that's p exciting
― surm, Wednesday, 13 May 2015 04:17 (nine years ago) link
i'm just getting drinks and eating hand cut french fries
I made two French 75s while watching Drag Race.
― Norse Jung (Eric H.), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 04:21 (nine years ago) link
i caught the end! that's like my favorite drink
― surm, Wednesday, 13 May 2015 04:24 (nine years ago) link
I made it with cognac instead of gin. Not sure which is the preferred route.
― Norse Jung (Eric H.), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 04:37 (nine years ago) link
oh interesting! i've never had it with cognac. of course lately my drinks are quite simple; i'm a big fan of on the rocks. although it probably isn't a good idea to drink before you go mountain climbing.
― surm, Wednesday, 13 May 2015 04:40 (nine years ago) link
Most I've ever done is top rope with a brunch buzz.
― Norse Jung (Eric H.), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 04:45 (nine years ago) link
Still not recommended.
i don't know why but that sounds awfully suggestive Eric
― surm, Wednesday, 13 May 2015 04:57 (nine years ago) link
sorry i didn't meant to take that to an awkward place
― surm, Wednesday, 13 May 2015 13:42 (nine years ago) link
Hah, no it's a joke we all make. I sometimes raise my eyebrows when talking about "tying in."
― Norse Jung (Eric H.), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 13:48 (nine years ago) link
Brunch buzzes confuse me. I don't like champagne and one should only drink one glass of OJ.
― The burrito of ennui (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 14:02 (nine years ago) link
Bloody Marys and white wine I can handle.
here, i'll give you a musical clue
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KRH05Nq_JI0
― WE WANT FET WAP (Stevie D(eux)), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 14:07 (nine years ago) link
and another
http://i.imgur.com/qAp4Au5.png
As of today, my boyfriend is taking a stress leave from his hospital job with no intention of returning. He's got his note from Dr. Summeroff and will probably be clocking a lot of beach time in the next few weeks. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't a little jealous.
― gwyneth anger (patron sailor), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 14:08 (nine years ago) link
STEVEN D! NO!
― Norse Jung (Eric H.), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 14:12 (nine years ago) link
Oh, left side? OK then.
― Norse Jung (Eric H.), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 14:13 (nine years ago) link
You fisted The Boss?!?
― gwyneth anger (patron sailor), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 14:13 (nine years ago) link
xp Esp if you're listening to MAW the entire time.
Stevie is riding down down into the tunnel of love
― The burrito of ennui (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 14:14 (nine years ago) link
Love how red is the only color I know what it means without looking it up.
― Norse Jung (Eric H.), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 14:15 (nine years ago) link
p is he ok?
― surm, Wednesday, 13 May 2015 14:17 (nine years ago) link
surm he's alright, he's just trying to exit as cleanly as possible from a hostile work environment which has been taxing on his physical & mental health. the stress is largely personnel related, sadly, but his doctor is very supportive. i hope he's able to make use of his downtime to focus on himself. it's hard to remember what having a non-stressed-out boyfriend is like.
― gwyneth anger (patron sailor), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 14:23 (nine years ago) link
Anyone else have any thoughts on this one?
http://www.slate.com/articles/news_and_politics/history/2015/05/can_you_be_homosexual_without_being_gay_the_future_of_cruising_drag_and.html
Of course, anyone who's even eavesdropped on the long-running debate over 'gay identity' among homosexuals will know that this position—that gayness might be located in sensibility or style as well as sex—is currently anathema. We live in the era dominated by a born-this-way, 'it's-a-small-part-of-me' ethos that minimizes gay difference to sexual attraction.
― Norse Jung (Eric H.), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 14:34 (nine years ago) link
xp good
― surm, Wednesday, 13 May 2015 15:10 (nine years ago) link
just came to post that, Eric
tl;dr
― the increasing costive borborygmi (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 15:22 (nine years ago) link
why did you come to post the link if you didn't / won't read it?
― gwyneth anger (patron sailor), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 16:06 (nine years ago) link
Damn. I may have to actually print this thing to read it during lunch.
― The burrito of ennui (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 16:08 (nine years ago) link
i started reading it yesterday and just before the historical methods section i thought i saw a space opening up between heritage-gay and normosexual but it didn't really seem to be going there so i stopped.
― Mademoiselle Coiffures (mattresslessness), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 16:14 (nine years ago) link
less jargon, please
― The burrito of ennui (Alfred, Lord Sotosyn), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 16:16 (nine years ago) link
I only know who tops and who bottoms
;ashgg;askl;asdfklj;ladkjsfauewhna
― Mademoiselle Coiffures (mattresslessness), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 16:18 (nine years ago) link
just to keep Soto busy during lunch, elmo
― the increasing costive borborygmi (Dr Morbius), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 16:23 (nine years ago) link
the only homo heritage i'm much invested in is my collection of old skin mags & downloaded vintage pornos
― gwyneth anger (patron sailor), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 16:28 (nine years ago) link
though i was looking a mag from i think the early 70s recently and was amused to see an ad for anal douche systems running alongside an article about collectible glass paperweights
― gwyneth anger (patron sailor), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 16:31 (nine years ago) link
ha
― Mademoiselle Coiffures (mattresslessness), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 16:33 (nine years ago) link
i think it's pretty funny that seemingly every heavy leather selfie i see on tumblr was taken in this room:
http://luxhomedecor.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/blank-walls1.jpg
― Mademoiselle Coiffures (mattresslessness), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 16:37 (nine years ago) link
this was the ad, btw:
http://i.imgur.com/RR4WMZa.png
― gwyneth anger (patron sailor), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 16:41 (nine years ago) link
love it
― Mademoiselle Coiffures (mattresslessness), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 16:43 (nine years ago) link
Haha, that's exactly what I did when I posted it on my FB page.
― Norse Jung (Eric H.), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 16:43 (nine years ago) link
"Keep it clean and avoid discomfort and embarrassment."
Also noted: an ad for a set of 3 dildos in increasing sizes that would allow the purchaser to "be an accommodating host."
― gwyneth anger (patron sailor), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 16:43 (nine years ago) link
I'd rather continue down this new tangent than the article, tbh, but it was the umpteenth version of the debate over whether the thing that defines you is who you sleep with or, as the article suggests, having interest in the percale of the sheets you sleep in.
― Norse Jung (Eric H.), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 16:45 (nine years ago) link
Which has always drawn pretty clear lines of division in this thread.
has anyone ever participated in a guerrilla queer bar? i got invited to one last night. idk how i feel about the idea tbh but hell i'll prob still go
― donna rouge, Wednesday, 13 May 2015 16:53 (nine years ago) link
that image!
― surm, Wednesday, 13 May 2015 16:55 (nine years ago) link
That queer bombing bar thing has really taken off, huh? Have always thought that among the advantages of being gay was the fact that you didn't have to go to douchey straight bars.
― Norse Jung (Eric H.), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 16:56 (nine years ago) link
that douchebag has a 2 quart capacity and 6 year guarantee! that's a lot of douching
― gwyneth anger (patron sailor), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 16:57 (nine years ago) link
queerbombing a straight bar sounds kinda fun but also kinda .... i don't know .... well no it actually sounds p fun lol
ugh i still remember this one night at *BAM* aka the place where we host an LGBT party called EVERYBOOTY, after a cinema event, some guy comes up to me and looks at my black leather purse and goes ... "so it's so interesting, you know, that you're, you know..."
and i was like you're so interesting fuckwad
― surm, Wednesday, 13 May 2015 17:00 (nine years ago) link
The bars are typically contacted beforehand.
― Norse Jung (Eric H.), Wednesday, 13 May 2015 17:05 (nine years ago) link