Gays, its summer 2010 so... EVERYBODY TAKE OFF YOUR SHIRTS

1) seems to be a common feature of most relationships in my experience (ie 3-4 months is the point where you're like 'is this just a fun fling or something more?') - i'm guessing the "weirdness" has no small thing to do with your 2) and 3), neither of which i have much experience with

"breathing room" is such a guy thing

might be a really good time for you to start thinking about exactly what YOU want. not an issue you can bring to resolution overnight, obviously, but it's worth thinking about it, in terms of how hard you are willing to go for this guy.

yeah. i mean, i think you're right re: breathing room.

i'm willing to go hard for him. but i also don't want to alienate him by going too hard. you know?

i totally know. you don't have to be aggro about it. just like, be there. and if you believe in what you have with him, it will work itself out. sounds like you 2 gravitate towards each other naturally anyway. i guess he just wants his options for the time being.

but i mean, from the way you describe things, it def sounds like he *needs* you in his life in certain ways. don't forget that.

yeah, i think he just is also feeling the 'i'm turning 28' thing, and is just feeling really introspective...

and yeah, he definitely needs me in certain ways....we balance each other really well.

oh r4mzi, what would i do w/o your support and reassurance? you rule. thanks.

and now, off to work...!

:D i'm excited for you!!

thx for bday wishes. i played a dj set on sat at my friends' night, only got home on sun afternoon. and consequently for the third year in a row, i'm spending my actual bday battling through annoying work while feeling gross.

this was my set btw -

Royal P - Between Us
S.Chu - Tribal Widow
Gatekeeper - Forgotten
Kingdom - That Mystic
We Love - Escape Destination
Tori Amos - Riot Poof
Aaliyah - Rock The Boat (Ill Blu Remix)
Magic Touch Productions - Hips
Trina ft. Ludacris - B R Right
DJ Nate - Poetry
Erick Rincón - Manos Arriba 2.0
Bobby Brown - 2 Can Play That Game (K-Klass Remix)
Azari & III - Reckless (With Your Love) (Tensnake Remix)
Madonna - Burning Up
DJ Naughty - Love Lockdown
Dennis Ferrer ft. Mia Tuttavilla - Touched The Sky (Quentin Harris Re-Production)
Nina Sky - Love Song

happy happy

hb lex

Rev, I'm sure you've been cruised before, maybe you were just oblivious to it.

happy birthday lexy

HB Lex!

hahahappy birthday Lex! xxx

I like the mix, lex.

happy birthday, lex!! Because

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2rClJ0PqCCQ

Rev, I'm sure you've been cruised before, maybe you were just oblivious to it.

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ha, as little as i tend to go out at night, you are probably wrong :/

cruising happens at all hours

what happened to the lesbians?

omg who are you

I cruise during daylight bcz I can see better.

I don't rly know how to cruise but sometimes I give smirky glances at rly hot dudes at work or on the street or whatever.

i did the glancing thing on the PATH tonight

I should start winking "I want to fuck you" in Morse code.

But no one knows Morse code. ;_;

i always get cruised at the most annoying times, like when i'm late or just tired and frazzled. or, by dudes who are fine but not my type.

so uh

http://popwatch.ew.com/2010/08/31/logo-a-list-new-york-trailer/

gayz, i am an expert at moving and packing. it just took me less that 2 and 1/2 hours to pack up all of my shit.

that said, i am most looking forward to eating pizza and drinking beer tomorrow after it's all done.

and now, off to the lake to meet m4tt and drink beer. so nice in oakland today.

Yay I think I have a date this week

pizza and beer sounds so nice

but i'm on a diet

so mangos and salads sound so nice

yum mangos and salads

i seriously have never been this heavy b4 i feel like a man

I BET you do

yeah

hilarious lesbian drama is hilarious.

which is what i saw, last night, out at the bar with my bi-lady friend, who was aggressively pursued by her coworker (and former ms l3sbian rhode island iirc). spiky bleached anime hair and cargo shorts (which she "accidentally" dropped at one point). when another friend of ours tried to run interference, she was told to "back off, cuz she's going home with me." it was all very silly.

and today i have the gang over. booo.

so there is a redheads-and-their-admirers party at the Nowhere bar tonight... called Fire In the Hole.

happy birthday, Alex!

hb A!

I am unsurprised that the guy I shoved my card at last week hasn't gotten in touch.

You sure you didn't shove a nob at him?

I had that

so there is a redheads-and-their-admirers party at the Nowhere bar tonight... called Fire In the Hole.
--kind of shrill and very self-righteous (Dr Morbius)

Dammit! if it didn't take me 4 hours to get to NYC I would so be attending this

$1 shirtless beers :/

I am told I'm strawberry blond, not red. But if I get it cut short I have orange spots in the back.

Happy birthday Alexander

Happy birthday, Alex. And happy belated bday to lex. Love you guys!

HBD! meow meow!

Aw, thanks guys! Too busy learning about the legal implications of wandering chickens and Second Life property rights to party today (first day of law school was weird, iirc) but lots of cute guys, so it's all good.

this photo owns! (kid is the gay dude in glee who is gay irl, for those who don't know)

http://www.rollingstone.com/files/content/mounts/sambamount/images/CULTURE/GALLERY/2010/Fall_Television/004_chris_colfer.jpg