The Sun Is Shining For The First Time In Forever; We're Gay! Fagz Club Spring 2010

i don't really get into all that

once this guy tried to kiss me after i let him do that. i was like EWW get away

Carrie Bradshaw keeps rong streak goin'

wnea

more for me, then

once this guy tried to kiss me after i let him do that. i was like EWW get away

Always pack a toothbrush!

idk, gays squeamish abt ass eating is equivalent to ladies squeamish about cocksucking imo! but ymmv

guys squeamish about cocksucking is equiv to ladies squeamish about cocksucking

rev, do such gays even exist?

just saying: the same arguments (that it's depraved, unhygenic, humiliating)

obviously it's not to everyone's taste (uh... lol) but the claims against are hugely overstated

Always pack a toothbrush!

― filling the medicare donut hole with the semen of liberal (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Thursday, April 1, 2010 5:23 PM (16 minutes ago) Bookmark

i had to take a shot of vodka!

idk, gays squeamish abt ass eating is equivalent to ladies squeamish about cocksucking imo! but ymmv

― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Thursday, April 1, 2010 5:28 PM (11 minutes ago) Bookmark

not true. not giving your man head is not equivalent to refusing to eat your man out, even if it's standard practice in the gay community. i mean, more power to you -- i just find it way too difficult to dissociate everything else that goes on down there from the actual act.

i don't think it's depraved or whatever, obviously, but it's just too dirty for me. THAT'S JUST ME

of the two i only really find giving head gross

rev, do such gays even exist?

I've unfortunately ended up in bed w/ a guy who flat out refused. He was a sexually confused asshole who treated me like total dogshit tho. I haven't been able to bring myself to do more than makeout with a guy since. :/

waste also comes out of dicks iirc! but i get ur point surm.

yea but i have much easier time dealing with that. actually kind of curious about ws.

...

rev, why are you hesitant about going further than making out??

agree w/surm re: eating ass

Nothing against ass-eating or cocksucking, but for squeamish reasons I'd rather give a total stranger head than eat his ass.

xxp: because I'm not interested in a repeat of the worst sexual experience of my life and now I'm being super-picky and not interested in rushing things either, but I haven't actually seen a guy more than once since then so

got it. well u know what they say -- don't let 1 experience make u afraid of love

or whatever

rimjobs aren't exactly everyday or first date activities, i'll admit. but that just makes them more *special*

it hasn't made me afraid of love (which I always have been. I can't say I ever have been in love), just sex. it's probably just the prudish streak my mother instilled in me coming back out to play.

Yeah, I'm willing to discard the rules. Like John Huston said in Chinatown most people under the right circumstances will do anything.

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yes that happens to me too . . . good old catholic guilt. o and if it isn't the holy weekend coming up!

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eh, I was raised areligiously, which didn't stop my mom from relentlessly hammering certain things into my head that have stuck there

rev prob excepted judging from the last few posts, but most people who didn't have a religious upbringing don't know how lucky they had it, in many respects

Oh I feel quite lucky. :)

:) luck be a lady tonight !

jon williams ran into my biggest lol high school crush (wrestling team captain) at his office today. dude is probably the biggest reason i am such an ass man to this day.

sadly, dude's ass is nowhere near as big & round as it was in highschool. RIP.

Glad I skipped this thread today at work.

(Except on my lunch break.)

Of all the days to be in class all day...

I'm with Elmo on what my phone's autofill likes to call either "dimming" or "running"

So I went on a date last night and I have soooooooo much to weigh on on re: all of these topics but will hold my tongue. Except to say that I am refuting Carrie Bradshaw.

Also totally LOLed in the office at Surm's pillow story. I'm sorry, hon :(

You came on this board to dangle your dick, then zip it back up?

OK fine. I'll dish more later.

it's not required, don't feel you have to cater to the magpies.

Smut-talk bores me, narrative doesn't.

Narrative bores me, smut-talk doesn't.

The sun is shining for the first time in forever BUT IT FEELS LIKE SUMMER.

yesterday was reading borges shirtless on campus and taking a nap on the field ---> sunburn. and it's almost 30 degrees celsius today!

chilling on my balcony with lemonade and boywatching, pretty much perfect day, tbh.

yesterday was reading borges shirtless on campus

gay boys rock! xoxoxo

hey guys

i think i might have a problem. so, i met this guy tonight, via the internet, for the sex. and it went great! i'm glad to report. it was really dope. but, the thing is, he's actually really cute and cool and like, definitely dating material, and i'm concerned that things might be screwed up because of the fact that we did all this stuff the first time we met. do yall have any experience in said situation? can a relationship of any sort be built if i already know what his taint tastes like?

thx

also, el perro del mar is a+ doin it music. sheesh.

I kinda had a situ like this but I stupidly cut him off cause I started going out with this girl but by the time I realized that wasn't going to work out he was no longer interested. :(

also he looks like a good friend of mine from high school, which is really just lol, not part of the problem at all

I wouldn't preclude anything based on a first experience, J. There was an Onion story once, something like Gay Couple Celebrates 10th Anniversary Without Revealing They Met in Club Bathroom Stall.

Tonight I heard a guy making Chewbacca noises while he was being f*sted.

that's odd, considering passover was earlier this week

You'll have a better read on him than the rest of us, so if he wants to have fun again schedule another session. If you guys make each other laugh, have shit in common, etc, ask him out to something casual ("You wanna get a beer tomorrow?"), hell maybe even after the sex. If he says no once, it's not automatically a done deal.

I would def recommend more sex first, just so he doesn't assume you're Getting Serious right away.

I endorse all of that.

i don't see any reason why a relationship can't be built after an initial casual sex experience. like, at all.

ps congratulations!

yeah, happy for you Jordan and just want to reassure you that having blockbuster sex with someone doesn't mean you can't also connect as people- but that's up to him and you- don't sweat it, let things gel, (and enjoy the resemblance to somebody from high school).

guyz I hooked up with the easter bunny last night, and it was kind of awes.