Let us turn over a new leaf.
― This object perpetually attempts to sell itself on eBay. (Stevie D), Monday, 1 March 2010 20:12 (fourteen years ago) link
I am sort of working on a new approach to men/my gay/etc and I think it is working out.
― This object perpetually attempts to sell itself on eBay. (Stevie D), Monday, 1 March 2010 20:13 (fourteen years ago) link
And behind the leaf are a pair of BALLS.
― Inculcate a spirit of serfdom in children (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 1 March 2010 20:13 (fourteen years ago) link
Keep it positive, and remember: Pobody's Nerfect
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Monday, 1 March 2010 20:20 (fourteen years ago) link
not ready for spring
― yeahhh (surm), Monday, 1 March 2010 20:22 (fourteen years ago) link
spring aint ready for me!
― Don't delay, we cannot do this forever. (Matt P), Monday, 1 March 2010 20:25 (fourteen years ago) link
yard clean-up all day yesterday, felt awesome. next: planning and planting. i been running more. camping trips in the mix. bring it on!!
― Don't delay, we cannot do this forever. (Matt P), Monday, 1 March 2010 20:28 (fourteen years ago) link
I'm officially in the warmest spot in the country, and I just saw a cute student toss his flip-flops to catch a forty-yard pass. Life is good.
― Inculcate a spirit of serfdom in children (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 1 March 2010 20:29 (fourteen years ago) link
mixed feelings on spring
― im armond white btw (donna rouge), Monday, 1 March 2010 20:30 (fourteen years ago) link
BRING ON THE SUN
― waka flocka pedia (J0rdan S.), Monday, 1 March 2010 20:34 (fourteen years ago) link
and the sons
ayo
i should clarify i meant "this particular spring" but mostly for things that have nothing to do with the season itself which is my faaaaaave
― im armond white btw (donna rouge), Monday, 1 March 2010 20:35 (fourteen years ago) link
i have to get my spring body back in shape :|
― yeahhh (surm), Monday, 1 March 2010 20:37 (fourteen years ago) link
This spring's unguilty pleasure:
http://gossip.whyfame.com/files/2010/01/channing_tatum.jpg
― Inculcate a spirit of serfdom in children (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 1 March 2010 20:41 (fourteen years ago) link
researching a dionysos costume over here, tbh. incorporating marijuana leaves into the wreath and/or thyrsus: yes or no?
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Monday, 1 March 2010 20:57 (fourteen years ago) link
i'm thinking yes.
I'm thinking: is that even a question?
― This object perpetually attempts to sell itself on eBay. (Stevie D), Monday, 1 March 2010 21:00 (fourteen years ago) link
okay but i'm also wondering how to fabricate a leopard skin and whether or not there will be horns involved.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Monday, 1 March 2010 21:02 (fourteen years ago) link
that picture
― yeahhh (surm), Monday, 1 March 2010 21:03 (fourteen years ago) link
GI Joe was pretty unbearable, he seemed like he was functionally retarded, but his dumb hick voice = v sexy to be honest
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Monday, 1 March 2010 21:05 (fourteen years ago) link
alfred, that dude is only expressing one single hue and it's freaking me out
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Monday, 1 March 2010 21:06 (fourteen years ago) link
that dude is only expressing one single hue and it's kinda detracting from my appreciation of his form, tbh.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Monday, 1 March 2010 21:07 (fourteen years ago) link
wait what
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Monday, 1 March 2010 21:08 (fourteen years ago) link
it helps to know that he's florida male stripper trash too
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Monday, 1 March 2010 21:10 (fourteen years ago) link
i love florida trash
― yeahhh (surm), Monday, 1 March 2010 21:10 (fourteen years ago) link
i'm rly not a channing tatum fan -- i'll take sam worthington instead
― waka flocka pedia (J0rdan S.), Monday, 1 March 2010 21:11 (fourteen years ago) link
he is too orange and hairless for me. But dumb hick voices can be mad sexy.
― This object perpetually attempts to sell itself on eBay. (Stevie D), Monday, 1 March 2010 21:12 (fourteen years ago) link
yea but he's less trashy xp
― yeahhh (surm), Monday, 1 March 2010 21:12 (fourteen years ago) link
I will, however, make an exception for:
http://allserieslinamarcela.files.wordpress.com/2008/11/ryan_kwanten__low_towel.jpeg
― This object perpetually attempts to sell itself on eBay. (Stevie D), Monday, 1 March 2010 21:13 (fourteen years ago) link
too orange and hairless
^i'm on board w/ this crit
― waka flocka pedia (J0rdan S.), Monday, 1 March 2010 21:18 (fourteen years ago) link
He's the kind of equal opportunity whore with whom you wake up in the morning after one too many Jaeger shots.
― Inculcate a spirit of serfdom in children (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 1 March 2010 21:18 (fourteen years ago) link
Channing, that is.
sounds good to me
― yeahhh (surm), Monday, 1 March 2010 21:33 (fourteen years ago) link
guys, jerzy radziwilowicz:
http://archive.sensesofcinema.com/images/08/cteq/man-of-marble.jpghttp://www.100latpolskiegofilmu.pl/files/image/580x580/Czlowiek-z-marmuru_126.jpghttp://archive.sensesofcinema.com/images/07/43/man-of-marble-7.jpghttp://4.bp.blogspot.com/_khYoWIBgmBI/Sa1Rri_6DYI/AAAAAAAAA9g/qnjrhQtekg0/s320/Man+of+Marble3.jpg
― Don't delay, we cannot do this forever. (Matt P), Monday, 1 March 2010 21:35 (fourteen years ago) link
"man of marble" is so good.
― Don't delay, we cannot do this forever. (Matt P), Monday, 1 March 2010 21:44 (fourteen years ago) link
This thread is already beating the winter thread.
― boxedjoy, Monday, 1 March 2010 22:22 (fourteen years ago) link
oh, hello. who are you?
welcome, btw.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Monday, 1 March 2010 22:25 (fourteen years ago) link
good screename
― yeahhh (surm), Monday, 1 March 2010 22:38 (fourteen years ago) link
hi gayz! longtime fan, first time caller. how would you rate this shot of young chris walken? way dreamy or what?
http://unrealitymag.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/young-walken.jpg
― scott seward, Monday, 1 March 2010 22:43 (fourteen years ago) link
TOO dreamy. He needs more dirt on'em before I can see him in an Ingmar Bergman picture set on a farm.
― Inculcate a spirit of serfdom in children (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 1 March 2010 22:48 (fourteen years ago) link
*shudders*
― Don't delay, we cannot do this forever. (Matt P), Monday, 1 March 2010 22:49 (fourteen years ago) link
http://7.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kw45e965zo1qan997o1_400.jpg
http://farm1.static.flickr.com/47/118260140_f2446de436.jpg?v=0
― scott seward, Monday, 1 March 2010 22:53 (fourteen years ago) link
sorry. kinda endlessly fascinated with his face. i'll stop.
― scott seward, Monday, 1 March 2010 22:54 (fourteen years ago) link
one last shot for dr. morbz when he shows up:
http://www.cherrybombed.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/christopherwalkenchildclown1955.jpg
― scott seward, Monday, 1 March 2010 22:55 (fourteen years ago) link
it's not reallllly spring here yet but the big snowstorm from the weekend is melting, so bring on the green, i say! (winter leads to cabin fever, even among such lovely folk as ourselves).
this might be too geeky for these parts, but
http://tasithoughts.files.wordpress.com/2010/02/sam-adama.jpg
sasha roiz, from Caprica is a) Canadian and b) plays a happily-married gay mobster. sort of. it doesn't hurt that he looks like *that*, either.
― Alex in Montreal, Monday, 1 March 2010 22:57 (fourteen years ago) link
Scott, i saw that picture of walken recently and swoooned
― yeahhh (surm), Monday, 1 March 2010 22:58 (fourteen years ago) link
http://ourgreenwich.com/files/2009/11/dance-of-death.jpg
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Tuesday, 2 March 2010 00:35 (fourteen years ago) link
A little young for my taste.
― This object perpetually attempts to sell itself on eBay. (Stevie D), Tuesday, 2 March 2010 01:09 (fourteen years ago) link
Shoulda called this thread "Stevie Crits Yr Spank Bank"
― This object perpetually attempts to sell itself on eBay. (Stevie D), Tuesday, 2 March 2010 01:11 (fourteen years ago) link
or, "So Where Are We Meeting Tonight?"
Who are those young'uns? Should I know?
― Alex in Montreal, Tuesday, 2 March 2010 01:15 (fourteen years ago) link
I found that picture while Google image searching for "dance of death"!
I just think it's sort of romantic. No homo.
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Tuesday, 2 March 2010 02:09 (fourteen years ago) link
How do ppl even recognize Channing Tatum? So generically "hot."
Not a huge fan of Chris Walken's looks til he hit his 30s. (His mom is still alive, btw -- 104!)
Still paranoid about whether New Job is monitoring my surfing, so this is not an ideal thread title...
― Fusty Moralizer (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 2 March 2010 02:32 (fourteen years ago) link
title doesn't show up in the url tho
― yeahhh (surm), Tuesday, 2 March 2010 03:51 (fourteen years ago) link
I have no idea what diabolical spyware they're using!
― Fusty Moralizer (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 2 March 2010 03:53 (fourteen years ago) link
(if any)
Don't worry: they won't know you despise Inglorious Basterds.
― Inculcate a spirit of serfdom in children (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 2 March 2010 03:54 (fourteen years ago) link
just watched 'the mad doctor', a 1941 film with basil rathbone as a murderous psychoanalyst who lives with his austrian partner-in-crime with whom he is VERY OBVIOUSLY GAY. not a single mention in 'the celluloid closet'!
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0033861/
― im armond white btw (donna rouge), Wednesday, 3 March 2010 05:01 (fourteen years ago) link
sounds like fun
― yeahhh (surm), Wednesday, 3 March 2010 15:34 (fourteen years ago) link
i'm taking a break, but i just wanted to show all of you this, and wish you a happy beginning of spring.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TaObXRFg5y8
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Thursday, 4 March 2010 18:03 (fourteen years ago) link
I lol'd. Loving the smoochy strawberry.
― This object perpetually attempts to sell itself on eBay. (Stevie D), Thursday, 4 March 2010 19:40 (fourteen years ago) link
http://hphotos-snc3.fbcdn.net/hs434.snc3/25005_963394841939_8833986_52290269_515998_n.jpg
― This object perpetually attempts to sell itself on eBay. (Stevie D), Saturday, 6 March 2010 06:46 (fourteen years ago) link
hi !
― yeahhh (surm), Saturday, 6 March 2010 08:27 (fourteen years ago) link
what the hell
― Fusty Moralizer (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 6 March 2010 14:23 (fourteen years ago) link
full details at I am crawling through a giant colon on Friday.
― This object perpetually attempts to sell itself on eBay. (Stevie D), Saturday, 6 March 2010 15:00 (fourteen years ago) link
it's saturday night!
― yeahhh (surm), Sunday, 7 March 2010 03:12 (fourteen years ago) link
i'm in st louis. i might go to "the zone" in about an hour. :/
a very cute waiter looked at me twice at a restaurant today.
then when i was out walking around with my aunt tonight, this cute blond guy kind of half-nodded at me. it was a weird mix between a "you're cute" nod and a "we've lived in the same town for 25 years" nod.
― yeahhh (surm), Sunday, 7 March 2010 03:26 (fourteen years ago) link
why aren't you playing in the city museum ballpit?!
― im armond white btw (donna rouge), Sunday, 7 March 2010 04:09 (fourteen years ago) link
wanna run that by me again? i don't even know wht that is !
― yeahhh (surm), Sunday, 7 March 2010 04:15 (fourteen years ago) link
city museum is super famous, ramz -- i've never been tho
― jizzchin (J0rdan S.), Sunday, 7 March 2010 04:25 (fourteen years ago) link
i see
― yeahhh (surm), Sunday, 7 March 2010 04:33 (fourteen years ago) link
it is amazing! except for when my glasses fell off in the ballpit, that was a lil scary
― im armond white btw (donna rouge), Sunday, 7 March 2010 06:26 (fourteen years ago) link
also cheap-ass "mystery beer"
i love "-ass" as an adjunct descriptor for anything, very nashville ghetto
― yeahhh (surm), Sunday, 7 March 2010 06:44 (fourteen years ago) link
that's just everywhere. 'crazy-ass times last night.' <---- all throughout the united states.
not to be crazy.
i've been living well. myl3s was on w33d, hope all you fagz noticed.
lovettitt
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Sunday, 7 March 2010 09:15 (fourteen years ago) link
As an inveterate prude, I object to the f-word and vowed never to post under a thread title so despoiled. But I can't resist:
YAY MO'NIQUE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
― Kevin John Bozelka, Monday, 8 March 2010 06:16 (fourteen years ago) link
I concur.
― queen frostine (Eric H.), Monday, 8 March 2010 06:22 (fourteen years ago) link
But we've had tons of threads with "fag" in them
― This object perpetually attempts to sell itself on eBay. (Stevie D), Monday, 8 March 2010 06:42 (fourteen years ago) link
That's FAP, Stevie. FAP.
― queen frostine (Eric H.), Monday, 8 March 2010 06:44 (fourteen years ago) link
really missed not having you here for the festivus, Eric. I couldn't even drag myself to Towering Inferno at MoMA.
That said, Mo'Nique: pretentious beeyatch.
― Fusty Moralizer (Dr Morbius), Monday, 8 March 2010 06:55 (fourteen years ago) link
The best kind of beeyatch.
― queen frostine (Eric H.), Monday, 8 March 2010 07:00 (fourteen years ago) link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lwnFE_NpMsE
Kind of O_O that this minstrely shit is not only acceptable, but considered funny and posted on Towleroad.
― This object perpetually attempts to sell itself on eBay. (Stevie D), Wednesday, 10 March 2010 16:50 (fourteen years ago) link
In related news, "Jack" from Will & Grace just did his coming-out-of-the-closet interview.
― Fusty Moralizer (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 10 March 2010 17:50 (fourteen years ago) link
T/S: not coming out for reasons of privacy when you're in a hit show vs. coming out when you coincidentally have some live theater to promote
― queen frostine (Eric H.), Wednesday, 10 March 2010 18:18 (fourteen years ago) link
good morning.
― yeahhh (surm), Thursday, 11 March 2010 16:59 (fourteen years ago) link
damn, the cute, friendly, kinda ambiguous guy who I worked with briefly in the fall and discovered is now a barista at the coffeeshop near my house mentioned his girlfriend :(
― guapism rules (The Reverend), Friday, 12 March 2010 00:13 (fourteen years ago) link
I like his dorky laugh
― guapism rules (The Reverend), Friday, 12 March 2010 00:42 (fourteen years ago) link
No reason not to flirty with him.
― The Magnificent Colin Firth (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 12 March 2010 00:49 (fourteen years ago) link
how cute!
― yeahhh (surm), Friday, 12 March 2010 01:36 (fourteen years ago) link
there was a tall guy at the store today, who had a very cute face. he was gay. he ordered 5 bagels and 3/4 pounds of cream cheese, with chopped onions and tomatos on the side. i really wanted him to kiss me, and tell me that he couldn't live without me. but it felt a little awkward, standing there in line for our bagels. i let the moment pass and left, secure in the knowledge that there are other tall boys in store for me. something to look forward to.
― yeahhh (surm), Saturday, 13 March 2010 19:45 (fourteen years ago) link
so my boyfriend is leaving town for a week, which means imma be on my own. well, the cat and i.
he leaves tomorrow morning. on my first day sans man, i'll be doing brunch and shopping with my best boy ben. he's a veritable doll, and he likes brunch as a social thing. i'm excited to get new jeans, myself
― yeahhh (surm), Saturday, 13 March 2010 20:18 (fourteen years ago) link
i've discovered that i like the 34 length, cuz it does this bunch-up effect at the boot, which i'm a fan of
― yeahhh (surm), Saturday, 13 March 2010 20:19 (fourteen years ago) link
lately i buy them long and roll them up.
― plax (ico), Saturday, 13 March 2010 20:50 (fourteen years ago) link
Funny how fashions return. I was rolling up my jeans till '93.
― The Magnificent Colin Firth (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 13 March 2010 21:08 (fourteen years ago) link
yea it's def a thing now. roll em up. it's like dockside chic or something
― yeahhh (surm), Saturday, 13 March 2010 21:26 (fourteen years ago) link
skip the socks and you're good to go. altho i can't stand not wearing socks myself, much as i love how it looks
― yeahhh (surm), Saturday, 13 March 2010 21:29 (fourteen years ago) link
But you just said the cat's away.
― Kevin John Bozelka, Saturday, 13 March 2010 21:29 (fourteen years ago) link
Sockless boat shoes/Topsiders were so much the thing in South Florida through the early nineties that I've avoided the combination since, but I'm open to persuasion.
― The Magnificent Colin Firth (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 13 March 2010 21:31 (fourteen years ago) link
man do i wish i had made plans for tonight!
― plax (ico), Saturday, 13 March 2010 21:33 (fourteen years ago) link
omg i'm so in the mood to have a party
― yeahhh (surm), Saturday, 13 March 2010 21:35 (fourteen years ago) link
how quick can u get here?
― plax (ico), Saturday, 13 March 2010 21:38 (fourteen years ago) link
seems like a great day to stay inside tbh
― all-beef patty hearst (donna rouge), Saturday, 13 March 2010 21:41 (fourteen years ago) link
I pity you New Yorkers today. Meanwhile it's 69 and cloudless here.
― The Magnificent Colin Firth (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 13 March 2010 22:06 (fourteen years ago) link
i'm actually really feelin it. i'm not a new yorker for nothin, baby doll
― yeahhh (surm), Saturday, 13 March 2010 22:09 (fourteen years ago) link
i'm officially on SPRING BREAK!!!! except a) this weather does not count as spring (which technically hasn't begun yet anyway) and b) i will spend all of it doing work anyway
― all-beef patty hearst (donna rouge), Saturday, 13 March 2010 22:10 (fourteen years ago) link
anyway, anyway, anyway
congratulation! are you going to slut it up to celebrate?
― yeahhh (surm), Saturday, 13 March 2010 22:11 (fourteen years ago) link
i refer you to b) in previous post
― all-beef patty hearst (donna rouge), Saturday, 13 March 2010 22:16 (fourteen years ago) link
i know but u might need a little inspiration
― yeahhh (surm), Saturday, 13 March 2010 22:22 (fourteen years ago) link
i am leaving for i4n's houseparty w/ rock bands in a few hours. I will get soaked just walking to the subway (umbrellas are useless today).
― Fusty Moralizer (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 13 March 2010 23:21 (fourteen years ago) link
wear your rubbers
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Sunday, 14 March 2010 00:57 (fourteen years ago) link
That sounds like fun! what rock bands?
― gabourey voltaire (Stevie D), Sunday, 14 March 2010 01:40 (fourteen years ago) link
― plax (ico), Saturday, March 13, 2010 3:50 PM (5 hours ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
ditto.
heading out for some drunken karaoke after an afternoon of board games. not really giving a damn about cute boys this weekend (for once) kind of a relief, tbh. they were out in droves at the coffeeshop all week, starting their med school rotations and being all coyly flirtatious...but it's been a weekend of board games and reading and cooking with friends - forgot how much i needed to recharge my batteries until i got the opportunity. have a wondrous evening, boys. spring is here and things are looking up.
― Alex in Montreal, Sunday, 14 March 2010 02:09 (fourteen years ago) link
also,
doesn't mean anything for now. maybe he's bi? maybe she'll be out of the picture soon? who knows? speaking as a barista, we're a bunch of shameless flirts anyhow.
― Alex in Montreal, Sunday, 14 March 2010 02:10 (fourteen years ago) link
hello guys
2nite is the 2 year anniversary of the first time i came out
― hitler runoff (J0rdan S.), Sunday, 14 March 2010 03:02 (fourteen years ago) link
congrats! have yrself a drink (that's what i'm doing)
i never really thought about this until just now but i came out january 2001 - i don't remember the exact day, but wow, nine years?
― all-beef patty hearst (donna rouge), Sunday, 14 March 2010 03:07 (fourteen years ago) link
it's actually not the exact day, but the same weekend, so i'm just pretending like it's the same day
― hitler runoff (J0rdan S.), Sunday, 14 March 2010 03:15 (fourteen years ago) link
So old. Came out the summer of '98 and probably could/should've done so a year or two earlier.
― queen frostine (Eric H.), Sunday, 14 March 2010 03:16 (fourteen years ago) link
alright you nyc queers, i'm coming down to nyc soon and i'll be damned disappointed if we don't FAP
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Sunday, 14 March 2010 07:25 (fourteen years ago) link
I'm still not out (shhhheh)
We just stayed in i4n's room, and smoked and drank (shhhh)
― Fusty Moralizer (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 14 March 2010 09:38 (fourteen years ago) link
I don't know if you guys remember the boy I was !!!!!! over a few months ago (that looked like a teddy bear and had cute teeth), but I tried to kiss him last night! I did not succeed :(
― gabourey voltaire (Stevie D), Monday, 15 March 2010 01:19 (fourteen years ago) link
i'm sorry poptart
at least you tried!!
― yeahhh (surm), Monday, 15 March 2010 02:45 (fourteen years ago) link
how did he react exactly?
― big (surm), Monday, 15 March 2010 02:46 (fourteen years ago) link
he shied away when I tried to kiss him but then he found me/sat down next to me and was all "that was kind of awkward... sorry. I love talking to you and you're awesome and etc. etc. but I'm just really socially awkward with that sort of thing. Like, I don't really kiss people..." and so on
― gabourey voltaire (Stevie D), Monday, 15 March 2010 04:27 (fourteen years ago) link
― Alex in Montreal, Saturday, March 13, 2010 6:10 PM Bookmark
bi is a total possibility. I need to press him on this dance night he told me about but couldn't remember the details of and see if we can go dancing ; )
― platinum plax (The Reverend), Monday, 15 March 2010 07:25 (fourteen years ago) link
gayz, hope you've been well. my house got robbed and my computer got stolen this weekend. real bummer city.
on the plus side, i met and talked with John Waters last night, along with Dennis C00per and a load of other illustrious fagz. se4n (the one i've been after) was my date. :)
and i'm moving!!
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Wednesday, 17 March 2010 16:38 (fourteen years ago) link
Ides of March were rough on a lot of people, it sounds. My condo building's roof leaked and caused a major crisis in one of the units (not mine, but still distressing since it's our collective building, et al).
― queen frostine (Eric H.), Wednesday, 17 March 2010 16:40 (fourteen years ago) link
third computer theft i've heard about this weekend, there's a special circle of hell reserved for those thieving motherfuckers imo.
one of my regular sources of income dried up last week and i need to find a new one SIGH. (yes this is a HINT to anyone who may happen upon this post.) freelancing takes the piss sometimes.
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Wednesday, 17 March 2010 17:53 (fourteen years ago) link
geez i'm sorry. that sucks.
on a sunny note, it's the most beautiful day of the year!
― big (surm), Wednesday, 17 March 2010 18:09 (fourteen years ago) link
a literally sunny note!
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Wednesday, 17 March 2010 18:44 (fourteen years ago) link
it could be worse, a friend of mine received her first payment for work done in 2010 today. first. over halfway through march.
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Wednesday, 17 March 2010 18:45 (fourteen years ago) link
Hello the gays, I am interviewing a certain figure skater for my fashion magazine tomorrow - any (genuine) questions y'all want me to put to this person? SO EXCITED.
Also, Lex, which source has dried up? Blaaaah.
― ned ragú (suzy), Wednesday, 17 March 2010 19:43 (fourteen years ago) link
i've always wanted to know how much input skaters have into their costume design! or on another note i'd like to see more quotes from him along those "if football/hockey players did what i did for a day, they'd cry" lines - stuff emphasising his tuffness.
(my old employers, who i'd continued freelancing for; it's not really a surprise given their decreasing commitment to the project but blahhh. now i have to work out how much money they owe me.)
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Wednesday, 17 March 2010 20:15 (fourteen years ago) link
Oh don't worry, we are after skater biyatch realness in this interview and we will surely get it (he designs those onesies himself but wants to go to FIT when skating is over, my job is to convince him of St Martins).
― ned ragú (suzy), Wednesday, 17 March 2010 21:02 (fourteen years ago) link
speaking of gay skaters, Brian Boitano's cooking sucks.
― The Magnificent Colin Firth (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 17 March 2010 21:03 (fourteen years ago) link
NOOO he should go to FIT because it's easier for me to stalk him there i hear they have like a really good program and stuff
― all-beef patty hearst (donna rouge), Wednesday, 17 March 2010 21:36 (fourteen years ago) link
when u say a "a certain figure skater" i just assume its jonny weir
― plax (ico), Thursday, 18 March 2010 02:13 (fourteen years ago) link
The white elephant is, in this case, blocking view of a few dozen baby elephants.
― queen frostine (Eric H.), Thursday, 18 March 2010 02:18 (fourteen years ago) link
Correct, Plax! Interview in 20 but did not want to name names, thought gays dem would guess anyway. Speaking of the gift of innuendo, some of these questions are going to be fun.
― ned ragú (suzy), Thursday, 18 March 2010 16:11 (fourteen years ago) link
have fun, girl!!
― big (surm), Thursday, 18 March 2010 16:19 (fourteen years ago) link
Hedda Lettuce is 'presenting' Showgirls at Chelsea Cinemas tonight. I think I'll be at a 3-hour Chinese documentary.
― Fusty Moralizer (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 18 March 2010 19:36 (fourteen years ago) link
I still need to see that bloody movie Showgirls !
― big (surm), Thursday, 18 March 2010 19:48 (fourteen years ago) link
"need" is a strong word
― Fusty Moralizer (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 18 March 2010 19:59 (fourteen years ago) link
"bloody" is an accurate word
― queen frostine (Eric H.), Thursday, 18 March 2010 20:02 (fourteen years ago) link
Haha I just watched it for the first time on Sunday. Mind blown.
― lou, Thursday, 18 March 2010 21:41 (fourteen years ago) link
all this showgirls talk is making me want some french fries
― all-beef patty hearst (donna rouge), Thursday, 18 March 2010 21:48 (fourteen years ago) link
omg i'm DJing my friends' gay wedding this summer omg omg omg
― all-beef patty hearst (donna rouge), Friday, 19 March 2010 18:55 (fourteen years ago) link
I'm listenin' to Marshall Crenshaw rockin' out on the NYC.
― The Magnificent Colin Firth (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 19 March 2010 19:01 (fourteen years ago) link
xp NICE!!! What are your must-play tracks?
I wrote a paper on Showgirls last spring and lost it (v agonizing!) and then JUST FOUND IT AGAIN TWO DAYS AGO!!! It was on a thumb drive I'd left at my mother's house. I am excited beyond belief.
― gabourey voltaire (Stevie D), Saturday, 20 March 2010 15:48 (fourteen years ago) link
Still have a copy of a paper I wrote in college about Texas Chainsaw Massacre. Last time I read it nearly inspired me to toss it.
― queen frostine (Eric H.), Saturday, 20 March 2010 15:50 (fourteen years ago) link
I've never felt any other way when rereading papers I've written. Can we swap?
― gabourey voltaire (Stevie D), Saturday, 20 March 2010 15:53 (fourteen years ago) link
Haha, I only have the printed copy, but I can scan it if I remember at work.
― queen frostine (Eric H.), Saturday, 20 March 2010 19:19 (fourteen years ago) link
so i'll be in brooklyn next weekend -- probably arrive late friday and leave on sunday. shall we fap? saturday is probably best, but sunday daytime might work too
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Saturday, 20 March 2010 21:33 (fourteen years ago) link
... anybody?
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Sunday, 21 March 2010 04:33 (fourteen years ago) link
You KNOW I'm down!
― gabourey voltaire (Stevie D), Sunday, 21 March 2010 05:34 (fourteen years ago) link
I remember when college papers used to be about real things, like Shaw or Nathanael West. (maybe those were just mine)
I should be around, e a!
― Fusty Moralizer (Dr Morbius), Monday, 22 March 2010 01:23 (fourteen years ago) link
wkiw elmo! i'm around early evening on saturday prob
― all-beef patty hearst (donna rouge), Monday, 22 March 2010 01:31 (fourteen years ago) link
Alas elmo won't be here yet, but apparently Mattachine party is def this Thurs at Julius'.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 13:52 (fourteen years ago) link
rats!
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 13:58 (fourteen years ago) link
picked this up from the library:
http://images.amazon.com/images/P/0814756867.01.LZZZZZZZ.jpg
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 23 March 2010 15:16 (fourteen years ago) link
lols love A&F
― big (surm), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 16:01 (fourteen years ago) link
Their clothes only fit a certain body type well and I am not that body type. All Sm/Med shirts I've ever tried to wear from them are too short on the torso. Constantly pulling down on them like a fat girl tugging on a sweater.
― queen frostine (Eric H.), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 16:05 (fourteen years ago) link
they do cut it short on the torso, but sometimes that boxy thing they do with their sweaters works for me. if i want to feel like i'm about to go the diner after my lacross game, that is.
― big (surm), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 16:06 (fourteen years ago) link
dunno, a&f / american eagle / hollister apparel is useful for identifying fags to avoid imo
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 16:08 (fourteen years ago) link
also let's not forget that the a&f magalog was some serious spank material in its day
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 16:09 (fourteen years ago) link
lol. well obv im not totin a&f / american eagle labels all over town. i don't even own anything from there but look, i grew up in a waspy village on long island so i gotta rep
― big (surm), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 16:12 (fourteen years ago) link
it's weird when i visit st louis and that's like ... what the bois seem to wear :(
― big (surm), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 16:13 (fourteen years ago) link
So you grew up with real, old-school A&F like the hippo balanced upon by this young lady?
http://www.audartgallery.com/WARHOL/edie_vogue.jpg
― ned ragú (suzy), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 16:22 (fourteen years ago) link
AberZOMBIES amirite
I hate wearing anything with a readable trade name on it.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 16:29 (fourteen years ago) link
^^^
― lou, Tuesday, 23 March 2010 16:32 (fourteen years ago) link
unless I'm paid.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 16:37 (fourteen years ago) link
this is my new lacoste bag
http://a2.zassets.com/images/739/7394146/6627-583720-t.jpg
― big (surm), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 16:42 (fourteen years ago) link
Two brands I will never not wear proudly: Levis and Converse.
― queen frostine (Eric H.), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 16:43 (fourteen years ago) link
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, March 23, 2010 4:29 PM (11 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
yeah ditto! giant-ass logos can fuck off as well. this makes buying clothes more difficult than it should be. small eg lacoste logo is about as far as i'll go.
a&f obv codes differently in the US but the boys in their adverts are 99% total ws
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 16:44 (fourteen years ago) link
OK, any label that wasn't "rebranded" since my birth is fine.
xp
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 16:45 (fourteen years ago) link
Are there really adults who wear A&F? Though the guy I'm dating wears GAP of all things... Maybe we'll go on a trip together to Old Navy and pick out matching fleece garbage bags, or whatever their clothing is supposed to be.
― Spectrum, Tuesday, 23 March 2010 16:46 (fourteen years ago) link
i'v been levis crazy lately
― big (surm), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 16:46 (fourteen years ago) link
can't buy anything from gap anymore. i've been scarred from jr high.
― big (surm), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 16:47 (fourteen years ago) link
Ugh, Old Navy. The worst.
― queen frostine (Eric H.), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 16:55 (fourteen years ago) link
instead of receiving underwear and sock, i now receive old navy gift cards from parents every christmas. so i use then to restock underwear and socks. plus ca change...
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 17:04 (fourteen years ago) link
I won't wear Converse: college classmate scion of that family was a douchenozzle and I decided then I would not subsidize. Nor any of the Ralph Lauren family or any rebooted brand that makes the logo bigger in relaunch. I am going to be having a crisis moment with Fred Perry when they do this.
Lacoste, yes; Brooks Brothers, yes; Orvis, yes. Would be fun if Londoners discovered Orvis snakeproof boots, the shop is opposite APC and DSM so it could be only a matter of time.
― ned ragú (suzy), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 17:11 (fourteen years ago) link
The last store I bought new (cheap) clothes from consistently was H&M
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 17:18 (fourteen years ago) link
the bigger the Lauren logo, the better imo
― big (surm), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 17:21 (fourteen years ago) link
/sick person
gimme http://sell-polos.com/images/ralph-lauren-shirts-polo.jpg
― big (surm), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 17:22 (fourteen years ago) link
Though the guy I'm dating wears GAP of all things.
I wear lots of solid V-neck tees from Gap. Also: cargo shorts.
― APPLAUD YOU CORPSES (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 17:31 (fourteen years ago) link
Ramz I'm going to BARF. Solids are fine, but I've been avoiding branded anything for quite some time (maybe 8 years?). I went in American Eagle once with my friend a few years ago and tried to find one single item that didn't have rips/tears or AMERICAN EAGLE all over it, and I found nothing. Old Navy is OK but their stuff is cut like a trashbag; even the Smalls don't fit me.
Also, I bought a pair of black Levi's in the beginning of Sept and have worn them almost every single day since then.
Morbs are you going to Mattachine?
― gabourey voltaire (Stevie D), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 18:16 (fourteen years ago) link
omg i've been getting so much mileage out of my black levis
― big (surm), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 18:26 (fourteen years ago) link
Want list: pair of Levis 511 32x36 in jet black. Making do with gray for the time being.
― queen frostine (Eric H.), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 18:29 (fourteen years ago) link
yea that's exactly what i have! in a shorter length. v utilitarian
― big (surm), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 18:30 (fourteen years ago) link
I am actually wearing Levi 511 32(?)x30 (i think) in jet black. But after wearing them so much they have faded a bit. Planning to re-dye though.
also wtf, 32x36?? am gonna start calling you Lara Stone
― gabourey voltaire (Stevie D), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 18:31 (fourteen years ago) link
No I think they're 30x30 or 30x32. I forget. It all depends on the brand, or even style. I bought them after I tried on another pair of more denim-y 30x30 511s that were waaaay too small.
― gabourey voltaire (Stevie D), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 18:36 (fourteen years ago) link
― big (surm), Tuesday, March 23, 2010 12:21 PM (1 hour ago) Bookmark
this is so otm -- i remember swooning when they first released their big logo polos (heh)
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 23 March 2010 18:47 (fourteen years ago) link
agree with elmo here. old navy is crap but whenever i go to n. america i always buy about 10 trile packs of underwear. it's the only place that does a nice but of tighty whitey that doesn't break the bank
― jed_, Tuesday, 23 March 2010 18:48 (fourteen years ago) link
triple*
& really, who cares about a&f's clothes?! or how horrible their ceo is (horrible) cuz they consistently feature amazingly hot guys so i think it's a fair trade off
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 23 March 2010 18:48 (fourteen years ago) link
i buy hanes briefs from target
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 23 March 2010 18:49 (fourteen years ago) link
wearing my black 501s today lol
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 18:49 (fourteen years ago) link
I'd gladly chop at least two inches out of my shins. It would make shopping for pants way easier.
― queen frostine (Eric H.), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 18:49 (fourteen years ago) link
I'll go to Mattachine if I'm not tired, and assuming I stick around after work to go to The Prowler at Film Forum @ 7:40 that night.
32w, I hate youse.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 18:50 (fourteen years ago) link
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, March 23, 2010 6:49 PM (1 minute ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
hells yeah
― big (surm), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 18:51 (fourteen years ago) link
that's like all i wear. tho i've been getting into boxer briefs lately.
Mhm.
― lou, Tuesday, 23 March 2010 18:53 (fourteen years ago) link
i meant boxer briefs, my bad
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 23 March 2010 18:55 (fourteen years ago) link
oh yeah, totally woulda pegged you as a boxer briefs guy, i was a little surprised
i actually think plain old boxers are reallllllly hot too, but with the wrong pair of pants it's too much fabric
― big (surm), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 18:56 (fourteen years ago) link
i have two pairs of levis that i wear (one blue, one black) and maroon corduroys that i wear when the mood strikes
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 23 March 2010 18:56 (fourteen years ago) link
Sad that Levis cords seem to top out at 32" inseams these days.
― queen frostine (Eric H.), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 18:57 (fourteen years ago) link
levis trouser jeans are a really good investment, too, if you're looking for something a little less casual than jeans, but not dressy
― big (surm), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 18:58 (fourteen years ago) link
I need new jeans, but today I'm wearing interview pants. So I can earn more and buy any clothes whatsoever.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 18:59 (fourteen years ago) link
!! interview today? break a leg
― big (surm), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 19:01 (fourteen years ago) link
My problem exactly. Also: I have no ass.
― APPLAUD YOU CORPSES (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 19:04 (fourteen years ago) link
omg since i went up 2 pants sizes last year i HAVE AN ASS. i am so excited. i've never had one before.
― big (surm), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 19:04 (fourteen years ago) link
well, I'm not sure if it's going to be better than what I have... since my current job may transform completely next Monday. I'm always confident I will make the wrong decision.
xxp
Take it out for a walk, surm.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 19:05 (fourteen years ago) link
boxers are the worst, jeez
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 23 March 2010 19:05 (fourteen years ago) link
Yeah, I don't care how boxers look. They feel really bunchy and annoying on me.
― queen frostine (Eric H.), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 19:06 (fourteen years ago) link
i love a boy in boxers. it's so guy-y
― big (surm), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 19:07 (fourteen years ago) link
also they're just so old school and cute !
I think you have to have thighs the size of Cheyenne Jackson's for them to really look flattering, but that's just me.
― queen frostine (Eric H.), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 19:10 (fourteen years ago) link
ramzi is partly correct, but a guy's guy in boxer briefs is actually hotter because of the expectations it defies, so boxers are kind of a lose-lose all around
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 23 March 2010 19:10 (fourteen years ago) link
Before I watch Brothers later, I must know: do Gylly and Tobey frenk kiss?
― APPLAUD YOU CORPSES (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 19:11 (fourteen years ago) link
Trouser jeans--I think that is what mine are. They're jean-ish with a hint of strech but don't feel like denim, exactly. I wonder what kind of guy I seem like (briefs, boxbriefs, boxers, nothing?)
― gabourey voltaire (Stevie D), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 19:31 (fourteen years ago) link
I'm simple and old-fashioned: anytime someone can SEE your boxers, they should be OFF!
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 19:31 (fourteen years ago) link
I know for a fact that at least one gaylxor wears boxers exclusively.
― gabourey voltaire (Stevie D), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 19:33 (fourteen years ago) link
around town?
― APPLAUD YOU CORPSES (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 19:35 (fourteen years ago) link
on the ground
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 19:36 (fourteen years ago) link
not this one! xp
― all-beef patty hearst (donna rouge), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 19:38 (fourteen years ago) link
I agree with most boxers complaints, 'cept they permit a certain sensation of... freedom.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 19:40 (fourteen years ago) link
^^ also, easy access is a big plus
― big (surm), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 19:41 (fourteen years ago) link
keep that note for tabes when he returns
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 19:41 (fourteen years ago) link
what I haven't worn in awhile is my boxing trunks! I was gonna spar with a guy this weekend but had to cancel, too much else to do.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 19:42 (fourteen years ago) link
...
― big (surm), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 19:43 (fourteen years ago) link
haha -- i love how morbs has slowly revealed himself to be an ex-stand up comedian & now a boxer
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 23 March 2010 19:45 (fourteen years ago) link
for some reason i'd never realised they were called boxing trunks
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 19:47 (fourteen years ago) link
nah he's a lightweight ;)
― APPLAUD YOU CORPSES (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 19:47 (fourteen years ago) link
I've mentioned this before! I am no more a boxer than you, just someone who has made a stab at it (and usually gotten clobbered).
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 19:48 (fourteen years ago) link
Surely I'm not the only one? Jesse said he used to like to glove up and fight.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 23 March 2010 19:50 (fourteen years ago) link
Haha. Go figure that no one here figured out why McBride hates A&F. He's not necessarily against branding. Only mentions the CEO in the capacity of him having turned a struggling company into a very successful one. Doesn't complain about the fit of their clothes, although he does accuse their clothes of being very ordinary, fashionable logo aside. He doesn't really complain about fagz who wear A&F, although he does have some interesting, somewhat damning insight about them.
The problem with A&F, and this is something I've felt since high school, but could never quite articulate, is that they are selling whiteness. McBride specifically contrasts this Ralph Lauren, who, yes, are selling an upper middle class lifestyle, but one attainable to anyone who can afford it. A&F regularly discriminates against non-white employees, with store managers forced to fire them if higher-ups discover them working at their stores, and usually only able to hire them to begin with if they fit a very rigid look that avoids any ethnic cultural signifiers, as articulated by their highly race-coded company policy. They were subject to a class-action lawsuit over this.
― The Reverend, Wednesday, 24 March 2010 04:27 (fourteen years ago) link
The insight about (white) A&F fagz is that, one step removed from the Old Boys' Club, their purchase of whiteness subconsciously allows them to feel included in the Old Boys' Club which might otherwise deny them because of their sexuality. He contrasts them with gay Republicans, who are more cognizant of their one-step-away status and decide to claim the benefits of the Good Ol' Boys for themselves. As for non-white A&F fagz, they just have their shit even more twisted.
― The Reverend, Wednesday, 24 March 2010 04:35 (fourteen years ago) link
i went to an A&F store for the first time a couple of weeks ago (looking for a tie), and it blew my mind. it was like walking into a nightclub... a nightclub full of clothes! the lighting was so, so dim and the music was so, so loud. and there was this fucking awful smell, like cheap cologne, being pumped out of the aircon. i could actually smell it on my clothes after i walked out.
― just1n3, Wednesday, 24 March 2010 04:38 (fourteen years ago) link
A&F clothes don't fit me and are really dull to boot
― all-beef patty hearst (donna rouge), Wednesday, 24 March 2010 04:49 (fourteen years ago) link
meanwhile about 90% of my wardrobe is from either h&m or uniqlo lol
― all-beef patty hearst (donna rouge), Wednesday, 24 March 2010 04:50 (fourteen years ago) link
My best gay friend M*ttie works at a Uniqlo in NYC. This is the only reason I've heard of Uniqlo.
― The Reverend, Wednesday, 24 March 2010 04:54 (fourteen years ago) link
it's the only one in the US atm (all the other stores are UK/east asia). their pants fit me like a ~*dream*~
― all-beef patty hearst (donna rouge), Wednesday, 24 March 2010 04:59 (fourteen years ago) link
what's up gayz?
I just DJed at The Hippo, a ridiculous gay disco in Baltimore, at this hipster party called Deep In the Game, and indulged some GayIlxor-ish tunes. Here's my playlist:
Fulgeance - "Revenge of the Nerd"Sister Sledge - "Thinking Of You"Jocelyn Brown - "Somebody Else's Guy"Phantom Slasher - "Backwards Is The Best Way Forward. Baby" 33 1/3 Queen - "Disco 4"Dave Aju - "Roundabout"Aaron-Carl - "Homoerotic" DJ Koze - "Mrs. Bojangels"John Tejada - "Pivot"Achim Maerz - "Garish" Ralphi Rosario Feat. Xavier Gold - "You Used To Hold Me”Armand Van Helden - "Work Me Gadamit"Jay Karan - "Who's In Charge of the Girls?"Titonton Duvanté- "Headbann" Deepah Ones - "Dancin' (Doo Dew Dancin')"Douster - "For Weirdos Only"Dennis Ferrer - "Son of Raw" Hardrive - "Deep Inside (The Dub)"Hardrive - "Deep Inside"Reboot - "Enjoy Music"Raudive - "abc" Colombia #1 - "colombia #1" Dhs - "House of God" Mescalinum United - "Mescalinum United We Have Arrived" Untold - "I Can't Stop This Feeling" James Tenney – “For Ann (Rising)”
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Wednesday, 24 March 2010 06:22 (fourteen years ago) link
^^would get down to all of that
― all-beef patty hearst (donna rouge), Wednesday, 24 March 2010 06:55 (fourteen years ago) link
The problem with A&F, and this is something I've felt since high school, but could never quite articulate, is that they are selling whiteness.
u never put this together til now?? so true.
― big (surm), Wednesday, 24 March 2010 11:51 (fourteen years ago) link
Yeah, A&F have been some sort of 'roid-'luude aryan paradise since their resurgence.
― queen frostine (Eric H.), Wednesday, 24 March 2010 12:51 (fourteen years ago) link
I had a vague sense of it, yes.
― wsing pumpkins (The Reverend), Wednesday, 24 March 2010 13:19 (fourteen years ago) link
<3
in other news, i just got these shoes in the mail
http://www.shoebuy.com/pi/radii/radii324969_179073_lg.jpg
― big (surm), Wednesday, 24 March 2010 13:33 (fourteen years ago) link
You better find a matching scarf before winter ends!
― filling the medicare donut hole with the semen of liberal (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 24 March 2010 13:40 (fourteen years ago) link
It's weird how gradual our shift into Back to the Future, Part 2 has been.
― queen frostine (Eric H.), Wednesday, 24 March 2010 13:44 (fourteen years ago) link
But I do love those shoes. I only just want them in blue.
OMG DR3W you played "Deep Inside" (deep, deep, down inside). Fucking love that song. Plz tell me people when nuts when they heard it?
― gabourey voltaire (Stevie D), Wednesday, 24 March 2010 13:51 (fourteen years ago) link
yeah, it was kind of the emotional peak- I thought it was fitting since the party is called Deep In the Game.
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Wednesday, 24 March 2010 15:32 (fourteen years ago) link
Ralphi Rosario Feat. Xavier Gold - "You Used To Hold Me”
:D would've gone so nuts to this
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Wednesday, 24 March 2010 15:46 (fourteen years ago) link
Dr3w will you DJ my next party?Dr3w will you DJ an exclusive transcontinental video-streamed GAYLXtravaganza?
― gabourey voltaire (Stevie D), Wednesday, 24 March 2010 16:19 (fourteen years ago) link
what does it mean that i recognize almost none of those songs or artists? :((((
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 24 March 2010 16:22 (fourteen years ago) link
It means that you're not hyper-obsessed with dance/electronic music. I only recognized 5 or 6 of them.
― gabourey voltaire (Stevie D), Wednesday, 24 March 2010 16:31 (fourteen years ago) link
Yeah, none familiar here
/rockist
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 24 March 2010 16:32 (fourteen years ago) link
I like dance/electronic music a lot and have the same issue. But I have heard Drew (and his partner) DJ before. :D
― the real dangers horses in black neighborhoods face (The Reverend), Wednesday, 24 March 2010 16:36 (fourteen years ago) link
How about my wedding-not-wedding? ;)
― lou, Wednesday, 24 March 2010 16:37 (fourteen years ago) link
ok. i get overwhelmed simetimes at just how much music i have absolutely zero knowledge of. which is usually good (more to discover) but sometimes makes me feel woefully underexposed ("why does everyone seem to know about this shit except me").
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 24 March 2010 16:46 (fourteen years ago) link
i don't know any of those songs except for "somebody else's guy." i don't like feel bad about it, but if any of them are like "somebody else's guy," you should probably let me know because that's one of my favorite songs of all time
― big (surm), Wednesday, 24 March 2010 16:48 (fourteen years ago) link
The Armand track is pretty hysterical. Also some of the gayest sounds ever recorded.
― queen frostine (Eric H.), Wednesday, 24 March 2010 16:52 (fourteen years ago) link
not that i've heard everything in that set but i'd wager that the sister sledge track is closest in sound/spirit to jocelyn, surm
― all-beef patty hearst (donna rouge), Wednesday, 24 March 2010 17:00 (fourteen years ago) link
yeah, "Thinking of You" was a huge Sister Sledge hit in the UK and is kind of a "deep cut" for Americans, it got sampled by lots of people (Meat Beat Manifesto used it best in "Re-Animator"). It makes me really happy everytime I hear it, without fail.
"I'm thinking of you, and the things you do / that make me love you, now I'm livin' in Ecstasy"
the person I wish was more well known is Jay Karan- he makes vogue beats and chants for drag balls, he's a legendary ball scene figure and his tracks like "Who's In Charge of the Girls?" and "I Declare War" and "Bitch You'll Gag" are the dictionary definition of *fierce cunty dramatic ovah*
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Wednesday, 24 March 2010 17:19 (fourteen years ago) link
wait...this is that absolutely insane track you played in seattle at the sunset tavern that mackro & I tracked down but I subsequently forgot about, isn't it?
― the real dangers horses in black neighborhoods face (The Reverend), Wednesday, 24 March 2010 18:13 (fourteen years ago) link
yeah, his tracks are hard to find but I think "I Don't Like That Bitch (I Don't See her)" is on iMeem or something.
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Wednesday, 24 March 2010 18:16 (fourteen years ago) link
imeem doesn't exist anymore
sucks
― big (surm), Wednesday, 24 March 2010 18:18 (fourteen years ago) link
only found a short (one minute) track on soulseek but that's been enuf to interest me in finding more
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 24 March 2010 18:33 (fourteen years ago) link
"who's in charge" is on youtube also
― all-beef patty hearst (donna rouge), Wednesday, 24 March 2010 18:51 (fourteen years ago) link
BACK. tho this week is crazy, don't ask me about it.
notes:- A&F, A&E, Gap, Hollister, etc: = you are boring. sorry guys.
- i wear briefs. gave all my boxers to goodwill a while back.
- drew, that setlist is great...so funny, i actually have made some of those same transitions before (like "Homoerotic" into "Mrs. Bojangels"). i miss m4rk brown, please tell him to get his ass out to california asap.
- my friend wh!t is moving out here!! hella excited about that. you'd understand if you saw him.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Wednesday, 24 March 2010 23:20 (fourteen years ago) link
so NY, Saturday w/ elmo?
Steve, I plan to make Julius' around 9:15 tom'w til I get tired. (I wouldn't worry about 'dressing,' that's just Next magazine BS.)
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 25 March 2010 01:17 (fourteen years ago) link
oops, make that 9:45
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 25 March 2010 11:19 (fourteen years ago) link
oh that's right, it's tonight!! OK then, I'll head over around 10 or so.
― every potty I know can be found here (Stevie D), Thursday, 25 March 2010 12:50 (fourteen years ago) link
SATURDAY: What time should we meet, and where? Julius was nice last time, should we do that again?
― every potty I know can be found here (Stevie D), Thursday, 25 March 2010 19:34 (fourteen years ago) link
I don't know what it's like on a Sat night. There's no new-wave night @Metrop, tho, so defer to elmo? Is he staying in Bklyn?
Woke up for good about 5:15 this morning, so I'll only be drinking til maybe 11:30 tonight.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 25 March 2010 20:10 (fourteen years ago) link
i'll be staying in bklyn on sat night, in wburg i think? i don't know the bars but would like to be in a place where talking / seating is possible, at least to start.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 25 March 2010 20:18 (fourteen years ago) link
Best options might be either Metro or Nowhere (in Manh off the L) then
― all-beef patty hearst (donna rouge), Thursday, 25 March 2010 20:25 (fourteen years ago) link
Yeah, the Metrop back patio will be open but it's supposed to be coolish (better than Friday though).
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 25 March 2010 20:33 (fourteen years ago) link
I've never been to Nowhere but I've been meaning to! Is that tabley/seaty though?
― every potty I know can be found here (Stevie D), Thursday, 25 March 2010 20:35 (fourteen years ago) link
i'm down for wherever! really, i trust the wisdom of the gaylx crowd
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 25 March 2010 20:42 (fourteen years ago) link
I don't remember any big tables @ Nowhere, just small ones and some kinda rickety couches in the back?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 25 March 2010 20:45 (fourteen years ago) link
This Saturday, March 27th BUTT will be participating in the 2nd annual Rainbow Book Fair in New York City at CUNY (365 5th Avenue at 34th St) from 11 – 5:30PM. We’ll be selling back issues of BUTT to help fill in your collection, along with the remaining stock of the BUTT 2010 Calendar at a discounted rate. We’ll also be conducting ONE QUESTION INTERVIEWS as a special bonus to encourage our fans and readers to come out and support the fair and all the other zines and booksellers in attendance. Questions from previous BUTT interviews will be placed in a bowl at random, and anyone who comes by will get the chance to pick a question at random and answer it, with the results appearing here on the blog. So if you’ve always wanted to be interviewed for the BUTT Blog, clear your calendar for Saturday, and we’ll see you at the fair. THE FAIR IS FREE AND OPEN TO THE PUBLIC!!
might check this out if i feel like making the trip to midtown
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 25 March 2010 22:38 (fourteen years ago) link
Baby got back BUTT.
elmo, I don't remember if you're a carnivore, but if ian wants to I recommend the post-11pm $3 pork sandwiches at Fette Sau in W'burg. (maybe dr & Steve wd be down for this?)
no JC Mitchell last night @Mattachine, but Steve got to hug a Scottish celeb.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 26 March 2010 14:48 (fourteen years ago) link
(ie there are empty tables and beer at Fette Sau, and it's 5 mins from Metropolitan)
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 26 March 2010 15:18 (fourteen years ago) link
ummm yes to pork sandwich
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Friday, 26 March 2010 16:10 (fourteen years ago) link
I would but I am a crazy vegan :( no pork for me (oh, shush). JC Mitchell did show up eventually; we stayed til 1. and YES OMG I HUGGED 4L4N CUMM1NG!!!!
― every potty I know can be found here (Stevie D), Friday, 26 March 2010 20:17 (fourteen years ago) link
on a bus! haven't been to ny on my own in a few years.
as for plans tomorrow night, what time are we thinking? i'm really flying by the seat of my jeans this trip so i can make whatever time work, probly.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Friday, 26 March 2010 20:45 (fourteen years ago) link
I would've just asked him to do his flirty lines from Eyes Wide Shut.
I had to leave around the time the throng was blocking my view of a hot longhaired Latino Mark Bolan/Johnny Depp wannabe in aviator shades. xp
I dunno, I'm meeting a friend in Park Slope for drinks at 6, so anytime after is OK for me.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 26 March 2010 20:47 (fourteen years ago) link
i may drop in somewhat later than originally anticipated since this thesis isn't going to write itself, unfortunately
my appearance may also be somewhat brief (another friend is having bday drinks nearby)
― all-beef patty hearst (donna rouge), Friday, 26 March 2010 21:27 (fourteen years ago) link
ok. shall i fbook msg ppl with my phone # then?
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Friday, 26 March 2010 21:30 (fourteen years ago) link
maybe, and find out what part of Brooklyn you're staying in! and figure where we're meeting etc.
(I can't do the mobile phone Let's Plan 5 Minutes In Advance thing)
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 26 March 2010 21:36 (fourteen years ago) link
pretty sure i'll be in wburg but won't know address until later.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Friday, 26 March 2010 21:56 (fourteen years ago) link
I'm leaving in an hour or two to go to that BUTT thing. So we're doing metrop, right? What time's best for err'one?
― every potty I know can be found here (Stevie D), Saturday, 27 March 2010 14:13 (fourteen years ago) link
ok so i'm right near the graham ave L so i am right nearby, yes? depending on when the good doctor m. is available, shall we say -- 8? 8.30? later?
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Saturday, 27 March 2010 15:35 (fourteen years ago) link
yeah, it should be 3 blocks or so.
is 8:30 at Metrop good, or too early? donna rouge?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 27 March 2010 15:54 (fourteen years ago) link
I send my love and scorn. Have fun y'all!
― filling the medicare donut hole with the semen of liberal (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 27 March 2010 15:58 (fourteen years ago) link
8:30ish should be fine, may get there a bit later
― all-beef patty hearst (donna rouge), Saturday, 27 March 2010 16:17 (fourteen years ago) link
all this and j0n w1ll14ms too!
Fette Sau had run out of pork when I got there.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 28 March 2010 16:01 (fourteen years ago) link
That was a total blast! I ended up getting home at like 8:30 this morning
― every potty I know can be found here (Stevie D), Sunday, 28 March 2010 18:18 (fourteen years ago) link
FS pork belly and i would make a pretty handsome couple
i went a liiiiiiittle bit overboard after my departure (no thanks to the free cans of PBR at subway bar) but it was mostly worth it
great meeting you elmo! (and j0n if you read this)
― all-beef patty hearst (donna rouge), Sunday, 28 March 2010 20:47 (fourteen years ago) link
These are for you + elms:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YTnAfOmvBc0
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6jpfconAdU0
― every potty I know can be found here (Stevie D), Sunday, 28 March 2010 21:03 (fourteen years ago) link
:D
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Monday, 29 March 2010 15:20 (fourteen years ago) link
lookin at these new Steve McQueen photos that have surfaced and I be like daaaaaaaamn:
http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4023/4474427392_0387c74c8a_o.jpg
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Monday, 29 March 2010 20:07 (fourteen years ago) link
drew can i get your stev mcqueen pictures why because he look intersting
― every potty I know can be found here (Stevie D), Monday, 29 March 2010 20:08 (fourteen years ago) link
yes where are more?
― Kevin John Bozelka, Monday, 29 March 2010 20:12 (fourteen years ago) link
the gallery is here: http://www.life.com/image/ugc1034972/in-gallery/41172
hotter than a two dollar gun
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Monday, 29 March 2010 20:12 (fourteen years ago) link
yowsah! thanx tbcid!
Here's a NSFW blog entry on a bio that says he bedded tons of dudes including Paul Newman:
http://www.gaysexblog.net/gay-hollywood-history-actor-steve-mcqueen.html
― Kevin John Bozelka, Monday, 29 March 2010 20:34 (fourteen years ago) link
be still my hearthttp://farm3.static.flickr.com/2779/4474539222_ef6defdffd_o.jpg
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Monday, 29 March 2010 20:45 (fourteen years ago) link
damn y'all be buggin out
― big (surm), Monday, 29 March 2010 20:51 (fourteen years ago) link
these pics >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> ricky martin coming out
― all-beef patty hearst (donna rouge), Monday, 29 March 2010 20:54 (fourteen years ago) link
I come to ILX for my celebrity news. had no idea he came out today! whoo!
TMZ kinda rocks.
― Ivan, Monday, 29 March 2010 21:02 (fourteen years ago) link
that was a glass closet, fer sure
I mean one look at pics in Hello! magazine of "his tastefully appointed all white minimalist apartment in Miami" and the Big Gay Clue-phone began to ring incessantly
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Monday, 29 March 2010 21:08 (fourteen years ago) link
can't wait for Menudo biopic.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 29 March 2010 21:31 (fourteen years ago) link
Meryl Streep as Ricky Martin, directed by Stephen Daldry.
― filling the medicare donut hole with the semen of liberal (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 29 March 2010 21:39 (fourteen years ago) link
I must reveal that Steve McQueen has never done anything for me. Well, I like him in The Great Escape, mostly cuz he barely speaks.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 31 March 2010 02:29 (fourteen years ago) link
Steve D, I hope not too much of that Sunday morning was spent in Penn Station.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 31 March 2010 02:30 (fourteen years ago) link
Yeah, I'll take Paul Newman any day.
― queen frostine (Eric H.), Wednesday, 31 March 2010 02:37 (fourteen years ago) link
Stevie, you are totally on the Butt blog.
― Ivan, Wednesday, 31 March 2010 19:36 (fourteen years ago) link
it's true! wish i could have made it to that bookfair, but totally overextended myself during my trip.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 31 March 2010 20:06 (fourteen years ago) link
haha, just came here to post that discovery myself
― all-beef patty hearst (donna rouge), Wednesday, 31 March 2010 21:33 (fourteen years ago) link
i just want to go on record saying that steve is a fucking champ for rolling along with the colorful cast of characters on saturday's drinking marathon. it was a bit much even for me, and some of those folks are my friends!
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 31 March 2010 21:45 (fourteen years ago) link
70+ºF here in Chicago. Spent a few hours in the park by my house reading. Trying to meet up this weekend with a guy who messaged me on OKC because I said I liked Pierre Boulez.
― Gesualdo Rivera (Daruton), Wednesday, 31 March 2010 23:29 (fourteen years ago) link
http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2779/4474539222_ef6defdffd_o.jpghttp://celebriscoop.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/paul_newman.jpgMcQueen told friends, "I thought Newman was arrogant. When I finally got him into bed, I taught him who the man was."
FAINTING HERE
― booches (Tape Store), Wednesday, 31 March 2010 23:59 (fourteen years ago) link
uunngghhhhh
Yeah, I wish I'd gotten a better Q for that BUTT thing but oh well. I got to meet 4dam B4ran who is the head NY dude and more or less does the magazine these days, which was rad, and picked up the most amazing word search book with all these hilarious/awesome word lists (NYC CLUBS '80S TO PRESENT, ASIAN PEEPS, STAGE NAMES, etc).
Also, I just want to go on the record saying elmo has some v interesting (-in-a-good-way) friends and the trip was well worth it. All my favoritest nights always seem to end after the sun comes up anyhow.
You guys I'm going on a lolkcupid date on Thurs and it's sort of my first ACTUAL date and I'm waaay nervous. I am overpsyching myself up so so much! Gah. I hope it goes OK.
― every potty I know can be found here (Stevie D), Thursday, 1 April 2010 00:51 (fourteen years ago) link
what zackly happened after Metropolitan?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 1 April 2010 02:10 (fourteen years ago) link
steve, jon, & i met up with (my host for that evening) g4be at a bar in greenpoint where this girl br00ke was throwing her birthday party (i MAY have met her once, maybe twice before, but she greeted my as though we had been long lost. she was... intense.) a few friends from my nyu days were there, but otherwise nothing crazy happening. jon bailed after about an hour or so. i got a hand stamp from the b-day girl & thus free beers all night. closed the bar, then somehow managed to arrive at br00ke's place w/ like 6 additional ppl in tow at around 4am. was there until around 6ish. the last i saw steve he was to be escorted to the nearest subway stop by j0e (who is also... very intense).
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 1 April 2010 02:31 (fourteen years ago) link
ooh, way too intense a Sunday morning for me. Unless I'm in another town!
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 1 April 2010 02:33 (fourteen years ago) link
I just watched Sunrise and had roast pork and rice from this place down the street.
― Gesualdo Rivera (Daruton), Thursday, 1 April 2010 04:03 (fourteen years ago) link
my hormones have been crazy today
― wakaflockapitusberry (The Reverend), Thursday, 1 April 2010 06:05 (fourteen years ago) link
what ya gonna do about it
― big (surm), Thursday, 1 April 2010 06:22 (fourteen years ago) link
i
― booches (Tape Store), Thursday, 1 April 2010 06:56 (fourteen years ago) link
just
wanna
suck diiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiickkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk
(sorry)
― booches (Tape Store), Thursday, 1 April 2010 06:57 (fourteen years ago) link
aahhhhhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
― big (surm), Thursday, 1 April 2010 07:00 (fourteen years ago) link
^_^
― 2 guys 1 jag (J0rdan S.), Thursday, 1 April 2010 07:03 (fourteen years ago) link
it's like a song
and it's okay, we all do
― 2 guys 1 jag (J0rdan S.), Thursday, 1 April 2010 07:04 (fourteen years ago) link
lol jordan hi!!
― big (surm), Thursday, 1 April 2010 07:06 (fourteen years ago) link
yea i'm definitely more of a giver than a receiver tbff
me 2
― 2 guys 1 jag (J0rdan S.), Thursday, 1 April 2010 07:12 (fourteen years ago) link
i'm more of a searcher
― booches (Tape Store), Thursday, 1 April 2010 07:13 (fourteen years ago) link
(not a very successful one, if we're being honest)
the last guy that was here, he came everywhere. it was obscene (in the best way possible that is, of course)
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Thursday, 1 April 2010 07:16 (fourteen years ago) link
i had to throw out 2 pillows
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Thursday, 1 April 2010 07:17 (fourteen years ago) link
good lord
― 2 guys 1 jag (J0rdan S.), Thursday, 1 April 2010 07:19 (fourteen years ago) link
you should've sent him an invoice
i know. i even tried to have them dry-cleaned. no use.
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Thursday, 1 April 2010 07:21 (fourteen years ago) link
http://bit.ly/am00mn
― booches (Tape Store), Thursday, 1 April 2010 07:24 (fourteen years ago) link
am0n?
― 2 guys 1 jag (J0rdan S.), Thursday, 1 April 2010 07:24 (fourteen years ago) link
lollll, ^^^onto something here
lol thanks chris
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Thursday, 1 April 2010 07:25 (fourteen years ago) link
“Where the ignition came from we do not know,” Sapp said. “We thought maybe a cigarette lighter left in a clothing item, but we checked.”
IT WAS CUM, YOU FOOLS
― booches (Tape Store), Thursday, 1 April 2010 07:26 (fourteen years ago) link
cumfoolery
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Thursday, 1 April 2010 07:30 (fourteen years ago) link
I hate a mess
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 1 April 2010 11:12 (fourteen years ago) link
This pillow talk reminds me of a post on House of Vader (NSFW) which is "an entire PHOTO RE-INACTMENT of the UNMITIGATED and ARBITRARY pillow arranging by gays that has gone on in my apartment." Scroll down past the Pac Man pillows.
Tape Store, thank you for the post(s) of the year.
― Kevin John Bozelka, Thursday, 1 April 2010 12:09 (fourteen years ago) link
I live to receive.
― filling the medicare donut hole with the semen of liberal (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 1 April 2010 12:55 (fourteen years ago) link
(head, that is).
Reminds me of the time Mom threw out a Morrissey concert T-shirt that said "Wide To Receive" on its bum.
― filling the medicare donut hole with the semen of liberal (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 1 April 2010 12:56 (fourteen years ago) link
xxp give >>>> receive
tape store otm, tho. it is spring time and the boys are playing frisbee (shirts optional). time of year when a young man's fancy lightly turns to thoughts of bjs.
― Alex in Montreal, Thursday, 1 April 2010 13:28 (fourteen years ago) link
surm, did you have to throw out the PILLOWS or just the pillow covers?
cause covers i can understand, but if he soaked straight through the pillows, then i'm truly impressed.
― Alex in Montreal, Thursday, 1 April 2010 13:29 (fourteen years ago) link
"Wide To Receive"
I can barely even parse that, so I'm surprised mom could.
― queen frostine (Eric H.), Thursday, 1 April 2010 13:46 (fourteen years ago) link
XD @ tape store
― wakaflockapitusberry (The Reverend), Thursday, 1 April 2010 15:15 (fourteen years ago) link
well, you see, these were throw pillows - so the covers couldn't be removed. mhmm.
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Thursday, 1 April 2010 15:44 (fourteen years ago) link
^^this
― all-beef patty hearst (donna rouge), Thursday, 1 April 2010 15:44 (fourteen years ago) link
god i love guys like you
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Thursday, 1 April 2010 15:45 (fourteen years ago) link
god I love guys like you.
― filling the medicare donut hole with the semen of liberal (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 1 April 2010 15:46 (fourteen years ago) link
i didn't used to be very good, but that has changed
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Thursday, 1 April 2010 15:55 (fourteen years ago) link
I lost track of what kind of receptions are at issue.
Anyway Steve, balanced dating advice: Be open to anything, expect nothing.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 1 April 2010 15:57 (fourteen years ago) link
69, people
― lou, Thursday, 1 April 2010 15:58 (fourteen years ago) link
― wakaflockapitusberry (The Reverend), Thursday, 1 April 2010 15:58 (fourteen years ago) link
It's a magic number
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 1 April 2010 15:59 (fourteen years ago) link
carrie bradshaw once wrote "it is my belief that the last time people actually enjoyed the 69 position was in 1969"
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Thursday, 1 April 2010 16:00 (fourteen years ago) link
Yeah but she has a vagina.
― lou, Thursday, 1 April 2010 16:01 (fourteen years ago) link
tbh i would rather eat ass than suck dick (and i really like to suck dick).
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 1 April 2010 16:10 (fourteen years ago) link
i don't really get into all that
once this guy tried to kiss me after i let him do that. i was like EWW get away
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Thursday, 1 April 2010 16:13 (fourteen years ago) link
Carrie Bradshaw keeps rong streak goin'
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 1 April 2010 16:13 (fourteen years ago) link
wnea
― british is happening (The Reverend), Thursday, 1 April 2010 16:13 (fourteen years ago) link
more for me, then
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 1 April 2010 16:17 (fourteen years ago) link
Always pack a toothbrush!
― filling the medicare donut hole with the semen of liberal (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 1 April 2010 16:23 (fourteen years ago) link
idk, gays squeamish abt ass eating is equivalent to ladies squeamish about cocksucking imo! but ymmv
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 1 April 2010 16:28 (fourteen years ago) link
guys squeamish about cocksucking is equiv to ladies squeamish about cocksucking
― british is happening (The Reverend), Thursday, 1 April 2010 16:34 (fourteen years ago) link
rev, do such gays even exist?
just saying: the same arguments (that it's depraved, unhygenic, humiliating)
obviously it's not to everyone's taste (uh... lol) but the claims against are hugely overstated
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 1 April 2010 16:40 (fourteen years ago) link
― filling the medicare donut hole with the semen of liberal (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, April 1, 2010 5:23 PM (16 minutes ago) Bookmark
i had to take a shot of vodka!
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Thursday, April 1, 2010 5:28 PM (11 minutes ago) Bookmark
not true. not giving your man head is not equivalent to refusing to eat your man out, even if it's standard practice in the gay community. i mean, more power to you -- i just find it way too difficult to dissociate everything else that goes on down there from the actual act.
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Thursday, 1 April 2010 16:43 (fourteen years ago) link
i don't think it's depraved or whatever, obviously, but it's just too dirty for me. THAT'S JUST ME
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Thursday, 1 April 2010 16:44 (fourteen years ago) link
of the two i only really find giving head gross
― plax (ico), Thursday, 1 April 2010 16:45 (fourteen years ago) link
I've unfortunately ended up in bed w/ a guy who flat out refused. He was a sexually confused asshole who treated me like total dogshit tho. I haven't been able to bring myself to do more than makeout with a guy since. :/
― british is happening (The Reverend), Thursday, 1 April 2010 16:45 (fourteen years ago) link
waste also comes out of dicks iirc! but i get ur point surm.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 1 April 2010 16:48 (fourteen years ago) link
yea but i have much easier time dealing with that. actually kind of curious about ws.
rev, why are you hesitant about going further than making out??
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Thursday, 1 April 2010 16:49 (fourteen years ago) link
agree w/surm re: eating ass
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Thursday, 1 April 2010 17:06 (fourteen years ago) link
Nothing against ass-eating or cocksucking, but for squeamish reasons I'd rather give a total stranger head than eat his ass.
― filling the medicare donut hole with the semen of liberal (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 1 April 2010 17:08 (fourteen years ago) link
xxp: because I'm not interested in a repeat of the worst sexual experience of my life and now I'm being super-picky and not interested in rushing things either, but I haven't actually seen a guy more than once since then so
― british is happening (The Reverend), Thursday, 1 April 2010 17:15 (fourteen years ago) link
got it. well u know what they say -- don't let 1 experience make u afraid of love
or whatever
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Thursday, 1 April 2010 17:16 (fourteen years ago) link
rimjobs aren't exactly everyday or first date activities, i'll admit. but that just makes them more *special*
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 1 April 2010 17:17 (fourteen years ago) link
it hasn't made me afraid of love (which I always have been. I can't say I ever have been in love), just sex. it's probably just the prudish streak my mother instilled in me coming back out to play.
― british is happening (The Reverend), Thursday, 1 April 2010 17:18 (fourteen years ago) link
Yeah, I'm willing to discard the rules. Like John Huston said in Chinatown most people under the right circumstances will do anything.
xpost
― filling the medicare donut hole with the semen of liberal (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 1 April 2010 17:19 (fourteen years ago) link
yes that happens to me too . . . good old catholic guilt. o and if it isn't the holy weekend coming up!
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Thursday, 1 April 2010 17:20 (fourteen years ago) link
eh, I was raised areligiously, which didn't stop my mom from relentlessly hammering certain things into my head that have stuck there
― british is happening (The Reverend), Thursday, 1 April 2010 17:22 (fourteen years ago) link
rev prob excepted judging from the last few posts, but most people who didn't have a religious upbringing don't know how lucky they had it, in many respects
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Thursday, 1 April 2010 18:09 (fourteen years ago) link
Oh I feel quite lucky. :)
― lou, Thursday, 1 April 2010 18:13 (fourteen years ago) link
:) luck be a lady tonight !
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Thursday, 1 April 2010 18:44 (fourteen years ago) link
jon williams ran into my biggest lol high school crush (wrestling team captain) at his office today. dude is probably the biggest reason i am such an ass man to this day.
sadly, dude's ass is nowhere near as big & round as it was in highschool. RIP.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 1 April 2010 21:04 (fourteen years ago) link
Glad I skipped this thread today at work.
― queen frostine (Eric H.), Thursday, 1 April 2010 21:19 (fourteen years ago) link
(Except on my lunch break.)
― queen frostine (Eric H.), Thursday, 1 April 2010 21:20 (fourteen years ago) link
Of all the days to be in class all day...
I'm with Elmo on what my phone's autofill likes to call either "dimming" or "running"
― all-beef patty hearst (donna rouge), Friday, 2 April 2010 00:53 (fourteen years ago) link
So I went on a date last night and I have soooooooo much to weigh on on re: all of these topics but will hold my tongue. Except to say that I am refuting Carrie Bradshaw.
― every potty I know can be found here (Stevie D), Friday, 2 April 2010 18:55 (fourteen years ago) link
Also totally LOLed in the office at Surm's pillow story. I'm sorry, hon :(
― every potty I know can be found here (Stevie D), Friday, 2 April 2010 19:00 (fourteen years ago) link
You came on this board to dangle your dick, then zip it back up?
― filling the medicare donut hole with the semen of liberal (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 2 April 2010 19:00 (fourteen years ago) link
OK fine. I'll dish more later.
― every potty I know can be found here (Stevie D), Friday, 2 April 2010 19:07 (fourteen years ago) link
it's not required, don't feel you have to cater to the magpies.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 3 April 2010 12:45 (fourteen years ago) link
Smut-talk bores me, narrative doesn't.
― filling the medicare donut hole with the semen of liberal (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 3 April 2010 13:03 (fourteen years ago) link
Narrative bores me, smut-talk doesn't.
― Kevin John Bozelka, Saturday, 3 April 2010 16:35 (fourteen years ago) link
The sun is shining for the first time in forever BUT IT FEELS LIKE SUMMER.
yesterday was reading borges shirtless on campus and taking a nap on the field ---> sunburn. and it's almost 30 degrees celsius today!
chilling on my balcony with lemonade and boywatching, pretty much perfect day, tbh.
― Alex in Montreal, Saturday, 3 April 2010 17:23 (fourteen years ago) link
yesterday was reading borges shirtless on campus
gay boys rock! xoxoxo
― Kevin John Bozelka, Saturday, 3 April 2010 17:42 (fourteen years ago) link
hey guys
i think i might have a problem. so, i met this guy tonight, via the internet, for the sex. and it went great! i'm glad to report. it was really dope. but, the thing is, he's actually really cute and cool and like, definitely dating material, and i'm concerned that things might be screwed up because of the fact that we did all this stuff the first time we met. do yall have any experience in said situation? can a relationship of any sort be built if i already know what his taint tastes like?
thx
― jihad mane (J0rdan S.), Sunday, 4 April 2010 07:24 (fourteen years ago) link
also, el perro del mar is a+ doin it music. sheesh.
I kinda had a situ like this but I stupidly cut him off cause I started going out with this girl but by the time I realized that wasn't going to work out he was no longer interested. :(
― The Reverend, Sunday, 4 April 2010 07:31 (fourteen years ago) link
also he looks like a good friend of mine from high school, which is really just lol, not part of the problem at all
― jihad mane (J0rdan S.), Sunday, 4 April 2010 07:32 (fourteen years ago) link
I wouldn't preclude anything based on a first experience, J. There was an Onion story once, something like Gay Couple Celebrates 10th Anniversary Without Revealing They Met in Club Bathroom Stall.
Tonight I heard a guy making Chewbacca noises while he was being f*sted.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 4 April 2010 08:40 (fourteen years ago) link
that's odd, considering passover was earlier this week
― jihad mane (J0rdan S.), Sunday, 4 April 2010 08:42 (fourteen years ago) link
You'll have a better read on him than the rest of us, so if he wants to have fun again schedule another session. If you guys make each other laugh, have shit in common, etc, ask him out to something casual ("You wanna get a beer tomorrow?"), hell maybe even after the sex. If he says no once, it's not automatically a done deal.
I would def recommend more sex first, just so he doesn't assume you're Getting Serious right away.
― filling the medicare donut hole with the semen of liberal (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 4 April 2010 11:50 (fourteen years ago) link
I endorse all of that.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 4 April 2010 15:25 (fourteen years ago) link
i don't see any reason why a relationship can't be built after an initial casual sex experience. like, at all.
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Sunday, 4 April 2010 15:32 (fourteen years ago) link
ps congratulations!
yeah, happy for you Jordan and just want to reassure you that having blockbuster sex with someone doesn't mean you can't also connect as people- but that's up to him and you- don't sweat it, let things gel, (and enjoy the resemblance to somebody from high school).
guyz I hooked up with the easter bunny last night, and it was kind of awes.
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Sunday, 4 April 2010 15:33 (fourteen years ago) link
ahhhhahahahahaha
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Sunday, 4 April 2010 15:35 (fourteen years ago) link
http://www.steamworksonline.com/chicago/email_blasts/2010_eblasts/ch_100331%20Easter_Info.html
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Sunday, 4 April 2010 15:40 (fourteen years ago) link
http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4057/4490145764_1134a0013f_o.jpgthis dude right here
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Sunday, 4 April 2010 15:52 (fourteen years ago) link
I - and most gays I know IRL - have went out on many first dates that have gone from "evening drinks" to "night of fun" and I don't think this is much different, only now you don't have to worry about the etiquette of who buys who the first drink
― boxedjoy, Sunday, 4 April 2010 15:59 (fourteen years ago) link
btw I finally got out to a gay clurb friday night for the first time since like september and did some rather athletic freaking with a couple guys I really wasn't that interested in then ended up dancing more innocently for a long time with this guy who was really cute in a totally square way. asked him out for coffee but he was just visiting from vancouver bc for the weekend u_u
― The Reverend, Sunday, 4 April 2010 17:15 (fourteen years ago) link
last week went dancing to a gay spot w/ a couple str8 friends who both got more action than me
― plax (ico), Sunday, 4 April 2010 17:24 (fourteen years ago) link
am partly blaming the fact that i tend to close my eyes when im dancin
more stories guys! gives me something to read while i spend the rest of this month in the library
― bieber benz or bentley (donna rouge), Sunday, 4 April 2010 17:34 (fourteen years ago) link
thx guys, trying not to get giddy
― jihad mane (J0rdan S.), Sunday, 4 April 2010 18:22 (fourteen years ago) link
j0rdan, wtf, congratulations
― booches (Tape Store), Sunday, 4 April 2010 18:27 (fourteen years ago) link
right?? it doesn't even seem real. i'll show you some photos on AIM
― jihad mane (J0rdan S.), Sunday, 4 April 2010 18:28 (fourteen years ago) link
Congrats, J, that's fucking awesome!
I don't think there's anything weird about continuing to do what you guys are doing, so long as he's into it and just seeing where it goes.
― Alex in Montreal, Sunday, 4 April 2010 18:46 (fourteen years ago) link
we'll see
― jihad mane (J0rdan S.), Sunday, 4 April 2010 18:46 (fourteen years ago) link
i want pictures
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Sunday, 4 April 2010 18:48 (fourteen years ago) link
J, i met my bf on an internet sex hook-up. we've been together for 5+ years now.
― jed_, Sunday, 4 April 2010 19:00 (fourteen years ago) link
J, I'm not trying to throw cold water on you, but always keep one night of bliss in perspective. It can lead to more of the same, and of course pursue it since you wanna, but stay on an even keel.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 4 April 2010 19:07 (fourteen years ago) link
ah i mean, it wasn't like THE MOST AMAZING THING IN THE WORLD -- just something finally good in a sea of meh
& i'm naturally super even keeled, prob one of my best & worst qualities
― jihad mane (J0rdan S.), Sunday, 4 April 2010 19:10 (fourteen years ago) link
Date Thursday: went really well; we totally hit it off and we both got really giddy about all these things we had in common. Stayed over. He hasn't answered either of the texts I've sent him, one asking if he wanted to come see the Abramovic exhibit at MoMA. Hoping he at least enjoys the Angela Davis button I gave him.
― so pure, such an expression (Stevie D), Sunday, 4 April 2010 19:19 (fourteen years ago) link
:-/
I want an Angela Davis button!
― The Reverend, Sunday, 4 April 2010 19:25 (fourteen years ago) link
then go on a date with me after I host my next craft fair
― so pure, such an expression (Stevie D), Sunday, 4 April 2010 19:33 (fourteen years ago) link
will do
― The Reverend, Sunday, 4 April 2010 19:47 (fourteen years ago) link
"I thought he loved me....but he only loved me for my Angela Davis buttons."
― The Reverend, Sunday, 4 April 2010 19:48 (fourteen years ago) link
next, Angela Davis wig
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 4 April 2010 20:17 (fourteen years ago) link
― jed_, Sunday, April 4, 2010 8:00 PM (1 hour ago) Bookmark
i thought u broke up ??
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Sunday, 4 April 2010 20:36 (fourteen years ago) link
My only two serious boyfriends I met online, J0rdan, so no sweat.
― filling the medicare donut hole with the semen of liberal (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 4 April 2010 22:32 (fourteen years ago) link
where the hell did all these hot dudes in the library come from and why are they all studying NEAR ME urgh
― bieber benz or bentley (donna rouge), Monday, 5 April 2010 03:00 (fourteen years ago) link
drop ur pencil and bend down to pick it up
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Monday, 5 April 2010 05:22 (fourteen years ago) link
find a friend and talk about wanting hot man sex. loudly, so they can hear you.
― booches (Tape Store), Monday, 5 April 2010 05:47 (fourteen years ago) link
but honestly i know that feeling too well, i was studying for a test the other week (an hour beforehand, lol) and all i could think about was this hot guy who sat right next to me (I "accidentally" brushed arms w/ him a few times)
― booches (Tape Store), Monday, 5 April 2010 05:49 (fourteen years ago) link
I have, like, no gay friends in town.
― The Reverend, Monday, 5 April 2010 06:31 (fourteen years ago) link
It kinda sucks.
― The Reverend, Monday, 5 April 2010 06:32 (fourteen years ago) link
i'm naturally super even keeled
ha could never have guessed
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Monday, 5 April 2010 12:46 (fourteen years ago) link
only for a couple of weeks, sur
― jed_, Monday, 5 April 2010 13:41 (fourteen years ago) link
J0rdan is a Midwesterner, eh
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 5 April 2010 13:47 (fourteen years ago) link
Gays, I love you all so much that I've uploaded Dajae's album Higher Power which took me weeks to find on Soulseek. It's the perfect intersection of piano-driven instrumentals and sassy diva vocals that Cajual seems to be so good at, and it has ZERO FILLER-Y BALLADS that plague so many full-length house LPs. Pretty much all of these songs are strong enough to be singles. It's really good and the LP edits of "U Got Me Up" and "Brighter Days" are surprisingly great.
http://www.discogs.com/image/R-12540-1245927629.jpeg1 Higher Power 2 Brighter Days 3 Is It All Over My Face 4 Fakes & Phonies 5 Love Don't Live Here Anymore 6 Day By Day 7 U Got Me Up 8 Sarah Lee 9 The Other Side 10 Brighter Days (Cajmere's Underground Goodies Mix) 11 U Got Me Up (Cajmere's Underground Goodies Mix) 12 Is It All Over My Face (Green Velvet Crush Mix)
― so pure, such an expression (Stevie D), Monday, 5 April 2010 14:28 (fourteen years ago) link
I used to spin the fuck out of "U Got Me Up." In fact, I would weave it in and out of other tracks just cuz I loved the vocal so much (although people would get pissed cuz they thought they'd be hearing it next "U Got Me Up).
― Kevin John Bozelka, Monday, 5 April 2010 14:34 (fourteen years ago) link
hearing "U Got Me Up" next
― Kevin John Bozelka, Monday, 5 April 2010 14:35 (fourteen years ago) link
Oh, that is just cruel! You'd play the whole thing eventually, right??
― so pure, such an expression (Stevie D), Monday, 5 April 2010 14:38 (fourteen years ago) link
Someone did that in a set once with "I Can't Get No Sleep" and I got way pissed at him for just layering the vocal in and not playing any of MAW's instrumentation.
― so pure, such an expression (Stevie D), Monday, 5 April 2010 14:39 (fourteen years ago) link
― jed_, Monday, 5 April 2010 13:41 (1 hour ago) Permalink
yay!!
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Monday, 5 April 2010 15:08 (fourteen years ago) link
You'd play the whole thing eventually, right??
oh of course.
― Kevin John Bozelka, Monday, 5 April 2010 15:19 (fourteen years ago) link
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, April 5, 2010 8:47 AM (3 hours ago) Bookmark
lol not true at all
― jihad mane (J0rdan S.), Monday, 5 April 2010 17:12 (fourteen years ago) link
well, you are right now!
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 5 April 2010 17:22 (fourteen years ago) link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DE1_6WJ371A
― booches (Tape Store), Monday, 5 April 2010 17:24 (fourteen years ago) link
Thanks for the Dajae dudes, it's working for me right now. Oh, and I wasn't kidding, I really did hook up with the easter bunny, i.e. guy in the pic with the bunny ears I posted above, it was, um, really random and hilarious and unexpected. But fun.
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Monday, 5 April 2010 18:33 (fourteen years ago) link
that's so cool! really doesn't look like ur type (like i know, right?), but definitely looks fun
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Monday, 5 April 2010 18:33 (fourteen years ago) link
feel free to share any details etc :P
a strawberry blonde boy with a mohawk and sleeve tattoos was the third point in our Bermuda Sex Triangle of Easter bunny madness, and it was hella fun and that's all I'm going to say.
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Monday, 5 April 2010 18:42 (fourteen years ago) link
OMG !!!!!!!! wait, wait, so you and your boyfriend are completely open?
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Monday, 5 April 2010 18:44 (fourteen years ago) link
*diplomatic Cheshire cat smile / silence*
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Monday, 5 April 2010 18:46 (fourteen years ago) link
and as Groucho asked, How late do you stay open?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 5 April 2010 18:47 (fourteen years ago) link
http://www.coverbrowser.com/image/ace-books/1265-1.jpg
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Monday, 5 April 2010 18:50 (fourteen years ago) link
:P i like yr style
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Monday, 5 April 2010 18:53 (fourteen years ago) link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fTi0qtaXbkY
― filling the medicare donut hole with the semen of liberal (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 5 April 2010 18:53 (fourteen years ago) link
This thread is just too adult for me, guys.
― queen frostine (Eric H.), Monday, 5 April 2010 19:01 (fourteen years ago) link
what's new and exciting with you, E?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 5 April 2010 19:03 (fourteen years ago) link
Thanx Stevie D for the Dajae shit. Never heard the full-length. Pretty solid. But those Cajmere remixes are the real prizes. I remember a house party where people lost their SHIT to "U Got Me Up [Cajmere's Underground Goodies Mix]." And "Brighter Days [Cajmere's Underground Goodies Mix]" is EXACTLY what I require from dance music - screaming divas repeating over a ok-i'ma-vogue-right-NOW-watch-me-GO beat. And though I cannot sing, that doesn't stop me from annoying the cats with VERY loud chants of "Lift me up Pick me up Oh won't you Lift me up Pick me up Oh won't you Lift me up Pick me up Oh won't you..."
Always loved the vocal furbelows all over Tee Dope's mix of "Brighter Days":
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BkbkxbN1Ifk
― Kevin John Bozelka, Monday, 5 April 2010 19:05 (fourteen years ago) link
xpost reading this thread is about as exciting as it gets, obv
― queen frostine (Eric H.), Monday, 5 April 2010 19:13 (fourteen years ago) link
Two more to suck on:
Ralphi Rosario featuring Donna Blakely: "Take Me Up (Gotta Get Up) (Ralphi's Original Club Mix)" (or at least a radio mix thereof):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mJoXXgVxj3A
And same song but Légo's mix:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1-a4hhogEWE
― Kevin John Bozelka, Monday, 5 April 2010 19:31 (fourteen years ago) link
:)
― Alex in Montreal, Tuesday, 6 April 2010 13:26 (fourteen years ago) link
heyyyy
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Tuesday, 6 April 2010 21:47 (fourteen years ago) link
hey surm!
― filling the medicare donut hole with the semen of liberal (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 6 April 2010 21:51 (fourteen years ago) link
http://img.quizgalaxy.com/heart.jpg
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Tuesday, 6 April 2010 21:53 (fourteen years ago) link
http://www.chrisis.org/chr_galleries/chr_oddballs/oddball_images/klaus.jpg
― sassy boy, throwin' shade (Stevie D), Tuesday, 6 April 2010 21:54 (fourteen years ago) link
hi klaus and co! i'm in a very good mood right now, tho by all rights i should be stressed as fukk. probably combination of awesome weather + this awesome fourfour mix:
http://fourfour.typepad.com/fourfour/2010/02/no-enigma-a-mix.html
― bieber benz or bentley (donna rouge), Tuesday, 6 April 2010 22:13 (fourteen years ago) link
i mean damn if 'set adrift on memory bliss' doesn't just put all the bullshit in yr life at one remove every time
― bieber benz or bentley (donna rouge), Tuesday, 6 April 2010 22:16 (fourteen years ago) link
And Soul II Soul.
― queen frostine (Eric H.), Tuesday, 6 April 2010 22:23 (fourteen years ago) link
hey, I KNOW 'set adrift on memory bliss'! That's a bingo.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 7 April 2010 01:39 (fourteen years ago) link
― bieber benz or bentley (donna rouge)
― queen frostine (Eric H.)
And the Pretenders' "Mystery Achievement"
― filling the medicare donut hole with the semen of liberal (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 7 April 2010 01:40 (fourteen years ago) link
and this new Eddie Argos duo where they do nothing but answer songs to Dylan, Michael Jackson, etc.
even tho i haven't heard it.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 7 April 2010 01:42 (fourteen years ago) link
nine months into this relationship, seems like longer. it's getting realer all the time. i never thought i was capable of this. it's like no big deal and a huge deal at the same time.
you guys are cool. i hope u find what ur looking for in this crazy world of ours.
― robert bly is mrs. doubtfire? (Matt P), Wednesday, 7 April 2010 02:15 (fourteen years ago) link
You're the one I'm proud of. Best of luck to you.
― filling the medicare donut hole with the semen of liberal (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 7 April 2010 02:27 (fourteen years ago) link
aww, cheers.
― robert bly is mrs. doubtfire? (Matt P), Wednesday, 7 April 2010 02:36 (fourteen years ago) link
how do i shot relationship?
― handle your b I (The Reverend), Wednesday, 7 April 2010 02:59 (fourteen years ago) link
lol waht
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Wednesday, 7 April 2010 17:22 (fourteen years ago) link
Here is an advertisement for personal lubricant that I found on Consumerist today:
http://consumerist.com/itlltakeyouasecond.jpg
― sassy boy, throwin' shade (Stevie D), Thursday, 8 April 2010 02:33 (fourteen years ago) link
Yum, Williamsburg.
New Yorkers, was this your experience today?
― filling the medicare donut hole with the semen of liberal (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 8 April 2010 03:00 (fourteen years ago) link
I was working.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 8 April 2010 03:02 (fourteen years ago) link
Stephen Antonelli, please join this board.
Thanks,Lord Sotosyn
― filling the medicare donut hole with the semen of liberal (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 8 April 2010 03:10 (fourteen years ago) link
xp no BUT in chelsea the other day i espied the first shirtless chelsea bear-daddy of the season
― bieber benz or bentley (donna rouge), Thursday, 8 April 2010 04:33 (fourteen years ago) link
THANKS FOR THE FUCKING PHONE CALL
― sassy boy, throwin' shade (Stevie D), Thursday, 8 April 2010 04:44 (fourteen years ago) link
not worth a phone call iirc
― bieber benz or bentley (donna rouge), Thursday, 8 April 2010 11:54 (fourteen years ago) link
OUCH Stephen Antonelli, 23
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Thursday, 8 April 2010 13:53 (fourteen years ago) link
there goes the summer
You guys, I've been swimming every day this week.
― lou, Thursday, 8 April 2010 13:59 (fourteen years ago) link
I may go to that bar a short way from me where tabes and drouge & i met up last year.
http://sycamorebrooklyn.com/2010/03/18/the-neighborhood-alternate-party-8p-boogy-down/
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 8 April 2010 20:31 (fourteen years ago) link
What time? I might go if I can't get an LCD Soundsystem ticket tonight.
― sassy boy, throwin' shade (Stevie D), Thursday, 8 April 2010 20:38 (fourteen years ago) link
TOLD YOU
― filling the medicare donut hole with the semen of liberal (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 8 April 2010 20:40 (fourteen years ago) link
Morbs tell me abt this thing and convince me to hike down to Flatbush on a thursday night.
― sassy boy, throwin' shade (Stevie D), Thursday, 8 April 2010 20:47 (fourteen years ago) link
nah Steve, it's not worth a special trip in -- if I discharge all my documentary-watching duties, I will only go for 2 beers. Also it's Ditmas Park, not Flatbush.
On Friday, there's a new night @Rockbar on Christopher (again, no idea if I'll have time):
FEEDBACKRockbarDJ Dave Huge and grizzly go-go host Joey Stern turn the shit out for a one-night-only night of rock, jocks and booze. 10pm; free.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 8 April 2010 21:40 (fourteen years ago) link
Oh right that's what I meant. I mean I have friends in Ditmas Park and it'd give me an excuse to go visit/crash on their couch. But it'd mean getting all the way down there, too. Hmm.
― sassy boy, throwin' shade (Stevie D), Thursday, 8 April 2010 21:48 (fourteen years ago) link
hey gayz. hope you've been well. i have. just sayin hi.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Thursday, 8 April 2010 23:43 (fourteen years ago) link
hi! i saw somebody the other night who looked like you, but he wasn't u
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Thursday, 8 April 2010 23:45 (fourteen years ago) link
he could never b u
― plax (ico), Thursday, 8 April 2010 23:48 (fourteen years ago) link
sup tabes!
― goon vibrations (The Reverend), Friday, 9 April 2010 01:28 (fourteen years ago) link
hi tabes!
― Throwing Muses are reuniting for my next orgasm! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 9 April 2010 03:57 (fourteen years ago) link
wait are throwing muses really reuniting
― 2 guys 1 gag (surm), Friday, 9 April 2010 04:10 (fourteen years ago) link
I know that Indie Rock Grandparent Tour is coming in about 15 years.
Aside from the gals, the Ditmas Park bar was not all that gay tonight.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 9 April 2010 04:41 (fourteen years ago) link
oh hai surm and alfred and all!
maybe some more news? - i have a post on the bay area punk group FANG coming up on D3nnis C00per's blog...next wednesday- i moved! to a great new house full of queers. i woke up monday morning and one male dog was fucking another male dog up the ass in our living room. needless to say i'm very happy with the arrangement.- s3an and i are kind of inseparable. uh. yeah. all smiles here :-)- my thesis reading went smashingly. - and i'm going to this tonight: http://www.bampfa.berkeley.edu/about/late
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Friday, 9 April 2010 18:20 (fourteen years ago) link
In a special presentation at 6 p.m. in the Museum Theater, Anne Wagner, Class of 1936 Chair in the Department of History of Art at UC Berkeley, will consider the work of Agnes Martin and Anne Truitt in relation to Minimalism and the modern repackaging of time.
u gettin some jealousy shade from me
― plax (ico), Friday, 9 April 2010 20:29 (fourteen years ago) link
I saw Kalup Linzy once for a visiting artist thing and was like "zzzzzzzzz"
― sassy boy, throwin' shade (Stevie D), Friday, 9 April 2010 21:07 (fourteen years ago) link
Convasashin with da Churrin or whatever
but that was a weird semester coz I was a communications student taking video art and everyone was all "blah blah blah recontextualize blah blah postmodernism blah blah IS IT ART???" and i was like "oh my god just fucking teach me how to use Final Cut"
― sassy boy, throwin' shade (Stevie D), Friday, 9 April 2010 21:14 (fourteen years ago) link
feel like you just condensed the art school experience into once sentence
― plax (ico), Friday, 9 April 2010 21:15 (fourteen years ago) link
hah maybe! it was a complete outsider thing though. And I loved every minute of it but sometimes it was like "ohhhhkay..."
― sassy boy, throwin' shade (Stevie D), Friday, 9 April 2010 21:24 (fourteen years ago) link
Final Cut is so therapeutic.
― queen frostine (Eric H.), Saturday, 10 April 2010 02:45 (fourteen years ago) link
Crazy-ass weekend. Just saw a bunch of bands from Baltimore last night playing two different shows in town (Double Dagger at one house, which ended at 10, and then Terrors at another house a few blocks away). Ended up sleeping on my friend's couch 5 blocks from my house because I got too drunk to bike home.
― sassy boy, throwin' shade (Stevie D), Monday, 12 April 2010 13:12 (fourteen years ago) link
thighs have started to take control of my life
― J0rdan S., Monday, 12 April 2010 21:08 (fourteen years ago) link
jordan what do you mean? u like thighs?
― who the fuck knows (surm), Monday, 12 April 2010 21:09 (fourteen years ago) link
who doesn't?? today there was this old money type boy sitting next to me in class wearing these short khaki shorts and an orange polo shirt and white polo shoes and a silver watch and i could see a good portion of his thighs -- i was so distracted by them, i could barely take notes
― J0rdan S., Monday, 12 April 2010 21:11 (fourteen years ago) link
It's officially shorts weather here. I was so distracted I almost fell down a flight of stairs.
― Throwing Muses are reuniting for my next orgasm! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 12 April 2010 21:12 (fourteen years ago) link
wow that sounds like the ideal man / outfit xp. i'm with you 100% on this one btw
lol "old money boys" !
― who the fuck knows (surm), Monday, 12 April 2010 21:13 (fourteen years ago) link
on the other hand, in the same morning, a guy dressed like this horrified me:
http://forladiesbyladies.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/guyshorts5.jpg
― Throwing Muses are reuniting for my next orgasm! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 12 April 2010 21:16 (fourteen years ago) link
wow that's gets progressively and progressively worse as you scroll down
― J0rdan S., Monday, 12 April 2010 21:17 (fourteen years ago) link
if only he was standing on a dead minority or something
― J0rdan S., Monday, 12 April 2010 21:18 (fourteen years ago) link
lol waht! that's not that bad! the sandals are off but otherwise...
― who the fuck knows (surm), Monday, 12 April 2010 21:21 (fourteen years ago) link
The corpse of every Pilgrim on the Mayflower would chew off his ankle for wearing those sandals.
― Throwing Muses are reuniting for my next orgasm! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 12 April 2010 21:21 (fourteen years ago) link
the sandals are a war crime and the shorts are p horrible
― J0rdan S., Monday, 12 April 2010 21:21 (fourteen years ago) link
the shorts are so like... plain, i don't see how they could be horrible! i thought you just said you were diggin u some short khaki shorts!
― who the fuck knows (surm), Monday, 12 April 2010 21:22 (fourteen years ago) link
The knees are the problem.
― Throwing Muses are reuniting for my next orgasm! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 12 April 2010 21:22 (fourteen years ago) link
The glasses are too big for his cute face.
― Throwing Muses are reuniting for my next orgasm! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 12 April 2010 21:23 (fourteen years ago) link
i think that's the amount of thigh you should be showing when you sit down, not when you're standing straight up
― J0rdan S., Monday, 12 April 2010 21:23 (fourteen years ago) link
Well, that's the other problem: he doesn't have thighs so much as extended knees.
― Throwing Muses are reuniting for my next orgasm! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 12 April 2010 21:24 (fourteen years ago) link
Like, the knees have won this years-long war of attrition against his thighs.
oh, J0rdan, what's up with last week's boy?
― Throwing Muses are reuniting for my next orgasm! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 12 April 2010 21:25 (fourteen years ago) link
u guys are buggin. the shorts are not THAT short, and the legs are just skinny!
― who the fuck knows (surm), Monday, 12 April 2010 21:26 (fourteen years ago) link
― Throwing Muses are reuniting for my next orgasm! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, April 12, 2010 4:25 PM (2 minutes ago) Bookmark
i'm out on the life boat alone
― J0rdan S., Monday, 12 April 2010 21:28 (fourteen years ago) link
i covet his shirt
― bieber benz or bentley (donna rouge), Monday, 12 April 2010 21:28 (fourteen years ago) link
it's a good shirt
― J0rdan S., Monday, 12 April 2010 21:29 (fourteen years ago) link
jordan don't despair, it's not the end!
― who the fuck knows (surm), Monday, 12 April 2010 21:30 (fourteen years ago) link
i'm clutching my whistle
― J0rdan S., Monday, 12 April 2010 21:30 (fourteen years ago) link
As long as you're packing a canteen.
― Throwing Muses are reuniting for my next orgasm! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 12 April 2010 21:31 (fourteen years ago) link
wtf are we talking about, all of a sudden we're on the set of mash
― who the fuck knows (surm), Monday, 12 April 2010 21:32 (fourteen years ago) link
that sounds hot
― J0rdan S., Monday, 12 April 2010 21:32 (fourteen years ago) link
You would not have liked the early '80s (or the old NBA)
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 12 April 2010 21:33 (fourteen years ago) link
winchester is one of us, yknow xp
― bieber benz or bentley (donna rouge), Monday, 12 April 2010 21:34 (fourteen years ago) link
yea seriously, i love that shit
http://gaygroom.files.wordpress.com/2010/01/borg.jpg
― who the fuck knows (surm), Monday, 12 April 2010 21:35 (fourteen years ago) link
(xp)
fsofjdskfljdsklfadsfm
― all those electronic boom boom boom stuff (Tape Store), Monday, 12 April 2010 21:35 (fourteen years ago) link
i mean, you know, it's okay if you're playing tennis -- not if you're walking to lunch
― J0rdan S., Monday, 12 April 2010 21:36 (fourteen years ago) link
i'd walk it to lunch anytime
i don't know what that means
― who the fuck knows (surm), Monday, 12 April 2010 21:36 (fourteen years ago) link
I used to own a pair of canary-yellow Adidas nuthuggers in '81.
― Throwing Muses are reuniting for my next orgasm! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 12 April 2010 21:37 (fourteen years ago) link
nu-thuggers
― J0rdan S., Monday, 12 April 2010 21:37 (fourteen years ago) link
my gym-going efforts have derailed of late but i've been biking to and from manhattan every day now that the weather's nice and i got the thighs to prove it imo
― bieber benz or bentley (donna rouge), Monday, 12 April 2010 21:38 (fourteen years ago) link
I got the shorts, you got the thighs, let's make lots of money.
― Throwing Muses are reuniting for my next orgasm! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 12 April 2010 21:39 (fourteen years ago) link
i been eatin italian food like nobody's business and i got the thighs to prove it imo
― who the fuck knows (surm), Monday, 12 April 2010 21:39 (fourteen years ago) link
I haven't gone to the gym in 15 years and I've got the thighs to prove it
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 12 April 2010 21:40 (fourteen years ago) link
what have iwhat have iwhat have i done to deserve such spectacular thighs
― bieber benz or bentley (donna rouge), Monday, 12 April 2010 21:40 (fourteen years ago) link
I love exercising in the morning...I just can't do it after work anymore when all my body wants is a scotch and Nina Tottenberg's butterscotch voice.
― Throwing Muses are reuniting for my next orgasm! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 12 April 2010 21:43 (fourteen years ago) link
Sorry, gotta rep for skinny legged boys, but only a little bit. I wouldn't be caught dead in those shorts with my legs.
― queen frostine (Eric H.), Monday, 12 April 2010 22:19 (fourteen years ago) link
i love me some thighs. those shorts just suck. khaki is not my thing, but yknow.
i recently acquired a pair of hot-pink nut=-hugging short-shorts from my female friend who happens to be my size. they are fucking awesome.
uhm, ok, and got ahead of myself on things with se4n. we've talked, and pretty much been like, 'we are in each other's lives and are really REALLY happy about that. if we get drunk and fuck sometime that's cool too. we can still make out and sleep in the same bed w/o having sex. and we love each other.' uh yeah. tbqh, i'm relieved. i want him as my friend more than my boyfriend at this point anyway.
(also he's writing his final paper right now at my desk. i'm helping him edit :) )
and that said, wow, saturday after the myles c00per warehouse show, crazy times with boy.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 04:51 (fourteen years ago) link
u know what, that sounds like a mature way to handle it to me. why bog each other down if ur happy as it is? is bog a word ? . . .
― who the fuck knows (surm), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 05:10 (fourteen years ago) link
i am a fan of thighs.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 14:45 (fourteen years ago) link
I biked alllll over campus/town yesterday! And towards the day I had to bike two miles xtown from one library to another, but I was really exhausted so I caved in and got on one of the idling campus busses. And while I was waiting for the driver to return I thought about thighs, and then got off the bus and biked.
― sassy boy, throwin' shade (Stevie D), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 15:27 (fourteen years ago) link
clarification: i am a huge fan of huge thighs. rugby player thighs, like BOOM.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 16:02 (fourteen years ago) link
I have thighs like a bad chicken wing :/
― sassy boy, throwin' shade (Stevie D), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 16:47 (fourteen years ago) link
with hawt sauce
― Throwing Muses are reuniting for my next orgasm! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 17:12 (fourteen years ago) link
ok if short shorts and sandals guy said "spread!" to any of you bitches, you'd ALL ask "how wide?"
just sayin'
xoxo
― Kevin John Bozelka, Tuesday, 13 April 2010 18:29 (fourteen years ago) link
that's what i'm sayin'!!
― la senora (surm), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 18:31 (fourteen years ago) link
I would probably just say "blackberry jam, thank you."
― sassy boy, throwin' shade (Stevie D), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 18:35 (fourteen years ago) link
lol kjb u don't know me at all
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 19:00 (fourteen years ago) link
"bitch" please
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 19:04 (fourteen years ago) link
that guy is hot, his sandals are way lame but he can always take those off and then it's all good to go
I have a pair of white tennis shorts that are short short like that bjorn borg picI work out in them at the gym sometimes but I wouldn't walk around on the street in them, they are a bit much (or I'm too skurred)
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Tuesday, 13 April 2010 19:21 (fourteen years ago) link
yea he just needs to take his sandals and glasses off! love a guy with bare feet anyway
YEAH
― la senora (surm), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 19:24 (fourteen years ago) link
let's see a picture of the shorts btw
― la senora (surm), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 19:25 (fourteen years ago) link
I like guys in sandals, but the flippier the better.
― Throwing Muses are reuniting for my next orgasm! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 19:26 (fourteen years ago) link
i respectfully differ on the matter of dude's hotness. as a wise woman once said, "where's the beef?"
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 19:56 (fourteen years ago) link
i can take or leave beef (i'd rather take). but a more important douche indicator is hair imo, and his indicates.
― robert bly is mrs. doubtfire? (Matt P), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 20:07 (fourteen years ago) link
i'm not usually taken with porn actors but i have been smitten by colby keller lately. 6'2", beefy without being overly muscled, unassuming boy-next-door charm. i'll leave the nsfw google image search to you all.
see, THAT'S the beef i'm talking about.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 20:20 (fourteen years ago) link
gis-ing isn't cheating, even a little bit, right?
― robert bly is mrs. doubtfire? (Matt P), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 20:31 (fourteen years ago) link
i think the fact that i'm at work trumps guilt as a reason to not gis tbh
― robert bly is mrs. doubtfire? (Matt P), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 20:32 (fourteen years ago) link
here, let me help u:
http://nude-sex.eu/gs/thumbs/feed3/353/keller-colby-b1fad63c.jpg
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 20:36 (fourteen years ago) link
wow
― Throwing Muses are reuniting for my next orgasm! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 20:41 (fourteen years ago) link
meh
― robert bly is mrs. doubtfire? (Matt P), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 20:44 (fourteen years ago) link
oof.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 20:48 (fourteen years ago) link
i'm just not a boy next door kind of guy! he looks like "peter parker"
― robert bly is mrs. doubtfire? (Matt P), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 20:53 (fourteen years ago) link
i need a man baby
I <3 <3 <3 beef/"chunk". Also "Real Men" are nice and all but boys next door are so much more appealing to me.
― sassy boy, throwin' shade (Stevie D), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 21:48 (fourteen years ago) link
http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51Ri61sbkRL._SL500_AA280_PIbundle-12,TopRight,0,0_AA280_SH20_.jpg
― bieber benz or bentley (donna rouge), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 22:17 (fourteen years ago) link
12 pack:)
― robert bly is mrs. doubtfire? (Matt P), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 22:21 (fourteen years ago) link
That's kinda gross
― who's always getting head from the commissioner (Eric H.), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 22:23 (fourteen years ago) link
http://manbabies.com/
i keep (blissfully) forgetting that website exists :/
― bieber benz or bentley (donna rouge), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 22:26 (fourteen years ago) link
my favorite is when guys have these really chiseled abs but then these LOVE HANDLES that make it impossible for you not to smile. IT IS THE BEST COMBINATION
― la senora (surm), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 22:39 (fourteen years ago) link
18 pack:)
― robert bly is mrs. doubtfire? (Matt P), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 22:44 (fourteen years ago) link
i am a fave of the love handles-only crowd.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 13 April 2010 23:51 (fourteen years ago) link
OMGOMGOMG I was standing on the corner of 57th and 8th talking to my friend Sally and BROCK FUCKING HART WALKED RIGHT PAST ME OMG OMG I WANTED TO DIE
http://gaybearheads.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/TGS111_016.jpg
― sassy boy, throwin' shade (Stevie D), Wednesday, 14 April 2010 00:13 (fourteen years ago) link
OMG y'all! Check out Henry as Henrietta
― Kevin John Bozelka, Wednesday, 14 April 2010 14:10 (fourteen years ago) link
I have probably upped this before but after sending it to Elmo we both agreed that it should be (re-?)posted. It's a really obscure Tom Tom Club track from 1995 that was on the "Party Girl" soundtrack, and it's really bouncy/sparse/slinky/awesome track with a killer beat. It is such a fucking jam. And look, it's on zshare, so you can just listen to it at the link.
http://www.zshare.net/audio/74964079221c5fae/
― sassy boy, throwin' shade (Stevie D), Wednesday, 14 April 2010 16:33 (fourteen years ago) link
you sent me this before but u r right, it is awesome.
― plax (ico), Wednesday, 14 April 2010 16:37 (fourteen years ago) link
Yeah I'm pretty sure I sent it to Joe too, and probably KJB and others.
― sassy boy, throwin' shade (Stevie D), Wednesday, 14 April 2010 16:43 (fourteen years ago) link
you did!
guys, KJB's link is AMAZING
― bieber benz or bentley (donna rouge), Wednesday, 14 April 2010 17:09 (fourteen years ago) link
and reminds me that i saw a gay stag film from the probably the '30s? on saturday. it featured a man dressed like ali baba with a "harem dancer" whose face and body are covered entirely by her outfit, but then she mounts the guy and lifts up the dress and SURPRISE a penis and you can guess the rest.
― bieber benz or bentley (donna rouge), Wednesday, 14 April 2010 17:11 (fourteen years ago) link
What are we, mentalists?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 14 April 2010 17:43 (fourteen years ago) link
Was just reading last summer's thread again for no particular reason.
It's like everyone was a whole different person. Except Ramz. Which is why he's sort of the best person on these threads.
― who's always getting head from the commissioner (Eric H.), Friday, 16 April 2010 15:26 (fourteen years ago) link
Also wanted to lay an olive branch and welcome table back.
― who's always getting head from the commissioner (Eric H.), Friday, 16 April 2010 15:30 (fourteen years ago) link
<3 when i was in jr high school, my bus driver once said to me "never change, ramzi. never change."
loved her
― la senora (surm), Friday, 16 April 2010 15:36 (fourteen years ago) link
It's like everyone was a whole different person.
who was I then – Marla Gibbs?
― Throwing Muses are reuniting for my next orgasm! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 16 April 2010 15:42 (fourteen years ago) link
It is pretty amazing how much I've changed in the past year. Or six months. Or even three months.
― sassy boy, throwin' shade (Stevie D), Friday, 16 April 2010 15:45 (fourteen years ago) link
hey Elmo, that Colby Keller guy is the boyfriend of an acquaintance- I've met him, and seen him and his bf having breakfast together at the Golden West in Baltimore. It made me blush because I've seen him in pr0n. He's a really nice guy. And smoking hot obviously.
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Friday, 16 April 2010 15:47 (fourteen years ago) link
They would not find me changed from him they knewOnly more sure of all I thought was true.
― Throwing Muses are reuniting for my next orgasm! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 16 April 2010 15:48 (fourteen years ago) link
colby keller can take me to breakfast any time. (the fact that he's is a nice guy hugely magnifies his appeal imo.)
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Friday, 16 April 2010 16:01 (fourteen years ago) link
I was very much more cordial last year at this time. Wonder why, since I know I feel better now than I did then.
― who's always getting head from the commissioner (Eric H.), Friday, 16 April 2010 16:15 (fourteen years ago) link
i've probably gotten more miserable
― bieber benz or bentley (donna rouge), Friday, 16 April 2010 16:17 (fourteen years ago) link
Who was I? Besides an unemployed wretch?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 16 April 2010 16:18 (fourteen years ago) link
i don't know why you always think you're such a douche, Eric. you're like, not that snarky, really
― la senora (surm), Friday, 16 April 2010 16:20 (fourteen years ago) link
We were all characters from this ...
http://www.enterstageright.com/archive/articles/1008/100608thewomen1939.jpg
... last year.
― who's always getting head from the commissioner (Eric H.), Friday, 16 April 2010 16:22 (fourteen years ago) link
I'm Norwegian. I feel a level of responsibility for other people's happiness.
Except sometimes.
I feel a level of responsibility for other people's happiness.
― who's always getting head from the commissioner (Eric H.), Friday, April 16, 2010 5:22 PM (11 seconds ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
i love this. i am the same way, to an extent
― la senora (surm), Friday, 16 April 2010 16:23 (fourteen years ago) link
ILX gays this year:
http://superherouniverse.com/wiki/images/5/57/GeneralZodForPresident20084.jpg
― Throwing Muses are reuniting for my next orgasm! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 16 April 2010 16:25 (fourteen years ago) link
I was going to say we're all off in our own one-woman shows now, but that might have been too douchey.
― who's always getting head from the commissioner (Eric H.), Friday, 16 April 2010 16:28 (fourteen years ago) link
Jor-El, my jailer? xp
I saw Bill Forsyth's Housekeeping for the first time in years last night, and I'm sort of Christine Lahti the newspaper/tin can hoarder. Not a railroad hobo, so much.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 16 April 2010 16:30 (fourteen years ago) link
I've come to terms with being, basically, the gay male version of Catherine Deneuve in Repulsion.
― who's always getting head from the commissioner (Eric H.), Friday, 16 April 2010 16:35 (fourteen years ago) link
Except one that, you know, looks like Paul McCrane.
― who's always getting head from the commissioner (Eric H.), Friday, 16 April 2010 16:36 (fourteen years ago) link
I'm the straight male version of Charles Boyer in The Earrings of Madame De....
― Throwing Muses are reuniting for my next orgasm! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 16 April 2010 16:38 (fourteen years ago) link
Haha.
― who's always getting head from the commissioner (Eric H.), Friday, 16 April 2010 16:49 (fourteen years ago) link
I can't be bothered to wade through the politics clusterfuck of a thread, but wondered if anyone here thinks the hospital missive is indicative of anything in the future. Namely, requests rather than laws struck down.
― who's always getting head from the commissioner (Eric H.), Friday, 16 April 2010 17:28 (fourteen years ago) link
Catherine Deneuve did get upset when I joked that she hated French cinema. xxxp
I think it's mostly indicative of the Democratic Party's distance from progressivism.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 16 April 2010 17:42 (fourteen years ago) link
So there's a pride parade this weekend. Should I go? It'd be my first time. I'm usually suspicious of these things.
― Throwing Muses are reuniting for my next orgasm! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 16 April 2010 17:58 (fourteen years ago) link
Go. Under the auspices of "people watching."
― who's always getting head from the commissioner (Eric H.), Friday, 16 April 2010 17:59 (fourteen years ago) link
I had purely cynical intentions, yes.
― Throwing Muses are reuniting for my next orgasm! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 16 April 2010 18:00 (fourteen years ago) link
go if u have no life and have nothing better to do
― la senora (surm), Friday, 16 April 2010 18:02 (fourteen years ago) link
lol sorry, jk, maybe
Go if you want to see people parade their foolishness. In the best possible way.
― who's always getting head from the commissioner (Eric H.), Friday, 16 April 2010 18:18 (fourteen years ago) link
My favorite thing I ever saw at the NY Pride parade was when the crowd starting chanting the name of a really hot cop on patrol (after reading his nameplate obv). He turned crimson.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 16 April 2010 19:06 (fourteen years ago) link
awwwwwwwww
― la senora (surm), Friday, 16 April 2010 19:08 (fourteen years ago) link
On patrol, or on patrol on a float?
― who's always getting head from the commissioner (Eric H.), Friday, 16 April 2010 19:15 (fourteen years ago) link
On foot patrol, at the sidewalk barricades. His partner laughed a lot.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 16 April 2010 19:47 (fourteen years ago) link
His partner in fighting crime, or his partner in life?
― who's always getting head from the commissioner (Eric H.), Friday, 16 April 2010 20:05 (fourteen years ago) link
his Robin.
― Throwing Muses are reuniting for my next orgasm! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 16 April 2010 20:06 (fourteen years ago) link
no, the hot cop was Brad Pitt, the partner more Danny Aiello.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 16 April 2010 20:12 (fourteen years ago) link
His Danny Aiello in Do the Right Thing, or his Danny Aiello in Do the Miss Thing?
― who's always getting head from the commissioner (Eric H.), Friday, 16 April 2010 21:06 (fourteen years ago) link
whoah, saw Colby and his bf again out tonight at the Transmodern Fest just before the Annex Theater production of "Fantastic Planet"- I flyered them with a flyer for the Janitor / Soft Pink Truth / Aktion Empress show, but felt shy.
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Saturday, 17 April 2010 06:10 (fourteen years ago) link
come the weekend, gays, do y'all ever feel a conflict b/w your need to get lit w/ yr homies and yr desire to find a dude to bang?
this presupposes i guess that yr homies are mostly hets and gay bars aren't a stop on the customary bar crawl.
― № (chocolate moose), Saturday, 17 April 2010 08:20 (fourteen years ago) link
this is why I mostly drink alone.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 17 April 2010 12:57 (fourteen years ago) link
The idea of just going out, finding a dude, and bringing him home just-like-that is one that is completely foreign to me.
― they taste fresh (Stevie D), Saturday, 17 April 2010 14:07 (fourteen years ago) link
Yes.
― Throwing Muses are reuniting for my next orgasm! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 17 April 2010 14:10 (fourteen years ago) link
bang yr homies?
― boxedjoy, Sunday, 18 April 2010 09:45 (fourteen years ago) link
My homies don't want to bang me. BUT I did just pick up the sweetest patch of all time at a show earlier tonight:
http://img706.imageshack.us/img706/3919/18208035.jpg
― they taste fresh (Stevie D), Monday, 19 April 2010 03:15 (fourteen years ago) link
don't want to jinx this, but I might have a new fb!
― The Reverend, Monday, 19 April 2010 03:33 (fourteen years ago) link
donna rouge: how do you know paul d@rr@gh?? he's good friends with my bestie! (altho i barely know him)
what a small, small world!
― just1n3, Tuesday, 20 April 2010 05:08 (fourteen years ago) link
i just met him this past weekend, i was out dancing and he was out dancing and we were both drinking and......yeah.
― bieber benz or bentley (donna rouge), Tuesday, 20 April 2010 05:20 (fourteen years ago) link
too funny tho!
― bieber benz or bentley (donna rouge), Tuesday, 20 April 2010 05:21 (fourteen years ago) link
Hey Morbs, when's the next Mattachine? My friend Quinn and I are itching to hug famous ppl again.
― they taste fresh (Stevie D), Tuesday, 20 April 2010 14:54 (fourteen years ago) link
hahahahah!! i saw it in my fb newsfeed and thought 'wait, that name rings a bell...' and then i realised it was the same guy i know. unbelievable :)
― just1n3, Tuesday, 20 April 2010 14:58 (fourteen years ago) link
famous ppl, or Alan Cumming?
afaik, Mattachine is the last Thursday each month, except when it's not.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 20 April 2010 16:47 (fourteen years ago) link
Who here has tumblrs again? I started, quit, and just restarted again and want to follow.
― who's always getting head from the commissioner (Eric H.), Thursday, 22 April 2010 15:46 (fourteen years ago) link
Pretty sure you had one elmo, right?
i do! my super extra phallocentric mystical dong postings are to be found at argonaut.tumblr.com
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 22 April 2010 16:03 (fourteen years ago) link
i haven't been posting a whole lot lately, though -- mostly reblogs.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 22 April 2010 16:14 (fourteen years ago) link
mine is alexmacpherson.tumblr.com though i really started it as a catch-all writing archival place, i only occasionally do "blogging"/"reblogging". at one point i meant it to be a nascent tennis blog too, that might still happen.
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Thursday, 22 April 2010 16:19 (fourteen years ago) link
Haha, i forgot, you're NSFW ... might have to not actually follow you tbh.
― who's always getting head from the commissioner (Eric H.), Thursday, 22 April 2010 16:20 (fourteen years ago) link
Not that i'm going to use it much, but mine is ephender.tumblr.com
― who's always getting head from the commissioner (Eric H.), Thursday, 22 April 2010 16:23 (fourteen years ago) link
i was thinking of starting another, more-worksafe tumblr less focused on butts & dicks but i haven't decided on what it would be "about."
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 22 April 2010 16:43 (fourteen years ago) link
You can discuss how awesome we are.
― Throwing Muses are reuniting for my next orgasm! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 22 April 2010 16:43 (fourteen years ago) link
i seem to use tumblr differently than a lot of ppl -- i just don't feel i can post just any random things that i like. i feel most comfortable when i work within rigid guidelines -- the stuff i post / reblog on my tumblr has to meet certain criteria (is it relevant to what i feel my "theme" to be, does not depict women, does it fit the color scheme, etc). it feels kinda compulsive at times. :\
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 22 April 2010 16:56 (fourteen years ago) link
I have one but it's nothing special, mostly writing about whatever piece of music I like at the time. (nb I am not a good writer.) casinosoul.tumblr.com
― bieber benz or bentley (donna rouge), Thursday, 22 April 2010 16:59 (fourteen years ago) link
"nothing special" and tumblr are sort of synonymous, but I'm pretty resigned to my old blog being dead eight times over now
― who's always getting head from the commissioner (Eric H.), Thursday, 22 April 2010 17:01 (fourteen years ago) link
you sound like it's beyond your control.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 22 April 2010 17:06 (fourteen years ago) link
Any available spare time I have to write anything remotely interesting (*hah*) gets devoted to whatever ends up on Slant.
― who's always getting head from the commissioner (Eric H.), Thursday, 22 April 2010 17:08 (fourteen years ago) link
I don't post to mine often, but:
http://lovethatlady.tumblr.com/
― piping hot dish and a cup of chat (Stevie D), Thursday, 22 April 2010 18:35 (fourteen years ago) link
hahaha - j0e, did you mention the small-world phenomenon to paul? he just sent me a friend req!
― just1n3, Saturday, 24 April 2010 04:10 (fourteen years ago) link
haha yeah! :)
― bieber benz or bentley (donna rouge), Saturday, 24 April 2010 05:04 (fourteen years ago) link
haha somehow got the officially declared quote of the night-- "never diss janet jackson in front of a queer black man"
― it ain't trickin if yo gotti (The Reverend), Saturday, 24 April 2010 09:50 (fourteen years ago) link
uh, that is just true
― la senora (surm), Saturday, 24 April 2010 09:51 (fourteen years ago) link
(ps it's 5am)
― la senora (surm), Saturday, 24 April 2010 09:52 (fourteen years ago) link
2:52 here imo
― it ain't trickin if yo gotti (The Reverend), Saturday, 24 April 2010 09:52 (fourteen years ago) link
fucked up
― la senora (surm), Saturday, 24 April 2010 09:53 (fourteen years ago) link
this girl thought it was an acceptable thing to do to stop "nasty boys" to play "i want it that way".
it is not an acceptable thing to do.
― it ain't trickin if yo gotti (The Reverend), Saturday, 24 April 2010 09:55 (fourteen years ago) link
terrible. would have been worse if it were pleasure principle tho
― la senora (surm), Saturday, 24 April 2010 10:08 (fourteen years ago) link
yeah maybe
― it ain't trickin if yo gotti (The Reverend), Saturday, 24 April 2010 10:16 (fourteen years ago) link
wait the girl who turned off janet for bsbs was not the same girl who said she could not stand janet so yeah... both of them are on my shitlist tbrr
― it ain't trickin if yo gotti (The Reverend), Saturday, 24 April 2010 10:18 (fourteen years ago) link
I'm listening to amerie now
"crazy wonderful" to be specific
thank u for being here surm, I knew you'd understand
― it ain't trickin if yo gotti (The Reverend), Saturday, 24 April 2010 10:19 (fourteen years ago) link
i think i snorted pico de gallo up my nostril
― it ain't trickin if yo gotti (The Reverend), Saturday, 24 April 2010 10:20 (fourteen years ago) link
u got it. ppl don't be messin w janet in my company either.
― la senora (surm), Saturday, 24 April 2010 10:21 (fourteen years ago) link
i wanna kiss u all the time, thats how i go through lipstick
― it ain't trickin if yo gotti (The Reverend), Saturday, 24 April 2010 10:27 (fourteen years ago) link
crazy crazy wonderfuuuul can u rly feel it aha-aaa-a
― it ain't trickin if yo gotti (The Reverend), Saturday, 24 April 2010 10:28 (fourteen years ago) link
I---I just, I can't... even... what the fuck.
― piping hot dish and a cup of chat (Stevie D), Saturday, 24 April 2010 13:24 (fourteen years ago) link
"I Want It That Way" is the only boyband song I like (or know?); hafta take it over the only Janet Jackson song I know, sorry.
ROCKISM LIVES
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 24 April 2010 13:27 (fourteen years ago) link
huh? i mean. i will rep for some bsb, but. but. but. janet's run of 80s singles is unfuckwitable. white girls, i tell you.
― Alex in Montreal, Saturday, 24 April 2010 13:50 (fourteen years ago) link
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, April 24, 2010 6:27 AM Bookmark
even if you prefer the one to the other, if you are at a party and people are dancing, and you stop that song in the middle to throw on a song no one wants to dance to, you are in major violation
― it ain't trickin if yo gotti (The Reverend), Saturday, 24 April 2010 19:40 (fourteen years ago) link
I see that
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 24 April 2010 20:57 (fourteen years ago) link
Gay bar was, for whatever reason, projecting Hitchcock's Sabotage on the wall last night. Still can't figure out why, but I think I got a couple cred points for recognizing it.
― who's always getting head from the commissioner (Eric H.), Sunday, 25 April 2010 19:52 (fourteen years ago) link
"cred points" = sodomy?
― Throwing Muses are reuniting for my next orgasm! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 25 April 2010 20:05 (fourteen years ago) link
Ouch!
Yeah "I Want It That Way" is beyond infinitely superior to "Nasty Boys" (and I love how it's now slotted under 'rockism') but it's useless at a dance party.
― Kevin John Bozelka, Sunday, 25 April 2010 20:32 (fourteen years ago) link
I never said anything about rockism! That would be silly. But that doesn't change the fact that "I Want It That Way" can suck my left nut.
― it ain't trickin if yo gotti (The Reverend), Monday, 26 April 2010 00:09 (fourteen years ago) link
HELLO.
have any of you ever been attracted to/done things with a FTM? just curious. been getting a lot of attention from some recently.....and don't know how i feel about it. (and i am ALL for trans peeps, just don't know if i want to mess around with them)
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Monday, 26 April 2010 00:41 (fourteen years ago) link
also, it is crazy hot here, i have a sinus infection, and i AM ENTERING MY LAST WEEK OF SCHOOL EVER!
I never said anything about rockism! That would be silly. (The Reverend)
Um, you might want to try actually reading the thread, perhaps an exclamation written in CAPS by someone else and that you yourself copied, pasted, and already responded to. Just a thought.
― Kevin John Bozelka, Monday, 26 April 2010 00:51 (fourteen years ago) link
I only mentioned 'rockism' bcz tho I like both those songs, they are silly pop records.
A goodlooking guy last night asked me to take him home and tie him up, but he was very shitfaced, AND wasn't interested in hosting tho he lives across the street from the bar.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 26 April 2010 01:24 (fourteen years ago) link
Shrill, shrieking fraud?
― Throwing Muses are reuniting for my next orgasm! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 26 April 2010 01:26 (fourteen years ago) link
He wasn't conscious enough to shriek shrilly.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 26 April 2010 01:27 (fourteen years ago) link
Holy. Shit. It just occured to me that this week is MY last week of classes too. Whoa; this whole graduating thing has yet to hit me.
So I'm only doing this whole NYC internship thing for another two weeks. Joe and Morbs and Ramz we MUST do some sort of thing between May 3 and May 13 because the train fare is going to go up to $26 roundtrip and I will probably almost never come to the city anymore :(
― piping hot dish and a cup of chat (Stevie D), Monday, 26 April 2010 02:11 (fourteen years ago) link
I think joe is hipdeep in school for another few weeks
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 26 April 2010 02:19 (fourteen years ago) link
yeah, i've got about three weeks left
― bieber benz or bentley (donna rouge), Monday, 26 April 2010 03:23 (fourteen years ago) link
and hence am jealous of table (minus the sinus)
― bieber benz or bentley (donna rouge), Monday, 26 April 2010 03:24 (fourteen years ago) link
Not particularly, though we'll see if my friend comes up to me and says "can I give your number to _______?"
― who's always getting head from the commissioner (Eric H.), Monday, 26 April 2010 04:48 (fourteen years ago) link
Oh, and not to extend this conversation, but "I Want It That Way" = useless music.
― who's always getting head from the commissioner (Eric H.), Monday, 26 April 2010 04:49 (fourteen years ago) link
ugh thank you
― piping hot dish and a cup of chat (Stevie D), Monday, 26 April 2010 05:20 (fourteen years ago) link
table i wld say that the ftm is cute then go for it, but like, dont feel pressurised by ur pro-trans stance to feel attracted to them if ur not u kno?
― plax (ico), Monday, 26 April 2010 10:13 (fourteen years ago) link
lots of stuff happening with the gay bars in pvd these days. the most notable being that wh33ls, the former hustlers-and-cocaine dive, has been remodeled and reopened under new management (and new name). the formerly non-descript, blacked-out facade has been replaced with full-height windows looking onto the street, which struck me as interesting -- i realized none of the other gay places here have windows! at least not at street level. most have no signage at all. so i wonder if this is signals local gays getting over the need for 'discretion' (or if it signals anything at all).
haven't been inside yet but i would guess the old painted concrete floor has been overlaid with tasteful hardwood. the cheap beer is probably gone too.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Monday, 26 April 2010 13:25 (fourteen years ago) link
well there is one other gay place that has windows, but it's a gay-owned/-friendly restaurant, and the curtains are usually drawn on those windows even.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Monday, 26 April 2010 13:36 (fourteen years ago) link
it's lou's birthday!
― Alex in Montreal, Tuesday, 27 April 2010 23:35 (fourteen years ago) link
not sure what to say besides happy birthday. i'd suggest that we bake a cake of some sort, but we are constrained by the internet.
― Alex in Montreal, Tuesday, 27 April 2010 23:42 (fourteen years ago) link
happy birthday, lou!
― Throwing Muses are reuniting for my next orgasm! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 27 April 2010 23:47 (fourteen years ago) link
How old are you, like 24? Happy bday lou! Hope that kind gentlemen of yours gives you something good.
― Oh boy, sleep! That's where I'm Ann Reinking! (Stevie D), Wednesday, 28 April 2010 00:01 (fourteen years ago) link
Happy birthday Lou! You should flash the thread with those biceps again.
― who's always getting head from the commissioner (Eric H.), Wednesday, 28 April 2010 00:30 (fourteen years ago) link
HB lou! got you some deep house for yr bday iirc
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ShLlMLCpVJ4
― bieber benz or bentley (donna rouge), Wednesday, 28 April 2010 00:39 (fourteen years ago) link
lou hon, happy b'day.
BTW guys, you know what me and 30 million other ppl remember about "Nasty Boys" 20+ years later? That synth hook, all 5 seconds of it. Big achievement.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 28 April 2010 01:02 (fourteen years ago) link
You know that many people?
― Throwing Muses are reuniting for my next orgasm! (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 28 April 2010 01:04 (fourteen years ago) link
Creating something 30 million people remember? Yeah, that's actually a pretty big achievement.
― who's always getting head from the commissioner (Eric H.), Wednesday, 28 April 2010 01:04 (fourteen years ago) link
Too bad it wan't Janet, tho ;)
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 28 April 2010 01:11 (fourteen years ago) link
anyway Steve, where do you want to go? the Sunday Eagle beer blast?
Me? Anything before May 3 is completely not do-able but anything after is.
― Oh boy, sleep! That's where I'm Ann Reinking! (Stevie D), Wednesday, 28 April 2010 03:42 (fourteen years ago) link
that synth hook is a monster
― what a tragedy for gingers (The Reverend), Wednesday, 28 April 2010 05:11 (fourteen years ago) link
happy belated birthday, lou!
― Yonder Mountain Zing Band (Tape Store), Wednesday, 28 April 2010 05:22 (fourteen years ago) link
i keep seeing tall boys with tall faces and tall sideburns. i want to hug them and kiss them and fall asleep on their chests.
― Yonder Mountain Zing Band (Tape Store), Wednesday, 28 April 2010 05:23 (fourteen years ago) link
Aww thank you, boys! Stevie, I'm 28 already. You can call me Gramps. :)
― Suddenly Snoozin' (lou), Wednesday, 28 April 2010 12:25 (fourteen years ago) link
I used to see this fellow around town a lot. RIP.
http://www.towleroad.com/2010/04/nyc-community-and-lgbt-rights-activist-harry-wieder-killed.html
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 29 April 2010 17:57 (fourteen years ago) link
So, got a press release for that upcoming Stonewall doc and noted a comment I've seen before, but never really dwelled on.
A treasure-trove of archival footage gives life to this all-too-recent reality, a time when Mike Wallace announced on a 1966 CBS Reports: "The average homosexual, if there be such, is promiscuous. He is not interested in, nor capable of, a lasting relationship like that of a heterosexual marriage."
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Friday, 30 April 2010 14:32 (fourteen years ago) link
Just throwing this out there because I know there are people in this thread for whom moving beyond the politically correct aspirations toward gay marriage seems totally natural.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Friday, 30 April 2010 14:33 (fourteen years ago) link
Neither is Larry King.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 30 April 2010 14:33 (fourteen years ago) link
Yep, pretty much. Larry King = average homosexual.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Friday, 30 April 2010 14:34 (fourteen years ago) link
I should have added an xpost but lol yes.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 30 April 2010 14:36 (fourteen years ago) link
The average flatulent decrepit heterosexual CNN host, if there be such, is not interested in, nor capable of, a lasting relationship.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 30 April 2010 14:37 (fourteen years ago) link
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 30 April 2010 14:39 (fourteen years ago) link
The average flatulent decrepit heterosexual CNN host, if there be such, is not interested in, nor capable of, a lasting relationship dutch oven.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Friday, 30 April 2010 15:10 (fourteen years ago) link
so the guy i met, i thought he had washed his hands of me for some reason, and then out of the blue tonight he texts me and wants to kick it, so i'm gonna go over there, and now i'm super nervi, and i was making this big dinner/dessert w/ my roommate and now i've totally lost my appetite, which is what usually happens here, even tho me & this kid are cool & had a dope time last time
― ibaka flocka flame (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 1 May 2010 00:44 (fourteen years ago) link
Haha, yeah, fuck that nervous feeling. I'm going out to an upscale dinner at an upscale restaurant with a group of reasonably upscale gays tomorrow night (many of whom I'm meeting for the first time) and I'm already worried about farting through the whole evening.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Saturday, 1 May 2010 00:49 (fourteen years ago) link
Have a glass of wine, gentlemen, and enjoy the show. We're rooting for you.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 1 May 2010 00:55 (fourteen years ago) link
if all goes according to plan, i've got a P-town trip in august to look forward to! i should probably bring like, two flasks, right?
― a connecticut muffin in king arthur's flour (donna rouge), Saturday, 1 May 2010 01:16 (fourteen years ago) link
I can't drink wine. A single sip makes me nauseous. Strictly beer + liquor for me. :(
― WE THE VIKING (The Reverend), Saturday, 1 May 2010 01:16 (fourteen years ago) link
I need to go somewhere this summer on my new austerity budget. Besides Atlanta.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 1 May 2010 01:19 (fourteen years ago) link
I'm going to get so drunk so fast.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Saturday, 1 May 2010 01:35 (fourteen years ago) link
I'll do wine and mixed drinks, but beer is still beyond me. In that sense, I'm gay.
Same? I can do lagers and Heineken or Corona, but actual beer is just too heavy. I can hold my alcohol, but with beer I get sick before I get drunk.
― Alex in Montreal, Saturday, 1 May 2010 02:03 (fourteen years ago) link
I love beer so much.
― WE THE VIKING (The Reverend), Saturday, 1 May 2010 02:21 (fourteen years ago) link
I have taken an hour trainride just so I could go to the one bar in the Portland area I know of that has my favorite microbrew from back home.
― WE THE VIKING (The Reverend), Saturday, 1 May 2010 02:22 (fourteen years ago) link
Love me some beer. Also just did a tasting the other day and can now tell the difference between Cab, Shiraz, and Merlot.
Eric, have you ever farted in public? I cannot imagine you doing so.
― Oh boy, sleep! That's where I'm Ann Reinking! (Stevie D), Saturday, 1 May 2010 02:29 (fourteen years ago) link
lol so apparently the reason the dude never got back to me is cuz he never checks the email i had for him -_- -_- -_- -_- -_-
AS I SHUFFLE OFF THIS MORTAL COIL (THE INTERNET)
― ibaka flocka flame (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 1 May 2010 02:34 (fourteen years ago) link
i was like "well, text messaging is prob too invasive. i'll just send a nice email." AND THEN NOTHING, you know? *sigh* lyfe, internet, modern world
― ibaka flocka flame (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 1 May 2010 02:35 (fourteen years ago) link
So, wait, are you not going over then?
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 1 May 2010 02:39 (fourteen years ago) link
no i am!
― ibaka flocka flame (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 1 May 2010 02:51 (fourteen years ago) link
but he texted me tonight, which i thought was out of the blue, but i checked my email afterward and he was like "oh hey i never check this email"
i knew that whole thing was fishy . . . like obviously he wanted u bad, like a hit single in a summer with no anthem
― la senora (surm), Saturday, 1 May 2010 04:32 (fourteen years ago) link
Eric, have you ever farted in public? I cannot imagine you doing so
Define public.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Saturday, 1 May 2010 04:50 (fourteen years ago) link
Also, I just watched Do the Right Thing too early in the season. Apparently I want this thread to turn over into summer already.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Saturday, 1 May 2010 04:51 (fourteen years ago) link
guys i THREW UP beforehand wtf
― ibaka flocka flame (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 1 May 2010 05:58 (fourteen years ago) link
Um, my night will go better than that tomorrow, haha.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Saturday, 1 May 2010 05:59 (fourteen years ago) link
Tough break, kid.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Saturday, 1 May 2010 06:00 (fourteen years ago) link
i mean it didn't really change the outcome of the night at all but still wtf
― ibaka flocka flame (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 1 May 2010 06:03 (fourteen years ago) link
Ah, well then go get 'em, champ.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Saturday, 1 May 2010 06:06 (fourteen years ago) link
whoa! never had the jitters that bad :/
but...good job ultimately!
― a connecticut muffin in king arthur's flour (donna rouge), Saturday, 1 May 2010 06:56 (fourteen years ago) link
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
― la senora (surm), Saturday, 1 May 2010 06:58 (fourteen years ago) link
hi surm!
― a connecticut muffin in king arthur's flour (donna rouge), Saturday, 1 May 2010 07:04 (fourteen years ago) link
hey :-)
― la senora (surm), Saturday, 1 May 2010 07:06 (fourteen years ago) link
damn, sarges, you a fiend
― WE THE VIKING (The Reverend), Saturday, 1 May 2010 07:21 (fourteen years ago) link
No starting summer threads before May 28, plz
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 1 May 2010 10:59 (fourteen years ago) link
I just biked a little over 15 miles yesterday and might go for a huge bike ride again today. At this rate I should have my substantial biker thighs in no time.
― Oh boy, sleep! That's where I'm Ann Reinking! (Stevie D), Saturday, 1 May 2010 14:01 (fourteen years ago) link
I would like to propose a FAP on THURSDAY MAY 13 at wherever. Surm you must must come!!
― Oh boy, sleep! That's where I'm Ann Reinking! (Stevie D), Saturday, 1 May 2010 17:55 (fourteen years ago) link
OK, gays, I need to buy some cologne for this highfalutin (highfagutin?) evening and need some recommendations.
My bike's been idle since late last summer. One of the wheels needs to be trued.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Saturday, 1 May 2010 18:08 (fourteen years ago) link
highflatulent evening
― ibaka flocka flame (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 1 May 2010 18:09 (fourteen years ago) link
What do you think the cologne is for?
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Saturday, 1 May 2010 18:24 (fourteen years ago) link
I thought cologne was illegal in MN as it should be in the rest of North America. Back during my Jackie Collins: Hollywood Wives obsession, I annoyed people with Giorgio VIP:
http://www.99perfume-wholesale.com/image/GIORGIO_VIP_M.jpg
Now I sport this 'cologne' which is what I suggest for you lessin you want to make enemies before you've made friends:
http://www.vitadiscount.com/vitasprings/deodorant-stick-spring-fresh-nature-s-gate.jpg
― Kevin John Bozelka, Saturday, 1 May 2010 18:45 (fourteen years ago) link
Giorgio. Got it. Headed to the perfume counter now.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Saturday, 1 May 2010 18:53 (fourteen years ago) link
So, Eric and J0rdan...how were your respective flatulent evenings?
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 1 May 2010 19:03 (fourteen years ago) link
my hand still smells like butt, so good
― ibaka flocka flame (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 1 May 2010 19:11 (fourteen years ago) link
Every night's flatulent with me, but tonight's when I get to break up a Buñuel dinner party with it.
xpost jealous!
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Saturday, 1 May 2010 19:11 (fourteen years ago) link
Vomit, butt -- whatever effluvia works.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 1 May 2010 19:29 (fourteen years ago) link
http://www.kafaayari.com/wp-content/phantom_of_liberty2.jpg
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Saturday, 1 May 2010 19:38 (fourteen years ago) link
i just got back from picking through a dozen yard sales and i smell like attic dust, granny grime, and body odor. as long as we are describing our frangrances for the day.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Saturday, 1 May 2010 20:35 (fourteen years ago) link
I too smell like body odor. I was way gross and didn't shower after my bike ride yesterday (i was dry by the time i got home, k?) but I did change my underwear and shirt and will probably shower after my superlong bike right later today.
― Oh boy, sleep! That's where I'm Ann Reinking! (Stevie D), Saturday, 1 May 2010 21:35 (fourteen years ago) link
Just spent an hour and a half admiring the ass, calves, forearms and jet black hair of a guy I asked, out of the blue, if he'd like to tie in at the climbing gym. Came away from the experience profoundly aware of how unfair life is. He's married for 12 years, has three kids, is 36 years old, looks 22. I finished my climbs today looking 50.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Saturday, 1 May 2010 22:04 (fourteen years ago) link
Eric!! And here I thought you were the shy, quiet type.
― Oh boy, sleep! That's where I'm Ann Reinking! (Stevie D), Sunday, 2 May 2010 02:53 (fourteen years ago) link
ew why is everybody talking about gross stuff. jordan u started it
― la senora (surm), Sunday, 2 May 2010 03:27 (fourteen years ago) link
sorry!
― J0rdan S., Sunday, 2 May 2010 03:59 (fourteen years ago) link
xp oh please, like everything in your life smells like roses and freshly-baked snickerdoodles
― Oh boy, sleep! That's where I'm Ann Reinking! (Stevie D), Sunday, 2 May 2010 04:04 (fourteen years ago) link
I smell like citron tea and a slightly unwashed hoody.
― Gesualdo Rivera (Daruton), Sunday, 2 May 2010 04:28 (fourteen years ago) link
i recently told my friends there are three words i will not stand for: sniff, nasty, and fart.
like i can't
i shaved tonight and i look like a peach cobbler
― la senora (surm), Sunday, 2 May 2010 05:24 (fourteen years ago) link
upscale gays
i.e., the enemy?
My dick goes totally limp at this phrase.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 2 May 2010 06:06 (fourteen years ago) link
gays I will fuck = belchers
I am the shy, quiet type, Stevie. The fact that I approached the guy at all was partially based on his being straight.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Sunday, 2 May 2010 09:08 (fourteen years ago) link
And I had a belching contest with one of the "upscale gays" tonight.
Of course, that was mere minutes before I ditched them to hang out with a group of straight friends. The more things change...
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Sunday, 2 May 2010 09:09 (fourteen years ago) link
Went to a housewarming party thrown by an Upscale Gay couple. A spread (homemade ceviche and spinach-artichoke dip) as impressive as the view of the intercoastal and ocean. At one point one of the owners followed me to the bathroom, where he serviced me after locking the door behind him. That's my kind of upscale dip.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 2 May 2010 13:00 (fourteen years ago) link
sounds like "Spread" could be his nickname
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 2 May 2010 18:36 (fourteen years ago) link
I love ceviche and blowjobs
― WE THE VIKING (The Reverend), Sunday, 2 May 2010 23:42 (fourteen years ago) link
i feel like on separate occasions tho
― la senora (surm), Sunday, 2 May 2010 23:49 (fourteen years ago) link
I have never had ceviche. What is the awesomeness ratio of ceviche : blowjobs?
― Alex in Montreal, Sunday, 2 May 2010 23:54 (fourteen years ago) link
Cold shrimp, crushed garlic, sticky lips.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 3 May 2010 00:02 (fourteen years ago) link
Do not be that one guy at the party who always to cum in the ceviche.
― WE THE VIKING (The Reverend), Monday, 3 May 2010 01:34 (fourteen years ago) link
One of these days, I'll have a food story. Until then, bravo, Alfred!
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Monday, 3 May 2010 04:08 (fourteen years ago) link
yea word up on that food story man
― la senora (surm), Monday, 3 May 2010 04:09 (fourteen years ago) link
i have a food story!!!! the case of the famous chinese food. ryan and i were out late at night, and we got mugged, and we came home and had chinese food and then some.
that's it, that's my food story. it's not that good (we were on our way to see peaches!!)
― la senora (surm), Monday, 3 May 2010 04:10 (fourteen years ago) link
That is sad!! I hope you did not lose much :( I have never been mugged and get nervous at the thought.
― Oh boy, sleep! That's where I'm Ann Reinking! (Stevie D), Monday, 3 May 2010 04:18 (fourteen years ago) link
i did not lose anything, but i had to stand there and watch the love of my life get robbed of his cell fone, wallet and scottish plaid umbrella. fuckin sucked.
― la senora (surm), Monday, 3 May 2010 04:31 (fourteen years ago) link
o and his cell fone was a star tac - one of those silver flips! shit is like vintage nowadays
at least neither of you got stabbed?
― J0rdan S., Monday, 3 May 2010 04:46 (fourteen years ago) link
no, no - no stabbing.
― la senora (surm), Monday, 3 May 2010 04:49 (fourteen years ago) link
I am not telling my sort-of food story here.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 3 May 2010 05:03 (fourteen years ago) link
uh, wow, food. this guy i am having a thing with (three nights in a row, i'm kind of exhausted) cooked SILKWORM PUPAE last night at this barbecue. actually not bad— like a nutty fake chicken taste?
anyway, yeah, he's pretty wild. commercial diver, underwater welder, film-maker, sex-worker, punk rock.
now to search for jobs and get on food stamps.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Monday, 3 May 2010 17:03 (fourteen years ago) link
i watched "snapped" yesterday, about an ex male stripper who got killed. he was very hot. now he's dead.
― la senora (surm), Monday, 3 May 2010 17:36 (fourteen years ago) link
that was my sunday afternoon.
― la senora (surm), Monday, 3 May 2010 17:37 (fourteen years ago) link
The last guy I was seeing was such a fussy eater, he was lovely but it's such a relief that I no longer have to worry about showing him menus to veto - now I can just sit at home with soup for one.
I do want to hear Dr Morbius' food story now though
― boxedjoy, Monday, 3 May 2010 19:47 (fourteen years ago) link
http://hphotos-snc3.fbcdn.net/hs561.snc3/30656_542416381104_4302681_31829270_3123794_n.jpg
HAIRCUT.. plus u can see the triangle tat on my hand.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 00:27 (fourteen years ago) link
yah hair!!!
loving this whole stylistic choice tbh
― la senora (surm), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 00:30 (fourteen years ago) link
sorry to pry tabes, but is dudes name M@++ by any chance?
― underwater, please (bear, bear, bear), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 00:33 (fourteen years ago) link
lolz yes.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 00:44 (fourteen years ago) link
rad. old friend. again, sorry fr nosing, just got stoked cause i like that guy a bunch
― underwater, please (bear, bear, bear), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 00:50 (fourteen years ago) link
damn, u tan
― a connecticut muffin in king arthur's flour (donna rouge), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 00:53 (fourteen years ago) link
he's hella cool.
and yeah, i am tan. bicycling in california does that to a person ;)
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 00:59 (fourteen years ago) link
tabes very new wave
I'll just give the punchline to my food story: "Well it is the day after Thanksgiving."
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 02:14 (fourteen years ago) link
My roommates keep leaving their dishes in the sink unwashed for days at a time and I'm wondering how to get them to stop without being a dick and yelling at them, or being a martyr and doing them myself.
― y kant immanuel rite (Daruton), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 03:19 (fourteen years ago) link
that's disgusting.
tell them to do their fucking dishes or u'll hire a cleaning lady and charge them.
― la senora (surm), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 03:20 (fourteen years ago) link
sorry /residual roommate angst
― la senora (surm), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 03:21 (fourteen years ago) link
the dishes in our house haven't been done in months
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 4 May 2010 03:21 (fourteen years ago) link
um
how do u eat/
― la senora (surm), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 03:22 (fourteen years ago) link
i mean it's really disgusting, but that's kinda just how things go
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 4 May 2010 03:22 (fourteen years ago) link
we wash dishes when we need them
it's undeniably gross, but it's also how i've lived for like the past 3 years, also i hate doing dishes so idk
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 4 May 2010 03:23 (fourteen years ago) link
i got into it recently. i got like immersed in the bubbles, and i got this feeling like "i am taking care of something"
like, my house became my battleship, and i was the captain. all in that one moment.
― la senora (surm), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 03:25 (fourteen years ago) link
Hahaha. I recently went on a sort of cleaning frenzy and asserted myself in the scheme of the decorating/organization of the place and hopefully implanted some guilt about being a fucking slob, but that's probably unlikely.
I'm trying to see if leaving their dishes neatly stacked (yet unwashed) outside of the sink so that I can still use it, and to make apparent the dirty/clean contrast will work. We'll see.
― y kant immanuel rite (Daruton), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 03:27 (fourteen years ago) link
Capt Surm, do u have a dishwashing uniform?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 03:33 (fourteen years ago) link
my strategy for a while was to be best friends w/ a girl who dated guys who did dishes. true story.
― №, Tuesday, 4 May 2010 03:34 (fourteen years ago) link
lol no i don't, it's mostly my silk robe
― la senora (surm), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 03:37 (fourteen years ago) link
Tabes, if I never told you before, I'll tell you now. You have unreal, beautiful lips.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 03:39 (fourteen years ago) link
^^THIS
i like doing dishes and do them fairly frequently (i get annoyed when they pile up). i do sometimes let the caked-on tough-to-get-off stuff sit for days in soapy water out of absentmindedness
― a connecticut muffin in king arthur's flour (donna rouge), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 05:16 (fourteen years ago) link
if nothing else it's an excellent way to procrastinate
j0rdan abt being crusty and doing dishes when you need them, pretty otm. I have been there, it is life, whatever.
― Francis Scott Key 7th Path (Stevie D), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 06:14 (fourteen years ago) link
I do them every few days or so. If I get really lazy I might go a week.
― snoop dyao double-g (The Reverend), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 06:26 (fourteen years ago) link
i try to and INTEND to do them regularly, but the fact of the matter is I cook food and then eat it and then leave my house, and I come home and maybe go online and then sleep and leave my house again and forget that the sink with my dishes in it even exists :(
― Francis Scott Key 7th Path (Stevie D), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 06:31 (fourteen years ago) link
one of the ways i can tell i've become a responsible adult is that when i was a student, i'd leave my dishes for weeks before doing them. now, i do them every couple of days at worst. it's too gross otherwise.
that said i still base what i eat on how little washing up it'll involve. hence pretty much never frying anything.
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 06:37 (fourteen years ago) link
if i lived alone or with one other person or with people who also did their dishes, i would prob feel pressure to do them, but with three other people who (basically) don't do them, there's not much incentive on my part
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 4 May 2010 06:47 (fourteen years ago) link
or anyone's part obv, since i'm not any different
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 4 May 2010 06:48 (fourteen years ago) link
living alone is the surest recipe for turning one's house into a hovel. it's like you go slightly feral.
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 06:49 (fourteen years ago) link
see, i feel like i would be the opposite, but i'm not really sure
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 4 May 2010 06:51 (fourteen years ago) link
you start out with good intentions but it's so easy to leave things where they fall on the basis that no one will care and you can just deal with it later (where later = in a month, on the eve of the other housemates' return)
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 06:54 (fourteen years ago) link
I think I made the first post about tabes' pillowy lips.
OK, who is №?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 11:13 (fourteen years ago) link
living alone is the surest recipe for turning one's house into a hovel.
I spent an hour Sunday night scrubbing and cleaning my bathroom stall. FACT.
I've never minded doing dishes. That tomato water floating in dishes in the sink totally grosses me out.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 11:16 (fourteen years ago) link
i do dishes and vacuum everyday. then my boyfriend comes home and makes more dishes, and i do them. and then he buys me dinner.
― la senora (surm), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 13:48 (fourteen years ago) link
i mean like, if need be, i do dishes when i get home from going out at 4am. i smoke a bowl, put on some lady gaga and clean up the house. and then when i'm done, i stare at my apartment.
― la senora (surm), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 13:54 (fourteen years ago) link
yup.
my mom was a cleaning lady.
― la senora (surm), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 13:56 (fourteen years ago) link
So all it takes is a bowl and you'll clean? Expect a ring shortly.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 14:04 (fourteen years ago) link
That tomato water floating in dishes in the sink totally grosses me out.
i fucking hate that water! if you leave dishes, leave 'em on the sideboard - maybe put water in bowls or whatever to prevent encrustation, i guess, but lakes of gross dishwater <<<<<<<<< mere dirty dishes.
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 14:04 (fourteen years ago) link
i am good about doing my own dishes. i won't do other peoples' dishes, but my housemates tend to be good about that sort of thing... most of the reason for this is that i don't cook that much, especially in the summer, so.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Tuesday, 4 May 2010 15:39 (fourteen years ago) link
I'm lucky enough to have a dishwasher, which is amazing, but i still do about half of the dishwashing by hand. and even if I'm feeling too lazy to load the dishwasher, the kitchen sink is in a pantry area, the door of which i've fitted with a curtain, so I can just draw that and the dirty dishes are "away" and i don't have to look at them.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 13:51 (fourteen years ago) link
I'm pretty good about dishwashing now. Nothing gets crusty.
Steve, this is probably too late for me (tom'w):
http://www.nextmagazine.com/nexus/scene-heard-now-you-are-here-xanadude
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 15:08 (fourteen years ago) link
uh, ok. i like this guy. he's smart, funny, good-looking. but...he's way more into me than i am into him, and i'm already starting to feel a little suffocated. he admitted to me last night that he has developed 'a decent-sized crush' on me, and i was sort of like, 'uhhh...'
not the worst situation ever, but yup, i'm kind of at a loss as to what i should do.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 16:25 (fourteen years ago) link
do what i do and ignore his calls!*
*nb: don't do this
― a connecticut muffin in king arthur's flour (donna rouge), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 16:27 (fourteen years ago) link
yeah that isn't really my style anyway... i just think i need to be like, 'hey it's nice to hang out and sleep with each other, but dude, every night? hanging out every day? TOO MUCH.'
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 16:30 (fourteen years ago) link
THAT IS WAY TOO MUCH
― la senora (surm), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 16:43 (fourteen years ago) link
I don't even want to hang out with myself every day of the week.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 16:48 (fourteen years ago) link
me either it's like get a grip, get a book, get a hobby
― la senora (surm), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 16:49 (fourteen years ago) link
having somebody have a crush on you doesn't seem like such a bad thing 2 me tbh
― plax (ico), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 16:56 (fourteen years ago) link
I'm of the opposite opinion. (I mean, based on the few times I've been on the receiving end of an unwanted crush.)
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 17:05 (fourteen years ago) link
i want 2 hang out
― World B. FAP (J0rdan S.), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 17:05 (fourteen years ago) link
Not that I've been in this situation in a long time (OK, ever), but if I was to sleep w/ someone more than once I wasn't way into, I'd like to reach some mutual understanding that we were just FBs.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 17:07 (fourteen years ago) link
"listen, i have fun with you, but you need to know that we're just facebooks"
― World B. FAP (J0rdan S.), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 17:08 (fourteen years ago) link
so, you can't understand OR make jokes?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 17:12 (fourteen years ago) link
lol why u mad
― World B. FAP (J0rdan S.), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 17:12 (fourteen years ago) link
not mad. observant.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 17:13 (fourteen years ago) link
i always initially read FB as "facebook" too
― a connecticut muffin in king arthur's flour (donna rouge), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 17:25 (fourteen years ago) link
eh, i don't have much experience in that position, table -- been on the other side, mostly. anyway, it's worth being honest and setting boundaries. always. it's totally expected for you to start begrudging him your company if you feel he's getting too close. but given that you sleep together and spend time together, he might not know your take. you know he has a crush on you, but have you had a 'discussion' abt this yet?
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 17:33 (fourteen years ago) link
we talked about it, yeah, and i was like, 'i'm not looking for a boyfriend or any sort of 'primary partner' type thing right now, i like you, it's cool, but just so you know' and it seemed like he got it. but maybe not?
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 18:47 (fourteen years ago) link
^^^this.
I have a tendency to crush hard on guys I (theoretically) sleep with, but that doesn't mean I'm not okay with more casual arrangements. Without any explicit delineation of boundaries or rules, it can be tricky to navigate the balance between 'into you' and 'too into you'.
Like...it's only a problem if you aren't on the same page AND can't get on to the same page, you know?
― Alex in Montreal, Wednesday, 5 May 2010 18:50 (fourteen years ago) link
a Facebook page?
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 18:53 (fourteen years ago) link
I'm usually on the receiving (har har) ends of these crushes, to my dismay. I feel bad for these guys because I remember every one of my unrequited crushes. Usually I end up obliging them sexually after assessing the situation (i.e. how intense is the crush).
The increased acceptance of homosexualists has forced the problems of hets on us. Every time I explain to a straight friend about how cool, elastic, and non-committal homosexual erotic relationships are, I talk to another gay guy who wants a boyfriend or, as a buddy said the other day, "would punch a guy in the jaw" for hitting on his boyfriend at a club.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 18:56 (fourteen years ago) link
table, truth is i have "accepted" being in situations where i knew the other person wasn't interested in anything more than hanging out and fucking around. but i usually nurtured the secret hope that they would 'come around' and we'd end up together. of course, it never worked out that way.
so this guy might 'accept' your conditions, but otoh he may not be totally honest with you (or himself) about what he really wants. if he really digs you, he'll go along because the other option is to see you less or not at all. it's selfish and foolish and sad but it happens imo.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 19:32 (fourteen years ago) link
i mean, it's especially weird because this same sort of thing just happened to me, where i was in his position. and though se4n and i are totally good friends and really cool, it took some REAL TALKING and i don't want to do that bullshit again right now.
also, like w/ se4n, we have all the same friends...uh, yeah.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 19:45 (fourteen years ago) link
The increased acceptance of homosexualists has forced the problems of hets on us.
sad but soooo true. Do gay guys get jealous when their boyfriends/husbands check out another dude? Like JUST looking? I kinda don't wanna know but...
― Kevin John Bozelka, Wednesday, 5 May 2010 19:52 (fourteen years ago) link
Wish I wanted to have sex with guys who are into my but I'm not into. Usually that's one of the main reasons I'm not into them in the first place, after all.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 20:01 (fourteen years ago) link
tbh i don't think jealousy / control issues aren't exactly new territory for gays. these issues may be more visible because monogamous gay relationships are more public & more 'normal' these days, not because these gay posessiveness is a new phenomenon.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 20:11 (fourteen years ago) link
these
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 20:12 (fourteen years ago) link
Politically incorrect opinion: Don't actually fully buy the concept of monogamous homo 'ships, myself. Or at least not lifelong ones, anyway. Obv my own personal hangups are coloring that opinion, but I personally know, like, two sets of gay life partners, and not for lack of gay friends. Maybe it's partially a lack of an apparatus in our formative years, but I dunno.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 20:56 (fourteen years ago) link
i think its more a handy excuse we have thats sadly disappearing but what do i no
― plax (ico), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 21:09 (fourteen years ago) link
or, alternatively, to Home Depot hell with monogamous homo 'ships, unless that's what individuals want. Perhaps it's not "natural."
However, I am contemplating being open to/pursuing a live-in affair sometime soon should the remote possibility appear, and the motivation is that people in couples can live so goddamn more cheaply than singles. Call me names.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 21:38 (fourteen years ago) link
That most monogamous hetero relationships are fueled in great part by their financial convenience hasn't escaped me, either.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 21:39 (fourteen years ago) link
If "modern life" has any advantages, it's the liberty for you and your lover to set your own terms.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 21:39 (fourteen years ago) link
All I want is to make sure that I have people to hang out with every day of the rest of my life, that's all.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 21:40 (fourteen years ago) link
i could do w/o that even. being alone is kinda how i like it, not all but most of the time.
― plax (ico), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 21:45 (fourteen years ago) link
Andrew Sullivan said years ago that homosexual men have done more to define and deepen our concept of friendship than any other group.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 21:50 (fourteen years ago) link
If "our" equals "homosexual men," then I'd reckon he's right.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 22:06 (fourteen years ago) link
Wish I wanted to have sex with guys who are into my but I'm not into.
Hilarious typo (or was it a typo....?).
― Kevin John Bozelka, Wednesday, 5 May 2010 22:19 (fourteen years ago) link
Oops.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Wednesday, 5 May 2010 22:22 (fourteen years ago) link
I want a boyfriend. Not even for the sex so much as for the companionship. Maybe it's being in a city where I don't really know people like that and I don't have old friends from way back who are down to kick it whenever and if I was back home I'd feel differently. For the sex, too, though. I have a strong (albeit not absolute) tendency not to have sex outside of relationships. :/
― you might be a goon but what's a goon to a viking? (The Reverend), Thursday, 6 May 2010 00:13 (fourteen years ago) link
Maybe it's just my upbringing. My parents are still together (and more importantly still in love!) after 30 years and I had the virtue of monogamy drilled into my head from day one.
― you might be a goon but what's a goon to a viking? (The Reverend), Thursday, 6 May 2010 00:15 (fourteen years ago) link
My parents are total horndogs for each other (thirty-six years), and if they've taught me anything it's to value companionship. I can't envision -- for now -- any arrangement in which my lover and I couldn't see other people if we got the jones.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 6 May 2010 00:17 (fourteen years ago) link
that's a viewpoint i've only somewhat recently been coming around to (lol catholic upbringing) and even then i'm not currently in a relationship and can't accurately say whether or not i'd feel that way if i were committed to someone. last somewhat-serious thing i had the guy told me he slept with someone else while we were dating and it hurt.
― a connecticut muffin in king arthur's flour (donna rouge), Thursday, 6 May 2010 04:13 (fourteen years ago) link
Gays--do you come every time you have sex? Is it disappointing when you don't? I just read an interview with someone who said they only orgasm like 1 IN 10 TIMES and I be like... damn.
― amadeus bag (Stevie D), Thursday, 6 May 2010 12:13 (fourteen years ago) link
Mod request to move this thread to I Love TMI.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Thursday, 6 May 2010 12:25 (fourteen years ago) link
Guys, you NEED to see the 2005 Philippine film The Blossoming of Maximo Oliveros. It's seriously one of the best gay films I've ever seen. On DVD. Rent it now!
― Kevin John Bozelka, Thursday, 6 May 2010 13:06 (fourteen years ago) link
― amadeus bag (Stevie D), Thursday, May 6, 2010 5:13 AM Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
One time I had sex and couldn't get off. I was super-kinda-embarrassed.
― moderator requiem forum (The Reverend), Thursday, 6 May 2010 20:32 (fourteen years ago) link
monogamy freaks me out. i'd rather have 'primary partner' type shit, but in the future. not now.
stevie, i'd say i come about 60% of the time. kinda depends on what's going on, tho i will say that you have to have real skillz to get me to come from a BJ.
also, teddy and the frat girls.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Thursday, 6 May 2010 20:40 (fourteen years ago) link
I guess the idea of promiscuity has always seemed kind of, I dunno, aberrent to me. That's certainly not to cast aspertions on anyone who does have multiple partners. If it's right for them, that's cool. It just doesn't feel right for me. But I'm comfortable letting people follow their own compasses as long as I follow mine. Then again, at most points (including now) I'd have been lucky to have had even one partner.
― moderator requiem forum (The Reverend), Thursday, 6 May 2010 21:06 (fourteen years ago) link
I think we all need to see this:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1jEwMNrUIBs
― amadeus bag (Stevie D), Thursday, 6 May 2010 22:04 (fourteen years ago) link
i always come
― World B. FAP (J0rdan S.), Friday, 7 May 2010 00:26 (fourteen years ago) link
all ask a question now
does anyone else not really get off on anal penetration (top or bottom, whatever)? cuz i dig anal play & what not, but penetrating/being penetrated really does nothing for me
― World B. FAP (J0rdan S.), Friday, 7 May 2010 00:27 (fourteen years ago) link
ha, i'll**
I'm learning to love the bomb.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 7 May 2010 00:29 (fourteen years ago) link
It's not my thing either and is not generally something I do on a first date (or third).
what the fuck is the bomb
i don't get off on it, jordan. i'm fine keeping everything where i can see it
― la senora (surm), Friday, 7 May 2010 00:29 (fourteen years ago) link
well sometimes i get off on it
― la senora (surm), Friday, 7 May 2010 00:30 (fourteen years ago) link
dislike receiving, mostly cool w/ giving
― a connecticut muffin in king arthur's flour (donna rouge), Friday, 7 May 2010 00:31 (fourteen years ago) link
orgasm is not necessary for every sexual encounter, like if you're just givin a quick bj
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Friday, 7 May 2010 00:57 (fourteen years ago) link
Good call, ever since Alfred put "parents" and "horndogs" in the same sentence.
Some of us have absolutely no firsthand opinions on being buttfucked.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 7 May 2010 01:45 (fourteen years ago) link
Morbs prefers an Ozu-like treatment of the sexual lives of parents ;)
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 7 May 2010 01:46 (fourteen years ago) link
I mean, I won't even put in contact lenses. xp
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 7 May 2010 01:50 (fourteen years ago) link
Two things I have not succeeded in putting in when I've tried: contact lenses; dick
― moderator requiem forum (The Reverend), Friday, 7 May 2010 02:53 (fourteen years ago) link
Sometimes I leave contacts in overnight.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Friday, 7 May 2010 02:53 (fourteen years ago) link
OH MY GOD
― amadeus bag (Stevie D), Friday, 7 May 2010 03:42 (fourteen years ago) link
what.
― y kant immanuel rite (Daruton), Friday, 7 May 2010 03:47 (fourteen years ago) link
I don't think that's a metaphor.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 7 May 2010 04:05 (fourteen years ago) link
lololol
― moderator requiem forum (The Reverend), Friday, 7 May 2010 04:07 (fourteen years ago) link
And now, classy entertainment.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c-irCTPjNrM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3LC7HviAxOs&NR=1
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 7 May 2010 04:12 (fourteen years ago) link
Sorry, we were talking about something other than contact lenses?
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Friday, 7 May 2010 04:13 (fourteen years ago) link
i'll give u tmi
http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash1/hs325.ash1/28396_542585582024_4302681_31833439_6155083_n.jpg
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Friday, 7 May 2010 07:46 (fourteen years ago) link
Hoping to God you don't leave it in overnight.
― amadeus bag (Stevie D), Friday, 7 May 2010 07:51 (fourteen years ago) link
ha ha, no, only the smaller one.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Friday, 7 May 2010 07:58 (fourteen years ago) link
You look nice with a bit of scruff, table.
OKC guy from a couple of months ago messaged me again and wants to get drinks. The last time he wanted to go see a play and I just really didn't feel like it and let it drop, but this time for whatever reason I said yes. Might be fun.
― y kant immanuel rite (Daruton), Friday, 7 May 2010 14:42 (fourteen years ago) link
Want list: pair of Levis 511 32x36 in jet black. Making do with gray for the time being.― queen frostine (Eric H.), Tuesday, March 23, 2010 1:29 PM (1 month ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
Caveat effing emptor. These things are way too tight!
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Friday, 7 May 2010 15:08 (fourteen years ago) link
They're 511's, they're supposed to be! PIC PLZ bet you look like a dashing hipster!
― amadeus bag (Stevie D), Friday, 7 May 2010 15:19 (fourteen years ago) link
I look like an awkward teen reluctantly dressing up for church.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Friday, 7 May 2010 15:27 (fourteen years ago) link
that's even more sexy
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Friday, 7 May 2010 20:21 (fourteen years ago) link
I'm sure I could snap a pic that would prove you all wrong.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Friday, 7 May 2010 20:34 (fourteen years ago) link
plz do
― amadeus bag (Stevie D), Friday, 7 May 2010 21:49 (fourteen years ago) link
dashing hipster is a breathtaking oxymoron tbh
however i also approve u showing us
― I thought "escargot" was a snail? (Matt P), Friday, 7 May 2010 21:51 (fourteen years ago) link
or just yr Boogie Nights shorts foto, again
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 7 May 2010 21:52 (fourteen years ago) link
Hi, gays, I just returned from the pool. What'd I miss -- is Eric going to strike a pose?
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 7 May 2010 21:59 (fourteen years ago) link
lol
― I thought "escargot" was a snail? (Matt P), Friday, 7 May 2010 22:00 (fourteen years ago) link
I'm very damp.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 7 May 2010 22:06 (fourteen years ago) link
ew
― I thought "escargot" was a snail? (Matt P), Friday, 7 May 2010 22:08 (fourteen years ago) link
Don't pretend y'awl don't have that shorts photo bookmarked.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Friday, 7 May 2010 23:36 (fourteen years ago) link
I had a thing with a guy just before Xmas that was basically me going to his house to watch campy films, laugh about stories in the newspapers and fool around. The last time I saw him we went to see a play and it was really weird, like we were an Actual Couple and I freaked out a bit and didn't return his last text. He never texted again and neither did I so I think it was a mutual udnerstanding that it wasn't going anywhere, but when I went to vote on Thursday he was sitting behind the desk at the polling station... so much awkwardness around. Let it be a lesson, boys, always break it off properly!
― boxedjoy, Saturday, 8 May 2010 11:32 (fourteen years ago) link
who are you? i like ur screename. i have multiple theories about boxed joy, especially insofar as it relates to jersey girls. it's just this weird thing i have, i could like write a dissertation on it.
― la senora (surm), Saturday, 8 May 2010 12:23 (fourteen years ago) link
boxed joy?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 8 May 2010 13:13 (fourteen years ago) link
I'm leaning towards either a case of soap or a vaginal euphamism.
Also, GUYS I DID COLLEGE AND I THINK I WON!!!
― amadeus bag (Stevie D), Saturday, 8 May 2010 13:15 (fourteen years ago) link
It is going to be v weird realizing that college students are younger than me.
― amadeus bag (Stevie D), Saturday, 8 May 2010 13:28 (fourteen years ago) link
^^^big adjustment, mentally. even though i'm only a year or two older than most of them, and going back to school in the fall, i feel weird/sketchy hitting on undergrads.
― Alex in Montreal, Saturday, 8 May 2010 18:16 (fourteen years ago) link
(not that it stops me)
I've never dated anyone older than me (i.e. I've always dated undergrads).
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 8 May 2010 18:19 (fourteen years ago) link
cant imagine dating somebody younger than me (the same age is a stretch) so it balances i guess
― plax (ico), Saturday, 8 May 2010 18:21 (fourteen years ago) link
Alfred is the Wooderson of So Fla.
http://affordablehousinginstitute.org/blogs/us/wp-content/uploads/imagesdazed-wooderson-small1.jpg
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 8 May 2010 18:58 (fourteen years ago) link
kinda hope hes less creepy tho
― plax (ico), Saturday, 8 May 2010 19:05 (fourteen years ago) link
I have "seen" people both older and younger than me. I don't think any of their ages shared a tens digit with mine tbh. OMG can we talk about biggest age difference or is that just Too Much for an internet message board?
― amadeus bag (Stevie D), Sunday, 9 May 2010 01:22 (fourteen years ago) link
Wait that's not true as of like a month ago.
― amadeus bag (Stevie D), Sunday, 9 May 2010 01:23 (fourteen years ago) link
the dude i'm seeing now is two years younger than me, and that's the biggest age difference either way that i've ever had
― J0rdan S., Sunday, 9 May 2010 01:24 (fourteen years ago) link
biggest age diff = 16 yrs (older)
― a connecticut muffin in king arthur's flour (donna rouge), Sunday, 9 May 2010 01:28 (fourteen years ago) link
younger - maybe like a year? i mostly trend towards guys a couple years older than me
― a connecticut muffin in king arthur's flour (donna rouge), Sunday, 9 May 2010 01:31 (fourteen years ago) link
Don't think I've gone outside of five years' diff.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Sunday, 9 May 2010 01:53 (fourteen years ago) link
biggest difference - 5 years older, that was with a womanz tho, i've tended to be into slightly older women and slightly younger guys for some reason
― el j debarge (The Reverend), Sunday, 9 May 2010 01:54 (fourteen years ago) link
my god but he's got longer hair
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 9 May 2010 02:39 (fourteen years ago) link
13 yrs older, and I was 19 so we skipped an ENTIRE TENS DIGIT!! but it was a month from my birthday and I just tell other people I was 20 so it doesn't creep out their heteronormative minds.
― amadeus bag (Stevie D), Sunday, 9 May 2010 03:58 (fourteen years ago) link
I don't see age. How old am I?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 9 May 2010 05:20 (fourteen years ago) link
u really wanna answer?
― plax (ico), Sunday, 9 May 2010 18:44 (fourteen years ago) link
I've always dated older guys. My first boyfriend was 27 and I was 18. My second boyfriend (who I am still with) was 27 and I was 20. The seven year difference felt huge at the time, and now that he is 45 and I'm 38 and we are still together it has softened somewhat, though standing on either side of 40 is a big psychological difference between us, I think. But lately I have, er, hooked up with some younger guys (20-22) in ways that were definitely mutual and definitely fun for both parties, and the heat of those experiences was certainly drawing on the generation gap power dynamic asit passed back and forth. I think that while it can lead to major fun in the bedroom, I honestly don't feel that I could have a 20 year old boyfriend as a 38 year old without it being pretty awkward. It would just be too weird. I guess Christopher Isherwood pulled it off with his partner, but it seems like an anomaly. But maybe that's conservative of me?
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Sunday, 9 May 2010 19:17 (fourteen years ago) link
i don't know how old he was, but i'd guess somewhere in his upper 50s. which would be more than twenty years. but he was in shape, and an architect, so...
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Sunday, 9 May 2010 20:28 (fourteen years ago) link
happy mother's day
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Sunday, 9 May 2010 20:47 (fourteen years ago) link
likewise!
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 10 May 2010 01:02 (fourteen years ago) link
Imagine the day when you are drinking w/ people who were born after your college graduation, eh?
I don't think I've gone more than 20 years older and 15 years younger. (This is "just sex.")
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 10 May 2010 01:21 (fourteen years ago) link
Tabes, your blonde hair reminds me of how fun it is to bleach your hair in the summer. I just dug up this old snap of me w blonde hair in yr honor (from a gun range in Kentucky):
http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1009/4595417425_8bffe12df3.jpg
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Monday, 10 May 2010 16:56 (fourteen years ago) link
i didn't think u could get any hotter but ok
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Monday, 10 May 2010 16:59 (fourteen years ago) link
i keep wanting to do mine blond but everyone says i'll look like eurotrash, which they're prolly right. and what about sideburns
I think bleach blonde hair is at it's best when it is three weeks grown out with super dark roots, that to me = punk. But when you do it the first time, you gotta but "blue-ing" in there or it turns out orange and kinda raunchy- you must suffer a bit and feel like your scalp is a frying pan or it's not really working.
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Monday, 10 May 2010 17:07 (fourteen years ago) link
i bleached my hair a bunch as a kid -- my parents were always participants too, weirdly enough
― J0rdan S., Monday, 10 May 2010 17:08 (fourteen years ago) link
waht?
wait what is blue-ing?
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Monday, 10 May 2010 17:10 (fourteen years ago) link
is it going to make my hair fall out?
"blue-ing" is like this extra creamy blue-ish white goo that you mix in during the bleaching process that counteracts the red/orange tints that are inside black and brown hair- ask yr hairstylist about it, of whoever works at a beauty supply store, they'll know the deal. It's the only way to get a white-blonde look.
And yeah, bleaching your hair fucks up and kills your hair and kind of hurts yr scalp. I've never heard that it is linked to baldness though, or root damage. But I'm no expert.
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Monday, 10 May 2010 17:13 (fourteen years ago) link
btw i'm using bleach as a synonym for "dying yellow" -- not actual bleach
― J0rdan S., Monday, 10 May 2010 17:14 (fourteen years ago) link
ok, i see. thank you, i really don't want orange hair :/
do u have more pictures of you with blond hair?
jordan i don't understand why u never told me that u have done this to yourself
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Monday, 10 May 2010 17:15 (fourteen years ago) link
haha idk -- i was, like, 11, A WHOLE DECADE AGO!
― J0rdan S., Monday, 10 May 2010 17:20 (fourteen years ago) link
http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3301/3502815906_fc9c23828b_o.jpgfor me blonde was just a short stage before getting my Smurf on
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Monday, 10 May 2010 17:20 (fourteen years ago) link
omg
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Monday, 10 May 2010 17:20 (fourteen years ago) link
dd, I hope you had Astroturf on the bed of that pickup you drove to the shootin' range.
I have never done anything w/ my hair.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 10 May 2010 17:32 (fourteen years ago) link
Just faded my sideburns, and I've dyed it a grand total of once in my life.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Monday, 10 May 2010 18:05 (fourteen years ago) link
have only cut it :)
― Tape Store, Monday, 10 May 2010 18:07 (fourteen years ago) link
and washed it!
One May exactly ten years ago a friend and I allowed a stoned girlfriend to dye our hair; she forgot to put the color in and my hair was henna-colored for five months. My horrified parents, with whom I still lived, insisted on a haircut. I looked like Eminem for a while, which made sense ("The Real Slim Shady" had just blown up).
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 10 May 2010 18:09 (fourteen years ago) link
gah, dr3w, thanks for those posts. that one of you at the gun range is just...gah, so hawt.
and yeah, bluing is really important after the first time.
um, gosh, guyz, lots of weird stuff going on here re: se4n. don't really want to talk about it, but i feel like i might've really fucked stuff up on saturday night, at least for a little while. kind of bummed about it, need a hug.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Monday, 10 May 2010 18:32 (fourteen years ago) link
i had pink and then purple hair in HS, haven't touched it since. don't really think i could pull off bleach-blonde.
― a connecticut muffin in king arthur's flour (donna rouge), Monday, 10 May 2010 19:30 (fourteen years ago) link
PINK!!!! maybe i should do pink ...
::hugs:: t3ddy. i think you guys will be totally fine, you just need to get thru the awkward phase
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Monday, 10 May 2010 19:35 (fourteen years ago) link
omg pink, this had never occurred to me b4
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Monday, 10 May 2010 19:37 (fourteen years ago) link
u would look good w/ pink hair i think.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Monday, 10 May 2010 19:41 (fourteen years ago) link
fuck i might actually
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Monday, 10 May 2010 19:45 (fourteen years ago) link
like smooth and satin-y pink, yknow?
YEA
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Monday, 10 May 2010 19:47 (fourteen years ago) link
like a Hostess Snowball
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 10 May 2010 20:07 (fourteen years ago) link
the only time my hair's been dyed was under duress at the hands of my highschool wrestling squad, who had all bleached their hair because ... who knows why. school spirit or something. predictably, they did a shitty job and my hair turned an awful coppery color.
since then i've not used anything stronger than lemon juice.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Monday, 10 May 2010 21:17 (fourteen years ago) link
god i love highschool
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Monday, 10 May 2010 21:18 (fourteen years ago) link
I'm so glad it's over.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 10 May 2010 21:18 (fourteen years ago) link
my patents were not amused by the bleach job, either, and acted as if it had been my idea.
god i hated highschool.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Monday, 10 May 2010 21:25 (fourteen years ago) link
who the hell loves HS? surm, were you a Heather?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 10 May 2010 21:37 (fourteen years ago) link
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Monday, May 10, 2010 7:45 PM (1 hour ago)
this shit is hard to keep up tho
― plax (ico), Monday, 10 May 2010 21:39 (fourteen years ago) link
I didn't have a bad time; my crew and I acquired a fair amount of respect by the time we reached senior year due to involvement in theatre and the literary magazine. But I wasn't out, and when I got to college I had no idea why contemporaries considered high school so awesome.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 10 May 2010 21:42 (fourteen years ago) link
I absolutely loved high school, and I was no Heather.
Because it wasn't junior high school.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Monday, 10 May 2010 21:44 (fourteen years ago) link
It was still possible to have a great time in H.S. without being out, too, btw.
That said, I wish I had been a little more out then, because I would've gotten a lot more ass.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Monday, 10 May 2010 21:45 (fourteen years ago) link
I went to boys Catholic school. Ass was everywhere: pimply, swollen, lanky, you name it.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 10 May 2010 21:45 (fourteen years ago) link
Swollen ass?
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Monday, 10 May 2010 21:46 (fourteen years ago) link
freshman yr = hatehatehate this shitsoph = eh this isn't so bad anymorejunior = ok i kinda hate it againsenior = HS ROOLZ
― a connecticut muffin in king arthur's flour (donna rouge), Monday, 10 May 2010 21:46 (fourteen years ago) link
Swollen ass = a consequence of puberty.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 10 May 2010 21:46 (fourteen years ago) link
9th = was still in junior high, but it wasn't quite as bad as 7th/8th10th = I finally feel like I fit in11th = don't remember much12th = HS ROOLZ
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Monday, 10 May 2010 21:47 (fourteen years ago) link
highschoolhttp://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g192/rrawn/highschool.jpg
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Monday, 10 May 2010 21:48 (fourteen years ago) link
In Catholic boys schools, I guess.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Monday, 10 May 2010 21:48 (fourteen years ago) link
omg, you WERE one of the Heathers!
Lots of filched unconsecrated communion wafers.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 10 May 2010 21:52 (fourteen years ago) link
high school was the best
― J0rdan S., Monday, 10 May 2010 23:32 (fourteen years ago) link
there's something about the innocence & mild rebellion & rush of initial independence of high school that can't be replicated
― J0rdan S., Monday, 10 May 2010 23:33 (fourteen years ago) link
i knew you'd understand
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Monday, 10 May 2010 23:35 (fourteen years ago) link
Oh I get that part, but it pales beside what succeeded it, and the sexual discoveries were forced and not, er, gay.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 10 May 2010 23:41 (fourteen years ago) link
i'm okay with having only masturbated all thru high school tbh -- sex in college has only been marginally better anyhow \(o_O)/
― J0rdan S., Monday, 10 May 2010 23:43 (fourteen years ago) link
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Monday, May 10, 2010 9:45 PM (2 hours ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
REALLY
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Monday, 10 May 2010 23:47 (fourteen years ago) link
hs is the worst and I still look at anyone who says they like it funny
― jagger edge (The Reverend), Monday, 10 May 2010 23:50 (fourteen years ago) link
then again I never developed anything remotely resembling social skills until I was about 19
― jagger edge (The Reverend), Monday, 10 May 2010 23:51 (fourteen years ago) link
yeah that might have something to do with it...
― J0rdan S., Monday, 10 May 2010 23:54 (fourteen years ago) link
Rev, were you nineteen when we met? You were totally cool!
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 10 May 2010 23:54 (fourteen years ago) link
20, I think? I was a v different person than I had been 2-3 years earlier at that point.
― jagger edge (The Reverend), Monday, 10 May 2010 23:56 (fourteen years ago) link
Yeah, definitely 20, cause I was just a couple months shy of my 21st when I got kicked out of the EMP bar.
I was v. much an angry, awkward, frustrated, nerdy teenager.
― jagger edge (The Reverend), Monday, 10 May 2010 23:58 (fourteen years ago) link
hs was a "best of times, worst of times" situation for me:
on the surface I was rocking: class president, had a diff. girlfriend every year, lotsa friends, in a band, doing a zine, part of the punk scene, plenty of fun shit going on
inside / in secret: closeted, doing lots of risky promiscuous stuff in public with strangers, lying to everyone, painful unrequited love for str8 friends and bandmates, clingy n depressive, homicidal/suicidal, a mess.
I'm glad I survived.
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Tuesday, 11 May 2010 00:03 (fourteen years ago) link
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 00:05 (fourteen years ago) link
i'm glad u survived, too. highschool you sounds like a very interesting person
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 00:06 (fourteen years ago) link
i was def v much in the closet and was scared of being outed but that didn't really hinder my experience in high school -- most of my straight guy friends weren't doing shit w/ girls until late in senior year anyway, so i didn't really have much pressure on me
i had tons of unrequited love for str8 friends, and even had subtle moves subtly rebutted, but in a weird way it kind of gave my life purpose -- like in a perverse way it was fun knowing that after we went swimming, i got to go home and masturbate to the thought of a circle jerk -- i kind of took the position of "i'll figure this out in college" & was cool w/ it
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 11 May 2010 00:08 (fourteen years ago) link
yeah the closet is awful but it also animates every interaction with this pressurized power that lends an unmistakeable, big erotic charge to mundane stuff.
I don't miss it, but I've been thinking about hs a lot because tomorrow I fly home to Louisville, KY to see all my old posse, and my highschool band is reforming to play a benefit concert for our friend who has bone cancer. It's going to be a major headfuck to sing those songs I wrote at 17 (love songs about other people in the band, mind you) after all those years. Weird! Awkward!
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Tuesday, 11 May 2010 00:21 (fourteen years ago) link
awesome, amazing. u'll learn a lot about yourself
/freud
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 00:28 (fourteen years ago) link
i was not "in the closet" but i was not like OUT either
You woulda loved my locker room after PE, surm. I can swear that I was too young to feel urges. I didn't kiss a boy until I was twenty-two.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 00:31 (fourteen years ago) link
i was 20
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 11 May 2010 00:32 (fourteen years ago) link
i first kissed a girl when i was 13
It was so romantic. We sat on the dirt. A rat the size of a tabby scurried over the pine needles.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 00:33 (fourteen years ago) link
i felt real pressure to kiss a girl just to say that i had kissed someone, but i never felt enough pressure to go any further just to say that i had
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 11 May 2010 00:34 (fourteen years ago) link
Well, with your looks you could have been.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 00:34 (fourteen years ago) link
which resulted in me being quite the heartbreaker in HS -- i feel like i should track these girls down so i can do the whole "no really, it really WAS me, not you" routine
ha!
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 11 May 2010 00:35 (fourteen years ago) link
Oh, attention all NYC gays: I might be in town the weekend after Memorial Day (first week of June). I'd love a FAP.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 00:35 (fourteen years ago) link
i used to kiss girls in like elementary school, bc i was really popular with them and i kind of figured why not. the other girls would tease me cuz i had a crush on this one girl, elizabeth ann ferree. she would write me letters about how much she liked me. my grandmother thought it was funny.
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 00:36 (fourteen years ago) link
first kissed a girl at 15, first kissed a guy at 21
― jagger edge (The Reverend), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 01:13 (fourteen years ago) link
My social skills were cultivated in drama club, sr year by getting riproaring drunk at the parties. Also, I wd chase girls when I was blasted.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 01:20 (fourteen years ago) link
I never even drank until I was 18
― jagger edge (The Reverend), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 01:25 (fourteen years ago) link
first kissed a girl at 13, first hookup with a guy at 16 (no kissin'), but I was straight-edge in hs
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Tuesday, 11 May 2010 01:25 (fourteen years ago) link
girls 13weed 15booze 16boys 20
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 11 May 2010 01:28 (fourteen years ago) link
kentucky boys don't kiss eh
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 01:28 (fourteen years ago) link
kentucky boys sound unimaginably hot
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 11 May 2010 01:29 (fourteen years ago) link
backwoods boys
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 01:30 (fourteen years ago) link
^^^^ awesome Hold Steady song title were Craig Finn queer.
haha
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 11 May 2010 01:31 (fourteen years ago) link
i didn't kiss a girl til i was a college sophomore, years after i came out. my bf was there. also there: alcohol.
― a connecticut muffin in king arthur's flour (donna rouge), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 02:31 (fourteen years ago) link
first time i ever got drunk-as-a-skunk (18) was in baltimore! (haven't been back since)
― a connecticut muffin in king arthur's flour (donna rouge), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 02:32 (fourteen years ago) link
girl: 15booze: 16weed: 18girl-in-question's new boyfriend at the time: 18 (in front of her and all our friends, in a bar, in an american pie 2 sort of situation. pretty passive aggressive of me, but i was heartbroken and/or closeted. she and I are still/now best friends now. <-- possibly the thing i am most ashamed of having done ever, re: sketchy motivations.)boys, without bullshit denial excuses: 21
― Alex in Montreal, Tuesday, 11 May 2010 03:13 (fourteen years ago) link
never smaeked wiid. i am so fucking square.
― jagger edge (The Reverend), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 03:21 (fourteen years ago) link
Never did girls. The other three within the same year or so.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 03:21 (fourteen years ago) link
tons of my friends here have never smoked weed before -- pretty weird to me tbh but almost everyone i knew in high school got high -- only a few were true stoners but -- it's pretty sweet, everyone should try it out a few times imo
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 11 May 2010 03:23 (fourteen years ago) link
i smoked a lot more in HS than in college or after
― a connecticut muffin in king arthur's flour (donna rouge), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 03:25 (fourteen years ago) link
(weed that is) (cigs = pretty much the opposite - i can actually count the # of cigs i've smoked in 2010 on one hand)
― a connecticut muffin in king arthur's flour (donna rouge), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 03:27 (fourteen years ago) link
Never smoked a cig. Ick.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 03:27 (fourteen years ago) link
i have & still do sometimes -- def a drunk chain smoker
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 11 May 2010 03:47 (fourteen years ago) link
no idea rev had never smoked
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 03:50 (fourteen years ago) link
def a drunk chaincocksmoker. fixed.
― Alex in Montreal, Tuesday, 11 May 2010 03:51 (fourteen years ago) link
feelin this post so much
― coining (Lamp), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 03:52 (fourteen years ago) link
never touched a cig either, do occasionally have a cigar or hookah tho
― jagger edge (The Reverend), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 04:58 (fourteen years ago) link
hookah makes me vomit for some reason -- like instantly
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 11 May 2010 05:02 (fourteen years ago) link
my friends all smoked hookah in high school & esp in this one chick's house we'd kick it in a back room & watch tv & play boggle & shit and they'd smoke the hookah for hours and i'd feel like i straight up couldn't breathe
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 11 May 2010 05:04 (fourteen years ago) link
gas chamber ish
idk i never got the appeal of feeling light headed? just kinda make me feel generally sick
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 11 May 2010 05:05 (fourteen years ago) link
i had a roommate who owned 2 hookahs, which we used fairly often. the smell is a little much for me these days, like whenever i walk by a hookah bar
― a connecticut muffin in king arthur's flour (donna rouge), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 05:15 (fourteen years ago) link
I kissed a boy before I kissed a girl. This is weird y/n?
― amadeus bag (Stevie D), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 05:28 (fourteen years ago) link
more like lucky
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 11 May 2010 05:30 (fourteen years ago) link
n! i said the same thing upthread xp
― joe scarborough and peoples (donna rouge), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 05:30 (fourteen years ago) link
bz: 18w: 19by: 19g: 22
― amadeus bag (Stevie D), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 05:31 (fourteen years ago) link
and the g was my lez friend and it was a total LOLment
I might be in town the weekend after Memorial Day (first week of June). I'd love a FAP.
Dammit Alfred, we'll miss each other by a couple of weeks! (Actually scratch that, just come up to Charleston again the second weekend of June or something.)
― Ned Raggett, Tuesday, 11 May 2010 05:49 (fourteen years ago) link
SD, that doesn't count. :) What things do you want to do in NY before NJT train fare goes up?
Next weekend is Bear Weekend.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 11:43 (fourteen years ago) link
Oh the fare has already gone up! I have two days left for my internship though, today and Thursday. Are we getting drinks thurs w/ j03 and surm? I might go to Dream House for a bit too but other than that have 0 planz.
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 12:11 (fourteen years ago) link
girl: 11 or 12?boy: 13 (bjs though, no kissing! :) probably didn't kiss until 21 lol)alcohol: 13weed: 14 (not counting the one time with my sister in 5th grade since I had no idea what was happening)
― Suddenly Snoozin' (lou), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 12:39 (fourteen years ago) link
finalizing travel plans for my california adventure!! so so joyfully excited, also a bit apprehensive (in a good way, i guess).
however -- the planning has taught me to never use a travel agent again. at least, not this one.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 13:54 (fourteen years ago) link
I thought the web has rendered travel agents largely irrelevant?
SD, I can meet you Thurs.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 14:01 (fourteen years ago) link
will be in SF from May 22nd to 27th fyi
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 14:07 (fourteen years ago) link
morbs, the trip is being paid for in part with a gift certificate to this particular travel agent (thx dad), so there's no way around it in this case.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 14:10 (fourteen years ago) link
Where should we meet? Julius? Pieces? Is there anywhere we haven't been worth going?
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 14:15 (fourteen years ago) link
travel agent lady is nice and all (family friend, does my dad's travel) but does not inspire confidence. last week she sent an email saying "i am so sleepy! i will check on hotel rates for you after i take a nap." sdjdjaskgkds
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 14:18 (fourteen years ago) link
Oh also guys I got my first grade back and it is an A in Senior Film Seminar, due in part to a paper I wrote entitled Wrapped In Lace: Depictions of Queer Characters and Sensibilities in 1930's Hollywood Cinema . lolcollege.
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 14:21 (fourteen years ago) link
travel agent missed her calling at the post office.
good work Steve! I will check the Thursday "calendars" but I'm not overly enthusiastic about many venues.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 14:29 (fourteen years ago) link
ok this travel bitch is fuckin with me right now. HEY please disclose all costs upfront and WTF are you deducting the value of my air miles from the gift certificate?! oh hell no.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 14:59 (fourteen years ago) link
never again with this nonsense.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 15:00 (fourteen years ago) link
sounds annoying!
donna, when are you done done w/ yr academic labors? I am undecided sbout whether to see A Star Is Born (again) this Sunday.
oh, Hedda Lettuce is showing a (crap?) Bette Davis movie this Thurs. (The Star)
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 17:38 (fourteen years ago) link
ok, hey boyz, this kind of got me thinking...
girlz: 13boyz: 13 (more sexually intense stuff w/ boyz: 14)cigs: 11w33d: 13
uh i feel like i was really precocious? or maybe i jsut started fucking my life up early. haha.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 18:32 (fourteen years ago) link
girls was like eleven, same for smoking and drinking, boys and weed were like 17. the missing six years were kinda rough except ecstasy was like 14/15(? i'd have to think about it)
― plax (ico), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 18:36 (fourteen years ago) link
too many mushr00ms and @cid b/w 18 and 21, tbqfh.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 18:40 (fourteen years ago) link
my first boyfriend was really handsome. i was seventeen and he was twenty. it ended on bad terms, but a while later i saw him at a bookstore. my best friend and i were leaving as he walked in with his 2 girlfriends. i noticed him and waitied a few seconds before i turned around and looked back. he looked back at the same exact time.
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 18:41 (fourteen years ago) link
o well, all in the past
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 18:44 (fourteen years ago) link
seems like another life now, actually
I was wrong, I did make out with a chick once, but it was only because of the booze.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 18:47 (fourteen years ago) link
i still make out with girls when i'm wasted or they're wasted, but they're always friends and it's always just lolz
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 18:49 (fourteen years ago) link
yeah made out with a girl-friend last year and it kinda made me queasy after
― plax (ico), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 18:51 (fourteen years ago) link
the last time i made out with a girl was 2 years ago? she's a pretty good friend of mine, but she's v in love with me & it prob wasn't right -- i was p drunk tho -- she ended up sleeping w/ my bff that night anyhow, so no harm really
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 11 May 2010 18:52 (fourteen years ago) link
Wife and spit swappin' on the banks of the MIssissippi.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 18:53 (fourteen years ago) link
the last time, my genderqueer friend johnny (bio female) was wasted and i was high on all the shr00m tea at a psychedelic kate bush party, and we made out for a few minutes. then i made out w/ my friend t0ny for a long time.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 18:54 (fourteen years ago) link
i don't really like making out all that much tbh
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 11 May 2010 18:58 (fourteen years ago) link
i find it boring
i'm bored now
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 11 May 2010 18:59 (fourteen years ago) link
rly i find it very exciting, if anything i sometimes find the other stuff boring. kissing has all the spark
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 19:00 (fourteen years ago) link
i'm a v good kisser
surm kinda semi-otm
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 19:01 (fourteen years ago) link
I like making out: it's easy and relatively painless if the guy isn't a slug. But I don't think it necessarily has to lead somewhere. Nine out of ten times I'll try to kiss you if you're even half cute.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 19:03 (fourteen years ago) link
btw, gays, I mentioned this last night, but I'll be in NYC first week of June. Would love to meet Stevie, surm, Morbs, and whoever else for a fun-packed FAP.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 19:08 (fourteen years ago) link
Yeah, I'm sort of with surm on this one too, though I guess I wouldn't say the other stuff is "boring," per se.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 19:12 (fourteen years ago) link
Al I would love a fun-packed FAP! Meeting for drinks would be nice, too (hyuck hyuck hyuck).
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 19:20 (fourteen years ago) link
table will u be around while i am in SF?
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 19:31 (fourteen years ago) link
well it's not BORING, but it's like, sometimes i don't need to go that far. like, really. just put on a movie and hold me and let's make out. call me molly ringwald but it's like really is that too much to ask for??!! all these boys these days, rim this, fuck that, i'm like calm down
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 19:31 (fourteen years ago) link
Some night you want to listen to Public Image Ltd, others you just want Charmbracelet.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 19:32 (fourteen years ago) link
Hey NYClx0rs, are you down for dinner on Thurs?? It could be really cute and adorable just like in First Wives Club. But then we'd have to eat in front of each other, and it might be inconvenient otherwise.
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 19:37 (fourteen years ago) link
i'm with molly ringwald on this, making out it fun and awesome. like, there are always more sexy shenanigans u can get up to but sometimes just being smoochy & intimate is the best thing in the whole wide world.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 19:39 (fourteen years ago) link
but then i am physiologically predisposed to cuddling so
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 19:41 (fourteen years ago) link
my friend affectionately calls him self a cuddleslut
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 19:42 (fourteen years ago) link
i call him a bitch
haha jk, i don't know why i said that
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 19:43 (fourteen years ago) link
HAHAHA coz it was pretty funny tbh.
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 19:43 (fourteen years ago) link
tbh the best make-out session i ever was fueled by pot brownies, yowza yowza
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 19:46 (fourteen years ago) link
Steve, we can't pick a bar, how can we pick a restaurant?
I've only seen the trailer for First Wives Club, but IT WON'T BE LIKE THAT.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 20:05 (fourteen years ago) link
http://images.eonline.com/eol_images/Articles/20071003/285.first.wives.100307.jpg
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 20:07 (fourteen years ago) link
Who's the blonde?
More importantly, who's Elizabeth Berkley?
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 20:09 (fourteen years ago) link
l-r: morbs, surm, steve
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 20:10 (fourteen years ago) link
who is SJP is the real question imo
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 20:11 (fourteen years ago) link
xp totally otm. I have actually started tapping my cheek and saying "Affection!" when I see my friends.
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 20:19 (fourteen years ago) link
u all know this is my favorite movie of all time right
i got stevie to watch it
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 20:21 (fourteen years ago) link
i can recite half the lines by heart, and i can recognize it on the tv by the music from 2 rooms away
we also have the score at home and play it sometimes on weekends. yup.
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 20:22 (fourteen years ago) link
o and the best part is it got a glowing review from the ny times when it came out! ha!
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 20:27 (fourteen years ago) link
I watched that farrago with my parents.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 20:28 (fourteen years ago) link
Watched it with my sister. I was an employee at the movie theater at the time.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 20:33 (fourteen years ago) link
i mean, talk about an all-star cast: goldie, bette, diane, sarah jessica, elizabeth b, maggie smith, heather locklear and stockard channing. wahhht
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 20:36 (fourteen years ago) link
surm, you may get better but you'll never be well. Irene Dunne and Jean Arthur are spinning in their mausoleums.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 20:39 (fourteen years ago) link
The movie doesn't even have camp value. The jokes were better in 9 to 5, and that's saying a lot cuz that one's embarrassing too.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 20:54 (fourteen years ago) link
i hardly know what "camp" is anymore, and i hesitate to use it as a one-line descriptor for anything in an effort to lend it sense or validity. what i do know is that FWC is exceedingly well-written, acted and directed, and above all, hilarious.
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 20:58 (fourteen years ago) link
but yeah, basically, "camp," "irony" and "tongue-in-cheek" can all suck my balls
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 21:00 (fourteen years ago) link
It'd really just rather make out and cuddle with you.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 21:01 (fourteen years ago) link
Make out this, cuddle that, I'm like calm down.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 21:12 (fourteen years ago) link
Guys I have to tell you bout what is probably the gayest moment of my life that occured the other day when my friend Sally parked on a side street so I could run into the liquor store. I was laughing and running to her car w/ two plastic bags of booze in my hands and I felt just like/pretended I was Madonna running down the hall with suitcases in the "Justify My Love" video which made me laugh even harder, and it just looked absolutely ridiculous. She was like half a block away too.
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 21:35 (fourteen years ago) link
i <3 u so much
― plax (ico), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 21:38 (fourteen years ago) link
yea you're cute
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 21:39 (fourteen years ago) link
I was sure FWC must've been perpetrated by that Nancy Meyers, but no, it was from the creator of "WKRAP in Cincinnati."
Let's force surm to see the restored Metropolis.
http://cache.io9.com/assets/resources/2007/12/metropolis1.jpg
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 21:47 (fourteen years ago) link
God I want to see that. I bet he would enjoy many aspects of it.
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 21:53 (fourteen years ago) link
i'm fond of this child
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bxDlC7YV5is&feature=player_embedded
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 11 May 2010 22:41 (fourteen years ago) link
oh elmo, hey, yeah, i will be here! let's meet up somewhere for drinks or dinner... you'll be around for High Fantasy, the best acid techno/90s pop house/faggot night in the city. at the infamous Aunt Charlies.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 22:46 (fourteen years ago) link
holy fuck
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 22:47 (fourteen years ago) link
jordan that almost made me cry. his voice, the presentation - the sell! and ROFFFFFFL at the girls behind him, their expressions -- that blond!
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 22:48 (fourteen years ago) link
see i need friends like that kid.
j0rdan, just wait a couple years and he can be all yours.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 22:48 (fourteen years ago) link
yeah seriously, the girls are almost literally melting
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 11 May 2010 22:49 (fourteen years ago) link
he's too beieber in the face
i'm glad i only see my gaga friends only once every couple of weeks. i'm really fucking tired of the whole 'OMG GAGA IS SO QUEER OMG OMG' when really she's just really good at selling herself.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 22:49 (fourteen years ago) link
i mean she does donate money to worthwhile lgbtq youth advocacy groups, which is dope, but really, i'm over it.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 22:50 (fourteen years ago) link
yea but there's a difference btw gaga fans that are all "omg gaga is so queer and gaga is so interesting" and gaga fans that are just like "i really like her songs"
big difference
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 22:50 (fourteen years ago) link
he's too tender in the face.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 22:50 (fourteen years ago) link
he's fucking hot.
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 22:51 (fourteen years ago) link
I mean why couldn't he have played Joanna Newsom like every other indie kid.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 22:54 (fourteen years ago) link
lol one girl literally had her hand over her mouth at the end of the performance. and the blond kept looking over at her friend like "whaaaaa"
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Tuesday, 11 May 2010 22:57 (fourteen years ago) link
this is seriously my favorite video ever
― J0rdan S., Tuesday, 11 May 2010 23:05 (fourteen years ago) link
the cute blond popular boy who was a year above me at Vassar just emailed on manhunt asking if i wanted to bottom for him and his boyfriend.
i knew him like 7 years ago. he like didn't realize it was me.
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 00:09 (fourteen years ago) link
surm is super-otm about making out. (unfort. I usually have no one to make out with tho) u_u
― jagger edge (The Reverend), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 01:21 (fourteen years ago) link
jagged edge was a really good movie
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 01:24 (fourteen years ago) link
I didn't know there was a movie called Jagged Edge. I was referencing the r&b group.
― jagger edge (The Reverend), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 01:31 (fourteen years ago) link
rly? yea it's with glenn close . . . it's good
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 01:31 (fourteen years ago) link
Jeff Bridges in that movie = rowr
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 01:38 (fourteen years ago) link
what's the deal with this newsweek article
has ILX already talked about it? does anyone give a fuck? does anyone agree with him?
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 02:49 (fourteen years ago) link
which
― J0rdan S., Wednesday, 12 May 2010 02:50 (fourteen years ago) link
http://artsbeat.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/05/11/glee-co-creator-seeks-boycott-of-newsweek-after-article-criticizes-gay-actors/?src=mv
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 02:51 (fourteen years ago) link
the actual article: http://www.newsweek.com/id/236999
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 02:52 (fourteen years ago) link
the main prob with that article he doesn't even attempt to name an example of a gay actor who played straight well -- i'm perfectly willing to believe that sean hayes & glee dude suck at their roles -- also the wording - "is he compensating for being gay?" - was prob unfortunate
― J0rdan S., Wednesday, 12 May 2010 03:02 (fourteen years ago) link
lol yeah
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 03:03 (fourteen years ago) link
The headline blurb that gay actors playing straight "never" works is insane, but I am unsurprised that the guy wasn't convinced by Sean Hayes playing a Jack Lemmon/Jerry Orbach role. This is mostly a "media personality" issue, not an acting issue. (I know of that Jonathan Groff cutie but have never seen him in anything, and had no idea he was "openly gay" cuz I don't read many interviews/PR.)
But I will continue to not read Newsweek.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 03:09 (fourteen years ago) link
yeah jonathan groff could get it
― J0rdan S., Wednesday, 12 May 2010 03:12 (fourteen years ago) link
The article is shockingly stupid. That's pretty much all there is to say.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 03:22 (fourteen years ago) link
Nathan Lane can still play straight parts bcz a very small % of the sudience says "He could get it."
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 03:23 (fourteen years ago) link
that article is pretty offensively bad
anyway, hi gayz! i graduated today. my grad ceremony concluded with a full-band cover of "let the beat build"
― joe scarborough and peoples (donna rouge), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 03:50 (fourteen years ago) link
and was opened with a dance piece scored to a steve reich composition, in which nearly all the male dancers were fiiiiine
I think "gay" here is more media personality, as someone mentioned above. Rock Hudson was a hardcore homo and he played the man every man wanted to be but couldn't because their parents sent them away to a special sports camp that really did more harm than good, honestly.
― Spectrum, Wednesday, 12 May 2010 03:52 (fourteen years ago) link
Male dancers? Where did you graduate from again?
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 03:52 (fourteen years ago) link
god i love rock hudson. my aunt interviewed him
congratulations donna!!
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 03:54 (fourteen years ago) link
wow dr! they only gave me Daniel P Moynihan.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 04:28 (fourteen years ago) link
ok so now i'm talking to this guy i went to school with who MH msg'd me
turns out his boyfriend has been talking to my boyfriend on MH, who told me this b4 anyway but it's just funny
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 06:18 (fourteen years ago) link
this will be the downfall of your generation
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 11:47 (fourteen years ago) link
Nah, open relationships are trailblazers.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 12:33 (fourteen years ago) link
OK, didn't realize Newsweek article was written by the same self-loathing headcase who argued last year that femme gays shouldn't be on TV, just the butch ones.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 13:49 (fourteen years ago) link
There are butch gays on TV???
I didn't mean open relationships, I meant IMing with ppl who otherwise would be gone from one's life.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 13:53 (fourteen years ago) link
De Rossi and Harris do that on TV, but they also inhabit broad caricatures, not realistic characters likes the ones in Up in the Air De Rossi and Harris do that on TV, but they also inhabit broad caricatures, not realistic characters likes the ones in Up in the Air De Rossi and Harris do that on TV, but they also inhabit broad caricatures, not realistic characters likes the ones in Up in the Air De Rossi and Harris do that on TV, but they also inhabit broad caricatures, not realistic characters likes the ones in Up in the Air
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 14:00 (fourteen years ago) link
That the guy has bad taste in movies is pretty self-evident.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 14:13 (fourteen years ago) link
Hi. My name is Hywel Bennett. I am a Welsh actor. In the late 1960s/early 1970s, I starred in such films as The Family Way, Twisted Nerve, The Virgin Soldiers , and the penis transplant comedy Percy.
http://img43.imageshack.us/img43/6585/twistednervecg06tn.png
Here's what I look like all wet.
http://img179.imageshack.us/img179/5598/ndvd012copy.jpg
And shaving with the boys.
http://i276.photobucket.com/albums/kk39/personcult/The-Virgin-Soldiers/The-Virgin-Soldiers06.jpg
Today I look exactly like Oliver Reed.
― Kevin John Bozelka, Wednesday, 12 May 2010 16:27 (fourteen years ago) link
Looks like a cornflake-fed Alain Delon.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 17:53 (fourteen years ago) link
I saw The Family Way.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 18:31 (fourteen years ago) link
for which Paul McCartney wrote the score!
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 18:31 (fourteen years ago) link
Oh, and happy birthday to Jesse, tho I'm not sure how often he checks these threads these days.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Wednesday, 12 May 2010 23:54 (fourteen years ago) link
So listen, there is my friend Austin, and he thinks I am hot'n'stuff and wants to Do Things and he is way awesome and super-adorable but is simply not "my type", but I drank a 4Loko and we made out (like 4Times) and I am like uh ohhhhh what do I do now
http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc3/hs437.snc3/25143_994080682269_8845808_53320284_3364319_n.jpg
also I am still wasted.
also also where are we all meeting tomorrow?
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Thursday, 13 May 2010 06:16 (fourteen years ago) link
you're in charge! I don't know who else is free. Are you sure you're in "condition"?
(Don't forget you can't text me)
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 13 May 2010 11:55 (fourteen years ago) link
Morbs I am ALWAYS in "condition".
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Thursday, 13 May 2010 13:11 (fourteen years ago) link
what do you folks know about LA? the first few days of our california trip will be spent there, but tbh the very idea of LA makes me a bit nervous. d & I will be staying with his friend from college, who I expect will help direct us to sites of interest, but any additional info would help.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 13 May 2010 14:07 (fourteen years ago) link
I've always wanted to go to this place called Splash, have you guys heard of it?
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Thursday, 13 May 2010 15:08 (fourteen years ago) link
The first gay bar I ever hit was called Splash. Now it's a straight strip club.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 13 May 2010 15:12 (fourteen years ago) link
the first gay bar I went to was called pulse, but has since been renamed splash.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 13 May 2010 15:17 (fourteen years ago) link
I haven't been in Splash for eons, hated it. :) The kinda place with go-go boys in onstage 'showers' and Liza likely to pop in at 1 a.m. OTOH, it's near the new gay SPORTS BAR! There's always Brooklyn, or The Eagle? Do you want to meet at Pieces, then improvise?
I guess donna rouge is recovering from some post grad bacchanal, or already looking for work?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 13 May 2010 15:23 (fourteen years ago) link
Oh I was just kidding about Splash, I feel like it's the go-to spot for hateful, prissy queens and way overpriced drinks, two thinks I dislike very, very much. I've always wanted to go to Nowhere but does that have tables like Julius or Pieces do? Does the Eagle?
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Thursday, 13 May 2010 15:33 (fourteen years ago) link
Nowhere has a few small tables, I recall. And some sort of couch in the back.
I forgot that the Eagle doesn't open til 10, and it's dress code night.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 13 May 2010 15:47 (fourteen years ago) link
http://www.eaglenyc.com/images/code_solo.jpg
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Thursday, 13 May 2010 16:12 (fourteen years ago) link
I am wearing jeans and could perhaps take my shirt off. This might be worth it for the lol.
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Thursday, 13 May 2010 16:13 (fourteen years ago) link
will remember to wear leather cologne if I ever go there
― i am giving you the viking of compliments (The Reverend), Thursday, 13 May 2010 16:14 (fourteen years ago) link
tbh, I'm not sure you could drag me into a bar called the "Eagle" on leather night, even if you had me on a leash (a studded, leather leash). at the very least, I think my skin would divulge itself of my skeleton and run the other direction
― i am giving you the viking of compliments (The Reverend), Thursday, 13 May 2010 16:16 (fourteen years ago) link
I'll wear fetish aftershave.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, 13 May 2010 16:20 (fourteen years ago) link
hey elmo, when are you here again?
also, hey gayz, i received official confirmation today that a story of mine is going to be featured in the Best New Gay Erotica 2011!!!
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Thursday, 13 May 2010 17:18 (fourteen years ago) link
Whoa that is awesome!! What is it about?
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Thursday, 13 May 2010 17:35 (fourteen years ago) link
"code" lol
table, should get in town on the 22nd, fly out the 27th.
the travel preparation manic episode is setting in. checklists have been made.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 13 May 2010 17:45 (fourteen years ago) link
p.s. congrats on being erotically anthologized!
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Thursday, 13 May 2010 17:54 (fourteen years ago) link
the story is about internet pornography communities and intimacy in the age of technology...but it has a lot of dick and masturbation in it too. there's one video that it focuses on, namely this one: http://video2.xtube.com/watch.php?v_user_id=r0bb1e&idx=8&v=YiB80_C823_&cl=csrwB_C823_&from=&ver=3&ccaa=1&qid=&qidx=&qnum=&preview_flag= .
uh, yeah.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Thursday, 13 May 2010 17:59 (fourteen years ago) link
obviously NSFW.
but anyway, elmo, that's awesome, i'll definitely be around up here. message me on fb and we can exchange info and meet up!
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Thursday, 13 May 2010 18:00 (fourteen years ago) link
hey, look where i'm going this weekend for a queer/punk land party: http://shastaroute.railfan.net/Cards/Bk_Butte.jpg
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Thursday, 13 May 2010 19:31 (fourteen years ago) link
looks awesome
― i am giving you the viking of compliments (The Reverend), Thursday, 13 May 2010 19:43 (fourteen years ago) link
hey, look where i'm going this weekend for a queer/punk LAN party
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Thursday, 13 May 2010 19:46 (fourteen years ago) link
Brokepunk Mountain
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 13 May 2010 19:57 (fourteen years ago) link
OK I think we should all meet at Nowhere. Tabes, Al, Rev, J0rd, and T, you can get to the bar from JFK or LaGuardia entirely by train, but you only have about 3 or 4 hours so do make haste.
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Thursday, 13 May 2010 19:57 (fourteen years ago) link
what time?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 13 May 2010 20:11 (fourteen years ago) link
When's best for you? I want to stop by Dream House for a bit so maybe like 7:30 or 8?
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Thursday, 13 May 2010 20:14 (fourteen years ago) link
ok. i'll go to the library and eat.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 13 May 2010 20:15 (fourteen years ago) link
you should stop by a nice restaurant and check out some books while you're at it.
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Thursday, 13 May 2010 20:18 (fourteen years ago) link
that too
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 13 May 2010 20:28 (fourteen years ago) link
also, Nowhere might be rather dead that early.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 13 May 2010 20:36 (fourteen years ago) link
(not that I'm looking for life)
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 13 May 2010 20:37 (fourteen years ago) link
woke up to find a yo-yo in my bag :D
in a related story, i am going to pretend that what happened post-phoenix last night didn't happen
― joe scarborough and peoples (donna rouge), Friday, 14 May 2010 15:52 (fourteen years ago) link
ok now you HAVE to tell what happened
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Friday, 14 May 2010 15:56 (fourteen years ago) link
yes, why dontcha?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 14 May 2010 16:10 (fourteen years ago) link
didnt get to bed til 1:30, not partic smart of me.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 14 May 2010 16:14 (fourteen years ago) link
Did you make it with the singer?
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 14 May 2010 16:14 (fourteen years ago) link
hah, not THAT phoenix. tho that would've been something.
all i'm gonna say is that i can't actually pretend to forget last night because traces of it will be on my neck for the next coupla days >:(
― joe scarborough and peoples (donna rouge), Friday, 14 May 2010 16:25 (fourteen years ago) link
http://www.stevestenzel.com/photos/redlickmarks.jpg
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 14 May 2010 16:27 (fourteen years ago) link
damn you found my manhunt profile
― joe scarborough and peoples (donna rouge), Friday, 14 May 2010 16:29 (fourteen years ago) link
good goin j0e, i have to rub bacon on my neck to get that level of attention.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 14 May 2010 17:54 (fourteen years ago) link
So you let someone beat you?
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Friday, 14 May 2010 18:01 (fourteen years ago) link
Guys something just happened
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Saturday, 15 May 2010 05:53 (fourteen years ago) link
oh?
― joe scarborough and peoples (donna rouge), Saturday, 15 May 2010 06:19 (fourteen years ago) link
is vagueness the new emo?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 15 May 2010 14:01 (fourteen years ago) link
Bah it was just a thing that happened with my friend + his friend and I'm just not sure what's going to happen next.
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Saturday, 15 May 2010 15:05 (fourteen years ago) link
xpost lol!!!!
― Kevin John Bozelka, Saturday, 15 May 2010 18:26 (fourteen years ago) link
Well I mean it was a "thing" that happened with my friend + his friend at the same time.
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Sunday, 16 May 2010 17:02 (fourteen years ago) link
this sounds like a pretty hot thing
― plax (ico), Sunday, 16 May 2010 17:27 (fourteen years ago) link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d2x1PQgfUhk
― Kevin John Bozelka, Sunday, 16 May 2010 17:39 (fourteen years ago) link
Oh it was pretty awesome and everything, but to me it was sort of a one time thing, and to others I think they think doors have opened up and that things can happen again in the future but I do not really want this.
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Sunday, 16 May 2010 18:21 (fourteen years ago) link
But I do now own a green handkerchief. What does this make me?
Threesomes are awesome. I need another one soon.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 16 May 2010 20:41 (fourteen years ago) link
just checked in to a hotel in little tokyo in LA featuring advanced asian toilet technology. refreshing stream A+ imo
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Sunday, 16 May 2010 22:33 (fourteen years ago) link
Soto, I so know where your screen nane comes from! Got the same spam.
― Kevin John Bozelka, Sunday, 16 May 2010 23:39 (fourteen years ago) link
J0e and morbs do you remember that girl I was talking about that was weirdly tan and a gross ruffly top and put things in her weirdly prominent boobs?
http://hphotos-snc3.fbcdn.net/hs545.snc3/29845_10100103464069059_8845808_53624698_2957081_n.jpg
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Monday, 17 May 2010 02:56 (fourteen years ago) link
weirdly tan = latina???
dude behind her is way more "weirdly tan"
― The Reverend, Monday, 17 May 2010 03:02 (fourteen years ago) link
The flash in the pic is not v true to life but IRL she was like deliberately tan.
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Monday, 17 May 2010 03:26 (fourteen years ago) link
http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3369/4613548658_3947c50294_o.jpgproof that my sweaty kentucky weekend actually happened: rocking out with my old highschool hardcore bros
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Monday, 17 May 2010 05:16 (fourteen years ago) link
that looks like so much fun!
queer punk land party was amazing. lots of great people, working on awesome farm-type projects, sex in the woods, views of mount shasta, great bands, intense amounts of drinking...and hey, se4n and i talked, and though we weren't ever not good friends, we're good friends on good terms again. lots of specific things said, but in the end, we did a long hug. so, feeling pretty good about stuff right now.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Monday, 17 May 2010 18:18 (fourteen years ago) link
oh also, dr3w, speaking of hardcore and metal, one of the bands that played this weekend: http://www.myspace.com/thespeedofdarkness .
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Monday, 17 May 2010 18:41 (fourteen years ago) link
tabes, thx for the Vaginal Davis alert, I think I'm going to the show on Wednesday.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 17 May 2010 19:26 (fourteen years ago) link
YEAH DO IT. i'm so jelly.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Monday, 17 May 2010 19:44 (fourteen years ago) link
i'm going to see the new stuff from these people on wednesday: http://www.youngcreature.net/2009/05/lovewarz.html
(it's a date with the boy in the last video. think i've talked about him before?)
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Monday, 17 May 2010 19:47 (fourteen years ago) link
saw (and loved!) 'times square' tonight as part of the monthly queer/art/film series at the IFC center. the producers apparently excised a scene where nicky and pammy actually kiss
also the hosts showed trailers for films that they wanted to show but for which they couldn't locate a print, including this '70s schlock-sploitation curio (KJB have you seen this?):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AlHxg2UzCag
― joe scarborough and peoples (donna rouge), Tuesday, 18 May 2010 05:24 (fourteen years ago) link
Ha! I've known of that film ever since i was a little kid but never managed to see it. It stars Rula Lenska, though, so I should probably get on it.
― Kevin John Bozelka, Tuesday, 18 May 2010 07:01 (fourteen years ago) link
Yo Tabes, Screaming Females are playing June 3 at Thee Parkside and June 4 at Hemlock Tavern, you haaaave to go.
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Tuesday, 18 May 2010 13:43 (fourteen years ago) link
Also, gays, is it unreasonable to assume that most everyone knows about the Stonewall riots? Coz I was having a conversation with two pretty intelligent (straight) people last night and neither of them knew what it was (one recalled it after I explained but didn't remember the name).
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Tuesday, 18 May 2010 14:18 (fourteen years ago) link
I know lots of gays who didn't know about them.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 18 May 2010 14:22 (fourteen years ago) link
Also: happy birthday, surm!
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 18 May 2010 14:23 (fourteen years ago) link
not too surprising, stevie. hell, most people in nyc didn't even know it was happening at the time and i'd bet lots of (esp. young) homos don't know about it at all.
― joe scarborough and peoples (donna rouge), Tuesday, 18 May 2010 15:06 (fourteen years ago) link
Just showed a screener of the Stonewall doc to a gay who didn't know anything about them.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Tuesday, 18 May 2010 15:43 (fourteen years ago) link
fwiw, I'd never heard of them until I started reading lots of stuff about gay rights
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 18 May 2010 16:02 (fourteen years ago) link
for some reason, i find this whole 'not knowing about stonewall' thing incredibly crazy. it's like not knowing about the 'i have a dream' speech, imho.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Tuesday, 18 May 2010 16:34 (fourteen years ago) link
they only teach one of those in school iirc
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 18 May 2010 16:36 (fourteen years ago) link
xp tabes I feel the same way until I realize that we are both A) gay and not only that but B) super-immersed in the history of it all; wd be so rich if I had $1 for every book I read/paper I wrote/class I took on queer theory or representations of gay men or whatever.
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Tuesday, 18 May 2010 16:40 (fourteen years ago) link
i don't know about this
― jonathan blapelbon (J0rdan S.), Tuesday, 18 May 2010 16:43 (fourteen years ago) link
I learned about Stonewall on my own; not once was it mentioned in college courses.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 18 May 2010 16:46 (fourteen years ago) link
I did too but only from my super-liberal unitarian friend who knew bout all that stuff and wd constantly be all YOU'RE GAY, HOW DO YOU NOT KNOW THESE THINGS??
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Tuesday, 18 May 2010 16:50 (fourteen years ago) link
WARNING SELF-PROMOTION ALERT: get your gay history fix here!
http://www.lib.berkeley.edu/MRC/pacificalgbt/pacificalgbt2.html
― joe scarborough and peoples (donna rouge), Tuesday, 18 May 2010 16:52 (fourteen years ago) link
even the queer theory stuff I read is mostly about the intersections of race & sexuality, and for all sorts of unfortunate reasons this tends to be very seperated from white gay history
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 18 May 2010 17:05 (fourteen years ago) link
I mean, I'VE known about Stonewall since I was a teen. But its somewhere below the Teapot Dome scandal in most US history classes, mo doubt.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Tuesday, 18 May 2010 17:05 (fourteen years ago) link
No doubt.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Tuesday, 18 May 2010 17:06 (fourteen years ago) link
lol two weeks ago i accidentally referred to stonewall as 'stonehenge' in a class presentation and no one said anything
― Tape Store, Tuesday, 18 May 2010 17:07 (fourteen years ago) link
mo doubt, mo problems
― The Reverend, Tuesday, 18 May 2010 17:09 (fourteen years ago) link
where did the Teapot Dome riots take place?
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 18 May 2010 17:10 (fourteen years ago) link
i mean, stuff was always mentioned peripherally in classes...in my public middle school, i remember it being mentioned by name but not really talked about.
and this ain't bragging, it's more just my own life story, but i think that some of my shock comes from the fact that i was so immersed in this history from the time i was young, being a 12-year-old punk kid who was lucky enough to grow up being friends with people like the guyz from Limpwrist, as well as literary types who gave me Ginsberg and Frank O'Hara books and whatnot. i don't judge people who don't know about this history, but i definitely find it a little sad and weird that it isn't more well-known. that said, i'm sure that 'Milk' did raise the profile of the early gay-rights movement for a lot of people, for better or for worse. (i only add that caveat b/c that film is just eh, and b/c of other issues that surrounded my own viewing of it that i've talked about before).
anyway, i need to finish writing this article on Azari & III:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mWfNvPqKRJ0
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Tuesday, 18 May 2010 17:19 (fourteen years ago) link
Does this work better than pinot grigio and Teddy Pendergrass?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 18 May 2010 18:51 (fourteen years ago) link
Oh yeah, and his boyfriend was there too.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Tuesday, 18 May 2010 19:22 (fourteen years ago) link
So I just graduated college, and then got fired from my job about 20 minutes after (they actually called me DURING THE CEREMONY to tell me)
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Wednesday, 19 May 2010 14:36 (fourteen years ago) link
very yin and yang. Was it something you didn't want to be fired from?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 19 May 2010 15:30 (fourteen years ago) link
Yes. Oh yes. It was the one thing I was depending on after college to pay rent and save a few $$$s up to move to another city (where I could transfer locations). It's difficult to explain how enormously this has fucked me over.
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Wednesday, 19 May 2010 16:45 (fourteen years ago) link
Shit, I'm really, really sorry Stevie.
― lol dope (Tape Store), Wednesday, 19 May 2010 16:53 (fourteen years ago) link
bah it's ok. I'm sure that something nicer will come out of it and it's one of those "blessings in disguise" things. But in the mean time I'm just like, oh my god, for real? It was the dumbest thing, too; it basically amounted to me giving someone too much of a free sample (which we're allowed to/encouraged to do)
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Wednesday, 19 May 2010 16:55 (fourteen years ago) link
I work[ed] at Wh0le F00dz by the by. R.I.P $12/hr wages and a 20% discount and some of the coolest raddest co-workers of all time :/
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Wednesday, 19 May 2010 17:00 (fourteen years ago) link
aw man, that sucks. sorry dude :/
if it's any consolation, yr grace jones picture is hanging on my wall (or is trying to, the tape i'm using to secure it isn't strong enough and i keep waking up with grace's face in my lap (ahem))
― joe scarborough and peoples (donna rouge), Wednesday, 19 May 2010 17:05 (fourteen years ago) link
sorry Steve, but go sniff out some more money, pronto
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 19 May 2010 17:45 (fourteen years ago) link
i'm sorry too. may love be with you.
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Wednesday, 19 May 2010 17:47 (fourteen years ago) link
Oh I'm already working on my resume and hope to be sending it out to places by the end of the day. On the bright side I get to sort of relax a bit after graduation! So this is sort of somewhat nice on some level.
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Wednesday, 19 May 2010 18:10 (fourteen years ago) link
shit, that sucks. good luck finding something.
and if it makes you feel any better, i've almost given up on finding a job of any sort. thinking of setting up my typewriter outside of ritzy places and being one of those d-bags who writes poems for money. or doing medical studies.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Wednesday, 19 May 2010 18:46 (fourteen years ago) link
There's always hooking. (Jokes aside, that does suck, and get that resume up to date immediately!)
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Wednesday, 19 May 2010 18:49 (fourteen years ago) link
On a happier note I've decided I'm going to make a tomato pie and maybe invite some crust punks over and listen to Rites of Spring and dissect capitalism.
― (Rice Dream) (Stevie D), Wednesday, 19 May 2010 18:52 (fourteen years ago) link
there's a dude in nyc who does that 'writes poems for money' thing, he sets up a table inside various subway stations and advertises as a "new york times published poet". he looks increasingly haggard every time i see him
i just sent a job app in, hoping against hope i get this one
― joe scarborough and peoples (donna rouge), Wednesday, 19 May 2010 19:27 (fourteen years ago) link
u are smart, devoted and worthy, just fyi
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Wednesday, 19 May 2010 20:01 (fourteen years ago) link
i am supposed to meet up with a member of gravy train!!! for a date right now, but he ain't txtin me back, the bitch. :(
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Thursday, 20 May 2010 00:13 (fourteen years ago) link
eh, whatever. i'm off work, drink time.
that subway poet has been around at least 20 years.
I was home today w/ a chest cold, sucks. No Vaginal Davis tonight.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 20 May 2010 00:44 (fourteen years ago) link
man, everyone's sick. and i have to report for jury duty at 8:30am. (almost wrote 'judy duty'. i wish.)
― joe scarborough and peoples (donna rouge), Thursday, 20 May 2010 01:06 (fourteen years ago) link
showbiz aspiarants, lose your Gay Voice!
http://gawker.com/5542923/want-to-get-rid-of-your-gay-accent-theres-an-app-for-that
(Commenters otm on Vincent Price and Snagglepuss.)
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 20 May 2010 02:36 (fourteen years ago) link
spent 3 nights in LA, 2 in Santa Barbara, 1 in Oakland and 5 in SF starting tonight. loving it.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Sunday, 23 May 2010 02:56 (thirteen years ago) link
too late for this now but LA gay bars = all about gold coast imo
― joe scarborough and peoples (donna rouge), Sunday, 23 May 2010 06:52 (thirteen years ago) link
rev, u read this book?
http://www.amazon.com/Disidentifications-Performance-Politics-Cultural-Americas/dp/0816630151
― plax (ico), Sunday, 23 May 2010 20:51 (thirteen years ago) link
no, but it looks v interesting and thank u for pointing me to it!
― The Reverend, Sunday, 23 May 2010 21:24 (thirteen years ago) link
hi
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Sunday, 23 May 2010 23:05 (thirteen years ago) link
hi surm! ^_^
― The Reverend, Sunday, 23 May 2010 23:09 (thirteen years ago) link
:D u seem in good spirits today reverend
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Sunday, 23 May 2010 23:23 (thirteen years ago) link
He's done himself proud on a couple of the music threads.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 23 May 2010 23:33 (thirteen years ago) link
too late for this now but LA gay bars = all about gold coast imo― joe scarborough and peoples (donna rouge), Sunday, 23 May 2010 06:52 (Yesterday) Permalink
― joe scarborough and peoples (donna rouge), Sunday, 23 May 2010 06:52 (Yesterday) Permalink
ha, love that place.
― I am an old guy, and I prefer the late 90s. (Matt P), Monday, 24 May 2010 00:10 (thirteen years ago) link
so NYC gays: I'm going to be in town on June 6th through the 9th. I'd love to finally meet y'all. Can we plan something?
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 24 May 2010 00:24 (thirteen years ago) link
these guys are bad planners (youth, texting), but we can try. Bring yr phone charger this time.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 24 May 2010 00:27 (thirteen years ago) link
and happy birthday, KJB!!!
I may go to LA next summer; what's this Gold Coast like?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 24 May 2010 00:48 (thirteen years ago) link
hey all.
wild weekend, sort of. uh, been trying to hang with elmo, but have been too distracted or not into his planz? i am really bad at going to gay bars, at this point. maybe tonight? who knows. i sort of want to take him to Aunt Charlies tomorrow night, but i don't if he'll be up for it since he leaves the next day?
in other news, i believe i might have gotten a job. i try-out on thursday at this bourgeois coffee place in berkeley. kind of just excited about the prospects of having a job and some money in the pocket.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Monday, 24 May 2010 23:20 (thirteen years ago) link
spent the weekend visiting my parents in ottawa, and awkwardly bumped into/hung out with half the guys from montreal i've ever been into and their new boyfriends (more or less). surprisingly enjoyable weekend anyhow.
LCD are playing tonight, so that should be good. otherwise life here is muggy and uneventful.
California sounds like a hell of a lot of fun.
― Alex in Montreal, Monday, 24 May 2010 23:48 (thirteen years ago) link
California is too much fun. the key to surviving is naps.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Monday, 24 May 2010 23:51 (thirteen years ago) link
i never go to gay bars now, but i have, like, no money and i have, like, no gay friends in town and going by myself isn't as fun
the really annoying thing is that every seemingly gay dude that i meet in the course of normal life that i am remotely attracted to turns out to be not a gay dude at all :(
― upper mississippi sh@key mo (The Reverend), Tuesday, 25 May 2010 00:39 (thirteen years ago) link
aunt charlie's is not too far from my hotel, table, if that makes thing easier? we made dinner plans with a few friends on separate before realizing they all live in the castro --
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 25 May 2010 01:14 (thirteen years ago) link
haha, yeah, the Castro scene just bugs me out? it's like 'how the other half lives,' or something... i mean, i like getting wasted as much as the next queen, but i'd rather do it in the TL. if you're down tomorrow night for aunt charlies, it'll be worth your while. it's a fun party, and how can you say no to these two lovely boyz, your hosts?
http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash1/hs347.ash1/29518_398386219360_294622869360_3667050_2520471_n.jpg
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Tuesday, 25 May 2010 01:23 (thirteen years ago) link
also i'd totally have to turn into a pumpkin tonight, and my boy isn't gonna want to drive since he was lifting heavy things all day. but he has off tomorrow!!!
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Tuesday, 25 May 2010 01:24 (thirteen years ago) link
gold coast is seedy, homey, way past its prime, hookers out back, aging showbiz / whoever crowd, no bros, no bois, not bear/leather either. cheap drinks, crappy music, pool and pool league. an old weho bastion with a history that hasn't turned into a "lounge" and doesn't really have a "thing" either. j4ke and n1ck run it and are nice guys. i think you'd like it dr m. oh yeah, tvs. though trunks down the street is sort of the same thing w/ a sports bar set up if you want to watch a game. xposts
― I am an old guy, and I prefer the late 90s. (Matt P), Tuesday, 25 May 2010 01:29 (thirteen years ago) link
i don't go to gay bars at all anymore because 1) i live in salt lake city 2) quit drinking
― I am an old guy, and I prefer the late 90s. (Matt P), Tuesday, 25 May 2010 01:31 (thirteen years ago) link
Guys, the first 20 minutes of the SATC[ sequel turned me irreparably straight.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Tuesday, 25 May 2010 03:36 (thirteen years ago) link
uh oh. Why would you even watch that?
― limp bizkotti (Stevie D), Tuesday, 25 May 2010 03:48 (thirteen years ago) link
LIZA
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 25 May 2010 03:50 (thirteen years ago) link
Free screening and I needed something to review this week. (Didn't even realize until today that Jakey G's gross abs are also opening this weekend.)
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Tuesday, 25 May 2010 04:05 (thirteen years ago) link
gross abs vs gross girlz
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 25 May 2010 04:18 (thirteen years ago) link
gross gay weddings
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Tuesday, 25 May 2010 04:18 (thirteen years ago) link
i just got back from the world premiere!
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Tuesday, 25 May 2010 06:16 (thirteen years ago) link
ps ugh that wedding was so ugly
Most of the outfits in the movie struck me as pretty horrifically ugly. I mean, really, really, really really really ugly.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Tuesday, 25 May 2010 13:16 (thirteen years ago) link
The last film stripped away everything witty/intelligent that made the series enjoyable and just amplified the banality; it basically featured caricatures of the characters in the series. I mean I'm sure I'll get around to seeing 2 someday but I read somewhere it was essentially a 2 hour commercial?
― limp bizkotti (Stevie D), Tuesday, 25 May 2010 13:53 (thirteen years ago) link
2.5
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Tuesday, 25 May 2010 14:17 (thirteen years ago) link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ri5-uR8-3AE
― lol dope (Tape Store), Tuesday, 25 May 2010 17:56 (thirteen years ago) link
I will be off to 42nd St soon to evaluate Gyllenhaal pecs
(an AMC theater, not the old Show World, alas)
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 25 May 2010 20:37 (thirteen years ago) link
Blowing off Persia screening to go to Casino Jack screening.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Tuesday, 25 May 2010 22:09 (thirteen years ago) link
Terrible mistake
― lol dope (Tape Store), Tuesday, 25 May 2010 22:19 (thirteen years ago) link
You'd be better off reading a book.
Maybe. I could also just stay at home and whack to pics of Jake.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Tuesday, 25 May 2010 22:26 (thirteen years ago) link
http://www.moviewiseguys.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/jake-gyllenhaal-bulges-biceps.jpg
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Tuesday, 25 May 2010 22:33 (thirteen years ago) link
how about that gunshot recreation at the beginning of CJ
― lol dope (Tape Store), Wednesday, 26 May 2010 00:31 (thirteen years ago) link
brief gay PoP review:
NO JAKE ABS
NO TOPLESS JAKE (except for the first shots, when he's rolling on the ground with some dude in a fight, presumably)
ME MAD
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 26 May 2010 02:18 (thirteen years ago) link
!!!
― lol dope (Tape Store), Wednesday, 26 May 2010 02:20 (thirteen years ago) link
am i the only one who doesn't care that much for jake?
― J0rdan S., Wednesday, 26 May 2010 02:21 (thirteen years ago) link
in my german film class, my professor referred to daniel bruhl as the german jake g, and i realized that i much prefer bruhl -- & james mcavoy too
― J0rdan S., Wednesday, 26 May 2010 02:22 (thirteen years ago) link
Straight guys aren't attracted to him either.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 26 May 2010 02:30 (thirteen years ago) link
wtf, Morbs, what's with all those behind the scenes shots? How hard is it to write in a few scenes where he's nude-chested?
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Wednesday, 26 May 2010 02:46 (thirteen years ago) link
His beauty is so resplendent that the screenwriters couldn't stare at him for more than a few milliseconds.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 26 May 2010 03:02 (thirteen years ago) link
The screenwriters need to be kicked outta the union
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 26 May 2010 04:49 (thirteen years ago) link
just bid teddy goodnight @ aunt charlie's -- photo documentation forthcoming
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Wednesday, 26 May 2010 07:10 (thirteen years ago) link
Soto and Morbs thanx 4 the b-day wishes! I won't be around ILX/M too much any more due to exciting things I don't want to advertise on a public forum. But just want to say thanx and xoxoxo to all!
― Kevin John Bozelka, Thursday, 27 May 2010 05:43 (thirteen years ago) link
Oh and I swear I'll put my full 1940s film list up sometime soon...I swear.
annotated 1940s film list, that is
― Kevin John Bozelka, Thursday, 27 May 2010 05:44 (thirteen years ago) link
exciting things!
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Thursday, 27 May 2010 11:52 (thirteen years ago) link
Happy belated!
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Thursday, 27 May 2010 12:04 (thirteen years ago) link
what he said!
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Thursday, 27 May 2010 16:47 (thirteen years ago) link
happy bday KJB.!!!
also hey, meeting elmo (ahem 4ndr3w) in person was excllent. wish the BART ran longer so my boy and i didn't have to turn into pumpkins, but thems the breaks. anyway, it was a good time.
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Thursday, 27 May 2010 17:11 (thirteen years ago) link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SBuKuA9nHsw
Fucking hell, this is so awful it makes me wish I were hetero.
― limp bizkotti (Stevie D), Saturday, 29 May 2010 04:24 (thirteen years ago) link
nyc gayz: metro bbq is NOW OPEN (spent the better part of today there - didn't realize that not eating is the in thing to do, but also don't care cuz FREE BBQ i mean cmon)
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Monday, 31 May 2010 05:50 (thirteen years ago) link
coincidentally it is nearly new thread time, yeah?
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Monday, 31 May 2010 05:52 (thirteen years ago) link
don't they make you pay $3?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 31 May 2010 13:15 (thirteen years ago) link
we need a summer thread resolution
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Monday, 31 May 2010 13:26 (thirteen years ago) link
morbs: it's free w/ beer purchase, so $3 is about right
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Monday, 31 May 2010 15:08 (thirteen years ago) link
do they have vegan bbq? God I sound like such a stupid hipster.
― limp bizkotti (Stevie D), Monday, 31 May 2010 21:40 (thirteen years ago) link
summer thread resolutions = EVERYBODY TAKE OFF YOUR SHIRTS
― limp bizkotti (Stevie D), Monday, 31 May 2010 21:41 (thirteen years ago) link
hmmm, only at the Eagle, where there are other men who won't care
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 31 May 2010 21:48 (thirteen years ago) link
I'd really like to see what happens when everyone on these threads effing takes off their shirts. Srsly.
― rim this, fuck that (Eric H.), Monday, 31 May 2010 21:49 (thirteen years ago) link
Gays, its summer 2010 so... EVERYBODY TAKE OFF YOUR SHIRTS
― plax (ico), Monday, 31 May 2010 21:49 (thirteen years ago) link
let's pick a city & date for it then
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 31 May 2010 21:56 (thirteen years ago) link