i definitely wouldn't fit into a queer/punk scene these days as much as i would've in HS
― temple beth-enny (donna rouge), Saturday, 24 July 2010 15:11 (thirteen years ago) link
xp yes!
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 15:13 (thirteen years ago) link
yea he lives in prospect heights. my bf and i have both talked to him. he likes to flake out at the last minute. also he likes "masc"
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 15:13 (thirteen years ago) link
just fyi
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 15:14 (thirteen years ago) link
I don't know, I think he's just anxious around people. I never messaged him with the sole intent of boning him. We might just hang out, which would be great anyway.
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 15:18 (thirteen years ago) link
Plus I'd have a chance to meet you guys who are in NYC. :)
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 15:19 (thirteen years ago) link
whatever just letting you know! he was like "are u masc"
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 15:20 (thirteen years ago) link
i was like do i look masc betch
surm ftw
― Lexaprotend (Stevie D), Saturday, 24 July 2010 15:24 (thirteen years ago) link
I won't diss anyone for trying to hook up on craigslist
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 15:40 (thirteen years ago) link
((I'm not mad though, just to clarify))
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 15:52 (thirteen years ago) link
no totally
it's just i wd be sad if i were only attracted to masc guys
altho tbh i used to find fems, like, not hot
my horizons have broadened
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:03 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah, like i get it like who you like, but i find the homogeneity of liking "straight acting" guys really gross
― plax (ico), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:05 (thirteen years ago) link
ugh "masculine" is fine but "straight-acting" = total red flag
i'm gen. more attracted to girlyboys anyway
― born to darraghmac (The Reverend), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:11 (thirteen years ago) link
aww
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:11 (thirteen years ago) link
i'm straight acting
― ASBO slice (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:11 (thirteen years ago) link
lol you are
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:12 (thirteen years ago) link
and ur hot too
thank u boo
― ASBO slice (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:12 (thirteen years ago) link
that phrase might cease to make my skin crawl when straight guys start regularly identifying as "gay-acting"
― born to darraghmac (The Reverend), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:13 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm like the teacher you had in school that you couldn't imagine having sex with anyone.
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:13 (thirteen years ago) link
on avg I'm attracted to masculine dudes but it's really the bitchiness of femme guys that is a turn-off.
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:16 (thirteen years ago) link
i guess i just find it really symptomatic of hetero********* (censored for alfred's delicate ears) values and automatically makes me think the person describing himself as such is a self-hating fag (not to say j0rdan is)
― born to darraghmac (The Reverend), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:16 (thirteen years ago) link
femmes don't have to be cunty tbf
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:17 (thirteen years ago) link
femme guys can be bitchy but my guy is a total sweetheart :)
― born to darraghmac (The Reverend), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:18 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah surm otm
except when there's a cock in yr mouth, amirite?
I've been w/ guys all over the butch-femme spectrum; 'straight-acting' don't mean a thing.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:30 (thirteen years ago) link
ohhhhhhhhhhhhh SNAP!
― born to darraghmac (The Reverend), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:32 (thirteen years ago) link
anyway it's not a phrase i use to describe myself and i wasn't the one who used it in the first place, but it is what it is
― ASBO slice (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:34 (thirteen years ago) link
i find femininity in gay men to be sexy in the context of their masculinity -- being totally femme isn't attractive to me
― ASBO slice (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:37 (thirteen years ago) link
yea like i'm a queen but u should see me put away a meatloaf
i don't fuck around
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:38 (thirteen years ago) link
ramzi is about as feminine as i could go, altho i'd probably draw the line at make up
― ASBO slice (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:40 (thirteen years ago) link
eye liner can be hot but i don't fuck with blush and/or lip treatments
i mean, the point is when i do my makeup i like to make it look i have the most amazing skin u could ever imagine or dream of
like if i do it right u would just think i was born with it
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:46 (thirteen years ago) link
i am wearing makeup today
http://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g192/rrawn/stripey.jpg
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:53 (thirteen years ago) link
well of course you look beautiful
― ASBO slice (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:53 (thirteen years ago) link
barely there makeup!
― jed_, Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:54 (thirteen years ago) link
just a whisper.
you look fab.
i wish we could take a thread group foto
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:58 (thirteen years ago) link
we'll have to when I come visit!
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 19:13 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm thinking like towards the end of next month
Last night on South Beach of all places a young woman hit on me.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 24 July 2010 19:14 (thirteen years ago) link
My new beard has proven interesting; I didn't know I'd need to sport two when I go out.
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, July 24, 2010 3:13 PM (4 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
Likely to be visiting friends in NYC late August as well. Sort of a last-jaunt before law school deprives me of a social life. NYC fags - There Will Be Beers?
― Y /\/\ /\/\ \/ (Alex in Montreal), Saturday, 24 July 2010 19:20 (thirteen years ago) link
Hi, gays. Just sweated off a hangover at the pool. My tan is vicious.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 24 July 2010 19:27 (thirteen years ago) link
:)
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 19:28 (thirteen years ago) link
v cute, ramz.
I can't wait to meet J0rdan to see if he's more butch than I am. We may have to arm wrestle.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 24 July 2010 19:30 (thirteen years ago) link
Morbs and J:
http://blogs.ocweekly.com/navelgazing/Stallone-over-the-top.jpg
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 24 July 2010 19:31 (thirteen years ago) link
idk how people are able to conceive of themselves on some continuum of masculinity. i can't really think abt myself on those terms?
― plax (ico), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:02 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm not a woman. I'm not a man. I am something that you'll never comprehend.
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:04 (thirteen years ago) link