All the messages I've replied to make reference to & usually expand on something in my profile. Paying a compliment can be nice, too, but don't overdo it. xpost
― emilys., Friday, 22 March 2013 21:42 (eleven years ago) link
is "you should message me if: you're a feminist" too much of a double-edged sword?
― ❏❐❑❒ (gr8080), Tuesday, 26 March 2013 17:58 (eleven years ago) link
good q
― Nhex, Tuesday, 26 March 2013 18:03 (eleven years ago) link
really feel like i'm getting the hang of this website, got a very positive email today:
http://i.imgur.com/tDQmQiJ.png
― ❏❐❑❒ (gr8080), Friday, 29 March 2013 17:31 (eleven years ago) link
hahahaha
so bad
― Nhex, Friday, 29 March 2013 17:51 (eleven years ago) link
suspended account, psychically drained. going to focus on night swimming and reading surrealist novels.
― the girl from spirea x (f. hazel), Sunday, 31 March 2013 02:54 (eleven years ago) link
^ good goals imo. i've gotten nothing but "waste of time" and "heartbreak" from this website.
― circa1916, Sunday, 31 March 2013 02:59 (eleven years ago) link
I wouldn't call it a waste of time, as I did get a lot better at asking out women, going on dates, etc. but something about the process just drained all the limerence out of me.
― the girl from spirea x (f. hazel), Sunday, 31 March 2013 04:21 (eleven years ago) link
so, reading foam of the daze and the book of monelle.
― the girl from spirea x (f. hazel), Sunday, 31 March 2013 04:23 (eleven years ago) link
I have a copy of L'ecume de jour I French! I got told it just doesn't translate well thanks to the wordplay. I wish I could read French :/
― It is like ganging up on Enya (Trayce), Sunday, 31 March 2013 05:41 (eleven years ago) link
In French, Christ, I don't make out with novellas.
― It is like ganging up on Enya (Trayce), Sunday, 31 March 2013 05:42 (eleven years ago) link
My French ex made me buy it after we broke up, but I never read it. I like the idea of reading various translations of a single work though. The Posies translation is called "Frosting on the Beater."
― the girl from spirea x (f. hazel), Sunday, 31 March 2013 05:47 (eleven years ago) link
tonight i answered ~350 questions just for fun and omfg okcupid i'm pretty sure i'm not THAT laid back, even if lots of real life people think so too. RECOGNISE THE TURBULENT ANXIETY AND TENSENESS OF MY INNER SELF FFS.
also not entirely cool with being almost as sloppy as i am laid-back.
what else is there to do for fun?
― a similar stunt failed to work with a cow (Merdeyeux), Sunday, 31 March 2013 05:49 (eleven years ago) link
finding your highest matches with a global search is good if you're the fantasy-prone type and you like to travel.
― the girl from spirea x (f. hazel), Sunday, 31 March 2013 05:51 (eleven years ago) link
for example I have a couple of 99% matches in Scotland.
ooh that is fun. lots of hippie types from california, new york, and massachusetts, it seems.
― a similar stunt failed to work with a cow (Merdeyeux), Sunday, 31 March 2013 06:03 (eleven years ago) link
ha, if i search for within 25km of my hometown the highest match is 55%. who knows why i moved.
― a similar stunt failed to work with a cow (Merdeyeux), Sunday, 31 March 2013 06:07 (eleven years ago) link
I'm back in my hometown and only one person's over 80%. And she seems like a type-A personality in yoga pants. This whole half of the state consists of hard-charging extraverts in yoga pants tbh.
― ben kvelertak (GOTT PUNCH II HAWKWINDZ), Sunday, 31 March 2013 06:13 (eleven years ago) link
My top worldwide matches are all scientists who talk about how funny and sarcastic they are in their first paragraph. And I don't have a 99% match in the whooooole world. 98% is my limit, apparently. (I met my 99% match here in the city where I live and there were a lot of very long silences).
― ljubljana, Sunday, 31 March 2013 12:36 (eleven years ago) link
the dream is better
― the girl from spirea x (f. hazel), Sunday, 31 March 2013 22:05 (eleven years ago) link
My housemate's a 99% match but he doesnt show up in my matches. I dont know why? Maybe the system knows we know each other in some crepey way.
― It is like ganging up on Enya (Trayce), Monday, 1 April 2013 00:28 (eleven years ago) link
the matches are coming from inside the house
― 乒乓, Monday, 1 April 2013 00:30 (eleven years ago) link
lool
― gila free (electricsound), Monday, 1 April 2013 00:30 (eleven years ago) link
Hahah :D
― It is like ganging up on Enya (Trayce), Monday, 1 April 2013 00:34 (eleven years ago) link
hm i have a few local 99% locals and they seem nice, oh no i may have to actually use this site now.
― a similar stunt failed to work with a cow (Merdeyeux), Monday, 1 April 2013 01:32 (eleven years ago) link
i found a 99% match who's an MTF trans in LA
― ❏❐❑❒ (gr8080), Monday, 1 April 2013 16:14 (eleven years ago) link
most 99% matches are like, the other side answered like 10 questions and matched up with you on all of em? thats how i feel
― 乒乓, Monday, 1 April 2013 16:17 (eleven years ago) link
That shouldn't be possible. Few questions answered means that the percentage can only be so high. I deactivated my account in December, so maybe there's a new algorithm, but when I went through the questions I was always being shown what the highest possible percentage would be.
― Assurance T. Rex, Monday, 1 April 2013 17:03 (eleven years ago) link
Huh - my highest match (98%) is right here in Chicago.
― Je55e, Wednesday, 3 April 2013 17:56 (eleven years ago) link
Should burning your country's flag be illegal?
Yes
Really??
― Je55e, Wednesday, 3 April 2013 18:07 (eleven years ago) link
you don't understand. your country's flag is the name of my dog.
― s.clover, Thursday, 4 April 2013 00:57 (eleven years ago) link
hahaha wtf:
i had my eye on this girl this week, and noticed her little message light go from red/very selective to yellow/selective to green/frequently
i figured damn she must have stepped her reply game up, time to make my move....
http://i.imgur.com/JV3F0GN.png
― ❏❐❑❒ (gr8080), Thursday, 4 April 2013 23:13 (eleven years ago) link
did you pay
― markers, Thursday, 4 April 2013 23:15 (eleven years ago) link
maybe just bypass the whole thing and show up at her house
― markers, Thursday, 4 April 2013 23:16 (eleven years ago) link
gr80 do u browse anonymous??
― 乒乓, Thursday, 4 April 2013 23:18 (eleven years ago) link
2nd account for that http://i.imgur.com/rDVfRb2.gif
― ❏❐❑❒ (gr8080), Thursday, 4 April 2013 23:23 (eleven years ago) link
lmao
― 乒乓, Thursday, 4 April 2013 23:23 (eleven years ago) link
Back on here after a several month break--please please plleeeeease stop telling your readers that you're "fun." Or "funny." OR ANYTHING. There is no room for anything but self-effacement here, no, sorry, you may think, how can it be bad to tell women how nice I am? but you are mistaken: it is bad.
― lets just remember to blame the patriarchy for (in orbit), Tuesday, 9 April 2013 16:00 (eleven years ago) link
^^^
― ljubljana, Tuesday, 9 April 2013 16:20 (eleven years ago) link
fortunately, i am not fun
― mookieproof, Tuesday, 9 April 2013 16:25 (eleven years ago) link
Yeah, me neither.
― lets just remember to blame the patriarchy for (in orbit), Tuesday, 9 April 2013 16:31 (eleven years ago) link
message me if you want to watch me refresh ilx all day and not go out
― 乒乓, Tuesday, 9 April 2013 16:32 (eleven years ago) link
I do have an okc crush on someone's prof though after like AGES of being underwhelmed. He's way out of my league, of course, but I updated my photos today to try to cast a stronger net. Also I broke down and changed my body type to average; I was enjoying being "curvy" but it's...not really fair to actual curvy people, for one thing, and I know readers in general assume that everyone portrays themselves as an improved version in their profile so the subtract accordingly blah blah.
xp lol yes
― lets just remember to blame the patriarchy for (in orbit), Tuesday, 9 April 2013 16:35 (eleven years ago) link
I have to get back into this while I'm still kind of buzzing from a very busy two weeks in which I accomplished actual things. Also I need to continue accomplishing things, which this weather should help with.
― lets just remember to blame the patriarchy for (in orbit), Tuesday, 9 April 2013 16:37 (eleven years ago) link
thinking of doubling down on my OKC profile deletion and ditching facebook too. accomplishing actual things sounds good.
― the girl from spirea x (f. hazel), Tuesday, 9 April 2013 16:44 (eleven years ago) link
I don't feel good about my body-referencing language in those posts. What I mean is that I think I can reasonably use "curvy" to describe myself but I'm aware that the popular understanding of it is as a euphemism for "fat." I want to be like FFFFF UUUUU to anyone who has a problem with either the facts or the language used to describe them but I suspect it's not doing my response rates any good. I put up a full-body pic, maybe I'll change back to curvy and be like, this is curvy, you asshole.
― lets just remember to blame the patriarchy for (in orbit), Tuesday, 9 April 2013 16:48 (eleven years ago) link
Gosh I'm so pleasant and accommodating, it's amazing that I don't have dates just every day of the week.
From having looked at a bunch of women's profiles, the terms "curvy," "a little extra," and "full-figured" seem pretty much interchangeable (and "average" probably could be included in this as well) and have almost no predictive value at all. But I'm focusing on the photos and answers to questions first anyway.
― the girl from spirea x (f. hazel), Tuesday, 9 April 2013 17:01 (eleven years ago) link
I mean, stuff like height has an easy objective measure, but what a complete minefield coming up with non-relative classifications for body type is. "Average" seems super-problematic, doesn't it?
― the girl from spirea x (f. hazel), Tuesday, 9 April 2013 17:07 (eleven years ago) link
Yes. I hate it as a category. You're convincing me, I'm going back to curvy.
― lets just remember to blame the patriarchy for (in orbit), Tuesday, 9 April 2013 17:11 (eleven years ago) link