same deal for a series of Miramax assistants

omar little, Wednesday, 24 January 2018 18:07 (six years ago) link

xp nope, not yet, but I can't imagine it's going to be much longer til general outrage forces people out. Everyone I know who works here is totally pissed off, and I saw a sign today on my way to work about a "fire president simon" rally happening soon.

joygoat, Wednesday, 24 January 2018 18:17 (six years ago) link

the shit that board member spouted about how great president simon is was really something

mookieproof, Wednesday, 24 January 2018 18:25 (six years ago) link

https://www.cnn.com/2018/01/17/us/larry-nassar-judge-sentencing/index.html

two things that can be true:
1) nassar deserves a harsh prison sentence
2) the judge engaged in irresponsible grandstanding that might make her sentencing decision vulnerable to appeal

k3vin k., Thursday, 25 January 2018 01:16 (six years ago) link

i was thinking the same thing about her comments going too far, legally. though that dude does seem like an irredeemable asshole if there ever was one

Nhex, Thursday, 25 January 2018 01:33 (six years ago) link

judges do that shit all the time in far sketchier situations

mookieproof, Thursday, 25 January 2018 01:36 (six years ago) link

yeah, but good lawyers pounce on that stuff during appeal. not everyone can afford good lawyers or afford to pursue appeals.

A is for (Aimless), Thursday, 25 January 2018 01:42 (six years ago) link

i was kinda wondering that myself, xpost k3v

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 25 January 2018 02:22 (six years ago) link

Hopefully he kills himself soon so it won’t matter

Spottie, Thursday, 25 January 2018 02:54 (six years ago) link

michigan state president resigning

mookieproof, Thursday, 25 January 2018 02:56 (six years ago) link

I think they would not appeal in order to not have him sit through all the victim testimonies again. Also, every single educational org, public company, non-profit, etc should be required to re-review sexual and provide a report on all sexual assault complaints going back 20 years.

Yerac, Thursday, 25 January 2018 08:51 (six years ago) link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gX3k9jZ5N8o

scott seward, Thursday, 25 January 2018 12:32 (six years ago) link

yerac otm

maura, Thursday, 25 January 2018 15:21 (six years ago) link

so not clicking on Cosby

bannonality of evil (Ye Mad Puffin), Thursday, 25 January 2018 15:26 (six years ago) link

Also, every single educational org

hey they already have mandatory harassment webinar participation what more do you want

j., Thursday, 25 January 2018 15:29 (six years ago) link

Nassar's statement was delusional and a little surprising in its brazenness. Also know as: being a white man.

Yerac, Thursday, 25 January 2018 16:12 (six years ago) link

As it happens my student media department has a sexual assault forum this afternoon, and we had to scramble this morning to replace the University of Rochester case with Michigan State.

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 25 January 2018 16:13 (six years ago) link

Crap, I am so used to being able to edit other site posts that I am making so many annoying typing mistakes on ilx.

Yerac, Thursday, 25 January 2018 16:13 (six years ago) link

Who is british? How big is this President's Club scandal?

Yerac, Thursday, 25 January 2018 16:16 (six years ago) link

I couldn’t tell if it was big but it certainly sounded baroque

direct to consumer online mattress brand (silby), Thursday, 25 January 2018 16:17 (six years ago) link

Lots of good talk about this on the British politics thread; scandal involves quite a lot of very powerful ppl, all involved are running for cover.

Daniel_Rf, Thursday, 25 January 2018 16:18 (six years ago) link

hey they already have mandatory harassment webinar participation what more do you want

my only exposure to ex-pres simon was when she spoke at my new faculty orientation where indeed the importance of the mandatory sexual harassment webinar was repeatedly emphasized

joygoat, Thursday, 25 January 2018 16:48 (six years ago) link

Story of the day in Ontario, with an election a few months away (probably something on the Canadian politics thread).

http://www.570news.com/2018/01/25/ontario-tory-leader-patrick-brown-resigning-amid-allegations-conduct/

clemenza, Thursday, 25 January 2018 22:55 (six years ago) link

Magician David Copperfield allegedly drugged and assaulted a 17-year-old model in 1988 https://t.co/XLn7y0TMvZ pic.twitter.com/5uVyBtsDZr

— New York Daily News (@NYDailyNews) January 25, 2018

more like David Cop-a-feel

frogbs, Friday, 26 January 2018 18:08 (six years ago) link

i have a Vice where they interview him on his private island.

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Friday, 26 January 2018 18:14 (six years ago) link

david copperfield story least surprising thing ever to me

akm, Friday, 26 January 2018 18:32 (six years ago) link

the other steve wynn is not amused
https://a4-images.myspacecdn.com/images03/35/8d21860efaf34bb1a196b724e702c4d7/300x300.jpg

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Friday, 26 January 2018 19:06 (six years ago) link

"Now watch me try and make this story ... disappear!"

Josh in Chicago, Friday, 26 January 2018 19:14 (six years ago) link

you mean the "potatoes that resemble humans" thread?

frogbs, Friday, 26 January 2018 19:27 (six years ago) link

"this facial expression"

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Friday, 26 January 2018 19:30 (six years ago) link

there's a lot going on with that face

mookieproof, Friday, 26 January 2018 19:33 (six years ago) link

NYT: Hillary Clinton Chose to Shield a Top Adviser Accused of Harassment in 2008 via @NYTimes https://t.co/k6lPC3Ffvg

— Jake Tapper (@jaketapper) January 26, 2018

flappy bird, Friday, 26 January 2018 19:34 (six years ago) link

so out of character

President Keyes, Friday, 26 January 2018 19:34 (six years ago) link

not surprised about this. it came out last year that Lena Dunham had told them about Weinstein and they ignored that as well. she's been doing this since 1975. it may be the recurring theme in her career.

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Friday, 26 January 2018 19:34 (six years ago) link

lena dunham told clinton? told who?

akm, Friday, 26 January 2018 19:35 (six years ago) link

Lena Dunham told Clinton personally in 1975 that Weinstein was a creep.

Frederik B, Friday, 26 January 2018 21:14 (six years ago) link

Nassar's statement was delusional and a little surprising in its brazenness. Also know as: being a white man.

― Yerac, Thursday, January 25, 2018

um

Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Friday, 26 January 2018 21:22 (six years ago) link

Curious what happens with the Wynn report. Unlike even Weinstein and other corporate leader's, guy's a billionaire.

... (Eazy), Friday, 26 January 2018 21:27 (six years ago) link

ugh autocorrect *leaders

... (Eazy), Friday, 26 January 2018 21:27 (six years ago) link

Karmic payback for sticking his elbow through Picasso's Le Rêve and still making a crazy profit.
https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2006/10/23/the-40-million-elbow
https://www.npr.org/sections/thetwo-way/2013/03/26/175412881/years-after-the-elbow-incident-steve-wynn-sells-picassos-le-r-ve-for-155-million

Elvis Telecom, Saturday, 27 January 2018 06:06 (six years ago) link

as someone pointed out this should be followed by a times piece on dean baquet “shielding” glenn thrush, which happened, you know, LAST YEAR. i’m so over clinton as emmanuel goldstein

maura, Saturday, 27 January 2018 20:21 (six years ago) link

(the clinton “shielding” piece i mean)

maura, Saturday, 27 January 2018 20:21 (six years ago) link

I cannot take anyone seriously who still, STILL brings up Clinton. It's automatically a parody. The NYT needs to get their shit together.

Yerac, Saturday, 27 January 2018 20:58 (six years ago) link

jfc guys, hillary clinton does not get a free pass for making a poor decision just because 90 percent of the things the media say about her are stupid, and it was not wrong of the NYT to report on this. if you disagree, ask yourself how you'd feel if the story were literally any other politician choosing not to fire a top adviser who'd sexually harassed someone.

(The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Saturday, 27 January 2018 21:14 (six years ago) link

Yeah, you missed the point of what Maura was saying.

Yerac, Saturday, 27 January 2018 21:17 (six years ago) link

yeah thanks for missing the point dude. hope you’re as hard on baquet. or any other number of men who also engaged in “shielding” but who haven’t been deemed the demon beast by right wing types.

maura, Saturday, 27 January 2018 21:19 (six years ago) link

i’m fine with more reporting on this. but the wealth could maybe be spread to people who are actually in office??

maura, Saturday, 27 January 2018 21:20 (six years ago) link

sorry i "missed the point," i guess, but i think thrush should have been fired too and i have no problem condemning the nyt for not doing that

(The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Saturday, 27 January 2018 21:25 (six years ago) link

yeah well maybe you should take a second and think about why the times might investigate clinton instead of *gestures at lots of men*

maura, Saturday, 27 January 2018 22:06 (six years ago) link

clinton derangement syndrome is real and at least some of its causes are intimately involved with all of the other shit in this thread

maura, Saturday, 27 January 2018 22:07 (six years ago) link

my guess as to why the times might investigate clinton is because she's very famous and positions herself as a defender of women's rights, so a story about how she failed a victim of sexual harassment might have some relevance

this does not negate any of your other, valid points tho of course

k3vin k., Saturday, 27 January 2018 22:22 (six years ago) link

discrediting a private citizen who lost an election a year plus ago just seems a bit fishy timing wise but what do i know

maura, Saturday, 27 January 2018 22:30 (six years ago) link

(and who’s a woman)

(like i know the man bites dog aspect but come on)

maura, Saturday, 27 January 2018 22:31 (six years ago) link

anyway wynn is building a casino here in MA and the gaming commission has announced an investigation of him

maura, Saturday, 27 January 2018 22:32 (six years ago) link

nicole eggert has been tweeting a lot about how her former CHARLES IN CHARGE costar scott baio took advantage of her as a teen

Ask @scottbaio what happened in his garage at his house when I was a minor. Creep. https://t.co/YrQydBKd0a

— Nicole Eggert (@NicoleEggert) January 27, 2018

maura, Saturday, 27 January 2018 22:34 (six years ago) link

Didn't Erin Moran at least hint at some awfulness re: Baio? Or am I misremembering?

Senior Soft-Serve Tech at the Froyo Arroyo (Old Lunch), Sunday, 28 January 2018 00:31 (six years ago) link

i don’t remember but i found this while looking

http://www.latimes.com/entertainment/la-et-entertainment-news-updates-april-scott-baio-amends-callous-comments-made-1493133783-htmlstory.html

Facing criticism for his comments, Baio first took to Twitter to build his defense on the fact that he said "if you use drugs and alcohol," before moving on to blame critics for only hating him because of his support for the president.

🙄

maura, Sunday, 28 January 2018 03:49 (six years ago) link

three more women have come out with allegations against jeremy piven

https://www.buzzfeed.com/krystieyandoli/jeremy-piven-sexual-misconduct-allegations-follow-up

maura, Sunday, 28 January 2018 14:24 (six years ago) link

I am reading Scott Baio's response to Eggert and he is only burying himself further.

Yerac, Sunday, 28 January 2018 15:04 (six years ago) link

Seems like the MAGA goons are defending him full force

President Keyes, Sunday, 28 January 2018 15:31 (six years ago) link

Well, yeah. How can America get great again without Scott Baio?

Josh in Chicago, Sunday, 28 January 2018 15:50 (six years ago) link

i mean they pretty much have shown that they’re ok with whatever happens to women as long as they can cling by their fingernails to whatever power they still have

maura, Sunday, 28 January 2018 16:05 (six years ago) link

^^ otm ^^

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Sunday, 28 January 2018 21:47 (six years ago) link

HRC just responded to the NYT story:

https://www.facebook.com/hillaryclinton/posts/1811310308925490

(The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Wednesday, 31 January 2018 03:45 (six years ago) link

Alex Press in Vox (!) on "carceral feminism"

https://www.vox.com/the-big-idea/2018/2/1/16952744/me-too-larry-nassar-judge-aquilina-feminism

Simon H., Thursday, 1 February 2018 14:09 (six years ago) link

Leaping off that article to the below, which is one of the saddest things I have read recently. I seriously did not know how bad sex trafficking is in the US where men are paying to have sex with children because they just can't pass up an opportunity that presents itself??? And that the justice system has no real way to prosecute them when the victims are traumatized/abused children who are unreliable witnesses and it's hard to prove that the men didn't know they were underaged.

https://www.usatoday.com/story/opinion/nation-now/2018/01/30/sex-trafficking-column/1073459001/

Yerac, Thursday, 1 February 2018 16:57 (six years ago) link

Upenn revoking honorary degrees from Steve Wynn and, in a timely fashion, Bill Cosby.

President Keyes, Thursday, 1 February 2018 17:39 (six years ago) link

In future all honorary degrees will be rigged to self-destruct (triggered remotely by the university's board, as needed).

I'm my own emotional support animal (Ye Mad Puffin), Thursday, 1 February 2018 18:58 (six years ago) link

they can't all be upstanding citizens who not only coach and win a lot of games involving a leather ball but also have enough time to shield a child molester.

omar little, Thursday, 1 February 2018 19:01 (six years ago) link

that sex trafficking piece is in a tight race with the Splinter health care piece from yesterday for upsetting stories, yes

Simon H., Thursday, 1 February 2018 19:03 (six years ago) link

please revoke every degree given to james franco

infinity (∞), Thursday, 1 February 2018 19:04 (six years ago) link

v weird seeing stuff with franco that was taped before the golden globes still going up weeks later. mainly thinking of this:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=egzvLWeMK_U&

flappy bird, Thursday, 1 February 2018 19:28 (six years ago) link

Robert Wagner. i hold out hope that one of these mf'ing men admit to what they have done.

Yerac, Thursday, 1 February 2018 23:20 (six years ago) link

i hope my alma mater does the same with cosby, who received his degree the year i got my bachelors

maura, Thursday, 1 February 2018 23:24 (six years ago) link

wagner? are we talking about natlie wood?

akm, Thursday, 1 February 2018 23:44 (six years ago) link

i was a little glum earlier when i thought they were talking about james garner rather than robert wagner

j., Friday, 2 February 2018 02:52 (six years ago) link

Alex Press in Vox (!) on "carceral feminism"

https://www.vox.com/the-big-idea/2018/2/1/16952744/me-too-larry-nassar-judge-aquilina-feminism

― Simon H., Thursday, February 1, 2018 9:09 AM

interesting article. I think most reasonable people would agree that we should be cautious about throwing more people in jail as a result of expanding definitions of gendered offenses, but it doesn’t really seem like that is imminent here in the US. for now the biggest issue seems to be creating an environment where women feel safe reporting crimes committed against them

k3vin k., Friday, 2 February 2018 13:56 (six years ago) link

that article seems to be more focused on existing problems rather than warning about possible future ones. ppl being evicted, trapped in their jobs, abused by police and so on are clearly pretty big issues

ogmor, Friday, 2 February 2018 15:12 (six years ago) link

The takeaway that I got from the article is that since the justice system tends to mostly work for certain crimes and for people of a certain class/race/gender, as much as some of us would love to lock up or fine sexual predators/harassers this is not practical. Instead we have to address wealth inequality, the patriarchy, power inequality between the sexes. Which I agree with.

Yerac, Friday, 2 February 2018 15:44 (six years ago) link

whats going on w Rose McGowan? apparently she was heckled by a trans activist and decided she doesn't want the stress and now people are dragging her on Twitter for not wanting to put herself in this abusive situation. people are acting like she owes them something. it is pretty sad.

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Saturday, 3 February 2018 01:26 (six years ago) link

Yeah I see the usual twitter assholes calling her a TERF

President Keyes, Saturday, 3 February 2018 03:01 (six years ago) link

the stuff she said looks bad in print but on the video it seems like a reaction to being shouted at for quite awhile

President Keyes, Saturday, 3 February 2018 03:11 (six years ago) link

woe betide the half-woke

mookieproof, Saturday, 3 February 2018 03:17 (six years ago) link

woe betide the half-woke...

flappy bird, Saturday, 3 February 2018 03:49 (six years ago) link

the real battle then becomes: who gets to define the all-woke and half-woke, combined with the fierce rise of the woker-than-thou.

A is for (Aimless), Saturday, 3 February 2018 04:03 (six years ago) link

ain't no such thing as halfway woke

while my dirk gently weeps (symsymsym), Saturday, 3 February 2018 04:44 (six years ago) link

there absolutely is

flappy bird, Saturday, 3 February 2018 04:46 (six years ago) link

happens to me every morning

flappy bird, Saturday, 3 February 2018 04:46 (six years ago) link

"woe betide the half-woke" is actually a pretty deep sentiment in the present cultural environment imo - I grew up around Marxists who hated liberals much, much more than they hated conservatives, and I'm friends with plenty of people like that right now; the tendency to think of a partial ally, or a flawed ally, or an anything-less-than-100%-onboard-with-the-program ally as more deserving of enemy status than an enemy -- this is totally familiar territory for anybody who's spent time in communist part meetings, but it's got reach now. I consider this really unhealthy, even though I do think it's very healthy for white liberals to be reminded that meaning well in your heart is bare-minimum stuff, not you-get-a-cookie stuff. but the act of denying the cookie isn't really worth the camera time it's getting rn imo

she carries a torch. two torches, actually (Joan Crawford Loves Chachi), Saturday, 3 February 2018 13:28 (six years ago) link

*party obv

she carries a torch. two torches, actually (Joan Crawford Loves Chachi), Saturday, 3 February 2018 13:29 (six years ago) link

At least in the pre-internet days you could have a private life and a social life that was separate. Life these days is an eternal Central Committee meeting.

treeship 2, Saturday, 3 February 2018 13:57 (six years ago) link

The people harrassing Rose McGowan because she had an emotional breakdown are monsters.

treeship 2, Saturday, 3 February 2018 14:01 (six years ago) link

I feel like the flaws was always why McGowan was so important and powerful.

Frederik B, Saturday, 3 February 2018 16:04 (six years ago) link

https://www.nytimes.com/2018/02/03/opinion/sunday/this-is-why-uma-thurman-is-angry.html?smid=fb-share

is this going to fuck up tarantino's career?

akm, Saturday, 3 February 2018 16:14 (six years ago) link

It had better

El Tomboto, Saturday, 3 February 2018 16:29 (six years ago) link

Man, that car crash footage!

Josh in Chicago, Saturday, 3 February 2018 16:33 (six years ago) link

I don’t get why they needed to use a fucked up car. She definitely is entitled to serious compensation for that.

treeship 2, Saturday, 3 February 2018 16:45 (six years ago) link

Thurman says that in “Kill Bill,” Tarantino had done the honors with some of the sadistic flourishes himself, spitting in her face in the scene where Michael Madsen is seen on screen doing it and choking her with a chain in the scene where a teenager named Gogo is on screen doing it.

Jesus.

Simon H., Saturday, 3 February 2018 16:46 (six years ago) link

Like I can imagine an actor/director relationship where jumping in for stuff like that would actually make sense, but in the context of everything else mentioned in this story, just, goddamn.

Simon H., Saturday, 3 February 2018 16:48 (six years ago) link

Tarantino has always been the worst American filmmaker. Not that that is relevant to this. But still.

treeship 2, Saturday, 3 February 2018 16:49 (six years ago) link

I am surprised that someone with QT's narrative fetishes is a sick fuck.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 3 February 2018 16:52 (six years ago) link

now i understand her terse response just a little better
how gross
haven't read the full deets but the info contained itt is more than enough to get the picture

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Saturday, 3 February 2018 16:57 (six years ago) link

His movies are incredibly hateful — gushing tributes to vulgarity with just enough ironic distance to establish his own sophistication. The paradigm, for me, of the worst possible way to make art.

treeship 2, Saturday, 3 February 2018 16:59 (six years ago) link

Of course he would treat his actresses as objects. His entire approach — his empty formalism — involves a fundamental lack of respect for cinema, for storytelling, for human experience and vulnerability.

treeship 2, Saturday, 3 February 2018 17:02 (six years ago) link

Treeship otm

Winter. Dickens. Yes. (Jon not Jon), Saturday, 3 February 2018 17:11 (six years ago) link

well put indeed

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 3 February 2018 17:12 (six years ago) link

making death proof after that is unbelievably fucked up

didn’t he also personally choke out diane kruger onscreen in inglorious basterds?

i gotta be a gazpacho man (bizarro gazzara), Saturday, 3 February 2018 17:15 (six years ago) link

Yes, those are his hands strangling Kruger.

Chris L, Saturday, 3 February 2018 17:16 (six years ago) link

There's really no need to align his awful movies with him as a person; he's quite obviously an awful bastard in his own right.

That footage is something else.

Le Bateau Ivre, Saturday, 3 February 2018 18:12 (six years ago) link

maybe. the movies would be bad even if he was a great guy though.

treeship 2, Saturday, 3 February 2018 18:21 (six years ago) link

Exactly.

Le Bateau Ivre, Saturday, 3 February 2018 18:38 (six years ago) link

I just rewatched Kill Bill 1&2 a month ago. I still found really great parts of the movie but the entire hospital scene with Buck was some extreme pervy/predator bullshit.

Yerac, Saturday, 3 February 2018 19:05 (six years ago) link

but at the same time LBI i don't think the movies are bad in a way that is totally disconnected from his own behavior. you can deduce from an artwork what the creator is like but at the same time the art doesn't come from nowhere. the trendy nihilism of those films -- which seemed so revolutionary in the 90s -- said something about our society and not something good

treeship 2, Saturday, 3 February 2018 19:25 (six years ago) link

*you can't deduce

treeship 2, Saturday, 3 February 2018 19:25 (six years ago) link

It's circular. There is so much surplus rape/sexual assault in mainstream movies and tv (how else to advance a storyline or provide complexity to a woman's character development???) that it feeds into men being shitty to women in real life, then the shitty men producing it onscreen. Rinse, repeat.

Yerac, Saturday, 3 February 2018 19:31 (six years ago) link

trendy nihilism of those films -- which seemed so revolutionary in the 90s

I was middle-aged in the 1990s. Reservoir Dogs and Pulp Fiction struck me as trendy nihilism, but hardly revolutionary. I found them rather dismaying. I thought Jackie Brown was a pretty decent movie.

A is for (Aimless), Saturday, 3 February 2018 19:32 (six years ago) link

credit for jackie brown rests mainly with elmore leonard, really

i gotta be a gazpacho man (bizarro gazzara), Saturday, 3 February 2018 19:34 (six years ago) link

Jackie Brown is his best for sure, there's definitely a kindness towards the two leads he never seemed to feel for any other characters

bhad and bhabie (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Saturday, 3 February 2018 19:35 (six years ago) link

i wonder what pam grier thinks of all this. (and bridget fonda, for that matter.)

does anyone remember how, so many of the PULP FICTION fanboys hated JB? (well except the parts with samuel l jackson.) i always wondered if that twisted tarantino in some way.

maura, Saturday, 3 February 2018 19:36 (six years ago) link

i actually forgot that qt directed jackie brown. i don't remember much about that movie but i remember liking it and thinking that it seemed very dissimilar from tarantino's other works. less stylized, seemed interested in the characters, etc

treeship 2, Saturday, 3 February 2018 19:48 (six years ago) link

It seems pretty obvious that Death Proof is at least on some level about Uma Thurman and Stuntman Mike is meant to represent Tarantino himself, no?

Frederik B, Saturday, 3 February 2018 20:09 (six years ago) link

I just rewatched Kill Bill 1&2 a month ago. I still found really great parts of the movie but the entire hospital scene with Buck was some extreme pervy/predator bullshit.

― Yerac

......

flappy bird, Saturday, 3 February 2018 21:25 (six years ago) link

Yeah newsflash the scene where the guy bribes nurses so he can fuck comatose patients is extremely pervy. almost like something a rapist predator would do. jesus christ.

flappy bird, Saturday, 3 February 2018 21:27 (six years ago) link

The Uma op-ed accuses only Weinstein of sexual assault; QT is simply accused of being an asshole and a creep, which we all already were aware of to some extent.

Not sure why we need another thread to turn into a pile-on about how Tarantino’s movies are bad not good

El Tomboto, Saturday, 3 February 2018 21:39 (six years ago) link

Putting Thurman in harm’s way by dismissing her objections to using a vehicle she was worried was unsafe and subsequently keeping the footage of the crash from her goes a bit beyond that.

gyac, Saturday, 3 February 2018 21:45 (six years ago) link

Not sure why we need another thread to turn into a pile-on about how Tarantino’s movies are bad not good

― El Tomboto, Saturday, February 3, 2018 4:39 PM (seven minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

yeah exactly it's just boring. there's A LOT to talk about w/r/t this story with Weinstein & Tarantino, as gyac mentioned above.

flappy bird, Saturday, 3 February 2018 21:48 (six years ago) link

I just rewatched Kill Bill 1&2 a month ago. I still found really great parts of the movie but the entire hospital scene with Buck was some extreme pervy/predator bullshit.

― Yerac

......

― flappy bird, Saturday, February 3, 2018 1:25 PM (fifty-six minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Yeah newsflash the scene where the guy bribes nurses so he can fuck comatose patients is extremely pervy. almost like something a rapist predator would do. jesus christ.

― flappy bird, Saturday, February 3, 2018 1:27 PM (fifty-four minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

I think women are allowed to be creeped out by this scene if they feel Tarantino's "issues" may have informed it.

omar little, Saturday, 3 February 2018 22:26 (six years ago) link

That was my point as well. No need to dissect his movies with a 'but you can't disconnect the creator from his work' etc, when this thread is about misogyny and abuse of women.

xp

Le Bateau Ivre, Saturday, 3 February 2018 22:28 (six years ago) link

lol i'm not creep policing ("allowed"?), i'm just saying it's a really disturbing scene, maybe one of the creepiest in his whole body of work, and always has been

flappy bird, Saturday, 3 February 2018 22:35 (six years ago) link

Sorry I said "allowed" after you went "....." and "newsflash" and "Jesus Christ" at a female poster over her discomfort about a rape scene in a movie

omar little, Saturday, 3 February 2018 22:47 (six years ago) link

That scene never stood out to me in the film, like say, the "gimp" scene in PF. Now watching it as a much older, informed viewer it was super ugh to rewatch. The scene is juvenile and degrading (especially to the viewer.) Just all these rapey scenes in movies/tv, what real purpose are they serving?

Yerac, Saturday, 3 February 2018 22:50 (six years ago) link

being flippant & sarcastic has nothing to do with "allowing" or preventing anyone from feeling anything

xp gotcha. i think in both cases it's just a setup for particularly brutal revenge kill scenes. beatrix biting buck's tongue off, slamming his head in a door, that rules. same with bruce willis stabbing the dude with the katana. certainly many gratuitous & pointless rape scenes in pop culture but i wouldn't imo say that about these scenes. but thats just imo

flappy bird, Saturday, 3 February 2018 22:53 (six years ago) link

Cool QT, you want to write rapey scenes as a little bit of comedic relief. Go nuts.

Yerac, Saturday, 3 February 2018 22:53 (six years ago) link

I have enjoyed some of Tarantino's work over the past twenty years since Jackie Brown but I also remember when his career held real cinematic promise w/those few three films (Morbius -- I know, I know)

omar little, Saturday, 3 February 2018 22:53 (six years ago) link

He's become more juvenile the older he gets, indulging in his worst instincts rather than honing his best ones.

omar little, Saturday, 3 February 2018 22:55 (six years ago) link

See and I thought it was gratuitous, not really needed for the plot and adds to the huge problem of, in this case, directors degrading and abusing their female actors. Didn't it even come out recently that the butter scene in Last Tango in Paris was a surprise to the actress?

Yerac, Saturday, 3 February 2018 22:56 (six years ago) link

Schneider told that story about a decade ago. Ofcourse she wasn't fully believed and up until today it comes up because people question it.

Le Bateau Ivre, Saturday, 3 February 2018 22:59 (six years ago) link

I'm glad that Keira Knightly actually stated that she tends not to do modern movies because the character is nearly always raped.

Yerac, Saturday, 3 February 2018 23:03 (six years ago) link

People have noticed that the Uma piece was relegated to the Opinion section, which strikes me as kind of awful. Does anyone know if it might serve as a way to provide legal cover? (It sounds dubious to me but it's the only justification I can think of.)

Simon H., Saturday, 3 February 2018 23:04 (six years ago) link

probably because maureen dowd is normally an opinion writer?

mookieproof, Saturday, 3 February 2018 23:05 (six years ago) link

I just looked up the Salma Hayek one and it's listed under Opinion too.

Yerac, Saturday, 3 February 2018 23:07 (six years ago) link

Right, and the dodgy framing device is the quirk of a hacky opinion writer. So why assign her for a story that's not at all suited to be structured as an opinion piece? (I'm trying to figure out if it's poor editorial choices or a careful calculation of some kind. Probably the former.) xp

Simon H., Saturday, 3 February 2018 23:09 (six years ago) link

Was an Opinion writer also assigned to the Hayek piece?

Simon H., Saturday, 3 February 2018 23:10 (six years ago) link

it's also possible that UT selected the writer she wanted to work with

mookieproof, Saturday, 3 February 2018 23:12 (six years ago) link

Salma Hayek and Sarah Polley had only their names on the byline. I was trying to think of other NYT's recent opinion pieces.

Yerac, Saturday, 3 February 2018 23:15 (six years ago) link

it's also possible that UT selected the writer she wanted to work with

Sure.

Simon H., Saturday, 3 February 2018 23:16 (six years ago) link

Pretty sure the Lupita piece was her byline and in opinion as well
Prob absolves NYT of libel lawsuits I guess?

i believe that (s)he is sincere (forksclovetofu), Saturday, 3 February 2018 23:51 (six years ago) link

That's what I'm thinking, yeah.

Simon H., Saturday, 3 February 2018 23:51 (six years ago) link

I'd be surprised if it mattered, but I'm not a lawyer

k3vin k., Sunday, 4 February 2018 00:02 (six years ago) link

Regarding other criticism of the piece... does anyone know what Matt means here? I’ve seen other people criticize Dowd’s writing in the piece but don’t know why. Not being sarcastic, genuinely curious.

If Maureen Dowd were a film director, she'd be the kind that makes sure to include what she thinks is her "signature" even when it's grossly inappropriate to the subject. Uma Thurman's bravery deserved better than her gimmicks, though the power of the story ultimately won out.

— MZS (@mattzollerseitz) February 3, 2018

flappy bird, Sunday, 4 February 2018 00:06 (six years ago) link

dated pop culture references

El Tomboto, Sunday, 4 February 2018 00:14 (six years ago) link

and that is all the discussion that deserves here

El Tomboto, Sunday, 4 February 2018 00:15 (six years ago) link

Go on

flappy bird, Sunday, 4 February 2018 00:15 (six years ago) link

I thought it was aimed at details like pizza boxes in the fireplace, the tear rolling down Uma's cheek, 'tarantinto aficionados will recognize' (ie. she recognizes). It's hardly worth criticizing. But then it's twitter, so yeah.

Le Bateau Ivre, Sunday, 4 February 2018 01:05 (six years ago) link

i'm sure uma thurman was familiar with dowd's work before she agreed to be interviewed by her. this is a dumb thing to be mad about. the piece was successful in getting her story across.

treeship 2, Sunday, 4 February 2018 01:07 (six years ago) link

Absolutely.

Le Bateau Ivre, Sunday, 4 February 2018 01:10 (six years ago) link

All the writer's smirky references to Tarantino movies in that piece about assault were fuckin *corn emoji*

Whiney G. Weingarten, Sunday, 4 February 2018 04:03 (six years ago) link

By Thanksgiving, Thurman had begun to unsheathe her Hattori Hanzo,

Whiney G. Weingarten, Sunday, 4 February 2018 04:05 (six years ago) link

Like Uma is a hero for this and deserves better than having to be Ready Player One'd for this article

Whiney G. Weingarten, Sunday, 4 February 2018 04:08 (six years ago) link

Ha, I wonder if I saw this tweet

Uma deserved better than Maureen Dowd

— J. Escobedo Shepherd (@jawnita) February 3, 2018

Whiney G. Weingarten, Sunday, 4 February 2018 04:10 (six years ago) link

i am glad Uma got the video & that she made it public. QT’s behaviour infuriates me. Not only for playing out his own torture fantasies but for his cowardice & ineffectualness. Because if ~anyone~ was in a position to shame HW into cutting his shit out or protecting Thurman ~at the very least~, it could have been QT. Operative word being COULD & that’s a fantasy bcz he didn’t. For fuck’s sake Rodriguez leveraged his job & put himself between Weinstein & McGowan and at least tried to help in a proactive, decent way. At least on the way it was told. But RR is maybe more grounded & respects his female stars more than QT idk.

QT releasing that video to Thurman is the ONLY thing could ever be remotely measured as anything close to a tangible apology. It’ll never be enough but it’s a penny in the jar as far as penance goes. I hope he feels as much shame as he should now that the video finally sees the light of day. Because she’s a goddamn human being & she deserves to be treated as such. Not to be misused by cowards & creeps.

And for anyone waiting to parse me no I am not advocating pounds of flesh across the board. In THIS instance, in these circumtances, is all I am talking about.

And liking or not liking QT movies has nothing to do with this.

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Sunday, 4 February 2018 04:45 (six years ago) link

All the writer's smirky references to Tarantino movies in that piece about assault were fuckin *corn emoji*

you write as if you are new to the work of ms maureen dowd (if you are, i am envious)

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Sunday, 4 February 2018 11:40 (six years ago) link

ok the first sentence in that piece is horrible even if this person is a sexual predator

flamenco drop (BradNelson), Sunday, 4 February 2018 16:02 (six years ago) link

i investigated the blog it came from and wow, never lost something from a terf blog here again imo

flamenco drop (BradNelson), Sunday, 4 February 2018 16:07 (six years ago) link

never post*

flamenco drop (BradNelson), Sunday, 4 February 2018 16:07 (six years ago) link

Yeah, I don't doubt the claims against Dier, but gendertrender is a long-running anti-trans hate site and should be approached with extreme caution.

one way street, Sunday, 4 February 2018 16:10 (six years ago) link

oh fuck I didn't realize it was a TERF site. God damn it.

Millennial Whoop, wanna fight about it? (Phil D.), Sunday, 4 February 2018 16:11 (six years ago) link

it’s ok phil <3

flamenco drop (BradNelson), Sunday, 4 February 2018 16:12 (six years ago) link

The Rose McGowan thing from her reading the other night just got even uglier.

https://gendertrender.wordpress.com/2018/02/02/transwoman-who-heckled-rose-mcgowan-is-a-known-sexual-predator-claim-women/amp/?__twitter_impression=true🕸


That blog seems, uh, biased a bit

El Tomboto, Sunday, 4 February 2018 16:12 (six years ago) link

ugh xposts everyone otm

El Tomboto, Sunday, 4 February 2018 16:13 (six years ago) link

yikes at that terf writeup

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Sunday, 4 February 2018 16:14 (six years ago) link

Which reminds me that Adrien Brody still needs to fucking apologize to Halle Berry.

Yerac, Sunday, 4 February 2018 16:28 (six years ago) link

and Sean Paul

Whiney G. Weingarten, Sunday, 4 February 2018 17:44 (six years ago) link

When did Adrien Brody tongue down Sean Paul?

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Sunday, 4 February 2018 20:18 (six years ago) link

Dan you are paying for my therapy aaaargh that it the worst mental image

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Sunday, 4 February 2018 20:31 (six years ago) link

I'm reading Aubrey's Brief Lives and in the Sir Francis Bacon entry Aubrey causally - albeit in Greek letters, presumably to soften the charge - says "he was a pedarest"

dudes of stature being awful and not worrying too much about it are a fuckin very very entrenched western & possibly human tradition

she carries a torch. two torches, actually (Joan Crawford Loves Chachi), Sunday, 4 February 2018 22:57 (six years ago) link

shake. that. thing..... Mr. Adrien-a

bhad and bhabie (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Monday, 5 February 2018 03:12 (six years ago) link

https://www.reviewjournal.com/investigations/las-vegas-review-journal-killed-story-in-1998-about-steve-wynn-sex-misconduct-claims/

Claims that casino developer Steve Wynn sexually harassed employees could have surfaced years ago but the Las Vegas Review-Journal in 1998 stopped publication of a story that would have brought the issue to light. After killing the article, the newspaper ordered the reporter who wrote it to delete it from the newspaper’s computer system.

The Review-Journal’s decision came after Wynn’s attorneys met with the reporter and the newspaper paid for lie-detector tests for two women who alleged a culture of harassment at the Wynn-owned Mirage.

j., Monday, 5 February 2018 15:25 (six years ago) link

I see someone's out doing damage control

https://deadline.com/2018/02/quentin-tarantino-uma-thurman-harvey-weinstein-kill-bill-car-crash-new-york-times-1202278988/

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 6 February 2018 04:29 (six years ago) link

not really she doubles down on everyone but qt

flappy bird, Tuesday, 6 February 2018 04:38 (six years ago) link

it's not as if qt was the one that might sue her

flappy bird, Tuesday, 6 February 2018 04:38 (six years ago) link

It's still damage control on his part! And yes, saw Thurman's follow-up. Regardless, he seems to have realized he needs to start saying a little more.

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 6 February 2018 04:39 (six years ago) link

oh whoops i thought that deadline article was about UT's instagram post, didn't know QT had commented, my bad

flappy bird, Tuesday, 6 February 2018 04:59 (six years ago) link

triangulating Quentin's interview and Uma's post:

i post this clip to memorialize it’s full exposure in the nyt by Maureen Dowd.

the circumstances of this event were negligent to the point of criminality.

i do not believe though with malicious intent.
Quentin Tarantino, was deeply regretful and remains remorseful about this sorry event, and gave me the footage years later so i could expose it and let it see the light of day, regardless of it most likely being an event for which justice will never be possible.

he also did so with full knowledge it could cause him personal harm, and i am proud of him for doing the right thing and for his courage.

THE COVER UP after the fact is UNFORGIVABLE.
for this i hold Lawrence Bender, E. Bennett Walsh, and the notorious Harvey Weinstein solely responsible.
they lied, destroyed evidence, and continue to lie about the permanent harm they caused and then chose to suppress.
the cover up did have malicious intent, and shame on these three for all eternity.

CAA never sent anyone to Mexico.

i hope they look after other clients more respectfully if they in fact want to do the job for which they take money with any decency.

makes the tics of Dowd's piece even more frustrating.

Haribo Hancock (sic), Tuesday, 6 February 2018 06:28 (six years ago) link

CAA is fucking useless for sure but so is SAG-AFTRA in all this. Where is the goddamn union?

El Tomboto, Tuesday, 6 February 2018 11:07 (six years ago) link

Tarantino: No, that was not the case AT ALL. She wanted to have it and dated the guy and—

Quivers: She was 13!

Tarantino: And by the way, we’re talking about America’s morals, not talking about the morals in Europe and everything.

Stern: Wait a minute. If you have sex with a 13-year-old girl and you’re a grown man, you know that that’s wrong.

Quivers: ...giving her booze and pills...

Tarantino: Look, she was down with this.

frogbs, Tuesday, 6 February 2018 13:43 (six years ago) link

boy the Stern archives are an invaluabe resource, huh

Simon H., Tuesday, 6 February 2018 13:47 (six years ago) link

*invaluable

Simon H., Tuesday, 6 February 2018 13:48 (six years ago) link

yep

maura, Tuesday, 6 February 2018 14:50 (six years ago) link

didn't stop trump from getting elected of course

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Tuesday, 6 February 2018 15:52 (six years ago) link

everything is meaningless

Nhex, Tuesday, 6 February 2018 16:33 (six years ago) link

everything is meaningless


My life isn’t yet fuck these fuckers

El Tomboto, Wednesday, 7 February 2018 03:15 (six years ago) link

Bring the mob back to Vegas

louise ck (milo z), Wednesday, 7 February 2018 05:35 (six years ago) link

NEWS: White House staff secretary Robert Porter is leaving his post amid allegations that he was abusive toward his ex-wives. Story coming soon to @WSJ.

— Rebecca Ballhaus (@rebeccaballhaus) February 7, 2018

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 7 February 2018 18:51 (six years ago) link

Well 'allegations' was too light a word, clearly.

Meantime...

http://www.indiewire.com/2018/02/quentin-tarantino-apologizes-roman-polanski-victim-samantha-geimer-1201926322/

When Howard brought up Polanski, I incorrectly played devil’s advocate in the debate for the sake of being provocative.

Indeed.

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 8 February 2018 17:28 (six years ago) link

I love how in all the old Howard excerpts that have been periodically pulled out for nearly 2 years, Howard & Robin are p much always the sober voice of reason.

flappy bird, Thursday, 8 February 2018 17:52 (six years ago) link

y'all missed the best part:

I am not alone in wanting Tarantino to keep making movies. He’s one of our finest and fearless filmmakers, no matter how idiotically he behaved on the Howard Stern Show. Who else could have envisioned Jews actually killing Hitler in “Inglourius Basterds” or slaves bucking their masters in “Django Unchained”? Political correctness is not his strong suit and never will be.

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 8 February 2018 17:56 (six years ago) link

:/

Simon H., Thursday, 8 February 2018 17:57 (six years ago) link

it's true, no Jew ever imagined killing Hitler

frogbs, Thursday, 8 February 2018 18:00 (six years ago) link

who else could have closed their eyes and dreamed up the idea of killing slave owners but Quentin Tarantino

omar little, Thursday, 8 February 2018 18:04 (six years ago) link

"bucking"

Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Thursday, 8 February 2018 22:23 (six years ago) link

https://www.politico.com/story/2018/02/08/ed-crane-cato-institute-sexual-harassment-398989

Three former employees of the famed Cato Institute say they were sexually harassed by Ed Crane, the 73-year-old co-founder and president emeritus of the think tank and one of the most recognizable figures in the libertarian movement.

One former employee said Crane asked her to take off her bra. Another said he compared her breasts to pornographic images on his computer. A third said he sent her an email on breast augmentation. Crane also settled an additional sexual harassment claim by a former employee in 2012, her lawyer confirmed to POLITICO.

say it ain't so

j., Friday, 9 February 2018 02:15 (six years ago) link

The transcript:

Tarantino: No, that was not the case AT ALL. She wanted to have it and dated the guy and—

Quivers: She was 13!

Tarantino: And by the way, we’re talking about America’s morals, not talking about the morals in Europe and everything.

Stern: Wait a minute. If you have sex with a 13-year-old girl and you’re a grown man, you know that that’s wrong.

Quivers: ...giving her booze and pills...

Tarantino: Look, she was down with this.

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 9 February 2018 12:26 (six years ago) link

Augment your freedoms!

how's life, Friday, 9 February 2018 12:36 (six years ago) link

A rare US version of the dumb-as-rocks "this metoo thing is typical american puritanism!" thing being vomited up by Euro cinema types who should know better on my timeline atm.

Daniel_Rf, Friday, 9 February 2018 13:28 (six years ago) link

j f c

Did Conrad Black really just say this? https://t.co/oa4RNF5c4l pic.twitter.com/aa5FKo5ras

— Jake Reid (@JakeAReid) February 9, 2018

mookieproof, Friday, 9 February 2018 19:36 (six years ago) link

A rare US version of the dumb-as-rocks "this metoo thing is typical american puritanism!" thing being vomited up by Euro cinema types who should know better on my timeline atm.

― Daniel_Rf, Friday, February 9, 2018 8:28 AM (six hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Ku-tRgWZuc

flappy bird, Friday, 9 February 2018 19:38 (six years ago) link

if you know anything about conrad black this is the opposite of surprising xp

Simon H., Friday, 9 February 2018 19:39 (six years ago) link

I'm completely unfamiliar with this person but the juxtaposition of "magnificently concupiscent" and "She offered to do me" tells me all I need to know

evol j, Friday, 9 February 2018 19:47 (six years ago) link

i'm not surprised CB wrote it, just surprised that anyone, including the paper he founded, would think it worth publishing

mookieproof, Friday, 9 February 2018 19:56 (six years ago) link

Conrad Black is our nation's finest public intellectual

while my dirk gently weeps (symsymsym), Friday, 9 February 2018 19:58 (six years ago) link

I don't think the National Post is allowed to refuse, or to edit, his pieces

while my dirk gently weeps (symsymsym), Friday, 9 February 2018 19:59 (six years ago) link

https://edition.cnn.com/2018/02/09/politics/trump-rob-porter/index.html

""I found out about it recently and I was surprised by it," Trump said. "We certainly wish him well. It's obviously a very tough time for him. He did a very good job while he was in the White House."
"We hope that he will have a wonderful career," Trump added"

man.

akm, Friday, 9 February 2018 20:14 (six years ago) link

We finally found out what @ConradMBlack has to say before the @nationalpost actually dares to edit one of his lunatic columns. Political correctness run amok, I guess! pic.twitter.com/WEnMaai5Qi

— Jesse Brown (@JesseBrown) February 9, 2018

Chuck_Tatum, Friday, 9 February 2018 22:08 (six years ago) link

oh ffs you cretin

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Monday, 12 February 2018 12:56 (six years ago) link

he loves women though

lol

maura, Monday, 12 February 2018 13:21 (six years ago) link

shouldn't it be a "warlock hunt" then?

just sayin.

I'm walking on Sondheim (Ye Mad Puffin), Monday, 12 February 2018 13:32 (six years ago) link

#MeToo has led to a witch hunt coloured by a hatred of men

― Chuck_Tatum, Monday, February 12, 2018

said in the voice of Herzog

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 12 February 2018 13:32 (six years ago) link

“what about the men” is maybe the 35073rd question anyone should ask, and yet because it’s provocative in that holding up the status quo while being a dick about it way (and also because of who’s still running the show in media) it’s right up top. amazing how hegemony asserts itself

maura, Monday, 12 February 2018 13:35 (six years ago) link

maura otm; I'm sure he thinks he's being daring, and bravely speaking out, but the attitude is one that's ruled the world for centuries.

I'm walking on Sondheim (Ye Mad Puffin), Monday, 12 February 2018 13:51 (six years ago) link

hot takes from white men

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Monday, 12 February 2018 14:28 (six years ago) link

white men takes back

President Keyes, Monday, 12 February 2018 14:29 (six years ago) link

yes, septuagenarian white men sure do spend a lot of their scarce time left reminding the rest of us to put them on mute

El Tomboto, Monday, 12 February 2018 14:31 (six years ago) link

when women speak out about being abused by powerful men it's like a "witch hunt" - those times when powerful men rounded up women whose behaviour they disapproved of and ritually killed them. it's just like that! same thing, basically!

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Monday, 12 February 2018 14:38 (six years ago) link

Any pushback feels like oppression to the oppressor.

Nonsense Ape Debones His Foot (Old Lunch), Monday, 12 February 2018 14:39 (six years ago) link

I mean “outspoken white guy” + “over 69” = guess what, more of them are Hanekes and Trumps than Bernies or Bidens

as in most of this entire saga you can usually tell the retrograde silverback wannabes by the fact that they are talking

El Tomboto, Monday, 12 February 2018 14:39 (six years ago) link

open question to thread: what pop websites online are good for news with female perspective? thinking about jezebel, bust, mary sue variety; curious to see what other media is out there.

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Monday, 12 February 2018 17:07 (six years ago) link

My first thought: who the hell is Michael Haneke?
My second thought: that question's not worth answering.

A is for (Aimless), Monday, 12 February 2018 19:08 (six years ago) link

the 45th greatest director of all time

omar little, Monday, 12 February 2018 19:11 (six years ago) link

45th, eh. so, where did Woody Allen place?

A is for (Aimless), Monday, 12 February 2018 19:17 (six years ago) link

97th

Le Bateau Ivre, Monday, 12 February 2018 19:19 (six years ago) link

then he and woody belong to a highly distinguished group, no doubt.

A is for (Aimless), Monday, 12 February 2018 19:21 (six years ago) link

Well, Hitchcock won, so...

Le Bateau Ivre, Monday, 12 February 2018 19:22 (six years ago) link

I would love to hear Hitchcock's views on the respect that should be accorded to actresses, too. We could poll his, Woody's and Mr. Haneke's views on the subject.

A is for (Aimless), Monday, 12 February 2018 19:28 (six years ago) link

Don't leave out Von Trier, I hear he has some ideas too.

nickn, Monday, 12 February 2018 19:29 (six years ago) link

Bresson too

flappy bird, Monday, 12 February 2018 19:35 (six years ago) link

korean director kim ki-duk's turn

Famed SKorean director #KimKiDuk was convicted of physically abusing an actress. Yet he has been invited to @berlinale film fest that publicly supported #MeToo campaign against abuse of women. I asked Kim's victim how she feels about it @AFP https://t.co/NaWp8dtYga #berlinale2018

— Hawon Jung (@allyjung) February 11, 2018

seems like korea has the most support for having an open conversation on men's sexual misconduct and women's rights issues, while in japan and china it's basically non-existent

papa poutine (∞), Monday, 12 February 2018 19:40 (six years ago) link

cluck-clucking over every male filmmaker in history, goddamn i love atheist moral scolds

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Monday, 12 February 2018 19:45 (six years ago) link

are you really saying every male filmmaker in history abuses or disrespects actresses?

A is for (Aimless), Monday, 12 February 2018 19:48 (six years ago) link

no, you checklisters are coming close enough

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Monday, 12 February 2018 19:50 (six years ago) link

so, it's only the great preponderance of them?

A is for (Aimless), Monday, 12 February 2018 19:51 (six years ago) link

or maybe you'd agree that male filmmakers differ in this regard and by examining their words and actions those differences become apparent so that their views on the matter are open to judgment, including negative judgment?

A is for (Aimless), Monday, 12 February 2018 19:54 (six years ago) link

strange, some posts on this board read as total gibberish to me. must be my eyes.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Monday, 12 February 2018 19:54 (six years ago) link

what exactly was bresson accused of?

(The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Monday, 12 February 2018 19:55 (six years ago) link

I think reading has more to do with brains than eyes, tbh.

A is for (Aimless), Monday, 12 February 2018 19:56 (six years ago) link

filmmakers have historically been mostly men. it's a job the combines artistic privilege with an even more massive power imbalance and (often) a whole lot of people beneath you. the fact that this combination has so often resulted in abuses is not surprising.

Simon H., Monday, 12 February 2018 19:58 (six years ago) link

teasing out individual dead abusers and dragging them for their crimes is not that interesting to me unless there are living victims there to benefit from it. it's a systemic issue.

Simon H., Monday, 12 February 2018 19:59 (six years ago) link

won't someone PLEASE think of the male filmmakers?

I'm walking on Sondheim (Ye Mad Puffin), Monday, 12 February 2018 20:00 (six years ago) link

strange, some posts on this board read as total gibberish to me. must be my eyes.

― ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Monday, February 12, 2018 1:54 PM (five minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Nah, think it's just your keyboard.

You dishonor your ancestors with your emoji abstention (Old Lunch), Monday, 12 February 2018 20:01 (six years ago) link

anyhoo Simon otm

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Monday, 12 February 2018 20:04 (six years ago) link

It's historically important because it highlights how omnipresent that shit has always been (and especially necessary in cinema because there's a whole mystique around directors having to be tyrants/assholes/abusers in the name of their art, which I don't think applies as much to other arts).

I'm fine with accepting Hitch was both one of the greatest directors of all time and an abuser, don't really think pointing the latter out is in and of itself denying the former.

xposts

Daniel_Rf, Monday, 12 February 2018 20:04 (six years ago) link

a whole mystique around directors having to be tyrants/assholes/abusers in the name of their art, which I don't think applies as much to other arts

hmmm, some off-Broadway play about Diaghilev and Nijinsky just opened. And y'know, The Red Shoes and its real-life analogues?

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Monday, 12 February 2018 20:07 (six years ago) link

teasing out individual dead abusers

Dead in the way that michael haneke, lars von trier, woody allen and kim ki duk are dead?

it's a systemic issue.

and yet somehow it is personal, too

A is for (Aimless), Monday, 12 February 2018 20:07 (six years ago) link

hmmm, some off-Broadway play about Diaghilev and Nijinsky just opened. And y'know, The Red Shoes and its real-life analogues?

This is correct, I think this applies to the director role in both theatre and cinema.

Daniel_Rf, Monday, 12 February 2018 20:11 (six years ago) link

yes.

I was referring to Bresson and hitch fwiw xp

Simon H., Monday, 12 February 2018 20:12 (six years ago) link

I think given the significant mental health issues D’arcy has been dealing with for nearly two decades, it would be more gross

what exactly was bresson accused of?


he fell in love with the star of Au Hasard Balthazar, she rebuffed his advances, he treated her like shit for the rest of the shoot.

I agree with Daniel- we can hold two thoughts in our head at once. With living directors, well, they obviously should be criticized if they say something as dumb as Haneke.

flappy bird, Monday, 12 February 2018 20:19 (six years ago) link

Entitled, abusive behavior clearly extends beyond stage/screen directors. TV moguls (Ailes etc), political candidates, novelists back when they could become stars, academics, CEOs, everyday workplace supervisors, ad nauseum.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Monday, 12 February 2018 20:21 (six years ago) link

Yeah we know

flappy bird, Monday, 12 February 2018 20:21 (six years ago) link

seems like a question for another thread really but it struck me as not impossible that the element of directing theatre and film that involves psychological mindfuck, to produce "authentic" performance of extreme states of mind, is an offshoot of the arrival of method acting? (not that bullying didn't exist before,obviously, but that a particular kind of psychological manipulation was greatly enabled, and somewhat encouraged, by the values that method acting most prized)

ballet i think is slightly different (tho i suppose the techniques may be similar) bcz it's pushing people to physical rather than psychogical limits -- tho actually you could sorta-kinda make a not-enitely trollish case for nijinsky being a pioneer of "method ballet"

(it happens in music also: miles, james brown, beefheart, mark e. smith)

mark s, Monday, 12 February 2018 20:23 (six years ago) link

It's been occurring to me as these stories continue to pop up that the key to that kind of provocation in the arts is the presence of a 'safe word' of sorts, a way for a performer to clearly indicate that they're uncomfortable and a sign for a director to back off before they cross a line. Those kinds of interactions can be valuable and reap rewards but boundaries need to be erected and respected or it just crosses the line into exploitation or worse.

You dishonor your ancestors with your emoji abstention (Old Lunch), Monday, 12 February 2018 20:27 (six years ago) link

I'm not suggesting shitty behaviour is limited to ppl in cinema (obv), I'm saying the popular perception of what a Great Director is like is more explicitly enabling of abuses of power than it is for, say, writers or musicians. This does not prevent writers and musicians from abusing their power!

Daniel_Rf, Monday, 12 February 2018 20:28 (six years ago) link

ballet i think is slightly different

― mark s, Monday, February 12, 2018 12:23 PM (four minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

from what a couple dancer exes have told me, it depends on what type of dance, but there is definitely a give it your all, pushing your limits psychologically, especially if the dancer relates to the story and it's a classical one of sorts (like ballet), if there is even a story. this is for another thread, though. i don't want to digress too much but my beef is with contemporary/jazz dance where everything is so abstract and the focus is on body movement/technique (kind of like the nederlands dans theater), plus like a lot of female dancers seem to want to meet their dancer soulmate when it comes to performing a piece, and doing a love duet, which just boggles my mind

papa poutine (∞), Monday, 12 February 2018 20:35 (six years ago) link

(yes, i shd have said classical ballet -- and yes really we shd take this particular idea to a different thread)

mark s, Monday, 12 February 2018 20:40 (six years ago) link

maybe the john cassavetes thread

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Monday, 12 February 2018 20:47 (six years ago) link

Morbs: in your opinion how should these allegations be dealt with?

as a hypothetical: famous actress A accuses famous director X of sexual misconduct.

what should happen?

It's not delivery, it's Adorno! (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Monday, 12 February 2018 21:21 (six years ago) link

Last week, or 50 years past / 90 years past?

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Monday, 12 February 2018 21:25 (six years ago) link

5 years past

It's not delivery, it's Adorno! (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Monday, 12 February 2018 21:29 (six years ago) link

I don't have an answer. Are we talking the judicial system or the court of public opinion? I see deep, abiding flaws in both, and they work occasionally too.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Monday, 12 February 2018 21:43 (six years ago) link

I don't think people who abuse power should be allowed to keep wielding it. (I'd also like to see a much less hierarchical power structure at work in hollywood, along with robust protections helped along by organized labor, but I'm not gonna get all commie in here again I promise)

Simon H., Monday, 12 February 2018 21:57 (six years ago) link

xpost
court of public opinion

It's not delivery, it's Adorno! (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Monday, 12 February 2018 22:28 (six years ago) link

It's also surprisingly easy to make good art and not abuse people

Chuck_Tatum, Tuesday, 13 February 2018 01:35 (six years ago) link

It’s just so easy to not sexually harass people you have supervisory authority over

It’s extremely easy to never do that

direct to consumer online mattress brand (silby), Tuesday, 13 February 2018 01:36 (six years ago) link

hey, what's the point of being an artiste if I can't play grabass

Nhex, Tuesday, 13 February 2018 02:26 (six years ago) link

Forrest J Ackerman outed as an infamous monster:

https://www.tapatalk.com/groups/monsterkidclassichorrorforum/forrest-j-ackerman-s-metoo-moment-t68925.html

Agharta Christie (Ward Fowler), Tuesday, 13 February 2018 10:41 (six years ago) link

ugh

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Tuesday, 13 February 2018 15:09 (six years ago) link

xxxpost

still waiting morbs

It's not delivery, it's Adorno! (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Tuesday, 13 February 2018 15:53 (six years ago) link

It's also surprisingly easy to make good art and not abuse people

It’s just so easy to not sexually harass people you have supervisory authority over

It’s extremely easy to never do that

hey, what's the point of being an artiste if I can't play grabass

A story I told elsewhere on another thread goes like: I went to a party in Soho in my mid-to-late 20s, put on by [a famous literature professor], and attended by [a famous film director], [a famous Broadway actor], [a famous composer], [a very famous author]-- all of whom were between age 45 and 65, all of whom were white and male and wealthy and gay and had "achieved their dignity". The party had many other similarly well-heeled influential white fags in addition to the ones whose names I knew.

The party was also attended by an equal number of gay men aged 20 to 30, including myself, who were all aspirants, people who looked up to these men in positions of power and influence. It became clear to me, as the night went on, that this party, which began as a cultural sort of salon, would conclude with many of these people pairing off to fuck.

I sat with [a famous film director], who was maybe 47 and extremely handsome, who pointed at the 21-year old singer (an gay escapee from Central America) and told me they'd been sleeping together. "I have to break things off with him," he said, affecting an air of melancholy, but unable to conceal the pride with which he was allowing the effects of his agency and influence to be displayed, "because he's becoming too attached to me. He told me he loved me last weekend. I don't think it will last much longer."

I stepped out on to the balcony for a cigarette with [a famous musician] and [the very famous author], who were talking about a particular service that Marc Jacobs employed. "They have a network of rent boys all over the world," the author said, "it doesn't matter where Marc is, at 10pm a young man will knock on his hotel room door, and Marc can decide if he's to come in or to leave. It's all set up through his secretary."

I did not judge the dynamics that were on display, because fags already have a history of being branded as perverts and pedophiles. But the question that this entire experience left me asking myself was this: what comes first? Do these men, playing at "culture", but talking about sex, do they aspire toward dignity and affluence because of a passion for their cultural interests, and find that sex follows their achievements? Or: is their aspiration toward dignity and affluence entirely motivated by sex, and to be surrounded by young gay men for as long as their influence and physical appeal can sustain that attention-- is the cultural stuff just a means to an end?

(If this sounds preposterous, that "that gay author is only writing books to bang young men", then I urge you to read more gay literature and the biographies of the gay men who write it, but anyway.)

I tried over the years to ask this question of older gay friends but never really got an answer-- the conversation would quickly turn away from "what it all means" and back to conversations about dicks and butts. But I've been thinking about it recently, as these stories have slid away from being between boundaries of "what is defined as consensual" and is now just a larger cultural indictment toward the very nature of power, and the way that powerful men wield it.

So in short, hey, what's the point of being an artiste if I can't play grabass is kind of the actual question here, as far as I'm concerned.

I don't know if there's an easy way to answer ums's question of Morbs-- but I do feel that the dialogue which once focused on rape, and then sexual assault, and then coercive sex, and then sexual harassment, and then sexual misconduct, it seems to be conflating ALL forms of male pattern badness, and urging the reader/listener into corralling every creep into a box of predation, sexual assault, illegality, the purpose of which seems to be the implication of carceral punishment, either legal or social. But I don't believe in carceral punishment, neither (I think?) does research. But I don't think many of the accused-famous-people (from basically Louie CK's level of 'crime' on downward) really deserve to lose their job, so much as they should go through a response system that doesn't exist yet. One that would allow them to respond to allegations frankly and fully, to slim down the possibility of legal recourse and thus skip all the meaningless denials, agree to some manner of punishment/rehabilitation that didn't feel rote or stupid, and reorganize the power structure that put them in the place in which they were able to abuse that power so that they were no longer able to abuse it.

On a fundamental level, these problems would be solved (and replaced with new, glorious problems for our future selves to solve) if there was greater gender parity of people in positions of power, but destroying the lives of powerful men who copped a feel seems to me to be a shit way of achieving what could be achieved more effectively by, say, requiring Hollywood studios, colleges and universities, record labels, music festivals, art galleries, and awards programs in all fields to meticulously enforce a 50/50-or-better gender split favouring women in their hiring, green lighting, curation and awarding practices.

But hey, then we wouldn't be able to engage in truth-to-power fantasies, and what fun would that be?

Even if my post is shit logic I hope I get bonus points for "male pattern badness" *cough*

flamboyant goon tie included, Tuesday, 13 February 2018 19:27 (six years ago) link

I can't really argue against the idea that enforced gender parity would result in less toxic workplaces, even if I think the ultimate problem is that these power relationships shouldn't exist at all or should have the power differentials between humans be as minimal as possible. Better is better.

Simon H., Tuesday, 13 February 2018 19:36 (six years ago) link

(Always appreciate yr input on this and all subjects fgti!)

Simon H., Tuesday, 13 February 2018 19:37 (six years ago) link

that was an amazing post.

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Tuesday, 13 February 2018 20:01 (six years ago) link

great post fgti

It's not delivery, it's Adorno! (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Tuesday, 13 February 2018 20:17 (six years ago) link

interesting to hear what's going on behind the FAMOUS GAY PERSON DOORS; sad that it's pretty much the same all over

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Tuesday, 13 February 2018 20:19 (six years ago) link

yeah. i have nothing to add on the subject and will avoid it here henceforth as i do everywhere else online.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 13 February 2018 20:22 (six years ago) link

even if I think the ultimate problem is that these power relationships shouldn't exist at all or should have the power differentials between humans be as minimal as possible

a big problem is in a patriarchal society men by default have more power than women. it goes beyond authority figures, it permeates every interpersonal hierarchy

AdamVania (Adam Bruneau), Tuesday, 13 February 2018 20:24 (six years ago) link

Thanks for that, fgti. Window into where the conversation will go from here. And yeah, Male Pattern Badness.

... (Eazy), Tuesday, 13 February 2018 20:26 (six years ago) link

i have bailed on this thread for a while and come back to find this extremely interesting post that contains this:

a larger cultural indictment toward the very nature of power

which i could not agree more is desparately needed.

Thank you for sharing.

Scam jam, thank you ma’am (Sparkle Motion), Tuesday, 13 February 2018 20:42 (six years ago) link

interesting to hear what's going on behind the FAMOUS GAY PERSON DOORS; sad that it's pretty much the same all over

Gay culture is this wonderful microcosmic test society to examine the manifestations of bad maleness and white supremacy, the nasty impulses of white men are somehow protected by dint of it being a culture defined, from start-to-finish, by male desire.

It's kind of like observing Iceland to see the effects of runaway liberalism and sanctimonious nationalism

*rimshot*

flamboyant goon tie included, Tuesday, 13 February 2018 20:44 (six years ago) link

i just hope you're keeping your diaries up to date; that's a sound retirement plan

Chocolate-covered gummy bears? Not ruling those lil' guys out. (ulysses), Tuesday, 13 February 2018 20:55 (six years ago) link

"male pattern badness" is A++

I'm walking on Sondheim (Ye Mad Puffin), Tuesday, 13 February 2018 21:00 (six years ago) link

thank you for that fgti. i agree that the systems for recourse are nowhere near being in place yet

maura, Tuesday, 13 February 2018 21:24 (six years ago) link

re fgti - after the latest detailed accounts of Bruce Weber & Mario Testino, i wondered the same. had they achieved these heights fuelled by sexual ambition from the beginning? or had their fame afforded them the belief that they were now entitled to an endless boy-buffet? either way it’s some deeply pathological shit

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Wednesday, 14 February 2018 00:10 (six years ago) link

I have a deep and abiding mistrust of the personality that generally accompanies wild material success.

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 14 February 2018 00:49 (six years ago) link

Or political (or any kind of high level I guess) power imo

albvivertine, Wednesday, 14 February 2018 01:33 (six years ago) link

Well, a decade or so later, I think that the impulses are intrinsically linked. I'm now in the "currency was invented so that men could affect sexual and social viability through their cabbage years" camp, a natural logical dovetail from the "prostitution is the oldest profession" adage I guess

A non-progressive attitude that I'll cop to in all of this hurricane of information is that I actually really do care about these "old white men", where they'll go or what they'll do, I don't really subscribe to the "fuck em" rhetoric because they're (we're) gonna be voting til they're dead, and we're all gonna be old and desperately lonely some day, and at 38 I'm already starting to understand the profound terror that accompanies the loss of power as one loses bodily agency, social and sexual viability,

I mean, fuck it, I just bought a dog

She's so cute I love her

flamboyant goon tie included, Wednesday, 14 February 2018 01:40 (six years ago) link

i’m 42 and a woman and “mouthy” and i totally understand that feeling of terror (and i got a cat a year and a half ago).

maura, Wednesday, 14 February 2018 15:03 (six years ago) link

i bought a skull

j., Wednesday, 14 February 2018 15:48 (six years ago) link

danzig wants it

It's not delivery, it's Adorno! (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Wednesday, 14 February 2018 17:35 (six years ago) link

the skull or the cat?

Men's Scarehouse - "You're gonna like the way you're shook." (m bison), Thursday, 15 February 2018 01:37 (six years ago) link

Dare I say I'm not surprised in the slightest.

MCC Theater severs ties with Playwright-in-Residence Neil LaBute https://t.co/tXgxiarIGQ pic.twitter.com/jki1ujHzRi

— Playbill (@playbill) February 15, 2018

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 15 February 2018 21:47 (six years ago) link

(No reason is given but speculation is high on Twitter and...I can guess why.)

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 15 February 2018 21:48 (six years ago) link

dude used to troll AOL movie chatrooms and boards for ladies back in the day

omar little, Thursday, 15 February 2018 21:51 (six years ago) link

truly a mystery
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b8CEABSGgv4

Fuck the NRA (ulysses), Thursday, 15 February 2018 22:23 (six years ago) link

Reminds me that there were shitty things about Aaron Eckhardt as well from the In The Company of Men shoot, from the female lead.

... (Eazy), Thursday, 15 February 2018 22:29 (six years ago) link

Verso has a new free-for-now collection of pieces on #MeToo

https://www.versobooks.com/books/2773-where-freedom-starts-sex-power-violence-metoo

Contributors include Tarana Burke and Elizabeth Adetiba, Lauren Berlant, Tithi Bhattacharya, Stephanie Coontz and Hope Reese, Estelle Freedman, Melissa Gira Grant, Linda Gordon, Jessie Kindig, Laura Kipnis, Victoria Law, Maricruz Ladino and Gabriel Thompson, Magally A. Miranda Alcázar, Liz Mason-Deese, Danielle McGuire, Larissa Pham, Alex N. Press, Jane Ward, and Terrion L. Williamson.

Simon H., Saturday, 17 February 2018 01:18 (six years ago) link

just some "personal mistakes"

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-43134265

Chuck_Tatum, Tuesday, 20 February 2018 22:54 (six years ago) link

Appears that NPR is interviewing numerous people about Sherman Alexie, looks pretty bad.

JoeStork, Sunday, 25 February 2018 16:56 (six years ago) link

Good morning, all.

For those who are learning about what are now several dozen allegations against Sherman Alexie--all of which are 100% credible--go to my TL &/or search for his name on Twitter. Others are sharing their stories, too.

Here's what I've learned since last night:

— Litsa Dremousis (@LitsaDremousis) February 24, 2018

... (Eazy), Monday, 26 February 2018 04:10 (six years ago) link

jesus christ

it literally hadn't occurred to me until just now that seacrest wasn't gay but i haven't thought about him in years

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Tuesday, 27 February 2018 00:19 (six years ago) link

(i know he has live 5 tv shows and 10 radio shows)

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Tuesday, 27 February 2018 00:20 (six years ago) link

“Seacrest has repeatedly refuted Hardy’s claims.” doesn’t mean what it seems like the author thinks it means.

direct to consumer online mattress brand (silby), Tuesday, 27 February 2018 00:35 (six years ago) link

yeah that line was pretty O_o

"refute" isn't a synonym for "deny", my dude. you can't pussyfoot around with shit like that in a story like this either!

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 27 February 2018 01:26 (six years ago) link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1ZXP9MmnjQU

flappy bird, Tuesday, 27 February 2018 05:18 (six years ago) link

Wait, can't refute mean deny? Not the primary definition but in regards to an accusation it works right?

Evan, Tuesday, 27 February 2018 12:43 (six years ago) link

no

ogmor, Tuesday, 27 February 2018 13:02 (six years ago) link

yeah no it should really be "deny"

Simon H., Tuesday, 27 February 2018 13:03 (six years ago) link

1 : to prove wrong by argument or evidence : show to be false or erroneous
2 : to deny the truth or accuracy of - "refuted the allegations"

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Tuesday, 27 February 2018 13:04 (six years ago) link

We refute these aspersions whether they come from our best friends or our worst foes. — Winston Churchill, address in House of Commons, 18 Jan. 1945, in Nathan Aus, ed., Voices of History 1945–46, 1946

he is not saying "we prove wrong these aspersions"

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Tuesday, 27 February 2018 13:05 (six years ago) link

i think this basically means ogmor, Simon H, VegGrrl and silby just got refuted 2x

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Tuesday, 27 February 2018 13:07 (six years ago) link

Wow tracer quoting Churchill in order to hammer refutees brexit can't come quick enough for this guy

Simpson L. (darraghmac), Tuesday, 27 February 2018 13:15 (six years ago) link

lol

surely one of these senses originated as a misunderstanding of the other. it is quite a pompous and presumptuous word and borrowing that pomp without the refutation to back it up is a slimy move

ogmor, Tuesday, 27 February 2018 14:15 (six years ago) link

Alexie had a nervous breakdown and cancelled his book tour this past year, I wonder how much of that might have been prompted by his impending fear that people were going to start calling him out.

Alexie is a really funny guy, and a great writer; but I'm not very surprised by this news. I see other people called out Daniel Handler as well, but those seem off base to me; he's basically being taken to task for making sexual jokes around people. I've met him a bunch of times, and yeah, he does this; he's kind of a dick, he thinks he's funny (I think he's funny myself), but if people are really taking authors to task for being crude, and also, for not being helpful mentors...well, that's like every fucking writer in the industry, or almost all of them.

akm, Tuesday, 27 February 2018 14:18 (six years ago) link

I have long thought that Alexie's public persona had an undercurrent of nastiness. I'm almost certain I've met Handler (pre-fame) but can't recall a specific memory.

(Note, I don't mean to say that one's vague personal impressions of celebrities should matter in assessing the truth of allegations against them.)

oklahomie don't play that (Ye Mad Puffin), Tuesday, 27 February 2018 14:54 (six years ago) link

this is really interesting to me -- failure to be a quality mentor is par for the course isn't it? that's grounds for public skewering now?

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Tuesday, 27 February 2018 14:56 (six years ago) link

Evan Rachel Wood's congressional testimony: https://www.thewrap.com/evan-rachel-wood-recounts-harrowing-sexual-assault-to-dc-lawmakers-video/

Elvis Telecom, Wednesday, 28 February 2018 09:11 (six years ago) link

Mayor of Denver getting the spotlight for sending dorky/flirty text messages to a cop a few years ago

https://www.denverpost.com/2018/02/27/denver-mayor-michael-hancock-text-messages/

After spotting her on TV at a Denver Nuggets game, he texted: “You look sexy in all that black.” Another time, he complimented her haircut and said: “You make it hard on a brotha to keep it correct every day.”

Another text asked her about pole-dancing classes: “So I just watched this story on women taking pole dancing classes. Have you ever taken one? Why do women take the course? If not have you ever considered taking one and why? Your thoughts?” When she didn’t respond, the officer said, she received a followup text from Hancock: “Be careful, I’m curious. LOL!”

sleepingbag, Wednesday, 28 February 2018 17:56 (six years ago) link

coming up on Frontline this week to celebrate the oscars

Drawing on exclusive insider accounts, Weinstein, a one-hour special co-produced with the BBC, examines how Weinstein used lawyers and private detectives to help him suppress sexual harassment allegations. The film shines new light on what those around Weinstein knew about his behavior, and when.

“I think looking back that I did know and I chose to suppress it,” Paul Webster, former head of production of Miramax, says in his first television interview on Weinstein’s alleged sexual misconduct. “I think we were all enablers. I think we were we were all complicit.”

“I had no idea of the breadth and enormity of the story. I thought he just preyed on us,” a former Weinstein assistant, Zelda Perkins, says in the documentary. “That was the most shocking thing, realizing he was a predator and he had been seriously abusing people with total impunity for all this time.”

The film traces Weinstein’s alleged predatory behavior all the way back to his very first movie, drawing on interviews with former executives at both Miramax and The Weinstein Company, a former assistant, and some of his accusers — including a woman who worked with Weinstein on his first film and is speaking out for the first time.

Using these firsthand accounts, Weinstein shows how the mogul successfully used non-disclosure agreements over the years to settle sexual harassment allegations — and examines how he hired private intelligence firms to investigate both his accusers, and journalists and actors who might pose a threat to him.

FRONTLINE also sat down with Eric Schneiderman, the New York State Attorney General who filed suit against The Weinstein Company: “[Weinstein] was using the company to advance his sexual interests and there are a lot of employees who were either manipulated or intimidated into helping him along,” Schneiderman tells FRONTLINE.

More than 100 women have now come for­ward to accuse Weinstein of sexual misconduct, abuse, and even rape. Weinstein denies all allegations of nonconsensual sexual contact and criminal conduct. Filled with fresh insights from those who worked with Weinstein, those who tried to confront him, and the journalists who ultimately broke the story, Weinstein is an in-depth look at the long history of allegations against the powerful producer.

“Any time you have a story like this where people are getting hurt over decades and decades, there are people around who knew enough and could have done more to stop it,” Ronan Farrow of The New Yorker tells FRONTLINE in the documentary.

Weinstein premieres Friday, Mar. 2 on PBS stations (check local listings), online at pbs.org/frontline, and will stream live on FRONTLINE’s Facebook page (facebook.com/frontline).

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Wednesday, 28 February 2018 20:27 (six years ago) link

definitely setting my DVR for that, thx LL

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Wednesday, 28 February 2018 20:48 (six years ago) link

http://www.chatelaine.com/survey-define-masculinity/

finally, what men think

When women talk about the pervasiveness of sexual harassment, 25 percent of respondents said they feel “nothing.” How do the other 75 percent feel?

Sad 42%
Angry 32%
Bored 12%
Persecuted 9%
Guilty 5%
Other 8%

Among the “other” answers were: “Reminded that men need to call out other men when they are creeps.” “That most women are bringing it on themselves.” “Ambivalent. I see little evidence of sexual harassment everywhere.” “I feel bad for the ones who have actually had it happen to them, but also persecuted by those who just want attention.”

j., Wednesday, 28 February 2018 22:08 (six years ago) link

what a gender

while my dirk gently weeps (symsymsym), Wednesday, 28 February 2018 22:14 (six years ago) link

that adds up to 108%

Hazy Maze Cave (Adam Bruneau), Wednesday, 28 February 2018 22:22 (six years ago) link

feeling persecuted rn

j., Wednesday, 28 February 2018 22:24 (six years ago) link

ladies be wantin that unwanted attention

Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Wednesday, 28 February 2018 22:31 (six years ago) link

what portion of the 32% angry are angry at women

important q imo

Lockhorn. Lockhorn breed-uh (Jon not Jon), Wednesday, 28 February 2018 22:46 (six years ago) link

12% bored

Daniel_Rf, Thursday, 1 March 2018 11:40 (six years ago) link

Alex Jones is accused of discrimination and sexual harassment by former InfoWars employees https://t.co/v7vNaHCbzA pic.twitter.com/xGKLhRWSWm

— Mother Jones (@MotherJones) March 1, 2018

Simon H., Thursday, 1 March 2018 21:24 (six years ago) link

"shirtless, and endlessly leering"

jmm, Thursday, 1 March 2018 21:30 (six years ago) link

i thought he was just playing a character, what a shocker

maura, Thursday, 1 March 2018 21:32 (six years ago) link

i wonder if we're going to have to christen a new most overemployed man in america soon

https://www.thecut.com/2018/03/ryan-seacrest-suzie-hardy-me-too-movement-e-news-host.html

The reemergence of the allegations against Seacrest is the latest in a string of stings to E!’s image. Over the past few months, the go-to network for women who want to watch celebrities walking red carpets before awards shows has faced considerable backlash. Debra Messing told E! live on its Golden Globes preshow that the network should pay hosts like recently departed Catt Sadler the same wage as their male counterparts. Sarah Jessica Parker and Eva Longoria reiterated her statement. Then there was that moment when producers cut to a pan of Dakota Johnson’s Gucci dress when Michelle Williams’s date, activist and #MeToo founder Tarana Burke, had the mic.

A former producer of E!’s red-carpet show told the Cut that E! “was trying to avoid commenting or reacting to” the comments made live on-air about Sadler at the Golden Globes, adding, “I know from people who were in the truck beds listening that they were just uncomfortable.”

This source suspected part of E!’s problem is not knowing how to deal with being at the center of controversy, and, because they are so protective of their image, they fear publicly sympathizing with the #MeToo cause. “I know they’re spinning over there and trying to figure out how to handle [the Seacrest allegations],” the source added, noting the many hours of prep that go into awards-show planning.

Another former E! employee told the Cut that Seacrest enjoyed a close relationship with E! executives that seemed to afford him special privileges, like an ability to work for other networks without onerous negotiations, that other talent did not: “Ryan’s the golden boy of that network. They have fought very hard over the years to keep Ryan.” This person called E! “a boys’ club,” where, even though the programming is all geared toward millennial women, it’s still part of the corporate monolith that is NBCUniversal, which is mostly run by men. “He’s the image of E!. He’s the icon. He’s the physical embodiment of, I guess, the perfect man to them.” Sources described Seacrest as being adored by network executives because he’s good at his job and has historically been seen as a great ambassador for the E! brand.

maura, Thursday, 1 March 2018 21:33 (six years ago) link

it's astonishing to me how inside the industry, people with the skill set of Ryan Seacrest are constantly overrated and fawned over. I just don't think people at home care that much.

omar little, Thursday, 1 March 2018 21:45 (six years ago) link

are you talking about.....ryan seacrest types

imago, Thursday, 1 March 2018 21:47 (six years ago) link

i mean at this point his skill set also includes KEEPING UP WITH THE KARDASHIANS and related enterprises. ryan seacrest productions also has its tentacles in LIVE WITH RYAN AND KELLY (ripa), NEW YEAR'S ROCKIN EVE, that show where jennifer lopez is a cop...

maura, Thursday, 1 March 2018 21:51 (six years ago) link

wow i guess i never paid attention to how much of a mogul he became.

omar little, Thursday, 1 March 2018 21:53 (six years ago) link

and that doesn't even get into his various radio commitments. from 2015:

The entertainment mogul has inked a new, expanded deal with iHeartMedia. Seacrest will remain a key advisor for the company, continuing to work closely with CEO Bob Pittman and president Rich Bressler, and as a top personality across all of iHeartRadio's platforms. Seacrest also will develop new ways to connect advertisers and consumers and will provide input into all of the company’s major events and initiatives and host tent-pole events like the iHeartRadio Music Festival and iHeartRadio Music Awards.

As part of his new three-year pact, Seacrest will continue hosting and producing L.A.’s top-rated morning drive-time show for iHeart’s 102.7 KISS-FM as well as the nationally-syndicated On Air with Ryan Seacrest and American Top 40 with Ryan Seacrest, too. Though a Seacrest rep declined to discuss financial terms of the deal, his last pact was said to pay him $25 million; a new, expanded one likely amounts to more.

maura, Thursday, 1 March 2018 21:56 (six years ago) link

the skill set of Ryan Seacrest

the skill set of Ryan Seacrest

the skill set of Ryan Seacrest

the skill set of Ryan Seacrest

the skill set of Ryan Seacrest

Wyld Scalyns (Ye Mad Puffin), Thursday, 1 March 2018 22:12 (six years ago) link

there's a show where jennifer lopez is a cop???

j., Thursday, 1 March 2018 22:22 (six years ago) link

SHADES OF BLUE

also starring Ray Liotta!

omar little, Thursday, 1 March 2018 22:24 (six years ago) link

well dang

j., Thursday, 1 March 2018 22:24 (six years ago) link

https://www.glamour.com/story/why-is-nobody-talking-about-marilyn-mansons-fantasy-of-killing-evan-rachel-wood

evan rachel wood's testimony wrt marilyn manson, i feel dumb that didn't occur to me

It's not delivery, it's Adorno! (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Friday, 2 March 2018 18:01 (six years ago) link

whoa. I'm dumb too.

Elvis Telecom, Saturday, 3 March 2018 06:44 (six years ago) link

I'm surprised he actually did turn out to be as dark as his image, albeit in a pitiful disgusting way.

albvivertine, Saturday, 3 March 2018 08:18 (six years ago) link

I never heard or read anything about this.

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Saturday, 3 March 2018 18:09 (six years ago) link

Or rather, if I did I don't remember it.

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Saturday, 3 March 2018 18:10 (six years ago) link

folks i think it's time for u2 to cover the entire marilyn manson catalog to take these songs back from the sexual abuser who perverted them

ziggy the ginhead (rushomancy), Saturday, 3 March 2018 22:18 (six years ago) link

xpost djp it was just a few days ago she testified

It's not delivery, it's Adorno! (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Saturday, 3 March 2018 22:26 (six years ago) link

I think the idea was that he was publicly fantasizing about murdering her years ago and no one seemed to give a shit

President Keyes, Sunday, 4 March 2018 00:13 (six years ago) link

^^ i read it and came away with the same message
it happened, people reported on it, and that was that
no one seemed concerned about her and mostly it was "how weird and messed up is this guy?!"
(pretty weird and messed up apparently -- i had forgotten about this too but the cutting himself when he called her and she didn't answer? wtf, and it's not like i haven't seen my share of messed up behavior)

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Sunday, 4 March 2018 00:18 (six years ago) link

but viewing him as weird and messed up would undermine that tremendously clever "onion" article

ziggy the ginhead (rushomancy), Sunday, 4 March 2018 14:55 (six years ago) link

from ann friedman:

I’m listening to This American Life's Five Women episode. It's about a man I once worked for, Don Hazen, and the effect of his abuse and harassment on five different women. Don hired me for my first full-time, non-internship journalism job when I was 24. He is the only boss I've ever had who harassed me, and one of the primary inspirations for The Island -- a fantastical place that other young women and I invented as a shorthand for warning each other about the terrible men in our industry we wished we could banish. One of the women who came up with the Island metaphor with me is among the Five Women.

I know every women interviewed in that episode, actually -- from the woman observing weird behavior at a company dinner to the unnamed roommate who says matter-of-factly, "If you take this job you're definitely going to get sexually harassed." If you think it's intense to listen to #MeToo stories in general -- and it is -- try revisiting the details about your own first abusive boss in narrative audio. It instantly snapped me into the person I was more than 10 years ago, the vulnerability I felt, the exhaustion and futility of trying to constantly direct my boss's attention away from my personal life and toward my work.

Of course, thanks to the archival power of Gmail, I could go much deeper than This American Life to remind myself what it felt like to be around Don, and how his behavior was accepted and endured. My chat archive reveals an ex of mine joking, "who among us hasn't been squeezed hard by don hazen." It shows a friend asking me about working for him, and my reply: "in order to work there you basically have to shut off your emotions." I also find myself using Don as a trope, simultaneously damning and excusing one young DC journo dude with the description, "he's kind of a young don hazen. that's all." That's all. After I wrote about The Island in 2012, a young woman who worked for Don emailed me: "I used to think that the sexual harassment was just part of the package, something you have to deal with, sometimes, to get ahead. I was sexually harassed, but i went from intern to editor!" I talked to her on the phone and tried to help her find a new job. She is another one of the Five Women.

What makes the episode so good is that the women are not simply victims -- they are portrayed in all of their complexity and bravery and complicity. I only worked for Don for two months. My aforementioned ex helped me get a new job at a magazine in DC (which directly contributed to my next challenge in the Game of Starting Your Career As a Young Woman: Impostor syndrome). When I gave notice, Don screamed and slammed desk drawers, but at least I was out. After I left, a former coworker who was still there wrote me, "job search is sorta non existent right now... the idea of being unwittingly sucked into another don-esque situation frightens me." Chatting with her from my new office, thousands of miles away, I felt guilty that I had gotten out so quickly. I felt the survivor's guilt again when I listened to Five Women this week. Because long after I had the power to call out Don by name -- when there was nothing he could do to harm my career -- I was still writing blog posts that used clever metaphors and did not name him.

mookieproof, Saturday, 10 March 2018 00:42 (six years ago) link

Is there any move to impeach Vance or even a mechanism to remove a NYC DA?

louise ck (milo z), Saturday, 10 March 2018 00:53 (six years ago) link

The last line of the editor's note speaks volumes:

Karklins confirmed to The Atlantic that there is no process for writers who aren’t on staff to file complaints.

Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Saturday, 10 March 2018 00:55 (six years ago) link

yeah, freelancing sucks

maura, Saturday, 10 March 2018 00:57 (six years ago) link

BREAKING NEWS: @MetOpera fires James Levine, says its investigation “uncovered credible evidence that Mr. Levine had engaged in sexually abusive and harassing conduct both before and during the period when he worked at the Met.” My story:
https://t.co/WKAU0FtmRk

— Michael Cooper (@coopnytimes) March 12, 2018

mookieproof, Monday, 12 March 2018 21:06 (six years ago) link

terry gilliam sucks

http://variety.com/2018/film/news/terry-gilliam-metoo-mob-rule-1202728819

mookieproof, Friday, 16 March 2018 18:01 (six years ago) link

he sucks but also he's 77 and has no clout anymore, why do we keep publishing these irrelevant old jerks' opinions

Simon H., Friday, 16 March 2018 18:27 (six years ago) link

lol, good question!
who cares what terry gilliam thinks? not me.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Friday, 16 March 2018 18:28 (six years ago) link

yeah he's made a couple of my favorite movies but I wouldn't dream of soliciting his opinion about current events in the year of our lord 2018

Simon H., Friday, 16 March 2018 18:30 (six years ago) link

he must've felt a need to pipe up, i doubt his opinion was solicited. right?

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Friday, 16 March 2018 18:31 (six years ago) link

he was being interviewed by the french press agency, probably decided to pick a stance to blend in in france

mh, Friday, 16 March 2018 18:34 (six years ago) link

Only otm part of the interview:

I’ve gotten very old

Simon H., Friday, 16 March 2018 18:34 (six years ago) link

lol mh

scotti pruitti (wins), Friday, 16 March 2018 18:37 (six years ago) link

apologies to all french people who aren't misogynistic jerks though

mh, Friday, 16 March 2018 18:38 (six years ago) link

Terry Gilliam being a clueless idiot was immortalised in that documentary terry gilliam being a clueless idiot but it's like totally admirable probably

scotti pruitti (wins), Friday, 16 March 2018 18:39 (six years ago) link

is he still trying to make that failed don quixote movie or did i daydream that

flappy bird, Friday, 16 March 2018 18:42 (six years ago) link

he apparently actually is don quixote now

mh, Friday, 16 March 2018 18:43 (six years ago) link

he's actually decided to remake it irl it's just now the windmills are ladies xp lol

Simon H., Friday, 16 March 2018 18:44 (six years ago) link

lololol
he's gotta dream the impossible dream!

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Friday, 16 March 2018 18:57 (six years ago) link

a few months ago i hungover-edly watched most of 'erik the viking' and wow was that amazingly awful

i know it was the other terry's work, but it could easily have been his

mookieproof, Friday, 16 March 2018 19:00 (six years ago) link

wow, Gilliam is beyond a clueless idiot in that interview, into reprehensible

Nhex, Friday, 16 March 2018 21:58 (six years ago) link

but also he's 77

i def read this and for a split second thought 'terry gilliam is an ilxor??'

Listen to my homeboy Fantano (D-40), Friday, 16 March 2018 23:15 (six years ago) link

lol

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 16 March 2018 23:33 (six years ago) link

when did gilliam make his last good movie

maura, Saturday, 17 March 2018 03:54 (six years ago) link

Last one I saw in the theater was Munchausen. I'm kinda content with that.

Ned Raggett, Saturday, 17 March 2018 04:22 (six years ago) link

when did gilliam make his last good movie

I was gonna say "1995" but realised I haven't seen any of the ones since then in full

just noticed tears shaped like florida. (sic), Saturday, 17 March 2018 07:35 (six years ago) link

I have seen Tideland

it was

well, it was something

imago, Saturday, 17 March 2018 11:00 (six years ago) link

The Zero Theorem is one of the worst films I've ever seen.

Frederik B, Saturday, 17 March 2018 11:04 (six years ago) link

Of note:

http://money.cnn.com/2018/03/19/media/weinstein-company-bankruptcy/index.html

At the same time as the bankruptcy announcement, the company said it will release victims of, and witnesses to, Weinstein's alleged sexual misconduct from any non-disclosure agreements.

"Effective immediately, those 'agreements' end," the company said in a press release.

The company said "no one should be afraid to speak out or coerced to stay quiet."

Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 20 March 2018 04:28 (six years ago) link

!

fuck ‘shopping a hat (suzy), Tuesday, 20 March 2018 07:30 (six years ago) link

Nickelodeon just "parted ways" with Dan Schneider and this sure feels like getting out in front of some story

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Tuesday, 27 March 2018 19:47 (six years ago) link

btw Time Bandits and Brazil are Terry Gilliam's good movies

(at least one more than Spike Lee, j/k)

ice cream social justice (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 27 March 2018 19:51 (six years ago) link

there was this thread about dan schneider a few months ago, I'd never heard of him before but it seems incredibly dark and grim:

thread of how much of a pedophile creep with disgusting fetishes dan schneider is and what really goes on behind the scenes of his shows:

— ‏ً (@deludedkiss) September 16, 2017

ogmor, Tuesday, 27 March 2018 20:24 (six years ago) link

^probably should stress that it's really haunting nightmarish stuff, reminiscent of jimmy saville

ogmor, Tuesday, 27 March 2018 20:28 (six years ago) link

^^ GIFs you don't want on your desk if you work in an open-layout office like I do!

... (Eazy), Tuesday, 27 March 2018 20:29 (six years ago) link

I always forget he's the dude from Head of the Class and Better Off Dead.

Millennial Whoop, wanna fight about it? (Phil D.), Tuesday, 27 March 2018 20:29 (six years ago) link

yeah it's one of those cases where the rumors are awful and have been around for ages, but even the public stuff is very questionable on its own

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Tuesday, 27 March 2018 20:36 (six years ago) link

^^^ This was way way way too late (the parting of ways).

Yerac, Tuesday, 27 March 2018 20:42 (six years ago) link

The rumors of Schneider's pedo behavior are boiling over and some investigative journos have been working for nearly a year on a big story. It's imminent.

Milking the Soft Power Dividend (dandydonweiner), Tuesday, 27 March 2018 20:57 (six years ago) link

is there a source on that or can you not elaborate further

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Tuesday, 27 March 2018 21:00 (six years ago) link

Can't believe it took this long for Schneider to get the hit. These allegations have been floating around for yeeeeeeears.

Arthur Pizzarelli AKA The Peetz (Old Lunch), Tuesday, 27 March 2018 21:56 (six years ago) link

gilliam's don quixote movie is coming out soon actually, it's finished. probably not a good time for him to spout off and say stupid shit.

also yes zero theorem is terrible and his last good movie was probably...12 monkeys I guess. or fear and loathing, whichever was the last one to come out.

akm, Tuesday, 27 March 2018 22:07 (six years ago) link

is there a source on that or can you not elaborate further

What Old Lunch said + friends in the biz

After the initial Harvey shitstorm and easy targets were rolled, the smart journalists just keep working. More and more people are willing to go on the record but there's not a sense of urgency given the charges that will inevitably be put out. Plus legal issues. But this little event about Schneider above is a tip of the hat that the studio has wind of what's up.

Milking the Soft Power Dividend (dandydonweiner), Tuesday, 27 March 2018 22:22 (six years ago) link

That schneider stuff is appalling, I didn't realize he was the person behind those shows although i've seen plenty of them. I remember that christmas one that is called out in one tweet in particular as my son was watching it and I walked into the room and was like "holy fuck what is that". NIckelodeon shares much of the blame in allowing that to go on IMO.

akm, Tuesday, 27 March 2018 22:25 (six years ago) link

I've never seen these Nick shows but just looking at the clips that the above twitter pulled. WTF. How did that make it on air?

Yerac, Tuesday, 27 March 2018 22:27 (six years ago) link

The power structure in Hollywood has been disgusting for many, many years.

Milking the Soft Power Dividend (dandydonweiner), Tuesday, 27 March 2018 22:30 (six years ago) link

I mean, journos working on a story doesn't imply "it's imminent," people tried to report the Weinstein story for a decade (or more?)

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Tuesday, 27 March 2018 23:10 (six years ago) link

kim masters mentioned that she and some colleagues had been chasing down the story for years and that it’s been impossible getting people on the record

maura, Wednesday, 28 March 2018 01:23 (six years ago) link

https://apnews.com/2036175b01ff44d8b1ba38b81037a7db/Ex-Weinstein-assistant-says-she-tried-to-stop-him-in-1998?utm_campaign=SocialFlow&utm_source=Twitter&utm_medium=APEntertainment

Zelda Perkins quit Weinstein’s film company in 1998, along with a colleague who accused the movie mogul of trying to rape her.

As part of a settlement, Perkins signed a non-disclosure agreement. It kept her silent, but also committed Weinstein to attend therapy for three years. And it required the company to spill the beans to its then-owner, the Walt Disney Co., or to fire Weinstein if he made any more payouts over alleged wrongdoing.

Perkins said her hope was to “create protection for people in the future.”

Under the terms of the agreement, Perkins chose the therapist Weinstein was to consult. She doesn’t know whether he ever went to the sessions.

“I have no idea if any of the obligations were upheld,” Perkins told The Associated Press on Tuesday.

She said that a year after she left the company she ran into Weinstein at the Cannes Film Festival, and “he told me that everything I had done was pointless.”

j., Wednesday, 28 March 2018 01:33 (six years ago) link

ah, good to know

tweet, for those interested:

My colleague and I spent a lot of time chasing this story. No one had a word of substance to say. If that’s changed, you know where to find us. https://t.co/kN7PCoz6Ar

— Kim Masters (@kimmasters) March 27, 2018

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Wednesday, 28 March 2018 01:59 (six years ago) link

(some masterful legal needle-threading there)

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Wednesday, 28 March 2018 01:59 (six years ago) link

i do wonder how ironclad the ndas that were signed by parents could be. i also think that the general tumult at viacom could lead to more things coming out in the open

maura, Wednesday, 28 March 2018 13:09 (six years ago) link

losing the support of a corporate backer seems to make it a little less intimidating for victims to come forward, which is depressing in its own way

mh, Wednesday, 28 March 2018 14:07 (six years ago) link

I know a lot of that Twitter thread is speculation, but if turns out that there *is* a line that can be drawn between Schneider and the last decade of Amanda Bynes having personal problems in the public eye, this has the potential to be even bigger than Weinstein imo

Whiney G. Weingarten, Wednesday, 28 March 2018 15:41 (six years ago) link

Like it may cause a fundamental rethinking of tabloid culture writ large

Whiney G. Weingarten, Wednesday, 28 March 2018 15:42 (six years ago) link

https://www.nytimes.com/2018/03/27/business/canceled-deals-and-pulped-books-as-the-publishing-industry-confronts-sexual-harassment.html?smid=tw-share

― j., Wednesday, March 28, 2018 8:15 AM (forty minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

huh i nearly distributed the book in the header here

flamenco drop (BradNelson), Wednesday, 28 March 2018 15:56 (six years ago) link

I know a lot of that Twitter thread is speculation, but if turns out that there *is* a line that can be drawn between Schneider and the last decade of Amanda Bynes having personal problems in the public eye, this has the potential to be even bigger than Weinstein imo

― Whiney G. Weingarten, Wednesday, March 28, 2018 8:41 AM (twenty-six minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Like it may cause a fundamental rethinking of tabloid culture writ large

― Whiney G. Weingarten, Wednesday, March 28, 2018 8:42 AM (twenty-five minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

i want to believe but then again nothing really seems to have happened after it was revealed Weinstein had people who are still currently employed as gossip columnists on retainer to character assassinate accusers (cf. the woman who rejected his advances and then went undercover to make an audio tape.) I think Ronan Farrow went at some of them a bit, but didn't name names iirc. I think if you're a gossip columnist you're already maybe a bit less affected by moral qualms than others and your immediate peers aren't gonna call you out much either.

omar little, Wednesday, 28 March 2018 16:12 (six years ago) link

Yeah, but the obvious difference is that Weinstein was, to most Us/People/TMZ-reading human beings, is a behind the scenes figure, if on their radar at all. Amanda Bynes is a tabloid star that we've been rubbernecking for years .

Whiney G. Weingarten, Wednesday, 28 March 2018 16:15 (six years ago) link

Like, I'm saying, that if someone can successfully connect the dots from the last 20 years of Perez Hilton/TMZ "hahahaha Britney/Lindsay/Amanda is such a TRAINWRECK" to "Children who suffer from sexual abuse often have tumultuous adulthoods and also that abuse came from inside the industry" it might cause some amount of reflection on just what the fuck we've been doing

Whiney G. Weingarten, Wednesday, 28 March 2018 16:19 (six years ago) link

i think it's also pretty logical to imagine that a lot of "an insider told us..."-type sourcing about how much of a "trainwreck" someone is comes from people close to the ones responsible for the abuse, if not the abusers themselves.

omar little, Wednesday, 28 March 2018 16:21 (six years ago) link

i mean i guess that also did happen w/Weinstein in exactly that way, it was discovered he was putting out stories about Mira Sorvino and others iirc.

omar little, Wednesday, 28 March 2018 16:22 (six years ago) link

I'm optimistic about Whiney's point but I'm also afraid it's just as easily going to be another round of victim blaming, or blaming the parents of victims.

People have this fucked-up internalized idea that if someone's successful as a youth that being around predatory adults is just part of the game, and they're supposed to somehow magically sidestep those situations or accept it as part of the cost of success.

Or, if they're really vile, they're tweeting around how hollywood is run by liberals/jews/pedophiles and what did you expect

mh, Wednesday, 28 March 2018 16:27 (six years ago) link

I regret even typing that last sentence but I made the mistake of looking at twitter replies earlier today and that appears to be the idiot sentiment

mh, Wednesday, 28 March 2018 16:28 (six years ago) link

It takes a long time and a sustained, concerted effort to expose victims of sexual crimes to come forward. With Weinstein, there was a mountain of evidence and the story took years to reach a tipping point because of the stakeholders involved. That's because the stakeholders...are stakeholders in the very system that has evolved to intrinsically protect itself.

It's not only NDAs--which in Hollywood are legendarily tight--it's the threats of getting sued that would and should scare anyone against litigating or pressing charges. Defending yourself in a countersuit is cost prohibitive for the vast majority of accusers even outside of the entertainment world. And as noted by the silence of many, it's a bad for the career.

Milking the Soft Power Dividend (dandydonweiner), Wednesday, 28 March 2018 17:01 (six years ago) link

tabloid culture has survived for decades' worth of scandal, I'm sure it can outlast this.

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Wednesday, 28 March 2018 17:02 (six years ago) link

can NDAs be made constitutionally illegal? I know noncompetes are illegal or unenforceable in some jurisdictions.

valorous wokelord (silby), Wednesday, 28 March 2018 17:04 (six years ago) link

popbitch's four-part series on american media (publishers of enquirer etc) was very good reading, if you haven't read it yet

http://popbitch.com/2017/10/the-united-states-of-american-media-inc/

also, ami is responsible for this new publication...
https://www.thedailybeast.com/trumps-publisher-pal-puts-saudi-propaganda-magazine-in-us-supermarkets

maura, Wednesday, 28 March 2018 17:06 (six years ago) link

NDAs are contracts between two parties so they couldn't be made "constitutionally illegal" in that way.

Noncompetes are very much enforced on a regular basis in many venues and most states have plenty of case law to support their enforcement, particularly in the past 20 years.

Milking the Soft Power Dividend (dandydonweiner), Wednesday, 28 March 2018 17:11 (six years ago) link

And by "enforced" I mean that lawyers have the confidence to sue, file injunction, etc. based on a failure to adhere to an NDA or noncompete.

Milking the Soft Power Dividend (dandydonweiner), Wednesday, 28 March 2018 17:13 (six years ago) link

really? last I'd heard, the majority of noncompete clauses don't hold up, unless they can prove trade secrets are in play

ah, now an x-post, and yeah... if you don't have the time or money for lawyers, noncompetes work

mh, Wednesday, 28 March 2018 17:14 (six years ago) link

and unfortunately in Hollywood the other party is near-guaranteed to out-money you

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Wednesday, 28 March 2018 17:16 (six years ago) link

bynes somewhere all but named schneider as her abuser (I found that yesterday while digging around) but I suppose no one cared?

akm, Wednesday, 28 March 2018 17:23 (six years ago) link

Is that from recently or awhile back?

omar little, Wednesday, 28 March 2018 17:26 (six years ago) link

are you talking about the crazy days and nights post?

http://www.crazydaysandnights.net/2018/03/blind-item-13-her-words.html

maura, Wednesday, 28 March 2018 17:27 (six years ago) link

the thing is, with threads like that above, they're contaminated with either discredited stuff (people still using CDAN as a source despite their being debunked years ago) or outright conspiracy theory (people unironically bringing the Illuminati in)

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Wednesday, 28 March 2018 17:28 (six years ago) link

sure, i mean there's literally a 'some of this stuff is fiction' disclaimer at the bottom of every page. anyway here's some more recent coverage

https://www.vanityfair.com/style/2016/10/crazy-days-and-nights-enty-interview

https://www.thedailybeast.com/whos-next-the-mysterious-blind-item-king-who-exposed-weinstein-spacey-and-lauer-before-the-media

maura, Wednesday, 28 March 2018 17:31 (six years ago) link

Like, I'm saying, that if someone can successfully connect the dots from the last 20 years of Perez Hilton/TMZ "hahahaha Britney/Lindsay/Amanda is such a TRAINWRECK" to "Children who suffer from sexual abuse often have tumultuous adulthoods and also that abuse came from inside the industry" it might cause some amount of reflection on just what the fuck we've been doing

otm + corey haim :(

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Wednesday, 28 March 2018 17:32 (six years ago) link

no I saw it somewhere else. but maybe it was fake, dunno. let's think about this though: either there has been a concerted effort for years to bring down dan schneider fueled by the internet and people who hate him; or he's a fucking creep. his work speaks for itself and certainly lends credence to the latter.

akm, Wednesday, 28 March 2018 17:32 (six years ago) link

amanda bynes did tweet (then retract the tweets) about her dad being abusive, maybe that's what you're thinking of

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Wednesday, 28 March 2018 17:33 (six years ago) link

like most gossip sites, CDAN gets things right sometimes. And the Post has been in the bag with publicists for years, so it's reasonable for wags and pimps to find useful tools to wage public battles over "truth" or "facts".

It was lore for a long time that they don't hold up because a) there wasn't much case law a couple of decades ago, b) it's still expensive for a company to sue, and c) enforceability/damages is more obvious in some industries than others. So, it's not that they don't "hold up" as much as most of the time, it's not worth it for a company to pursue it. If the damages are obvious however...

xp

Milking the Soft Power Dividend (dandydonweiner), Wednesday, 28 March 2018 17:34 (six years ago) link

tbh I looked at that CDAN site once this week and most of the blind items are vague enough that they could apply to a handful of people

maybe there's a strong nostradamus/stopped clock effect thing going on

mh, Wednesday, 28 March 2018 18:17 (six years ago) link

"This B list former child star recently got out of rehab, but her friends think she's headed back"

mh, Wednesday, 28 March 2018 18:18 (six years ago) link

"I sense that you are worried about a loved one or relative whose name includes the letter... E"

when worlds collide I'll see you again (Jon not Jon), Wednesday, 28 March 2018 18:49 (six years ago) link

An aside, but would be interesting to interview Michael Musto about the past year and blind items.

... (Eazy), Wednesday, 28 March 2018 19:59 (six years ago) link

Would love to know how he ever knows who is playing who

Milking the Soft Power Dividend (dandydonweiner), Wednesday, 28 March 2018 20:03 (six years ago) link

the celeb gossip industry's been going for ~100 years now and are likely making more money off exploiting people than ever i dont see them stopping

Hazy Maze Cave (Adam Bruneau), Wednesday, 28 March 2018 22:17 (six years ago) link

I noticed in the UK some of that press has been adapting to the current climate with lots of "LOOK AT THIS RAPIST MONSTER"-type covers.

Daniel_Rf, Thursday, 29 March 2018 09:43 (six years ago) link

profanity standards aside didnt Fatty Arbuckle get the same treatment in 1921?

Hazy Maze Cave (Adam Bruneau), Thursday, 29 March 2018 10:50 (six years ago) link

Like it may cause a fundamental rethinking of tabloid culture writ large

― Whiney G. Weingarten

peter thiel tried to warn us

ziggy the ginhead (rushomancy), Thursday, 29 March 2018 11:56 (six years ago) link

profanity standards aside didnt Fatty Arbuckle get the same treatment in 1921?

it's about time this thread had someone show up to argue that every accusation is false and part of a conspiracy, now we can really get down to brass tacks

just noticed tears shaped like florida. (sic), Thursday, 29 March 2018 15:42 (six years ago) link

Is that what you are about to do?

Hazy Maze Cave (Adam Bruneau), Thursday, 29 March 2018 19:56 (six years ago) link

oh no :(

Whiney G. Weingarten, Thursday, 29 March 2018 21:10 (six years ago) link

ugh. it was 1994 but you don't have to bring back EVERYTHING from the seventies...

Nhex, Thursday, 29 March 2018 21:55 (six years ago) link

damn it.

how's life, Thursday, 29 March 2018 22:09 (six years ago) link

woah that is some fucked up and gross behaviour

Louis Jägermeister (jim in vancouver), Thursday, 29 March 2018 22:14 (six years ago) link

very gross. fuck that.

i couldn't stomach the new R&S but as the article makes clear, he continued to work with so many different people on big projects. now it's like this sickness intertwined into the culture. hopefully that will end.

Hazy Maze Cave (Adam Bruneau), Thursday, 29 March 2018 22:19 (six years ago) link

"Call the police," indeed.

how's life, Thursday, 29 March 2018 22:22 (six years ago) link

that's a terrible story but this line:"Creators of shows including SpongeBob SquarePants, Adventure Time, and Rick and Morty have cited Ren & Stimpy as an influence" well, yeah, duh. I mean, would they deny that this was influential? I'm not saying 'separate the art from the artist' but it's like saying Woody Allen hasn't been influential. doesn't make him not a fucking creep.

akm, Friday, 30 March 2018 03:14 (six years ago) link

it provides context for the many people who may be unfamiliar with a 25-year-old cult cartoon

mookieproof, Friday, 30 March 2018 03:33 (six years ago) link

And I don't think anyone, the creators or the author, were trying to make him any less of a creep.

nickn, Friday, 30 March 2018 03:36 (six years ago) link

his fame has to mentioned as part of explaining why he was able to get away with it in several instances and for so long; he is genuinely beloved by many animators and animation fans for his work.

Nhex, Friday, 30 March 2018 04:27 (six years ago) link

the many people who may be unfamiliar with a 25-year-old cult cartoon

the new Micky Mouse cartoon is 100% a R&S ripoff. and as mentioned in the article, he recently did animation work for Weird Al and design work for Miley Cyrus. he was still getting work.

Hazy Maze Cave (Adam Bruneau), Friday, 30 March 2018 13:15 (six years ago) link

Don’t forget the Bjork video!

Whiney G. Weingarten, Friday, 30 March 2018 14:17 (six years ago) link

that one... not so recent

mh, Friday, 30 March 2018 14:28 (six years ago) link

sorry, i was just caught up in naming John K stuff :(

Whiney G. Weingarten, Friday, 30 March 2018 14:31 (six years ago) link

sad sean penn story about his sad book and sad #metoo poem that he included in his book. someone put him on an island somewhere.

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/sean-penn-bob-honey-who-just-do-stuff-review_us_5ab9a1bee4b008c9e5fa89a2

scott seward, Friday, 30 March 2018 15:16 (six years ago) link

sorry if already linked to. you probably don't even need to look at it to be honest.

scott seward, Friday, 30 March 2018 15:17 (six years ago) link

he was still getting work.

The Weird Al video was 12 years ago.

just noticed tears shaped like florida. (sic), Friday, 30 March 2018 16:29 (six years ago) link

the Bangerz tour wasn't

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Friday, 30 March 2018 16:38 (six years ago) link

His output has slowed down, but he enjoys a living-legend stature that prompted 3,562 people to fund a Kickstarter campaign for his short Cans Without Labels, which he screened at a prestigious animation film festival in 2016. He made art for Miley Cyrus’s 2014 Bangerz tour; he animated two credit sequences on The Simpsons, the most recent in 2015. His portrait still hangs on the wall at Nickelodeon.

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Friday, 30 March 2018 16:39 (six years ago) link

The article just came out yesterday.

how's life, Friday, 30 March 2018 17:08 (six years ago) link

this is a weird thing to argue about

lots of people have made art for pop stars and have 3500 kickstarter supporters; this guy is famous for a cable tv show made a quarter of a century ago. the article, as it should, provided context for why he is more notable than a garden-variety pedo asshole. not everyone who reads buzzfeed is an animation nerd like (apparently) ilxors

mookieproof, Friday, 30 March 2018 17:25 (six years ago) link

i mean, that is also, literally, how you write articles

Whiney G. Weingarten, Friday, 30 March 2018 17:26 (six years ago) link

personally i learned a lot about the concept of time

flamenco drop (BradNelson), Friday, 30 March 2018 17:32 (six years ago) link

if he was most productive when being a sexual predator, the slowdown in productivity is probably not so bad. kind of guessing he won't be getting much work anytime soon

mh, Friday, 30 March 2018 17:37 (six years ago) link

All the sentences in the Buzzfeed article about the cartoons he's influenced and the work he gets all seemed pretty value-neutral to me

Whiney G. Weingarten, Friday, 30 March 2018 17:48 (six years ago) link

I guess the word "still" is confusing, but I assumed it meant "still there after making money for them, like, a quarter century ago" vs "still there despite being the open secret that he's a creep"

Whiney G. Weingarten, Friday, 30 March 2018 17:51 (six years ago) link

*despite the

Whiney G. Weingarten, Friday, 30 March 2018 17:51 (six years ago) link

this is a weird thing to argue about

yeah, I'm not quite sure what the argument here is. of course someone whose peak was in the '90s is going to have a slower rate of creative output in the 2010s, that doesn't make the actual story any less horrifying

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Friday, 30 March 2018 18:02 (six years ago) link

Sorry, I had misinterpreted the line of conversation to mean that "John K was still getting work despite the open secret that he's a creep" with an accusatory eye towards Weird Al and Miley. To which I responded about the article coming out yesterday as if to say "yeah, but how open of a secret was it? do you really think Miley Cyrus is keeping up with cartoon-industry gossip from 15 years ago?" I realize that I was mistaken and am sorry, but brad's comment made me lol at my desk, so I guess it was worth it.

how's life, Friday, 30 March 2018 18:15 (six years ago) link

the way i interpreted that string of messages was someone said "who cares about this guy and some cult show from 25 years ago". and i responded "he was still getting work" hence the Weird Al/Miley, not to accuse them but to say, he's not just some forgotten rando from a quarter century ago with no current impact on pop culture

Hazy Maze Cave (Adam Bruneau), Friday, 30 March 2018 22:30 (six years ago) link

https://lareviewofbooks.org/article/popular-feminism-structural-rage/

j., Sunday, 1 April 2018 01:06 (six years ago) link

one month passes...

Junot Diaz stories out this morning...

... (Eazy), Friday, 4 May 2018 13:42 (five years ago) link

disappointing but also somewhat irritated by the reaction that 'he is claiming childhood abuse to cover for this'. really? in my experience people who were abused as children sometimes grow up to do some fucking horrible things.

akm, Friday, 4 May 2018 19:47 (five years ago) link

AFAICT the annoyance for people is more that in the piece he left the reader with the distinct impression that the only extent to which he "hurt" women in his life was via infidelity

Simon H., Friday, 4 May 2018 19:56 (five years ago) link

How not to respond

Diaz’s agent — ignoring multiple request for comment from @BuzzFeedNews — gave a statement to the Times not disputing the allegations:

“I take responsibility for my past. That is the reason I made the decision to tell the truth of my rape and its damaging aftermath." https://t.co/ZIQ6GToJ7E

— Tom Namako (@TomNamako) May 4, 2018

Ned Raggett, Friday, 4 May 2018 20:09 (five years ago) link

oh

Simon H., Friday, 4 May 2018 20:13 (five years ago) link

I haven't seen any "claiming" child abuse hot takes. For the most part people believe his trauma but also were suspect about the timing and how he relegated the women he hurt as bit player collateral damage.

Yerac, Friday, 4 May 2018 20:28 (five years ago) link

Of the three highest-profile Weinstein-like cases up here, one of them plunked himself down in the seat in front of me at a Hot Docs screening this morning. (The Fourth Estate, about Trump and the New York Times--pretty good, but a bit heavy on the deification of reporters.) He's a political on-air guy at a public TV station.

I was interested how he's greeted in public. I'm sure Weinstein gets confronted wherever he goes, but this guy is nothing like that--I think most people were really surprised when the story broke. (Which means nothing; Bill Cosby was Cliff Huxtable.) Do people avoid the subject or address it when talking to him?

Two guys sitting adjacent to him--I don't think friends, he was alone--brought up the accusations against him immediately, inquiring as to how he was making out. I heard him say "It's still being resolved," to which the one guy said "It's already been resolved in the court of public opinion." Not sure if that's true or not.

The film took a five-minute detour into Bill O'Reilly's resignation. I looked over at him, thinking "Wow, that must be awkward." I'll resist any attempt to read his body language during this segment.

clemenza, Saturday, 5 May 2018 21:14 (five years ago) link

charlie rose I assume? why not just say who it was?

akm, Saturday, 5 May 2018 21:37 (five years ago) link

If it's who I think it is (do you want to avoid directly name him?), then my sense is that most people accept that it's resolved in his favour. At least that's the media consensus.

jmm, Saturday, 5 May 2018 21:40 (five years ago) link

disappointing but also somewhat irritated by the reaction that 'he is claiming childhood abuse to cover for this'. really? in my experience people who were abused as children sometimes grow up to do some fucking horrible things.

― akm, Friday, May 4, 2018 12:47 PM (yesterday) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

This is a toxic, deterministic attitude. Many people abused in childhood grow up to be wonderful, loving people. If we push this idea in society of the cyclical or pay it forward theory of abuse what are we saying to young survivors? "oh, you're going to be fucking evil when you grow up, too bad".

Louis Jägermeister (jim in vancouver), Saturday, 5 May 2018 21:43 (five years ago) link

Not Charlie Rose, no--I'm in Toronto. Charlie Rose is famous enough that I'd name him. Jmm knows who I mean. I probably shouldn't even post--he's just out seeing a movie. It feels slightly less of an ambush if I don't name him.

clemenza, Saturday, 5 May 2018 22:07 (five years ago) link

I heard that the court of public opinion is worse than jail time so you could be on to something there.

Yerac, Saturday, 5 May 2018 22:10 (five years ago) link

Yerac letting it rip today. I can dig it.

El Tomboto, Saturday, 5 May 2018 23:07 (five years ago) link

rong

.b derf (darraghmac), Saturday, 5 May 2018 23:39 (five years ago) link

Clemenza, seems a bit unfair to compare SP to Weinstein at this point?
https://www.thestar.com/news/queenspark/2018/04/27/tvos-steve-paikin-cleared-of-wrongdoing-by-independent-investigator.html

sean gramophone, Sunday, 6 May 2018 00:22 (five years ago) link

Didn't know at all he'd been cleared--I'm glad. (Not knowing where the story stood at this point was one of the reasons I didn't use a name.) Not knowing that, I think the comparison is obvious: they'd been accused of the same thing.

clemenza, Sunday, 6 May 2018 01:07 (five years ago) link

Actually, they hadn't--Pakin was accused of saying something. Didn't know that, either. (That wasn't made clear when the story broke, was it?) Again, I'm glad.

clemenza, Sunday, 6 May 2018 01:16 (five years ago) link

https://www.newyorker.com/news/news-desk/four-women-accuse-new-yorks-attorney-general-of-physical-abuse

more appropriate place to post

, Tuesday, 8 May 2018 00:14 (five years ago) link

How does anyone become capable of hitting someone in the face

valorous wokelord (silby), Tuesday, 8 May 2018 00:20 (five years ago) link

Like how did you decide to be an adult who would hit someone

valorous wokelord (silby), Tuesday, 8 May 2018 00:21 (five years ago) link

really

Dan S, Tuesday, 8 May 2018 00:21 (five years ago) link

and for rebuffing an inappropriate advance, when you’re the boss

mh, Tuesday, 8 May 2018 00:26 (five years ago) link

I was surprised that the only Facebook chatter I saw about that was Schneiderman’s cousin cursing his name.

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Tuesday, 8 May 2018 01:34 (five years ago) link

does Cuomo get to make an appointment?

he should appoint Preet. or Hillary

Dan S, Tuesday, 8 May 2018 01:36 (five years ago) link

I hope they appoint the chief deputy attorney general because he was in my freshman dorm

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Tuesday, 8 May 2018 01:59 (five years ago) link

He also might be my distant cousin

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Tuesday, 8 May 2018 01:59 (five years ago) link

not sure i'd want many of the people in my freshman dorm in positions of power tbh

mookieproof, Tuesday, 8 May 2018 02:01 (five years ago) link

The good people I went to school with were amazingly, terrifyingly good

Embalming is a flirty business (DJP), Tuesday, 8 May 2018 02:19 (five years ago) link

just what you want in an attorney general

j., Tuesday, 8 May 2018 02:29 (five years ago) link

Thor level good or just like Steve Rogers good

El Tomboto, Tuesday, 8 May 2018 02:33 (five years ago) link

They should ask Spitzer back

valorous wokelord (silby), Tuesday, 8 May 2018 02:53 (five years ago) link

Georgina Chapman speaks publicly:

https://www.vogue.com/article/georgina-chapman-life-after-harvey-weinstein

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 10 May 2018 13:00 (five years ago) link

Thor level good or just like Steve Rogers good

how dare u

captain america can lift thor's hammer, the man is practically a saint

Mahogany Loggins (bizarro gazzara), Thursday, 10 May 2018 13:03 (five years ago) link

is that a spoiler

gneb farts (darraghmac), Thursday, 10 May 2018 13:06 (five years ago) link

not yet

Mahogany Loggins (bizarro gazzara), Thursday, 10 May 2018 13:07 (five years ago) link

unless you've been saving 1988's mighty thor #390 for a rainy day i guess

Mahogany Loggins (bizarro gazzara), Thursday, 10 May 2018 13:07 (five years ago) link

NERDS

moresoupial (Ye Mad Puffin), Thursday, 10 May 2018 13:46 (five years ago) link

well, yeah

Mahogany Loggins (bizarro gazzara), Thursday, 10 May 2018 13:47 (five years ago) link

http://www.tmz.com/2018/05/09/producer-detail-rape-abuse-restraining-order-singers/

bebe rexha and anjulie have also corroborated

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Friday, 11 May 2018 00:46 (five years ago) link

I’ve been unable to speak on my situation for 7 months. It is with great care and awareness that I share my story with you today. Attached you will find testimony excerpts from the judge, a toxicologist, witnesses and myself. Find the full statements here https://t.co/O8BZy0lwW7 pic.twitter.com/QBV4yus2zs

— G L K (@GASLAMPKILLER) May 15, 2018

change display name (Jordan), Tuesday, 15 May 2018 18:20 (five years ago) link

He misspelled his own name at the end of his statement?

mick signals, Tuesday, 15 May 2018 18:45 (five years ago) link

lol good catch

change display name (Jordan), Tuesday, 15 May 2018 18:52 (five years ago) link

$500 million settlement from Michigan State to the survivors of Nassar's abuse.

how's life, Wednesday, 16 May 2018 16:48 (five years ago) link

Uh, he is really twisting the words of the judge there. She is saying that Tadros' statement is a kind of statement that can be proved right or wrong, not that it's already been done. My belief in his innocence is not exactly heightened by this.

Frederik B, Wednesday, 16 May 2018 17:48 (five years ago) link

frankly i have no idea who this dude is but smdh that the social media age has led us to a point where someone calling themselves ‘gaslampkiller’ is protesting their innocence on twitter in all seriousness

martin short's interiors (bizarro gazzara), Wednesday, 16 May 2018 18:07 (five years ago) link

Are these mega settlements going to move the needle in how universities deal with the monsters on their payrolls?

Mario Meatwagon (Moodles), Wednesday, 16 May 2018 18:14 (five years ago) link

The 1998 tobacco settlement was $206 billion. How are tobacco manufacturers doing these days?

it's a leaf that the nomads chew (Ye Mad Puffin), Wednesday, 16 May 2018 18:42 (five years ago) link

Not as well as in 98? Is this a valid comparison?

Mario Meatwagon (Moodles), Wednesday, 16 May 2018 18:53 (five years ago) link

That's an excellent point, Frederik.

mick signals, Thursday, 17 May 2018 02:20 (five years ago) link

https://www.thecrimson.com/article/2018/5/22/fryer-investigation/

harvard economist

j., Tuesday, 22 May 2018 03:47 (five years ago) link

NYPD officials say they are ready to arrest Harvey Weinstein https://t.co/aK3l2B93W5 pic.twitter.com/2qHRT7T4hC

— The Hill (@thehill) May 23, 2018

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 23 May 2018 20:28 (five years ago) link

don't adopt.

Ludo, Thursday, 24 May 2018 06:46 (five years ago) link

that's your takeaway from this whole thing?

Yeah, that’s a vile thing to post.

suzy, Thursday, 24 May 2018 11:20 (five years ago) link

Jesus, that poor family.

El Tomboto, Thursday, 24 May 2018 11:27 (five years ago) link

Pretty convincing post by Moses.

Joe Gargan (dandydonweiner), Thursday, 24 May 2018 11:55 (five years ago) link

As always, compare it to the custody ruling from 1993: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/danny-shea/heres-the-1993-woody-alle_b_4746866.html?guccounter=1. One glaring problem: Several adults, including professionals, had noticed Allen had a deeply problematic relationship with Dylan for years before 1992, so Moses' claims that he never saw anything wrong rings false.

Frederik B, Thursday, 24 May 2018 12:42 (five years ago) link

tomboto otm

mick signals, Thursday, 24 May 2018 12:44 (five years ago) link

16 women come forward to allege sexual harassment by Morgan Freeman https://t.co/M0nLysSE0E

— Sam Stein (@samstein) May 24, 2018

mookieproof, Thursday, 24 May 2018 15:19 (five years ago) link

The Vancouver skytrain system launched announcements voiced by Morgan Freeman yesterday.

They've been pulled obviously.

Morgan Freeman seemed inevitable, this is a man who dates (dated?) his step-granddaughter

( ͡☉ ͜ʖ ͡☉) (jim in vancouver), Thursday, 24 May 2018 17:12 (five years ago) link

that moses farrow post is seriously disturbing and, for me, pretty hard to argue with. i basically don't know what to think about this anymore, except that tombot otm.

(The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Thursday, 24 May 2018 18:25 (five years ago) link

The basic principle of 'believe the victim' should always be applied in the absence of clear and compelling contradictory evidence. Moses Farrow offers clear contradictory testimony and some contradicting evidence. he is at last half-compelling. now all I can say is this is a hugely tangled mess that outsiders are ill-equipped to disentangle.

tombot otm

A is for (Aimless), Thursday, 24 May 2018 18:34 (five years ago) link

There is no evidence in his post, though?

Frederik B, Thursday, 24 May 2018 18:37 (five years ago) link

I don't want to dive wholeheartedly into that conversation, but it's completely possible that the Farrow household was a complete mess and abusive, that Allen was a good dad to one of the kids, and that he also was a complete creep

all this does is show that the solution was ugly all around, not just on one side, with one kid saying it's implausible Allen would be inappropriate with one of the other kids, because he was nice to the writer

(ノಠ益ಠ)ノ彡┻━┻ (mh), Thursday, 24 May 2018 18:44 (five years ago) link

yep

barring a confession by one of the principals, we're never going to have certainty

the ignatius rock of ignorance (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 24 May 2018 18:47 (five years ago) link

The 'evidence', such as it is, consists of his factually verifiable description of the attic space where Dylan recalled the assault and the lack of toy electric trains which form such a central part of her story. But, no, he doesn't post photos of the attic to corroborate his testimony. So, you are technically correct to say no physical evidence was offered.

A is for (Aimless), Thursday, 24 May 2018 18:50 (five years ago) link

the situation is so confused and awful it's hard to know what to make of it. but moses makes a specific argument for why the specific abuse against dylan couldn't have happened that day, and he was a witness. has that been refuted anywhere?

(The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Thursday, 24 May 2018 18:58 (five years ago) link

Doesn't that account of Moses kinda contradicts Judge Wilks' statement?

Van Horn Street, Thursday, 24 May 2018 18:59 (five years ago) link

That report put an end to any chance of criminal charges being brought against my father. A second, 14-month investigation by the New York State Department of Social Services, reached the same conclusion as Yale/New Haven: “No credible evidence was found that [Dylan Farrow] has been abused or maltreated.” Nevertheless, when a judge granted custody of Satchel and Dylan to Mia, at 15, I chose the path of least resistance, and also stayed with my mother.

Seems quite different from...

In his 33-page decision in June 1993,[9] Justice Elliott Wilk rejected Allen's bid for custody of the three children, and denied Allen immediate visitation rights with Dylan, saying of Allen's behavior toward Dylan that it was "grossly inappropriate and that measures must be taken to protect her".[9][8][63] His criticism of Allen's parenting was harsh.[64][20] Rejecting Allen's portrayal of Farrow as a "woman scorned", Wilk said there was no credible evidence that she had coached Dylan, and he criticized Allen for his "trial strategy" of turning family members and employees against one another.

Van Horn Street, Thursday, 24 May 2018 19:01 (five years ago) link

criminal investigation vs. custody case

by the light of the burning Citroën, Thursday, 24 May 2018 19:14 (five years ago) link

those two are about the custody if i understand correctly

Van Horn Street, Thursday, 24 May 2018 19:32 (five years ago) link

Yeah, that’s a vile thing to post.

i am sorry. it certainly wasn't my intention, or the only thing that i deduced from that blogpost. But it was certainly a factor that didn't help in this situation, adopting a whole bunch of people from all kinds of circumstances into a showbiz home that probably already wasn't functioning too well (judging from that blogpost)

adoption is a very, very tricky process, even in safe, stable, households with, say 1 adopted child and 1 biological child.

Ludo, Thursday, 24 May 2018 19:53 (five years ago) link

JUST IN - Harvey Weinstein is expected to turn himself in to the NYPD relating to sexual misconduct charges as early as tomorrow @brynnCNN reports. #BREAKING

— Stephanie Gallman (@sgallman) May 24, 2018

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 24 May 2018 20:02 (five years ago) link

Weinstein can afford some high-powered attorneys. No doubt he's lined up his legal team now.

A is for (Aimless), Thursday, 24 May 2018 20:04 (five years ago) link

Several adults, including professionals, had noticed Allen had a deeply problematic relationship with Dylan for years before 1992, so Moses' claims that he never saw anything wrong rings false.

besides indeed citing on this point one of mia farrow's friends, one professional french teacher, and one of the battery of child therapists this family seems to have been keeping employed even before any of this happened, this document also states for the record that mia farrow is a wonderful loving mother who adores each child equally and that it just isn't credible that she'd subject any of them to any of this if it weren't true, so if it's bedrock text of some sort then i guess there's a whole lot more in the moses post that "rings false"

no idea what happened anymore but sorry to all these kids, jesus, no one should have to be raised by any of these people tbh

difficult listening hour, Thursday, 24 May 2018 20:07 (five years ago) link

So the takeaway isn't "don't adopt," it's "don't get adopted by people who don't have their shit together."

and she could see an earmuff factory (Ye Mad Puffin), Thursday, 24 May 2018 20:10 (five years ago) link

(that huffpo piece picks out the "she's not perfect!" part but if u read the whole document it's willing to go rather further than that, xp to myself)

difficult listening hour, Thursday, 24 May 2018 20:11 (five years ago) link

no one should have to be raised by any of these people tbh

I came to this conclusion a long time ago (ie when the split initially happened)

Οὖτις, Thursday, 24 May 2018 20:27 (five years ago) link

dlh, that text is pretty much the final word from 1993, and is from a neutral observer. Yes, it should kinda be a bedrock text. Doesn't mean everything in it is true, but as a historical document, it's closer in time, it's official so probably less biased, etc.

Frederik B, Thursday, 24 May 2018 21:18 (five years ago) link

well i'm sure glad you were here to tell us what really happened, guess we can close this case now

(The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Thursday, 24 May 2018 21:41 (five years ago) link

Oh stop it. I'm not saying what happened, I'm just saying how source criticism works. Sources are, among other things, measured after how close in time they are to the event in question, and whether or not they're biased.

Frederik B, Thursday, 24 May 2018 22:11 (five years ago) link

Fred's right. He even said "Doesn't mean everything in it is true"

A is for (Aimless), Thursday, 24 May 2018 22:13 (five years ago) link

Maybe for another thread, but I didn't realise that Mia Farrow had 14 kids, including 10 adopted, and three are now dead, just trying to digest that.

mfktz (Camaraderie at Arms Length), Thursday, 24 May 2018 22:18 (five years ago) link

The part of Moses' account where he blames all three deaths on Mia is really nagl tbh.

Frederik B, Thursday, 24 May 2018 22:42 (five years ago) link

what i mean is that finding inconsistencies between texts' judgment of the appropriateness of woody allen's bedtime story technique is not v surprising or meaningful when one text is also accusing the other text's court-certified good mom of being a monstrous child abuser enabled for years by the very people whose testimony forms the basis of the other text's conclusions

like since the premise of the moses piece is that the public story is wholly untrue, i don't think it gets us any closer to choosing between them to note that in places it contradicts the public story

(nor is "biased" a concept i can imagine flying v well were i to use my new understanding of source criticism to privilege, say, the yale/newhaven investigation over dylan's own testimony)

hard to justify my arguing at length for a position that is actually just a shrug but tbh i think the stuff in the moses piece triggered me? would say i hope that stuff didn't happen but as the alternative is dylan's story i guess i just hope they didn't both happen.

difficult listening hour, Thursday, 24 May 2018 23:01 (five years ago) link

The yale/newhaven story is dealt with in the custody judgment, which is why I treat that as more important.

But to be honest, I don't think most historians would give that much credit to Dylan's 2014 column either. It's more than twenty years after the fact, she was very young at the time, traumatized, she stated in a Vanity Fair piece that she couldn't remember a lot of what had happened at that time.

I don't think it's really true that the Moses statement should be given equal weight to every other statement, because it claims that everything else is a lie. If there's, like, ten statements that fit together, and one statement that goes 'they're all wrong, and only I speak the truth', well, occams razor. For instance, it's hard to fit the image of Thaddeus in that piece with what Thaddeus himself said about Mia Farrow: “It was scary to be brought to a world of people whose language I did not understand, with different skin colors. The fact that everyone loved me was a new experience, overwhelming at first.”

Frederik B, Thursday, 24 May 2018 23:27 (five years ago) link

All I’m going to say about efforts to deflect from my sister‘s allegations: pic.twitter.com/IRrj5fzMqV

— Ronan Farrow (@RonanFarrow) May 24, 2018

Frederik B, Thursday, 24 May 2018 23:42 (five years ago) link

hard to fit the image of Thaddeus in that piece with what Thaddeus himself said

not if you accept that Mia was an abuser. but again, probably better for another thread.

we used to get our kicks reading surfing MAGAzines (sic), Thursday, 24 May 2018 23:44 (five years ago) link

Maybe I’m ready to decide that I actually DGAFF about these celebrities and their fucked up kids. No, wait -I am. And I don’t. It’s their business.

El Tomboto, Thursday, 24 May 2018 23:49 (five years ago) link

Try not to have a completely fucked up family, everybody.

El Tomboto, Thursday, 24 May 2018 23:50 (five years ago) link

given the deep, deep nightmare i have only just learned was thaddeus' pre-adoption life i think anybody's version of mia farrow-- not to mention the other kids-- would have been a bewildering relief.

(for the same reason i do agree that implying mia drove him to suicide without otherwise describing his experience is a mistake.)

difficult listening hour, Thursday, 24 May 2018 23:50 (five years ago) link

One thing I didn’t understand- Moses claims Mia was on a tear against woody, ongoing for 7 months prior the alleged day of abuse. He goes to great lengths to describe Mia’s vitriol towards woody. But he claims woody and Mia went out for dinner together that night. Idk but if I hated my ex and he was also mad at me about stuff, we would not be going out for dinner together.

just1n3, Friday, 25 May 2018 00:31 (five years ago) link

none of us have ever married Frank Sinatra and after claiming to have been betrayed by a subsequent mate, said "we never really broke up" with Frank.

There are too many levels of madness in this story for nonpros to deal with.

the ignatius rock of ignorance (Dr Morbius), Friday, 25 May 2018 00:37 (five years ago) link

Otm

Οὖτις, Friday, 25 May 2018 00:43 (five years ago) link

These are crazy people

Οὖτις, Friday, 25 May 2018 00:43 (five years ago) link

There are degrees of craziness, but there's also a raging narcissist who has been trying to smear Mia Farrow for 25 years at this point. The Woody camp has been lying over and over, Moses' account is filled with elipses and untruths. This is not a 'he said, she said' situation.

Frederik B, Friday, 25 May 2018 07:44 (five years ago) link

fred

mate

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Friday, 25 May 2018 07:46 (five years ago) link

Look, at this point, the prior should be that anything defending Woody Allen is probably not true. It has been like that for decades at this point. And so much stuff in this blog post is sketchy. Just the simple thing: If Mia Farrow is an abusive mom, who drove the Previn children insane as well, wouldn't this be something that would have been brought up during the custody battle in 93? Is Woody Allen completely blind? Either 13 kids, a bunch of journalists, the whole court system, is almost conspiring to cover for Mia Farrow. Or this one guy is lying.

Frederik B, Friday, 25 May 2018 08:05 (five years ago) link

fred

mate

we used to get our kicks reading surfing MAGAzines (sic), Friday, 25 May 2018 08:24 (five years ago) link

i'm leaning towards fred's side here, truth be told

Nhex, Friday, 25 May 2018 08:39 (five years ago) link

I'm leaning towards the 'eh let's not waste our time trying to weigh up evidence in this sorry fucking mess' side.

mfktz (Camaraderie at Arms Length), Friday, 25 May 2018 08:54 (five years ago) link

I can't begrudge anyone for washing their hands of this mess, but I honestly think it's important. Because the outcome isn't likely to be 'both sides are awful' as much as 'who knows' and then Woody Allen get's a standing ovation at his next Oscar nomination.

Frederik B, Friday, 25 May 2018 09:10 (five years ago) link

Woody Allen is not getting another Oscar nomination.

we used to get our kicks reading surfing MAGAzines (sic), Friday, 25 May 2018 09:32 (five years ago) link

There is clearly room for all of the children's accounts (Ronan, Moses, Dylan) to be true, simultaneously. It was a big family and it can't have been possible for everyone to see everything, and Moses's account continually alludes to the situations in which family members were unaware of each other's behaviour. The train set evidence is not damning. You can remember getting mugged without remembering where it happened. And it's normal for children (and adults!) to cope with violence and bad behaviour by learning to normalise it.

Chuck_Tatum, Friday, 25 May 2018 09:55 (five years ago) link

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/DeCjshuXcAA8Heo.jpg:large

Eliza D., Friday, 25 May 2018 12:04 (five years ago) link

he carried a book on elia kazan in. motherfuck that guy

maura, Friday, 25 May 2018 12:30 (five years ago) link

So as @psmith worked out, it looks like Weinstein is ostentatiously carrying Elia Kazan’s biography. Is he allying himself with the man who notoriously outed his “commie” Hollywood peers, or trying to suggest he’s a victim of a witchhunt? https://t.co/nF52Z6QH8V

— Janine Gibson (@janinegibson) May 25, 2018

maura, Friday, 25 May 2018 12:31 (five years ago) link

If he has learned any decency, he would plead guilty.

Yerac, Friday, 25 May 2018 12:50 (five years ago) link

Sure hope that Elia Kazan book is Weinstein signalling that he intends to rat out a bunch of other abusers in an attempt to save his own skin.

Daniel_Rf, Friday, 25 May 2018 12:55 (five years ago) link

He should. Sometimes crab mentality is ok.

Yerac, Friday, 25 May 2018 12:56 (five years ago) link

Like when you want the crabs to stay in the container so you can eat parts of them

El Tomboto, Friday, 25 May 2018 12:59 (five years ago) link

Appropriate photo there

Three Mario Batali restaurants in Vegas will close amid mounting sexual-misconduct allegations against the chef https://t.co/T6WN5T3jxj

— The Daily Beast (@thedailybeast) May 25, 2018

Ned Raggett, Friday, 25 May 2018 20:52 (five years ago) link

Let’s revel in the amazingness of Las Vegas hospitality businesses shuttering because their Italian-American proprietor has been reportedly getting handsy with the staff.

El Tomboto, Friday, 25 May 2018 22:12 (five years ago) link

Catherine Breillat can go to hell afaic

Van Horn Street, Friday, 25 May 2018 22:13 (five years ago) link

https://theblemish.com/images/2007/04/joe-pesci-casino.jpg

El Tomboto, Friday, 25 May 2018 22:18 (five years ago) link

Breillat made some good and interesting movies once upon a time but imagine taking her opinion about this sort of thing seriously

Simon H., Friday, 25 May 2018 22:25 (five years ago) link

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2018/may/27/metoo-sexual-assault-claims-accused-men-plot-redemption-charlie-rose-mario-batali

Talkshow host Charlie Rose was fired by CBS and PBS in November after he was accused of groping colleagues and walking around naked in front of them, allegations he denies. Last month, he was reported to have been pitching a new atonement TV series in which he interviews other accused men like him, according to Page Six.

Celebrity chef Mario Batali took a leave of absence after he was accused by multiple women of inappropriate and abusive behaviour. After apologising, he has been “eyeing a second act”, according to the New York Times. Friends and associates say he is “pondering timelines” as to how he might step back into his career just months after it imploded, including by “creating a new company led by a powerful woman chief executive”.

Number None, Sunday, 27 May 2018 11:39 (five years ago) link

Yeah well Batali keeps getting named by more people so that plan's dead.

Anyway:

JUST IN: Harvey Weinstein indicted by grand jury on charges of rape and criminal sexual act.

“This indictment brings the defendant another step closer to accountability for the crimes of violence with which he is now charged," Manhattan District Attorney Cyrus Vance says. pic.twitter.com/vgrZtne0rF

— ABC News (@ABC) May 30, 2018

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 30 May 2018 22:11 (five years ago) link

wow, go off king

flappy bird, Monday, 4 June 2018 17:44 (five years ago) link

Woody Allen was not accused by 'one woman in a child custody case', he instigated the custody case himself seven days after Mia Farrow told him about what Dylan was saying. It's the very first line in the custody ruling. Fuck that sack of shit so much, and fuck the journalists who keep uncritically repeating his lies.

Frederik B, Monday, 4 June 2018 18:04 (five years ago) link

And btw this is an extract from the Eric Lax book Start to Finish, where Moses first spoke out:

"Woody says she called him many times late at night to scream…'You took my daughter, and I'm going to take yours," meaning Dylan…During one phone call to Woody, Farrow warned, 'I've got something planned for you." Allen asks if she's going to shoot him, to which Farrow reportedly responds: "…No, this is worse."

Allen a) provably lies about Mia Farrow as in the first example and b) tells these absolutely disgusting stories about her with no back up evidence as in the second example. And still people just say it's word against word. It's so gross.

Frederik B, Monday, 4 June 2018 18:45 (five years ago) link

it's amazing how Frederik has insight into this story that so few others in the world reporting it have obtained

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Monday, 4 June 2018 19:37 (five years ago) link

Yeah, it kinda is. Especially since I'm just using google. Journalists suck, huh?

Frederik B, Monday, 4 June 2018 20:09 (five years ago) link

guess so

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Monday, 4 June 2018 20:16 (five years ago) link

well if you found 'evidence' on the internet it's all over QED

the ignatius rock of ignorance (Dr Morbius), Monday, 4 June 2018 20:19 (five years ago) link

Yeah, we all know huffington post uploads fake court documents all the time, lol.

Frederik B, Monday, 4 June 2018 20:26 (five years ago) link

he said he was "accused by one woman in a child custody case," he didn't say who instigated it.

not that the court document is false or anything but huffington post is a pretty shitty site fyi.

(The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Monday, 4 June 2018 21:13 (five years ago) link

provably lies about Mia Farrow as in the first example

i was going to ask you how that is 'provable,' Perry Mason, but i'd actually rather shoot myself

the ignatius rock of ignorance (Dr Morbius), Monday, 4 June 2018 21:34 (five years ago) link

Are you all on Woody's side or someting? :/

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Monday, 4 June 2018 21:42 (five years ago) link

yeah... :/

Nhex, Monday, 4 June 2018 22:03 (five years ago) link

I would never be on a side that would have someone like me on it

Οὖτις, Monday, 4 June 2018 22:15 (five years ago) link

I mean, who bloody cares? We're not defending a prodigy, and he's made illiterate stupid movies for years. Fuck'em.

morning wood truancy (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 4 June 2018 22:21 (five years ago) link

He was not in a child custody case when he was accused by Dylan.

Frederik B, Monday, 4 June 2018 22:23 (five years ago) link

my feeling is that mia and woody are prob both pretty terrible ppl, but i don't think you have to be "on woody's side" to find moses farrow's account as credible as dylan's.

(The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Monday, 4 June 2018 22:28 (five years ago) link

ok but fuck woody allen for what he said in that linked piece

flamenco blorf (BradNelson), Monday, 4 June 2018 22:29 (five years ago) link

there are many, many reasons to say "fuck Woody Allen." I don't have any reasons to say "fuck Moses Farrow."

we used to get our kicks reading surfing MAGAzines (sic), Monday, 4 June 2018 22:32 (five years ago) link

You can choose to believe an account over an other, but let's not pretend like it's less about personal politics than knowing what really happened.

Van Horn Street, Monday, 4 June 2018 22:34 (five years ago) link

Not even Dylan and Mia have said 'fuck Moses Farrow'.

Frederik B, Monday, 4 June 2018 22:35 (five years ago) link

the moses account has definitely made me question stuff i thought already so i don't have a "side" - it seems strange to be capable of leveling the kind of vehement certainty about this awful, private situation that Fred does

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Monday, 4 June 2018 23:43 (five years ago) link

Woody Allen has only ever been a poster boy for himself.

Yerac, Tuesday, 5 June 2018 00:00 (five years ago) link

Things we know with 100% certainty about this case: Woody slept with Mias daughter, treated their daughter Dylan weirdly (though the details will remain murky) then began smear campaign against Mia. These are objective facts, with numbers of witness statements and a ruling from a judge. Don't muddy the case more than it is.

Frederik B, Tuesday, 5 June 2018 07:04 (five years ago) link

ok boss

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 07:05 (five years ago) link

I mean we can dunk on a director saying he should be "the poster boy for the MeToo movement" just because he hasn't harassed female actors he worked with regardless of what his crimes may be.

Daniel_Rf, Tuesday, 5 June 2018 10:13 (five years ago) link

'i didn't harass my female leads, i just made movies where fortysomething comedians date teenagers, nbd'

and TOWERS MONACO as 'seaman' (bizarro gazzara), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 10:32 (five years ago) link

yeah let's all be on celebrity "sides" where nobody knows what the fuck happened

the ignatius rock of ignorance (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 11:35 (five years ago) link

hey Fred, is it a smear campaign when you don't know how much of it is true?

the ignatius rock of ignorance (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 11:39 (five years ago) link

If this thread has taught me anything, it's to assume that most public figures are human garbage and to be pleasantly surprised on the rare occasion when that isn't the case.

On the Wingers of Love: The Kip & Debra Story (Old Lunch), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 12:11 (five years ago) link

A friend of mine recently remarked that Jim Henson died too young, and in the back of my mind I'm like "did he?"

emotional support vegetable (Ye Mad Puffin), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 12:41 (five years ago) link

...

waht

and TOWERS MONACO as 'seaman' (bizarro gazzara), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 12:45 (five years ago) link

I'm still glad that the most scandalous thing to come out about him was that he and his wife were just keeping up the appearance of marriage for a number of years (and that he was dating Daryl Hannah at the time of his death, apparently?).

If any bombshells ever drop about Fred Rogers, I'm officially done with humanity.

On the Wingers of Love: The Kip & Debra Story (Old Lunch), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 12:46 (five years ago) link

Old Lunch is right.

My thought-flash was somewhere between "possibly best to refrain from idolizing celebrities, lest they disappoint you," a more pessimistic "some dirt always comes out about even the most beloved public figures, it's only a matter of time" and the deeply cynical black-hearted thought of "exit the stage while you're still a saint; death can be a great career move." I'm not proud of it but the thought did occur to me. I mean, Kevin Clash went from globally admired to nonexistent in like a month.

emotional support vegetable (Ye Mad Puffin), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 12:52 (five years ago) link

Even when it isn't mired in scandal, the inglorious fall of a beloved children's entertainer is a helluva blow (see: David from Sesame Street, or don't if you're still blissfully ignorant).

On the Wingers of Love: The Kip & Debra Story (Old Lunch), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 13:04 (five years ago) link

lambchop might have some dark secrets but i doubt it

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 13:12 (five years ago) link

im still not over those pics of grover shooting up

laurel or hardyhearin (darraghmac), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 13:13 (five years ago) link

^you joke but those pics of the dad from Alf doing that came pretty close to feeling as bad for inner childhood me as if it had been Grover

Daniel_Rf, Tuesday, 5 June 2018 13:17 (five years ago) link

correct i joke

i dont feel particularly responsible for the correlation in yr head btwn grover and another person fyi

laurel or hardyhearin (darraghmac), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 13:19 (five years ago) link

my post wasn't intended to make you feel like you should!

Daniel_Rf, Tuesday, 5 June 2018 13:38 (five years ago) link

the whole thing is a sorry mess *shakes muppets head*

laurel or hardyhearin (darraghmac), Tuesday, 5 June 2018 13:45 (five years ago) link

some celebrities make it easier than others to believe the worst about them, re: Woody

Nhex, Tuesday, 5 June 2018 20:16 (five years ago) link

California judge Aaron Persky, who in 2016 sentenced former Stanford swimmer Brock Turner to only six months in prison after he was convicted on three counts of felony sexual assault, was recalled from office after Californians voted Tuesday to remove him from the bench. He is the first California judge to be recalled since 1932, and the first in the United States since 1977.

https://www.nytimes.com/2018/06/06/us/politics/judge-persky-brock-turner-recall.html

mookieproof, Wednesday, 6 June 2018 15:22 (five years ago) link

Wow.

Simon H., Wednesday, 6 June 2018 15:24 (five years ago) link

hell yeah

and TOWERS MONACO as 'seaman' (bizarro gazzara), Wednesday, 6 June 2018 15:25 (five years ago) link

✊🏼

valorous wokelord (silby), Wednesday, 6 June 2018 15:27 (five years ago) link

Solid. F yeah fellow California voters.

Elvis Telecom, Thursday, 7 June 2018 05:04 (five years ago) link

this story about the case and the recall is pretty intense

https://highline.huffingtonpost.com/articles/en/brock-turner-michele-dauber

mookieproof, Thursday, 7 June 2018 16:29 (five years ago) link

whoa wtf with david from sesame st. I didn't know about any of that. I'm shocked they kept him on the show after he beat a woman with an iron rod.

akm, Thursday, 7 June 2018 18:32 (five years ago) link

also, Bill Clinton, ladies & gentlemen! (should not do any more interviews, or "write" novels)

the ignatius rock of ignorance (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 7 June 2018 18:53 (five years ago) link

That event uninviting Monica Lewinsky because Bill Clinton was going to be there was wild.

Daniel_Rf, Tuesday, 12 June 2018 09:37 (five years ago) link

i heard clinton on NPR the other week and he sounded so incredibly old and doddering, they should not truck him out for anything at this point.

akm, Tuesday, 12 June 2018 17:04 (five years ago) link

Off topic but there must be like a million podcasts hatereading that novel by now right

U. K. Le Garage (wins), Tuesday, 12 June 2018 17:08 (five years ago) link

Remarkable how much worse Bill Clinton sounds & looks compared to Jimmy Carter, who is 20 years older and survived brain cancer.

flappy bird, Tuesday, 12 June 2018 17:09 (five years ago) link

i wonder if a couple decades of being conspiracied by the right wing hasn't taken its toll, i bet that dude sometimes wishes he'd just pondered a run in 1992 and then decided to retire into some kind of private endeavor.

omar little, Tuesday, 12 June 2018 17:13 (five years ago) link

but then he thinks of all the bombing he may have missed.

Hazy Maze Cave (Adam Bruneau), Tuesday, 12 June 2018 17:20 (five years ago) link

he also lost a lot of weight very quickly on some vegan diet, which can really drew-carey a mfer up

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Tuesday, 12 June 2018 17:34 (five years ago) link

i bet that dude sometimes wishes he'd just pondered a run in 1992 and then decided to retire into some kind of private endeavor.

nooooooooooooooo way

flappy bird, Tuesday, 12 June 2018 17:39 (five years ago) link

p sure he's stoked he received the most famous bj in American history

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 12 June 2018 17:46 (five years ago) link

There's an alternate universe where he was manager of the most successful Walmart in Little Rock.

emotional support legume (Ye Mad Puffin), Tuesday, 12 June 2018 17:53 (five years ago) link

i think if we don't assign normal human thoughts to Bill Clinton then maybe he's completely content and tbh probably most of the time he is, but no doubt at times he has some "what if?" thoughts. though it's hard for a man of his apparent nature and vast wealth to do that for too long and with much actual regret, i'm sure.

omar little, Tuesday, 12 June 2018 17:57 (five years ago) link

i bet that dude sometimes wishes he'd just pondered a run in 1992 and then decided to retire into some kind of private endeavor.

^^ John Edwards' daily fantasy, I'm sure.

... (Eazy), Tuesday, 12 June 2018 20:02 (five years ago) link

i dont' get this at all:

https://www.eater.com/2018/6/14/17462514/ashley-merriman-gabrielle-hamilton-spotted-pig-ken-friedman

I don't know much about these two, or even the Friedman thing, but her defense of this move sounds...incoherent?

akm, Thursday, 14 June 2018 22:32 (five years ago) link

Oh gosh oh gee quell surprise Chris Hardwick.

Three Word Username, Friday, 15 June 2018 10:00 (five years ago) link

^ for reference

kelp, clam and carrion (sic), Friday, 15 June 2018 13:13 (five years ago) link

Truly horrible.

Simon H., Friday, 15 June 2018 13:20 (five years ago) link

super fucking gross. always hated that dude tbh.

circa1916, Friday, 15 June 2018 13:24 (five years ago) link

that article, my god...

The Desus & Mero Chain (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Friday, 15 June 2018 13:53 (five years ago) link

well, i'm glad i have no idea who he is

the ignatius rock of ignorance (Dr Morbius), Friday, 15 June 2018 14:03 (five years ago) link

I know someone who's BFFs with Hardwick and I'm waiting to see what she'll have to say about this, because it puts her in a really awkward place professionally standup-wise.

Johnny Fever, Friday, 15 June 2018 17:33 (five years ago) link

super fucking gross. always hated that dude tbh.

same

Οὖτις, Friday, 15 June 2018 17:34 (five years ago) link

sorry but who cares if you always hated someone who turns out to be an abuser, what does it matter, you want points (as it were)

valorous wokelord (silby), Friday, 15 June 2018 17:35 (five years ago) link

?

valorous wokelord (silby), Friday, 15 June 2018 17:35 (five years ago) link

just one more reason not to like him, I suppose.

Οὖτις, Friday, 15 June 2018 17:36 (five years ago) link

ooof

flappy bird, Friday, 15 June 2018 17:37 (five years ago) link

it was just a sidenote? jeez.

xps

circa1916, Friday, 15 June 2018 17:41 (five years ago) link

i guess it could be said that it doesn't matter if someone did or did not like the guy beforehand, since if we know anything about abusers it's that they're often extremely charming and likable, and sometimes seemingly very unlikable curmudgeons treat their friends and family with complete decency and respect and love.

omar little, Friday, 15 June 2018 17:48 (five years ago) link

that's not a shot at anyone here

omar little, Friday, 15 June 2018 17:49 (five years ago) link

at the very least i think we can maybe foresee that the person who is most "shocked" about these claims will be Chris Hardwick himself!

omar little, Friday, 15 June 2018 17:51 (five years ago) link

The palpable relief when the accused celebrity is someone you never liked and the open hand-wringing when it's someone you did are both ... not the important point.

I Never Promised You A Hose Harden (Eric H.), Friday, 15 June 2018 17:54 (five years ago) link

true

Οὖτις, Friday, 15 June 2018 17:55 (five years ago) link

For what it's worth, my "quell surprise" has more to do with unease with adult self-proclaimed nerd culture than it was signaling my brilliant taste at not liking the guy.

Three Word Username, Friday, 15 June 2018 17:56 (five years ago) link

I just read up on him. I knew him from Singled Out and Talking Dead but had no clue he was big in certain circles. I'm glad people are reading her essay.

Yerac, Friday, 15 June 2018 17:59 (five years ago) link

People are already quitting Nerdist over it. I highly doubt he gets to keep his TV gigs. So that's something, I guess.

Simon H., Friday, 15 June 2018 18:03 (five years ago) link

I guess that makes two podcast networks run by abusive creeps

valorous wokelord (silby), Friday, 15 June 2018 18:04 (five years ago) link

some of the qualities that made me not like his podcast--the constant boostering for workaholism, the control freaky approach to comedy and culture consumption--is what make the story, if not unsurprising, at least within the realm of "I can see that."

xpost didn't he leave Nerdist months ago? People are quitting because he started it, I guess?

President Keyes, Friday, 15 June 2018 18:06 (five years ago) link

Yeah, it's the association.

Who's the other podcast-network creep?

Simon H., Friday, 15 June 2018 18:08 (five years ago) link

Dustin from Feral Audio

just1n3, Friday, 15 June 2018 18:13 (five years ago) link

"the"

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Friday, 15 June 2018 18:16 (five years ago) link

(but you might be thinking of Nick Robinson?)

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Friday, 15 June 2018 18:16 (five years ago) link

Yes I was referring to Feral Dustin.

valorous wokelord (silby), Friday, 15 June 2018 18:17 (five years ago) link

Hardwick sold Nerdist six years ago, so anyone who resigns from it today is making an emptier gesture than hand-wringers on message boards.

kelp, clam and carrion (sic), Friday, 15 June 2018 18:21 (five years ago) link

Sold it in 2012, completely left it last fall.

Johnny Fever, Friday, 15 June 2018 18:30 (five years ago) link

nerd culture... is bad

maura, Friday, 15 June 2018 18:42 (five years ago) link

it is essentially what happens when people think all the kids except charlie were treated poorly by willy wonka

maura, Friday, 15 June 2018 18:43 (five years ago) link

Yeah, Charlie was treated pretty rotten by Willy Wonka too!

I Never Promised You A Hose Harden (Eric H.), Friday, 15 June 2018 18:50 (five years ago) link

an emptier gesture than hand-wringers on message boards

new board description

too gashly (Ye Mad Puffin), Friday, 15 June 2018 19:38 (five years ago) link

Wringing hands while typing is a special skill which should be valorized imo.

Gladys McFlatus (Old Lunch), Friday, 15 June 2018 19:43 (five years ago) link

nerds handling this about as well as you'd expect

lmao pic.twitter.com/T5oWddIqC8

— Brandy Jensen (@BrandyLJensen) June 15, 2018

Simon H., Friday, 15 June 2018 19:51 (five years ago) link

ok def. couldn't help but laugh at that

circa1916, Friday, 15 June 2018 19:57 (five years ago) link

Well, that sums up the last couple of years. Put it in a time capsule.

Yerac, Friday, 15 June 2018 20:02 (five years ago) link

I guess I should've realized after the death of satire that irony would be next.

Gladys McFlatus (Old Lunch), Friday, 15 June 2018 20:08 (five years ago) link

I haven't listened to Hardwick's podcast in several months, but I hope he hasn't knocked his wife up yet like they were planning so she can gtfo with her Hearst money before it's too late.

Johnny Fever, Friday, 15 June 2018 21:17 (five years ago) link

that would be:

https://www.polygon.com/2018/6/14/17463404/millie-bobby-brown-meme-twitter-deactivation🕸


WTF

flappy bird, Friday, 15 June 2018 22:15 (five years ago) link

Twitter is such an absolute cesspool.

Yerac, Friday, 15 June 2018 22:35 (five years ago) link

For what it's worth, my "quell surprise" has more to do with unease with adult self-proclaimed nerd culture than it was signaling my brilliant taste at not liking the guy.

― Three Word Username

whenever i hear the words "nerd culture" i reach for my jockstrap

Arch Bacon (rushomancy), Saturday, 16 June 2018 00:45 (five years ago) link

Shitty nerds have administered more nut punches and atomic wedgies to nerddom than generations of jocks ever did.

Gladys McFlatus (Old Lunch), Saturday, 16 June 2018 01:07 (five years ago) link

If you haven't been a nerd by the time you are 25, you have no heart; if you are still a nerd after 25, you also have no heart.

Three Word Username, Saturday, 16 June 2018 05:34 (five years ago) link

I'm all for discussing the toxic elements of nerd culture but lately I've also seen dudes insist that nerds are the problem in a self-distancing way that seems to ignore that men are the problem

Daniel_Rf, Saturday, 16 June 2018 06:50 (five years ago) link

if you all say nerd 100 times itt it turns into a reddit thread

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 16 June 2018 06:54 (five years ago) link

I've also seen dudes insist that nerds are the problem in a self-distancing way that seems to ignore that men are the problem

YES. thank you.

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Saturday, 16 June 2018 07:24 (five years ago) link

he’s denied everything, not that that closes the book

karl wallogina (Autumn Almanac), Saturday, 16 June 2018 07:34 (five years ago) link

I'm all for discussing the toxic elements of nerd culture but lately I've also seen dudes insist that nerds are the problem in a self-distancing way that seems to ignore that men are the problem

― Daniel_Rf, Saturday, 16 June 2018 06:50 (two hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

oh...still at this eh

tired culché (darraghmac), Saturday, 16 June 2018 09:01 (five years ago) link

nerd culture = monoculture

monoculture is misogynistic therefore nerd culture is too

Hazy Maze Cave (Adam Bruneau), Saturday, 16 June 2018 14:18 (five years ago) link

he’s denied everything, not that that closes the book

He specifically denies "sexually assaulting" her, but her own account describes the emotional abuse that led to her passively allowing him to use her prone body for sex whenever he chose - which he verbally mocked at the same time as taking advantage. If it were in court, this would likely be considered consensual activity.

He has not denied that he blocked her from having friends, socialising on her own terms, having independent interests, TALKING IN PUBLIC, nor that he extensively conspired to have her denied multiple employment opportunities after breaking up.

His statement also appears to confirm that he considered, and still does, a single instance of kissing another person to mark her as a scarlet-lettered harlot, unworthy of his glorious love and mighty semen.

kelp, clam and carrion (sic), Saturday, 16 June 2018 14:43 (five years ago) link

There is a Mel article that is circulating, this part resonates

" ...yet men of his sort keep taking up arms against “social justice warriors” in order to retain the old mentality of living under siege. A nerdy woman threatens their stranglehold on the archive, as well as Hardwick’s flimsy pretext for success: being a dude who knows a fair amount of Doctor Who trivia."

Yerac, Saturday, 16 June 2018 15:51 (five years ago) link

this makes me feel bad, because i'm a dude who knows a fair amount of doctor who trivia but somehow never managed to conquer the podcast world

i mean it's probably the lisp but damn, people have been calling me an underachiever since bart simpson

Arch Bacon (rushomancy), Saturday, 16 June 2018 16:03 (five years ago) link

"He has not denied that he blocked her from having friends, socialising on her own terms, having independent interests, TALKING IN PUBLIC, nor that he extensively conspired to have her denied multiple employment opportunities after breaking up."

I thought this meant he owned up to this but from the statement I read he simply didn't address it.

akm, Saturday, 16 June 2018 16:13 (five years ago) link

yes

every time I've seen or heard Hardwick deliver Dr Who trivia he gets it entirely wrong, but that's not a matter for this thread

kelp, clam and carrion (sic), Saturday, 16 June 2018 16:14 (five years ago) link

actually wait, I just remembered an instance where it is, but I have to catch a plane

kelp, clam and carrion (sic), Saturday, 16 June 2018 16:14 (five years ago) link

siege mentality is an aspirational lifestyle for these guys. it's a great fantasy... convince yourself that you're at war, and suddenly the exigency of war is available for you to act without thinking, and funnily enough your reflexive strategies turn out to be congruent with your desires.

you see it in MRWs, fundamentalists, anti-immigration politicians, gun nuts, preppers, police, libertarians... everywhere.

com rad erry red flag (f. hazel), Saturday, 16 June 2018 16:52 (five years ago) link

Here is the original article that quote was from. https://melmagazine.com/chris-hardwick-and-why-geek-culture-cant-shake-its-misogyny-c9eba7eb0952

Yerac, Saturday, 16 June 2018 16:59 (five years ago) link

besiegers who insist they're being besieged

Arch Bacon (rushomancy), Saturday, 16 June 2018 17:03 (five years ago) link

I first assumed due to Doctor Who context that by "Mel article" you meant an op-ed by Bonnie Langford.

com rad erry red flag (f. hazel), Saturday, 16 June 2018 17:08 (five years ago) link

Nerd culture today is consumerism as religion, harassing women from Star Wars off social media, daily revelations of abuse, & VR billionaires creating tech to crush immigrants.

Meanwhile a football player protests violence against Black people & the President mocks him.

— Aaron Stewart-Ahn (@somebadideas) June 16, 2018



Dunno who this is, it’s just one example of this idiotic take coming into my timeline - yes nerd culture is the worst but I wish people would stop and think for one whole second before starting with this “turns out the JOCKS were the woke ones all along haha” nonsense, like yep no rape culture in *checks notes* football, no sir

U. K. Le Garage (wins), Saturday, 16 June 2018 17:26 (five years ago) link

He has not denied that he blocked her from having friends, socialising on her own terms, having independent interests, TALKING IN PUBLIC, nor that he extensively conspired to have her denied multiple employment opportunities after breaking up.

yeah, I have said this before but the consequences that men are afraid will happen to them are the exact same consequences that have happened to women, on the same "he said" grounds, that just happen to be wrong strikingly more often, and which happen to often permanently ruin or at least detract from their personal and professional lives. shitty, aren't they?

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Saturday, 16 June 2018 19:56 (five years ago) link

also this is otm: I've also seen dudes insist that nerds are the problem in a self-distancing way that seems to ignore that men are the problem.

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Saturday, 16 June 2018 19:58 (five years ago) link

Dunno who this is, it’s just one example of this idiotic take coming into my timeline - yes nerd culture is the worst but I wish people would stop and think for one whole second before starting with this “turns out the JOCKS were the woke ones all along haha” nonsense, like yep no rape culture in *checks notes* football, no sir
― U. K. Le Garage (wins)

countering a narrative isn't the same thing as reversing it

Arch Bacon (rushomancy), Saturday, 16 June 2018 22:44 (five years ago) link

https://www.theverge.com/2018/6/16/17471082/amc-pulling-talking-with-chris-hardwick-talk-show-abuse-allegations

AMC has put him in the corner for the time being and he's been removed from this Comic Con panel.

Johnny Fever, Saturday, 16 June 2018 23:01 (five years ago) link

insist that nerds are the problem in a self-distancing way that seems to ignore that men are the problem

That is an unfortunate imprecision of language, because it sweeps in every man, regardless of his thoughts, words or actions. As I understand it, the problem is behavior, not gender.

I get that oppressed people are not always required to speak with self-conscious precision about their oppressors. But precision and clarity do not hurt the cause of the oppressed; they can only help, imo.

A is for (Aimless), Saturday, 16 June 2018 23:52 (five years ago) link

Idk blunt linguistic force has a pretty good track record too

Simon H., Sunday, 17 June 2018 00:06 (five years ago) link

men need to stop talking about the men who are not the problem and fucking fix this (sorry aimless that’s probably not what you meant to say, but all our energy needs to go into making things better, not dwelling on exactly how many men are not to blame)

karl wallogina (Autumn Almanac), Sunday, 17 June 2018 00:08 (five years ago) link

this week in melbourne a man raped and killed a woman who was walking home from a gig, and sooo much of the ensuing conversation has had a notallmen flavour to it, rather than going look, as men what can we do to stop this, how can we be role models, how can we identify enabling language/behaviours and call them out, how can we support women who just want to live their lives as safely as most men do

karl wallogina (Autumn Almanac), Sunday, 17 June 2018 00:13 (five years ago) link

The only people who I would *maybe* listen to saying #notallmen are the problem are the five guys from Queer Eye, but they are too in empathetically in tune to run with that shit.

Yerac, Sunday, 17 June 2018 02:28 (five years ago) link

men need to stop talking about the men who are not the problem and fucking fix this

Sounds good!

But since I am a hermit who more or less sees my wife and daughter, with occasional extended family members, none of who tend to show disrespect towards women, I am perplexed how I am supposed to go about this gargantuan task. I have no intention of thrusting my attentions on strange men to determine whether they hold troglodytic views about women, and even if they did, I am not sure I have the correct force at hand required to compel them to change their minds.

This seems like the weak link in the chain that will presumably lead us to paradise.

A is for (Aimless), Sunday, 17 June 2018 03:14 (five years ago) link

this week in melbourne a man raped and killed a woman who was walking home from a gig, and sooo much of the ensuing conversation has had a notallmen flavour to it, rather than going look, as men what can we do to stop this, how can we be role models, how can we identify enabling language/behaviours and call them out, how can we support women who just want to live their lives as safely as most men do

― karl wallogina (Autumn Almanac), Sunday, June 17, 2018 1:13 AM (three hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

I see ppl make this argument a lot but it feels like there's a circular quality to it, "instead of going #notallmen we should be talking about what we as men can do to fix the problem" - but then in practice, the version of 'what we as men can do to fix the problem' that's being advocated is mostly chiding other men for #notallmen-ing instead of talking about what we as men can do etc etc, so you get this endless cycle of #notallmen followed by #yesallmen followed by #notallmen etc that's just empty at the centre? I guess the counterargument would be that it's just firefighting, and if you eventually did get everyone to stop with the #notallmen-ing you could finally have a meaningful conversation about what men can do instead?

(idk if this is a conversation that would be better had in another thread, though?)

soref, Sunday, 17 June 2018 04:16 (five years ago) link

Maybe women keep chiding notallmen comments because we're really, really tired of how men somehow have to make *everything* about them, including playing ally and pointing out theyre good guys, instead of just listening to us?

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Sunday, 17 June 2018 04:20 (five years ago) link

I am perplexed how I am supposed to go about this gargantuan task

then you could simply refrain from sealioning at women on the internet to tell them that #notallmen, as if you are explaining a new concept of which they were previously unaware

kelp, clam and carrion (sic), Sunday, 17 June 2018 04:42 (five years ago) link

"sealion"?

flappy bird, Sunday, 17 June 2018 04:46 (five years ago) link

"tuomas"

oder doch?, Sunday, 17 June 2018 04:51 (five years ago) link

Keep going

flappy bird, Sunday, 17 June 2018 04:58 (five years ago) link

Maybe women keep chiding notallmen comments because we're really, really tired of how men somehow have to make *everything* about them, including playing ally and pointing out theyre good guys, instead of just listening to us?

― Stoop Crone (Trayce), Sunday, 17 June 2018 14:20 (fifty-five minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

otfm, this is what i had been hoping to convey

karl wallogina (Autumn Almanac), Sunday, 17 June 2018 05:17 (five years ago) link

"sealion"?

― flappy bird, Sunday, 17 June 2018 14:46 (thirty minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

is a trolling tactic in which you pretend to miss someone's point and keep asking them to explain again and again and again until they give up on you, as a sort of passive-aggressive way of winning internet arguments. tbh i don't think sic used the term fairly against aimless at all.

karl wallogina (Autumn Almanac), Sunday, 17 June 2018 05:20 (five years ago) link

aimless:

I am perplexed how I am supposed to go about this gargantuan task. I have no intention of thrusting my attentions on strange men to determine whether they hold troglodytic views about women

imo it's ultimately about (a) calling out misogynist/misguided bullshit when we come across it, explaining in a congenial way why it's bullshit; and (b) recognising that we should not make this about ourselves and instead fade into the background wherever possible, as trayce said; and also (c) and (d) and (e) and (f) and (g), which are various other ways we can quietly be good role models and help other people be better without making it all about us. (i want to say something about doing all this in the hope that we can get through to the sorts of men who will only listen to men, while making sure we don't trample all over the agency of women who of course are totally fine at doing all of this (because otherwise we just become a different part of the same problem), but i can't put it into words that don't sound ambiguous or fuckwitty)

soref:

so you get this endless cycle of #notallmen followed by #yesallmen followed by #notallmen etc that's just empty at the centre?

it's difficult to advocate for shutting the fuck up and fading into the background (popping up only when it's obvious we can do something to change attitudes/behaviours and/or look after victims) while also actively raising the issue in order to do so. sorry, i saw yet another notallmen forming upthread and sort of snapped a little bit.

(idk if this is a conversation that would be better had in another thread, though?)

i mean it is and it isn't, in that men's rancid behaviour is the whole reason for this thread.

karl wallogina (Autumn Almanac), Sunday, 17 June 2018 05:45 (five years ago) link

but as trayce said, in general if we know when to shut up and listen, that is one of the best things we can do

karl wallogina (Autumn Almanac), Sunday, 17 June 2018 05:47 (five years ago) link

IMO in this area, men shouldn’t even speak unless spoken to

Women get to tell their experiences of men’s terrible behavior

Men should wait to be called upon to answer

just1n3, Sunday, 17 June 2018 06:14 (five years ago) link

Just a side-note: at the place where I tutor/mentor, the volunteer pool seems to be about 5% male. If you're looking for a way to be a positive male role model for little guys before they have the chance to slide into a lifetime of shitty manhood, that's a relatively low-impact place to start.

Gladys McFlatus (Old Lunch), Sunday, 17 June 2018 13:27 (five years ago) link

ftr I wasn't accusing Aimless of wilfull trolling, but bursting into the thread in June 2018 to explain that actually, #notallmen - especially after a professional writer who is a woman quoted a man who had not been challenged for his original post - is aggressively obtuse.

kelp, clam and carrion (sic), Sunday, 17 June 2018 16:59 (five years ago) link

Maynard James Keenan?

Deep breath. I have to anonymously tell this story because I tried to tell it from my real account and couldn't name him directly out of fear, so I deleted the tweets. Here goes: I was 17 and he was 36. 1/

— Iwas17HeWas36 (@IWas17HeWas36) June 23, 2018

how's life, Monday, 25 June 2018 22:39 (five years ago) link

Junot Diaz gives a very lawyered-up, crisis-PR-ed up interview.

... (Eazy), Monday, 2 July 2018 14:08 (five years ago) link

framing of that piece is weirdly upsetting even as it purports to expand the conversation; maybe i'm projecting onto it

flamenco blorf (BradNelson), Monday, 2 July 2018 14:31 (five years ago) link

yea it is awful whatever the individual merits of diaz' claims are

marcos, Monday, 2 July 2018 14:33 (five years ago) link

ian connor was front row at the louis vuitton show. throw fashion in the trash

maura, Monday, 2 July 2018 14:43 (five years ago) link

The experience isn't improved by the (possibly EU-only) page you get when you visit with a 60-point "We need your consent" banner.

Andrew Farrell, Monday, 2 July 2018 14:55 (five years ago) link

god this fuckin' guy

The Man of Steel actor Henry Cavill has drawn severe criticism for comments about the #MeToo movement and rape in a new interview.

Cavill, who is currently promoting the forthcoming action film Mission: Impossible – Fallout, was speaking to GQ Australia when the interviewer asked how #MeToo had affected him.

“Stuff has to change, absolutely,” Cavill said, before adding: “There’s something wonderful about a man chasing a woman … I think a woman should be wooed and chased, but maybe I’m old-fashioned for thinking that.”

“It’s very difficult to do that if there are certain rules in place. Because then it’s like: ‘Well, I don’t want to go up and talk to her, because I’m going to be called a rapist or something.’”

“Now? Now you really can’t pursue someone further than, ‘No’. It’s like, ‘OK, cool’. But then there’s the, ‘Oh why’d you give up?’ And it’s like, ‘Well, because I didn’t want to go to jail?’”

Social media users have been quick to castigate Cavill for his views. One Twitter user suggested Cavill was “absurd” and that “if he doesn’t want to be called a rapist then all he has to do is ... not rape anyone.” Another asked: “When did the notion that being chased is a pleasant feeling become so universally accepted?”

That dude looks like IRL Robbie Rotten.

how's life, Friday, 13 July 2018 11:12 (five years ago) link

But then there’s the, ‘Oh why’d you give up?’

1. I don't quite believe any woman in the history of ever has said this.

2. Even if someone has, so what? One possibly apocryphal hypothetical missed opportunity vs. the demonstrable, well-documented harm of not taking no for an answer.

nonsensei (Ye Mad Puffin), Friday, 13 July 2018 13:29 (five years ago) link

It's good to know that the threat of imprisonment does occasionally function as a deterrent for people who have no moral compass.

Sgt. Laughter (Old Lunch), Friday, 13 July 2018 13:46 (five years ago) link

weinstein talked to TAKI, good lord talk about rats banding together

maura, Friday, 13 July 2018 18:19 (five years ago) link

1. I don't quite believe any woman in the history of ever has said this.
Cavill sounds like an ass here, but come on, this happens all the time

Nhex, Friday, 13 July 2018 18:33 (five years ago) link

“if he doesn’t want to be called a rapist then all he has to do is ... not rape anyone.”

it's sad how simple this is, really

Οὖτις, Friday, 13 July 2018 18:38 (five years ago) link

Cavill was probably confusing harassment or stalking with rape, which is easy to do, when you aren't very bright and have never really thought about it for more than two seconds.

A is for (Aimless), Friday, 13 July 2018 18:58 (five years ago) link

(This columnist is, BTW, the very horrible Taki.)

Ned Raggett, Friday, 13 July 2018 19:20 (five years ago) link

"You were born rich and privileged and you were handsome," Weinstein is quoted as saying to Theodoracopulos.

L M A OOOOOOOOOO

maura, Friday, 13 July 2018 19:22 (five years ago) link

Theodoracopulos said in the story that he and Weinstein were reunited because Weinstein came to him with a "world exclusive" pitch about the relationship between Asia Argento and the late Anthony Bourdain.

what a piece of steaming shit he is

maura, Friday, 13 July 2018 19:23 (five years ago) link

which one??

omar little, Friday, 13 July 2018 20:02 (five years ago) link

“I was present for the conversation; it was not an interview, but a social meeting between old friends," says Brafman in a statement to The Hollywood Reporter. "Harvey and Taki did not discuss the case, nor would I allow him to. They talked about old Hollywood and the contrast to European culture, and I think Taki sees Harvey in that older light. Mr. Weinstein never said anything about trading movie roles for sexual favors. You have my word that Harvey did not say that.”

"that older light"

good lord burn it all down

omar little, Friday, 13 July 2018 20:03 (five years ago) link

icymi

A new, hour-long daily show hosted by Leonard Lopate premiered yesterday on WBAI, a progressive radio station that is owned by the Pacifica Foundation... Lopate was suspended and eventually fired from WNYC last December, where he worked for more than 30 years, amid allegations of “inappropriate conduct.”...

WBAI approached Lopate and convinced him to come back on the air, according to a press release published by the station. The show seems intended to resemble Lopate’s old one, and will air weekdays from 1 to 2pm. On WNYC, Lopate often hosted guests to talk art, music, culture, and the news of the day, and featured listener call-ins. Lopate at Large is likely to mimic this format, though the inaugural broadcast featured no calls.

Lopate, who worked at WNYC for more than 30 years, was suspended from the air on December 6, 2017, alongside Jonathan Schwartz, pending an investigation into “inappropriate conduct.” Station management did not immediately disclose details concerning the nature of the conduct, but reports say that Lopate had been made to take one-on-one anti-harassment training in February of 2017 after previous complaints of inappropriate comments and bullying. The complaints were substantiated by an investigation according to WNYC.

Lopate is just one of the many men accused as part of the #MeToo movement who are now beginning to appeal to the media community and the public for a second chance. In recent months, Charlie Rose, Tom Ashbrook, Matt Lauer, Louis C.K., and Garrison Keillor have also attempted comebacks.

Currently, WBAI producers do not get paid for their work hosting and producing their shows. But WBAI’s General Manager Berthold Reimers confirmed that Lopate and his producer will both be paid....

Some producers at WBAI have questioned the hire and say it is in opposition with what they view as the station’s fundamental values.

“I felt a great sense of betrayal of what my interests are in the #MeToo movement,” producer Fran Luck tells CJR. The theme of Luck’s show, Joy of Resistance, is multicultural feminism and it often covers the wider effects of misconduct in the workplace. “This is not a small matter, even if what Leonard Lopate did wasn’t on the same level as what Harvey Weinstein did,” she says. “He was obviously a problem for a lot of people he worked with, but particularly for women.”

https://www.cjr.org/analysis/wnyc-leonard-lopate.php

the ignatius rock of ignorance (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 17 July 2018 18:32 (five years ago) link

yeah i heard about this from jay smooth. seems shitty. pacifica not exactly known for its fantastic management decisions....

maura, Tuesday, 17 July 2018 19:21 (five years ago) link

Pacifica is an absolute mess that still manages to have individually brilliant stations and programs -- this will meet with member station resistance for sure. That said, they've always had a soft spot for creepy white dudes and I'm a little surprised Gary Null hasn't gotten me tooed yet.

Three Word Username, Wednesday, 18 July 2018 07:09 (five years ago) link

One of the top #metoo groups on Facebook appears to have been a long con in which women shared their personal stories of sexual violence and a group of admins later turned them into "erotica" and used them as fodder for further harassmenthttps://t.co/g30tAVHLak by @lmatsakis

— Jason Koebler (@jason_koebler) July 19, 2018

christ

mookieproof, Thursday, 19 July 2018 21:33 (five years ago) link

So I don't normally support the death penalty but

Simon H., Thursday, 19 July 2018 21:39 (five years ago) link

Facebook is a great place to spend your time and you should definitely not delete your account.

El Tomboto, Thursday, 19 July 2018 22:21 (five years ago) link

Hiring crisis communications PR firms is definitely a thing that people who have never sexually assaulted anyone do

devops mom (silby), Friday, 20 July 2018 21:48 (five years ago) link

A skin-crawling read

cheese is the teacher, ham is the preacher (Jon not Jon), Friday, 20 July 2018 23:26 (five years ago) link

i’m sure that investigation was super thorough 🙄

maura, Thursday, 26 July 2018 00:38 (five years ago) link

x-post: yeah, Loeb & Loeb don't just have a lot of experience in similar investigations; they have a lot of experience making shitloads of money off of Hardwick's in-laws.

Three Word Username, Thursday, 26 July 2018 08:28 (five years ago) link

What should happen is that people who have greater pull should refuse to work with Hardwick.

Yerac, Thursday, 26 July 2018 15:05 (five years ago) link

I can’t imagine willingly watching or listening to one thing Chris Hardwick has been involved in since Singled Out went off the air 20 years ago.

I imagine there’s a lot of crossover between that audience and men who call in bomb threats to video game developers because they took out Sonic’s camel toe or something

5th Ward Weeaboo (Whiney G. Weingarten), Thursday, 26 July 2018 15:40 (five years ago) link

Stark.

devops mom (silby), Thursday, 26 July 2018 15:48 (five years ago) link

Now I am googling Sonic's cameltoe.

Yerac, Thursday, 26 July 2018 15:58 (five years ago) link

Let us know what you find

devops mom (silby), Thursday, 26 July 2018 16:00 (five years ago) link

You would think with the amount of furry/fursona shit on the internet that 70% of the population is into it.

Yerac, Thursday, 26 July 2018 16:04 (five years ago) link

Good article above kink, consent, and certain progressive men:

https://longreads.com/2018/07/25/the-rub-of-rough-sex/

... (Eazy), Thursday, 26 July 2018 18:49 (five years ago) link

*about

... (Eazy), Thursday, 26 July 2018 18:50 (five years ago) link

K.K. profiled in the NYT above was a friend of mine in the '90s. This was before Guiliani and all the rest.

I'm glad for his ex-wife, at least.

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Friday, 27 July 2018 16:22 (five years ago) link

K.K. profiled in the NYT above was a friend of mine in the '90s. This was before Guiliani and all the rest.

I'm glad for his ex-wife, at least.

― a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Friday, July 27, 2018 12:22 PM (one hour ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

I knew KK in '90-'93, and subbed for the drummer in his band a bunch of times. He asked me to drop out of college to join his band, which...would not have been a good idea, for many reasons. I found him generally creepy and unpleasant to be around. He was a staunch liberal in those days, though.

Montgomery Burns' Jazz (Tarfumes The Escape Goat), Friday, 27 July 2018 17:37 (five years ago) link

Headlines I didn't need from all of this:

Who is Illeana Douglas, the actress who accused CBS executive Les Moonves of sexual misconduct?

I Never Promised You A Hose Harden (Eric H.), Saturday, 28 July 2018 02:19 (five years ago) link

TO DIE FOR remains criminally underrated

maura, Saturday, 28 July 2018 03:08 (five years ago) link

Aw man, I love Illeana Douglas. I'd like to kick this rich, old white man's ass myself. With each passing day of this situation, i'm more and more convinced that rich, old white men (not money alone) are the true root of all evil. And yes a few have been African-American but the overwhelming majority are the aforementioned ROWMs. Crap acronym too. I sincerely hope Miss Douglas emerges from this strong and happy.

VyrnaKnowlIsAHeadbanger, Sunday, 29 July 2018 05:02 (five years ago) link

Sweet gif Bizarro!

VyrnaKnowlIsAHeadbanger, Sunday, 29 July 2018 11:22 (five years ago) link

God Moonves is such a piece of shit

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Sunday, 29 July 2018 14:55 (five years ago) link

bdsm is really problematic for me these days. i understand very well why people want to submit. i have never understood, however, why people want to dominate. also, the older i get, the more i find that none of the "safe, sane, consensual" troika are either/or propositions. if bdsm is about pretending, ssc is part of that pretense.

Arch Bacon (rushomancy), Sunday, 29 July 2018 15:36 (five years ago) link

Probably not the thread to go into a deep discussion on this topic, but I strongly disagree with all of that.

Mario Meatwagon (Moodles), Monday, 30 July 2018 17:47 (five years ago) link

yeah, you're wrong

( ͡☉ ͜ʖ ͡☉) (jim in vancouver), Monday, 30 July 2018 17:49 (five years ago) link

X-post yes, Vegemite grrl, he certainly is.

VyrnaKnowlIsAHeadbanger, Monday, 30 July 2018 17:52 (five years ago) link

Was there a bdsm part to the Moonves piece?

Yerac, Monday, 30 July 2018 17:52 (five years ago) link

I was wondering this too, didn't get the connection

Mario Meatwagon (Moodles), Monday, 30 July 2018 17:54 (five years ago) link

jim, don't know what to tell you, but it seems really off base to me in a number of ways.

Mario Meatwagon (Moodles), Monday, 30 July 2018 17:55 (five years ago) link

i have never understood, however, why people want to dominate.

really?

flappy bird, Monday, 30 July 2018 18:00 (five years ago) link

Right, do you have to relate to a (extremely common) sexual fetish for it to be valid?

Mario Meatwagon (Moodles), Monday, 30 July 2018 18:01 (five years ago) link

this seems like the wrong thread for this

Οὖτις, Monday, 30 July 2018 18:04 (five years ago) link

might I suggest the one about losing a coughdrop in that most sensitive of orifices?

I Never Promised You A Hose Harden (Eric H.), Monday, 30 July 2018 18:06 (five years ago) link

True, sorry

xp

Mario Meatwagon (Moodles), Monday, 30 July 2018 18:06 (five years ago) link

Might be related to the BDSM/Consent article I linked to right before Moonves, related specifically to Eric Schneiderman.

The Moonves/Douglas story, along with everything since Weinstein, makes it seem like women who act don't just "fall off the radar" because of aging but because of stories like these. Since she's mentioned in the article, makes me wonder why Penelope Ann Miller (big on Broadway, then in Carlito's Way et al) faded away.

... (Eazy), Monday, 30 July 2018 18:08 (five years ago) link

Ok, makes more sense after reading that. It's definitely a tricky thing to sort out, and perhaps there are cases that represent a legitimate grey area, but I'd say the most straightforward solution is to give much more credence to women who come forward with stories of abuse. We, as a society, are much too eager to buy into this myth of the vengeful woman who wants to sully a good man's name.

Mario Meatwagon (Moodles), Monday, 30 July 2018 18:21 (five years ago) link

Ah, the Schneiderman thing seems like ages ago now.

Yerac, Monday, 30 July 2018 18:22 (five years ago) link

The Moonves/Douglas story, along with everything since Weinstein, makes it seem like women who act don't just "fall off the radar" because of aging but because of stories like these.

yeah, and then people use the fact that they fell off the radar as "proof" that they must obviously be lying

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Monday, 30 July 2018 19:00 (five years ago) link

yeah its a hideous vicious circle

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Monday, 30 July 2018 21:52 (five years ago) link

I really like Grace of my Heart

And where did you acquire this fine bundle of lettuce? (Ye Mad Puffin), Tuesday, 31 July 2018 03:20 (five years ago) link

all the men Kool-Aid Manning into the sexual abuse thread to defend sexually dominating women, very cool

5th Ward Weeaboo (Whiney G. Weingarten), Wednesday, 1 August 2018 12:42 (five years ago) link

ATTENTION BOYS, THERE'S KINK-SHAMING IN YONDER THREAD

5th Ward Weeaboo (Whiney G. Weingarten), Wednesday, 1 August 2018 12:43 (five years ago) link

Jesus Whiney

90% of the time you accuse somebody of doing something you're literally doing it yourself at the same moment

flamboyant goon tie included, Wednesday, 1 August 2018 13:04 (five years ago) link

fp'd

Arch Bacon (rushomancy), Wednesday, 1 August 2018 13:10 (five years ago) link

wow imagine barging in a thread with the intent of derailing it

frogbs, Wednesday, 1 August 2018 13:16 (five years ago) link

Not down with Kool-Aid Man shaming.

... (Eazy), Wednesday, 1 August 2018 16:02 (five years ago) link

can we get back to kinkshaming bigfoot erotica please

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Wednesday, 1 August 2018 16:17 (five years ago) link

"Since she's mentioned in the article, makes me wonder why Penelope Ann Miller (big on Broadway, then in Carlito's Way et al) faded away."

which article?

akm, Wednesday, 1 August 2018 16:26 (five years ago) link

The Les Moonves article, where Illeana Douglas was working on a CBS pilot with Miller:

https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2018/08/06/les-moonves-and-cbs-face-allegations-of-sexual-misconduct/amp

... (Eazy), Wednesday, 1 August 2018 16:35 (five years ago) link

got it

Penelope Ann Miller is on the next season of Riverdale BTW.

Moonves sounds like a fucking asshole only barely better than Weinstein. Surprised it's taking this long to come out.

akm, Wednesday, 1 August 2018 20:12 (five years ago) link

Here's a shithead of a guy

https://www.nytimes.com/2018/08/05/us/bill-hybels-willow-creek-pat-baranowski.html

Ned Raggett, Monday, 6 August 2018 23:08 (five years ago) link

“How could he have done all this good when there were such dark things happening behind the scenes?” another accuser, Nancy Beach, who also worked at Willow Creek, asked the Times.


This brings me back to something fgti wondered about: the ties between ambition and sexual malignancy, how the latter fuels the former, and how to separate the accomplishments from the desires driving them.

droit au butt (Euler), Thursday, 9 August 2018 07:32 (five years ago) link

http://www.kuow.org/post/six-more-women-accuse-david-meinert-sexual-misconduct-and-assault

A wrinkle in this case:

Meinert did not respond to more than 50 questions about the allegations made by the newest accusers, despite multiple attempts to reach him. Strategies 360, which represented Meinert during the reporting for KUOW’s first story about Meinert, dropped him as a client after learning one of their employees had come forward to accuse Meinert of sexual misconduct.

faculty w1fe (silby), Thursday, 9 August 2018 19:25 (five years ago) link

I guess this belongs here:

https://www.nytimes.com/2018/08/13/nyregion/sexual-harassment-nyu-female-professor.html

When I was at Cal in the early 90's Ronnell was a professor there (in the comp lit department) and up-and-coming as a 'celebrity philosopher' the extent that such things exist. I was rather interested in the Telephone Book which is lovely although was mostly incomprehensible to me at the time (probably still would be). Even then on campus there were rumors that she would take particular interest in one graduate student a year and take them on as a lover, or something. Such behaviour was extremely prevalent in the 90's, my guess is a good amount of it was consensual, and a good amount of it probably hinged on these kinds of power dynamics that make things ugly. At any rate, Judith Butler comes across very poorly here IMO.

akm, Tuesday, 14 August 2018 19:04 (five years ago) link

Big News In Houston: https://consequenceofsound.net/2018/08/omar-afra-assault-accusations/

up until a few days ago, Afra ran a couple of big music festivals and published Free Press Houston, the biggest free Alt Newspaper in the city.

Ubering With The King (C. Grisso/McCain), Tuesday, 14 August 2018 20:48 (five years ago) link

has nobody on earth ever heard of "I have no comment"

faculty w1fe (silby), Tuesday, 14 August 2018 20:56 (five years ago) link

that was one of the more bizarre & inscrutable recurring moves last fall/winter. In so many cases (I'd say more than half), the apology/damage control statement actually did more damage than the accusation would have on its own.

flappy bird, Tuesday, 14 August 2018 21:39 (five years ago) link

Nicki Minaj’s Ex Safaree Accuses Her of Violent Assault

flappy bird, Tuesday, 14 August 2018 21:52 (five years ago) link

Afra initially responded to the allegations in the comment’s section of Hamilton’s post. Posting under the pseudonym “Samuel Houston,” Afra said he has been “documenting this coordinated campaign for the past 10 months with lawyers, federal and local law enforcement… Much more will come out about this in the coming days, weeks, and months both online and in courts.”

oy

maura, Tuesday, 14 August 2018 22:51 (five years ago) link

has nobody on earth ever heard of "I have no comment"

― faculty w1fe (silby)

i have no comment

Arch Bacon (rushomancy), Tuesday, 14 August 2018 23:37 (five years ago) link

Asia Argento, a #MeToo Leader, Made a Deal With Her Own Accuser

pomenitul, Monday, 20 August 2018 10:16 (five years ago) link

So Aziz Ansari played a small comedy club here in Madison last night, tickets went on sale the day before, absolutely zero press, just an email to the club's list (with the unfortunate header "EXCLUSIVE MEMBER ON SALE"). Presumably the beginning of his "let's see if people still like me?" comeback.

change display name (Jordan), Monday, 20 August 2018 15:12 (five years ago) link

I don't think Aziz will have too much problem

5th Ward Weeaboo (Whiney G. Weingarten), Monday, 20 August 2018 15:16 (five years ago) link

he'll be fine

Louis could probably come back next fall

flappy bird, Monday, 20 August 2018 16:39 (five years ago) link

yup

( ͡☉ ͜ʖ ͡☉) (jim in vancouver), Monday, 20 August 2018 16:52 (five years ago) link

Also low-key on the road: TJ Miller, Jeremy Piven...

... (Eazy), Monday, 20 August 2018 17:24 (five years ago) link

feel pretty bad for the kid in the argento settlement. he's had a rough time on several fronts.

officer sonny bonds, lytton pd (mayor jingleberries), Monday, 20 August 2018 17:29 (five years ago) link

it helps that the Aziz story was... debatable... from the get-go

Nhex, Monday, 20 August 2018 17:33 (five years ago) link

Miller is possibly not really likable enough to regain what he had, he was already considered trouble before that (and before the fake bomb thing on the train or whatever.). Piven could reinvent himself, maybe start with taking the dead badger off his head and go back to bald.

omar little, Monday, 20 August 2018 17:33 (five years ago) link

did the Aziz thing really ruin his career?

frogbs, Monday, 20 August 2018 17:51 (five years ago) link

Too early to say, but it was definitely not great for his image/persona.

wayne trotsky (Simon H.), Monday, 20 August 2018 17:56 (five years ago) link

lets wait and see how next season of Master of None does (assuming there is one?)

Οὖτις, Monday, 20 August 2018 17:56 (five years ago) link

yea I don't really know if the Aziz thing penetrated the public consciousness the way Louie did, especially b/c Louie's way of being a creep was kind of unique and memorable in a way the Aziz thing wasn't ? but like if he's doing Madison with no press that seems kind of significant, his show in Milwaukee a few years back was huge and sold out pretty quickly iirc

frogbs, Monday, 20 August 2018 18:12 (five years ago) link

the way that aziz was a creep was so intensely relatable though

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Monday, 20 August 2018 18:15 (five years ago) link

I think the Aziz story was way more criticized and was not as widely accepted as others.

Evan, Monday, 20 August 2018 18:16 (five years ago) link

i don't think the comparison to other stories matters really -- unless that is what people are using to mentally justify going to see his comedy show

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Monday, 20 August 2018 18:18 (five years ago) link

I don't really know if the Aziz thing penetrated the public consciousness the way Louie did
try "permeated" instead of "penetrated" the next time you want to talk about sexual assault
just saying

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Monday, 20 August 2018 18:20 (five years ago) link

Louis also wasn't a revelation, the story/stories had been out there for years. and being a creep/perv was a huge part of his act, as opposed to Aziz or Eric Schneiderman, where their public statements/work were completely at odds with what they were accused of. that's much harder to recover from.

flappy bird, Monday, 20 August 2018 18:24 (five years ago) link

huge eyeroll that Aziz's work was completely at odds with what he was accused of

5th Ward Weeaboo (Whiney G. Weingarten), Monday, 20 August 2018 18:34 (five years ago) link

there was a huge amount of support on social media for Aziz Ansari after that stuff came out, in a way that didn't happen with Louis due to, I guess, the multiple accusers and admission of guilt in his case.

( ͡☉ ͜ʖ ͡☉) (jim in vancouver), Monday, 20 August 2018 18:37 (five years ago) link

Schneiderman's stand-up was next level tho

President Keyes, Monday, 20 August 2018 18:44 (five years ago) link

xxxp ...Master of None ?

xxp and yeah, like I said before, Aziz will be back. his was a unique case, afaik one of the only #MeToo story to be heavily criticized.

xp u know what i mean

flappy bird, Monday, 20 August 2018 18:46 (five years ago) link

comedians = bad dates

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Monday, 20 August 2018 18:48 (five years ago) link

Ansari wrote a book on dating!

com rad erry red flag (f. hazel), Monday, 20 August 2018 18:53 (five years ago) link

"maybe start with taking the dead badger off his head and go back to bald."

I've a cousin who is a pub rock/wedding band vocalist/guitarist whose lover paid for his arse-hairs to be transplanted onto his head, or something like that. Earlier my mum was saying he looks so young these days, not even slightly troubled by the creepiness that he has more hair now than when he was 18, and the way he suddenly stopped wearing hats 24/7! I find it troubling that people get past their mid-40's and their biggest worry is how much hair they haven't got. And I get annoyed when actors with a full barnet do fake bald, rather than using a genuine baldy for the role.

calzino, Monday, 20 August 2018 19:05 (five years ago) link

it wasn't a bad film but i was always a bit bummed when STATHAM put a brillo pad up on his dome for The Bank Job.

omar little, Monday, 20 August 2018 19:20 (five years ago) link

here is Statham in The Bank Job:

https://jayfan.files.wordpress.com/2008/07/bankjob12.jpg

but like if he's doing Madison with no press that seems kind of significant, his show in Milwaukee a few years back was huge and sold out pretty quickly iirc

this is how comedians develop material. I've seen Aziz play a basement unannounced at half past midnight to fifty people who were already there, the night before he played a sold-out theatre to 3,191 people.

16, 35, DCP, Go! (sic), Monday, 20 August 2018 19:30 (five years ago) link

So Aziz Ansari played a small comedy club here in Madison last night, tickets went on sale the day before, absolutely zero press, just an email to the club's list (with the unfortunate header "EXCLUSIVE MEMBER ON SALE"). Presumably the beginning of his "let's see if people still like me?" comeback.

― change display name (Jordan), Monday, August 20, 2018 8:12 AM (four hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

he's headlining the Orpheum tomorrow

( ͡☉ ͜ʖ ͡☉) (jim in vancouver), Monday, 20 August 2018 19:38 (five years ago) link

i think i must have misremembered,i guess statham growing out the hair he has for that '70s look was just a very formative experience.

omar little, Monday, 20 August 2018 19:52 (five years ago) link

he's headlining the Orpheum tomorrow

I saw that, but it was literally just announced today. Maybe he'd be doing these 'working out new material' shows anyway, but also seems pretty clear he wants to avoid press.

change display name (Jordan), Monday, 20 August 2018 20:09 (five years ago) link

aziz's low-level brohamminess was both what made that story (which had its problems!) super relatable and open to "what, it's not like she was ASSAULTED" criticism

(insert long rant about how capitalism and the entertainment industry are both inherently mean-reverting)

maura, Monday, 20 August 2018 20:30 (five years ago) link

aziz also had ONE accusation compared to about 74627 accusations against Louis CK going back years. Louis CK will not have a comeback any time soon. Aziz may well.

akm, Tuesday, 21 August 2018 13:42 (five years ago) link

Louis CK was part of a larger problem extending back for a long time, since I guess Carlin? Pryor?, which will probably continue forever, is this really bad idea that nightclub comics are the great philosophers and truth tellers of our age

The Desus & Mero Chain (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Tuesday, 21 August 2018 13:44 (five years ago) link

duh, Lenny Bruce

The Desus & Mero Chain (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Tuesday, 21 August 2018 13:44 (five years ago) link

(not to say that the problem was larger than #metoo! i just meant that his fall from grace as perceived harder because so many people had invested all this energy in thinking he was a lot deeper and more meaningful than he was)

The Desus & Mero Chain (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Tuesday, 21 August 2018 13:45 (five years ago) link

I mean, everyone lives in different whisper circles I guess

maura, Tuesday, 21 August 2018 15:19 (five years ago) link

this story got a little more complicated

I just received this statement from @AsiaArgento in response to the NYT story published late Sunday evening. pic.twitter.com/jAOo7TAULX

— Yashar Ali 🐘 (@yashar) August 21, 2018

officer sonny bonds, lytton pd (mayor jingleberries), Tuesday, 21 August 2018 15:38 (five years ago) link

It's tough. Obviously I want to believe people who are vulnerable—especially given the way Hollywood's exploitative nature damages so many people. But I have to say, the huge network of bad actors working for Weinstein and the way the insane V1g1l4nt C1t1zen/P1zz4g4te/Q4n0n types who have taken over the comment section of my guilty pleasure blind item site LOATHE Asia give me pause.

maura, Tuesday, 21 August 2018 15:55 (five years ago) link

Louis CK was part of a larger problem extending back for a long time, since I guess Carlin? Pryor?, which will probably continue forever, is this really bad idea that nightclub comics are the great philosophers and truth tellers of our age

― The Desus & Mero Chain (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Tuesday, August 21, 2018 6:44 AM (two hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

i've seen climate change/"extinction is bad" disbelievers use a Carlin routine to substantiate their beliefs. all this bite size "guy at the bar talking at you" bullshit is extremely easy to digest and they make for perfect encapsulations to people who just want to say "This." and toss a link at you.

omar little, Tuesday, 21 August 2018 16:02 (five years ago) link

I hate to tell you uppermiss, but "nightclub comic" Richard Pryor was in fact one of the most profound popular artists of 20th century America. (He was also a drug addict and a woman beater, who both suffered and inflicted suffering.)

I know very little about Asia Argento even in the public sphere, and I wouldn't berate anyone who is skeptical of (rather than denying) her guilt, just as I am of Woody Allen's. We don't know these people.

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 21 August 2018 16:08 (five years ago) link

morbz otm

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 21 August 2018 16:09 (five years ago) link

btw if it's the same George Carlin routine the climate change harrumphers are invoking, the essence of it is Carlin saying "The planet will be fine (without humans), what Save the Planet means is SAVE US." I don't see how that can be used for "bring on the melting ice caps" by anyone but an idiot.

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 21 August 2018 16:12 (five years ago) link

i've seen climate change/"extinction is bad" disbelievers use a Carlin routine to substantiate their beliefs. all this bite size "guy at the bar talking at you" bullshit is extremely easy to digest and they make for perfect encapsulations to people who just want to say "This." and toss a link at you.

― omar little, Tuesday, August 21, 2018 12:02 PM (one hour ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

The same for voting/not voting at elections.

Van Horn Street, Tuesday, 21 August 2018 17:21 (five years ago) link

Morbz otm re: Pryor.

Montgomery Burns' Jazz (Tarfumes The Escape Goat), Tuesday, 21 August 2018 17:22 (five years ago) link

yeah morbs i'm with you on your points

maura, Tuesday, 21 August 2018 17:31 (five years ago) link

I guess this belongs here:

https://www.nytimes.com/2018/08/13/nyregion/sexual-harassment-nyu-female-professor.html

When I was at Cal in the early 90's Ronnell was a professor there (in the comp lit department) and up-and-coming as a 'celebrity philosopher' the extent that such things exist. I was rather interested in the Telephone Book which is lovely although was mostly incomprehensible to me at the time (probably still would be). Even then on campus there were rumors that she would take particular interest in one graduate student a year and take them on as a lover, or something. Such behaviour was extremely prevalent in the 90's, my guess is a good amount of it was consensual, and a good amount of it probably hinged on these kinds of power dynamics that make things ugly. At any rate, Judith Butler comes across very poorly here IMO.

― akm, Tuesday, August 14, 2018 3:04 PM (one week ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Yeah very disappointed in Butler, victims are victims, regardless of gender.

Even if those are 100% consensual the whole teacher/student relationship cliché in academia needs to stop.

Van Horn Street, Tuesday, 21 August 2018 17:34 (five years ago) link

i'm not saying he (or they) weren't great, i'm just saying there's def. something i see more and more where people post shit on twitter or facebook where comedians are treated as if they ("SO MUCH THIS!!") can perfectly encapsulate these issues..where like, ultimately it IS comedy some comedy is a lot deeper for a lack of better word, but ultimately it's art and i think as people read less and generally engage w/thought less it's easy to put comedians like CK on this pedestal when I think comedy by nature has to simplify things and work on upending and using cliches for comedic effect

which is what i'm trying to talk about not pryor or carlin or any one comedian

The Desus & Mero Chain (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Tuesday, 21 August 2018 17:36 (five years ago) link

like i didn't mean to denigrate pryor so much as express concern that fairly large number of american males regard joe rogan as an important thinker

The Desus & Mero Chain (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Tuesday, 21 August 2018 17:37 (five years ago) link

To UMS's point:

http://time.com/4022386/life-quotes-louis-ck/

Van Horn Street, Tuesday, 21 August 2018 17:38 (five years ago) link

yeah that kind of stuff i was seeing it all the time

The Desus & Mero Chain (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Tuesday, 21 August 2018 17:44 (five years ago) link

Rogan's fans don't think he's an "important thinker," they think his guests (Peterson, Shapiro, Rubin, et al.) are important thinkers, which is much worse.

flappy bird, Tuesday, 21 August 2018 17:48 (five years ago) link

rogan deserves his own (possibly deindexed) thread

ogmor, Tuesday, 21 August 2018 17:52 (five years ago) link

who thinks Rubin is a deep thinker?

President Keyes, Tuesday, 21 August 2018 17:53 (five years ago) link

i won't subject you all to the horrors i have seen google image searching "joe rogan life quotes"

The Desus & Mero Chain (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Tuesday, 21 August 2018 17:55 (five years ago) link

yeah that is true. judging by the subreddit (don't judge me i have to be on reddit for work), it's cotton candy fluff quotes like that and making fun of him for being stoned as shit and telling the same stories all the time. you'd be surprised how many people think Rubin is an intellectual.

also Rogan is responsible for JP's popularity exploding. afaik "Clean your room" was coined on JRE in May 2017.

flappy bird, Tuesday, 21 August 2018 18:01 (five years ago) link

Joe Rogan is a dipstick

brimstead, Tuesday, 21 August 2018 18:29 (five years ago) link

second article linked is boomingly OTM

Judith Butler’s “mistakes were made that many people can learn from and anyway it was a draft” does not convince

Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Tuesday, 21 August 2018 21:53 (five years ago) link

An indie comics author of zero note sues everyone who's ever tweeted warning ppl to avoid him bcz of repeated alleged sexual assaults: http://www.tcj.com/rape-sexual-harassment-allegations-prompt-defamation-suit-from-small-press-comics-publisher/

16, 35, DCP, Go! (sic), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 00:24 (five years ago) link

Don’t say he’s of zero note, you might wind up being cited as evidence he isn’t a public figure.

faculty w1fe (silby), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 00:28 (five years ago) link

I mean, if she ended up regretting it, you know, we can’t really help that.
things that there's really no good time to say ever

Nhex, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 00:50 (five years ago) link

though i admit aside from the rape all that other stuff about him sounds like a typical American small business owner HEYO

Nhex, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 00:50 (five years ago) link

Several of my friends are getting fucked by this financially (it costs just as much to hire a lawyer to answer a garbage nuisance charge - and they all do have to hire lawyers). It’s stunning that someone can just up and do this.

On the other hand, the whole initiative is going to have exactly the opposite effect to the one he’s aiming for, so that’ll be gratifying to observe... eventually. Right now it’s just infuriating.

Needless to say, I only want to discuss this asshole semi-anonymously at the moment.

cheese is the teacher, ham is the preacher (Jon not Jon), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 01:38 (five years ago) link

I’ve heard rumors that fr@nk s@ntoro has engaged in some very shady shit with female cartoonists as well. Wondering if anything is going to come of that.

just1n3, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:07 (five years ago) link

I’ve heard rumors fr@nk s@ntoro has done some shady shit to female cartoonists. Wondering if anything will come of that.

just1n3, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:09 (five years ago) link

Oh jeez really? I’ve not heard that one.

cheese is the teacher, ham is the preacher (Jon not Jon), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:13 (five years ago) link

Yeah my husband has always really liked him, and even did a deluxe reprint of one of his books awhile ago, so it’s pretty disturbing. But it’s just vague rumors at this point, afaik, nothing very concrete.

just1n3, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:17 (five years ago) link

this story got a little more complicated

I just received this statement from @AsiaArgento in response to the NYT story published late Sunday evening. pic.twitter.com/jAOo7TAULX
— Yashar Ali 🐘 (@yashar) August 21, 2018
― officer sonny bonds, lytton pd (mayor jingleberries), Tuesday, August 21, 2018 11:38 AM (ten hours ago)

honestly who knows, but this smells like BS

k3vin k., Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:28 (five years ago) link

Xpost oh I guess I know your husband haha. My publisher and I tried to tap him to write a foreword to one of my things.

cheese is the teacher, ham is the preacher (Jon not Jon), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:43 (five years ago) link

Conspicuously missing from that Asia Argento statement is any reference to the pictures of her and Bennett together, which, according to the NYT article, show them in bed with "their unclothed torsos exposed". I don't see how to square that with her claim that she and Bennett never had any sexual relationship.

JRN, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 02:59 (five years ago) link

taking fun photos when kicking it with work friends /= fucking

16, 35, DCP, Go! (sic), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 03:40 (five years ago) link

Xps I doubt it - we’re a tiny press, virtually unknown, and my husband would’ve said yes to something like that! It was a reprint of Bl@st Furn@ce Funnies.

just1n3, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 03:45 (five years ago) link

taking fun photos when kicking it with work friends /= fucking

I'm willing to stake all my credibility as an occasional ILX poster on the claim that 99% of adults who take topless photos in bed together have had some kind of sexual relationship.

JRN, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 04:28 (five years ago) link

99% of adults aren't Asia Argento though 🤷‍♀️

16, 35, DCP, Go! (sic), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 05:20 (five years ago) link

More than that probably.

faculty w1fe (silby), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 05:41 (five years ago) link

poll

16, 35, DCP, Go! (sic), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 06:44 (five years ago) link

Reports that it was Bourdain who made the payment just add a whole new level of grimness to what already feels like a sad and fucked up situation.

Matt DC, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 08:11 (five years ago) link

https://www.chronicle.com/article/The-Unsexy-Truth-About-the/244314

Thanks for the link, Milton. By far the most enlightening analysis I've read so far.

pomenitul, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 10:02 (five years ago) link

very good piece

flaneur brayin (darraghmac), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 10:39 (five years ago) link

The most terrible part of the harassment, she said, was not the sexting. It was the exhaustion she felt, the sense of depletion, as she tried and tried, and tried again, to manage this man’s attention and demands. How to respond to late-night texts in a way that would rebuff him without jeopardizing her position at the magazine? How to be available for the work without making herself available to the harassment? How to do all of this with some semblance of grace and repose, without losing all confidence that his interests in her had at least something to do with the quality of her work?

Feel this extremely, wow

flamboyant goon tie included, Wednesday, 22 August 2018 12:16 (five years ago) link

Yeah, it's a great piece, and this particular aspect of harassment hasn't received the attention it needs to get.

lbi's life of limitless european glamour (Le Bateau Ivre), Wednesday, 22 August 2018 12:23 (five years ago) link

It's your turn, Gérard Depardieu.

pomenitul, Thursday, 30 August 2018 16:38 (five years ago) link

Isn't that one where there were already very public accusations way back when? Or am I confusing him with someone else?

how's life, Thursday, 30 August 2018 16:53 (five years ago) link

Kevin Costner may have been the man of the hour at last week's Academy Awards (his Dances with Wolves walked off with seven Oscars), but it was one of the evening's losers who provided the award season's biggest flap. Gerard Depardieu, who was nominated for Best Actor for Cyrano de Bergerac, was a no- show at the ceremony. Even so, he was at the center of a fire storm over comments about his wild days as a youth.

The ruckus stemmed from a TIME story about the French film star published in late January. Depardieu, 42, was asked about remarks he had made in an interview published in 1978 in the magazine Film Comment in which he described his rough childhood and said, "I had plenty of rapes, too many to count." Asked by a TIME reporter if he had participated in rapes, Depardieu said yes. "But it was absolutely normal in those circumstances," he added. "That was part of my childhood."

That admission, not surprisingly, drew an outcry from women's rights activists, newspaper columnists and others. Depardieu later denied making the statements and threatened a libel suit against TIME and any news organization that reprinted them. "It is perhaps accurate to say that I had sexual experiences at an early age," the actor said in a statement. "But rape -- never. I respect women too much." The TIME interview, which was conducted in French, is on tape. The Depardieu camp contends that his words were mistranslated and that he admitted only to having witnessed rapes. TIME has refused the actor's demand that the passage be retracted.

omar little, Thursday, 30 August 2018 17:03 (five years ago) link

Anyone who says 'I respect woman too much' is suspect.

Van Horn Street, Thursday, 30 August 2018 17:27 (five years ago) link

*ilx search*

lee guacamole (darraghmac), Thursday, 30 August 2018 18:03 (five years ago) link

A reminder dude became a Russian citizen for tax evasion purposes.

Van Horn Street, Thursday, 30 August 2018 19:58 (five years ago) link

And because he loves women too much to be on board with Western feminism.

pomenitul, Thursday, 30 August 2018 20:20 (five years ago) link

Not surprised.

EXCLUSIVE: NBC threatened Ronan Farrow If he kept reporting on Harvey Weinstein https://t.co/Al5UlHrlsw

— Noah Shachtman (@NoahShachtman) August 31, 2018

Ned Raggett, Friday, 31 August 2018 00:57 (five years ago) link

donald trump... welcome to #m oh god I can't even finish typing it

NBC FAKE NEWS, which is under intense scrutiny over their killing the Harvey Weinstein story, is now fumbling around making excuses for their probably highly unethical conduct. I have long criticized NBC and their journalistic standards-worse than even CNN. Look at their license?

— Donald J. Trump (@realDonaldTrump) September 4, 2018

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Tuesday, 4 September 2018 16:41 (five years ago) link

Moonves out at CBS (six more accusations)

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Monday, 10 September 2018 00:53 (five years ago) link

norm macdonald . . . thank's

What about when someone admits to wrongdoing?

The model used to be admit wrongdoing, show complete contrition, and then we give you a second chance. Now it's admit wrongdoing and you're finished. And so the only way to survive is to deny, deny, deny. That's not healthy — that there is no forgiveness. I do think that at some point it will end with a completely innocent person of prominence sticking a gun in his head and ending it. That's my guess. I know a couple of people this has happened to.

Who?

Well, Louis (C.K.) and Roseanne (Barr) are the two people I know. And Roseanne was so broken up [after her show's reboot was cancelled] that I got Louis to call her, even though Roseanne was very hard on Louis before that. But she was just so broken and just crying constantly. There are very few people that have gone through what they have, losing everything in a day. Of course, people will go, "What about the victims?" But you know what? The victims didn't have to go through that.

mookieproof, Tuesday, 11 September 2018 19:33 (five years ago) link

I have always told you people he's a deeply horrible asshole.

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 11 September 2018 19:49 (five years ago) link

Norm, wtf

frogbs, Tuesday, 11 September 2018 19:51 (five years ago) link

What about all this emboldening of racism, though?

I live in L.A., where I'm always faced with the lunacy of the left. I didn't know that the same lunacy existed on the right.

This could be, to the letter, how my cousin in L.A. would respond to that question.

I Never Promised You A Hose Harden (Eric H.), Tuesday, 11 September 2018 19:51 (five years ago) link

morbz otm

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 11 September 2018 20:07 (five years ago) link

I wonder if Louis CK was like "it's okay to be horribly racist, plz don't kill yourself" and Roseanne was like "oh thanks, its okay to be a sexual predator, plz don't kill yourself" and then went and got ice cream in the full knowledge that both of them are actually good people.

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 11 September 2018 20:10 (five years ago) link

norm is a jordan peterson fan and conservative

( ͡☉ ͜ʖ ͡☉) (jim in vancouver), Tuesday, 11 September 2018 20:10 (five years ago) link

there is nothing shocking about him believing this shit

( ͡☉ ͜ʖ ͡☉) (jim in vancouver), Tuesday, 11 September 2018 20:10 (five years ago) link

the passing of the baby boomers is going to be a bracing tonic for society

( ͡☉ ͜ʖ ͡☉) (jim in vancouver), Tuesday, 11 September 2018 20:19 (five years ago) link

are you including all of them in that generalization? Springsteen? me?

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 11 September 2018 20:20 (five years ago) link

yr already a bracing tonic, ol chap

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 11 September 2018 20:22 (five years ago) link

The model used to be admit wrongdoing, show complete contrition, and then we give you a second chance.

How about a model where, when you have grossly abused your position of power, first we remove you from that position of power, then you show complete contrition, part of which is not merely admitting to wrongdoing, but atoning through your words and your actions and living out your contrition in meaningful ways, so that you earn renewed trust, forgiveness and a second chance? And if you don't like that model, fuck you.

A is for (Aimless), Tuesday, 11 September 2018 20:26 (five years ago) link

me after reading pretty much every response he gives in that interview

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/DEPwn47XkAMHMUa.jpg

frogbs, Tuesday, 11 September 2018 20:30 (five years ago) link

How about a model where, when you have grossly abused your position of power, first we remove you from that position of power, then you show complete contrition, part of which is not merely admitting to wrongdoing, but atoning through your words and your actions and living out your contrition in meaningful ways, so that you earn renewed trust, forgiveness and a second chance? And if you don't like that model, fuck you.

us Jews call this t'shuvah

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 11 September 2018 20:34 (five years ago) link

calling Norm MacDonald a typical boomer is a little weird, as millennials seem to be his most impassioned fans.

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 11 September 2018 20:37 (five years ago) link

I think an element of this which has been noted from time to time, but which seems to be not something people like to talk about, is the complicity of our celebrity culture in this stuff. I don't mean in a patriarchal sense (though that is obviously also very important), I mean the way famous people (especially famous men) are rewarded for being famous with a huge amount of social capital which means they can often get away with indulging their worst impulses without any pushback from any of the people around them. I remember when the first things were coming out about Bill Cosby, so many people were so keen to give him the benefit of the doubt. I don't think that power always corrupts, but isn't it abundantly clear now there are definitely a substantial group of people who will, if given the impression they can do anything they like, do the most terrible things they can?
Sorry, very long way around to it, but as far as "a model" is concerned, I know the USA always has to view everything as individual choices, but really, fuck all of these abusers, focusing on their comebacks or whatever is just more attention, the attention they were given is what made them feel like they could do this in the first place, fuck their redemption stories, just let them fade into the past and look forward to the day we can judge their work without feeding them our attention.
I think since some of the extended fallout of the Jimmy Savile scandal (att an artist I used to respect a lot (NOT JS obvs) was never jailed for a crime but I am 99% sure he is guilty) I've tried to operate on a zero-hero-worship policy, assume all artists and famous people are flawed human beings and don't put anyone on a pedestal. But obviously this does nothing at all to fix the problem, just takes away some of *my* disappointment when something else is revealed. How to stop people giving celebrities the benefit of the doubt whatever they do? I feel like we are now some of the way along, but there is such a long way still to go.

mfktz (Camaraderie at Arms Length), Tuesday, 11 September 2018 20:58 (five years ago) link

really good post imo

the other side, and it doesnt outweigh it but its a consideration maybe, is that we show much more interest in the supposed, alleged and proven misdeeds of celebrities than we do of other people who are nothing to do with us.

NAGL usa (darraghmac), Tuesday, 11 September 2018 21:13 (five years ago) link

Typical Norm. Stupid comments. Still a brilliant comedian.

flappy bird, Tuesday, 11 September 2018 22:53 (five years ago) link

hero worship and putting celebrities on pedestals is never going to go away. Norm is far from alone in his views. as much as there's progress being made in some circles, just as many people are digging their heels in and even going backwards. there is a difference between Louis CK and Bill Cosby and eliding that has led to a lot of people getting off the bus. conflating Aziz Ansari with TJ Miller, Charlie Rose, and even Louis is really counterproductive. it'll be borne out when these guys make their "comebacks," I really don't think they're going to be shunned or rejected for much longer.

flappy bird, Tuesday, 11 September 2018 23:00 (five years ago) link

Yes, good post, CamaraderieAAL. No worship.

the way famous people (especially famous men) are rewarded for being famous with a huge amount of social capital which means they can often get away with indulging their worst impulses

Perhaps the causality may be the other way round? I mean, the people who become famous are mostly people who very much wanted to be famous. So "famous men" isn't like "left-handed men" or "blue-eyed men." It's a somewhat self-selecting group. Yr Bill Clinton types (or whoever) are obviously already known to have outsized appetites. To my mind, that mindset probably preceded fame.

I'm not saying fame or ambition are automatically bad things or that they're only sought by bad people. But it seems safe to say that "men with insatiable appetites for power over others" overlaps with "men who seek power" which overlaps with "famous men." At no point is there much incentive for that complex of traits to veer toward repect of others, or toward impulse control. Or even toward the obligation to adhere to the basic morality that, one presumes, is for mere mortals.

Never mind the bollards (Ye Mad Puffin), Tuesday, 11 September 2018 23:49 (five years ago) link

im trying to find a way to formulate the question of whether, accepting the above contention of a whittled set of shared traits in a self-selecting group, the same or a smilar hunger for fame/celebrity in women manifests itself in ways that have fed into this long and sorry affair and whether the entertainment industry, or any such almost-totally personality driven sphere, is more susceptible to this type of prolonged abuse (i mean theres a lot questionable there but it seems to follow on, or not?)

NAGL usa (darraghmac), Wednesday, 12 September 2018 00:09 (five years ago) link

afaict, many men in many fields (politics, cuisine, religion, sports, business) have perpetrated this complex of crimes. We hear about the entertainment industry because these people are more famous than the people at the top of, say, accounting or plumbing or dentistry.

I acknowledge this is only half an answer

Never mind the bollards (Ye Mad Puffin), Wednesday, 12 September 2018 00:16 (five years ago) link

not at all, it was certainly no better than half a question rly

NAGL usa (darraghmac), Wednesday, 12 September 2018 00:28 (five years ago) link

Pursuant to responses prior to CaAL's post, I was gonna type something but realized that I already expressed my thoughts fairly completely upthread

Weinsteins step down as Miramax CEOs

Pursuant to CaAL's post-- good post, tho I 100% disagree with your "fuck all abusers forever" mentality, and think that this black-and-white thinking has (ironically) complicated a discussion that is simpler and easier when discussed with nuance. I also think that "cancellation culture" is detrimental to progressivism and runs counter to the goals of a restorative justice movement. "Cancellation culture" fundamentally disagrees with what #MeToo was defined as, and continues to be defined by, from the mouth of its founder-- "it's about power, not about crime and punishment".

But "cancellation culture" has some strong rhetorical bear traps in its backpack-- "you can't tell survivors how to be a good survivor" is one. "Violent protest is necessary to upend systems of power" is another. These are statements I agree with. But I don't believe in them blindly, and am more inclined to call bullshit when I see that these arguments have created a completely toxic environment where dialogue seems impossible. And, this year, I'm becoming more and more convinced that this movement has been nearly completely co-opted by corporate interests, by media outlets who make money off (i.e.) "the hypocrisy of Rose McGowan" and other awful abusive tangents, and by creeps who aren't survivors at all but have learned the language to troll.

The quotes pulled from Norm MacDonald's interview upthread-- I mean, Norm is special. Norm is one of the few public figures whose political views I disagree with, but respect. Bill Maher plays at progressivism but is just an edgelord using the language to cling to power, like 75% of other progressive white people (and probably me as well). Comparatively: at the root of Norm's corny ideas and bad opinions is compassion and empathy and I'm a little frustrated that people don't read the quotes linked above and see through to the heart of what he's trying to say: he's worried about famous people killing themselves. Seeing the profound effect that Roseanne's being "cancelled" after a racist joke-- and, to be fair, five years of Zionist fucking nonsense-- has him questioning the efficacy of "cancellation culture", which is something that I also question. George Takei described his year as being labelled an abuser as being more psychologically gruelling than being in WW2 internment camps. Exile, historically, was considered "a fate worse than death". And if "exile" is how we deal with abusive people, it is going to make abusers, and their friends and family (or "enablers" as many people would describe them), far less willing (or capable) of admitting wrongdoing. If, say, we were aiming toward actual accountability processes-- remember them?-- instead of ostracization, there would absolutely be a more productive outlook for non-legal-system-related systems of recourse.

My opinion (from my post I linked): I don't think many of the accused-famous-people (from basically Louie CK's level of 'crime' on downward) really deserve to lose their job, so much as they should go through a response system that doesn't exist yet. One that would allow them to respond to allegations frankly and fully, to slim down the possibility of legal recourse and thus skip all the meaningless denials, agree to some manner of punishment/rehabilitation that didn't feel rote or stupid, and reorganize the power structure that put them in the place in which they were able to abuse that power so that they were no longer able to abuse it.

edit: I wasn't fully aware of the extent of Louie CK's abuses when I wrote that initial post, and I hope my post doesn't bely the fact that I'm profoundly disgusted and disappointed in what Louie did.

Pursuant to the last few posts, I think that the conversation is focusing on "power" and "celebrity worship" and forgetting that these people are powerful for a reason-- they have, by dint of a privileged upbringing, by dint of racial and gender privilege, by dint of inherited wealth-- but also because they've worked hard, because they're innately talented: these people do work that is societally valuable. Within academia and the entertainment industry (as opposed to accounting or plumbing or dentistry), there is an aura that accompanies people who do this work. And people are attracted to that aura the way people are attracted to people with nice teeth.

From my own experience, I've observed that people are less attracted to "celebrities" than they are, simply, to people who do good work, and/or people who have affected comfort and security as a result of their work. And I'd like to skip a few steps and get to my galaxy brain final thought because I need to walk the dog: this all comes back to American exceptionalism-- and the fact that the health of American bodies is dependent upon the accumulation of capital-- I know it's hilarious that every argument with me about any social movement comes back to "nothing will change until there is single payer health care in America" and/or "nothing will change until CCWs are banned" but... staying on brand, I guess

fgti is for (flamboyant goon tie included), Wednesday, 12 September 2018 12:59 (five years ago) link

i don't think norm is all that worried about famous people killing themselves; he's worried about his friends losing adulation and television shows. (to be fair, i'd probably be defensive if they were my friends too.) the fact that he thinks these extremely wealthy people -- not to mention that louis already has a system in place where he can avoid sjw gatekeepers and deliver his work directly to fans -- have 'lost everything' while their victims haven't suffered similarly does not show compassion or empathy

mookieproof, Wednesday, 12 September 2018 13:19 (five years ago) link

The idea that extremely-wealthy-people, by dint of their wealth, don't suffer extraordinarily psychologically as a result of public humiliation and seeing their life's work upended-- as if there is some top tier version of therapy that only wealthy people have access to? some magical spa?-- is a line of logic I don't particularly understand.

But anyway, I just Twitter-searched "Roseanne" to see if bots were still profiteering off that issue, and discovered that now Norm MacDonald has been cancelled! Modern times continue to surprise me.

fgti is for (flamboyant goon tie included), Wednesday, 12 September 2018 13:46 (five years ago) link

His scheduled Tonight Show appearance has been canceled, to be clear.

I Never Promised You A Hose Harden (Eric H.), Wednesday, 12 September 2018 14:25 (five years ago) link

Fallon very selective about guests clearly

President Keyes, Wednesday, 12 September 2018 14:28 (five years ago) link

i'm sure that being shunned as an abusive wanker/racist has been psychologically hard on louis/roseanne, but a) they have hardly 'lost everything' -- i mean here's louis, out on the road nine months later! b) i would suggest that they (particularly louis, as i'm not sure how ~well~ roseanne is) *deserve* to suffer psychologically! louis did this shit for years! and everyone knew! and the bulk of his audience doesn't even care!

i feel bad for george takei, and i'm sure i'll feel bad for that hypothetical innocent celebrity who commits suicide, but neither louis nor roseanne has gotten a particularly raw deal. no one is going to jail, no one is losing their children or livelihood. norm's empathy seems limited to the people he knows personally

and exile *from fame* is not the same as literal exile, c'mon

mookieproof, Wednesday, 12 September 2018 14:30 (five years ago) link

mook otm

I don't think "the permanent death penalty" in the arts for MeToo offenses is universally a good idea, but neither is instant reinstatement.

I would be more scornful of Amazon attempting to bury the completed Woody Allen film if it wasn't for the fact that he hasn't made anything really good in 20 years.

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 12 September 2018 14:32 (five years ago) link

the Roseanne thing seems particularly odd, since she was seemingly doing nothing a year or so ago, and now she's back at it

President Keyes, Wednesday, 12 September 2018 14:34 (five years ago) link

I would be more scornful of Amazon attempting to bury the completed Woody Allen film if it wasn't for the fact that he hasn't made anything really good in 20 years

antz came out in 1998 so this checks out

bitch that’s the tubby custard machine (bizarro gazzara), Wednesday, 12 September 2018 14:35 (five years ago) link

I also think that "cancellation culture" is detrimental to progressivism and runs counter to the goals of a restorative justice movement.

Cancellation culture has existed forever. What else can you call it when a woman accuses a powerful man of sexual assault and loses her career over it, even though she's telling the truth? It's only now that the abusers are being "cancelled" that it has become a vexing topic for white dudes. I'd be more convinced if Norm MacDonald spent some time doing the work of expanding the borders of his empathy instead of bemoaning the fate of his friends who have always lived inside them.

If, say, we were aiming toward actual accountability processes-- remember them?-- instead of ostracization, there would absolutely be a more productive outlook for non-legal-system-related systems of recourse.

But... that is what women have been aiming for, for decades. Why is accountability being talked about as a new approach that is suddenly worth trying out? Why wasn't it worth trying when women suggested it thirty or forty years ago? We ended up at ostracism because people refused to engage with accountability.

com rad erry red flag (f. hazel), Wednesday, 12 September 2018 14:44 (five years ago) link

I don't know what's so hard to understand tbh: these guys had a platform. They used that platform to abuse women and destroy lives and careers. They don't get to have that platform anymore.

No one's stopping them from making amends, find some ways to contribute positively to society in whatever way they see fit. But having that platform again? No. They already had that chance.

Roz, Wednesday, 12 September 2018 15:47 (five years ago) link

but

what if they do?

like, i don't agree that they should, varying from case to case, but it seems clear that many of em will work in the field again, possibly at a decent level.

NAGL usa (darraghmac), Wednesday, 12 September 2018 16:06 (five years ago) link

Epic. Lesson: Never piss off a writer.

I Never Promised You A Hose Harden (Eric H.), Wednesday, 12 September 2018 16:47 (five years ago) link

yeah I'm not entirely sure if this new era of wokeness is gonna have any permanent effect on their careers. there's a pretty extensive list of celebrities who have done horrible shit but continued to get lots of work...think of Woody Allen (Louie CK's idol!) or Mark Wahlberg, to name a couple. for every one of us saying "Louie should lose his platform for what he did" there's ten who will say "What he did wasn't so bad, those women could've walked away, he's not trying to be a role model, etc. etc." as much as it feels like we're in a different era you do have to wonder what 5 years time is gonna do to people's memories.

but even if it does "cancel" them that presents a new set of problems. When domestic violence became a hot topic in the NFL there was a lot of talk about how people like Ray Rice losing their careers essentially encouraged women to stay silent on abuse. Chloe Dykstra already took a ton of abuse by revealing what a massive garbage person Chris Hardwick was, imagine if Hardwick actually lost his hosting job. not hard to imagine a bunch of women with similar stories looking at that and thinking "nope, not worth it"

frogbs, Wednesday, 12 September 2018 16:51 (five years ago) link

when you're committed to the joke troll game

Norm Macdonald Tells Howard Stern: “You’d Have To Have Down Syndrome” To Not “Feel Sorry” For Harassment Victims https://t.co/t8phX5TxbM pic.twitter.com/208v7g2nzL

— Deadline Hollywood (@DEADLINE) September 12, 2018

mookieproof, Wednesday, 12 September 2018 16:59 (five years ago) link

Ah, yes, the well-known lack of empathy among those with Down Syndrome.

A is for (Aimless), Wednesday, 12 September 2018 17:10 (five years ago) link

xposts yeah I'm not particularly surprised when these guys come back, because sadly that's just the world we live in. I just feel that whenever possible, there needs to be a pushback against any kind of bullshit redemption narrative - whatever social value was gained through exposure to these celebrities' work/art is tainted by the harm that was done during its creation.

Roz, Wednesday, 12 September 2018 17:22 (five years ago) link

My generation is still irrecoverably inured to this behavior, effectively just as bad as the boomers, but hopefully all this makes it easier for the young folks to be less terrible, by making it harder to get away with being a fucking pig.

“Cancellation culture” is also known as accountability and f. hazel thoroughly OTM.

Mike Isabella is going bankrupt in part because he’s a filthy jerk boss and now everyone knows about it. Will I miss a couple of his dining establishments? Sure. Can I live without his contributions to the DC culinary scene? You fucking betcha.

Paleo Weltschmerz (El Tomboto), Wednesday, 12 September 2018 17:25 (five years ago) link

The only “redemption narrative” worth a damn is: apologize profusely in a way that shows you understand what you did, do work on behalf of victims, and go find another career that keeps you out of my sight.

Paleo Weltschmerz (El Tomboto), Wednesday, 12 September 2018 17:28 (five years ago) link

Does that mean I won’t be able to get an Oreo shake from his stand in DCA

faculty w1fe (silby), Wednesday, 12 September 2018 17:41 (five years ago) link

The other guy named in the newer Farrow report on Moonves is also out:

BULLETIN: "Jeff Fager is leaving the company effective immediately," CBS News president David Rhodes says. "Bill Owens will manage the 60 Minutes team as Ingrid Ciprian-Matthews and I begin the search for a new executive producer of the program."

— Brian Stelter (@brianstelter) September 12, 2018

Follow-up tweets consisting of asscovering/'it wasn't that report' but yeah right.

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 12 September 2018 17:56 (five years ago) link

Norm as an exemplar of empathy for celebrities is good stuff. He should use that in his act.

Andrew "Hit Dice" Clay (PBKR), Wednesday, 12 September 2018 19:51 (five years ago) link

I agree with everything f. hazel posted. Roz, I agree with you insofar as "they" refers to Cosby, Weinstein, and Louie CK. I think my take was partially informed by sympathy for Roseanne, whose cancellation I really "felt", and frustration at the way she, with her brainworms, has now been lumped in now with a bunch of male abusers. But mostly, I'm reeling from the effects that this movement has had on a local level, where I've had somewhere between 15-20 friends called out. Some of the call-outs have been righteous and necessary. Others have been overstated. Others have been frivolous. And still more are nothing more than bullying, seeing the language co-opted by abusive people-- nothing I want to draw attention to, but stories that would turn your stomach.

As for the people who were called-out, one of my friends is now dead. Two others are disappeared without a trace-- one of them, the community is far safer without them in it, but I wonder if that same individual is engaging in similar behaviour in another environment. Another has gone insane and has become an addict and requires constant support. Several others have been cancelled and require constant support. I've provided emotional support for survivors, held abusive friends accountable, facilitated two call-ins-- but more than anything, I just am reeling from the level of vitriol and violence.

fgti is for (flamboyant goon tie included), Wednesday, 12 September 2018 20:54 (five years ago) link

Pointing out that “cancellation culture” (🤮) existed for victims of abusers before #MeToo is an awful defense of it. It’s still horrible & violent & the bloodlust is not justified. Fgti otm

flappy bird, Wednesday, 12 September 2018 20:58 (five years ago) link

No flappy bird, I disagree

"Cancellation" is a necessary thing in many cases, but typically, it-- and call-outs in general-- were seen as final recourse for people who refused any sort of private methods of accountability. But it's become a first port-of-call instead of a last resort. A rhetoric, and "culture", I guess, has risen around the act of cancellation. (Even an industry, really, on a journalistic level.)

What f. hazel referred to-- the cancellation of survivors in the wake of their disclosure-- is still ongoing, too

fgti is for (flamboyant goon tie included), Wednesday, 12 September 2018 21:02 (five years ago) link

Louis seems to be doing okay for a recipient of "horrible & violent" "bloodlust."

I guess he got the good Band-Aids

Never mind the bollards (Ye Mad Puffin), Wednesday, 12 September 2018 21:05 (five years ago) link

But it's become a first port-of-call instead of a last resort. A rhetoric, and "culture", I guess, has risen around the act of cancellation. (Even an industry, really, on a journalistic level.)

This is what I am referring to. Guilty until proven innocent & thirsty for blood. I have seen it on a local level (a year and a half before Harvey) and it was mostly a disaster.

What f. hazel referred to-- the cancellation of survivors in the wake of their disclosure-- is still ongoing, too

I know, and it is awful & needs to stop.

flappy bird, Wednesday, 12 September 2018 21:07 (five years ago) link

Louis seems to be doing okay for a recipient of "horrible & violent" "bloodlust."

I guess he got the good Band-Aids


he’s probably got good health insurance

flappy bird, Wednesday, 12 September 2018 21:08 (five years ago) link

As for the people who were called-out, one of my friends is now dead. Two others are disappeared without a trace-- one of them, the community is far safer without them in it, but I wonder if that same individual is engaging in similar behaviour in another environment. Another has gone insane and has become an addict and requires constant support.

Did this all happen since lasr november when #metoo started going?

Trϵϵship, Wednesday, 12 September 2018 21:22 (five years ago) link

I’ll bow out here because I frankly have no idea what the fuck fgti and flappy bird are talking about. Clearly there are some totally not famous people who have been victimized by other people pretending to be victims, with little basis. This is definitely a thing that has happened, people on the Internet etc.

Maybe this is why laws and courts were established. Nah, the system is corrupt; let’s all just mete out “accountability” ourselves by ostracizing folks.

Paleo Weltschmerz (El Tomboto), Wednesday, 12 September 2018 22:10 (five years ago) link

what

flappy bird, Wednesday, 12 September 2018 22:15 (five years ago) link

unjustified bloodlust!!!

Paleo Weltschmerz (El Tomboto), Wednesday, 12 September 2018 22:18 (five years ago) link

let’s all just mete out “accountability” ourselves

yeah this has definitely worked in the past

flappy bird, Wednesday, 12 September 2018 22:19 (five years ago) link

it's obvious the legal system and the police are weighted against victims. this needs to change. I am for reform, not revolution. Sorry

flappy bird, Wednesday, 12 September 2018 22:20 (five years ago) link

Maybe this is why laws and courts were established. Nah, the system is corrupt; let’s all just mete out “accountability” ourselves by ostracizing folks.

― Paleo Weltschmerz (El Tomboto), Wednesday, September 12, 2018 6:10 PM (twenty-five minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Weren't you the one who banned Dom?

5th Ward Weeaboo (Whiney G. Weingarten), Wednesday, 12 September 2018 22:38 (five years ago) link

oh, whineypaws

mookieproof, Wednesday, 12 September 2018 23:22 (five years ago) link

It’s still horrible & violent & the bloodlust is not justified

Fuck off with this shit. How dare you say that women demanding justice, justice they've tried for decades to get the "proper" way and failed, and lost everything doing, after actual violence, is "bloodlust" ?

This is what happens because men have spent a very long time railroading, gaslighting, stonewalling, abusing, and shutting us up.

This is what you get.

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Wednesday, 12 September 2018 23:41 (five years ago) link

I hate this 'cancelled' terminology. where the fuck did that come from? is that some twitter thing? god I hate the internet.

akm, Wednesday, 12 September 2018 23:48 (five years ago) link

"Clearly there are some totally not famous people who have been victimized by other people pretending to be victims, with little basis. This is definitely a thing that has happened, people on the Internet etc. "

it happened to someone who posts to ILX for an "infraction" that was negligible and it still inspired bloodlust and outrageous claims in parts of the internet, yes.

akm, Wednesday, 12 September 2018 23:50 (five years ago) link

I would like to hear more about the circumstances of people abusing this moment that fgti described. So far in terms of the high profile cases, the targeted men seem to have deserved it, but I think the power of this movement was that men no longer felt assured they would get the benefit of the doubt. It was scary, even for people who aren’t harassers, because they were no longer the “trusted” class and I think this is why it was effective. There is no doubt in my mind that these call outs have made would-be harassers and assailanta think twice.

Trϵϵship, Wednesday, 12 September 2018 23:50 (five years ago) link

I can't post any of that shit in good conscience, Treeship.

Furthermore, it's complicated... the individuals who frame their pain within the rubric of "abuse"-- when it is not abuse-- and use methods like call-outs to mitigate that pain, they're still in pain. How do you point out that their response is perhaps misguided, or malicious, without negating, and increasing, that pain? (I realize that an angry outburst I made last week is antithetical to what I'm typing now, and I apologize for that angry outburst.)

fgti is for (flamboyant goon tie included), Thursday, 13 September 2018 00:44 (five years ago) link

This is what you get.


The same thing?

flappy bird, Thursday, 13 September 2018 01:46 (five years ago) link

I’m not referring to any direct parties involved, I’m referring to the spectacle & the spectators. This was a tangent off of celebrity worship.

flappy bird, Thursday, 13 September 2018 01:53 (five years ago) link

going back to norm, the thing that puts a blood mist across my vision is the notion that, in achieving fame over a long period of work as a standup means that losing evrything by being called out is somehow a worse experience than what the victims have gone through

like somehow the implication being that, well, these victims, they’re just people, they have nowhere to fall down ~from~, these whiny serfs don’t lose anything but sleep while these giants of comedy lose Income, Work, Credibility, their Reputation

fuck

off

norm

I don’t normally go in for reductive binaries but jesus god that fucks me off so much

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 13 September 2018 02:29 (five years ago) link

you're right about that

akm, Thursday, 13 September 2018 03:15 (five years ago) link

I cannot help but wonder in reading the showbiz apologists for celebrity sexual harassers, what they would say when asked their opinions of Subway cancelling their contract with Jared Fogle.

A is for (Aimless), Thursday, 13 September 2018 03:54 (five years ago) link

My god. Check out the responses of these men on the CBS board to the Les Moonves accusations https://t.co/d6BywpZKtF pic.twitter.com/gizzCjGqh3

— Amanda Terkel (@aterkel) September 13, 2018

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 13 September 2018 03:57 (five years ago) link

that's really disappointing. I remember quite liking William Cohen.

akm, Thursday, 13 September 2018 04:01 (five years ago) link

The les moonves accusations are horrifying. I don’t know why he isn’t being described as an “alleged rapist” rather than harasser.

Trϵϵship, Thursday, 13 September 2018 11:33 (five years ago) link

No one is crying for these people besides people who were benefitting from their fame. Norm MacDonald can also fuck off forever. (this one isn't hard since the only thing he ever did kind of funny was the Burt Reynolds impersonation and I feel like he had a weird weiner dog joke).

Yerac, Thursday, 13 September 2018 11:39 (five years ago) link

the problem is working out what fuck off forever means. everyone's somewhere.

ogmor, Thursday, 13 September 2018 11:43 (five years ago) link

that (fantastic) linda bloodworth thomason piece is a great illustration of how sexism marginalizes all women, not just the ones toxic men want to fuck (the ones in the reject pile more often than not get fucked with and stymied at every turn, NOT THAT I HAVE HAD THAT EXPERIENCE cough)

maura, Thursday, 13 September 2018 13:27 (five years ago) link

otm
sometimes we have the pleasure of being stymied AND getting more personal sexist treatment

i relish the day when men's stories no longer have the popular benefit of the doubt. i don't think we are there yet but maybe someday.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 13 September 2018 13:41 (five years ago) link

we can hope. gonna be a lot of canon cleaning first

maura, Thursday, 13 September 2018 14:39 (five years ago) link

It was a brief but memorable run at the top for Vertigo.

I Never Promised You A Hose Harden (Eric H.), Thursday, 13 September 2018 14:44 (five years ago) link

@ Treeship, I do have an example for you about what I'm talking about-- because it's my own story, and betrays nobody's privacy but my own-- but I'm going to post it in another thread

fgti is for (flamboyant goon tie included), Thursday, 13 September 2018 15:52 (five years ago) link

we can hope. gonna be a lot of canon cleaning first

Couldn't come any quicker for me.

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 13 September 2018 15:55 (five years ago) link

Ok fgti. Please don’t share anything unless you feel you definitely won’t regret it (coming from an ilx oversharer). I don’t doubt that people are abusing the metoo moment for manipulative ends; I guess the kind of uncomfortable discussion is how to address thay without undermining the sea change that has been the force behind this movement, ie, giving the benefit of the doubt to accusers rather than accused. Reading about les moonves it was obvious that something serious needed to change—the things people shrugged off were horrifying

Trϵϵship, Thursday, 13 September 2018 15:59 (five years ago) link

what is harpers fuckin problem

https://harpers.org/archive/2018/10/exile-4/

maura, Thursday, 13 September 2018 20:41 (five years ago) link

Whatever my troubles, I think it is an exciting moment at a time when so much has changed in our understanding of gender. I feel blessed to be a father at a time when my daughters have the means, like never before, to be safe and empowered as they grow sexually. I feel proud to believe that my sons will be among the most sensitive and sensual males to have ever walked the earth.

Yeah thanks bro.

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 13 September 2018 21:02 (five years ago) link

The Sensual Sons Of John Hockenberry

omar little, Thursday, 13 September 2018 21:05 (five years ago) link

Worst podcast ever

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 13 September 2018 21:10 (five years ago) link

but a good Sturges flick

The Silky Veils of Alfred (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 13 September 2018 21:11 (five years ago) link

In my brief experience working at magazines in the 00s (I was a digital editor at a small mag with Harper’s ties), every office had a Hockenberry or multiple Hockenberrys. If not sexual harassment, non-sexual harassment was PFTC

Chuck_Tatum, Thursday, 13 September 2018 21:34 (five years ago) link

Oh hey, remember this guy?

I am hearing that Jian Ghomeshi is apparently writing an upcoming cover story for the New York Review of Books. I only have one and not two sources, but my email is very easy to find if you have confirmation or “lol r u crazy?”

(Would love it to be the latter.)

— Nicole Cliffe (@Nicole_Cliffe) September 13, 2018

Update: I can now confirm that this is happening, and soon.

— Nicole Cliffe (@Nicole_Cliffe) September 13, 2018

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 13 September 2018 22:15 (five years ago) link

Wow.

Trϵϵship, Thursday, 13 September 2018 22:19 (five years ago) link

nyrb has been v. worried about the slandered innocent for years

https://www.nybooks.com/articles/2015/02/05/rape-campus

mookieproof, Friday, 14 September 2018 01:31 (five years ago) link

I've been pissed at Harpers since their cartoon graphic cover of the women of the alt-right made them look like angelic greek goddesses.

Yerac, Friday, 14 September 2018 01:40 (five years ago) link

nyrb has been v. worried about the slandered innocent for years

Probability favors the construction that someone claiming victimization is more likely to be telling truth than lying, but Every three year old has discovered how to lie, so dismissing the possibility of untruth in any aspect of human interaction is not a credible position. Can't we all agree that justice is better than injustice and proceed from there?

A is for (Aimless), Friday, 14 September 2018 02:12 (five years ago) link

i've already let harpers and the economist lapse and now i've sent the nyrb a pissy yet extremely otm letter about this crap

guess i really will be living in an ilx bubble soon. good mourning!

mookieproof, Friday, 14 September 2018 02:16 (five years ago) link

Hmmm.

"I'm Julie Chen Moonves. Goodnight." #BB20

— Andy Dehnart (@realityblurred) September 14, 2018

That's how Julie Chen signed off Big Brother, and it is not how she usually signs off. It was a clear reference to her husband, Les Moonves, being forced to resign early this week in the wake of sexual assault and harassment allegations. #BB20

— Andy Dehnart (@realityblurred) September 14, 2018

Ned Raggett, Friday, 14 September 2018 02:19 (five years ago) link

a reference how? don't think I care what Julie Chen Moonves says or thinks

Dan S, Friday, 14 September 2018 02:38 (five years ago) link

Worthless.

I Never Promised You A Hose Harden (Eric H.), Friday, 14 September 2018 02:41 (five years ago) link

Harper’s also likes to publish the work of irritatingly dense probably anti-trans “just covering the story” douchebag J3ss3 S1ngal, and they had that blow-up about exposing the Bad Media Men list’s collator. I remember them maybe publishing something sympathetic to the “HIV doesn’t cause AIDS” conspirators long ago. Readings and Harper’s Index and Findings are all classic but the actual features seem like the editors are being undergraduate-level contrarians a bit too often. xps to something or someone

faculty w1fe (silby), Friday, 14 September 2018 02:42 (five years ago) link

I am the person here honestly saying "big brother is still! on!?"

Yerac, Friday, 14 September 2018 03:00 (five years ago) link

dont remember: you arent watching big brother

NAGL usa (darraghmac), Friday, 14 September 2018 04:04 (five years ago) link

yeah silby that was why i was expressing disgust. the shitty media men piece was by katie roiphe ffs! and it was awful because i guess contrarianism doesn’t need editing.

maura, Friday, 14 September 2018 10:09 (five years ago) link

VG otm on Macdonald and his Fall of the Comedy Giants bullshit

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Friday, 14 September 2018 11:23 (five years ago) link

Buruma: unbelievable asshole

https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2018/09/jian-ghomeshi-new-york-review-of-books-essay.html

Chuck_Tatum, Friday, 14 September 2018 23:25 (five years ago) link

jesus fucking christ burn it all down

Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Friday, 14 September 2018 23:38 (five years ago) link

yeah he certainly picked one of the worst possible writers to make an already quite murky point there.

Ludo, Saturday, 15 September 2018 06:48 (five years ago) link

I know everyone just wants to get this one behind you, but I'm writing something on Hockenberry and Ghomeshi which means I have to read them and gaaaaaaaaahhhh. Even discounting for how wrong it is, it's just fucking boring and pointless. Hockenberry at one point just begins to list books he read in the sixties and then says that he likes Andrea Dworkin. 'More about this later'. It sounded like a fucking threat. Why on earth do we need these people in our culture?

Frederik B, Tuesday, 18 September 2018 19:39 (five years ago) link

I embraced the freethinking spirit of Zorba the Greek when I played him onstage in high school. Was this wise?

Who the fuck cares?

Frederik B, Tuesday, 18 September 2018 19:41 (five years ago) link

Why on earth do we need these people in our culture?

They were media personalities. They are our culture.

A is for (Aimless), Tuesday, 18 September 2018 19:42 (five years ago) link

max hedrom would not stand for it

| (Latham Green), Tuesday, 18 September 2018 19:56 (five years ago) link

Unbelievably he returns to the Zorba the Greek story for three paragraphs later on. It does not get more interesting.

Frederik B, Tuesday, 18 September 2018 19:58 (five years ago) link

Why on earth do we need these people in our culture?


because toxic men are in power

maura, Tuesday, 18 September 2018 22:25 (five years ago) link

i realize that does not exactly fit your (or my) definition of “need” but it’s the top explanation for why all these shitheads who are really mediocre anyway keep getting chances. same with the moonves board meetings. same with the defenses of shithead brett kavanagh. until masculinity gets fixed this is going to keep happening.

maura, Tuesday, 18 September 2018 22:26 (five years ago) link

I am SO GLAD that there is now a term for this. Because seriously... this shit drives me crazy.

“The Straw Girl” a technique that “posits the existence of a hypothetical observer who is conflating things that should not be conflated. It discredits the testimony of real women by implying that other, imaginary, women are too stupid to know the difference between getting raped and having a guy be ‘creepy in the DMs.’”

Yerac, Wednesday, 19 September 2018 01:12 (five years ago) link

ian buruma is no longer the editor of the new york review of books

mookieproof, Wednesday, 19 September 2018 17:44 (five years ago) link

can’t wait for his 10,000 word thinkpiece

Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Wednesday, 19 September 2018 17:46 (five years ago) link

Truly a delight to see that happen. And to know Ghomeshi won't be getting any more traction.

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 19 September 2018 18:24 (five years ago) link

I wonder if it was equal parts publishing the piece/clearly being clueless in the followup interview.

omar little, Wednesday, 19 September 2018 18:27 (five years ago) link

maybe they just want to replace him with a cheaper 25-year-old dude

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Wednesday, 19 September 2018 18:47 (five years ago) link

Wow wasn’t expecting ian burma to be fired. Good, i guess-/that article showed bad judgment

Trϵϵship, Wednesday, 19 September 2018 18:50 (five years ago) link

meanwhile, there's this, which is horrifying: https://www.washingtonpost.com/graphics/2018/opinions/arlington-texas/?noredirect=on&utm_term=.a0513c899c30

(the "faith" part is the most horrifying because it is pretty emblematic of the lengths people go to make bullying/harassment seem not just plausibly deniable, but plausibly deniable to the point that if you indicate what it is actually happening, you look ridiculous.)

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Wednesday, 19 September 2018 18:56 (five years ago) link

that was a good article

Dan S, Wednesday, 19 September 2018 19:01 (five years ago) link

know what else shows bad judgment?!?!?!!??!?!?!?
raping someone in high school

sorry i keep getting these inappropriate outbursts that are becoming more difficult to control the more people try to defend him

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Wednesday, 19 September 2018 19:15 (five years ago) link

I definitely never defended kavanaugh (not that you implied i did—just for the historical record)

Trϵϵship, Wednesday, 19 September 2018 19:17 (five years ago) link

omg no i know, don't worry
like i said i am outbursting and my usual composure is compromised

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Wednesday, 19 September 2018 19:22 (five years ago) link

xxp re: the Amber Wyatt piece, agree, the description of how cruel everyone else in the school and in the community was to her afterwards was sickening to read

Dan S, Wednesday, 19 September 2018 19:23 (five years ago) link

i may never understand this whole small town football insanity

Nhex, Wednesday, 19 September 2018 19:23 (five years ago) link

also WTF at this unrelated tidbit:

“We had cases where there were photographs and confessions from the suspects that were no-billed,” Johnson told me in 2015 in the tidy living room of her Fort Worth home. One case in particular stuck with her: A man admitted to giving a woman drugs that would render her unconscious — and then raping her after she had passed out and photographing the act. The victim was sent the photographs of her own rape, which she turned over to police. Still, the grand jury decided not to indict.

Nhex, Wednesday, 19 September 2018 19:27 (five years ago) link

it's not just small town football insanity
this is why you/we don't know about all the sexual assault that happens
if there were a metal detector that would beep when it detects someone has experienced sexual assault, the noise would be deafening

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Wednesday, 19 September 2018 19:27 (five years ago) link

it's not just small town football stuff, but there is frequently a popularity component. this is how it worked in steubenville (where the victim was accused of trying to "social climb"), it's how it worked in glen ridge (where the victim was disabled)

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Wednesday, 19 September 2018 19:40 (five years ago) link

i can't even begin to start reading about this case -- it will send me into a tailspin
the way people will twist themselves into 150,000 tons of rold gold pretzels to blame victims is beyond what i can tolerate

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Wednesday, 19 September 2018 19:42 (five years ago) link

yeah if you are not in a great place I would recommend holding off on reading about either of those

aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Wednesday, 19 September 2018 19:45 (five years ago) link

Le Lechera otm

Ross, Wednesday, 19 September 2018 19:47 (five years ago) link

But of course

Ex-NY Review of Books editor: "I have now myself been convicted on Twitter" https://t.co/LaYiIJPgxT pic.twitter.com/C16wmc2NBg

— Talking Points Memo (@TPM) September 20, 2018

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 20 September 2018 20:57 (five years ago) link

Buruma reportedly maintains that he was not fired, but that threatened boycotts made it impossible for him to remain in his role.

...

“I still stand behind my decision to publish,” Buruma said. “I expected that there would intense reactions, but I hoped that it would open a discussion about what to do with people who behaved badly, but who were acquitted in a court of law.”

“You could be right that it gave him too much room to tell his side of the story, without a response and without critical questions,” he continued.

Yes, possibly right there.

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 20 September 2018 20:58 (five years ago) link

threatened boycotts made it impossible for him to remain in his role.

in what way is this even remotely true

reggae mike love (polyphonic), Thursday, 20 September 2018 21:10 (five years ago) link

They’ve been taking some epic shots on Buruma and Hockenberry over at LGM

http://www.lawyersgunsmoneyblog.com/2018/09/fired-youre-bad-job-not-violation-due-process

http://www.lawyersgunsmoneyblog.com/2018/09/book-entitled-lolita

El Tomboto, Thursday, 20 September 2018 21:15 (five years ago) link

If all the women that were threatened on twitter could no longer work...

Yerac, Thursday, 20 September 2018 23:51 (five years ago) link

Is it wrong that I could watch them and the journalists they make a point of quoting dunk on these clowns for a year and not get tired of it?

Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Friday, 21 September 2018 00:09 (five years ago) link

After Amber Wyatt's story was published some students came forward to apologize to her for how they had treated her. And some came forward to say they had experienced the very same thing. An epilogue: https://t.co/q1NK4jgZ8k

— Elizabeth Bruenig (@ebruenig) September 21, 2018

Ned Raggett, Friday, 21 September 2018 22:27 (five years ago) link

NYRB website has a (still too generous) disclaimer now:

https://i.imgur.com/qxMAHFn.png

Chuck_Tatum, Saturday, 22 September 2018 00:00 (five years ago) link

maybe at some point they'll offer a few pages to the 20+ women

'what it's like when your abuser is acquitted and offered space in a magazine to justify it' is a topic that i'm sure ian buruma would find interesting

mookieproof, Saturday, 22 September 2018 00:20 (five years ago) link

BTW was he paid for that essay?

Yerac, Saturday, 22 September 2018 00:22 (five years ago) link

probably not much, but i'm sure he was

mookieproof, Saturday, 22 September 2018 00:35 (five years ago) link

This is a very good speech by someone who happens to be an excellent writer. I hope she's in the letters next week.

Chuck_Tatum, Saturday, 22 September 2018 01:06 (five years ago) link

"You can't #MeToo the Republican Party" y/n? my friend brought this up and I couldn't think of a single GOP person who was accused & suffered consequences except for ROY MOORE. but maybe I'm forgetting someone

flappy bird, Saturday, 22 September 2018 04:51 (five years ago) link

oh, Rob Porter

flappy bird, Saturday, 22 September 2018 04:52 (five years ago) link

a local state rep got run out of the legislature last year for nonstop perving on any and all skirt-wearing colleagues

j., Saturday, 22 September 2018 04:55 (five years ago) link

I’ll see your state legislator and raise you one: Minnesota Rep. Jim Knoblach ends re-election bid after allegations by daughter. http://strib.mn/2OHKN4U

I Never Promised You A Hose Harden (Eric H.), Saturday, 22 September 2018 12:56 (five years ago) link

I've been assiduously trying to avoid public discourse in general, but I have been thinking about how #MeToo relates to the Republican party. Even acknowledging that they were always awful in the past few years they've gone beyond an event horizon. They've put themselves in a position where they can't allow themselves to acknowledge shame. I don't see how, at this juncture, they can claw themselves back to become more than the rapist/abuser party.

milkshake duck george bernard shaw (rushomancy), Saturday, 22 September 2018 13:33 (five years ago) link

Ghomeshi launched The Ideation Project with a monologue called "Exiles" on the topic of what it means to not have a homeland.[81] ...The show was launched on a web network associated with Rush Limbaugh, and The Globe and Mail reviewed the web series as a "less than triumphant return" despite what they refer to as his slick voice and delivery.[83]

Trϵϵship, Saturday, 22 September 2018 13:48 (five years ago) link

That knoblach story is so fucking gross on so many levels. And now that girl is all alone bc political careers are apparently the most important thing.

just1n3, Saturday, 22 September 2018 16:57 (five years ago) link

and her grandmother is a monster

Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Saturday, 22 September 2018 18:09 (five years ago) link

jesus. more details on that story here: https://www.mprnews.org/story/2018/09/21/knoblach-ends-campaign-amid-abuse-allegations

Nhex, Saturday, 22 September 2018 18:57 (five years ago) link

excellent On the Media segments this week on Anita Hill, the Hockenberry/Ghomeshi PR rehabs, atonement,and the McDonalds strike.

https://www.npr.org/podcasts/452538775/on-the-media

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 23 September 2018 14:45 (five years ago) link

Jack Smith IV, writer for Mic, accused by five women of harrassment, coercion

https://jezebel.com/the-next-step-for-metoo-is-into-the-gray-areas-1829269384

goole, Monday, 24 September 2018 20:19 (five years ago) link

so Keith Ellison stories not getting much traction despite being quite awful

akm, Monday, 24 September 2018 21:30 (five years ago) link

yeah i guess people don't want to deal

Trϵϵship, Monday, 24 September 2018 21:33 (five years ago) link

thankfully, he didn't become the DNC chair because this would be blanket coverage and would have been used to discredit the progressive wing of the party

Trϵϵship, Monday, 24 September 2018 21:34 (five years ago) link

he needs to be investigated and likely step down. this is far worse than Franken's alleged infractions.

akm, Monday, 24 September 2018 21:49 (five years ago) link

he's already giving up his seat since he's not running for re-election this year, right? so all he would have to do would be to bow out of the AG's race. No big loss, I should think.

Οὖτις, Monday, 24 September 2018 21:51 (five years ago) link

... and the Ellison thing has been blown slightly out of proportion by MAGA Chuds seeking equivalency w/the Kavanaugh scandal (fake victim photo etc.).

Ubering With The King (C. Grisso/McCain), Monday, 24 September 2018 21:59 (five years ago) link

i mean, if he beat his girlfriends which it seems he did--two accusers--then he shouldn't be the attorney general of minnesota, just as kavanaugh shouldn't be a supreme court justice if he used to assault young women in his high school and college years. it is equivalent.

Trϵϵship, Monday, 24 September 2018 22:00 (five years ago) link

Ellison story is pretty insignificant compared to bigger stream of scandals coming out on a daily basis - Ellison's just not that big a figure in nat'l politics, and he's leaving office, with a chance that he will lose the AG race in November (I would think? although I guess it's too late for Dems to find another candidate so idk)

Οὖτις, Monday, 24 September 2018 22:04 (five years ago) link

XP "Equivalency" isn't the right word, and I shouldn't have used it: They're considering the Kavanaugh allegations as Fake News while fanning the flames against Ellison (which are damning enough in reality) w/genuine fake stuff about him and his accuser.

Ubering With The King (C. Grisso/McCain), Monday, 24 September 2018 22:05 (five years ago) link

couldn't the runner up just replace him? xp

Trϵϵship, Monday, 24 September 2018 22:06 (five years ago) link

BTW...

NYRB publisher statement re Ian Buruma firing over Jian Ghomeshi piece: "We acknowledge our failures in the presentation and editing of his story....We surely had a duty to acknowledge the point of view of the women who complained of Mr. Ghomeshi’s behavior. " pic.twitter.com/tZIWvbHtQ4

— Cara Buckley (@caraNYT) September 24, 2018

“The article was shown to only one male editor. Most members of the staff (including six female members of staff...) were excluded from the substantial editorial process.”

— Cara Buckley (@caraNYT) September 24, 2018

New York Review statement on Jian Ghomeshi piece: "usual editorial practices" not followed; Ghomeshi accusers not asked to comment; aspects of piece misleading; Ian Buruma, the former editor, unfairly represented views of staff; his departure not b/c of "Twitter mob," as he said https://t.co/nDDFg6lPZB

— Isaac Chotiner (@IChotiner) September 24, 2018

Ned Raggett, Monday, 24 September 2018 22:12 (five years ago) link

it's almost as if there's an epidemic of men in positions of privilege and power who are actively working against women's interests and who by the way have no idea how to do their jobs in the first place

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Monday, 24 September 2018 23:27 (five years ago) link

but - SHRILL LAUGH - that would be hyperbolic i'm sure and only some kind of loose cannon leftie would say such a thing

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Monday, 24 September 2018 23:29 (five years ago) link

where you say SHRILL LAUGH I only hear https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:DescenteInfinie.ogg

El Tomboto, Monday, 24 September 2018 23:45 (five years ago) link

it's almost as if there's an epidemic of men in positions of privilege and power who are actively working against women's interests and who by the way have no idea how to do their jobs in the first place


YA THINK??????

maura, Tuesday, 25 September 2018 01:10 (five years ago) link

:)

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Tuesday, 25 September 2018 09:10 (five years ago) link

:(

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Tuesday, 25 September 2018 09:10 (five years ago) link

.

Mark G, Tuesday, 25 September 2018 09:13 (five years ago) link

;_;

how to make it through this week?!

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Tuesday, 25 September 2018 14:25 (five years ago) link

he needs to be investigated and likely step down. this is far worse than Franken's alleged infractions.

― akm, Monday, September 24, 2018 5:49 PM (yesterday) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

fwiw: he is being investigated by the DNC and the local party right now

𝔠𝔞𝔢𝔨 (caek), Tuesday, 25 September 2018 17:27 (five years ago) link

this kavanaugh stuff is really messing with my head

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 25 September 2018 17:53 (five years ago) link

bill cosby has been sentenced to 3-10 years in prison

mookieproof, Tuesday, 25 September 2018 18:15 (five years ago) link

Wow

faculty w1fe (silby), Tuesday, 25 September 2018 18:15 (five years ago) link

His crimes were many and each one was quite serious.

A is for (Aimless), Tuesday, 25 September 2018 18:19 (five years ago) link

This was only one crime. Would that he could be serving more sentences.

Betting Eighty Hams (sic), Tuesday, 25 September 2018 18:27 (five years ago) link

Due to the statute of limitations, he couldn't be tried for his other crimes, but I am sure the large number of accusations against him were on the mind of the judge.

A is for (Aimless), Tuesday, 25 September 2018 18:36 (five years ago) link

this kavanaugh stuff is really messing with my head

― Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, September 25, 2018 12:53 PM (forty-three minutes ago) Bookmark

feel u
the intersection of anita hill/early 90s memories, ^^^ this and regular 2018 life has been extremely difficult for me as well

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Tuesday, 25 September 2018 18:42 (five years ago) link

this has been rolling around in my head over and over and over

Most men have no idea how truly traumatic sexual assault is. The science on the subject is pretty clear: according to the New England Journal of Medicine, rape is about four times more likely to result in diagnosable PTSD than combat.

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2018/sep/21/brett-kavanaugh-blame-women-anita-hill-cosby-weinstein?CMP=share_btn_fb

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Tuesday, 25 September 2018 18:44 (five years ago) link

the high school/college aspect has dislodged a lot of long buried stuff, finding it very hard to not stay home from work & just cower in the fetal position

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 25 September 2018 20:07 (five years ago) link

If proceedings go forward on Thursday, I'd count on it being very, very enraging.

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 25 September 2018 20:09 (five years ago) link

a certain amount of rage might be helpful, but there's going to trigger fear and grief, too

A is for (Aimless), Tuesday, 25 September 2018 20:18 (five years ago) link

there’s no way I’m watching it

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 25 September 2018 20:24 (five years ago) link

i am coping by distracting to the point of going out of my way to avoid further triggers beyond knowing the bare minimum of what is going on
not reading commentary, not listening to analysis on the radio, anything to avoid the further intrusion of intrusive thoughts about sexual assault
VG you are not alone in feeling this way, take care of yourself <3

this is a truly brutal read (CW: graphic SA, including details from Steubenville) but I think everyone should read it if they don't understand how cruel and harmful it is to deny the experience of rape victims
https://longreads.com/2018/09/24/speak-truth-to-power/

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Tuesday, 25 September 2018 20:28 (five years ago) link

thanks for posting that LL - what an incredible piece (brutal yes, but inspiring too)

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 25 September 2018 21:21 (five years ago) link

yes, it ends on an upswing. i felt she was very conscious of her reader throughout. it's one of the things i liked about the way this particular piece was put together. glad it was useful <3

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Tuesday, 25 September 2018 21:28 (five years ago) link

Hi Stephen Elliot, it's me, Lyz. Remember when I was an upaid editor at your magazine and we met at AWP where you invited me up to your room to watch a movie and I declined? But you didn't take no for an answer. You hounded me. I hid under a table. https://t.co/a66u4JmHXW

— lyz lenz (@lyzl) September 25, 2018

mookieproof, Tuesday, 25 September 2018 21:53 (five years ago) link

what is it with these creeps & their long tedious martyrdoms about being “falsely accused” . it’s like they all learn that style somewhere. and the straw polling of everyone they’ve ever dated “did i rape you? no? ok good”

just stop.

oh and fuck off

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 25 September 2018 22:29 (five years ago) link

“did i rape you? no? ok good”

if you have to even ask this question the answer is most likely "yes" in more than instance

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 25 September 2018 22:31 (five years ago) link

exactly

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 25 September 2018 22:32 (five years ago) link

this last tweet from Lenz is great

Every woman you harassed is flourishing and publishing at better outlets than some Nazi smoke screen bullshit site. You played yourself.

— lyz lenz (@lyzl) September 25, 2018

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 25 September 2018 22:32 (five years ago) link

Yeah, there is something about the style. And it's almost like they're in some twisted competition. 'No, I'm going to be the one to write the definitive "Great man brought low by #metoo" piece'

Number None, Tuesday, 25 September 2018 22:34 (five years ago) link

oh and that line about “there’s no support group for the accused”

can you give me one (1) small break

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 25 September 2018 22:41 (five years ago) link

stephen elliott was always a creep and i felt incredibly uncomfortable running into him at literary gatherings, but i worried that it was my own prudishness making me feel that way. going out of your way to make “KINKYYYYYY” your personal brand is a hell of a deflector

maura, Wednesday, 26 September 2018 14:26 (five years ago) link

Harry Shearer: also dipshit

this is probably not news though

If you're designated a "sexually violent predator", does that mean you can't hang around kids and feed them Jell-O any more? #AskingForAFriend

— Harry Shearer (@theharryshearer) September 25, 2018

(thread)

Chuck_Tatum, Wednesday, 26 September 2018 16:04 (five years ago) link

that's just a (not ver good) joke; don't see the real problem there.

akm, Wednesday, 26 September 2018 16:07 (five years ago) link

i hate-read the stephen elliot piece and oh my god i can't believe he was disinvited from a literary panel, that must've been so hard for him

princess of hell (BradNelson), Wednesday, 26 September 2018 16:09 (five years ago) link

there are SO many horror stories about elliot and pretty much all of them echo each other, he's a major piece of shit

princess of hell (BradNelson), Wednesday, 26 September 2018 16:10 (five years ago) link

Becoming increasingly convinced that beyond the cramped/unworkable sentiments of 'why can't this older generation just die off' (which was always lame and reductive) instead I get a real sense of people absolutely unused to accepting or even imagining a world where things could be different. I don't mean in the way that predators will always find an out or an option, but so many around them or around situations or who 'heard stories' and shrugged, or who react to everything talked about with actual confusion. Reminds me, obliquely (I didn't experience this directly but I was around for a couple of examples of this) of when grad/med students have over the last couple of decades essentially protested living/work conditions and older professors or instructors took attitudes of "well I got through it, why can't you?" and/or "but that's the way the world is." Which...isn't helpful. Apply it to a lot of the reaction going on for the past calendar year -- Shearer's lame crack being just another example of it -- and it matches pretty clearly.

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 26 September 2018 16:12 (five years ago) link

this is a good piece related to Kavanaugh but also more largely it fits into this thread as well.

https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2018/09/brett-kavanaugh-allegations-yearbook-male-bonding.html

omar little, Wednesday, 26 September 2018 16:14 (five years ago) link

“no president has ever consulted more widely or talked with more people from more backgrounds to seek input about a Supreme Court nomination.”

really, he should be disqualified just for saying that

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 26 September 2018 16:19 (five years ago) link

that's just a (not ver good) joke; don't see the real problem there.

the thread beneath the first tweet

Chuck_Tatum, Wednesday, 26 September 2018 17:15 (five years ago) link

2 different men volunteering to the Judiciary Committee they think they, not Kavanaugh, were the ones who assaulted Ford. Really. https://t.co/iUIUV0ivV4

— Steven Dennis (@StevenTDennis) September 27, 2018

I... don't even know where to start with this. what the actual fuck

Roz, Thursday, 27 September 2018 03:40 (five years ago) link

like yeah, not one but TWO men would actually come forward to confess to a crime from 1982. that's TOTALLY how bad guys are caught!

Roz, Thursday, 27 September 2018 03:43 (five years ago) link

one thing i really get the sense of over the past couple years is the idea of reinventing the concepts of "justice" from scratch. particularly in this response of "everybody does bad things", which is just flabbergasting misdirection. yes, pretty much all straight men have at some point behaved in a sexually inappropriate manner towards a woman or multiple women, but somehow people, particularly straight men, have such profound difficulty getting the fairly simple concept that instances of wrongdoing can differ in severity. and that's not even getting into the brain-melting concept of forcing a collective notion of "forgiveness" which systemically excludes the victims of assult and abuse. gah. i understand not getting this shit because for most of my life i didn't fucking get it either, but good god how much more obvious does it have to become until enough people accept these basic facts that we can start, you know, addressing them?

dub pilates (rushomancy), Saturday, 29 September 2018 22:00 (five years ago) link

pretty much all straight men have at some point behaved in a sexually inappropriate manner towards a woman or multiple women

I hate this kind of argument - it cant be proven (everyone will have different anecdotal experience), and it’s implication is that male heterosexuality is inherently mysogynistic

Οὖτις, Saturday, 29 September 2018 22:08 (five years ago) link

yeah its shit tbf rly

Dmac TT (darraghmac), Saturday, 29 September 2018 22:18 (five years ago) link

I hate this kind of argument - it cant be proven (everyone will have different anecdotal experience), and it’s implication is that male heterosexuality is inherently mysogynistic

― Οὖτις

well my implication was rather that we live in a society built on male supremacy, not about the alleged inherent nature of male heterosexuality. emphasizing individual experience over the systemic social and cultural factors that drive real-world behavior is what drives exceptionalist bullshit like #notallmen. i consider denial of maleness and of male privilege to be similarly toxic as the denial of whiteness and of white privilege.

dub pilates (rushomancy), Saturday, 29 September 2018 22:46 (five years ago) link

the medal ceremony has been postponed indefinitely fyi

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 29 September 2018 22:51 (five years ago) link

that's ok, i don't get any anyhow, i'm a wookiee

dub pilates (rushomancy), Saturday, 29 September 2018 22:56 (five years ago) link

there's an array of threads on maleness for this tangent

this story about cristiano ronaldo could be huge

http://www.spiegel.de/international/cristiano-ronaldo-kathryn-mayorga-the-woman-who-accuses-ronaldo-of-rape-a-1230634.html

ogmor, Sunday, 30 September 2018 12:04 (five years ago) link

ugh that Ronaldo story. I knew my irrational hatred of this guy was justified.

Roz, Sunday, 30 September 2018 15:06 (five years ago) link

Thread on the CR7 story:

This is a thread about the rape allegations vs. @Cristiano: About our research @derSpiegel, about Ronaldo's reaction and a little insight into why the alleged victim Kathryn Mayorga speaks out about the case nine years later. This is the story btw: https://t.co/fwv26PhCSx 1/24

— Christoph Winterbach (@derWinterbach) September 30, 2018

groovypanda, Monday, 1 October 2018 11:29 (five years ago) link

anyone know why this story is in the sun and not the guardian?

ogmor, Monday, 1 October 2018 14:32 (five years ago) link

There was some talk on Twitter that his lawyers have come down pretty heavily on the British media with warnings over how they report this.

Not sure how much truth there is in that although that thread does mention something similar.

groovypanda, Monday, 1 October 2018 16:32 (five years ago) link

This br4d k3rn fella looks like a MF w/ some dark secrets

https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/live-feed/ncis-new-orleans-producer-brad-kern-fired-by-cbs-1148613

piscesx, Tuesday, 2 October 2018 21:53 (five years ago) link

there's an array of threads on maleness for this tangent

this story about cristiano ronaldo could be huge

http://www.spiegel.de/international/cristiano-ronaldo-kathryn-mayorga-the-woman-who-accuses-ronaldo-of-rape-a-1230634.html

― ogmor, Sunday, September 30, 2018 5:04 AM (three days ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

really trivial amount of coverage of this in sports press as far as i can see - i.e. covered broadly enough but not as a big headline anywhere

( ͡☉ ͜ʖ ͡☉) (jim in vancouver), Wednesday, 3 October 2018 18:38 (five years ago) link

i think most Americans at least only know him as the douche in that stupid underwear commercial where he is sexually harassed

Nhex, Wednesday, 3 October 2018 20:10 (five years ago) link

less coverage in north america, which is about the only place he isn't an A list star, is justified. not so much in europe

( ͡☉ ͜ʖ ͡☉) (jim in vancouver), Wednesday, 3 October 2018 20:15 (five years ago) link

So I guess it's too late now to consider the bottle-opener possibilities.

https://demandnewspaper.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/serie-a---juventus-v-u-s-sassuolo-2.jpg

how's life, Wednesday, 3 October 2018 20:46 (five years ago) link

The replies to this are predictably depressing

Whatever the legal outcome, this is awful from Juventus: pic.twitter.com/3ZDNkscTdx

— Gary Lineker (@GaryLineker) October 5, 2018

groovypanda, Friday, 5 October 2018 11:00 (five years ago) link

aziz ansari can still fuck off btw. remember when he was pitching himself as mr. guy who gets it

https://www.newyorker.com/culture/culture-desk/aziz-ansaris-new-standup-tour-is-a-cry-against-extreme-wokeness

also master of none was overrated rich kid wank

maura, Saturday, 6 October 2018 14:08 (five years ago) link

Master of none sucks and is gross

valet doberman (Jon not Jon), Saturday, 6 October 2018 14:21 (five years ago) link

Not that anyone cares about poetry but this #MeToo issue of the Chicago Review brings together some of the best poétesses writing in English: http://chicagoreview.org/metoo/

pomenitul, Saturday, 6 October 2018 14:52 (five years ago) link

“poetesses”

seriously dude?

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 6 October 2018 15:25 (five years ago) link

Thinking in French, sorry. I dislike the constant use of 'female' in English.

pomenitul, Saturday, 6 October 2018 15:26 (five years ago) link

just say poet like a human then

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 6 October 2018 15:27 (five years ago) link

But they're all women – and that's part of the point? I'm confused.

pomenitul, Saturday, 6 October 2018 15:28 (five years ago) link

forget it

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 6 October 2018 15:32 (five years ago) link

Women poets would be the preferred nomenclature

( ͡☉ ͜ʖ ͡☉) (jim in vancouver), Saturday, 6 October 2018 15:44 (five years ago) link

I realise that 'poétesse' sounds odd to native English speakers. For what it's worth, I find both 'female poet' and 'woman poet' to be even odder, perhaps because I often parse them as 'a woman who happens to be a poet', whereas the French variant strikes me as 'a poet who happens to be a woman'. Anyhow, my apologies if I offended anyone.

pomenitul, Saturday, 6 October 2018 15:53 (five years ago) link

Master of None was good, it's disappointing he's on this trip now. Maybe all the credit for the show belongs to Alan Wang.

akm, Saturday, 6 October 2018 17:34 (five years ago) link

the correct term for girl poet is 'poetette'

akm, Saturday, 6 October 2018 17:38 (five years ago) link

poette

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 6 October 2018 17:51 (five years ago) link

Perfect.

pomenitul, Saturday, 6 October 2018 17:54 (five years ago) link

The whole “Louie/Master of None/Atlanta” breathless praise about middlebrow TV *auteurs* reminds me of living through Arcade Fire/Decemberists

5th Ward Weeaboo (Whiney G. Weingarten), Saturday, 6 October 2018 18:41 (five years ago) link

i feel like it's easy to fake out people and turn your perfectly decent and average show a bit prestige with the right presentation and "authorship" at the center

omar little, Saturday, 6 October 2018 18:47 (five years ago) link

pomenitul most English speakers who don’t like saying “female X” because of how it sounds will say “woman X” if it needs to be made obvious these days. Female-declined nouns are deprecated in most circumstances. Women actors are just “actors” outside of Oscar categories for the most part; hardly anybody would ever say poetess or comedienne or the like unless they were being ironic. The only exception I can think of is “dominatrix”, because nobody calls a male dom a “dominator”

I have measured out my life in coffee shop loyalty cards (silby), Saturday, 6 October 2018 18:49 (five years ago) link

it's dominatron, you worm

j., Saturday, 6 October 2018 18:54 (five years ago) link

Sorry sir

I have measured out my life in coffee shop loyalty cards (silby), Saturday, 6 October 2018 18:54 (five years ago) link

god forbid speaking more than language and confusing the two

groovemaaan, Saturday, 6 October 2018 18:56 (five years ago) link

silby, I get that (see my thought-process above), except for the 'actor' part – I wasn't aware of the backlash against 'actress'. What I don't understand is how in France, for example, you're taught to avoid emphasising what distinguishes you from the Archetypal Faceless French Citizen yet the language itself almost always compels you to specify the subject's gender (except for certain hotly debated instances, such as auteur or écrivain). Whereas in the US, where identity politics is far more prevalent (to say the least), linguistic neutrality is often preferred, even recommended. This is a highly simplified view, of course. Anyway, the two countries should trade languages for a day just to see what happens.

pomenitul, Saturday, 6 October 2018 19:32 (five years ago) link

The whole “Louie/Master of None/Atlanta” breathless praise about middlebrow TV *auteurs* reminds me of living through Arcade Fire/Decemberists


otm x 100000000000

maura, Saturday, 6 October 2018 19:38 (five years ago) link

tbf, everything reminds him of that

mookieproof, Saturday, 6 October 2018 19:42 (five years ago) link

he’s not wrong in this case though

maura, Saturday, 6 October 2018 19:44 (five years ago) link

tru

mookieproof, Saturday, 6 October 2018 19:45 (five years ago) link

The whole “Louie/Master of None" breathless praise about middlebrow TV *auteurs* reminds me of living through Arcade Fire/Decemberists

fixed

montoya (Ross), Saturday, 6 October 2018 19:53 (five years ago) link

I guess when your language doesn't come with binary grammatical genders, it's easier to conceive of 'poet' as inherently neutral, whereas if you argue that 'poète' is potentially neutral, it's still hard to get past the fact that the grammatical neuter is merely vestigial in modern French (it's essentially indistinguishable from the masculine). If anything, reactionary old coots who hide behind the Académie française to justify their misogyny love bringing up the so-called 'neuter'. So while you can indeed argue that describing a woman poet as a 'poète' is progressive, there's still no reason why you shouldn't be allowed to say 'une poétesse', since 'poète' already forces you to pick between 'un' and 'une' (unless, once again, you assume the masculine and the neuter are one and the same, which is problematic, at least in a French context). English doesn't really have to deal with these dilemmas so it's easier to just subsume it all into neutrality.

xps

pomenitul, Saturday, 6 October 2018 19:59 (five years ago) link

Also I've never watched Master of None but I agree that Arcade Fire and the Decemberists are (were?) overrated af.

pomenitul, Saturday, 6 October 2018 20:00 (five years ago) link

I think Louie was important in terms of how it opened up possibilities for TV production models (everything on scale, shot on the cheap, no writer's room to speak of) but in the long run, I think other people will make more durable work with a similar model. (Atlanta is closest I think, though it's more collaborative. )

wayne trotsky (Simon H.), Saturday, 6 October 2018 20:28 (five years ago) link

Also it’s rock bands that don’t rock vs comedy shows that aren’t funny

(maybe Atlanta is funny, I’ve never seen it)

5th Ward Weeaboo (Whiney G. Weingarten), Saturday, 6 October 2018 20:40 (five years ago) link

Also, don’t get me wrong, Louie obviously had some hilarious parts but it wasn’t always 22 minutes of comedy like Seinfeld or 30 Rock or w/e

5th Ward Weeaboo (Whiney G. Weingarten), Saturday, 6 October 2018 20:42 (five years ago) link

(continuous thread-derailing comment redacted)

wayne trotsky (Simon H.), Saturday, 6 October 2018 20:46 (five years ago) link

Atlanta doesn’t deserve to be lumped in with the Decemberists

Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Saturday, 6 October 2018 21:01 (five years ago) link

yeah I didn't get Whiney's lumping Atlanta into this pile until

(maybe Atlanta is funny, I’ve never seen it)

Shy Betting Mega Hit (sic), Saturday, 6 October 2018 21:09 (five years ago) link

Atlanta is absolutely in the Louie continuum, whatever you think about their respective quality

Number None, Saturday, 6 October 2018 21:16 (five years ago) link

middlebrow tho

Shy Betting Mega Hit (sic), Saturday, 6 October 2018 21:25 (five years ago) link

people we need to spend the next week discussing whether or not atlanta is (a) funny and/or (b) middlebrow, and also whether it's ok to make those blanket judgments without having seen the show, and WE NEED TO DO IT IN THIS THREAD.

dub pilates (rushomancy), Saturday, 6 October 2018 22:04 (five years ago) link

Louie and Master of None are 'auteurs' making things about themselves, the continuation of Woody Allen - Atlanta is not in that continuum.

louise ck (milo z), Saturday, 6 October 2018 22:07 (five years ago) link

atlanta is in a completely different league to those other things, we done here?

illegal economic migration (Tracer Hand), Saturday, 6 October 2018 23:00 (five years ago) link

Coincidentally right after reading this "poetess" debate I saw a movie in which a minor character was listed in the credits as "clerkess".

Hans Holbein (Chinchilla Volapük), Sunday, 7 October 2018 08:21 (five years ago) link

a haon, a dó

Andrew Farrell, Sunday, 7 October 2018 08:51 (five years ago) link

Yeah, 'clerkess' definitely sounds weird, though I kind of like it because a clerk was initially a member of the clergy (hence the doublet 'cleric'), i.e. male by default.

As a side note, the current mayor of Montreal, Valérie Plante, ran campaign ads in which she referred to herself as a 'mairesse' (mayoress). As a general rule, Québécois French is far more willing to feminise job titles than its European counterparts, which is quite telling insofar as Quebec society tends to be more openly feminist as well. With all this in mind, perhaps there should be room to rehabilitate or reclaim terms such as 'poetess' in English (a quick bit of Google-digging reveals that this is already underway in some circles).

pomenitul, Sunday, 7 October 2018 09:24 (five years ago) link

Unsurprisingly the Cristiano Ronaldo case has made the Portuguese corners of my facebook timeline hellholes of shit opinions.

Daniel_Rf, Sunday, 7 October 2018 09:45 (five years ago) link

considering that his quillette piece was almost immediately followed by numerous women on twitter citing specific instances of his creepiness... this lawsuit is going to have a hell of a discovery phase

maura, Thursday, 11 October 2018 21:23 (five years ago) link

yeah, if anything he seemed like one of the most open-and-shut-case assholes on the list

Chuck_Tatum, Thursday, 11 October 2018 21:33 (five years ago) link

talked with writers recently who know/knew that guy and they said he's a fucking giant asshole douchebag

akm, Friday, 12 October 2018 01:39 (five years ago) link

he's certainly doing his best to give that impression

I have measured out my life in coffee shop loyalty cards (silby), Friday, 12 October 2018 01:51 (five years ago) link

lol this was published two years before the list

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/DpQiMq6VAAAquKx.jpg

now it seems to be more a question of who exactly is financially backing the lawyer involved

mookieproof, Friday, 12 October 2018 02:43 (five years ago) link

What 5 Shitty Media Men Think of Stephen Elliott’s Lawsuit

https://www.thecut.com/2018/10/stephen-elliott-moira-donegan-men-respond.html

just1n3, Friday, 12 October 2018 04:15 (five years ago) link

he’s a creep who hides it in “sex positivity.” he made my skin crawl

i wonder who’s funding this. quillette apparently has tech asshole money so...

maura, Friday, 12 October 2018 12:32 (five years ago) link

where is that excerpt above from?

akm, Friday, 12 October 2018 14:47 (five years ago) link

this
https://tinhouse.com/on-pandering/

maura, Friday, 12 October 2018 14:47 (five years ago) link

shit. We should all make and circulate a shitty men in media list V2 and have only his name on it.

Yerac, Friday, 12 October 2018 14:58 (five years ago) link

make it a blockchain ledger instead of a text file, use it as a basis for cryptocurrency, and really give tech bros fits

the girl from spirea x (f. hazel), Friday, 12 October 2018 17:40 (five years ago) link

^that is brilliant and shall remain so, even if it is no more than a latent potential of the universe

A is for (Aimless), Friday, 12 October 2018 18:04 (five years ago) link

douchecoin

Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Friday, 12 October 2018 19:01 (five years ago) link

I think we have a winning idea right there.

Yerac, Friday, 12 October 2018 19:14 (five years ago) link

will no-one think of louis' bank balance

Louis C.K. is using the stand-up stage to open up about his controversial year.

During a stand-up set last week, the comedian, 51, reportedly addressed the multiple sexual misconduct allegations that have been made against him.

While performing at West Side Comedy Club in New York City, the Louie star opened his set with “It’s been a weird year,” according to Laughspin.com, an online comedy news site.

“He said he’s been to hell and back,” a comedian on the line-up told the website.

He also addressed both the public and professional backlash he faced in the wake of the allegations. FX severed ties with C.K., whose shows Louie and Better Things aired on the network, after the scandal broke. C.K. was dropped by all his reps, too, while Netflix canceled an upcoming stand-up special and HBO cut all of his content from its library. Orchard also canceled the release of his film I Love You, Daddy — though C.K. bought the rights to the title back.

“I lost $35 million in an hour,” he reportedly said during the set.

himalayan mountain hole (bizarro gazzara), Tuesday, 16 October 2018 14:29 (five years ago) link

I think about it and it fills me with joy.

Yerac, Tuesday, 16 October 2018 14:32 (five years ago) link

same tbh

himalayan mountain hole (bizarro gazzara), Tuesday, 16 October 2018 14:34 (five years ago) link

yup

maura, Tuesday, 16 October 2018 14:45 (five years ago) link

I fixed it. pic.twitter.com/N0u0h4yYPz

— Nooruddean (@BeardedGenius) October 15, 2018

𝔠𝔞𝔢𝔨 (caek), Tuesday, 16 October 2018 15:31 (five years ago) link

Get outta there, Lincoln!

the girl from spirea x (f. hazel), Tuesday, 16 October 2018 15:32 (five years ago) link

lol lincoln. who are middle/right front and the guy in the back left corner?

Nhex, Tuesday, 16 October 2018 17:02 (five years ago) link

terry richardson is on the right in profile

flappy bird, Tuesday, 16 October 2018 17:02 (five years ago) link

back left is Louis CK

akm, Tuesday, 16 October 2018 17:06 (five years ago) link

oops i meant back right

Nhex, Tuesday, 16 October 2018 17:07 (five years ago) link

that is still calvin coolidge

mookieproof, Tuesday, 16 October 2018 19:59 (five years ago) link

Missed Les Moonves opportunity there

... (Eazy), Tuesday, 16 October 2018 20:15 (five years ago) link

Don't be evil

https://www.nytimes.com/2018/10/25/technology/google-sexual-harassment-andy-rubin.html

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 25 October 2018 17:23 (five years ago) link

did something happen re: Sarah Silverman and Louie CK? my wife said there were twitter rumblings about her defending him or something

Οὖτις, Thursday, 25 October 2018 17:24 (five years ago) link

explicitly not defending, after saying when they were 19 and he asked to wank in front of her sometimes she said "sure" and sometimes she said "no" and they would go and get pizza

She Bang My Tight Tie (sic), Thursday, 25 October 2018 17:42 (five years ago) link

she went on Howard and said she let Louis jerk off in front of her sometimes and sometimes told him to fuck off and it was never a big deal because they were on equal footing or something and he couldn't offer her anything. then one of the accusers tweeted at SS that she was also an equal/Louis had nothing to offer her and that doesn't excuse it (not that SS ever said that). then SS apologized. so, nothing

flappy bird, Thursday, 25 October 2018 17:43 (five years ago) link

she's known him since they were 19?! huh

Οὖτις, Thursday, 25 October 2018 17:44 (five years ago) link

they were both standups in their teens, he's a couple of years older

to the other victim's tweet: she had said she knows that as soon as there was a power differential btwn him and the women that it was wrong, but her experience was different and she doesn't want to not consider him the friend of thirty years standing

She Bang My Tight Tie (sic), Thursday, 25 October 2018 17:47 (five years ago) link

Why would that imbalance even be a thing?

I get that they were 'friends-plus' so fine.

But if LCK was in the presence of Margaret Thatcher, or some young intern, which one would be more indefensible? "Hey, would you mind if I....?"

Mark G, Thursday, 25 October 2018 18:16 (five years ago) link

who wouldn't wank in front of Thatcher, TBH

akm, Thursday, 25 October 2018 18:22 (five years ago) link

But if LCK was in the presence of Margaret Thatcher, or some young intern, which one would be more indefensible?

the young intern. hope this helps

She Bang My Tight Tie (sic), Thursday, 25 October 2018 18:24 (five years ago) link

I get that they were 'friends-plus' so fine.

also being friendly with people you work with doesn't mean it's automatically cool to jack your tiny dick in front of them

She Bang My Tight Tie (sic), Thursday, 25 October 2018 18:26 (five years ago) link

I just can't fathom the mentality that would lead to asking a friend if it was okay to jerk off in front of them (regardless of gender, orientation or power dynamic), I mean just... waht

Οὖτις, Thursday, 25 October 2018 18:27 (five years ago) link

I mean I'd prefer to be asked

I have measured out my life in coffee shop loyalty cards (silby), Thursday, 25 October 2018 18:33 (five years ago) link

i do not wish to see my friends do this under any circumstances
there, now it is on the record

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 25 October 2018 18:36 (five years ago) link

that burning man bit in the google story seared my eyeballs

maura, Thursday, 25 October 2018 20:07 (five years ago) link

props to the woman for bringing her mom though

maura, Thursday, 25 October 2018 20:07 (five years ago) link

also, important that, if you are going to wank in a room with a baby, that you also ask first.

akm, Thursday, 25 October 2018 20:19 (five years ago) link

famous writer Steven Galloway is suing various people who tweeted etc their support for his accusers

https://nationalpost.com/news/canada/christie-blatchford-fired-ubc-professor-steven-galloway-suing-woman-who-accused-him-of-sexual-assault

canada's defamation laws are Not Good for accusers

sean gramophone, Monday, 29 October 2018 18:43 (five years ago) link

^^^ i think i mentioned it itt already but this just happened to a bunch of friends of mine in the comics industry - the piece of shit in question sued them all for libel and also sued the women who accused him. seeking something like 22 million in damages for lost work opportunities due to the damage to his reputation (nb he is basically a zine publisher)

(this is in the us btw)

valet doberman (Jon not Jon), Monday, 29 October 2018 20:30 (five years ago) link

four weeks pass...

big multi-part Jeffrey Epstein story in the Miami Herald today

https://www.miamiherald.com/news/local/article220097825.html

resident hack (Simon H.), Wednesday, 28 November 2018 15:57 (five years ago) link

god that's hard to stomach.

( ͡☉ ͜ʖ ͡☉) (jim in vancouver), Wednesday, 28 November 2018 17:18 (five years ago) link

cool that half the U.S. presidents of the last 25 years are personal friends with that guy

( ͡☉ ͜ʖ ͡☉) (jim in vancouver), Wednesday, 28 November 2018 17:19 (five years ago) link

Another one that's way overdue for a reckoning.

resident hack (Simon H.), Wednesday, 28 November 2018 19:30 (five years ago) link

French though, so .... no consequences?

Nhex, Wednesday, 28 November 2018 20:10 (five years ago) link

yup

( ͡☉ ͜ʖ ͡☉) (jim in vancouver), Wednesday, 28 November 2018 20:14 (five years ago) link

might have some trouble getting co-productions funded down the line, but yeah, p much

resident hack (Simon H.), Wednesday, 28 November 2018 20:15 (five years ago) link

On part 2 of Epstein saga
Fuckin...
Earth is hell. I don’t think there can be any debate on that point.

valet doberman (Jon not Jon), Thursday, 29 November 2018 00:12 (five years ago) link

Two More Women Accuse Neil deGrasse Tyson of Sexual Misconduct

Elvis Telecom, Friday, 30 November 2018 21:46 (five years ago) link

that took a while to crop up again

I have measured out my life in coffee shop loyalty cards (silby), Friday, 30 November 2018 21:54 (five years ago) link

http://www.dailywire.com/news/22912/former-grad-student-accuses-neil-de-grasse-tyson-emily-zanotti

― j., Wednesday, November 1, 2017 8:13 PM (yesterday) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

yep.

― 𝔠𝔞𝔢𝔨 (caek), Thursday, November 2, 2017 2:01 PM (one year ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

I have measured out my life in coffee shop loyalty cards (silby), Friday, 30 November 2018 22:06 (five years ago) link

“he kept a list of overweight actresses on his phone to prove that women aren’t inhibited by portrayals in the media when it comes to health and fitness”

A piercing intellect.

chinavision!, Saturday, 1 December 2018 13:42 (five years ago) link

If it wasn't clear last week, it is now: CBS won't be paying Les Moonves another penny. NYT has draft of lawyers' report, with unpleasant details. https://t.co/vB643tN1Ja pic.twitter.com/RyQCMc5Czb

— Peter Kafka (@pkafka) December 5, 2018

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 5 December 2018 02:03 (five years ago) link

Investigators wrote that they had received “multiple reports” about a network employee who was “on call” to perform oral sex on Mr. Moonves. https://t.co/OcowEa4WmH

— Sam Dolnick (@samdolnick) December 5, 2018

THREE new stories about Les Moonves and CBS from the @nytimes tonight:

-- Lawyers hired by CBS say Moonves "destroyed evidence and misled investigators" https://t.co/qfhHN08ITK
-- Top takeaways: https://t.co/iwHsDyeVZ4
-- New @JamesStewartNYT column: https://t.co/6HZRjTZN0I

— Brian Stelter (@brianstelter) December 5, 2018

I Never Promised You A Hose Harden (Eric H.), Wednesday, 5 December 2018 02:30 (five years ago) link

Signs you might not be collecting your full severance package:

1. your lawyer has to make a statement on your behalf to the effect that you “never put or kept someone on the payroll for the purpose of sex.”

Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Wednesday, 5 December 2018 04:56 (five years ago) link

Sounds carefully phrased

I have measured out my life in coffee shop loyalty cards (silby), Wednesday, 5 December 2018 05:17 (five years ago) link

https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/azeenghorayshi/neil-degrasse-tyson-sexual-allegations-four-women

A spokesperson for the American Museum of Natural History in New York City, where Tyson has led the Hayden Planetarium for over 20 years, said that it has never received a complaint about him, but was also looking into the allegations.


🤔

𝔠𝔞𝔢𝔨 (caek), Thursday, 6 December 2018 07:07 (five years ago) link

lena dunham has taken to the pages of the hollywood reporter to talk about her response to the girls writer being accused of rape and folks, it is not good

When someone I knew, someone I had loved as a brother, was accused, I did something inexcusable: I publicly spoke up in his defense. There are few acts I could ever regret more in this life. I didn't have the "insider information" I claimed but rather blind faith in a story that kept slipping and changing and revealed itself to mean nothing at all. I wanted to feel my workplace and my world were safe, untouched by the outside world (a privilege in and of itself, the privilege of ignoring what hasn't hurt you) and I claimed that safety at cost to someone else, someone very special.

To Aurora: You have been on my mind and in my heart every day this year. I love you. I will always love you. I will always work to right that wrong. In that way, you have made me a better woman and a better feminist.

We're in 2009—it's time to take risks, (bizarro gazzara), Thursday, 6 December 2018 14:43 (five years ago) link

a public apology is not an apology

flappy bird, Thursday, 6 December 2018 16:22 (five years ago) link

she’s such an ass

maura, Thursday, 6 December 2018 17:11 (five years ago) link

turning it into another chapter in The Life of Lena.

omar little, Thursday, 6 December 2018 17:17 (five years ago) link

I'd go as far as to say she's not really a feminist, as that would require not being a blinkered narcissist

Οὖτις, Friday, 7 December 2018 00:00 (five years ago) link

.... necessarily so?

puppy bash (darraghmac), Friday, 7 December 2018 00:21 (five years ago) link

yeah. a blinkered narcissist can repeat feminist nostrums ad infinitum, but it would have about as much meaning as if they were singing the alphabet. the moment any of it came into conflict with their convenience, it would be instantly pitched overboard.

A is for (Aimless), Friday, 7 December 2018 01:44 (five years ago) link

Aurora suffered for our SINS

Ludo, Friday, 7 December 2018 07:50 (five years ago) link

Assumed this revive would be for Yael Stone/Geoffrey Rush.

resident hack (Simon H.), Monday, 17 December 2018 16:46 (five years ago) link

"Open and thoughtful, Engelhardt unspools a life story that took root in a strict German immigrant household and blossomed into a Zelig-esque series of adventures as she attempted to break into modeling: partying with Iman, jet-setting with Adnan Khashoggi, dining with Stephen King, working as a personal assistant to Jeffrey Epstein, the billionaire financier later convicted for soliciting an underage girl. Following her time with Allen, she went on to become a platonic muse to Federico Fellini during the auteur's late-life journeys in Rome and Tulum, Mexico, then spent years tending to egos as a hostess in the executive dining room at Paramount before landing her current gig, working as an assistant for producer Bob Evans. What's made her attractive to these powerful men, both personally and professionally, she posits, is in part what Allen appreciated in the first place: "I was pretty enough, I was smart enough, I was nonconfrontational, I was non-judgmental, I was discreet, and nothing shocks me."

maura, Monday, 17 December 2018 16:46 (five years ago) link

Jeffrey Epstein is rarely far from these stories huh (xp!!!)

resident hack (Simon H.), Monday, 17 December 2018 16:47 (five years ago) link

seriously. so gross

maura, Monday, 17 December 2018 16:49 (five years ago) link

i have to read the yael stone piece. the times one was written by bari weiss ugh

maura, Monday, 17 December 2018 16:49 (five years ago) link

I mean, Bananas?!

j., Monday, 17 December 2018 17:11 (five years ago) link

the fact that a 21st century Joe Penny like Michael Weatherly would be allowed to talk like that to Eliza Dushku says quite a bit about the continuing power dynamics of Hollywood.

omar little, Thursday, 20 December 2018 00:12 (five years ago) link

i blame old people and their terrible love for NCIS

Nhex, Thursday, 20 December 2018 18:44 (five years ago) link

I've been reading those pieces with a sense that something was different, without being able to put my finger on it. But I figured out what it is: The villains in the story are portrayed as being pitiful, sad and stupid. Weatherly doesn't really seem dangerous, nor does CBS, they seem utterly clueless and pathetic. And of course still misogynistic as fuck. This does actually seem like an important next step in the #MeToo movement. It portrays the mens club at CBS as behind the times, instead of just being the norm.

Frederik B, Thursday, 20 December 2018 23:30 (five years ago) link

perhaps you're right. although, it might be because Weatherly seems like such an obvious douche from his normal onscreen persona it's easy to imagine he's like at in real life, and he's a B-list star to boot. with Moonves, he still seems like a powerful, awful creep like the others.

Nhex, Friday, 21 December 2018 09:16 (five years ago) link

jesus christ he tweeted a video in character, what a colossal, delusional prick

I have measured out my life in coffee shop loyalty cards (silby), Monday, 24 December 2018 21:12 (five years ago) link

jesus

( ͡☉ ͜ʖ ͡☉) (jim in vancouver), Monday, 24 December 2018 21:17 (five years ago) link

That video is so weirdly Alex Jones-y.

... (Eazy), Tuesday, 25 December 2018 01:17 (five years ago) link

weeeird

jmm, Tuesday, 25 December 2018 01:40 (five years ago) link

"Like I ever played by anyone's rules before. I never did, and you loved it."

Nobody told him that maybe he shouldn't say that?

jmm, Tuesday, 25 December 2018 01:43 (five years ago) link

it's like he decided to give a version of the Nicholson speech in A Few Good Men but forgot that the speech just made it worse

omar little, Tuesday, 25 December 2018 01:48 (five years ago) link

i just realized kevin spacey tried to grade his video like fincher would rofl

— cd (@CDWritten) December 25, 2018

resident hack (Simon H.), Tuesday, 25 December 2018 02:22 (five years ago) link

I wonder if he monetized his youtube for his legal fund.

Yerac, Tuesday, 25 December 2018 03:02 (five years ago) link

or his presidential campaign

Roz, Tuesday, 25 December 2018 05:47 (five years ago) link

Guys no one makes money off of YouTube anymore except racist gamers

resident hack (Simon H.), Tuesday, 25 December 2018 05:49 (five years ago) link

the double down / galaxy brain approach taken by CK, Harvey, and now, once again, by Kevin "I identify as a gay man" Spacey

flappy bird, Tuesday, 25 December 2018 05:54 (five years ago) link

KEVIN SPACEY: and you’re sure this will help
DIRECTOR WHO LOOKS A LOT LIKE THE DISTRICT ATTORNEY WITH A FAKE MUSTACHE: absolutely. for sure

— KT NELSON (@KrangTNelson) December 24, 2018

resident hack (Simon H.), Tuesday, 25 December 2018 05:59 (five years ago) link

four weeks pass...

“Underage men”??

just1n3, Wednesday, 23 January 2019 16:08 (five years ago) link

y’know, adult boys

“I'm the sexy gorilla and I'm going to hell“ (bizarro gazzara), Wednesday, 23 January 2019 16:11 (five years ago) link

Statement from reporters Maximillian Potter and Alex French on investigation of Bryan Singer published in @TheAtlantic: pic.twitter.com/iouvNZGQtz

— The Atlantic Communications (@TheAtlanticPR) January 23, 2019

resident hack (Simon H.), Wednesday, 23 January 2019 18:39 (five years ago) link

https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2019/03/bryan-singers-accusers-speak-out/

― Number None, Wednesday, January 23, 2019 6:42 AM (three hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

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( ͡☉ ͜ʖ ͡☉) (jim in vancouver), Wednesday, 23 January 2019 18:40 (five years ago) link

This is notable.

Statement from reporters Maximillian Potter and Alex French on investigation of Bryan Singer published in @TheAtlantic: pic.twitter.com/iouvNZGQtz

— The Atlantic Communications (@TheAtlanticPR) January 23, 2019

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 23 January 2019 18:44 (five years ago) link

Whoops, sorry, already posted above!

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 23 January 2019 18:45 (five years ago) link

i want this story to get real, longlasting traction so badly. not just Singer, but the whole ring. drag them into the light like cockroaches. they’ve skated by for SO long undermining the believability of their victims.

not to get all red stringed out here but it makes me crazy that Singer’s still getting awards & kids like Brad Renfro who were in his circle die by their own hand & this sex ring just keeps right on being the worst-kept secret for the last, what, 30 years?

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 24 January 2019 03:02 (five years ago) link

i get how easily this could/can devolve into gay panic & homophobia...but i also think this kind of extreme coordinated predatory behavior has to be called out and ~believed~

honestly my hope is that ppl with more clout can back up the named victims & come forward to support them & get some kind of justice

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 24 January 2019 03:15 (five years ago) link

There were active rumors about Singer going around when I first moved to L.A. twenty (fucking Christ) years ago. not like Apt Pupil stuff but a lot of stuff like this. Parties and drugs and rape.

But to me when I read the Apt Pupil stories at the time even from the far outside they sounded very credible and creepy in a way that other stories didn’t but they never gained traction bc by he was a hot new director and also the ones coming out with the stories being even more powerless than the ones coming out with stories now.

It should also be noted that Singer is not especially talented, his films are mostly extremely boring to look at and staged unimaginatively and whatever good qualities they have I’m not willing to give him much credit for. I think Usual Suspects was mediocre but the good bits were McQuarrie-related, X2 was good despite him, X1 could have been better if not for him. And yet this very boring filmmaker kept getting work despite the rumors.

omar little, Thursday, 24 January 2019 03:56 (five years ago) link

the whole ~concept~ of DEN, let alone the backgrounds of the players involved is bananas when you see it all laid out ...ffs they should have just called it the Red Flag Network
and it just goes along under everyone’s noses

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 24 January 2019 04:21 (five years ago) link

The entertainment industry is such a cesspit that everyone who deals with this guy in the business absolutely knows all this. That's before getting into all the other industry figures attending these parties.

( ͡☉ ͜ʖ ͡☉) (jim in vancouver), Thursday, 24 January 2019 05:24 (five years ago) link

got nothing to add except I was young in LA 20 years ago and what omar said. and every time something singer-related comes out it's like yup. but then he just keeps on getting gigs. this is the thing about open secrets.

this is beyond OTM and has always been baffling. he's not especially gifted and comes with baggage... and yet:

It should also be noted that Singer is not especially talented, his films are mostly extremely boring to look at and staged unimaginatively and whatever good qualities they have I’m not willing to give him much credit for. I think Usual Suspects was mediocre but the good bits were McQuarrie-related, X2 was good despite him, X1 could have been better if not for him. And yet this very boring filmmaker kept getting work despite the rumors.

Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Thursday, 24 January 2019 05:54 (five years ago) link

money is your answer there.

Ludo, Thursday, 24 January 2019 07:47 (five years ago) link

It's heart breaking and infuriating reading the article. Shed a tear for Renfro. :-( And all the other victims.

nathom, Thursday, 24 January 2019 10:11 (five years ago) link

Snider’s concerns weren’t about sexual-abuse allegations. As far as she knew, there had been only one case against Singer—Michael Egan’s—and it had been dismissed.

Money money money money

jmm, Thursday, 24 January 2019 14:09 (five years ago) link

money is your answer there.

― Ludo, Wednesday, January 23, 2019

not following this at all tbh. like, he works cheap? or is known to deliver projects under budget?

Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Thursday, 24 January 2019 16:58 (five years ago) link

apparently in Hollywood there's a shortage of non-creeps who can direct movies, and that's why we keep getting the same douche bags

Nhex, Thursday, 24 January 2019 16:59 (five years ago) link

i know it will likely never, ever happen, but just one time I want someone who has multiple serious allegations against him, just fucking apologize directly for their actions and take the fucking punishment. This repeated revictimizing of victims by 100% denying everything is so messed up.

Yerac, Thursday, 24 January 2019 17:01 (five years ago) link

the worst is when i hear them claim that the sex was consensual
it really is traumatizing

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 24 January 2019 18:16 (five years ago) link

Xpost if they would, they wldnt mean it. Bec these assholes think they arent doing anything "wrong."

nathom, Thursday, 24 January 2019 18:22 (five years ago) link

i really believe they know they are doing something wrong and they cover up for each other and themselves since the dawn of time
they know they're doing something wrong and they don't care

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 24 January 2019 18:30 (five years ago) link

i know this is corny but another reason to hope this gets traction for me personally would also be to see some vindication for Corey Feldman, who’s been trying to get attention on the broader sex ring issue since Corey Haim died (maybe even before then too iirc)

i mean i ~know~ he’s nutty as a fruitcake now but his commitment to this cause obv comes from a very sincere & clearly painful place

Squeaky Fromage (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 24 January 2019 21:00 (five years ago) link

Hoping Ronan Farrow will follow up with a reveal on who has been delivering the threats described at the article's end (as he did with Weinstein).

... (Eazy), Thursday, 24 January 2019 21:45 (five years ago) link

avi lerner, the piece of shit who himself has been accused of sexual harassment and tried to threaten terry crews when he spoke out

( ͡☉ ͜ʖ ͡☉) (jim in vancouver), Thursday, 24 January 2019 23:48 (five years ago) link

Pretty depressed that some of the most monstrous people called to account for being sexual predators are fellow Jews. Not sure what to do with that feeling.

Norm’s Superego (silby), Thursday, 24 January 2019 23:56 (five years ago) link

not following this at all tbh. like, he works cheap? or is known to deliver projects under budget?

not so much that he works cheap, but rather that his films make lots and lots and lots of money for the studios. agree that he's a mediocre filmmaker, but he does know how to draw in moviegoers.

That Avi Lerner quote says it all: “The over $800 million Bohemian Rhapsody has grossed, making it the highest grossing drama in film history, is testament to his remarkable vision and acumen,” he continued. “I know the difference between agenda driven fake news and reality, and I am very comfortable with this decision. In America people are innocent until proven otherwise.”

Barf.

Roz, Friday, 25 January 2019 00:25 (five years ago) link

who the fuck is paying money to see bohemian rhapsody? does anyone under 40 listen to Queen? is there a hot youtube star playing brian may that i don't know about? does bowie make a beyond the grave cameo? is there a scene where they're writing "we are the champions" everything about it seems so so bad. i know baby boomers still get to decide what gets nominated for awards but those box office numbers are more than just old white dudes turning out right? why does anyone care? freddy mecury was certainly a charismatic figure but the story of "Queen" isn't what i would have considered interesting enough to be a box office smash.

dynamicinterface, Friday, 25 January 2019 02:50 (five years ago) link

the youth enjoy this movie

21st savagery fox (m bison), Friday, 25 January 2019 03:02 (five years ago) link

Didn't Titanic have bigger box office than that?

nickn, Friday, 25 January 2019 03:11 (five years ago) link

Millennials loved Queen even before the movie.

Infidels, Like Dylan In The Eighties (C. Grisso/McCain), Friday, 25 January 2019 03:21 (five years ago) link

right? Queen is ridiculously popular and young people see Freddie Mercury as a musical genius. also the general public's music taste is hella basic and people would have gone to see it regardless of who the director was. (this is also why the Mamma Mia! movies were huge hits, even though half the cast couldn't carry a tune).

Roz, Friday, 25 January 2019 03:40 (five years ago) link

i'm a millennial (i think?) and ii literally have no recollection of Queen being an american pop culture touchstone other than the bit in wayne's world. i work at a small liberal arts college and have never seen anything to clue me in to Queen being popular amongst the youth. i've seen Joy Division, Black Sabbath, Big Star, Led Zeppelin etc. on tees but never Queen. i just don't understand what makes them more appealing subject matter for an imaginary movie than any other band from the last 40 years.

having said that, i fully acknowledge that I'm no authority on this subject matter. it just seems odd that no one I know likes Queen at all.

dynamicinterface, Friday, 25 January 2019 04:10 (five years ago) link

not so much that he works cheap, but rather that his films make lots and lots and lots of money for the studios. agree that he's a mediocre filmmaker, but he does know how to draw in moviegoers.


Does he tho? got a feeling red sonja will be it for him for a while...

he was very hot coming off Usual Suspects but x-men/x2 and bohemian rhapsody were can’t-miss and the rest is box office disappointment if not out and out flops. Superman Returns? Jack the Giant-Killer?

NB he was the band’s first choice to direct the Queen pic, not the studio’s. My sense is that he’s *really* good at articulating a smart and compelling vision for a picture, which somehow whatever he shoots never quite lives up to.

Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Friday, 25 January 2019 04:27 (five years ago) link

i was probably being overly generous, i think Singer is genuinely a very bad filmmaker. No imagination, no real style, brings nothing to the table except apparently a manila envelope with compromising photos idk. when I saw Usual Suspects it felt like a real con job of a movie, like a decent calling card for a screenwriter but certainly no classic. and fuck i mean for example Superman Returns was about five hours long, each hour longer than the previous, and no one has ever wanted to see it again and everyone has forgotten its existence.

omar little, Friday, 25 January 2019 04:41 (five years ago) link

Ha, when I saw Superman Returns mentioned in the article I was thinking, "Did that actually get released?"

jmm, Friday, 25 January 2019 04:49 (five years ago) link

how the fuck has BoHo made 800 mil

I know Queen are still super popular & basic (hence huge numbers) but still. STILL

flappy bird, Friday, 25 January 2019 04:54 (five years ago) link

That 800 Mil is worldwide gross, no?

Infidels, Like Dylan In The Eighties (C. Grisso/McCain), Friday, 25 January 2019 04:57 (five years ago) link

Ohh

.....still?

flappy bird, Friday, 25 January 2019 05:07 (five years ago) link

Looked up Titanic, $2.1 billion worldwide.

Avatar $2.7B but maybe that's not a "drama."

nickn, Friday, 25 January 2019 05:42 (five years ago) link

Queen is great, you herbs

ebro the letter (Whiney G. Weingarten), Friday, 25 January 2019 07:19 (five years ago) link

NB he was the band’s first choice to direct the Queen pic, not the studio’s.

not their first, since he didn’t come on until about seven years into active development, and was replaced mid-production by the director who’d been signed four years earlier but walked bcz he thought the “band”’s approach to the script was dumb and bad, a year or two after the star had walked bcz he thought the band’s approach to the script was dumb and bad

sans lep (sic), Friday, 25 January 2019 08:38 (five years ago) link

^ not a major nitpick in this thread’s specific context, but it took a while to find a team who was really keen to tell a bland story that glossed over the sexual attitudes of the protagonist, and...

sans lep (sic), Friday, 25 January 2019 08:40 (five years ago) link

he was very hot coming off Usual Suspects but x-men/x2 and bohemian rhapsody were can’t-miss and the rest is box office disappointment if not out and out flops. Superman Returns? Jack the Giant-Killer?

Superman Returns is his second-highest grossing film in adjusted dollars!

Rank	Title (click to view)	Studio	Adjusted Gross	Unadjusted Gross	Release
1 X2: X-Men United Fox $321,889,800 $214,949,694 5/2/03
2 Superman Returns WB $275,837,100 $200,081,192 6/28/06
3 X-Men Fox $263,528,100 $157,299,717 7/14/00
4 X-Men: Days of Future Past Fox $254,041,000 $233,921,534 5/23/14
5 Bohemian Rhapsody Fox $203,079,400 $203,079,367 11/2/18
6 X-Men: Apocalypse Fox $160,860,200 $155,442,489 5/27/16
7 Valkyrie UA $100,963,000 $83,077,833 12/25/08
8 Jack the Giant Slayer WB (NL) $73,849,500 $65,187,603 3/1/13
9 The Usual Suspects Gram. $48,453,900 $23,341,568 8/18/95
10 Apt Pupil Sony $17,065,000 $8,863,193 10/23/98

Plinka Trinka Banga Tink (Eliza D.), Friday, 25 January 2019 13:12 (five years ago) link

gross has to be compared against budget and expectations. point of all of this being, how does a guy with Singer’s track record and known baggage keep getting major gigs?

Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Friday, 25 January 2019 16:25 (five years ago) link

i think Singer is genuinely a very bad filmmaker. No imagination, no real style, brings nothing to the table except apparently a manila envelope with compromising photos idk.

Disagree, with X2 as evidence. I didn't mind him in the early '00s when he treated the genre seriously and added queer subtexts.

Your sweetie-pie-coo-coo I love ya (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 25 January 2019 16:30 (five years ago) link

who the fuck is paying money to see bohemian rhapsody? does anyone under 40 listen to Queen? is there a hot youtube star playing brian may that i don't know about? does bowie make a beyond the grave cameo? is there a scene where they're writing "we are the champions" everything about it seems so so bad. i know baby boomers still get to decide what gets nominated for awards but those box office numbers are more than just old white dudes turning out right? why does anyone care? freddy mecury was certainly a charismatic figure but the story of "Queen" isn't what i would have considered interesting enough to be a box office smash.

― dynamicinterface, Thursday, January 24, 2019 9

I don't blame you for not hanging around teenagers, but the movie was a big deal to them, at least the ones I talked to over the holiday break: Mom and Dad listening to Queen with the kids, with Mom and Dad themselves converted in 1992.

Your sweetie-pie-coo-coo I love ya (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 25 January 2019 16:32 (five years ago) link

^^ check out. 'Queen Greatest Hits II' (that blue one) was released in 1991 and I remember that cd begin *everywhere* at the time.

Uptown VONC (Le Bateau Ivre), Friday, 25 January 2019 16:33 (five years ago) link

*checks

Uptown VONC (Le Bateau Ivre), Friday, 25 January 2019 16:34 (five years ago) link

Good Omens injoke about every car containing a cassette of Queen’s Greatest Hits is troooooooo

suzy, Friday, 25 January 2019 16:42 (five years ago) link

added queer subtexts.

I mean, I can’t read more than three panels of Claremont before my eyes dry up, but I’m given to understand he baked the subtext into the source pretty richly

sans lep (sic), Friday, 25 January 2019 16:43 (five years ago) link

i agree Singer took the genre seriously and X2 is fine, but he's very uninspired. the subtext alone isn't much to write home about imo bc it's not done very interestingly. I won't draw a line in the sand there because i have no real issue w/anyone thinking he's solid, since that's all separate from the larger issues at play at present. I guess the main question is, why is Bryan Singer of all filmmakers too valuable as a talent to exile? He is a replacement level talent, at best. This is not a new thing, these allegations have gone back for twenty years and unlike other rumors the stories ring true.

omar little, Friday, 25 January 2019 16:47 (five years ago) link

he's not talented enough for me to protest a blacklist, so throw'em in the thorns

Your sweetie-pie-coo-coo I love ya (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 25 January 2019 16:49 (five years ago) link

Singer kinda takes me back to the days of late-'90s AOL movie message boards when people would list their "best filmmakers of all time" and the lists would be like Hitchcock, Scorsese, Kubrick, Tarantino, Darabont, Singer, Kevin Smith.

omar little, Friday, 25 January 2019 16:52 (five years ago) link

have not seen any Singer films except Usual Suspects, which was a decent stunt-noir I suppose. I think you can tell he loves 16-year-olds from his subsequent filmography.

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Friday, 25 January 2019 16:57 (five years ago) link

why is Bryan Singer of all filmmakers too valuable as a talent to exile?

or, is bryan singer even the low bar? how far down could you go? is the guy who directed deuce bigalow too big to throw under the bus?

topical mlady (darraghmac), Friday, 25 January 2019 17:00 (five years ago) link

Hollywood is an industry run by cargo-cultists; nobody who has ever delivered the cargo is too foul to run off the island.

Norm’s Superego (silby), Friday, 25 January 2019 17:11 (five years ago) link

people are maybe overlooking the general entertainment industry omertà and the fact that bryan singer knows where the bodies are buried wrt lots of other powerful influential men in hollywood

( ͡☉ ͜ʖ ͡☉) (jim in vancouver), Friday, 25 January 2019 17:12 (five years ago) link

is the guy who directed deuce bigalow too big to throw under the bus?

Lego Movie 2 isn’t out for two weeks, you’d better hurry up if you want to cancel him

sans lep (sic), Friday, 25 January 2019 17:13 (five years ago) link

people are maybe overlooking the general entertainment industry omertà and the fact that bryan singer knows where the bodies are buried wrt lots of other powerful influential men in hollywood

― ( ͡☉ ͜ʖ ͡☉) (jim in vancouver), Friday, January 25, 2019 12:12 PM (two minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

BINGO

flappy bird, Friday, 25 January 2019 17:16 (five years ago) link

Wonder if it was the same for R Kelly.

nathom, Friday, 25 January 2019 17:17 (five years ago) link

I don't think it's as complicated as any of these theories.

I think it's more like this: If Singer loses work based on rumours and articles, (or the three lawsuits that I can recall have been dismissed-- Apt Pupil, Michael Egan, John Doe), it leaves the studios that are terminating his employment open to wrongful dismissal suits.

Should a studio fire Singer over these rumours and articles, It may also leave his allegers open to graver suits of defamation-- if any allegations against Singer cause him to lose work, he can cite the lost work as damages incurred in defamation suits against his allegers.

flamboyant goon tie included, Friday, 25 January 2019 17:40 (five years ago) link

I think it’s pretty easy to not give him more work, Bohemian Rhapsody’s production sounds like it was a debacle and if they can’t point to these allegations they can point to his recent work history.

omar little, Friday, 25 January 2019 17:47 (five years ago) link

Meantime...

On a 10-min break halfway through Sundance’s 4-hour Michael Jackson child sex abuse documentary. Whatever you thought you knew or were aware of, the content of this is more disturbing than you could imagine. And again, we’re only halfway through.

— Kevin Fallon (@kpfallon) January 25, 2019

Ned Raggett, Friday, 25 January 2019 18:36 (five years ago) link

people are maybe overlooking the general entertainment industry omertà and the fact that bryan singer knows where the bodies are buried wrt lots of other powerful influential men in hollywood


I think that’s what we’re suggesting here. It’s been noted explicitly upthread.

Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Friday, 25 January 2019 18:55 (five years ago) link

There's a lot of discussion of whether artistically or financially Singer merits the protection he's been given

( ͡☉ ͜ʖ ͡☉) (jim in vancouver), Friday, 25 January 2019 19:00 (five years ago) link

idk, speaking for myself it’s not whether he merits protection or whatever. as also noted above, unwinding existing agreements is thorny. the question I’m asking is why a replacement-value director with heavy baggage keeps getting hired for new projects when there are plenty of replacement-value directors without baggage.

Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Friday, 25 January 2019 19:06 (five years ago) link

still a lotta MJ defenders I see

xps

Οὖτις, Friday, 25 January 2019 19:16 (five years ago) link

don't know what ind of traction #mutemj would get now; curious about how people feel about erasure for bad dead people vs bad living people. Obviously the idea of supporting someone still capable of doing shitty things hits harder logically but are we gonna start backward looking with artistic boycott.

Fuck the NRA (ulysses), Friday, 25 January 2019 20:33 (five years ago) link

people are maybe overlooking the general entertainment industry omertà and the fact that bryan singer knows where the bodies are buried wrt lots of other powerful influential men in hollywood


ding

maura, Friday, 25 January 2019 20:33 (five years ago) link

two weeks pass...

Going to read more but saw that part: Mandy Moore was married to Adams for nearly six years. What she called his psychologically abusive behavior stalled her music career: “He would always tell me, ‘You’re not a real musician, because you don’t play an instrument.’ and yikes.

Van Horn Street, Wednesday, 13 February 2019 22:16 (five years ago) link

lots and lots of yikes in there. one of my best friends is a superfan and she is having a hard time with this. :(

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 14 February 2019 01:53 (five years ago) link

thanks for posting that -- i've been reading every installment of that al capp/ham fisher story since it started running several weeks ago, it's a fascinating piece of deep reporting with some pretty shocking moments. i recommend starting from the beginning and reading the whole thing if you have some time. i knew capp was an appalling guy but he seems almost evil after reading that stuff.

(The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Thursday, 14 February 2019 22:42 (five years ago) link

I've been skipping it bcz I can't tell if it's newly written &/or expanded, or the same version Harvey published in TCJ in the '90s, but I'll dip into this chapter

steven, soda jerk (sic), Thursday, 14 February 2019 22:59 (five years ago) link

i don't THINK this is old? i knew most of this story but some of the details are truly fucked up

Fuck the NRA (ulysses), Thursday, 14 February 2019 23:27 (five years ago) link

read this one: seems to be much the same as the old version, except this time treating sexual assault as serious, and not inserting comedy asides about how amusing we all should find the idea of a man with one leg, chasing a teenager around a desk, in the office of people with a duty of care to her

steven, soda jerk (sic), Friday, 15 February 2019 03:33 (five years ago) link

Emma Thompson writes to the producers of "Luck" re their hiring of John Lasseter, who recently left Disney/Pixar following multiple allegations of sexual misconduct. https://t.co/Bfxcn2bgNB pic.twitter.com/6ouWBkClpv

— Letters of Note (@LettersOfNote) February 26, 2019

groovypanda, Tuesday, 26 February 2019 12:55 (five years ago) link

Warner Bros. CEO:

For 15 months, @kimmasters & have been working on this story. Today, we finally hit publish. https://t.co/yfw1ClSB3S via @thr

— Tatiana Siegel (@TatianaSiegel27) March 6, 2019

... (Eazy), Wednesday, 6 March 2019 23:26 (five years ago) link

it’s always ratner

Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Thursday, 7 March 2019 03:18 (five years ago) link

from the cursory read of that that's a very very different situation than the sorts of things we've talked about on this thread. is he accused of abuse in any way? This just sounds like the sort of scuzzy infidelity one assumes happens constantly in hollywood.

akm, Thursday, 7 March 2019 03:25 (five years ago) link

This is a weird story - in the sense that I don't even get *why* it's a story. No one comes across well in it, including Charlotte Kirk herself (hell my biggest takeaway from this is... who is Charlotte Kirk?).

I guess this could qualify as a casting couch scenario, but it's undercut by the fact that Kirk herself denies that there was any inappropriate behaviour involved, as well as her own texts, which made her come across as a conniving blackmailer as opposed to a young woman who was taken advantage of (which one could argue she was as well). Plus none of Tsujihara or Ratner's help even mattered in the end, because casting agents and directors just didn't like her enough. It's a gross situation all around but not exactly the bombshell one might expect.

The worst thing about the article is that it makes Brett Ratner seem somewhat reasonable and sane, which is just wrong.

Roz, Thursday, 7 March 2019 08:14 (five years ago) link

Charlotte Kirk's quotes read like Ratner/et al.'s lawyer was (physically) holding her hostage.

Greta Van Show Feets BB (milo z), Thursday, 7 March 2019 08:15 (five years ago) link

more like her own lawyer wrote them, after a contract with Ratner

Roz: yes, it’s an average casting couch story. The casting couch is a repugnant and exploitative system that should be shamed out of existence.

steven, soda jerk (sic), Thursday, 7 March 2019 09:12 (five years ago) link

(it’s fine if people give a leg up to ppl they’ve fucked bcz they like them & wish to see them do well. In this case, the very very bad son of one of the worst people to ever live explicitly pimped out an ex [or current? am on zing, can’t check timeline] to a colleague as a sweetener on a business deal.)

steven, soda jerk (sic), Thursday, 7 March 2019 09:17 (five years ago) link

Don't disagree with any of that.

I think I'm just annoyed by the framing/reporting of it - which, considering it took 15 months, makes the abuses of powerful men look more your average sex scandal.

Roz, Thursday, 7 March 2019 11:46 (five years ago) link

more like*

Roz, Thursday, 7 March 2019 11:46 (five years ago) link

A federal court of appeals in New York on Monday took the first step in unsealing documents that could reveal evidence of an international sex trafficking operation allegedly run by multimillionaire Jeffrey Epstein and his former partner, British socialite Ghislaine Maxwell.

The three-judge panel for the U.S. Court of Appeals for the Second Circuit gave the parties until March 19 to establish good cause as to why they should remain sealed and, failing to do so, the summary judgment and supporting documents will be made public. The court reserved a ruling on the balance of the documents in the civil case, including discovery materials.

“We’re grateful that the court ruled the summary judgment papers are open and they are moving to expedite having them unsealed,’’ said Sanford Bohrer, the attorney representing the Miami Herald, which filed the motion last year to have the entire case file opened. The Herald’s appeal is supported by 32 other media companies, including the New York Times and Washington Post.

Ghislaine Maxwell was sued for slander after calling Virginia Roberts Giuffre, one of Jeffrey Epstein’s accusers, a liar. Maxwell, a close associate of Epstein, sought to have documents from the court case remain sealed.
The case, which was settled in 2017, contains more than 1,000 documents, lawyers said during oral arguments in New York on Wednesday. Maxwell is the sole party fighting to keep the case sealed.

https://www.miamiherald.com/latest-news/article227411649.html

Simon H., Monday, 11 March 2019 23:33 (five years ago) link

Kevin Tsujihara, head of WB, resigned.

Him and Brett Ratner and a minted nobody... what a team

adam the (abanana), Tuesday, 19 March 2019 17:53 (five years ago) link

lol @ that idea that James Packer is "a nobody" in business and media

steven, soda jerk (sic), Tuesday, 19 March 2019 19:58 (five years ago) link

oh my god

seedy ron (Autumn Almanac), Tuesday, 19 March 2019 20:48 (five years ago) link

david blaine is under investigation. seems to be from his pussy posse days. no surprise.

adam the (abanana), Tuesday, 2 April 2019 06:19 (five years ago) link

one month passes...
three weeks pass...

Oh shit, the Carly Rae Jepsen weirdo?

☮ (peace, man), Tuesday, 18 June 2019 14:05 (four years ago) link

was unaware of this until now but yes.

horrible read, fuck anyone who enabled this guy's abuse and career

devvvine, Tuesday, 18 June 2019 14:18 (four years ago) link

eat shit max landis

american bradass (BradNelson), Tuesday, 18 June 2019 14:27 (four years ago) link

he’s been awful forever and i’m glad it’s coming to light

https://images.app.goo.gl/99viy8G8nRVhuiRP7

maura, Tuesday, 18 June 2019 15:48 (four years ago) link

Never forget this sweet, sweet Max Landis drag from DIFFICULT PEOPLE pic.twitter.com/PTGpWJ8KaK

— Jade Budowski (@jadebudowski) June 12, 2019

maura, Tuesday, 18 June 2019 15:48 (four years ago) link

max landis is helpfully one of those people who looks as awful as he is. mega douche.

circa1916, Tuesday, 18 June 2019 15:54 (four years ago) link

Someone should ID this attorney

As they were sitting in the waiting area of the courtroom, Dionne recalled Max’s attorney approaching them. “She began speaking and her tone was condescending and aggressive, asking if Callie understood what the process would be like. She indicated it would be long and she would have to talk about the assault over and over. The attorney came off patronizing as she said things like, I will make you look like an idiot and this is not going to be easy on you. The attorney said she was going to make a fool of Callie, talking about how much she drinks and talking about the nature of her relationship to Max. She then asked again if this is how Callie wanted to handle ‘this issue.’ I could feel that Callie was overwhelmed. Callie sat there, tears running down her face, holding hands with her mother and with me. Callie said she did not want to go through with ‘this process.’”

jmm, Tuesday, 18 June 2019 17:08 (four years ago) link

oh wait not finally, here's the facebook message he sent me after a mutual invited me to his halloween party and i laughed about it at my old job and one of max's friends who worked there told max. it was DURING HIS HALLOWEEN PARTY which is a totally normal way to act: pic.twitter.com/KCcEiLnvll

— Alicia Lutes (@alicialutes) June 18, 2019

jmm, Tuesday, 18 June 2019 18:29 (four years ago) link

xp. despicable behaviour but probably not unheard of (or actionable)

findom haddie (jim in vancouver), Tuesday, 18 June 2019 18:34 (four years ago) link

Max Landis is what happens when you have the ultimate helicopter parent.

— Allen Strickland Williams (@TotallyAllen) June 18, 2019

Simon H., Tuesday, 18 June 2019 19:04 (four years ago) link

that's Neil Hamburger-level

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 18 June 2019 19:12 (four years ago) link

WOW

space invaders are smokin penises!!!! (Whiney G. Weingarten), Tuesday, 18 June 2019 19:15 (four years ago) link

This is still up on John Landis's Wikipedia page as of 3:18pm EDT

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/D9XdB2hXYAIL1M2?format=jpg&name=large

whoa

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Tuesday, 18 June 2019 19:21 (four years ago) link

lol it's still there, and now it's footnoted with a link to today's article

wait what does the helicopter parent tweet mean

flappy bird, Tuesday, 18 June 2019 23:44 (four years ago) link

landis as a pushy director essentially killed three people with a helicopter on the set of twilight zone movie in the eighties

godfellaz (darraghmac), Tuesday, 18 June 2019 23:47 (four years ago) link

And two of the dead were a 6yo and a 7yo

Muswell Hillbilly Elegy (President Keyes), Tuesday, 18 June 2019 23:49 (four years ago) link

oooooh fuckkk I didn't know he directed that lmao

flappy bird, Tuesday, 18 June 2019 23:57 (four years ago) link

(it's an anthology film - Landis was producer and wrote & directed one chapter and the wraparounds, Spielberg was also producer and directed one chapter, Joe Dante and George Miller [the Mad Max one, not the Man From Snowy River one] directed a chapter each - the non-Landis chapters were all remakes of TV episodes)

Hamburger-level otm

quelle sprocket damage (sic), Wednesday, 19 June 2019 00:16 (four years ago) link

the details of the accident are pretty horrifying. it's still shocking to me that landis had a career after that.

(The Other) J.D. (J.D.), Wednesday, 19 June 2019 00:25 (four years ago) link

landis as a pushy director essentially killed three people with a helicopter on the set of twilight zone movie in the eighties

― godfellaz (darraghmac), Tuesday, 18 June 2019 23:47 (yesterday) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

And two of the dead were a 6yo and a 7yo

― Muswell Hillbilly Elegy (President Keyes), Tuesday, 18 June 2019 23:49 (yesterday) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

oooooh fuckkk I didn't know he directed that lmao

― flappy bird, Tuesday, 18 June 2019 23:57 (yesterday) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

vm enjoying this three post run

godfellaz (darraghmac), Wednesday, 19 June 2019 00:57 (four years ago) link

It's insane what a BUSTLING career he had after that. It happened in July 1982 and he still managed to do Trading Places and Thriller

space invaders are smokin penises!!!! (Whiney G. Weingarten), Wednesday, 19 June 2019 01:33 (four years ago) link

And then 'Into the Night'

Wiki: The film was greenlit by Sean Daniel, president of Universal; he was the executive who had championed Landis on National Lampoon's Animal House. Three weeks into the 60-day shoot, Landis was ordered to stand trial for involuntary manslaughter arising out of the Twilight Zone shoot. Daniel told the press he thought Landis and his colleagues had been "unfairly sent to trial for what is obviously a human catastrophe, not a criminal act."[1]

space invaders are smokin penises!!!! (Whiney G. Weingarten), Wednesday, 19 June 2019 01:35 (four years ago) link

Yes that one has always stuck with me. Fucking insane. IIRC some countdown show on VH1 had either stills or behind the scenes footage right before/after the accident, I remember seeing Vic Morrow carrying those kids in that fake lake or wherever they shot that.

flappy bird, Wednesday, 19 June 2019 02:28 (four years ago) link

I'm not watching it but there's a video of the accident on YouTube.

If the Wikipedia article is accurate it seems incredible Landis and others were acquitted.

groovypanda, Wednesday, 19 June 2019 07:36 (four years ago) link

Chloe Dykstra (Chris Hardwick's ex) on Landis. Apparently they were part of this creep scene too.

This is a post I made on Facebook several days ago regarding my relationship with Max. pic.twitter.com/mmr1ozq99t

— Chloe Dykstra (@skydart) June 18, 2019

☮ (peace, man), Thursday, 20 June 2019 18:22 (four years ago) link

On a lighter note, Mamet's new Weinstein-inspired play opened in London to terrible reviews:

http://www.playbill.com/article/read-reviews-for-david-mamets-bitter-wheat-starring-john-malkovich

... (Eazy), Thursday, 20 June 2019 18:31 (four years ago) link

Jeeeeeesus.

☮ (peace, man), Friday, 21 June 2019 18:28 (four years ago) link

i never heard about this CRJ stuff with Max Landis. the guy sounds like a certifiable psychopath to me.

akm, Friday, 21 June 2019 18:44 (four years ago) link

I didn't know about it, and having googled and found an Anthony Fantano video titled "Screenwriter Max Landis EXPOSES Carly Rae Jepsen!!!" at the top of the results, I will continue to not know about it

quelle sprocket damage (sic), Friday, 21 June 2019 18:49 (four years ago) link

sic: probably worth being a bit more aware as it's surprisingly more fucked up than you think no matter what you think it is
https://www.ascarnooneelsecansee.com/intro

Fuck the NRA (ulysses), Friday, 21 June 2019 18:51 (four years ago) link

this is a great cut story that's been doing the rounds today:

https://www.thecut.com/2019/06/babe-net-aziz-ansari-date-rise-and-fall.html

Chuck_Tatum, Monday, 24 June 2019 20:27 (four years ago) link

thank god that someone is finally speaking up for the long-term artistic legacies of k-pax and the adventure of sharkboy and lava girl 3-d

Dame Judi Dench has spoken out about her sadness at seeing her friends Harvey Weinstein and Kevin Spacey shunned from the big screen.

Despite condemning their behaviour publicly, Dench told the Radio Times she was concerned the pair’s work would be forgotten.

Dench does not defend Spacey and Weinstein against allegations over their misconduct but rued the treatment of Spacey in particular, whose performances were removed from Ridley Scott’s 2017 film All the Money in the World after it was completed.

“Are we going to negate 10 years at the Old Vic and everything that he did [as artistic director] – how wonderful he’s been in all those films? Are we just not going to see all those films that Harvey produced?”

“You cannot deny somebody a talent. You might as well never look at a Caravaggio painting [he was a murderer]. You might as well never have gone to see Noël Coward [accused of predatory behaviour].”

big beautiful wario (bizarro gazzara), Tuesday, 25 June 2019 09:38 (four years ago) link

Caravaggio >>> some film producer from Flushing.

pomenitul, Tuesday, 25 June 2019 09:40 (four years ago) link

her point isn't completely off - Weinstein has 328 production credits on imdb, at least a few of which were good, and Spacey did do good work once upon a time

Nhex, Tuesday, 25 June 2019 15:11 (four years ago) link

obv doesn't negate how horrible these people are but there's more to those films than one man

Nhex, Tuesday, 25 June 2019 15:11 (four years ago) link

if only someone were arguing that these films should be erased from history

american bradass (BradNelson), Tuesday, 25 June 2019 15:14 (four years ago) link

brad otm, dench is coming out swinging against an opinion that i can't recall anyone ever expressing

big beautiful wario (bizarro gazzara), Tuesday, 25 June 2019 15:16 (four years ago) link

controp: Knowing Spacey is a sexual predator makes re-watching Se7en better

(nb i probably don't actually believe this.)

no one is saying it like that, but at least at my local repertory house, there's a lot of debate over these topics. they're doing a Rosemary's Baby screening soon, the host doesn't want to mention anything about Polanski's real life, others feel the opposite. i can see both sides, but the argument is starting to happen in some form

Nhex, Tuesday, 25 June 2019 15:42 (four years ago) link

Can’t Polanksi at least get a moratorium until he’s dead, surely it can’t be long now

don't mock my smock or i'll clean your clock (silby), Tuesday, 25 June 2019 16:00 (four years ago) link

This only really applies to onscreen talent and directors, tho. No one gives a fuck if Weinstein produced something, because we don't think of the producer role as "part" of the film in the same way.

Daniel_Rf, Tuesday, 25 June 2019 16:18 (four years ago) link

^^^^

Almost too obvious a point to make id have thought

shhh / let peaceful like things (wins), Tuesday, 25 June 2019 16:20 (four years ago) link

A lot of the stories about the films of Harvey Scissorhands have also been about brave directors trying to stand up to him, so in some way his fall might lead to some of his productions being re-evaluated.

Frederik B, Tuesday, 25 June 2019 16:32 (four years ago) link

disagree completely with wins and drf but thats prob ok

godfellaz (darraghmac), Tuesday, 25 June 2019 18:56 (four years ago) link

re Harvey specifically, or just producers? there are endless stories of directors fighting Harvey re their content, and maybe two in forty years of him making a useful contribution outside of marketing

quelle sprocket damage (sic), Tuesday, 25 June 2019 19:20 (four years ago) link

I think it's prob ok too but would be curious to hear you elaborate. You think audiences care about producers? xpost

Daniel_Rf, Tuesday, 25 June 2019 19:21 (four years ago) link

90% of audiences don't care about directors either

Number None, Tuesday, 25 June 2019 19:44 (four years ago) link

I think for most people it would be like finding out that the head of a record company is evil (which, y'know), it wouldn't affect their opinion of the records

change display name (Jordan), Tuesday, 25 June 2019 19:53 (four years ago) link

the work is the work

godfellaz (darraghmac), Tuesday, 25 June 2019 21:39 (four years ago) link

Yeah, my post wasn't saying anything about that either way tbf.

Daniel_Rf, Tuesday, 25 June 2019 21:52 (four years ago) link

not much cognitive dissonance at all w/ Spacey because he usually played villains, murderers, criminals, or creeps. totally different story with someone like Cosby.

flappy bird, Tuesday, 25 June 2019 22:44 (four years ago) link

Spacey isn't in any good movies

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 25 June 2019 22:45 (four years ago) link

makes things easy!

Οὖτις, Tuesday, 25 June 2019 22:45 (four years ago) link

Swimming With Sharks is good. Moon too, but you don't have to look at him anyway.

quelle sprocket damage (sic), Tuesday, 25 June 2019 22:53 (four years ago) link

hes not any good in movies but hes bad in some good movies

godfellaz (darraghmac), Tuesday, 25 June 2019 22:53 (four years ago) link

Glengarry is good and he's good in it iirc.

Fuck the NRA (ulysses), Tuesday, 25 June 2019 23:03 (four years ago) link

really good in GGGR and L.A. Confidential, good in Seven, excellent in The Ref, he's fine in The Negotiator (which is a decent late-'90s action flick, completely disposable but solid). Basically he was a perfect fit for certain roles which brought out his inherent prick qualities, he rarely played a total hero (The Negotiator being the only complete exception and even there it toyed a bit with his untrustworthiness, L.A. Confidential made him a hero for a minute after his selfishness cost someone their life but then...)

omar little, Tuesday, 25 June 2019 23:17 (four years ago) link

after he won his second Oscar (and arguably before, since American Beauty fits) he either turned into an unctuous martyr onscreen (Pay It Forward, The Life of David Gale) or went full asshole.

omar little, Tuesday, 25 June 2019 23:18 (four years ago) link

Baby Driver was dope

I watched Se7en for the first time recently and I thought it was p good and extremely gross

flappy bird, Tuesday, 25 June 2019 23:24 (four years ago) link

hes bad in ggr and all the others and baby driver is ass

godfellaz (darraghmac), Tuesday, 25 June 2019 23:29 (four years ago) link

you hate everything tho

mookieproof, Tuesday, 25 June 2019 23:30 (four years ago) link

i dont know how that gets around im unabashedly enthusiastic about lots of stuff

godfellaz (darraghmac), Tuesday, 25 June 2019 23:32 (four years ago) link

god man have some self-respect

j., Tuesday, 25 June 2019 23:33 (four years ago) link

I thought The Ref was good but didn't trust my memory. Glengarry is "good" but just too gross to spend time in, and I don't remember him in it

LA Confidential sucks, why even bother adapting mid-period Ellroy if you're going to be so basic. there are plenty of 150-pp pocket paperback potboilers he did earlier that let you put his name on the poster, and they're cheaper

quelle sprocket damage (sic), Wednesday, 26 June 2019 00:00 (four years ago) link

anyway to Dench's point:

Are we going to negate 10 years at the Old Vic and everything that he did [as artistic director]

1) sorry, yes, those years are #cancelled. the sole reason you can't buy a ticket to see Niamh Cusack and Ruth Negga in Playboy Of The Western World tonight is because we're fomenting a vendetta against Spacey, not because it was staged in 2011

2) "everything he did" includes widely-reported predation on teenage boys throughout his tenure, both at the time and after his official me-too-ing in 2017. aren't you saying we should negate this

quelle sprocket damage (sic), Wednesday, 26 June 2019 00:07 (four years ago) link

also zomg the theatre was owned and restored by Honest Ed Mirvish!

quelle sprocket damage (sic), Wednesday, 26 June 2019 00:08 (four years ago) link

A judge said the young man came from a good family, attended an excellent school, had terrific grades and was an Eagle scout. Prosecutors, the judge said, should have explained to the girl and her family that pressing charges would destroy the boy’s life. https://t.co/KYK1Bj3jXP

— The New York Times (@nytimes) July 3, 2019

(it can be argued that a 16yo should never be tried as an adult . . . but if any deserve to be, it's this one imo)

mookieproof, Wednesday, 3 July 2019 16:40 (four years ago) link

christ that whole story is awful

Nhex, Wednesday, 3 July 2019 16:47 (four years ago) link

two months pass...

has anyone else watched the Hulu doc? idk why i watched it but i did. the interviews are essential; one thing that really stuck with me was an interview with "celebrity journalist" aj benza where he said that he had heard the rumors that actresses had "slept with" harvey to get their parts and he just assumed welp yeah that is how it is. the perniciousness and ease of digestion of this utter falsehood really reminded me how everyone is complicit with/to blame for rape culture. it's way deep in there.

also let's not kid ourselves, the 90s sucked.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Tuesday, 10 September 2019 14:30 (four years ago) link

the whole gossip industrial complex is designed to keep the status quo firmly in place. it’s even more apparent on newer outlets because the editing is so poor

maura, Tuesday, 10 September 2019 14:35 (four years ago) link

i haven't paid attention to celebrity gossip in ages, i felt like it was sort of a bygone pastime -- is it still as popular as it was 15-20 years ago?
erika rosenbaum's story hit esp hard because she describes a very relatable sensation of wanting to "take a risk" and also feeling deeply unsafe. ugh.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Tuesday, 10 September 2019 14:43 (four years ago) link

celebrity gossip powers the internet afaict

Li'l Brexit (Tracer Hand), Tuesday, 10 September 2019 15:08 (four years ago) link

The authors of She Said gave a long (20 mins!) interview at of all places Morning Joe today.

TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 10 September 2019 15:11 (four years ago) link

100%. also US Weekly, People magazine and the like still circulate to millions

Nhex, Tuesday, 10 September 2019 15:11 (four years ago) link

really? i admit that i don't pay any attention to entertainment "news" (though i do read music stuff). all the 90s/early 2000s stuff in the doc seemed like a thousand years ago. i see the magazines in the checkout aisle and they all look grotesque.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Tuesday, 10 September 2019 15:13 (four years ago) link

it’s a pernicious influence and it’s very much there. popbitch (!) has done some excellent digging on AMI (owner of enquirer etc) and its mucky dealings

maura, Tuesday, 10 September 2019 15:15 (four years ago) link

yup. nothing's changed, just the names and the royalty. a lot more reality show "stars" to cover if anything

Nhex, Tuesday, 10 September 2019 15:16 (four years ago) link

the Lisa Bloom stuff is pretty disgusting

omar little, Tuesday, 10 September 2019 15:38 (four years ago) link

the NY Post page 6 folks (current and former) still have a bit to answer for too.

omar little, Tuesday, 10 September 2019 15:38 (four years ago) link

Another reason there more be more smears ahead...Weinstein switched his legal team earlier this summer, and here's a profile of who he hired:

https://www.chicagomag.com/Chicago-Magazine/February-2018/The-Defender/

... (Eazy), Tuesday, 10 September 2019 15:40 (four years ago) link

Regarding Rose McGowan, an early accuser, Bloom told Weinstein, “I feel equipped to help you against the Roses of the world, because I have represented so many of them.” She suggested a “counterops online campaign to push back and call her out as a pathological liar.” She educated Weinstein on “reputation management,” and encouraged him to stage preemptive television interviews, wherein he would invoke his deceased mother and claim that her passing had caused him to “evolve” on women’s issues.

omar little, Tuesday, 10 September 2019 16:06 (four years ago) link

two weeks pass...

placido out

https://www.nytimes.com/2019/09/24/arts/music/placido-domingo-met-opera-harassment.html

mookieproof, Wednesday, 25 September 2019 01:11 (four years ago) link

1/Just In: Actresses Sarah Tither-Kaplan and Toni Gaal tell NPR in an exclusive interview that they are suing actor and filmmaker James Franco for sexual exploitation and fraud, stemming from their time involved in his Studio 4 acting school in Los Angeles.

— NPR (@NPR) October 3, 2019

Simon H., Thursday, 3 October 2019 20:44 (four years ago) link

Took long enough for that shoe to drop

El Tomboto, Thursday, 3 October 2019 21:08 (four years ago) link

Pretty thrilling read by Ronan Farrow, investigating the two guys assigned to tail him in 2017, with two more parts on Black Cube coming this week,

... (Eazy), Monday, 7 October 2019 16:47 (four years ago) link

Well here's a read (from Farrow's reporting partner at NBC).

https://www.vanityfair.com/news/2019/10/how-nbc-killed-its-weinstein-story

Ned Raggett, Friday, 11 October 2019 17:55 (four years ago) link

At the time, I wondered if there was some sort of connection between NBC’s decision to stop me and Ronan from investigating Weinstein—a decision for which Oppenheim and Lack had offered no credible explanation—and the network’s rejection of any institutional responsibility for what Lauer had done. Weinstein was a staggeringly powerful man whose serial predation went on for years, in part because he was able to insulate himself via aggressive legal tactics that included payoffs and nondisclosure agreements. Could it be that NBC News knew it couldn’t risk having our reporting on Weinstein presented by a powerful news anchor with his own history of serial predation?

I asked a former NBC executive that very question. Was our Weinstein story killed because NBC knew it had a Matt Lauer problem?

“One thousand percent,” the former executive told me.

surprise surprise: AMI cited as Harvey's go-between, threatening to expose Lauer's multiple harassment, assault and rape cases in the Enquirer if NBC published on Weinstein

now let's play big lunch take little lunch (sic), Friday, 11 October 2019 20:50 (four years ago) link

When Ann Curry departed NBC, it was clearly a very tension-filled thing, there was some clear issues she had w/Lauer and vice-versa. And now we know she went to NBC execs to report what she'd heard about his predatory behavior, and the one who was effectively forced out shortly thereafter was her.

omar little, Friday, 11 October 2019 20:55 (four years ago) link

weak cowards

El Tomboto, Friday, 11 October 2019 22:04 (four years ago) link

that story is appalling

El Tomboto, Friday, 11 October 2019 22:04 (four years ago) link

yikes

Li'l Brexit (Tracer Hand), Friday, 11 October 2019 22:53 (four years ago) link

Lauer's disgusting flex laundry-listing all the sex stuff he 'consensually' did during his 'affair' w/his rape accusor...

a bevy of supermodels, musicians and Lena Dunham (C. Grisso/McCain), Tuesday, 15 October 2019 05:08 (four years ago) link

having dissed him plenty in the past I want to give Chris Hayes some credit for his little segment on this the other night

Simon H., Tuesday, 15 October 2019 11:09 (four years ago) link

powerful article about sexual abuse at Mount Sinai, the last line is devastating
https://www.thecut.com/2019/10/mount-sinai-david-newman.html

Fuck the NRA (ulysses), Friday, 18 October 2019 16:30 (four years ago) link

There's an abuse tolerance story growing around the World Series, i guess this will do for the uninitiated:

https://www.si.com/mlb/2019/10/22/houston-astros-roberto-osuna-suspension

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 22 October 2019 17:38 (four years ago) link

Follow @bellykachman who stood on stage last night and confronted Harvey Weinstein who was in the audience.

Some of the men in the audience booed and told her to shut up...

Follow @bellykachman https://t.co/oz0RviDaTL

— Yashar Ali 🐘 (@yashar) October 24, 2019

flappy bird, Thursday, 24 October 2019 23:29 (four years ago) link

Good. Glad to see that place dragged. I saw screenshots of their instgram story bullshit excuse about being a "safe space" that completely put the onus on "the heckler" that they threw out instead of his ass.

soaring skrrrtpeggios (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Friday, 25 October 2019 14:50 (four years ago) link

Hmm

NEWS: NBCUniversal offers to release "any former NBC News employee who believes that they cannot disclose their experience with sexual harassment" because of an NDA "from that perceived obligation." pic.twitter.com/zr2dewKDmR

— Maddow Blog (@MaddowBlog) October 26, 2019

Ned Raggett, Saturday, 26 October 2019 02:22 (four years ago) link

David Simon talks about why he chose to keep James Franco on The Deuce despite sexual misconduct allegations and it’s... not pretty.

https://www.rollingstone.com/tv/tv-features/deuce-finale-david-simon-interview-part-2-james-franco-allegations-904238/

The fundamental difference is that James Franco didn’t seek to use his position to have sex with anyone. There’s not a case of that. He wasn’t using his position or status to try to solicit a sexual favor from anyone. If he had — if that were what the accusation involved — the show would not have gone on.

Simon’s arguments are all over the place. First he claims that Franco didn’t use his power over the women but later goes on at length about how on his own set (!) there were examples of how Franco’s celebrity and power made other actors uncomfortable. Also claims that Franco has been a star for so long that he wasn’t aware that he had all this power? Which is just pure bs given that he spent several years being all James Franco acting as James Franco.

Roz, Thursday, 31 October 2019 04:52 (four years ago) link

I've said it before and it bears repeating: David Simon is a pretty great showrunner and an irritating dumbass otherwise.

Simon H., Thursday, 31 October 2019 05:07 (four years ago) link

also "taking plastic guards off actors' vulvas and having oral sex with them during a scene" does not count as "exploiting his power"

now let's play big lunch take little lunch (sic), Thursday, 31 October 2019 05:10 (four years ago) link

This ^^ is truly nauseating

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 31 October 2019 13:55 (four years ago) link

gross

TikTok to the (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 31 October 2019 14:03 (four years ago) link

what?? i didn't hear about that

Nhex, Thursday, 31 October 2019 14:57 (four years ago) link

the original LA Times story: https://www.latimes.com/business/hollywood/la-fi-ct-james-franco-allegations-20180111-htmlstory.html

There was also a woman he dated who claimed he forced her to give him a blowjob. and he's also admitted to trying to pick up an underage girl on Instagram.

Roz, Thursday, 31 October 2019 15:14 (four years ago) link

the lawsuit/LA Times stuff about the complaints is p bullshit imo. The women enrolled in a class that was literally about performing sex scenes - with James Franco - and then complained that the course made them uncomfortable. To be fair Franco even offering a class like that seems like a p bad idea on paper, but the situation is not analogous to others like Weinstein or Louis CK or whoever.

the girlfriend + instagram thing sound skeevy but idk

Οὖτις, Thursday, 31 October 2019 15:17 (four years ago) link

How is it bullshit?

You can have an acting class about performing sex scenes in a way that would make everyone involved comfortable e.g. by having an intimacy/sensitivity coach present, or by not storming off and throwing a tantrum if women refused to take their tops off, or by not uploading footage with nudity that they had shot for class online without the women's consent, or by not removing the protective guards that you know, WERE SUPPOSED TO MAKE THE WOMEN COMFORTABLE (this btw was not part of the class but was a shoot for an unscripted movie scene that Franco invited his students to be part of, which makes it even more gross.)

To be fair Franco even offering a class like that seems like a p bad idea on paper, but the situation is not analogous to others like Weinstein or Louis CK or whoever.

Well Louis CK defenders would say his situation was not analogous to Weinstein either since he never actually assaulted anyone but that's bullshit too. Being a woman is constantly having to deal with men shifting the goalposts, being all like "This is OK, but *this* is not OK". NO. None of them are fucking OK.

Roz, Thursday, 31 October 2019 15:53 (four years ago) link

an acting class about performing sex scenes in a way that would make everyone involved comfortable

I don't think you can, actually

Οὖτις, Thursday, 31 October 2019 15:57 (four years ago) link

(but then I think the large majority of sex scenes in film are gratuitous and stupid and unnecessary)

Οὖτις, Thursday, 31 October 2019 15:58 (four years ago) link

fine, "as comfortable as possible" then. my point stands.

Roz, Thursday, 31 October 2019 15:59 (four years ago) link

you could certainly get a better teacher for that than James Franco

flappy bird, Thursday, 31 October 2019 16:13 (four years ago) link

i agree with you about sex scenes shakey

flappy bird, Thursday, 31 October 2019 16:13 (four years ago) link

Roz otm
Franco offering sex scene classes should never have gotten the green light any more than a class about alcohol temperance should be taught by like a Richard Burton or something.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 31 October 2019 16:18 (four years ago) link

idk i'm pretty sure it's possible to perform sex scenes comfortably

american bradass (BradNelson), Thursday, 31 October 2019 16:20 (four years ago) link

I would honestly think a course about performing sex scenes would be about learning how to do them comfortably? Most people know how to have sex.

Frederik B, Thursday, 31 October 2019 16:23 (four years ago) link

i also assume we're all professional actors here and we all know what's involved in a sex scene

american bradass (BradNelson), Thursday, 31 October 2019 16:24 (four years ago) link

Most people know how to have sex.

don't think this is true either lol

Οὖτις, Thursday, 31 October 2019 16:28 (four years ago) link

i think people are also forgetting what Franco's public image was like less than a decade ago - he was Renaissance man, the dude juggling a busy acting career with pursuing multiple degrees, releasing poetry and essay collections etc. Hey *I* thought he was hot too. So it's not surprising that people enrolled in his classes would expect at least a basic level of professionalism.

Roz, Thursday, 31 October 2019 16:34 (four years ago) link

huh. I would expect a "hot" actor to act like an asshole.

Οὖτις, Thursday, 31 October 2019 16:37 (four years ago) link

that's cool, they, reasonably, didn't

american bradass (BradNelson), Thursday, 31 October 2019 16:49 (four years ago) link

If you want to read about predatory acting workshops / directors, this is the doozy:

https://www.chicagoreader.com/chicago/profiles-theatre-theater-abuse-investigation/Content?oid=22415861

... (Eazy), Thursday, 31 October 2019 16:52 (four years ago) link

so the shakey view is "because franco was obviously a sleaze, you can't complain about what happens when you take a sex scene workshop with him"?

v interesting perspective

ت (jim in vancouver), Thursday, 31 October 2019 16:56 (four years ago) link

I just don't think "I signed up for a sex scene class and then the sex turned out to be really uncomfortable" is grounds for a lawsuit or the same thing as a producer raping an actress in a hotel room. It's gross and stupid but also really predictable.

Οὖτις, Thursday, 31 October 2019 16:58 (four years ago) link

the tendency to say "this isn't like Weinstein" reduces all forms of sexual assault to "Is Weinstein" and "Is Not Weinstein" when in fact its a wide spectrum of shitty behavior

The Mandymoorian (Whiney G. Weingarten), Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:00 (four years ago) link

Like, Weinstein is a level 10 creep and Aziz Ansari is a level 3 creep and the tiny percentage of people who actually think about any of this shit at all ever are gonna make up their own mind

The Mandymoorian (Whiney G. Weingarten), Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:04 (four years ago) link

I just don't think "I signed up for a sex scene class and then the sex turned out to be really uncomfortable" is grounds for a lawsuit or the same thing as a producer raping an actress in a hotel room. It's gross and stupid but also really predictable.

― Οὖτις, Thursday, October 31, 2019 9:58 AM (six minutes ago)

you know the difference between "sex" and "sex scenes" right

president of deluded fruitcakes anonymous (silby), Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:05 (four years ago) link

like Shakey I know you have a shtick but you're being dense

president of deluded fruitcakes anonymous (silby), Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:06 (four years ago) link

(but then I think the large majority of sex scenes in film are gratuitous and stupid and unnecessary)

― Οὖτις, Thursday, October 31, 2019 8:58 AM (one hour ago) bookmarkflaglink

This is completely beside the point tbh and also I’m not sure it’s true esp when compared to other much more common types of scenes in films.

omar little, Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:09 (four years ago) link

like when the boss of a big company has a corner office and is playing put put golf in it

flappy bird, Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:10 (four years ago) link

https://i.imgflip.com/3ewkfm.jpg

The Mandymoorian (Whiney G. Weingarten), Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:14 (four years ago) link

irl lol

now let's play big lunch take little lunch (sic), Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:17 (four years ago) link

hahahaha

ت (jim in vancouver), Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:18 (four years ago) link

Whiney can I pay you to make memes out of more of my posts

president of deluded fruitcakes anonymous (silby), Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:22 (four years ago) link

Intimacy choreography is now becoming a standard professional practice, the idea being that sex scenes shouldn't be winged any more than a fight scene is.

... (Eazy), Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:26 (four years ago) link

Yeah, GOT hired one for the last couple seasons after they got a ton of shit for really messing up with a particular scene.

Simon H., Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:28 (four years ago) link

That was about an error in staging/direction, though. This shit is hard to do well!

Simon H., Thursday, 31 October 2019 17:30 (four years ago) link

omg Whiney

Le Bateau Ivre, Thursday, 31 October 2019 18:24 (four years ago) link

hahahaha nicely done

Οὖτις, Thursday, 31 October 2019 18:36 (four years ago) link

Like, Weinstein is a level 10 creep and Aziz Ansari is a level 3 creep and the tiny percentage of people who actually think about any of this shit at all ever are gonna make up their own mind

also yeah I agree w this

Οὖτις, Thursday, 31 October 2019 18:37 (four years ago) link

Some of this is out of our hands, as Aziz, and maybe Franco, are going to keep showing up on tv, whereas Spacey probably isn't

Muswell Hillbilly Elegy (President Keyes), Thursday, 31 October 2019 18:44 (four years ago) link

You have to really work hard to skip past the accusation that he removed a woman's vulva guard that was mentioned in multiple posts and the story you're calling bullshit to arrive at "the sex was uncomfortable, waaaaah don't be a snowflake"

Greta Van Show Feets BB (milo z), Thursday, 31 October 2019 19:18 (four years ago) link

I suspect he does not have to work that hard

YouGov to see it (wins), Thursday, 31 October 2019 19:25 (four years ago) link

give spacey 10 years he'll be back at the Oscars pumping a career rehab role. maybe he'll play the pope

flappy bird, Thursday, 31 October 2019 20:14 (four years ago) link

careful now, the last person who accused spacey of an unwelcome pumping ended up dead

non-euclidean lenin (bizarro gazzara), Thursday, 31 October 2019 20:54 (four years ago) link

kevin shakey

deems of internment (darraghmac), Thursday, 31 October 2019 21:21 (four years ago) link

wau

president of deluded fruitcakes anonymous (silby), Thursday, 31 October 2019 21:30 (four years ago) link

Too far

thewufs, Friday, 1 November 2019 01:18 (four years ago) link

Also

he removed a woman's vulva guard

That’s horrific. I did not know this

thewufs, Friday, 1 November 2019 01:20 (four years ago) link

Great, just great.

https://jezebel.com/bosses-at-vice-and-the-fader-ignored-sexual-misconduct-1839636779

Ned Raggett, Friday, 8 November 2019 00:15 (four years ago) link

I don't know about anything about the people running The Fader but it's unsurprising re: the cretins at Vice.

https://www.thedailybeast.com/unsafe-and-just-plain-dirty-women-accuse-vice-of-toxic-sexual-harassment-culture

Greta Van Show Feets BB (milo z), Friday, 8 November 2019 00:35 (four years ago) link

And then...

Christian comedian John Crist had a Netflix special called "I Ain’t Prayin’ for That" set to debut on Thanksgiving, but five women came forward with sexual misconduct allegations against him this week, so now the release has been put on hold. https://t.co/MpmhATeqOI

— Megh Wright (@megh_wright) November 7, 2019

Ned Raggett, Friday, 8 November 2019 00:54 (four years ago) link

that would have made a great arc on CRASHING

maura, Friday, 8 November 2019 01:17 (four years ago) link

that jezebel piece is absolutely fucking sickening

american bradass (BradNelson), Friday, 8 November 2019 01:51 (four years ago) link

And today:

Our statement on the recent lawsuits involving G/O Media CEO Jim Spanfeller. pic.twitter.com/ZiuhXunUKS

— GMG Union (@gmgunion) November 8, 2019

Ned Raggett, Friday, 8 November 2019 19:29 (four years ago) link

Namely:

The sources said that publisher Andy Cohn and others at The Fader were aware of Sundermann’s alleged behavior before he was hired, and that Cohn had once behaved inappropriately at a 2011 company event. While a rep for the company told Variety Wednesday that Cohn was not under investigation, disputing the claim of an anonymous source quoted in a Billboard article on Sundermann’s firing, on Friday the company confirmed that he has been suspended.

Ned Raggett, Friday, 8 November 2019 21:23 (four years ago) link

the proprietor of a Toronto Yuk Yuks wrote an op-ed bragging about how well Louis CK did there recently, when said proprietor was brave enough to book him. One of the two women from the original, long-circulating jerk-off rumour has written in to the paper to respond:
https://www.cjnews.com/perspectives/opinions/counterpoint-i-didnt-consent-to-louis-c-k-masturbating-in-front-of-me

now let's play big lunch take little lunch (sic), Thursday, 14 November 2019 10:09 (four years ago) link

four weeks pass...

25 million dollar settlement and that's it for Weinstein, he's off the hook? Despicable.

StanM, Thursday, 12 December 2019 20:24 (four years ago) link

this is the civil case. he has still to face a criminal trial regarding abuse charges involving over 20 women

#FBPIRA (jim in vancouver), Thursday, 12 December 2019 20:25 (four years ago) link

although, as you know, it's not certain that he'll be convicted of any of these charges, many of them being historical and with the difficulty in securing convictions for these types of crimes

#FBPIRA (jim in vancouver), Thursday, 12 December 2019 20:26 (four years ago) link

Not holding my breath on those other cases, but I'd love to see him face some sort of justice. As it stands today, it's just another reminder that rich and powerful white men can get away with whatever the fuck they want as long as they keep upping that settlement offer.

soaring skrrrtpeggios (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Thursday, 12 December 2019 22:26 (four years ago) link

aw, diddums

Harvey Weinstein has complained he feels like “the forgotten man” and that his “pioneering” work championing movies directed by and about women has been “eviscerated” in the wake of multiple sexual assault allegations against him.

The 67-year-old producer, once one of the most powerful men in Hollywood, has faced accusations of sexual assault and harassment from dozens of women.

Ahead of the start of his rape trial, Weinstein gave an interview to the New York Post. He spoke while recuperating in hospital after spinal surgery and said he was doing the interview to prove he was not exaggerating the claims about his ill health. The former movie mogul appeared in court last week using a walking frame.

The New York Post reported that Weinstein showed little sign of remorse for the actions he is accused of.

“I feel like the forgotten man,” he told the paper.

“I made more movies directed by women and about women than any film-maker, and I’m talking about 30 years ago. I’m not talking about now when it’s vogue. I did it first. I pioneered it.

“It all got eviscerated because of what happened,’’ Weinstein said. “My work has been forgotten.’’

WHEEL! OF! FORESKIN! (bizarro gazzara), Monday, 16 December 2019 10:03 (four years ago) link

“I feel like the forgotten man,” he told the paper.

Not really! Surprised Trump hasn't intervened yet to promise him a pardon if convicted.

AMM stands for Axe-Murdering Motherfuckers (Matt #2), Monday, 16 December 2019 10:53 (four years ago) link

I checked Weinstein's profile, and in the 1980s he was indeed the co-executive producer for one movie directed by a woman: Joyce Chopra's The Lemon Sisters, from 1989. After that there's a gap of 9 years and something like 40 movies before his second movie with a female director, Penelope Spheeris's Senseless in 1998.

Though I guess, sadly, he's sorta right in that he's produced more films directed by women than most other Hollywood producers.

Tuomas, Monday, 16 December 2019 13:48 (four years ago) link

But yeah, for some reason people tend to "eviscerate" your work with women if you also happened to harass and abuse them at the same time.

Tuomas, Monday, 16 December 2019 13:51 (four years ago) link

I feel like people are overlooking all of the beautiful houses I built in the wake of that thing that happened where I subsequently burned all of those houses to the ground. It's like the world has forgotten all about my good works simply because I undid them with monomaniacal fervor. Ingrates!

Welcome to the Sandwich Trough (Old Lunch), Monday, 16 December 2019 14:56 (four years ago) link

I did it first. I pioneered it.

Loooooooool no sir u did not

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Monday, 16 December 2019 15:00 (four years ago) link

so appropriate he's pulling the old mobster trick of doddering into court with a walker

Blues Guitar Solo Heatmap (Free Download) (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Monday, 16 December 2019 20:26 (four years ago) link

just jonesing for plaudits

pathetic

terminators of endearment (VegemiteGrrl), Tuesday, 17 December 2019 04:43 (four years ago) link

won't someone think of the rapist

Fuck the NRA (ulysses), Tuesday, 17 December 2019 04:56 (four years ago) link

Drudge had the best headline: "BEST ACTOR?"

flappy bird, Tuesday, 17 December 2019 05:16 (four years ago) link

three weeks pass...

BREAKING: Jeffrey Epstein set Elon Musk's brother up with a girlfriend in effort to get close to the Tesla founder, sources tell @beckpeterson and @johnjcook https://t.co/ha8w2gUqUU

— graham starr (@GrahamStarr) January 13, 2020

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Monday, 13 January 2020 21:44 (four years ago) link

idgi tbqh

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Monday, 13 January 2020 22:06 (four years ago) link

half-joke a) this sounds like a Perrin premise that is failing to keep up with the on-the-nose-ness of reality

half-joke b) there is a busy and very relevant Jeffrey Epstein thread that might have taken this up for discussion, and also a busy Elon Musk thread, both of which you have eschewed in favour of a less relevant thread, in the same quixotic manner that you dispatch Perrin into the churning sails of other threadmills

don't care didn't ask still clappin (sic), Monday, 13 January 2020 22:39 (four years ago) link

i can't keep up w/ all the sizzlin' threads

Epstein, Weinstein, Monet, Manet...

a Mets fan who gave up on everything in the mid '80s (Dr Morbius), Monday, 13 January 2020 22:46 (four years ago) link

musk's bro looks like a cursed amalgam of musk and ted bundy

bidenfan69420 (jim in vancouver), Monday, 13 January 2020 23:01 (four years ago) link

The Onion can still deliver from time to time:

Increasingly Unwell Harvey Weinstein Arrives To Court As Jar Of Ashes https://t.co/z3GpY27TCD pic.twitter.com/TOVe1rkkTs

— The Onion (@TheOnion) January 14, 2020

Evans on Hammond (evol j), Tuesday, 14 January 2020 20:30 (four years ago) link

lol

The Squalls Of Hate (sleeve), Tuesday, 14 January 2020 21:23 (four years ago) link

pic is great

Fuck the NRA (ulysses), Tuesday, 14 January 2020 21:29 (four years ago) link

welp


https://www.nytimes.com/2020/01/21/arts/music/grammys-deborah-dugan-harassment.html


Ms. Dugan’s 44-page complaint details her clash with a number of powerful men at the academy during her tenure of just five months. But her accusations also represent an indictment of the academy itself, which has struggled to reform its reputation after coming under harsh criticism for its poor record recognizing women and people of color in the major categories.

The document, filed with the E.E.O.C.’s Los Angeles office and technically called a charge of discrimination, alleges that Ms. Dugan’s predecessor, Neil Portnow, had been accused of rape by an artist, and that the academy’s board had been asked to approve a bonus for him even though all of its members had not been told about the accusation. The complaint has little detail about the accusation, but said that a psychiatrist had said that the encounter was “likely not consensual.”

It also says that Ms. Dugan herself had received unwanted sexual advances from Joel Katz, a powerful industry lawyer who represents the Grammys.

maura, Wednesday, 22 January 2020 03:00 (four years ago) link

wow. gonna get uglier still i imagine.

Fuck the NRA (ulysses), Wednesday, 22 January 2020 05:10 (four years ago) link

hfs @ this Annabella Sciorra testimony

Οὖτις, Thursday, 23 January 2020 18:15 (four years ago) link

there's more than what she has already come forward with?

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 23 January 2020 19:23 (four years ago) link

well she testified in court about it today, I'm not sure how detailed her past comments were.

I just love her and feel so bad for her :(

Οὖτις, Thursday, 23 January 2020 19:25 (four years ago) link

her previous recounting of the details of her experience was graphic enough to have made an impression on me. i felt the same way -- total disgust and repulsion for the monster who would treat the exquisite goddess Annabella Sciorra with such contempt

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 23 January 2020 19:40 (four years ago) link

Yeah exactly

Οὖτις, Thursday, 23 January 2020 19:49 (four years ago) link

i mean, treating serious people with contempt is the fetish, right?

Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Friday, 24 January 2020 00:23 (four years ago) link

That’s not a fetish that’s a major malfunction

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Friday, 24 January 2020 00:28 (four years ago) link

I qwish someone had told me not to read that.

Milton Parker, Friday, 31 January 2020 21:51 (four years ago) link

typo

I quite wish someone had told me not to read that

Milton Parker, Friday, 31 January 2020 21:51 (four years ago) link

welp, i won't then!

Nhex, Friday, 31 January 2020 23:57 (four years ago) link

Jesus, yup.

☮️ (peace, man), Saturday, 1 February 2020 00:03 (four years ago) link

you guys did and I still did and why did I

the public eating of beans (Sparkle Motion), Saturday, 1 February 2020 01:26 (four years ago) link

three weeks pass...

guilty on two counts: first degree sexual assault and third degree rape

mookieproof, Monday, 24 February 2020 16:46 (four years ago) link

YES!!!!
I was nervous about the verdict. GUILTY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Monday, 24 February 2020 16:47 (four years ago) link

stoked for his entirely non-suspicious cell suicide in 3 weeks

imago, Monday, 24 February 2020 16:50 (four years ago) link

Two not guilties and an acquittal though :(

Fantastic. Great move. Well done (sic), Monday, 24 February 2020 16:51 (four years ago) link

whatever
he got some guilties

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Monday, 24 February 2020 16:52 (four years ago) link

He is guilty!!!

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Monday, 24 February 2020 16:52 (four years ago) link

Harvey Weinstein was found guilty of committing a criminal sex act in the first degree involving one woman and rape in the third degree involving another woman.

A New York jury acquitted the disgraced movie mogul on the more serious charges of predatory sexual assault involving the two women, Miriam Haley and Jessica Mann.

In doing so, jurors indicated that they did not find beyond a reasonable doubt that Weinstein had also raped Annabella Sciorra, another victim whose testimony prosecutors used in an attempt to establish Weinstein’s predatory behavior.

(from CNN). Two 'guilties' but still hardly anything to cheer about, if he gets away with the above. As long as he'll be locked away, I guess.

Le Bateau Ivre, Monday, 24 February 2020 16:53 (four years ago) link

Very harsh on Sciorra, I mean.

Le Bateau Ivre, Monday, 24 February 2020 16:54 (four years ago) link

Listen I will cheer for what I want to cheer for -- he was found guilty!
He escaped being labeled as a predator and that sucks but I was concerned that he would escape without any convictions and that is not the case.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Monday, 24 February 2020 16:55 (four years ago) link

Weinstein is now a convicted rapist. I'd count that as a win. And "criminal sex act in the first degree" is a class B felony in New York, which is a sentence of 5-25 years.

avellano medio Inglés (f. hazel), Monday, 24 February 2020 17:01 (four years ago) link

can he ditch the walker now?

StanM, Monday, 24 February 2020 17:02 (four years ago) link

Not at all berating anyone for cheering that he was found guilty. I'm glad he's found guilty too and will be behind barrs. But it sucks that he escaped 10-to-life, especially for the women involved.

Le Bateau Ivre, Monday, 24 February 2020 17:02 (four years ago) link

xp lol

Le Bateau Ivre, Monday, 24 February 2020 17:02 (four years ago) link

Weinstein is now a convicted rapist.
Weinstein is now a convicted rapist.
Weinstein is now a convicted rapist.
Weinstein is now a convicted rapist.
Weinstein is now a convicted rapist.
Weinstein is now a convicted rapist.

It sucks he had to rape so many women before he was found guilty as a rapist -- but Weinstein is now a convicted rapist.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Monday, 24 February 2020 17:10 (four years ago) link

Will this open the floodgates for more trials, or does it not work that way in the US?

the punk wars are over and prog rock won (Matt #2), Monday, 24 February 2020 17:15 (four years ago) link

very good news

jmm, Monday, 24 February 2020 17:15 (four years ago) link

I'm glad he's found guilty too and will be behind barrs. But it sucks that he escaped 10-to-life, especially for the women involved.

yes, this was my disappointment too - happy he has two convictions, very sorry that his bullshit and sociopathic lack of remorse and millions on lawyers and stupid walker optics managed to deflect so much. especially in the face of the bravery of the women who testified, for how much this validates the decades of fear from dozens or hundreds of women who have still never spoken out

Fantastic. Great move. Well done (sic), Monday, 24 February 2020 17:16 (four years ago) link

any conviction is good. he could've walked on all these charges, it isn't unheard of

frederik b. godt (jim in vancouver), Monday, 24 February 2020 17:18 (four years ago) link

I was bracing myself for the worst so this is definitely good news.

romanesque architect (pomenitul), Monday, 24 February 2020 17:19 (four years ago) link

does he still have other trials forthcoming?

omar little, Monday, 24 February 2020 17:19 (four years ago) link

My entire lifetime as a woman has been disappointment after disappointment about rapists not being held accountable -- cascades of endless disppointment -- a little relief from THAT disappointment, a real conviction for a BIG RAPIST, is really worth a lot to me personally.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Monday, 24 February 2020 17:20 (four years ago) link

this is good news tho

it could be worse i mean remember when they finally nailed OJ for the abhorrent crime of...briefly preventing a couple of men from leaving a hotel room?

omar little, Monday, 24 February 2020 17:20 (four years ago) link

Weinstein will next stand trial in L.A., where he is charged with multiple counts of rape and sexual battery. https://t.co/9U7HKwRaRV

— Los Angeles Times (@latimes) February 24, 2020

mookieproof, Monday, 24 February 2020 17:25 (four years ago) link

xp with guns

wasdnuos (abanana), Monday, 24 February 2020 17:45 (four years ago) link

I have not seen anyone argue that OJ's crimes were systemic rather than personal.

Andrew Farrell, Monday, 24 February 2020 17:47 (four years ago) link

great news, hope he dies in prison

Blues Guitar Solo Heatmap (Free Download) (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Monday, 24 February 2020 17:48 (four years ago) link

yeah true but i guess i thought the sentence seemed "harsh" for that crime considering he was a "first time" offender who wasn't actually holding a gun (not harsh if considered a delayed bit of indirect justice).

omar little, Monday, 24 February 2020 17:50 (four years ago) link

oh great re LA trial!

Fantastic. Great move. Well done (sic), Monday, 24 February 2020 17:51 (four years ago) link

can he ditch the walker now?

― StanM, Tuesday, February 25, 2020 4:02 AM

lol

― Le Bateau Ivre, Tuesday, February 25, 2020 4:02 AM

he literally walked out of court and left it there

Fantastic. Great move. Well done (sic), Monday, 24 February 2020 17:59 (four years ago) link

Of course he did! I hope he gets rabies.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Monday, 24 February 2020 18:00 (four years ago) link

In the future, when people think back on Harvey Weinstein, I hope the first image that pops into their heads is that coward shuffling into court w his fake walker

— Liz Phair (@PhizLair) February 24, 2020

... (Eazy), Tuesday, 25 February 2020 04:33 (four years ago) link

it is worth factoring in that Weinstein had basically unlimited money for his defense and he still was found guilty on two charges, including a felony. one hopes the judge takes into account the sheer number of serious, but unadjudicated, accusations when deciding whether to sentence toward the more lenient or the harsher end of the possible sentences.

A is for (Aimless), Tuesday, 25 February 2020 04:57 (four years ago) link

xp: There are other trials forthcoming. Weinstein will die in prison.

Prep for coronavirus. Seriously. (Sanpaku), Tuesday, 25 February 2020 06:00 (four years ago) link

at this point I'm mostly just depressed about all the people who are not even remotely as famous as whoever Timothy Hutton is who have raped teenagers and will never be held to account for it.

Swilling Ambergris, Esq. (silby), Monday, 2 March 2020 22:42 (four years ago) link

Harvey Weinstein Said Jennifer Aniston ‘Should Be Killed,’ Unsealed Court Documents Reveal

(in an email to his just-hired crisis management expert, who was handing press about his harassment and assault history, when the National Enquirer made a fishing enquiry pretending that Jennifer Aniston was accusing him of sexual assault)

Fantastic. Great move. Well done (sic), Tuesday, 10 March 2020 23:52 (four years ago) link

What's your point https://t.co/x8yePBBN2W

— turnbullet (@turnbullet666) March 10, 2020

but also fuck you (unperson), Tuesday, 10 March 2020 23:54 (four years ago) link

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2020/mar/11/harvey-weinstein-sentencing-rape-conviction

23 years! Should have been more.

avellano medio inglés (f. hazel), Wednesday, 11 March 2020 15:09 (four years ago) link

Breaking News: Harvey Weinstein was sentenced to 23 years in prison for sex crimes, a stunning downfall for a Hollywood mogul whose abuse of women ignited #MeToo https://t.co/HXi0EyQiMi

— The New York Times (@nytimes) March 11, 2020

omar little, Wednesday, 11 March 2020 15:09 (four years ago) link

Boom

Die in prison

omar little, Wednesday, 11 March 2020 15:09 (four years ago) link

eat shit bitcj

bold caucasian eroticism (Simon H.), Wednesday, 11 March 2020 15:10 (four years ago) link

Brothers, eh?

The documents also contain a note from Weinstein’s brother Bob, former co-chairman of the Weinstein Company. He wrote: “U deserve a lifetime achievement award for the sheer savagery and immorality and inhumanness, for the acts u have perpetrated. Oh I forgot. They were all consensual. Then what are u in rehab for? Sex addiction. Don’t think so. You wouldn’t have harassment, assault and rape charges u have now received, from 82 women for active consensual sex.”

https://www.theguardian.com/film/2020/mar/11/jennifer-aniston-should-be-killed-weinsteins-rage-laid-bare-in-unsealed-court-documents

Wuhan!! Got You All in Check (Camaraderie at Arms Length), Wednesday, 11 March 2020 15:13 (four years ago) link

Yes, Bob Weinstein who knew nothing about any of it whatsoever

akb 23 (Matt #2), Wednesday, 11 March 2020 15:14 (four years ago) link

The 1% only get nailed 1% of the time, but at least it was a solid pick this time.

bold caucasian eroticism (Simon H.), Wednesday, 11 March 2020 15:17 (four years ago) link

His spokesman, Juda Engelmayer, told Page Six that he was miserable but trying to be optimistic, even though he suffered a fall earlier this week.
“He has had a lot of time to think about his life and be humbled, but he thinks it’s going to be a long, uphill battle from here.”

Die in prison you evil shiteheel

akb 23 (Matt #2), Wednesday, 11 March 2020 15:17 (four years ago) link

Should have been more.

Think he has at least one other trial in the pipeline?

Wuhan!! Got You All in Check (Camaraderie at Arms Length), Wednesday, 11 March 2020 15:19 (four years ago) link

He does have other trials pending, in California, no?

Yes, Bob Weinstein who knew nothing about any of it whatsoever

It seems that Bob knew about Harvey being aggressively casting-couch-y decades ago and had upbraided him (& received promises that Harvey had reformed, especially in his last marriage) but had long disassociated himself as much as possible from Harvey personally (due to H being an asshole in general) and professionally, so that Bob could run Dimension, under both Disney and TWC, without his filmmakers having to fear the abuse and interference that Harvey was famous for.

So yeah, he probably knew a bit, and some / lots of what he didn’t know was probably wilful ignorance, but general accounts of working with Dimension in the last 22 years of its existence have indicated that he and Harvey were no longer close at work or outside.

Fantastic. Great move. Well done (sic), Wednesday, 11 March 2020 18:45 (four years ago) link

"I really feel remorse for this situation," the former Hollywood producer said, his voice barely audible, as he addressed the court before the sentence was handed down. "I feel it deeply in my heart. I will spend my time really caring and really trying to be a better person."

"I'm not going to say these aren't great people, I had wonderful times with these people, you know," Weinstein said of his accusers. "It is just I'm totally confused and I think men are confused about all of these issues."

omar little, Wednesday, 11 March 2020 20:26 (four years ago) link

yes, it's everyone's else fault for not explaining it all to him

avellano medio inglés (f. hazel), Wednesday, 11 March 2020 20:38 (four years ago) link

unfrozen caveman lawyer routine doesn't work IRL

omar little, Wednesday, 11 March 2020 20:39 (four years ago) link

"I had wonderful times forcing my blackhead-drilled jowls against these women's vulvas," the Oscar-winning producer fondly recalled

Fantastic. Great move. Well done (sic), Wednesday, 11 March 2020 20:59 (four years ago) link

dude

terminators of endearment (VegemiteGrrl), Wednesday, 11 March 2020 21:43 (four years ago) link

sic don’t do that

majority whip, majority nae nae (m bison), Wednesday, 11 March 2020 21:51 (four years ago) link

Please don’t do that

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Wednesday, 11 March 2020 22:38 (four years ago) link

sorry - without seeing any of the other context of whatever omar's quoting, I find that neutral/sympathetic phrasing hideous, especially weeks after conviction & in reporting sentencing.

Fantastic. Great move. Well done (sic), Wednesday, 11 March 2020 23:26 (four years ago) link

Kate Beckinsale with an account of working with Harvey.

Fantastic. Great move. Well done (sic), Thursday, 12 March 2020 18:54 (four years ago) link

wow

The Mandymoorian (Whiney G. Weingarten), Thursday, 12 March 2020 19:13 (four years ago) link

ugh

terminators of endearment (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 12 March 2020 19:16 (four years ago) link

This is neither here nor there, but she looked cool af in that photo.

a bevy of supermodels, musicians and Lena Dunham (C. Grisso/McCain), Thursday, 12 March 2020 19:21 (four years ago) link

Ugh

she’s right of course in that what he did there wasn’t “illegal”, it’s just the baseline for any number of abusive pieces of shit operating in a lot of industries and of course really prevalent in Hollywood. Maybe less so now, but maybe just barely. Scott Rudin won’t get run out of town for that behavior tho he probably should be.

omar little, Thursday, 12 March 2020 20:01 (four years ago) link

Imagine having someone yell at you like that, talk to you that way when you brought your kid over for a playdate and probably didn't even actually want to go
I share her relief that he is going to jail for 23 years, where he will die.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Thursday, 12 March 2020 20:51 (four years ago) link

so very otm

terminators of endearment (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 12 March 2020 23:19 (four years ago) link

neither snow nor rain nor heat nor doom of virus will stay bret stephens from the deFenSe oF FrEe sPeeCh

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/ETa7UXPXQAU71gy?format=jpg&name=small

mookieproof, Wednesday, 18 March 2020 21:26 (four years ago) link

pretty sure woody allen has been telling his side of the story for like sixty years now

Fuck the NRA (ulysses), Wednesday, 18 March 2020 21:35 (four years ago) link

Yeah, also if that was his only motivation he can publish his damn memoirs on medium.

Daniel_Rf, Thursday, 19 March 2020 10:32 (four years ago) link

It's the small snippets of good news that make the general misery endurable

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2020/mar/19/harvey-weinstein-new-york-state-prison-maximum-security

akb23 (Matt #2), Thursday, 19 March 2020 15:53 (four years ago) link

Wishing him a long life.

silby, Thursday, 19 March 2020 16:39 (four years ago) link

prob not great for anyone infected by him

brooklyn suicide cult (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 22 March 2020 23:39 (four years ago) link

i do not believe the man who faked a walker for 4 months has covid also epstein dint' commit suicide

i want people lyddie englanding his body when he dies too

two months pass...

'That '70s Show' actor Danny Masterson charged with three counts of rape in Los Angeles

https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/70s-show-actor-danny-masterson-charged-three-counts-rape-los-n1231356

nickn, Thursday, 18 June 2020 00:18 (three years ago) link

Good.

"...And the Gods Socially Distanced" (C. Grisso/McCain), Thursday, 18 June 2020 00:30 (three years ago) link

That guy's been under a shadow for so long for these, amazed he finally got charged

Nhex, Thursday, 18 June 2020 00:43 (three years ago) link

The Scienos can only help you for so long, I guess.

nickn, Thursday, 18 June 2020 00:45 (three years ago) link

Was gonna say, I thought he was charged with this a few years back.

One of the victims is Chrissie Bixler, who is married to Cedric from Mars Volta. A couple years ago they were publically accusing the Sci-Ties of killing their dog. And now, looking into it, apparently they had a dog poisoned this year too: https://www.billboard.com/articles/news/8548927/mars-voltas-cedric-bixler-zavala-scientologists-killed-dog

peace, man, Thursday, 18 June 2020 11:02 (three years ago) link

^^sometimes you CAN judge a book by its cover.

and now, Bieber:

An anonymous woman, called Danielle, accuses Justin Bieber of sexually assaulting her at the Four Seasons in 2014, Bieber’s camp deny the claims and say he was staying at an Airbnb on that date. pic.twitter.com/Q8QkCjya8X

— insta: @sasscelebs (@sasscelebs) June 21, 2020

Roz, Monday, 22 June 2020 03:16 (three years ago) link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NskQcxxT9V4

Fuck the NRA (ulysses), Tuesday, 23 June 2020 18:29 (three years ago) link

Ok, that's the best.

peace, man, Tuesday, 23 June 2020 18:43 (three years ago) link

That video is amazing.

Night of the Living Crustheads (PBKR), Tuesday, 23 June 2020 18:45 (three years ago) link

xp
And the CYE music at the ends caps it perfectly (shoulda played a second or two longer).

nickn, Tuesday, 23 June 2020 18:50 (three years ago) link

Re: Ron Jeremy - how surprising that someone who describes the allegations as "buyers remorse" might turn out to actually be a rapist after all

bob catley signature stage move (Matt #2), Tuesday, 23 June 2020 18:55 (three years ago) link

ciro guerra, director of embrace of the serpent and birds of passage, accused of assault and harassment by eight women

https://volcanicas.com/2020/06/24/ocho-denuncias-de-acoso-y-abuso-sexual-contra-ciro-guerra/

devvvine, Thursday, 25 June 2020 12:02 (three years ago) link

Was there one of these threads specifically for the music industry or should I just leave this instagram full of Bassnectar allegations here?

https://www.instagram.com/evidenceagainstbassnectar/

peace, man, Monday, 6 July 2020 18:04 (three years ago) link

i have zero idea who bassnectar is but my assumption about any allegation against an EDM DJ is that the allegation is true.

akm, Monday, 6 July 2020 18:18 (three years ago) link

two weeks pass...

Apparently it's rife at Burger Records, a label that seemed pretty cool.

https://consequenceofsound.net/2020/07/burger-record-artists-sexual-misconduct

nickn, Tuesday, 21 July 2020 06:57 (three years ago) link

three weeks pass...

Alexander Payne. You sat me down & played a soft-core porn movie you directed for Showtime under a different name. I still remember your apartment in Silverlake. You are very well-endowed. You left me on a street corner afterwards. I was 15. pic.twitter.com/mVqiN4S9NW

— Rose McGowan (@rosemcgowan) August 17, 2020

unpaid intern at the darvo institute (Simon H.), Monday, 17 August 2020 19:13 (three years ago) link

Yikes!!

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Monday, 17 August 2020 23:15 (three years ago) link

horrifying

terminators of endearment (VegemiteGrrl), Monday, 17 August 2020 23:27 (three years ago) link

This fuckin guy

The suit included complaints that date back four decades, and some of the plaintiffs involved are minors. The filing also alleged that Nygard kept a “database of potential victims” — over 7,500 women and underage girls — on his company’s server.

The FBI had also reportedly investigated trafficking claims against Nygard in 2015 and 2017, according to the BBC.

https://www.thecut.com/2020/08/peter-nygard-sons-accuse-father-sex-trafficking.html

terminators of endearment (VegemiteGrrl), Wednesday, 19 August 2020 04:19 (three years ago) link

I completely missed that Jeffery Ross was accused by a woman; she's accused him periodically over the years dating back to 2006. He's pretty adamant she has mental health and drug issues.

akm, Thursday, 20 August 2020 17:46 (three years ago) link

That is a fairly dismissive framing of Megh Wright's reporting.

https://www.vulture.com/2020/08/jeff-ross-jessica-radtke-alleged-sexual-relationship-at-15.html

erratic wolf angular guitarist (sic), Thursday, 20 August 2020 18:05 (three years ago) link

that story is paywalled so I only pulled the first thing i saw about it, from another story, which was a quick synopsis and his statement.

akm, Thursday, 20 August 2020 18:14 (three years ago) link

incognito mode / private window

erratic wolf angular guitarist (sic), Thursday, 20 August 2020 18:31 (three years ago) link

Paywall Bypass for Chrome

Donald Trump Also Sucks, Of Course (milo z), Thursday, 20 August 2020 18:32 (three years ago) link

oh yeah incognito worked for this (half the time it doesn't). thanks.

akm, Thursday, 20 August 2020 19:00 (three years ago) link

Big topic on the Sarah Lawrence alum pages today!

santa clause four (suzy), Wednesday, 2 September 2020 18:33 (three years ago) link

two weeks pass...

Long article on hotelier Andre Balasz Chateau Marmont property.

https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/features/rot-at-hollywoods-playground-chateau-marmont-staff-allege-racial-discrimination-sexual-misconduct-and-neglectful-management

nickn, Wednesday, 16 September 2020 21:25 (three years ago) link

Balazs, that is.

nickn, Wednesday, 16 September 2020 21:27 (three years ago) link

Powerpoint comic

There's a phrase I wish could wash from my brain.

soaring skrrrtpeggios (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Wednesday, 16 September 2020 21:29 (three years ago) link

one month passes...

Pretty much true for everybody though https://t.co/aT9FZNqrGb

— Jason IsBOO (@JasonIsbell) October 16, 2020

Josh in Chicago, Friday, 16 October 2020 17:24 (three years ago) link

morpheus_blue_red_pill.jpg

Andrew Farrell, Friday, 16 October 2020 17:26 (three years ago) link

Re: Ron Jeremy - how surprising that someone who describes the allegations as "buyers remorse" might turn out to actually be a rapist after all

― bob catley signature stage move (Matt #2), Wednesday, June 24, 2020 4:55 AM

Ron Jeremy charged with an additional 3 counts of rape and four of sexual assault, on women aged 15 to 54, across 17 years.

they should throw on an extra charge for wearing his mask below his upper lip

Un-fooled and placid (sic), Thursday, 29 October 2020 05:38 (three years ago) link

one month passes...

Fashion Executive Peter Nygard Indicted on Sex Trafficking Charges

https://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-news/fashion-executive-peter-nygard-indictment-sex-trafficking-charges-1104615/

nickn, Thursday, 17 December 2020 00:35 (three years ago) link

While we're at it, Gilbert Rozon, founder of Just for Laughs, was acquitted:

https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/montreal/gilbert-rozon-rape-trial-1.5842309

pomenitul, Thursday, 17 December 2020 00:36 (three years ago) link

four weeks pass...

https://www.thedailybeast.com/the-ugly-backstory-of-ben-shapiros-first-movie-run-hide-fight

https://www.thedailybeast.com/how-a-right-wing-movie-studio-enabled-the-harvey-weinstein-of-indie-film

Daily Wire is branching out into film distribution and the first movie they acquire comes from a company - Cinestate - that has multiple allegations of sexual assault and harassment swirling around it.

peace, man, Friday, 15 January 2021 13:51 (three years ago) link

three weeks pass...

“Ride or die baby! I’m thrilled about this. You are a treasured colleague and an insane talent. So much to come! Looking forward to toasting,” wrote the assistant managing editor who oversees The New York Times’s audio report.

From Andy Mills' statement on leaving the New York Times under a cloud of misconduct allegations and the collapse of the key reporting in Caliphate.

Li'l Brexit (Tracer Hand), Monday, 8 February 2021 11:20 (three years ago) link

We sorta missed talking about it in this thread a few months ago, but then again it bleeds over into wider religious hypocrisy as a result. But: evangelical leader who died last May turns out to be a nauseating abuser and probably worse:

https://www.christianitytoday.com/news/2021/february/ravi-zacharias-rzim-investigation-sexual-abuse-sexting-rape.html

Ned Raggett, Friday, 12 February 2021 00:23 (three years ago) link

Extensive, monstrous details about Shia LeBoeuf in this FKA twigs interview: https://www.elle.com/culture/celebrities/a35460385/fka-twigs-shia-la-beouf-abuse/

stilt in the wings (sic), Thursday, 18 February 2021 23:04 (three years ago) link

LaBeouf eventually pulled over at a gas station, and twigs attempted to remove her bags to escape, but the actor slammed her up against the car and tried to choke her again. Screaming in her face, he forced her back into the car.

Jacket, $1,790, turtleneck, $850, trousers, $1,090, Ralph Lauren Collection. Hoop earrings, Cartier, $3,900. Long antique pendant necklace, Bentley & Skinner.

Whiney G. Weingarten, Friday, 19 February 2021 00:26 (three years ago) link

D’Elia hit with a lawsuit for violating federal child pornography and child sexual exploitation laws soliciting more than 100 sexually explicit photos and videos from, and having sex with, a Jane Doe who was 17 years old

grab bag cum trash bag (sic), Wednesday, 3 March 2021 05:04 (three years ago) link

He went silent for months then only a few days ago posted a video which was a semi-contrite "acknowledging and changing my behaviour" thing but also a flat denial of anything illegal or non consensual.

That now looks like a preemptive response to this suit.

Punk's Daft (onimo), Wednesday, 3 March 2021 09:27 (three years ago) link

https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/news/pepe-le-pew-not-slated-for-future-warner-bros-television-projects

tbf the sexual-harassment skunk parody of Maurice Chevalier might be just a tad outdated no matter how you measure it

G.A.G.S. (Gophers Against Getting Stuffed) (forksclovetofu), Monday, 8 March 2021 18:34 (three years ago) link

great news for the cancellation-take industry

no (Left), Monday, 8 March 2021 18:48 (three years ago) link

why next they'll take Bosko and where will be then

G.A.G.S. (Gophers Against Getting Stuffed) (forksclovetofu), Monday, 8 March 2021 19:25 (three years ago) link

It took watching a bunch of Chevalier musicals recently to a) realize Pepe Le Pew was meant as a parody of Chevalier and b) subsequently realize how tone deaf their parody of Chevalier was (as everyone was champing at the bit to knock boots with everyone else in those movies). The serial harassment angle was all W-B.

Stefan Twerkelle (Old Lunch), Monday, 8 March 2021 19:32 (three years ago) link

I thought Pepe was supposed to be based on Charles Boyer?

soref, Monday, 8 March 2021 19:37 (three years ago) link

from the (surprisingly contentious!) wiki:

Jones wrote that Pepé was based (loosely) on the personality of his Termite Terrace colleague, writer Tedd Pierce, a self-styled "ladies' man" who reportedly always assumed that his infatuations were reciprocated. In a short documentary film, Chuck Jones: Memories of Childhood, Jones told an interviewer (perhaps jokingly) that Pepé was actually based on himself, except that he was very shy with girls.

A prototype of Pepé appeared in 1947's Bugs Bunny Rides Again, but sounded similar to Porky Pig. When the character of Pepé was more fully developed for cartoons of his own, Mel Blanc based Pepé's voice on Charles Boyer's Pépé le Moko from Algiers (1938), a remake of the 1937 French film Pépé le Moko. Blanc's voice for the character closely resembled a voice he had used for "Professor Le Blanc", a harried violin instructor on The Jack Benny Program. There have also been theories that Pepé's voice was based on singer Maurice Chevalier.

G.A.G.S. (Gophers Against Getting Stuffed) (forksclovetofu), Monday, 8 March 2021 19:44 (three years ago) link

Pepé's reputation suffered in later years. Comedian Dave Chappelle, in his 2000 stand-up film Killin' Them Softly, called him a rapist.

In October 2010, it was reported that Mike Myers would voice Pepé Le Pew in a feature-length live action film based on the character, although no information about this project has surfaced since. In July 2016, it was revealed at San Diego Comic-Con that Max Landis was penning a Pepé Le Pew feature film for Warner Bros. There has no new information since then due to sexual assault allegations against Landis in 2017.

G.A.G.S. (Gophers Against Getting Stuffed) (forksclovetofu), Monday, 8 March 2021 19:45 (three years ago) link

a live-action Pepé Le Pew movie

at last

Hello Nice FBI Lady (DJP), Monday, 8 March 2021 19:58 (three years ago) link

a more accurate parody might have had Pepé in a complex and possibly compromising relationship with the Vichy regime led by Elmer Fudd.

Bastard Lakes (Camaraderie at Arms Length), Monday, 8 March 2021 20:00 (three years ago) link

xp: I wonder if he was going to repurpose his Cat in the Hat costume

Hello Nice FBI Lady (DJP), Monday, 8 March 2021 20:00 (three years ago) link

a max landis-scripted pepe movie starring mike myers....one hell of a bullet we dodged there

stimmy stimmy yah (Simon H.), Monday, 8 March 2021 20:05 (three years ago) link

would have been better with Louis CK

akm, Monday, 8 March 2021 20:23 (three years ago) link

I was aware of all the hoopla around Dr. Seuss and knew it was more fabricated culture war bullshit, but it wasn't until those clips on Last Week Tonight that I knew just how insidious and flat out untruthful they were being about it.

I know I know, hardly a fresh insight at this point, but my god, the brainrot that must set in being subjected to that bullshit 24-7. Imagine being a patient somewhere or working at a reception desk where you forced to have that pumped in against your will.

soaring skrrrtpeggios (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Monday, 8 March 2021 20:39 (three years ago) link

tbrr i am offended that this puritanical culture refuses to recognize this dr seuss classic and keep it in print for children everywhere
http://imgur.com/opKVHQy

G.A.G.S. (Gophers Against Getting Stuffed) (forksclovetofu), Monday, 8 March 2021 20:47 (three years ago) link

Thread revivals always get my hopes up that one of the Weinsteins died.

Joe Bombin (milo z), Monday, 8 March 2021 20:49 (three years ago) link

Be Do the change you want to see in the world.

nickn, Monday, 8 March 2021 21:16 (three years ago) link

mods!

Whiney G. Weingarten, Monday, 8 March 2021 21:29 (three years ago) link

I am excited for the moment when conservatives start demanding Shel Silverstein's playboy cartoons be shown to children

rob, Monday, 8 March 2021 21:34 (three years ago) link

Director Richard Stanley: his former partner has made a long blog post after learning another woman has filed charges.

https://sharedhallucination.blogspot.com/2021/03/777-truth-will-out.html (cw: violence & other abuse)

I’m sorry I wasn’t brave enough to speak up at the time. And to hear he has kept on abusing other women, physically, emotionally, sexually, financially and spiritually, kills me. I had been living in such a toxic environment for so long that once free I felt small and powerless--damaged and tainted. I suffered intense nightmares, PTSD, and literally could not get my shit together. All I could do was write for the first many months. Write and write until the poison was out of my veins. Then, I started to piece my life back together.

I cannot believe the magnitude of destruction Richard has left in his wake and managed to conceal. And not so cleverly I might add. The party line when I finally left him in 2014 was that if I hadn’t been so ‘crazy’ and if he was with another woman who was less ‘crazy’ he would cease to act in such a way--that I drove him to it. This is what he told people and they believed him. And yet, as numerous women come forward, all with shockingly similar stories to mine, it’s pretty clear that his patterns are well established and they stem from his own seriously dangerous anger management issues. He is a serial predator par excellence. I am not perfect, but in no way did I deserve the shit that he did to me for so many fucking years.

SpectreVision, the distributor of his comeback film early this year, will be donating future revenue from the project to DV charities.

armoured van, Holden (sic), Thursday, 18 March 2021 07:09 (three years ago) link

Arrow Films have noted "our planned Hardware and Dust Devil Blu-rays are as cancelled as he is."

armoured van, Holden (sic), Thursday, 18 March 2021 07:15 (three years ago) link

(A producer for Arrow has etc.)

armoured van, Holden (sic), Thursday, 18 March 2021 07:21 (three years ago) link

Weak

bruce spr!ngisH3r3 (Whiney G. Weingarten), Thursday, 18 March 2021 15:05 (three years ago) link

what

armoured van, Holden (sic), Thursday, 18 March 2021 20:26 (three years ago) link

dunno if this is what Whiney meant but I assumed he was referring to a distribution company seizing the opportunity to seem hip and with it by punning on cancelling someone when the triggering event is people disclosing traumatizing abuse and harassment (if that's what he meant, i agree)

Lavator Shemmelpennick, Thursday, 18 March 2021 20:35 (three years ago) link

I'm just saying it sucks that Stanley is dunzo, I liked his stuff

bruce spr!ngisH3r3 (Whiney G. Weingarten), Thursday, 18 March 2021 20:38 (three years ago) link

LS - that's why I reflected and clarified that it was just one dude personally saying that, not the company making a formal statement.

Personally I think it sucks worse that Stanley abused, terrorised, assaulted and injured multiple women for years than that the only feature production company to fund him in the last 29 years won't work with him again because of him abusing, terrorising, assaulting and injuring multiple women.

armoured van, Holden (sic), Thursday, 18 March 2021 21:16 (three years ago) link

good to know, man, thanks!

bruce spr!ngisH3r3 (Whiney G. Weingarten), Thursday, 18 March 2021 22:30 (three years ago) link

sic otm

terminators of endearment (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 19 March 2021 01:54 (three years ago) link

I wasn’t trying to rank which is worse

bruce spr!ngisH3r3 (Whiney G. Weingarten), Friday, 19 March 2021 02:31 (three years ago) link

Sorry, if I was glib, I was just reacting to “guy I like is cancelled.” I haven’t read the allegations yet but it’s a good bet they’re terrible

bruce spr!ngisH3r3 (Whiney G. Weingarten), Friday, 19 March 2021 02:33 (three years ago) link

he was mad as a cut snake already so partly i am not surprised? but also simultaneously horrified

i liked some of his stuff but that really doesnt matter ughhh jesus christ

terminators of endearment (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 19 March 2021 02:52 (three years ago) link

Maybe read them before declaring that it's "weak" of people to think that they're bad, idk

armoured van, Holden (sic), Friday, 19 March 2021 02:53 (three years ago) link

yikes, yes, read her whole post, it's really terrible. I'm glad I saw Color Out of Space before this so at least I enjoyed it when I saw it; no interest in watching his work now really.

akm, Friday, 19 March 2021 03:26 (three years ago) link

Maybe read them before declaring that it's "weak" of people to think that they're bad, idk


I meant “weak” as in “this news is weaksauce” as in “this sucks”

bruce spr!ngisH3r3 (Whiney G. Weingarten), Friday, 19 March 2021 03:38 (three years ago) link

“cinnamon toast shrimp guy is married to Topanga and also a serial abuser who has physically and sexually assaulted multiple women” is quite the plot twist! disappointed but not surprised! anyway

— abby govindan (@abbygov) March 24, 2021

G.A.G.S. (Gophers Against Getting Stuffed) (forksclovetofu), Wednesday, 24 March 2021 22:31 (three years ago) link

That is confusing and perplexing. Who is it even about?

Dana Jel Pey (DJP), Wednesday, 24 March 2021 22:40 (three years ago) link

Jensen Karp

Canon in Deez (silby), Wednesday, 24 March 2021 22:41 (three years ago) link

who like has had a whole career separate from tweeting about shrimp and being married to Topanga but I guess his big breakthrough was the shrimp thing?

Canon in Deez (silby), Wednesday, 24 March 2021 22:42 (three years ago) link

I thought “married to Topanga” meant he really loved Topanga the place, but it’s a Boy meets World character hello I am your elderly aunt

anyway

terminators of endearment (VegemiteGrrl), Wednesday, 24 March 2021 22:46 (three years ago) link

Seriously, who the fuck is Jensen Karp? Is this like when Black people talk about Morris Chestnut?

Dana Jel Pey (DJP), Wednesday, 24 March 2021 22:49 (three years ago) link

He had a podcast?

Canon in Deez (silby), Wednesday, 24 March 2021 22:50 (three years ago) link

So… yes

Dana Jel Pey (DJP), Wednesday, 24 March 2021 22:50 (three years ago) link

He also runs this art gallery or used to

https://nineteeneightyeight.com/pages/current-west

reggae mike love (polyphonic), Wednesday, 24 March 2021 22:53 (three years ago) link

white people in north america should not be allowed to name their own children

《Myst1kOblivi0n》 (jim in vancouver), Wednesday, 24 March 2021 22:54 (three years ago) link

What’s the window on caring about Boy Meets World or drama involving anyone from it - people born 1983 to 1987?

Joe Bombin (milo z), Wednesday, 24 March 2021 22:55 (three years ago) link

i kinda feel like this is something whiney would be talking about

G.A.G.S. (Gophers Against Getting Stuffed) (forksclovetofu), Wednesday, 24 March 2021 22:57 (three years ago) link

that first hot karl explainer video is a perfect storm of 2000s horribleness

G.A.G.S. (Gophers Against Getting Stuffed) (forksclovetofu), Wednesday, 24 March 2021 22:59 (three years ago) link

What’s the window on caring about Boy Meets World or drama involving anyone from it - people born 1983 to 1987?

I think goes into the '90s. Seems like I know a bunch of younger millennials who went apeshit when it hit streaming.

Of course, the weirdest thing about the show is that Maitland Ward (the secondary actress in later episodes) has become a pretty huge porn star.

"what are you DOING to fleetwood mac??" (C. Grisso/McCain), Wednesday, 24 March 2021 23:07 (three years ago) link

What’s the window on caring about Boy Meets World or drama involving anyone from it - people born 1983 to 1987?


This made me lol as I’m 1982 and my exact relationship with this show is that my peers even a year younger than me all seemed to know and love it but it was just after my time. Wasn’t in the afternoon lineup yet when I was gorging on syndicated Full House and Family Matters after school.

Lavator Shemmelpennick, Thursday, 25 March 2021 00:49 (three years ago) link

Not to be Capn-Save-a-General-Mills but like...what plant is processing cereal and shrimp at the same time?

frogbs, Friday, 26 March 2021 00:11 (three years ago) link

I was thinking disgruntled worker at first, but the company claims those "shrimp tails" are actually just clumps of the coating that formed in the manufacturing process. Looking at the picture again I can believe this.

nickn, Friday, 26 March 2021 00:58 (three years ago) link

oh shit

UPDATE: we killed the shrimp guy. He was blended and is now in every box of Cinnamon Toast Crunch

— Cinmamon Toast Crunch (@holyduck) March 24, 2021

frogbs, Friday, 26 March 2021 01:27 (three years ago) link

does this mean that, at the end, he had a blended haircut

Dana Jel Pey (DJP), Friday, 26 March 2021 13:38 (three years ago) link

lol, but I only saw this after buying a box of Cinnamon Toast Crunch Churros on sale at Walgreen's. I have no idea who those people are either ... though I had heard of the gallery and in my mind it is somewhere in the historical progression from high art to NFTs

sarahell, Friday, 26 March 2021 13:48 (three years ago) link

two weeks pass...

In light of the reporting on Scott Rudin, I am thinking a lot about this interview I did in 2017 with Steven Soderbergh. In it, he said that when he talks to students, part of the discussion is about running a humane set. https://t.co/eto1u8pqc0 pic.twitter.com/HjpVOLPsTS

— MZS (@mattzollerseitz) April 10, 2021

Scott Rudin story (huge temper, volatile, no sexual harassment, classic “lol Ari Gold” material):

https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/features/everyone-just-knows-hes-an-absolute-monster-scott-rudins-ex-staffers-speak-out-on-abusive-behavior

too cool for zen talk (Eazy), Saturday, 10 April 2021 16:16 (three years ago) link

I mean, fkn SPY reported on Rudin 30 years ago. This is not a breaking story.

disclaimer: back in the 90s I worked briefly in the offices of both Rudin and equally famed bully Lynda 0bst. Good times. It was no secret.

Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Saturday, 10 April 2021 22:54 (three years ago) link

The THR article cites several other reported pieces, as well as the 1994 film Swimming With Sharks. It is not pretending to break the story.

bobo honkin' slobo babe (sic), Sunday, 11 April 2021 00:30 (three years ago) link

I mean, fkn SPY reported on Rudin 30 years ago. This is not a breaking story.

Neither was Weinstein having a rep.

Ned Raggett, Sunday, 11 April 2021 00:38 (three years ago) link

I just saw somewhere that the Weinstein-inspired Law & Orderverse ep w/Jeff Garlin as HW is over 10 years old.

blue whales on ambient (C. Grisso/McCain), Sunday, 11 April 2021 02:14 (three years ago) link

love the 'oh, this is news to you? *i* always knew better' response

mookieproof, Sunday, 11 April 2021 02:48 (three years ago) link

go on. I’d love to know what the story is here beyond “known asshole remains asshole.”

is it that the industry still tolerates all sorts of cruelty? is it that the streaming revolution has shaken up previous hierarchies sufficiently that people feel more empowered to speak out? is it that a new generation is coming up that might do things differently? is it that Rudin’s weak enough now that this can be said out loud in the trades?

MZS tweet says more than the THR piece does.

Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Sunday, 11 April 2021 04:47 (three years ago) link

so i guess you were there first? and did nothing? kudos?

mookieproof, Sunday, 11 April 2021 05:18 (three years ago) link

If any reporter or screenwriter ever writes about humans, corporations or governments doing bad things, nobody must ever report on those subjects again, especially if they continue to do the same bad things for decades

bobo honkin' slobo babe (sic), Sunday, 11 April 2021 06:44 (three years ago) link

not going to bother responding seriously.

Larry Elleison (rogermexico.), Sunday, 11 April 2021 14:01 (three years ago) link

Followup piece on Rudin:

https://www.vulture.com/2021/04/scott-rudin-abusive-behavior-allegations-career.html

bobo honkin' slobo babe (sic), Saturday, 17 April 2021 02:07 (three years ago) link

Looks like Jackman did have a word: https://www.nytimes.com/2021/04/17/theater/scott-rudin-steps-away-from-broadway.html

(sourced from the slightly less sceptical)

bobo honkin' slobo babe (sic), Saturday, 17 April 2021 18:38 (three years ago) link

"Why Some Hollywood Execs Are Hoping for Scott Rudin to Return":

https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/news/scott-rudin-claims-some-execs-are-hoping-for-scott-rudin-to-return

33 Rudin assistants interviewed:

https://www.vulture.com/2021/04/scott-rudin-as-told-by-his-assistants.html

bobo honkin' slobo babe (sic), Friday, 23 April 2021 09:52 (two years ago) link

Meanwhile at Jake Paul's influencer "collab house," bullying, wage theft, racist abuse and sexual assault:

https://www.nytimes.com/2021/04/22/style/jake-paul-team-10.html

bobo honkin' slobo babe (sic), Friday, 23 April 2021 09:58 (two years ago) link

lol at scott-rudin-claims-some-execs-are-hoping-for-scott-rudin-to-return

Piven After Midnight (The Yellow Kid), Friday, 23 April 2021 14:15 (two years ago) link

"Some Execs Are Rudiner Than Others"

Ned Raggett, Friday, 23 April 2021 14:26 (two years ago) link

why ya gotta be so Rudin

Filibuster Poindexter (Neanderthal), Friday, 23 April 2021 14:29 (two years ago) link

some execs' mothers are Rudiner other execs' mothers

80's hair metal , and good praise music ! (DJP), Friday, 23 April 2021 14:40 (two years ago) link

Chabon lengthily acknowledging his two-decade complicity:

https://michaelchabon.medium.com/apology-of-a-rudin-apologist-85bec4879119

bobo honkin' slobo babe (sic), Saturday, 24 April 2021 05:43 (two years ago) link

English actor, writer/director and producer Noel Clarke thoroughly #MeToo-ed in the Guardian, with 20 accusers so far, and comments suggesting this is the tip of an iceberg. His and his lawyers' statements to the paper, and phone calls to women they suspected of being sources, are flashing neon signs, too.

bobo honkin' slobo babe (sic), Thursday, 29 April 2021 21:48 (two years ago) link

More anecdotes and statements about Clarke have continued to come out, such as this from the London School Of Dramatic Art.

bobo honkin' slobo babe (sic), Sunday, 2 May 2021 01:17 (two years ago) link

can we not use “#me-tooed” when the article doesn’t say that, and it’s used as a shorthand by conservative pundits as a way to say “this person is a victim of mob action and he probably did nothing wrong”?

mh, Sunday, 2 May 2021 01:52 (two years ago) link

sorry, you said “#metoo-ed”

mh, Sunday, 2 May 2021 01:53 (two years ago) link

I still think of it as a righteous reckoning, apologies if anyone reading has converted to reading it otherwise.

(I'm personally inclined to not surrender useful language to those who deliberately try and divert it - it's certainly easy to tell when people are using "woke" sincerely, vs gammons steaming their hamheads about "wokery" and "gwgb" - but will be cautious around that one.)

bobo honkin' slobo babe (sic), Sunday, 2 May 2021 02:56 (two years ago) link

fwiw, i also read "me-too'd" as shorthand for "Caught" and not much else

Draymond is "Mr Dumpy" (forksclovetofu), Sunday, 2 May 2021 04:01 (two years ago) link

(The fact that so many women were able to say "me too" when told that others had spoken to the reporters, and more did so in response to the article about the first 20 dropping, supported the value of the phrase imo)

bobo honkin' slobo babe (sic), Sunday, 2 May 2021 04:24 (two years ago) link

can we not use “#me-tooed” when the article doesn’t say that, and it’s used as a shorthand by conservative pundits as a way to say “this person is a victim of mob action and he probably did nothing wrong”?


Otm, am always deeply uneasy at this use

Scamp Granada (gyac), Sunday, 2 May 2021 07:54 (two years ago) link

I think it's probably tactically useful to tie it to "remember that time when we decided this wasn't okay (and that time a bit later when we remembered that we decided that again)" - I agree it's not useful to over-consider conservative media's smearing of terms (or there'd be no BLM or Antifa).

Andrew Farrell, Sunday, 2 May 2021 08:23 (two years ago) link

the hashtag as a verb is best avoided unless you want to sound like kanye

Left, Sunday, 2 May 2021 08:51 (two years ago) link

Mh’s explanation is useful, but I’d add to it. The term puts the focus on the person being accused and inverts the actors and victims in a really perverse way, to the point that it flattens out the actual happening(s) and the pain caused by it(people talking about what has happened to them) to this very cynical sort of “so and so got targeted by these accusations”. It’s a really unhelpful term at best and I’d encourage those of you determined to use it who you think you’re doing it for.

Scamp Granada (gyac), Sunday, 2 May 2021 08:52 (two years ago) link

*to ask who you think, gah

Scamp Granada (gyac), Sunday, 2 May 2021 09:02 (two years ago) link

I'd see the focus being switched to the accused as a good thing though, it takes it as read that there's a preponderance of accounts against him and short-circuits any he-said-she-said.

I mean, I'll be happy if and when it gets to the point where a single accuser has more weight than the accused, but the power imbalance in the stories itt suggests that'll take more than parity.

Andrew Farrell, Sunday, 2 May 2021 09:37 (two years ago) link

Four women sexually harassed and bullied by Clarke on the set of Dr Who, before he began writing/directing/producing, have also given accounts to the Guuardian. His legal responses continue to be persuasive.

...another former runner on Doctor Who alleges Clarke sexually harassed her and another female coworker in a bar at the Holland House Hotel in the mid-2000s in Cardiff, following a work event. When the women rejected Clarke’s advances, she alleges, he became “rude” and “aggressive”. The following day, she said Clarke spread false rumours about both women on set.

Clarke strongly denied the allegation. His lawyers said there would have been no real need or purpose for him to be in the hotel bar because he does not drink.

bobo honkin' slobo babe (sic), Friday, 7 May 2021 22:58 (two years ago) link

I really fucking hate this. Dude was set up to be the fucking Golden Child and he wiped his ass all over the opportunity.

80's hair metal , and good praise music ! (DJP), Saturday, 8 May 2021 17:03 (two years ago) link

DJP otm

disgusting entitled toxic bullshit

terminators of endearment (VegemiteGrrl), Saturday, 8 May 2021 17:34 (two years ago) link

when these are the "further reading" headlines about you in one week

https://i.imgur.com/bvd3fXv.jpg

your best move is probably to respond to an ex's accusation of “abusive, manipulative, and predatory” behaviour with instagram posts saying things like "do you know what’s ‘predatory behaviour’? When we were having a fuckin’ threesome with your fuckin’ weird mate from the fuckin’ bar and I was having a fuckin’ diarrhea shit on the toilet and you were trying to kick the fuckin’ door in to fuckin’ sit on my dick." and "I’m confused as to where the predatory thing is coming from. What even is the accusation?… If it’s the predatory thing, it’s false. Also, I was 29 at the time. What’s the problem with trying to find a 19-year-old?"

bobo honkin' slobo babe (sic), Wednesday, 19 May 2021 06:36 (two years ago) link

There has been a mini reckoning with harassment/discrimination in the beer industry in the last week. A female brewer began soliciting stories from women and POC of issues they have faced working in the industry and started receiving an avalanche of stories related mostly through Instagram. Specific bad actors were named and shit popped off:

https://www.goodbeerhunting.com/sightlines/2021/5/18/beer-industry-allegations-legal-vulnerability

Deicide at Chuck E. Cheese (PBKR), Wednesday, 19 May 2021 11:40 (two years ago) link

wasn't sure whether to put this here or in the "shit that looks like an onion article" thread

Kevin Spacey ‘to play sex abuse investigator’ in acting comeback https://t.co/jdyLttrySq

— The Independent (@Independent) May 24, 2021

Roz, Monday, 24 May 2021 08:29 (two years ago) link

.....

Feta Van Cheese (Neanderthal), Monday, 24 May 2021 14:49 (two years ago) link

Given how #metoo was received in Italy, I can't say I'm surprised.

pomenitul, Monday, 24 May 2021 14:53 (two years ago) link

two months pass...

Is this the movie/metoo thread? This is tangential, but interesting:

Does my name belong to me? My face? What about my life? My story? Why does my name refer to events I had no hand in? I return to these questions because others continue to profit off my name, face, & story without my consent. Most recently, the film #STILLWATER.

/ a thread

— Amanda Knox (@amandaknox) July 29, 2021

Josh in Chicago, Friday, 30 July 2021 20:48 (two years ago) link

Nice how she gets a plug in for her podcast there

Tracer Hand, Saturday, 31 July 2021 15:14 (two years ago) link

cmon she has been through total hell and then some -- for some movie to use her story and publicize it with her name without her consent is gross and very wrong imo

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Saturday, 31 July 2021 19:08 (two years ago) link

I think I’d have more sympathy if she hadn’t falsely accused her (black) boss at the bar she worked at of being the murderer.. and making up details to support that story. It completely wrecked the guy’s life. She was convicted of that. Is that “morally vile”? I’m going to say yes. But Patrick Lumumba doesn’t have a podcast and doesn’t do “threads”.. so who tells that story (and does Knox get final sign-off??)

Tracer Hand, Sunday, 1 August 2021 14:51 (two years ago) link

I guess I forgot about that part. I can’t help but have some sympathy for her even though she’s clearly some variety of asshole.

weird woman in a bar (La Lechera), Sunday, 1 August 2021 15:09 (two years ago) link

Was this the accusation that was after days of abusive interrogation without a lawyer and that was basically concocted by the police themselves?

Believe me, grow a lemon tree. (ledge), Sunday, 1 August 2021 15:13 (two years ago) link

Hoo boy

Tracer Hand, Sunday, 1 August 2021 16:07 (two years ago) link

Do enlighten me! I didn't think "it's the police who are the bad guys" was such a hot take but I'm happy to be proved wrong.

Believe me, grow a lemon tree. (ledge), Sunday, 1 August 2021 16:30 (two years ago) link

At this point we should probably create a bot that ingests all of truejustice.org and a bot that ingests all of amandaknox.com and have them collaborate on a DLC of Ace Attorney

I can’t imagine what it’s like to be her, or Monica Lewinsky, or anybody else “embroiled” in a huge public scandal. But I think people do get to make movies about your story, or based on your story, without asking your blessing probably.

Tracer Hand, Sunday, 1 August 2021 16:48 (two years ago) link

Legally speaking, I think Knox has become a "public figure" and therefore has no enforceable claim over the publicly available details of her story, including use of her name, so long as it is not implied she has approved of or endorsed its use. Her only valid claim is confined to the ethics of the situation. If the film makers didn't even reach out to seek her opinion about the script, it's kind of shitty of them.

it is to laugh, like so, ha! (Aimless), Sunday, 1 August 2021 18:10 (two years ago) link

Why would they need her opinion on their script?

Muswell Hillbilly Elegy (President Keyes), Sunday, 1 August 2021 18:22 (two years ago) link

It's a courtesy, not a "need". If she objected to some aspect that wasn't vital to the story, they could alter it easily enough. When you're dropping $100 million on a film project where every detail is scrutinized from every angle, it's not hard to include that step.

it is to laugh, like so, ha! (Aimless), Sunday, 1 August 2021 18:33 (two years ago) link

xpost They don't, but in her epic thread she quotes a story that claims McCarthy said he "couldn’t help but imagine how it would feel to be in Knox’s shoes" and asked "Who are the people that are visiting (her), and what are those relationships? Like, what’s the story around the story?” And she's basically saying, dude, I'm right here, you could have asked me rather than just riffing on my life. It's kind of like that crazy Cat Person tale: a ton of very specific stuff was lifted directly from this stranger's life, but a bunch of stuff was totally made up, too.

I assume this movie has the usual disclaimer "The story, all names, characters, and incidents portrayed in this production are fictitious. No identification with actual persons (living or deceased), places, buildings, and products is intended or should be inferred," but that's weird if the writer/director said he started the movie with Knox in mind but then didn't contact her and ask her for permission. Is that disclaimer not on biopics and projects that *are* based on persons, living or deceased?

Josh in Chicago, Sunday, 1 August 2021 18:40 (two years ago) link

This just strikes me as a ‘ripped from the headlines’ Law and Order type deal where I sincerely doubt the writers did a lot of calling up of the fictionally portrayed people

Muswell Hillbilly Elegy (President Keyes), Sunday, 1 August 2021 19:55 (two years ago) link

Theatrical release films spend a lot more time in pre-production than that kind of television episode.

it is to laugh, like so, ha! (Aimless), Sunday, 1 August 2021 20:31 (two years ago) link

New Tao Lin novel came out today, and probably a revival of his likely past abuses will follow.

suddenly tao lin is everywhere again, including granta. once again the publishing industry/literary world is happy to ignore credible accounts of his abuse

— charlotte geater (@tambourine) July 29, 2021

... (Eazy), Friday, 6 August 2021 02:17 (two years ago) link

The difference is now there’s not enough ilxors left to get a clusterfuck going about whether his books are good I guess

Clara Lemlich stan account (silby), Friday, 6 August 2021 03:38 (two years ago) link

My first thought was “maybe they’ll drop the very annoying closing up the plug bag theme bit on comedy bang bang”

Clara Lemlich stan account (silby), Saturday, 14 August 2021 02:03 (two years ago) link

This is a complicated situation, defined as grooming but with no sexual intent, that will probably create more definitive boundaries between performers and younger fans.

In light of the allegations against Alice Ripley, a conversation about interactions between theatre artists and fans has erupted online.

But there are aspects to this story that many seem to be missing, especially within the theatre communities.

— OnStage Blog (@OnstageBlog) August 24, 2021

... (Eazy), Tuesday, 24 August 2021 21:47 (two years ago) link

I love Alice Ripley. this is rough :(

Duke Detain (Neanderthal), Tuesday, 24 August 2021 21:49 (two years ago) link

spend any time on social media following any kind of celebrity and the mental instability of lots of young people who interact with those celebrities will make you shudder. This is probably more pronounced these days with legions of weirdo 'stans' who frankly should be jettisoned into the sun; but even back then, from what I just read, Ripley should have known better and not engaged.

akm, Tuesday, 24 August 2021 23:43 (two years ago) link

Alice Ripley seems to have exercised very bad judgment and relished the attention of these young “fans,” but “grooming without sexual intent” seems like a weird charge

treeship., Tuesday, 24 August 2021 23:52 (two years ago) link

I’m glad the victims came forward though. This is a more ambiguous type of abuse but one that is probably common.

treeship., Tuesday, 24 August 2021 23:59 (two years ago) link

i've been following the story and that was a really interesting article that helped clarify a lot of questions I had.

Alice Ripley seems to have exercised very bad judgment and relished the attention of these young “fans,” but “grooming without sexual intent” seems like a weird charge

― treeship., Wednesday, 25 August 2021 00:52 (eleven hours ago) bookmarkflaglink

In the initial accusations against Ripley, she was accused of grooming, which is a term commonly used for manipulative behaviors that abusers use to gain access to a potential victim, coerce them to agree to the abuse, and reduce the risk of being caught.

I think this makes sense as a definition of grooming that doesn't necessarily have to include sexual intent, it could cover e.g. getting someone to keep stolen goods in their home, or lend large sums of money - there is an ulterior motive to the efforts to form an emotional relationship, and the motive is to get the other person to do something damaging to themselves that they wouldn't otherwise be willing to do - but I don't think the article really makes a good case that this is what's happening in this situation?

Did Alice Ripley allegedly groom these young people in hopes of sexually abusing them? It doesn’t appear that way. Did she apparently use the tool of grooming for other purposes with these fans? That’s an entirely different discussion.

what exactly are the "other purposes" that Ripley was allegedly using the tool of grooming for? what was her ulterior motive? the article implies that she formed these relationships with fans to gratify her ego, but that seems hazy as a justification for calling it grooming. In the definition above the 'abuse' is delineated as something distinct from the 'grooming', the grooming is to facilitate the abuse, but in this case it seems like the accusers are arguing that what they call the grooming was in itself 'abusive'?

soref, Wednesday, 25 August 2021 11:28 (two years ago) link

Yeah “grooming” might be the wrong word. It sounds like she might be emotionally immature and talked to these kids as if they were her peers. I can definitely see how they felt violated by this as she was ignoring boundaries.

treeship., Wednesday, 25 August 2021 11:44 (two years ago) link

the article makes it pretty clear that she would unceremoniously 'dump' them after long, emotionally intimate relationships. imo both the emotionally intimate relationships and the dumping are abuses of the power she holds as an adult over children ffs.

Tracer Hand, Wednesday, 25 August 2021 11:53 (two years ago) link

and when i say abuses i mean like, proper, full-on emotional damage that it could take years to recover from

Tracer Hand, Wednesday, 25 August 2021 11:54 (two years ago) link

Yeah as I said earlier it is a kind of abuse—just one we haven’t seen discussed much in the metoo era.

treeship., Wednesday, 25 August 2021 11:56 (two years ago) link

play whatever sick ego games you want with other adults - though you probably shouldn't! - but imagining my, i dunno 13-y-o as having identity questions and then latching onto a revered celebrity who actually texts them and invites them over, it's unthinkable really

Tracer Hand, Wednesday, 25 August 2021 11:56 (two years ago) link

Ugh

Hitsville Ukase (James Redd and the Blecchs), Wednesday, 25 August 2021 12:34 (two years ago) link

finished the Daily Beast article just now, seems pretty clear that Ripley is not being truthful in her denial that she only met fans briefly at the stage door or very occasionally had dinners with them, when DB has seen photos of her with one of these women in San Diego and SF (the woman lived in NYC). I was thinking about what kind of pathology made sense of this and decided that Ripley just sounds like a terrible person, no pathology needed.

akm, Wednesday, 25 August 2021 14:45 (two years ago) link

Ron Jeremy indicted on 34 counts of sexual assault.

Precious, Grace, Hill & Beard LTD. (C. Grisso/McCain), Wednesday, 25 August 2021 23:55 (two years ago) link

Seems like this should spark a reckoning with the porn industry. There are massive abuses there but people don’t like to think about it.

treeship., Thursday, 26 August 2021 19:29 (two years ago) link

two weeks pass...

Rose McGowan has gone over the edge

Larry Elder presser with Rose McGowan kicking off now pic.twitter.com/Hae9zUeogH

— Dave Weigel (@daveweigel) September 12, 2021

akm, Monday, 13 September 2021 15:59 (two years ago) link

Yeah I shared that in the monthly politics thread yesterday, so unexpected. So her argument seems to be that too many Democrats ignored her claims and accusations (which is totally in the realm of possibility) that she has no choice but to now be a Republican and stump for mini-Trumps that have been credibly accused of sexual harassment?

a superficial sheeb of intelligence (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Monday, 13 September 2021 16:35 (two years ago) link

*sigh*

Legalize Suburban Benches (Raymond Cummings), Monday, 13 September 2021 17:19 (two years ago) link

two weeks pass...

Never mind. Just trying to remove the fbclid. Don't know why it didn't work.

Hans Holbein (Chinchilla Volapük), Thursday, 30 September 2021 21:39 (two years ago) link

ugh gross

certified juice therapist (harbl), Thursday, 30 September 2021 21:42 (two years ago) link

it's not including the slash in your link for some reason

certified juice therapist (harbl), Thursday, 30 September 2021 21:42 (two years ago) link

In addition to Michaels, Shoemaker, and Fallon, the potential cast members around to witness Sanz’s conduct would have included Will Ferrell, Ana Gasteyer, Darrell Hammond, Chris Kattan, Tracy Morgan, Chris Parnell, Molly Shannon, Rachel Dratch, Tina Fey, Jerry Minor, Maya Rudolph, Amy Poehler, Dean Edwards, Seth Meyers, and Jeff Richards.


Is this an attempt to game Google Search or am I supposed to read this in Don Pardo’s voice?

licorice in the front, pizza in the rear (Whiney G. Weingarten), Friday, 1 October 2021 03:09 (two years ago) link

lmao

Tracer Hand, Friday, 1 October 2021 09:12 (two years ago) link

Now I’m reading this in Don Pardo’s voice always

Legalize Suburban Benches (Raymond Cummings), Friday, 1 October 2021 10:45 (two years ago) link

Reading everything in Don Pardo’s voice = people who have figured out how to live

Lavator Shemmelpennick, Friday, 1 October 2021 12:17 (two years ago) link

one month passes...

well everything appears to be back to normal

https://www.nytimes.com/2021/11/18/nyregion/christopher-belter-rape-sentence.html

Tracer Hand, Friday, 19 November 2021 23:49 (two years ago) link

nothing much seemed to happen with that horatio sanz story, did it? maybe because he's frankly not famous enough to suffer a real career impact at this point.

akm, Saturday, 20 November 2021 17:01 (two years ago) link

silby's wish came true, at least.

bobo honkin' slobo babe (sic), Saturday, 20 November 2021 18:32 (two years ago) link

three weeks pass...

Noted Harvey lookalike Jeff Garlin leaves The Goldbergs after complaints about on-set behavior.

https://deadline.com/2021/12/jeff-garlin-exit-the-goldbergs-hr-investigations-season-9-1234892030/?

In his VF interview, Garlin dismissed accusations of being verbally offensive by saying that he is just being “silly” as part of his shtick as a comedian. He did note his penchant for dropping the word “vagina” on the set.

According to a source on the show, a camera assistant made a complaint to her department head about Garlin’s use of the word. After the actor found out, he reportedly put his hands around her and kept saying “vagina” in her face over and over again. Overall, Garlin’s go-to jokes that a number of people on the show found offensive were talking about grandma’s vagina, balls and brassier, a co-worker said. Additionally, he would not address some longtime female crew members by name, using instead nicknames that some also considered offensive.

Precious, Grace, Hill & Beard LTD. (C. Grisso/McCain), Friday, 17 December 2021 00:50 (two years ago) link

It's pretty weird that the writer said "balls" without quotes

licorice in the front, pizza in the rear (Whiney G. Weingarten), Friday, 17 December 2021 02:05 (two years ago) link

grandma's balls
used to hand me
piece of candy

When Young Sheldon began to rap (forksclovetofu), Friday, 17 December 2021 03:05 (two years ago) link

he was talking about whose grandma? his?

more difficult than I look (Aimless), Friday, 17 December 2021 03:53 (two years ago) link

Grandma’s balls got run over by a reindeer

... (Eazy), Friday, 17 December 2021 03:54 (two years ago) link

that show is so fucking terrible, maybe it was his negative abusive behavior to blame all along

hopefully this review helped someone (Neanderthal), Friday, 17 December 2021 05:41 (two years ago) link

how does one explain the steady solidity of Curb then?

When Young Sheldon began to rap (forksclovetofu), Friday, 17 December 2021 07:06 (two years ago) link

Saw some discussion of how a general accusation of "sexual assault" allows for some weaselly wiggle room. What Noth is being accused of is outright violent *rape.*

Josh in Chicago, Friday, 17 December 2021 14:38 (two years ago) link

New accusations against Bryan Singer.

https://variety.com/2021/film/news/bryan-singer-blake-stuerman-1235136986/

peace, man, Tuesday, 21 December 2021 16:45 (two years ago) link

one month passes...

no charges were ever brought against toback????

yes all my posts today are based on real names disallowed by the Spelling Bee

Tracer Hand, Friday, 28 January 2022 11:11 (two years ago) link

two months pass...
one month passes...

Cary Fukunaga

Acclaimed Director Cary Fukunaga Accused of Grooming Young Women for Sex https://t.co/86h9z8eUZR pic.twitter.com/HtdPhEZ8Lk

— Jezebel (@Jezebel) May 9, 2022

akm, Monday, 9 May 2022 19:17 (one year ago) link

(important to note that accusers here are all of legal age, there isn't much I would actually call 'abuse' here, and I also assume all people in Hollywood behave this way)

akm, Monday, 9 May 2022 19:23 (one year ago) link

one month passes...

The parents of an 18-year-old from North Dakota have obtained a protective order against “The Flash” star Ezra Miller.

But the teen’s parents and law enforcement are having a hard time locating Miller to serve the actor with the order. https://t.co/B89xAGTEGx

— Los Angeles Times (@latimes) June 10, 2022

Presumably in restraints somewhere on the Warner Brothers lot.

circa1916, Monday, 13 June 2022 02:45 (one year ago) link

for a while this spring all you had to do if you were looking for e. miller was camp out at my local a few nights until the flash showed up to try and fight you. haven’t had any encounters in the past month or two but have heard a lot of grim gossip about this relationship— a small and sad part of what’s lately felt like an accelerated wiring of this island into the international lawless playboy circuit. (for the state more broadly, of course, it’s always been a specialty.)

difficult listening hour, Monday, 13 June 2022 04:32 (one year ago) link

Paul Haggis accused again, and held in Italy.

https://www.rollingstone.com/movies/movie-news/paul-haggis-arrest-italy-sexual-assault-charges-1370822/

nickn, Monday, 20 June 2022 07:38 (one year ago) link

three weeks pass...

Scrubs Co-Executive Producer Arrested For Alleged Serial Sexual Assaults

https://laist.com/news/criminal-justice/eric-weinberg-scrubs-arrested-serial-sexual-assaults-rape-californication

nickn, Friday, 15 July 2022 21:43 (one year ago) link

one month passes...

I'd heard the grumblings about him abusing his ex wife but bloody hell.

I never really thought about using good works/good social media prescence as a smokescreen, but its clearly an effective one.

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Friday, 19 August 2022 06:33 (one year ago) link

it’s as old as the road to Savile

big movers, hot steppers + long shaker intros (breastcrawl), Friday, 19 August 2022 07:12 (one year ago) link

sadly the guy who started cult baseball comedy comic The Dugout did the same thing, white knighted all over social media but turned out to be an absolute creep

Tracer Hand, Friday, 19 August 2022 08:14 (one year ago) link

the dan price thing is irritating as fuck because there was a goddamned BLOOMBERG story about him waterboarding his ex that dropped BEFORE her TED talk was due to be posted (the one Price got nuked).

https://www.bloomberg.com/features/2015-gravity-ceo-dan-price/

I read this when it was published and assumed he was toast going forward; not only was there that, but he was in weird legal disputes with his brother, I worked in the ecommerce space and no one took his payments company seriously, and it's been revealed they don't really do any development, they simply sell access to another software system. So the company is/was BS, their CEO an obvious grandstanding asshole, and the abuse allegations. And yet he's consistently been all over twitter and linkedin, constantly having his shit shared by people who you'd think would know better and who I guess were terminally incurious, because if you googled his name it was really not very hard to come across that story. I'm glad the NYT writer pointed out that the Times itself refused to investigate him in the past.

akm, Friday, 19 August 2022 21:24 (one year ago) link

yeah i'm paywalled from that but there was already so much crazy shit about that guy that was already out there. and any time someone would bring up any of it on twitter or reddit they would get absolutely buried in hate, denial, victim blaming. all this guy does is post left-leaning tweets that could've been generated by AI and he had a million people ready to go to war for him.

, Friday, 19 August 2022 22:56 (one year ago) link

I'm mad at myself for falling for this nonsense

Toonie Orlando (Neanderthal), Friday, 19 August 2022 23:01 (one year ago) link

But fuck, the media knew who he was before the pay hike and let him control his own narrative anyway

Toonie Orlando (Neanderthal), Friday, 19 August 2022 23:02 (one year ago) link

The worst part of it all is, there SHOULD be more CEOs doing what he did, taking massive paycuts and giving staff pay rises. People want this. But now it'll just give the right ammunition about sleazy leftist cheaters etc etc

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Saturday, 20 August 2022 00:37 (one year ago) link

There seems to be a slew of this shit on twitter though - "jojofromjerz" and that Teidrich guy who are constantly posting ra ra pro left stuff and I'm starting to wonder if theyre just shillbots.

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Saturday, 20 August 2022 00:38 (one year ago) link

Did Jeff Tiedrich or whatever his name is get busted doing something? I had to unfriend someone who was spamming screen caps of every one of his tweets during the Trump years.

papal hotwife (milo z), Saturday, 20 August 2022 00:43 (one year ago) link

The worst part of it all is, there SHOULD be more CEOs doing what he did, taking massive paycuts and giving staff pay rises. People want this. But now it'll just give the right ammunition about sleazy leftist cheaters etc etc

― Stoop Crone (Trayce), Friday, August 19, 2022 8:37 PM bookmarkflaglink

I was thinking exactly this earlier

Toonie Orlando (Neanderthal), Saturday, 20 August 2022 00:45 (one year ago) link

Teidrich just backed off after Trump was out; he was unbearable for a long time but he also eventually seemed to realize how unbearable he was getting. I did mute him though.

jojofromjerz: I can't fucking stand this lady, shillbot is right though she appears to be an actual person (like Teidrich); I just can't believe they have the time to sit around and think of dumb pithy liberal responses to every single conservative post.

akm, Saturday, 20 August 2022 00:47 (one year ago) link

Did Jeff Tiedrich or whatever his name is get busted doing something?

Is looking like Eric Clapton a crime?

no, but being Eric Clapton is a misdemeanor or a felony, depending on what state you live in.

Toonie Orlando (Neanderthal), Saturday, 20 August 2022 00:49 (one year ago) link

It’s such an insidious use of plausible deniability/“but he seems like a good guy”/“he has always been cool to me” type situation. Insidious!! What a menace. Glad he is fully outed.

Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Saturday, 20 August 2022 01:46 (one year ago) link

I can understand why we in the general public were eager to lap up the story uncritically. it was a feel-good story that progressive folk wanted to believe in, which is why I got suckered in. but the media was still writing what basically sounded like press releases for the fuckin' guy up until recently, ffs. like this one from last year: https://www.cbsnews.com/news/dan-price-gravity-payments-ceo-70000-employee-minimum-wage/

Milkshake Duck strikes again.

Toonie Orlando (Neanderthal), Saturday, 20 August 2022 03:03 (one year ago) link

It’s such an insidious use of plausible deniability/“but he seems like a good guy”/“he has always been cool to me” type situation

I'm reminded suddenly of a woman I used to work with a very long time ago, who I bumped into at a gig about 5 years after I'd left that job. She told me she'd basically been hounded into leaving because she was sexually assaulted by the office nice/popular guy, and because he was the nicest, helpful Mr Regular, NOBODY believed her and everyone accused her of making it up, until she had to resign from the harrasment.

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Saturday, 20 August 2022 05:06 (one year ago) link

Yes exactly. I would bet actual money that the pervasive feeling that people don’t believe her has stuck and will never go away. The assault/harassment is obviously damaging but the gaslighting leaves a deep scar too.
To exploit that in order to keep assaulting people like this guy did? I have no more words.

Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Saturday, 20 August 2022 14:47 (one year ago) link

10 seasons!

Histoire de BradNelson (Whiney G. Weingarten), Wednesday, 31 August 2022 16:32 (one year ago) link

Somebody somewhere is already working on their doctoral thesis about how a mass audience 'sees' the 80s in America through the lens of this show, Stranger Things and The Americans.

Ned Raggett, Wednesday, 31 August 2022 16:50 (one year ago) link

one month passes...

https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/anna-faris-reveals-director-sexually-155003460.html

she's talking about Ivan Reitman here, i'm almost 100% certain

― nomar, Wednesday, October 25, 2017 2:01 PM (four years ago) bookmarkflaglink

You were right.

https://deadline.com/2022/10/anna-faris-ivan-reitman-director-slapped-ass-set-my-super-ex-girlfriend-1235148740/

peace, man, Wednesday, 19 October 2022 14:15 (one year ago) link

Thompson also told jurors Weinstein has “unique things about his body” that most victims will describe, referring to Weinstein genitalia.

“What I’m referring to is the result of a surgery that the defendant had in 1999. That surgery caused pretty noticeable scarring, and you’ll see the pictures,” Thompson said. “Because of an infection, his testicles were actually taken from his scrotum and put into his inner thighs.”

Josh in Chicago, Monday, 24 October 2022 21:40 (one year ago) link

Thread Delivers

DA' Inner Thigh Y'all

insane oatmeal raisin cookie posse (Whiney G. Weingarten), Monday, 24 October 2022 21:46 (one year ago) link

srsly guys

I thought this bump may have been about the depressing outcome of Anthony Rapp’s lawsuit against Kevin Spacey

i just wish they could drag spacey to the bottom of the ocean, it makes me so sad for ppl like Rapp that he still gets to walk around and charm juries

https://variety.com/2022/film/news/kevin-spacey-anthony-rapp-loses-40-million-sexual-battery-lawsuit-1235410119/

werewolves of laudanum (VegemiteGrrl), Monday, 24 October 2022 23:34 (one year ago) link

one month passes...

Thought She Said was good. Very straightforward account, but I liked it better than Spotlight. I think not knowing Carey Mulligan well, and not knowing Zoe Kazan at all (though I did see The Deuce) was an advantage; I was always aware of the performers with Spotlight. Almost put this in the Trump films thread--the story begins with him, and the actor who plays him on a phone call is very convincing--but then remembered this one. All the victims are very good, ditto Weinstein's lawyer. Best filmmaking was a tracking shot down an empty hotel hallway as a recording played, authentic enough that I initially thought it was real, but presumably it can't be.

Very much, of course, a descendent of All the President's Men, another celebration of the intrepid investigative journalist. (Will such films die forever in the next few years because they simply won't make sense anymore?) I wish they had paid explicit homage to Jason Robards at some point by having Patricia Clarkson--the ultimate in a supportive, even-tempered, perfect editor--lose her cool and growl, "Goddamn it, when is somebody going to go on the record for this story?!"

clemenza, Monday, 28 November 2022 02:52 (one year ago) link

Just read a review, and apparently that is Weinstein's voice in the hallway scene I mentioned...He taped his encounters?

clemenza, Monday, 28 November 2022 04:03 (one year ago) link

I guess the more obvious explanation is that the woman taped it.

clemenza, Monday, 28 November 2022 04:04 (one year ago) link

it was widely/publicly known that she taped it -- and he still denied it!! god he is such an infected sore of a human being.

Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Monday, 28 November 2022 17:38 (one year ago) link

Didn't know that--it really is spooky the way they incorporate the tape (the shot almost evokes The Shining).

Whether you've seen the film or not, why was Weinstein so obsessed with whether or not Gwyneth Paltrow in particular talked to the Times?

clemenza, Monday, 28 November 2022 19:57 (one year ago) link

Not getting Jeff Garlin to play Weinstein was such a missed opp

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nb2He8uQfDs

Whiney G. Weingarten, Monday, 28 November 2022 20:00 (one year ago) link

jeff garlin apparently has his own issues

mookieproof, Monday, 28 November 2022 22:05 (one year ago) link

haha yeah garlin was famously fired from his tv series in the past year for allegations

akm, Monday, 28 November 2022 22:55 (one year ago) link

The way they do visually bring Weinstein into the film--I won't say--is effective.

clemenza, Monday, 28 November 2022 23:05 (one year ago) link

Not at all insinuating anything about Scorsese--just about the least likely Weinstein in the industry, I'd say--but it's funny how they handle it when his name pops up in the film.

clemenza, Thursday, 1 December 2022 13:32 (one year ago) link

Was reading the Havana Syndrome article and saw this:

MoMA Trustee Leon Black Faces Second Rape Allegation

https://www.artnews.com/art-news/news/leon-black-second-rape-allegation-1234648737/

nickn, Friday, 2 December 2022 03:01 (one year ago) link

clemenza at 2:52 28 Nov 22

Thought She Said was good. Very straightforward account, but I liked it better than Spotlight. I think not knowing Carey Mulligan well, and not knowing Zoe Kazan at all (though I did see The Deuce) was an advantage; I was always aware of the performers with Spotlight. Almost put this in the Trump films thread--the story begins with him, and the actor who plays him on a phone call is very convincing--but then remembered this one. All the victims are very good, ditto Weinstein's lawyer. Best filmmaking was a tracking shot down an empty hotel hallway as a recording played, authentic enough that I initially thought it was real, but presumably it can't be.

Very much, of course, a descendent of All the President's Men, another celebration of the intrepid investigative journalist. (Will such films die forever in the next few years because they simply won't make sense anymore?) I wish they had paid explicit homage to Jason Robards at some point by having Patricia Clarkson--the ultimate in a supportive, even-tempered, perfect editor--lose her cool and growl, "Goddamn it, when is somebody going to go on the record for this story?!"
went to see this at the weekend and you've said most of what I wanted to say, would also add that the scenes with their daughters were well-judged, also all those long shots of NY office buildings reminiscent of Hopper paintings were a nice touch. it's standard oscarbait fare, but done really well for a change.

Camaraderie at Arms Length, Sunday, 4 December 2022 20:18 (one year ago) link

Until a friend pointed it out yesterday, I didn't know Zoe Kazan was Elia's granddaughter (by his first wife, not Barbara Loden) and Nicholas Kazan's daughter.

clemenza, Sunday, 4 December 2022 23:32 (one year ago) link

She's actually currently adapting East of Eden as a miniseries. (Elia directed the 1955 movie.)

jaymc, Sunday, 4 December 2022 23:48 (one year ago) link

two weeks pass...

All the victims are very good, ditto Weinstein's lawyer.

Saw She Said again; I missed that Weinstein's lawyer was Clinton flunky Lanny Davis. (They say "Lanny" six million times, but his surname only once or twice.) He used to drive me around the bend, especially in 2008, when he was the last person in the world to accept that Hillary wasn't going to win the nomination.

clemenza, Tuesday, 20 December 2022 03:36 (one year ago) link

oh, it's the woman from the first paragraph here - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Steven_Tyler#Family_and_relationships

StanM, Friday, 30 December 2022 14:10 (one year ago) link

Seems bad

And she has become some kind of anti-choice advocate, which I am struggling not to use as mitigation for Tyler’s fucked up behavior (because it isn’t relevant)

Tracer Hand, Monday, 2 January 2023 15:00 (one year ago) link

Relevant in as far as his fucked up behavior probably contributed to any fucked up worldviews she ended up with about relationships, sex, kids etc.

Lavator Shemmelpennick, Monday, 2 January 2023 15:28 (one year ago) link

Julia Holcomb's story is a big part of the documentary Look Away (along with Kari Krome and Jackie Fuchs). I hope she wins this.

Elvis Telecom, Monday, 2 January 2023 20:43 (one year ago) link

Relevant in as far as his fucked up behavior probably contributed to any fucked up worldviews she ended up with about relationships, sex, kids etc.

This is a good point

Tracer Hand, Tuesday, 3 January 2023 10:36 (one year ago) link

https://variety.com/2023/film/news/romeo-and-juliet-child-abuse-nude-scene-lawsuit-1235477837/

The suit alleges that Zeffirelli — who died in 2019 — assured both actors that there would be no nudity in the film, and that they would wear flesh-colored undergarments in the bedroom scene. But in the final days of filming, the director allegedly implored them to perform in the nude with body makeup, “or the Picture would fail.”

Hussey was 15 at the time and Whiting was 16. According to the complaint, Zeffirelli showed them where the camera would be positioned, and assured them that no nudity would be photographed or released in the film. The suit alleges that he was being dishonest and that Whiting and Hussey were in fact filmed nude without their knowledge.

Always thought it was pretty crazy to watch this in high school

change display name (Jordan), Tuesday, 3 January 2023 21:09 (one year ago) link

right??? we watched that in my fairly conservative hs in 9th grade

slai gorgeous-alexander (m bison), Tuesday, 3 January 2023 21:15 (one year ago) link

Wow - I just learned about that thanks to last week's episode of With Gourley and Rust. They were covering Black Christmas, in which Hussey stars. Paul said that his mom used to teach school and would rotate the school's AV cart so that the screen wasn't facing the students during the nude scene.

peace, man, Tuesday, 3 January 2023 21:59 (one year ago) link

Don’t these 70+ year olds have anything better to do? Following in the footsteps of the Nirvana baby? Pathetic.

Josefa, Wednesday, 4 January 2023 04:37 (one year ago) link

If it happened in 2018, would you object to them speaking out now?

more crankable (sic), Wednesday, 4 January 2023 06:25 (one year ago) link

the 2018 Hussey quotes at the end of the Variety piece seem to suggest she only recently changed her mind - but that doesn't mean she can't do that (shameful reactions under the article)

StanM, Wednesday, 4 January 2023 06:36 (one year ago) link

Following in the footsteps of the Nirvana baby? Pathetic.

Yes, these two situations are basically the same, good job

rob, Wednesday, 4 January 2023 16:31 (one year ago) link

Andrew Callaghan (Channel 5/All Gas No Brakes) allegation just dropped

Y’all… Andrew Callaghan (Channel 5/All Gas No Brakes) allegation just dropped pic.twitter.com/yblMB7ylee

— care-oh (@babytriggy) January 5, 2023

nickn, Sunday, 8 January 2023 06:50 (one year ago) link

Nickelodeon just "parted ways" with Dan Schneider and this sure feels like getting out in front of some story

― aloha darkness my old friend (katherine), Tuesday, March 27, 2018 3:47 PM (four years ago) bookmarkflaglink

Just finished the audiobook of Jennette McCurdy's I'm Glad My Mom Died. She gets into some of Schneider's abuse - he was definitely an enormous asshole to children and grooming her (giving her alcohol underage; unwanted touching and shoulder rubs). I had never watched an episode of iCarly or Sam and Cat in their entirety. Mostly just saw the commercials in between episodes of Avatar the Last Airbender or whatever else my kids were watching at the time. But even from just seeing short clips here and there, I knew that McCurdy was a very talented comedic actress. To learn that her talent came at the expense of such an abusive, stunted childhood is truly heartbreaking. The book is absolutely a horror story. Definitely recommended (with trigger warnings for eating disorders and child abuse).

peace, man, Friday, 13 January 2023 13:10 (one year ago) link

one month passes...

https://variety.com/2023/film/news/harvey-weinstein-sentenced-los-angeles-prison-term-1235531069/

Harvey Weinstein has been sentenced to 16 years, effectively ensuring the former Hollywood mogul and convicted rapist will spend the rest of his life behind bars.

Weinstein’s sentencing was held in downtown Los Angeles on Thursday morning, nearly two months after his Los Angeles trial concluded with a jury convicting him on three counts of rape and sexual assault.

Weinstein is already serving a 23-year sentence in New York, after being convicted of rape and sexual assault in that jurisdiction in his 2020 criminal trial. On Thursday, the judge ordered Weinstein to serve his L.A. sentence consecutively after New York.

omar little, Thursday, 23 February 2023 22:39 (one year ago) link

one month passes...

F. Murray Abraham Was Kicked Off ‘Mythic Quest’ for Sexual Misconduct

https://pagesix.com/2023/04/17/f-murray-abraham-fired-from-mythic-quest-for-sexual-misconduct-report/

nickn, Monday, 17 April 2023 16:52 (one year ago) link

I'm about 3/4 through Beef on Netflix but this just makes me not want to watch the rest of it. esp when the story above shows how easy it is to just not cast terrible people in your shows

https://variety.com/2023/tv/news/beef-star-david-choe-rape-joke-podcast-clips-removed-twitter-1235585677/

Roz, Tuesday, 18 April 2023 01:08 (one year ago) link

Ah fuck re: F Murray, I remember thinking how weird it was for a show to axe a character these days without them either having died or been exposed as a creep.

Daniel_Rf, Tuesday, 18 April 2023 09:40 (one year ago) link

one month passes...

All of the women had relatives in Scientology and feared they would be excommunicated and labeled "suppressive persons" if they went against Masterson and the church.

And this is likely what would have happened... Celebs are anointed above all else

Andy the Grasshopper, Wednesday, 31 May 2023 22:58 (ten months ago) link

Yeah, one of Masterson’s victims is now married to Cedric Bixler-Zavala and after he spoke out about Scientology and Masterson this happened by complete coincidence:

In 2020, Bixler-Zavala's dog died after allegedly eating raw meat laced with rat poison that had been tossed into their yard. Bixler-Zavala alleged that the Church of Scientology was responsible, though they have denied the accusations

INDEPENDENTS DAY BY STEVEN SPILBERG (President Keyes), Thursday, 1 June 2023 00:19 (ten months ago) link

I just saw that Nancy Cartwright (Bart Simpson's voice) was given some Grand Wizard Poobah Clear level because she's donated $20 million to that 'church'

Andy the Grasshopper, Thursday, 1 June 2023 00:31 (ten months ago) link

'Bout to dive into my buddy Mo's book, which looks great:

https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/51u8yXQ6VyL._SY346_.jpg

Josh in Chicago, Tuesday, 6 June 2023 20:54 (ten months ago) link

Looks good, thanks.

CeeLô Borges (James Redd and the Blecchs), Tuesday, 6 June 2023 21:26 (ten months ago) link

My wife's friend was an intern at SNL back in the early 00s. About a year ago she said she got a call from a journalist who had heard that a producer had harassed her. She decided not to talk to the journalist. I wonder if it was for this book or another writer's piece.

INDEPENDENTS DAY BY STEVEN SPILBERG (President Keyes), Wednesday, 14 June 2023 19:18 (ten months ago) link

SNL seemed like a shitty place for women after reading that Tom Shales book. I also remember Paul Simon in said book trying to dismiss Janeane Garofalo's recollections of the misogyny there, which just made his relationship with the show seem all the more slimy. (Don't forget, it's been widely confirmed that Simon stole the concept for Graceland from an aspiring songwriter he was supposed to mentor - she worked at SNL and Lorne Michaels was the one who brought her to Simon.)

birdistheword, Wednesday, 14 June 2023 19:31 (ten months ago) link

three weeks pass...

https://wlwt.com/article/fluke-skywalker-john-stevens-arrested-child-pornography/44592470

(unclear what this is about since it could just as easily be "material that mentions LGBT" maybe, but still)

StanM, Wednesday, 19 July 2023 23:22 (nine months ago) link

Kevin Spacey acquitted of all charges.

https://news.yahoo.com/actor-kevin-spacey-acquitted-nine-135620852.html?fr=sycsrp_catchall

nickn, Wednesday, 26 July 2023 17:09 (eight months ago) link

Spacey's lawyer Patrick Gibbs said it was not a crime to like sex or have casual sex even if you were a famous person and that it was "not a crime to have sex with someone of the same sex, because it's 2023 not 1823".

fuck you, dude

linoleum gallagher (Neanderthal), Wednesday, 26 July 2023 17:11 (eight months ago) link

phew, i can go back to enjoying horrible bosses now

Ste, Wednesday, 26 July 2023 18:11 (eight months ago) link

an allegation Spacey described as "absolute bollocks", using a British slang term for testicles and for something which is nonsense.

lol, thanks for explaining

jmm, Wednesday, 26 July 2023 18:23 (eight months ago) link

Amazing how it turns out these known predators actually did nothing wrong ever, and it's the world that doesn't understand them.

The Fifth Roommate (Matt #2), Wednesday, 26 July 2023 18:41 (eight months ago) link

Makes you think.

Live and Left Eye (James Redd and the Blecchs), Wednesday, 26 July 2023 20:00 (eight months ago) link

Glad to hear that Kevin Spacey is completely innocent. Time for a K-Pax party!

spacey made a pass at somebody and it was mistaken for sexual assault. classic blunder!

and the other two.. just looking for an easy dollar i guess. well guess what the gravy train stops here!!!!

Tracer Hand, Wednesday, 26 July 2023 21:35 (eight months ago) link

one month passes...

Shocking news, especially having seen his films.

The Thin, Wild Mercury Rising (James Redd and the Blecchs), Thursday, 31 August 2023 22:58 (seven months ago) link

danny masterson sentenced to ‘30 years to life’

mookieproof, Thursday, 7 September 2023 18:47 (seven months ago) link

Damn!

omar little, Thursday, 7 September 2023 18:51 (seven months ago) link

That's crazy

Andy the Grasshopper, Thursday, 7 September 2023 18:57 (seven months ago) link

or not, I don't know the sentencing guidelines for those cases

Andy the Grasshopper, Thursday, 7 September 2023 18:58 (seven months ago) link

Bye-bye, Sci-Ti!

peace, man, Thursday, 7 September 2023 18:59 (seven months ago) link

wow that's a long sentence.

I? not I! He! He! HIM! (akm), Thursday, 7 September 2023 18:59 (seven months ago) link

Masterson will serve two 15-year sentences consecutively, one for each charge. He must also register as a sex offender.

So not actually 30 years

Andy the Grasshopper, Thursday, 7 September 2023 19:09 (seven months ago) link

Or wait - consecutive means one following the other, so yes - thirty years

Andy the Grasshopper, Thursday, 7 September 2023 19:10 (seven months ago) link

That's nothing compared to how long Xenu was imprisoned for.

Josh in Chicago, Thursday, 7 September 2023 19:11 (seven months ago) link

is he the first scientologist to be held accountable for anything? feels like it.

how do anti-carceral people feel about this sentence

I? not I! He! He! HIM! (akm), Thursday, 7 September 2023 19:13 (seven months ago) link

yeah, he's got at least a trillion more years ahead of him, thirty years is a walk in the park

Andy the Grasshopper, Thursday, 7 September 2023 19:14 (seven months ago) link

is he the first scientologist to be held accountable for anything?

L. Ron was constantly in trouble during his Navy career: "The following month, Hubbard unwittingly fired upon Mexican territory and was relieved of command..."

Andy the Grasshopper, Thursday, 7 September 2023 19:16 (seven months ago) link

yeah but I mean since then. scientology has gone to great lengths to protect members over the past 35 - 40 years and they have had a cozy relationship with the police and DA in LA. Maybe that is starting to shift.

I? not I! He! He! HIM! (akm), Thursday, 7 September 2023 19:18 (seven months ago) link

A friend of mine went to his first trial as moral support for his victims, she having been someone who had her own brush with Harvey W and now is advocating for others who have dealt with the same shit. She was pretty happy to hear about this.

omar little, Thursday, 7 September 2023 19:30 (seven months ago) link

I've heard good things about the Scientology Club at California Institution for Men, Chino... they're supposed to have a great Xmas party with pumpkin spice pruno

Andy the Grasshopper, Thursday, 7 September 2023 19:46 (seven months ago) link

it's kind of insane to me that DM is married to bijou phillips, daughter of john phillips ...

budo jeru, Thursday, 7 September 2023 21:36 (seven months ago) link

john phillips was an incredibly bad person so she clearly didn't have a good model in what constitutes a decent human being

I? not I! He! He! HIM! (akm), Thursday, 7 September 2023 21:43 (seven months ago) link

its strange to see consecutive sentencing or am i mistaken?

close encounters of the third knid (darraghmac), Thursday, 7 September 2023 22:08 (seven months ago) link

US judges generally can use their discretion in choosing between consecutive or concurrent sentences.

more difficult than I look (Aimless), Thursday, 7 September 2023 22:32 (seven months ago) link

consecutive sentences are disallowed on ILX

Make the chats AI (Neanderthal), Thursday, 7 September 2023 23:00 (seven months ago) link

I am in compliance as evidenced by this and my previous post

Make the chats AI (Neanderthal), Thursday, 7 September 2023 23:01 (seven months ago) link

its strange to see consecutive sentencing or am i mistaken?

― close encounters of the third knid (darraghmac), Thursday, September 7, 2023 6:08 PM (three hours ago) bookmarkflaglink

The judge has some discretion, but it often depends on the relation of the crimes to each other. If it's the same events and victim generating multiple charges, that's more likely to be concurrent. If it's different events and victims, that's more likely to be consecutive.

il lavoro mi rovina la giornata (PBKR), Friday, 8 September 2023 01:42 (seven months ago) link

30 years for rape for a rich white man is... eye opening to put it one way.

Stoop Crone (Trayce), Friday, 8 September 2023 04:30 (seven months ago) link

Bijou Phillips has filed for divorce from Masterson
https://www.tmz.com/2023/09/19/bijou-phillips-danny-masterson-files-divorce-danny-masterson-30-year-rape-sentence/

I? not I! He! He! HIM! (akm), Tuesday, 19 September 2023 20:53 (seven months ago) link

It's probably pretty hard to make it work when you husband is in jail for being a convicted rapist. It's going to be a while until she is clear again, warm up the Campbell's Soup cans.

Josh in Chicago, Tuesday, 19 September 2023 21:25 (seven months ago) link

I guess no conjugal visits then

Or do rapists even get those?

Andy the Grasshopper, Tuesday, 19 September 2023 21:26 (seven months ago) link

Weird convo!

kirsten gilla band (Whiney G. Weingarten), Tuesday, 19 September 2023 22:05 (seven months ago) link

It's going to be a while until she is clear

She stood by him all through the trial... I wonder if "The Church" advised her to cut bait now that there's an actual conviction

Andy the Grasshopper, Tuesday, 19 September 2023 22:49 (seven months ago) link

Mars Volta’s Cedric’s wife was one of the victims. Have been following this story through his Instagram and “good” (weird way to put it) for his wife and him to have this kind of resolution.

H.P, Tuesday, 19 September 2023 23:24 (seven months ago) link

Seems likely that 'The Church' is directly culpable in this kind of thing, or at least discouraging reporting to police

Andy the Grasshopper, Tuesday, 19 September 2023 23:26 (seven months ago) link

Oh for suuuuuuuuure

H.P, Tuesday, 19 September 2023 23:28 (seven months ago) link

curious to see if 'the church' ultimately disavows him as insufficiently clear. probably depends on which stance costs them (more) money

mookieproof, Wednesday, 20 September 2023 00:48 (seven months ago) link

I don't know WTF is up with Mcgowan but her brain appeared to break after Weinstein and she got hypercritical of #metoo accusers despite being one herself.

I? not I! He! He! HIM! (akm), Wednesday, 20 September 2023 16:33 (seven months ago) link

my suspicion is she felt betrayed by those in Hollywood who were dismissing her and not believing her, writing her off as crazy, the media trying to dig up dirt on her before the dam broke on HW, and it kinda fucked her up. why she is now saying things about other accusers is weird though. she's just doing the same thing others did to her.

omar little, Wednesday, 20 September 2023 16:45 (seven months ago) link

My guess as well. During the height of the pandemic she was lashing out at a lot of people for different reasons, but it was all unhinged nonsense. She's really in need of help and I hope she gets it and it works, but otherwise it's probably best to ignore her.

birdistheword, Wednesday, 20 September 2023 19:44 (seven months ago) link

two weeks pass...

https://www.avclub.com/julia-ormond-sues-disney-miramax-and-caa-in-harvey-we-1850901339

Ormond says that, in the aftermath, she informed her agents, Bryan Lourd and Kevin Huvane (who now serve as co-chairmen of CAA), about what had happened; she says the pair “cautioned her from speaking out and did not protect her.”

Ormond is suing CAA for negligence and breach of fiduciary conduct, and the formerly Weinstein-run Miramax (and its owners at Disney) for negligent supervision, with her lawyers writing in the suit that “The men at CAA who represented Ormond knew about Weinstein. So too did Weinstein’s employers at Miramax and Disney. Brazenly, none of these prominent companies warned Ormond that Weinstein had a history of assaulting women because he was too important, too powerful, and made them too much money.”

omar little, Thursday, 5 October 2023 17:51 (six months ago) link

Hope they get taken for everything

real warm grandpa (Neanderthal), Thursday, 5 October 2023 18:16 (six months ago) link

two months pass...

jonathan majors fired by marvel

mookieproof, Monday, 18 December 2023 22:00 (four months ago) link

Good

mojo dojo casas house (gyac), Monday, 18 December 2023 22:12 (four months ago) link

not surprised. his defence seemed to be 'she did it first' which, uh, does not fly, dude. guy's career is cooked now, I think. He was a good actor but the second this situation happened there was an onslaught of follow on reports that he'd been an abusive, smug asshole for years.

I? not I! He! He! HIM! (akm), Monday, 18 December 2023 23:22 (four months ago) link

Vin Diesel Accused of Sexual Battery in Lawsuit by Former Assistant

bae (sic), Friday, 22 December 2023 18:06 (three months ago) link

one month passes...

Crazy Days and Nights’ Gossip Blogger Unmasked—by Furious Ex-Mistress
https://archive.ph/2024.02.07-174114/https://www.thedailybeast.com/crazy-days-and-nights-blogger-unmasked-as-john-nelsonby-ex-mistress-cassandra-crose

The anonymous author of the notorious Hollywood gossip blog Crazy Days and Nights inadvertently revealed his identity to a Florida court last year in the fallout of a messy extramarital affair that wouldn’t be out of place in one of his website’s famed “blind items.”

Crazy Days and Nights (often abbreviated as CDaN) is infamous for publishing sensational and inflammatory claims about unnamed celebrities with little regard for accuracy. In fact, the blog admits in a disclaimer that some material might be “products of the author’s imagination” and last year settled a defamation lawsuit with Diana Jenkins of Real Housewives of Beverly Hills.

But some items have their footing in reality. CDaN’s lead blogger, who uses the pseudonym “Enty Lawyer,” has been credited with beating major publications to the punch on several major stories—including Harvey Weinstein’s predations—and developed a certain mystique among the mainstream media, QAnon-style conspiracy theorists, and ordinary celeb-watchers.

Though a handful of profiles about Enty Lawyer have been published, they were written under agreements to keep his identity secret. But The Daily Beast has confirmed that the dirt-slinger behind Crazy Days and Nights is licensed California attorney John Robert Nelson, who in 2018 ran unsuccessfully for Congress as a progressive Democrat. It’s unclear whether he currently practices law or ever practiced entertainment law as his moniker suggests.

Nelson’s secret life came to light because of an affair he had with a Florida woman that has spawned dueling legal complaints and accusations of abusive behavior.

Elvis Telecom, Wednesday, 7 February 2024 19:52 (two months ago) link

Not as monumental as Dril reveal

Its big ball chunky time (Jimmy The Mod Awaits The Return Of His Beloved), Wednesday, 7 February 2024 19:59 (two months ago) link

possibly the all time GOAT celeb gossip blogger for my money

slob wizard (J0rdan S.), Wednesday, 7 February 2024 20:02 (two months ago) link

one month passes...

https://variety.com/2024/tv/news/drake-bell-sexual-assault-brian-peck-documentary-1235934302/

In 2003, Peck, 43 at the time, was arrested on 11 charges — including sodomy, lewd act upon a child 14 or 15 by a person 10 years older, and oral copulation by anesthesia or controlled substance — but the minor was not named until now.

“My name is Drake Bell and I came here today to tell my story,” Bell says during the documentary’s third episode, before detailing his close relationship with Peck, whom he met at the beginning of Season 2 of “The Amanda Show.”

At first, Bell’s father was his manager and became uncomfortable about how much time Peck was spending time with his son, so much so that he went to production and told them. “I go, ‘I don’t see anything abnormal but it just doesn’t — I don’t have a good feeling,'” he said. At the time, Joe Bell claims production told him that Peck is gay and said, “Maybe you’re just homophobic and you just don’t understand that he’s a touchy-feely guy.”

This sounds like a huge breaking story, what the fuck is "ID"?

The SoyBoy West Coast (Whiney G. Weingarten), Thursday, 14 March 2024 16:32 (one month ago) link

Investigation Discovery, a true crime cable network.

peace, man, Thursday, 14 March 2024 16:35 (one month ago) link

jesus

Peck is named in the Open Secret documentary, he was friends w Bryan Singer.

werewolves of laudanum (VegemiteGrrl), Thursday, 14 March 2024 19:15 (one month ago) link

such a sad and fucked up story, given that Drake Bell himself was later accused of preying on underage girls

seems the documentary covers not just that case but an overall abusive/toxic environment on Nickelodeon shows run by (known creep) Dan Schneider: https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/tv/tv-news/drake-bell-brian-peck-sexual-assault-dan-schneider-docuseries-1235850468/

Roz, Friday, 15 March 2024 06:54 (one month ago) link

amanda bynes is widely understood to have had a mental breakdown as a result of all of this, correct?

I? not I! He! He! HIM! (akm), Friday, 15 March 2024 13:32 (one month ago) link

so i just saw a photo of this guy and thought: wait is this the guy from Head of the Class?

it is! i had no idea he went on to become an abusive producer of children's programming

Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Friday, 15 March 2024 14:35 (one month ago) link

(this guy = dan schneider)

Piggy Lepton (La Lechera), Friday, 15 March 2024 14:37 (one month ago) link

Huh, had no idea it was the HotC dude either!

Maxmillion D. Boosted (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Friday, 15 March 2024 15:09 (one month ago) link

I just looked up his picture and was like “ohhhhhh okay”

I know it’s bad form/unhelpful to conflate an actor’s personality with a character they played, but what I remember of Dennis makes it extremely tempting.

Cemetry Gaetz (DJP), Friday, 15 March 2024 15:14 (one month ago) link

I rewatched Better Off Dead this winter, and Dan Schneider is in there as a character who is a total creep towards women.

peace, man, Friday, 15 March 2024 16:10 (one month ago) link

Also, I mentioned it upthread, but Jennette McCurdy discussed Schneider's grooming in her memoir, I'm Glad My Mom Died (tw: child abuse, eating disorders).

peace, man, Friday, 15 March 2024 16:14 (one month ago) link

Really feels like another shoe has been about to drop on Schneider for 10 years. Every time something comes out its always like he *massages* or he *yells* or he *makes suggestive content* but never seems to get up to any of the Bryan Singer-type stuff that could get tried in a court of law. Either theres some insane shit being held back or he was just a master at approaching the line between "creep" and "criminal" but never crossing it.

The SoyBoy West Coast (Whiney G. Weingarten), Friday, 15 March 2024 16:21 (one month ago) link

It's kind of a similar story to that of Brett Ratner*, nothing prosecutable yet but enough to completely torpedo his career forever.

*the X-Men franchise really leaned heavily on major creeps!

omar little, Friday, 15 March 2024 16:37 (one month ago) link

quinton of quinton reviews is editing a schneider video as an coda to his 43-hour long youtube series on icarly and victorious.

So the 'Quiet on Set' thing is news to me, but I have no intention of delaying my Dan Schneider video until April. I'm going to go ahead and finish it this month (or March). I'm sure there will be more specific revelations in this piece, but I frankly want to be done with it all.

— Quinton Reviews - #1 GARFIELD FAN 🎬 (@Q_Review) February 8, 2024

adam t. (abanana), Friday, 15 March 2024 18:01 (one month ago) link

it is a horrible coincidence that Drake Bell’s costar shares the same last name as his abuser ie Josh Peck, Brian Peck

zero relationship between the two

but the way the article says PECK and mainly shows pics of Josh is unfortunate

werewolves of laudanum (VegemiteGrrl), Friday, 15 March 2024 21:28 (one month ago) link

This sounds like a huge breaking story, what the fuck is "ID"?

― The SoyBoy West Coast (Whiney G. Weingarten), Thursday, March 14, 2024 11:32 AM (four days ago) bookmarkflaglink

Investigation Discovery, a true crime cable network.

― peace, man, Thursday, March 14, 2024 11:35 AM (four days ago) bookmarkflaglink

Included w/MAX subscription, as I just learned.

tbf I think Ratner has multiple accusations of sexual assault and other crimes, beyond anything I’ve seen about Schneider, it just doesn’t seem like charges were filed (and he’s now left the country for good)

JoeStork, Monday, 18 March 2024 23:28 (one month ago) link

Stuff on Mo Troper today:

this is about mo troper https://t.co/4dMaoKrnEk

— floating room (@floating_room) March 17, 2024

In light of recent information, we will no longer be releasing Mo Troper’s album Svengali. Refunds will be available at point of purchase. We are sending healing thoughts to Maya and victims of abuse everywhere.

— Lame-O Records (@LameORecords) March 18, 2024

sean gramophone, Tuesday, 19 March 2024 00:32 (one month ago) link


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