Radical Feminism: Discuss

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I don't believe I am arguing against incremental improvements but I am arguing that the lot of women as a whole would be vastly improved by improving the lot of those worst off in society.

Ed (dali), Tuesday, 2 September 2003 14:43 (twenty years ago) link

In terms of oppression, hardship, etc., I'd rather be a middle-class woman than a working-class male. But I'd rather be an upper-class twit than either.

Jesse Fuchs (Jesse Fuchs), Tuesday, 2 September 2003 14:47 (twenty years ago) link

Because we want to!
Because we want to!
(Spice Girls, dunno when)

I can't believe no one picked up on this... this piece o' post-feminist sloganeering actually comes from Billie Piper.

I would love it if I had more time right now, because then I could contribute something good to this thread, but as things are I'll just point out that Andrea Dworkin is incredibly, stupidly myopic and is only saved from her otherwise irredeemable bintishness by not being Catherine MacKinnon, and that emphasising difference and victimhood is a dead-end way to ultimately self-defeating self-ghettoisation.

The Lex (The Lex), Tuesday, 2 September 2003 15:01 (twenty years ago) link

I've been quickly scanning through this thread (quite a long & intense read here) and I suppose I identify more with Trayce's way of thinking than anything else, even though I didn't have any brothers (or any sisters, come to think of it) and had a heavily femicentric upbringing (most of my relatives were and are women). I did, however, get to have the lovely opportunity to spend all but about four years of my life in a very heavily machismo-oriented location, and after years of being openly teased (mercilessly) by my male classmates in grade school I pretty much learned how to have an iron constitution with regards to relations with the opposite sex. (It's only been really recently when I've actually become friends or friendly with males that I've eased up on this.) But you know what? As I've grown older I've found that people in general can be utter & complete bastards and morons or angels and great examples of humanity. Females struggle because we ALL struggle. It's pointless to list how we've been mistreated in the past because if we do that, then we need to give equal time to Irish-Americans, Italian-Americans, Chinese-Americans, Latinos of all backgrounds, Native Americans, African-Americans, Japanese-Americans, gays & lesbians, etc., etc., etc. Point being, most EVERYONE has been mistreated in the past. Life is inherently unfair. This is purely fact. The key is to make sure that you alone get as much of the fair bits as you can and not focus as much on what you may or may not be getting because of who you were born as. Trayce totally hit the nail on the head with her proclamation of "I refuse to be a fucking victim," because that is the way I operate in life too, no matter what happens to me or in my life.

I love my sisters and want to stick by them, but I also love my brothers too and also want to stick by them. I am a humanist. I want fairness for ALL and victimhood for NONE.

Just Deanna (Dee the Lurker), Tuesday, 2 September 2003 15:20 (twenty years ago) link

But she's so funny! "He is not possessed even though he rolls over dead and useless afterward, shrunk into oblivion" A laff riot.

tokyo rosemary (rosemary), Tuesday, 2 September 2003 15:25 (twenty years ago) link

I feel the same as Trayce and Deanna, and I only I wish I could have put it so well.

mei (mei), Tuesday, 2 September 2003 15:39 (twenty years ago) link

radical feminism =radical, Latin for root. Change is not possible within the existing system. To achieve a more just society that takes the lived experience of different race/class/gender in mind, society must be completely TRANSFORMED. Root change. Revolution.

cultural feminism: can be utopian or liberal (in the classic sense, change within the existing social system is possible). if only you change our culture so that things are not constructed in such a violent, male-centered, war-culture way then all people would be liberated from chains that bind them. If government culture were changed to emphasize consensus decisionmaking rather than power and hierarchy; if single mothers were given social support instead of being branded sluts and welfare queens etc. A change in the culture, in how we look at things, construct things, think of things.

In terms of RG, mei, the separatist argument has been done to death, and there are several different takes on it. You can see the usenet type arguments by googling for Riot Grrrl chapters and discussion boards on the web. I really don't want to get into it here, it's just boring for me in a been, there, done that a million times kinda way, and no i'm not being elitist i'm just being honest and no i am not trying to put anyone down.

Orbit (Orbit), Tuesday, 2 September 2003 15:54 (twenty years ago) link

Deanna, you ROCK.

cis (cis), Tuesday, 2 September 2003 16:01 (twenty years ago) link

No oppression is ended until ALL of it is!

p pot, Tuesday, 2 September 2003 17:12 (twenty years ago) link

Although I agree with Dee and Trayce on an individual level, I agree with gareth in that universals and essentialism should be avoided at all costs. One of my favourite theory-type books has always been "The Practice of Everyday Life" by Michael De Certeau. I like the idea of working against hegemonic systems by using smaller tactics, thus avoiding the creation of a replacement hegemony.

cybele (cybele), Tuesday, 2 September 2003 17:12 (twenty years ago) link

In ancient tymes the English word for woman was "wif-man" and the word for man was "waepna-man"—i.e. women wove cloth and t-shirts and California Raisins beach blankets, and men carried weapons. If a woman picked up a weapon, though, hey presto her category suddenly became "waepna-man", and vice-versa!!

Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Tuesday, 2 September 2003 18:44 (twenty years ago) link

My favorite feminist theory book is Dorothy Smith: The Everyday World As Problematic.
Second favorite: everything bell hooks ever wrote.

Orbit (Orbit), Tuesday, 2 September 2003 18:53 (twenty years ago) link

'radical' is latin for 'ROOT'!? there's sexism embedded in the language right there cobber!

bruce q, Tuesday, 2 September 2003 18:55 (twenty years ago) link

Separate classes: my ex-wife used to teach some, and organised lots. Her favourite examples of why it was needed were a woman who was doing self-defence, and the instructor suggested she might like to pay for lessons in a different way (and was she going to let him put his hands on her after that?) and, my 'favourite', a woman who lived on a barge and went to a class on canal navigation (don't ask me, I wouldn't have thought you could get lost on them) and at the start of the first lesson the instructor said "What's the problem, love? Couldn't you get a man to do it for you?" in what he apparently thought were reasonable tones.

Ed, your position that women really don't have it much worse than men is completely mental. Men suffer from the normative nature of sexual roles, but women's suffering and oppression is still there. Look at any serious study of violence within relationships, look at any study on rape, on murder in the home, and it is unmistakeable that feminism has many battles still to fight and win. The fact that poverty is a bad thing does not mean that women don't have plenty of extra ground to gain.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Tuesday, 2 September 2003 19:03 (twenty years ago) link

I thought Ed's point was that the disparity between the classes was greater than the disparity between the sexes.

Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Tuesday, 2 September 2003 19:56 (twenty years ago) link

I don't see how you can measure them, I don't see the use in doing so, and in any case I can't see that class disparity making rape and 'domestic violence' negligible in any case.

Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Tuesday, 2 September 2003 20:20 (twenty years ago) link

this is starting to remind of that suffering thread. who has a 'right' to suffer, who suffers more. people only really know their own experiences and you can't blame them for working to improve their lot and those in similar situations that they can relate to. complaining because they aren't working to improve YOUR life or the lives of people YOU personally think have it worse-off is so silly. besides,someone would just chime in and criticize them on their priveleged guilt in trying to help people 'beneath' them or people they know nothing about. i swear, you can't win on these boards!

saying you're more interested in issue a than issue b is one thing, but denying that issue b even exists and that issue a is the only one anyone should care is so arrogant and naive.

lolita corpus (lolitacorpus), Tuesday, 2 September 2003 21:41 (twenty years ago) link

I really don't want to get into it here, it's just boring for me in a been, there, done that a million times kinda way, and no i'm not being elitist i'm just being honest and no i am not trying to put anyone down.

-- Orbit (cstarrcstar...), September 2nd, 2003.

So what should I do in this particular case?

mei (mei), Tuesday, 2 September 2003 21:43 (twenty years ago) link

The disparity classes thing depends on where you live. I don't think nz is quite so class structured as the uk for eg. More concious of differences of gender and race here - though often those are essentially economic and maybe therefore = class.

Liek to add my support for the idea that feminism is not about gaining equality for women by standing on the heads of other groups that are discriminated against. It's just saying this is one issue I can identify and wish to address.

isadora (isadora), Tuesday, 2 September 2003 22:11 (twenty years ago) link

Cybele, thanks for mentioning de Certeau, I should read that quite soon as I liked some of his other writings (on mystics) & generally find his viewpoint quite .. intuitively one that I understand.

and bell hooks is TOP, I have always loved her writing, I will look up Dorothy Smith when I find the time..!

daria g (daria g), Wednesday, 3 September 2003 00:21 (twenty years ago) link

ed is an example of why socialism is so heavily criticized by feminists.

bell hooks is ace, i'm also big on judith butler, elizabeth grosz, coco fusco (who is an incredible performance artist), susan hekman, judith halberstam, and more specialised ones such as marcia citron (for music) and griselda pollock (for art history.)

The Lady Ms Lurex (lucylurex), Wednesday, 3 September 2003 00:30 (twenty years ago) link

Ed's stance is similar to the one that got radical feminism started in the first place.

tokyo rosemary (rosemary), Wednesday, 3 September 2003 00:37 (twenty years ago) link

Neither of which necessarily means he's wrong.

oops (Oops), Wednesday, 3 September 2003 00:48 (twenty years ago) link

no, but i learned long ago theres only so much arguing you can do with fundamentalist christians and hardcore socialists.

The Lady Ms Lurex (lucylurex), Wednesday, 3 September 2003 00:51 (twenty years ago) link

For whoever asked, Mercy is a great book by Andrea Dworkin. It's fiction and it makes Hubert Selby Jr or Dennis Cooper look like Laura Ingalls Wilder.

scott seward, Wednesday, 3 September 2003 01:15 (twenty years ago) link

Ed -- engels and lenin to name a few paid far more attention to women's oppression than you do. luxembourg, oddly enough (or not) didn't. (nor did she dismiss it though -- she just paid little attention).

[& engels' work was based on marx & they both paid tribute to fourier for saying that you could judge the level of a society by the condition of women]

krupskaya did too and she was great if particularly bonkers. but, y'know, provocatively so. i mean she was like valerie solanis without the *actual* man-hating and without the actually being literally bonkers bit. (which perhaps went together)

Sterling Clover (s_clover), Wednesday, 3 September 2003 03:49 (twenty years ago) link

& oddly enough when krupskaya split with the bolsheviks she did it on a basis that had *nothing* to do with her position on women's issues as i recall.

Sterling Clover (s_clover), Wednesday, 3 September 2003 03:50 (twenty years ago) link

Ok someone asked me the other day about an RG zine archhive. When I was doing my research, I was going to use the ones I had to start one, but when I got into contact with Sarah Wednesday from RGDC, she had more than me, so I photocopied mine and sent them to her. If you look up RGDC on the web, I'm sure you can find a reference or a link to her archive.

Mei regarding debates on separatism, you can literally Google for Riot Grrrl or Riot Grrrl yahoo groups and find the archives of these discussions. A brief sketch of them follows.

Please don't ask me to "defend" this, as I am just laying out the territory here, not stating a position. The separatist arguments boil down to this:

1. Separatism (along either gender or racial lines) is necessary because men (white people as a group for the racial version) will NEVER listen to women's voices, will NEVER genuinely allow them a part in shaping society, NEVER allow women into the old boys' network, NEVER take women nor their concerns seriously. You could call it utopian, and things like the Michigan Womyn's Music Festival are experiments in "what *would* a society that was centered on women's concerns and values look like?"

2. Separatism as a necessary step, not necessarily a permanent one: this view says that women have been so injured and silenced that they need a place to heal and deal with their own internal sexism/racism before moving forward in coalition with others. For example, it does no good for woman to talk about her rape experience if some guy in the back is going to say "what were you wearing?", which makes it a defensive and not a healing experience. Women can't work on the issues that are specific to them--for example feeling entitled to voice an opinion, feeling entitled to transgress the "whore (i'll show you my tits, i'm liberated!) / madonna (i'm sweet and emotional and supportive)" stereotypes that people use all kinds of rewards and sanctions to keep them into. This separatism is seen as necessary and temporary consciousness-raising and healing.

3. Selective separatism: when events and organizations are structured so that women get to experience the roles that they are largely left out of: decisionmaking and learning technical skills (like say running a sound board) and guys can participate in certain events but cannot run things and can't be in sensitive workshops or meetings that involve issues that women want to discuss without men telling them "what's the big deal", "prove it", "get over it", or having guys take over, interrupt and do all the other things that they have been socialized to do.

4. Feminist Inclusionist organizations and events where men and women work together in varying states of contention and chaos.

I should also throw in here that "false conscioussness" is also a big issue for stirring usenet-type debates. Saying you are a feminist doesn't make you one; being a woman doesn't make you one. Being a feminist is a political decision and it means more than "i like myself". This one is such a usenet-flame issue that I don't even want to bring it up, but it has to be mentioned in the same breath with separatism because it needs to be pointed out that being a woman doesn't mean you have a feminist political consciousness, just like being a lesbian doesn't mean you have a lesbian-feminist political conscioussness (see Arlene Stein for more on that).

A caveat: I am a sociologist who did a dissertation that crossed fields: social movements, gender, culture, and music. My take on all of this is based on very different concerns and literature than people who are coming from a largely film/literature/women's studies per se perspective. In academic feminism, women's studies is a bit different from feminist sociology so you might see me gloss over some stuff that you would expect to see here--it's not that I don't know about it, but in what I did I was speaking to a different literature.

Ok, well I think I caught up on everything I was supposed to catch up on!

Orbit (Orbit), Wednesday, 3 September 2003 04:16 (twenty years ago) link

I went to the Ladyfest in Manchester and it was a real eye opener for many reasons.

I didn't go to the drumming workshop, or even try.

It was limited to ten people for logistical reasons so it was totally fair to limit it to girls/ladies/whatever because that's who the whole event was primarily for.

Hope there's another ladyfest sometime soon around here.

mei (mei), Saturday, 13 September 2003 13:29 (twenty years ago) link

what were your eyes opened to, mei?

The Lady Ms Lurex (lucylurex), Saturday, 13 September 2003 22:14 (twenty years ago) link

Well for one thing it was really odd being a minority for the first time in my life.

On the first day when we turned up there was nothing much going on so me and my 3 friends went to a talk "Women, conflict and resistance". None of us are particularly political but I enjoyed the talk/discussion and the enthusiasm of the speakers. It's the first talk of that kind I'd ever been to (kind of a rally almost) and I was fascinated by how it proceeded, with the talkers and audience cooperating so well and being generally supportive of each other.

Then after about twenty minutes I was looking around at the audiences' faces (I like to see the reactions wherever it is, rock concert, classroom, wherever) and I realised that I was the only man there out of 40 or 50 people. It wasn't just the fact that I happened to be the only male that made me stick out a bit, if this had been somewhere else it would have just been an odd coincidence, but here the event was set up for women and the speakers were obviously used to mainly addressing women and all the things they were saying played off male roles against female ones - eg they were talking about being all female groups of protesters in Israel, about the women of Greenham common and about women being paid for the housework they do and about a women's strike day.

After I realised this I started to think a little differently about why the whole event was run as it was. For example, as usual in public spaces people from the audience were not greatly forthcoming during the question and answer section. I've got over that in the last year because I've had to, being a teacher. I had lots of questions but I only asked a couple because I didn't want to dominate things in any way - I would never feel like that normally, I'm not a very 'manly' man and don't usually dominate _anything_, but I'm naturally very inquisitive. I made sure I wasn't going to interrupt anyone else before asking my questions.

One thing I asked was about one speaker's use of the word 'censored', she said that every time they tried to get their cause covered in the media they were 'censored'. It wasn't a particularly controversial cause so I asked who had censored them and it turns out that she meant editors weren't interested largely because they thought their readers wouldn't be.
To me that's a very different problem to censorship and her answer did leave me curious as to why no one had pointed this out to her before. I think maybe that without males around to intimidate/dominate/out-shout the women (I'm not convinced that is what happens, but it seems to be an axiom of ladyfest) it just ends up that the most bossy women assume that role.

Afterwards my 3 friends, all women, said that every time one speaker in particular mentioned men she looked at me, as if she was addressing me directly, as if I somehow represented all men. I hadn't noticed it really. At one point she said something about women and the caring professions and tacked something on the end like '...of course men do some valuable work in this area too...' then something about gay men. I got the impression that this was added for my benefit. Maybe she assumed I was gay (I'm not) because I was there at all.

It was very nice being among such a high proportion of women, and I always felt welcomed.
I'll try to write more later.

mei (mei), Sunday, 14 September 2003 07:48 (twenty years ago) link

six years pass...

anybody ever read any Luce Irigaray or Monique Wittig? where is a good place to start, i will admit i am completely clueless on this except for parts of where they have influenced Butler/Pollock etc.

plax (ico), Tuesday, 25 May 2010 18:45 (fourteen years ago) link

irigaray - may as well start with 'this sex which is not one'. dunno wittig

joe scarborough and peoples (donna rouge), Tuesday, 25 May 2010 18:47 (fourteen years ago) link

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Sorry, I've nothing else to add to this conversation.

nori dusted (Sanpaku), Tuesday, 25 May 2010 18:49 (fourteen years ago) link

Je, Tu, Nous is the one on Routledge classics. Kinda sounds like it might be REALLY about French.

plax (ico), Tuesday, 25 May 2010 18:56 (fourteen years ago) link

read Irrigary in school like 20 years ago and have vague memories of digging it but that's all I got

Here is a tasty coconut. Sorry for my earlier harshness. (Shakey Mo Collier), Tuesday, 25 May 2010 19:16 (fourteen years ago) link

four years pass...

not sure where to put this but my office had a nice cathartic moment with this today

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XqHYzYn3WZw

TracerHandVEVO (Tracer Hand), Thursday, 8 January 2015 17:39 (nine years ago) link

four years pass...

Radical feminism has come to be identified or usually aligned with the gender critical movement. The UK in particular seems to be very much thus.

Sassy Boutonnière (ledriver), Saturday, 15 June 2019 00:16 (five years ago) link

Probably because "radical feminism" is part of the phrase "gender critical" is a euphemism for...

Flood-Resistant Mirror-Drilling Machine (rushomancy), Saturday, 15 June 2019 01:44 (five years ago) link

haven't heard the phrase gender critical before, but I like it

Dan S, Saturday, 15 June 2019 01:56 (five years ago) link

no, you're not supposed to

j., Saturday, 15 June 2019 02:05 (five years ago) link

i mean unless you wanna be history's greatest monster who is only defending a principled position for the sake of women and female-only spaces, then you're supposed to

j., Saturday, 15 June 2019 02:23 (five years ago) link

ok :)

Dan S, Saturday, 15 June 2019 02:28 (five years ago) link

Yeah, no, it's bad.

emil.y, Saturday, 15 June 2019 02:37 (five years ago) link

I do tend to avoid using TERF, though, mostly because I feel like these people aren't actually feminists, no matter what they say. They're transphobes and I call them that.

emil.y, Saturday, 15 June 2019 02:38 (five years ago) link

a euphemism for a euphemism

jmm, Saturday, 15 June 2019 02:50 (five years ago) link

I think there's an honest argument to be made that gender itself is a patriarchal tool. However, that relies on the identification of gender with gender role, and that's not uncontroversial. Some folks believe gender to be a private mental object rather than a public social one, or some combination of the two.

Sassy Boutonnière (ledriver), Saturday, 15 June 2019 05:02 (five years ago) link

I've mentioned this elsewhere but I do know a trans person who self-describes as gender critical

Simon H., Saturday, 15 June 2019 05:08 (five years ago) link

The trans folks I speak with pretty much all don't care for gender roles and all they imply. So at least that approach to the issue seems amenable in principle to trans people. On the other hand, just about anyone defending the idea that gender roles are a biological imperative is going to run into a lot of static.

Sassy Boutonnière (ledriver), Saturday, 15 June 2019 05:13 (five years ago) link

What I'm getting at here is that I think the relationship between the public and private concepts of gender are key to understanding radical feminist positions on the matter of trans identity in a larger cultural context.

Sassy Boutonnière (ledriver), Saturday, 15 June 2019 05:18 (five years ago) link


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