The Sun Is Shining For The First Time In Forever; We're Gay! Fagz Club Spring 2010

It was so romantic. We sat on the dirt. A rat the size of a tabby scurried over the pine needles.

i felt real pressure to kiss a girl just to say that i had kissed someone, but i never felt enough pressure to go any further just to say that i had

Well, with your looks you could have been.

which resulted in me being quite the heartbreaker in HS -- i feel like i should track these girls down so i can do the whole "no really, it really WAS me, not you" routine

ha!

Oh, attention all NYC gays: I might be in town the weekend after Memorial Day (first week of June). I'd love a FAP.

i used to kiss girls in like elementary school, bc i was really popular with them and i kind of figured why not. the other girls would tease me cuz i had a crush on this one girl, elizabeth ann ferree. she would write me letters about how much she liked me. my grandmother thought it was funny.

first kissed a girl at 15, first kissed a guy at 21

My social skills were cultivated in drama club, sr year by getting riproaring drunk at the parties. Also, I wd chase girls when I was blasted.

I never even drank until I was 18

first kissed a girl at 13, first hookup with a guy at 16 (no kissin'), but I was straight-edge in hs

girls 13
weed 15
booze 16
boys 20

kentucky boys don't kiss eh

kentucky boys sound unimaginably hot

backwoods boys

^^^^ awesome Hold Steady song title were Craig Finn queer.

haha

i didn't kiss a girl til i was a college sophomore, years after i came out. my bf was there. also there: alcohol.

first time i ever got drunk-as-a-skunk (18) was in baltimore! (haven't been back since)

girl: 15
booze: 16
weed: 18
girl-in-question's new boyfriend at the time: 18 (in front of her and all our friends, in a bar, in an american pie 2 sort of situation. pretty passive aggressive of me, but i was heartbroken and/or closeted. she and I are still/now best friends now. <-- possibly the thing i am most ashamed of having done ever, re: sketchy motivations.)
boys, without bullshit denial excuses: 21

never smaeked wiid. i am so fucking square.

Never did girls. The other three within the same year or so.

tons of my friends here have never smoked weed before -- pretty weird to me tbh but almost everyone i knew in high school got high -- only a few were true stoners but -- it's pretty sweet, everyone should try it out a few times imo

i smoked a lot more in HS than in college or after

(weed that is) (cigs = pretty much the opposite - i can actually count the # of cigs i've smoked in 2010 on one hand)

Never smoked a cig. Ick.

i have & still do sometimes -- def a drunk chain smoker

no idea rev had never smoked

def a drunk chaincocksmoker. fixed.

hs was a "best of times, worst of times" situation for me:

on the surface I was rocking: class president, had a diff. girlfriend every year, lotsa friends, in a band, doing a zine, part of the punk scene, plenty of fun shit going on

inside / in secret: closeted, doing lots of risky promiscuous stuff in public with strangers, lying to everyone, painful unrequited love for str8 friends and bandmates, clingy n depressive, homicidal/suicidal, a mess.

feelin this post so much

never touched a cig either, do occasionally have a cigar or hookah tho

hookah makes me vomit for some reason -- like instantly

my friends all smoked hookah in high school & esp in this one chick's house we'd kick it in a back room & watch tv & play boggle & shit and they'd smoke the hookah for hours and i'd feel like i straight up couldn't breathe

gas chamber ish

idk i never got the appeal of feeling light headed? just kinda make me feel generally sick

i had a roommate who owned 2 hookahs, which we used fairly often. the smell is a little much for me these days, like whenever i walk by a hookah bar

I kissed a boy before I kissed a girl. This is weird y/n?

more like lucky

n! i said the same thing upthread xp

bz: 18
w: 19
by: 19
g: 22

and the g was my lez friend and it was a total LOLment

I might be in town the weekend after Memorial Day (first week of June). I'd love a FAP.

Dammit Alfred, we'll miss each other by a couple of weeks! (Actually scratch that, just come up to Charleston again the second weekend of June or something.)

SD, that doesn't count. :) What things do you want to do in NY before NJT train fare goes up?

Next weekend is Bear Weekend.

Oh the fare has already gone up! I have two days left for my internship though, today and Thursday. Are we getting drinks thurs w/ j03 and surm? I might go to Dream House for a bit too but other than that have 0 planz.

girl: 11 or 12?
boy: 13 (bjs though, no kissing! :) probably didn't kiss until 21 lol)
alcohol: 13
weed: 14 (not counting the one time with my sister in 5th grade since I had no idea what was happening)

finalizing travel plans for my california adventure!! so so joyfully excited, also a bit apprehensive (in a good way, i guess).

however -- the planning has taught me to never use a travel agent again. at least, not this one.

I thought the web has rendered travel agents largely irrelevant?

SD, I can meet you Thurs.

will be in SF from May 22nd to 27th fyi

morbs, the trip is being paid for in part with a gift certificate to this particular travel agent (thx dad), so there's no way around it in this case.

Where should we meet? Julius? Pieces? Is there anywhere we haven't been worth going?