The Sun Is Shining For The First Time In Forever; We're Gay! Fagz Club Spring 2010

The sun is shining for the first time in forever BUT IT FEELS LIKE SUMMER.

yesterday was reading borges shirtless on campus and taking a nap on the field ---> sunburn. and it's almost 30 degrees celsius today!

chilling on my balcony with lemonade and boywatching, pretty much perfect day, tbh.

yesterday was reading borges shirtless on campus

gay boys rock! xoxoxo

hey guys

i think i might have a problem. so, i met this guy tonight, via the internet, for the sex. and it went great! i'm glad to report. it was really dope. but, the thing is, he's actually really cute and cool and like, definitely dating material, and i'm concerned that things might be screwed up because of the fact that we did all this stuff the first time we met. do yall have any experience in said situation? can a relationship of any sort be built if i already know what his taint tastes like?

thx

also, el perro del mar is a+ doin it music. sheesh.

I kinda had a situ like this but I stupidly cut him off cause I started going out with this girl but by the time I realized that wasn't going to work out he was no longer interested. :(

also he looks like a good friend of mine from high school, which is really just lol, not part of the problem at all

I wouldn't preclude anything based on a first experience, J. There was an Onion story once, something like Gay Couple Celebrates 10th Anniversary Without Revealing They Met in Club Bathroom Stall.

Tonight I heard a guy making Chewbacca noises while he was being f*sted.

that's odd, considering passover was earlier this week

You'll have a better read on him than the rest of us, so if he wants to have fun again schedule another session. If you guys make each other laugh, have shit in common, etc, ask him out to something casual ("You wanna get a beer tomorrow?"), hell maybe even after the sex. If he says no once, it's not automatically a done deal.

I would def recommend more sex first, just so he doesn't assume you're Getting Serious right away.

I endorse all of that.

i don't see any reason why a relationship can't be built after an initial casual sex experience. like, at all.

ps congratulations!

yeah, happy for you Jordan and just want to reassure you that having blockbuster sex with someone doesn't mean you can't also connect as people- but that's up to him and you- don't sweat it, let things gel, (and enjoy the resemblance to somebody from high school).

guyz I hooked up with the easter bunny last night, and it was kind of awes.

ahhhhahahahahaha

http://www.steamworksonline.com/chicago/email_blasts/2010_eblasts/ch_100331%20Easter_Info.html

http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4057/4490145764_1134a0013f_o.jpg
this dude right here

I - and most gays I know IRL - have went out on many first dates that have gone from "evening drinks" to "night of fun" and I don't think this is much different, only now you don't have to worry about the etiquette of who buys who the first drink

btw I finally got out to a gay clurb friday night for the first time since like september and did some rather athletic freaking with a couple guys I really wasn't that interested in then ended up dancing more innocently for a long time with this guy who was really cute in a totally square way. asked him out for coffee but he was just visiting from vancouver bc for the weekend u_u

last week went dancing to a gay spot w/ a couple str8 friends who both got more action than me

am partly blaming the fact that i tend to close my eyes when im dancin

more stories guys! gives me something to read while i spend the rest of this month in the library

thx guys, trying not to get giddy

j0rdan, wtf, congratulations

right?? it doesn't even seem real. i'll show you some photos on AIM

Congrats, J, that's fucking awesome!

I don't think there's anything weird about continuing to do what you guys are doing, so long as he's into it and just seeing where it goes.

we'll see

i want pictures

J, i met my bf on an internet sex hook-up. we've been together for 5+ years now.

J, I'm not trying to throw cold water on you, but always keep one night of bliss in perspective. It can lead to more of the same, and of course pursue it since you wanna, but stay on an even keel.

ah i mean, it wasn't like THE MOST AMAZING THING IN THE WORLD -- just something finally good in a sea of meh

& i'm naturally super even keeled, prob one of my best & worst qualities

Date Thursday: went really well; we totally hit it off and we both got really giddy about all these things we had in common. Stayed over. He hasn't answered either of the texts I've sent him, one asking if he wanted to come see the Abramovic exhibit at MoMA. Hoping he at least enjoys the Angela Davis button I gave him.

:-/

I want an Angela Davis button!

then go on a date with me after I host my next craft fair

will do

"I thought he loved me....but he only loved me for my Angela Davis buttons."

next, Angela Davis wig

J, i met my bf on an internet sex hook-up. we've been together for 5+ years now.

― jed_, Sunday, April 4, 2010 8:00 PM (1 hour ago) Bookmark

i thought u broke up ??

My only two serious boyfriends I met online, J0rdan, so no sweat.

where the hell did all these hot dudes in the library come from and why are they all studying NEAR ME urgh

drop ur pencil and bend down to pick it up

find a friend and talk about wanting hot man sex. loudly, so they can hear you.

but honestly i know that feeling too well, i was studying for a test the other week (an hour beforehand, lol) and all i could think about was this hot guy who sat right next to me (I "accidentally" brushed arms w/ him a few times)

I have, like, no gay friends in town.

It kinda sucks.

i'm naturally super even keeled

ha could never have guessed

only for a couple of weeks, sur

J0rdan is a Midwesterner, eh

Gays, I love you all so much that I've uploaded Dajae's album Higher Power which took me weeks to find on Soulseek. It's the perfect intersection of piano-driven instrumentals and sassy diva vocals that Cajual seems to be so good at, and it has ZERO FILLER-Y BALLADS that plague so many full-length house LPs. Pretty much all of these songs are strong enough to be singles. It's really good and the LP edits of "U Got Me Up" and "Brighter Days" are surprisingly great.

http://www.discogs.com/image/R-12540-1245927629.jpeg
1 Higher Power
2 Brighter Days
3 Is It All Over My Face
4 Fakes & Phonies
5 Love Don't Live Here Anymore
6 Day By Day
7 U Got Me Up
8 Sarah Lee
9 The Other Side
10 Brighter Days (Cajmere's Underground Goodies Mix)
11 U Got Me Up (Cajmere's Underground Goodies Mix)
12 Is It All Over My Face (Green Velvet Crush Mix)

I used to spin the fuck out of "U Got Me Up." In fact, I would weave it in and out of other tracks just cuz I loved the vocal so much (although people would get pissed cuz they thought they'd be hearing it next "U Got Me Up).