Gays, its summer 2010 so... EVERYBODY TAKE OFF YOUR SHIRTS

smh at attempting to have sex

this dude from last night showed up!

and we got into it

and then he left

RIP

thankfully it's easy for me to find humor in things

also ramzi i need to ask you a question over aim when you see me on

Stevie D, great! <3

So did you or didn't you, J?

Was out celebrating my (early) birthday with a bunch of friends last night, including an out of town couple who were crashing on my couch. Much to my surprise, after karaoke and food last night they were not crashing on my couch, if you get my drift.

And I think you do.

I don't get your drift?

Were they crashing in the guest room instead?

Really? Fine. More plainly: birthday threesomes are really awesome.

Sheesh i was only kidding!

However that is pretty otm

Sorry. Hangover + sarcasm are a bad mix.

I'll just leave this here.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k5z7R-5Znoc

The language is leaving me.

ted are you ok?

jordan i'll look 4 u

Ok so my Halloween costume this year is officially going to be a bob wig and Minnie ears and a black feather boa

"I'm one of

Omg this iphone

wait did u get one??

Yes and every time I try to IM/post/etc on it it sends stuff early! What I was GOING to say was

"I'm one of Annie Lennox's backup dancers from her 1995 Letterman performance, obviously" but the joke's sort of ruined when you have to re-type it.

lol lol

smh at attempting to have sex

― J0rdan S., Saturday, August 28, 2010 11:47 PM Bookmark

this is basically how i live my life

Yes and every time I try to IM/post/etc on it it sends stuff early! What I was GOING to say was

"I'm one of Annie Lennox's backup dancers from her 1995 Letterman performance, obviously" but the joke's sort of ruined when you have to re-type it.

― Chanté Ackerman (Stevie D), Sunday, August 29, 2010 3:32 PM (1 hour ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
my big stubby thumbs argh

i'm okay! had a nice day yesterday despite hangover and shit-feelin in the morning. going to hang with m4tt during his break today, probably chill and watch movies tonight.

last night i went to a feast/dance party at my friends' place, and just hung around the fire most of the night. and my friend 3ctor gave me this amazing shirt:
http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash2/hs202.ash2/46562_548271048304_4302681_32019333_1728258_n.jpg

um, have i said that i'm moving? into a house closer to my old hood, with one of my best lady-friends, and there are CHICKENS and a huge garden in back? kind of stoked to get out of concrete jungle.

This need to be here:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NX_igvcBICc

that lynde is awesome.

None of the regulars on this thread are based in SoCal, iirc?

ok... mi dia

woke up something like 12-1

went to this vintage boutique shop in my neighborhood to buy clothes for the first time in a damned forever, walked out with a pink dress shirt and this flamboyant flame-colored tie for $12 together

went to the dollar store for a couple items and the absolute cutie 19-ish latino dude i have a total boner for was the cashier today. (have i mentioned i love twinky latino boys? this will come up later, kinda)

went back to the house, chilled for a while, ended up downloading civilization 2 and playing it for a while (lol nerd past coming back to haunt)

ended up playing texas hold em with my skeezy gay christian muscle bro roommate (ugh) and his friends, in which i summarily got my ass whupped

went to karaoke with my friend l1z (i wore the pink-shirt flame-tie), where i sang "save a horse, ride a cowboy", "rock with you" (poorly... too drunk to sing mj properly by then), "slippin' into darkness", and "don't cha". l1z was so happy that she was the first person to get to sing "bad romance" there, cause the vj just got it that day, i was just jealous that she discovered this first.

anyway, so i was riding back from karaoke, crossing steel bridge... and OMG how's this for a gay milestone... i'm pretty sure i got CRUISED for the first time. i was going past this young latin guy, i checked him out as i went past and he was like "hey!..... can u give me a ride?" and i was just kind of like "lol whut" like u are cute and all but no, and kept riding... and two more times as i crossed the bridge he was like "hey!". i thought about turning and going back for him but ugh i wish i wasn't such a damned prude cause i should be having sex with a hot guy right now

Yeah I think I would be too surprised to act accordingly and not answer with a nervous laugh.

skeezy gay christian muscle bro roommate

wait a minute....

HAPPY BIRTHDAY LEX!

yeah i wanna know about that guy's deal

HB lex!

all you really need to know about him are the three letters "dnw". he's 30, divorced, and boring. his 20-yo homebody boy toy that he supports also lives here, along w/ a few other people. i usually stick to conversing w/ them.

oh and both of them are like, fantasy geeks btw. gcmb often listens to and sometimes makes shitty trance music.

hooray i have a laptop again (thanks dad)

yay for awesome parents

Wheee lex! I hope you find the perfect outfit and go nuts in it

happy bday lex!

in other matters, can i ask any of you in relationships some questions?

1) was there a point around the 4 month mark where stuff got really weird?

2) if you're 'open,' did you ever feel an intense jealousy over yr partner being with someone else, even if it was in a...um...professional capacity? (m4tt's been doing p0rn shoots)

3) if you're still their primary partner— the person they sleep with the most, and enjoy being with the most— but they need more 'breathing room,' what the fuck does that mean?

~ 4 month is definitely weird. it's just adjusting to what each of you wants.

~ jealousy is completely natural and it is good that you desire him so. just make sure you both understand rules.

~ as i suggested before, "breathing room" means that he wants you for exactly what he wants you for, and doesn't need to feel all the pressure that can come with something more binding.

1) seems to be a common feature of most relationships in my experience (ie 3-4 months is the point where you're like 'is this just a fun fling or something more?') - i'm guessing the "weirdness" has no small thing to do with your 2) and 3), neither of which i have much experience with

"breathing room" is such a guy thing

might be a really good time for you to start thinking about exactly what YOU want. not an issue you can bring to resolution overnight, obviously, but it's worth thinking about it, in terms of how hard you are willing to go for this guy.

yeah. i mean, i think you're right re: breathing room.

i'm willing to go hard for him. but i also don't want to alienate him by going too hard. you know?

i totally know. you don't have to be aggro about it. just like, be there. and if you believe in what you have with him, it will work itself out. sounds like you 2 gravitate towards each other naturally anyway. i guess he just wants his options for the time being.

but i mean, from the way you describe things, it def sounds like he *needs* you in his life in certain ways. don't forget that.

yeah, i think he just is also feeling the 'i'm turning 28' thing, and is just feeling really introspective...

and yeah, he definitely needs me in certain ways....we balance each other really well.

oh r4mzi, what would i do w/o your support and reassurance? you rule. thanks.