Gays, its summer 2010 so... EVERYBODY TAKE OFF YOUR SHIRTS

Er1c is a boy that I met at a music festival last Saturday (specifically at Robyn's set but whatever). He's nice - maybe a little too nice - and his music tastes are too PopJusticey for life, but he's good people, and he's cute, so we'll see what happens.

I dunno. I occasionally meet these charming and cute 19 year olds who are very very 19 re: perspective, headspace viz life, and to make an issue of that would be condescending, but at the same time it's something that is there in the back of my head.

lol @ "too popjusticey for life"

and i think yr qualms about being in a different "headspace" are warranted - if you're each looking for different things it's hard to sustain a relationship that way

Yeah, but like I said, we'll see. We've hung out twice and made out once (and we're very good at the latter) so I don't think this is necessarily the moment to start freaking out. It's summer, y'know?

Summer tonguings are awesome.

summer tonguin', havin' a blaaaast
summer tonguin', happens so faaaast

I dunno. I occasionally meet these charming and cute 19 year olds who are very very 19 re: perspective, headspace viz life, and to make an issue of that would be condescending, but at the same time it's something that is there in the back of my head.

totally having the same thoughts about the 19-yo girl I'm seeing now

If you can't beat'em marry'em.

hey table - is that v cute guy Sean on your team or mine?

totally having the same thoughts about the 19-yo girl I'm seeing now

― "mc hammer" (f/ mc hammer) (The Reverend), Monday, August 9, 2010 3:55 PM (3 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

It's tricky, because you can't presume to know where they stand on things or what they're looking for out of yr interactions but at the same time there are SIGNS. part of me says 'you are not responsible for other people's uncommunicated expectations' and part of me says 'do no harm' and part of me thinks that assuming he's as young&naive as he seems is patronizing and gross.

\(o_0)/ Makeouts is the only real answer here.

(Rev, what happened w/ J, btw? Is he still a going concern?)

I keep forgetting Rev is bi.

With J, I ran up against one of the unforseen pitfalls of internet dating, which is that even though we live in the same (relatively small) city, our lies never naturally intersect. We don't go to the same places, we have very different schedules, and it was just too much damn work for us to see each other. A couple weeks ago he bailed on a date at the last moment and I texted this girl I'd just met to see if she wanted to go instead. At that point I just kind of went screw J, it's too much effort to see him and most of that effort is coming out on my end.

I still reserve the right to use him as a booty call if neccesary.

our lives*

Se4n? this se4n?
http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc4/hs248.snc4/39738_508825678492_139100633_30308567_4923673_n.jpg

if it's him, then he is very much on my team. you don't remember me lusting and pining and whatnot over him?

(he has a tremendously lovely penis, fyi)

yes that guy - pretty sure he was on your team, but i was just checking!!! he was at the base of b@ss show last night, as was the cute Whole Foods guy that i posted about a while back, wondering if you knew him.

i wanted to go to that show to say bye to max for a while, but i got caught hanging with old friend in SF til midnite. how was it?

i left early - oh and for the folks on this thread, S3an is even hotter IRL than in the pic.

he is disgusting hot.

table u don't know a j0hn Lµrz do you?

felt like this should be reposted here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0VcGJZpfl1c

Love Barney's shorts.

gbx, i might. i know a few dudes by that name out here. any descriptors?

ginger, shaved head, studying lit @ berkeley, went to p-ton, opinionated to the point of boorishness at times

also a total manwhore, by his accounts

oh! i've met him once, he knows my friend iv4n.

speaking of gingers, there was one on the BART yesterday that was so swoonworthy, i nearly dropped my bike five times just because i was so focused on him.

My air conditioner is broken. It's too fucking hot in my apartment. I got a parking ticket. Fuck.

i have been asleep all day

i mean like asleep

Look what you've missed: hot dogs, repulsive sphincters, New Order, and Rev's girl.

i know. but i am going to go out tonight, i am going to shave my face and go out

altho to tell u the honest truth a lot of ppl prefer me with the facial hair

http://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g192/rrawn/shaveornoshave.jpg

shave or no shave

no shave

u think i'll look like a dork with no facial hair don't you

a band geek or somethin

No shave. Surm, if I bumped into you I'd let you make out with me.

i suppose you'll say no eyeliner too

what is it with ppl wanting me to like be a man

fuck em

i will try

lipstick and hair = hawt!

cocktail time!

who gonna join me?

i wish

:| what's up wit u?

among other things, not having a ton of cocktail ingredients

also i saw 'the other guys' earlier and it sucked

re. band geek, there's a new boy at work who is like 6'5" and rail thin, floppy hair, baby face and glasses. Of course, he has a bass-baritone voice. I kinda wanna ruffle his hair.

ruffling hair

is still