ILX Parenting 5: I'm a big kid now

I agree!

holy cow 10 lbs 5 oz insane - mazel tov to you both!

I'm so happy for all of you new parents!

(women who deliver with meds are awesome, too)

― kate78, Friday, January 11, 2013 6:14 PM (2 hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

I agree!

― *tera, Friday, January 11, 2013 6:16 PM (2 hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

2nded, childbirthing is incredible

not so good news. p much right after I posted that,mi called my wife and they sent our son to the NICU. it doesn't appear to be anything life threatening or reason for long term concern, but he was breathing rapidly and wasn't oxygenating enough (or something, goddamn I feel like an uneducated hillbilly around dr talk). we're hoping it's just some fluid in the lungs that will clear out soon and we can get out of this goddamn hospital in 48 hours.

fingers crossed for u & yr little guy

thanks :)

he'll be fine! the first days are kinda freaky, and emotionally taxing. but it'll be cool.

yeah, my wife had to stay in the hospital with our girl for a few days when she was first born. I don't even remember why they were there so long. then at about 4 weeks old, they both went back into the hospital for a week due to a fever and virus. it was harrowing to have to go back there, but she was in good hands.

finally home

https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-FDRILPGIrac/UPR8aFjUcsI/AAAAAAAAAQ8/VWrkk6RIXUI/s732/DSCN0171.JPG

<3 <3 <3

cute little fella!!!! and a great pic of you guys together

So adorable! Again, congrats to you all. And that is a kicking onesie.

sup lil one

oh man for the days when they slept like that all the damn time. congratulations.

congrats to m bise!

congrats!!!

yayyyyyyyyy

one more pic to showcase the lil dude

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aw<3 warmest congratulations to you all and to the collier family as well.

cutie!

aw, he looks a little tired from being born

Awwww congratulations!!!! He is soooooooo adorable!!!!

Anyone else on here living in a 1BR with a kid (I'm guessing not unless there are other NYC ILPers)?

we live in a small 2-bedroom - 2 bedrooms but no dining room/den/much in the way of hallways.

our downstairs neighbors live w 2 kids in a 1BR! they fold out the couch every night to sleep. it's not ideal obviously but the rent is reallly cheap (relatively) and they've gotten pretty used to it.

circumcision successful!

mom says it looks "horrifying"

fyi

I live in Texas so the smallest housing available is 1000000 sq ft with 42BR

(3BR/2bath townhome tbrr)

we spent a couple of months with THREE kids in a one bedroom (in Paris)

among those was a 10 month old

it worked out!

lived in a one bedroom with wife & kid for a couple years,my brother-in-law has been in those circumstances in nyc for about 8 years

Yeah K is 11 months now and a 2BR opened in our building but we don't like it that much and we're trying to save money. Debating whether we can make it to approximately 2.5 yrs with her in the room.

We have lived in a motel room for several months with baby and an efficiency. We got lucky and found a clean, newly remodeled duplex just as August started to walk. It is 690 sqft. Wondering how we'll manage once we leave this place for the next job. I just want clean, no mold, no carpeting, no 40 years of grime.

Debating whether we can make it to approximately 2.5 yrs with her in the room.

to each his own but i don't even want to think about how my relationship wd suffer without being able to be alone w/my wife

2nd kid got kicked out of our room at 3 months

Our kids stay in our bedroom a lot. Our 8-year-old has his own room, and we encourage him to sleep in there as much as possible, but sometimes if he falls asleep watching tv in our room, we'll just leave him there (he's getting too heavy to carry). He had gotten into the habit of sleeping in the same bed with his mother when she was single, before I came along.

Our two-year-old had problems with sleep apnea when she was younger, so we definitely keep her close. Our house is pretty small and the room that we have designated as her "bedroom" isn't really a room at all, more like a hallway. Not sure what we'll do about that when she gets bigger.

If my wife and I need time together, we'll mosey on down to the living room or whatever. I like having my family close to me when I
sleep though. It's cosey.

we've never consistently slept with our kids (lol at that wording obv). even in the 1br we put all three kids on the sofa bed each night

to each his own but i don't even want to think about how my relationship wd suffer without being able to be alone w/my wife

^^^this

Yeah, that's definitely an issue. I think we decided we will ultimately look for a two bedroom before then but that we don't really like the 2BR that opened up (second BR is tiny with no closets, weird layout where kitchen isn't directly adjacent to dining area, windows are 90 degree angle to neighbor's windows a few feet away, etc.), so we may just move again in August.

I like having my family close to me when I sleep though. It's cosey.
^^^so awesome waking up in the middle of the night to find both babbies curled up in between pp and i. best sleep those nights unless one of those babbies starts kicking me in their sleep then its the worst sleep and not awesome at all.

evie's been getting in our bed almost every night and it is not cozy, she likes to jam her head right against mine or sarah's and then yell "move over! i need SPACE!"

at which point i go sleep on the couch

something about children's feet and their angle of repose means they connect unfailingly with my balls when in the same bed

K's feet are like balls homing missiles it's amazing

lol
man, i can't imagine co-sleeping, like, ever (though i'm sure the coziness is nice at times). maybe if we had a huge bed, but ours is pretty small.

yeah we don't, but it happens pretty much every time we bring her onto the bed to chill with us

we're still co-sleeping with Molly at 19 months. I'm happy with it, Chris less so I think, but the thought of trying to get her out right now sends cold shivers down both our spines so it's fine for now. Aidan went into his own room at 8 months but I was still going through to feed him in the night at 14 months which was hard work, and he was still coming into our bed in the middle of the night when he was three

something about children's feet and their angle of repose means they connect unfailingly with my balls when in the same bed
K's feet are like balls homing missiles it's amazing

Damn straight.

I got woken up by a sick punch to the face once.

I've had it all - shoulders on my skull, elbows in the throat, the usual relentless attack on the gonads, trying to sleep in a four-inch strip at the edge of the bed, being deprived of duvet, pillows, etc. Marvellous.

trying to sleep in a four-inch strip at the edge of the bed,
haha YES

yeah, we've got a superking but I still end up with just a strip at the edge! God help us on the rare occasions when Aidan's come into bed too, he ends up sleeping horizontal and kicks us in the head or just knees us in the kidneys