oh it's a butt
― harbl, Friday, 4 December 2009 18:28 (fourteen years ago) link
@_@ 13
― Huckabee Jesus lifeline (HI DERE), Friday, 4 December 2009 18:30 (fourteen years ago) link
bah that works better in the other font
It's a butt on a "1".
― nickn, Friday, 4 December 2009 18:31 (fourteen years ago) link
that works better in the other font
lol - works pretty good in this one (console emulator stylesheet)
― a dimension that can only be accessed through self-immolation (contenderizer), Friday, 4 December 2009 18:33 (fourteen years ago) link
the idea that American culture has become LESS tolerant of "the voicing of troublesome thoughts" has me boggling. Is this some some type of "political correctness gone mad" argument? i mean, the needle has certainly moved on what is "troublesome" but UH.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Friday, 4 December 2009 18:36 (fourteen years ago) link
yup, you got it! more technically, i argued that thought has moral content. i guess this is debatable -- if you think that "moral content" exists entirely-and-only in an effect on not-you, then no, thought has no moral content at all, good or bad. (everyone basically agrees that actions have moral content) but thinking, i believe, has an effect on you, and therefore eventually on others, in time. but this gets into philosophical and scientific territory where i'm not educated and i'm basically talking out of my ass anyway.
I am super down with this, in a lot of ways this is an issue of character w/r/t thoughts and reactions to people. Harsh, maybe, but that's what this boils down to in my view.
― WHY DON'T YOU JUST LICK THE BUS DIRECTLY (Laurel), Friday, 4 December 2009 18:40 (fourteen years ago) link
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― luol deng (am0n), Friday, 4 December 2009 18:41 (fourteen years ago) link
which is the thing - there's this dumb-ass pop psych idea that any suppression is "bad for you."
^^^ This thread has gotten really interesting to me now!
― WHY DON'T YOU JUST LICK THE BUS DIRECTLY (Laurel), Friday, 4 December 2009 18:44 (fourteen years ago) link
cock boxing
― super sexy psycho fantasy world (uh oh I'm having a fantasy), Friday, 4 December 2009 18:47 (fourteen years ago) link
okay, elmo. that statement got some eye rolls yesterday, too. and i don't know that i really have a good handle on what i'm trying to say, here - that's why i suggested that it maybe doesn't belong in this thread. but okay...
it seems to me that in the late 60s and 70s, american culture pushed itself to "open up" on an incredible number of fronts. though this coincided with an increasing sense that racism and sexism were intolerable, people were given a fair amount of license to "let it all hang out" (if you'll forgive the parlance), so long as it seemed their hearts were in the right place. i grew up in that culture, in what seems to me to have been a very permissive and tolerant culture in comparison with what emerged, probably in response, in the 1980s.
in the 80s, it seems to me, the exploratory permissiveness of liberal/progressive culture, having seemingly reached its apex, began to recede. mainstream liberals seemed to loose their interest in exploring the "frontiers of freedom (or whatever). this makes sense to me, as conservatives had gained the upper hand, both socially and politically, and a position of defensive retrenchment on the part of liberals was probably prudent (and inevitable besides).
one of the consequences of this was an increasing focus throughout the culture on defining the unacceptable in social discourse and zealously policing the boundaries. this seems very obvious to me (not that i'm necessarily correct about it), and it disappoints me sometimes, though i can certainly see the value in, say, actively condemning racist speech.
― a dimension that can only be accessed through self-immolation (contenderizer), Friday, 4 December 2009 18:55 (fourteen years ago) link
that in response to:
the idea that American culture has become LESS tolerant of "the voicing of troublesome thoughts" has me boggling. Is this some some type of "political correctness gone mad" argument? i mean, the needle has certainly moved on what is "troublesome" but UH.― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Friday, December 4, 2009 10:36 AM (18 minutes ago) Bookmark
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Friday, December 4, 2009 10:36 AM (18 minutes ago) Bookmark
― a dimension that can only be accessed through self-immolation (contenderizer), Friday, 4 December 2009 18:56 (fourteen years ago) link
i think you're overstepping big time with "american culture" but i kinda sorta know what you mean.
― omaha deserved 311 (call all destroyer), Friday, 4 December 2009 18:58 (fourteen years ago) link
one thing that happened is that "as long as their hearts were in the right place" was no longer an acceptable excuse for racism or sexism
― max, Friday, 4 December 2009 18:59 (fourteen years ago) link
the other thing that i think youre missing is that political correctness didnt grow out of some... re-entrenchment by out-of-power liberals--much of it is people of color and women growing to increasingly prominent positions in politics, entertainment and academia, and therefore being allowed more power in shaping discourse in this country--meaning that there were more, and more powerful, advocates for political correctness (also known as, "not being an asshole")
― max, Friday, 4 December 2009 19:02 (fourteen years ago) link
one thing that happened is that "as long as their hearts were in the right place" was no longer an acceptable excuse for racism or sexism― max, Friday, December 4, 2009 10:59 AM (27 seconds ago) Bookmark
― max, Friday, December 4, 2009 10:59 AM (27 seconds ago) Bookmark
again, not that it's an entirely bad thing.
― a dimension that can only be accessed through self-immolation (contenderizer), Friday, 4 December 2009 19:04 (fourteen years ago) link
you are cuckoo
― jazzgasms (Mr. Que), Friday, 4 December 2009 19:05 (fourteen years ago) link
Que you can't say that, it's unacceptable
― Huckabee Jesus lifeline (HI DERE), Friday, 4 December 2009 19:07 (fourteen years ago) link
the other thing that i think youre missing is that political correctness didnt grow out of some... re-entrenchment by out-of-power liberals--much of it is people of color and women growing to increasingly prominent positions in politics, entertainment and academia, and therefore being allowed more power in shaping discourse in this country― max, Friday, December 4, 2009 11:02 AM (2 minutes ago) Bookmark
― max, Friday, December 4, 2009 11:02 AM (2 minutes ago) Bookmark
nevertheless feel that what was lost was of value. or at least potentially of value.
― a dimension that can only be accessed through self-immolation (contenderizer), Friday, 4 December 2009 19:08 (fourteen years ago) link
"what we lost" being the ability for white people to be unthinking dicks?
― Huckabee Jesus lifeline (HI DERE), Friday, 4 December 2009 19:10 (fourteen years ago) link
rip white dicks
― jazzgasms (Mr. Que), Friday, 4 December 2009 19:10 (fourteen years ago) link
what was lost? what would you like to say that you can't anymore? yeah xpost
― harbl, Friday, 4 December 2009 19:10 (fourteen years ago) link
that's true. but it also became unacceptable (or at least much more socially dangerous) to naively voice ideas that might conceivably sound racist or sexist or depraved or whatever, in an attempt to come to a better understanding of things. and i think that's sad. i think it's cost us a small part of our ability to honestly understand and accept ourselves, as individuals and as a culture.again, not that it's an entirely bad thing.
― a dimension that can only be accessed through self-immolation (contenderizer), Friday, December 4, 2009 2:04 PM (5 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
ok i really have no clue what youre talking about here, i cant actually think of a situation where the kind of statement that would be externally 'policed' or shouted down or whatever would contribute to a better understanding of our culture
― max, Friday, 4 December 2009 19:11 (fourteen years ago) link
i really enjoy my right to tell people expressing hateful ideas to stfu
― harbl, Friday, 4 December 2009 19:12 (fourteen years ago) link
i'm still having trouble with this, c -- it kinda sounds like you're lamenting the erosion of the type of social privilege that sexist, racist, or homophobic utterances serve and exploit.
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Friday, 4 December 2009 19:12 (fourteen years ago) link
As I said upthread, not being stingy with apologies when you offend someone goes a looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooong way back towards opening discourse back up; the bigger issue I see is that society has taken the tack of turning apologies into something that automatically invalidates whatever you were trying to say.
― Huckabee Jesus lifeline (HI DERE), Friday, 4 December 2009 19:13 (fourteen years ago) link
i think you are saying that i find more things offensive than you do? maybe?
― harbl, Friday, 4 December 2009 19:13 (fourteen years ago) link
one must consider, for just a moment, the suggest ban
― super sexy psycho fantasy world (uh oh I'm having a fantasy), Friday, 4 December 2009 19:13 (fourteen years ago) link
*considers*
― harbl, Friday, 4 December 2009 19:14 (fourteen years ago) link
thought-google (censored) and find contenderizer
― omar little, Friday, 4 December 2009 19:15 (fourteen years ago) link
I think cdtdzr has been pretty cool actually itt, I just wanted to say that. Not agreeing or disagreeing with the current discussion, but kudos for being a good discusser and actually thinkin baout stuff.
― WHY DON'T YOU JUST LICK THE BUS DIRECTLY (Laurel), Friday, 4 December 2009 19:17 (fourteen years ago) link
kudos, contenderizer, for mourning an era where white people could be racists without fear. kudos indeed.
― jazzgasms (Mr. Que), Friday, 4 December 2009 19:18 (fourteen years ago) link
Has he said anything about white people? Or non-white people? Maybe I'm missing the subtext but I'm not getting what you guys are (apparently) getting from his posts.
― WHY DON'T YOU JUST LICK THE BUS DIRECTLY (Laurel), Friday, 4 December 2009 19:18 (fourteen years ago) link
but it also became unacceptable (or at least much more socially dangerous) to naively voice ideas that might conceivably sound racist or sexist or depraved or whatever, in an attempt to come to a better understanding of things. and i think that's sad. i think it's cost us a small part of our ability to honestly understand and accept ourselves, as individuals and as a culture.
― jazzgasms (Mr. Que), Friday, 4 December 2009 19:19 (fourteen years ago) link
the subtext i get is it's hard for white men to express themselves honestly anymore
― harbl, Friday, 4 December 2009 19:19 (fourteen years ago) link
it's hard out here for a cracker
― jazzgasms (Mr. Que), Friday, 4 December 2009 19:20 (fourteen years ago) link
and white women too sometimes
― harbl, Friday, 4 December 2009 19:20 (fourteen years ago) link
all of these negative responses seem predicated on the idea that there is a TRUTH. a fundamental way that people should be and do and think. and that anyone who violates the boundaries of this truth is an "unthinking dick". and i reject that. i'm not trying to make the case that sexism and racism are acceptable, but rather that liberalism has hardened into a rigid othodoxy that sneers at the idea that there might even be value in the discussion of certain issues. we're expected to know what's right, to condemn the wrong, and to shut up about ideas or questions that don't satisfy those marching orders.
i personally don't feel the need to unburden myself of anything. but i am nostalgic for a more tolerant, open, and humane liberalism - one that understood that not all people are at the same place and time in their heads, and that was more concerned with forging compassionate consensus than with outing and castigating people with the wrong ideas. or at least equally concerned with both.
― a dimension that can only be accessed through self-immolation (contenderizer), Friday, 4 December 2009 19:20 (fourteen years ago) link
i would also throw in the heteros, they are often shouted down for expressing themselves
xpost to myself
― harbl, Friday, 4 December 2009 19:21 (fourteen years ago) link
so contenderizer, did you just not read what I said about apologies or what
― Huckabee Jesus lifeline (HI DERE), Friday, 4 December 2009 19:21 (fourteen years ago) link
contenderizer, can you give even one example of a specific 'thing' that ppl would say that only gets responses of 'sneering at the idea that there might even be value in the discussion' of?
― ice cr?m hand job (deej), Friday, 4 December 2009 19:22 (fourteen years ago) link
thread tipping point^^^
― jazzgasms (Mr. Que), Friday, 4 December 2009 19:22 (fourteen years ago) link
but rather that liberalism has hardened into a rigid othodoxy that sneers at the idea that there might even be value in the discussion of certain issues.
i think this might be true of "liberalism" but yeah there are some things people really should know and not expect others to tolerate them just because they're just learning how to be respectful
― harbl, Friday, 4 December 2009 19:22 (fourteen years ago) link
Yeah, that is confusing to me and I thikn he's got the wrong end of that discussion, and I disagreed w him on small points through the rest of this thing too, but he hasn't made any jerky attacks and has been willing to talk things out throughout. Big points for simply not acting like an asshole, imo, which is more than I can say for some people on here that I probably agree with about more things.
― WHY DON'T YOU JUST LICK THE BUS DIRECTLY (Laurel), Friday, 4 December 2009 19:22 (fourteen years ago) link
dnftt
― horseshoe, Friday, 4 December 2009 19:23 (fourteen years ago) link
lol xpost i guess i'm one of the assholes
God no, what?? Shut up, hs, that's not even possible.
― WHY DON'T YOU JUST LICK THE BUS DIRECTLY (Laurel), Friday, 4 December 2009 19:23 (fourteen years ago) link
contenderizer u need 2 play more on line video games if u think there is anything, at all, ever that ppl are reluctant to think or say in this modern society
― Lamp, Friday, 4 December 2009 19:23 (fourteen years ago) link
I think really horrible disgusting immoral inhumane bizarre misanthropic insane things all the time but they're always fleeting and I never spend more than a second dwelling on them and I never act on them. I don't think it's much of a problem. Or am I nuts?
― pash rules everything around me (Curt1s Stephens), Friday, 4 December 2009 19:24 (fourteen years ago) link