it sounds like he went to Tech Day and maybe believed everything that the representative from Steadicam Corp told him
― Karl Malone, Friday, 31 October 2014 18:59 (nine years ago) link
Well, there's this:http://www.complex.com/pop-culture/2014/10/is-catcalling-racist-harrassment/
― my jaw left (Hurting 2), Friday, 31 October 2014 19:39 (nine years ago) link
(misleading URL btw)
Hey, as long as it's a slow day in this thread :/ ... seems this play (and the two segments to follow) might constitute an important epic in our epoch. I'm seeing it in a couple weeks:
http://www.vulture.com/2014/10/theater-review-father-comes-home-from-the-wars.html
http://www.nytimes.com/2014/10/29/theater/father-comes-home-from-the-wars-by-suzan-lori-parks-at-the-public-theater.html
― things lose meaning over time (Dr Morbius), Friday, 31 October 2014 19:55 (nine years ago) link
This sounds fascinating and so wholly dependent upon cast/director synergy in order to work that I can't imagine it being performed after this initial run.
― kissaroo and Tyler, too (DJP), Friday, 31 October 2014 20:31 (nine years ago) link
Well, I saw the play she won the Pulitzer for about 12 (gasp) years ago, and I don't know if it's had much of a touring / collegiate life? Mos Def was in it.
― things lose meaning over time (Dr Morbius), Friday, 31 October 2014 20:36 (nine years ago) link
I'd semi-expect it could transfer to Broadway once this sold-out run is over, but even August Wilson's plays were pretty spotty in that regard, and things are significantly worse for original plays w/out movie stars there now.
― things lose meaning over time (Dr Morbius), Friday, 31 October 2014 20:39 (nine years ago) link
karl, i feel for you in this thread
― Nhex, Friday, 31 October 2014 23:57 (nine years ago) link
Gradient Lair and Racalicious and Crunk Feminist Collective
All of the above plus bad dominicana,she is the bossssss
― owe me the shmoney (m bison), Saturday, 1 November 2014 01:33 (nine years ago) link
sorry to reopen a can of worms, but i wanted to put this set of tweets in here but i couldn't find them again until now:
https://twitter.com/tgirlinterruptd/status/527489366935875584
seen together with this nonsense:
http://www.nytimes.com/roomfordebate/2014/10/31/do-we-need-a-law-against-catcalling/street-harassment-law-would-restrict-intimidating-behavior
yet another instance where Official Feminism/Liberalism need to think a little harder about law enforcement
― caucasity and the sundance kid (goole), Monday, 3 November 2014 18:20 (nine years ago) link
that would be a very, very difficult law to draft reasonably
― my jaw left (Hurting 2), Monday, 3 November 2014 18:22 (nine years ago) link
Criminalization is a terrible failure of an idea, not least because when has criminalizing something ever changed the conditions that lead to it happening?? Plus the obvious racialized costs via the overpolicing of Black & brown people and communities that I've already talked about above.
I'm really hoping that the Hb video has been SO BADLY received in some sectors that it will force a confrontation with SSH and Hb's horrible race politics and slow down/stop the move to legislate against street harassment.
― Orson Wellies (in orbit), Monday, 3 November 2014 18:30 (nine years ago) link
Yeah the last thing police need is another law in their toolbox
― 龜, Monday, 3 November 2014 18:32 (nine years ago) link
I'm just amazed at Hb and Holly Kearl at SSH for their absolute deafness and refusal to engage with Black women/WoC activists about...well anything really. It's just like, why don't you just make a public statement about who your work really is and is not for?? They're not even sorry.
― Orson Wellies (in orbit), Monday, 3 November 2014 18:46 (nine years ago) link
Brittney Cooper from Crunk Feminist Collective playing nice on Chris Hayes the oth night btw, acknowledging the flawed race critique of the video but prioritizing the experiences of all women with SH. HOWEVER I think a Black woman has the required license to make that call--calling on Black men to see the natural relationship between police harassment and gendered street harassment, that both are a revocation of one's rights to a public life, to be a body in public space.
When white women activists try to do that, the effect is to erase Black men's experiences with overpolicing & police brutality and replace them with a store in which ww are the victims (often of Black & brown men, again, in this continuing narrative). But hell, Brittney Cooper can do whatever the hell she wants.
― Orson Wellies (in orbit), Monday, 3 November 2014 18:52 (nine years ago) link
*replace them with a storY
it's a sephora store tho
― caucasity and the sundance kid (goole), Monday, 3 November 2014 18:55 (nine years ago) link
Well that changes everything.
― Orson Wellies (in orbit), Monday, 3 November 2014 18:56 (nine years ago) link
That entire stream of tweets was a great read.
― kissaroo and Tyler, too (DJP), Monday, 3 November 2014 19:13 (nine years ago) link
Oh yeah that was righteous. Then I read the opinion pieces and got distracted by how disgusted I was.
― Orson Wellies (in orbit), Monday, 3 November 2014 19:14 (nine years ago) link
Anything worth bookmarking? I should actually be doing some work today
― kissaroo and Tyler, too (DJP), Monday, 3 November 2014 19:36 (nine years ago) link
Tatyana Fazlalizadeh (dear jesus please let me have spelled that correctly) wrote one that was good but could have used even stronger language. The others, not so as you'd notice.
― Orson Wellies (in orbit), Monday, 3 November 2014 19:40 (nine years ago) link
tyty
― kissaroo and Tyler, too (DJP), Monday, 3 November 2014 19:40 (nine years ago) link
Okay the ACLU dude was good on the points, now that I went back and read his. The two white women who contributed were abysmal and really embarrassing, unfortunately.
― Orson Wellies (in orbit), Monday, 3 November 2014 19:45 (nine years ago) link
the ACLU guy's points about the negative effects laws like the ones being advocated could have were well worth reading
― k3vin k., Monday, 3 November 2014 21:01 (nine years ago) link
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/11/03/jeff-chang-who-we-be_n_6081320.html
Good read, Jeff Chang's the author of Can't Stop Won't Stop which I remember more than a few ilxors love
― 龜, Monday, 3 November 2014 21:03 (nine years ago) link
aaaah I hadn't clicked on the NYT link and didn't realize all four of the pieces under discussion were in one place; I was sitting here half-seriously thinking "why does everyone besides me magically know where to find these things oh wait I might be doing something dumb here"
― kissaroo and Tyler, too (DJP), Monday, 3 November 2014 21:38 (nine years ago) link
just for posterity's sake
https://twitter.com/annamilton/status/529067160778575872
― caucasity and the sundance kid (goole), Monday, 3 November 2014 21:48 (nine years ago) link
Hahaha yessss
― 龜, Monday, 3 November 2014 21:49 (nine years ago) link
awesome
― Nhex, Monday, 3 November 2014 23:00 (nine years ago) link
I really loved when you talked about "the opposite of a micro-aggression," that kind of moment of recognition between two people -- the "I see you" moment. I thought that could be a hopeful note to end on.
(Laughs) I think that that's what we're trying to achieve -- we talk a lot about empathy, and of course empathy should lead to recognition. I'm recognizing your struggle, I'm recognizing who you are. I'm not being blind to who you are. And I think that that's ultimately where we all want to get. That should be the product of whatever kind of conversation we're trying to have.
There was an article on Medium this week about "the nod" -- I remember in college I would hang out with a lot of black activists and I would notice that every time they passed another black student on campus they'd nod, and I'd go, "Oh, do you know them? Who's that? I see them around all the time." And they'd go, "I actually don't know." I'd ask "So why do you do that?" and they'd say "Well, you do. You just do it." Or when someone is on stage and they're performing and someone in the audience goes "I see you!" I'd always think about those kinds of cultural practices as being critical to solidarity-building.
^^"The nod" is still alive, and even in this supposedly enlightened era it's something that can make me feel good when, at times, I feel like some people are afraid of me. I think I did a splicetoday piece on it a while back, I'll have to find it.
― RAP GAME SHANI DAVIS (Raymond Cummings), Monday, 3 November 2014 23:44 (nine years ago) link
i haven't read it yet but will of course bc jeff's dope, but i'm really, really curious how his book squares w/ ideas of afro pessimism (i feel like it wont?)
― deej loaf (D-40), Monday, 3 November 2014 23:46 (nine years ago) link
It is all still about race: Obama hatred, the South and the truth about GOP wins - http://www.salon.com/2014/11/04/it_is_all_still_about_race_obama_hatred_the_south_and_the_truth_about_gop_wins/
Read about how southern whites respond to polls about race. This after I just got done reading a book about George Wallace's campaigns, and all of the intentionally brutal, abusive and unfair things done to black people not much more than fifty years ago. Southern whites bombed and burned black people's homes when they asserted their rights. And THEY'RE "to blame".
― Threat Assessment Division (I M Losted), Tuesday, 4 November 2014 22:27 (nine years ago) link
http://splicetoday.com/pop-culture/the-nod
― RAP GAME SHANI DAVIS (Raymond Cummings), Tuesday, 4 November 2014 22:44 (nine years ago) link
true or false, 'the nod' is a nod with the chin and not the forehead?
― j., Wednesday, 5 November 2014 23:30 (nine years ago) link
Good piece xp
― 龜, Wednesday, 5 November 2014 23:30 (nine years ago) link
i always visualize the nod as the external occipital protuberance dipping back between the shoulders; people who do it from the chin often look like they're sneering to me
― Steve 'n' Seagulls and Flock of Van Dammes (forksclovetofu), Wednesday, 5 November 2014 23:56 (nine years ago) link
Larry: I have a tendency to nod to black people.Jeff Greene: Wait... what reason would you have to...Larry: I don't know, I don't know! I just find that I nod to them. More so than white... I never nod to white people.Jeff Greene: I've never heard of, uh, "white liberal nodding guilt."Larry: Yeah. It's a way of kind of making contact. You know, like "I'm okay. I'm not one of the bad ones."
I've caught myself doing this too, with similarly vague but positive intentions.
While living in Japan there was a lot of nodding in passing to/from other (visibly) gaijin non-tourists.
― Plasmon, Thursday, 6 November 2014 06:22 (nine years ago) link
Wow
http://blog.angryasianman.com/2014/11/they-assumed-their-adopted-son-was_5.html
http://np.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/2km4et/tifu_by_making_a_stupid_assumption_about_my/
― 龜, Thursday, 6 November 2014 20:03 (nine years ago) link
well, that is certainly an interesting situation
― mh, Thursday, 6 November 2014 20:35 (nine years ago) link
On one hand I am very appreciative of their efforts to try to expose their son to what they thought was his culture
On the other hand I wish they would have confirmed that he was of that ethnicity to begin with
― 龜, Thursday, 6 November 2014 20:41 (nine years ago) link
I have kinda mixed feelings about their efforts too, I mean, if you're going to raise someone as your son, it seems kind of forced to go out of your way to have them learn all this stuff that is only their "roots" genetically, I mean that's not really how culture works.
― my jaw left (Hurting 2), Thursday, 6 November 2014 20:44 (nine years ago) link
The counterpoint to that is that they're gonna be treated as if they're of that culture in America anyway so they might as well have been given the opportunity to know more about it?
― 龜, Thursday, 6 November 2014 20:45 (nine years ago) link
If this story is real, it's not only awful but totally weird - like, what kind of person tries so hard to give their adopted kid a great sense of his culture without double checking where his family is actually from?
― just1n3, Thursday, 6 November 2014 20:45 (nine years ago) link
It's also awful/weird to me that no one ever pointed out this kid's family were Korean during the whole adoption process.
― just1n3, Thursday, 6 November 2014 20:47 (nine years ago) link
TBF the kid's family were Korean Americans (making the distinction between that and children who were adopted from South Korea directly)
― 龜, Thursday, 6 November 2014 20:49 (nine years ago) link
I can't imagine it would be all that damaging from the kids perspective which is probably what matters most, i.e. "Yeah so my well-meaning foster parents erroneously thought I was of Chinese ancestry and raised me as such. I love them but they're idiots. On the plus side I'm fluent in Mandarin, well versed in Chinese culture and get stacks in red envelopes at new year from my fake uncle and aunt!"
― tsrobodo, Thursday, 6 November 2014 21:08 (nine years ago) link
it'd give you a good story to tell
― my jaw left (Hurting 2), Thursday, 6 November 2014 21:10 (nine years ago) link
GREAT college essay
do people in norway who adopt children from latvia send them to summer camps with the latvian embassy, teach them latvian folk dances and so forth? almost all of the reasons for intensive acculturation in 'native' culture this well meaning liberal person would cite depend upon their child being a 'visible minority' to use the canadian term
if the kid is clever it's a useful lesson in the arbitrariness of 'roots' 'cultural background' etc, if he is sufficiently inclined he can acculturate as a korean if he wishes
assuming this isnt just made up by a reddit poster
― the final twilight of all evaluative standpoints (nakhchivan), Thursday, 6 November 2014 21:24 (nine years ago) link