Guys don't be startled by that noise it is probably just the scales falling from my eyes
― lemon kerrang! (jjjusten), Monday, 20 June 2011 21:26 (thirteen years ago) link
keep going horseshoe you'll make the excelsior thread one day
― frogbs, Monday, 20 June 2011 21:27 (thirteen years ago) link
yeah horseshoe
― ☂ (max), Monday, 20 June 2011 21:28 (thirteen years ago) link
keep going
i will say this tho: visigoths are surprisingly great tippers
― A True White Kid that can Jump (Granny Dainger), Monday, 20 June 2011 21:28 (thirteen years ago) link
Except when you make excelsior, frogbs, it's usually the setup...
― 2012 gtfolympics (Neanderthal), Monday, 20 June 2011 21:28 (thirteen years ago) link
Third worst tippers - high school kids in large groups.
― bill magill (milo z), Monday, June 20, 2011 3:50 PM (31 minutes ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink
truth bomb, but cut out the "third"
― the beta banned (upper mississippi sh@kedown), Monday, 20 June 2011 21:30 (thirteen years ago) link
I SHOULD TAKE YOU OUT BY MY FENCE SO YOU WOULD SEE WHAT A GOOD POST LOOKS LIKE
― frogbs, Monday, 20 June 2011 21:31 (thirteen years ago) link
Okay lol
― chupacabra - a delicious burrito (DJP), Monday, 20 June 2011 21:32 (thirteen years ago) link
Why are all the popcorn gifs of black people?
― chupacabra - a delicious burrito (DJP), Monday, June 20, 2011 4:18 PM Bookmark
Black people love popcorn. Can't believe you've never heard this.
There's even an article about it on the Internet.
― Pleasant Plains, Monday, 20 June 2011 21:32 (thirteen years ago) link
best tippers have got to be those who are deployed overseas - that's definitely one group of people who don't mind blowing a bunch of money very quickly
― frogbs, Monday, 20 June 2011 21:32 (thirteen years ago) link
are you now inventing good tippers to provide new thread content?
― mh, Monday, 20 June 2011 21:35 (thirteen years ago) link
Ok I'm just speaking from anecdotal recent evidence but I have heard that generally the worst tippers are cunts who win $50 on slots, but I am not sure if that is officially a race I guess
― lemon kerrang! (jjjusten), Monday, 20 June 2011 21:36 (thirteen years ago) link
where is horseshoe, i want her to keep going
― ☂ (max), Monday, 20 June 2011 21:37 (thirteen years ago) link
that's basically what I was getting at all along but whatever keep pushing the race issue so you guys can get some more weak burns in
― frogbs, Monday, 20 June 2011 21:37 (thirteen years ago) link
wait did I miss a post here where I was just posting anecdotal evidence
― frogbs, Monday, 20 June 2011 21:38 (thirteen years ago) link
superfluous ecdot
― beta the drivel you know (darraghmac), Monday, 20 June 2011 21:39 (thirteen years ago) link
Your progression was:
what races are the worst tippers -> yes I meant are black people bad tippers -> I really just wanted to know if it was a stereotype
The dodging is actually a lot worse than asking "Is there a stereotype that black people tip poorly?" Then again, you know that asking anything racially charged while being you is kind of a bad plan....
― mh, Monday, 20 June 2011 21:40 (thirteen years ago) link
tbf he started with a moronically coy, guess which race is in my pocket? post
― horseshoe, Monday, 20 June 2011 21:41 (thirteen years ago) link
SURPRISE IT'S BLACK PEOPLE
is that a toy or not
― beta the drivel you know (darraghmac), Monday, 20 June 2011 21:42 (thirteen years ago) link
"If you can guess which race I'm thinking of ... then which one of us is *really* the racist? Think abt it."
― boxall, Monday, 20 June 2011 21:42 (thirteen years ago) link
WHICH RACE IS THE WORST TIPPERS
― chupacabra - a delicious burrito (DJP), Monday, 20 June 2011 21:43 (thirteen years ago) link
keep trying horseshoe, not good enough for excelsior yet
― ☂ (max), Monday, 20 June 2011 21:43 (thirteen years ago) link
maybe someday youll be at frogbs level
I think it's a bit late to put "the whole thing" down to "a self-perpetuating cycle". Subjects don't "self-perpetuate", people make sure they they keep making the rounds and here it is you, sir, that is keeping the wheels in motion. xp
there's a world outside of ILX you know
― frogbs, maandag 20 juni 2011 23:24 (10 minutes ago) Bookmark
Ok, listen up jokeboy: You are continuously - with a faux air of choir-boy naivety - aiming for confirmation of a certain idea you have. That black people tip less than white people. Iatee and others have already pointed out how ludicrous and racist both your notion, and the way you go about it, is. Yet you keep falling back on a "guys seriously, I am just wondering about this. Could it be true? There's websites mentioning it too!" stance. If you've not already concluded that what you are just wondering about, it means you are willingly continuing to push the stereotype, to keep this racist myth alive. To which I can only reply: fuck you.
― ...wow! (Le Bateau Ivre), Monday, 20 June 2011 21:44 (thirteen years ago) link
cartmanesque tbf
― beta the drivel you know (darraghmac), Monday, 20 June 2011 21:45 (thirteen years ago) link
Your progression was:what races are the worst tippers -> yes I meant are black people bad tippers -> I really just wanted to know if it was a stereotypeThe dodging is actually a lot worse than asking "Is there a stereotype that black people tip poorly?" Then again, you know that asking anything racially charged while being you is kind of a bad plan....
What, in your opinion, am I dodging? I've worked as a bartender and I've never noticed it and don't really have a reason to be racist. Yes I have heard people bring that up straight up and would have posted it that way if people here weren't so super sensitive about pretty much any type of race issue.
― frogbs, Monday, 20 June 2011 21:46 (thirteen years ago) link
Basically I'm wondering which races/demographics you guys think tip the best and the worst
Best = humans, worst = marmosets
Anyway, ime, worst tippers are tables w/a bunch of messy kids, followed by tables w/lots of ppl who split checks.
― Shart Shaped Box (Phil D.), Monday, 20 June 2011 21:46 (thirteen years ago) link
did modestmickey used to be a bartender? i'm getting a Let's contribute to jaymc.xls by listing everything/body that ILX has determined is racist kind of vibe
― horseshoe, Monday, 20 June 2011 21:47 (thirteen years ago) link
would have posted it that way if people here weren't so super sensitive about pretty much any type of race issue.
pro tip: then don't post about any type of race issue
― A True White Kid that can Jump (Granny Dainger), Monday, 20 June 2011 21:48 (thirteen years ago) link
first of all, wtf is this thing I'm 'continually' doing. i haven't concluded shit and if it was a racist myth there wouldn't be an NPR article about it
― frogbs, Monday, 20 June 2011 21:49 (thirteen years ago) link
okay, let me seriously ask here, what do you guys think my motive is here? like what reason would I have to perpetuate some myth?
― frogbs, Monday, 20 June 2011 21:50 (thirteen years ago) link
― frogbs, maandag 20 juni 2011 23:49 (35 seconds ago) Bookmark
Yeah because if things aren't true there wouldn't be people talking about it on the internet, right? Oh wait...
― ...wow! (Le Bateau Ivre), Monday, 20 June 2011 21:51 (thirteen years ago) link
Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
On to the next thread
― 2012 gtfolympics (Neanderthal), Monday, 20 June 2011 21:52 (thirteen years ago) link
xp so is your conclusion that NPR got bad data? that they're racially motivated?
― frogbs, Monday, 20 June 2011 21:52 (thirteen years ago) link
if it was a racist myth there wouldn't be an NPR article about it
http://www.latenightwithjimmyfallon.com/assets_c/2010/11/Boss_Thumbs_Up_gif-thumb-350x197-15764.gif
― ☂ (max), Monday, 20 June 2011 21:52 (thirteen years ago) link
Yeah, well, NPR doesn't hire black people.
― The Edge of Gloryhole (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Monday, 20 June 2011 21:53 (thirteen years ago) link
that's why it loves reviewing shit like Wilco
― frogbs, maandag 20 juni 2011 23:50 (45 seconds ago) Bookmark
Your motive seems to be gathering support for your racist preconceptions. But why the fuck ask us what your motives are?!
― ...wow! (Le Bateau Ivre), Monday, 20 June 2011 21:53 (thirteen years ago) link
Guys have I turned myself into troll-bait here?
― ...wow! (Le Bateau Ivre), Monday, 20 June 2011 21:54 (thirteen years ago) link
oh i see you didn't read my posts then
― frogbs, Monday, 20 June 2011 21:55 (thirteen years ago) link
What, in your opinion, am I dodging?
The fact that you are trying to turn it into a discussion about black people not tipping?
If you wanted to know if it was a stereotype, you could have asked that or even gone to google. It's not that you even really have racist intentions on this one, it's just that you left your material that would make the question sound neutral until the end: "I've only had experience as a bartender and black people tend to tip as well as anyone else, but at a party some server friends told me that there's a stereotype of black people tipping poorly."
IMO that sounds like a reasonable query, approaches race from the individual perspective standpoint, and doesn't dodge around. Instead it went from you being afraid to say the phrase "black people" into "hey black people tipped me well for drinks!"
So the way you're coming off is that you want affirmation of this belief, or you're just so clumsy when talking about race that it sounds that way
― mh, Monday, 20 June 2011 21:56 (thirteen years ago) link
i was basically not trying to let this fall into "confirmation bias" as in if no one knew what the fuck I was talking about then I could assume the whole thing wasn't really anything. btw I didn't really say that i've been tipped well by black people but rather that I don't think or wouldn't guess that it's an issue of cheapness because that really does fall into some stupid racist bullshit which I was trying to steer the thread away from
― frogbs, Monday, 20 June 2011 22:02 (thirteen years ago) link
honestly, I have no idea, that's why I brought it up because it's kind of a weird thing. in my experience as a bartender they aren't exactly cheap people and I'm not sure if there are cultural issues or what they could be
― frogbs
― mh, Monday, 20 June 2011 22:06 (thirteen years ago) link
So the way you're coming off is that you want affirmation of this belief
I don't really want affirmation of anything - tipping culture in general is pretty interesting to me, ultimately I tried to phrase things so that I didn't seem like I was racist but I'm not really good with that and given ILX's tendencies to make everything look worse than it really is I probably should have known better
― frogbs, Monday, 20 June 2011 22:07 (thirteen years ago) link
frogbs, have you served black people as a bartender? How did they tip?
― mh, Monday, 20 June 2011 22:07 (thirteen years ago) link
mh - i wasn't referring to the tip there, what I mean here - and this is something that a lot of servers would probably back me up on - is that I don't think the issue of "cheapness" (which I'm assuming a lot of you are trying to make this thread about?) really defines how much a person tips. we're talking about places where people willingly pay $8 for a $1 dessert or $5 for a pint of beer that they know costs less than a buck - if people really wanted to be cheap they probably wouldn't go to restaurants or bars very often
― frogbs, Monday, 20 June 2011 22:12 (thirteen years ago) link
I think you're confusing living cheaply versus being a cheap bastard.
― mh, Monday, 20 June 2011 22:13 (thirteen years ago) link
btw yeah I have served black people and they generally tipped alright unless the bill was really big, in which case you wouldn't get 10-15% but you'd get enough to make it worth your while, nothing I would have thought of before it was mentioned to me.
in general the idea of tipping 15% on bills that are big because of shots or other 'low-maitenance' items is really stupid anyway
― frogbs, Monday, 20 June 2011 22:25 (thirteen years ago) link