Anticipating Linklater's "Boyhood"

the whole point of this film is that there's no patterns to life, shit just happens. she ended up with two alcoholics and it could have been better, could have been worse. a lot of people in the world are alcoholics. mason turned out ok and so did she.

― °ㅇ๐ْ ° (gr8080), Friday, August 8, 2014 6:28 AM (1 week ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

I agree with this. I didn't read the fact that these two guys turned out to be alcoholics as a comment on Arquette's character. If anything, what I found interesting was that she married her teacher, and then she married her student.

his big showy abusive-drunk scenes suddenly turn him into such a villain, in a movie that most of the time is more nuanced than that

I'm not disagreeing with this, but I at least appreciated the all important "I don't like myself either" admission from him.

Saw this last night. My wife had the same reaction in the karate scene. I didn't, because I don't expect those kinds of things to happen in Linklater movies -- though obviously it could've, and that could have been a good scene too, because crazy-bad things do happen in real life.

One thing that struck me was how much it consciously or unconsciously echoed so many of his other movies. Dazed and Confused in the high school section, the Before movies in his scenes with his girlfriend and also obviously in just about every scene with Ethan Hawke, Slacker in the college-visit scene where they're watching the crazy old guy in the booth (who could have been sitting there doing the same thing since 1991), Waking Life in the couple of classroom scenes -- it all seemed like sort of a summing-up of Linklater's whole approach to storytelling and filmmaking, which is to as much as possible just observe and listen to people, and let the cumulative effect create its own narrative arc.

I didn't think everything in the movie worked, and I could have done with at least one fewer stepdad -- but then so could Mason, I guess. But there are scenes I already want to watch again. Overall it's quite a thing.

I was thinking just the other day about how there hasn't yet been much cinematic depiction of the early '00s from a later perspective -- and exceptions like The Social Network and Moneyball are, I think, mostly interested in real-life events that just so happened to take place in the early '00s, rather than in the period itself. But here we get Coldplay and Britney Spears, cordless landline phones and first-generation iMacs! It's enough to make me misty.

And apart from the Coldplay, which I take was added in post, they're all in there, of course, because they were commonplace when those scenes were shot. The film can't make too many winking gestures about a previous era because it has to deal with the footage it has. I still love seeing an early '00s Mac version of Oregon Trail, though.

Like even the kid's name, Mason -- if the movie had been shot last year, I'd accuse it of picking a *currently popular* name for its protagonist, who was born in, what, 1995? Mason has been a top-5 name for the last three years but was outside the top 100 in 1995. But they decided on the name in 2002, when it was merely a fast-rising name! So I guess they were just ahead of the curve. (Mason for the dad's name, too, though? I dunno. Maybe in Texas.)

It will be interesting to see how this movie plays in 10 or 20 years, in terms of all those cues. Right now the timeframe it covers is so immediate that we can all say, "Wow, right, things have really changed since 2002." But to an audience a few decades out, I don't think that stuff will matter in the same way (even the "current" stuff will be so dated -- the whole thing will be a period piece anyway). Which in a way I think will make the movie better -- because the central idea of watching this boy grow up will still hold, and there will be less distraction in noticing which version of GameBoy he's playing or whatever.

I think that's true. All of that stuff is basically ambient (as much as it made me deeply contemplate what it was like to be a teenager in the late '00s who campaigned for Obama and listened to Phoenix and Vampire Weekend).

Loved Samantha showing Annie the Lady Gaga "Telephone" video: "Your mom lets you watch this stuff?" "Yeah, she likes it, too!"

I was disappointed by this. I agree with Aimless's view above - that using the same actors actually added bizarrely little to the film. At the end, it felt like it had been a bunch of different actors, or as though Ethan Hawke had had a lot of make-up applied. The whole schtick oddly didn't come through for me.

It was overlong, and somewhat tedious. The way it kept not ending was like Lord of the Rings. The dialogue was often banal, but in a way that was often OK because it was realistic. Maybe the film had some merits. But it wasn't what some people had cracked it up to be.

I was thinking just the other day about how there hasn't yet been much cinematic depiction of the early '00s from a later perspective

imo one of the most underrated aspects of The Big Lebowski is how its a 1998 film that is a period piece set in 1991.

I loved this movie. but I pretty much howled when Patricia Arquette asked her son if he had just toked, mostly cuz it woulda been a much diff experience in my household!

Felt sorry for the second drunk husband. he wasn't abusive so much (much of what he said to Mason was otm actually, except for the cracks about his personal style or the insult to his bio-father), actively defended his mother. just had an alcohol problem (any thoughts on whether PTSD played a role?).

Restaurant manager guy was hilarious.

imo one of the most underrated aspects of The Big Lebowski is how its a 1998 film that is a period piece set in 1991.

Yes!

what was hilarious about the restaurant guy?
i didn't find that scene unbelievable at all btw

also jaymc otm about teacher/student parallel with the men she became involved with
it also seemed obvious that 2nd husband was obsessed with his perceived role as protector given that he was sitting on his porch hours after being off work still in his correctional officer uniform

restaurant guy was hilarious in the restaurant scene just cos of his uber-serious demeanor about the job. it wasn't unrealistic at all, it was good-natured LOLs due to familiarity...reminded me of bosses I had, though granted the culture in restaurants there is diff than in FL.

he took his job super seriously because he worked hard to get there
i don't see what's funny about that but i guess everyone has their own impressions

srs question but did you work in restaurants? maybe it's just my own experience, but the way he treated the fry cook position as if he was offering Mason the Holy Grail is what made me lol. I worked at Steak 'n Shake as a kid and them offering crap like that to me woulda been met w/ a resigned sigh of 'lord I don't think I wanna be here any longer than I have to'.

it was only that scene that was funny to me, but I did like that he showed up to his graduation party. more than just a 'boss', but a friend/mentor, etc

Zach was right upthread (too aggressively so, so I kind of missed his point)--I shouldn't have said Arquette "sought out" these men. "Ended up with" was really all I meant--just typing. So I'm halfway on what that means. I think the randomness-of-life is a reasonable explanation, but part of me still thinks something like that isn't accidental in a film, that the director was trying to indicate something about Arquette's character. Zach's own suggestion, the idea that she might miss early warning signs because of her situation as a single mother, that's also a reasonable explanation. All of this is to the film's credit--that you can look at it two almost opposite ways, and they both make sense to me.

Great point about her moving from her professor to her student, didn't give that any thought.

faculty hanging out w/ their students other than an occasional wine & cheese party on campus seems crepey to me

(but I went to a megalopolis commuter school a looong time ago, so not a universal exp obv)

I suspect LL is talking about the other restaurant guy, the Latino dude

well that makes a little more sense then! forgot there were multiple restaurant scenes.

yeah that's what i was talking about
and yeah i have worked in restaurants and the other guy was pretty funny but also ultimately very supportive of mason! like he was fritzed out from years of doing that job, but he cared earnestly at some level.

Loved restaurant boss guy.

Having him show up at Mason's graduation was great. If he'd only been granted the you're-in-line-for-a-promotion scene, I would have viewed him as a caricature; he's like Judge Reinhold's two bosses in Fast Times at Ridgemont High ("Show some pride, Hamilton"). But the graduation scene redeemed him, and made you reconsider the stuff LL says.

xpost yeah he did turn out to be an endearing figure. I can't think of any boss of mine in restaurants that took any vested interest in my life, other than offering me weed to smoke w/ them.

I did also like how in that first scene, he went from ass-chewing Mason to immediately professing his belief in him. tired of the 'hard assed boss' cliche so it was nice to see him back off once he saw that he had Mason's attention. "Compliment sandwich" i guess.

iirc when he turns up at the graduation he just hangs in the corner because he doesn't know anyone and is pretty shy about making his speech; nice to see two sides of a marginal character

hah yeah I can sympathize w/ him there. been to a few graduation parties wehre I'm like "I wanna show up cos I'm honored he invited me but whodafuq am I gonna know here?"

lamest love interest was the original boyfriend. dude was as bad an actor as the dad from Chronicle, fortunately he was gone quickly.

oh yeah I'd completely forgotten that guy

I was waiting for him to say "can't the kids watch themselves?"

I think the randomness-of-life is a reasonable explanation, but part of me still thinks something like that isn't accidental in a film, that the director was trying to indicate something about Arquette's character.

I thought it was a desire for stability. She certainly seems to explain as much to Mason after he questions her motives post-haircut.

It is interesting that the student ended w/the prof. and the prof. then w/student. Not so much for creepiness -- as they seemed to be adult/part-time colleges -- but how that could affect the relationship throughout a course/people talk. Boyhood always seeks to avoid the usual drama (as I think Clemenza says somewhere). Except with drunk husband, about 10 mins or so in the piece.

Kind of wanted Arquette to end w/Mason's restaurant manager as the one final go @ this relationship lark!

I meant that, above and beyond the desire for stability that anyone in her situation would want, the odd fact that she ends up with two consecutive guys who have a mean-drunk side to them--one fairly mild, one severe. In a normal movie, I think the director would say we already checked that box, let's make the next husband a friendly, dog-loving eco-activist who kills Arquette with kindness.

glad I kept reading and saw the "with kindness" or this might have become a Cronenberg film

ah ok, see I thought the last guy wasn't even that much of a drunk. Just a guy from a small town who really wouldn't understand anybody too much outside his ow milieu and is simply weighed down by his supposed responsibilties. The end of their relationship isn't shown either.

he wasn't a drunk so much in that he didn't get rowdy or abusive when drinking but I took the frequent scenes of him looking deadeyed with brew in hand in the morning to mean he had an issue. my guess was Arquette dropped him either because she had bad memories of her prior husband, or that he grew colder and distant (as he had little of the warmth he showed in earlier scenes). she might have been worried about his relationship with Mason too, that he wasn't a good fit for him as a father figure.

"Parade of drunken assholes" line suggests he was an alcoholic too

The end of their relationship isn't shown either.

Another thing I found odd--he just disappears--but liked; no need at that point for another break-up scene, and you already get that he's something of a problem.

willing to bet he tried to throw Mason out of the house and she told him to fuck off

Also his marginality in the story reflects his marginality in Mason's life. The first stepdad is significant because Mason's younger, it's a bigger life-change, there are step-siblings etc. By the time guy #2 shows up, Mason's already more wrapped up in his own world and can kind of shrug at the whole thing. (I had friends in high school who acquired step-parents at that age, and the relationships were similar -- everyone just tried to stay out of each other's way.)

I agree with the Film Experience blogcast: the second husband is a better character and better drawn than the first, and Linklater's generous enough to give him the one scene in which I can understand the attraction: he speaks well and is hot and young. The movie's weakest moments of drama occur in the middle between the two husbands.

Am I the only one who was getting a goofy perv vibe from the restaurant manager?

i feel like an asshole writing this, but I thought this was... not very good? it all felt so willful, like every moment (esp. in last 45 minutes or so) was goosed to produce epiphanies and revelations. much of it was charming, I never hated it, but I also was a bit bored. it doesn't help that the lead actor was pretty wooden and didn't produce a sense of individual personality.

maybe i just have a contrary bug or something, but this didn't do anything for me

Am I the only one who was getting a goofy perv vibe from the restaurant manager?

― You are exactly why people root for the apes (Eric H.), Friday, August 15, 2014 4:47 PM (4 hours ago) Bookmark Flag Post Permalink

i didn't think he was a perve. i think he was just an awkward guy. i got a bit of a closeted gay vibe.

I got the opposite impression: it was at times so devoted to an American kind of seventies fiction realism -- a lulling flatness -- that it drifted in the middle.

i think i'd prefer the movie where mason has a bite of the pot brownie and instead of having a bargain-basement epiphany he has a panic attack

the whole thing just felt so calculated. also, i kind of want my movie to be a bit more visually rigorous. linklater's capable of really interesting things visually but lately his films are kind pedestrian-looking