Gays, its summer 2010 so... EVERYBODY TAKE OFF YOUR SHIRTS

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went to my bike shop today, walked in to "it's raining men"

my buddy, the manager, was like "yeah i put on this muzak channel and it sounds like a gay bar!"

"what channel is it?"

"something called 'the circuit'?"

Gah T3d I dunno how you meet all these guys! Do you like meet them in your current social circle (from work? mutual friends?) or do you go through the usual internet channels?

xp HAHAHA

are u guys doing it?

― janice (surm), Friday, July 23, 2010 2:04 AM (15 hours ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

reminded me of

are jaymc & rrrrobyn fucking each other
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(The answer was no, btw.)

The guy I've been talking to online for the past few months asked me to come visit him in NYC! :o

This be he:

http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-snc1/v1957/49/42/48603882/n48603882_33207828_6658.jpg

Looks a bit like Jeff Buckley.

I've never noticed, but I agree!

He's also very intelligent and loves the same art stuff that I do that bores everyone else.

Visiting him would also be my first time in NYC other than just transferring from one airport to another.

corey, it's mostly within the queer/punk community i belong to.

irl lol's at "The Circuit". Evan, I think I speak for all of us when I say that you are our honorary gay man.

xp that's cool. I'm too much of a shut-in to be part of something like that.

Jeez I wd love to be a part of some queer/punk community. Where do I find these?

start one in NB! (amazed there isn't one there already)

Oh I moved out of there. There is a healthy punk community that I was sort of a part of but I couldn't find any gay people really. But I'm near Philly now sooooo...

There are a lot of gays here but it is very mainstream circuit club MTV-gay kind of shit that I don't relate to.

I thought (aside from SF) all the queer/punk communities were found in 1994.

i don't think i'm even 10% punk enough to be part of a queer/punk community

is it like an official community or just like a group of friends?

i miss the days when punks were, you know, ugly. Like the Circle Jerks.

That play reading I went to the other night -- ii needs work, but it had its moments, like when an elderly Kabbalah expert says to Madonna, "Your vagina smells like a crowded henhouse."

corey, pretty sure i've talked to him. is he in bk?

i definitely wouldn't fit into a queer/punk scene these days as much as i would've in HS

xp yes!

yea he lives in prospect heights. my bf and i have both talked to him. he likes to flake out at the last minute. also he likes "masc"

just fyi

I don't know, I think he's just anxious around people. I never messaged him with the sole intent of boning him. We might just hang out, which would be great anyway.

Plus I'd have a chance to meet you guys who are in NYC. :)

whatever just letting you know! he was like "are u masc"

i was like do i look masc betch

surm ftw

I won't diss anyone for trying to hook up on craigslist

((I'm not mad though, just to clarify))

no totally

it's just i wd be sad if i were only attracted to masc guys

altho tbh i used to find fems, like, not hot

my horizons have broadened

yeah, like i get it like who you like, but i find the homogeneity of liking "straight acting" guys really gross

ugh "masculine" is fine but "straight-acting" = total red flag

i'm gen. more attracted to girlyboys anyway

aww

i'm straight acting

lol you are

and ur hot too

thank u boo

that phrase might cease to make my skin crawl when straight guys start regularly identifying as "gay-acting"

I'm like the teacher you had in school that you couldn't imagine having sex with anyone.

on avg I'm attracted to masculine dudes but it's really the bitchiness of femme guys that is a turn-off.

i guess i just find it really symptomatic of hetero********* (censored for alfred's delicate ears) values and automatically makes me think the person describing himself as such is a self-hating fag (not to say j0rdan is)

femmes don't have to be cunty tbf

femme guys can be bitchy but my guy is a total sweetheart :)

yeah surm otm

i'm straight acting

except when there's a cock in yr mouth, amirite?

I've been w/ guys all over the butch-femme spectrum; 'straight-acting' don't mean a thing.

except when there's a cock in yr mouth, amirite?

ohhhhhhhhhhhhh SNAP!

anyway it's not a phrase i use to describe myself and i wasn't the one who used it in the first place, but it is what it is

i find femininity in gay men to be sexy in the context of their masculinity -- being totally femme isn't attractive to me