We're done LOOKING, it's time for Larry Kramer's Lincoln to give GAY bedSPRINGs quite a beating in 2015

i read a fair amount but that largely comes at the expense of any kind of physical activity, so

i just finished maggie nelson's new book 'the argonauts' which is a sort of memoir/long essay that talks about queerness and family and childbirth and which i very much recommend

my current reading is on the psychoanalysis of children who have narcissistic parents, which is excruciatingly relevant to my life tbh

oh and "seeing through clothes" by anne hollander, which has lengthy passages on stuff like pubes & butts throughout art history.

Reading the monograph on Paris is Burning.

While lifting.

Hot. i was talking to someone about how i didn't read, so he pulled out his book. it was philosophy, and it was really good. the guy who did the preface is my cousin's wife's sister's husband. do they hve a word for that? they were WOWED that i knew him

Thinking of getting a couple tank tops for my forthcoming Palm Springs weekend but I've, um, never really bought tank tops before. Any recommendations? Should they be floppy?

As tight as Al Green's rhythm section.

I'm off today, taking the train downtown to eat croque monsieurs with a friend. I'll listen to the new Ciara.

Was under the impression skinny guys are supposed to keep their tanks a little bit on the loose side.

i LOVE an XL tank, but i have some smalls as well

but XL is definitely like, the look to beat

May have to invite a panel with me to the dressing rooms.

just make sure you can get your shoulders through it, honeybunch.

take snapshots i will be on deck

I'll totally snapchat my tank spree.

pls do i have snapchat but no idea how to work it, so i might need a tutorial from someone

or like u can just have my cell # lol, i'm p confident you won't stalk me and kill me at this point. and i love advising on clothes!!!

Someone on scruff just misinterpreted my La Jetee work as a tribute to bondage. Eep.

What's your name on Snapchat, ramz? I'm ephenderson.

snapchat! i'm patron_sailor

mnan0p0ul0s76

replace the 0's with o's

forgot my PW will let u know!!

palm springs!! where you headed?

A house in Joshua Tree with 11 other people. Should be totally lowkey, no drama. (Just kidding. This is a very oddball assortment of characters.)

ahhh i love joshua tree - don't miss the integratron! or the crochet museum!

(i don't know much about palm springs itself other than the ace hotel)

http://integratron.com/ (i've done the sound bath twice)

Oh cool!

CROCHET MUSEUM?

http://www.sharielf.com/museum.html (i've insta'ed from there before)

i am "sourpatchkissed" on snapchat

eric i don't know how to use it but i will look out for bleeps or images from you lol

Just sent you one.

Not of tanks, mind. I have to lose this sunburn first.

i saw that you added me but what does that mean that you sent me one? i legit feel like i'm 83 years old

PS iiiiiiii bought an XL WOMEN's tee last night and thought of you. even the women's XL is like a baby doll top on me! but it has Ciara's face on it and i am going to wear it with a blazer.

Hah, I don't think I've ever bought a women's XL, but in college I occasionally bought a boys' XL.

You might have to add me back to see what I sent. (If so, click that plus next to my username.)

i did add you back!

oh i've definitely bought a boys XL

ok let me look around the app more

something weird happened when u added me and now you disappeared

how do i add you back?

you know, i can also get one of my girlfriends to sit me down and walk me thru this. no need for all the drama haha.

I see I'm under "pending" lol. I'm pretty new to Snapchat myself, tbh.

haha i DEFINITELY clicked the + sign next to your name but then it gave me some weird message that i couldn't really understand. i will figure it out with my trusty friends of the slightly younger age bracket :)

a 20 yr old from the local uni wants to hook up today but he wants to go all the way and i just don't know if i'm ready for that right now

what shd i do

just say no?

if you just don't know, it sounds like you shouldn't.

My med-student playmate is 'seeing someone' again. :/

just say no?

― surm, Monday, May 11, 2015 5:05 PM

this is what I call Blow 'n' Go.

xxp Direct him my way.

it's 75 degrees and i'm on stero1ds, i need to fall on someone dickfirst.

right. ok i think he's coming over

:-/

hmm now i'm not sure i'll have the place to myself long enough. 40 minutes isn't long enough is it?

it depends.

you are a card!

40 minutes isn't long enough is it?

in a bar this would be one drink + polite chatter so

ok now it's looking like his apartment which "has no furniture" yet

this should be interesting