The Sun Is Shining For The First Time In Forever; We're Gay! Fagz Club Spring 2010

xxp: because I'm not interested in a repeat of the worst sexual experience of my life and now I'm being super-picky and not interested in rushing things either, but I haven't actually seen a guy more than once since then so

got it. well u know what they say -- don't let 1 experience make u afraid of love

or whatever

rimjobs aren't exactly everyday or first date activities, i'll admit. but that just makes them more *special*

it hasn't made me afraid of love (which I always have been. I can't say I ever have been in love), just sex. it's probably just the prudish streak my mother instilled in me coming back out to play.

Yeah, I'm willing to discard the rules. Like John Huston said in Chinatown most people under the right circumstances will do anything.

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yes that happens to me too . . . good old catholic guilt. o and if it isn't the holy weekend coming up!

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eh, I was raised areligiously, which didn't stop my mom from relentlessly hammering certain things into my head that have stuck there

rev prob excepted judging from the last few posts, but most people who didn't have a religious upbringing don't know how lucky they had it, in many respects

Oh I feel quite lucky. :)

:) luck be a lady tonight !

jon williams ran into my biggest lol high school crush (wrestling team captain) at his office today. dude is probably the biggest reason i am such an ass man to this day.

sadly, dude's ass is nowhere near as big & round as it was in highschool. RIP.

Glad I skipped this thread today at work.

(Except on my lunch break.)

Of all the days to be in class all day...

I'm with Elmo on what my phone's autofill likes to call either "dimming" or "running"

So I went on a date last night and I have soooooooo much to weigh on on re: all of these topics but will hold my tongue. Except to say that I am refuting Carrie Bradshaw.

Also totally LOLed in the office at Surm's pillow story. I'm sorry, hon :(

You came on this board to dangle your dick, then zip it back up?

OK fine. I'll dish more later.

it's not required, don't feel you have to cater to the magpies.

Smut-talk bores me, narrative doesn't.

Narrative bores me, smut-talk doesn't.

The sun is shining for the first time in forever BUT IT FEELS LIKE SUMMER.

yesterday was reading borges shirtless on campus and taking a nap on the field ---> sunburn. and it's almost 30 degrees celsius today!

chilling on my balcony with lemonade and boywatching, pretty much perfect day, tbh.

yesterday was reading borges shirtless on campus

gay boys rock! xoxoxo

hey guys

i think i might have a problem. so, i met this guy tonight, via the internet, for the sex. and it went great! i'm glad to report. it was really dope. but, the thing is, he's actually really cute and cool and like, definitely dating material, and i'm concerned that things might be screwed up because of the fact that we did all this stuff the first time we met. do yall have any experience in said situation? can a relationship of any sort be built if i already know what his taint tastes like?

thx

also, el perro del mar is a+ doin it music. sheesh.

I kinda had a situ like this but I stupidly cut him off cause I started going out with this girl but by the time I realized that wasn't going to work out he was no longer interested. :(

also he looks like a good friend of mine from high school, which is really just lol, not part of the problem at all

I wouldn't preclude anything based on a first experience, J. There was an Onion story once, something like Gay Couple Celebrates 10th Anniversary Without Revealing They Met in Club Bathroom Stall.

Tonight I heard a guy making Chewbacca noises while he was being f*sted.

that's odd, considering passover was earlier this week

You'll have a better read on him than the rest of us, so if he wants to have fun again schedule another session. If you guys make each other laugh, have shit in common, etc, ask him out to something casual ("You wanna get a beer tomorrow?"), hell maybe even after the sex. If he says no once, it's not automatically a done deal.

I would def recommend more sex first, just so he doesn't assume you're Getting Serious right away.

I endorse all of that.

i don't see any reason why a relationship can't be built after an initial casual sex experience. like, at all.

ps congratulations!

yeah, happy for you Jordan and just want to reassure you that having blockbuster sex with someone doesn't mean you can't also connect as people- but that's up to him and you- don't sweat it, let things gel, (and enjoy the resemblance to somebody from high school).

guyz I hooked up with the easter bunny last night, and it was kind of awes.

ahhhhahahahahaha

http://www.steamworksonline.com/chicago/email_blasts/2010_eblasts/ch_100331%20Easter_Info.html

http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4057/4490145764_1134a0013f_o.jpg
this dude right here

I - and most gays I know IRL - have went out on many first dates that have gone from "evening drinks" to "night of fun" and I don't think this is much different, only now you don't have to worry about the etiquette of who buys who the first drink

btw I finally got out to a gay clurb friday night for the first time since like september and did some rather athletic freaking with a couple guys I really wasn't that interested in then ended up dancing more innocently for a long time with this guy who was really cute in a totally square way. asked him out for coffee but he was just visiting from vancouver bc for the weekend u_u

last week went dancing to a gay spot w/ a couple str8 friends who both got more action than me

am partly blaming the fact that i tend to close my eyes when im dancin

more stories guys! gives me something to read while i spend the rest of this month in the library

thx guys, trying not to get giddy

j0rdan, wtf, congratulations

right?? it doesn't even seem real. i'll show you some photos on AIM

Congrats, J, that's fucking awesome!

I don't think there's anything weird about continuing to do what you guys are doing, so long as he's into it and just seeing where it goes.

we'll see

i want pictures

J, i met my bf on an internet sex hook-up. we've been together for 5+ years now.

J, I'm not trying to throw cold water on you, but always keep one night of bliss in perspective. It can lead to more of the same, and of course pursue it since you wanna, but stay on an even keel.