that's even more sexy
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Friday, 7 May 2010 20:21 (fourteen years ago) link
I'm sure I could snap a pic that would prove you all wrong.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Friday, 7 May 2010 20:34 (fourteen years ago) link
plz do
― amadeus bag (Stevie D), Friday, 7 May 2010 21:49 (fourteen years ago) link
dashing hipster is a breathtaking oxymoron tbh
however i also approve u showing us
― I thought "escargot" was a snail? (Matt P), Friday, 7 May 2010 21:51 (fourteen years ago) link
or just yr Boogie Nights shorts foto, again
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 7 May 2010 21:52 (fourteen years ago) link
Hi, gays, I just returned from the pool. What'd I miss -- is Eric going to strike a pose?
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 7 May 2010 21:59 (fourteen years ago) link
lol
― I thought "escargot" was a snail? (Matt P), Friday, 7 May 2010 22:00 (fourteen years ago) link
I'm very damp.
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Friday, 7 May 2010 22:06 (fourteen years ago) link
ew
― I thought "escargot" was a snail? (Matt P), Friday, 7 May 2010 22:08 (fourteen years ago) link
Don't pretend y'awl don't have that shorts photo bookmarked.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Friday, 7 May 2010 23:36 (fourteen years ago) link
I had a thing with a guy just before Xmas that was basically me going to his house to watch campy films, laugh about stories in the newspapers and fool around. The last time I saw him we went to see a play and it was really weird, like we were an Actual Couple and I freaked out a bit and didn't return his last text. He never texted again and neither did I so I think it was a mutual udnerstanding that it wasn't going anywhere, but when I went to vote on Thursday he was sitting behind the desk at the polling station... so much awkwardness around. Let it be a lesson, boys, always break it off properly!
― boxedjoy, Saturday, 8 May 2010 11:32 (fourteen years ago) link
who are you? i like ur screename. i have multiple theories about boxed joy, especially insofar as it relates to jersey girls. it's just this weird thing i have, i could like write a dissertation on it.
― la senora (surm), Saturday, 8 May 2010 12:23 (fourteen years ago) link
boxed joy?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 8 May 2010 13:13 (fourteen years ago) link
I'm leaning towards either a case of soap or a vaginal euphamism.
Also, GUYS I DID COLLEGE AND I THINK I WON!!!
― amadeus bag (Stevie D), Saturday, 8 May 2010 13:15 (fourteen years ago) link
It is going to be v weird realizing that college students are younger than me.
― amadeus bag (Stevie D), Saturday, 8 May 2010 13:28 (fourteen years ago) link
^^^big adjustment, mentally. even though i'm only a year or two older than most of them, and going back to school in the fall, i feel weird/sketchy hitting on undergrads.
― Alex in Montreal, Saturday, 8 May 2010 18:16 (fourteen years ago) link
(not that it stops me)
I've never dated anyone older than me (i.e. I've always dated undergrads).
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 8 May 2010 18:19 (fourteen years ago) link
cant imagine dating somebody younger than me (the same age is a stretch) so it balances i guess
― plax (ico), Saturday, 8 May 2010 18:21 (fourteen years ago) link
Alfred is the Wooderson of So Fla.
http://affordablehousinginstitute.org/blogs/us/wp-content/uploads/imagesdazed-wooderson-small1.jpg
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 8 May 2010 18:58 (fourteen years ago) link
kinda hope hes less creepy tho
― plax (ico), Saturday, 8 May 2010 19:05 (fourteen years ago) link
I have "seen" people both older and younger than me. I don't think any of their ages shared a tens digit with mine tbh. OMG can we talk about biggest age difference or is that just Too Much for an internet message board?
― amadeus bag (Stevie D), Sunday, 9 May 2010 01:22 (fourteen years ago) link
Wait that's not true as of like a month ago.
― amadeus bag (Stevie D), Sunday, 9 May 2010 01:23 (fourteen years ago) link
the dude i'm seeing now is two years younger than me, and that's the biggest age difference either way that i've ever had
― J0rdan S., Sunday, 9 May 2010 01:24 (fourteen years ago) link
biggest age diff = 16 yrs (older)
― a connecticut muffin in king arthur's flour (donna rouge), Sunday, 9 May 2010 01:28 (fourteen years ago) link
younger - maybe like a year? i mostly trend towards guys a couple years older than me
― a connecticut muffin in king arthur's flour (donna rouge), Sunday, 9 May 2010 01:31 (fourteen years ago) link
Don't think I've gone outside of five years' diff.
― will live out his days in gloomy batchelorhood (Eric H.), Sunday, 9 May 2010 01:53 (fourteen years ago) link
biggest difference - 5 years older, that was with a womanz tho, i've tended to be into slightly older women and slightly younger guys for some reason
― el j debarge (The Reverend), Sunday, 9 May 2010 01:54 (fourteen years ago) link
my god but he's got longer hair
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Sunday, 9 May 2010 02:39 (fourteen years ago) link
13 yrs older, and I was 19 so we skipped an ENTIRE TENS DIGIT!! but it was a month from my birthday and I just tell other people I was 20 so it doesn't creep out their heteronormative minds.
― amadeus bag (Stevie D), Sunday, 9 May 2010 03:58 (fourteen years ago) link
I don't see age. How old am I?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 9 May 2010 05:20 (fourteen years ago) link
u really wanna answer?
― plax (ico), Sunday, 9 May 2010 18:44 (fourteen years ago) link
I've always dated older guys. My first boyfriend was 27 and I was 18. My second boyfriend (who I am still with) was 27 and I was 20. The seven year difference felt huge at the time, and now that he is 45 and I'm 38 and we are still together it has softened somewhat, though standing on either side of 40 is a big psychological difference between us, I think. But lately I have, er, hooked up with some younger guys (20-22) in ways that were definitely mutual and definitely fun for both parties, and the heat of those experiences was certainly drawing on the generation gap power dynamic asit passed back and forth. I think that while it can lead to major fun in the bedroom, I honestly don't feel that I could have a 20 year old boyfriend as a 38 year old without it being pretty awkward. It would just be too weird. I guess Christopher Isherwood pulled it off with his partner, but it seems like an anomaly. But maybe that's conservative of me?
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Sunday, 9 May 2010 19:17 (fourteen years ago) link
i don't know how old he was, but i'd guess somewhere in his upper 50s. which would be more than twenty years. but he was in shape, and an architect, so...
― The Portrait of a Lady of BJs (the table is the table), Sunday, 9 May 2010 20:28 (fourteen years ago) link
happy mother's day
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Sunday, 9 May 2010 20:47 (fourteen years ago) link
likewise!
― cool and remote like dancing girls (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 10 May 2010 01:02 (fourteen years ago) link
Imagine the day when you are drinking w/ people who were born after your college graduation, eh?
I don't think I've gone more than 20 years older and 15 years younger. (This is "just sex.")
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 10 May 2010 01:21 (fourteen years ago) link
Tabes, your blonde hair reminds me of how fun it is to bleach your hair in the summer. I just dug up this old snap of me w blonde hair in yr honor (from a gun range in Kentucky):
http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1009/4595417425_8bffe12df3.jpg
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Monday, 10 May 2010 16:56 (fourteen years ago) link
i didn't think u could get any hotter but ok
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Monday, 10 May 2010 16:59 (fourteen years ago) link
i keep wanting to do mine blond but everyone says i'll look like eurotrash, which they're prolly right. and what about sideburns
I think bleach blonde hair is at it's best when it is three weeks grown out with super dark roots, that to me = punk. But when you do it the first time, you gotta but "blue-ing" in there or it turns out orange and kinda raunchy- you must suffer a bit and feel like your scalp is a frying pan or it's not really working.
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Monday, 10 May 2010 17:07 (fourteen years ago) link
i bleached my hair a bunch as a kid -- my parents were always participants too, weirdly enough
― J0rdan S., Monday, 10 May 2010 17:08 (fourteen years ago) link
waht?
wait what is blue-ing?
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Monday, 10 May 2010 17:10 (fourteen years ago) link
is it going to make my hair fall out?
"blue-ing" is like this extra creamy blue-ish white goo that you mix in during the bleaching process that counteracts the red/orange tints that are inside black and brown hair- ask yr hairstylist about it, of whoever works at a beauty supply store, they'll know the deal. It's the only way to get a white-blonde look.
And yeah, bleaching your hair fucks up and kills your hair and kind of hurts yr scalp. I've never heard that it is linked to baldness though, or root damage. But I'm no expert.
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Monday, 10 May 2010 17:13 (fourteen years ago) link
btw i'm using bleach as a synonym for "dying yellow" -- not actual bleach
― J0rdan S., Monday, 10 May 2010 17:14 (fourteen years ago) link
ok, i see. thank you, i really don't want orange hair :/
do u have more pictures of you with blond hair?
jordan i don't understand why u never told me that u have done this to yourself
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Monday, 10 May 2010 17:15 (fourteen years ago) link
haha idk -- i was, like, 11, A WHOLE DECADE AGO!
― J0rdan S., Monday, 10 May 2010 17:20 (fourteen years ago) link
http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3301/3502815906_fc9c23828b_o.jpgfor me blonde was just a short stage before getting my Smurf on
― twice boiled cabbage is death, Monday, 10 May 2010 17:20 (fourteen years ago) link
omg
― i fake it so real, i am beyonce (surm), Monday, 10 May 2010 17:20 (fourteen years ago) link