lol you are
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:12 (thirteen years ago) link
and ur hot too
thank u boo
― ASBO slice (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:12 (thirteen years ago) link
that phrase might cease to make my skin crawl when straight guys start regularly identifying as "gay-acting"
― born to darraghmac (The Reverend), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:13 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm like the teacher you had in school that you couldn't imagine having sex with anyone.
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:13 (thirteen years ago) link
on avg I'm attracted to masculine dudes but it's really the bitchiness of femme guys that is a turn-off.
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:16 (thirteen years ago) link
i guess i just find it really symptomatic of hetero********* (censored for alfred's delicate ears) values and automatically makes me think the person describing himself as such is a self-hating fag (not to say j0rdan is)
― born to darraghmac (The Reverend), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:16 (thirteen years ago) link
femmes don't have to be cunty tbf
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:17 (thirteen years ago) link
femme guys can be bitchy but my guy is a total sweetheart :)
― born to darraghmac (The Reverend), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:18 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah surm otm
i'm straight acting
except when there's a cock in yr mouth, amirite?
I've been w/ guys all over the butch-femme spectrum; 'straight-acting' don't mean a thing.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:30 (thirteen years ago) link
ohhhhhhhhhhhhh SNAP!
― born to darraghmac (The Reverend), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:32 (thirteen years ago) link
anyway it's not a phrase i use to describe myself and i wasn't the one who used it in the first place, but it is what it is
― ASBO slice (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:34 (thirteen years ago) link
i find femininity in gay men to be sexy in the context of their masculinity -- being totally femme isn't attractive to me
― ASBO slice (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:37 (thirteen years ago) link
yea like i'm a queen but u should see me put away a meatloaf
i don't fuck around
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:38 (thirteen years ago) link
ramzi is about as feminine as i could go, altho i'd probably draw the line at make up
― ASBO slice (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:40 (thirteen years ago) link
eye liner can be hot but i don't fuck with blush and/or lip treatments
i mean, the point is when i do my makeup i like to make it look i have the most amazing skin u could ever imagine or dream of
like if i do it right u would just think i was born with it
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:46 (thirteen years ago) link
i am wearing makeup today
http://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g192/rrawn/stripey.jpg
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:53 (thirteen years ago) link
well of course you look beautiful
― ASBO slice (J0rdan S.), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:53 (thirteen years ago) link
barely there makeup!
― jed_, Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:54 (thirteen years ago) link
just a whisper.
you look fab.
i wish we could take a thread group foto
― janice (surm), Saturday, 24 July 2010 18:58 (thirteen years ago) link
we'll have to when I come visit!
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 19:13 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm thinking like towards the end of next month
Last night on South Beach of all places a young woman hit on me.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 24 July 2010 19:14 (thirteen years ago) link
My new beard has proven interesting; I didn't know I'd need to sport two when I go out.
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, July 24, 2010 3:13 PM (4 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
Likely to be visiting friends in NYC late August as well. Sort of a last-jaunt before law school deprives me of a social life. NYC fags - There Will Be Beers?
― Y /\/\ /\/\ \/ (Alex in Montreal), Saturday, 24 July 2010 19:20 (thirteen years ago) link
Hi, gays. Just sweated off a hangover at the pool. My tan is vicious.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 24 July 2010 19:27 (thirteen years ago) link
:)
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 19:28 (thirteen years ago) link
v cute, ramz.
I can't wait to meet J0rdan to see if he's more butch than I am. We may have to arm wrestle.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Saturday, 24 July 2010 19:30 (thirteen years ago) link
Morbs and J:
http://blogs.ocweekly.com/navelgazing/Stallone-over-the-top.jpg
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 24 July 2010 19:31 (thirteen years ago) link
idk how people are able to conceive of themselves on some continuum of masculinity. i can't really think abt myself on those terms?
― plax (ico), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:02 (thirteen years ago) link
I'm not a woman. I'm not a man. I am something that you'll never comprehend.
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:04 (thirteen years ago) link
plax, it's easier when you're surrounded by different iterations of masculinity.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:13 (thirteen years ago) link
what does that even mean
― plax (ico), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:14 (thirteen years ago) link
Don't you hang out with other men?
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:16 (thirteen years ago) link
You compare yourself with these other men.
why would i want to do that?
― plax (ico), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:17 (thirteen years ago) link
Because you breathe?
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:19 (thirteen years ago) link
man dont diagnose me with ur neuroses
― plax (ico), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:25 (thirteen years ago) link
I wish I had some.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:31 (thirteen years ago) link
You're probably assuming "compare yourself with other men" is a negative thing. All I meant to say is that when I'm in a group of guys it's as natural for me to think, "This guy's a swish, this guy's straight, this guy's an effeminate straight guy." I thought that's what everyone does, like stare critically at people's shoes.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:34 (thirteen years ago) link
i feel like that would make me really self conscious
― plax (ico), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:36 (thirteen years ago) link
It's something I do too, and I don't think I'm overly self-conscious, but definitely conscious. It's just a part of reading non-verbal communication imo.
― fidel castro clone (corey), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:39 (thirteen years ago) link
Right now I'm writing in Starbucks and two meters away is an Asian dude with appalling sandals, a ponytail, and a determined lisp. Oh -- and he ordered a non-fat vanilla latte.
― balls and adieu (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:44 (thirteen years ago) link
plax is being disingenuous. everyone compares themselves to others. "Because you breathe" of course, well put.
― jed_, Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:46 (thirteen years ago) link
obv about some things, not on some taxonomy of manliness thing. i dont even know how i would do that.
― plax (ico), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:48 (thirteen years ago) link
and i feel like inserting yourself into one must involve like, monitoring yourself
― plax (ico), Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:50 (thirteen years ago) link
& you don't?
― jed_, Saturday, 24 July 2010 20:51 (thirteen years ago) link