plane tickets aren't that expensive these days
― glowy and highlighted and blushy and bronzy (surm), Friday, 11 June 2010 03:49 (fourteen years ago) link
:\
― Miles "Tails" Davis (Daruton), Friday, 11 June 2010 03:51 (fourteen years ago) link
you will find some tail don't worry
― glowy and highlighted and blushy and bronzy (surm), Friday, 11 June 2010 03:52 (fourteen years ago) link
The best thing that I ever did was just go to low-key gay pubs and just sit down and talk to people whether I liked them or not.
― Tori, I must seem greatly intriguing (Stevie D), Friday, 11 June 2010 03:53 (fourteen years ago) link
Oh xp these are my new shirts:
http://img809.imageshack.us/img809/1584/snapshot1n.jpghttp://img808.imageshack.us/img808/4599/snapshot2v.jpg
― glowy and highlighted and blushy and bronzy (surm), Thursday, June 10, 2010 8:49 PM Suggest Ban PermalinkBookmark
they are when you're trying to figure out how you'll afford a can of pasta sauce
― The Reverend, Friday, 11 June 2010 03:56 (fourteen years ago) link
Man, when my bf and I broke up I went to California and had some crazy awesome fun times with some absolute Malibu stereotype replete w/ film producer stepdad's house which had floor-to-ceiling windows looking into the Pacific, and then I get back to NYC, which is SO GAY, and I have no luck. Like I'm always on the verge only to be left with frustrating nothingness.
So I feel you, rev.
― evan's schlong: glorious (billy), Friday, 11 June 2010 04:04 (fourteen years ago) link
cute shirts stevo
― glowy and highlighted and blushy and bronzy (surm), Friday, 11 June 2010 04:05 (fourteen years ago) link
and daruton
― evan's schlong: glorious (billy), Friday, 11 June 2010 04:05 (fourteen years ago) link
Hott shades Stevie
― evan's schlong: glorious (billy), Friday, 11 June 2010 04:06 (fourteen years ago) link
Yeah fuck it, I'm going to Boystown this weekend.
― Miles "Tails" Davis (Daruton), Friday, 11 June 2010 04:16 (fourteen years ago) link
i've been going out with my straight friends
it's lol, cuz they don't know i'm gay
and i just stand around like \(o_O)/
not interested in girls sorry
― gonjasufi smacker (J0rdan S.), Friday, 11 June 2010 06:58 (fourteen years ago) link
do u think u'll ever tell them and if so how do u think that will affect ur relationship
― glowy and highlighted and blushy and bronzy (surm), Friday, 11 June 2010 06:59 (fourteen years ago) link
i'm not sure cuz they're my high school friends and i'll prob never see most of them after this summer
otoh i'll see some of them this summer and it would be nice
altho it would be a "big deal"
i probably will tell a few of my friends who i might kit with
― gonjasufi smacker (J0rdan S.), Friday, 11 June 2010 07:01 (fourteen years ago) link
it wouldn't affect friendships aside from some "omg"s or w/w
btw alfred i'm in miami
btw ramzi i love you
btw me too
― glowy and highlighted and blushy and bronzy (surm), Friday, 11 June 2010 07:03 (fourteen years ago) link
aw you guyz
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Friday, 11 June 2010 07:06 (fourteen years ago) link
hi donna! ps i think the time we saw you with your shirt off you were covered in face paint
...
― glowy and highlighted and blushy and bronzy (surm), Friday, 11 June 2010 07:09 (fourteen years ago) link
:)
― The Reverend, Friday, 11 June 2010 07:10 (fourteen years ago) link
i am covertly shirtlessly linked upthread
ps a tad tipsy
― a vaguely goofy lesbian (donna rouge), Friday, 11 June 2010 07:13 (fourteen years ago) link
"I went to California and had some crazy awesome fun times (...) and then I get back to NYC, which is SO GAY, and I have no luck."
traveling solo while single seriously ups your game iirc
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Friday, 11 June 2010 15:44 (fourteen years ago) link
― gonjasufi smacker (J0rdan S.), Friday, June 11, 2010 7:01 AM (8 hours ago)
yeah, i know wat u mean, the only friend i ever had a hard time telling was a gay friend from 2ndary school, he had kinda made "being gay""his thing" and i felt like i was stepping on it.
― plax (ico), Friday, 11 June 2010 15:48 (fourteen years ago) link
One is a fitted v. light denim button down, onto the back of which I am going to sew this patch of Bea Arthur someone in Philly silkscreened. The other one is a lovely purple and orange plaid flannel.
― RR, Friday, 11 June 2010 16:03 (fourteen years ago) link
my bf went thrift shopping the other day and brought home the EXACT SAME shirt that i was wearing the night we met -- same label, same blue/aqua/pink plaid, same size. now i have two! which is good because the original is getting a bit worn out
― elmo leonard (elmo argonaut), Friday, 11 June 2010 16:15 (fourteen years ago) link
so if tabes doesn't surface and tell us where his reading is, I'm going to confide my Brooklyn Priding to Metr0politan on Saturday night after midnight, if anyone's in the drinking mood.
also, Lady Gaga was at the same Mets game I was yesterday. One of us flipped a double-bird at fotogs.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Friday, 11 June 2010 17:49 (fourteen years ago) link
"After two days of hearings, by a vote of 9-6, the HHS Advisory Committee on Blood Safety and Availability has voted against recommending lifting the FDA ban on blood donation by gay men."
WHAT THE FUCK
― Sunny came home with emissions (Stevie D), Friday, 11 June 2010 22:14 (fourteen years ago) link
slkasf;pf;sllpapeo,mxvdkpwi
― The Reverend, Friday, 11 June 2010 22:15 (fourteen years ago) link
I mean I'll probably just lie and do it anyway, since it's not the Red Cross or whoever's collecting your blood that makes these policies.
― Sunny came home with emissions (Stevie D), Friday, 11 June 2010 22:26 (fourteen years ago) link
But I just have this picture in my head of this 75 year old asshole sitting on some board silently terrified of having some faggot's blood put into his body
― Sunny came home with emissions (Stevie D), Friday, 11 June 2010 22:27 (fourteen years ago) link
yeah we have the same shit here. a friend of mine was about to give me a lecture abt the impt. of donating blood when I told her and she was like "oh."
― plax (ico), Friday, 11 June 2010 22:50 (fourteen years ago) link
Same shit here, but hopefully not for long? Major medical orgs aka federally funded AIDS research institutes are advocating pretty hard for lifting of blood ban. Of course, I'm not familiar with the politics of it in the states - maybe the medical community there is doing the same, with little success.
Still, add another facepalm/headshake/sigh of frustration to the pile.
― Alex in Montreal, Friday, 11 June 2010 23:13 (fourteen years ago) link
Made sure to donate blood before I got around to coming out/engaging in teh gay sex, because of the gigantic pile of bullshit that is homophobic bureaucracy.
― Alex in Montreal, Friday, 11 June 2010 23:14 (fourteen years ago) link
Facepalm etc here too.
Unrelated news: I'll be taking part in the Brooklyn Pride march tomorrow. If any of you are going to see it, wave if you see me (or throw a peanut or something).
― RR, Saturday, 12 June 2010 00:57 (fourteen years ago) link
wait, who is RR?
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 12 June 2010 01:02 (fourteen years ago) link
going to dublin nxt week to see some agnes martin drawings and just realised that its gay pride then i guess i could go maybe
― plax (ico), Saturday, 12 June 2010 01:04 (fourteen years ago) link
Expect a message soon. We'll hang out, even if I have to pick you up. Are you going to the Pains of Being Pure at Heart show tomorrow?
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 12 June 2010 02:03 (fourteen years ago) link
Oh, Morbs -- sorry I missed you. Another tight schedule for both of us.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 12 June 2010 02:04 (fourteen years ago) link
xp maybe!
i would like to but i might be at a graduation party for my brother's gf
― gonjasufi smacker (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 12 June 2010 02:05 (fourteen years ago) link
Whatevs. I'm picking your ass up sometime this week. I'll mow through palm trees and shit.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 12 June 2010 02:09 (fourteen years ago) link
ha, okay. i have a car now tho, so no worries.
― gonjasufi smacker (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 12 June 2010 02:14 (fourteen years ago) link
Awesome. Let's meet for drinks then -- maybe in the Sunset area?
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 12 June 2010 02:16 (fourteen years ago) link
yeah that works
― gonjasufi smacker (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 12 June 2010 02:17 (fourteen years ago) link
Sunday all good?
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 12 June 2010 02:18 (fourteen years ago) link
sure
― gonjasufi smacker (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 12 June 2010 02:19 (fourteen years ago) link
I'll send you a message tomorrow -- if you don't respond well to my shit about Janelle Monae, it's over.
― Filmmaker, Author, Radio Host Stephen Baldwin (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 12 June 2010 02:22 (fourteen years ago) link
― RR, Sunday, 13 June 2010 04:14 (fourteen years ago) link
just checkin
hey, I went to tabes' fab reading last night but we forgot to take a shirtless pic together.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Sunday, 13 June 2010 14:27 (fourteen years ago) link
So this guy messaged me on LOLkcupid and in the course of about 48 hours we talked on the website, talked on AIM, started texting each other, and got coffee in Philly. He thinks I'm way adorable or something and wants to do a dinner date. Omg.
― Sunny came home with emissions (Stevie D), Monday, 14 June 2010 01:30 (fourteen years ago) link
My problem is he's like way cute and I want to really like him but I don't think I'm immediately attracted to him? But I want to get to know him better.
― Sunny came home with emissions (Stevie D), Monday, 14 June 2010 01:31 (fourteen years ago) link