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Following on from 'songs that give you goosebumps'. Are there any songs that have you welling up and gently weeping?

Bob Dylan - Boots of Spanish Leather

mick hall (mick hall), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:04 (twenty-one years ago) link

Ok -

Sorry to be predictable but any early-to-mid Tom Waits stuff like San Diego Serenade, On The Nickel, A Soldiers Things, etc.

And "Sometimes It Snows In April" by Prince.

And "Life Goes On" by Tupac. Deep.

Nordicskillz (Nordicskillz), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:09 (twenty-one years ago) link

The White Stripes' "We Are Gonna Be Friends", but not for feeling sad...more like feeling like a child and remembering how powerful a thing friendship was back then.

Tom Waits' "Cold Cold Ground", among many others of his...now that one really does make me quite the sad-sack.

nickalicious (nickalicious), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:09 (twenty-one years ago) link

There's also this one part in Genesis' "The Musical Box" where Peter Gabriel is singing the lines "...and all this time that passes by/doesn't seem to matter now...won't you touch me/touch me/why don't you touch me/touch me/touch me/NOW NOW NOW..."; that ALWAYS gets me.

nickalicious (nickalicious), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:11 (twenty-one years ago) link

"Does Everyone Stare?" by the Police used ta get me.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:13 (twenty-one years ago) link

Danny Says by the Ramones gets me too, for some random reason - it just sounds sad.

Nordicskillz (Nordicskillz), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:23 (twenty-one years ago) link

that "captain of your ship" one from the mullerice adverts

j0e (j0e), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:25 (twenty-one years ago) link

history lesson, pt. 2

j fail (cenotaph), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:26 (twenty-one years ago) link

John Coltrane - "Alabama"

Mark (MarkR), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:26 (twenty-one years ago) link

Are there any songs that have you welling up and gently weeping?

Fuck no. I never cry.

Alt ans: "Visions of Johanna"

Jody Beth Rosen (Jody Beth Rosen), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:28 (twenty-one years ago) link

Against All Odds by Phil Collins. I'm not explaining that.

Nick Southall (Nick Southall), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:36 (twenty-one years ago) link

Oooh...good one, Nick.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:37 (twenty-one years ago) link

Actually, the original, non-technofied version of "Missing" by Everything But the Girl used to get me too.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:37 (twenty-one years ago) link

It doesn't have to be 'songs that make me sad'. In fact, the only songs that make me sad/distressed are BAD songs. If I'm crying, moved to tears, I'm also very happy at having been moved. It might just be single inflection on the vocal that does it, but it's an awe-inducing thing when sound produces such a tangible emotional effect. I always feel blessed when the tears start rolling.

mick hall (mick hall), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:38 (twenty-one years ago) link

Kenny Rogers, "Lady"

hstencil, Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:41 (twenty-one years ago) link

Brave Captain's "Go With Yourself." Never fails: "Hey son / Hey son / You never have to leave / I didn't mean those things / That I said to you"

Neudonym, Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:42 (twenty-one years ago) link

Here is the reason why.

Nick Southall (Nick Southall), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:47 (twenty-one years ago) link

John Lennon - Oh, My Love
Tom Waits- I Hope that I Don't Fall in Love with You
Shirelles - Will You Love Me Tomorrow

Carey (Carey), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:50 (twenty-one years ago) link

Most songs-that-make-me-cry aren't sad songs, really. A lot of them are beautiful songs by people who died too soon (Blind Melon's "Change" fr'instance, or "All Apologies" by Kurt, plus the whole "I'm married/I'm buried" thing in the lyrics to that.)

nickalicious (nickalicious), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:52 (twenty-one years ago) link

actually, as it turns out, just about everything I've played so far this morning; now it's Lo Borges' "O Trem Azul." apparently, I need a nap or something.

Neudonym, Wednesday, 19 March 2003 15:59 (twenty-one years ago) link

um, wheatus, teenage dirtbag. it's beautiful isn't it?

pete b. (pete b.), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 16:27 (twenty-one years ago) link

I was just thinking of TW's IHTIDFILWY

Horace Mann (Horace Mann), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 16:55 (twenty-one years ago) link

All of Neil Youngs Harvest makes me weepy
and i'm not even a fan.

girl scout heroin (iamamonkey), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 18:32 (twenty-one years ago) link

Iris D. "Easy's Getting Harder Every Day"
"A Song For You" Gram Parsons (Emmylou's harmonies obv!)

Aaron A., Wednesday, 19 March 2003 18:38 (twenty-one years ago) link

big star "holocaust"

jack cole (jackcole), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 18:51 (twenty-one years ago) link

The Beach Boys' "Til I Die" and "Caroline No" do it every time.

mike a (mike a), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 18:52 (twenty-one years ago) link

Pearl Jam - All those Yesterdays
David Bowie - Space Oddity (...tell my wife I love her very much...)
Pavement - Infinite Spark
Bach's Air on a G String
The Frames dc - Your Face
Elliot Smith - Waltz #2
Most of John Lennon's Plastic Ono Band
Brian Wilson - Melt Away
Van Der Graaf Generator - Refugees
Beach Boys - A Day In The Life of A Tree

dog latin (dog latin), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 19:07 (twenty-one years ago) link

This Mortal Coil's rendition of "Song to the Siren"

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 19:12 (twenty-one years ago) link

The Divine Comedy - The Summerhouse
Tom Waits - Kentucky Avenue, Take It With Me
Red House Painters - Katy Song, Smokey, Michael (and likely many more)
Red Sovine - Teddy Bear (yes, I'm THAT lame)

many more, I'm sure.

Jonathan, Wednesday, 19 March 2003 19:33 (twenty-one years ago) link

Echo & the Bunnymen - Fools Like Us, Rust, Ocean Rain
Roxy Music - all of Flesh & Blood, some of Avalon, Sunset
Bryan Ferry - Bête Noir
Duran Duran - Do You Believe In Shame?
New Order - Dream Attack (surprisingly stunning lyrics for a band known for its bad lyrics)
Peter Gabriel - Washing Of The Water
David Sylvian - The First Day, Darkest Dreaming
Orchestral Manoeuvres in the Dark - Victory Waltz

Note: these songs never really made me cry but sure have a good potential of being able to do so!

Tijn Gilissen, Wednesday, 19 March 2003 19:41 (twenty-one years ago) link

Neil Young's "Helpless" cuz it's about a place I was

Horace Mann (Horace Mann), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 20:13 (twenty-one years ago) link

Its Neil Youngs Kermit voice that turns on the faucets for me. If Neil sang Rainbow Connection I would probable need medication

girl scout heroin (iamamonkey), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 20:19 (twenty-one years ago) link

Or kermit singing "Needle and the damage done" same effect

girl scout heroin (iamamonkey), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 20:20 (twenty-one years ago) link

Daniel Johnston "Some Things Last a Long Time"

Curt1s St3ph3ns, Wednesday, 19 March 2003 20:33 (twenty-one years ago) link

Willie Nelson's new Demos collection is, like, 90% weepers.

Horace Mann (Horace Mann), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 20:39 (twenty-one years ago) link

Dar Williams - Mortal City

Becky (Rebecca), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 20:48 (twenty-one years ago) link

Easier to list the ones that DON'T make me cry.

matt riedl (veal), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 20:54 (twenty-one years ago) link

nico's "these days", large slabs of EBTG's amplified heart album, durutti column "tomorrow", grand salvo "sordid trophy" (and others)..

electric sound of jim (electricsound), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 23:19 (twenty-one years ago) link

Lots of stuff. For goosebumps and shivers it could be purely instrumental, but for genuine tears -- for me at least -- it's gotta be the right combination of lyrics and music.* For instance, Shack's "Reinstated," the part that goes:
And I remember when you made me feel so good
Just to be near you
Oh, you've let me down so much I fear you

*The exception might be instrumental music I associate with sad real-life experiences, in which case it's more a matter of coincidence rather than anything attributable to the music itself.

Paul in Santa Cruz (Paul in Santa Cruz), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 23:33 (twenty-one years ago) link

oh you've just reminded me of another - "Loaded Man" by John Head (of Shack fame)

electric sound of jim (electricsound), Wednesday, 19 March 2003 23:35 (twenty-one years ago) link

i'll second the Neil Young, especially Helpless, especially the Unplugged version and the first line (oh no I'm welling up as I think of it) 'There is a place in North Ontario/ With dream comfort memory despair'. Boohhooho! [Sniffs. Exits.}

'Don't be Denied' has a similar plaintive whine.

mick hall (mick hall), Thursday, 20 March 2003 11:51 (twenty-one years ago) link

I second 'Against All Odds' - a couple of weeks ago I found myself outside a coffee bar which was testing how loud their speakers could go. It was rush-hour, there was pitching rain, heavy traffic, and they played THAT track. My gf saw me getting caught up in a moment, sneered and tutted, gave me a light then walked home.

nick.K (nick.K), Thursday, 20 March 2003 11:59 (twenty-one years ago) link

Something about "Against All Odds" really gets me too. Yes, Phil Collins is a hopelessly embarassing schmuck, and yes....the movie from whence the song comes from is basically just one long episode of "Miami Vice" (Jeff Bridges plays a wounded football player hotshot employed to fetch the wandering ex-girlfriend [sultry Aussie Rachel Ward] for sleazeball bookie James Woods in picturesque Mexico, only to fall hopelessly in love with her big brown eyes, untethered spirit and large, tanned Australian peritoneum), but the chorus of this song .....Just Take a Look At Me Noooow!!!!, Well there's Just an Empty Space!!!....just give those old heart strings a big ol' power-chordey strummmmmmmmm.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Thursday, 20 March 2003 23:17 (twenty-one years ago) link

I have to admit 'Against All Odds' gets me choked up as well. Probably Blue Rodeo 'It Hasnt Hit Me Yet' and Bob Dylan 'Don't Think Twice It's Alright'.

S Samson, Thursday, 20 March 2003 23:20 (twenty-one years ago) link

Tijn - Do You Believe in Shame was a great record, Duranduran at their best. 'Come Undone' is another.

Anything by This Mortal Coil would surely make even the hardest blokes sniffle.

I've been known to shed a tear whenever I hear a Starsailor record, too. Vile.

russ t, Friday, 21 March 2003 11:16 (twenty-one years ago) link

To be honest, the first time I heard Capt. Beefheart's "Big Eyed Beans From Venus" I cried - I just couldn't believe how wonderful it was. I often cry in the presence of greatness as opposed to mere sadness.

Dadaismus, Friday, 21 March 2003 11:21 (twenty-one years ago) link

Ooh Child-The Five Stairsteps

Nordicskillz (Nordicskillz), Friday, 21 March 2003 11:22 (twenty-one years ago) link

...and two more.... who can't fail to be moved by 'Asleep' and 'Please please please let me get what I want' by the Smiths?

russ t, Friday, 21 March 2003 12:34 (twenty-one years ago) link

My Peter Gabriel weepie songs:
'Father, Son', 'Here Comes the Flood' (Exposure version), 'I Grieve', 'Sky Blue', 'Mercy Street', and of course 'Don't Give Up'...
Listening to these in sequence always makes me dissolve. I do it when I'm feeling especially depressed.

Anna Rose, Friday, 21 March 2003 18:14 (twenty-one years ago) link

David Bowie, "I'm Not Quite" (known later as "Letter to Hermione" -- but NOT that version.)

Recently: Iron & Wine, "Bird Stealing Bread"

jaymc., Friday, 21 March 2003 22:19 (twenty-one years ago) link

Big Star's UPbeat songs, for some reason, don't make me cry or anything, but definitely overwhelm me in a positive way.

and lots of Neil

roger adultery (roger adultery), Friday, 21 March 2003 22:26 (twenty-one years ago) link

There are some tracks on Kiss Me, Kiss Me, Kiss Me and Disintegration by the Cure that are weep-worthy, notably "How Beautiful You Are" "Last Dance" and one or two others. "Push" and "A Night Like This" (on The Head on the Door) both exude that same bittersweet heartbroken melancholly as well.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Friday, 21 March 2003 22:43 (twenty-one years ago) link

The song that always makes tears is Parallel Lines by Kings of Convenience. His voice falters, the bit where the piano comes in, and the bit about the lyrics waking to a sash of snow on the window, just reminds me of sad winters in the dacha. Lovely lovely but so sad. Another song Rainbo Conversation by Stereolab. Moving tune but the lyrics too -"I yearn for romantic passion" beautifully sung so sincere and humanistic. It makes you realise that life could be wonderful and that can bring tears of recognition and heartfelt warmth.Maybe its the words that can set me off! Thats why I like English language so much, so many ways of expressing emotion.

Liliya, Saturday, 22 March 2003 22:46 (twenty-one years ago) link

not a song but masayuki takayanagi and karou abe improvising prob gets me as close to tears of joy as much as anything.

Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Saturday, 22 March 2003 22:54 (twenty-one years ago) link


'It's only just begun' by Dionne Warwick.

Someone else mentioned Duranduran so I figured, hey fuck it, why not be honest for once?

Gatinha (rwillmsen), Saturday, 22 March 2003 22:57 (twenty-one years ago) link

Dismemberment Plan, "The City"

j.lu (j.lu), Saturday, 22 March 2003 23:16 (twenty-one years ago) link

last night, "Missing Miss MacColl" by Green Pajamas

electric sound of jim (electricsound), Sunday, 23 March 2003 00:24 (twenty-one years ago) link

There's a certain point about halfway through Blood on the Tracks where my eyes invariably get a bit moist, I think it's usually around "You're Gonna Make Me Lonesome When You Go".

o. nate (onate), Sunday, 23 March 2003 00:31 (twenty-one years ago) link


I think 'You're gonna make me lonesome when you go' would make a big stony statue weep brokenheartedly.

Gatinha (rwillmsen), Sunday, 23 March 2003 00:48 (twenty-one years ago) link

I Think It's About to Rain - Blacktop

That Girl (thatgirl), Sunday, 23 March 2003 01:23 (twenty-one years ago) link

I only get weepy if I've been drinking, but I think I recall these doing it to me-

Van Der Graaf Generator - "Afterwards"
The Byrds - "The Bells of Rhymney"
The Byrds - "Goin' Back"
The Byrds - "One Hundred Years From Now"
Gram Parsons - "She"
Beach Boys - listened to it drunk one night and cried at some point, can't really recall where.
Saw Blunstone and Argent last year and cried when they did "This Will Be Our Year".

Mr. Diamond (diamond), Sunday, 23 March 2003 03:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

er, "it" = Pet Sounds

Mr. Diamond (diamond), Sunday, 23 March 2003 03:01 (twenty-one years ago) link

what? i don't cry.

(ok maybe just a little bit to Bob Dylan - Most Of The Time)

Dave M. (rotten03), Sunday, 23 March 2003 04:15 (twenty-one years ago) link

This Ascension "August Rain"

Curt1s St3ph3ns, Sunday, 23 March 2003 04:23 (twenty-one years ago) link

"maxine" by sharon o'neill really upsets me, especially ever since i saw the video for it. to me, its the saddest song in the world. if it comes on the radio when i'm driving i have to pull over and have a sob. there are some upsetting songs by tori amos, but i don't care to elaborate cos its too personal and embarassing. also "complicated" by heavens to betsy, "hot rock" and "burn don't freeze" by the sleaters (but probbly everyone knew that).

di smith (lucylurex), Sunday, 23 March 2003 05:02 (twenty-one years ago) link

Dylan - "Don't Think Twice, It's Alright," but only when I'm thinking about this specific person that was real real bad to me. ("You just kinda wasted my precious time / but don't think twice it's alright.") Hey, we've all had at least one. I like the way a lot of people are saying Dylan. There's hope for the world yet.

Others:
"Wouldn't It Be Nice" - Beach Boys
"This Guy's in Love With You" - Herb Alpert and Tijuana Brass
"Stand By Me" - Ben E. King
"Midnight Train to Georgia" - Gladys Knight and the Pips (I can't believe no one's said this yet)
"And The Band Played Waltzing Matilda" - The Pogues
"You've Got to Hide Your Love Away" - The Beatles
"I Feel For You" - Chaka Khan (out of happiness)
"Girl from the North Country" - Bob Dylan
"Reason to Believe" - Bruce Springsteen
"Whispering Pines" - The Band
"Car / Girl Stand Still" - Catherine Wheel
"Down Colorful Hill" - Red House Painters
"Medication" - Damien Jurado
"Condor Ave." - Elliot Smith
"You Don't Know What Love Is" - Billie Holiday
"But Not For Me" - Chat Baker (again, out of happiness)

I cry a lot, I guess.

Kenan Hebert (kenan), Sunday, 23 March 2003 08:29 (twenty-one years ago) link

I think all of these have at one point:

The Beatles - "For No One"

The Rolling Stones - "Mother's Little Helper"

Led Zeppelin - "That's the Way"

Radiohead - "Let Down"

Slint - "Good Morning Captain"

Spice Girls - "Viva Forever" video

REM - "Green Grow the Rushes" (though I think there were a lot of extra-
musical reasons involved in the last two cases)

Joy Division - "Insight", "New Dawn Fades"

Concrete Blonde - "Joey"

"You Are My Sunshine"

The Velvet Underground - "Pale Blue Eyes" (I haven't listened to this in years largely for this reason. It might not have the same effect now.)

Morrissey - "Late Night, Maudlin Street"

Patti Smith Group - "We Three"

I have really vague general memories of weepiness during In Utero, Nirvana Unplugged, and Under the Pink but can't put my finger on any particular song or anything really at this point. I spent a good portion of that year in tears though so there was probably lots of stuff.

sundar subramanian (sundar), Sunday, 23 March 2003 08:51 (twenty-one years ago) link

(Probably "Pennyroyal Tea".)

sundar subramanian (sundar), Sunday, 23 March 2003 09:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

Interestingly, I'm pretty sure that free jazz, modern classical (or probably any classical or jazz to be honest), Indian classical music, or IDM have never made me cry though they've achieved other effects, obviously. I'm trying to put my finger on why this is. In a way I have trouble explaining, I don't think that making me cry is necessarily that lofty a goal.

sundar subramanian (sundar), Sunday, 23 March 2003 09:13 (twenty-one years ago) link

yeah pale blue eyes used to make me cry too, but now it makes me angry.

di smith (lucylurex), Sunday, 23 March 2003 09:15 (twenty-one years ago) link

I don't think that making me cry is necessarily that lofty a goal.

But what about if it's not the goal? I do not think that I would cry at something that was just plain schmaltzy. If it can make me cry, I assume there's some high level of quality involved.

Kenan Hebert (kenan), Sunday, 23 March 2003 09:17 (twenty-one years ago) link

I'm not saying it's bad or a sign of poor quality either.

sundar subramanian (sundar), Sunday, 23 March 2003 09:25 (twenty-one years ago) link

In my case, it's questioning of the future, set in a beautiful arrangement with a beautiful singer, that gets me. Like in "Bells of Rhymney" that line "is there hope for the future?" gets me everytime. Or in "One Hundred Years from This Day" when Gram sings "nobody knows / what kind of trouble we're in / nobody seems to think / it all might happen again". Or in "This Will Be Our Year" when Blunstone sings "now you're here / we've only just begun / this will be our year / took a long time to come".

Yeah that kind of stuff just gets me, regardless of their "intention".

Mr. Diamond (diamond), Sunday, 23 March 2003 09:33 (twenty-one years ago) link

Actually now that I consider it there's another song that almost gets me there that has really nothing to do w/ temporal concerns and really is about as twee as possible, "The Feathered Tiger" by the Kaleidoscope U.K. It is so precious, but in the right mood it totally grabs me.

Mr. Diamond (diamond), Sunday, 23 March 2003 09:50 (twenty-one years ago) link

'Pink Moon' by Nick Drake, I remember now, can make me bawl. And at least twice I have played it to girlfriends for the first time and watched them do the same. One cried, then got extremely happy at having been introduced to the music, then claimed she would not play it again, perhaps for months. It was just too much for her. I'm different in that if I'm bawling, I'm very indulgent and want it to happen. It feels like a cleansing.

mick hall (mick hall), Monday, 24 March 2003 10:29 (twenty-one years ago) link

nico's "these days" seconded. The Pogues "And the band played Waltzing Mathilda"

gaz (gaz), Monday, 24 March 2003 10:35 (twenty-one years ago) link

Hmm, there are a few:

Hallelujah - Jeff Buckley
First time I listened to it I was lying in bad with the flu at 3 in the morning. It's just TOO lovely, and made the feel even worse than I did at the time, which was pretty bad!

Most of Abba Gold:
Dont' ask me why, but a few years ago I wept constantly to most of Gold. I think it was a bit too joyous for my own good . . .Waterloo and Dancing Queen being the most guilty ones, but everything else effected me far too much.

It's Too Late - The Streets
Sunday morning and this went on. I hadn't really listened to the album before, but this made me weep like a baby. "Nothing has significance/ and nothing else has relevence/ 'cause all I can see is her elagence" manages to be understated AND over-the-top at the same time, and gives me shivers even now.

Shining Light- Ash
The chorus "A full on chemical rection/ like dark divine intervention/ You are a shinig light" still does it for me - shocking I know, but what am I to do, it's still as lovely as lovely can be!

Who Knows Where the Time Goes? - Fairport Convention
It's at the start of the third verse where Sandy Denny sound REALLY English ("And I am not alone/ while my love is near me") that gets me. It's the way she pronounces "alone" I think . . . how strange am I?

I think it's the presence of unadulterated lovliness that does it. Before it came on constant rotation EVERYWHERE, Natural Blues made me feel a bit weepy. And I was watching a double bill on Sky Movies yesterday of Sound of Music and My Fair Lady . . . exactly the same thing happened. I found a tear running down my cheek during Do Ri Me, Favourite Things and Wouldn't be Lovely, among others! Oh, AND 16 going on 17, AND Street where you live etc etc etc.

Johnney B (Johnney B), Monday, 24 March 2003 11:56 (twenty-one years ago) link

Who Knows Where the Time Goes? - Fairport Convention

How right you are. I turn into such a "chick" when I hear this song.

Jody Beth Rosen (Jody Beth Rosen), Monday, 24 March 2003 12:00 (twenty-one years ago) link

oh man this thread is ruining my reputation as a hard-assed bee-yotch, but i have to confess my flatmate was listening to "pet sounds" yesterday morning and when "god only knows" came on i couldn't contain myself. boohoo.

di smith (lucylurex), Monday, 24 March 2003 20:35 (twenty-one years ago) link

Ash - Low Ebb/Folk Song/Aphrodite (the mighty Nu-Clear Sounds trilogy)
Tom Waits - Take it With Me
Xiu Xiu - Suha
Eels - 3 Speed/The Medication's Wearing Off/Selective Memory
Juno - The Trail of Your Blood in the Snow
Manic Street Preachers - This Is Yesterday
Bright Eyes - We Are Free Men
Dismemberment Plan - Respect Is Due
Suede - Still Life
Neil Finn - Try Whistling This (the ending always gets to me)
Pearl Jam - Parting Ways
Flaming Lips - Up Above the Daily Hum

Simon H., Tuesday, 25 March 2003 00:11 (twenty-one years ago) link

casiotone for the painfully alone - edith wong/baby it's you/tonight was a disaster
bruce springsteen - thunder road/badlands/atlantic city/
neil young - bethlehem/long may you run
tom waits - blind love/downtown train/hang down your head/innocent when you dream
daniel johnston - i don't wanna grow up
nico - i'll keep it with mine
glen campbell - wichita lineman
freddie fender - before the next teardrop falls
most dylan sends me into weepy fits, as does otis redding and most of the stuff on the peter laughner double lp.
i could keep going with this, but you get the idea. i'm a total marshmallow.

lauren (laurenp), Tuesday, 25 March 2003 00:28 (twenty-one years ago) link

Or maybe on some level pop makes an emotional connection for me that some other musics haven't yet?

sundar subramanian (sundar), Tuesday, 25 March 2003 00:47 (twenty-one years ago) link

Camper Van Beethoven: All Her Favorite Fruit

kephm, Tuesday, 25 March 2003 04:50 (twenty-one years ago) link

Hallelujah - The Leonard Cohen and the Jeff Buckley versions; I can't pick one or the other. Also "I'm Your Man" by Mr. Cohen. The strain in his voice, the quiet yearning, gives dignity even to those creaky old synth lines. A pair of utterly amazing songs that bring tears to my eyes years after I first heard them.

"Letdown" by Radiohead. Gorgeous gorgeous gorgeous. This song almost makes me wish I was a weepy, over-emotional teenager again. Fuck emo; this is where it's at.

"Waking Up Beside You" by Stabbing Westward. I will not entertain criticism here. This song is just too damn sad.

justin s., Tuesday, 25 March 2003 07:41 (twenty-one years ago) link

Forgot one. "Home" by Depeche Mode. The album is already beautifully textured and miserable to begin with, from beginning to end (yes, even those last few tracks which all sound alike). But this song is the kicker. It's one of their favorites to play live, and I can see why. It stands up against all criticism, the possible over-emoting, the maybe too-powerful strings, nothing detracts from the song's simple agony and heartbreak. God. If I don't stop I'm going to need to break out the Kleenex *grins*.

justin s., Tuesday, 25 March 2003 07:44 (twenty-one years ago) link

I just cried to Schoenberg's Erwartung.

sundar subramanian (sundar), Wednesday, 26 March 2003 10:50 (twenty-one years ago) link

Unoriginally, Jeff Buckley's Hallelujah and The Lark Ascending by Vaughan Williams. God Only Knows has done, as has The Not Knowing by Tindersticks. Lately, a song I can't remember the name of, possibly by a Man Called Adam, possibly not. It is pretty and has a northern child talking over it about cows and football.

Archel (Archel), Wednesday, 26 March 2003 12:26 (twenty-one years ago) link

Justin S - agree with the DM 'Home' choice - Gore has such a more emotive voice than Gahan. Quite why they need Dave is beyond me...!
Also, A Question Of Lust (which I'm sure Shirley Bassey could have a go at).
But the one that does it for me is the only track I like from 'Exciter' - 'Freelove'. One of their greatest songs.

Another song I heard at the weekend which always brought a lump to my throat was Frankie Goes to Hollywood's 'The Power of Love'. Gorgeous

russ t, Wednesday, 26 March 2003 12:56 (twenty-one years ago) link

brighter - tinsel heart
field mice - and before the first kiss
field mice - willow
joy division - atmosphere
jam - beat surrender (no, can't explain why! it just happened!)
hood - cross the land
harper lee - ALL

kieron, Wednesday, 26 March 2003 22:51 (twenty-one years ago) link

OMG "willow" *slays* me. i can't even think about listening to it.

electric sound of jim (electricsound), Wednesday, 26 March 2003 22:52 (twenty-one years ago) link

yeah, and don't EVER listen to it on a break-up, especially if you've initiated it. it will have you in FLOODS.

kieron, Wednesday, 26 March 2003 22:55 (twenty-one years ago) link

oh, i've been there. hence why...

electric sound of jim (electricsound), Wednesday, 26 March 2003 23:06 (twenty-one years ago) link

I was just getting sobby to "Lied der Waldtaube".

sundar subramanian (sundar), Thursday, 27 March 2003 00:42 (twenty-one years ago) link

(Also by Schoenberg, of course.)

sundar subramanian (sundar), Thursday, 27 March 2003 01:03 (twenty-one years ago) link

Red House Painters "Katy Song"
Matthew Sweet "Nothing Lasts"
Good Charlotte "Say Anything," "The Day That I Died" & "Movin' On"
Heavens To Betsy "Complicated" & "Paralyzed"
Sleater-Kinney "Lions & Tigers," "Good Things," "Heart Attack"
Queen "Under Pressure"
Flock Of Seagulls "Wishing (If I Had A Photograph Of You)"
Desaparecidos "Man & Wife, The Latter (Damaged Goods)"
REM "Perfect Circle," "The Flowers Of Guatemala" (the latter song worked better when I didn't know what it was "about")

Anthony Miccio (Anthony Miccio), Thursday, 27 March 2003 01:15 (twenty-one years ago) link

two months pass...
"Give Me the Reason" by Luther Vandross

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Friday, 13 June 2003 04:04 (twenty years ago) link

"Asleep and Dreaming," Magnetic Fields
"Bottle Up and Explode!," Elliott Smith
"Time," Tom Waits

Yaz(oo)'s "Only You" used to have that effect, but now it's just cute...

Sean Thomas (sgthomas), Friday, 13 June 2003 04:18 (twenty years ago) link

Bizarrely, the coda of "Across this Antheap" by XTC (wherein Andy Partridge somewhat emphatically splutters "ON AND ON AND ON AND ON AND ON"...) for some inexplicable reason gets to me.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Friday, 13 June 2003 05:19 (twenty years ago) link

"Message to My Girl" by Split Enz

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Friday, 13 June 2003 05:21 (twenty years ago) link

Rainy Day Regatta, "California"
Aerial M, "Last Caress"
Hoover, "Private"
Dylan, "If You See Here Say Hello"
Yo La Tengo, "Our Way To Fall"
Low, "That's How You Sing Amazing Grace"
Indian Summer, "Reflections on Milkweed"

Ian Johnson, Friday, 13 June 2003 05:26 (twenty years ago) link

Radiohead - Let Down
John Cale- Thoughtless Kind
Time - Tom Waits
Alameda - Elliott Smith
Not Knowing/ Raindrops/If She's Torn - Tindersticks
Cattle and Cane / Devil's Eye- Go-Betweens
Simon and Garfunkel - I am a Rock/ Old Friends/ Bookends/Sunday Morning 3AM
Scott Walker - If You Go Away
Leonard Cohen - Suzanne/Take This Longing/Chelsea Hotel 2
Neil Young - Needle and the Damage Done/ Birds
Johnny Cash - Spiritual

And whoever was right about Wheatus - it's..... poignant.


Jamie Conway (Jamie Conway), Friday, 13 June 2003 08:31 (twenty years ago) link

Not forgetting:

Joni Mitchell - Amelia
Dylan - Girl from the North Country

Big crybaby me.

Jamie Conway (Jamie Conway), Friday, 13 June 2003 08:33 (twenty years ago) link

i havent cried in about 3 or 4 years, my heart's gotten all black and rotten over the years. however these have been known to bring a bit of wetness to the eye:
smokey robinson - so many smokey songs, but particularly - tracks of my tears
neil young - barstool blues, thrasher, albuquerque, ambulance blues, motion pictures
bob dylan - you're gonna make me lonesome when you go (blood on the tracks owns this thread), kingsport town, moonshiner, one too many mornings
palace brothers/music - you will miss me when i burn, you have cum in your hair and your dick is hanging out, new partner
bonnie prince billy - a minor place, ain't you wealthy ain't you wise
songs: ohia - blue chicago moon, hold on magnolia
rem - perfect circle, so. central rain
low - la la la song, soon
Dirty three - 1000 miles, hope, last horse on the sand, long way to go with no punch, i offered it up to the stars and night sky
red house painters - japanese to english, strawberry hill
beat happening - left behind, cast a shadow, godsend
the smiths - i know its over, back to the old house
and recently - m. ward - dead man

but still i got a black heart

Bob Shaw (Bob Shaw), Friday, 13 June 2003 08:53 (twenty years ago) link

Songs that have almost doubled me over with inexplicable grief:

"Musette and Drums" -- Cocteau Twins. Why? It's not like the words mean anything. But when I first heard it, I was shattered. It can still do it occasionally, too.

"Good Woman" -- Cat Power. So fucking magnanimous and kind. And those kids, even Vedder. A mess, but a gorgeous one.

"The Partisan -- Leonard Cohen. So lonely (and I'm not talking about the police), so hollow and lost.

(god, look at my choices).

Some, I cry on the inside, in the same way I get inner goosebumps occasionally. Like these:

"Metal Heart" -- Cat Power
"Have You Forgotten" -- Red House Painters
"The Plan" -- Low
"Point of Disgust" -- Low
"In Metal" -- Low
"Atmosphere" -- Joy Division
"Decades" -- Joy Division
"Faith" -- The Cure (most of that album, actually)
"Sanvean" -- Lisa Gerrard
"Yele" -- Wyclef Jean (!)
"I Will" -- Radiohead
"Wolf at the Door" -- Radiohead
(plus most of Amnesiac and half of Kid A, really)
(lots of Dylan and Tom Waits)
(some Lucinda Williams, Neko Case, Nina Nastasia)

This could go on for a long time, so I'll stop there.

David A. (Davant), Friday, 13 June 2003 10:45 (twenty years ago) link

Oh, and Calla. How could I forget? "Truth About Robots", but many more.

And there's a band called Sin Ropas that I've been listening to lately, and their "Syrup Coat" reduces me to tears on a regular basis.


David A. (Davant), Friday, 13 June 2003 10:48 (twenty years ago) link

"Let Me In" -- R.E.M.

(Somebody stop me.)

David A. (Davant), Friday, 13 June 2003 10:49 (twenty years ago) link

This has been getting me lately. Great song. Hem

Chris V. (Chris V), Friday, 13 June 2003 11:05 (twenty years ago) link

I think pretty much all the music in my extremely depressing rotation has made me cry. But of all the bands, Red House Painters has done it the most. Every album of theirs has something that makes me weep like a baby. And I like it....

Chris V. (Chris V), Friday, 13 June 2003 11:10 (twenty years ago) link

yeah but you can't listen to melancholic music all the time surely. i mean you must have some stuff you can shake your arse too as well

Bob Shaw (Bob Shaw), Friday, 13 June 2003 12:28 (twenty years ago) link

yes, yes I do.

Chris V. (Chris V), Friday, 13 June 2003 12:35 (twenty years ago) link

heh, ive just seen your sly and the family stone thread, and i am now fully reassured

Bob Shaw (Bob Shaw), Friday, 13 June 2003 12:37 (twenty years ago) link

mojave 3: prayer for the paranoid
the smiths: please please let me get what i want
red house painters: drop
jawbreaker: boxcar
neil young: helpless
soul asylum: runaway train (no joke)
cat power: sea of love


off hand.

sarah mccormick (unsarah), Friday, 13 June 2003 12:46 (twenty years ago) link

I just saw where Sundar mentioned "Pennyroyal Tea", and it made me think of a moment when me & my son's momma (back when she was pregnant with him) were discussing, um, other options to having him, and this song came on the radio, and we were both like gushing tears and couldn't speak for hours. Ben Folds' "Brick" never ever had the same kinda effect on me.

nickalicious (nickalicious), Friday, 13 June 2003 13:02 (twenty years ago) link

As for songs that make me cry in a not-sad way...

REM's "Nightswimming". It makes me feel like a love-struck teenager on a gorgeous summer night. It makes me feel like there's something right with the world.

Serart's "Love is the Peace". This one is really all Arto Tunc Boyaciyan. I was not expecting anything nearly this gorgeous on this album. Absurdly powerful for something so sonically subdued. It took me out of my 'self' for the duration in a way I was very surprised and moved by.

nickalicious (nickalicious), Friday, 13 June 2003 13:12 (twenty years ago) link

apology for an accident, american music club

antiphon by charles atlas for a number of reasons, the first time I heard them play it live, it was so heartbreakingly pretty, and so perfectly composed (they're friends), the room fell so silent, and I felt so good for them, as thought they had written the perfect lullaby. and then they let me name it.

anthony kyle monday (akmonday), Friday, 13 June 2003 15:06 (twenty years ago) link

"now that i'm a junkie" by the tv personalities nearly made me cry a week or so ago, nearly but not quite

duane, Friday, 13 June 2003 15:17 (twenty years ago) link

Song to the Muhfukkin' Siren - Tim Buckley
That's No Way to Say Goodbye - Leonard Cohen
History Lesson Pt. 2 - Minutemen

Baked Bean Teeth (Baked Bean Teeth), Friday, 13 June 2003 16:00 (twenty years ago) link

Song to the Muhfukkin' Siren

HAhhahahahahahaha

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Friday, 13 June 2003 17:33 (twenty years ago) link

Last song that made me cry was 'Make Up Your Mind' by the Heptones...just because it's so fucking beautiful.

oops (Oops), Friday, 13 June 2003 19:32 (twenty years ago) link

I'm Not Crazy - Versus

and, many eons ago:

Night Shift - Commodores

Baked Bean Teeth (Baked Bean Teeth), Friday, 13 June 2003 20:08 (twenty years ago) link

Leonard Cohen, "Take This Longing"
Talk Talk, "It's My Life" (the video, at least)
Big Star, "Big Black Car"
Beatles, "Long Long Long"
Eno, Another Green World (tears of joy upon first listen)
Replacements, "Satisfied"

there's more, I think.

andrew m. (andrewmorgan), Saturday, 14 June 2003 01:20 (twenty years ago) link

heres some:

james- out to get you
cat power- good woman
cat power- color and the kids
portishead- roads
johnny cash f/ fiona apple- bridge over troubled water
mary timony- aging astronauts
sebadoh- willing to wait
flaming lips- waiting for a superman
low- will the night
low- point of disgust
low- two step
granddady- miner at the dial-a-view/so you reach to the skies

more i cant remember

todd swiss (eliti), Saturday, 14 June 2003 06:12 (twenty years ago) link

The last part of 'The Way You Say Goodnight' by Magnetic Fields, and 'Come Back From San Francisco' by them also.

All of Blood On The Tracks.

'Slippin' by DMX

'Toilet Tisha' by Outkast (the part where her mum starts screaming).

David Steans, Saturday, 14 June 2003 12:57 (twenty years ago) link

Smashmouth's "Your Man," the second track on their self-titled third album is this lost classic that perkily describes this twisted relationship with equal parts resentment, gratitude and befuddlement. At the end he starts screaming "what you need, I ain't got, you should be gone by now but you're not...but you're not" on top of clangin church bells and dorky keyboard blips. It's so pathetic, beautiful and funny that it gets me every time.

Anthony Miccio (Anthony Miccio), Saturday, 14 June 2003 13:02 (twenty years ago) link

You're Missing, Thunder Road, The Promise, Backstreets, Sandy - Bruce Springsteen
second the Neil Young from above. Flying On the Ground Is Wrong & the Rainy Day cover of same are good ones too.
Atmosphere - Joy Division
'Round Here - Counting Crows
'Irene Wilde' - Ian Hunter
'SLeeping With the TV On - DIctators
Sad-Eyed Lady of the Lowlands - Dylan
Here Comes a Regular - Replacements
Behind Blue Eyes -Who
Lots of Tom Waits, Leonard Cohen, Townes van Zandt, Johnny Cash
Whiskey Bottle, Looking For a Way Out - Uncle Tupelo

John Bullabaugh (John Bullabaugh), Saturday, 14 June 2003 14:07 (twenty years ago) link

Oddly, there are bits on the Eurythmics' inexplicably maligned soundtrack to "1984" which I find strikingly emotional, such as "For the Love of Big Brother" and, most tear-conjuringly, "Julia." "Doubleplusgood," meanwhile, is just ecstatically silly.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Saturday, 14 June 2003 19:33 (twenty years ago) link

pale blue eyes - velvet underground (it has gotten to the point that i HATE that song now), half of you AND good woman - cat power.

di smith (lucylurex), Sunday, 15 June 2003 00:10 (twenty years ago) link

baked bean teeth wrote:

I'm Not Crazy - Versus

oh yes.

but i'm without this song now, as I've only ever had it on mp3 and i've switched computers. can't ever seem to find it on slsk! (and the song's just called "Crazy" btw)

Aaron A., Monday, 16 June 2003 00:11 (twenty years ago) link

Patti Smith-Piss Factory
Ramones-What's Your Name
Prince-Sometimes It Snows in April
Lucinda Williams-Sweet Old World
Madonna-Into the Groove (reminds me of when I was happiest, makes me feel old,boo hoo hoo)

Arthur (Arthur), Monday, 16 June 2003 00:47 (twenty years ago) link

WHOOO...wow.

Radiohead- Exit Music For A Film
REM- Perfect Circle
Cody Chesnutt- Deliberation, Enough Of Nothing
Maggie's Dream- Why Do We Sigh As We Sing
Clash- Complete Control (this 'un makes me FEEL alive)
Replacements- Unsatisfied, Answering Machine
Tito & Hector- anything by these two makes me weep for humanity

And many, many more...

Francis Watlington, Monday, 16 June 2003 01:44 (twenty years ago) link

all of her handwriting by trembling blue stars, probably 'do people ever?' most

keith (keithmcl), Monday, 16 June 2003 02:18 (twenty years ago) link

alistair galbraith 'stone'

keith (keithmcl), Monday, 16 June 2003 02:56 (twenty years ago) link

two months pass...
Here are a few:

"No Regrets" by Tom Rush
"Little Green" by Joni Mitchell
"Wild Billy's Circus Story" by Bruce Springsteen
"Season's in the Sun" by Terry Jacks
"Is that all there is?" by Peggy Lee

BUT THE PRIZE GOES TO

"Alone again, naturally" by Gilbert O'Sullivan


Rosario Trifiletti, Monday, 1 September 2003 19:03 (twenty years ago) link

"Exit music (for a film)" by Radiohead. Used to be the only record I could cry to; Thom Yorke's voice still has an unwarranted effect on me.

cis (cis), Monday, 1 September 2003 19:14 (twenty years ago) link

Nick Drake - "Place To Be"

Curt1s St3ph3ns, Monday, 1 September 2003 19:16 (twenty years ago) link

I don't actually cry, but some stuff gets me close to it. Some of it is pretty ordinary - Air for G String, "A Little Rain" by Tom Waits, Total Eclipse of the arsing Heart, Love Will Tear Us Apart, I See A grumblegrumble Darkness, Don't You Want Me, Isolation by Joy Division, Fade Into You - and some of it is a bit fucking loopy - "Rebel Girl" by Bikini Kill, Beyond Belief by E Costello, Epic Problem by Fugazi, The Thief by Can, Fuck and Run/Divorce Song by Liz Phair, The Mercy Seat...

Adrian (Adrian Langston), Monday, 1 September 2003 22:38 (twenty years ago) link

one month passes...
Most recently, if not tears but very nearly; Vince Guaraldi's "Christmas Time Is Here" (children's choir version)... I would guess this to be self-explanatory; one of the most poignant, saddest summations of childhood I have heard. It is music beyond the sublime even.

Previously in tears/close to tears, to:
Roy Harper - 'When an Old Cricketer Leaves the Crease' (one of my favourite songs bar none; my whole being was transfixed when I saw him play this live last month... and it was followed by 'Me and My Woman', which ain't bad either! ;-))
Tom Waits - 'Innocent When You Dream'/'I'm Still Here'
Fats Waller - 'Two Sleepy People'
Rose Royce - 'You're on my mind' (esp. in the context of the film "Car Wash")
Big Star - 'Nightime'/'Take Care'...
Gilbert O'Sullivan - 'Alone Again (Naturally)' ('the only man she had ever loved had been taken...')
The Beatles - 'Julia', 'Do You Want to Know a Secret?' 'Ask Me Why' - those "Please Please Me" songs ring a nostalgic core in me; some of the first music I get into.
Abba - 'The Day Before You Came'/'Dancing Queen' - two opposite sides of melancholy... 'Dancing Queen' is partly nostalgic for me and so tearfully joyous, and the other, well, need I explain?
Debbie Reynolds - 'Tammy'
Rolf Harris - 'Two Little Boys' - years ago you understand! Though it still can move, it really affected me more as a child.
The Wayfarers - 'Whistle Down the Wind'/R. Ronalde - 'La Monastery Creek' (a pair of instrumentals on a Hallo Children Everywhere compilation... yearning, nostalgic vibraphone on the first... a chap doing the birds on the second... very personal chord these strike)
John Fahey - much of 'Transfiguration of Blind Joe Death' album, particularly "On the Sunny Side..." and "Daisy"...
Talking of old music hall songs;
Albert Chevalier - 'The Future Mrs 'Awkins' - such a beautifully alien recording to today; made possibly 100 years ago. That odd, withered voice and long outmoded London accent; all with a wonderfully odd and moving tune.
Herb Alpert/Tijuna Brass - 'This Guy's in Love With You'
The Carpenters - 'Close to You' - in the oddest of contexts, I was reduced to watering eyes by this; it was played over the credits of an averageish student film at a student film festival last year. It had been ages since I'd heard it, but well, it hit home, esp. concerning affairs in my life at the time.
Barry White - 'Never Never Gonna Give Ya Up'
The Bonzo Dog Band - 'Ready-Mades'/'Sport'/virtually all of their last album.
The Smiths - yes, 'Asleep' and 'Please Please Please...'; the second almost more so due to that sublime wash of sound that comes in near the end. 'Asleep' has that affecting musical box at the end though as well. 'William It Was Really Nothing', as it was really the main song that got me into the Smiths, along with 'This Charming Man'. It just moves me inexplicably and crucial is that backwards guitar descending into quietitude in the fade.
Isaac Hayes - 'By the Time I Get to Phoenix'
'By a Waterfall' - that whole unspeakably beautiful Busby Berkeley sequence in "Footlight Parade". Same goes for 'Over the Rainbow' and 'Singin' in the Rain'. That song that cuts through it all at the end of "Paths of Glory". The use of that wonderful ballad in "High Noon"...
Much of the 'Singing Detective' soundtrack; not just "We'll meet again" and "Lilli Marlene", but things like the deathless xylophone solo in Henry Hall's "Teddy Boys' Picnic". Potter's positioning of the music within his drama really lends incredible poignancy to them, at many points.

Whenever I hear Roy Orbison or Daniel Johnston's voices with the right songs, there's instantly pause for emotion...

Just now, felt very wistful and reflective in a sad way on hearing Jake Thackray;s "Rain on the Mountainside" - just a pastoral melancholy and his wonderfully expressive nylon-string guitar... great teary-eyed stuff.

Tom May (Tom May), Friday, 31 October 2003 00:08 (twenty years ago) link

you guys fuckin' cry too much.

attendee, Friday, 31 October 2003 04:53 (twenty years ago) link

Sober As A Drunk

youn, Tuesday, 4 November 2003 05:23 (twenty years ago) link

Tom Waits "Soldier's Things"

Andrew Thames (Andrew Thames), Tuesday, 4 November 2003 05:35 (twenty years ago) link

eleven months pass...
slow motion, flaming lips

pineapples, Tuesday, 19 October 2004 10:20 (nineteen years ago) link

At various parts of my life, these have really hit a nerve:

Tim Buckley (or This Mortal Coil) - Song to the Siren
Radiohead - Fake Plastic Trees
Mojave 3 - Prayer for the Paranoid
Slowdive - Catch the Breeze
Red House Painters - (lots) Katy Song, Drop, Song for a Blue Guitar, Shadows, Mistress, Sundays & Holidays, Bubble...
Depeche Mode - A Question of Lust, But Not Tonight, Somebody
The Cure - Pictures Of You
The Smiths - Asleep, Please Please Please..., Last Night I Dreamt that Somebody Loved Me
Nick Drake - Pink Moon, Fly
OMD - Joan of Arc, Maid of Orleans, Was it Something I Said?
Great Lake Swimmers - Moving Pictures Silent Films
The Beatles - Yesterday
Kings of Convenience - Homesick, I Don't Know What I Can Save You From
Yazoo - Only You
Harold Budd - Balthus Bemused by Color
Palestrina Masses - (a lot of it)
Trespassers William - Vapour Trail (Ride cover)
Dead Can Dance / Lisa Gerrard - (there's a few)
Split Enz - Six Months In A Leaky Boat
Peter Gabriel - Don't Give Up
Marc Almond - These My Dreams Are Yours
Iron & Whine - The Creek Drank the Cradle album
John Denver - Calypso, Annie's Song
Duran Duran - The Chauffer

Probably more but these come to mind first...

Rob Bolton (Rob Bolton), Tuesday, 19 October 2004 11:21 (nineteen years ago) link

umm, how about...

true love waits - radiohead
by your side - cocorosie
winner's blues - sonic youth
willing to wait - lou barlow (solo version from local band feel lp)
surgery i stole - devendra banhart
les & ray - le tigre
how to disappear completely - radiohead
music appreciation - the boogiemonsters

whoah, pretty heavy on the indie tip. i barely listen to this sort of stuff so maybe these are obvious picks.

d. mitha (ykeo), Tuesday, 19 October 2004 20:57 (nineteen years ago) link

The last thing that really got to me was "Afterglow" by George Sarah. (I don't think it's released yet.) Sarah lays a gentle chill-out string groove under a spoken word track from a wounded soldier back from Iraq who recounts the horrors he had on the battlefield and the even worse time he's had at VA hospitals now that he's back. As corny/awful as that may sound, I usually lose it about halfway through the thing.

mottdeterre (mottdeterre), Tuesday, 19 October 2004 22:58 (nineteen years ago) link

I JUST WASN'T MADE FOR THESE TIMES

tom cleveland (tom cleveland), Tuesday, 19 October 2004 23:14 (nineteen years ago) link

lately "I Can't Write Left Handed" by Bill Withers.

jed_ (jed), Tuesday, 19 October 2004 23:15 (nineteen years ago) link

R.A. The Rugged Man - "Smithhaven Mall"
Big Star - "Holocaust"
Vanessa Carlton - "White Houses"
Immortal Technique - "You Never Know"
Cocteau Twins - "Rilkean Heart"

Not crying, but just bitchmade. I'm a bitch these days, straight up bitch these days. I need a vacation.

LeCoq (LeCoq), Tuesday, 19 October 2004 23:22 (nineteen years ago) link

Special props to Ray Charles "My First Night Alone Without You" as well.

mottdeterre (mottdeterre), Tuesday, 19 October 2004 23:25 (nineteen years ago) link

"Roads" by portishead always makes me feel a little soppy.

Wooden (Wooden), Tuesday, 19 October 2004 23:29 (nineteen years ago) link

Oh yeah, a couple other biggies:

My Morning Jacket - The Way That He Sings
Sebadoh - Soul and Fire

Rob Bolton (Rob Bolton), Wednesday, 20 October 2004 08:42 (nineteen years ago) link

oh yeah, these too

Talk Talk - April 5th
Mark Hollis - The Colour of Spring

Rob Bolton (Rob Bolton), Wednesday, 20 October 2004 08:47 (nineteen years ago) link

nine months pass...
the songs that get me are
nick drake: northern sky, pink moon
monica: angel of mine
ramones:wonderful world
the doors: hello, i love you

Hello My name is Jenny, Wednesday, 3 August 2005 13:07 (eighteen years ago) link

The piano introduction to 'Dixie Flyer' by Randy Newman
The orchestral version of Joni Mitchell's 'Cherokee Louise' on 'Travelogue'
The "and when she stopped singing they said 'More, More' and they applauded" bit of Steve Reich's 'Different Trains'.

avery keen-gardner (avery keen-gardner), Thursday, 4 August 2005 11:09 (eighteen years ago) link

two months pass...
The Lonely Lark by Damien Davis

and Spaceship Earht by DAMIEN davis

Albert Ross, Sunday, 30 October 2005 04:49 (eighteen years ago) link

six months pass...
Tears in Heaven by Eric Clapton; hits hard as its about his son who died when he was four - bad stuff.

Sam N., Wednesday, 3 May 2006 20:57 (seventeen years ago) link

Phoenix "If I Ever Feel Better" Todd Edwards remix.

every fucking single time.

scnnr drkly (scnnr drkly), Wednesday, 3 May 2006 21:13 (seventeen years ago) link

held - by natalie grant &
cry - by mandy moore ..
that's what i listen to when i need to get it all out.. ;(

kota*, Wednesday, 3 May 2006 21:21 (seventeen years ago) link

palace - new partner


EVERY GD TIME

RoxyMuzak© (roxymuzak), Wednesday, 3 May 2006 21:48 (seventeen years ago) link

fugazi - im so tired

buzbomb, Wednesday, 3 May 2006 23:11 (seventeen years ago) link

Neutral Milk Hotel - Two Headed Boy Pt. 2

Steve Goldberg, Thursday, 4 May 2006 00:16 (seventeen years ago) link

Of ever: Odetta singing "John Riley."
Right now: Liz Phair, "Somebody's Miracle," though I'll probably get past that.

carl w (carl w), Thursday, 4 May 2006 00:32 (seventeen years ago) link

troubled waters - michael hurley
words - low
i threw it all away - bob dylan
hold on magnolia - songs:ohia
you lost sight of me - micah p hinson
i see a darkness - bonnie 'prince' billy
i found a reason - cat power (velvet underground cover)
clam crab cockle cowrie - joanna newsom
bird gerhl - antony & the johnsons
river guard - smog
calvary cross - richard & linda thompson
drop - red house painters
wild is the wind - nina simone
asleep and dreaming - magnetic fields
i'm so lonesome i could cry - iron man & skull (hank williams cover)
something new - art of fighting
swinging - black box recorder
tears in your eyes - yo la tengo
playground love -air
pitseleh - elliott smith
amime - eddie marcon
these arms of mine - otis redding
trapeze swinger - iron & wine
cry me a river - julie london
r u still in 2 it? - mogwai
abilene - damien jurado
if you ever need a stranger - jens lekman
suzanne - leonard cohen

sally/|\ross, Sunday, 7 May 2006 08:39 (seventeen years ago) link

Codeine - Barely real.
Syd Barrett - Dark Globe.
Mojave 3 - yer feet.
R.E.M - country feedback
...

mother of father, Sunday, 7 May 2006 11:11 (seventeen years ago) link

Fugazi - Last chance for a slow dance

mother father, Sunday, 7 May 2006 11:20 (seventeen years ago) link

At This Moment-Billy Vera & the Beaters

If only I were joking.

Jacobs (LolVStein), Sunday, 7 May 2006 11:32 (seventeen years ago) link

On reflection, pretty much every song that makes me a weepy fucker contains some lyric or another about aging, mortality, birth, loss, overabundant joy, regret, etc. (change in general) that hits a little too close to home. To wit:

Badly Drawn Boy - "You Were Right, Parts 1 & 2"
Sarah McLachlan - "Adia" (yes, really)
Jeff Buckley - "Lover, You Should've Come Over"
Beach Boys - "'Til I Die", and any number of songs from Pet Sounds
REM - "Country Feedback", and any number of songs from Automatic For The People
Stevie Wonder - "Isn't She Lovely?", and several other Songs from ...The Key Of Life
The Softies - "Hello, Rain" (playing right into Rose Melberg's emo-drenched hands)

Also: I blubbered mightily, and continued with multiple replays, to Kanye West's "Celebration" the other day, upon graduating from college after eleven years of false starts and fucking around. So that was probably entirely situational.

Deric W. Haircare (Deric W. Haircare), Sunday, 7 May 2006 14:22 (seventeen years ago) link

The Year Of The Cat

Kim (Kim), Sunday, 7 May 2006 15:12 (seventeen years ago) link

wild is the wind - nina simone
asleep and dreaming - magnetic fields
if you ever need a stranger - jens lekman

Yes!

Orange, Sunday, 7 May 2006 15:15 (seventeen years ago) link

"Yellow" by Coldplay - Song makes me want to cry and stab myself in the heart everytime I hear it

joe schmoe (joeschmoe), Sunday, 7 May 2006 15:36 (seventeen years ago) link

Sadly today, Cattle and Cane, Go-Betweens

kornrulez6969 (TCBeing), Sunday, 7 May 2006 15:43 (seventeen years ago) link

Dylan, You're A Big Girl Now
Sylvian / Sakamato, Forbidden Colours
Johnny Thunders, You Can't Put Your Arms Around a Memory
Style Council, Paris Match
Lou Barlow, Beautiful Friend (KCRW version)
Roxy Music, Spin Me Round
Rickie Lee Jones, Company

douglas eklund (skolle), Sunday, 7 May 2006 22:37 (seventeen years ago) link

OH CRAP! There are also two or three tracks on The Dirty Three's Horse Stories which cause total meltdown. It's been so long since I've listened to that album that I'd forgotten. I feel like maybe the potential meltdowns are why I've avoided it.

Deric W. Haircare (Deric W. Haircare), Sunday, 7 May 2006 23:07 (seventeen years ago) link

Genesis' "Afterglow" and "Mad Man Moon".

While we're at it, Anthony Phillips (their first guitarist) also has a score of lump-in-the-throat tunes in his solo work. Seek out: "Seven Long Years", "God If I Saw Her Now", "Collections", "Unheard Cry"...

Joe (Joe), Sunday, 7 May 2006 23:35 (seventeen years ago) link

A lot of Stephin Merritt songs, also -appropriately- The Crying Game (Boy George's cover).

daavid (daavid), Monday, 8 May 2006 05:03 (seventeen years ago) link

I forgot "Smalltown Boy" by the Bronski Beat.

daavid (daavid), Monday, 8 May 2006 05:04 (seventeen years ago) link

Carl Wilson quotes Stephin Merritt from EMP:
[On falsetto]: "When there's a break in the voice you can't tell if you are laughing or crying. I've discovered this trying to sing at a show in Colorado, at high altitudes. The body starts heaving, huhh-huhh-huhh, and you just choose whether to laugh or to cry, since we're conditioned to associate it with one or another. ... This is also why men cry at Wouldn't It Be Nice by the Beach Boys more than women do - because you are subvocalizing along with the song without knowing it, and when you reach the falsetto break, you subconsciously feel like you are already crying."

I'm gonna have to check to see if the points when I feel myself welling up correspond to a falsetto jump. Also, boys' vs. girls' emotional response?

gooblar (gooblar), Tuesday, 9 May 2006 12:32 (seventeen years ago) link

gooblar, that quote reminds me of how I feel when I listen to Arcade Fire's "In the Backseat." At around 3:15, when she starts wailing. That song has made me cry.

Steve Goldberg (Steve Goldberg), Tuesday, 9 May 2006 12:51 (seventeen years ago) link

A couple of these may be situational, but these songs can have me teary-eyed in a matter of minutes...

Something Corporate - 'Konstantine'
Iron & Wine - 'The Trapeze Swinger'
Bayside - 'Winter' (About their drummer who recently passed away)
Something Corporate - 'Globes And Maps' and 'Walking By'
Five For Fighting - 'Superman'
Coldplay - 'The Scientist' (I know for a fact that this was just because of something that happened to me personally, although the video is really sad, and it is generally a sad song)
Goo Goo Dolls - 'Iris'
Death Cab For Cutie - 'I Will Follow You Into The Dark' and 'What Sarah Said' (Especially when he sings "Love is watching someone die... So who's gonna watch you die?")
Colin Hay - 'I Just Don't Think I'll Ever Get Over You'

Brooke, Monday, 15 May 2006 21:38 (seventeen years ago) link


Mary Black - "Mo Gile Mear". I have no idea what she's singing about, but I know it's gotta be something really sad.

Kate Bush - "This Women's Work". High on the weep-o-meter - especially if you hear it while watching "She's Having a Baby".

Jane Olivor - "Song for my Father". Sweet Lord, please make it stop! :-)

Jane Siberry - "Calling All Angels". Mainly the chorus.

Sara Groves - "Fly" or "You Cannot Love Your Love", take your pick.

Yep, they all have a similar feel to them - guess they all hit the same buttons...

roebri, Thursday, 18 May 2006 04:05 (seventeen years ago) link

Iron and Wine - Passing Afternoon (kills me)

Dylan - You Belong to me (On Natural Born Killers soundtrack, and I'm not sure where else)
Also, Bob Dylan's Dream (On Freewheelin) is the saddest song about growing up I've ever heard

Elliot Smith - Somebody That I Used to Know

Smashing Pumpkins - Glynis (Anybody else?? From 'No Alternative' Comp)

Leonard Cohen - Chelsea Hotel ("I can't keep track of each fallen rock..."). Also: Democracy from "The Future" (Sail on, sail on, Oh mighty ship of steel). Even if the lyrics are cynical, the melody makes me swell with some vague hope for, well, the future i guess, and whatever vestiges of purity are left of the *idea* of america.

Dinosaur Jr - Seemed like the thing to do (maybe not CRYING here, but still...)

I'll Second:
Thrasher - Neil Young
Time - Tom Waits

timmay (The Giant Mechanical Ant), Thursday, 18 May 2006 05:02 (seventeen years ago) link

Tom Petty's "American Girl", Joni Mitchell's "River" and Janis Ian's "At Seventeen" all have the POTENTIAL to make me cry. But if you wish to GUARANTEE the tears, nothing can beat this:

http://www.minorlooneytunes.com/pictures/marc021.jpg

Myonga Von Blubbering (Monty Von Byonga), Thursday, 18 May 2006 05:31 (seventeen years ago) link

everything by headman with tara on vocals gets tears in my eyes.
(from laughter, that is)

dem rocked! (dem rocked!), Thursday, 18 May 2006 09:37 (seventeen years ago) link

"The First Time Ever I saw Your Face" ...either the original by Roberta Flack or the redo by Celine Dion. It is an incredibly heartfelt and beautiful song. I think of my wife when I hear it, so it has meaning for me.

Eric S, Tuesday, 23 May 2006 16:44 (seventeen years ago) link

Blue Thunder - Galaxie 500

jake dean, Thursday, 25 May 2006 09:44 (seventeen years ago) link

not sure Ewan McColl would agree that Roberta Flack's version of "The First Time..." is the original

winter testing (winter testing), Thursday, 25 May 2006 11:33 (seventeen years ago) link

Kris Kristofferson - "In the News"
P!nk - "Dear Mr. President"
Dolly Parton - "Jolene" and "Coat of Many Colors"

shorty (shorty), Thursday, 25 May 2006 16:16 (seventeen years ago) link

Beatles - Julia
Billie Holiday - Solitude
Buddy Holly - Everyday
Willie Nelson - Angel Flying too Close to the Ground

Carlos C., Friday, 26 May 2006 05:54 (seventeen years ago) link

The Softies - "Hello, Rain" (playing right into Rose Melberg's emo-drenched hands)

This may be the first time anyone has ever described the Softies as "emo". But yeah, they are probably the band that most readily evokes tears from me. (For Maximum Weeping Efficiency, though, I will usually go with the title track from Winter Pageant.)

On a more bizarre note, I also have a hard time not crying when I hear Bikini Kill's "Rebel Girl". And I have no idea why. It's not the band -- nothing else by them does it. It's not any association I have with the song -- I don't have any. I don't find the song sad. But there I sit, crying semi-uncontrollably. Fortunately, I do not listen to Bikini Kill on any kind of regular basis.

Pessimist (Pessimist), Friday, 26 May 2006 07:24 (seventeen years ago) link

Blackbird - sarah mglachlan
Only You- Yazoo
Blower's daughter - damien rice
Bittersweet Symphony- The verve
Colourblind- counting crows
Sparks - Coldplay
Built this way - Samantha Ronson
Little Star- romeo & juliet soundtrack

isabella, Tuesday, 30 May 2006 12:36 (seventeen years ago) link

Hurt...the Johnny cash version

mark, Wednesday, 31 May 2006 19:20 (seventeen years ago) link

Inner City Life

JTS (JTS), Wednesday, 31 May 2006 20:20 (seventeen years ago) link

mr_hopkinson's computer's version of Fake Plastic Trees and Where Is My Mind

StanM (StanM), Saturday, 3 June 2006 20:23 (seventeen years ago) link

two years pass...

cover of Suede's "Trash" by Mt Goats

midnight challops (wanko ergo sum), Thursday, 6 November 2008 23:53 (fifteen years ago) link

for some reason i can't put my finger on, "therese" by the bodines

thereminimum chips (electricsound), Thursday, 6 November 2008 23:55 (fifteen years ago) link

one year passes...

I have cried at three different songs today....I think I just needed to cry.

Walter Melon (Abbott), Tuesday, 27 April 2010 04:19 (thirteen years ago) link

Can't listen to Gavin Bryar's Jesus' Blood Never Failed Me anymore for this reason. If I get to the Tom Waits bit I'm okay though.

mmmm, Tuesday, 27 April 2010 17:23 (thirteen years ago) link

Colony by Joy Division, particularly the line "the sons of broken homes who always meet here"

Dr X O'Skeleton, Tuesday, 27 April 2010 17:46 (thirteen years ago) link

"A Lady of a Certain Age" / The Divine Comedy

Turangalila, Tuesday, 27 April 2010 18:00 (thirteen years ago) link

"The Flesh Failures - Let the Sun Shine" in from Hair

Turangalila, Tuesday, 27 April 2010 18:02 (thirteen years ago) link

Georgia Lee - Tom Waits
Many a Fine Lady - Townes van Zandt

ImprovSpirit, Tuesday, 27 April 2010 21:58 (thirteen years ago) link

  • dennis wilson, carry me home and it's not too late
  • iron & wine, bird stealing bread and weary memory
  • richard hawley, the ocean

Daniel, Esq., Tuesday, 27 April 2010 22:00 (thirteen years ago) link

Taylor Swift, "The Best Day." Twice in the past 18 months; no other song has done it even once. (Being a parent has a lot to do with it.)

xhuxk, Tuesday, 27 April 2010 22:12 (thirteen years ago) link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kVdVTVR-j0Q

meisenfek, Wednesday, 28 April 2010 10:21 (thirteen years ago) link

Somewhat obscure I know, but this one I can never get through with my eyes still dry - and I'm a guy....

"Long Nights" - Crack the Sky

Saddest. Song. Ever.

Especially since it's told from through the eyes of someone trying to cheer up his friend, who may or may not realize that given the situation it just can't be done.

Lee626, Friday, 30 April 2010 09:12 (thirteen years ago) link

"Cry" by The Sundays.
"Half Asleep" by the School of Seven Bells has been setting me off recently.

the big pink suede panda bear hurts (ledge), Friday, 30 April 2010 09:14 (thirteen years ago) link

Okay so I'm watching the Arthur Russell documentary 'Wild Combination' and it's just come to the part where his parents and his partner are talking about AR on his deathbed. It then cuts to a tracking shot of some cornfields with Mimi Goese from Hugo Largo singing a cover of a song by Arthur called 'Time To Go Home Now', and I was *gone*. Talk about pushing buttons, but damn!

Heavy Potato Encounter (MaresNest), Friday, 30 April 2010 09:20 (thirteen years ago) link

John Lennon - "Beautiful Boy (Darling Boy)," so long as I don't think of Mr. Holland's Opus

Sam Weller, Friday, 30 April 2010 11:42 (thirteen years ago) link

Joy Division - Atmosphere
Elliot Murphy - How's the Family
Patti Smith - The Jackson Song
Bruce Springsteen - The Last Carnival, Gypsy Biker, You're Missing [almost guaranteed every time!], Land of Hope & Dream

ImprovSpirit, Friday, 30 April 2010 17:04 (thirteen years ago) link

Godley and Creme's "Cry" was the last song that did this to me, stupid as it sounds.

Trip Maker, Friday, 30 April 2010 17:08 (thirteen years ago) link

Talk Talk- Time It's Time
Current 93- The Frolic
Robyn Hitchcock- Autumn Is Your Last Chance

International Harvester Of Eyes (Jon Lewis), Friday, 30 April 2010 17:08 (thirteen years ago) link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-5chQcTBZfw

biologically wrong (Z S), Saturday, 1 May 2010 03:19 (thirteen years ago) link

"bright" "eyes" makes me cry, but for a different reason.

Daniel, Esq., Saturday, 1 May 2010 03:21 (thirteen years ago) link

???

man, i love me some Bright Eyes. was listening to some live (& non-live) performances from I'm Wide Awake era earlier tonight on the YouTubes

why the hell are you spelling out "donuts" in dunkin donuts (ksh), Saturday, 1 May 2010 03:27 (thirteen years ago) link

(i'm not a bright eyes fan. but, obv.: de gustibus non est disputandum.)

Daniel, Esq., Saturday, 1 May 2010 03:27 (thirteen years ago) link

Daniel, that's not a Bright Eyes tune

why the hell are you spelling out "donuts" in dunkin donuts (ksh), Saturday, 1 May 2010 03:28 (thirteen years ago) link

the name of the song is "Bright Eyes"

why the hell are you spelling out "donuts" in dunkin donuts (ksh), Saturday, 1 May 2010 03:28 (thirteen years ago) link

which i would've realized before i made my post about loving Bright Eyes if I had clicked "play" on Abbott's video

why the hell are you spelling out "donuts" in dunkin donuts (ksh), Saturday, 1 May 2010 03:28 (thirteen years ago) link

OHHHHHHHHHHHHHH . . .

apologies! i can't listen to the video now. no headphones within easy reach, and i need to keep the sound low so i won't wake up my daughter.

Daniel, Esq., Saturday, 1 May 2010 03:30 (thirteen years ago) link

It's the song Art Garfunkel did for Watership Down. When the band Bright Eyes first started getting big, it was an endless source of frustration. Me: "You mean the Art Garfunkel song?" Everyone in the entire world: "Whaaaa?"

lol. i'm not much of a simon & garfunkel fan, but garfunkel has a world-class, and emotionally rich, voice.

Daniel, Esq., Saturday, 1 May 2010 03:32 (thirteen years ago) link

*And* it is accompanied by dying, bleeding rabbits...*sniff*

The Beatles, I'll Follow the Sun. Of all of the pretentious hurt but picking up the pieces carols that exist, this is one of the simplest, most direct, yet most sincere. The melody is almost as hummable as a children's song, which nicely parallels the childlike feelings of abandonment when we realize someone doesn't want us.

Even though "tomorrow may rain, but I'll follow the sun" is ostensibly a positive lyric, it doesn't seem like the narrator is completely sure that brighter days are coming. There's that nagging feeling of uncertainty in there as well.

Mush all of that together and you have a song that during a trying time in my life, had me sobbing to the point of having to pull over when I heard it on an oldies station on SIRIUS.

Pippi Longstockings (Brad Nowell's Soiled Undergarments), Saturday, 1 May 2010 03:36 (thirteen years ago) link

I guess I'm not really thinking about the thread question properly. There's no one song that always makes me cry, or even makes me cry like 10% of the time I hear it. It's more like you can get in certain moods where music/art can really intensify a thought you're dwelling on, and at that point, a song like The Trees is just devastating for some reason. Or, a few months ago, I caught some old school Russian ballet on public access tv and it was the most fucking beautiful thing I'd ever seen in my life, it just tore me up on a sunny weekend morning that should have been nice. And then the next week I saw some more ballet on the same channel and thought booooooooooooooooooring

biologically wrong (Z S), Saturday, 1 May 2010 03:39 (thirteen years ago) link

sometimes - mbv
here - pavement

kelpolaris, Saturday, 1 May 2010 03:43 (thirteen years ago) link

Not really full-on "cry" per se, but these have all made me choke/tear up a little bit in the past year or two:

Four Tet, "Angel Echoes" (at recent live show)
MBV, "Soon" (also live)
School of Seven Bells... first new song they played live... wrote about this on the SVIIB thread, in fact.
John Lennon, "Stand By Me"
The xx, "Fantasy"
Taylor Swift, "Fearless"... "Love Story"... and "The Best Day" (echoing xhuxk on that last one)

I just wish he hadn't adopted the "ilxor" moniker (ilxor), Saturday, 1 May 2010 03:57 (thirteen years ago) link

biggie - juicy

going non-native (dyao), Saturday, 1 May 2010 04:02 (thirteen years ago) link

Tom Waits, Martha
Sufjan Stevens, Jacksonville
The xx, Shelter
Rumo, Ladeira da Memória
The Beatles, Blackbird

Shin Oliva Suzuki, Saturday, 1 May 2010 11:57 (thirteen years ago) link

Kate Bush, Hounds of Love-if i am fragile already, the whole album reduces me to tears

iago g., Sunday, 2 May 2010 00:00 (thirteen years ago) link

John Prine - Sam Stone

ImprovSpirit, Sunday, 2 May 2010 02:13 (thirteen years ago) link

the part of juicy that makes me get something in my eye is always "sold out seats to hear biggie smalls speak" for some reason

horseshoe, Sunday, 2 May 2010 20:17 (thirteen years ago) link

Joanna Newsom - Jackrabbits

Zeno, Sunday, 2 May 2010 20:21 (thirteen years ago) link

six months pass...

I cannot hear "The Mary Ellen Carter" by Stan Rogers without breaking down.

Dan I., Wednesday, 10 November 2010 22:37 (thirteen years ago) link

Taylor Swift, "The Best Day." Twice in the past 18 months; no other song has done it even once. (Being a parent has a lot to do with it.)

But now, as of last week, another song has: "Never Grow Up" by Taylor Swift.

xhuxk, Wednesday, 10 November 2010 23:26 (thirteen years ago) link

Stan Rogers has quite a few songs that can do this. Songs from the film "Oh, What a Lovely War" tear me up pretty well, too. Mavis Staples can also bring this on.

pauls00, Wednesday, 10 November 2010 23:37 (thirteen years ago) link

In germany before the War - Randy Newman (from 'Little Criminals'

When you realise the "little golden girl" has been molested & murdered. Just heartbreaking.

Paddy Neville, Thursday, 11 November 2010 03:01 (thirteen years ago) link

Driving through North Philadelphia this morning, 'Too Hot' by Kool & the Gang." An absolutely crushing song for grownups.

Fruitless and Pansy Free (Dr. Joseph A. Ofalt), Thursday, 11 November 2010 03:09 (thirteen years ago) link

I am totally serious when I say "Puff, the Magic Dragon."

Stop Non-Erotic Cabaret (Abbbottt), Thursday, 11 November 2010 03:42 (thirteen years ago) link

six months pass...

You know, I realised the other day I can't even think about "Two Little Boys" by Rolf Harris without feeling prickly behind the eyes.

broodje kroket (dog latin), Thursday, 19 May 2011 14:53 (twelve years ago) link

two years pass...

there are about 5 different ILX threads on this, so i wasn't sure which one to revive. good article here: http://thequietus.com/articles/14551-favourite-songs-that-make-you-cry-list

my personal pick goes to Stars of the Lid's Requiem for Dying Mothers Pt. 1. not to be too morbid but i have imagined what it would be like to die to that song or what it would sound like at a funeral so many times that whenever i hear it i immediately think of people i've lost. i sometimes have dreams where i die and then continue dreaming in the death state, and the song feels like that.

Karl Malone, Tuesday, 11 March 2014 20:52 (ten years ago) link

Halah by Mazzy Star. Famous Blue Raincoat by Leonard Cohen. Pink Rabbits by the National, esp the line "so surprised you want to dance with me now / i was just getting used to living life without you around." As you turn to go by the 6ths esp "but youre the star if my life story / and i'm so sorry".

james franco, Tuesday, 11 March 2014 21:37 (ten years ago) link

Reading through this thread and listening to some of it reminds me that I'm really intolerant of other people's self-pity and that lyrics are pretty balls, mostly.

It's only instrumentals that have ever moved me to tears, usually something like the last section of Swedenborgske Rom by Jaga Jazzist or the intro to Storm by GYSBE! if they hit me at the right moment.

The only piece of music that makes me choke up without fail is Movement V of 'Quartet for the End of Time' by Messiaen. I'm not even sure why.

ultros ultros-ghali, Wednesday, 12 March 2014 01:32 (ten years ago) link

ten months pass...

"Vincent" by Don McLean does it every time.

Poliopolice, Wednesday, 4 February 2015 02:56 (nine years ago) link

"Hands to Heaven"

Hammer Smashed Bagels, Wednesday, 4 February 2015 03:45 (nine years ago) link

for the first 50 times, this song. every. damn. time.

http://danreeder.bandcamp.com/track/maybe

Poliopolice, Wednesday, 4 February 2015 03:58 (nine years ago) link

historically:

"this woman's work," kate bush
"gold dust," tori amos
"in california," joanna newsom

emo canon in twee major (BradNelson), Wednesday, 4 February 2015 04:05 (nine years ago) link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ZZbBWmC8zM

saer, Wednesday, 4 February 2015 05:45 (nine years ago) link

"Moon is Sharp" - Grouper
"All Apologies" - Nirvana
"Raspberry Beret" - Prince
"Deacon Blues" - Steely Dan
"Widow's Walk" - Van Dyke Parks
"'Heroes'" - Bowie
"The Crying of Lot G" - Yo La Tengo
"Mary Star of the Sea" - Zwan
"Doggy" - Animal Collective
"Taste" (BBC 2009) - Animal Collective
"Penny Lane" - Beatles
"Here Comes the Sun" - Beatles
"I Want You" - Dylan
"In This Hole" - Cat Power
"For Martha" - Smashing Pumpkins
"The Workplace" - Jim O'Rourke
"Sawdust & Diamonds" - Joanna Newsom
"Brass in Pocket" - Pretenders
"Buzz Saw" - Xiu Xiu
"Stop Breathin" - Pavement

when is the new Jim O'Rourke album coming out (spazzmatazz), Wednesday, 4 February 2015 06:01 (nine years ago) link

good times

languagelessness (mattresslessness), Wednesday, 4 February 2015 06:15 (nine years ago) link

young hearts run free

languagelessness (mattresslessness), Wednesday, 4 February 2015 06:16 (nine years ago) link

love sensation

languagelessness (mattresslessness), Wednesday, 4 February 2015 06:17 (nine years ago) link

good times

― languagelessness (mattresslessness), Wednesday, February 4, 2015 1:15 AM (10 minutes ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

Jim O'Rourke or Chic?

when is the new Jim O'Rourke album coming out (spazzmatazz), Wednesday, 4 February 2015 06:26 (nine years ago) link

james franco otm upthread about "as you turn to go"

Treeship, Wednesday, 4 February 2015 12:41 (nine years ago) link

Let It Go and Do You Want to Build a Snowman, without fail.

how's life, Wednesday, 4 February 2015 12:55 (nine years ago) link

after the goldrush did it to me recently when i was in starbucks

Treeship, Wednesday, 4 February 2015 13:04 (nine years ago) link

Landslide, pretty much without fail

walid foster dulles (man alive), Wednesday, 4 February 2015 14:54 (nine years ago) link

yep, that fucking "children get older I'm getting older too" line

Brio2, Wednesday, 4 February 2015 22:00 (nine years ago) link

so overplayed though. i don't rank it with her best so that too.

rip van wanko, Wednesday, 4 February 2015 22:02 (nine years ago) link

yeah - just hits a weird memory button for me. I'll be driving the car with kids in the backseat and start crying to "landslide", remembering my mother driving the car with kids in the backseat crying to "landslide".

Brio2, Wednesday, 4 February 2015 22:04 (nine years ago) link

"Storms" and "Beautiful Child" almost every time. And "Silver Springs" too.

rip van wanko, Wednesday, 4 February 2015 22:13 (nine years ago) link

i have a hard time with John Mayer's "I Don't Trust Myself with Loving You" cos I first heard it on behalf of my then girlfriend and it perfectly encapsulated why that relationship never worked. yet it also digs up a series of memories of a period of time when it was actually perfect which is probably why the song fucks with me so much.

"Landslide" is a good one.

any choral rendition of "May the Road Rise to Meet You" makes me an instant puddle too.

Hammer Smashed Bagels, Wednesday, 4 February 2015 22:19 (nine years ago) link

billy bragg - "tank park salute"

brimstead, Wednesday, 4 February 2015 22:20 (nine years ago) link

TVZ: Tecumseh Valley, Lover's Lullaby, Rex's Blues, You Are Not Needed Now, sometimes Pancho and Lefty

rip van wanko, Wednesday, 4 February 2015 22:25 (nine years ago) link

"Someone Saved My Life Tonight" tho that's an obv voice

perhaps I should stop sobbing to music so much

Hammer Smashed Bagels, Wednesday, 4 February 2015 22:26 (nine years ago) link

*choice

Hammer Smashed Bagels, Wednesday, 4 February 2015 22:26 (nine years ago) link

Also: I blubbered mightily, and continued with multiple replays, to Kanye West's "Celebration" the other day, upon graduating from college after eleven years of false starts and fucking around. So that was probably entirely situational.

― Deric W. Haircare (Deric W. Haircare), Sunday, May 7, 2006 7:22 AM (8 years ago)

o man, Deric W. Haircare. i miss having that name around. always used to brighten my day. Deric W. Haircare. congratulations, man.

don't really give a shit about "celebration" tho.

A Severus of Snapes (contenderizer), Wednesday, 4 February 2015 22:33 (nine years ago) link

three weeks pass...

I'm still around, contendo. Belated thanks for the super belated congrats.

Bowie's "Five Years" is doing this to me every. freaking. time I listen to it these days.

U SNOOZE U LOOZE BRAH (Old Lunch), Monday, 2 March 2015 21:25 (nine years ago) link

I've probably mentioned this before, but Folkal Point's cover of 'Sweet Sir Galahad' has this effect on me. oddly, Joan Baez's original doesn't move me nearly as much, even though she wrote it about her own sister (Mimi Fariña) after the death of her husband.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=an6EoevSSIs

others that have done this to me: EBTG's 'The Night I Heard Caruso Sing' and (inexplicably) The Sundays' 'My Finest Hour'

dichtgekitte discman (unregistered), Monday, 2 March 2015 21:49 (nine years ago) link

"Love will leaf you back"

Hammer Smashed Bagels, Monday, 2 March 2015 22:22 (nine years ago) link

*leave

Hammer Smashed Bagels, Monday, 2 March 2015 22:22 (nine years ago) link

sure you don't mean 'lead'?

dichtgekitte discman (unregistered), Monday, 2 March 2015 22:42 (nine years ago) link

God I'm out of it today. Yes....

Hammer Smashed Bagels, Monday, 2 March 2015 22:44 (nine years ago) link

Cos what I wrote doesn't make sense

Hammer Smashed Bagels, Monday, 2 March 2015 22:45 (nine years ago) link

Certain classic rock songs that I've heard thousands of times now make me cry. Most recently, 'Won't Get Fooled Again.' Not long ago, 'You Can't Always Get What You Want,' of all things
'

Heiress Too (Dr. Joseph A. Ofalt), Tuesday, 3 March 2015 00:58 (nine years ago) link

two years pass...

bicep - glue

kolakube (Ross), Saturday, 23 December 2017 23:56 (six years ago) link

Hell yes.

♫ very clever with maracas.jpg ♫ (Le Bateau Ivre), Saturday, 23 December 2017 23:58 (six years ago) link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A7ZxRs45tTg

may as well post it. great UK footage

kolakube (Ross), Sunday, 24 December 2017 00:05 (six years ago) link

It great, and makes me sob every time.

♫ very clever with maracas.jpg ♫ (Le Bateau Ivre), Sunday, 24 December 2017 00:17 (six years ago) link

Melancholy bastard, me

♫ very clever with maracas.jpg ♫ (Le Bateau Ivre), Sunday, 24 December 2017 00:18 (six years ago) link

semimental or sentimental

kolakube (Ross), Sunday, 24 December 2017 00:19 (six years ago) link

Sentimental, unashamedly. Windmill massive, forlorn warehouse raves near the moors around Hebden Bridge at bonkers-o'clock. This tune like no other is an invocation.

♫ very clever with maracas.jpg ♫ (Le Bateau Ivre), Sunday, 24 December 2017 00:28 (six years ago) link

cheers mate

kolakube (Ross), Sunday, 24 December 2017 00:33 (six years ago) link

cheers m8 <3

♫ very clever with maracas.jpg ♫ (Le Bateau Ivre), Sunday, 24 December 2017 00:34 (six years ago) link

one month passes...

O Superman

flappy bird, Monday, 5 February 2018 06:28 (six years ago) link

Everything I Own - Bread

VyrnaKnowlIsAHeadbanger, Monday, 5 February 2018 06:57 (six years ago) link

Spinning Away by John Cale and Brian Eno, currently. Not entirely sure why, but the 'I have no idea exactly what I've drawn' line breaks me up. Maybe it's a distant evocation of summer?

The shard-borne beetle with his drowsy hums (Chinaski), Monday, 5 February 2018 14:45 (six years ago) link

i'll read you a story by colleen

meaulnes, Monday, 5 February 2018 15:22 (six years ago) link

forget about by sibylle baier

meaulnes, Monday, 5 February 2018 15:22 (six years ago) link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZIU_XAgDlnE

Shut up.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3tD6FayGPyw

I said shut up, and also leave me alone. God.

I'm very active in the pegasus community (Old Lunch), Tuesday, 6 February 2018 14:05 (six years ago) link

'Fantastic Voyage' in particular feels so goddamn resonant right now. Like it just about wrecks me every time I hear it these days. Even just thinking about it. Ugh, shut UP.

I'm very active in the pegasus community (Old Lunch), Tuesday, 6 February 2018 14:08 (six years ago) link

^^Maybe remedy with "It's No Game (No. 1)"

willem, Tuesday, 6 February 2018 14:31 (six years ago) link

Oh, I do, believe me.

I'm very active in the pegasus community (Old Lunch), Tuesday, 6 February 2018 14:32 (six years ago) link

Television Personalities - If I Could Write Poetry

I feel a bit sad just thinking about it

Colonel Poo, Tuesday, 6 February 2018 14:50 (six years ago) link

one year passes...

Was just trying to think if there are any songs that actually make me cry (as opposed to just making me very sad), and realized that the only one I could think of was "Begin Again" by Taylor Swift. Which is odd because I'm not really a Taylor Swift fan at all. But that chorus, "on a Wednesday, in a cafe" really gets to me, something about the juxtaposition of the ordinary and mundane with this unpredictable moment of coming back to life.

Lily Dale, Monday, 11 November 2019 19:32 (four years ago) link

Mine would be "Dirty Boulevard" by Lou Reed and "The Dutchman" by Michael Smith.

banjoboy, Monday, 11 November 2019 21:28 (four years ago) link

Shipbuilding is pretty gut-wrenching

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/b01r0g4h

koogs, Monday, 11 November 2019 21:46 (four years ago) link

Just realized there's at least one other song on my list: Neko Case's "Thrice All American," the last verse in particular. There are much sadder songs that don't make me cry, but this one just hits the right mental nerve somehow.

Well I don't make it home much, I sadly neglect you
But that's how you like it, away from the world.
God bless California, make way for the Wal-Mart
I hope they don't find you, Tacoma.

Lily Dale, Monday, 11 November 2019 22:01 (four years ago) link

O Superman, so totally OTM

Maresn3st, Monday, 11 November 2019 22:06 (four years ago) link

Kinks, "Some Mother's Son" made me well up yesterday.

'Skills' Wallace (Tom D.), Monday, 11 November 2019 22:07 (four years ago) link

The Unthanks' "Fareweel Regality" gets me every fucking time.

Simon H., Monday, 11 November 2019 22:18 (four years ago) link

Fairytale of New York. Especially if I'm whiskey'd up.

Once, driving home from a get-together with friends, "Brandy" came on the radio. Pushed some buttons and I got really worked up, blinky-eyed and biting my lip. I can't say what it was exactly and while I still like the song it has never moved me that much again.

But Fairytale of New York gets to me on the regular. The bit where they say "you took my dreams from me...." So busted, so sad, so good.

Cow_Art, Tuesday, 12 November 2019 04:20 (four years ago) link

i went to see an interview with julie gold at the library, and geez, the story she told about writing "from a distance," then her performance, made me well up. it would make anybody well up. maybe start at around 24 minutes?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BPBDsu1BAzc

Thus Sang Freud, Tuesday, 12 November 2019 11:31 (four years ago) link

Still hasn't put this on an album.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zrodis8sX-Y

Jazzbo, Tuesday, 12 November 2019 13:27 (four years ago) link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7tLbSIwPqu0

reggie (qualmsley), Tuesday, 12 November 2019 13:47 (four years ago) link

The only piece of music that makes me choke up without fail is Movement V of 'Quartet for the End of Time' by Messiaen.
― ultros ultros-ghali, Wednesday, March 12, 2014

OTM. This was the first thing that came to my mind. And I'm nodding furiously at "Goin' Back", "This Guy's In Love With You" and "Landslide" etc, too. (Pretty much any recordings.) I feel like I could list a zillion things -- music with at least some potential to make me weep is the only music I can be bothered with a lot of the time!

[XP: oh god, that entire album!]

Nag! Nag! Nag!, Tuesday, 12 November 2019 13:50 (four years ago) link

I know I have posted it on a similar thread, but my God, "Alicia Ross" by Kathleen Edwards...

Josh in Chicago, Tuesday, 12 November 2019 13:53 (four years ago) link

The Unthanks' "Fareweel Regality" gets me every fucking time.

Fareweel Regality destroys me but the live version of King of Rome is somehow even more moving.

Life is a meaningless nightmare of suffering...save string (Chinaski), Tuesday, 12 November 2019 15:36 (four years ago) link

Here's The Tender Coming too, oh my stars...

Maresn3st, Tuesday, 12 November 2019 16:40 (four years ago) link

'Gan To The Kye' always gets me

Le Bateau Ivre, Tuesday, 12 November 2019 16:48 (four years ago) link

And of course, 'Mount The Air' ;_;

Le Bateau Ivre, Tuesday, 12 November 2019 16:49 (four years ago) link

"The Court of the Crimson King" smashes me every time I hear it. The grandiosity of the theme always makes my eyes wet...

walking towards the sun since 2007 (alex in mainhattan), Wednesday, 13 November 2019 14:22 (four years ago) link

"Across the Universe" is another one. Despite its prevalence.

walking towards the sun since 2007 (alex in mainhattan), Wednesday, 13 November 2019 14:25 (four years ago) link

Actually 'Awaken' by Yes makes me well up, the 'workings of man' section, the second time around especially after which the choirs kick in and it all gets very rapturous.

Ironically, the best version is not by Yes but by Todmobile with Anderson on vocals.

Maresn3st, Wednesday, 13 November 2019 14:29 (four years ago) link

The Todmorden/Anderson performance of Awaken is like the pinnacle of prog or something, yeah

imago, Wednesday, 13 November 2019 14:31 (four years ago) link

'Together We Are Beautiful' gives me the pinpricks. It's supposed to be this super-romantic song but there's an ever-so-slightly minor twinge in it that sets me off, as though Fern Kinney is 'protesting too much' about how perfectly in love they are. It brings the bittersweet notion that while everything smells like roses on the surface, the possibility of things falling apart at some future point is very real and the singer is naively in denial about it..

YOU CALL THIS JOURNALSIM? (dog latin), Wednesday, 13 November 2019 14:36 (four years ago) link

xxxp yeah everyone hates on Across The Universe but it fills me with melancholy

YOU CALL THIS JOURNALSIM? (dog latin), Wednesday, 13 November 2019 14:37 (four years ago) link

Not a song and a complete cliché, to boot, but the fourth and final movement of Mahler's 9th Symphony:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tkChdHBuoiQ&t=3237s

pomenitul, Wednesday, 13 November 2019 14:43 (four years ago) link

YT time stamps are not ILX-friendly, alas:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tkChdHBuoiQ

(It starts around 53:57.)

pomenitul, Wednesday, 13 November 2019 14:44 (four years ago) link

Half Asleep by School of Seven Bells, gets me by the second line. Cannot explain it, I've never analysed the lyrics to see if *omg it me* and I have no great love for anything else by them.

The Pingularity (ledge), Tuesday, 19 November 2019 14:03 (four years ago) link

Richard Dawson - Jogging. There's a precise part of that song where the song starts building and he sings 'There's no such thing as a quick fix'.
It's the double-meaning behind that line: He can't fix his personal demons just by jogging, but at the same time there's no quick fix for the problems faced in the world

YOU CALL THIS JOURNALSIM? (dog latin), Tuesday, 19 November 2019 14:13 (four years ago) link

one year passes...

why did i put 'do you remember walter' on just now ffs

imago, Tuesday, 1 December 2020 13:59 (three years ago) link

oh, because it's one of the best songs ever written? sure, but

imago, Tuesday, 1 December 2020 14:00 (three years ago) link

Schubert - Nacht und Traume (probably without vocals)
June Tabor - And The Band Played Waltzing Matilda
Nick Drake - All My Trials
Daniel Johnston - I Had A Dream
Epic Soundtracks - Sad Song
Richard And Linda Thompson - For Shame Of Doing Wrong

gravalicious, Tuesday, 1 December 2020 19:07 (three years ago) link

eight months pass...

A recent recording of Alfred Schnittke's 3rd Violin Concerto, with Vadim Gluzman, the Lucerne Symphony Orchestra and James Gaffigan, prompted me to revisit the piece for the first time in years. I can't bear to listen to it very often because of the excruciating affect it inflicts. The music itself is in pain, each note played a pure exposure of nerves, from the tremolo-laden violin solo that kicks off the work in medias res to the final chorale-like 'Andante', which achieves release – as always in Schnittke – through exhaustion and extinction.

This is a different recording, featuring the concerto's dedicatee, Oleg Kagan, a mere year before his death from cancer, further exacerbating the piece's obvious pathos:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qhwItJPUz6A

So yeah, not a song, but it tears me up every time.

pomenitul, Monday, 2 August 2021 11:48 (two years ago) link

That Paul Buchanan song about the cars in the garden always gets to me.

henry s, Monday, 2 August 2021 12:13 (two years ago) link

Flaming Lips - Race for the Prize

Hideous Lump, Monday, 2 August 2021 13:09 (two years ago) link

The ”I miss my grandmother” part at the end of Dry Cleaning’s “Goodnight”.

Bo Burzum (Boring, Maryland), Monday, 2 August 2021 14:53 (two years ago) link

Oh, and Brahms’ Deutsches Requiem

Bo Burzum (Boring, Maryland), Monday, 2 August 2021 14:54 (two years ago) link

Thanks Pom, I’ve been on a big Schnittke jag the last year. I also have kind of a thing for communist era color tv footage so it scratches two itches.

Bo Burzum (Boring, Maryland), Monday, 2 August 2021 14:57 (two years ago) link

My pleasure – and apologies for the risk of weeping involved.

pomenitul, Monday, 2 August 2021 15:03 (two years ago) link

one month passes...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xt1C00e__5c

Vanishing Point (Chinaski), Sunday, 5 September 2021 10:10 (two years ago) link

three months pass...

St Petersburg Chamber Choir, Nikolai Korniev - аллилуйя. се жених грядет (alleluia. behold, the bridegroom) (Anon)

from
Sacred Russian Choral Music

https://img.discogs.com/vpmFoXzYFzoE4xJyVJ8o9hkhlgw=/fit-in/600x593/filters:strip_icc():format(jpeg):mode_rgb():quality(90)/discogs-images/R-14196628-1569681018-5180.jpeg.jpg

meisenfek, Friday, 31 December 2021 13:55 (two years ago) link

five months pass...

"Temptation" (the New Order one) pierces my armour far too often

assert (matttkkkk), Friday, 10 June 2022 00:13 (one year ago) link

I very rarely hear a new song that makes me cry. I think the last one might have been "Snow is Falling in Manhattan" by Purple Mountains.

Chris L, Friday, 10 June 2022 01:45 (one year ago) link

eight months pass...

Pedro Soler & Gaspar Claus "Encuentro en Brooklyn" ^^^

Shard-borne Beatles with their drowsy hums (Chinaski), Monday, 6 March 2023 12:22 (one year ago) link


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