Alex in NYC to be a daddy!

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Good luck, Alex.

Christine 'Green Leafy Dragon' Indigo (cindigo), Thursday, 4 March 2004 06:14 (twenty years ago) link

Good luck and best wishes to Alex and Mrs. Alex. It appears that the condition isn't completely a curse and that things have worked out well for quite a few individuals in the same situation, so hopefully things will work out for you guys as well.

Many Coloured Halo (Dee the Lurker), Thursday, 4 March 2004 06:15 (twenty years ago) link

good luck, Alex. take care. :)

Donna Brown (Donna Brown), Thursday, 4 March 2004 06:19 (twenty years ago) link

Alex,

Although I don't have experience of this particular condition, I suffered severe pre-eclampsia in my second pregnancy. This is something which can cause the mother's liver and kidney to stop functioning and is altogether A Very Bad Thing.

Your wife is in her eighth month now, so if the doctors think there is any danger to either her or your baby then they will probably get her into hospital and induce her labour early. At 8 months, your baby is fully formed and has all its vital bits - it just spends the last few weeks getting a bit bigger.

The hospital will probably suggest that your wife has an ultrasound scan so they can measure the size of your baby, and wire her up to a monitor which records the baby's heartbeat. From that they'll be able to decide whether the baby is in any distress or not, and whether s/he would be better off staying put or the birth being induced.

Early babies sometimes get a bit jaundiced and hospitals will treat this with photo-therapy (letting your baby bask under a sun lamp for a few minutes a day).

My daughter was born at 34 weeks and everything was fine. I'm sure it will be for you, your wife and your baby too, and I wish you all the best :)

C J (C J), Thursday, 4 March 2004 08:12 (twenty years ago) link

Much support and best wishes, Alex.

Dave M. (rotten03), Thursday, 4 March 2004 08:40 (twenty years ago) link

i know its scary enough without all this extra shit alex. pregnancy has become a series of "what if" or "oh no" scenarios. i wish you the very best.

mullygrubber (gaz), Thursday, 4 March 2004 08:45 (twenty years ago) link

Alex this is awful news. My best to you & your family. As has been said upthread, with the pregnancy in its 8th month, if they have any doubt they will perform a c-section & mum & baby should both be well & home as soon as possible. I hope it all works out well & please keep us updated. *big hugs & positive thoughts*

Pinkpanther (Pinkpanther), Thursday, 4 March 2004 10:32 (twenty years ago) link

Alex, best wishes for you and mrs alex and baby!

Chris 'The Big Ragu' V (Chris V), Thursday, 4 March 2004 11:12 (twenty years ago) link

hope everything turns out ok alex.

weasel diesel (K1l14n), Thursday, 4 March 2004 11:24 (twenty years ago) link

More huge support and hope it works out happily, Alex. And a HUG if you have any need of one.

Mr Mime (Andrew Thames), Thursday, 4 March 2004 11:38 (twenty years ago) link

I can only echo what everyone else has said Alex.

Dom Passantino (Dom Passantino), Thursday, 4 March 2004 12:15 (twenty years ago) link

Good luck to you and your wife, Alex: I hope it turns out alright.

cis (cis), Thursday, 4 March 2004 12:20 (twenty years ago) link

Same again but fuck it I feel bad having my last post under my stupid fake name. More good luck.

Andrew Thames (Andrew Thames), Thursday, 4 March 2004 12:22 (twenty years ago) link

Sorry I'm so late to this thread. Hang in there Alex and Mrs. Alex. Big hugs.

Jeanne Fury (Jeanne Fury), Thursday, 4 March 2004 14:59 (twenty years ago) link

Alex, I am so sorry to hear about this. Like so many people mentioned though, you are lucky this is happening so late in the pregnancy.

Sarah McLusky (coco), Thursday, 4 March 2004 15:50 (twenty years ago) link

hang in there Alex (and wife and baby). I wish you the best.

lawrence kansas (lawrence kansas), Thursday, 4 March 2004 15:59 (twenty years ago) link

Best wishes to Alex and Family.

The Huckle-Buck (Horace Mann), Thursday, 4 March 2004 16:53 (twenty years ago) link

hang in there pardner, and yr pardnerette too

Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Thursday, 4 March 2004 17:14 (twenty years ago) link

All the best Alex. Thinking of you both.

Jeff W (zebedee), Thursday, 4 March 2004 17:18 (twenty years ago) link

wow. For a start, I'd truly like to express how touched I am by everyone's posting. I know I can be a flagrant spewer of venom from time to time, but I'm certainly not made of steel these days, and everyone's words of hope and encouragement have meant a lot. I really wouldn't with this variety of stress on anyone.

As a quick update, we went back to the hospital today for more tests. While the blood tests still reflect the problem, a fetal monitoring showed that everything is fine at the moment.....but they now want us to come back to the hospital once a week to check the progress. I believe that in the majority of instances of this disorder, the worst case scenario happened when the problem went unchecked. We're hoping that since they've pinpointed it (we think), they can take whatever necessary precautions to make sure the worst doesn't occur.

Anyway, that's really all we know right now. Thanks once again for your best wishes and all your positive thoughts.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Thursday, 4 March 2004 21:36 (twenty years ago) link

I really wouldn't with this variety of stress on anyone.

That should've read: I really wouldn't wish this....

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Thursday, 4 March 2004 21:36 (twenty years ago) link

Good luck alex, i'll be attempting to send good karma your way for the rest of the day. best wishes.

Felonious Drunk (Felcher), Thursday, 4 March 2004 21:38 (twenty years ago) link

: )

RJG (RJG), Thursday, 4 March 2004 21:38 (twenty years ago) link

honour the ob/gyn! glad of this news! keep us posted! there aren't enough exclamation marks!!!

Begs2Differ (Begs2Differ), Thursday, 4 March 2004 21:40 (twenty years ago) link

late to thread, but, Alex, best wishes. The most recent news seems to be relatively positive, and I think/hope that the weekly checkups will reassure you the everything will be ok. They mean that someone will be paying attention and that the problem is, at this point, not severe enough to warrant more frequent visits. I honestly hope and believe that we will see pictures of your healthy child in a few weeks.

Aaron Grossman (aajjgg), Thursday, 4 March 2004 21:48 (twenty years ago) link

What they all said!

Ned Raggett (Ned), Thursday, 4 March 2004 21:49 (twenty years ago) link

Ditto.

maypang (maypang), Thursday, 4 March 2004 21:51 (twenty years ago) link

Indeed ditto. Best wishes.

Lynskey (Lynskey), Thursday, 4 March 2004 21:51 (twenty years ago) link

haven't been reading ILE much but anyway, here's hooping it all turns out well in the end.

Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Thursday, 4 March 2004 21:58 (twenty years ago) link

My thoughts are with you, Alex.

Andy K (Andy K), Thursday, 4 March 2004 22:13 (twenty years ago) link

As are mine. Best of wishes, luck, and anything else you need.

Doobie Keebler (Charles McCain), Thursday, 4 March 2004 22:14 (twenty years ago) link

That's better news, Alex. Best wishes for the future.

Broheems (diamond), Thursday, 4 March 2004 22:29 (twenty years ago) link

best wishes to you and your family, Alex.

hstencil, Thursday, 4 March 2004 22:40 (twenty years ago) link

Hey, I've got a name for your baby: SMASH! HA!HA!HA!HA! Congratulations, man, just don't drop it, 'cause then it will turn out JUST LIKE ME. Peace out.

Smash, Friday, 5 March 2004 01:16 (twenty years ago) link

two weeks pass...
While I'm becoming a bit concerned that I'm airing too many of my problems on ILX these, since so many people had extended their thoughts and expressions of support/sympathy, I figure an update is in order.

We're still hanging in there. We're at the hospital now twice a week for fetal monitorings and injections of vitamin K (which, I believe, bolsters the liver). Unfortunately, the itchyness has seemingly gotten worse, and none of their proposed remedies seem to be having any effect. My wife is finding it nearly impossible to sleep, which causes her extra anxiety and she is now going to stop working (a few weeks earlier than initially expected/planned). At the recent doctor visit, we were informed that they want to induce the delivery ealier (we were initially due on the 19th, now they want to pre-empt any possible cholestasis-related difficulties by inducing labor on April 5th or 6th.) The most recent blood test show no signs of improvement, unfortunately. Signs are also showing (without getting too graphic here) that the way is already being paved for delivery (i.e. we were informed that due to certain conditions, my wife's body is alredy preparing....which could mean weeks or days...information we don't really know what to do with). We're hoping we make it to the proposed date of induction (about seventeen days away), as we want our little one to make it to the 38th week. Meanwhile, the weight and heartrate and movement of the baby are all fine so far.

Anyway, thanks for reading/listening and all your kind thoughts and words. At this point, I cannot begin to speculate the relief my wife and I will feel upon delivery of this little one.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Friday, 19 March 2004 02:45 (twenty years ago) link

My first post, but continued good thoughts for all of you over there, Alex. Hang in there a bit longer!

Sean Carruthers (SeanC), Friday, 19 March 2004 02:49 (twenty years ago) link

Good luck and good news about the weight/heartrate/movement. Hang in there; our thoughts are with you both.

Matos W.K. (M Matos), Friday, 19 March 2004 02:49 (twenty years ago) link

My. Good thoughts as always -- hang in there, the baby will too!

Ned Raggett (Ned), Friday, 19 March 2004 02:49 (twenty years ago) link

That's great news about the baby's health. My best to you and your wife.

Barry Bruner (Barry Bruner), Friday, 19 March 2004 03:57 (twenty years ago) link

It sounds as though the baby will be healthy. I certainly hope mom, too. And all of this will be a funny anecdote way down the road when you're and expectant grandparent. Best wishes, Alex.

jim wentworth (wench), Friday, 19 March 2004 04:15 (twenty years ago) link

Good luck to you and your wife

Colin Beckett (Colin Beckett), Friday, 19 March 2004 04:18 (twenty years ago) link

my best as always

donut bitch (donut), Friday, 19 March 2004 04:19 (twenty years ago) link

Alex, my best thoughts and hearty hearts to you, your wife, and the new drummer.

Begs2Differ (Begs2Differ), Friday, 19 March 2004 04:21 (twenty years ago) link

my best too, alex!

s1ocki (slutsky), Friday, 19 March 2004 04:39 (twenty years ago) link

thinking good thoughts for you and your wife. please do keep us updated.

oops (Oops), Friday, 19 March 2004 04:59 (twenty years ago) link

Continued good luck wishes to you and your wife, Alex. It's good that the doctors are looking out for your wife's and your baby's best interests and that they're trying to take care of the condition as well as ensure that the delivery occurs as late in the pregnancy as possible, but I'm sure you guys could do without the setbacks and additional discomfort. Don't feel terrible about bringing this all out on this forum; this is something worth airing out.

Please take care, all of you.

Many Coloured Halo (Dee the Lurker), Friday, 19 March 2004 05:13 (twenty years ago) link

Almost there Alex!

Aaron Grossman (aajjgg), Friday, 19 March 2004 18:42 (twenty years ago) link

Alex, your baby and your wife are hardcore. Fear not.

Jeanne Fury (Jeanne Fury), Friday, 19 March 2004 18:44 (twenty years ago) link

Rock on, Alex. You'll all get through this. My best to you and your wife. And just remember that people have early babies/pregnancies all the time and everything is usually a-ok.

scott seward (scott seward), Friday, 19 March 2004 19:07 (twenty years ago) link

I have a feeling that the world is going to be a much better place with your child in it. Good thoughts and my own off-kilter prayers your way.

Speedy (Speedy Gonzalas), Friday, 19 March 2004 19:13 (twenty years ago) link


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