Gays, its summer 2010 so... EVERYBODY TAKE OFF YOUR SHIRTS

oh that happens all the time to me. But i mean don't you do it too if you're simply not interested?
rather than send a msg and say "oh hey, it's cool that you like but I just don't find you attractive!"

context: he sent me an IM, i ignored it, i checked in the next day, he had written me more msgs while i was offline that were like "wtf, even ugly guys ignore me"

ugh, that's awful. That site is the worst. Then again, they all are.

it's also the only site i've had the slightest bit of luck on (in the sense that i actually have gone on dates because of it)

donna what's yer username? I'm Darjee.

or, uh, date. singular.

corey i am xuxa_pitts, in tribute to my former DN here

oh hey, haha! I was just looking at your profile. I just redownloaded the Analogue Bubblebaths, thanks for the unintentional reminder. :D

oh, anytime! (i love when songs' titles describe themselves)

I can't believe you guys made me make a profile. :(

username?

ephenderson, but I swear I'm not going to use this thing

I've always found that the best stuff happens when you rarely do.

I love that answering a dozen questions lets me see who is 90% my enemy.

Eric I've added you even if you aren't going to use this *coughyeahrightcough*.

Just added you, Steve and xuxa to my faves as well. I'm still old-fashioned or inexperienced enough to think any real prospects will be from people I just happen to meet IRL.

That's pretty much what I've tried to accomplish while on there but it seems all people want to do is chat endlessly online and never follow up.

Turned chat off first thing. I hated that feature in FB and I don't need it on a site for ass.

I hate fb chat but leave it on for some reason. Usually it's like, if I wanted to chat, I'd be signed onto IM.

I like it as it saves me from using three different programs to chat with people.

Last night on that site I chatted w/ someone I went out with last year; he had seen my profile and then off we went. It was so easy and fun and he is adorable that I wished it would've worked out. Kinda bittersweet end to the night.

I only have opportunity to chat w/ Eric when he visits NY (not often enough). Can I entice you w/ the Brooklyn Xanadude party?

Kinda feel like playing compare and contrast with my gay review on Slant and yours.

what grumpy gays we are, eh? (actually I haven't had time to fully read yrs yet)

No snark intended, just thought it would be interesting to compare who we're laying blame on.

We could let Tape Store do it!

I actually went easier on the gay political class than I intended to. I'm quite sick of them and their lockstep domesticity.

If I see Showgirls this weekend, then I can read yr really gay review:

http://www.clearviewcinemas.com/classics/classics-chelsea.shtml

woah! my tumblr was mentioned in an interview with christopher schulz (of PINUPS). pretty neat to be noticed for something i do in my idle time tbh.

I mentioned your tumblr in my review of Jose Muñoz's new book "Cruising Utopia: The Then and There of Queer Futurity" for Criticism magazine, elmo. It doesn't come out for a few more months tho.

!!

that's pretty awesome, dr3w, thank you! i'd love to read your review once it's published, but until then, is the book worth the read? looks interesting

my broker told me to sell queer futurities.

*rimshot*

futilities more like

HI GAYZ

nice to see morbz last saturday. i've been really busy with work and hanging out and sleeping with m4tt.... um, you are all awesome?

hi!

the fuck, i can't figure out how to IM on OKCUPID can somebody tell me please

:/

I got messaged on OKC by a guy with a goatee. Not interested.

That's a firm rule? You react like it's a guy w/ a goat.

i am all awesome! went to look for an apartment in toronto and found a few possibilities (nothing certain) but most of them are in/close to the sort of artsy sort of queer district around ossington/landsdowne and Queen West. found a queer-ish dive bar with a cute-ish bartender and not one but TWO cafes that make decent coffee.

Still don't have an OKC account (or Manhunt. or DList which is big [among people I know/sleep with these days], apparently.). Should overcome my skeeved-out-ness one of these days.

Morbs, I just find them tremendously unattractive 95% of the time. (I wear one myself sometimes, but I don't assume everyone has the same quarks of taste as me.)

I haven't actually managed to fill out a profile, mostly cause I hate writing about myself.

I'd might be kinda intrigued by a guy with a goat tbh.

goats > goatees imo

goatees are almost as bad as cargo shorts imo

oouf everyone, I think they are kinda hot imo. Also Fantastic Man just did a bit on cargo shorts, so I guess they are not unfashionable anymore.

I have no shorts I'd be willing to wear outside of the house.

god i love shorts

all my shorts used to be jeans

i just found out recently that the denim cutoff is like a gay staple who knew

i made a great pair of shorts out of navy pants

xp is it?? I've never seen any other gays with them. Except hipstery ones.