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and if not then it's not the customer's job to reimburse them for that fact.

jed_, Friday, 10 February 2012 03:51 (twelve years ago) link

kitchen staff probably front of house... maybe

BJ O (Lamp), Friday, 10 February 2012 03:51 (twelve years ago) link

xxxpost I didn't like getting the last minute calls in the call center, but to be honest it's a less egregious crime than the restaurant sitting. The sin is when you call right at closing and aren't prepared (ie, if you're enrolling in something and don't have your choices already made, didn't bother to read your materials, etc).

and yea, you usually get OT anyway generally (or at least I did cuz I was already scheduled 40 a week). whereas in a restaurant, not necessarily, plus if you're a server you get paid dick so overtime isn't squat.

Bo Jackson Overdrive, Friday, 10 February 2012 03:54 (twelve years ago) link

like the reason the last minute sitting in a restaurant sucks is because A. you probably cleaned everything and now it's getting messy again, and B. unlike a call center, when once the call ends, you can dash, you have to wait for the customers to actually get up and leave, which they don't always do after they're done eating and paid (sometimes you have to give them the subtle hints like turning the lights on).

So usually after they leave, you still have a bit of work to do, whereas in a call center you can generally up and walk out the door.

Bo Jackson Overdrive, Friday, 10 February 2012 03:56 (twelve years ago) link

yeah, not sure folks are understanding that the average American waiter is making $2.13 an hour in wages

Kiarostami bag (milo z), Friday, 10 February 2012 04:03 (twelve years ago) link

yeah my paychecks were usually like $20-$40

Bo Jackson Overdrive, Friday, 10 February 2012 04:04 (twelve years ago) link

bartender wages are all over the place - sometimes decent money before tips (by decent I mean actual minimum wage), sometimes completely off the books so that tips are their entire income, sometimes $2.13 an hour just like a waiter

Kiarostami bag (milo z), Friday, 10 February 2012 04:05 (twelve years ago) link

At my first waiting job, I actually had health insurance, drawn from my paycheck. Only I didn't realize that I didn't really have insurance for six months because my paychecks were non-existent even before my insurance. (I was 18 and stupid, or that might have occurred to me.)

Kiarostami bag (milo z), Friday, 10 February 2012 04:06 (twelve years ago) link

fwiw front of house staff in a nice place are probably making way more money than someone in a call center after tips so i dont think its really 'about' that. and sometimes you just really want to eat at a place or are tired yourself and dont want to search for anything else or this was the only place everyone could agree on blah blah blah its not the end of the world but you are being inconsiderate to the ppl that work there

BJ O (Lamp), Friday, 10 February 2012 04:08 (twelve years ago) link

I promised myself I'd never go back into the restaurant industry after I got laid off in 2003, and so far haven't. I now make about 5 times the salary I did back when I was a waiter. And I find the work stimulating and like it. I wasn't built for restaurants due to my short fuse and big mouth.

Bo Jackson Overdrive, Friday, 10 February 2012 04:13 (twelve years ago) link

a call centre operator gets a call 5 minutes before the end of a shift that goes on for half an hour. that is brutal. and that person is not getting a tip or getting paid much, if at all, more than a waiter either.

― jed_, Friday, February 10, 2012 2:48 PM (1 hour ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

well theyll get paid for that extra half hour of work

― BJ O (Lamp), Friday, February 10, 2012 2:49 PM (1 hour ago)

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA youre joking right?

thanks to denial, I'm immortal! (Trayce), Friday, 10 February 2012 05:23 (twelve years ago) link

Nowhere I worked. "time in lieu" if youre LUCKY. Half an hour is "just suck it up and do yr job" most times tho.

thanks to denial, I'm immortal! (Trayce), Friday, 10 February 2012 05:24 (twelve years ago) link

But in fairness, a 40k a year callcentre job is a lot better than a 14k a year waiting job, so.

thanks to denial, I'm immortal! (Trayce), Friday, 10 February 2012 05:24 (twelve years ago) link

i guess my impression is that almost any call centre jobs employees here would get an hourly wage rather than a salary

(_()_) (Lamp), Friday, 10 February 2012 05:33 (twelve years ago) link

Nowhere Ive worked, its alwayts been a yearly wage. But perhaps it's diff in Aus IT companies. Also I'm tlaking IT rather than more generic "answer the phone for an insurance co" tbf.

thanks to denial, I'm immortal! (Trayce), Friday, 10 February 2012 05:41 (twelve years ago) link

yeah - i mean people get inconvenienced by their jobs all the time in lots of little ways but if im calling an IT help desk or my credit card customer service # or w/e i dont really have any control over which rep i get whereas im actively choosing to sit down in an empty restaurant 5 minutes before they close, yknow?

like i think jeds right that a server just has to shrug it off, really, and there are plenty of shittier things people do regularly to waitstaff than make then work an extra hour but its a dick move, regardless of how you rationalize it

(_()_) (Lamp), Friday, 10 February 2012 05:55 (twelve years ago) link

O I agree sitting down to eat 5 mins before closing is a dick move.

thanks to denial, I'm immortal! (Trayce), Friday, 10 February 2012 05:57 (twelve years ago) link

And I maintain that in terms of increasing or decreasing the amount of unhappiness in the universe, the person deciding to sit down five minutes before closing is an asshole, even if the posted closing time ALLOWS them to do that. They're making a whole lot of people's day a lot worse. The ONLY way to make up for this is to leave a huge tip out of proportion to the price of the meal, and even this won't necessarily mean much to the cook, dishwasher, cashier, or whoever the fuck else is stuck there drumming their fingers waiting for this person to just goddamn order something already.

― Doctor Casino, Thursday, February 9, 2012 7:11 PM (4 hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

i'm not defending the practice, but i still just don't see this. the primary responsibility for increasing "the amount of unhappiness in the universe" lies with the person who sat the customer, or the policy that forced them to. if you really want someone to blame, that's where you should look.

agree that it's a dick move, but also imagine some naive couple unfamiliar w/ the area looking for some place to eat late at night. they find a place open and go in, knowing it's a toss-up whether they get seated or not. if the restaurant says that it's happy to serve them, i hardly see any great transgression in their ordering dinner.

Little GTFO (contenderizer), Friday, 10 February 2012 07:54 (twelve years ago) link

otm

the manager/hostess is a dick, not the customer

⚓ (gr8080), Friday, 10 February 2012 18:28 (twelve years ago) link

I end up at restaurants quite often shortly before posted kitchen closing hours, here's what I do to try and not be a dick:

- if the place has already pretty much cleared out, don't go
- sit at the bar
- ask if the kitchen's still open
- pick what I'm going to order very quickly, or preferably know before walking in
- if other patrons are still ordering full meals, order anything. If not then get something that's quick to prepare
- close my check when the food comes out so the bartender/server can do their paperwork

On the flip side of things, the shittiest moves a a restaurant can pull when a table's still seated and not staying egregiously long are using cleaning solution on the tables around them, putting up chairs and stools, and turning up the dining room lights for cleaning.

I DIED, Friday, 10 February 2012 18:56 (twelve years ago) link

wow

surm, Friday, 10 February 2012 19:01 (twelve years ago) link

Crushed cucumber artisinal basil hand-milled gin whathaveyou bartenders should get paid more than regular bartenders because it really is skilled labor and bars that offer these kinds of drinks are really relying on the bartender's as a fundamental part of their business model. I bet those bartenders still make tipped employee minimum wage, though.

Anyway, if I were paying per drink for that kind of fancy cocktail I'd run a tab and tip 20%+ at the end.

carl agatha, Friday, 10 February 2012 19:19 (twelve years ago) link

v good pr0 tips from I DIED

⚓ (gr8080), Friday, 10 February 2012 19:19 (twelve years ago) link

bartender's skill, I meant to say. xp

carl agatha, Friday, 10 February 2012 19:20 (twelve years ago) link

I think the answer to a lot of these problems is 'more people should be tipped', if people in other shitty jobs get tips too once in a while they will be less bitter. I don't think the person who makes my burrito is doing less overall labor than the person bringing me a beer. tips for everyone.

iatee, Friday, 10 February 2012 19:22 (twelve years ago) link

I went to the podiatrist today and there was a tip line on the credit card receipt from my copay. I did not tip, although I was very satisfied with the service.

carl agatha, Friday, 10 February 2012 19:23 (twelve years ago) link

Next time you go in he's going to take one (1) toe.

The Large Hardon Collider (Phil D.), Friday, 10 February 2012 19:35 (twelve years ago) link

I think the answer to a lot of these problems is 'more people should be tipped', if people in other shitty jobs get tips too once in a while they will be less bitter.

My solution would be to have actual living wages paid to people for their labour. Radical idea, I know.

emil.y, Friday, 10 February 2012 19:48 (twelve years ago) link

lol ikr

surm, Friday, 10 February 2012 19:48 (twelve years ago) link

two weeks pass...

Banker leaves 1% tip on http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/02/24/banker-1-percent-tip-receipt_n_1299280.html33 lunch in defiance of the 99%

http://i.huffpost.com/gen/511964/BANKER-1-PERCENT-TIP-RECEIPT.jpg

I mean, I can't imagine that this asshole thinks he's EVER going to eat there again without getting a spit-and-semen burger, right? Frankly, if I owned that place, I'd give the wait staff permission to shoot him on sight.

A Full Torgo Apparition (Phil D.), Monday, 27 February 2012 21:24 (twelve years ago) link

Yeah, saw this story the other day. Can't wait for the doucherocket to be ID'd.

Steamtable Willie (WmC), Monday, 27 February 2012 21:25 (twelve years ago) link

Sorry, effed up the coding but the link works.

A Full Torgo Apparition (Phil D.), Monday, 27 February 2012 21:26 (twelve years ago) link

seems kind of too cliche to be true, or possible cliche enough to be true

valleys of your mind (mh), Monday, 27 February 2012 21:47 (twelve years ago) link

He could have at least rounded off properly.

seandalai, Monday, 27 February 2012 21:55 (twelve years ago) link

Note that Future Ex-Banker has removed his blog, where this originally appeared. Alas, since everyone the Newport Beach financial center (100+ banks, investment advisers, traders & private equity firms in the neighborhood of Newport Center Dr.) has probably already seen this, I fear he might be Prematurely Ex-Banker.

Pretty much 90% of the lunchtime crowd around there will be financial types or their office employees. Lunchtime shift waiting jobs are probably pretty good gigs for UC-Irvine students, assuming pricks like this guy are uncommon.

Pauper Management Improved (Sanpaku), Monday, 27 February 2012 22:19 (twelve years ago) link

haha i just got a 0 on a larger order than that, but it happens all the time in catering/deliveries. i would much rather get an asshole like that (i never have) than the usual people who jump through all sorts of hoops to not own up to the fact that they're screwing you over.

if you ever leave me peggy, leave some propane at my door (zachlyon), Monday, 27 February 2012 23:21 (twelve years ago) link

businessmen otoh are typically pretty good with tipping (esp when there's someone around to impress or they're signing on an account that isn't theirs) but they are the worst human beings to ever have to deal with in a restaurant. children, all of them.

if you ever leave me peggy, leave some propane at my door (zachlyon), Monday, 27 February 2012 23:24 (twelve years ago) link

His $1.33 is a 1% tip, you see? Dick.

she started dancing to that (Finefinemusic), Tuesday, 28 February 2012 00:14 (twelve years ago) link

yes i see that?

if you ever leave me peggy, leave some propane at my door (zachlyon), Tuesday, 28 February 2012 00:21 (twelve years ago) link

He's the dick, not you! :0 I was xposting to the "could've rounded off" comment, sorry!

she started dancing to that (Finefinemusic), Tuesday, 28 February 2012 01:30 (twelve years ago) link

what i don't get is... if waiting tables isn't a "real job" and everyone actually got a "real job", who the fuck would be left to serve this guy his fucking food???

i know ppl usually meant well, but when i was a waitress i would often get ppl asking me "so what else do you do?", as if they thought that waitressing FT was not an option. and sometimes, even when i would reply "uh i waitress full time", ppl would still insist "yeah but WHAT ELSE do you do??" "NOTHING bc running around a non-airconditioned restaurant for 40 hrs a week without breaks is really fucking exhausting".

just1n3, Tuesday, 28 February 2012 01:33 (twelve years ago) link

it was fake

if you ever leave me peggy, leave some propane at my door (zachlyon), Tuesday, 28 February 2012 04:05 (twelve years ago) link

Not surprised to see that news.

Gonjasufjanstephen O'Malley (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Tuesday, 28 February 2012 04:26 (twelve years ago) link

heard it was by the same guy who ran ghetto hikes

I DIED, Tuesday, 28 February 2012 04:29 (twelve years ago) link

According to Harper's Index this month, 6 of 7 jobs in the U.S. are in the service industry.

Male Privilege: Unpacking the Invisible Nutsack (Abbbottt), Tuesday, 28 February 2012 04:30 (twelve years ago) link

I imagine they said service sector, not service industry

iatee, Tuesday, 28 February 2012 04:31 (twelve years ago) link

heard it was by the same guy who ran ghetto hikes

waiting for max's expose tbh

Gonjasufjanstephen O'Malley (jon /via/ chi 2.0), Tuesday, 28 February 2012 04:31 (twelve years ago) link

I don't honestly know the difference between those two things. xp

Male Privilege: Unpacking the Invisible Nutsack (Abbbottt), Tuesday, 28 February 2012 04:31 (twelve years ago) link

but I am totes willing to own up to probably misquoting a factoid; sorry Harper's Index

Male Privilege: Unpacking the Invisible Nutsack (Abbbottt), Tuesday, 28 February 2012 04:33 (twelve years ago) link

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tertiary_sector_of_the_economy

it encompasses both investment bankers and waitresses. just about anyone who doesn't grow food or work in a factory yet still gets paid money for some reason.

iatee, Tuesday, 28 February 2012 04:34 (twelve years ago) link


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