This need to be here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NX_igvcBICc
― Kevin John Bozelka, Sunday, 29 August 2010 21:41 (fourteen years ago) link
that lynde is awesome.
― johnsons in my pubescence, other than my own (the table is the table), Sunday, 29 August 2010 21:44 (fourteen years ago) link
None of the regulars on this thread are based in SoCal, iirc?
― marilyn VO5 savant (donna rouge), Sunday, 29 August 2010 21:47 (fourteen years ago) link
ok... mi dia
woke up something like 12-1
went to this vintage boutique shop in my neighborhood to buy clothes for the first time in a damned forever, walked out with a pink dress shirt and this flamboyant flame-colored tie for $12 together
went to the dollar store for a couple items and the absolute cutie 19-ish latino dude i have a total boner for was the cashier today. (have i mentioned i love twinky latino boys? this will come up later, kinda)
went back to the house, chilled for a while, ended up downloading civilization 2 and playing it for a while (lol nerd past coming back to haunt)
ended up playing texas hold em with my skeezy gay christian muscle bro roommate (ugh) and his friends, in which i summarily got my ass whupped
went to karaoke with my friend l1z (i wore the pink-shirt flame-tie), where i sang "save a horse, ride a cowboy", "rock with you" (poorly... too drunk to sing mj properly by then), "slippin' into darkness", and "don't cha". l1z was so happy that she was the first person to get to sing "bad romance" there, cause the vj just got it that day, i was just jealous that she discovered this first.
anyway, so i was riding back from karaoke, crossing steel bridge... and OMG how's this for a gay milestone... i'm pretty sure i got CRUISED for the first time. i was going past this young latin guy, i checked him out as i went past and he was like "hey!..... can u give me a ride?" and i was just kind of like "lol whut" like u are cute and all but no, and kept riding... and two more times as i crossed the bridge he was like "hey!". i thought about turning and going back for him but ugh i wish i wasn't such a damned prude cause i should be having sex with a hot guy right now
― bernard goony (The Reverend), Monday, 30 August 2010 10:51 (fourteen years ago) link
Yeah I think I would be too surprised to act accordingly and not answer with a nervous laugh.
― glutinous maximus (corey), Monday, 30 August 2010 13:50 (fourteen years ago) link
skeezy gay christian muscle bro roommate
wait a minute....
― tangelo amour (elmo argonaut), Monday, 30 August 2010 14:17 (fourteen years ago) link
HAPPY BIRTHDAY LEX!
― christopher dullan (Tape Store), Monday, 30 August 2010 14:19 (fourteen years ago) link
yeah i wanna know about that guy's deal
HB lex!
― marilyn VO5 savant (donna rouge), Monday, 30 August 2010 14:41 (fourteen years ago) link
all you really need to know about him are the three letters "dnw". he's 30, divorced, and boring. his 20-yo homebody boy toy that he supports also lives here, along w/ a few other people. i usually stick to conversing w/ them.
― bernard goony (The Reverend), Monday, 30 August 2010 15:42 (fourteen years ago) link
oh and both of them are like, fantasy geeks btw. gcmb often listens to and sometimes makes shitty trance music.
― bernard goony (The Reverend), Monday, 30 August 2010 15:44 (fourteen years ago) link
hooray i have a laptop again (thanks dad)
― tangelo amour (elmo argonaut), Monday, 30 August 2010 16:09 (fourteen years ago) link
yay for awesome parents
― The Cyrkle Jyrkes (corey), Monday, 30 August 2010 16:13 (fourteen years ago) link
Wheee lex! I hope you find the perfect outfit and go nuts in it
― don't hate the playa, hate the del carmen (Stevie D), Monday, 30 August 2010 16:19 (fourteen years ago) link
happy bday lex!
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Monday, 30 August 2010 16:26 (fourteen years ago) link
in other matters, can i ask any of you in relationships some questions?
1) was there a point around the 4 month mark where stuff got really weird?
2) if you're 'open,' did you ever feel an intense jealousy over yr partner being with someone else, even if it was in a...um...professional capacity? (m4tt's been doing p0rn shoots)
3) if you're still their primary partner— the person they sleep with the most, and enjoy being with the most— but they need more 'breathing room,' what the fuck does that mean?
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Monday, 30 August 2010 16:29 (fourteen years ago) link
~ 4 month is definitely weird. it's just adjusting to what each of you wants.
~ jealousy is completely natural and it is good that you desire him so. just make sure you both understand rules.
~ as i suggested before, "breathing room" means that he wants you for exactly what he wants you for, and doesn't need to feel all the pressure that can come with something more binding.
― janice (surm), Monday, 30 August 2010 16:38 (fourteen years ago) link
1) seems to be a common feature of most relationships in my experience (ie 3-4 months is the point where you're like 'is this just a fun fling or something more?') - i'm guessing the "weirdness" has no small thing to do with your 2) and 3), neither of which i have much experience with
― marilyn VO5 savant (donna rouge), Monday, 30 August 2010 16:38 (fourteen years ago) link
"breathing room" is such a guy thing
― janice (surm), Monday, 30 August 2010 16:40 (fourteen years ago) link
might be a really good time for you to start thinking about exactly what YOU want. not an issue you can bring to resolution overnight, obviously, but it's worth thinking about it, in terms of how hard you are willing to go for this guy.
― janice (surm), Monday, 30 August 2010 16:46 (fourteen years ago) link
yeah. i mean, i think you're right re: breathing room.
i'm willing to go hard for him. but i also don't want to alienate him by going too hard. you know?
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Monday, 30 August 2010 16:51 (fourteen years ago) link
i totally know. you don't have to be aggro about it. just like, be there. and if you believe in what you have with him, it will work itself out. sounds like you 2 gravitate towards each other naturally anyway. i guess he just wants his options for the time being.
― janice (surm), Monday, 30 August 2010 17:01 (fourteen years ago) link
but i mean, from the way you describe things, it def sounds like he *needs* you in his life in certain ways. don't forget that.
― janice (surm), Monday, 30 August 2010 17:03 (fourteen years ago) link
yeah, i think he just is also feeling the 'i'm turning 28' thing, and is just feeling really introspective...
and yeah, he definitely needs me in certain ways....we balance each other really well.
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Monday, 30 August 2010 17:05 (fourteen years ago) link
oh r4mzi, what would i do w/o your support and reassurance? you rule. thanks.
and now, off to work...!
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Monday, 30 August 2010 17:06 (fourteen years ago) link
:D i'm excited for you!!
― janice (surm), Monday, 30 August 2010 17:08 (fourteen years ago) link
thx for bday wishes. i played a dj set on sat at my friends' night, only got home on sun afternoon. and consequently for the third year in a row, i'm spending my actual bday battling through annoying work while feeling gross.
this was my set btw -
Royal P - Between UsS.Chu - Tribal WidowGatekeeper - ForgottenKingdom - That MysticWe Love - Escape DestinationTori Amos - Riot PoofAaliyah - Rock The Boat (Ill Blu Remix)Magic Touch Productions - HipsTrina ft. Ludacris - B R RightDJ Nate - PoetryErick Rincón - Manos Arriba 2.0Bobby Brown - 2 Can Play That Game (K-Klass Remix)Azari & III - Reckless (With Your Love) (Tensnake Remix)Madonna - Burning UpDJ Naughty - Love LockdownDennis Ferrer ft. Mia Tuttavilla - Touched The Sky (Quentin Harris Re-Production)Nina Sky - Love Song
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Monday, 30 August 2010 17:49 (fourteen years ago) link
happy happy
― janice (surm), Monday, 30 August 2010 17:52 (fourteen years ago) link
hb lex
Rev, I'm sure you've been cruised before, maybe you were just oblivious to it.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, 30 August 2010 17:58 (fourteen years ago) link
happy birthday lexy
― J0rdan S., Monday, 30 August 2010 19:57 (fourteen years ago) link
HB Lex!
― The SBurbs (Alex in Montreal), Monday, 30 August 2010 21:22 (fourteen years ago) link
hahahappy birthday Lex! xxx
― jed_, Monday, 30 August 2010 21:24 (fourteen years ago) link
I like the mix, lex.
― Eric H., Monday, 30 August 2010 21:48 (fourteen years ago) link
happy birthday, lex!! Because
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2rClJ0PqCCQ
― Gucci Mane hermeneuticist (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 30 August 2010 21:56 (fourteen years ago) link
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Monday, August 30, 2010 10:58 AM Suggest Ban PermalinkBookmark
ha, as little as i tend to go out at night, you are probably wrong :/
― bernard goony (The Reverend), Tuesday, 31 August 2010 00:38 (fourteen years ago) link
cruising happens at all hours
― tangelo amour (elmo argonaut), Tuesday, 31 August 2010 02:06 (fourteen years ago) link
what happened to the lesbians?
― Latham Green, Tuesday, 31 August 2010 02:36 (fourteen years ago) link
omg who are you
― janice (surm), Tuesday, 31 August 2010 03:04 (fourteen years ago) link
I cruise during daylight bcz I can see better.
― kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius), Tuesday, 31 August 2010 04:54 (fourteen years ago) link
I don't rly know how to cruise but sometimes I give smirky glances at rly hot dudes at work or on the street or whatever.
― don't hate the playa, hate the del carmen (Stevie D), Tuesday, 31 August 2010 05:16 (fourteen years ago) link
i did the glancing thing on the PATH tonight
― marilyn VO5 savant (donna rouge), Tuesday, 31 August 2010 05:17 (fourteen years ago) link
I should start winking "I want to fuck you" in Morse code.
― The Cyrkle Jyrkes (corey), Tuesday, 31 August 2010 05:50 (fourteen years ago) link
But no one knows Morse code. ;_;
― The Cyrkle Jyrkes (corey), Tuesday, 31 August 2010 05:51 (fourteen years ago) link
i always get cruised at the most annoying times, like when i'm late or just tired and frazzled. or, by dudes who are fine but not my type.
― لوووووووووووووووووووول (lex pretend), Tuesday, 31 August 2010 08:31 (fourteen years ago) link
so uh
http://popwatch.ew.com/2010/08/31/logo-a-list-new-york-trailer/
― marilyn VO5 savant (donna rouge), Tuesday, 31 August 2010 20:49 (fourteen years ago) link
gayz, i am an expert at moving and packing. it just took me less that 2 and 1/2 hours to pack up all of my shit.
that said, i am most looking forward to eating pizza and drinking beer tomorrow after it's all done.
and now, off to the lake to meet m4tt and drink beer. so nice in oakland today.
― Honey, I squirted jizz all over the baby (the table is the table), Tuesday, 31 August 2010 22:18 (fourteen years ago) link
Yay I think I have a date this week
― Lardo Calrissian (corey), Tuesday, 31 August 2010 22:33 (fourteen years ago) link
pizza and beer sounds so nice
but i'm on a diet
― janice (surm), Wednesday, 1 September 2010 04:29 (fourteen years ago) link
so mangos and salads sound so nice
yum mangos and salads