i just kicked a drunk woman out of my hotel for calling my gay coworker a fag

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"enlightened"

yeah, it's pretty outlandish to argue for hate of any kind, even if it's a word - not as small as it may seem.

xxxpost self-congratulatory = pride, and there's nothing wrong with being proud of being open-minded. it's not as common a characteristic as it may seem. and whether it be pride or homosexuality, the crux of the issue involves ridicule, a small but biting form of hate, both unnecessary and unjustified.

Surmounter, Monday, 28 May 2007 19:17 (seventeen years ago) link

You can't have a thread about free speech without the fire thing, you know.

i just think that an action should be judged consistently, not on the identity or sensitivities of the victim/target.

It's not so much about the target as it is the context, which sometimes includes the target. <trope>You can't yell fire in a crowded theatre, after all</trope>.

stet, Monday, 28 May 2007 19:18 (seventeen years ago) link

Sub-questions for D: Do you think that death threats should be criminal, or warrant criminal investigation? Do you favor throwing out intent in considering levels of murder/manslaughter? Do you think systematic intimidation and harrassment should be legalized?

nabisco, Monday, 28 May 2007 19:19 (seventeen years ago) link

If someone goes around burning crosses on black people's lawns, do you think the extent of his crimes is trespassing, having a bonfire without a permit, and reckless endangerment?

nabisco, Monday, 28 May 2007 19:21 (seventeen years ago) link

(If he digs a moat and sandbags around each cross, should we knock off reckless endangerment?)

nabisco, Monday, 28 May 2007 19:21 (seventeen years ago) link

see, now, surmounter- that was exactly what i was talking about. well done. end of this thread for me.

anyway, stet and nabisco were winning anyways.

see you on another thread, i'm really not going to get into personals, i find established ILXors always seem to come out on top for some reason.

darraghmac, Monday, 28 May 2007 19:22 (seventeen years ago) link

Threats are a weird area. I don't think I've ever taken them seriously, although I know a lot of people do. It's just that, in my experience, people who make threats to harm or even kill other people very rarely actually carry them out. But some do, of course, so... And if threats carry a racial or sexual aspect, they seem more insidious. Criminal, though?

(I'm on the fence wrt hate laws. We have them here in Canada, but I'm unsure what I think about them.)

Lostandfound, Monday, 28 May 2007 19:24 (seventeen years ago) link

Dude, nobody's getting personal, and you strike me as a pretty established ILXor yourself! I'm just trying to see if you acknowledge that there's a line where speech becomes harrassment, intimidation, or threat. We accept that they do when we say stuff like "I'm going to murder you"; are there no criminal acts you see working the same way?

L+F: w/r/t hate crimes, consider that if someone's actually assaulted someone for reasons of bigotry, he's kinda already proved himself willing to follow through. I dunno, I can understand arguing that these laws aren't necessary, but I don't quite see how people assault the logic or philosophy behind them. If we were looking at an actual successful 60s-style campaign to, say, intimidate some group of people and keep them out of a neighborhood, I think we'd all see how an individual assault wasn't just an assault -- how it was part of a conspiracy toward racial injustice and a mild, localized form of terrorism, you know?

nabisco, Monday, 28 May 2007 19:28 (seventeen years ago) link

I need to think this stuff through more.

nasbisco, I worked with street kids for a long time and I've heard every threat under the sun and just learned not to take them seriously, so even "I'm going to murder you" means little to me. But if you tack on "you little fag" or "you fucking n****r" to the end it does get a lot darker (okay, that's a big "duh" isn't it), but if the person making the threat calls out to bystanders, say, looking for support or solidarity it gets worse still. I suppose I'm wondering where the real world line gets drawn.

Or, my first sentence in this post!

Lostandfound, Monday, 28 May 2007 19:35 (seventeen years ago) link

There is no hard and fast line, that's why it's left up to judges/prosecutors/juries in indidiual cases to decide whether or not it's been crossed.

Eppy, Monday, 28 May 2007 19:39 (seventeen years ago) link

And I haven't really answered you, have I?

Instead of laws, however, couldn't bigotry (during the commision of another crime) be an aggravating factor for individual courts to decide on a case-by-case basis, though? Hate crime is too close to thought crime, maybe. But I can't really argue with you scenario of someone already with a history of assault against a minority. Just trying to get this straight in my head.

Ha, xpost with Eppy.

Lostandfound, Monday, 28 May 2007 19:40 (seventeen years ago) link

(With a reminder that it's not that way in Canada, though. We have hate laws here.)

Lostandfound, Monday, 28 May 2007 19:41 (seventeen years ago) link

Instead of laws, however, couldn't bigotry (during the commision of another crime) be an aggravating factor for individual courts to decide on a case-by-case basis, though?

That's what "hate crime" MEANS in the U.S.!

nabisco, Monday, 28 May 2007 20:15 (seventeen years ago) link

I mean, geez, I'm just going to paraphrase a bunch of crap from Wikipedia so we at least all know what we're talking about here, at least in US FEDERAL terms:

-- a 1969 law that makes it a federal case if anyone "by force of threat of force willfully injures, intimidates or interferes with ... any person because of his race, color, religion or national origin," specifically with regard to federally protected activities including voting and going to school -- the Civil Rights context of that one should be absolutely obvious

-- a 1994 SENTENCING act that increases penalties for crimes committed on the basis of race, religion, etc.

-- various state laws, both criminal and civil

All approved by the Supreme Court in 1993 on mostly the same basis I'm outlining above -- Rehnquist's opinion sez: "This conduct is thought to inflict greater individual and societal harm.... bias-motivated crimes are more likely to provoke retaliatory crimes, inflict distinct emotional harms on their victims, and incite community unrest."

nabisco, Monday, 28 May 2007 20:23 (seventeen years ago) link

so what we really need is federal precedent classifying the word 'faggot' and 'retard' as hatespeech?

remy bean, Monday, 28 May 2007 20:27 (seventeen years ago) link

(P.S.: The fact that lots and lots of Americans ALREADY imagine these laws are one step away from throwing people in prison for being racist or insulting one another is one very good reason we will never actually have laws that involve throwing people in prison for being racist or insulting one another.)

nabisco, Monday, 28 May 2007 20:28 (seventeen years ago) link

but are you really asking me if an historian (however controversial) should have been jailed for holding conferences (even ones in biker bars) and writing his beliefs that the holocaust was exaggerated?

that is a crazy, and dangerous law. people should be allowed to deny the holocaust if they like. would you like GWB to introduce a law making it illegal to deny God?

-- darraghmac, Monday, May 28, 2007 7:04 PM (1 hour ago) Bookmark Link

yes i fucking am because he was a fucking nazi who addressed nazi rallies. he did not say the holocaust had been 'exaggerated', he denied it ever happened.

That one guy that quit, Monday, 28 May 2007 20:35 (seventeen years ago) link

speaking as somebody who falls into no less than 3 constitutionally protected minority groups (4, if you consider a college stint as endangered waterfowl) it's difficult to reconcile the forbiddenness of "intimidating or interfering with...' [because of race, religion, class] with the experience of having been intimidated and interfered with because of non-race, non-religious, non-class issues for many, many, years.

as i see it, in any incident where the motive or aggravating factor in a crime is raw bigotry – acted prejudice with malevolent intent - it should not matter what the particular bias is for/against. it shouldn't matter if one agrees or disagrees with the premise: torching a pedophile ex-con holocaust denier's car is (and should be) as criminal as torching a charitable convent's nun-wagon-comissary truck.

our moral and ethical sympathies notwithstanding, any behavior that seeks to harm based on intolerant judgement of a group or bloc's politics, beliefs, or lifestyle is dead wrong. case-by-case action against individual members, if necessary, is exponentially more preferable, just, and in line with the underlying principles of the constitution & bill of rights.

remy bean, Monday, 28 May 2007 20:49 (seventeen years ago) link

AT WORK, I like to say, "That's not [name of business] language." And then if they continue it, "That's not [name of business] language. Leave now."

Abbott, Monday, 28 May 2007 21:59 (seventeen years ago) link

It sounds so kindergarten techer but somehow most people take it seriously.

Abbott, Monday, 28 May 2007 22:00 (seventeen years ago) link

its the battle of this thread and big hoos for which is more self-indulgent

-- and what, Monday, May 28, 2007 9:13 AM

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BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Monday, 28 May 2007 22:08 (seventeen years ago) link

fuck you internet

its the battle of this thread and big hoos for which is more self-indulgent

-- and what, Monday, May 28, 2007 9:13 AM

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BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Monday, 28 May 2007 22:13 (seventeen years ago) link

it's all so crazy

Surmounter, Monday, 28 May 2007 22:56 (seventeen years ago) link

u know u have a ways to go as a gay man when dude gets ripped apart for posting an anti-homophobia agenda, and the woman yelling faggot in the hotel is defended.

Surmounter, Monday, 28 May 2007 22:58 (seventeen years ago) link

i think the self-indulgent thing is being mistaken as such when it seems to be a matter of plain surprise. if i ran into a woman like that, i would honestly be rather fucking shocked, and i'd sure as hell vent/post a thread about it.

Surmounter, Monday, 28 May 2007 23:01 (seventeen years ago) link

hmm, weird, my internet browser has taken away all of the posts defending the drunk woman.

big hoos didn't post an 'anti-homophobia agenda'. he chucked someone out of his hotel for getting drunk and calling someone 'faggot' and then posted about it.

xpost

ur really "surprised"?

That one guy that quit, Monday, 28 May 2007 23:04 (seventeen years ago) link

Some people need to brush up on "speech act theory" around here. It seems that the idea that "speech is not an act" is getting people tied into all kinds of weird conceptual knots. Surely heterosexuals, of all people, ought to be familiar with performatives, since the absolutely classic example of a performative speech act (a use of speech which also creates consequences in the real world and thus constitutes an act upon and within that world) in the texts of Austin and Searle is the chaplain saying "I now pronounce you man and wife". Speech is action. "Hatespeech" is a use of language which doesn't just "exemplify" or "reinforce" external contexts of harm: it is itself an act that harms, given certain "conditions of satisfaction" (i.e. external circumstances in which it can function effectively). When straight people call each other faggot as a joke do they harm each other? No, because the conditions of satisfaction haven't been met. They know that they aren't faggots and so the wrongness of fit between word and world ensures that no harm is done to each other. But when it becomes de rigeur to call people faggots in the public sphere, queers don't just "feel" threatened, they *are* threatened. If such statements are treated as acceptable, this maintains straight privilege. Note that I am not discussing the legality or illegality of these acts: within certain bounds, it's perfectly legal to say things that inflict harm on other people. Couples and families do this all the time. Apparently message boards do too.

Drew Daniel, Monday, 28 May 2007 23:06 (seventeen years ago) link

HOOS, would you have been so professional and courteous if you weren't being paid to be as such?

ailsa, Monday, 28 May 2007 23:10 (seventeen years ago) link

really surprised, though i know what u mean in that i shouldn't be.

i thought we were just talking about how it might not be wrong to blast the word faggot in public? pretty sure there was an argument about something like that just now? to me the fact that that argument happened defends that woman.

Surmounter, Monday, 28 May 2007 23:11 (seventeen years ago) link

and not tolerating the use of the word faggot constitutes an anti-homophobia agenda, duh

Surmounter, Monday, 28 May 2007 23:13 (seventeen years ago) link

thnks drew for saying what i was trying, and failing, to articulate above thread

max, Monday, 28 May 2007 23:14 (seventeen years ago) link

i just think this thread is kindof ridiculous? some guy gets upset about some stupid fucking bitch, posts a threads about it, and what's the reaction? he gets a bunch of shit and the stupid woman spurs Vassar-worthy ideological debates regarding the validity of her behavior. i guess i like debates like that but it seems slanted, hard.

what's wrong with a, damn hoos, that woman's an idiot and it sounds like u played it cool, rock on

Surmounter, Monday, 28 May 2007 23:17 (seventeen years ago) link

If I hadn't been on the clock at my workplace it's quite possible it's quite possible I wouldn't have said anything at all. I asked her to leave because I knew (as an employee and acting manager) that I reserved the right to do so. I'm generally not a confrontational guy.

xxpost

BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Monday, 28 May 2007 23:18 (seventeen years ago) link

xpost to alisa, that was.

BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Monday, 28 May 2007 23:18 (seventeen years ago) link

totally woulda bitched her out even if i didn't work there, r u kidding. that's just not acceptable

Surmounter, Monday, 28 May 2007 23:19 (seventeen years ago) link

I'm just being honest, man. My mother's gay and I know she'd be ashamed of me if I didn't stand up to that shit, but I can't make a promise that I would.

BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Monday, 28 May 2007 23:21 (seventeen years ago) link

lol no i wasn't like blaming u at all, i'm just channeling the anger i would've felt were i there

Surmounter, Monday, 28 May 2007 23:24 (seventeen years ago) link

i also think there are 2 ways to react to an issue like this, 1 way is if you are familiar with homosexuality, ie ur gay or close to someone who is, and the other way is if you're not. it does make a difference, it just hits u harder, it becomes personal. and that lends itself to a no-tolerance attitude.

Surmounter, Monday, 28 May 2007 23:25 (seventeen years ago) link

Obviously I'd like to think I would, but I can't say for sure until I'm there on the spot. None of us can, I think. xpost to self

BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Monday, 28 May 2007 23:25 (seventeen years ago) link

omg xpost to self, classic

Surmounter, Monday, 28 May 2007 23:26 (seventeen years ago) link

hoosteen has two mommies

and what, Monday, 28 May 2007 23:41 (seventeen years ago) link

ps http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sedition_Act_of_1918

and what, Monday, 28 May 2007 23:43 (seventeen years ago) link

I think the thread took an interesting tangent into the whole topic of hate crime and hate speech, over and above what people thought about HOOS' actions. I can't speak for anyone else, but for me I was just interested in that bigger picture issue and didn't really comment/dwell on what HOOS did. For what it's worth, I think he did the right thing given the information we have. Also, thanks to nabisco and Drew I'm leaning that way in the argument.

Lostandfound, Monday, 28 May 2007 23:55 (seventeen years ago) link

In other words, I wasn't thinking we shouldn't confront bigotry when we encounter it.

Lostandfound, Monday, 28 May 2007 23:57 (seventeen years ago) link

Hi Ethan I've got a poster of Debs on my wall, I know what the Alien & Sedition Acts were. What's your point?

ps I've got a step-mom too so its 3.

BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Tuesday, 29 May 2007 00:03 (seventeen years ago) link

Are you really suggesting that punishment for hate speech against racial or sexual minorities is tantamount to punishment for political reasons?

BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Tuesday, 29 May 2007 00:14 (seventeen years ago) link

It is political reasons.

jim, Tuesday, 29 May 2007 00:16 (seventeen years ago) link

Well I mean if you can decipher the terrible english there you get what I'm meaning.

jim, Tuesday, 29 May 2007 00:18 (seventeen years ago) link

It is political reasons

you mean as in "everything is political"?

Jeb, Tuesday, 29 May 2007 00:20 (seventeen years ago) link

Political in the broad sense, perhaps, but punishing someone for using a pejorative term referring to an entire biologically-determined group is markedly different from punishing someone because of their stance on a particular government action.

xpost

BIG HOOS aka the steendriver, Tuesday, 29 May 2007 00:21 (seventeen years ago) link


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